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This is really valuable advice, I think more of us need to learn to let go. I sure do.
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:45 PM
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Thanks for this. I often have approach anxiety and pass up a LOT because of that.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:19 PM
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Somebody suggested this to me before.
/r/seduction05/09/20 11:33 AM
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Congratulations. I wish you success and happiness. You earned it!
/r/seduction04/09/20 12:23 AM
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?
/r/seduction03/09/20 03:50 PM
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I love your animation! If that's you doing the drawings, you are talented artist.
/r/seduction03/09/20 03:48 PM
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The lack of good grammar in the written portions of this video make it a bit unappealing to watch for me.
/r/seduction30/08/20 08:23 PM
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The more I think about it the more true this is. I find myself self-sabotaging due to trauma and being afraid of doing great things/accomplishing things. ​ Two things that this has adversely affected: socialization (in general), and the gym. ​ In socialization I consider myself unworthy or incapable of making and keeping friends, often as a result of traumatic experiences around being discriminated for being Autistic; in the dating/seddit world similar issues. ​ When it came to the gym I always …
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:20 PM
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Inner game is arguably the hardest aspect.
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:18 PM
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r/Angryupvote
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:17 PM
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His life has no other purpose or worth, it seems, so he likes pissing people off - particularly people he politically disagrees with, or people who are Autistic and seem like easy targets.
/r/seduction30/08/20 01:54 PM
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Stop talking to me. Stay away from me. Stop following my posts. Stop clicking on my profile. Stop engaging with me. Capiche?
/r/seduction30/08/20 01:53 PM
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If he does, I hope he uploads a video so I can jerk off to it. Edit: yeah, sorry, I know how fucked up that sounds. But honestly, he's pissed me off just that much. The world is really better off without trolls like him. The sooner he realizes that, the better.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:57 AM
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Probably the same reason you are obsessed enough to keep following me after I have repeatedly asked you to stop. LEAVE. ME. ALONE.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:57 AM
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Stop following me.
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:08 PM
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Indeed, lol.
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:07 PM
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Oh, he just stalks and harasses me everywhere I go, usually on comments where I express my experiences being Autistic (in which he attacks me for it), or he will try to troll me when I'm expressing my political views (I'm a leftist and it's easy to see that this guy follows some sort of alt right or even incel ideology type). So yeah, mostly he just looks at my recent post history and then tries to provoke reactions from me. On one occasion though he did create a fake account with an almost iden…
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:07 PM
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I have no clue, really. I'm not even clear what constitutes a 'thot'. However, sometimes damaged does attract damaged if that's what you're asking, and sometimes people with 'thot' tendencies themselves may have unresolved trauma that they may unconsciously develop hypersexuality as a way to deal with. Just gotta figure out the right way to connect.
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:05 PM
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Me too, but I also wish to eliminate the social conditions that allowed said trauma to happen. Nobody should have to deal with such trauma or live in the traumatic hellscape that is capitalism. (Which is relevant to the topic of seduction, too.)
/r/seduction28/08/20 08:56 PM
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<3
/r/seduction28/08/20 08:55 PM
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That is true.
/r/seduction28/08/20 06:03 PM
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You're a perverted stalker who keeps on following me all over reddit after I told you to leave me alone, and repeatedly stated you have no interest in listening. Get the fucking hint, I'm not interested, use Grindr.
/r/seduction28/08/20 04:33 PM
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Stop following me.
/r/seduction28/08/20 04:32 PM
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I'm Autistic too. I find that while we have a lot of struggles, many of us, regardless of how "functioning" we are, have a lot of talents, skills and insights that we can use to make our lives better and to help those around us. And with any luck, we will end up with people. ​ It's important that we accept ourselves and be unapologetic about who we are. Given that the neurotypical world is built on lies and manipulation, however, it can sometimes be tempting to also start using lies/manipulation…
/r/seduction28/08/20 02:24 PM
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lmao was this a reference to the Atypical character
/r/seduction28/08/20 02:14 PM
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Even then, it's harassment only when it's ongoing after being told to stop, or if it is something blatantly over the top.
/r/seduction28/08/20 01:06 PM
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Agreed, socialism FTW! I do have the benefit of living in Canada
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:41 AM
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Same tho.
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:40 AM
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I'm still figuring that part out..
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:40 AM
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As an Autistic person, I made a post recently on r/aspergers that the key to success in a neurotypical world is being a good liar. I guess this is true for seduction as well.
/r/seduction13/08/20 04:11 PM
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That, and, IIRC there are studies showing that dates that involve excitement/adrenaline are more likely to... escalate. :)
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:47 PM
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That's how I try to view it. I also try to arrange unorthodox "dates", like trail hiking or going to a railway museum.
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:33 PM
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I might write a follow up on style I'd like that very much. I hope you do that.
/r/seduction11/08/20 09:53 PM
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I wish there were guidelines/tips for how people can change/improve their looks through grooming/dressing etc. based on their current body type etc. ​ Trying many different ways and can't seem to get it right.
/r/seduction09/08/20 09:48 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/seduction01/08/20 11:53 AM
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Sometimes our minds can play games with us though. Especially if we grew up with insecurities.
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:56 PM
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"Not from a Jedi"
/r/seduction20/07/20 01:55 PM
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I'm glad people here value consent and respect. Miles ahead of toxicity you see in many groups.
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:00 PM
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"Stop giving me that fucking puppy dog eye look, it doesn't work on me and it never actually did" ​ Wonder if anyone here will get that reference lol
/r/seduction29/06/20 07:25 PM
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I feel like that now, at 21. I think a lot of it has to do with bullying or trauma at a young age.
/r/seduction29/05/20 10:23 PM
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That's an interesting insight, thanks for sharing. It's interesting because Autistic people definitely struggle a lot more with it which is evident in how abusive "therapies" try to force it on us. That doesn't work though, it has to come naturally to you. If there's anything I've learned about human interaction it's that forced/unnatural interactions get really fucking messy.
/r/seduction02/05/20 04:39 PM
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As an Autistic person, maintaining eye-contact is easier said than done - but I think it is worth getting into to connect with people. After all, a person's eyes can often reveal a lot about them, and I think that's why most of us are averse to it - due to sensory overload and all.
/r/seduction02/05/20 03:53 AM
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This. Peoples' views on attractiveness are subjective. ​ I've seen guys who I thought were pretty handsome/attractive (and were more successful than me), but was surprised to learn they too had a lot of self-image issues around looks.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:01 PM
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May the Force be with you.
/r/seduction13/01/20 10:17 PM
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Don't take yourself too seriously in general, that usually helps. I recently read somewhere that people who take themselves too seriously tend to be more unlikable and unpopular.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:54 PM
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I'm often the opposite.
/r/seduction21/12/19 06:11 PM
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Basically also means have a life of your own too instead of always thinking about her
/r/seduction20/12/19 01:01 PM
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I needed this, thanks
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:09 PM
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Yeah, the title could have been better for sure. But what he means is that we can focus on putting effort, rather than the end result - that we can't control the end result, but we can control our effort, so by focusing on putting 100% effort, we can hopefully influence the results. I've seen similar advice thrown around in this sub all the time actually, which is the reason I posted it. That too many people are focused on the result, and that hinders them, when often times they need to improve …
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:26 PM
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I think what he means is, don't get way too hung up on the goal, like how so many people get way too hung up on the result that they end up screwing up due to nerves or fear of failure, or whatever. ​ I have definitely experienced this in many areas in my personal life.
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:49 PM
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That's a pretty good point.
/r/seduction28/10/19 08:01 PM
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Question: theoretically, are horror movies good for dates? I mean, when it's scary they could hold onto you for dear life lol
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:35 PM
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I did this fatal mistake for so many years Same here tbh. Thanks for the insight. ETA: I also felt like because I was Autistic, people in general tended to misjudge me as "weird" and all. Those two things tended to kill my chances. These days I'm more confident to be myself and all, and don't care about "passing as normal".
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:14 PM
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So what were some things you talked about/lines you used to introduce yourself? Aside from the social anxiety associated with being Autistic, I have difficulty coming up with what to say in a conversation when I introduce myself/avoiding saying something stupid etc. ​ Also how did you "escalate" the conversation?
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:46 PM
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I still struggle with lonewolfing, tended to assume people generally go to bars/clubs with friends.... But this story gives me hope.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:45 PM
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That was impressive, mate. Good job.
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:39 PM
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So basically a subtle form of negging. Nice.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:06 PM
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Can you give more details on the persisting part? How did she resist, what did you say to crumble her defenses?
/r/seduction06/10/19 09:19 PM
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Easier said than done. I'm working every day to get past my anxiety.
/r/seduction06/10/19 09:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing, what a beautiful story
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:21 PM
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This comment wins the internet lol
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:03 PM
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This is pretty awesome, htanks.
/r/seduction25/09/19 12:22 PM
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Agreed, if you try too hard to bang every girl you meet, you'll quickly start being seen as a creeper.
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:20 PM
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same
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:51 PM
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same
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:51 PM
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Me too! Let's talk :)
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:50 PM
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Ontario, Canada.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:50 PM
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Relatable. And I feel a lot of similar issues as you. I'm trying to work on improving my life in other aspects first, too.
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:55 PM
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Can relate to this. I also often watch the YouTube channel "charisma on command" for ideas, they're pretty useful at teaching tips & tricks
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:24 AM
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I've gotten into poetry lately, as a way to vent. Works wonders.
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:34 AM
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"He actually looks like you" ​ Damn bro
/r/seduction18/07/19 04:54 PM
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Can confirm. As a kid I took musical theater camp and played characters that sometimes had romantic roles, I used to be intimidated by touch and was told "girls don't have cooties" a lot before getting the hang of it. ​ Now, of course, I'm more confident.
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:40 PM
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True - in fact people are often impressed by my knowledge and skill in certain areas if I bring it up during small-talk. Usually in the context of friends, though. But I probably should try to apply it into seduction somehow. As for small talk as a whole, I never really had much of a taste for it because I've always been one to talk more with passion. Although when you put it that way, small talk should be fun and easy.
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:31 AM
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Honestly, defining small talk was never an easy thing for me either. I guess my version of small talk is usually in the form of media stuff, such as shows I like to watch (Star Wars, TWD, etc.) as well as hobbies/video games I play. Basically kind of nerdy stuff lol. Not the kind of stuff everyone would be enticed by
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:41 AM
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press f to pay respects
/r/seduction13/07/19 08:51 PM
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Great work.
/r/seduction13/07/19 08:50 PM
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Is it Greta Thunberg? (Jk}
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:45 PM
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Example: they post a place you think you've been before, say, "ooh is that ______", or if it's related to a topic, engage in conversation about that. ​ I haven't had much success "picking up girls" with it, but I've definitely made several new friends.
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:44 PM
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Can confirm, much easier to get their attention that way.
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:43 PM
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Thank you so much, I will try to use this more in my profiles.
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:01 PM
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Yep. It's the same as when Call of Duty players online look up ways to avoid getting killed in the game. Reality is, when you play online, you will always get killed, facing better players than you. What you want is to improve your K/D ratio. ​ (I know comparing video games to this stuff is cringeworthy but I think the analogy applies here lol)
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:13 PM
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Nice work.
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:47 PM
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I think there's just too many thirsty guys there, so the concentration results in less replies. Same experience for me.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:56 PM
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Good tips.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:55 PM
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If you're serious, might as well tell her the truth, she probably won't judge you for it.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:20 PM
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pretty sure it's common lol
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:26 PM
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