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CMVautistictheory/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:34 PM
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Discussionautistictheory/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:48 PM
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Question For Menautistictheory/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:49 AM
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those are old numbers before they pumped 8 trillion dollars into the economy since 2020. Also if you don't wan't a burger flipper for a kid you better still pay more than half a million
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:44 AM
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its the infinite money cheat code in real life. do what you want lifehack whatever your interests are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:34 AM
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i don't actually have any of that stuff. just saying i would buy that instead of gemstones. stuff is hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:50 PM
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alright fair enough. just different courses for different horses then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:37 PM
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looks cool if you like throwing money in the garbage. i'm more interested in investment grade Palladium
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:35 PM
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fuckin simps man i swear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:29 PM
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doubt it. guys do it becasuse they think thats what they are supposed to do because society perpetrates that idea. why would two guys broke as shit still living with their parents pay that much to "see her smile". then the guys who don't do that are made fun of and shit on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:28 PM
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i'm 100% ok with that. changing all your paperwork is a pain in the ass. i don't even care about my last name i'm no Napoleon or Carnegie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:25 PM
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can we get rid of the societal expectation of buying insanely expensive diamonds when you ask your girlfriend to marry you? two guys I know just put 6 months salary on a rock to propose. they both still live with their parents huge eye roll like what even is this? the women will benefit too do you really want a shiny rock to show off or do you want $15,000 extra dollars as a foundation in your future marriage. and don't even get me started on why the guy asks a girl to marry him when she is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:20 PM
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lol yes i got it from childfree but im stealing it and using it for my own purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:54 PM
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dude he has to sacrifice everything for her. more than everything. im sure he is working 100 hours a week just to make sure she has a good life. what woman would say no to that? i'll sacrifice 12.5% of my life for a woman and she has to accept I will not ever put a ring on it. thats why women would rather go for a midget who she can extract resources from. also his wife is fucking other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:48 PM
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you aren't wrong. sick m16's though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:41 PM
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take a nap, if you enjoyed that nap, then don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:40 PM
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no its literally a contract you sign. holy shit is your IQ negative? also same sex can now get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:19 PM
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you are the retard that said a casual sexual relationship equals marriage. sir a marriage is a contract. all the girls i had casual sex with never had the opportunity to collect alimony from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:13 PM
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no. a marriage is a contract stating the wife can legally spend all your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:08 PM
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i don't mind getting cheated on because I can always walk away. but in marriage some fucker wearing a wig and swinging a tiny hammer can decide I have to pay her 50% of my salary for 20 years just because
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:39 PM
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lol is that GayLubeOil on the right?? hahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:01 PM
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i'd be more inclined to appreciate the friendzone if girls would learn how to play super smash bros
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:51 PM
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Dude imagine if America or other first world countries went the way of Japanese herbivores and 70% of guys just stopped putting in effort for women and just fucked their VR sexbots instead LOL! I think we are slowly getting there. just really slowly. probably not even 10% of guys consciously reject relationships right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:49 PM
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i bet there were some slaves back in the 1800's that thought becoming free was pointless too. thanks for going to work and keeping goods and services available for me to purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:03 AM
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If i have kids then i become a slave and create a new slave. Right now I have the greatest life of only having to work 4-8 hours a week and can do whatever I want. and yes any money I have left over at death will vaporize as dust on the blockchain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:26 AM
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well thats good thank you for your contribution to my success. all this money i saved by not having kids can afford me the services of your kids to take care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:14 AM
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dammit you are right. i fucked up the title. and I appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:12 AM
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all my ancestors were the failures. breaking the cycle is the greatest purpose. but i greatly appreciate you for having kids. i'll hire them to wipe my ass for minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:11 AM
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i know how a vasectomy works and if I don't get married then its no alimony and child support for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:10 AM
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natural for people who don't think and just follow their biology like squirrels and wombats and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:09 AM
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i knew it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:08 AM
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do bums put down $1500 for a vasectomy? in 4 months i'll be impervious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:07 AM
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maybe others but not me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:57 AM
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hell yea girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:55 AM
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some retards do. i thank them for their sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:55 AM
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do they come from vasectomies??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:53 AM
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better get the snip snip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:53 AM
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yea i guess there are guys out there with a real talent for this and when they get hit with the feels its tough to shake that desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:34 AM
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Alright fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:33 AM
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like their personality stands out because they tried to make it happen instead of other girls who didn't directly try i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:28 AM
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a lot of these posts make me think that girls are just upset that he didn't use them again and again. or they tried to use sex to gain something and its like they made an "investment" and it went to zero so they lost their entire principle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:09 PM
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i kinda think you are low self esteem. if you like a guy go talk to him! if you get rejected then you just end up the same as before but if its successful you'll get a memorable experience. but yea that is how guys think. i still believe it would be beneficial for you to try if guys like that don't approach you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:07 PM
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i didn't get that memo. i'm a 6 guy and always approach the hottest girl in the room. 99.99% of the time I get rejected but some women gave me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:05 PM
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i just don't get why they can't walk away if they say no to sex and a guy complains. wouldn't that prove that guy is not worth their time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:41 PM
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I was thinking like a Geralt of Rivia guy walked in and you did get a ladyboner which is what I thought you meant by making his presence known by being so alluring or masculine or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:38 PM
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its 2022 man. America used to have block parties where they lynch black people in the front yard with the whole crew. Things change. but if men are still approaching then i guess they can just stay the same. if men weren't approaching at all what are they going to do though just sit around and twiddle their thumbs? In Japan with their herbivore movement there are women called Carnivore women who are more agressive so I just think thats the trajectory we are going as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:28 PM
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so used for sex means they felt like they were tricked. but in this case they were the ones that approached and wanted the sex so i thought they would be happy about getting it. but they want him to stay and feel bad when he leaves. if this happens once i would learn from it. but it really is all the hormones or something that make them feel like he is the one when really he was just gaming. nice username btw. Poor eddie willers at the end of that book man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:24 PM
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makes sense. average guys preselect themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:13 PM
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reactive sexuality. so women don't control their own emotions it is other people that control their emotions? Sounds to me like you think women do not have their own brains. If thats true then it all makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:12 PM
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they can walk away and not get used for sex if the guy isn't patient then they won't feel as bad because they upheld their moral values. or maybe i'm just living in a fantasy world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:07 PM
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I see. so when you approach they basically see you as easy game and they don't have to put in the work and that sucks I get it. thats just what all dudes have to deal with their whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:05 PM
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nice. you got the lifehack down then. this is what I mean by girls who approach have a big advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:03 PM
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why can't you just say no to sex until they give you commitment? because they are so charming and your vagina somehow falls on their dick? Or do you have no self control and personal responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:02 PM
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for sure. I get it. they think when you approach its like some guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:00 PM
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i disagree. a woman that approaches is a diamond. it shows courage and sets you apart from all the others that don't do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:58 PM
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how much looks? I think 6/10 would be enough. just be thin and not have a mutilated face. Obese women will get shot down for sure but a nice just slightly above average becky has a shot I think
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:57 PM
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how do you get pumped and dumped if you were the one that also agreed to sex? You wanted the sex right? or do you not want the sex but still let him have you because of fear of missing out are you just gullible? Whats so hard about saying no until 1-2 months when they prove their commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:55 PM
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even so, if they approach that super hot guy wouldn't they have a better shot than if they just wait and he never approaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:53 PM
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but they can say no to sex and make the guy wait. unless they are trying to use sex as a way to gain commitment which is a horrible strategy and they would be wise to learn the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:51 PM
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I think this is the best take on why women won't approach on this thread i've read so far. it is much riskier for you. and yes men approaching shows confidence and courage which women love
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:49 PM
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yes social circle game is the best for both men and women I agree. if they aren't appealing to you I understand why you wouldn't approach. but why would you not approach a guy you fancy that made his presence known to you? fear of rejection from someone out of your "league"? Is it totally binary like out of your league or NPC nothing in the middle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:47 PM
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I don't understand how you get used for sex if you approached and decided to have sex because you enjoy it and wanted it in the first place. Do you just not have the word 'No' in your vocabulary? Why can't you make him wait and then if he doesn't accept that then you decide he is not right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:44 PM
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i'm trying to put it in the benefit of the woman in this case. will she benefit from approaching men that are genuinely attractive more than if she waited and he never approches. disregard the averages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:42 PM
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but if some are approaching chad then some are getting success right? chad is not rejecting all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:41 PM
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ok I see that point. they are just closed minded I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:37 PM
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what about the girls that don't have sausage thrown at them in all directions? Do you think that approaching won't give them a better chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:37 PM
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well she will have to have the baseline attractiveness which is around 6/10 I believe is minimum for most guys which means not obese and if she is overweight she still works out. then just not have a totally beat up face. But yea most super hotties won't have to approach. I just think the 6 out of 10's can level the playing field with the women that can just sit around or maybe even surpass them but you don't think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:26 PM
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then what do you think the reason is?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:23 PM
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I know they use nonverbal signals like eye contact, smile, hair preening, etc, to get the guy to approach but you are saying they actually do go directly like a guy would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:19 PM
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I think thats just paranoia on your part. I would be delighted if a girl approached me. You don't have to go all in as soon as she talks to you, you have the ability to feel her out and read her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:15 PM
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Field Report: Ski resorts are a great place to cold approach (haha see what I did there?) Ski lift tickets are not cheap. Also takes a solid investment of vehicle to make it out there reliably so they know you aren't broke as a joke. For most people its quite an adventure to get out there so they know you are outgoing. Snow sports require quite a bit of athleticism so they know you aren't some flabby chump. You can scope out the singles about to hit the lift and you can join them if you get good…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:29 PM
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thinkers vs feelers you are a thinker, you use logic and rationality to make decisions. which is why you thought it would be best to tell them the truth because it would be better for them. I do the same and my bluntness has gotten me in trouble quite a bit. feelers use emotions to make decisions. which is why on girl subs instead of giving real advice like improve your looks and make money, they coddle them and say guys can't handle a strong independant woman. feelers will always lie to make yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:36 PM
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i bought a house this year and thought that would be my ticket. i had to learn this harsh reality. women make their own money now. they want hot fun guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:17 AM
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ages 0-30 is just the tutorial, after 30 you get to the main campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:08 AM
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a wild FDS appeared!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:50 AM
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its not impossible. but like the rest of us fellow averages you will have to put a part time job worth of effort to get one, and then once you get her you will have to put a full time job level of effort to keep her. even the good looking guys I know are giving everything they have to get a woman. the chad thing is kind of a meme. maybe in college chad is slaying but once you graduate even chads have to put in work to get their looksmatch. thats why a bunch of them drop down 2-3 levels for easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:42 AM
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dude fds is all bottom 20% women giving themselves reach arounds
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:37 AM
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agree and amplify: say "the girls I meet don't even want to kiss they want to get tied up and do bdsm shit" you can also turn it on them: say "wow you seem to care a lot about what I do with my dick, are you homosexual? its ok dude being gay is cool now! Its 2022!" if its girls saying this: "you seem to be focused on other peoples lives quite a bit, maybe if you focused on yourself more you could be more successful and not one missed paycheck away from being homeless shrug"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:32 AM
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i knew it!! a few women here were honest, but yes most of them are out to sabotage any guy that wants a better shot. all my posts will be Q4ALL from now on. thanks for the research studies, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:24 AM
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Hey guys just want to say I've finally got past the number plateau and went on a couple dates. Also, one of the girls that left me on read I double texted and we set up a date for next week Feeling good and most of all progressing forward towards my fitness and social related goals. Happy new year you fuckin incels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:22 PM
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thanks for the well thought out write up. Yes it seems the way I asked it and specifically the word 'attractive' was not the right choice. I'll have to choose my words carefully in the future. Anyway I get what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:49 AM
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its ok i'm going snowboarding tomorrow maybe i can just fall off a cliff and die
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:50 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/X8qzvfr.png https://i.imgur.com/J1R2KHc.jpg https://i.imgur.com/uiFIs9z.jpg here is the one that responded. we met while snowboarding with a group. however, she did leave me on read once i finally asked for the specific date, time, and place. i dunno. i guess i'm just too straightforward and boring and available?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:50 AM
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welp.. another round of numbers attained.. ..and another round of numbers deleted from non response. 1/6 responded this time. maybe i'll get a date on saturday. really gunna be another 50 years of life. woohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:28 AM
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only friends in a loose definition of enjoying each others company. none of the being there for them if they need help and I don't expect them to do anything for me. i'm the same way with guys too just want to chill and hang, no obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:21 PM
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dude i keep hearing of bikini baristas what the hell is this and how do I find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:22 PM
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1) MGTOW: but not the hateful going to online message boards type. the type that just learned to enjoy the single life and pursue their passions and keep their money right. Usually the guy with a dog that spends his time with lots of fun activities but is perpetually single and doesn't feel bad about it. 2) Betabux: guys who find out they can get a girl to settle for them if they pay for everything. Usually these turn into the hateful/bitter type if they get taken advantage of. 3) Johns/sugar da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:19 PM
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i'm friends with one girl but thats because she is pretty interesting and we enjoy doing fun activities together. However her face looks like a carved halloween pumpkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:10 PM
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mens are tougher to meet but we are forgiven a lot more if we have other aspects of our life that are attractive, like money, status, social circle, humor, big dong, etc. womens are easier to meet but have much lower forgiveness for relationships. for casual you can be overweight and get hookups but not many guys will find you to be worthy of commitment unless you are in the ideal BMI range. having other parts of your life in order as a woman won't mean much if you aren't at a baseline attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:05 PM
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wow. this reply really hits. I appreciate the quote you chose and your commentary afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:17 PM
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thats funny. i kinda always go for the chipmunk librarian look too. my friends always make fun of me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:14 PM
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this is very insightful and different from some of the other comments so thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:13 PM
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i do sometimes get the impression that when i ask a q4w question that you collectively tell me the opposite of whats true. So I inverse you. I do think I don't ask questions in the most effective way a lot. anyway I lean towards the answers that give lots of different angles, scenarios, and analysis which I enjoy. some women are just saying "No". I would disparage a one word answer of "Yes" the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:40 PM
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dude it wasn't totally obvious to me. i'm a sheltered guy that just studied and got good grades and shit now i'm trying to navigate this crazy minefield. but your single comment is worth more than 20 women comments. I'll be changing all my Q4W to Q4M in the future. So to add to this, clearly being chosen by a desirable woman will make you more attractive. How about a less desirable woman? Like if I walk around with a obese girl will that be better or worse than being just single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:06 AM
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dude. thanks for this. i should just change all my Q4Women to Q4Men because dudes just answer questions way more analytical which I appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:55 AM
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ok so basically if hes with a woman you are even less interested. got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:10 AM
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what do you mean by your last line "status multiplier" also wouldn't 100% of the people that aren't you be non playable characters?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:48 AM
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i see. well i will give it a shot and try to bring girls to places I already go and get that field report for you guys in the new year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:34 AM
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just the perception of not being one. still better though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:28 AM
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well thanks for your honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:27 AM
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how would it be more productive to physically go somewhere to test a hypothesis and involve another human being rather than ask an online message board? can you just tell me exactly what you think or is saying things directly very difficult for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:59 AM
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ohhhh this is good. they also say they want an intelligent guy because it makes them seem "classy"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:50 PM
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thanks for this comment. just another thing I had no clue about. damn culture! lets talk about the federal reserve monetary policy! ahhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:40 PM
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alpha is normally seen as a specific physique but I think it is a state of mind. lets take two different people who both decide to NOT approach a woman at a location. guy1: does not approach because he is unsure of himself and unconfident and thinks the girl won't like a guy like him. guy2: does not approach because he believes the situation does not call for it and it would be more appropriate to keep to himself at this point in time. guy1 would be beta even if he was ripped and tall and sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:37 PM
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yea man i don't get it. fat chicks don't accept fat guys poor chicks don't accept guys working the same job as them boring chicks don't want guys who just like chilling I think its just how nature designed it. like male humans are just supposed to be way better all around or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:49 PM
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the fued between the guy with the little hand and the guy in the wheelchair is one of my favorite fueds in movies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:30 AM
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i like red pill for the self improvement stuff like lifting and meditation and stoicism. but i'm embarrassed that dudes have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:42 AM
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yea yea yea i know. i'm the odd guy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:39 AM
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yea debt is pretty cheap right now especially so its not terrible. I just think the opportunity cost of paying interest vs putting that into investments which give you returns is astronomical when you add it up over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:40 PM
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my longest nofap was 15 days and I did feel what you are describing. I feel like some sort of ultimate fighter in the octogon ready for a match. its unbelievable. but it does take my quite some time to get to that energy after ejaculating unlike others who have it always or sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:28 PM
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nice write up. although i am very handsome, its not in a dripping masculinity sexual attraction type of way that guys like you have. I don't think I could ever fuck a girl right then and there. i've had to let girls know I want to take it slow even while their pussies are dripping juice down their leg. i always feel like such a unusual dude for not wanting sex on a first date and i've had a chance with some really exquisite women. that guy at the party is just insecure. normally lumberjack type …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:26 PM
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same. its rare but at very transient moments i'll get horny as fuck like my dick just rubs against a drawer and all of a sudden my boner is about to tear through my knickerbockers. Then all i can think about is how I have to jerk off. I do enjoy the constant morning to night energy though. i'm able to go from physical activity to another physical activity non stop almost without any reduction in energy levels. if I could get that without being horny it would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:13 PM
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close to me in savings. i have zero debt and actually make such a solid amount in residual income that I can choose not to work. however, I choose to do low effort low pay jobs part time. They are working 60-100 hour weeks in high stress positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:11 PM
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i feel you man. even in my 20's my refractory period was garbage. pretty much if I nut then its done for the night. solid 8-12 hour refractory time in my early 20's now i do something called NoNut. when i do get with a girl I tell her I purposefully withhold my nut and can still climax. this reduces my refractory significantly but still higher than normal libido guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:03 PM
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yup. one has like $400,000 in university debt and then only put $50,000 down on a $600,000 house. one put $400,000 on a $1.4 million dollar house. both are in very high status positions and making good money, but still can't even get close to me and i'm not in as prestigious of a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:52 PM
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nice. it takes me about 5-7 days of nofap to get to that type of energy you are describing its amazing for being able to get everything I want to do done from the moment I wake up to the moment i sleep. just the whole boners just because my dick rubs my boxers while I walk is super dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:49 PM
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yup, "look but don't touch" has served me well as far as not getting metoo'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:26 PM
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its not that, its just the lifestyle that is required to keep a woman satisfied versus a typical dude. I think it was Dave Chappelle who said that if a guy can fuck a girl in a cardboard box he would, but its women that need all the jibblets. For example as a single guy when I go to vegas I can sleep in my car or get a cheap airbnb outside the strip, but all my friends with significant others have to get 5 star hotels and take them to clubs and buy expensive drinks to entertain them. and they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:24 PM
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thats true. I enjoy being minimalist as well and believe the less I need then the more I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:20 PM
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although I am LL i do find womens aesthetic to be very enticing. i like looking but don't feel the need to try and have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:16 PM
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The thing is when I go to subs where girls complain about guys heing intimidated I'm always like "damn yo, where can I find boss bitches like you, i'm tired of these scrubs" I think i don't really relate to most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:27 PM
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this is good stuff. I will take all of this especially the own spaces and enjoyable activities with each others company part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:53 AM
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so you are saying its by design. i feel it. nature calls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:49 AM
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yes i'm retarded. although she did double text and say what she was planning on doing. I will wait 7-14 days and continue my quest of living my best life, like my life is a dream that I will one day awaken from. If she never triple texts then shes LVW. LMFAO meery christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:43 AM
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the real risk is because hospitals are going to be so overflowed that if you get a stroke, or break your arm, or get into a car accident, that you won't have a chance to get care in a timely manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:56 AM
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the nose swab isn't too bad you just swipe around your nostril a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:25 AM
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that doctor better keep all the text messages because he will get metoo'd at some point. Guilty because accused on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:14 AM
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uhhhhh holy shit... i just checked worldometer and corona cases just broke through all previous all time high for cases in a day. although deaths are still lower. but shit may be going down very soon stay safe out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:46 AM
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literally the only time it works is when i play games. when i am direct and straight to the point they think i am "too easy"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:50 AM
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cool. i won't give up then. i will leave her on read this time though LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:25 PM
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ah yes the classic hail mary. i usually tell them I want to go down on them for 20 minutes as my hail mary. this one isn't there yet maybe next date if I feel like there is some friendzone risk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:24 PM
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never mind she texted back. but it still does happen often. she wanted the pics from our date the other day. I sent them to her then told her to come by and eat because i'm cooking. She said shes got other plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:53 PM
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fucking fuck. she texted first. then i texted back. now i'm left on read. every time man. (from actual attractive women) merry fucking christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:39 PM
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the absense of pleasure does not equal pain. i will treat them well just not going to let myself get taken advantage of. I expect someone to have their money right because I put the work in to have my money right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:30 PM
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well i am down to go do fun stuff too not just hooking up. like helicopter tours and snowboarding and trying new restaurants. just don't want to provide for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:29 PM
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yes spending time together and having fun dates but if she says anything about needing something from me for her kid(s) then I will say we should not see each other any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:10 PM
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I don't really see a problem with dating a single mom if I will never commit to her. Also I can bail in half a second if she tries to get me to provide. For this reason I rank single moms higher than obese chicks. So Question 4 Men: How about you? Would you rather date a girl over 200lbs who has no kids, or a single mom with a sick body? (Both are equally nice to you and have an acceptable face)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:00 PM
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she can probably stop eating for an entire year and still be overweight LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/21 04:41 PM
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this comment really hits. i feel exactly what you described. all the magic from my early teens and twenties is gone and now all that is left is objective reality that women are hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:35 PM
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well i don't go to bars much but yea most of the places I go are male dominated. but i guess i'll look out for sushi bars and expensive art bars lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:19 PM
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the thing is astrology and things like myers briggs and attachment theory really pull people in because it gives generalized info which applies to 80% of people and makes you feel like its correct. so its not lack of criticle thinking. more like gullible/susceptible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:18 PM
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this is unironically good advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:08 PM
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there are but they tend to be older/retired people. i did notice more women in the trail running groups but i'm intimidated because i never really ran just for fun (only when murderers are chasing me)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:07 PM
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i do enjoy yoga i havent been in a while. the thing is I kinda feel like girls know guys just go to yoga to be in more women dominated environments so thats why I want a more even ratio where its equal girls and guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:07 PM
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yes that was inserted into my comment in jest i know women go outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:05 PM
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should i start my own Atlas Shrugged/Ayn Rand book club to find the fierce cut throat bitches? i'm not into the princess type who read fairy tales like 50 shades of gray
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:04 PM
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Q4W: Where can someone go thats not a total sausage party? I'm noticing even 10:1 guy:girl ratio in some places. Do women even go outside what the fuck. I don't mean like yoga class where its reverse and maybe 1 guy with 10 girls. just something that is more even ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:56 PM
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never had to study. still got good grades tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:15 PM
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id like her to be my workout partner. maybe my bodyguard too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:28 PM
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believing one thing was going to happen but the opposite happened. for some guys: we were taught being nice and caring would get us the girl and money helps. this was proven false when we learned girls like hot guys for some girls: they were taught having a vagina makes every guy want them. this was proven false when they get the guy to have sex then he leaves and she is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:47 PM
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even though its a little bit tougher to get laid as a guy... every day I wake up with gratitude knowing i'll never be a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:01 AM
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nope. get back to work peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:59 AM
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this sub with less than 100k people on it gets a similar volume of comments as subs with over a million. thats nuts. this place is like the watering holes in africa for all the critters from across the savanah and prarie to meet except instead of animals its fucked up traumatized autists i love it here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:44 AM
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if you are a 4/10 and you are only going for rich model guys then I'm going to make fun of you all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:11 PM
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we all have a little bit of each, but your feeling side is your dominant side. thats why you wrote that you would rather not know and just enjoy the moment. my thinking side is dominant to my feeling side. its not that i never feel, its just most situations I would rather get the facts and make a rational decision even if it feels shitty. in all fairness I should add that just like you I don't care to know her past. but its because i don't plan on ever marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:53 AM
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yea pretty much zero effort for 90% of the pleasure. and zero chance of herpes or having to pay child support or stick your dick in a crazy that throws a stapler at your head because she saw a girl text you and it was your mom. i'd rather die alone than get with an obese
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:46 AM
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i see what you are saying now. i have been doing nonut/nofap for a while now and when I first started I would find 60 year old women hot. literally every girl hot. i'd be literally precumming my pants with a half chub at a party just conversing with a girl. now i balance it out by watching some porn, but not jerking off to it. just watching it like saturday morning cartoons. r/SFMcompileclub is my favorite right now. i see it as art.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:00 AM
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you are one of the Feelers who think with your heart and enjoy lies that don't hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:58 AM
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happiness is overrated. the most important thing to have is mental fortitude. i believe the money I have saved by not getting married and paying alimony/child support is a big win. anytime i get sad about being on my own I just remind myself at least I'm not a single mom LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:52 AM
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no. do this: commit at first. go full beta if you aren't 8/10+. make her think she is getting to have her cake and eat it too. after 3 years of stringing her along telling her you love marriage and want to marry one day, strategically have the jewelry store website up with the wedding rings page open when she comes over. pretend like you didn't know she saw it. She won't mention it because she wants to see how the proposal plays out. get the best sex ever because she thinks you are about to prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:21 AM
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gentlemen, i have the answer to the split the bill controversy. Use the "oh shit i forgot my wallet" trick and then she will have to pay. Then SHE will be the one to want to get reimbursement with sex from YOU (uno reverse card irl) Then decline sex with her to make her double pissed off. (quad pissed if she is an 7/10 or above)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:01 AM
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did you just use the word inflation in your title to describe more options for masturbation? personally i believe jerking off is about 90% as good as sex, especially if you only do it once a week or once every two weeks and you edge. its also 1% of the effort as trying to get laid as a 6/10 guy in 2021. but a lot of guys want that external validation of being wanted and fitting in with society which masturbation totally misses. so far I havent met any women that pass the cost benefit analysis co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:47 AM
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Does anyone here remember the app Yik Yak. Man I fucking miss that app. Best shitposting app and I actually met up with people on there. one time I met a dude at a bar from Yik Yak and he got so drunk I had to drive him home and he threw up in my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:46 PM
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nice take. i believe this is nature doing the right thing because there are too many fucking humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:39 PM
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everything is on a bell curve and you can find average statistical range of libido. it will be just like any other variable like height or strength or intelligence. some people will be at the other extreme and be horny all the fucking time and when they fuck its like spartan sex squirting all over your couch and bed and shitting on your chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:39 AM
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i guess it was all in my head or on my head i should say seems like its time for a change
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:09 AM
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Q4W: What is worse: shaving your head or having normal hair but lots of grays. i started premature graying in my early 20's. now a solid 30% of my hairs on the side are gray. Totally noticeable. i shave my head for this reason but noticed many people who shave their head are balding. I am not balding just insecure of grays. Would an attractive hairstyle but noticable grays on a relatively young guy be more unnattractive than the bald look? i'm also not really that buff so the bald might not work…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:12 AM
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i thought the central tenet for mgtow is they are going their own way by rebelling against the marriage system because they are against the infavorable treatment of males in divorce (alimony/child support). men are "supposed" to be leaders and caretakers and by checking out they are abandoning their "duty". Society is completely against these people. Similarly, childfree women are rebelling against their "duty" of tearing their vagina and asshole into one whole by shitting a kid out and creating…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:41 PM
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childfree is legit. theres too many people who think having kids is the standard way to live and question you if you don't. you are accepting of your friends choices but from my experience people think you are very strange if you don't have kids. and any online group will have the more crazy people be louder and make the rest look bad. happens in every group: feminists, conservatives, redpillers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:31 PM
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CMV: childfree subreddit is the mgtow for women. I am part of that sub and love it because those chicks are real as shit. but it often does feel like I am an outsider looking in with a group of girls who allowed me to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:46 PM
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housing won't go down too much demand from morgan stanley and goldman sachs to buy them all up with their trillions of dollars available
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:03 AM
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Good hopefully the car i want won't be reserved 3 months in advance before it is even built.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:03 AM
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lol this clip. I won't be buying puts or shorting but I will be getting out of the market in December and January because I think we are at the end of this run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:05 PM
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Federal reserve did not raise rates AGAIN. Staying patient with raising rates. Although they did reduce bond buying a bit. I can't wait until they increase the rates and start up the recession. My personal speculation is it will be in Q2 2022 because that is when corona will be "gone". I want a recession because people have it too good and need to know what hard times feel like. Women will get hit especially hard in the recession because their orbiters and simps won't have as much free money to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:43 PM
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well i hope you archived it. I got my answer and its gone now. Luckily I am decently handsome and no one realizes I have a hard time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:29 AM
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some days i feel like an 8 and some days i feel like a 4. so i'll just average it out to 6. I think what I may really be doing wrong is just being an over analyzer of everything and may be undiagnosed autist. I do visit wallstreetbets. I wrote this in my list of mantras today. I will share it with you: "Just put it out there. If they never come back then what? Will you die?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:26 PM
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well i'm not going to move just for a women. it was just a surprise to me thats all. The place I am in now is a good investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:27 PM
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those are the only ones giving me a chance. I'm wondering why the thin girls are so out of reach now when I got them before. Turns out the new area I moved to is just fat girl central because there aren't as many rich people here. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:49 AM
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i guess medium girls is the equivalent of a guy who is not buff but also not fat. I would be totally open to a medium girl. medium girl leans closer to thin for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:35 AM
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I just wanted answers to why this is happening and I got them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:25 AM
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yea i'll just cry in my million dollar house being retired at age 32 while making more money from residual income than most people do working 2 jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:16 AM
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yea for sure. I think we may be having a miscommunication on how fat we are talking. The experience I have is straight up women who do not care and totally let themselves go. So maybe I am talking about overewight bordering on obese and you are talking about overweight bordering on normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:01 AM
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I have and I think they are better than big girls. Maybe its just because I am so dedicated to staying in good shape that it is off putting to me when someone doesn't care, while the face is something you can't really control for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:37 AM
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makes a lot of sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:35 AM
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I see. This issue I am having could largely be because I moved to a completely new part of the world then. Thanks for this explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:24 AM
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I see what you are saying. I might be in a fatter area then where thinner women are scarce and possibly more fit better looking guys than me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:11 AM
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why is this shit so retarded. Literally worked my whole life to become a good looking millionaire just so women who can't not eat ice cream for breakfast every day can look down at me? Well its comforting to know others are also going through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:01 AM
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hell yea. I haven't seen anything like this yet. This is hilarious. Also pretty much confirms even shy beta tactics seem confident when you are a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:27 AM
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according to BMI that would be normal so 7 if they have a good face. And yes this is all subjective for my preferences. I'm just trying to figure out what is going on I never had problems getting thin girls and now its insane even though I am doing better than I have ever done in normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:19 AM
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I want to see a Chadfish experiment where he is NOT a dick but rather a super nice sweet guy and see if girls think its lame even though he is a Chad. so far all the experiments are that he is a total douche and I feel like that turns them on even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:04 AM
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its possible i'll admit it. maybe i am being too eager due to my perceived scarcity of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:43 AM
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yea i feel a lot of "You ain't shit" energy going around. I feel like most women are a bunch of lowlives I think they feel the same about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:54 PM
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I'm 5'10" 160-165lbs. Not sure why my looksmatch is a fucking 225 pounder who is even shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:08 PM
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All I am trying to say is that this is what it seems like is what is going on from my perspective. It just seems like all the thin girls are so out of reach and the only girls that make it easy to get to know them all weigh more than me and are 100lbs overweight for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:59 PM
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many people have told this to me. Unfortunately I do not like traveling. Maybe if I get to my goal of 8 figures then I will take a one way trip out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:58 PM
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oh yea i right swipe them but rarely match. And if we do match usually no text back. And if text back then once I suggest meeting they stop responding. Pretty much if they are thin even without a good face then they are too out of reach. I tried giving fat girls a chance but its just not worth it to me anymore. Too many risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:37 PM
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Here is my analogy for this: Lets say you are hungry. Starving in fact. You haven't ate in days. Now someone comes up to you with a plate and sets down a napkin with a knife, fork, and spoon. You are salivating getting ready to finally eat. Then your server turns around, pulls down his pants, squats down, and takes a dump on your plate. Are you going to eat that turd? Even though you are starving? I wouldn't. I will die starving before putting a doodoo in my mouth and chew it then swallow it. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:00 PM
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I needed this one today. Thanks for writing this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:52 PM
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damn.. I think I am an alpha widowed male. In my 20's I had some hot girlfriends and now when I am on dating apps I just left swipe all day. Especially on the hinge app, damn, all you have to do is not put fucking sugar in your mouth is that so hard? I still think being single is better than being with someone you look at and think "damn, I am only with you because I couldn't get any better and am afraid to be alone"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:51 PM
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We are all going to die no matter what. when you go back to where you were before you were born you will forget about everything that occurred in life like it never even happened. I guess it is good for evolution though? Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:20 AM
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I guess acting like a jerk kinda does work then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:06 AM
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both are equally unattractive because fat people are usually depressed and use food as a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:04 AM
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hot girls have people be nice to them their whole lives so as soon as someone comes around and tells them how it is without being nice they find that to be extremely attractive. I'm not good at this i'm too friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:01 AM
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you are the exception. Mostly from my experience if you are too nice they find you boring. I'm not giving up but its pretty discouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:55 AM
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well I like the optimism in this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:02 PM
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this is an aspect of life I have never considered. good for those guys then, if thats what they are into. once you are making that type of money and have no worries financially then why not purchase what you want if its available and you can't supply it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:53 PM
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just saying its just below the chad levels and lumped in with 6/10 so thats why i put them together in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:52 PM
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upvoted for being my favorite answer so far. definitely freaks are having a good time finding other freaks and I am happy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:51 PM
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i think we mostly agree then, however, I am interested to know why you believe women are also losing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:20 PM
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I think 6/10 is average and sub 5 is below average/ugly. 7/10 is still below top 20% and although will still do well if they put in work and have good game. This is the zone I can't really get past because I don't think I ever really challenged myself to really become outstanding at athletics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:18 PM
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I lumped them in with the 6/10 guys because it was easier, but definitely 7/10 guys have a good shot. I still think its not the guys who fuck on the first date but maybe I just hung out with some real killers in my day. 7/10 to me is like just starting to really get it going but still not obsessed and always catching myself looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:13 PM
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Women definitely want the whole package and even if you are really good in many aspects, missing one or two of those key aspects hits really hard and many times in a disproportionate manner to what you believe that it would matter because it wouldn't be as big a deal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:10 PM
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so you are including 6 into average? I think sub5 is definitely average and below but my belief is a 6 is starting to get it going. Regardless of where you believe a 6 is you are also saying these guys actually had much more of a chance before online dating but now getting assblasted. I can believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:58 PM
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