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Bro, I know exactly what you’re talking about. I had plenty of this kind of situations this year, an example: met a girl in a museum, I was alone, she was alone. We spent the whole time together, walked through the museum, had great conversations, grabbed an drink after, even walking arm in arm. The vibe felt perfect, like she wanted every atom of me in that moment. But then logistics get in the way, and you think: “it’s fine, I’ll text her after, the connection was real.” Next day you text her……
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:04 PM
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Bro, wake up. why are you wasting time replying to a girl like this? She’s not here to help you, she’s here to lecture you and feel superior while you keep typing “interesting viewpoint” like a polite little puppy. Stop responding, stop justifying yourself.
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:51 PM
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A bit yes, but i'd still would be working on the irl side of it. I'm aware of this.
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:19 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:03 PM
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Pretty sure the problem isn't her & would have happened the very same with any girl
/r/seduction14/03/21 09:01 AM
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22
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:57 AM
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The problem is that i dont get a girl by snapping my fingers. It could take months and my situation will only become worse.
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:35 AM
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I have had plenty those erections before the emotional shock that was the first night.
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:31 AM
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That was my bed I've met her already a couple of times before the first night she was at my place to visit some friends that live with me
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:29 AM
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Hope this girl will have the same patience as yourself
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:02 AM
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Whats that? An escort?
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:59 AM
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Idk, i did an andrologic visit & everything was okay. But for example, before all of this happened i was insanely hard and horny when by myself (no fapping or porn involved).
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:56 AM
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She couldnt sleep over today
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:52 AM
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Whats that
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:51 AM
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It's 5 years i regularly go to talk to a psychologist. The answer to this problems was the usual "just relax"
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:38 AM
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Already do it
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:32 AM
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Fantasies don't work when I'm in bed with a girl. It barely worked before that, when we were cuddling together but with other people in the room. The morning boners were the ones i relied upon when having sex with a previous girl. Never managed to have sex in the night.
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:32 AM
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Thank you! :)
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:22 AM
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Never been religious, im not even baptized
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:12 AM
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I don't know if i gave her an orgasm, i ate her out and fingered her, i can tell for sure she liked that.
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:11 AM
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No&No Plus, i don't really think she loves me. She likes me for sure, but she made it clear she doesn't want anything serious. And if it didnt let me down last time it wont this time (last time i felt shitty afterwards, this time i feel way better)
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:05 AM
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I was actually super horny the day before failing with her the first time.
/r/seduction14/03/21 02:01 AM
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I ate her out, dunno if she came but for sure she liked it
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:57 AM
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Well, of course i gave her pleasure in other ways lmao
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:54 AM
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After these experiences, those affirmation words feel so cringe to me ahaha
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:51 AM
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I'm in the hands of the Lord.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:40 AM
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I think she does like me, she was even kinda the one to make the first step. But i don't know if this problem of mine will be a deal breaker for her...
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:39 AM
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Well i did a professional andrologic visit some years ago and everything was fine. I'll go talk to a doctor on monday anyway, i'll follow your advice.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:35 AM
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I'm not american. i'll take it as a compliment on my english skills i guess.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:34 AM
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How much time do i need to recover?
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:32 AM
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unfortunately i think you're the right (apart from the "panicking" part) This comment is the only one that makes sense to my situation. It really hurts, expecially cause none of my peers had to go though this.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:31 AM
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No.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:27 AM
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I kinda check this box aswell, as i said i enjoyed it this time a lot, but me being soft is something almost impossibile to ignore, both for me and for her. In the long run it's the elephant in the room.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:26 AM
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I could but i doubt the problem is there. The majority of people my age don't have this problem without looking for "aphrodisiac food"
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:11 AM
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I workout regularly, i'm fit and receive compliments for that. That's not the problem
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:04 AM
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I dont get your point
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:43 AM
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I'd consider it if only i wouldn't almost throw up at the thought of being with a man.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:41 AM
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Tried it, doesn't work for shit.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:38 AM
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Well im living in a college-like environment, if the voice goes around and i become the joke of the student group, im really screwed.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:37 AM
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I hope she won't lose her patience. And that the voice will go around and I'll get my reputation destroyed (i have other 1-2 chicks that are down to)
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:33 AM
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I check the box for pretty much all you listed. I talked to professionists and doctors, they all said the same thing, that i don't have physical problems and it's all in my head and bla bla bla. I feel like someone wandering in the desert without a map.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:28 AM
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I talked this issue a lot with my psychologist, he said that it's all mental. I am aware sex is more than that, and as I said this time i actually enjoyed the encounter a lot. And i know, i took cialis way before things started.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:20 AM
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The libido flatline started the morning after my first failed attempt. I don't think it's related to porn or masturbation.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:14 AM
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O stopped watching porn and masturbating completely two weeks ago. Before that i was doing that pretty often. But now with my low libido even getting a boner in the morning is a great accomplishment.
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:10 AM
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My health is good. Right now i'm not exercising but i had the same problem when i did. I'm not watching porn in weeks
/r/seduction03/03/21 12:55 PM
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That's pretty much the only option lol
/r/seduction21/05/20 05:32 PM
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Don't know exactly what you mean with festivals but i feel like you have to be a high-energy, extrovert guy to approach successfully there, which i'm not
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:04 AM
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Writing you in private, we are going off topic i think
/r/seduction22/03/20 12:30 AM
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I think 2 weeks its 1800 euros, accomodation included.
/r/seduction22/03/20 12:00 AM
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I'm an introvert myself, i don't usually get any action during the school semesters. During summer holiday i usually go to a famous holiday destination in europe to attend an "english language school" (i'm already fluent in english, i just go there for meeting people and girls). There are a lot of hot girls (mainly from europe) attending that school, and it's so, so much easier for me to approach them in that environment.
/r/seduction21/03/20 11:33 PM
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Maybe i'll sound too pessimistic but since mid february all of my worst-case scenarios turned out to be the correct ones: 1) We'll lose a year of our life due to this emergency. 2) We'll manage - if we're lucky - to get outside of our houses in a month or two (at least in italy/europe, idk other countries), but we'll still have many restrictions (i.e. pub/discos closed, many places will have a restricted number of people who can get inside etc...). 3) We'll be poorer than before. 4) We'll have t…
/r/seduction21/03/20 10:42 PM
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I'm from Italy (Lombardy), so i'm in this situation from basically a month. If only you knew how over things really are... Everything i can say is i suffer with you.
/r/seduction21/03/20 10:21 PM
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It's just plain creepy when the guy you met yesterday at the club is sending you lovey-dovey texts about how he liked to hug you. I knew her since months, not "yesterday at the club"
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:13 PM
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I didn't ask her that.
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:48 PM
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Wait no, my actual words were "just want to tell you i had a great time with you yesterday, now waiting for you to come to my city". I think the inner meaning is the same though.
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:46 PM
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Could be, but i don't think so. At 11 pm she hadto go back home cause her mom was worried and was calling her. We stayed together like 3 hours.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:38 AM
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When? Because i see so many versions...
/r/seduction06/12/18 10:12 PM
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Are you saying to next her? Btw i don't give a shit if in 10 years "my stock goes up", i'm living today. I could be dead in that time for what i know.
/r/seduction06/12/18 10:12 PM
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