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If you're not getting any and you say it's because you have high standards, it is a very common excuse from people who can't pull. If you are getting some and you turn girls down for not having high standards, you clearly have game because you're getting some.
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:51 PM
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Any girl you remember, make a joke about something involving the two of you. If you met because you made a joke about her wellies, ask her if she threw them out yet or something. If you don't remember, personally I'd just throw it because realistically that's a lot of effort to go through to check if someone's worth dating when I can just go out and get another number of a girl I want to date.
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:50 PM
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Talking about how you're sad you're dog died is vulnerable. Feeling the need to replace your dead dog with something else is needy.
/r/seduction03/06/13 10:29 AM
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Oh I agree totally, anything which uses the word 'alpha' generally tends to be a bad idea. Generalisation of course, but fairly accurate when it comes to pickup stuff. He should've engaged him, not been a dick and stood his ground.
/r/seduction01/06/13 02:03 PM
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He bitched out at the bar when he didn't kino, they were sat on the SAME chair, but even if they didn't, it wasn't something that happened at the club.
/r/seduction01/06/13 02:01 PM
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I don't have time to give you advice now, I'll try pop back later, but what /u/MrMonkfred said is pretty much completely wrong. No offence dude, but how did this have anything to do with his environment? She basically offered herself up in more than 4 locations over the course of the night, environment wasn't the issue. I'm not trying to be a dick, but that's trying to solve a problem that clearly didn't exist. You need to work on why you keep making excuses for yourself, her friends didn't make…
/r/seduction01/06/13 12:37 PM
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Yah, those subs are awful...
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:23 PM
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People you shouldn't believe: Derren Brown.
/r/seduction31/05/13 08:59 AM
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You need to look at why this is really making you sad. I mean, I don't have a lot of details, but it sounds like you're really into this girl and it crushed you that she's into someone else. I was going to go on, but honestly this isn't something you should take advice with lightly. It sounds like a significant change from your normal attitudes, and if someone's going to give you advice on it they need to know the details. It's not like this is a super common problem with cookie cutter answers l…
/r/seduction31/05/13 08:54 AM
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Lots of people say 3 days, but I think that's stupid. The fact that a lot of young guys I know took that rule from Barney Stinson and HIMYM confirms that it's an awful idea. Not because NPH isn't awesome, but because you're taking dating advice from a TV show about people who have hilarious dating lives. Honestly, I might have forgotten about a girl who's number I got after 3 days, and girls get hit on way more than I do, so unless I've made some insane impression on her, she's gonna have forgot…
/r/seduction31/05/13 08:50 AM
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Read the side bar, particularly the 'Above the Game' section, and a book, personally I read Magic Bullets. Read everything with a critical mind, but take on board everything you read, and never avoid doing something because it's hard. If you get nervous around pretty girls, there's a few things you should look into, I'd start with 'inner game' which is about making sure that you're in a good place emotionally before you start trying to develop relationships with people, because any relationship …
/r/seduction31/05/13 12:10 AM
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If you don't care, you don't care. Move on and enjoy yourself!
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:27 PM
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Take her by the hand, hand on the small of her back, on her ass, I once pulled a girl to the bar by her bra. You can pretty much do whatever their view of you will allow you to. The more of a flirty, funny, attractive guy you seem, the more you can get away with. You've got to learn to gauge that.
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:26 PM
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Whether this is how you feel or not, this is how I feel about sober people, so maybe take it with a pinch of salt. There are two types, one expects everyone else to cater to their soberness, aka the selfish sober person. The good kind of sober person is fully aware that most people drink, they don't disengage with people just because they enjoy socially drinking, and they accomodate you. I don't like the first kind of person, so I just wouldn't date them. The second kind of person, you don't nee…
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:23 PM
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Do you know you were being used as a rebound? And I think you misunderstood, it was more of a 'When/if you're done dealing with your shit, call me', I guess I worded it badly, apologies. Edit: And if you want to let her know that, ring her, be straight, say she surprised you with what she said, but then reiterate what I was getting at above, that you like her, but you're not a second fiddle.
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:12 PM
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Do you set time out to be 'on the street', or do you just do it during your day to day routine? It is kind of like AA I guess, but I've gotten over approach anxiety (I used to be awful), but I will often avoid putting myself in situations to practice, like I'll choose to stay in for no real reason some nights. It's have a bad habit of avoiding the whole process, but once I'm out I have no problems with approaching. I just need to push myself a bit harder to work at it I think. Thanks for the tip…
/r/seduction30/05/13 02:22 PM
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Christ I'd like to see your 10's o_O, although I guess she's very much 'my type'. I don't think we should make a habit of posting pictures of girls on this sub though, it's just not going to turn out well given the stereotype a lot of people apply to this community as it is. Well done anyway. How did you go about starting doing solo/day game stuff? I really want to try get into it but I just can't seem to get into it, and I can't figure out exactly what's holding me back (which is unusual for me…
/r/seduction30/05/13 10:53 AM
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You were going in the right direction, but your delivery wasn't perfect. I would've been less dismissive as though you don't care and said something more like this: Look, you're cool and I like you, but I'm not the kind of guy who's going to wait around on you to deal with your ex. Deal with whatever you need to deal with, and if you decide you want to see me again, call me, but I can't put my life on hold to wait for you to maybe get rid of him. I'll see you around. kiss on the cheek Then leave…
/r/seduction30/05/13 10:37 AM
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You know when people say 'It's nothing to do with you, it's me', and a lot of the time they're lying? A lot of the time it really is nothing to do with you, sometimes you just have to chalk these things up as a loss and just move on.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:36 AM
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I think if I was going to try and use subliminal messaging as a tool I wouldn't trust some random dude I don't know on youtube.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:09 AM
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5 years ago I was insanely into a girl, way more than I should've been, but I was also only 17. I was seriously into her, but I was 100% sure she was into my friend, because they'd known each other for years, he was clearly very into her too and they spent all the time in the world together. Obviously, he was friend zoned, but I didn't realise that. I carried this girl home on my back from a night club while she closed her eyes and rested her head on my shoulder. I was stood at her door, and she…
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:04 AM
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How far is home? And that's not usually a problem, most other people will have one. How old are you? Why are you going to a comic con and you don't even know what's going on in the evenings? Find out!
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:57 AM
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Don't interpret, do nothing. If she texts back, fwb. If she doesn't text back, who cares? There should be zero interaction from your part. I wouldn't have used the words yo, down or hang times though. If you want a fwb situation, something like a picture of your bed, or some kind of sexual innuendo with 'What cha doing tonight?' is much more effective.
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:54 AM
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Tell the truth. It really is that simple. If she wants a relationship, tell her she's a great girl but you aren't looking for a relationship right now. If someone else asks, tell them to stop being so nosey, but yeah, so what? Just be straight, you didn't do anything wrong, and as long as you believe that when you talk about it, nobody's going to care.
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:51 AM
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Everyone's DTF if you're attractive enough (don't mean physical attractiveness). Whether they'd have it in mind when going on the trip depends on the kind of stuff involved, what goes on in the evenings at these things?
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:47 AM
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Must be the easiest place to get laid ever, there will be very few guys with any game there, which will make you look amazing by comparison. I really want to go to a comic con now, hot cosplay chicks? So down...
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:37 AM
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Yeah...kind of realised that when you said it, there were meant to be far more details. Think I'll rewrite it tomorrow.
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:37 PM
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I know it's cliche, that's kind of the point, making her think I'm gonna do some longass palm reading thing. I know what you mean though. Not sure if it'll pan out all that well, but worth a try
/r/seduction29/05/13 11:35 PM
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Taking it slow also doesn't usually include finger fucking her. If you don't know what she wants, I'd talk to her about it. Make sure you're both on the same definition of 'slow', but be sure to let her know you're happy either way, you just don't want to end up with miscommunications.
/r/seduction29/05/13 05:12 PM
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Yeah, I didn't mean candles on the beach romantic. I guess just something memorable, yaknow? And yeah, that's true, but there's a certain feeling of smoothness when these things just come together, I doubt that would be there if I set it up, if that makes sense?
/r/seduction29/05/13 05:11 PM
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At the end of the day, if your studies are taking a front seat, other things are going to have less time in your day. You're just going to accept that's part of the trade off for better grades. Something I found helpful was cutting out my procrastination time and being more productive. If you don't spend those 2 hours a day wasting time on facebook, you can go out and have a couple drinks in the evening and be social. I think it's important to realise you don't have to book out 9pm-12pm the next…
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:59 PM
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If she lets me touch her vagina I'll try and take her panties off after a while, if she lets me, it's never not been go time. You're mad over thinking this though man, she's in bed with you, orgasming?! Imagine it was a girl you wouldn't usually go for, but she's picked you up and you're into it, if she's got you into bed, you're down to fuck are you not?
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:50 PM
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To be blunt, you alpha'd up like a douchebag, which is why I HATE when people use that word. It's not a positive word. 'Alphas' get girls, but they're always the mistake. There's a difference between being outcome independent and being a dick. You're being a dick, that's what went wrong. A girl apologises to you and you told her you don't need this? Dick.
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:46 PM
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It's good, simple and it definitely works. I thought of an interesting one last night, but never got to try it out. It's a bit cheesy, but totally intentionally. Stop whatever you're doing and pull the girl to the side somewhere you have a little room. Take her by the hand, and say has anyone ever read your palm? Most girls will say no and laugh at you for being a bit of a loser because they think you're into palm reading. If they are into that kind of thing, you can go with it anyway, it'll sti…
/r/seduction29/05/13 03:12 PM
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Bring her a dandelion.
/r/seduction28/05/13 01:39 PM
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I'm not sure if it's a new level of looks or the attitude that comes with that feeling, but yeah, I felt that a couple of days ago when I got down to my target weight (well, my target how I want to look). Feels good man.
/r/seduction28/05/13 01:36 PM
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It's more 'don't leave it until the end of the date'. If you leave it to when you're at her door it a) makes her decide in her head 'Should I kiss him or not', which always leads to leaning on no, because no is 'less slutty'. b) It puts far less pressure on you thinking 'Okay, we're at the door, this is it, this is where I need to do it'. Instead you can pick the moment during the date that you think feels right, and go for it.
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:54 AM
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I'm worried that this has upvotes...
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:52 AM
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I have loads of friends I can party with. Loads. I can't count on any of them for shit, they can't count on me for shit, and rightfully so. The only friends I can count on, are the friends I don't party with. They're the friends I eat lunch with, they're the friends I smoke weed and play video games with, they're the friends I talk to when I have a problem about something. They're the friends I go to visit because they live in other countries. They're the friends I make dinner for, they're the f…
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:38 AM
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Fuck delusional confidence. You're rational, humble and down to earth. Work hard, improve yourself, there's no point in delusion. If you're rational, you know that if you put the effort into a good diet and exercise, you're gonna look fucking good in 6 months, and fuck what anyone says, being in physically good shape makes pickup 100x easier. The number of seriously hot (also admittedly seriously stupid) girls that will have sex with a guy just because he has a 6 pack is insane. You know that if…
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:32 AM
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My friends are awful, if they're not putting me on their shoulders while I'm talking to girls at concerts, they're putting each other down because 'lol I've never seen you pick up girls!' from the guy who fell face first drunk into the lap of a girl who's number I got 2 nights before. They're great fun to have fun and drink with, but comprehensively awful as wingmen. I am making a point of having my drinking nights, and my social nights, and on my social nights I make sure there's nobody there w…
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:25 AM
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It wouldn't be awkward or low value to tell a girl you want to date her. That's pretty much the opposite of correct.
/r/seduction28/05/13 12:33 AM
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I'm surprised reddit haven't made their API more accessible given how big they've gotten, there's loads of cool stuff that could be done with all that data. Thanks for trying anyway man.
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:43 PM
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What I'd do: make it clear you're better than her, but once that's clear be very playful about it. Don't take the game seriously at all and use it more as an opportunity to flirt and have fun rather than compete. It's fun to be competitive with your friends, but girls don't take kindly to it because it's usually them losing, no offense girls. Maybe teach her stuff and use it as an excuse to get close, but be careful not to be condescending while teaching, don't act cool because you're better tha…
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:33 PM
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Aw, that's a shame. Would scraping not be a realistic option? Thanks for looking into it anyway.
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:25 PM
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You've been seeing this girl for a month. It should be very clear you're into each other, in which case communicating what you want from a relationship is the opposite of needy. How did you relate the words confrontation and direct to AFC, needy, beta?
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:06 PM
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Treat her like you're gaming her the whole time, not because it is a good idea, but because that's exactly what you're doing and that should be completely clear to the both of you.
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:43 PM
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I don't care if you've kissed, fucked, not kissed, not fucked, or done disgusting things that should not be mentioned to each other. If you aren't comfortable enough with her to ask her after a month, you shouldn't be interested. Unless it's your fault that it's like that, in which case you should talk about how you haven't been talking enough about your relationship, and then talk about what's on your mind. I hope you've picked up that the key word is talk. This is all advice for when you've be…
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:39 PM
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As soon as it hits you that you've been talking to a girl for a while with no kino, stop whatever you're doing, 'hold that thought a second, lets find somewhere comfortable to sit'. That's the best and only way to remedy that situation, then start from scratch and work up. Pretty painful as far as social proof goes that you couldn't get into a club despite being with 8 girls, sort that shit out. I find it odd that so many guys that socially awkward are being invited to fairly intimate parties wi…
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:30 PM
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In England sarcasm is pretty much universal, but I'd say I'm more deadpan than most. I actually stumbled onto the technique that made people find me sarcastic find me funny instead while I was sarcastically taking the piss out of a friend. He's very...animated, and so when I was doing my sarcastic impressions I was being very animated about them, and the reaction difference was massive. Things that would have usually raised a smirk had people falling over, and was viewed as far less critical and…
/r/seduction27/05/13 05:59 PM
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Can you not take it from a users profile somehow? This is in the top right of my user page if I click 'show karma breakdown by subreddit'.
/r/seduction27/05/13 05:30 PM
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Paragraphs are your friend.
/r/seduction27/05/13 01:10 PM
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I'd do the exact opposite. I'd confront it head on and make a really interesting date out of it. I'd get her to critique me hitting on girls, if she's not a terrible coach she's not going to sit there and criticise you, and since it's a date she won't take it super seriously either. One of the things that probably didn't occur to you when you read dating coach is that she's met loads of guys who are desirable and attractive but don't know how to make that show, so she's not necessarily going to …
/r/seduction27/05/13 01:07 PM
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Only personal, not over the whole sub reddit. Makes it far less useful. For example, you're only +1 for me.
/r/seduction27/05/13 12:59 PM
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Why did you approach her? Think about that. Obviously that doesn't always work, you can't go up to a girl and say 'Oh hey, I just wanted to come and talk to you because I couldn't stop staring at your ass' (Well, you can, but that's a different topic). But say you see a girl at a book shop 'Hey, do you read much? I'm trying to find something new to read but can't find anything I like, do you have any recommendations? Or you see a girl who has a great fashion sense, tell her you thought she looke…
/r/seduction27/05/13 12:46 PM
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I'm assuming this is a girl you're having a one on one conversation with, in which case I'd make a joke about her eye fucking me (maybe don't use the word fucking) and escalate a little. Move forward depending on the reaction I guess.
/r/seduction27/05/13 12:02 PM
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It could potentially be freezing her out working, but a girl who wouldn't kiss you after 3 dates and then said 'Good luck', I don't think so. I agree with /u/DinosaurusRach, she is probably missing the attention, but doesn't want to change anything. Keep freezing her out, if she keeps pushing for attention ask her if she wants to go on a date, maybe make a joke about fishing for another date, but make sure it's framed sexually, not as 'oh do you want to hang out'. If she doesn't respond positive…
/r/seduction27/05/13 11:29 AM
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This is something I deal with all the time despite not playing many games anymore. Overview: 13-16: Come home, play games, eat, play games, bed. Got good enough at TF2 to get to the semi finals of an iSeries event. Plenty of people to hang out with at school, but only 2 or 3 friends I'd see occasionally out of school. 16-18: Slight decrease in gaming, in that I'd started being invited out to parties, but that really only took up my Fridays and maybe one other day to hang out with friends per wee…
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:41 AM
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Well, first it depends, do you know if you're in the friend zone or not? Have you kissed/etc? Do you flirt heavily? Is it seriously received or just jokingly?
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:52 AM
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It all depends on the context. The last girl I dated called me and my friends crazy, but in the context that she loves hanging around with us because we're fun. My mate also got called crazy because he did MDMA on a night out and ended up with several girls on his shoulders, the 4th of which did not want to be up there. If crazy is prefixed with 'fucking bastard' you're probably not doing so well. Basically, if they're still having sex with you, it's a good thing, otherwise you probably have som…
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:47 AM
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I'm decently good looking, but not model good looking. I notice girls looking in my general direction, but a long time ago I was walking around town with a female friend and she started pointing out all the girls that checked me out (not meaning anything but that she could see they were looking). It was a lot. Apparently I miss everything...
/r/seduction26/05/13 06:28 PM
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Act like she's a girl you're talking to during the day, say at a book shop. Wait for a solid sign that she's into you. If you get one, ask her if she wants to do something outside work that could also be innocent, e.g. work related drinks which you can turn into a leisure activity when you finish with work. Look for another solid indicator at whatever you do. If you get it, then and only then would I properly start hitting on her. If she reacts negatively at any stage, back off completely, DEFIN…
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:18 PM
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I just realised I've never asked someone out when their answer wasn't already obvious, aka I knew they were going to say yes. I'm now not sure if I'm just generally over confident and lucky about it, or if people usually ask girls out way sooner than I do?
/r/seduction24/05/13 09:04 AM
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See, that would have been more appropriate if you were in a night club, but you should read up on some day game stuff, people are in a very different head space when they're out as opposed to during the day and you need to tailor your approaches as such. Don't take it to heart though, you've got a head start on all of us and all the time in the world to improve.
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:34 PM
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That sucks dude, but if you're leaving in a month, who gives a fuck anyway. What did you say out of curiosity?
/r/seduction23/05/13 02:03 PM
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Sports which involve both sexes (martial arts come to mind, but I'm sure you can think of more) Classes to learn anything (from stereotypical pottery to group music lessons to cooking lessons) The park Coffee shops Book shops Anywhere women are, that's pretty much the biggest upside of day game.
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:23 AM
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I was only being semi serious, but I've always wanted to get one just cause they're jokes. It's a shame I can't sing for shit :P
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:22 AM
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A small town has like 5000 people dude, this has 100x that.
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:21 AM
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I wish I had your balls when I was a kid...Good luck man.
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:19 AM
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Is it that hard to get in places underage? If you could, definitely would. If not, I'd look into day game material, there will be a lot of stuff that can help you in that area.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:17 AM
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I haven't done it, but surely that's inevitably going to fuck everything up, or at the least make everything a hassle. If you can avoid it without much fallout, I definitely would, but in university residence in England sharing is out of the question, so I don't really know what your options are.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:15 AM
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He's right, but only on the most basic level, which is get your fundamentals down, i.e. don't try to have a one night stand with a 9 on your first night out, and aesthetics do matter, it's true, make an effort. All of his details are full of mistakes and bullshit though, best to ignore the article overall.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:05 AM
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I can give you tips, but to be honest, if you don't know the basics, READ THE SIDEBAR. You can read all the little tips you want, but you'll misuse them if you don't know the basics. If you want this to be productive, don't half ass it, you need to understand why the things you're doing are positive, or you'll end up one of those cheesy guys using overly orchestrated pickup lines on girls that can spot you a mile off. It's not a good look. Put a bit of work in and do the reading!
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:00 AM
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Note: Wow, this got long. It's not really concerning the girl, more the underlying problem of how you feel about your school popularity. I felt the same a lot at school often because I changed school 5 times, I was always the guy who got there after everyone made their groups of friends. I hope my experiences help you out a little. The reality is, kids are cruel, but you seem like a mature kid and you can use that to your advantage. I was never the most popular kid in school, I wasn't unpopular,…
/r/seduction23/05/13 12:54 AM
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...Why did I not think of this before?
/r/seduction23/05/13 12:25 AM
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Okay, so here's my problem with using this show as an example, especially to people who may not be too knowledgable in the area, but even generally. Nothing they do in this show is a good idea. Pickup, for 95% of people, is not about being able to pick up a girl even in the worst of circumstances, it's about being able to pick up the best girl possible. It's a subtle difference, but one that makes a big difference, if someone is new to this and being influenced by the pickup scene as a whole, wa…
/r/seduction23/05/13 12:21 AM
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See, I just go with 'assume attraction', it's the best way, but you can't do that when you're just eyeing a girl on the dance floor, hence IOI's, but as you experienced they're not so reliable. I'd just not really open on the dance floor to be honest, if you're gonna try open on the dance floor it's gonna be random grinding and hoping she's down game more than anything. There's a lot of material on how to get good at that if you want to look around, but it's not my style at all. If you're talkin…
/r/seduction22/05/13 11:25 PM
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Oh my god, her ass. Wow. Anyway... Right from the start he's doing badly, look at her body language, slightly slouched shoulders, sunglasses still on. Awkward smiles from the start, and if the smile isn't awkward it's non existant. 'People try to get these stamps there for valentines day...Because it's Loveland...they have a stamp...' She really doesn't care about what they're talking about, barely any investment in the conversation, she is being very polite to him though. Don't know if he'd get…
/r/seduction22/05/13 11:20 PM
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I didn't see he'd replied, but even still, there are a lot of people on this sub who are lacking self esteem and would take that badly.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:43 PM
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On the dance floor your best bet to see if a girl is into you are IOI's (Indicators of Interest). It's not really something I do, because I much prefer to just go and approach, but search around and you'll find plenty of stuff on IOI's and how to use them. The ideal would be to talk to the girl on the dancefloor and then dance with her, but we all know how hard it is to hear anything in clubs, so I don't blame you. I think the best thing to do is spend some time in a non-dancing area, talk to a …
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:42 PM
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If you insist on going for it despite it not sounding like a good idea, wait for her to get back to you, don't call again, don't text. If she's up for it she'll get back to you, if not, trying to get in contact is just going to cause you problems.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:36 PM
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It's something that some people 'fake it to make it' with, but came to me after a period of improving myself to a stage where I realised, I actually am a catch.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:34 PM
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Way to put a man down for no reason...
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:33 PM
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'I don't think I could handle anything more than friends with you' Attraction suicide dude. Usually I'd say read the friend zone posts and try, but you may as well give up to be honest... Even if it didn't kill the attraction, if you try to make it sexual like that she's gonna think you're a dick for lying to her about how you wanted to be friends. Side note: Where are you from where you use 'send us your number' in a sentence that isn't in the UK? (I can tell it isn't the UK from the phone numb…
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:46 PM
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How could you know if he's in the friendzone from that? There's no information there...
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:43 PM
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You should change the 'her girlfriend' bit, it looks like you're trying to emphasise the words rather than replace a name. Just use a fake name. Definitely ignore it though.
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:43 PM
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Last bit resonated, I apply that to so many other things, I don't know why I felt I had to apply it to this. Thanks :)
/r/seduction22/05/13 08:10 PM
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I don't think it's so much that going out with friends is bad, but going out with friends who are there to get drunk and dance is bad if you're trying to get girls. I think if everyone is there for the same reason, and you all know it, it's fine. How did you find going out alone? I want to try it, but I'm being a bit of a pussy about it to be honest. I'm not really arsed about what girls will think, but I know a lot of people in my city, I'll bump into someone I know 4 out of 5 nights, and I don…
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:40 PM
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Sorry if I was unclear, he wanted to drink, he just hadn't drunk in like 8 months and even then it wasn't much, he just didn't know his limits and got giddy with the double vodbulls for £2.50
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:35 PM
1

Say he has bloodwork to who? :S
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:09 PM
1

Personal preference I guess, I try to get less advice that I can trust to be high quality rather than reading everything and filtering out the bad stuff, it's less effort for me to find the high quality sources. You've got to try the advice out whether it's good or bad quality, may as well be good.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:08 PM
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Kinda unnecessary, 'Hey' gets just as good a reaction with less chance of coming off an idiot. Personal opinion though.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:03 PM
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Yeah, but his advice is for people living in a small town, when his version of a small town has 500,000 people in it, which means really he's just guessing at what happens in small towns and hoping his advice is correct, which some of it may be, but it doesn't inspire much trust. There's useful stuff in there, but I wouldn't use it as my guide to pickup in a small town. As someone who's always lived in big cities, I have no idea what it's like in small towns. I can guess, but my advice would lik…
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:49 PM
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Yuuup. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:47 PM
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I really don't want to come across as a downer on your clearly amazing weekend, but this was nothing to do with you, you just got lucky as fuck. You just got picked up by a girl, did you not realise that? Lucky fucker.
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:23 PM
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It does mean interest of some kind, she clearly thinks you're a great guy, she talks to you all the time, but your actions put you in a place where that interest was not made sexual. I just saw your username, so you're new to this. Read TofuTofu's guides on the right before the friend zone stuff. And remember, you don't have to do all of it, but take the parts that will benefit you for your goals, and implement them, they will help. Then read the friend zone stuff. This conversation will make a …
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:16 PM
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You're not looking for a hookup? What are you asking then? If you just want to continue being friends, keep enjoying texting her. Still think you're friend zoned. Edit: Didn't realise you were implying that she'd want a relationship instead, I'm hungover, sorry. But still, if you want her, I'd go with reading the friend zone stuff on the side bar. I'd save the effort and find someone else if I were you.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:59 PM
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Milwaukee is the largest city in the U.S. state of Wisconsin, the 28th most populous city in the United States, and 39th most populous region in the United States. I live in Manchester, England, the 3rd biggest city in England. There is no excuse to say 'Oh I can't find people' in Manchester, there are people everywhere. Milwaukee has a bigger population than Manchester. Small town? What a clown.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:52 PM
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You weren't flirting, you were chatting with a friend. Look at the text game posts in the sidebar, personally I keep not in person contact to phone calls more than text, and to a minimum.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:47 PM
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A female friend asked me why I'd stopped texting her once in very similar circumstances. I was having a marathon sex weekend with someone else. Purely anecdotal and not necessarilly the case with yours, but unless her attitude towards you has changed drastically, she was probably busy with something that she doesn't want to tell you. Also, you're clearly in the friend zone...40-50 texts a day is long term relationship territory or friend territory. Sorry dude... I'd just forget her and find some…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:44 PM
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I was torn between helping my friend and staying out, at the end of the day bro's have gotta come first. I wasn't this relaxed about it yesterday though, fortunately he was unconscious for most of me swearing at him under my breath haha
/r/seduction22/05/13 02:55 PM
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Yeah, I'm home visiting the parents and friends here, and home is a half hour taxi and £25, and trains finish at 12. Not great for going back out :( Also, he was puking in his sleep, we had to keep an eye on him.
/r/seduction22/05/13 02:53 PM
1

Interesting, personally I just use it for raves/big club nights and love it for that, but not much else.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:49 AM
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Eeh, I hate that stuff, tried it a few times because people kept raving about it, but I'd just have a weird 10 minute trip and then feel strange for the rest of the day..
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:48 AM
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I've done that before too, and yeah it's awesome, but I think OP was looking for more regular ways to deal with it. As much as I'd like to do that all the time, molly will put me out of action for the whole next day, and although I might luckily pick up some girls when on drugs, it's due to luck and not effective.
/r/seduction21/05/13 06:53 PM
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Are you better friends with your roommate? If you are, tell him/her about how big of a dick he's being by cock blocking you. Let him deal with the guy, and tell him you don't want to see him unless he apologises and stops. If not, I'd be super clear with him, ask him why he's sabotaging your interactions with other guys, if he's not a dick he'll realise what he's doing is wrong and back off. If he is being a dick, and intentionally keeps fucking with you despite you telling him not to, you have …
/r/seduction21/05/13 02:12 PM
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Guitar: As much as it's a cliche, I'm not even that good, but every time a girl see's my guitar: 'Wow you play guitar?' 'I'm much better at drums, but I play a little, yeah' 'Play me something' Plays something cheesy, maybe get her to sing along Plays something hard 'Come here, I'll teach you how to play something' Fail epically at teaching her anything, endless kino, usually just making out by this point A lot of people say magic is good, but I find that it's received well once the hard work is…
/r/seduction21/05/13 02:07 PM
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If I'm ill, I rest. Who wants to have sex when you're ill anyway? I'd still hit on a girl if I met her during the day, but I wouldn't go out on nights. I'd sit in and relax, maybe meet up with some friends if I'm not feeling too bad, because who wants to get hit on by a guy with a runny nose? (Even if he is attractive)
/r/seduction21/05/13 01:51 PM
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Stuff like this honestly makes me wonder if some of this shit is made up...Who could possibly think that is a good idea?
/r/seduction21/05/13 01:47 PM
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I know, but she already knows that would solve the problem. She wouldn't be asking if she wanted that answer, she'd have done it already.
/r/seduction21/05/13 01:44 PM
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Route A: Passive. Won't work if you see him face to face, etc. 'Hey, what are you doing today?' 'Hey, sorry I'm really busy today, I've got to go, bye!' Rinse, repeat, he'll get the message quickly enough. Route B: i.e. The one that actually works 'Look, I thought you were a cool guy but you're clearly can't handle an adult friendship, you keep trying to sabotage my interactions with other guys and so I don't want to see you anymore. Bye.'
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:52 PM
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I'm actually really curious about this. On the one hand, you're at a club, drinking, laughing and having fun, that's a pretty big mood kill of a topic...but on the other hand, it's a bit unnecessary, and I'm sure she'd have appreciated you being nice, especially since you know you aren't sleeping with her. I guess it depends on whether you're intending on turning the person into a friend or just someone you met once.
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:40 AM
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She was in a guys bathroom because she didn't identify to gender stereotypes, I'm gonna guess she doesn't have the most vanilla dating life.
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:38 AM
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There's lot of options, cold showers, drugs (if you're so inclined), red bull/pro plus, pep talks, stand up comedy. But honestly, unless I'm not going to have time to go out for a while after, I'll just stay in, why try and force it? This is probably a luxury, simply because I don't have to be up for anything till about 12, so pretty much every night is free for me. That is, as long as this isn't just you every time you go out, in which case, push yourself and go.
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:31 AM
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I'd just not do it publicly, and then kino when you can (i.e. under the table, etc). I'd probably push the boundaries of touchy feel-y under the table as well, but that's just me.
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:24 AM
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Wow, you delivered. Fair play, I'll actually try that haha
/r/seduction21/05/13 10:57 AM
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That's the most vague advice I've ever seen haha. There's also no way to prove that.
/r/seduction20/05/13 07:37 PM
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Okay, if you're sexually interested in her, make that clear. Whether you want to infringe on their relationship is up to you, and you should probably gauge her response to it (some people are very principled about the start and ends of relationships). I'd make my interest clear from the start 'Wow, you look great', plenty of kino, and try and make some kind of more sexual comment (I usually go for tits or ass) to make sure it's obvious that you're not just telling her she looks pretty today. If …
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:37 PM
1

Yeah, it's a realisation that improved my sex life in a big way, but I never thought to apply to it to pickup, thanks!
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:23 PM
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This was a massive step for me when I first made it. I've shifted my thinking a lot, to a much more realistic space. A lot of girls I go up to, I lose interest in very fast, the number one reason being they're boring. When I realised that I lose interest in more girls than I actually end up wanting to hit on, my frame of mind shifted from 'That girl's hot, I'm going to try and hit on her' to 'That girls hot, I want to find out if she's cool enough to hit on'. And honestly, I felt like I'd just s…
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:21 PM
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Interesting, I think we all really underestimate how nervous a lot of girls are in these situations, we just assume they're thinking completely clearly all the time, when a lot of the time they're trying to figure out how to get us into bed too.
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:15 PM
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1 is really interesting. That's not really my personality at all, I'm very laid back and much better at getting a girl into a 'real' conversation. It makes a lot of sense though, I never thought about changing the kind of girl I'm targeting, even though it's clearly going to be necessary. I can definitely do that style, it's just not really me, but I'll definitely try to push it next time I go out. Is there a type of girl you'd say is more common to have a one night stand with? Or certain person…
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:10 PM
1

I would be seriously tempted to just start taking my shirt off at this point and just gauge the reaction. I just can't think of any other reason two girls are sat there telling me about how horny they both are...
/r/seduction19/05/13 12:03 PM
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That's interesting, and definitely something I can relate to in terms of 'She's not reacting...what does that mean?' That being said, you're right, girls are very rarely scared of telling you to to get lost, but they're usually nervous about letting on that they're into you. I'll definitely try push this boundary and see what the results are.
/r/seduction19/05/13 11:57 AM
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You can choose between a strong friendship and sex, there is no limbo. If you're willing to risk the friend, make a clear move, kiss her, it sounds like it will work. If you aren't, you need to take sex out of the equation.
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:27 AM
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I don't think there's a hard and fast way to capitalise on this unless you've had sex with one of them before. In a situation like this I always just make the obvious joke of 'So, is this your way of asking me for a threesome?' If they react positively, push the subject, if they laugh it off, continue as normal.
/r/seduction19/05/13 02:12 AM
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