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| 2 | Girl does not start the talk and new plate appears, please advise | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 12:19 PM | |
| 2 | LTR cohabitation game | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 09:47 PM | |
| 2 | How to break the glass ceiling of sex performance | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:35 PM | |
| 1 | Improve my dancing skills | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 12:54 PM | |
| 1 | How to improve Immersion | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 10:19 AM | |
| 1 | Gut feeling she is not telling me something - should I confront | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 11:43 AM | |
| 1 | Anyone subscribed to headspace? What is your opinion? | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:06 PM | |
| 0 | How to deal with overprotective and manipulative father | audiotrack | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 01:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How do you guys handle not losing sense of yourself in an LTR?No More mr nice guy | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 05:24 AM |
| 8 | Stuck in a frustrating cycleAll this post is useless. Since none of us know you there is nothing we can do directly. You need to read books and sidebar and evaluate how much of a don Juan are you. Is your game good or cringe you need to ask yourself. Or talk to friend in person. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | SquattingHard but liberating. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | "Maybe"Personally I would treat it like a shit test. Being hurt and hard nexting will teach you nothing and you will get nothing in return and as I said personally I think this is not what she meant. Like real 'maybe maybe'. These words are too direct for a woman. If she wanted you get lost or smth she would have ghosted you or have played any other of their games. And keep in minds some girls can push pull too and have good jokes and shit. Don't you ever tease your bros? This would be the exact same t… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 07:50 AM |
| 4 | "Maybe"Dude do you have any sense of humour. It was a tease. Or you can hard next like a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 04:59 AM |
| 30 | How can I subtly slip my husband TRP?Cheat on him and he shall find us then. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Winning argumentsIf you are not somebodys BFF most likely nobody gives a shit about your opinion or what you are saying even when backed up by evidence. Maybe it is not logical but this is how it is. Look into meditations by Marc aurelius. Lots of stuff about accepting life as it is. Really recommend | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 07:09 PM |
| 6 | How do you not feel embarrassed when a girl doesn't reply to your message?Why not fuckin get busy with your mission to the point where you don't have time to open your messaging app | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | 4 dates no sex, should I break it off?You don't have good vibe if you pursue her romantically and she does not repricorate, it's in your imagination. With good vibes she could not resist your charm. Thing I quoted gave me a feeling that you were passive. So it should be: "I suggested to go to my place after, so she hoped we are going to have sex" . And first of all you should know before you take her home that sex is on the table. I have a feeling you didn't escalate and polarize her on the campfire. I you did it you would have know… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | 4 dates no sex, should I break it off?she suggested to go to my place after. i said okay and was thinking we would have sex now, but no she just wanted to make out and watch a movie. I dont know but that sounds greasy. Bubbles face. Should i explain? Or you explain it to me. How Old are you guys? Hard call i would hard next. Your city on lockdown should not fucking matter. If you dont have another girls this is another problem but should not stop you from having abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 5 | How do I manipulate a girl into losing weight?Delete this question ffs | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | LTR of 1 year said out of the blue shes unsure of her feelings for meYes but only if you See her face to face | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 2 | 4 dates no sex, should I break it off?And when you put her hand on your dick what did she do? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | How to make demands?Dont listen to guys who say you should not ask for nudes. Its a nice guy trait to have covert contracts and unspoken expectations. You are a fucking Man so tell her what you want. Personally i would not mind if my gf rejected my demand for nudes. Dont See how that could affect me in this abundant World. You are with her but you didnt swear commitment until death tears you apart. So drop her if she rejects and it is important to you. Also ask yourself a question whether you are the reason if she … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond to this shit test?She May be not the Type to suck dick. Just only your dick. I wouldnt bother replying cause you are in her frame. Hard to exit that if you are a noobie. Just talk to her usual and treat it like that never happened. Actions not words. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 18 | Shit tested by a girl.. did i hold my frame well?When you need to ask whether or not you passed a shit test... it means you failed it. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Slowly detaching from your LTRLets trace it back. I understand you live with her. Did you want to marry her in next 6 months since you moved in? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | First vacation with GF, what to look for, implement something else, test her etc.Have some alone shit Time in the morning. Agenda of the Day is breakfast, the go out until 3pm so for like 6-7 hours, go to hotel, shower then sex. Then nap. Dinner. Then shorter Tour for 1h30m then sex. Then drinks, dessert in the longue. Go to room then sex. Gg | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for guys who lift regularly to still have relatively underdeveloped hamstrings?My ass and hams are developed from deads and squats. Still i noticed huge improvement in these groups when i started deadlifting 200kg for sets and 160kg for sets. Squat x2 deads x2 per 8 days. For you x3. Hanging leg raise is core exercise. After deadlifts your ass should be on fire. But Yes it is common i only See so much of other dudes whose legs and glutes are bigger that non lifter. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 0 | I keep having boring first dates, advice on how to spice things up?Did you read book of pook? If you did you would think o la la! | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?Your dry spell does not matter you should act the same collected Way whether you have sex or not. Actually the longer you dry spell is the more you should be aware of your actions and challenge yourself if you are acting out of desperation. But Yes. Move on. Why move on? Judge actions not words. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 12:08 PM |
| 0 | LTR cohabitation gameThat way she risks losing both you and her home if she acts like a bitch. That part to me is already kind of over I tried and vetted her and only because she stood all my tests I decided to move in. I am not going to treat my LTR and take risk-free approach all the time I believe it's a way to nowhere really. I am totally fine with losing her if things goes shit, but to build something more we should make room for new stuff by not doing what we've been doing in the past. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | LTR cohabitation gameWe have been exclusive for 1,5 years and we've been meeting with each other usually at each other places. As far as I can tell to me she was and still is submissive, trustworthy and loyal, control emotions really well for a women and have some kind of self-reflection which is something I was looking for. We are now living together for 1 week. Basically me and she was tired of sleeping at each other places cause it makes us waste a lot of time and money for travelling. The timeline for babymaking… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 07:48 AM |
| 2 | LTR cohabitation gameI understand it but my goal is to have kids someday and I can't imagine having kids and don't live with a woman. It is something I want not something I was pushed to do. I understand RP as a tool to get what I want and I really don't care if living together is seen here as 'breaking the rule'. Just want to do it as right as it can be. I just found this article: https://theredarchive.com/archive/65353 Sounds like something I was looking for. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Girl keeps stopping making outSo what? Don't skip a step it never works. Polarize, Isolate, Escalate | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Approach to take for LTR in mind?Keep doing what you are doing this means keep initial level of investment + 10%. This means don't 'want to LTR her'. Meet with her, have fun with her, game her always and I guarantee she will be wet for you even more. When you suggest relationship, she will be dry. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | I sound desperateIf you internalized outcome independence you would not have been worried that you sound desperate. You would have just asked people for help whatever it is probably you need to have some common sense to not ask people to wipe your ass and you will be good. It could be also a trait of a nice guy that you assume covert contracts are placed on you if somebody help you. Give examples of situations where you think you sound desperate. Probably you are if you say so. I need help on regular basis and e… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 12:02 PM |
| 3 | How to get over bad days?It's anectodal evitence based only on my experience so feel free to dismiss Whenever I am training something with consistency like gym or piano, actually when bad days happen out of nowhere is a sign of progress. Then usually after a couple of days everything is better and I feel like I posses new skills or perform better | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 32 | Friend who turned me onto Redpill is getting jealousIdk where you got that part that he is jelaous. This is your narrative not his. I can totally imagine his narrative being like man this dude used to be Funny to be around and now woman is his mission and its boring and lame. You know its like when your friends have Kids all they speak about is their infants Why not talk to him if you care about that friendship? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this 2-in-1 Shit Test/Comfort test well with LTR?I trust you and thank you was not necessary. Landed 8/10 | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Cutting at a 800 calorie deficit. Recommended?How To Get Below 10% Bodyfat And Avoid Metabolic Slowdown (ft. Eric Trexler PhD) | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Froze on dateWhat do you like to do other than eating? Figure out and invite her to do it together. Dinner is so shitty date | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 06:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you stand out from the rest of the crowd when trying to get a hot girl?Book of pook has chapter about it. Tldr dont | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok to workout twice in a day?Go to r Fitness and post your bio, BASIC stats and exact plan you are doing to do. Or better try it and in two weeks you will know of ot works for you. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | First Post | Mentality FlawsDude this is no joke you literally have to read the sidebar and top books like book of pook. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 6 | An Ex-Alpha failing in life after a hard blow, need ADVICE!Idk what you expected when you rejected her marriange offer as she hit the Wall. Predictable as fuck But to the topic Get your life on track slowly and dont expect to reverse the damage in a week. In took months downward it Will take months upwards Right now you have negative momentum so you need to build positive momentum Go slow and small and you will See one good thing will lead to another Like what is this you cannot hit the gym? Because you are weak? You go run 0,1 mile if you cannot do mor… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop fucking my gf?this | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl I friendzoned months ago reached out and I told her to come over, she was here and had huge LMRf-close finally Of course you failed with that line of thinking. Of course she felt you are needy and only want sex from her and of course it was a turn off triggering LMR. You should not have to 'explain why' anything. You were butthurt because she had LMR and rejected sex so outcome dependence and insecurity reeks all the way. She saw your game was fake. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Situation with ltr. How did I handle?Feels like you had no patience aka no confidence. Seems like you were afraid you are not going to fuck her anymore. Why not tease her and turn her on i the morning the make her wait for the night? Answer to your question: 2/10 | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:57 PM |
| 16 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?After 'go have fun...' i would not respond to any message from her asking you to come. Basically 'i will let you know when i CAN meet with you' and ghost for the night. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Idk what to respond to thisIts read between the lines message. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 04:45 PM |
| 13 | What was I supposed to do when a guy touched my girl in front of me at a club?I imagine how you feel. It never feels good to let other guy "win" like that. However in my opinion you did very well and actually not doing anything that would escalate the conflict is what good Man does. 6 vs 1 does not work on your favor. Was there some security guy you could speak to about this disturbance? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Need girl adviceDon't tell her you like her neither in person nor via text. Don't listen to her excuses of being busy. Generally judge women by what she says. Your girl friend is no special. She proposed to party on New Year so then why you proposed to grab lunch in the meantime? In my opinion you should have go party with her but of course make plans on your own too so you have a "fallback". In general why would you do such boring stuff like lunch with a girl? From what you wrote in my opinion nothing is going… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | I have boundaries and I'm more assertive at a base level, but there's still situations where it's hard to know what the best move is. What would you have done in this situation? Any good tips for future situations?Sounds like When I Say No I Feel Guilty could help you. It reads like you didn't hold frame cause the dude did what he wanted not you. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 07:12 AM |
| 3 | LTR acting weird.Dread is something you do when she deserves it. Think of it as a kind of punishment type of things but not really cause you kind of act to make your life better not her life worse. And there are also levels of dread you should read up 12 levels of dread. It means you dont go nuclear and flirt with other girls in front of your LTR. But first thing she should deserve the dread first. Otherwise if everything is good Just you looking good and behaving like a Man should suffice. Your LTR See how othe… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 09:03 PM |
| 8 | You only want me for sexI could summarize but wont do it. Because then you wont read the book. And you should read that book. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | You only want me for sexAd gifts -> book of pook has the answer for you, I believe it is even in the early part of the book | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Shitting and farting as a RP manI am the same boat as OP. I dont live with my LTR so there is no problem there. If we are on vacation at the hotel after break fast i tell her to stay at the bufet and that I am going to USe the bathroom. Then I can enjoy the peace. When i am back she does the same. Otherwise me or her say to each other that we need to shit and since we both enjoy the comfort of shitting when no one is around the other person goes to the other room and put some music etc. I started that behaviour at Our first va… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else feel like shit if they miss a day or two of lifting in a week?Missing a day because you hamster yourself to not go even though you could -> bad Missing a day because family stuff, work stuff, life stuff happens -> good | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Told plate to come at a certain timeYou should do nothing. Do not give a fuck about that and when she comes just have fun. Logically you can safely assume that she is late cause she wanted to look good for you and took extra steps to shave her pussy. My current LTR always was late too around 30mins but i never cared cause I was doing shit in that time so for me no loss. Plate is added value to your life so why would you care about that if your life already has a lot of value in it? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 09:24 PM |
| 6 | stuffed up with a 9/10!You dated 9/10 once you can do it again. End this stupid I was lucky thinking. How about peak definition that does not involve woman? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 09:06 AM |
| 4 | Kicked LTR out of my house. Now she says she hates me. Soft next her?whammyfeet is right man. Most voted posts shouldn't be there in the first place. Classic Everyone sucks here post. Her behaviour only sucks because of the ligher at your beard thing. How you handled your night out is bullshit. I read your resposne and it sounds like you think you were RP but you were just autistic. You cannot handle your shit if you end the date because she is nagging and your friend came over and you go to see him! and that explanation that he drove one hour! lol " And I had fu… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Family "hack" applying TRP principles - what are the downsides if any?I suggest you (re)read "LTR Game" series. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Family "hack" applying TRP principles - what are the downsides if any?Man when you have a kid you are no longer priority. You do the Best for your kid. You are idea in my opinion is not the Best for the kid. The Best is to have father living with kid. Also you treat some RP quote like a commandement while it is a high level guideline. Seems like you dont understand the reasoning behind no cohabitate rule and try to force it into your life. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 12:12 PM |
| 24 | Ran into a plate from a year ago and wanted to ask why she lost interestStill dont do it. You will improve much more by figuring it out on your own. Or even better solution is not give a duck | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 09:36 AM |
| 79 | Ran into a plate from a year ago and wanted to ask why she lost interestDo not do this. Do not ask her. There are only downsides to that. You will degrade your frame if you have any. You are not going to learn anything because she wont know what she wants and she does not know why she lost attraction. You will show desperation like you care about her opinion about you. Attratction is non negotiable. She lost it and there is that. Besides it is all written in the sidebar. The answer you look for. Go there if you want to improve yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Lost frame when drunk, need adviceRight is what you feels is right. I assume you do not know what to do so do what you feel and take it from there. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Lost frame when drunk, need adviceMan. You are in her frame. You do not want that. You project your frame on her. It means first point you do you. In your case if you know you fucked up and said shit and feel like saying it out loud do it. I am not sure how bad you blew up. It is social 101. Girl, plate, friend, does not matter. You are not alpha if you behave like dick. You are dick. Acting like nothing happened if you fucked up is weak move and you maybe can get away this time but you are not going to learn anything in the lon… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Gut feeling she is not telling me something - should I confrontThe girlfriend of gay guy is his and my LTR mutual friend. I know all of her friends. She was coming with the gay friend for show. I think he does not want to reveal he is homo. You get the point. She is my LTR and I trust her. I spoke with her and it turned out her meeting with gay friend is just a job she picked up. She was a waitress (not anymore) when I met her and did that for some time and he is too a waiter and they are going for a catering job which I trust 100%. I saw her doing that job… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Gut feeling she is not telling me something - should I confrontExactly this. I also think overthink this like I care about that if she thinks I am jelaous or something. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Is there a program like Six Pack Promise but for pecs?Different genes different physiques. Not all people can have chest like Mike Thurston or mattdoesfitness. Good example is Omar i think he is strong yet does not have something i would consider pretty chest. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Plate denied sex, potentially my fault, but soft next?Yes you are classy bitch this is why I keep you. Now get in the back | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 09:31 AM |
| 1 | What's a good response when a girl says 'you are good looking'Hey good looking What you cookin How bout cookin something up with mee | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | My GF is testing me ?You wrote this is your girlfriend so I assume you like her and would like to continue relationship if possible. You didn't mention your age. In my opinion you fucked up. Remember she is a kid and periods are a bitch sometimes for them. It's ok for her to feel bad, in pain and because of that she acted distant, not available etc. Why would you even bother being disrespected when you are pursuing your goals? How when she is not available it is wrong for you and your goals? This is when you fucked … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with a needy LTRDid you recognize at the time when she was emotionally upset when you declined? I do not mean fix her feelings but be there to liste aka give comfort. Seems like you missed that. It does not have to last till the end of the Day. 5 minutes of pure attention works Wonders in cases like that. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How's life?When I initially got into RP and started to practice social interactions I also asked this question a lot. Over time I for sure noticed this question seems easy to answer but it never worked. So I reworked this question and now when I want to small-talk I ask: 'tell me about one story from your day/weekend/event you've been to/etc.' Straight to the point and everyone I asked this (not kidding) in the end answers with a nice story of some kind (not counting initial shock worded as 'but what do yo… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 11:41 AM |
| 11 | I'm getting the urge to ask plate needy questions. How to stop this feeling?In my opinion there is nothing wrong with the question itself. You attitude is wrong aka not positive. You are looking for validation of some kind and whatever you do you are not going to get it. If you want to ask her these kind of questions then do it but do not expect any reward from it. Meaning: If you are genuinely interested what is she doing then go ahead and ask her like you would ask any other person on earth how was their day. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Any reason to tell LTR or plateThe fact you are divorced gives you more good that bad if anything. It depends how you frame the message. If you're happy about it she will be happy about it. If you think it is a stigma, she will pick up on that and think it's shameful to be divorced. Maybe if you guys just casually speak about weddings of some friends etc. mention it but keep it positive. To my current LTR I revealed this information after we get back to her place from friends gathering where wedding topic was discussed a lot … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:40 AM |
| 4 | How to last longer in bed?I also think it is not a problem if you come in 1-3 minutes. It is only a problem in your mind. I often finish in that time and would never take shit from a girl who does not like that. I think ejaculation is so natural it is pointless to put effort to exercise it in any way like some books recommed. Only sure way to last longer in bed I found is to have sex often. At micro scale every intercourse at given day you should last longer because you penis will be desensitized. At macro scale the more… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 12:36 PM |
| 5 | I always have to initiateWhere is the problem? You hang out when you want. You don't have to deal with her in between. Profit. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the most opportune moment to trigger a break up when LTR/plate is away on holiday?I dump your ass. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Denied?Remember it's pity for her that she didn't go out with you In my opinion it's soft next you could hit her up in a week or two. I suspect a 'no' though. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 07:42 AM |
| 7 | What the hell should I eat for breakfast?Oatmeal with: fruits, nuts, berries, peanut butter or Eggs with: bacon, salad, tomato or Smoothie: fruit, vege or mix | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 12:20 PM |
| 2 | relationship experts/experienced guys need your opinion on my exThis. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 3 | approaching feels useless cause i know what will happenYou listed two outcomes out of possible infinite number of outcomes. Just imagine. On the other hand I experience the opposite. Every Time I approach whoever I am thinking I Wonder what will happen cause its impossible to predict. I was suprised so many Times Just how much its fun to interact. And that Times where i dont feel like approaching are the Best Times and Best conversation as i simply let go of any attachment / expectations. Fix your autistic behaviour and have fun. Maybe you are tryin… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Girl said she "forgot date" but always initiates contact, and replies quick as hellYour replied to the point and it was boring. In my opinion there was an opportunity from your side to inject some humour /polarize / tease and you just missed it. I like to have fun and if I text with girls (1-3 texts per day) given that immediately don't come up with fun idea to write back I go through categories: AA AM Pressure flip Tease Funny wordplay, etc. and try to come up with some good lines. Some may say its overinvestment but I like to have sense of humour and like to practice it in t… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Girl said she "forgot date" but always initiates contact, and replies quick as hellIn my opinion what she wrote is total bullshit. Sounds like she didn't forget just testing you. I don't know how to put in words but its immature naive emotional manipulation from her side. I would reply: - again who are you? - I'll let you know when I am able to meet you | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl to invest while staying ‘mysterious’?What do you mean by invest? Time? Money? Other goods? Did you polarize her already? If not then this is first step you must know if she is sexually attracted to you too. Then I like to invest more than a girl but only one time. Maybe push pull you can say. You are a Man and you lead. Its not a shame to Text for meet up if you feel like it. Basically lead her and show her that its ok to do this thing I Just did. Then See if she does the same thing or more of this thing than I or nothing happens. … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How best to tell a girl that I appreciate her?My pussy dried even though I don't have one. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Love, Oneitis or non-investment/attachmentIn the most recent book, pardon i forgot which one, he wrote that being vulnerable is an alpha, manly trait. If you are afraid of commitment, either by losing current goods eg spinning plates vs one mate or future goods eg it Will hurt when she is gone you are in a closed box. If you have a girl you find attrative and genuinly like to spend Time with her imo its ok to put yourself in vulnerable position eg allow other people to hurt you in some emotional ways. In my opinion it is manly as fuck. … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 03:22 PM |
| 6 | GF is getting meaner and meaner, I tolerated too much and things went downhillQuestion is whether you like her behaviour at any Time. Cause if you dont want to See her for now and later she naggs and pisses you then... Remember her behaviour is the reflection of you. Looks like you tolerated too much bullshit, was boring the she needs drama to feel alive. Its an uphill battle for you to change relationship dynamic but say these words and behave accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Books and advice for overcoming cowardess?Nobody gives a shit about you. Me included. So do what you want and don't be a pussy. Subtle art of not giving a fuck No more mr nice guy sex god method Meditations and practice of meditation itself | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:43 AM |
| 5 | How do i respond vaguely to a womans question?You sound like you breathe from the girls frame. Why do you care what she think about your friends story? Its ok to answer questions directly. If you answer every qyestion vaguely you will sound like retard. Just imagine that | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 07:57 PM |
| 6 | LTR being offIts your LTR not a plate so I assume you are sexually exclusive. You said you are cool with what ever she is doing. She basically said the same thing. And she is not playing some stupid figure it on your own game but she explained that to you. I do not See a reason to withdraw attention. Maintain your frame and behave like nothing happened like her actions in that matter did not affect you. It is not a trouble for you that she has less Time For you for week or two right? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Replicate A Fluke?I assure her that I don’t think she’s a whore and that I’ll plan the activities for that day and let her know what we’re doing You broke your frame here. Should have written: "see you" and then have fun / make out again. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | "Nothing's gonna happen"In my opinion the 'we are just playing' is just a sarcastic joke from her side. I would not even call this a shit test cause in my opinion it looks like you are 100% fuck her. Especially *after* that comment. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateI am calling a big bluff here. You are trolling. Either that or your story sounds desperate and stupid as fuck. Go read recommended TRP books. What to do? SHE IS NOT INTERESTED DONT CONTACT HER AGAIN | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Conditioning LTR. Rewarding good/punishing bad behaviours.I assume she is not crazy etc. Otherwise she should not be LTR. I think i would Just tell her to go home and that you will talk to her when she is good girl you likes. But i didnt have this situation when she was at my place. What kind of shit do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Conditioning LTR. Rewarding good/punishing bad behaviours.1: say you like it whe she dresses for you and that you like how feminine she looks i that outfit. Proces to fuck. With my LTR fronthe beginning I said the same dress this for me thing and validated with affection. 2: i assume you two dont cohabitate. Say that you dont like her behaviour and that you can talk when she is back to normal. Proceed to walk out and go home. This is harder than 1 because you should not be hurt otherwise shit you say will be butthurt even if you intend it to be easy. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Ran out of things to say?From book of pook i remembered and i apply the following Run out of things to say Olala A Wild conversation topic appears Never failed | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:07 PM |
| 3 | I’m in a long distance LTR and she’s being selfish and hypocritical with no remorse. What do I do?"I held my frame and didn’t talk too much, just made simple points with logic to prove that it doesn’t make sense" You do not understand what frame is | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Can "chemistry" be built upon?I am Just Reading the models and he advise to go after girls you like or are attracted. Girls should be receptive or neutral in response. Skip unreceptive. I agree with that. Why would you spent Time going after girls you are not attracted if there are better ones for you? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Any tips on escalating?Yes there is a test. It is called Just Do It. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 12:51 PM |
| 2 | How to change the dynamic or a LTRYou can make changes but until you stop being afraid of loosing her nothing will work. Do you understand? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:16 AM |
| 18 | Girl [23F] I've [25M] been dating for 1 month wants to take a breakShe took a break from her ex and filled that break with you. Now their break is over. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Weird situation but I’m feeling good and satisfiedI moved out when I was 18 (now almost 31) for university. At the beginnin they paid for my dorm & food but relatively quickly I started working and was able to pay my rent. I was fucked still because I visited them too often for many years (e.g. 3 times a week for sat and sun). So I was not really independent only homewise but mentally still dependent. Now i visit them once per 1-2 months, e.g. for major family events. When they say " “grown up” and you are not kid" remember it does not really m… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Weird situation but I’m feeling good and satisfiedMy parents are alike. I got divorced and they said 'you cannot be happy, this is not suppose to happen, now you will live alone and this is bad, you cannot be happy'. While I feel it was the best that could happen to me and I am happy and satisfied. Other things I do they also don't understand and say in general I am doing bad in my life xd. In the past I tried to DEER to them but it didnt work. Accept them is first step (don't try to change them). You are responsible for your life / happiness. … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 09:32 AM |
| 11 | First date tomorrowTreat her like a Little girl ~around 4-5 year old | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Can't keep anyone past honeymoon periodWhen you are with girl you want to think 'o LA la' otherwise they will get bored and you will be bored too | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Sex advise?The more sex you have the more you will last. So You fuck multiple times. I last 3, 8-10, 30-40 minutes on 1,2,3 sex. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 08:00 AM |
| 29 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.I have also been in this situation before. What I did was to pause for whatever period I need to come up with witty response. Sometimes is 2-3 secs, sometimes more. Even 5 seconds makes huge difference for my brain. Prerequisite: don't give a fuck about them needing your answer immediately. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:52 AM |
| 2 | When does a boundary or personal conviction become petty or childish?You have a Little seed of confidence but it is shadowed by large tree of shame or sth like this. It should be other Way around. Do what you want to do eg. Dont ever wait for your friend and fucks sake Dont think if this is petty or childish because you do not want to make decisions with that kind of reasoning. Do what you feel like especially when you transitio from nice guy to more confident guy. Do not fuckin ask US what to do. Do what you want to do and fuck everyone else. You are the guideli… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Improve my dancing skillsThis is why I did but I wanted to ask the communicty for good sources of practice videos. After I asked the question yesterday I found this guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Eqlg0lmfTg and practiced these moves. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Improve my dancing skillsI will try other sub reddits. This is not directly about RP but about gerneral self improvement and also I think dancing helps to pull girls in clubs. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Did I lose frame?In my opinion from what you said it was enough and anything more would hurt you in relationship with her. But you think too much about her feelings, notice how much you used word she i the post. Frame is your view on the world. You did what you wanted and you only weaken your frame by considering her feelings that much. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:26 PM |
| 9 | when is physically too late to build muscle? I read online that by 25 your body stops producing testosterone Also, could any of you critique my workout plan?I am thirty and a half. No problems with building muscle or strength. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women expect men to set boundaries insofar as to how much time spent together?pussys thoughts :D | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Do women expect men to set boundaries insofar as to how much time spent together?Currently I am meeting with a girl who almost never texts any non valueable info. Usually I text only for logistics to one follow up question for fun. When we usually for the weekend and sometimes in a week. When I don't see her in between I am so pussy fucking I cannot believe because I am mad she rarely text me cause I think she forgot me or something. It is so fucking pussy xd it is so good lesson for me because I have discipline to execute RP and also not text even though by beta ghost wants… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with overprotective and manipulative fatherI understand what you mean. He is not my life. I don't think about that much in emotionally nor I am sad because of this situation. Just wondering if I can do something to make it better when he is alive. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a therapist?You can PM me. We can try Talking if you want | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain frame when you are furious on your GF for being late?Being furious is better way to hold frame? I don't think so. But again it depends on the specifics of the situation he is waiting and their relation. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain frame when you are furious on your GF for being late?Being furious is better way to hold frame? I don't think so. But again it depends on the specifics of the situation he is waiting and their relation. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:28 AM |
| 4 | I'm afraid to take lead with girlsText her back with location, date and Time info. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:17 PM |
| 0 | How to maintain frame when you are furious on your GF for being late?Drop your expectations of her bring there on time. Dont wait idling for her always have something to read, think or meditate until she is ready. Call your parents. Ofc depends how late she is. Maybe if you describe some events when you got a gry it would be easier. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 10:04 AM |
| 3 | How to get inspired or motivated?From the simple art of not giving a fuck Action inspiration motivation action inspiration motivaton... This is the train of words. Get into any wagon and move forward to the next | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 06:43 PM |
| -3 | Shit test response?There is no amplify part in your "i know i am" comment. Personally though i would reply in this direction but amplify on smooth Word. Cannot think of anything particularly Funny but smth about Baby ass smoothness Smoothies as drink Smooth as a lack of fiction when ICE skating etc | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl does not start the talk and new plate appears, please adviseI do not understand your last sentence. Can you explain? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Girl does not start the talk and new plate appears, please adviseI understand what you wrote and I think it makes perfect sense. Only problem I See is that lets assume i know for sure she thinks i am exclusive and if she finds out things will change for worse and i dont want this to happen cause i enjoy how things are between US. Another solution i See is to not spin 18f. Plot twist is that she is girl from my gym where we met and also her parents often train at the same Time as me. So even if i spin her ill do it on certain conditions and after i make sure s… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 12:42 PM |
| 1 | I lose interest on the date day...Rarely this happens to me when before the date i flirt or meet with other girls i find attrative. Otherwise not really and if there was excitement it stays or if if there was not there is still not. Personally i would date anyways cause its opportunity to gain more experience eg testing if joke is Funny, trying a move or smth like this. No excitemement means you are not afraid to lose so you play better imo. You can take smth good from most of these situations. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 03:51 PM |
| 24 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?For me the road could be categorized into something you may knew already: unconscious incompetence - this was my BP days with my wife until I got divorced (massive oneitis) conscious incompetence - when I read all the books, side bar, articles, meditated and generally STFU and lift conscious competence - I started applying what I learned to the extreme - just for the exercise without any hopes t o get the girl etc. for example I invited girls to come to my place after short convo (never worked b… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 98 | What was your first real world experience that really made you swallow the pill?I look at Red pill more from a self improvement perspective than the game and woman. Still i am amazed how mainly dominace, leading, keeping frame, confidence and abundance works perfectly. My relationships at work are better. With family too. Personal happiness is much higher since i am not nice guy anymore. For other People is better too for me to stay how i am right now. Disarming shit tests from women makes them giggle. Dominace in bed is So cool i would have never thoght. And they like it. … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong here?Why dont you ask her? Maybe not in a phrase what went wrong but more like i knew you had great time me too but i dont understand you now. See what she replies and react. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Why do some people NOT work out?I am just now reading https://www.amazon.com/Squat-Every-Day-Thoughts-Overtraining-ebook/dp/B00CE5BCFG and in this book this topic is discussed and also looked on from different perspective with a question how hard a person can go with a training, how feeling of 'tiredness' is a delusion and which people may do Squat Every Day and not die. He gets into details of human hormone system, brain and genes and I don't remember that but in general what you asked about is a result of genes but also way … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Changing my woman - strategy and adviceYou are not going to change her through words you tell her. Be a fucking man and do what you want with your money. Tell her exactly what are the rules for using your money by her however it seems you did it already. She knows she can abuse you because you wont go away aka force consequences of her wrongs. Your Best bet is to order her what she can do and what cant but you must be ready to drop her with out a word which can be hard for you cause i read BIG scarcity mindset from your post. Dont th… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:10 PM |
| 5 | I’m about to finish The Rational Male, what should I read next?Book of pook is gold. For me. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 07:01 AM |
| 6 | For younger readers: becoming self-aware to your spending habits will save you some serious moneyFOR ME In my opinion what you wrote in theory is very good and most people should follow that. I usually follow good practices when it comes to money management but actually this part of my life is one of the first one I drop if I don't have time. By I don't have time I mean there are other things to do that improve my life more that extensive budget planning. I want to go lift. I want to read. I want to meditate. I want to take a long walk sometimes. I want to be on top of my work so I get rais… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 01:04 PM |
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