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If I remember correctly, it's from some sort of weird game show where the point is for the chick to treat the dudes as horrible as possible. Rules of the show was that it was all supposed to be verbal abuse, but chick got pissed because the guy wasn't being affected by it, so she slapped him. She was the one that crossed the line, but just still they beat the crap out of him and I think put him in the hospital.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/19 05:57 PM
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Don't come in here and tell people to not call you a faggot or a pussy, and immediately insult people by calling them keyboard warriors. You know why we use such harsh language cause that's what losers need to hear to wake them up. You are a pussy. You're not working for this. You're lazy. You think it should be easy. It's not easy. It's work. That's what. Sing an attractive male is. It takes just as much work to develop frame and maintain it as it takes to hit the 1000 lb club. You haven't inte…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 02:21 PM
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Step 1. Check Calendar. Step 2. Invite Krappenschauers over. Step 3. Inform: "FYI the Krappenschauers are coming over Saturday. I'm cooking dinner, please make some brownies for dessert" That's what leadership looks like.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 04:15 PM
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This is not the place for you.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 03:56 PM
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First off, you haven't read the entire sidebar. Go do it. Secondly, this place, all of red pill, is about sexual strategy. It's not self-help. It's not therapy. Yes, we say it's about "fixing men" but the part that's left off is "fixing men so they get the sex they want". That's what Redpill is. MRP exists because "getting the sex you want" requires a different approach in marriage. But it's about sexual strategy. You want therapy. Go get it. This isn't the place for you.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 02:54 PM
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Have you read all of the sidebar. The cost of entry is to read the sidebar including the books. MAYBE you can ask questions after you've read all the top posts on here and MRP, as well as Rational Male and NMMNG. But until you read those, you're just a lazy waste of time and space. If you can't put in the smallest amount of effort to help yourself by reading those books, why should help you? If you don't think you're worth the work, nobody else will either. Read the sidebar. Read the books.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 02:48 PM
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What you just wrote is a diary entry. It's what we call victim puke. You get one. Go read the sidebar. All of it. Including the suggested books. Honestly, you're a disgrace and a pussy. But you can fix yourself and it starts by taking ownership. Help yourself. Read the sidebar. Do the hard work. That's what being a man is all about.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:18 PM
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Bunch of faggots in here dropping a bunch of arm-chair red pill Rambo "hurr durr I'm macho" bullshit. Ignore them. Two things. 1)Document the threats. Have your lawyer send a letter to her lawyer threatening further legal action if she doesn't give you your agreed upon visitation rights. Specifics of this are going to significantly depend on your locale. If she refuses, use the law. It would be rough to not see your kids for 6 months but if you don't shut this shit down now you'll be dealing wit…
/r/askMRP06/02/18 06:58 PM
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That sounds like a film made by someone that thinks they know what redpoll is and made a film to for their narrative. It's basically how you see people talk about redpoll outside of any of the RP subs. The best is /r/marriage where the husband is overweight, lazy, and whiny, and the wife is attracted to the outgoing buff dad next door. Someone brings up redpill and gets blasted to hell while the rest of the sub advising the OP to share his feelings of inadequacy with his wife like it'll make thi…
/r/askMRP06/01/18 05:34 PM
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You're money, you're decisions. On top of that the point of life is to try to spread your genetics and ensure they prosper. You're wife's niece doesn't help that. If helps your wife's/brother in laws genetics get spread. If your wife's niece wants to go to college you can get a scholarship or take out loans.
/r/askMRP25/12/17 04:45 PM
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I lead by example. The more I exercise, the more she exercises. I also lead in the kitchen. I control what foods are around the house and what meals we eat, therefore snacks are healthy and meals are lean protein, whole grains, and veggies.
/r/askMRP08/11/17 10:00 PM
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1.) What if a shit test cannot be ignored? First problem is that he allowed it to get to this point. When the wife started packing up, he should have said "fine, but the kids stay here". In fact, a lot of his issues started a long time ago. Sounds like he hasn't stepped up with his kids. You make a lot of excuses for him: he works a lot, he travels, he goes to the gym. Where is his family leadership? When is he helping the kids with homework? When is he taking control of raising his kids? The si…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 05:28 PM
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I'm not even sure there is a question here, I just needed to puke to MRP about how boring some of these peoples lives are and they are actually OK with shit being this way People are shitting on you. I think largely it's just douchebags that are insecure with themselves and shitting on you to make themselves feel better. The RP equivalent of white knighting. But, puke's like this should be for you and you alone. It was good for you to write this out, but next time just put it in a journal or som…
/r/askMRP26/10/17 04:29 PM
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You want to email her? Stop wasting our time
/r/askMRP03/10/17 12:43 PM
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Start reading top posts on this and the main site. The information you want is all in the sidebar.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 07:44 PM
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You need to sidebar a lot more. It's fucking disrespectful to yourself to come in here and ask questions that can be answered by reading the sidebar material. It means you're being a lazy fuck, and you deserve better than that. Go read the sidebar material and then come back and answer this for yourself.
/r/askMRP31/08/17 07:18 PM
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To me, it's not about morals. It's about owning your shit. Own your actions and be true to yourself. If YOU say you're vomited to one woman, then commit to that woman until you give notice that you are no longer vomited to that woman. Anything else is being a chicken shit that's not true to themselves.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 10:52 PM
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To believe that some women would prefer to blow you is to believe in the false prophecy of "The One", that if you only just found your "one" she would love giving head. It's the antithesis of AWALT.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 12:33 PM
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Troll post, ignore and mods delete
/r/askMRP29/08/17 06:32 PM
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What advice can others who have gone down this road offer to me? How do you even create online profiles for this stuff without someone you know potentially spotting you? I need tips on discretion. Right now, I have no desire for a separation or divorce. I truly don't want to see our marriage fail and I do want to stay with my wife, but the reasons I've mentioned previously have me considering taking up some women on their offers. These two things do not go together. Frankly, you aren't at all re…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 02:53 PM
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Well, I'd take pregnancy as a great time to work on you. Lift, read the sidebar. Learn to eat and cook better. Work on projects around the house. Starting getting your shit together. Figure out what areas of your life need improving (job, house, body, personality, intelligence) and start working on those.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:39 PM
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I'll tell you, this place isn't for you. This is a place for men than want to take control of their lives. And it's hard fucking work. But it's about being a man, doing what needs doing, and not being a whiny bitch about it. You're not ready for this place. I applaud you for being curious, but if you were ready for this place, you woudln't need to ask these questions. Instead, you would have read the sidebar. It's a painfully obvious message to read the sidebar before posting. And it's not "read…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:33 PM
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This place isn't about fixing marriage or planning for divorce. This place is about fixing men and their lives. Sometimes that means divorce, but more often than not when the man is fixed, the marriage improves. There's three things to consider here, and I've completely oversimplifying them and you should really read the sidebar to better understand MRP, but here I go: The thing to understand is that a fundamental tenant of RP is that all women basically exhibit the same set of behaviors, so gen…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:22 PM
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Listen, I'm not saying fuck other woman. I don't. But I also don't tell my wife I can fuck other woman Because words are for children, actions are for men. If you're gonna fuck around, fuck around. If you aren't, don't. But whatever you do, shut the fuck up.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 03:41 PM
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so fuck it I can do shit to Big words, little man. Next you gonna tell us you're a big boy and don't have to eat your green beans if you don't want to? Cause that's basically what you did. This is where you went betas in the conversation. Acta non verba. Actions not words. If you're gonna fuck someone else, fuck them. But Jesus, you just said you're gonna fuck someone else but us internet strangers, even my dog and cat, know, you don't have the balls to do it. And your wife knows now to. Don't l…
/r/askMRP15/08/17 01:06 AM
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An aside: in my experience you'll never find a greater saboteur on your lifting goals than you're own wife. The ways they try to manipulate you into continuing to be their beta fat fuck are inexhaustible. But be a man and tell her not to get in the way.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 12:53 AM
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Oneitis swings both ways, where your woman is either "different" in that she's "high quality" and worth it, or she's "a bitch". New guys always come in here and challenge AWALT by trying to explain how their woman is different. But at the end of the day it's dudes just trying to justify their belief in ONEitis. Either they think they've found "the one" or they believe if they just nexted their wife, they could find "the one." But there is no "one". There's only the one you choose.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 01:03 PM
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And at the end, level 12, theoretically, the man is fixed and the question becomes "woman, fix yourself of next?"
/r/askMRP12/08/17 05:17 PM
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Jesus. Fuck. I have to type his every fucking week. To think that your wife is the exception and that you are just unlucky because you ended up with a bitch is nothing but victim mentality. Have you read the sidebar? If so, read again because you haven't learned anything. Lift. Sidebar. 12 levels of dread. The 12 levels of dread are a decision engine. They determine the answer to the question "am I a beta pussy or is my wife not worth staying with" Until you've worked your dread for at least one…
/r/askMRP12/08/17 04:43 PM
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Are you 14? There's much better A&A than this. Don't use a tool until you're comfortable with it,
/r/askMRP12/08/17 02:20 PM
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Depends, can you lift? Can you sidebar? Are you willing to put in what it takes. This ain't about your wife and what will work for her, this is about you and what work you're willing to do. You willing to work hard? Yes? Then MRP will work. You weak? Too tired and busy to lift? Then nothing will work.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 02:01 PM
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You're wife just said she thinks you're a pussy. If you're pissed, you should only be pissed at yourself. You probably are a pussy. It's not her fault, so why be mad at her. Be mad at yourself. And then use that anger at yourself as motivation to lift more. When you hit the 1000 lb club, it'd be laughable for you're wife to think you're a pussy.
/r/askMRP12/08/17 01:13 PM
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Don't shit where you eat
/r/askMRP10/08/17 07:37 PM
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Then you choose the path of the victim who has no power
/r/askMRP07/08/17 12:57 AM
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You still don't fucking get it.
/r/askMRP05/08/17 08:45 PM
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Dude, that's weak shit. Dude that fucked your wife has the least blame here. He saw a good piece of ass and out his dick in it. You're wife is the slut that slobbed his knob. Think about the kinkiest shit you've ever done with her; She did that with him, probably more. When you're done crying about that mental picture, and when you're done jerking off to the idea that you're a man and that you could beat this guy up if wanted, realize that none of that matters, cause you're the only one in this …
/r/askMRP05/08/17 08:37 PM
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And, as an aside, I think this is the major dividing point between TRP and MRP, at least as the subs exist today. TRP is populated mostly by folks that fall into the second group.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:59 PM
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I mean I'm even using testosterone which should make me hornier but I don't crave sex all the time. Are you past the male peak of 18? If yes, then it's fine not to think about sex and crave it all the time. I'm mid-30s. I don't want sex all the time. But MRP is about having the choice. Putting you, the male, in a position to make a decision on when and where you have sex, instead of the female. Idk if I don't crave it. Or my SO just likes so be pounded and it's hard for me to last as long as she…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 12:41 PM
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I think you're problem is that you think that every dumb fuck in here gets it. We've got an 80/20 thing going. Only 20% of the faggots in here even get it. Here's how you can tell who gets it: 1)People who get it: talk about improving yourself, talk about sidebar. They take control of their own destiny. They aren't victims. They recognize AWALT and that if your wife is a bitch, it's cause you're a bigger bitch. 2)People who don't get it: think you're one of the unlucky ones who just ended up wit…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 12:35 PM
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I know nothing about you, but from reading this it sounds like she feels confident that you're her little bitch and she can treat you however. There is no dread. Do you sidebar? She thinks her SMV is higher than yours, and she's probably right. You need to sidebar. You need to lift. You need to DNGAF. You need it all. And you need to work the 12 levels of dread. She treats you like shit because you can't do shit about it. Work your dread game, work the levels. She'll get nervous and stop being s…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 12:27 PM
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If you want to lower your BF%, you'll want to cut and you'll want to CICO at a deficit. If you want to increase muscle mass, you'll want to bulk and CICO at a surplus. In either case, you should be lifting heavy and eating an appropriate amount of lean protein.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 02:25 PM
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Jesus. Sidebar more. You know nothing. Tell your wife what to wear and when to be ready. She'll have tingles immediately. Then take her out. Do something not crappy. Have sex.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 02:50 PM
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This story is told in /r/askmrp like twice a month
/r/askMRP24/07/17 08:09 PM
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As always, bunch of dudes who don't get it talking about your woman like that matters at all. The only question that matters: what about you means your next relationship would be any different? If you aren't going to improve, stay with her and accept your fate. At least there are blow jobs.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:49 PM
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You're obviously extremely new to MRP, so let me tell you, there are two kinds of people: those that get it and those that don't, and the line is drawn between the replies where people are talking about your bitch wife, and the replies where people talk about how you can take control of your life. Your wife isn't a bitch. She's not crazy. She's not mean. She's not selfish. At least not more so than any other woman. This is basically AWALT, but also a deeper dive into understanding oneitis and th…
/r/askMRP09/07/17 01:59 PM
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You sound not fun, controlling, and butt hurt. Extremely unattractive. You need more sidebar and a lot more not giving a fuck.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 09:05 PM
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I was intending to use SJWs outrage as a selling tactic Your must have an extremely niche audience for this game.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 04:49 PM
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A bunch of white nights did not like my posts about it in the game community and now attacking my facebook page with shitty comments and reviws. Your post is about how you are a vicitim and how can you fight off these bullies. Take ownership for getting yourself in this situation. Own your shit. This is your doing. You did this. You created this mess. Own it. Take responsiblity for it. If you think you are a victim, then get out of here. Victims have no control. This is a place for people who ar…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 04:30 PM
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Edit:So many things wrong with this bullshit post. What the fuck this have to do with MarriedRedPill?!?! Secondly, your whole post is you complaining about being a fucking victim to "feminists". Get the fuck out of here with that. MRP and AskMRP are for men who accept that they are not victims, that any failings in their lives are due to internal factors, and that good or bad we have control over the success or failure of our life. If you want to complain about external factors, about how hard t…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 03:46 PM
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You are in the wrong sub for this. Post this in /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 03:36 PM
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Read WISNIFG This is a perfect situation to FOG your way out of. It sounds like you've got a nice handful of tools to use, but you're missing the ability Fog. just another tool in the tool box.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 03:33 PM
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Her her her. You're within ING and bitching about her. You sound like a whiny bitch. Shit up with all that. What is wrong with you? Think on that. Fix that. Own that. Ignore the rest.
/r/askMRP29/06/17 06:51 PM
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It's too late for this, but you need to ask yourself: why didn't you get cut instead of her getting an IUD? Seems like you put he onus and control in her hands. That's he exact childish shit that lands men here in the first place. If you don't want any more kids, take control of the situation.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 11:58 PM
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You care way too much. Why do you have so little to do that you can put this much thought and effort into this? Your life should be so full that you don't even notice if she calls late, If you're wife is gonna suck chads dick, there's jack all you can do about it except be the best man you can be. Stop spending time on worrying on who's bratwurst your wife is licking mustard off of, and spend more time lifting, working on projects, and owning your own shit. Only thing you can do is own your shit…
/r/askMRP22/06/17 10:25 AM
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This is a garbage post. Doesn't belong here. "Hurr Durr DAE AWALT, amirite?!?" Post for improvement: Post questions or post substance. This is neither. Edit: men don't have time to read Teen Vogue. What the fuck. Get the fuck out of here.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 01:55 PM
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Edit: reread the whole post. You're wife is getting hot for other people. Basically, I wouldn't say anything and instead use it as a reminder that you're an unattractive loser and you're wife knows it. Sidebar. Lift. Be attractive don't be unattractive. Oh, and lift some more My advice below is for when you're attractive enough that your wife puts this effort in for you. Reward good behavior. Don't reward bad behavior. Basic psychology. If your wife puts in the effort to look hot, don't be a fuc…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:21 AM
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Fair enough. You're right. You can't put the pussy on a pedestal. So it's walking a fine line.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 12:34 AM
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Pretty sure even Chads dick doesn't get sucked if he acts like a god damned chimpanzee.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 12:29 AM
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I hear what you're saying, but I think this is wear TRP and MRP diverge. A woman will fuck Chad at the drop of a hat. A married man has chosen a relationship. Chad doesn't marry. You must fulfill Alpha and Beta needs. Women don't marry Chad. They Fuck Chad. You've got to seek that infinitesimal duality: Both Chad and Brad, and yet neither at the same time.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 12:23 AM
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To OP and the rest: You've got to remember that getting in the mood for a woman starts hours before sex. It's not like us chimpanzees. We think: "A bra -> sex -> I'm in the mood for sex" or "Tight ass-> Sex -> I'm in the mood for sex" or "Broccoli -> sex -> I'm in mood for sex". For me, usually it's like this: "time for bed -> an orgasm puts me out like a light -> I like to fuck my wife -> I'm in the mood for sex" All of that happens over the course of about 1/4 sec for dudes. For ladies, it jus…
/r/askMRP18/06/17 01:50 PM
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My standard response is "I'll fuck you right now, but I think you'd be happier seeing yourself if you were 5 lbs lighter"
/r/askMRP13/06/17 01:14 AM
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On the surface, she likes her life they way it is. You're a beta faggot loser. You pay he bills, she doesn't have to do too much. No dick sucking. Only has to do the dishes and pick up the house if company she wants to impress is coming over, maybe not even then. Life is good. Not too much work. Then you come in and change it. You raise the bar. By cleaning up what is dirty, you're changing the status quo. Suddenly life starts to involve more work. This is shitty. She does not life this. She get…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 01:53 PM
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How you handle this is instead of saying you have loads to be off with, you don't say it. You just do it. Build a life that actually does have loads to be off with. And if she asks about it, tell her. She'll be like "fuck me, I thought he was a loser with nothing better to do than to wait on me to make myself available to him....guess I better bend over more or he'll move on" Abundance lifestyle is about more than having lots of chicks waiting in the wings. It's about having a full life that doe…
/r/askMRP10/06/17 03:36 PM
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Arm-chair diagnosis it is. Get back with the whiners. I read some of your whining on TRP. Blame your wife's "disorder" I'm sure blaming external factors will make it all better.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 11:58 PM
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BPD-wife: is that an armchair diagnosis or by a qualified medical professional. Cause if it's armchair, get out of here and go back to /r/rasiedbynarcisist with the other losers. If an actual diagnosis, blaming her (even if due to some mental crazy) is you still not taking responsibility for your life. You think that if you can just ditch her everything will be better. Guess what, you married her to begin with, so what's to stop you from marrying crazy again? Dollars to donuts it's just you read…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 07:42 PM
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But there's plenty of responses that own the behavior and also are fun. OP's response was better that yours, and he's trying to improve from there. "Men look at women" is something out of /r/AutisticRedPill
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:55 PM
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I keep saying this: the 12 levels of dread are a decision engine. Work your levels. Especially after Level 4 or 5 each new level works like this: Level #: Am I getting my needs met? If yes, stop here. If no, go to next level. Until level 12. Level 12: Am I getting my needs met? If yes, stop here. If no, next her. This is important because along the way you fix yourself. And remember, you are the problem and you can only fix yourself. If you next your wife without fixing yourself, you're just goi…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:46 PM
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I think this is a terrible response because it's not fun. It doesn't produce tingles. It makes you sound gross and creepy. Always be fun.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:38 PM
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Fat acceptance movement. It's fucking up our society.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 05:37 PM
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Sidebar. It's obvious from your post you haven't even looked at it. Why should we help you if you can't help yourself? The sidebar will inform you. Read.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 05:36 PM
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No one cares. This ain't Dear Abbey and it ain't your diary. Write something insightful or ask a thought out question. This offers noting of value to the community, so it's not a FR. and there's no real question except some shit about your brains aka Feelz.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 05:31 PM
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I think for starters you need to read more and learn what Alpha and Beta behaviors are. Maintaining your castle, keeping it clean and free of clutter, is not beta. Helping out with your kids is not beta. Cooking dinner is not beta. All of that is owning your shit and taking control of your life. All of that is leading. Take control of your house. If it needs doing, do it. Be a man. Stop complaining, and instead start handling the shit you see wrong. Start handling the things that need doing. Sto…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 09:35 PM
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The psychological and physiological benefits of lifting cannot be understated here. Start lifting immediately. The benefits will be immediate and long lasting. Immediately you will begin to feel better. Lifting releases endorphins, you're bodies happy pills, and lifting has scientifically studied positive effects in those suffering clinical depression. Here's a nice short summary, with links to scientific studies, of the benefit both physical and psychological, of lifting: https://daringtolivefu…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:08 PM
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This kind of response is exactly how you pass a shit test. She might shrug it off cause she knows you're too much of a pussy to actually cheat...but then she'll hamster and wonder if you'd actually do it. Bam, dread.
/r/askMRP28/05/17 04:50 PM
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It's fucking easy to say that now, not so easy when kids get involved and you'd be paying alimony out your ass.
/r/askMRP28/05/17 01:59 PM
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Reminder your wife , with a nice wink, that mid life crisis usually come with a 22 year old sex kitten.
/r/askMRP28/05/17 01:57 PM
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/u/invincablekraken hit the high points Keep your house clean. Don't go play until you've handled your shit. Kids go play before the chores are done. Men work first, play second. It's boring and hard work, but being a man is hard. It's easy to be a child. But, on a positive note: OP- you are the prize. And you are a man who controls his life. Share details about yourself on a need to know basis. You decide what she needs to know and when. And if she doesn't handle that information in a way that …
/r/askMRP28/05/17 01:54 PM
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Are you trying to gain muscle or lose fat? If the former, don't do cardio, if the later, do cardio. Opened a can of worms right here I'd counter it should read like this: Are you trying to gain muscle or lose fat? If the former, do some cardio, if the later, do even more cardio. The heart's a muscle that needs to be strengthened too. I think people should view skipping cardio like skipping leg day.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 05:21 PM
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She she she. Dude. The whole point of all of this is are about you and your actions more and to care about her actions less. If you bitch to her, try to catch her in a "gotcha" moment, you're living in her frame. Is this woman as good as any other? If so, stay the course. Stop giving a shit. Live your life. If she wants to be in it, great for her. Is she more trouble than she's worth? Next her. Any other course of action is female games.
/r/askMRP20/05/17 01:12 PM
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"It's everyday with this guy!" "Actually it's twice a day, but I know you're busy so I out source"
/r/askMRP20/05/17 12:47 PM
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Next her. Yeah, you'll be blowing up your life over shit that happened 20 years ago that you didn't even know about. You're kids will think you're crazy. Everyone's life will be turned upside down. But it's about sending a message In case it isn't obvious. Fuck no. What the fuck. THERE IS NO SOP. It's about you and what you want. What do you want to do with this information. Do you want to be a butt hurt beta faggot that's upset over something your special snowflake did 20 years ago? Or do you w…
/r/askMRP20/05/17 12:31 PM
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Growing up, we called this the woods effect. After a few weeks in the wilderness, you lose SMV calibration and 3s look like 6s, 6s look like 10s. Beware the woods effect. Happens in reverse too. My sister in law and separately one of my cousins both went to all girl colleges, and didn't date a lot due to low supply. As a result, when they got out of college and were flooded with men back in the real world, they each married the first loser to show real interest in them.
/r/askMRP17/05/17 03:16 PM
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Dude. Every time you set a boundary, you're wife breaks it, and then you move the boundary. You ARE NOT heading in the right direction. You're wife is steam rolling you. You aren't leading, you are following. You aren't acting. You are talking. You need to get your chemicals and your mind right. I don't know how to tell you to do that, but you shouldn't really trust anything until you're confident it's not the crazy talking. I suggest you just STFU until that time. Lift. Read. STFU. For like 6 m…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 08:28 PM
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Wwwwwoooorrrrddddssss
/r/askMRP12/05/17 07:32 PM
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Step 1. Defend I don't have any problems with my wife Step 2. Excuse Again, you fucking nit wits assume that everyone in this sub was/is a fat ass looser who gets no pussy from his wife. Step 3. Explain Do you know why you assume that? Because that is why you are here Step 4. Rationalize It's not all about you, snowflake. Now take your butthurt somewhere else. Your Alpha outshines us all
/r/askMRP12/05/17 07:07 PM
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Yes, yes, wonderful. More words.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 07:05 PM
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More words, more words, please please. Explain more, please!!!!
/r/askMRP12/05/17 05:05 PM
1

You talk a lot. Please tell me more with your words how Alpha you are. The more you talk and explain to me how Alpha you are, the more convincing. Have you tried explaining to your wife in many many words that you are Alpha now and she should take you seriously?
/r/askMRP12/05/17 04:28 PM
1

Fat logic. No judgement, it's common enough. You want to reduce your body fat percentage. If you are building muscle, you are reducing your body fat percentage even if you don't lose ANY fat. Also, if you're CICO, eating fewer calories than you are burning every day, then you aren't going to add weight. At best, if you're obese, you'll convert your weight from fat to muscle. More likely is you help maintain the muscle you already have WHILE you lose weight.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:41 PM
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Dude, I get where you are coming from, but you're a beta faggot for responding with things like Does anyone on this sub read past the title? That's some butthurt right there. You need to work on not giving a fuck. Basic sidebar.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:27 PM
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FYI - I'd say the MRP community is pretty split on masturbating, right down the middle. NoFap is a tool in a toolbox that can be used, but may not be the right tool for the job in every situation.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:23 PM
1

I too, am a fast finisher. There's a lot of great tips in here that I'm going to use, but here's a couple of things i current am seeing improvement from: 1)Being in better shape. Almost certainly from squats. Probably helping that pelvic floor people are talking about. 2)Have sex more often. Prerably twice a night (not every night, of course). You need down time of course, 15, maybe 20 minutes. Shouldn't take too much longer than that. Give your wife a massage in that time. Then roll her over an…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:20 PM
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No shits about it: I buy a lot of clothes at the Goodwill in the gay section of town. It's like having my own personal shopper. Every time I go I walk out with at least a dozen barely worn Banana Republic shirts. But my personal style is hipster yuppie, so YMMV.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:13 PM
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I agree with the general sentiment that this a a problem of oneitis, but I want to comment on one other thing. Do you really think that you're words can keep your wife from fucking this guy? "No honey, don't see him, pleaasseee". "Ok, Brad. I'll only fuck Chad behind your back." If you're wife is fucking him or going to fuck him, there's really nothing your words can do about it. Lead through actions. Become more fuckable than Chad. Right now, you aren't. You aren't someone women want to be with…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:01 PM
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Failed leadership all around. Why do your dogs run? Why don't they stop when called? Train your dogs. You're beta bitch even to your dogs if they don't kowtow when Human Master calls. Depending on how old your dogs are, that's more or less challenging. Easier to establish yourself as Alpha when they are young, but not impossible as they get older. Be the Alpha of your pack. Lead your dogs. Dogs are easy to train. Practice your Alpha behaviors on them. Basic behaviorism. Reward postive behavior. …
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:39 PM
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Listen, MRP is about fixing men, not fixing women or relationships. I know nothing about you and your journey because all you wrote about was her, so I have to make some assumptions. Dread game is about fixing men. It's about getting what's good for you and your life. It's not about fixing your relationship or getting your woman to kowtow to your will. Sometimes you reach level 12 and the relationship dissolves. Either your woman follows you or she doesn't. Doesn't mean you failed. It means you …
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:48 PM
1

Next to your kid...
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:16 PM
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Your post rambles on like a woman sharing her feelings. Jesus man, lay it out there. What are you asking? Are you looking for validation from us to marry your 22 y.o. girlfriend? Permission? In life, if you're asking for advice, you need to make it clear what your actual question is. Nobody has time to have a conversation with you as you ramble. State the facts, and state a clear concise question.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:11 PM
1

You caveman'd your wife with your kid sleeping next to you?
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:06 PM
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MRP Truth right here: MRP is not "If you do these things then your wife won't get angry." MRP is "If you do these things, you will no longer care if and when your wife gets angry" Do not try and bend the spoon, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth...there is no spoon. Then you will see it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
/r/askMRP02/05/17 08:23 PM
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Mods need to give this guy a cool down. He's posting every 48-72 hours. Either a troll or needs time to focus on reading and implementing. We need to stop spending time on this guy until he takes responsibility and initiative for himself. He's either a troll or he's looking to move from his wife as Alpha to an internet group as Alpha. Either way, he's a fucking beta faggot that doesn't deserve your time. Two days ago I told this guy to take 7 days to think for himself. Beta faggot that he is PM'…
/r/askMRP30/04/17 12:58 AM
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You may not be ready to say this, but your wife is an alcoholic. She doesn't just drink a little too much...she's an alcoholic. You cannot fix an alcoholic. You cannot control an alcoholic. You cannot convince an alcoholic. If your wife is to cut back drinking, she will have to own it. You need to set boundaries related to you and the kids. "If you drink, you are not allowed to drive." "If you drink and are verbally abusive or shorter with the kids than when sober, you will need to leave their p…
/r/askMRP28/04/17 02:25 PM
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Then you have already failed. Leave this place in shame. You need to become your own man, not someone else's. Otherwise you will always be a beta faggot.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 10:28 PM
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1) Text your wife and say y'all can talk tonight. And then you bring it up when you get home. Lead the conversation, but mostly just STFU and let her talk. Don't DEER - Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize. Shut the fuck up. Own your shit. You've been acting unattractive and controlling. Accept responsibility for that. Don't explain your actions. Don't defend. When she says "You XYZ" you say "Yes, I did that and I will think about how those actions affect our relationship" and then you repeat th…
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:48 PM
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Got to say, all the stupid ass suggestions to turn every fight into some sort of stupid pick up line are retared. You might as well just whip your dick out, wag it in her face, and think you're cool for doing so. This woman does NOT see him as the prize. She does not respect him. She does not want him. And at best his behavior recently has been extremely unattractive. For him to turn a simple request to have a conversation into a childish request for sex is really pathetic at this point in his j…
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:40 PM
1

"Do you have a problem with that?"
/r/askMRP26/04/17 08:32 PM
5

If the dry dock fits....
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 12:38 PM
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Do it all for you. Your wife will follow, or she won't. But if she follows, she will follow, not pace.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 12:38 PM
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I read your edit. You cannot fix someone, and you cannot fix an addict. You cannot discipline them. You cannot do anything for them. Addicts only recover because they choose to. Trying to fix an addiction is the deepest pit in the world to fall into. An addict that hasn't chosen to for themselves to seek recovery will fail you and betray you every time. You cannot take responsibility for an addict. It will take you down. You will lose.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 11:32 PM
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My parents divorced when I was 6. I'm kind of fucked up cause of. Like, 1st world problems fucked. As in I complain cause my parents hated each other and made me communicate between them. So like, stupid shit fucked up. My wife's mom is a hard core alcoholic and her dad was a drunk (the difference in this situation is that her mom was a sad/depressed/suicidal alcoholic, and her dad was a good-times/fun guy alcoholic. He'd get drunk, pass out, and go about his life. Her mom would get drunk and do…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:53 PM
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She knows I'm serious when I say I'll divorce her for this shit and she still does it. The fact that you are still married to her SHOWS that she knows you ARE NOT serious that you will divorce. The cognitive dissonance in your statement makes my head want to explode. I want to reach through the computer and slap you silly. Kick your wife out. Send her back to her parents. Send her to the Intown Suites. Who cares. Get rid of her. Tell her y'all can talk again when she's 6 months clean. Maybe she …
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:46 PM
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The point is to become the prize. For you to believe you are the prize, and for her to realize it. When she realizes you are the prize, she will see what you expect out of life. She will see what she needs to do to "earn the prize". So if you're expectations, that you clearly and without butthurt communicate, are that y'all fold the clothes in a timely manner, than over time, she will see that as an action she has to take on in order to win the prize. But it takes time and a LOT of hard work on …
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:18 PM
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This will be really hard for you, but I'd advise that you do not go to the hospital. You're wife needs to be responsbile for her behavior. This sounds like co-dependence. Your wife is letting this happen. You reenforce her behavior by giving her attention, i.e. going to the hospital. I mean, seriously, she has to take pills so that she doesn't have to be rushed to the hospital....that's not on you man. That's not your problem. That's a huge fucking compliance test on her part. Testing you to mak…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:12 PM
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I think throwing your wife's white board away would be a good sympbolic gesture. Do it in front of her. Make a statement. "Honey, this doesn't work for you, I [your captain] can see that. From this day forward you will have no white board, I will find a better way" and throw it in the trash can. The $5 it takes to replace the white board for your own personal use would be worth the leadership points you get in return.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 07:04 PM
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Dude, part of stepping up and being a man is learning to fix yourself. I don't know you. I only know the little you've written. Therefore I can't, no one can, possibly tell you what to do. You need to take the tools and apply them to yourself. You are the only one who can implement this in your life. To go from your wife leading you, to some internet strangers leading you, is no progress. You'll still be a whiny beta bitch. You need to read theory, and apply it to yourself and your own circumsta…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:57 PM
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STFU. Lift. Work your dread. Own your shit. Dishes need doing? Do them. Clothes need folding? Do them. Toilet needs cleaning? Do it. That's you. That's where you live. Fix you and in so doing instill in your wife a sense that you do not need her, and in so doing you will no longer need her. That you are a whole man without her, who lives a life of abundance and fullfillment, who is responsbile. Who is the prize. Who women, all women, want to fuck. Who all women want to be with. This will take mo…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:54 PM
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Dude, you aren't attractive to your wife. I don't know how to tell you what all is unattractive about you, but your wife clearly doesn't respect you. She thinks she can phone it in, because she's got you. You aren't going anywhere. Why should she work so hard? You need to work your levels of dread. Your wife needs to see (not be told) that you have options. That you are desirable to other woman, that she has to work to keep you. You say you lift, dresss nice, whatever...that's fine, if you think…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:48 PM
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I would work your levels of dread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ At least one month per level for every year of LTR. At least. Fix yourself. Honestly, you are the problem. Not her. Even if she IS the problem, you can't fix her. You can only fix yourself. Fix yourself. Maybe she'll follow. If not, after you work the levels, you'll know whether it was you that is/was the problem(and is not fixed) or if she is the problem and you'…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:44 PM
2

I reiterate that your behavior is really unattractive. I'm surprised if this woman isn't thinking that she'd be happier with Chad. Are you working your dread game by the levels? How's your lifting? Do you love this person you are? Do you want to be a micromanaging bitch? Work your dread. Find out who you want to be. She'll follow or you need to next her.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 06:30 PM
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Actions, not words. Your wife did not agree to this plan. She said yes, but her actions say no. Are you a man she should follow? Cause your whole rules thing sounds like you're a micromanaging butt hurt captain. I wouldn't want to work for you. You don't inspire me. No wonder she doesn't want to follow you, you lead with the stick (punitive action). And she probably definitely doesn't want to fuck you. Your behavior is unattractive as fuck. You should read "How to Win Friends and Influence Peopl…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 05:19 PM
2

Ignore this guy. BP Shill.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 05:11 PM
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The road to recovery is hard, because I'll tell you flat out the most important step is accepting that all of this is on you. It's your fault. Your responsibility. You control what happens in your life. You are not a victim. When you can accept that, when you internalize that, you will begin to be a whole man again. This here, your post, is pure victim puke. You get one. Now it's over. You're. O longer allowed to post as a victim. Post as man on control of his life. Post what you're gonna do abo…
/r/askMRP23/04/17 02:40 PM
1

Sure, maybe, but the girl slept with 3 people including a 3 year LTR from the age of 15-18. OP says two of the dudes were between LTR #1 and when she started dating OP a few months later. That's fine, but that girl did some fucking.
/r/askMRP22/04/17 12:28 PM
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Dude, what you want is not what this place is for. You want to fix your wife. Read this clearly: You cannot fix your wife. You can only fix yourself. Read that again. You seem to think that if you fix your wife that your life will be great. That's a unicorn. Pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. You'll always be chasing that. It's unobtainable. It'll always be just out of reach. It's the wrong goal because it's unrealistic. You need to fix yourself. You are the only problem you have the power to …
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:32 AM
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Troll post. Dude says he wants 6 kids....but posted last year about his vasectomy and how he's known his whole life hat he didn't want kids. Lock thread, ban user, move along please.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 02:28 PM
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Honestly dude, it sounds like you've got it all figured out. Not even sure you why your posting this, you could teach us jerk offs a thing or two. My advice: try to get married as soon as possible. Maybe in the next year. There's no such thing as a quality woman, so just pick one that you're attracted to. Get married. Probably best to have at least one kid before med school. 6 is a lot, best to get started early. I think you'll be able to handle the rest. Your intuition seems better that all the…
/r/askMRP19/04/17 02:18 PM
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FYI part of your problem is that you sir, are MAJOR beta bucks. You make $125k, and you pay for your 23 yr old hot wife to drive a 40k car and you pay for a child that is neither yours nor hers to live with you. You pay all living expenses. Do you also pay for your wife's school? You're really setting yourself up here. Why the hell does she drive a $40k car that you pay for? What do you think is gonna happen when you wake up and stop paying for such extravagant shit? Shes gonna leave your ass. W…
/r/askMRP16/04/17 09:10 PM
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This is some stupid shit. At best this belongs in /r/askmrp A)Scripted show B)you know jack all about them. You only know what they choose to share in the public, in order to get you to care and watch their stupid shit. He looks beta? What does that even mean. This sub is filled with guys that are completely shredded, who "look Alpha" but are major beta bux. It's more than looking Alpha or beta. It's behaving Alpha or beta. For all anybody knows, she Might just be letting the entire cast of WWE …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/17 02:57 PM
3

I think your point by is strong, but your analogy is terrible. There's plenty of three wheeled vehicles, including autos. It's just not the majority.
/r/askMRP13/04/17 12:54 AM
1

"Just more cushion for the pushin', honey"
/r/askMRP12/04/17 03:46 PM
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Reassurance?!? What the fuck! I hope to Christ that you are a troll and then I fell for you big time. If you just posted in a fucking red pill sub Reddit asking for Beta ass pussy reassurance… Jesus Christ. Get the fuck out of here. Read the sidebar. Hit the gym. Shut the fuck up.
/r/askMRP07/04/17 06:34 PM
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Basically, your victim puke makes you come across as a shithead father. It makes it sound like you'er half assing being a SAHD. I'll tell you, if you aren't rocking that shit, it won't take long for your wife to find Chad. Tell you what I'd do to be the most Alpha fucking stay at home dad: if your daughter is older than 1, no screens for anybody 8-5. Not for you, not for your kid. Ok, maybe you can have some screen time during naps. Actually, in my house my kids (all under 6) don't get screen ti…
/r/askMRP07/04/17 03:53 PM
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This is such a piece of shit low effort post that I don't think your even ready to be on the training wheels sub. You haven't internalized the sidebar, probably haven't read any of it. Haven't read the top posts. Aren't owning your shit. Totally living in her frame. Writing in her frame. You think you're Alpha and probably think you already know all that sidebar shit. You ain't to pussy ass beta like those fucks that feel like they actually need to read that shit. Stop talking about her. You're …
/r/askMRP04/04/17 01:20 AM
2

I've also wondered if dual income households have had an effect on inflation where more income potentially leads to less price sensitivity. When in turn leads to OP's article, where for many families it is now financially difficult to be a one income family, because COL is too high in the area they live.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/17 05:58 PM
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You've got to teach your kids to be respective and what is appropriate behavior. Their mother is an adult responsible for their care. It might suck, but they need to follow her rules when I'm her care. Also just makes it easier for them. Teach them to Fog until their 18 and don't have to deal with her anymore. As far as coming around, it worked for me. Parents divorced when I was 6. My mother bad mouthed my dad every day, in fact almost 30 years later (and almost 10 years since he died), she sti…
/r/askMRP27/03/17 10:10 PM
3

If you're not in a locality that allows one party consent, then make an effort to document everything. Take notes. Right down what you said/what you agreed to. Date it. Fuck, even provide her with a copy. But document your conversations. And don't meet privately/one on one with her. If you do, do it in a public place. Always have people around so she can't accuse you of abuse.
/r/askMRP27/03/17 05:43 PM
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That's balls of steel. Well done. Regarding your wife, I think you're doing the right thing. She's fucking crazy. You put up boundaries and she broke them without hesitation. Get the fuck out of there. Be free from that. Improve your life. Move on. Don't forget that improving your life requires more than just ditching your marriage. You need to fix yourself. Remember, the reason you married her and the reason she went full bitch is because of you. It was your fault. You were the problem. But als…
/r/askMRP27/03/17 05:40 PM
2

Judging your own progress can be tough, especially if you have a long way to go. As part of trying to figure out what's going on, I recommend you take and record some body measurements. Your gym can probably measure your BF% and BMi for you so it's not guess work. Also measure your waist at the belly button. You could do the whole navy method if you want. Measure thighs, arms, etc... See where those go over the next month of working out and recording your calories. On the calorie note, if you ar…
/r/askMRP25/03/17 02:07 PM
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You need to work the levels of dread, at least one month for every year of marriage. They are a really solid plan, because they simultaneously work to two contradictory outcomes. 1) Your marriage, life, and sex life improve or 2)Via the levels of dread you confirm that your marriage is not worth staying in. At the top level, you are both emotionally, financially, and physically prepared to exit your marriage and begin fresh knowing what you want, how to get it, and having the skills to do so.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 02:06 PM
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Whenever I see "losing weight", it sounds like they want a prize. "I'm down to 25% BF from 28%, why isn't she fucking me yet?" Losing weight isn't a goal. It's a path.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 02:02 PM
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My guess is OP's wife is an older, therefore less hot, version of her sister. OP doesn't have to worry about Chad, cause Chad's already banging the hot one
/r/askMRP21/03/17 01:17 AM
2

Couldn't be more obvious if you shoved a red hot poker up OP's urethra
/r/askMRP20/03/17 10:25 PM
1

I come to a different conclusion. Am I the Buddha? No. Then I haven't reached enlightenment yet, and therefore I study as men should. Am I Arnold? No. Then I workout, as men should.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 08:08 PM
1

Maybe you don't shit in front of her, but do you hide the fact that you shit? Probably not. DNGAF includes not being embarrassed to say "leave me alone, I'm taking a shit" Same for the books "I'm reading a self improvement book, move along"
/r/askMRP17/03/17 08:06 PM
1

Agreed on that front. To many women, terms like "manosphere" or "red pill" (to those that know), are basically triggers to shut off any small amount of rationality or objectivity they previously had. Along the lines of MRA stuff. Even mention that you think MRA has some points, and you might as well be a domestic abuser.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:54 PM
1

For the sake of conversation, how do you reconcile that in NMMNG Dr. Glover recommends performing certain exercises in the book with your SO? He recommends kind of sharing the journey, within context of the book, with your SO.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:49 PM
1

To hide your actions is cowardly, beta behavior. That's literally part of reading NMMNG. It's in the first book that's recommended in the sidebar. Dr. Glover recommends having conversations with your SO about things in the book and how they relate to you. Have you even read the book? The sidebar? Hiding your actions is the opposite of owning your shit. OP absolutely handled this situation great. Your default answer should be "it's a self improvement book." If she wants to know more, fine, but 9/…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:45 PM
5

Honestly, without context of where you're at in your MRP journey, this is a not-as-whiny-as-usual victim puke. Where are you in the side bar? Are you owning your shit at home and at work? Are you working your Dread levels, what level are you on and how long have you been doing it? What's your BF%? Your wife dislikes you. At early dread levels, that's because you're unlikeable. At later dread levels, that's because y'all's time together is coming to an end. Are you likable? Are you attractive? Ar…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:33 PM
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Lot of people complaining about your wife and telling you to "Tell her once". I swear these people should not be allowed to post. Blame her. She's the problem. Fix her. WTF. Have these people even read the sidebar? This isn't a shit test. This is your wife leading. Dude, you're not the captain. You're the problem. You can't tell her shit. She's the boss. If you want to change that, you need to lead. Actions, not words. You're business sucks, you're a financial drain, it sounds like she's working…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:52 PM
2

Sure, OP's wife will lose a chunk of change, but OP will still end up with the shittier life after a divorce. They'll split the assets, but OP will then struggle to pay all his bills cause he runs a failing business at 60 years old when it's nearly too late to do anything else. OP's wife would lose 1/2 her retirement, but she'd cut loose the noose around her neck which is a BP husband that's a drain on her finances.
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:49 PM
1

Read halfway through before realizing this wasn't about eating pussy. Still not convinced it's not. This has got to be a troll post cause, cause if it isn't about eating pussy, then it's too fucking beta not to be a troll.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 01:28 AM
2

NMMNG is definitely the best introduce book. There's a lot of recommendations outside of RP circles for that book, so it's less likely to dissuade him if he googles it.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 01:24 AM
4

I think you're struggle is a case of Oneitis. You think you're wife is your special snowflake. She's your princess, and you don't want anyone else to have her. You should read The Rationale Male very soon. You're wife is not yours. You are not hers. Y'all are just two individuals who happen to be sharing an experience together right now. And maybe you're the only one fucking her at the moment. What you need to teach yourself is who gives a shit if she's riding Chad? If you aren't there, you need…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 02:35 PM
4

Troll post. No way you post here complaining ING about and also post a clip in gone wild for Karma. Troll
/r/askMRP05/02/17 01:32 AM
4

Dude, that's pipe dream scenario. That's like saying I'm gonna quit my job, cause best case scenario I win the lottery tomorrow. Realistic scenario if OP files: OP gets "joint" custody on time, but OP's wife is legal chief decision maker and responsible for financial stuff, where OP had to figure out how to pay a few hundred a month in child support. OP is a broke dead beat loser, so he gets stuck working labor or retail shit jobs with terrible hours and shit pay. He can't afford child care when…
/r/askMRP04/02/17 05:54 PM
2

Now if this would have been the year 1500, I would have thunder-slapped her into eternity for disrespecting Overly harsh Captains soon find themselves marooned.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 08:45 PM
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Totally on board with this, just want to make sure OP knows you aren't advocating OP telling his wife that he's the boss so it doesn't matter if she's smarter. Acta, no verba. Be the captain, you're actions will show it.
/r/askMRP02/02/17 07:55 PM
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Sounds like you're son is gonna get a lot of pussy, unless he picks up his dads need for validation from internet strangers. Hopefully he doesn't follow your example, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 04:28 PM
4

I haven't been with a tone of women, but I've been with enough and lived enough life to be able to say that N-count doesn't matter. For you or for her. You could fuck 25 women and they all be terrible in bed. But hey, you're N-count my is 25 so you're awesome. You can also fuck one. Whether she's good on bed or not, if she's open to experimenting and figuring out what you like, then that sex will be way better than 25 chicks that have no idea what they're doing AND don't care to know. And who gi…
/r/askMRP31/01/17 12:53 AM
1

I should have prefaced my post by saying the religious nature of the conversation is a relevant to the main point. Like the character Lee, I am not a religious man. However, I agree that a story that is held dear by so many people can still have value even if you do not agree with the divinity within. The take away from the tale for me is that whether you considerate it God, karma, fate, destiny, the universe, or just plain life we can all find external elements to blame our failings on. The les…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 09:58 PM
1

Dude, you're post is insulting to every person here. Have you read any sidebar? Have your read the FAQ? Have your read NMMNG? TRM? Do you know what it means to DEER, FOG, A&A, AM, STFU? If the answer is NO to any of this, then you're putting zero work in, and you're a waste of our time. This is a place for men that willing to work to improve themselves. /askmrp and /mrp are here to help men that are willing to help themselves. By coming in here and posting this stuff, you're demostrating you are…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 06:24 PM
1

And OP should apologize for initiating, that he will follow his wife's lead from now on for when to have sex
/r/askMRP25/01/17 06:18 PM
1

To me, it sounds like what you're afraid of is work. You want to get to quit working. And you can do that. But you'll slouch back into your beta self. The battle is wining your shit, which requires work. The thing is, the more you are in top of things, the smoother all those things go. You start building structures instead putting out fires. So in that way, it will get easier, but it will always be work.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 12:41 AM
3

Why do you read this sub?
/r/askMRP24/01/17 12:29 AM
-4

If you won't lift more and work you're dread game, and blame it all on her, then your forever beta---victim puking til the end of your life. Even if you divorce her, you'll always be the victim because you refused to accept responsibility. Therefore, you will never realize your alpha potential and you'll never have the life or sex you want. You've got to accept responsibility no matter what happens tomorrow.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 09:30 PM
14

This thread is bonkers. For all the owning this community does, there sure are a lot of people blaming OP's wife. This is OP's fault and there's a lesson here for everyone Be attractive, don't be unattractive Discussing politics is not sexy. It's not attractive. No matter your political ideology. I don't discuss with my customers and I try to limit it with my wife...and we share a lot of political opinions. It's just not a good topic. OP-unfortunately I think your options with this woman, at thi…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 07:32 PM
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Sure, but did your SO put up a pussy embargo?
/r/askMRP23/01/17 07:22 PM
6

I'm sure I'm not the first to say, but abundance mentally is about way more than women and sex. Abundance is having a full life, full of positive time. That everything you do is fulfilling and with purpose. That you don't waste time on bullshit. It's about exercising instead of Netflix-binges. Playing with your kids instead of your iPhone. And it's about OI: sex is nice, but it's not worth wasting time on.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 03:23 PM
10

Troll post. You post almost that exact same thing here yesterday. It's the same story almost Word for Word. Except yesterday it was "you" the "husband" in the situation telling the same story, word for word. I can't even begin to explain how much of a loser you are for making up shit to post on the internet for fake points.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 05:08 PM
1

Dude, totally wrong sub. The message you'll get here is "cucks gonna get cucked" RP theory doesn't support your lifestyle. By letting other men fuck you're wife, you're subjugating yourself to Beta-bux voluntarily and consciously. That's your choice, but you'll find little support here. Take it to /r/hotwife
/r/askMRP21/01/17 05:58 PM
2

You've got to stop blaming any of this on your wife. You can't change her. You can't fix her. All you can do is learn to lead. She'll follow, or she won't. Fix what you can, which is you. Stop focusing on things you can't change.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 05:37 PM
3

You're on the right track, but part of owning your shit, and being a man that women want to fuck, is having everything together. A man that women want to fuck and other men want to be isn't a slob. His house is clean and organized. No, it's not your responsibility to do it all, but you have to establish yourself as the leader before you can delegate. Right now, your wife is the leader. And you can't change that with words, only actions. You need to take back control of your house from your wife …
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:54 PM
3

What are your stats? Weight, Height, BF%? First off, be physically attractive. If you're over 20% BF, then STFU and LIFT. Next, what level of dread are you on? Do you dress nice? Are you going out with friends? Do you belong to a social or sports club of some kind? Finally, are you owning your shit. Is your house in order? Do you procrastinate on shit? Does your wife feel like you are a man-child? Keep working. If she's not fucking you, then you've got more work to do.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:49 PM
1

Here's how I view this situation: Where you fucked up is that you weren't owning your shit. Your house was a mess because you went to play time and didn't do your chores. You're behavior was that of a child, and Mommy is pissed about it. So I said "You know what, I'm tired. I'll do these tomorrow." Means: "I'm a big boy, I do what I want. I don't feel like doing these right now". I've heard those exact words coming out of my 5 year old. Listen, life is work. Shit has to get done. I don't care if…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:41 PM
1

That's a her problem. OP needs to focus on HIM and owning his shit. You're post is veiled victim puke. You need to read more sidebar.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:37 PM
3

The audiobooks of those are 21+ hours. Maybe OP's a fast reader, and doesn't sleep. Or he's a liar and a faggot.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:55 AM
2

I see two strategies: Lift. STFU. Read. Keep doing what you are doing. I do think that as your SMV continues to increase, she will get serious about this. After my wife had our second child, she didn't lose weight. She complained about it. With the first child, she was younger, didn't gain as much weight, and also got out of the house more. With the second child, her normal habits just weren't cutting it to lose the weight. I mean, I knew what was up. She was eating too much. Anyway, I'd had suc…
/r/askMRP19/01/17 07:32 PM
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Maybe there's a percentage of the population where CICO doesn't work....I seriously doubt that, but I'm willing to at least allow it for the point of discussion. And there may be better ways to hack/fine tune the body. But for most of the population, CICO is THE way to lose weight. There may be more you can do, but no one got fat from eating less calories than they burned everyday.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 07:23 PM
2

Dude, yes. I didn't read Catcher in the Rye until I was 20, and maybe I wasn't weird enough as a teenager or enough of an outcast, but on top of being mentally ill, Holden is just a fucking loser. Many people read the book and relate to it as this coming of age story about a different kind of person trying to find their place in the world. I really missed that point. I read the book cause it's one of those great pieces of literature that you're supposed to read, and I finished it and was just pi…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/17 07:13 PM
1

I'd give him NMMNG. It's mainstream enough that it's approachable. It'd be a good litmus test to see if he's ready. Give it to him. Ask him to read it, and tell him you'd there to talk about anything he finds interesting or relevant in the book. If he reads it and comes back to you piqued, then you can point him this way. If he doesn't take the step to read the book, then he's not ready.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 02:57 PM
2

To me, the best thing you could do is, when scheduled sex time comes make other plans, tell her you're no longer interest in scheduled sex. Don't DEER. State the situation. Then Go out. With her. With your buddies. By yourself. Doesn't matter. Leave the house during the regularly scheduled broadcast and be active and abundant. Maintain frame. Then, next night, initiate. Initiate whenever you want sex. Focus on OI. But in this approach. It's important to initiate the very next night. When you tel…
/r/askMRP19/01/17 02:20 AM
1

I'm a huge Steinbeck reader. Read The Grapes of Wrath last year, just reread Of Mice and Men before Christmas. East of Eden has been on my list for a while, and finally took the plunge. I'm about a third through it, and it's already beating my (high) expectations.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 08:51 PM
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You're not ready to post here. Go to /r/askmrp That's the place for me who think they are victims. This is a place for men who recognize they are responsible for their own lives and everything in them. When you've read the sidebar, and accepted that the failings in your life (including with your wife) are you're responsibility, come back here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/17 02:48 AM
1

I'm a newb on that front. You need to acknowledge and support her feelz without apologizing or taking responsibility for them. Please share any lessons you learn as you learn to accomplish that.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 07:04 PM
6

I'm no expert on comfort tests, but that's what it sounds like. You're wife is challenging you. She's seeing if Beta-you will come out to play. She's saying you make her feel guilty, cause she wants to see if Beta-Bucks is there to be an apologist. "Oh, I'm sorry honey. I won't be so sexual. I won't initiate. I won't seek what I want. You're my special snowflake." That's what she's playing at. Keep doing what you are doing. Not for power. Not for sex. But because you are a better you. You are li…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 02:30 PM
3

Like I said,you're the one that know for sure. But I repeat that I think you're time is too valuable for the repetitive.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:50 PM
9

I don't know man, that doesn't sound like a shit to test to me. Good for you, initiating, and having sex. And only you can be the judge, but the story makes it sound more like obligation sex, not true desire. It sounds like your wife just gave into you pestering her, not that she actually wanted to fuck you. To me, no does mean no. Meaning, you give me a verbal "no" then fine, I've got better things to do then to pester you until I get what I want like a bratty child. You say no, I move on. Abun…
/r/askMRP16/01/17 08:44 PM
2

Your wife has and always will talk to you and treat you with exactly the respect you have earned. Acta, non verba. If you have to tell your wife to treat/talk to you with a certain level of respect, it's because you haven't actually earned it. Lift. Read. STFU.
/r/askMRP15/01/17 03:07 PM
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I agree with the others. Scheduled sex is negotiated sex. It'll always be terrible as long as it's in your relationship, and it will prevent you from getting the love and sex you want. Cut it off. Tell her you're no longer interested in scheduled sex. And the next nigh initiate. Initiate every night. And don't get butt hurt, ever. Save it for the gym.
/r/askMRP14/01/17 01:44 AM
3

I think not telling her is behaving in a passive manner and beta. Next scheduled session, Op should say that scheduled sex isn't what he wants, so he's not gonna do it anymore. Not communicating and just doing something else is just passive aggressive. It turns his current efforts into one big covert contract. As men we need to own our shit, state what we want, and go after it. Directly.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 11:30 PM
3

I think you need to rewrite your post to really include some insightful elements that others can glean something useful from. As written, the TLDR is basically "Broke up LTR, had some sex" Which there's really nothing useful in that. Share some real red pill truths. "X Principal In Action" etc... You say you were trying to keep it short to keep it to the events of your life, but its totally useless as written. No one cares about what happened in your life over the past year. We're not your frien…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 07:26 PM
1

First: NMMNG (first week). Then continue the reading list. Second: Lift. STFU. Third: Initiate Sex every time you think about it. Get laid sometimes, don't other times. Do NOT get butt hurt. Don't do anything else, ANYTHING ELSE, for at least a month.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 04:32 PM
2

Jesus that's fucking terrible. I know why the men aren't involved, cause they are really children too, but it's fucking terrible. My Scout Master was a Ranger in Vietnam. Most of our leaders were also ex military. Many of our Eagle Scouts went on to military academies. How can Boy Scouts churn out leaders of men when run by women? A shame and a waste.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 02:42 PM
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My two bits of feedback on dating models Any given day they are really 6s or 7s, but because they can get done up and be 9s or 10s, they think they are 10s all the time. 2)My one LTR with a model: she was pretty childish. Not bratty, just just generally behaved like a tween all the time. I felt less like a boyfrind/captain and more like her dad. AM was pretty much my default/full time disposition. Good for fucking, but really not intellectually stimulating. Needed to seek that elsewhere.
/r/askMRP12/01/17 08:46 PM
5

I can't speak more highly of the Boy Scouts as a great program for boys to learn to be men. BUT, you, the father, must be involved. The design of Boy Scouts is amazing, but the execution can be a Beta factory. Strong male role models are needed to make sure your son learns the proper lessons and follows the proper examples. Most male adults I'm around are pretty worthless when you it comes to anything that's outside their comfort zone, or that doesn't go according to The Plan (as defined by the …
/r/askMRP12/01/17 05:52 PM
1

I just want to make sure you've noted the warning that dread game during pregnancy can be fatal to a marriage. It makes since to me to avoid dread game during pregnancy. Most of RP is based on understanding of female hypergamy. Pregnancy is a post-mating scenario. It's uncharted territory. Hormonally speaking, females have accomplished their task. Using the same tactics is unlikely to net the same results. I'd seriously stick to dread 1&2 until at least 6 weeks after baby is born. That'd be a go…
/r/askMRP10/01/17 02:59 PM
17

Listen, I say this because I care. You're such a waste of space right now. You are a loser. You think there's shit wrong in your life and that it's everyone else's fault. You're so sure that it is everyone else's fault that you thought you could post here and some guys on Reddit could fix it for you without you putting in any work, cause surely it's somehow our fault too. It's everyone's fault but yours, right? Wrong. It's all your fault. Everything you dislike about your family and you're wife …
/r/askMRP06/01/17 05:59 AM
0

Serious question: why do you even subscribe to this sub?
/r/askMRP05/01/17 10:22 PM
3

Why the fuck are you with this girl? You're not beta because she hit you. You're not beta because she spit in your face. You're beta because you have no abundance. I don't know what any of her good qualities are, but there are thousands of women out there that have all of her good qualities, and who DON'T spit it someone's face like a fucking animal. Next her. It's time.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 03:02 PM
4

You are in the right place. And you're about to get your teeth kicked in. Stop blaming this shit on your wife, your genetics, your life. Stop blaming external factors. You're life is your own. It's on you. If it sucks, that's you're fault. If you're married to a woman that treats you like shit, that's your fault. Own your shit. By owning your shit you learn that it's your fault, and therefore within you're power to change. Guess what, fucker, you're wife can do better than you. You're an awkward…
/r/askMRP03/01/17 02:51 PM
1

I know the sidebar No you don't. You know it's there. You know it's this thing you're supposed to read. Maybe you've even skimmed it. Maybe you bought NMMNG. Maybe you read. But you don't know it. You clearly haven't internalized anything, and it's pretty clear from your post that you aren't doing even a quarter of the shit you're supposed to be doing. STFU. Say it out loud. STFU. You aren't ready for anything else. If you're wife bitches. If she yells. If she says no to sex. If she does anythin…
/r/askMRP02/01/17 01:56 PM
2

I have two thoughts on this: 1) if you're hiding from your wife, you're a pussy living in her frame. If you want to go, own your shit. Tell your wife what you're doing and why. Fuck man, if you're leading gore family, you're wife might start taking stripped classes. 2) To me, my sexual energy is my fuel. It's 4 more reps, one more set, an extra plate. It's flirting with that 26 yer old hot chick in my office. It's owning my shit. If you go and waste it at a strip club, it's just a waste. Now, I'…
/r/askMRP31/12/16 03:30 PM
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This sounds like you aren't working you're dread levels. If you work the levels in the appropriate timing, you're wife will want to fuck you. Either that or you'll move on. Work your Dread.
/r/askMRP31/12/16 02:50 PM
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You've got a lot of work to do. Have you read the side bar? Specifically the Pre Reqs (especially NMMNG) and The Rational Male? If not, STFU with your wife, lift, and read those books. Don't do anything else until you've read those. You're post is full of beta shit. You've been indoctrinated by the feminine imperative. Almost all of us were or have. I get where you're at, but you need to reframe things. You're living in her frame. I can't talk to her about this as it would signal the beginning o…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 05:48 PM
1

The senior users have already given you the resources you need. They are listed in the sidebar. You can't boil this shit down into a two paragraph reddit comment. You've got to actually work for it. You've got read real actual books. The number one thing is to read the side bar. Not just the words posted on the side of your screen, but the actual books, articles, and guides. Read them all. They will take you a long time. It will be work. The senior users have already done what you are asking. It…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 05:30 PM
1

I'll tell you, even on /r/askmrp, you need to be doing your reading. Posting questions that are covered in the course pre-reqs and the RP 101 texts is really low effort. It's still engagine in Beta behavior, you're just wanting to follow and be told what to do by other men instead of your wife. God helps those that help themselves. Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tamassi. He goes into more detail about Shit Tests that the illimitablemen post...what they are, how to identify them, and an introduc…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 05:26 PM
1

Move it over to /r/askMRP That's the place for beginners. You won't get eaten alive over there. This place is for once you graduate.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 05:21 PM
1

Just read that other post. I still suggest you spend some time thinking about the differences between being an emotionally secure masculine Alpha, and being a whiny bitch beta. It seems like you think you've got to go all Spock to be Alpha, which is far from the case.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 04:14 PM
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This type of post this belongs over on /r/askmrp. I see that you post over there occasionally, so I can only assume posting on the main sub was an accident. You're still behaving beta as fuck that I can behave as I wish and not explain everything to her and this is how I feel lile being now Are you a petulant child? Are you a teenager? These are the statements of a child standing up their parents and insisting that they are adults and they stay out as late as they want. Action, not words. How mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 03:08 PM
2

This kind of bullshit should be kept internal. Think it. Don't say it.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 07:00 PM
4

This is why I like something like Mint or YNAB. It's some up front work, but once set up properly, it's easy and quick to do an instantaneous review of where you are financially vs where you should be. I can see trends by category (power bill, groceries, fast food vs sit-down) and quickly see when something is deviating from budget or where there's an opportunity area. I make plenty of money, so whether or not the power bill is up one month vs last month is not of concern. Instances are fine. Tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 07:23 PM
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As captain, I delegate day to day responsibilities of financial management to my first mate. I drive long term strategy like investments and large purchases like homes and vehicles. But paying the gas bill? My time is too valuable for that. My wife brags that she manages our finances. Which is funny to me, because she manages our checking account, $5000 or less. I manage our net worth ($750k).
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 07:02 PM
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The point is, women don't want to fuck a man because he deserves it. Many women will give you occasional starfish sex because they feel lik you deserve. "You Deserve It" sex is basically duty sex, obligation sex, pity sex. It's not fucking and they aren't excited about it. They want to fuck a man because they want to fuck him. Become a man women want to fuck, and then your wife will want to fuck you.
/r/askMRP27/12/16 06:53 PM
1

Read the books. Not just one or two. And not just a few chapters. Read. And then read some more. And then go back and read again books that were particularly helpful and enlightening. Dread takes months or years. Start working the levels, which includes recommended reading. Not all of the reading will be relevant to you. Not every chapter will speak to you. But there will be nuggets in there. I'd suggest you read The Rationale Male and No More Mr. Nice Guy as soon as you fucking can. NMMNG is a …
/r/askMRP27/12/16 01:33 AM
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Fuck, you sound like a whiny bitch. If you sound even 10% like this to her, there's your problem. Fuck, man. Jesus. Which of the required reading have you done? If you haven't read The Rational Male, then STFU and go read it. I realize you're asking for help, but this is the best help you could hope to get. This journey is about you. You have to walk it. MRP can lead you to the path, but you've got to do the work.
/r/askMRP26/12/16 08:12 PM
1

Have you read the required reading? It doesn't sound like it.
/r/askMRP26/12/16 08:05 PM
2

The mistake OP is making is that he is analyzing his behavior in this situation as if that may or may not have been the problem. What you've astutely pointed out is that Alpha has-his-shit-together OP would never be in this situation, cause that Alpha version of OP keeps a tidy house because a man knows it's easier to keep track of his shit when it's in it's proper place, and because ones home reflects oneself. Pigs live in a pigsty. The failure in leadership wasn't how he reacted, it's that he …
/r/askMRP25/12/16 07:19 PM
1

I think that's an interesting alternative interpretation of the same behavior I'm experiencing. When I think about it, what I mean by I've noticed that failing a shit test invites more shit tests and of greater intensity. Is that the shit tests do become: progressively getting shittier and shittier and in the direction of bitchy, harpy, so-easy-any-man-with-a-spine should be able to pass this test I'll need to reflect on whether I agree she wants me to pass the shittier shit test. That would imp…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 08:34 PM
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Agreed. Should have made that more clear. Shit tests are going to happen. The strongest Alpha will still get get shit tested. Passing them more often than not precludes additional shit testing. But failing them invites more frequent and greater intensity shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 06:48 PM
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