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| 3 | How were periods talked about when you were growing up?That’s awesome, and yeah my mom is the best. Reading all these stories makes me so sad that people had such shitty parents. My dad was also great and had no problem buying me pads when I needed them. I didn’t start using tampons until I was in my early 20’s so he never had to get those but I do think he probably would have been a little uncomfortable if he had to lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting.That was so eloquently said, could not agree more!👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 42 | How were periods talked about when you were growing up?My mom and I have always been close so she talked to me about periods and what to expect so I wasn’t surprised when it happened. I first got my period when I was 10 while I was at my friends house. My friends mother only had tampons and I wasn’t comfortable using them so I called my mom and she picked me up and we went home. She gave me pads and showed me how to use them. Then she totally babied me that night. She got me McDonald’s and Kit Kat’s (my two favorite things at the time) and went to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 47 | Scrote wants to divorce his wife that recently gave birth to their child because he's no longer in love and he's mad that they haven't had sex in FOUR months (she just have birth!). Now he's upset that his family and friends see him as selfish (not the fact that he's created a single parent home).That is disgusting. What an asshole. I had to unsubscribe to Slate last year because every Dear Prudie article I read on there would make me so fucking angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Is marriage respected in the area you live in by the dudes?Men who don’t cheat are RARE. They are the minority, not the majority like a lot of people think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 15 | Is marriage respected in the area you live in by the dudes?That’s the thing about being married - women never really know what their husbands are like when they aren’t around. Men are at their worst when they are not with their wives, and are around other men and other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 224 | Men Are Visual BSI am so sick of hearing and reading about how men are visual creatures so that makes it okay for them to objectify women, cheat and lust after women that are not their partners. It’s bullshit. We are all visual. It’s just an excuse that men like to use to justify their shitty behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?Oh okay, that makes sense. I thought it was just a rule subs had to keep things cordial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 68 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?Ugh I hate Reddit. I searched pregnant and pink the other day and so much porn came up. I wanted to post about it here but I don’t think linking other subs is allowed. I hate that rule to be honest, a lot of subs have it and sometimes I just want to talk about how much I hate certain subs yet none of the subs I frequent allow that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 15 | This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS.I see that too! I also unfortunately see a lot of guys who say they love their wives and would never cheat on them, but then I look at their comment history and it’s full of porn. Basically when I see a comment that says “my wife” I always look at their comment history and 80% of the time there’s porn, inappropriate comments and lusting after women. A few weeks ago, there was a post where a man was complaining about his sister giving him dirty looks whenever he hangs out with his 13 year old nie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 244 | Something my coworker said that git me thinking ( upset)That is so weird. I can’t even imagine my father making those types of comments about my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:55 PM |
| 85 | This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS.Definitely. There’s been a few times where I’ve seen redditors say they are teachers and I’ve looked through their posts and comments and what do I see... porn and comments on nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 86 | Do men use filters on their faces for their pictures on OLD apps??They really are. Within just a few hours of joining tinder, I had 7 guys wanting me to meet them for sex. I feel so sorry for their future wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:21 AM |
| 23 | Can confirm that a) this works and b) the results are hilariousThis is random but when I click on that video it shows 24 trending videos and 20 of them are girls sexualizing themselves or just sexual in nature. Pretty sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | She’s so proud to be a pick me 😭That is just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 292 | This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS.Reddit is 40% porn so this is no surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 10:34 PM |
| 58 | Blocking and deleting gets easier the more you do it.You are completely right. If he was truly interested, he would not want to go days without talking to you. He’d want to talk to you every chance he gets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 27 | Bringing up marriage upfront?To me dating for marriage should mean not having sex right away, maybe not even until marriage or an engagement. Surely they won’t stick around that long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 43 | Bringing up marriage upfront?Tell them you’re dating for marriage. Guys who just want to have sex with you will run when you say that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 126 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡The bare minimum should be not cheating but to pickmeishas its literally just a guy wanting to have sex with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 80 | You ever feel like the women who are happy with their men are kind of just...dumb?For a lot of women, being alone is the absolute worst thing to them. So they’d rather be with anyone as long as they aren’t single. I guess I have my mom to thank because growing up she told me that if a boy liked me, I would know. He would be nice and treat me well. He would never cheat. It’s sad how a lot of women who ask for advice about their abusive, cheating men, always mention how much he loves her. Like no, he doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 21 | Romantic NecrophiliaMy first boyfriend said I was pretty, but not as hot as girls his age. I was 13, he was 15. He ended up cheating on me with a girl his own age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:08 AM |
| 39 | Romantic NecrophiliaPlease tell me she left him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 09:04 AM |
| 7 | I shudder at therapists like this giving out this advice to vulnerable women.I didn’t even know “bimbo culture” was a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 21 | If it Hasn't Sunk In Yet, Men and Women Cannot Be FriendsI remember a few months ago seeing a post on Reddit, I forget where but basically hundreds of men admitted to wanting to fuck their female friends and that it is basically impossible for men to be friends with women without wanting to sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 47 | I shudder at therapists like this giving out this advice to vulnerable women.I’m confused. So they can’t write the word sex, but can twerk in a thong bikini, have underage girls talking about sex and also twerking in bikinis, sexual dances, sexual challenges, girls talking about sex work, promoting their OnlyFans, and soft core porn, but if they write the word “sex”, it can get removed? So fucked up lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 23 | I shudder at therapists like this giving out this advice to vulnerable women.Are you not allowed to write the word “sex” on Tiktok? Or do they just say “seggs” because they think it’s cool? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 13 | Context: the boyfriend has sex with other women for OnlyFans and promotes it on TikTok. The girlfriend says she is “happy”. Comments are saying “y’all mad you get cheated on for free while they’re in a healthy relationship with boundaries, trust, and more money than you” 🤦♀️women always lose because they allow men to disrespect them in ways that men don’t allow women to do to them Sad but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 0 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....I actually just dumped my husband for cheating on me, so I am far from a pickme. Cardi B on the other hand, is a pickme. You were definitely being rude, and it wasn’t necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:01 AM |
| -3 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....My comment was totally taken out of context. I can see why my comment made it seem like I called her trash for staying with a cheater but that’s not what I meant at all. But yeah, maybe I shouldn’t have called her trash, but I can not stand her. With that being said, FDS members should not be attacking other FDS members on here. It’s just rude and unnecessary. We are on the same side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:41 AM |
| 12 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....How was I victim blaming her? She can’t help being cheated on, and that does not make her trash. But she does stay with him, and goes to strip clubs with him and makes excuses for his cheating. That’s not victim blaming, that’s just speaking the truth. She is doing nothing for the feminist movement. She’s actually hurting it. We shouldn’t be supporting that, no matter how true some of her lyrics are. No need to be rude. We are both FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:59 AM |
| 6 | I have to give it to Cardi - she is right ....She is not a victim. She’s trash because of the way she acts and for her song lyrics. It is sad how people think her music is empowering and act like she’s a role model. Who benefits the most from her pornographic music and music videos and pictures? It’s men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:33 AM |
| 53 | GiRlS aRe So ShAlLoWFuck I am never getting married again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 12 | Men just can't be single for a minuteIt really is, but most men are trash lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 38 | Men just can't be single for a minuteYeah, women need to do better. As long as women keep putting up with cheating and other bullshit, the more men will keep doing it, because why would they stop if they keep getting away with it? They won’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:58 PM |
| 65 | Men just can't be single for a minuteExactly! Also, look how fast men get remarried after their wives die. I see it all the time, usually a year later they already have a girlfriend and then the following year they are remarried. It makes me so sad how fast they move on, when it usually takes women years before they get in a new relationship, or sometimes they never do. They also aren’t having sex right away, while men start sleeping around right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 115 | Men just can't be single for a minuteThat is why I always just shake my head at women who take their cheating husbands and boyfriends back. The women really believe that these men love them and that is why they want to be with them, but they don't. They just don't want to be alone. Most men can not handle being alone. A lot of women are the same way though, and that is why they put up with so much bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 118 | If ANY sex work was empowering, men would be against it. Libfem is a plague to women as a whole and why we will never progress. This is one of the truest things I've ever heard. MEN DO NOT WANT US TO EVER BE EMPOWERED. REMEMBER THAT.I will never understand how women selling their bodies to men can be considered empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 102 | Amazing that the men who love me tell me not to date and stay away from men.My brother is the main person in my life that tells me how awful men are, and that even the seemingly good ones are still trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:31 PM |
| 22 | I don’t even know what to sayI loved it because most boys my age paid no attention to me, so it made me feel desirable and mature. I didn't realize how creepy it really was until I got older. Men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 62 | I don’t even know what to sayDefinitely. I bet they would go as young as 12. I started getting attention from men when I was around 11. I looked older, but I still didn’t look 16. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 160 | I don’t even know what to sayThat does not surprise me. Unfortunately a lot of men believe women peak in their 20’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 18 | The entire comments section of this Tiktok🤡I have real hair, eyebrows and a natural face but I will not be calling him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 12 | I tried calling out a racist, p*dophilic, porn image posted as a meme "joke" on a sub for a reality TV show about couples undergoing the k1 visa process, here is what happenedYou are completely right, but trying to convince these perverted, horny, disgusting porn addicted “men” how fucked up porn is, is a waste of your time. A lot of these “men” have daughters, wives, girlfriends, sisters, nieces, mothers, and they still watch porn. They don’t care. They will never give up their porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 152 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.Men have no problems being loyal to their favorite sports teams, their friends, and their dog (rightfully so) but when it comes to women they don’t have a loyal bone in their body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:54 AM |
| 24 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.Your story with your cousin is very similar to mine. I had a male cousin that I was very close with growing up. He was 2 years older than me. He was my biggest defender, and always stuck up for me when my brother picked on me. He would often sleep over, and when I was around 8 I started asking him to sleep with me and he would. It was completely innocent. We would talk about Buffy in my bed. He would rub my back until I fell asleep. He never did anything inappropriate. No one knew about it until… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:48 AM |
| 11 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.That’s so sad. I hope that guys fiancée somehow finds out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 17 | If you have to snap a picture of a guy, contact Deux Moi, and ask them to conduct an international search on a dude that checked you out but didn’t ask you out, then he’s just not that into you. 🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:34 AM |
| 476 | The level of animosity I am feeling right now for this person is indescribable... my blood pressure may never recover.Ugh what an asshole. I don’t even know him, and I hate him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:07 AM |
| 98 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lolBuT hEs An AmAzInG MaN aNd He LoVeS mE sO mUcH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Since I started commenting on here, I’ve been getting a lot of messages like this one.I just noticed I forgot to block out his name on top. Sorry! I’ll repost it there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 328 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readI was with my stbxh for 5 years, married for 2.5 years. We had sex almost everyday, sometimes multiple times a day. The only time we didn't was when I was on my period, and even then I would usually blow him. And guess what? He still cheated. If a man wants to fuck other women and can, he will cheat, doesn't matter how much sex he is getting at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 18 | Finally this depraved bullshit is facing some backlash in young malesI definitely agree. Parents don’t know what their kids are up to at school, with friends, but they can at least monitor their internet usage and phones but they aren’t even doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 77 | Stop mourning awful men dying.I keep reading about how amazing of a husband Prince Phillip was, but didn't he have multiple affairs?? When someone dies, it's like people just forget all the awful shit they did when they were alive, aka DMX and Kobe Bryant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 12 | Just left what I thought was HVMI could have wrote this. I found out 2 months ago that my husband cheated on me last year. I thought he was HVM. I was blindsided. I’m still shocked by it. I just found out about this sub a couple weeks ago, but I’m sure if I found it sooner he also would have “agreed” with a lot of things that are posted on here. He totally had me fooled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 27 | Finally this depraved bullshit is facing some backlash in young malesWhere the hell are these kids parents? They are totally failing by not keeping track of their online profiles and what they’re doing. It’s really sad 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 5 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.Oh I know! I just saw other comments about how much people liked him so I was curious to see if he came off as a HVM online. He does look familiar though and he lives near me so I wonder if I’ve seen him around. Guys who follow Instagram models and porn stars are def a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.https://t.co/p6t8aSuvGv?amp=1 At the 21 minute mark he pretty much mocks another youtuber for being against porn. I only listened for about 5 minutes so maybe he said more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 5 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.Ohh maybe not then. Up until today I had never heard of this guy but by looking at his Instagram I found that Taylor girls and noticed they are friends and had the same last name so I assumed. Either way, aren’t men who follow girls that post half naked pics or do porn a LVM trait? Maybe that doesn’t apply to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.I think @tay.all is his girlfriend’s sister. I’m not sure who Ray Mattos is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 51 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.I’ve been reading about him and he is pro porn and watches it so I guess he doesn’t respect women that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 18 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.I have never heard of him but he is cute. I just checked his Instagram and looks like his girlfriends sister does porn. I’d feel awkward knowing my boyfriend has seen my sister’s ass, or even her naked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 218 | Comments from a thread about a Tik Tok video talking about how hard OLD is for men. "Your nightmare is our dream."“iM MaRriEd sO THis DoEsNt ReAlLy ApPlY tO mE” I like that guys usage of “really”. Makes me think he does in fact pay for “pussy pics” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:38 AM |
| 16 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!Yup, if 14 was the legal age, men would be trying to have sex with them. Look at that Belle Delphine girl. She looks like she's 13, and apparently she's the most popular porn star right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 7 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Men who have ''furry'' fetish?Men and their fucking fetishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 76 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...You know she will lol, and then he will move on to physically cheating on her (if he hasn’t yet) and she will stay because at that point she will probably be pregnant or they will have a couple kids. Then he will start having an affair with a co-worker. He will tell his wife that it didn’t mean anything, it was just sex and she is the one he loves and comes home to every night. She will forgive him and he will be the perfect husband for a few months and then it will begin again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 30 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleSame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 35 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.Most men keep nudes, even when they get in new relationships, and the ones that don’t admit to using memories to jerk off (along with porn). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 5 | FDS Dictionary 🤣 1Ughh that’s disgusting. Is the army recruiter single at least? Those 18 year old girls should not be sleeping with him either though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 48 | Is it just me, or is sending nude selfies a really stupid thing to do?Exactly! Who is benefiting from it? Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | So pleased with my ring! Always forget I can just buy my own 🥰So pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 32 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.Don’t wanna sound like a grandma, but the problem with that lifestyle is you will be having sex with all LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:50 AM |
| 86 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.It feels good that there are some women that believe watching porn is cheating. Sadly, not many do. Like how is jerking off to other women, and fantasizing about fucking them not cheating? When men watch porn they are replacing the male actor with themselves. Like how is that okay? Oh right, because MEn ArE ViSuAL CrEaTuReS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢Women really should never drink/get drunk around men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 82 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢Yup. I just went through the top 100 followers and about 70% were men. Funny enough based on a lot of those men’s profile pictures, they are married and/or have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 9 | “This is the future that FDS wants!!” 😂Hahaha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:04 PM |
| 40 | Men's reviews of prostitutes they visited. This is for you libfems who promote the empowerment of sex work. Very graphic so warning.Not surprising, but still disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 56 | Why men cheat.Men really do love trying to convince women that when they cheat it isn't so bad, because it's just sex and no emotions or feelings were involved. Just because they cheat, doesn't mean they don't love their partner. Sadly a lot of women buy that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 45 | Why men cheat.Oh yeah, he is definitely a manchild. He actually cheated over a year ago; I just found out about it two months ago. If I didn't look through his phone, I probably never would have found out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:59 PM |
| 71 | Why men cheat.I left him! We are separated. I'm pregnant too, so it's been awful. Thought I married a HVM, turns out I didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 63 | Why men cheat.I haven't checked the guys comments since last week, but lots of women thanked him for his insight and for speaking facts, while the men agreed with him and basically said men cheating isn't a big deal, it's just sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 59 | Why men cheat.My husband cheated with strippers. He blamed it on alcohol and being horny and having no self control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersThat's awful! Why are men such trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:35 AM |
| 5 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersExactly! Porn is causing men to only see us as objects, especially with the whole sex doll look that's really popular right now on Instagram. It's why men have such a problem with seeing an attractive woman and not imagining her naked and thinking about all the things they want to do to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:33 AM |
| 21 | From a dating sub asking about the ‘perfect lady’ that men want to date.I honestly don’t really think that list is that bad.. I was definitely expecting worse lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 25 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?A guy once told me that I was a natural beauty but kinda plain and that I wasn’t doing much to maximize my looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:05 AM |
| 13 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersYeah just goes to show sex workers really have no morals at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 21 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI’m Canadian. I got paid minimum wage which was around $9.50 at the time, plus tips. As an introvert, I absolutely I hated it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 46 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI was a waitress for two years. It is pretty close to sex work without actually being sex work. I didn’t work at hooters or anything like that, but I still had to wear tight clothing and deal with men ogling me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 22 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersThat’s so sad. I really hope their wives somehow find out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 49 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI have a hard time respecting sex workers, for many reasons, one being that they are contributing to men cheating on their wives, because let’s be honest the majority of men that seek escorts and sugar babies are married. I’d also bet that half the men that pay for OnlyFans are married. Yes, it is ultimately the men that are choosing to cheat and pay for sex/nudes, but it’s just gross to me when women don’t care about being a part of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 87 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI agree with a lot of what you said. Reddit is very pro porn and sex work so we are in the minority. Sex work is not real work. These women are selling their bodies to satisfy men and trying to justify it as feminism and female empowerment. It’s not. It sets women back by encouraging men to think of us as nothing more than sex objects. A woman on OnlyFans invites the world to devalue and dehumanize her. Self-abasement for profit. Nothing noble or respectable about it. I also don't see a signific… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 90 | Financial costs of “Casual Sex”This. It is so fucked up. Men that are having casual sex don't put any value into sex yet they often look down on women who have casual sex and are promiscuous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 10 | Story Time: My FDS SuccessThat’s awesome! So happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 41 | Sick and tired of hearing i "look good for my age"I’m 31 and I look like I’m still in my mid 20’s. I don’t get comments about how good I look for 31, mostly just about how young I look. It is so fucked up how a lot of men seem to think a woman’s prime is in her early 20’s. Men continue to be trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 50 | LADIES WTF: Homeless Millennial Man Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night. Every woman who fell for this dirty unwashed misogynist deserves to be in the Pickmeisha Hall of Shame.That is disgusting. He is pathetic, and same with those men at that strip club. Those women definitely deserve to be in the Pickmeisha hall of shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:18 PM |
| 10 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkThey want a sex doll that can touch them back, treat them well, love them, talk (but not nag or complain) and make them laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 16 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkYup. Men don’t change just because they get into a relationship. It doesn’t matter if he’s having sex every day, or once a week. A porn watcher who enjoys it is not going to stop just because he gets a girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 22 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkTotally agree. Even the few that may not watch porn now, used to watch it. They say they don’t watch it anymore, but admit to still thinking about the porn they watched, and struggling with temptation and lusting after women. I’ve listened to some Christian youtubers and they say they don’t watch it now, but every single one says they used to and that certain things (instagram, seeing an attractive girl, a girl in a bikini at the beach, etc) still trigger them and give them lustful thoughts. It’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:00 PM |
| 18 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkYes! This is the easiest way to spot. 100% of men who follow those types of accounts watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | This was basically my ex's friends. Weird how so many men don't find this odd( when not actively boasting about dating teens as my ex and his friends would *vomits!*)This, so much this. I went to private and catholic schools and when I wore a skirt, I would get cat called and harassed a lot. It was crazy the amount of attention I got from older men. I got more attention from men in their 20’s to 50’s than I did from teenage boys. Men liking younger woman is not anything new, but porn has been a huge factor in the sexualization and objectification of young girls. Most porn titles have the words “teen, barely legal, or 18 year old pussy” in it. Just look on Re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:50 AM |
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