Small Talk

2019-07-13T21:09:05+00:00

Same boat. I just see myself learning from others, keep asking questions then adding to their answers and then more questions

smoothmax · 2019-07-13T21:25:11+00:00

PUA coaches talk about being observant and talking about things in the environment around you (like gossiping about the other people in a bar or talking about the weather or whatever) but in their infields they spend practically 100% of the time talking about work, school, travel, hobbies, pets and where they live.

Classic advice which is good to follow is to avoid anything depressing, controversial, requiring logic or anything involving numbers or math of any kind.

More important than introducing topics is the ability to be a an attentive listener, answering or listening with just the right amount of light-hearted sympathy. If the girl likes to chat then you barely have to talk at all except to make an occasional observation, ask a question, or be slightly skeptical (in a friendly, cheeky way) if you want to spike things a bit. (Yad's daygame.com infields are great for this)

MeditatingParadise · 2019-07-13T21:43:30+00:00

Engage with the person by asking open-ended questions such as ''Why do you think the world is mad?'' The question itself sounds peculiar but it forces the person to think and construct an unique answer of their own. Just sit there and listen while giving brief comments on the subject. Of course, you can also discuss shallow topics depending on the individual's level of intelligence and knowledge. These are the least satisfying though, in my opinion.

WaterCape · 2019-07-14T00:40:02+00:00

What is small talk? Define it for yourself and then you'll know.

For myself, small talk is just ANY form of communication that is basic as hell. Shallow topics are perfect for small talk. Theres no need to go deep.

The weather and how it affects your mood Last night's game and why you hate the opposing team commentary on public events/ public figures "AKA gossip" that new food I tried or that vacation I plan on going to

Mostly it's always situational. The news. that new place that opened up and everyone's going to TV shows health and fitness

but small talk can be deep if you want it to be. You can always quote someone and leave the other person in awe of your knowledge of philosophy and make them wonder about their potential for greatness or whatever.

Just my two cents.

Title	Small Talk
Author	autisticspymaster1
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	July 13, 2019 8:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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