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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Fashion?Wash face? Wdym? I'm supposed to do that? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 02:33 AM |
| 2 | "Making this clear, you know i'm still in high school right"Fucking worked, "also you didn't tell me your age :P" You are a gentleman and a scholar, good sir. Got a good reply for this one while you're at it? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | "Making this clear, you know i'm still in high school right"I'm gonna use the homework line in the next 5 minutes unless anyone has a better idea | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | "Making this clear, you know i'm still in high school right"18 | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do I care even after witnessing a thousand red flags?What does capping mean? I'm not familiar with any of the witchy stuff besides her being into tarot, crystals, and stupid Netflix shows. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Conflicting thoughts about trpIf you lay it down good enough, they come back but yes with a short term dating strategy you need to have a full funnel constantly, thats why alot of guys get burnt out of game very early. This is basically how I'm feeling, super burnt out already. Wanting fun/companionship while simultaneously not committing to these girls and not wanting to play the numbers game day in day out. The 80/20 thing makes a lot of sense, I'll remember that. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Conflicting thoughts about trpI don't think I'm a 9/10 chad, but I'm 5'9, white, attractive face, decent body so I feel firmly average/above average. I think it's definitely a frame/confidence thing, despite my work at self-improvement I sometimes fall into old habits and insecurities. The 80/20 thing makes a lot of sense, thanks for explaining that. I definitely went 100% redpill with these girls and I was too distant. Once again, wasn't trying to tie down these girls, but it's good experience for the future. I've taken ste… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Conflicting thoughts about trpYou switched external validation from your relationship to external validation from plates. I agree with this, I've been working on internal validation as opposed to external but sometimes it's a struggle. You're using red pill tactics to land a blue pill fantasy. Women see through this shit frame. That's why they don't stay. What's the blue pill fantasy? I wanted to get laid, boost my ego, and move on from my ex. I mostly succeeded. I was never trying to date these girls, I decided very early o… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Timeline for "oneitis"?We were together for 21 months. She's been feeling conflicted for a while but the breakup has been official for a week or two. I learned that oneitis is largely a biological reaction and that my ego is putting her on a pedestal in my mind. However, I truly do miss her for all the great things she did. She was great with my kid, she ran errands for me and helped me out a lot, she always had fun ideas and places for us to go, she was always there to talk to about anything and we really understood … | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Timeline for "oneitis"?Can you in explain in layman's terms how to do this? I'm 28 and I live with my parents. I'm working and saving money and building credit. I have a handful of really close friends but not a big social circle. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Timeline for "oneitis"?I really hope that I'm here laughing at myself very soon. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Timeline for "oneitis"?Idk how to meet bitches during corona and dating apps are cancer. Also my heart just isn't in it due to oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingThis is probably a stupid question but should I try reaching out and apologizing for spilling the beans | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingDefined in that term, my mission right now is to increase my earning potential. Hence the desire to switch to programming, where a lot of friends are making a lot of money. My friend who makes six figures doing programming recommended CSS and HTML at first since it's the basics. Then he said I can decide what to focus on and move on from there. I would need to talk to my dad about it more. We only briefly talked about it last night and I didn't get details. I've been lifting and running, the har… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingI've read the sidebar several times. I've been reading The Rational Male and Book of Pook. I'm 28, 5'9, 160 lbs. My mission at this point would be my kid who I have primary custody over. My financial situation is okay but not great. I make 45k a year. I have about 30 grand in savings and low expenses currently. I think I'm going to take a front end development bootcamp on CSS and HTML so I can make a career change into programming. My dad is going to link me up with his investor so I can i… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingI just discovered trp within the last two weeks. Please forgive my ignorance and mistakes. I truly want to be better so that I can understand the situation and not make the same mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingA little over a year and a half. My friend is fat and married so I highly doubt she likes him. She hates the job and has been getting interviews at new companies, but yeah maybe it's still up in the air and she doesn't want people knowing in case she ends up staying. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingI'm 28. We would communicate mainly on Whatsapp but also Snapchat and text occasionally. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingThere's nobody else at the job that she could be remotely interested in, everyone is either married or socially retarded or both. I'm leaning towards her valuing the job. Not really sure what to think or how to proceed. What are your thoughts on her screenshotting my Snapchat profile right before blocking me? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Ex reached out, and ended up blocking me on everythingDating coworkers is discouraged at our company so we both wanted to avoid having to go to HR or having to be switched so we aren't on the same shift. It was my initial idea but she agreed with it. The whole relationship was a secret, my friend had no idea until I told him. And I'm not sure about the last question, I was hoping for some insight here. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")This really helped, thank you | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")She's also a coworker. Any advice? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")Thanks for the pep talk. What you said makes a lot of sense. I recently started seeing my ex as mother material which makes this "i need space" crap sting even worse. I've been considering learning programming and have talked to several friends about it. Do you have any advice or recommendations for a good place to start? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")I'm not angry at her though, how would this work? What do I do with the paper afterwords? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")How much of this is biological and how much of this is reality (e.g. I fucked everything up, I lost my partner)? She hasn't blocked me and I assume she's going to reach out at some point. I wonder what the chances are she'll want to reconcile. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | In horrible pain ("oneitis")The thing is, I really want a family. How do I get to that goal while keeping relationships peripheral? I'm 28 and I feel old as fuck and I know the clock is ticking. What are some of your passions if you don't mind my asking? Thanks for the kind reply | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 03:38 AM |
| -1 | Was my ex BPD or did I just mess things up?Thanks for the reply. I actually thought BPD stood for bipolar disorder, not sure if that would change the essence of your reply. I'm new to TRP and all of these terms. Honestly nothing seemed inherently crazy about her, she was just really into me and then got mad and holds resentment towards me. I'm not sure if her asking for space is a "shit test" or whether her expressing her resentment towards me is "gaslighting". I'm really confused and I don't know how much is me and how much is her. I re… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How to tell her I'm going no contact?That's what I'm wondering | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 04:54 AM |
| -9 | How to tell her I'm going no contact?Will blocking her out of nowhere affect my chances of turning her into a plate or will it just make her hamster spin? I thought I could word it as "Hey if you're not interested in me anymore then I only want to talk to you at work, I have other things to do and I'm not gonna be just an option for you" | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Really sufferingWhy is she doing this though? We broke up before and she blocked me on everything... then ended up missing me and wanted to get back together. Why is she stringing me along? I've definitely learned my lesson about dating coworkers. It hurts so bad seeing her online every shift and knowing what we once had. Right now I can't even think about approaching new girls, I am really suffering and crippled with anxiety and paranoia and false hope. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 08:16 AM |
| 0 | Really sufferingHer messaging me tells me she might not be 100% on breaking up. It's really messing with me. And like I said I'm completely blackpilled on dating apps (I'm not the top 10% of guys) and everyone is stuck in quarantine. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 06:42 AM |
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