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3

Or for a more contemporary example, you can always point to Merkel.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 12:22 AM
1

Don't mill yourself. You're going to fuck up someone's life more than you can possibly imagine.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 07:13 PM
45

I'm sure the admins will take stern action against SRD brigading right away! /s
/r/MensRights02/07/15 01:22 PM
5

Then I would advise all male participants of this gym to organize a class action lawsuit.
/r/MensRights26/06/15 12:44 PM
1

I would suspend judgement until you actually meet, and then if she is as you suspect, tell your gf you are uncomfortable and feel unsafe around her.
/r/MensRights26/06/15 12:26 PM
33

Alternatively possible: she was trying to hit on you and this was the worst pick up attempt of all time.
/r/MensRights26/06/15 12:22 PM
7

I don't know British law too well, but would it be possible for a male member to sue for a return on the dues in excess of the female price?
/r/MensRights26/06/15 12:19 PM
1

I miss when the history channel was about history.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 11:53 PM
6

What the fuck is Roosh V forums? Who the fuck is Alex Kozak? Why the fuck is Cenk always so sweaty?
/r/MensRights23/06/15 09:12 PM
6

Well, if it was possible to collect the data, accidents per hour driven would be the best driven.
/r/MensRights18/06/15 01:12 PM
2

Is this a proposal to keep women out of schools?
/r/MensRights17/06/15 09:17 PM
4

Hitler was a vegetarian. This does not make all vegetarians supporters of the Nazis.
/r/MensRights10/06/15 01:26 PM
6

Well, we're supposed to, but....
/r/MensRights10/06/15 12:38 PM
2

OneY was being discussed as a "feminist subreddit," but that's not an accurate representation of the bulk of its users, even if it is for the mod. Seems relevant to me.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 10:50 PM
79

Most men say that. We got a long ways to go.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 10:48 PM
3

I understand that - my point was that there is a wide gap between the agenda of the mods and that of the bulk of the users.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 10:31 PM
2

OneY is run by feminists, but they are a minority of the user base.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 10:07 PM
24

Before we do that, let's check and see if this is grounds for a title IX violation.
/r/MensRights03/06/15 01:30 PM
12

I have never heard of a dress code anywhere that wasn't more strict for boys or men than it was for girls or women.
/r/MensRights28/05/15 02:37 PM
3

Maybe it should be then.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 05:23 PM
2

I might go next weekend with the gf. This weekend is pretty busy for me.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 08:32 PM
5

MRA here, go see Mad Max, I don't care.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 08:31 PM
2

This belongs in someplace like /r/4chan, not here. The attempts find link between Yahoo's downward spiral and men's rights is extremely tenuous at best.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 12:50 PM
2

Women can be topless in NY, thy have hat right. They've had it for a very long time in fact. Their choice to do so it not is their own.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 12:40 PM
3

It's quite clear that it is not inherent. Look at criminal sentencing disparities.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 03:59 PM
2

I know I would fail every attempt.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 05:19 PM
-3

That's his decision, not ours, and we need to respect whatever he decides to do.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 12:40 PM
3

In their defense, becoming an army ranger is really, really hard.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 12:11 PM
26

Try telling that to a feminist. He is telling that to a feminist. The OP of this thread is one.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 07:56 PM
2

For the ease of our readers, the states on this list are in alphabetical order: Alabama Colorado Florida Hawaii Maine Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Nebraska Nevada New York North Carolina South Carolina Texas Utah Vermont Washington Wyoming On my mobile, let me know if I missed one.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 05:13 PM
1

It entirely possible that she just wanted you to be ignored about the working environment there. Let's not jump the gun here.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 03:20 PM
4

Nearly every genocide and human rights authority that has occurred in history has been justified by its perpetuators as "for a good cause."
/r/MensRights01/05/15 03:12 PM
16

His choice. Not yours.
/r/MensRights27/04/15 08:57 PM
2

I think Texas sometimes gets a worse wrap than it deserves because it gets lumped in with a lot of the Deep South states and all the redivision shit you see there, gets the "hurr durr rednecks" stamp, and not much else thought is put to it, which is a shame. This makes it all too easy to overlook progressive steps being made in the right direction. No state gets everything right, and being from NY I don't think legalizing gay marriage gives my leverage to criticize in light of all the other stuf…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 07:50 PM
3

Trends in marriage law enforcement vary from state to state. From what I have heard Texas is more of a deviation from the norm than the rule, being that it is uncommonly fair. I however live in New York, the "fuck you fathers" state.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 07:26 PM
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I mean, let's imagine there is a facility with only unisex bathrooms. Would you find it unreasonable for someone to ask for a bathroom exclusive to their gender? No. Adding a set of sex exclusive bathrooms is reasonable. But that's not what this is. This is taking the unisex bathroom - the only bathroom - and making it women only for a part of the day, leaving the men with no bathroom at all for that time period. To the men, this would be to say "I'm sorry the bathroom is women only for the next…
/r/MensRights27/03/15 01:10 PM
2

Well, if you get a chance you should see if thy can provide you with a source and edit it in here. Worth a shot.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 12:54 PM
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Unless they've secretly overturned the Duluth model that they instated, they haven't done shit to help men abused by women - they haven't even undone what they did to hurt them.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 05:41 PM
3

Men are not to blame for a bigot's inability to distinguish between desire and demand.
/r/MensRights20/03/15 02:11 PM
0

Warren Farrell? Does he still count as a "feminist?"
/r/MensRights20/03/15 01:55 PM
2

You should have asked him if it's okay for for him to punch her if she makes a mistake, and if not, why is the reverse true.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 02:52 PM
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No. Being sexist is a choice each individual makes or doesn't. They have the power to, through their actions as words, stop being sexist. Whether they do or do not is up to each one of them.
/r/MensRights13/03/15 11:53 AM
1

Tax incentives are fun and all, but I think this article is ignoring elephant in the room: with growing frequency, men view marriage as increasingly high risk, less rewarding, a worse investment, or in any other words a raw deal. This concern is not being addressed (or even acknowledged) in earnest, and until that changes I don't expect to see any noticeable change in this trend.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 01:55 PM
1

You have to find an woman who is truly exceptional.
/r/MensRights11/03/15 04:47 PM
1

The message is great, the graphic design team...needs improvement.
/r/MensRights10/03/15 08:33 PM
3

My best friend since the first grade joined the army out of high school (while I went to college) and became a medic in the 82nd, where he severed three tours in the hell that was Iraq and Afghanistan between '04 and '08. When he got out he went to school to become a nurse. He graduated just a few months ago, and is now working at a hospital in Pittsburg. So as someone who has a vested interest in the treatment of male nurses, I just wanted to say: thank you.
/r/MensRights10/03/15 06:20 PM
1

Relentless reading? I assume this is a typo, yes?
/r/MensRights10/03/15 05:49 PM
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Will they be reimbursing men for the hours they do not have gym access?
/r/MensRights05/03/15 01:56 PM
3

I don't know if it's their nature so much as our reaction to mens weakness. I mean, making fun of men for being sick is pervasive enough for the term "man flu" being crafted to mock them. What kind of man would want to admit to being sick in such an environment.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 04:20 PM
1

How can men stop rape that they themselves did not commit?
/r/MensRights02/03/15 02:45 PM
0

With time and patience, it is possible to recover from a kidnapping. It may not always happen and it is not easy, but it is possible. You cannot heal from murder.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 02:20 PM
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Your like a Nazi who wants to help Jews. Schindler?
/r/MensRights27/02/15 01:22 PM
1

This is an opportunity for understanding. I think a lot of people a just very wary. We've witnessed a awful lot of people toting the "I'm a feminist and I care about men," only to turn around and express hostile views towards men or demand more be done to prioritize the needs of women instead. (Consider Emma Watson's UN speech plugging the He for She campaign, as an example.) These people have been burned before. Quite a lot. Probably more times than they haven't, and now they have been conditio…
/r/MensRights27/02/15 01:18 PM
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Men are disproportionally the victims of violence, murder, suicide, police and military brutality and workplace fatalities. If our sons were treated like our daughters, they'd still be alive.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 07:17 PM
2

This primary aggressor laws, not the Duluth model, FYI.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 04:52 PM
1

It's a damn shame. There are no winners here.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 06:21 AM
1

Shit, I need I be accrued of lying. I got bills, $20k would be a big help.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 10:44 AM
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It could be argued that Richards has actively made the tech industry environment more hostile to women.
/r/MensRights22/02/15 10:42 AM
2

His reaction was excessive and unacceptable.
/r/MensRights20/02/15 04:16 PM
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Anyone who feels entitled to chivalry deserves none of it.
/r/MensRights19/02/15 04:29 PM
3

Or a title IX violation.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 02:24 PM
2

Might be best to make sure your sons don't find out you love them less than hypothetical strangers. They might resent that down the road.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 02:03 PM
1

I wouldn't oppose that rule.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 07:57 PM
1

There is such an incredible amount of rhetoric and media out there that acts to shame and ridicule men into a position of submissive ideological adherence, a constant pressure mandating the embrace of it, that it would be folly to think that no otherwise reasonable and well intentioned person could be broken by it intensity.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 06:40 PM
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Even if a good thing does not last forever, it has still existed.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 06:28 PM
1

People are stupid, and neglect common knowledge all the time. There evidence to prove malice is not as great as the evidence to prove stupidity.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 06:23 PM
2

She probably didn't know any good about guns, and that's why her boyfriend is dead. Education about gun safety is extremely important and extremely lacking.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 06:20 PM
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You are only accountable for what you yourself have done, and don't ever let anyone hold you to otherwise.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 07:25 PM
1

I don't think that makes you a misogynist, but that doesn't mean it wouldn't be a good idea to apologize for the joke. At the very least, it is fair to be apologetic about the fact that your joke made your friend feel bad about herself.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 04:04 PM
1

I've been not hitting women my whole life. I'll take that reward now.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 05:44 PM
4

It's funny, all they had to do was make one for women and problem solved. Doesn't even seem that hard.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 05:34 PM
21

It was once. Especially if you where black.
/r/MensRights27/12/14 04:46 AM
1

Why even engage such people?
/r/MensRights26/12/14 06:50 AM
2

Women got even? I didn't notice a spike in women's homelessness or suicide rates this year. I need to pay more attention to the news.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 03:42 PM
12

This isn't specific to women.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 03:35 PM
2

I think it would be the agents fault for not negotiating better contracts, rather than the actors and actresses themselves.
/r/MensRights17/12/14 03:48 PM
3

I have witnessed the uphill battle my cousin fights with the courts for the wellbeing of his son. A little boy, conceived by the sabotage of his mother, found with emotional and literal scars after nearly every visitation with her, abusers, neglected, and abandoned at the hands of this "mother." A woman who tries to teach him violence, tries to teach him to say cruel an hurtful things, tries to teach to him hate. Hiding behind a judge that will do nothing about it. That will ignore the recommend…
/r/MensRights15/12/14 09:44 PM
0

They said "potential."
/r/MensRights12/12/14 05:53 PM
14

Humility is key to an apology being perceived as sincere.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 02:04 PM
8

Most women are not like these crazies.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 02:03 PM
3

"Close but not quite. They were covered in shit from the horrible labor they worked as peasants and serfs."
/r/MensRights08/12/14 09:36 PM
1

I think you handled it pretty well. Not much else can be done.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 09:31 PM
1

It's not like there's much they can do. Without knowing who as is or how to find her the chance of ever getting an ID and arrest is pretty low.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 09:30 PM
1

What do you think? Did The Newsroom handle this story better than the actual news? Could they have handled it worse? It seems any deviation from the norm is improvement. Look at Rolling Stone. Look at Gawker. This is where the bar is set.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:31 PM
1

I'm sorry this happened to you.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:26 PM
1

I crime that is not punished or taken seriously is not dis-incentivized, and thus can be expected to occur in greater frequency.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:25 PM
1

We generally do not like you guys because almost all things you guys are saying feminists agree, We do not prioritize women over men. Your actions don't seem to agree there.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:11 PM
1

All allegations are more likely to be true than false. That doesn't mean we should destroy people's lives on allegations alone, or that allegation = guilt.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:09 PM
2

Did you make this account just to post this rubbish?
/r/MensRights04/12/14 09:31 PM
2

You should set an "equality bake sale" right next to them. "Everyone: $0.79"
/r/MensRights04/12/14 09:27 PM
1

I got about 10 slides in and think I saw enough to get the picture. Your friend's arguments are pretty childish, vapid, and often ill informed, although yours are not much better. I'm not sure how you expect us to react to this quarrel's existence. Is there a specific point you'd like to discuss in more detail?
/r/MensRights26/11/14 07:39 PM
1

An opportunity to educate.
/r/MensRights26/11/14 07:31 PM
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How does one infiltrate an open discussion? That's like infiltrating a 7-11...can't you just walk in?
/r/MensRights26/11/14 07:29 PM
2

The one on the left is not old enough to consent.
/r/MensRights26/11/14 07:18 PM
2

It's pretty clear that zero actual research was done for this article, as spending 3 minutes in a capital city would undoubtably result in seeing multiple characters under level 10.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 06:59 PM
1

Nobody owns international men's day, so any bigot can make a web page and claim it to be the international men's day site. Don't oppose the entire day, just oppose this site.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:55 PM
6

Maybe the reason men kill themselves at such a higher rate is the gaping void of empathy had for them, as exemplified by these comments.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:52 PM
1

I wish I had as much power as Sarkessian.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:49 PM
3

"Daily reminder that you can't be chastise people for and offense they were not alive to commit, against those not alive to be offended."
/r/MensRights17/11/14 10:37 PM
1

Well I hope the author learned something valuable.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 08:00 PM
7

The relationship is usually symbiotic, with each benefitting from the others presence.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 07:27 PM
1

When you get enough views that your video gets advertisements before it, you get a cut from the ads.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 07:24 PM
0

I don't support him, but this seems excessive. The guy may be an asshole but he's not a terrorist.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 08:52 PM
1

The intersection of feminism an traditionalism.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 08:51 PM
1

So when a woman is abusive or controlling of a man, is it her male privilege too?
/r/MensRights13/11/14 08:36 PM
3

Draft.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 08:53 PM
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You say not all feminists hate men. Imagine a bowl of M&Ms. 10% are poisoned. Go ahead, eat a handful. Not all M&Ms are poisoned.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 08:47 PM
1

I can't help but read that article and think "you reap what you sow."
/r/MensRights04/11/14 01:35 PM
2

Jesus fuck. I used to like that place. It was one of my favorites.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 07:24 PM
2

In the long run it's not.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 06:44 PM
3

I assume you will be banning all SRS users as well then?
/r/MensRights02/11/14 03:40 PM
8

I would like to see this answered.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 02:10 PM
3

People are concerned because it gives each mod total impunity to impose their views on the users, and at least than one mod has extremely hostile views towards many manifestations of masculinity, and MRAs in general. It is very difficult to believe that biases of such intensity will have no impact whatsoever.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 02:09 PM
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What reason do long time subscribers have to believe you will not use this power to bias the discussions towards your own personal views (either consciously or subconsciously)? Given that there are no apparent checks against such abuse (assuming you even view it as such), transparency of moderator actions and that virtually any comment about more than one person could be argued to be a generalization and this removable at whim, it would seem that this change gives totalitarian control to whichev…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 02:05 PM
1

The discussion was more heated but it was more alive! People would address real problems, both individual and systemic.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:57 PM
2

Murder is worse than rape - should we legalize rape then? I would hope not.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:12 PM
1

Hell I guess I'm a feminist too then. I wish Anita was one.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:09 PM
1

GamerGate is primarily focused on journalist ethics. Many feminists, or perhaps SJWs would be a better descriptor, have been using journalism corruption as a vehicle to push their agenda, and have responded to the calls for reform by taking the side of backing the status quo of journalism and resisting efforts to change it. Therefore while GamerGate is primary focused on journalism ethics, in doing so they are de facto in opposition to SJWs, many (most?) of whom declare themselves feminists.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 04:16 PM
1

GamerGate is making a lot of gamers anti-feminist. Even more, this issues should have never had anything to do with feminism to begin with. The SJWs drew the first line in the sand that declared gamers the enemy that needs to be destroyed, not the gamers themselves. GamerGate has only responded in kind.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 04:06 PM
0

When feminism takes men's needs as seriously as women's, it will be something men need.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 03:58 PM
2

Because they them selves are circumcised, or have made the decision to circumcise someone else.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:58 AM
2

The only one of these that is really a men's issue is her thinking men are disposable. It's also the most concerning, in my opinion.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:54 AM
1

"Things where better when I was your age!" Every generation for the last 3000+ years.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:53 AM
1

There was a front page story a few days ago about a woman who murdered a bunch of her patients. Serial killers are always men because you ignore it when they are woman.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:47 AM
2

God forbid you actually give a shit about the victim.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 11:42 AM
1

Because people are Perrier than their convictions.
/r/MensRights24/10/14 04:53 PM
1

Fascinating.
/r/MensRights24/10/14 04:45 PM
1

They did? I was not aware of this.
/r/MensRights24/10/14 02:43 PM
1

You're a god damn senator. Damn, I had liked this one.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 07:44 PM
2

So was the number of planets, and look how that turned out.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 07:34 PM
1

Then that needs to be arranged in court.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 07:32 PM
2

It may be to him. It's not your penis to cut.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 07:27 PM
1

That's a good point.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 02:17 AM
2

I'm always amazed at the amount of people who don't know what fascism is.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 11:10 PM
2

Yeah they should be sent to a different charity that is gender neutral.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 11:03 PM
2

It's a very convincing argument that they take hear issues seriously. /s
/r/MensRights22/10/14 11:01 PM
1

Well in a way she's right - those in power would face a loss by the imposition of equality. However, because she conflates all men with the elite <1% of men, her solution is to lower the position of all men, further winding he gap of inequality for 99% of them in order to take from the very top. In essence, she using equality as a banner to perpetuate inequality - the only change being a new rotation of faces at the top.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:03 PM
2

The idea that we should treat all individuals of a group as poorly as the worst of the group has treated us is the foundation of racism, sexism, and virtually all bigotry. It is always interesting to see who is promoting it these days.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 12:35 PM
2

Essentially to starve them out. We treat wild animals better than we treat our poorest men.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 12:29 PM
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As long as our societal strategy to combat men's indifference is blame, shame, and punish rather than empathy, understanding, and compassion, this problem will get worse.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 12:28 PM
1

It's so fucking cold this morning the thought of a dress would have never crossed my mind.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 11:57 AM
1

It's rather strange to see a world where parent care more about the treatment if hypothetical strangers than they do their own sons.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 03:41 PM
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You don't get to claim the work of others as your own because you both happened to have a penis. Get this crap out of here.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 03:31 PM
1

She is the Rush Limbaugh of feminism. It's best just to my give her attention.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 02:48 PM
1

Well, they are sex positive for women. Not really for men.
/r/MensRights20/10/14 12:07 PM
1

No, it's like saying that some cops kill innocent people without rebuke. While not all police are accountable, this behavior is unacceptable and they need to do more than be complacent with the policies that enable it if they want people to not despise them.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 03:05 PM
1

What they "represent" is irrelevant if their actions ruin actual people's lives. A cop should not be given a free pass to kill unarmed civilians, just because he/she is supposed to represent justice and safety.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 01:06 PM
1

GMP? Isn't that the same site that told men they should allow women to rape and assault them, and simply take it?
/r/MensRights16/10/14 12:57 PM
1

Blaming men for the decline in marriage is likely what is causing said decline.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 12:54 PM
26

A 16 year old boy has more accountability than an adult woman?
/r/MensRights16/10/14 12:49 PM
2

AMR seems far more obsessed with anders breivik than anyone else, and talks about him much more than any MRA. Maybe it was AMR? They already are okay with re-modding people banned for doxxing, it's not like this would be outside of their moral wheelhouse.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 12:46 PM
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Do feminists not believe that women are not perpetual children but adults, capable of accountability for their actions? Seems this one doesn't.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 12:40 PM
1

Because they do not care about it. Denial justifies apathy.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:47 PM
2

The MRM is certainly not traditionalist, and if you think it is then I highly doubt you have come here from an open minded or well intentioned position.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:36 PM
2

When you see you doctor, ask if similar services are available for men. If so, explain why you found the poster deceiving. If not, ask what you should do if you are a man and don't feel safe at home.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:33 PM
1

Good. Not only is this a big step for equality, but a big deterrent for military aggression. People will be more resistant to war if it risks the demographics they are sympathetic too.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:05 PM
1

And they wonder why men are so reluctant to marry.
/r/MensRights13/10/14 03:04 PM
2

Michael Kimmel pretty much straight up hates men who aren't Michael Kimmel. I don't know why you bothered.
/r/MensRights13/10/14 02:54 PM
1

Why do rich people still want more money?
/r/MensRights13/10/14 02:53 PM
1

Well, the daughter was victimized.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:19 PM
24

Because men don't get treatment.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 12:06 PM
2

That won't stop us from blaming them.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 11:46 AM
0

Can't blame them for looking out for themselves.
/r/MensRights10/10/14 11:44 AM
1

"Well I don't hate you because that's not what I'm about."
/r/MensRights09/10/14 02:12 PM
1

Lawyers.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 05:44 PM
1

I have talked about individual issues, for which her opinions have varied.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 05:43 PM
1

They tried to make it okay in law too. http://ww2.nationalpost.com/m/wp/blog.html?b=fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2013/12/13/barbara-kay-prof-makes-bizarre-plea-to-place-battered-women-above-the-law
/r/MensRights08/10/14 05:24 PM
2

Care. I mean genuinely care. Feel as much sympathy for men as you do for women. Have as much concern for men's sensitivity and weakness and vulnerability as women's. Believe what he says as much as you believe her. Be as worried about his safety, his future, his happiness and emotional wellbeing as hers. Show it as intensely. Speak it as loudly. Recognize your own predispositions and work to improve them. Don't pine about equality in one moment and then turn around and say and do things that dem…
/r/MensRights07/10/14 07:30 PM
5

Maybe we should ask the alleged victim if she feels it was an assault, since we know who she is, and get her opinion on whether it should be torn down.
/r/MensRights07/10/14 05:11 PM
1

Who would enforce it?
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:34 PM
1

Trying to play "who is oppressed" is a waste of time and distracts from addressing actual issues. Leave that crap to the misandrists.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:31 PM
1

So then the problem isn't that some men are like, but that some people are like this, and some of some people. And yet, AMR is always so eager to portray negative behavior as attributed to men. How strange.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:11 PM
1

Man's life is not what he felt it should be? - blame men. Woman's life is not what she she felt it should be? - blame men. That's AMR equality for you.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:09 PM
2

While I would expect it to occur more frequently with men, as they are much more often socialized to view their touch to be perceived as potentially predatory or malicious, I would not be surprised if some women also had compulsions about physical contact.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:05 PM
1

The important part is that people see this issues not as MRA issues but as humans concerned about humans issues that have been too long ignores when they affect men, because that's what they are.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:01 PM
2

Why any company would want to have ties to this cluster fuck is beyond me, and I certainly don't blame intel for wanting to get out of the controversy.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:50 PM
2

Trust you girlfriend - "you're an idiot!" Don't trust your girlfriend - "you're a misogynist!"
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:25 PM
1

A lot of people take a plea deal when charged - even when innocent - because they are convinced they cannot win.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:19 PM
9

'MRAs don't care about black men who are falsely accused.' Brian Banks post on the front page. 'MRAs don't care about gay men.' Post about a gay mans struggle living with HIV and abuse on the front page. 'MRAs don't care about the sexual assault of young boys.' Post about a boy who was sexually assaults by a woman in the front page. Okay then.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:14 PM
1

How much of that money does Banks get? How much of his life does he get back?
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:12 PM
6

From reading what he's said about it, he's done it from a place of concern. He thinks she need help.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 01:47 PM
1

I assumed thy were referencing the specific fox hunting tradition, with the horns and dogs and stuff.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:25 PM
1

85 75 68.75 "Considerate realistic egalitarian with several strong convictions."
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:24 PM
1

Then why don't you fight the parts of the patriarchy the benefit women with the same fervor of those that don't?
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:03 PM
2

Male bodies are disposable for the utility of others. This includes women, naturally.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:02 PM
9

I honestly don't think this is going to get any better until a women is victim of this abuse of justice.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 11:54 AM
11

Everything I hear and see about this Eron guy makes him seem like he's almost some sort of paragon of humility who is perpetually having his life shit on by an abusive girlfriend/ex.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 11:50 AM
3

Do you think this complaint was typed out while drinking for a "I bathe in make tears" coffee mug.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 07:54 PM
8

That's great to see.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 07:47 PM
6

Unless that student is over the age of consent, that poor judgement was the decision to commit statutory rape.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 07:40 PM
1

Where the men's rights issue? All this post does is illustrate that the justice system did it's job right this time.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 07:36 PM
8

I can't wait for this true feminism to be the one running NOW, lobbying governments, influencing policy, and given speeches at the UN! Sounds like it's going to be great - whenever that happens.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 07:37 PM
11

Oh, good .^
/r/MensRights01/10/14 07:12 PM
3

Are you actively encouraging a brigade?
/r/MensRights01/10/14 06:03 PM
6

If it was issued by the town, it most likely includes those professions because the local government asked employees to volunteer photos.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 06:02 PM
143

The thing is, I know that if he would have hit me he'd be in jail right now. If he had called the cops on me I don't know what the penalty would have been Depending on where you live, it's very much possible that if he called the cops on you, he might be in jail for the night too. Also you owe him a new coffee pot.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 05:58 PM
1

My girlfriend watched this last night and was initially confused as to why it didn't surprise me at all. It was an eye opening experience for her.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 05:53 PM
1

MRAs don't have celebrities speaking to the UN for them.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:35 PM
2

God forbid we actually give a shit about men for men's sake.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:26 PM
1

The recession has hit men particularly hard, which is further aggregated by indifference to this fact.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:25 PM
5

I would just respond that you find this email insulting, that you will not tolerate being shamed over your gender, and that you will be withdrawing your support for this campaign. Thank you have a nice day blah blah blah.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:11 PM
5

Good intentions unraveled by bigoted language. Such a waste.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:01 PM
1

Oh okay. I'm just discovering this topic.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 03:49 PM
1

So it's isolationist?
/r/MensRights30/09/14 03:41 PM
1

Isn't it weird that eras with less egalitarianism between the sexes produced the greatest works of art and literature? That seems more like causation than correlation.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 03:36 PM
1

Depends on the content and context mostly. Maybe?
/r/MensRights30/09/14 03:25 PM
7

We do not blame feminists for the practice of non consensual circumcision. However, there is a legitimate grievance about the hypocrisy of defending non consensual circumcision of men, or indifference to non consensual circumcision if men, while being fervently against the non consensual circumcision of women. This discrepancy is particularly apparent when feminism is lauded as a (or perhaps "the") vehicle for equality of both women and men. Other objections are being told that our opinions or f…
/r/MensRights30/09/14 02:47 PM
4

That's the thing to keep in perspective: while certainly a raw deal, this is way better than why was the status quo previously.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 02:13 PM
0

As much as I disliked the deception in her speech and the bait and switch that is the the HeforShe campaign, I think this article was excessively harsh.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 02:11 PM
2

Most men I know love the idea of being a stay at home dad, but the idea of finding yourself with a woman who is both eager and able to support such an arrangement is as laughable as banking on winning the lotto.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:56 PM
2

I'm not sure the person being murdered is consoled by the fact that the one murdering them coincidentally has a similar set of genitals.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:40 PM
8

The problem is not the speech itself, but that it is using the discussion of men's issues as a selling in point to plug a program in which men are called to serve the betterment of women. Essentially it is a "bait and switch." A lot of people saw though it, and are reacting negatively to the deception.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:33 PM
2

I think the people over at /r/kotakuinaction would be in a good position to help you out.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:19 PM
1

Truly bad people do not believe they are bad.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 06:43 PM
2

Probably shouldn't advocate murder.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:16 PM
1

I would be as surprised to a woman 50lbs heavier than her photo as one 50lbs lighter. It's almost like I have seen a picture to allow me to expect what she looked like.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 06:16 PM
3

I'm glad to see this being taken seriously.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 06:11 PM
1

Why Warren?
/r/MensRights26/09/14 05:53 PM
2

Charities rely on sympathy for funding, and people just don't sympathize with men and/or boys as much.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 05:51 PM
6

This is NPR? This reads like the daily mail or some other click bait garbage. Damn, they sure have gone down hill.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 05:49 PM
1

I'm actually genuinely curious how one could come to that conclusion.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 09:53 PM
1

Well, you're posting content that's not about men's rights in a men's right forum, so...
/r/MensRights25/09/14 09:30 PM
1

So when Zoe Quinn doxxed and harassed people running the Fine Young Capitalists contest to get more women into game development, what misogyny was she fighting then? How was she the victim then?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:34 PM
1

And I didn't want to get doxxed. Relax. We're not moderators of AMR.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:32 PM
2

What about what Zoe Quinn did to the Fine Young Capitalists? What about the person she dozed? What amount the women participating in their project? Are they not victims of her?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:30 PM
1

Because those jobs are dangerous and not well paid. Seemingly, this deems it accept to leave them for men.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:26 PM
2

Did you create this troll account just to post this?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:23 PM
2

Only if you plan on banning sororities too.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:17 PM
1

On the other hand, an innocent accused rapist is hardly going to just put his hands up and say "whatever", he's going to fight tooth and nail. You mean like how Brian Banks took a plea deal?
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:16 PM
7

It's really kind if sad how no one can see the merit in not treating dads like shit until they realize it negatively affects women as by doing so, as if there is no inherent humanity to a man in of himself.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:14 PM
2

Some people are just jerks, but it sounds like they got what thy had coming.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 07:55 PM
4

Or anyone really. They sounds like douchebags.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 07:03 PM
3

Yeah I think it's fucked up when victims are blamed for what has happens to them. I also think it's fucked up when people are blamed for injustices they did not commit. So I guess I'm in a bit of a pickle.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 06:55 PM
1

If it's booked for a private event they can refuse who they like.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 03:27 PM
6

Another blow to justice, equality, and men in eduction fall a little farther behind.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 03:15 PM
1

"I want to know what she did, that promoted him to beat her." Also heinous.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:28 PM
2

A lot of times rape victims blame themselves for what happened (either partially or fully). Edit: I'm proud of you OP. You did a good thing.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:19 PM
1

She's her mom. Of course she's on her side.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:05 PM
3

Progress is progress, even if it is slow.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:00 PM
2

I'm sure it is well intentioned, but I can't help but suspect that this is going to be another "let's pretend to care about helping men in order to get more men to help women" campaigns, as 'feminism for men' so often tends to be.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:00 PM
2

It is if they claim it to be, as they so often do.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 02:47 PM
1

Doesn't that kind of prove the point of the hashtag though? Minorities exist to help feminism more that feminism exists to help minorities.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 02:39 PM
2

Some do.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 02:35 PM
2

If, despite their intent, their actions produce the aforementioned result, then neither comment is wrong.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 02:30 PM
8

As if boys were not already falling behind in education...
/r/MensRights19/09/14 08:05 PM
2

Some "buddy" you are. Friends don't fuck friends wives behind their backs.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 02:01 PM
1

I think I have earned the right to be seen as someone that supports breast cancer. You're god damn right you have. Anyone who dare even think to criticize you - even by association with some generalized group - about not supporting breast can go fuck themselves with the business end of a rake. You have done more to support breast cancer victims than most of them probably ever will. Don't you ever forget that, and don't tolerate for a second anyone who would talk to you like that's anything but t…
/r/MensRights19/09/14 01:53 PM
1

I could barely believe it myself until I saw it.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 01:23 PM
6

Some rape is probably about power. And some isn't. Murder isn't always about the same thing, why would rape be?
/r/MensRights19/09/14 01:16 PM
4

I'm glad she was terminated, and I hope he wins his suit, but who the fuck wrote this trashy article?
/r/MensRights19/09/14 01:15 PM
2

It's not that I hate feminism, I just don't trust it.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 12:26 PM
1

It's is the traditional gender role of men to not complain and suffer silently, so don't feel like a whiner - you're fighting the problem.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 12:25 PM
23

Because they don't have to.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 12:16 PM
8

Makes perfect sense to them. Cis male = bad. Anything else = good.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 12:10 PM
3

If you didn't know her personally, it was probably for the best.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:40 PM
3

I'm in favor of equality for women, but no if it comes at the price of injustices against men.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:29 PM
3

Yes.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:27 PM
1

She sounds like a trad con.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:26 PM
6

That doesn't sound very equal.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:11 PM
7

Asking what a man did to deserve to be the victim of such an attack is like asking what a woman did to deserve to be raped.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 05:09 PM
1

Don't forget he lobbies who guide the hand that writes policy. Them too.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:32 PM
1

Well when you define rape as something committed by a man, then yeah, men commit 99% of it. Like if we defined murder as an act committed by a woman, then 99% of murders would be committed by a woman, and men who killed people would be guilty of something else - manslaughter I guess? Fortunately we don't do that with murder, because is insane and sexist as hell. Rape on the other hand...well, we're working on it.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:26 PM
1

Well, to answer your question: I am OK. Good! <sup>.</sup>^
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:23 PM
2

feminism isn't actually stopping the MRM in its legitimate claims. Didn't NOW block alimony and marriage law reform in Florida, and attempt to block it in NJ? Was it not Mary Koss, a feminist that specifically excluded men from the CDC definition of rape? Was it not feminism that generated the Duluth Model of domestic violence, and pushed it upon shelters nationwide - effectively preventing men who are abused by women from getting help or being taken seriously? Are the rape and domestic abuse of…
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:13 PM
3

He went overboard on self defense. A haymaker knocking her unconscious and dragging her around like an old carpet was over the line.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:56 PM
1

As long as the don't go all GMP with it, it should be great!
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:53 PM
2

She says he gave her a mean look, flipped her the bird and started coming toward her car and so she had no other option but to kill him because she was afraid for her life. Then how was he shot in the back four times, if he was coming towards her?
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:48 PM
1

Bail is based in flight risk, not crime severity (although crime severity affects said risk).
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:46 PM
3

I don't know. Right next to it they have a very clear 78.5% of suicides are men.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:36 PM
1

Baby steps, I guess.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 12:32 PM
4

Sometimes you're out of options.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 11:58 AM
4

Hells yes. Choice over out bodies may be right around the metaphorical corner.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 06:25 PM
11

Would you be a feminist, and campaign for women's issues, if the feminist movement placed greater importance on men's issues too? Yes. Many if us were in fact feminists once, and the refusal to address men's issues with the same vigor and gravitas with which women's issues were address is the reason for becoming MRAs.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 01:31 PM
3

Uh yeah, because they are against the rights of men.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 01:29 PM
10

So did the pill.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 01:10 PM
1

Opposition to patriarchy is selective.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 08:27 PM
5

How did we manage to breed to be populous enough to make a society in which such a construct could be made?
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:17 PM
1

"Yeah, I don't like discrimination against men. I hate it in fact, so maybe that makes me part of a hate group...but I can't help but wonder, why don't you feel the same?"
/r/MensRights09/09/14 04:53 PM
2

I don't know any MRAs who even own a fedora, so no. Not my experience. Not sure why someone would believe that.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 04:41 PM
2

I believe in social justice and human rights. Ok. I rallied with the local LGBT crowd in my town to help pass an anti-discrimination ordinance. I made the video footage of the city council meeting available to the public online. Ok. I donate to the ACLU, HRC, public radio, innocence foundations, and others. Ok. I'm one of the original members of our local food co-op. I helped them set up their point of sale system using Linux. I helped them change their practices which were slightly discriminato…
/r/MensRights09/09/14 04:35 PM
2

My girlfriend's father is a refugee from North Korea. Everyone born in a western country has had a privileged life.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 07:01 PM
4

Under what law would you have her arrested?
/r/MensRights05/09/14 11:42 AM
2

This is how we help fight for men's rights.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 03:15 PM
1

You know, this idea is starting to grow on me.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:51 PM
2

I'll admit I'm not too keen on brigadiers or trolls.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:50 PM
2

Many MRAs were feminists who left due to the reluctance or open resistance of feminism to address men's issues in sincerity.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:37 PM
5

Then go be fooled somewhere else.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:33 PM
1

It's urban dictionary. This is a website for people who want to know what bizarre hypothetical sex acts like an "Alaskan pipeline" or a "Cosby sweater" are. Do you really care what it says about gender?
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:23 PM
3

And how is that relevant to men's rights?
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:12 PM
4

Equal treatment of men under law and policy. Empathy for men, as there is for women. A slight reduction in trolling would be nice too, but not a primary concern.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:08 PM
3

Why is this posted here?
/r/MensRights03/09/14 06:06 PM
7

They haven't even apologized for duke lacrosse yet, and it's been years.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 03:05 PM
1

Trad cons aren't much better.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 03:00 PM
-1

3 is a really small sample size, and could just be coincidence.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 02:53 PM
1

Oh I'm quite confident they do. Pretty much everyone on the Internet with a public opinion on anything does.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 02:50 PM
5

I don't understand why anyone would think that rape is not a serious enough crime to be handled exclusively by the police.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 02:31 PM
2

Because it's a bad thing, and bad things are done by men.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 04:20 PM
1

I like the general idea, but I think it needs improvement. One idea - the statement should be made more succinct and poignant. Brevity What about: "Their blood is not your to shed." Simply place the feather (or picture of the feather) on anything condoning violence towards men. Also, dark red paint it more sanitary than blood, and less painful on your fingers, should anyone use actual feathers.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 04:08 PM
3

They will mock the boycotters until the next quarter's numbers come in. Then they will listen.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 03:50 PM
2

I wish you had taken a larger photo so we could see more than one sentence.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 03:48 PM
29

Apparently a women who is a rapist is still a better parent than a man who isn't.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 03:43 PM
1

Sure, as long as the education doesn't become bullying itself.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 04:47 PM
2

Be a women. Commit heinous war crimes and authorities. Go to United States. "A man hit me." Get asylum. Escape justice.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 01:35 PM
3

This reminds me of that episode of Futurama where Leela plays Blurnsball (sp?) and is so horrendously bad at it that it inspires other women to demonstrate that women can be good at the game.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 01:18 PM
2

I think this is a wonderful invention and I really don't understand why anyone would be against it. It will help the prevention of roofied drinks, and facilitate the arrest of those who would perpetuate this heinous act. What's not to like?
/r/MensRights29/08/14 01:03 PM
2

Well, up until the splashing part I thought it was a very nice gesture.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 12:57 PM
6

"Teach men not to rape" reinforces the idea that women cannot be rapists
/r/MensRights27/08/14 07:01 PM
1

Okay. I denounce the red pill.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 03:54 PM
1

I think they are just in general population.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 03:53 PM
19

Yes and when they do that for ill, they are also wrong.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:43 PM
24

Treating a person poorly because some other person with some similar characteristic(s) treated you poorly is not acceptable behavior. That mentality is at its core the very foundation of racism, sexism, and nearly every other form of bigotry: that any individual member of an arbitrary group are partially accountable for the actions of any individual member. Until we all see every single other individual person as just that - a person - and not a intrinsic component of a collective we have come t…
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:42 PM
2

Good to hear there's some support for these poor boys.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:29 PM
109

One 4chan user did a bad thing. In response, 57,000 feminists do a bad thing. Yes 4chan is part of the problem. Specifically, about a 1/57000th part of the problem.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:05 PM
1

I hope that guy makes the right decision.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:00 PM
1

Or that their position as a teacher affords a pedophiles opportunity to act, and thereby get caught. If a pedophile works in a biology lab and never interacts with children, then it is less likely anyone will ever discover her/his pedophilia.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 01:50 PM
9

How are you combatting the patriarchal construct of only men being predators? Because right now it seems like you're defending said patriarchy.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 01:44 PM
2

When I see feminism exerting the same levels of effort to combat abuse against men as they do abuse against women, then I will concede that thy are trying to fight the "patriarchy." That point has yet to come.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 05:17 PM
0

Someone needs to promote the idea that men are not monsters, and it sure isn't going to be coming from Jezebel.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 05:10 PM
1

Oh good, Michael Kimmel. I'd love to hear some more about how all men are monsters for not being Michael Kimmel.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 05:02 PM
1

Forcing a pregnancy on an unwilling partner is a deplorable act, and only a horrible person would do such a thing.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 04:54 PM
1

Another bullet point on an already extensive list of atrocities.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 04:50 PM
3

If we treated the women who support is like that, then they should not support us.
/r/MensRights25/08/14 04:13 PM
1

It hinges wildly on the context of my living situation.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 06:44 PM
1

This entire thread is hypotheticals generalizations. I thought that was the point.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 06:42 PM
1

Ask them.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 06:20 PM
11

She took a plea deal to testify against him. Still 5 years is way low, I'm surprised they gave her such a lenient deal.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 05:23 PM
2

That's not a confession. Wrong meme.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 05:19 PM
9

This post is doxxing him. You need to edit out his personal information, and should remove his face too.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 05:17 PM
1

There's also discrimination in the justice system, the absence of support services for men in comparison to women, the alarming decline of men in education, the gap in empathy towards men's suffering, and the lack of protection of bodily autonomy rights for men. If you're going to comment in this sub, you should probably read the sidebar first, as such is considered compulsory in most subs.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:58 PM
1

That's a pretty fucking big deal, although it does not encompass all inequalities against men.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:43 PM
1

Screenshot it, go to the police. Worse case is that say they can't do anything, and you just have to block him.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:41 PM
1

We don't need a men's history class, we just need men to be treated equally today.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:38 PM
1

Maybe? I don't know enough about it.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:32 PM
1

When we have a verdict, then we can call for action.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:22 PM
1

I don't know what the Swedish version if the EPA is, but they should be very concerned about possible contamination of food, water, or air. I hope someone finds an answer soon.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:21 PM
3

The latest ridiculous anti MRA crap on college humor mentioned a guy not wanting to give up his seat for a woman. Why should he? Does she own the seat or have reservations on it? Is she disabled or rendered unable to stand on her own power for some other reason? Why should she receive preferential treatment to a man, her equal?
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:17 PM
2

Male objectification isn’t about making men feel bad. It’s about not caring how men feel. So much for "feminism helps men's issues." I do find it rather peculiar how often feminists and traditionalists seem to have he same stance towards men's emotional well being.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 02:06 PM
2

We are attempting to address an area which has gone neglected in the pursuit of equality. That does not mean we are indifferent to other areas of equality. If one man washes dishes and another dries them, do the both not contribute to clean dishes?
/r/MensRights21/08/14 04:11 PM
83

I'm pro abortion and had I been in the vicinity (and been Irish) I would probably have attended this rally, but the moment this speech was over I probably would have dropped my sign and went home. This is rude, disrespectful, and insulting to the men supporting this cause, and the mentality of it bears striking similarity to that of people who are rude to wait staff and people of their service industries that they consider "beneath" them. This is not how you garner support for your cause. This i…
/r/MensRights21/08/14 03:24 PM
1

The absence of empathy for men is appalling, or it would be if it wasn't so commonplace.
/r/MensRights21/08/14 03:05 PM
4

I am against the death penalty, but pro consistency. Its a tight spot to be in. I don't want to see people executed, but I also for want special treatment by gender.
/r/MensRights21/08/14 02:58 PM
5

Where's the humor?
/r/MensRights21/08/14 02:55 PM
30

You handled that well. Make sure you're never alone with her going forward. She cannot be trusted with your bodily autonomy, and your safety is not to be taken for granted in the preserve of a person who does not respect your right.
/r/MensRights21/08/14 02:48 PM
1

Who would resist that?
/r/MensRights21/08/14 02:40 PM
3

It means that I am expected to treat women far better than I that men, lest I be branded a misogynist. I prefer to treat all as equal.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 01:24 PM
1

Why do you even engage these people?
/r/MensRights20/08/14 01:16 PM
5

One day one of them is going to say "no." That's the guy you're asking for.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 01:11 PM
1

Good.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 01:04 PM
1

NY has a bit of a reputation for being particularly ruthless with fathers.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 12:45 PM
5

Report to police. You have a witness.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:40 PM
1

Uh, so?
/r/MensRights19/08/14 08:35 PM
1

Slavery existed for most of civilized history, in which women and men would be owned by other people, so yes, women were often property in the past.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 04:43 PM
15

most people who agree with basic feminist ideologies really aren't the kind of people that would be okay with sitting back and leeching - which is why it's so hard for us to understand/take it seriously unless we literally experience it. And that's the problem. These same people who will not believe or take seriously the countless men who suffer, the same people who dismiss their suffering and the injustices against them - simply because they have not witnessed it firsthand - they are the ones a…
/r/MensRights18/08/14 07:54 PM
1

Run and hope she's not a track star. The law will not defend you.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 07:19 PM
5

Being a black man is like being schrodinger's rapist on overdrive.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 07:18 PM
3

That's a terrible generalization of women.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 07:12 PM
1

A. Countries besides America exist, and draft men regularly. B. Arguably, one if the best deterrents against military aggression would be the elevated potential risk of something the public cares about, which in the case of America may be its women (it is certainly not its men). Ending selective service may not deter military aggression, but including women in it just might - and ultimately that is more important.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 06:46 PM
1

Hate.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 02:29 PM
1

Yes it would mean that. However, much of the reason the MRM exists is because of feminism's colossal failure at alleviating men's gender roles, particularly in comparison to what they have done for women.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 02:20 PM
5

But who will kill the spiders?
/r/MensRights15/08/14 05:39 PM
2

The disposable are chewed up for the profit of corrupt politicians, and we call it justice.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 10:38 PM
3

Yes. I was, and I do.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 03:43 PM
1

If I was a girl, I'd be intact.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 01:35 PM
1

He was polite, civil, yet informative and clear in his argument. Excellent response.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 12:29 PM
2

The vast majority of people killed in nearly all conflict are men. War is the biggest men's rights issue, and the most challenging.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 03:12 PM
2

The racial disparity is as heinous and disgusting as the gender disparity.
/r/MensRights06/08/14 06:43 PM
15

I think the problem is the boys of America are already facing so much demonization, so much mockery, so disdain that these "jokes" have become extremely hurtful. How much contempt are our sons supposed to just shrug off? How much mug should they laugh outside while they wither inside? How low must the self esteem of our boys be before we can muster the humanity to say that maybe enough is enough?
/r/MensRights06/08/14 06:37 PM
2

Yeah, but native to this area. Left a few times but always ended up coming back. There's something about this place....I feel like it has this unrealized potential for something great. Anyway great to see other Rochestarians in support of men!
/r/MensRights05/08/14 03:39 PM
2

...Whoah, I'm in Rochester right now. This is uncanny.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 03:31 PM
2

And here I thought just not treating people differently based on gender would be enough.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 01:59 PM
2

I don't know about Vancouver, but in NY it's pretty damn illegal, with the exception of sublets.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 01:56 PM
2

"we wonder why the problems facing boys and men of color are taken more seriously than the problems facing girls and women of color." They're not. We spend 4.5x as much on girls as we do on boys.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 01:50 PM
2

Well that's just silly.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 01:49 PM
3

Because a woman's life is valuable and yours is not.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 01:33 PM
1

First step to fixing the problem is recognizing that it exists.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 02:34 PM
8

As a person with a size 14(us) foot, this is rather mean. My toes get stepped on enough without encouragement to do so.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 02:29 PM
2

He sounds like a very fortunate man.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 02:27 PM
1

I want this woman to pick my poop. I am going to go outside to a park, drop my trousers, and take a leave, steaming dump on the grass. She better pick it up, or get fined by the city.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 02:22 PM
5

Let's hold the pitchforks till we know what happened.
/r/MensRights01/08/14 02:18 PM
1

It would seem then that de-incentivizing such false claims (perhaps through criminal charges or family court penalties?) would be an effective method to reduce legal and administrative costs in the long run. In a time when most nations are struggling to balance their checkbooks, it would seem that the decision to "do the right thing" would also be the pragmatic one.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 01:37 PM
23

At the end of the day, the core issue with infant circumcision is: it's not your penis. If it was your penis, you can do whatever you want with it. You can cut off your foreskin. You can braid your pubes. You can pierce your glans. You can tattoo Hunter S. Thompson's face on your shaft. It's your penis, do what you want with it. Go nuts. But if it is not your penis, please do not touch it without the owner's permission.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 01:32 PM
6

AMR just had a mod shadow banned for false rape reports literally days ago...
/r/MensRights30/07/14 08:12 PM
2

Then choose carefully, and don't feel you have to be with someone. Taking the time to pick the right girl is worth it, I assure you.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:27 PM
1

I have no problem with this. I could really use 80$, and given how much more severely the economic crisis pummeled men than women, so could a lot of other men.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:17 PM
3

Don't encourage brigades. We're not AMR.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:15 PM
2

In order for the victims to get support, we need to accept the idea that not all women are angels, and not all monsters are men. The cognition of this truth is growing, but far too slowly for those outside it's wake.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 06:12 PM
1

I'm glad that you and your dad got your happy ending.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 08:42 PM
1

Probably not the best move if you want men to support feminism.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 01:29 PM
2

What's a strawcait?
/r/MensRights28/07/14 09:21 PM
2

Anyone can be funny. It's just a ton of work.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 09:03 PM
2

Generally yes.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 12:24 PM
3

He admits to being a male feminist in the thread. I would not be surprised if this was done in an attempt to cultivate material to demonize men.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 01:04 PM
3

Probably. I know I am.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 02:39 AM
1

I will help people to what ability I can, within reason. Gender is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 02:37 AM
4

It's a hell of a lot better than the nothing that was being done before.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 03:55 PM
2

Women = children?
/r/MensRights26/07/14 03:52 PM
3

That's like every PD in America.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 01:24 PM
2

I think you are making the hasty assumption that the author gives a shit about the emotional well being of men.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 01:12 PM
2

Seriously. If they hate men so much, why can't they just leave us alone?
/r/MensRights25/07/14 01:09 PM
2

Are these rooms explicitly labeled as women's restrooms? I ask because if not they may be unisex (which is legal). Otherwise this is a massive code violation, and you should get the place shut down.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 03:03 PM
2

Well it is sexist, just in a way which is socially acceptable.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 02:54 PM
6

I think I'll go buy some Cheerios.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 09:34 PM
6

Looks like he'll be flying delta from here on out.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 06:06 PM
8

Then the men just decide "fuck it, I'm not that hungry," eventually followed by the opening of a "where have all the good men gone" complaint stand.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 04:05 PM
2

I can send you some.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 02:54 PM
11

Show men the same empathy you show women.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 02:53 PM
2

Tell your brother yourself. Maybe your family can help you cope with the stress and keep your head.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 02:36 PM
5

Penny was he only compotent person on that show. Pretty much everyone but her was a damsel in distress.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 02:30 PM
1

If he is guilty then so be it.
/r/MensRights21/07/14 05:38 PM
1

Heh, not with Vicks he shouldn't.
/r/MensRights21/07/14 05:15 PM
2

It's interesting to see how (Isaac Brock) being the victim of a false accusation of rape influences the lyrical content of the "Moon and Anarctica" album, particularly in the track "Dark Center of the Universe."
/r/MensRights19/07/14 02:38 PM
3

Good. Do not tolerate violent behavior, ever.
/r/MensRights19/07/14 02:16 PM
1

It really does bother me sometimes that the contents of my pants make my life so much less valuable.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 06:22 PM
2

It's a mixed bag. Some it's really good, taking a hard but empathetic look at some serious men's rights issues. Some of it's really bad, with Michael Kimmel shaming men for not being Michael Kimmel. Most if it's somewhere in the middle.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 06:16 PM
1

I got no problem with bronies. Good for them.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 06:07 PM
1

That's very unfortunate to hear. If you'd like to share more about it our other issues your faced, you can always find someone tin listen at /r/malesupportnetwork.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 05:20 PM
1

If this is true it is extremely sad, but I am glad the girl is in a stable home now.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 05:06 PM
2

It is very sad. Considering the violence towards the daughter, as well as the abusive patenting practices, I would say this is an extreme case. No child deserves to be raised like that.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 05:05 PM
-7

She didn't get away with it you know. She's going to prison.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 04:51 PM
4

I think it would help immensely.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 04:27 PM
11

Education is failing our boys - your boys - and it's not getting much better. Boys will revive harsher punishments for misbehavior, less attention from teachers, less academic scholarship opportunities, and less programs that cater to keeping boys interested in education. At best, many education systems can be seen at treating boys with a sort of fatigued apathy or indifference, whereas at worse they treat boys as defective girls. Now, I don't know you, I don't know how old your sons are, I don'…
/r/MensRights18/07/14 03:26 PM
26

Like it or not it is controversial. The status quo is not in support of men's rights. We seek to change that. Hence the controversy.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 05:13 PM
6

Maybe when the case is over she will be. We don't know yet.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 04:30 PM
4

I don't know why people complain about Todd Akin anymore. That guy lost his job in the election for the idiot things he said. As far as I can tell, that's exactly what should have happened. People make it out like he "got away with it," somehow.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 04:08 PM
6

If you know that mutilating an consenting child is wrong, you know all you need to.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 03:39 PM
2

You sue the battled you can win. The grounds on which the case lost have been removed, we should be able to win this now.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 05:40 AM
8

The most effective strategy we could use to combat military aggression is include women in selective service.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 05:37 AM
3

Get comfortable.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 05:06 PM
2

No it's just dumb. Also possibly a copyright infringement.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 05:05 PM
5

What happens when these 95,000 women graduate and can't find any men with similar educations/incomes to date or marry? Should be an interesting decade coming up.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 05:03 PM
11

Most people are too dumb for STEM.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:57 PM
1

That's pretty cruel to people who have PTSD from things like, being violently abused, rape, near death experiences, military conflicts, and other horrifically traumatic events. These people can't escape these events. You can walk away from your monitor.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 02:25 PM
3

She has no ground to stand on. If she wanted privacy she could close her blinds. She just wants to intimidate you for whatever bizarre personal reasons. Relax, you're fine.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 02:16 PM
1

Most are not.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 12:30 PM
33

Get this red pill trash out of here.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 05:25 PM
58

Complain. Get the other men to complain too. There are 5 of you to every one women. If your employer won't be fair, force their hand.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 04:33 PM
1

So obviously he loved dulling sensations.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 03:54 PM
1

You start applying this standard to women and it'll be overturned in a year.
/r/MensRights09/07/14 01:40 PM
0

I would call for help or help via a proxy, depending on applicable context. I doubt I would intervene directly, unless life was imminently in danger.
/r/MensRights08/07/14 06:34 PM
6

What happened? Hard to say. I think for the most part, feminism won - at least in the west. Discrimination against women is pretty damn illegal, and is recognized by both state and society as reprehensible. But they needed to stay relevant. There's a lot on money and power in feminism, and people with money and power self one choose to freely give it up. So a new purpose is forged - to exceed equality for women, to elevate women not up to men but beyond them. Any unfairness against any women is …
/r/MensRights08/07/14 03:25 PM
1

...damn
/r/MensRights08/07/14 03:02 PM
1

Where are you?
/r/MensRights08/07/14 01:54 PM
2

I think a few days of public education on anatomy would cover it just fine without the political ideology.
/r/MensRights08/07/14 01:45 PM
7

But we don't know that of the one she murdered - because she murdered him.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 07:52 PM
1

Because they have to
/r/MensRights07/07/14 07:43 PM
1

Was she convicted?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 07:00 PM
9

And what is the son's opinion on the matter?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 06:46 PM
4

Rape is a form of sexual assault.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 09:22 PM
1

What is there to debate? I am in support of the rights of men, they are against them.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 06:55 PM
2

If they are okay with hating men and you are a man, then they are okay with hating you. Friends do not hate their friends, and so they are not your friends. I'm sorry for your loss, losing a friend always hurts.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 06:37 PM
1

...he's mocking you isn't he?
/r/MensRights03/07/14 06:07 PM
1

Because mocking men is his feminism?
/r/MensRights03/07/14 05:56 PM
2

It's kind of like how conservatives say liberal hate America, or how people Who disagree with Israel's policies are accused of being anti-Semites.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 05:20 PM
1

Oh okay, thanks :)
/r/MensRights02/07/14 04:56 PM
1

The pride parade in my city passes in front of my house, and I usually set up a stand to give out free ice water to the people in the parade (I'm starting to think they pick the hottest day of the year in purpose. /s). But I don't march in the parade or anything, being not gay and all it doesn't seem to be my place. I also don't vote for politicians against gay rights, cause screw those jerkoffs. Also my roommates are gay, and we all get along fine. Selena to me to big part of supporting gay rig…
/r/MensRights02/07/14 04:06 PM
1

What does "pram" mean?
/r/MensRights02/07/14 03:38 PM
1

Real men don't give a shit about what you think real men do.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 02:27 PM
1

Probably because it is.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 02:21 PM
1

The acceptable feminist man is Ryan Gosling minus thought and individuality? That's a pretty telling standard.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 02:18 PM
1

Additionally, having the entire population vested in a potential war is a stronger deterrent against it. It's not the prettiest solution, but it would be the most effective.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 02:02 PM
1

Bravo to your dad for putting a stop to all the harassment.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 01:53 PM
5

Then we best hope she has a daughter.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:39 PM
5

Sounds like mr. Branch is doing so great work. It's a refreshing change of pace to see people like him approach the struggles of boys with empathic compassion, and action, rather than shaming and ridicule for their shortcomings, as we saw earlier. Ashanti sounds like he's exactly the sort of positive male role model these boys need.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:38 PM
5

Because it's your body, and it should have been your choice. You may like being circumcised, (and I'm glad to see that you're happy with it) but that doesn't mean you should tolerate it being forced onto others. If you had a tongue piercing and liked it, would you then call for the piercing of the tongues of newborn babies everywhere? I certainly hope not. It is not the circumcision itself that is the problem - it is forcing it onto someone, particularly children unable to even speak for themsel…
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:19 PM
1

Well his right to consent it.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:09 PM
3

I don't think that's even enough for some of them.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 04:53 PM
1

He was an adult. She was not. You can make the case for "reverse the genders and it would be different," and you'd probably be right - but the law should be consistent.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:42 PM
2

Most of us are happy to answer questions, even if they have been asked before. Leave it up. Keep asking anything you're curious about. There will be trolls though. Best to just ignore them.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:35 PM
1

"Terrorists" seems a bit hyperbolic.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:29 PM
2

Best of luck. Be sure to let us know how it goes.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:27 PM
1

Can't say I am all that surprised. The demographic the justice system is most sympathetic to would find it easiest to exploit that system against the demographic it is least sympathetic to.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:56 PM
1

Then buy more tomb raider, buy more portal, buy more metroid, show the industry that there is a demand for games with female leads by making game with female leads in demand. Video game development is a business that Is dependent in profit. Make the time/effort/money spent making games with female leads worth the return by purchasing them.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:41 PM
9

I don't necessarily blame it on a failure of empathy, more than a sort of perceptual "innocence." The efficacy of a malicious person using a false accusation is in malicious the exploitation of popular beliefs and morality of decent people, and the tendency of such people to assume decency in Rape is truly horrible, and any decent human being would never lie about it. As we all sometimes do, people project their thoughts (to a degree) onto others and assume others are like minded decent people w…
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:08 PM
46

When your view of men is a a utilitarian one, then your reaction to a broken man is the same as to a broken tool: annoyed.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 07:34 PM
1

Is a man's life valuable in a vacuum, or only in relation to a woman?
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:00 PM
2

Ah yes, always looking for new creative ways to take a shit on our veterans. God bless America.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 12:45 PM
2

Innocent until proven guilty.
/r/MensRights20/06/14 01:05 PM
5

Good to see someone standing up for victims.
/r/MensRights20/06/14 12:36 PM
3

A lot have, I believe. Happens fairly often, sadly.
/r/MensRights20/06/14 12:02 PM
1

So much for not reinforcing gender roles.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 08:51 PM
1

Why celebrate any kind of hate?
/r/MensRights19/06/14 08:36 PM
1

It is both, really. Just as the treatment of black men in court is a men's rights issue and a racism issue.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 08:30 PM
2

So no scholarships or programs then? How specifically are feminist today educating the world that men are not all potential monsters, as the gender role for them says? Explain how feminist educations and campaigns like "don't be that guy," "Schrodinger's rapist," and "men can stop rape" are dispelling that gender role instead if reinforcing it, and how those campaigns educate people that men are not rapists/monsters/criminals. Because it seems a lot like they do the opposite, and I'm really stru…
/r/MensRights19/06/14 08:24 PM
3

Yes I'm serious. How are they specifically challenging these gender roles that hold men back in these professions? Are they spending the same amounts of money and time on scholarships and programs to encourage men to go into nursing and teaching as they do to encourage women to go into engineering and mathematics? Are they challenging the construct of men a monsters and/or potential monsters (ideas like Schroeder's rapist)? Are they challenging the construct that only men are sex criminals (idea…
/r/MensRights19/06/14 04:55 PM
0

This sounds like an abusive relationship.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 02:38 PM
2

So what are they doing about it?
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:51 PM
3

Boys also have to adhere to the same, or stricter dress codes. Equality is not preferential treatment.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:33 PM
2

How do we know this author is a feminist?
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:30 PM
2

Still, it's better than noting, which is what boys got before.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:28 PM
2

What is so horrible about giving a shit about the well being of a man? Is he too not human?
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:22 PM
16

Why should a women get to determine what happens to a man's body?
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:19 PM
5

Including women is the best way to prevent a draft.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 11:08 AM
5

men can still opt out of direct child-rearing responsibilities in favour of just pa That's still a responsibility.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 11:06 AM
1

Let them come.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 05:54 PM
3

Using Father's Day as a vehicle to take a cheap shot at dads for not doing enough and not being good enough parents is pretty low. It's supposed to be a holiday expressing love and gratitude for fathers, not scolding and lecturing. The woeful absence of empathy is tragic, yet predictable.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 05:43 PM
1

Mind the language. He's 15, you may get him in more trouble.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:42 PM
1

I'm sorry this happened to you, and you have every right to be upset. I'm glad to hear your father is more sympathetic to your side; even if it won't lift your punishment, it will at least give you someone to talk to.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:39 PM
22

Suicide. Legal inequality. Absence of empathy.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:45 PM
6

People who are against men's rights have an incentive to make negative associations to it.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:15 PM
0

I think you may be splitting hairs over semantics.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:08 PM
14

My mom taught me math.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:29 PM
1

Where does this mention patriarchy?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:45 PM
3

Why are you with someone who does not respect your concerns or feelings? She doesn't have to agree with you to treat you like a decent human being, a bare minimum requirement for a relationship. You don't deserve this sort of treatment from anyone. Don't stand for it.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:36 PM
2

Yikes. Sorry this happened to you, hope you're okay. Did you try to press charges and the DA rebuffed you?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:24 PM
1

Well, it is FOX...
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:15 PM
2

A law was passed fairly recently that women cannot be excluded from any roles, including all combat roles, in all divisions of the US military. I believe it is being phased in already, and will be in full effect by Jan. 2016. So this example may no longer be relevant. As far as I know, I believe you're still right about the topless thing.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:06 PM
1

I think it's good to stay focused in legal issues, and we should work to maintain that focus. Having tangible and clear objectives are the foundation to successful change. Edit: on a side note, can we all agree that the erosion of abortion rights is a bad idea?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:59 PM
34

So the solution is to have them report to a shittier, incompetent police surrogate with no legal authority, and put the entire process to them? That's moronic. If you're a college administrator and someone reports a rape to you, you should be forwarding that to the police. As I would hope you would do with murder, robbery, assault, or other serious crimes. Rape is too serious to be taken this lightly. Edit: surrogate not surfboard. Phone :/
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:57 PM
1

If your girlfriend wants you to be there, you need to find a way to make them let you, or raise hell trying. She need you; don't take no for an answer.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:52 PM
2

The only thing that matters is how the son takes it. As long as the compliment is received as such, everyone else can bugger off.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:43 PM
12

It may be related to the "weight" they place on their emotions as a valuable factor to influence behavior. Fathers may place less merit in emotion base decision making or behavior, and this are perceived to be less emotional by themselves and others, whereas the opposite is more likely true for mothers. Of course that's all my speculation. Either way, fascinating read. Can't wait to see dad this weekend.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:37 PM
65

George Will's article was shitty. His writing is poorly articulated, his analogies are broken, and his arguments are scatterbrained and erratic. When push comes to shove, it was a shitty piece, and I get why it caught so much flak. But that doesn't mean we should dismiss the greater issue here: Why the fuck are we not handling criminals accusations in the criminal justice system? The sheer insanity of relying on a handful of unqualified college employees to do the jobs of judges, detectives, pol…
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:21 PM
1

Keep mocking them victims then.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 03:22 AM
1

I'm not to spend hours trying to dig through a year's worth of hateful comments of yours trying to pinpoint a particular insult among a thousand others. You mock men who have suffered trauma that is not expressed in your acceptable range. It is the core of your action. You are hate filled person, with no intent to change or work towards any sort of peace or civility. Believe whatever you want.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:27 AM
1

Oh, now you extend the olive branch to draw the eye from the dagger? Get one thing straight, there is no "they" -there are only individuals. No one person is accountable for what all others say or do, only themselves. This is particularly relevant on a debate sub, regardless of if you choose to disregard it. 5th law doesn't speak for every MRA no matter how much you want him to for the ease of your hate fueled agenda here. I'm trying to improve this place, you're trying to destroy it. You hate m…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 10:14 PM
3

I cannot being to articulate the immense hypocrisy of an avid AMR user criticizing others for being too hateful. You can cherry pick an open forum for the most ridiculous comments you can find and posit it as the core of the MRM, but that does not make it accurate, no matter how much your burning hatred of the MRM lusts for the sight of the fuel to perpetuate itself. The same dishonest cherry picking can be done to AMR and things equally if not more so heinous. Even other AMR users have come to …
/r/MensRights12/06/14 08:41 PM
1

I think that's immensely better than the status quo, and much more realistic an objective.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 07:13 PM
1

Do you honestly believe that if we were to poll all of the people who were in opposition to the event as to why they were upset, that "we are concerned that the money raised for security purposes will not be allocated properly," would be the top response?
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:39 PM
1

You cannot change the past. You cannot undo what you have done to your son. Accept it. However, while the scar will never heal, the pain may with time. You need to apologize to your son. Apologize for not respecting him enough, not respecting his body, not respecting his choice, not respecting his right to self determination. You cannot make it right but you can admit your wrongdoing. Maybe your son will be okay with being circumcised. Maybe he won't. It is his choice and you need to respect it.…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:21 PM
-1

Good, let him go. He was terrible before this controversy.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 05:56 PM
2

Almost all of these (except 3) are all things my dad did 20+ years ago. There's nothing new about fathers loving their children.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 05:53 PM
2

I think enforcing the existing applicable crimes of filing a false police report, obstruction of justice, slander, libel, fraud, and perjury would be more than sufficient.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 05:47 PM
1

So much pain, so much suffering for children, for fathers, for friends and family, for a lie. The suffering pouring out through this piece is heartbreaking. Paternity tests should be routine procedure at birth. The cost of avoiding a single custody or support case could easily offset hundreds of tests, and in addition to the endless legal burden, so many years of pain and heartache for children and fathers could be avoided by. Make paternity testing a default procedure: ethically, morally, finan…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 04:54 PM
2

Funny, I would think cheating and getting knocked up by another man would be the part that hurt the family.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 04:07 PM
1

I think you actually have to file the report for that the be valid.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 03:59 PM
1

Those with power seek to keep it, and in the discussion of gender feminism has had all the power. Now that the MRM begins to threaten that hegemony, they will do whatever to takes to stop them.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 03:52 PM
3

I think people are becoming more open to the idea that men are also human, and can also suffer. This progress is good to see.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 03:49 PM
1

Of course you clearly don't have enough evidence to say she's telling the truth though. Any honest court would have to acquit without some other evidence.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 03:46 PM
1

It hasn't been up long. Anyways, I signed it.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 10:15 PM
2

I'm just glad no one got hurt.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 03:52 PM
13

Sexual abuse of men and boys is a serious issue that society at large tends to dismiss and/or ignore, and that the MRM wishes to combat.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 03:46 PM
-2

An ally of convenience is still better than an enemy.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 03:43 PM
48

The best deterrent we have against domestic military aggression is the threat of a woman being involuntarily conscripted for it.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 03:30 PM
45

"To celebrate Father's Day, instead of live and appreciation, here's some shame and hate." I feel terrible for Ms. Alter's father.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:53 PM
8

Robbing fathers of their children (and children of their fathers) is cruel, manipulative, and tragically completely legal. When the law fails, it's up to all of us to do the right thing. Thanks for this.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:46 PM
11

A klansman deciding not to hate black people is good. A Feminist deciding not to hate men is good. The content is more important than the label.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:27 PM
1

The fact that they will even talk about it is a huge step.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:23 PM
1

Kuppermann and Rees: the concept of journalistic integrity is dumbfounding.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:23 PM
13

Kind of flys in he face of that whole "feminism wants to dismantle gender roles for everybody" thing, no?
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:16 PM
8

Everybody should take self defense of some kind. Not only will it help you in a desperate situation, but you will be more confident in yourself.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:53 PM
1

You have I have a really aggressive eating disorder for it to be fatal.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:48 PM
7

Maybe posting here is always a shit experience for you because you're always downplaying and dismissing men's issues in a forum about men's issues.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:46 PM
5

Guys are dying from steroid use. The only difference is that no one gives a shit.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:38 PM
5

"Jezebel promotes anti-male double standards?!? gasp" Why are you surprised? This is par for the course for them.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:36 PM
1

Doesn't seem to be working for me.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 12:13 PM
1

I do find it rather peculiar how things which claim to be "feminism for men" are so often indistinguishable from "feminism for women by men."
/r/MensRights05/06/14 12:08 PM
7

Because "real man" is a perpetually moving target that can be revoked by the user at any time for any reason to shame men into a rigid gender role.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 12:05 PM
12

Well, better than nothing I guess.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 11:48 AM
24

That is insanely narcissistic.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 11:33 AM
1

Oh no, it's perfect. It is in itself disposable - made from cheap, commonplace everyday cardboard: once the user has exhausted its utility, it is discarded to be recycled and reused by another, to be discarded again, until ultimately forgotten. Even the act of its creation is almost an expression of such disposability.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 04:03 AM
1

Be a use inequality is a moving goalpost based on the perception of each different pursuant.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 03:54 AM
6

We need women to speak for us because no one will take a hurting man seriously. Thank you.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:18 PM
2

ASMR?
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:12 PM
4

People fighting against lung cancer do not demonize people fighting against heart disease. People fighting world hunger do not attack people fighting pollution. People fighting against genocide in Africa do not slander people fighting against genocide in the Middle East. And yet...for some reason so many of the people fighting to stop violence against women seem to be infuriated by and compelled to resist at every opportunity possible, the people fighting to stop violence against men.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:10 PM
2

Are you sure they were feminists?
/r/MensRights03/06/14 02:04 PM
3

Where the hell are the men to call this out for the BS it is? Too busy keeping the water running and the electricity on to take note of it.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 03:51 AM
1

Yes. It's dangerous to walk alone at night, why would you not be concerned? Doesn't mean I don't do it.
/r/MensRights02/06/14 03:13 PM
0

These seem to be overwhelmingly about women's rights, not men's, so I don't think you have much grounds for calling them "real men's rights advocates."
/r/MensRights02/06/14 02:22 PM
3

Champion as a verb usually means to fight on behalf of or in place of another person.
/r/MensRights02/06/14 01:45 PM
4

This way is best, because it reads more casual and conversational, rather than a prepared statement. Makes it more....human.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:49 PM
1

I didn't know there was a calculable measure of pain. .... Whatever, my mom is great regardless!
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:59 PM
2

He "gained" death?
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:54 PM
2

Considering how much radically easier it is for a man to be incarcerated than the extremes a woman must go to in order to face the same treatment, this kind of works both ways #yesallmen.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:44 PM
1

I think you should just respond with "We need to have a serious talk about your perspectives on me as a person and as a man, and its impact on our relationship." Then talk to her about it. How it makes you feel, how it impacts you, how it disrespects you, whatever is on your mind.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:39 PM
2

It's almost like...being entitled is not a gendered phenomenon! But that doesn't fit into our narrative!
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:30 PM
3

If your Christian friend was a true friend to you (a Muslim) they would understand the possibility that it may be taken as a slight against and at least have the decency to preface the article with an explanation that this is not how they think of you. That's what an actual friend does - cares about other friend's perspectives.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:26 PM
3

Margin of error?
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:12 PM
10

I think that's the point: no one cares how smart you are. It may only be gendered as a woman because the speaker is one.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 01:57 PM
0

Well, given the fact that the sub has to get through the other 13 posts that derpygrooves in less than 24hours on this sub, I'd still say yes.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 04:08 AM
1

Sometimes people are disappointed when they don't get something thy were hoping for. That disappointment manifests differently for different people, because we are not all clones.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 09:04 PM
8

Why is it that a less than a day old account is following around another user and spamming about how no one on this board cares about the topics of the posts as soon as they to up, before any number of people could have read them in a reasonable about of time? Why would someone make the conclusion that no one cares about the topic, before anyone has read it?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:52 PM
1

That's a mighty hasty judgment for a post that's <20 min. old, no?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:46 PM
1

Careful Derpy, While it may seem that OP was unsympathetic to his friends insecurities, she was at least as unsympathetic to his own. Assuming that only the man need apologize in a reciprocal offense, as well as that only women's fears and vulnerabilities need be taken with full sincerity, is effectively reinforcing rigid gender narratives that suppress men from being able to express themselves honestly and fully, and cope with their own issues and fears (a suppression which hopefully something …
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:41 PM
1

I would just point out to her "the way you reacted when I brought up these issues is sadly why we cannot be feminists." If she and others like her embraced our issues with open arms we could be feminists. But they don't.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:13 PM
1

It is entirely possible she does not realize the impact it has on you. I suggest you express you concern and empathy, but remind her that when she expresses such hate and anger towards men, it is both in itself and encouraging in others, ultimately hate and anger towards you. If she valued you as a person, she would consider that impact.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:04 PM
4

Is that...legal?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 07:44 PM
1

Who you want to date is your business, and whatever criteria you have (or don't) is also your business. As long as everyone is a consenting adult, who cares?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 07:27 PM
3

Is their view of women so poor that they consider it a disability?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 06:52 PM
2

Everyone go get your prostate checked! Yes it's uncomfortable, but it beats being dead. A few awkward seconds it worth your health - get to your doctors!
/r/MensRights29/05/14 06:18 PM
0

I don't know what we can do as a society, but as individuals we can all do a little something: Empathy, especially for the weak, the ugly, the weird, the creepy. All the people we ignore or suppress or mock for not being the versions of humanity society at large wants to exist. It we can just each treat one other person with kindness and openness and compassion that we otherwise would have ignored, maybe it just might have a shot to make a difference. Perhaps it's just idealistic wishful thinkin…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 05:54 PM
1

Elliott Rodgers was an "everyone-but-Elliott-Rodgers-ist."
/r/MensRights28/05/14 09:09 PM
2

Fuck, those comments...they need even said he was violent, but he deserves to die? Where does this hate come from?
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:51 PM
1

I see what you did there...
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:47 PM
1

Yes he did. The varying degrees to which he hated women more or less than any other group are mostly speculative based on a few videos and comments, but what is certain is that he did hate them enough to justify killing two of them. The only person who knows the true motivations of Rodgers for certain is Rodgers, and he's not telling much.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:46 PM
2

Based on your post and comments below, you seem like a lucid, intelligent, and well intentioned individual with with a lot to offer. We'd love to have you in the discussion in /r/femradebates. Just keep in mind that he rules of conduct are pretty strict; if you have any questions let me know, I've been there since the beginning.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:42 PM
1

Tl;dr: a man who spoke loudly was walking his dog and tried to talk to me, so I called the cops.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:30 PM
1

And that's why no one respects the post.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:18 PM
1

Unfortunately for many people something this extreme is what it takes.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:06 PM
2

If these men (if we can even call them men) didn't bend over and take it up the arse via strapon dildo things wouldn't be in the state that they are now. Why do you feel this sentence needs to exist?
/r/MensRights28/05/14 07:17 PM
7

No. We are not equipped to properly help female victims even if thy are of female abusers, not should we pretended to be and risk doing damage. Lets not repeat the mistakes of those who have come before us; we need to know our limitations.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 07:20 PM
1

I'm sorry his happened to you.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 06:23 PM
3

And the judge gets a big fact check for his re-election campaign.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 06:17 PM
7

Hands still cuffed, you sit down in a cold, bleak room, under a fluorescent lamp, your orange jumpsuit the only contrast from the drab pallet. You wait. Five minutes. Ten. Fifteen. Thirty. Finally the door opens, startlingly you. A man in a worn and wrinkled suit walks in. Bags under his eyes. Hair disheveled. You recognize him as your public defender. Getting a powerful defense attorney wasn't exactly an option when you could barely make rent. "Coffee?" He asks. "No thanks." You respond. He pla…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 06:14 PM
1

You are responsible for your own emotions. Any warning or concern for hem by others is a kindness, not an obligation. I don't blame other people when I have an episode, not even if they indirectly caused it, because it's my experience, not them reminding me of it, which is the problem. I am grateful for their courtesy if they give it, but I do not demand it of them.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:42 PM
1

Is this prostitution?
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:36 PM
2

What about a domestic violence poster? Keep it quick and simple. No one reads a paragraph on a poster.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:35 PM
3

Maybe they're both bad people for both being violent?
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:31 PM
1

I agree. We need to be better than those who would seek to destroy us and harm men.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:22 PM
3

Well, yeah I can see how not knowing the definition of the word "if" can make life pretty confusing for someone.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:19 PM
2

I believe it. I don't like it, but I absolutely believe it.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:04 PM
3

Because two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 02:53 PM
1

Can we get screenshots for things like this so they don't get page views?
/r/MensRights21/05/14 02:43 PM
3

Well, based on the image I would say no. If there were like , 15 images and all of them where man on woman violence then you have a case, but if you have only one, then who is attacking who could literally be decided by a coin flip-not a big deal.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 02:25 PM
11

Where is Wanetta Gibson going to get the 2.6 million to pay Brain Banks?
/r/MensRights21/05/14 02:19 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 01:33 PM
1

I think you need to have.l a serious talk with this girl, because if she can't respect your concerns, your thoughts, and your feelings, then she can't really respect you, and you may need to re-evaluate your relationship.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 01:28 PM
6

I think the media coverage of Boko Haram's attacks and the attacks themselves are an excellent example of the invisibility and disposability of men in both "progressive" western and traditional cultures.
/r/MensRights20/05/14 12:15 AM
2

I doubt that would happen, but he would b looking at prison time for sure.
/r/MensRights16/05/14 12:43 AM
4

Deadbeat moms? I believe the family court term is "victims."
/r/MensRights16/05/14 12:40 AM
3

How is this even possible that a judge can order a religious mutilation? what happened to no state sanctioned religion, no less bodily autonomy?
/r/MensRights16/05/14 12:36 AM
2

I don't know, I thought Ripley was a plenty strong character without coming of a "butch," or "manly." Although I am viewing it more from the perspective of Alien, because it' obviously the better movie.
/r/MensRights16/05/14 12:31 AM
3

Being a good parent is completely independent of any religion, culture, background, or political ideology, regardless of what any religion, culture, background, or Poltoratsk ideology might tell you.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 08:21 PM
3

Because he's fishing for content to post about in AgainstMensRights?
/r/MensRights15/05/14 05:03 PM
0

So in short: a small number of men did not respect me, therefore I will be deliberately disrespectful and/or hostile to all men?
/r/MensRights13/05/14 08:54 PM
2

No, failure to censor the existence of obscenities is not an endorsement, for the same reason that failure to censor a political view you disagree with is not an endorsement of that view. The only way someone could be a proponent of such an argument would be if they were an intellectually dishonest person who was trying to undermine the rights of men, either deliberately or subconsciously.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 08:45 PM
1

...so close.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 08:31 PM
1

I'm not sure we can definitively say that that is genetically encoded, rather than culturally constructed.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 08:21 PM
1

Generally when writing about a group of people exhibiting a specific behavior, it's good to talk to at least one of them.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 05:28 PM
3

I play one cause it has a thinner profile and is easier to see around in tight corridors.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 05:27 PM
1

It is if you live in a double-wide.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 05:00 PM
1

That...doesn't really make it any better. If anything it makes it worse. Instead of ignoring make victims, now she's stating outright that hire lives we with less than a woman's happiness. Pretty disgusting.
/r/MensRights13/05/14 03:38 PM
2

Not likely. They don't seem too interested in pursuing men for it. Still, I would to play it safe. Why give them ammunition against you?
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:24 PM
1

Well, it would be good to know some basics of child emergency care, just in case.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:47 PM
1

Doesn't bother me.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:43 PM
1

You did what you could, and respect your effort. You can't for e them to to care, they must come to that on their own.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:37 PM
2

It's always a surprise to non-Americans, and their surprise is a surprise itself to most Americans. It goes to show how cultural pervasive and normalized it is in the US.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:18 PM
1

It is definitely awkwardly worded, but I'm just glad to see men getting empathy and concern.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:11 PM
3

I think anyone who kills anyone is mentally ill (barring accidents), but that doesn't justify whilst you did, or the life you took. We should not be making exceptions for who is "allowed" to kill.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:05 PM
2

Does it really matter? Seems they just did it because they were concerned for his safety and well being, and realized that even women can hurt people. What form that hypothetical harm could take isn't exceptionally relevant.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:59 PM
7

Yes. It was from a speech in El Salvador.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:50 PM
1

Did you register to vote? A lot of time that also enrolled you.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:42 PM
2

But as for basic human rights and being treated equally in the eyes of the law, workplace and society as people and not some preconceived notion of gender, things need to change there. That is all we ask. Give us that, and I will pack up and go home.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:19 PM
1

It is a relative measure of subreddits in comparison, not an absolute and unfaltering rule. Your inability (or perhaps unwillingness) to comprehend that nuance and the hostility that lack of comprehension seems to elicits is unfortunate, and alludes to the fact that conversation lacks any realistic possibility to go much further. I would suggest you take the time to distance yourself from your anger and hatred, but I suspect it would fall on deaf ears.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:05 PM
1

Slinging insults, seething in anger, and spewing outlandish accusations does not change the fact that anyone from anywhere can come into this sub and say anything they like, and it falls upon the users to respond, or not respond, as they see fit. After all, even you are still allowed to comment here. Whether the moderation decision to allow the sub to be open and unregulated-if that sometimes comes with the side effects of chaotic and vulgar, rather than closed and heavily policed-if that also o…
/r/MensRights09/05/14 01:40 PM
2

I've found it fascinating that many women claim that men do talk badly about women in their absence. How would they know, if they were absent? I generally find that the men I hang out with, when they talk badly about someone, seem to do it to their face(s) more often than not, usually to tease or get a rise out of them. This certainly doesn't speak for all men, but it is my anecdotal observation.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 01:16 PM
1

Thank you for your support of the men in your life. Men need women who care to stand up against how they are treated, because as it stands now, they are dismissed and mocked when they stand up for themselves.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 01:08 PM
2

Thus sub is not moderated in a way that silences those who would use foul language or disagreeable opinions, rather than allow the community to use their own intelligence and perception to determine what part of what comments is worthwhile, and why. Anyone can speak what they want, but none cam speak fir everyone. I think /u/fallingsnowangel is upset that this sub is not moderated his way, where only a single opinion is allowed to be expressed abd self imposed in the community, freeing the users…
/r/MensRights09/05/14 01:04 PM
1

Is that even legal?
/r/MensRights07/05/14 05:56 PM
1

Can you link to the original post?
/r/MensRights06/05/14 09:23 PM
4

I agree that it's really quite messed up and unfortunately cruelly ignoring a lot of victims based on trivial factors such as melanin content, but I guess what I was trying to say is, like your selective rescue analogy, that as heinous as it is, it would be worse to simply allow all to drown.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 06:56 PM
2

When it comes to fighting circumcision, the media is against us, law is against us, traditionalists are against us, feminists are against us, surgeons are against us, and our list of friends is running pretty thin. As much as I wish it weren't so, I sadly don't think we have the luxury of being selective with our allies.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:24 PM
17

Well, it's a far cry from what is needed, but it is better than nothing.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:14 PM
17

It's specifically gay men, so while it overlaps with LGBT issues, it is also a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:11 PM
20

Three, maybe four of these are somewhat accurate. The rest are either loose correlations being attributed to causation, gross misrepresentations, and a few straight-up falsehoods. The sad thing is that there are some positive things feminism has done for men, either directly or as by product to other endeavors, but this author could not be bothered with the time our thought to investigate them.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:10 PM
19

Kind of a "one step forward, two steps back" situation with feminism and discriminatory laws.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:06 PM
6

We would all be feminists if this was the feminism writing laws and setting policies were like this.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:03 PM
2

Don't they just give out temporary handicap parking passes for that?
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:56 PM
6

It sounds like you handled it well and the issue is resolved. Good job.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:53 PM
2

Rape is criminal, and should be treated as such. We have no more reason to be handling rape cases with an unchecked college tribunal than we do murder cases. It undermines our rights as citizens to due process, it undermines the integrity of the legal system, and most importantly it undermines the seriousness of rape. How anyone could possible be in agreement with this destructive status quo is beyond my comprehension.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:35 PM
6

So I'm told, and yet...
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:20 PM
5

Abortion should be legal and accessible to as many women as realistically possible.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 09:02 PM
1

Was that really called for?
/r/MensRights05/05/14 04:08 PM
1

I'd prefer it not be fought at all.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:52 PM
2

No. Not because I won't tell her (I would), but because she has never asked. She knows I am making enough to support myself and not be in trouble, and that seems all she is interested in.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:49 PM
1

A child is not an accessory.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:47 PM
3

Welcome.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:40 PM
1

Shit, make them pay the whole thing if that's what it takes to make it happen. It's still a colossal improvement from their current position of no choice whatsoever.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:24 PM
3

And so you become the patriarchy you sought to destroy.
/r/MensRights05/05/14 03:00 PM
1

If my girlfriend thought I was cheating on her and I had some way to assure her i wasn't, I would do it in a heartbeat. People are fail able, people are insecure, and people make mistakes, and I care about my girlfriend enough to be willing to make a small sacrifice for her peace of mind - especially something so easy. I would hope she feels the same for me.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 12:03 PM
1

Is there context to this?
/r/MensRights30/04/14 05:53 PM
10

Holy shit that's brutal. Sorry you had to go through that.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 05:44 PM
2

Every time I see him post about his trauma, I can't help but think of American History X where Edward Norton's character has a traumatic experience caused by people who happened to be black, and comes to hate all black people because of it. I hope he comes to the realization that bigotry is self destructive in all forms before its too late.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 01:00 PM
1

I think Elam's hostility and vitriolic language was necessary to get us off the ground, but I fear it's utility may be diminishing, now that we have made Ito into the theater.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 05:07 PM
0

Because we need to b better than them, lest we become just like them.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 05:02 PM
11

The fact that they are even addressing it at all is a sign that the MRM is working. We've put on enough pressure that even if they dismiss us, they can't totally ignore the issues.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 04:25 PM
1

Well, even though they frame these things as being offensive to women, the fact that they are actually feigning an interest in the language shaming of men is a step in the right direction.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 04:23 PM
2

Sounds great!
/r/MensRights28/04/14 05:30 PM
6

As for men in nursing, I think that part of the problem is the idea of women being the caretakers in society. Same concept as people being uncomfortable with a male nanny. That may be part but it is not the only part. Do not forget that there is a significant demonization of men as predatory, and a significant amount of effort is exerted to frame men as potential criminals/rapists/abusers. Consider the efforts of combatting domestic violence or abuse overwhelmingly pushing the narrative of man h…
/r/MensRights28/04/14 04:19 PM
1

I would happily settle for a society where the legal and financial consequences of one's actions, the legal expectations, punishments, and permissions, and the effort exerted in the protection of an individuals rights and what those rights are not affected by gender, race, or sexual orientation, with sufficient measures to enforce them. I have no real interest in creating a society where no one has a bigoted opinion ever, as I don't believe it attainable, but at least our government should not b…
/r/MensRights28/04/14 03:54 PM
3

Please do NOT kill yourself. Get help now.
/r/MensRights25/04/14 10:59 PM
1

Nothing. Title IX is fine. It's what you do with it. Think of it like having a gun. The gun does not have morality. It is not right or wrong, it simply is. What you do with the gun is when right and wrong kicks in.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 01:47 PM
0

They're not? I would think they should be. TIL I guess.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 01:41 PM
2

And I hope he does successfully pursue criminal charges.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 12:30 PM
1

Definitely domestic violence. It's one of the most prevalent and least publicly aware.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 12:16 PM
1

k bbq ow Barbecue is on the way?!? that isn't true. Awwwww :(
/r/MensRights24/04/14 12:10 PM
2

How did he get a phone into the OR?
/r/MensRights24/04/14 11:56 AM
1

Ah so then you believe a woman who doesn't use birth control should not be allowed to get an abortion then, noted.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 11:13 AM
3

Given that men are imprisoned for child support debts, its kind of their body too.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 02:10 AM
37

I'm curious why "it's my body it's my choice" isn't viable for circumcision.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 09:07 PM
2

Who cares if they are or not. They promote hate, bigotry, and are against the rights of men. That's all that matters, really. I agree with IS44 - let the haters hate, best not to care.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 07:15 PM
1

(We are perfectly open to legitimate criticism.) Is simply straight up not true, not even remotely close to true. AMR has consistently and immediately banned users for expressing disagreement and/or criticism of the sub, regardless of how well founded or articulated that criticism is. I have witnessed it as a third party and first hand, and other moderators of AMR have admitted to and celebrated such action in the "potato sub" /r/femradebates. "We are perfectly open to legitimate criticism" coul…
/r/MensRights22/04/14 07:13 PM
2

Thank you for your support.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 06:53 PM
4

What about "you don't have to be that guy." Such as to say: there's a better alternative.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 06:18 PM
2

Do not advocate violence.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 03:30 PM
2

Selective Service isn't even anything consequential. Then they should have no reservations about signing up themselves.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 03:24 PM
3

I feel so bad for this poor boy. His so called "friends" are all the friends he has, and they exploit that vulnerability to get away with abusing him. To a violent abuser he's the perfect mark; he'll never be able to bring himself to turn on his "friends" because he has no others, so his abusers will never have a reason to stop. Worse yet, this will probably permanently warp his views on what constitutes a normal friendship, and will no doubt set him up for a life of abusive relationships.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 03:04 PM
2

I actually really like this idea.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:43 PM
2

Why is Kris not also innocent?
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:39 PM
11

How is that justified? What does that need to pay for?
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:15 PM
4

Whoa whoa whoa, hold up there buddy. Purple is the color of royalty, why are you projecting your elitist agenda onto her?
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:06 PM
1

Brigade sub got brigaded? Oh no! ...moving right along.
/r/MensRights21/04/14 03:45 PM
5

Keep in mind that for most men, they are very aware that the system is against them, and that you are a part of that system. I'm not that kind of feminist social worker who is there to find how he is the bad guy. You will need to go above and beyond to make this clear. It will not come easy or quickly. Men who do come to you will have their guard up, and it will not drop in the first 5 minutes. You will need to be conscious of every thing you do and say. One word of hostility can undo a thousand…
/r/MensRights21/04/14 01:25 PM
2

No one sad it would be easy.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 05:56 PM
2

Well look. If dry cleaners are charging more to women because fuck em, then obviously that's unacceptable. If dry cleaners are charging more to clean items typically worn by women because the process of cleaning this items costs more, well that's unfortunate but tough shit - the price reflects the service rendered, not the customer it is for. If you can't accept that, break that gender role and wear different clothes if you so choose.
/r/MensRights15/04/14 05:01 PM
1

The MRM has force feminists to consider the rights of men. Strong work.
/r/MensRights14/04/14 03:48 PM
2

I have a large extended family, and I have witnesses too many honest and decent people be abused by either wicked individuals and given no legal recourse, or abused by the legal system themselves; a treatment they would have been spared had they been a woman. It's unjust, unfair, and it hurts people who matter to me.
/r/MensRights14/04/14 03:02 PM
1

A feminist Internet... So, tumblr?
/r/MensRights11/04/14 02:50 PM
2

I think we should do it. Get the mods to make a sticky and start combining data b
/r/MensRights11/04/14 02:21 PM
1

It is a men's issue: men can be sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights11/04/14 02:19 PM
3

I would rather just have a good president, to be honest. I would prefer Warren over Hillary, but I don't think she's going to run.
/r/MensRights11/04/14 02:14 PM
2

I love how online trolling was just "well, sone people are jerks," until it started affecting women. Then it's a horrible scourge of sexism and must be stopped. I'm sorry that sone people are mean. We all have to deal with it.
/r/MensRights11/04/14 02:06 PM
1

I have not seen documentation to verify that.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:46 PM
1

Why do that?
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:43 PM
-1

Sounds like her problem was not that she was a feminist, but that she was a violent drunkard.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:38 PM
0

You would think an architectural historian would have bothered to study raumplan, context within Loos's work, or anything about early modernism before making such a "critique." If I tired to pull some shit like this while in any of my architectural theoretical classes, I would have been torn apart by the professors for having nothing to back that up with. Having been there - I don't see how this conclusion could fit.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 05:13 PM
2

Politicians shamelessly pander to whoever they think thy can get votes from. This isn't new, nor are feminists an exception.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:48 PM
1

I agree that the tone is too often hostile.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 12:20 PM
45

Feminism predates the MRM and opposed the rights of men, which triggered the birth of the MRM, so feminism "came first."
/r/MensRights08/04/14 12:15 PM
1

This just seems childish and petty.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 07:48 PM
106

Go shirtless.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 07:35 PM
1

Lawyer doing his job. Make his client look more innocent.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 03:36 PM
2

Do you ever think that maybe the reason women struggle to get the professional respect they complain about men getting so much more easily is due to this culturally pervasive narrative of perpetually absolving women of responsibility for their behavior? With much less burden of accountability to overcome, there is much less respect to be earned. Worse yet, if you're a woman who doesn't think or act this way, you still suffer from the overwhelming force with which this narrative is pressured agai…
/r/MensRights07/04/14 03:28 PM
6

Except the part were they lived.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 02:59 PM
2

Why not just teach your daughter not to rape?
/r/MensRights05/04/14 06:41 AM
2

Look, the reality is that not all feminists are bad, and not all feminist will fight against equality for men. Don't get me wrong, a lot of them are and a lot of them will (and have) but that shouldn't stop us from showing positive support for those few that try to do the right thing. If persons who calls themselves feminists wish to support us and choose not ti discriminate against men, we should embrace that. It's easy to stand up against your enemies, but it's really hard to stand up to your …
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:01 PM
2

It was probably sone comment that was down voted to the bottom but never deleted, so the AMR cried jumped on as a chance to say "this is what MRAs all think really think it exists." Stuff like that happens all the time.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 01:25 PM
1

...what???
/r/MensRights04/04/14 11:50 AM
6

Adoption? Plenty of kids needs homes, but depending on where you are single dads may not be permitted to adopt.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 05:58 PM
1

What if he's gay? Can he ever become a man?
/r/MensRights02/04/14 05:44 PM
17

"Juvenile" Pretty important word. Unless these detention centers are hiring minors as prison guards, that's statutory rape, for them to be having any sex with the staff for any reason, every time.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 05:04 PM
1

I think she's just trying to (poorly) inject humor into a monotonous routine. Sometimes you have to pick your battles, and if southwest can get me round trip from NY to OR for only $402, I might not fight this one.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 01:45 PM
2

I hate to be cliche here but...seriously, what does this have to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights02/04/14 01:26 PM
1

If you want to. Talk to your doctor first, and maybe look into a sperm bank.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 01:25 PM
1

Ok then. If you can, when you get a chance I think you should take some time to reflect on where all that anger is coming from.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 07:39 PM
1

You compared me to someone who runs a "Hot or Not" in a rape thread, and then appointed yourself my judge? No. Doesn't work that way. I haven't the faintest idea what you're talking about, or why you feel this answers anything. The only user I compared you to was a user you previously compared yourself to, so I don't get how you suddenly feel this is about me. Nor would matter if I did, as this isn't really about comparisons to any other users anyways. All you have done is demonstrated that you …
/r/MensRights01/04/14 06:21 PM
0

You say you don't like the person you are here, but you chose to keep being that person. Enlighten us.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 05:20 PM
0

Seems you recognize behavior that is reprehensible, but knowingly choose to perpetuate it anyways. Given that, I don't think there's really much of a conversation to continue.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 04:53 PM
1

If you so often find yourself a person you don't like, then why do you choose to continue to be that person?
/r/MensRights01/04/14 04:09 PM
0

I am a bit curious as to why you feel his girlfriend need not listen to or respect him.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 02:13 PM
3

I would ask her to define oppression in this context. Clarity is important.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 01:53 PM
1

Pretty sure I've seen guitars in this sub before.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 12:37 PM
1

As I said, a handful positive interactions does not override an overall tone of hostility, which you show here, there, and elsewhere. That hasn't changed, and so neither has my opinion. A few MRAs lobbing to restore a user who they felt a rule was applied out if context to doesn't change that either - it only speaks to their integrity, and speaks nothing of yours. They and other MRA users, including myself, have done it before for other feminists, and will continue to do so. The key component yo…
/r/MensRights01/04/14 10:49 AM
1

As a real man already in possession of nuts, I need none from this candy bar.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 05:11 AM
2

Which absolves you of nothing, nor does it demonstrate you to be any nobler than /u/bartab, or any other users you may detest, not matter how much it may make you feel holier than they. If you had hoped that an occasionally sprinkled garnish of cheap platitudes would overpower the flavor of the main course, you will be disappointed. In wake of this brief exchange I remain as (if not more so) unconvinced as before it began.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 04:52 AM
2

I am still waiting to notice a significant change.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 04:12 AM
2

some of the moderators are (were?) biased not by movement, but by user. They would pick and choose favorites to selectively be lenient to. ta101 was by far the worst offender of this, but he's not there any more, and the moderation has become more stable. If you have any questions on the rules or culture of the sub, ask me - i've been there since the beginning.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 02:58 AM
3

Honestly, you both bring far more than your fair share of hostility, snark, and rule breaking to that sub. Neither of you has any moral high ground over the other in this conversation.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 02:55 AM
1

We have created a world where the presumption of innocence is a dead concept - meaningless in all but our hopes for a better reality. This is especially true for, but not limited to men, who are all too often seen in a state of possible malicious intent - a sort of "Schroeder's Criminal." Sufficient precedent exists to demonstrate that at any point any given individual who is viewed in such a state is guilty of any crime he is a accused with at the moment of his accusation, until the point he ca…
/r/MensRights31/03/14 08:11 PM
2

What is the point of an AMA where the answers are "go figure it out yourself?" Why even bother?
/r/MensRights31/03/14 05:35 PM
2

What legal rights, specifically, do women not have that men do?
/r/MensRights30/03/14 05:10 PM
-1

I am vividly aware that Koss is a feminist.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 05:37 PM
1

Maybe she should have been in prison for the fraudulent police report, and then this man wouldn't have had to die.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 05:07 PM
11

No. Violence is not solved with more violence.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 03:29 PM
1

It will take a lot of work to undo the damage that Mary Koss and those who supported her have done; we have yet to recover from that setback.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 03:10 PM
2

Well I hope the find whoever did it and swiftly punish them.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 01:36 PM
3

An attempt at edginess. I'm not validating the advertisement, or even defending it. I'm suggesting that it seems more likely that the advertiser was simply ignorant of the implication of what they were saying, rather than deliberately trying to promote male disposability. Most people don't know any better because they've never thought about it before. That doesn't justify it, only explains it.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 12:43 PM
2

It's probably for the best, because, you know: you tube commenters.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 12:34 PM
2

Unfortunately the federal policies many western nations - including the US - define rape in such a way that it is an act only committed by a man, delegitimizing victims of female perpetrators. A substantial amount of effort has gone into preserving these discriminatory definitions, so we have a long, difficult road to get any serious semblance of recognition or justice for this man and those who suffer like him
/r/MensRights28/03/14 12:33 PM
8

Eh, shitty advertising trying to be edgy. Don't assume malice to that which can be more easily explained by stupidity.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 12:16 PM
18

Well, good. Anyone who filed a false police report should be charged and punished.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 12:13 PM
-2

Lets not step down to their level. Take the high road.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 05:21 PM
4

If its in your custody agreement, then tight shit for her. She has to.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 05:16 PM
8

What is the "2 deep rule?"
/r/MensRights27/03/14 05:00 PM
0

They are saying we should be teaching (only men) not to rape, like we teach kids not to steal, hit other kids, be greedy ... etc. That's my problem with it. Only men need I understand and redirect consent. Women are free do whatever they want to whomever they what. That's the message we sell to our children.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 03:32 PM
3

It sounds like a good project. I'd like to see how much success it has, and if enough possibly see it expanded to other sports.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 01:39 PM
2

You professor is such a caricature of a bad feminist that I must admit I almost struggle to believe it.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 01:27 PM
2

The bullet has no gender.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 01:11 PM
2

Ah yes, a woman being sad is worse than a man being dead. How can one place so little value on a man's life?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 01:22 PM
1

I have never seen a waiter skip over people like that, but what should really bother you is the rudeness. Anyways, that's what the tip line is for.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 12:44 PM
3

"And that attitude is why you'll always be alone."
/r/MensRights21/03/14 07:25 PM
2

My stance on feminism is a long as it's not hurting the rights if men, I have no problem with it. However if it is, now we got problems.
/r/MensRights21/03/14 07:17 PM
0

Glad to see that she handled this tastefully and respectfully. Issue resolved: let's move on.
/r/MensRights21/03/14 06:59 PM
8

Tell them you'd like to attend and learn. Don't mention your gender until asked.
/r/MensRights21/03/14 06:54 PM
2

And Switzerland.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 08:27 PM
1

Registration for the draft is make only, the draft itself is not in effect currently, but can be initiated anytime by congress.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 08:27 PM
3

....she could say no.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 08:22 PM
1

Jesus, this is a child! Have you no humanity at all?
/r/MensRights20/03/14 03:00 PM
5

So how do I find out if I'm on this thing or not?
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:57 PM
-1

There's probably about 3-1/4 million people who are unfortunately were made unable to express why this may be offensive.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:43 PM
15

There's that hypoagency again!
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:39 PM
2

Oh god dammit, this is right down my street.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 08:52 PM
5

Can you give us more information on the group in question and the nature of the grievances against them?
/r/MensRights19/03/14 08:43 PM
1

If men being the majority of victims is rendered irrelevant by men being the majority of perpetrators, it means that all individuals of a group are accountable to actions of any other individuals of that group. By that logic, all bigoted assumptions - including misogyny - are justified so long as the (stereotyped action or behavior) is committed in highest concentration by (stereotyped group). This thought process means that so long as black people commit the highest concentration of theft, then…
/r/MensRights19/03/14 04:11 PM
1

Insufficient evidence - found not guilty. I don't see what the problem is.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 06:22 PM
1

Plenty of other manufacturers out there.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 06:15 PM
3

Sometimes when you haggle, you lose. It is a risk. We all deal with it, that's life.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 06:06 PM
-2

Silence will not change his/her views. Treat a bigot not with animosity but compassion, that in time they will see their errors.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 05:48 PM
4

That's a good point, i will concede that. The age difference is pretty extreme.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 04:52 PM
1

I don't think stooping so low as to be participating in this sort of "tit for tat" activism is a good long term strategy, even if it feels good in the short run. It makes us appear to be at least as petty as those we oppose.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 04:06 PM
-2

Because being equally lenient to boys as girls is good?
/r/MensRights17/03/14 03:58 PM
2

Oh...well, good.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 03:37 PM
4

This isn't entitlement or female entitlement. It's just bad negotiation blowing up in someone's face.
/r/MensRights14/03/14 08:52 PM
8

In Scottish law, only men can commit rape. Not saying I agree with it, just an observation.
/r/MensRights14/03/14 07:22 PM
1

You know what else says that men's natural state is a rapist? "Teach Men Not To Rape."
/r/MensRights13/03/14 09:09 PM
1

There is an opportunity to do the right thing here. I don't want to discourage it with excessive cynicism.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 03:18 PM
1

Man...I feel really bad for the single men out there.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 03:09 PM
3

I agree with her. Business should only charge proportional to the service provided. Men and women should pay the same price for a buzz cut, they should pay the same price for the same drink and same admission to bars and shows, they should pay the same price for the same insurance coverage, and so on. I hope she does get a bill passed and it is comprehensive of all these things.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 03:01 PM
1

There are other subreddits dedicated to the destruction if this one.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 04:50 PM
1

Regardless of your position on her videos, it does not nullify the fact that she stole content and infringed copyright.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 04:33 PM
1

The Red Pill =/= Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 04:30 PM
3

(Some) Western nations still struggle with accessible abortion.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 02:24 PM
-1

No. False rape accusations do not need to be made into their own law. The existing laws and punishments against fraud, obstruction of justice, and filing a false police report need to be enforced.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 12:55 PM
2

In construction companies this happens all the time. We do some of the best ironwork in our city, but lose all the government contracts (schools, public facilities, libraries etc.) to another company where the husband transferred ownership to his wife who's never worked a day in construction. Worse yet, any woman who wants to actually run a company now is assumed to just be collecting a check for her husband who does the real work - this policy reinforces more sexism than it destroys.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 01:54 PM
4

Stop talking to the cops, start talking to the lawyer. The police have zero care for your rights and your presumption of innocence. Only a lawyer will try to protect that.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 01:26 PM
4

Wait...why is a nurse doing circumcisions and not a surgeon or doctor? If you're going to mutilate a child, at least have it be done by capable hands.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 01:22 PM
4

You can't be a libertarian and an MRA! No one can have an opinion on two things at the same time! It's impossible! /s
/r/MensRights11/03/14 12:39 PM
3

It's not run by "misters," so that's irrelevant as it is inaccurate.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 12:17 PM
7

Let's not stoop to their level, please.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 11:58 AM
3

Did anyone else not know that bossy was a gendered term?
/r/MensRights10/03/14 07:36 PM
2

Texasjoe wasn't attuned, so we can't fault him for not knowing.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 03:28 PM
3

I'll try: What's the difference between an MRA and a MGTOW? The MGTOW actually did something about his problems. Which transsexual do MRA's hate most? Miss Andy. How does a salesman tell if a customer is an MRA? They suddenly identify as a woman to try to get a lower price. Damn, I suck at this.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 03:05 PM
3

I wasn't offended by the ignorance, because everyone is ignorant if something. I was however painfully bored; it simply wasn't funny. A comedy show that suddenly broke into a writer espousing their political agenda. I watched a waited, asking "when does the joke happen, where's the punch line." But despite the laugh track, it never came. The entire experience felt forced and awkward. 2/10. Would not recommend.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 02:41 PM
2

Lets not appropriate racism, and stay focused on gender.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 02:27 PM
1

For the record, I consider myself an MRA and also a (pinko commie hippie and all the other typical insults I forgot) liberal. I do not have any conflict with these two positions.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 02:23 PM
3

Maybe they will this year.
/r/MensRights08/03/14 05:23 PM
22

Is being a woman considered a disability now?
/r/MensRights06/03/14 09:30 PM
16

It was in the article...did you read it?
/r/MensRights04/03/14 03:36 PM
1

Excellent work. Making a difference one little step at a time!
/r/MensRights04/03/14 03:15 PM
2

A healthy blend of misandry and racism.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:54 PM
1

This will set a strong legal precedent in the 7th circuit courts.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:39 PM
1

Can someone explain to me the nature if why these people are detained? I feel I'm missing something.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:30 PM
1

I don't understand the logic here. If you want to make a thing illegal (in this case prostitution), why only criminalize the consumer and not the supplier? We don't combat illegal drug use by legalizing selling, and letting drug dealers go free. Why should thus be different?
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:20 PM
1

Women and men should be paid the same fur the same work, I think any reasonable person can agree on that. However, workplace injury/death does add an interesting factor: is workmanship compensation and other injury/death related benefits included in pay gap statistics, and if so, how much does the overwhelming majority of such payouts being received by men account for such a gap?
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:14 PM
4

Additionally: The right to a fair trial and representation by an attorney if accused if a criminal act. The right to not be automatically arrested and imprisoned for being the victim if domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 04:06 PM
4

If we he said is true and he has evidence to back them up, then he should have an easy case (baring any extreme judicial bias, of course).
/r/MensRights28/02/14 03:59 PM
3

You are mistaken. A blue moon only occurs approximately once every 2-3 years. The posting of false rape accusation events like these clearly demonstrates that they are exponentially more frequent.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 03:22 PM
3

not in of itself.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:34 PM
24

Not so hard, is it?
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:28 PM
8

Not in if itself, but is often a warning sign if other abusive behavior.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 08:27 PM
52

They'll have a lot of time to think about what they did during their paid vacations.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 05:03 PM
1

Yes. But they must choose it for themselves, it cannot be forced upon them.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:02 PM
3

Unless Against Men's Rights is a branch of the government, I would say no.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 12:47 PM
11

Censorship is the last bastion of a position which cannot withstand scrutiny.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 04:32 PM
1

Obligatory "if two men divorce each other, how do the courts know who to screw over?" joke. But seriously, it doesn't seem gay marriage has been legal long enough for enough accurate gay divorce data to be compiled, so any answer would be mostly speculative.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 01:17 PM
2

...you could say no.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 01:06 PM
1

I just think its sad how insulting an opinion like this is to the intellectual integrity of women.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 05:45 PM
2

Good. They should.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 05:43 PM
3

No knock warrants have contributors to so many senseless killings. I don't know who came up with idea, but they need to be fired and no knock warrants need to be banned immediately.
/r/MensRights19/02/14 09:26 PM
0

Homeless man in rags pays $1, rich woman in a jaguar pays $0.75....equality!
/r/MensRights19/02/14 08:36 PM
1

I think that being a piece of shit knows no gender.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:34 PM
2

Find someone who treats you better. I have had almost this exact conversation with my girlfriend and she was completely supportive. This girl here isn't what you're looking girl in a partner. Tell her that, and move on.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:30 PM
1

Good for them?
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:16 PM
119

I wasn't aware that my race and gender affected my ability to contribute to the Red Cross. I was going to donate blood on the 24th to help those in need; should I cancel? I don't want to oppress anyone with my straight white male blood, they're probably better of dying than getting blood from a shitlord like me. /s
/r/MensRights12/02/14 02:02 PM
1

She got 10 years. Seems fair to me.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 04:28 PM
2

So many of these are just ridiculous statements attributing gender to genderless problems. I need feminism because: I should not feel like I am annoying or a know it all for being excited about my education. Being a know it all isn't a gendered state of being, nor has it ever been. blurred lines was the top selling song of 2013. It's about mutual attraction, not rape. I have a voice and people need to know If you think you're voiceless, try being a poor black man. traveling alone as a girl shoul…
/r/MensRights11/02/14 04:21 PM
-1

That still doesn't mean it was proven false, only that because we cannot prove it true, we treat it as false.
/r/MensRights08/02/14 01:04 AM
1

Can we not waste our time on ignorant web comics?
/r/MensRights07/02/14 04:42 PM
5

Don't know. I'm neither rich and powerful nor a rapist; their motivations are foreign to me.
/r/MensRights07/02/14 04:30 PM
10

And if they were, would you still not care?
/r/MensRights07/02/14 04:26 PM
-3

Well, acquittal doesn't necessarily mean false, it means we don't know.
/r/MensRights07/02/14 04:24 PM
1

B is responsible for 50% of the abortion cost. In order to secure child support from B, A must secure proof of paternity prior to the legal paternal surrender deadline. B or C may donate to A as a kindness otherwise, but are not obliged to do so. B may present evidence of non paternity and that he was lead into parenthood under false pretenses to the court to release him of child support. C also cannot be held accountable if he was not properly notified prior to the surrender deadline.
/r/MensRights06/02/14 03:33 PM
2

Progress is extremely sow, but it is moving in the right direction.
/r/MensRights06/02/14 03:22 PM
4

Kinds for which? Not sure I understand the question.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 05:54 PM
8

Ancient Romans didn't let women vote either.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 03:45 PM
6

Prior to this list, I must note that these are not universal and do not apply to all jurisdictions everywhere. Secondly I will separate these into two lists: "deliberate" those difference in rights which are written directly into law or policy, and "de facto" those differences in rights which are not overtly stated in law, but manifest in practice. "Deliberate:" Conscription: men do not have the right to be forced to fight in wars at great risk to life or bodily integrity, or psychological well …
/r/MensRights05/02/14 03:05 PM
1

I will admit I had not considered that possibility. Does that apply in this case?
/r/MensRights04/02/14 02:39 PM
1

Wait for the sentence before making any assumptions.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 02:17 PM
11

No offense to the deceased, but I would assume a sf destructive heroin addiction is a justifiable reason fit being kicked out of your home.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 02:16 PM
10

Incarceration does not help the victim, it prevents the next one.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 02:11 PM
4

If you can't discredit the argument, change the argument to something you can discredit.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 01:59 PM
16

For a festival about being a man, they sure talked about women a lot.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 06:37 PM
1

But black men are a subset if men, so is being racist empowering?
/r/MensRights03/02/14 06:24 PM
1

My great grandfather emigrated from Tuscany. He didn't even own land.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 06:22 PM
2

You have to take victories where you can get them.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 06:01 PM
11

And it's bullshit then too.
/r/MensRights03/02/14 05:56 PM
3

So?
/r/MensRights30/01/14 05:36 PM
11

You know what else hurts families? Cheating in your husband and getting pregnant with another man's child.
/r/MensRights30/01/14 03:25 PM
3

Honestly, I have no sympathy if that's the case.
/r/MensRights30/01/14 03:21 PM
21

I'm not really into the whole court tv stuff, but from what I have seen of judge Judy, she seems pretty fair and reasonable.
/r/MensRights30/01/14 02:56 PM
1

They're going to get so much paid vacation-that'll show them!
/r/MensRights28/01/14 02:16 PM
5

I think it depends on the society. Lumping all cultures into one aggregate is a pretty. Huge mistake feminists tend to make.
/r/MensRights28/01/14 01:38 PM
3

Discounting the struggles of a group based on their sex alone is by definition sexist. To hold the view that sexism must be institutional makes you a sexist.
/r/MensRights28/01/14 01:25 PM
3

To to campus police, tell them everything. They need to know the truth before someone starts telling them lies, and whoever gets their first will be considers most credible.
/r/MensRights27/01/14 08:18 PM
1

You still don't need alimony in that scenario. If the non earning partner makes much less than the earning partner, and child custody is split 50/50, then the earning partner would have to pay some amount of child support such that each partner contributes the same percentage of their relative income to the cost of child rearing. So if one makes 30$/hr and one makes 10$/hr, and he cost of raising the children is 2$/hr, then the one pays 1.50$/hr and the other 0.50$/hr. the greater earner pays 1.…
/r/MensRights27/01/14 02:18 PM
1

Slander? Character defamation? Perjury?
/r/MensRights27/01/14 02:01 PM
1

I got 2! I'm a third of a man!
/r/MensRights27/01/14 01:05 PM
0

Well yeah, they're men who wanted more rights. Easiest way to get that is become a woman.
/r/MensRights24/01/14 07:44 PM
2

If the rapist is a woman, they can sue for custody and child support - they can even sue a minor.
/r/MensRights24/01/14 07:43 PM
2

Technically you're right. You can't be charged with being high, but only with possession. You can however be charged for being under the influence while doing other things, such as driving. Hat being said, being high is often probably cause for a search.
/r/MensRights24/01/14 07:39 PM
3

Well, the sad reality is that in America, we have a culture that is extremely paranoid and fearful in general, and of fear of men is one manifestation of our greater culture of fear. That being said, we do live on a culture that is at hear dismissive, and at worst openly condoning a particular kind of rape. Whole its pretty clear that virtually no where in America is the rape of a woman considered acceptable on a cultural scale, we do live in a rape culture when that rape is that of a man - part…
/r/MensRights23/01/14 02:57 PM
2

Physical violence like...throwing rocks at them?
/r/MensRights23/01/14 01:38 PM
13

Have you tried the police? If you have this much evidence, you may be able to file charges.
/r/MensRights21/01/14 01:40 PM
2

She should be ashamed, she's the one doing wrong, not you.
/r/MensRights18/01/14 08:21 AM
1

Didn't see that on the bottom there, my bad!
/r/MensRights17/01/14 09:13 PM
1

You forgot deadbeat.
/r/MensRights17/01/14 06:02 PM
5

You know what the difference is between good people and bad people? Both good people and bad people sometimes do bad things (like dismissing male rape victims for example) but bad people justify and excuse the bad things they do, and good people admit to wrongdoing and apologize for the bad things they do. Thanks for being a good person and doing the right thing :)
/r/MensRights17/01/14 05:54 PM
3

This would be a great question for /r/femradebates
/r/MensRights15/01/14 04:02 PM
36

You reap what you sow.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 03:18 PM
1

Why do our courts value life so little?
/r/MensRights15/01/14 03:06 PM
6

That's cognitive dissonance. You cannot believe that men and women should be treated equally and support the Duluth model. The Duluth model is explicit that men and women should not be treated the same.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 09:07 PM
3

I'm arguing for treating men like human beings who can and are abused. You're supporting the Duluth model, which overtly does the opposite. You can be for helping abused men or be for the Duluth model, but not both. So which is it?
/r/MensRights10/01/14 08:54 PM
3

Okay, but the narrative all domestic abuse is a construct of the patriarchy to oppress women is a pretty core value of the whole model. Hell they even state explicitly that a woman committing violence is still a victim of the patriarchy, not an abuser. If justifying and being permissive of all domestic violence by women is what you call "protection from domestic violence" then I think you're part of the problem. But hey, "the Duluth model is important," right? Be sure to keep defending that.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 07:53 PM
9

the duluth model is important. You honestly believe that a model which frames women as always the victims in domestic abuse and never guilty of abusing as a good thing? You think the legitimacy of male victims being systematically denied us a good thing?
/r/MensRights10/01/14 06:18 PM
4

When a man says something a feminist doesn't like.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 07:50 PM
18

Being a woman is now the equivalent of being handicapped? I'm surprised something so misogynistic would be allowed on a public. Here I thought women wanted to be treated as being as capable as men...
/r/MensRights09/01/14 02:48 PM
27

She must be referring to all those boys that brutally murder their spouses and get away with a slap on the wrist when they claim they they were abused. ... Oh wait.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 09:14 PM
1

I do t get why this is offensive.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:56 PM
1

When I was about 5 years old, I got slashed in the face by a cat. While I wouldn't call myself a cat person, even as a child I was able to recognize that not every cat should be treated as if it was the one that attacked me. Being victim to a traumatic experience does not justify being a horrible person.
/r/MensRights07/01/14 09:21 PM
5

You think with that sort of reasoning they'd be pro burka.
/r/MensRights30/12/13 09:48 PM
1

Discord is not evil because evil requires intent. He is only chaos.
/r/MensRights30/12/13 06:12 PM
1

This seems pretty paranoid. Remember that what ever affiliations she labels herself with, she's ultimately and individual, and that is what she should be judged on
/r/MensRights30/12/13 05:48 PM
2

I'm cool with riding a lady train.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 10:11 PM
4

2 words: Big Macintosh
/r/MensRights27/12/13 10:10 PM
5

She has no respect for violence or the law, no less basic decency. She may not have done any injury to you, but what about the next person? She's going to keep acting this way because she knows no one is going to stand up to her. You have the power to change that, and prevent a violent person from hurting someone else. She has to learn that violence is not how an adult disagrees with someone, and the only way she's going to is in the back of a squad car. File the charges. You can drop them if sh…
/r/MensRights27/12/13 10:01 PM
6

By her reasoning you can't be sexist against women either, it's just part of our culture.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 05:07 PM
2

Based entirely on wildly made up numbers i would say about 247:1. Also, rape as any non consensual sexual intercourse.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 03:21 PM
2

Do the same thing you would do in any case - tell the truth. Describe only the facts, do not speculate, and don't be afraid to say "I don't know."
/r/MensRights27/12/13 02:57 PM
8

Have people give a shit of something bad happens to me.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:54 PM
6

You're supposed to help your partner get stronger and more disciplined, not beat the shot put of them.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:47 PM
20

They've got every right to sue the gym itself: where was the required defibrillator and trained employee to use it? As far as this guy, he's just a poor receptionist caught in the crossfire between managerial incompetence and a tragic accident. Blame the gym and the managers, not the drones - not having the training or defibrillator on hand was not his decision.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:40 PM
15

Sounds like something a bigot would say.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 05:16 PM
1

Prostitution is still illegal.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 05:14 PM
1

Personally I agree, but I'm stating the facts of how happens to be.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:37 PM
3

As far as alimony goes: If one member of the divorce can not afford to live on their own, then the other person should ASSIST for a set period of time. So there's absolutely no way feminists would have tried to block alimony reform that would have ended lifetime alimony and made both genders eligible instead of only women in florida? That would never happen? The whole story was made up? If you are upset by the idea of feminism, then you are upset by the idea of gender equality. People wouldn't b…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 09:28 PM
3

Please just remember what feminism is: gender equality for both men and women. Then you could confidently say that no feminist organization would every fight to keep laws from being passed that would make alimony equally eligible for both genders, or end gender bias in the assignment of custody of children - that would never happen, since its the exact opposite of your definition, right?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 08:40 PM
8

The most misogynistic thing a man can do is hold women to the same standards he holds men.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 08:07 PM
7

Keep in mind that she's 14.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 07:36 PM
8

Everyone up vote this, we need to get the ball rolling.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 07:22 PM
3

Are you seriously advocating for state sanctioned murder without any sort of due process or evidence based trial? How can you have so little respect for the value of human life and the presumption of innocence?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 07:05 PM
1

Sounds like you're doing just fine as is to me :)
/r/MensRights23/12/13 03:38 PM
5

You understand that murder has a 0% possible recovery rate, and that abuse has a higher than 0% recovery rate, and that higher than 0 is the larger of the two. You may personally prefer death, but that doesn't give you the right to use law to project that preference onto everyone else. Edit: spelling.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 03:07 PM
5

You can survive torture, you can even recover fully from it and lead a happy and fulfilling life. No one recovers from murder.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 02:42 PM
7

You leave. Or call the cops. Or go to a shelter. Or do any number of things that isn't killing a person. Instead of creating loopholes to legalize what is literally the worst possible crime a human being can commit, maybe we should encourage people to use the already existing solutions. I cannot believe it is possible for a person to have any respect for human life, and still believe this law is a good idea. Besides, we don't legalize it when a man is "DRIVEN TO MUDER," why should we for women?
/r/MensRights23/12/13 02:11 PM
12

Feminism's failure is the reason the MRM exists.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 01:55 PM
2

"Society" is a system of power. Without one form or another of organizing authority in large groups, humans would have never made it to the agricultural revolution.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 01:50 PM
4

If he opted not to press charges, then there is nothing to do.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 01:40 PM
11

There does not seem to be a single comment defending men who beat their wives in this thread.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 01:31 PM
1

Go over the coaches head. See the principle. If that doesn't work go over the principles head. Do whatever it takes.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 08:01 PM
1

We will remind everyone every time that dads are part of the family until they assume it, then we need not remind them.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:47 PM
1

Also perjury.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:44 PM
1

Maybe it will lead to progress. I'm willing to suspend cynicism for a moment.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:36 PM
1

Patriarchy theory does not impact men. Passing laws that force police to discriminately arrest men on domestic disputes, that impacts men. Passing laws that make courts run a debtors prison for men who can't make their child support payments, that impacts men. Running domestic violence shelters on a model that mandates that all domestic violence is perpetuated by men, that impacts men. Enacting policies that men can be robbed of their academic future by as little as an allegation with little to …
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:18 PM
1

In fact, in cases where fathers do in fact fight for custody, they get it, at least partially, 70% of the time. Doesn't seem to be that way by the numbers. Men lose custody more of the than they win, regardless of if the fight in in court or try to mediate. http://divorcepeers.com/stats18.htm
/r/MensRights20/12/13 06:26 PM
2

As for child custody, it's traditionally held that the personal caretaking of a child is best done by the mother. Actually this was a law that mandated this in the 19th century, which shockingly enough was created by feminists. See: tender years doctrine
/r/MensRights20/12/13 04:11 PM
4

Men have the right to use a confirm, that they must pay for, and nothing else. Women have the right to an entire litany of preventative birth control methods, which are covered by their insurance, and access to contraceptives post intercourse , and access to abortions prior to birth, and access to adoption and safe haven services after birth, and the ability to force someone else to subsidize her after birth, under threat of imprisonment. But yeah, men can buy condoms.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 04:03 PM
6

That's the difference. Women have rights to lose, men had none to begin with.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 02:24 PM
5

But how will the judge know who to screw over in the divorce? /s
/r/MensRights20/12/13 02:19 PM
1

Your suggestions on custody may be inaccurate. Men receive custody less whether they fight for it or not. 1
/r/MensRights19/12/13 10:18 PM
1

I've read that women pay higher premiums for private health insurance in the US, though, is that true? No. The Affordable Care Act ended this.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 09:30 PM
2

A sub reddit called "off my chest" that bans people for getting things off their chest.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 08:40 PM
3

It's entirely possible that they know quite well, and simply do not care.
/r/MensRights19/12/13 08:31 PM
2

She made a mistake, learned from it, and corrected it. I applaud her doing the right thing.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 08:33 PM
2

Pull her aside and tell her not to every touch you like that again, and that she will not get another warning.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 08:23 PM
8

This is why "Animal Farm" needs to be required reading for a high school diploma.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 07:35 PM
1

If the law is to be draconian, let it at least be so equally.
/r/MensRights17/12/13 07:23 PM
3

Again, there are many gendered issues men face too. I care about both. Which men's issues concern you?
/r/MensRights17/12/13 02:17 PM
0

I rarely even see race mentioned on this sub.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 07:42 PM
3

I've got to be real here, if the problems your gender faces are "people look at us when we don't want to be looked at," I think you're doing pretty damn good.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:47 PM
1

Once the law goes into effect on 2014, we'll see.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:18 PM
1

...aaaaaand that's why you're alone on valentine's day.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:59 PM
1

Yes, but that anecdote is now a legally binding precedent in that court.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:47 PM
2

This could go both ways, we shall see.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 06:16 AM
1

All things are fallible, the MRM being no exception. We should be consciously aware of it, such as to increase the possibility of stopping it from happening. The MRM needs to make sure not to make the mistakes that feminists organizations have made, and be sure to stop exactly at equality, and not an inch past it.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 06:05 AM
2

The best way to deflect a sense of entitlement is to accuse others of being entitled.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 06:03 AM
2

pleasantly surprised.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 06:02 AM
29

How does one "suck up" being killed?
/r/MensRights09/12/13 05:56 AM
3

Baby steps.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 09:13 PM
14

I am not well versed in Brazilian law, but I suspect the ruling on this case could be used as precedent for a case against LuLu.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 06:12 PM
1

As long as the same policy requires the same for men/boys, then it is at least fair.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 01:59 PM
2

What makes you say that?
/r/MensRights05/12/13 01:34 PM
21

Well, at least the identified the victim correctly.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 01:21 PM
1

Well, goodbye then.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 09:13 PM
1

On what do you base this claim?
/r/MensRights04/12/13 08:50 PM
6

80 percent of reddit is single and childless. Fortunately, there is a world outside reddit.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 08:20 PM
12

I'd rather not stoop that low.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 06:02 PM
6

If your getting killed, do you really care if the person doing it has the same parts between their legs as you?
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:57 PM
2

This sub primarily is a rights advocacy sub, focused on legal on social abuses and discrimination against men, their perpetuation, and possible solutions. While some members of this sub are in the "radical destroy the concept of gender" camp, it is not the focus of this sub. However, there is naturally overlap.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:58 PM
1

The MRA's still tend to come out looking better in spite of it, which should tell you enough about each side's content.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:56 PM
1

"And if you behaved like a lady, I probably would have."
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:41 PM
1

Document everything, get a lawyer, and sue the police, the magistrate, everyone you need to to make a change.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:39 PM
1

10 reasons to not get married.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:36 PM
1

Lack of sources claims and content aside, this is a very poorly written paper. I don't know the context of the assignment, but if it was me I doubt I could justify giving it anything higher than a C+.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:28 PM
2

Record everything. You will need every remote and minute shred of evidence possible if you don't want to spend the next 18 years living in destitution or prison.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 10:19 PM
1

SO YOU CAN JUST CLAIM THAT SOMETHING BAD HAPPENED, HAVE ZERO PROOF, AND GET SOMEONE ARRESTED?! SERIOUSLY?!?!?! If you are a woman, then yes. Remember kids: "with liberty and justice for all."
/r/MensRights27/11/13 05:52 AM
2

Someday maybe female on make violence will be recognized.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:18 AM
1

I think it's because no one cares. Look at television, the action stars kill 50 men to save one women. Look at the media, it's women and children who are the victims. Look at history, it's men who do the dying. Look at the streets, who's sleeping there. Look at our social services, who we help. Men are just so much more expendable. When you're expendable, by definition bad things happening to you don't matter. If a man gets raped or abused or injured, what's the big deal? He was expendable anywa…
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:16 AM
2

Why would you not count prison rape? It's still rape, and if anything it's far more "institutional."
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:11 AM
1

For the same reason so many politicians take bribes - because no one is stopping them.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:07 AM
2

Ask for a raise. I'm doing more work. Confront her about it. I'm fine with being a stay at home dad, if she can't be we need the change things. I'm just there to learn. Yes.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:06 AM
2

Well, they're certainly better at getting off easy for it.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:02 AM
1

Guess the search works then.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:01 AM
0

Well, the penis also comes with working more hours and taking less vacations.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:59 PM
6

But I thought women dressed to impress other women?
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:56 PM
1

Totally fine with it.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 10:54 PM
2

...not sure that exists.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 05:43 PM
7

Well yeah, because he's going to work 10% more hours.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 05:41 PM
2

she's a keeper.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 12:06 AM
1

He looks happy.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 12:02 AM
1

wtf is drek?
/r/MensRights01/11/13 11:58 PM
2

Golden Parachute entitlement?
/r/MensRights01/11/13 11:44 PM
3

It's facebook...
/r/MensRights01/11/13 11:41 PM
1

right? I need to find this thing. I got bills too.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 04:56 PM
2

The biggest and most important one, that people like yourself (the person asking, not you OP) have absolutely no idea that it is even possible to be sexist against men.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 04:54 PM
1

He's the 5th law or robotics and you're a robot! You must obey!
/r/MensRights30/10/13 10:17 PM
1

It's slightly better in that it says typically, not always.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 12:21 PM
2

Rookie Characters? In what exactly?
/r/MensRights29/10/13 12:20 PM
1

Margret. Thatcher. ...that is all.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:17 AM
1

I think people are just dismissing it because it's not specifically about men's rights.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:16 AM
14

meanwhile, in reality...
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:01 AM
1

VAWA does not explicitly mandate the use of the Dultuh model, however it does fund it use indirectly, by deliberately funding resources that promote it.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:42 PM
1

Relative to its time, early Christianity was actually extremely egalitarian.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:38 PM
2

I think it probably varies by user. Personally, I am pro-choice.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:37 PM
1

Wouldn't it prove that woman can't live without man, since the word "man" can stand alone, but the word "woman" must have a man to be complete?
/r/MensRights27/10/13 07:11 AM
2

well obviously they only hold up the good half.
/r/MensRights26/10/13 07:10 PM
37

Good for you for standing up for what you think is right. It's good to see someone actually standing up for equality and fairness, instead of a gender-ed class warfare. I think you'll find that most of us here are also pro women's rights, the only difference being not in excess of those of men - because that's not equality. We don't normally discuss women's rights very frequently here for the same reason we don't normally discuss tenant's rights here - it's not what this sub is about. I'm sorry …
/r/MensRights26/10/13 02:24 PM
4

we're not journalists, nor should we claim we are.
/r/MensRights26/10/13 02:16 PM
11

Margret Thatcher - Falklands war Sirimavo Bandaranaike - Sri Lankan Civil War Indira Gandhi - intervention in Pakistani Civil War Golda Meir - Yom Kippur War Joan of Arc - 100 years war Queen Mary of England - Violent religious Prosecution Catherine the Great (Russia) - Russo-Turkish War Plus a whole list of women led rebellions, found here
/r/MensRights26/10/13 02:09 PM
2

This was brilliantly done.
/r/MensRights25/10/13 10:35 PM
4

I find it hilarious how you came in so confident no one would find any examples, only to get showered in them. Thanks for the chuckles.
/r/MensRights25/10/13 10:32 PM
43

I wish I got 90k a year for doing nothing. Hell, I wish I could bust my ass and get 90k a year.
/r/MensRights25/10/13 10:26 PM
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