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-6

Why would we mandate paternity testing? I hate modern feminism too, but most mandates are bad. Compelling humans to do things isn’t in line with the US constitution.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 02:10 PM
-7

First, we don’t need “safe spaces”. Don’t be so sensitive. Second, your main point definitely stands. Misandry is everywhere once you realize the feminist paradigm we live within.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 04:46 PM
5

Bro I was physically and verbally assaulted for years by my ex wife. They are always justifying their bad behavior.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 05:09 PM
1

The thought of some lady diddling to that guy’s pasty white dough body is quite humorous.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:56 AM
2

How quickly we all forget. It was Kim’s OF that made them famous.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:51 PM
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Financial abortions should be legal. Full stop.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:53 PM
6

This really only happens in Reddit and college campuses.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:40 PM
7

It’s mostly self-victimization.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:38 PM
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When you argue with stupid people, no one can tell who the stupid person is.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:39 PM
51

There is definitely no ring on that finger.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 12:39 PM
2

Great advice actually. Love this.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:29 PM
11

Even purple pill debate is questionable at best. No debates happening. Mild misandry. Plus they have so many rules and love to remove topics and comments for having “improper formatting” like we in grade school.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:11 PM
1

Women generally like dealing with people. Men generally like dealing with things.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 09:07 PM
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LOL a woman doesn’t like the term and wants to redefine for men. Please stop. This topic doesn’t require your input.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 08:41 PM
3

You’re projecting more onto it than is there. There’s a protective effect to having children that women experience. If we are going to insist they stop ignoring our biology, we need to do the same for them.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 03:02 AM
2

I linked to a Jordan Peterson short on the topic. Did you skip it?
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:27 AM
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Due to the differences in men and women, women definitely experience, higher instances of fear for their lives, as they look to protect their young children for example against potential men who are definitely stronger than them. So it is a little bit wired into women moreso than men, but the assertion that most men are dangerous is the trope that modern feminism make sure to beat into the brains of Gen Z. I just wanted to bring some nuance to your argument, because that’s exactly what lacks for…
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:48 PM
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We already have equal access. We will never have equal outcomes. She isn’t talking about an equality thing. She’s talking about a “her preference” thing.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 06:52 PM
1

It’s the one statistic they learned that they can retain. The one that says women find 80% of men attractive and 20% of men are sleeping with all the women.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 06:37 PM
1

I’m telling you - the feminism pendulum has swung WAY too far in the other direction. It’s amazing how disposable these women see men and their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:14 PM
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Do you have any idea how many women on the dating scene are exactly like these girls? It’s staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:08 PM
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“As soon as possible” was certainly very late for me but I finally figured it out … There are a high percentage of women who think gaslighting, stonewalling, and moving the goal posts are all “arguing” … whereas what they truly are is “arguing to win”. I see them in real life too, but I literally see them all the time on Fresh & Fit, Kevin Samuels and Jedediah Bila.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:24 PM
1

Just like these women replying, your post is right on. Look how they argue against you? Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:39 AM
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Good post. Don’t expect one reddit woman to admit you are even a little bit right. They will fight to the death because “communication solves all”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:38 AM
1

No. We are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:28 AM
3

Men need fathers’ advice way more than mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:59 PM
1

I need to see more research before I decide to take one for the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:59 AM
1

I dunno - she seemed to have less than a 40” waist. Maybe. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:55 AM
2

Men need to contain their excitement. They put their attention in all the wrong places because their dick tells them to. They need to listen to their brains more. Turn your instagram into a sports feed or a comedy feed instead of a THOT feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:58 AM
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They do NOT find them attractive, they just find them to be shag-worthy. Very different things. To get a HUSBAND (an actual commitment that a woman is looking for) it most certainly is a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:13 AM
1

All you are proving is men settle and women won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:50 AM
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Whatever excuse you’re trying to make for women’s body fat is wrong. not sure why you had to bring yourself into it, I was refuting your comments, not your personal size. Believe me, you women, gas each other up all the time about how “beautiful“ you all are even though you’re all overweight. You all think you’re a 10. “I know a guy who likes overweight girls so therefore so does every guy.” https://youtube.com/shorts/VrFAjaMtJqk?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:43 PM
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You mean INCELs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:43 PM
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Chubby female = FULL DEALBREAKER. Stop lying to each other just because you can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:59 PM
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Please stop lying. Men don’t like fat women. Women who target their ass in workouts achieve a non-flat ass in time - through merely working out. Seeing comments like these and others that are completely inaccurate just make me want to leave reddit altogether. What a terrible platform to try and assess males, females, relationships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:58 PM
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Pretty sure that comment was satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:34 PM
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39 was for a woman. You’re making excuses like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:22 PM
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Miniscule? A woman’s body count is almost as important as her looks if she’s to be a wife. 36 in a lifetime is 3x too many for a woman, nevermind a single year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:34 PM
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Exercise. Get a job. Read the definition of “discipline” and steer your whole life toward it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:25 PM
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I’m not changing your view on this one, it’s a great approach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:18 PM
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Totally agree. 4.5 at best. And look at the simps in her comments “i would totally fuck you” “you’re so hot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:17 PM
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YUCK. “Can’t wait to marry some girl who has been ran through and has trouble forming connections with men.” -Noone Ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:04 PM
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My grandparents are skinnier than most adults I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:03 PM
3

AVERAGE WAIST IS 39 and 40”???? Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:02 PM
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I’m asking a genuine question but you don’t have an answer so I’m trolling. Go to bed, little girl its past your bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:16 AM
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Why would they settle down with a masculine woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:22 PM
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Funny, I was referring more to the women. OLD reveals the most slovenly bunch ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:54 PM
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Lol men are too selective for relationships? Is that why women are always initiating the divorces? Get outta here with that goofy shit. Also we aren’t talking about incels, you are just moving the goal posts. Men want relationships. With women. Not with women who act like men. 🎤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:21 PM
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Exceptions do not make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:05 PM
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Yes, and pay for a hooker or three so you’re not a complete buffoon in bed (if you get that far). Edit: oh, I see. We are supposed to support women in their endeavors to perform sex work, but then shame men who pay those women to perform the sex work. Alexa: define cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:38 PM
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Great answer! Can’t build robot nurses … yet.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 05:36 PM
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Sounds like a you problem. I’m divorced from a 20 year marriage. I have my own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:48 PM
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Ahhh yes. We talk about men’s emotions and of course a woman thinks MEN must manage their emotions. Its us who are lashing out and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:17 AM
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Initial attraction from males to females is absolutely driven by looks. Undoubtably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:23 AM
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Lies? LOL. You’re exactly the problem. Here I am telling you, my, and many men’s preferences, and here you are telling me that they are wrong. Go ice fishing and fall in lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:33 PM
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We want to provide. Why would we give a shit about your career or how much money you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:28 PM
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Maybe I’m a dummy, but I want a woman partner. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:25 PM
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I love and how people don’t agree with the actual statistics so they make up their own. This has been exhaustively researched. The numbers are that women find approximately 10 to 20% of men attractive. Men find approximately 50% of women attractive. But of course, what women do is they will argue any point they can to try and be right. Women are extremely selective. Men are extremely not selective. Therefore, women sleep with men better looking than them because men aren’t selective. They can sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:26 PM
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You mean: men don’t leave. And we do not, generally speaking. We go after the wrong women and stay too long, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:26 AM
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Having a partner provides much more stability and security than one can achieve alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:01 PM
1

See, you argue to be right. Just like Kevin says. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:50 PM
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JustPearlyThings definitely is all about marriage. Kevin Samuels preaches marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:36 PM
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“All of them” Thanks for proving you don’t know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:14 PM
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Hi. Not a low income man here. Post wall women are going to have a hard time. IDGAF if she is a cashier at the grocery store. I don’t need her income. I do care that she is smart because I will be spending a lot of time with her, but her job is inconsequential at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:24 PM
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Hot take: women are too picky and men aren’t picky enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:20 PM
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That’s just a technique they use while they are shaming, insulting, guilting you.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 11:24 AM
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Because they are self-victimizing. Men aren’t allowed to have any opinions about women.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 10:53 AM
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Its not truly red pill. Red pill is not anti-marriage. Most of what he said is red pill AF tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:43 AM
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The women he speaks about are EVERYWHERE. I’ve met too many. EDIT: In this subreddit of all places, why do peoples opinions and experiences constantly get down voted? I didn’t say ALL women. I said I meet them everywhere. I obviously meet all types of women. Some are married, some are single. Some are immature, some are mature. Some are smart, some are stupid. Of all the women, I meet, a common thread that I see is many of them see men as stupid, or disposable, or both. Society has ingrained thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:42 AM
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That’s how they argue. Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right. Keep your head high.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:04 AM
-2

This guy red pills. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:29 PM
0

Thanks my brother 🤙🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:48 AM
-1

How about splitting taking the trash out. Splitting going to get oil changed. Tires changed. Lawn mowing. (And edged.) Cars washed. Screen panel replacement. New deadbolt. Hanging the TV. Hanging a new mirror. How about we split all that too? we need men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:39 AM
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You’re not alone. I agree with you. It’s unfortunate that there are some content producers who are very fringe. They just want to teach you how to get chicks. This has been a dude-bible passed down for generations among handsome men. None of their information is new. Red pill to me is the idea that feminism swung too far. Feminism provided the ACCESS needed that women traditionally lacked. Voting, working, etc. What modern feminism seems to have done is to tell women that OUTCOMES should all be …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:46 PM
3

I think this has more to do with your compatibility with the following male traits: Provides Protects Wants your time Wants your affection Wants your respect Assertive Hard working Driven Honest Is that an okay start?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:31 PM
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Review thing kinda exists on FB dating. I didn’t see anyone where it said anything but there was some kind of review/comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:27 AM
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My understanding is men and women cheat at similar rates as per a stat JustPearlyThings throws around a lot. She also shows how women are bailed out of their bad decisions by the government, and definitely are not held accountable for many of their actions, but especially sexually. There’s like 8 types of female contraception, and then there’s abortion, and then also adoption. While the man has no choice no matter what.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 10:44 AM
1

Therapy is the start of a very long road that includes use of tools you will learn in therapy.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:12 PM
2

We need to use Patrice O’Neal’s 30 point system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:00 PM
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I believe the number is 20% of men are found attractive and 50% of women are found attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:59 PM
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Sadly true especially for men. Very few male resources. Quite sad. Whatever money you can afford at that stage is worth it even if its once a month for $50.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 04:57 PM
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I’m not snorting. I am direct because of the severity of what this post says. I had (still kinda have) PTSD and you are right, it’s no joke.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 04:41 PM
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That’s the supposition that Kevin Samuels makes. I’ve heard the women who feel something better is in store for them and more often than not, there isn’t anything better. America has promised women Disney marriages but life isn’t a Disney movie. Men don’t have these same delusions of perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:40 PM
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That’s called PTSD. Anyone in this position should seek therapy to help them.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:53 PM
-3

The reason for that is quite simple, generally men gain attractiveness as they get older. Finding a new wife is easier than if you were the same age but female and possibly with kids. Both through looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:41 PM
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Majority of divorces are categorized as “irreconcilable differences” which is about as “just for the heck of it” as I can think of. Don’t you think? Outside of abusive relationships and mental health problems, two healthy adults should be able to discuss and overcome almost any other problem. I mean I would like to think so anyway. One divorce situation that comes to mind is when a man loses his job and has a very hard time with employment for maybe a year or two, the woman is very quick to up a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:12 PM
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Then women leave when divorce time comes (at 70-80% of divorces filed by women) to marry-up because they found someone better or they think they will find someone better. Not sure most men or women know what love really is. I’ll include myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:46 PM
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Old doesn’t have to mean disgusting either. Not sure how much of a heart throb Ryan Reynolds is to everyone but he’s sure handsome and he’s 46. Just sayin … I don’t think this is any more common than it used to be but seems like maybe a hard stat to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:43 PM
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Whoa. This is true? I mean I believe it but … Do you have any source for that?
/r/MensRights01/11/22 02:39 PM
1

There we go. Modern feminism at its best. We most certainly do not. Parenting is a 50/50 venture thanks to modern feminism. I lived it with my kids who are teenagers now. We both (my wife and I) worked full time and contributed to the household and were worn, tattered and miserable for the first 5-7 years because that’s not what a household is meant to be. Feminism made a bunch of promises they have yet to deliver on. They already did the heavy lifting of equal opportunity, now everyone expects …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:25 PM
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LMAO the outlier. Show me the STANDARD. Trash collection. Coal mining. Construction. All male dominated. Pipe fitting. Auto mechanics. Roofers. There’s all the equality in the world for these women to come in and work. Where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:46 PM
0

Here come the Caped Crusaders! Lol. Reddit is terrible for men.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:11 PM
0

OK bud. Hold your breath, be right there.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:38 PM
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More shame from you. Now my ego is so big I won’t find help. You’re something else, guy. Good luck to you I guess.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:28 PM
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Wow. That’s a real world question but needs a lot of context. Sometimes you just gotta leave because you can never resolve any real conflicts no matter what. It’s all tact and approach. Rinse and repeat if necessary. Most fights should be able to be resolved after revisiting the topic a few times without yelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:23 PM
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Yes. OP just thinks the way OP would do about it is OBVIOUSLY the best bc he’s a 5’5” anomaly/stranger who has women fighting for him. It’s like relationship calculus.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:17 PM
-1

Good luck with those masculine women you date.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:15 PM
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Wait are you a woman or a feminine man? I can’t tell … you argue like a woman.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 09:06 PM
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Women do all the heavy lifting? LMAO please explain all this heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:03 PM
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Right out of the modern woman’s argument playbook: Shame, insult, guilt, need to be right. Your comment may be loaded with all 4. Thanks for reinforcing the stereotype. Just trying to tell you how men ARE. We just ARE. I have never cheated in any relationship I ever had. If some hot woman threw herself at me, I DEFINITELY would have cheated.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 08:15 PM
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/r/MensRights31/10/22 07:38 PM
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Modern Women argue with: Shame, Insult, Guilt, and a Need to be right. You need to create boundaries about stuff like this or it will definitely never change.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 10:19 PM
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Shaming and insulting isn’t any kind of productive response.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:43 PM
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Username relevant.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 05:42 PM
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We love compassionate gratitude, when we come to you with the problem and the solution all at once. Coming to you crying because we lost our job and don’t know how we are going to pay rent doesn’t give you any security. Coming to you saying we lost our job but “here’s the plan … “ doesn’t stop you from being compassionate.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 05:42 PM
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They can’t help anymore than we can help fix your problems you just want us to sit and listen to. What you are missing is you ladies depend on men for physical and financial security so when we show vulnerability in those two sections, it does more damage than good. We don’t depend on you for physical or financial security. Also relevant: we men don’t like to hear about most of women’s problems and they should be discussing those with their girlfriends if they want a successful relationship.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 04:30 PM
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Most men can not become one in the eyes of women no matter how hard they try. Not saying that they won’t try, they legit cannot become the needed physique, personality, security, etc. the girls are looking for. Generally, you can really only become mediocre at something you’re naturally bad at. This is why people tell you to play to your strengths because you can become great at something you are good at already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:23 PM
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Women aren’t equipped to handle a man’s problems. We are supposed to bring you solutions and be your rock. We can’t do that when we are being vulnerable with you.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 04:19 PM
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When women leave their husbands, which they do 80% of the time in divorces, they wind up needing to hire a handyman to hang a television, mulch the front yard, put up crown, molding, move furniture. Hell, my ex-wife never even wanted to take out the trash. Yet in the same breath, they will tell you all about how “I don’t need a man“, because that is what modern feminism and the media tells you right now.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:54 PM
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I’m sick of the general drum beat in the media that men (mostly Dad’s) are stupid, ignorant, and are fools who wouldn’t last 10 minutes without a woman.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:50 PM
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I support his comment. Vulnerability and sensitivity from a man towards a woman is almost immediately read as weakness and never works out well in my experience. We need to show more vulnerability to our male friends and our therapists.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:49 PM
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This is a GOOOOOD one. My kids are grown, but I remember these comments well.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:46 PM
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Statistically they cannot all become that. It’s poor advice to advise you to just “become” a top 20% male. The advice that seems more appropriate is: take more care in your personal appearance and how you are perceived by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:44 PM
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You can get closer … definitely. Better haircut, work out, clothing that fits better, projecting your voice, speaking more (or less), standing up straight, looking people in the eyes, proper social touching, learning body language, using moisturizing lotion … should I continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:41 PM
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Platform dependent in every local area. In my area Hinge has VERY good looking women. Tinder? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:38 PM
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Clearly a very very different scenario than being single ones whole life or say - age 40 and forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:22 PM
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Men have been dying alone for a long time. This is a new thing for women, give it some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:36 PM
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Like many debates, the fringe element from both sides is louder than the more common middle. Trying to explain a centrist position in a forum like this is futile. It requires too many words and too many layers of understanding. You wind up trolling yourself by replying - the other party isn’t likely to acquiesce and will argue just to be right. I’d bet most of this sub is very middled. My approach comes from Kevin Samuels (RIP), some Pearly Things and Jordan Peterson. All three of which do a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:52 PM
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This is a rational answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:39 PM
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What is this supposed to prove? Totally lost here.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:10 PM
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In full agreement here.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:09 PM
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It’s more just a part of the overarching narrative that men suck, are stupid, and are deficient in how to please any woman. We need constant instruction, insults, and insistence.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:09 PM
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Dear Women: we don’t feel pressed when we see a guy in good shape. We don’t wish we were him so badly that we get lipo and ab inserts.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 01:45 PM
1

Notice how the womens answers all revolve around SIGN language. Shame Insult Guilt Need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:38 PM
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Only 20% of church goers are single men and all the women are fighting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:36 PM
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Yeah, when it’s a man you have to get over it, when it’s a woman there’s no accountability and you’re a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:35 PM
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BPD/NPD detected. Get out now!
/r/MensRights25/10/22 11:16 AM
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I agree you don’t need a lot of experience to be good, but I think you need a decent amount of experience to be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:07 PM
1

Alternatively, you can still get your kids, everything they ask for, but make them earn it. Earning it can be anything from school grades to cutting the lawn to whatever you can think of that requires thought and care on the child’s behalf. If they earn it, you are never “giving” it to them.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:49 PM
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Yes, giving children every material need they want is a problem. The wants that I was talking about is the want of their parents time, attention. Ask your child how their day was, spend time at their sporting events, never make fun of them, always show them nothing but unconditional love.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:26 PM
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This is a good angle to explain when everyone is sober. Any woman worth marrying should be able to see this.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:14 PM
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This is not a parental problem, this is a societal issue. Doting on your children and giving them what they want is only good for them. The problem is that society does not make women responsible for many of their actions. Women are constantly bailed out in society where men are left alone to suffer. Nevermind the constant barrage of “men are stupid” in today’s media that supports the “women do everything” mantra.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:56 AM
14

Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:38 AM
1

Breaking news: it’s hot in hell. The hypocrisy isn’t called out more because men are different than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:16 AM
2

😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣 Men need to give the THOTs less attention then. I literally stopped following all the “im hot” girls on instagram. I’ve raised my standards of what it takes to get my attention and I recommend it to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:31 PM
0

Usually studies that talk about this phenomenon are speaking strictly of online dating data of swipe left swipe right. The girls you are noticing are displaying attention seeking behavior. I would bet that a bulk of them are difficult and they are constantly opinionated and will argue their opinion for as long as you will engage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:17 PM
4

Majority of men having a lot of bad luck with sex and dating is not a new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:40 AM
1

Well - isn’t that just an extension of “pretty privilege”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:27 AM
1

The IRA existing isn’t the sneaky park, the sneaky part is the motivation behind doing it. So, the woman initiates the divorce, right? Shouldn’t the man be the one to have an account on the side to support himself during the transition while his wife filed for divorce and splits up the family? The point of the article is a good one when applied to both sexes, the narrative of the article is laced with modern feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:59 PM
1

Why would it be so bad if the woman had a separate bank account in her name that her husband knew about? Having together finances and separate finances at the same time, is not only possible, but can help you to retain some of your individuality and be able to make buying decisions for yourself without having to talk to your spouse about everything. Each of you can have an expendable income account to do with what you wish. What this article does quietly is continue to promote current day “all m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:47 PM
1

Shaming two consenting adults for dating - solely on the gap in age is absolutely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:36 PM
1

Women are constantly leaving their marriages and breaking up their homes so this is no surprise. Women initiate 70-80% of divorces.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 02:34 PM
4

It is absolutely ridiculous to shame two consenting adults based on their age gap.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 02:26 PM
4

I hate Jeff Bezos. Rich men cheat. A lot. This one story about this one man doesn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:23 PM
2

Female promiscuity is a feminist construct. Men (generally) don’t want a woman who has been run through. Sorry - but it’s truth. You can find a man if you’ve had 20+ partners, but it will be much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:59 AM
1

Oh stop. No one is -2. I’m at a … 6.5?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:57 AM
1

If I asked you to rate your face from 1 to 10 fresh out of the shower, what’s your rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:53 AM
1

Omae you sound intriguing, but perhaps difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:39 AM
1

These are good. However I have to speak: in my experience it’s women who blow up phones and expecting us to drop everything. Do you just date feminine men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:38 AM
1

WTF is bloop propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:34 AM
1

I can only hope my daughters prescribe to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:31 AM
1

Men having manners in generalities is faking it? If not; what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:29 AM
1

Do you look weird or something, this is an unusual response?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:28 AM
1

As a restaurant hospitality owner I feel like there is some new ones here. Sending things back is appropriate, how you do it is entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:28 AM
1

A good character measurement stick for sure. How do you determine a woman he’s not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:26 AM
2

Thanks, that’s really nice. I appreciate the comments :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:37 AM
3

Married? Getting a man is everything before marriage. Keeping a man is marriage for many years.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 12:52 AM
4

I was trying not to think you were named after a kitchen appliance. My condolences. I bet you are single. Unlike you, I know how to be okay even after someone disagrees with me. I also see how difficult you are and you will never acquiesce or change. Good luck!
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:56 PM
4

I didn’t make that false equivalency for this argument. Your argument is just as bad, Mandy Lynn.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 11:40 PM
-2

“Need to be right”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:25 PM
3

I was in a 18 year marriage to someone who abused me. I realize that I allowed that because I was definitely repressing all my preferences because a feminist society and wife were echoing all the same sentiments. They were forcing me (naturally very masculine) into a feminine corner, all the while being forced there by someone with no conflict resolution skills, no cooperative skills, no easygoing skills. I was constantly and endlessly questioned about each and every decision with seemingly no a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:23 PM
-2

You’re sooooo smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:16 PM
2

At least I’m good at this. LOL I’m for whatever anyone’s preferences are. Congratulations on your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:46 PM
-1

You will need to find a feminine male then. There is nothing wrong with this, but I’m trying to help you with setting your own expectations. Edit: I love how this is downvoted to zero. Women seem to be allergic to men’s truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:42 PM
2

Good for you for being receptive and adjustable. That’s a wonderful outcome. I truly love you for that. 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:40 PM
-1

Cooperation actually falls more in the “easygoing” category. See above how quickly people are to downvote male preferences? I’m certainly not alone on my preference for a strong woman who also knows when to defer to me in certain areas where I am the expert. Just as I do for women. Somehow this is “wrong”. Please explain this. Of course you describe men’s preference as “tactic”. My favorite. Women to men’s preferences: Shame Insult Guilt Need to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:38 PM
-2

Well we want you to be compliant. That’s definitely on our list. Right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:16 PM
0

Word up, good insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:16 PM
0

“I think most people want …” Absolutely false. Read all the comments here. Some women just say “not a misogynist”, and others want a man to hold a door open.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:15 PM
1

Earnest = thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:13 PM
1

Because most people (man/woman) are incapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:13 PM
0

Don’t qualify it - answer it as it is. Are you cooperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:49 PM
0

I still treat her right so your comment stands - but my mom was great when i was younger and has definitely turned more sour in her later years. It’s mild personality disorder related stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:48 PM
0

Do you think you are very cooperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:43 PM
0

I find accountability is the trickiest topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:42 PM
0

Equal: in what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:42 PM
0

You show very masculine tendencies in your responses. We want to help and carry things and open doors. It’s kinda old school, but not a forced behavior for many men. I personally find men and women in general nowadays do not know how to properly apologize and take responsibility for their actions. This one item is not exclusive to one sex or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:41 PM
1

I’m taking what I can get. Trying to gauge women’s expectations vs reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:37 PM
1

What if his Mom is a turbobitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:36 PM
1

This is what I’m getting at: what is a “gentleman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:36 PM
2

Don’t you think this is a really really low bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:35 PM
0

Folllow up: Are you also held accountable to these things, and further to that, are you good at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:46 PM
1

Well I was trying to see what women like to see how in line they are with reality and what men really want. Then suddenly there’s this douchebag who comes in and gets all bent out of shape because I asked the question. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Weird, right? u/gymbro718nyc ? GTFOH
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:56 PM
1

That’s a super interesting measurement. I can see why you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:54 PM
0

OLD is a minefield. My best advice I have that will be true for most people is: ditch OLD. It made me feel worse about myself than I have in my 40 years being alive. And I was getting many matches and likes. I am not one of these men who complains about no matches, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:56 PM
1

My opinion is that I think you’re right, I am asking the question to be proven wrong. I try not to live my life strictly according to my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:54 PM
1

LOL I’m polling women to see what they like. Why are you so pressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:52 PM
2

THEFUCK is this comment? She has a preference for it. Does that make her wrong? You need a nap. This is what women do to us for showing preferences. She is entitled. Hold her to it when she presses you for your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:51 PM
16

Very capable. You have arms, legs, eyes, and a brain. Unwilling is a mood.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:49 PM
0

You are correct. So I’m a shitty man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:45 PM
1

What is it about someone chewing with mouth agape that will almost literally cause me to go insane? 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:44 PM
2

You must be a dream to go on a date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:43 PM
-1

What if … and bare with me now. What if it’s you just pick the wrong men? Maybe your built in perceptions of men are stopping you from being yourself around men? I had to come to the stark realization this year that I was picking the wrong women. I have accepted it and am making wholly different choices now. Every single good friend I have (a group of 8-10 people) is nowhere near misogyny. Two of us are divorced. We are all in our 40s. When I am out and about around people, I barely know or don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:43 PM
13

Are you illiterate? Please re-read my comment above and tell me where I said women are incapable?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:37 PM
0

This is your standard? Yikes. You’re not alone - it’s just scary as a man that your first thought might be “all men are misogynists”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:27 PM
1

What does that mean? Pretty terse response if I’m honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:26 PM
14

It’s not a question of knowledge, it’s a question of willingness.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:23 PM
0

I forget which number it is, but I heard a number recently that of all the men in history only 60% have actually had children. I think it actually may have been 40% but I think the 60% number is sad enough. Men have been dying alone an old for a long time, feminism is ensuring that women will now share that with us. Women approaching men I don’t think will change any of this. Women need to understand what men want, and they refuse to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:14 PM
1

Stay away from OLD if you are a 6. Being a 6 is a great thing. You are better than average looking. In person you will have much better odds in my opinion. OLD has ruined dating and makes most average looking people depressed and unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:06 PM
1

One category of these men are men who have difficult wives who have no healthy conflict resolution skills. This is the category I fell into in my marriage. There’s another category of man who is a total player. He will never stop thinking of pussy long enough to provide any honesty. This also seems to be a little but of an “all men suck” modern-feminism drum beat, but some of the criticism is deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:40 PM
4

wow
/r/MensRights19/10/22 01:17 PM
48

I can’t wait to see who takes her car to get the tires rotated, who takes the trash out, and better yet - who’s gonna hang her new TV?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:44 PM
4

Nothing about this is surprising. Modern women think men are disposable. They think there is a magical man spigot that just keeps raining out men for them. What are the odds a woman with that attitude can keep a man?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:43 PM
9

They keep getting fed because today’s culture is: “If I’m offended, I win the argument.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:37 PM
1

Can you give examples of what lies people say are okay and why? This needs nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:36 PM
1

You know so much about men. Show me your peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:56 AM
1

I’ll take that type of manipulation any day.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 10:54 AM
6

This is ignorant and wrong. Most women want a man to know what to do in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:53 AM
2

Don’t worry ma’am, I definitely know of men who stay virgins. I don’t understand them, but they exist and are looking for you. Most are Muslim but since you aren’t, definitely not all those guys are looking for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:37 AM
4

Are you muslim or otherwise religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:25 AM
3

Women want a virgin or they want a man with experience? Be honest. Do you want a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:22 AM
7

The fake screams are so distracting TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:33 AM
8

If you don’t finish steaks with butter and thyme, you can find a new man. 😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 01:20 AM
3

I find people enroll themselves. If you try enrolling them it can be received negatively. One has to want the help …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 01:14 AM
4

Great attitude. Great approach.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 01:13 AM
4

Hmmmm. Either you’re not telling the whole story or he has self-worth issues you won’t be able to change.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 01:13 AM
7

See how I’m a man telling you man’s preferences and predilections and you are telling me you know better? As a woman? Do you know how insane that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:02 AM
8

You literally started out: “that’s 100% a lie”. That’s just your personal experience? What are you like 18? She broke it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:47 AM
18

Make him a steak and blow him. 😄
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 12:43 AM
1

Women don’t care when men cheat. They leave because they think there is something better out there and there usually isn’t after she is 30-35. Its just like a woman to argue a number like 80%. Even if it was fudged, it’s what? 70%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:40 AM
10

Does she have a ring? Are they engaged? A ring/marriage is the prize. Your one situation you know of does not disqualify my statement that no good man will ask your body count and that we absolutely know when someone has a high body count. Men will absolutely sleep with women with high body count. A man who is an 8 will also sleep with a 5 in the right circumstance, but he isn’t going to marry her. In this case a female 5 got a male 8, but she can’t KEEP him. Do you see how a man is telling you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:37 AM
8

Women argue in possibilities, not probabilities. So my 10 is someone else’s 9. No one is rating Cindy Crawford at 22 as a 4. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:24 AM
1

Did you know men don’t initiate divorces? Of all divorces, 70-80% are initiated by women. Men don’t leave true LTRs. Women usually throw man away for a better option, sometimes a man they already found, but more often because the grass is always greener!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:17 AM
13

My bet: you are honest about it because it’s not that high. And it’s ALWAYS important to your partner, and any good man will NEVER ask you straight up. We know. We sniff that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:14 AM
2

Honestly? Face 10? Cindy Crawford in her 20’s. Vivica Fox in her 20’s. Shakira in her 20’s. That’s a good swath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:10 AM
12

If someone finds out your body count and has a problem with it, that’s a consequence for having a high body count. When will women take responsibility for their actions? When they are 50 and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:07 AM
7

IN PERSON: How many men have asked you for your body count or shamed you for your body count? Trolls online do not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:04 AM
3

OP is a troll. Not worth arguing with. Poor logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:02 AM
1

“Laid out” If you are going to be on your high horse shaming everyone, at least write correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:02 AM
2

Just answer his questions. What does a man need to get laid? What does a woman do to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:00 AM
7

They also have more baggage even if they never had a kid or STD. All these men walking around who banged my lady? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:59 PM
2

Women control access to sex, men control access to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:58 PM
0

Oh well in that case … Yep - still a bunch of shaming for our preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:56 PM
7

One man’s 4 is another man’s 4 he will date because he’s a 3. The 3 does NOT think his woman’s face is an 8. He’s happy with a 4 because he’s realistic about his looks and what he can bring to a woman. The point of my post was to highlight how women all think they are a 10 because of this “self love” movement. Realistically they most certainly are not a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:53 PM
14

We don’t need to point it out. We know who has high body count. Men rarely ask a woman about her body count. Women find shame in our preference. That’s not our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:52 PM
4

This is too easy. If Kevin was still alive he would show you what a walking, modern feminist approach this is. What women to do men for expressing this (or really any) preference is: Shame Insult Guilt Continue to argue possibility over probability in the constant need to be right. Good luck keeping a man. Men don’t shame women for having a lot of sex, they just usually don’t marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:39 PM
23

Hey ladies: which of you is looking for a virgin male to marry and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:36 PM
1

Men prefer women with low body counts and are actively shamed for it regularly, this OP is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:35 PM
14

It’s not degrading her to point out our dislike that she may have a high body count. She finds it degrading to her - but really its just that she has consequences for sleeping around. Feminism never told her the consequences part. And women are so mad that men don’t share those same consequence for sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:34 PM
21

“But i want a man who makes six figures, and has a six pack.” Her: Face: 4 Body:6
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:33 PM
6

Clearly OP needs some analogies explaining about how their opinions don’t invalidate other’s opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:31 PM
3

Hahahahaha. Once again. Men explain a preference for a low body count and are shamed. SHOCKING! Are we not allowed to have preferences? I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:31 PM
2

The dating scene would be better if men weren’t getting canceled by feminism. Example: Attractive women definitely like when an attractive man cat-calls them. This nuance is lost in favor of the modern trope that all cat calling is gross and harassing. This discourages/eliminates BAD cat-calling, but also all the good ones. If men felt comfortable approaching women, women wouldn’t have to approach men. Approaching men is definitely non-traditional. That doesn’t mean it can’t be done, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:29 PM
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