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| 24 | Not enough discussions about the Women Who Enabled Jeffrey Epstein.Makes sense Ghislaine was a much worse abuser. She was the primary recruiter/COO of the whole thing.. Everything from getting the girls to join to “training” them was in her hands. How terrible. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/26 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Studies Show That Physical Affection from a Partner Has a Healing Effect on Men (and All People)Insane cringe | /r/MensRights | 11/02/26 07:40 PM |
| 7 | A judge told my ex she’s lucky I’m the father. A year ago I wasn’t allowed to even see my kidFrame your favorite excerpt of it lol. Congrats and good job OP | /r/MensRights | 13/12/25 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Let's make men's problem a women's problem.Genuinely got curious where you got the idea that I’m an active member of the exredpill sub. The last comment I had in that sub was from 24 days ago explaining (in a very empathetic way, mind you) to a person asking what factors and experiences lead men to becoming incels. None of which I remotely blamed them for and instead I talked about societal failures leading men to become resentful or avoidant of women in their lives. Or abuse in the home by whatever female guardian they had leading to di… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/25 05:12 AM |
| -6 | Let's make men's problem a women's problem.Boy those are some bold words for the person whose comment history looks like you spend half your day posting incendiary comments like you get paid for it. As you can tell, I go into subreddits of all flavors bringing opinions, whether they are in agreement or not with the person I’m talking to. What does me having a comment history in exredpill have to do with anything? Yes, I can concede that for a growing child it certainly is important to have positive role models. Both genders require leade… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/25 04:33 AM |
| -2 | Let's make men's problem a women's problem.I think you completely misunderstood what I was saying. No, you don’t need a textual citation for everything. But extrapolating that this woman hates her male colleagues just because she made a very valid point that finding a same-sex mentor in an opposite-sex-dominated field is hard, for both men and women, is beyond ridiculous. People make it work anyway. I work in a male dominated field and my husband works in a female dominated field. He has found female mentors who support him on a professi… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/25 03:30 AM |
| -5 | Let's make men's problem a women's problem.Where does it say she doesn’t get along with her colleagues because they are male? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | The Vanishing Male Teacher: How Extreme Gender Imbalance in K-12 Education Is Becoming Self-PerpetuatingSorry can you show me where being a super requires 30+ years of experience? I can’t find anything on it and my teacher husband says that’s not true either | /r/MensRights | 26/11/25 02:16 AM |
| 6 | What experiences or factors do you think drive some men to become incels ?I’ve spoken to quite a few incels online and here are some patterns I’ve noticed in most of them: - Bad relationships with their mothers. A lot of the time they were raised by single mothers who were either too busy to properly raise them, or were horribly abusive/controlling and really damaged their view of women at a young age - Bullied in school, typically for their looks but it could be other factors as well (autism is a big one if they have it). Lots of experiences with your run-of-the-mill… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badI don’t mean to diminish your experiences here, I guess I just want to say I sympathize as a woman. Maybe it’s because I come off a lot more “tomboyish”/stoic than the average woman? I have a hard time finding friends and family who are willing to support me through my lows and a lot of them seem to get uncomfortable when I, the normally unemotional support friend, fall apart from the stress of holding everything up. Basically I’m saying I’m not entirely sure it’s a gender thing and more of a so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 05:17 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"A good friendship doesn’t have to precede dating per se but you do have to be able to build that good friendship over time (even if it’s after you become exclusive). Assuming your end goal is an LTR/marriage, this IS the person you have to invest the vast majority of your time with after all. If the only common interest you have is the relationship butterflies and sex, how will you survive when both of those things fade due to age/hormones/just general life swings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Why is big size so sexualized compared to other sizes?That’s a leading question. Can you share where you found that men with bigger dicks get more casual sex? I found research stating that women were more interested in width than length (N=50) and another one stating that men with bigger dicks rated their appearance higher which meant they had higher confidence, potentially leading to more sex in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Why is big size so sexualized compared to other sizes?I guess you can measure it based on how many women come back for “seconds” with a larger/smaller guy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalitiesWhat do you mean it can’t be in the course of my everyday routine? Cooking isn’t allowed to be a hobby anymore I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:53 AM |
| 19 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Maybe it’s just my household but if I meal prepped one dish for a whole week, my husband would probably go on a hunger strike and just eat takeout the rest of the week after day 3 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Tea appYeah, I’d rather they get sued for the privacy and doxxing issues of the men they get posted on there though | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Tea appTo answer your first one (tbh because I don’t understand your second question), I got curious enough to download the app and they asked me to take a selfie and upload it. They took maybe a week to review it and then you get access to the app. Allegedly they delete your selfie once your review is finished | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 08:42 PM |
| -2 | Are we really just here to serve women?Rewrite curriculum in what way? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?I feel lust for people all the time, but I’m not single. Even if I was, openly lusting for men is a very quick and easy way to get branded a hoe. Unfortunately most of society is still not at the stage yet where we view women sexually approaching someone as socially acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:06 AM |
| 2 | It’s not disgusting to want to find your wife attractivePregnancy and postpartum hormones can completely screw with your metabolism | /r/MensRights | 17/06/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm pretty sure that Women wanting Men to pay for Dates/First Dates is Wide-Spread Financial AbuseWell, as a woman, that’s exactly why I would never expect (or even want) a man to fully pay for our dates. Not all men obviously, but some men definitely expect some.. “Payment” for covering the meal. They’d get angry if you decide after dinner that you don’t want to go home with them or go on another date. Better to just go dutch and leave with no debts. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 6 | IncelTears is honestly insaneThe reality is that the best advocacy that’s actually PRO men instead of anti women and pro women instead of anti men happens in real life. Actually bridging the gap between the genders requires more than just online circlejerking on forums like Reddit. Sure, complain to the MRA or 2X sub about whatever, but what’s even more helpful than that is actually reaching out to your bros in real life. Check in on them. Care for them. That’s how you become a true men/women’s rights advocate. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you pay for your platonic women friends when going out?It’s probably a cultural thing tbh. I’ve had my male friends pay for my dinner but they’re usually immigrants (so am I). I treat them dinner as well so it ends up being 50/50 overall. It’s just more in non-western cultures to “fight over the bill” Edit: In the context of this video though, this woman’s entitlement is nasty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you identify as a feminist?Egalitarian is probably a lot closer to my label | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were usThat is one hell of an assumption | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 11:32 AM |
| 4 | How can one be married to a woman and misogynist?Agreed! The ability to have civil disagreement is a virtue | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 11:40 PM |
| 13 | How can one be married to a woman and misogynist?I think that’s a no true scotsman fallacy though. If you don’t count misogynistic, abusive men as “real men” then I can equally say that I don’t count misandrist abusive women as “real women,” therefore there are no sexist married men/women. There’s plenty of both in the world and marital status has nothing to do with your prejudice against the other sex | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 11:04 PM |
| 29 | How can one be married to a woman and misogynist?Of course you can be married and a misogynist. Not all marriages are happy or healthy. Would you agree that one can be a married woman and a misandrist? | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to hate women and it's scaring meHe’s calling for the death of all women | /r/MensRights | 16/04/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | UK: I spent five years in prison after being accused of a horrific sex crime I didn't commit - only for a jury to clear me in 80 minutes. But no compensation. The Ministry of Justice does not believe him.You usually would need to countersue | /r/MensRights | 20/03/25 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Indiana boy, 10, dead after 340-pound foster mom sits on him for 'acting bad'Was it considered manslaughter by any chance? Can’t open the article at the moment | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 07:04 PM |
| 12 | If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”?A lot of these claims are backed by the statistic that 8 inch dildos are generally the most preferred purchase by women. Problem is, it doesn’t really account for the fact that dildos typically need to be held at the bottom to use in certain positions (unless it’s a wall suction one or something). You need at least a couple inches to grip it properly while still feeling stimulated. So yeah I think you’re absolutely right, 6-7 inches seems way more likely to be the preferred size for women. Dildo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 06:20 AM |
| 2 | The mentality exhausting burden we bear as men listening to feminist talk about thinking.Just offering some perspective I guess.. I’m in one of these marriages and it genuinely almost broke us before we had a come-to-Jesus moment and he’s finally gotten better at doing chores without needing to be asked 2-3x. I’m the (sole) breadwinner in the family and also a part time student. He used to be a full time student but is now part time as well and doesn’t work. I cook every single meal for our family and I used to do all the cleaning as well.. At some point I felt genuinely burnt out a… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | The mentality exhausting burden we bear as men listening to feminist talk about thinking.What’s a shit test? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 02:10 PM |
| – | What are some code that women use towards guys they’re not interested in?What is this in reference to? Sex acts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 01:54 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel about the "small dick energy" comments?It’s real but it’s certainly not caused by promiscuity.. TMI but I’ve only ever had sex with a penis once in my life. And in the 4 years my husband and I have been together, it has ranged anywhere from so tight to the point where it hurts and I’m bleeding, to no foreplay needed and we could go right away. And this fluctuates depending on all sorts of things.. Whether I’m turned on enough, whether we haven’t had sex in a while, what time I’m in in my menstrual cycle… Loose vagina exists, for sure… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/25 01:22 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.There are some men here who take literally any minutely positive attribute a man has to claim that a woman is being hypergamous. If he’s not rich, it must be his looks. If you’re looksmatched, it must be his status. If not, it must be his race. He’s not white either? He must be tall. On and on until they find one thing they deem positive enough to go, ha! That’s why you’re dating him, hypergamous woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:10 PM |
| 26 | Ex-Wife will end up getting 100% of the marital property if they both live 20 more years.Was she a stay at home mother by any chance? Also is this in the US? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/25 12:46 PM |
| 24 | It’s Time for Democrats to Woo the Man VoteBased and Mommy Shoe pilled | /r/MensRights | 19/02/25 04:47 AM |
| 9 | CMV: it's a green flag if your date uses a sexual consent appConsent doesn’t end at conversations prior to sex. Just because they said “yes” in the beginning does not mean they aren’t allowed to withdraw that consent at any point, even if it’s halfway through sex. Now, does that mean you can retroactively apply it to past sex (“I withdraw my consent after we’re already done so you just SA’ed me”)? No. But if halfway through sex they decide to tap out, then no creepy ass app asking for a consent form prior to sex is going to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:37 AM |
| -1 | Mom-of-four brutally executes her three young daughters before shooting herselfI’m sorry but isn’t that the same thing as my second answer? Lol. You believe both genders, men and women, should be vilified for doing this. Sorry if my question wasn’t clear | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Mom-of-four brutally executes her three young daughters before shooting herselfGenuine question, would you rather (assuming you want gender equality here) have everyone treated like the woman in your hypothetical or vilified like the man? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 05:50 AM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society4B is a much tinier fringe movement than Reddit would have you believe… They claimed barely over 4,000 members in 2019, out of a population of over 50M lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 05:42 AM |
| 5 | Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner "Yeah for sure. I’d be lying if I said we didn’t have major issues for a while trying to figure out what would be an equitable split of chores. And it changes constantly! One person might be temporarily out of work, one person might be in the middle of a massive work project requiring 10-12 hours a day, one person might be sick, injured, tired…. There are so many extraneous circumstances that change what that split looks like. Honestly the biggest thing I had to learn throughout this relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:59 PM |
| 13 | Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner "Spot on. I think what a lot of people get confused about egalitarianism is that they think everything needs to be exactly 50/50. Finances? 50/50 and not one cent more. Chores? 50/50 right down to the minute. It just doesn’t work like that. I make about 80% of our household income right now as the woman in a hetero relationship. I also cook/plan for every single one of our meals. The trade off is that I never have to do any sort of plumbing, washing dishes, car maintenance, house repairs, vacuumi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 01:37 PM |
| – | What do women get out of posting their crabby husbands online?I assume it’s just cathartic for them. Most of these women lack the communication skills to bring up these issues with their spouses, and they likely don’t have the support network they could rely on to vent. So they seek validation online in other women who also have terrible communication skills. Anyone in a serious relationship knows there are some days everything your spouse does gets on your nerves. It’s just a natural consequence of doing life together with another person. These women ofte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Men value and depend on Romantic relationships more for emotional support and suffer as a consequence, study finds.Are you claiming that women do not experience heartbreak when a relationship fails? | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Men value and depend on Romantic relationships more for emotional support and suffer as a consequence, study finds.What’s a pathfinder group? | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 05:06 AM |
| 7 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?My in laws are like this. Both husband and wife. We’d go to any family function and I would think we had a lovely time.. But the second we get in the car it’s “did you see what that bitch said this time?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:30 PM |
| 16 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I don’t really know how to describe this trait but a lot of women really expect you to read their minds. They expect you to read their body language and tone to gauge whether they’re upset with you… Makes communication really difficult when you already have a hard time reading people in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Head of household filing status proposed for elimination by RepublicansWas your ex wife a SAHM? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Is there any women really care about men’s rights ?I’m a woman and I’m not quite an MRA, but I believe in true egalitarianism in relationships and practice it in my own marriage as well. Good faith questions are welcome! | /r/MensRights | 23/01/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"Doesn’t apply to me, but how do you tell when a guy is the type to hold out commitment in exchange for sex? Is it just about avoiding fuckboy clubgoers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 01:36 AM |
| 2 | She PlottedGee, real vague. I assume she never brought up any of these concerns to you in the last 2 years? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 02:18 PM |
| 5 | She PlottedWhat did she state was the reason for her.. Unhappiness? Do you think there’s someone else in the picture considering her stark behavior changes? Very suspicious and I’m so sorry you had to go through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themSame here, our wedding literally had a genderflipped maid of honor/best man situation. My “maid of honor” was my high school best friend (male) and his “best man” was his childhood friend (female) he grew up with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.What type of social protections would they receive in this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:58 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: Would you continue seeing an attractive woman if you found she was previously battered? Why or why not?Would you say it’s valid for a woman to refuse to date a man who has relationship trauma from an ex girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?I just wanna say that is a hilarious visual. I wanna go to a nude beach now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:30 PM |
| – | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsI joke with my husband that I got screwed in our marriage deal because I was told that men will just go “yes dear” to everything I say…. Turns out I married a stubborn mofo 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: Would you rather be the Risky choice or the Safe choice in a woman's eyes? Why?And they wonder why they keep attracting crazy BPD chicks who constantly crave high adrenaline in their relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:24 AM |
| 2 | feminists defends the girl who falsely accused me of sexual assault (in the comments)I’m glad someone brought this up. Even OP’s question in the other sub had nothing to do with his SA (he was asking “what does this say about this girl” and started listing off events unrelated to her accusation). As for his claim that these women are telling him that he should sympathize with her just because she committed acts of self harm, I’m not seeing that at all. The only comments I see are people refuting OP’s claim that she’s self harming for attention, not that his SA accusation was inv… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/25 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Might have conquered lust after being oppressed by feminismThis sub has gone down the shitter. Damn. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/24 02:23 PM |
| 10 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?Is shrimp taco a euphemism for something or do you really just hate shrimp tacos? Lol I’m too tired for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?I assume you’re doing the spinning plates thing. Is it hard to juggle all of these women at once, or is it more of a fwb/hookup relationship with all of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 07:53 AM |
| -54 | Shame on the men exploiting Lily PhillipsTo be fair, and I watched the entire documentary of her, it does seem like she is being exploited to some degree by her family and especially by her crew of 9 on payroll. Don’t get me wrong, this girl for sure started her OF career on her own volition and she can be held accountable for that. But if you watch the video, you can see her team has very very little regard for her wellbeing (0 aftercare once she was done with the 100 men, inviting random friends of the 100 guys without STD or backgro… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/24 04:28 AM |
| 7 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesHe is so cute. If a guy brought me a whole bouquet of flowers on a first date I would actually cry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I can't do this anymore.Lol womp womp to you too brother, good luck when the electric company shuts off your lights | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I can't do this anymore.That’s a terrible idea. The only person you’ll end up hurting from doing any of these is yourself | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | I can't do this anymore.What would that look like in practicality? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else just get exhausted around women?!I mean fine, whatever, you wanna be like one of those 4B women and swear off women entirely, you do you. But wanting a gf specifically to keep in your house like a mantelpiece with tits who you only enjoy for the status and making dinner for you is another brand of evil. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 06:57 PM |
| -6 | Anyone else just get exhausted around women?!So how do women show care in this type of “long distance but living in the same house” relationship? | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 05:48 PM |
| -4 | Anyone else just get exhausted around women?!Yeah I understand that, but why? Around to do what? Clearly not spending time together. Around to do chores? | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else just get exhausted around women?!That’s so depressing. Why even have a girlfriend at that point | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenDamn bruh did I miss out with my husband or what? He didn’t have to do any of those when we got together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Women are generally stingy and have a really hard time sharing their resources with men.Ooh can I answer this one? I’m in an egalitarian relationship. Who walked up to who first -> neither, we met as a group of friends/introduced by a mutual friend Who proposed -> he did Who goes to the door if someone knocks at night -> me, this happened 2 days ago (Jehovah’s Witnesses at 10 pm, seriously) Who drives -> he does, I hate driving Who pays -> 100% me for all dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 06:22 PM |
| 4 | "Decentering Men" - Women de-emphasize Men in Their LivesMaybe I’m a little jaded. The ones I do know (online, don’t really know any who would explicitly claim MGTOW in real life) are generally very noisy and annoying about it. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 04:37 AM |
| 21 | "Decentering Men" - Women de-emphasize Men in Their LivesI think it could go both ways. My biggest gripe with these MGTOW/WGTOW movements is for how much they talk about wanting to decenter the opposite sex, boy do they sure talk about them a lot. How horrible men/women are, how much they hate the opposite sex, how they’re morally superior for going down the path of celibacy… Like you want to go your own way? Great! Good for you. Can you just shut up about how terrible the other sex is and do it? | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 04:28 AM |
| 8 | How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough?I just wanna say for all the “unfeminine” ladies out there— I grew up a tomboy for like 95% of my life. Soccer player, engineer, hated dresses and skirts and makeup, etc. Oh, and I was not one of those “tomboy but facially/biologically feminine-looking” women either. Ended up finding a man who was totally fine with my androgyny. I discovered later that I had some feminine hobbies as well, but that was years after he and I had gotten together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Why Are So Many Men Withdrawing from Society?Sorry, I think you make great points and all but… Some woman on the street randomly called out “nerd” to you because you were wearing glasses? What is this, a shitty 90s high school bully movie? No offense, I just have a really hard time believing this actually happened unless the woman you’re referring to is actually a 10 year old girl | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch…She should have apologized, absolutely. But it’s not her fault lmao you can’t control period bleeding like you can control your urine | /r/MensRights | 23/11/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Should housework be split 50/50 if both parters are working full time?Equitable split is the way to go. I work full time and I also take on “more” chores than my husband, mostly because I enjoy cooking and I’m much better at it than he is, and I’m also more detail oriented than he is so cleaning comes easier for me. The caveat being there will be some months in the year when I inevitably get burned out (not his fault, I burn out no matter how much or little I take on. It’s seasonal depression mostly) so in those months he’s gonna have to take on more because I cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | I just wanted to spread some facts to this feminist, and them she said this (look at slide 2 and 3). When I’m asking her what made her said that, she didn’t reply to me.I’m glad somebody said it, I have no idea who is arguing what in this post and OP provided 0 context | /r/MensRights | 12/11/24 07:13 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidHonestly? Natural selection. Let them opt themselves out of the gene pool if they wish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?Oh I left a long time ago and deleted my account lol, was barely active but lurked a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?You implying that women cannot be free thinkers who come up with their own decisions and conclusions independent of men is even more sexist. What the hell is wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?Isn’t it so funny how far left this subreddit is compared to the discord? Feels like I’m watching a totally different community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:40 AM |
| – | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?No it was because of that, “moralizing” is against the TRP rules. And yes I’d say TRP has changed quite a bit since COVID | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)?Damn, you need better friends dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)?Is it really that humiliating? In the people I’ve seen, the one who gets cheated on garners SO much sympathy from everyone around them. Is it kind of embarrassing to be pitied, sure, but certainly most people IRL would be on your side rather than his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)?Cheating, easy. It’s a lot easier to dump his ass when I’m not fearing for my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:53 PM |
| 19 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?It absolutely has to do with TRP. I got banned off the TRP sub for saying that if you want to spin plates, you should at the very least be open about your decision with your partner and not string them on while you’re fucking 10 other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 12:13 PM |
| 32 | When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A ManThis actually made me stop and laugh, I can’t believe this guy thinks this is a normal experience or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Look at how blatant it is. They're not even trying to hide it.Oh wow. I can’t believe I missed that lol. Didn’t recognize her at all | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Look at how blatant it is. They're not even trying to hide it.What did Chappell Roan do? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/24 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Submission is earned.Nah I disagree, with 100k you absolutely could. Maybe not in a HCOL area, but I definitely have coworkers who are sole income earners in their households. Nuclear household, 1-2 children, etc. It’s not a luxurious lifestyle don’t get me wrong, but you could get by pretty comfortably if you’re good at budgeting and the sole income earner is reliable enough that they won’t get fired every 2 months or whatever. This idea that you have to be a millionaire to provide for a nuclear family is nonsense.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Submission is earned.I guess my question is how does this apply to most people who are in relationships with a partner of objectively equal footing to them? Sure.. If you’re Miss Hypergamy of America and your husband is 10x better than you in every way and has sage wisdom that you can’t even begin to match then…. Yeah, you may follow his guidance the same way you follow advice of someone more experienced than you. But most people in America date and marry within their social class and within their looksmatch. Most c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Submission is earned.Same here. My husband outperforms me in many ways, especially when it comes to “peopling” aka dealing with conflicts. I’m terrible at confrontation and am a little too trigger happy with burning bridges, so I would defer to him on anything related to those matters. When we have kids in the future, I definitely see myself “submitting” to his decisions in discipline, education, etc. On the other hand I excel in being the career-ambitious partner. I handle the finances, making sure our debts are pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Are female virgins past 23 typically very desirable?Does anyone really consider someone a virgin just because they’ve never had PIV? I’ve heard this sentiment in extremely chronically online spaces but I’ve never heard anyone unironically believe this irl. If you’ve given a blowjob, that’s a body lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything a woman could do to get you to say with her after she cheated on you ?Read this woman’s other post. She’s either trolling or truly insane. https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/DUQNrHhFb6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: woman in the gym appears to be pinned under the weights and needs assistance. What do you do?What is wrong with this person lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers?I’ll start! Was your father in the picture? Why was your mother so absent in your life, was it due to work or was she out and about partying or whatever without you? Who took care of you if your father was not present? What long term effects do you think this has caused you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 11:39 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you?Yeah I would definitely be ok with that. My husband and I met for the first time when we were both in relationships. I wouldn’t expect him to go lusting for every single woman he meets for the first time, so yeah I probably was not on his radar as you said until he broke up with his ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:51 AM |
| 9 | How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you?I’m ok with it, but it depends. Does he mean he wasn’t initially attracted to me as in “didn’t really think about it” and it wasn’t an immediate love at first sight? Or did he have to actively convince himself to find me attractive? Cuz the latter would hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:27 AM |
| 5 | According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.”Who would she be friends with then? I feel like this sub wouldn’t be too happy about a woman having a bunch of male friends either | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phoneI understand, personally for me it would really depend on how severe those comments towards your wife were. I’ve got a pretty high tolerance for offensive comments and I think if my mother had said terrible things to my husband, I would try my best to pursue reconciliation (or at the very least highly minimal contact between her and him) but I’m also not opposed to fully cutting her off until I see a significant amount of change in her if it’s really really bad. At the end of the day, my husband… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phoneI hope this doesn’t come off as accusatory, just curious— why does your wife hate your mother this much? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 4 | what are some things women can get away with but men can't?Sorry, I realized just now that the post was on r/ Walkaway, not here. Look up “Everilda Cux-Ajtzalam” | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 04:59 PM |
| 12 | what are some things women can get away with but men can't?He doesn’t tell her to stop. I think he’s just so used to it because this is how he was raised. I will admit it has gotten a lot less nowadays than when we were first friends/early dating because we’re married now and she generally respects that I’m the only woman who should ever be touching my husband’s body that way. Still. 18 years of that sort of behavior. It’s a wonder his ex girlfriend from high school didn’t throw a fit. We’re from the US, for context, but I don’t think it’s an American t… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 04:56 PM |
| -1 | what are some things women can get away with but men can't?Infanticide? Just a few days ago we had a post in this very sub about an 18 year old girl who was arrested pending deportation for throwing her newborn away in a dumpster | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 04:46 PM |
| 25 | what are some things women can get away with but men can't?I’ll probably delete this after a little bit (my husband has a Reddit) but dude… My MIL does this to my husband. He’s a full grown man but ever since I’d known her she would grab his ass, flick his pecs, all sort of crazy shit that would have my dad arrested in 2 seconds if he did it to me. Why is this ok/not weird for moms to do?? | /r/MensRights | 28/09/24 04:41 PM |
| 23 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themMy marriage matches that description! Engineer wife + teacher husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves?It depends. I’m a child of divorce and I can say for sure that I would be much, much more traumatized had my parents stayed together. The marriage failed because both of them were in the wrong, takes two to tango etc. But them divorcing was, in my opinion, the most selfless thing they could’ve possibly done for me. Staying together in a mutually abusive relationship would’ve fucked me up way more than their divorce did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 0 | When was the first time in your life when you realized it just isn't fair and started to look more into discrimination against men and men's rights?I don’t know what the statistics are on this but to be fair, I have seen cases where the male teacher only get 2-3 years of sentencing for having sex with a female student under the age of 18. My middle school teacher was one. 32 year old guy, had sex with a girl who just turned 16 (lucky him, or else he would’ve been slapped with a statutory rape charge). 3 years in prison and he’s out now. Moved to a different state and all. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyI guess men prefer bad sex than no sex at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyWell… If I didn’t know he was a virgin and he sucks in bed, I would assume it’s not because he’s inexperienced, I’d assume he just sucks in bed lol. Might as well be honest and avoid the shitty experience altogether | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyI feel like it’s going to be pretty obvious the first time you have sex though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced men should lie about their lack of sexual historyI probably wouldn’t either, not because I believe there’s something inherently wrong with them and that’s why they’re a virgin (they might’ve spent all their 20s focusing on their career or caring for a family member or whatever), but because we would have such a massive difference in sexual experience. More importantly, we’d have an even bigger difference in romantic experience. That causes issues in a relationship. And if it wasn’t a relationship, just a hookup, why would I want to do it with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Married men should never buy a house; always rent from your parentsHoly shit lol I just checked. This dude has a couple of screws loose | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Married men should never buy a house; always rent from your parentsSo correct me if I’m wrong, I might’ve misunderstood this part. Assuming your wife works as well and splits the rent 50/50, not only is she paying a significantly upcharged price, in the event of a divorce you get the house she paid 50% for and she gets nothing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Married men should never buy a house; always rent from your parentsI would disagree that it’s a man or woman thing. Divorce court simply screws over whichever partner has the higher income if there is a significant income gap. Of course, most situations where there is a large gap tends to be the man earning more money, but this is not always the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 06:43 PM |
| 8 | Women who think hating all men is ok, what is your justification?You make the false assumption here that like mosquitos, men behave on a singular mission so that the best man in the world has the same instincts as the worst man in the world. Mosquitos suck on your blood because that’s their mandate to survive— they literally cannot do anything else or they would die. Meanwhile, men do not have to sexually assault you or rape you as a biological mandate. Men also have, you know, actual consciousness and are able to make good and bad decisions, unlike mosquitos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Dating Culture in the U.S. is Broken; Seeking Honest OpinionsThe unfortunate fact is that at your age (which assuming since you’re divorced, likely over 30 y/o), the only people left on the market are either people who got divorced or people who have something wrong with them. Most good women will likely be wifed up, and if they’re worth keeping, chances are they’re still married as we speak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 11:25 PM |
| 4 | If hats aren't allowed in the dress code, but makeup on the face is, it should be argued that this is discrimination against men.Yes I think he meant trans man (FtM) | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 01:17 PM |
| -22 | Indian Woman bites and beats 14-month-old grandson to death in Amreli, arrestedAh yes India.. A country known to be very feminist | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 12:29 PM |
| 4 | How is it fair that your wife’s financial irresponsibility becomes your burden, but your financial responsibility becomes her entitlement?$500,000!!! In what?? Does this include the mortgage or something?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 11:29 AM |
| 3 | You only go after younger women because you can't handle older womenI would only disagree that younger women are insanely harder to date than older women. Yes it’s true they have a lot of options, but they’re also a lot more adventurous and it’s easy to pique their interest if you stand out among those options. And oftentimes, the only thing you need to stand out among an ocean of dumb college boys is a bit of financial stability and finesse (which you would hopefully have compared to a cringe 21 year old frat boy) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointWhat way do you “feel” that makes you decide to lie to them instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Being the safe and secure option isn't worth it most of the timeYou can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.No dude, read my original text again. The person I’m referring to hooked up with a girl who’s avoidant type BPD and she didn’t want anything beyond casual sex while he did. On the other hand you as a redpill man may struggle to attract this type of unicorn girl, rather you may attract the opposite end of the spectrum— the type of girl who would be so in love with you she would slash your tires | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Well she is interested lol, in casual sex. I’ve seen it happen in real life where the woman is much more interested in no-strings-attached sex and the man is interested in something more serious. Exactly the type of woman I described earlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.So basically after one hookup she is considered dirty and broken for life and owes all future men sex on the first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.Trash plaything for women to fuck and ignore Avoidant-attachment-type BPD women. But the tactics redpill uses are typically geared towards making women ride the emotional rollercoaster to feel addicted to them, so you may end up attracting insecure-attachment-type BPD women instead. Like the type to slash your tires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Both men and women entertain people they have no intention of marrying while ignoring the ones they would.So if she doesn’t do that for other men would you be okay with waiting? What if she has had one hookup in the past but regretted it and never did it again? Lots of gray area here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you seen the whatever podcast? It’s making me think modern western women are depraved and malevolent.By the way I have tried to apply to the show before. I’m not all that interesting, tend to lean moderate “see both sides” on most issues. Never had a hoe phase, never once sold my nudes on OF, but I’m also not a conservative trad wife either— matter of fact I’m the breadwinner and strongly believe in egalitarian relationships. … Guess who got ghosted by the producers? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/09/24 02:14 AM |
| 16 | Have any of you seen the whatever podcast? It’s making me think modern western women are depraved and malevolent.Have you really not noticed the insane disproportionate amount of OnlyFans girls and current/ex porn stars on the show? The amount of girls who are literally 19 or 20 and happen to go to the college next door (UCSB)? Do you feel like these women are truly in any way representative of women as a whole? How many porn stars do you think there are in real life? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/09/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that thinks the Pink Tax is dumb.I’ve started just using men’s products lol. Men’s razors are superior anyway | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Because work in Japan is SO easy...(Turning a genuine issue into a man vs woman gender war)Might be going off on a tangent here but I do think it’s just different strokes for different folks.. I’m a woman and I work full time + college classes while my husband is in college as well. Personally, I find a lot more satisfaction and enjoyment from working. Sure, mentally and physically it’s a lot more strenuous than the mental/physical labor it takes to do a load of laundry or running the dishwasher… But I am the type of person who is naturally curious and easily bored. I need to be const… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill Men, Do You Realize You’re Creating a Larger Pool of Non-Toxic Women for Us?Does this sub allow polls? I’d love to see that as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 05:37 PM |
| 33 | Q4Men Who Say "Women are Shallow/Boring/Uninteresting" ... What Would You DO With A Girlfriend?Keeping her in a cage is one thing but a Galaxy S8? The Geneva Convention exists for a reason you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 11:05 AM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?1/5 delusion, don’t know if I should be happy or insulted lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Is our societies gynocerntric by nature?What’s in it for the CIA? I don’t get that | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Men of PPD, why would you leave someone who genuinely loved you only to end up with someone you can't stand?I can relate to this a bit, although I got extremely lucky and ended up with a guy who taught me the value of a safe, stable, “boring” relationship. A lot of it was born out of trauma (for me, it was my mother)— when you’re used to screaming matches 24/7, verbal and physical abuse… Peace and quiet can feel deafening. It felt like an itch that was constantly there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?Ohhhhh okay that’s a lot less worrying lol. The way you worded it made it seem like this was a fairly recent thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?How old was he when they dated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:41 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.True. Had a coworker pass out a few months ago, not entirely sure why, but people immediately sprinted towards him/to the medical center to get help. Redditors wax poetic about “we don’t owe women or anybody anything!” in real life we care about people, even those we don’t know, if we are able to help them without putting ourselves in danger (e.g. calling 911 for a woman about to be raped) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:05 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I’m sure you would feel the same way if you were on the floor having a heart attack or a seizure and I just… Walk by, look at you, and walk away? Are you sure you’re not a sociopath? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Single People, Keep Other Single People Single.“Caught the last chopper out of Nam” hahahah that’s amazing. Definitely relate to that although I met my now-husband in 2021. I’m lucky enough to have never touched a dating app, never went on a first date with a stranger, never been in a situationship… It is a little morbid but I do love watching the current dating scene. I don’t really interact or give advice most times, just.. Watch. Like a little kid at a zoo 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Single People, Keep Other Single People Single.I don’t think you realize but the vast majority of people on PPD are actually partnered up or married somehow… Even the ones who are single, I’d say most of them except the blackpillers typically have no issue getting a partner lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 12:07 AM |
| – | It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test.Disclaimer, I’m actually okay with paternity testing and I even told my husband I wouldn’t be offended if he wanted to do it when we have children one day. He said he didn’t care to though. However to play devil’s advocate here, I feel like in normal committed relationships where two people really trust each other wholeheartedly.. It’s not really typical to snoop or loyalty-test them without any indication or warning sign that something was amiss. For example, unless my husband is showing signs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorceNo I get that, I just don’t think it’ll have much of a bearing on child support/alimony decisions | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorceIf they live in a no-fault state I don’t think that would matter, would it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 01:29 AM |
| 12 | 39-year-old earns 5 times as much as her husband: It's hard to be 'the sole person providing for the family'I mean, it is hard to be the sole breadwinner of the family. I am one at the moment (I’m a woman, hetero marriage) and it’s definitely stressful, but that’s mostly because I’m not earning much so budgeting has to be done very carefully for us to stay afloat. If our family were in the 250k tax bracket? Lol I wouldn’t be stressed out at all | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 12:14 PM |
| – | In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together?I’m down for this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 08:45 PM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?I relate to that a lot. Grew up in a very patriarchal society and felt disgusted with myself that I was not ever taken seriously because I am female. I really leaned into the whole tomboy thing (and honestly I still am pretty masc in behavior even now) but now I’ve accepted that I have both masculine and feminine hobbies/personalities and really love both aspects of myself. It helps that I immigrated to the states which is much more accepting of gender non-conformity lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Embracing the Redpill is like stepping out of a sunlit dream into the cold light of dayI always laugh when I read redpill men moaning about how real life women aren’t like the Disney princesses they were allegedly promised growing up. Are people seriously that naive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.All the things you mentioned are still traits you’re looking for in “the best” option in a mate though. Yes, you shouldn’t be constantly looking for a hotter or richer person (and definitely not if you’re already committed to someone), but if you’re in the dating phase, defined by the early talking stages, then I don’t think there’s anything wrong with thinking someone may not be the best option for you and you could do better with a person who suits your needs more | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.But.. What is dating if not looking for the best option in a mate? If you immediately decide to commit to any rando who comes along because “meh, good enough,” that will cause issues down the line. Agreed OP’s girl was sketchy in her going back to someone she’d originally rejected, but isn’t it just life to see someone and determine from there if they’re good enough to date/marry? | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 04:15 PM |
| 0 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?I wouldn’t call it a red flag but for me personally we would be pretty incompatible considering our experience differences, so I would pass. There are definitely other women who are more okay with it though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men May Be Better Off Staying Single Given the Potential Risks of MarriageCommon law marriage | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Men May Be Better Off Staying Single Given the Potential Risks of MarriageNot really feasible if you want children though is it | /r/MensRights | 11/08/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Men May Be Better Off Staying Single Given the Potential Risks of MarriageSeems like such a sad existence honestly | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 10:57 PM |
| 12 | Men May Be Better Off Staying Single Given the Potential Risks of MarriageWouldn’t you not be able to live with your partner if that were the case then? What’s the solution, buy two separate houses? | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I don't think I want to be someone's girlfriend forever.No, I want to continue being the breadwinner even after children. My husband has said that he would be willing to support my career and be a stay at home father temporarily until the kids are in school. His income would not be able to support our lives with one or more children, so if someone is going to pause their careers temporarily, it would be him. Edit: On second thought, his career probably could support us but we would be living on extreme paycheck-to-paycheck (he’s a teacher) for at lea… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?If you don’t go in the discord how could you dispute my claim..? And no, it’s not just the men I see, incels are a small enough minority that they have to have a dedicated channel in the discord because the majority don’t relate to their struggles. The vast majority of men on the server are redpillers, either married or in a perpetual bachelor fuckboy state | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:30 PM |
| 0 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?I feel like the incel population is a pretty small minority of PPD to be honest. I mean if you go on the discord server, like every single woman there is partnered up and/or married, I’d say about 60% of the men are the same, another 35% of the men have no trouble hooking up or getting LTRs if they want to…. And then there’s the remainder 5% incel men who can’t get anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 05:55 AM |
| -1 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?Something something if it smells like shit everywhere you go, maybe check your shoes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I don't think I want to be someone's girlfriend forever.Well… Yeah, no shit. Marriage is important to me, as a woman, because I want children going forward and I think it’s a great way to protect both of us and our joint assets in case anything goes wrong. I want kids, I want a house together, I want us to share our lives until we die. A lot of it requires the legal protection of marriage to not make things complicated in the event of a spousal death or god forbid, divorce. And before you come at me about money, if anything I’m the one at a major dis… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/08/24 03:37 AM |
| 9 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?You’ve never once had a single positive experience with the opposite sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:12 PM |
| 4 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?My husband is.. Beyond patient. I grew up in a very volatile household, so I’m used to screaming matches, people throwing things across the room, extreme verbal abuse, and much more. He is my first and only serious adult relationship, and we have been together a little under three years now… To this day I don’t think I have ever seen him angry to the point of rage. Annoyed? Sure. But he’s never given me the silent treatment when angry, he’s never screamed, never called me names, nothing. I know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 4 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyIdk I’m not part of a military family, what happens in that case? What does a parenting plan look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyLmao. Yeah whatever sweetheart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:27 AM |
| 3 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologySure, but if we’re accounting for those then we’d probably account for all the women who are gonna get accidentally knocked up at military bases as well during conscription… People will have sex no matter what haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:13 AM |
| 4 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyIt’s not about men caring about women’s safety lol. You think any man also gets drafted to the front lines just because he is male? There’s quite a few strict standards that must be met for someone to be literally on the ground fighting. The vast majority of the population is too unfit for that type of role unless we are seriously desperate (as in, being invaded on US soil) and even then, an average unfit male is still going to overpower most women, so they would be fighting on the ground first … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyIf women are getting drafted into mostly “safe” roles where they’re not gonna die in the frontlines, repopulation wouldn’t be an issue. War ends, women get to go home and carry children as normal. What’s the big deal? It’s not like they’re reproducing at home if they weren’t drafted anyway, unless there’s some mass movement of women back home all simultaneously having sex with men who failed to get conscripted and cheating on their husbands/boyfriends currently in service | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:52 PM |
| 12 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyWoman here, totally agree with drafting both genders with the exception that we don’t end up creating situations where like… Both parents of a child get conscripted lol. Sorry kid, you belong to the state now. But otherwise I’m all for drafting both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:49 PM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on the “mental load” debate?That’s what I came up with off the top of my head, I guess, the cartoon strips have better examples | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 05:09 PM |
| 20 | What are your thoughts on the “mental load” debate?Do you feel like there’s a default expectation for women to keep the household functioning? Or is it that women are not drawing hard enough boundaries from the beginning and end up taking too much of the load? | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 04:59 PM |
| – | What’s the most amount of 1st dates you’ve gone on in 1 year?Same here! Never been on an official first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that when a woman is pregnant and doesn't want to abort but the man doesn't want the fetus he should be able to sign a document to the government that says he doesn't want this fetus and then he doesn't have to pay child support when it's born?I think this should absolutely be an option but only under the assumption that abortion is widely accessible to all women within a reasonable amount of time (so not like those under 6 week abortion bans where most women don’t even know they’re pregnant). Otherwise, yeah absolutely men should have the option to not pay child support if she insists on keeping the child. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the “mental load” debate?Sorry if it wasn’t clear, I’m asking if you have found this to be true in your situation or others’— that even though culturally men are expected to be the “leaders” of the household, in reality most couples work full time while the woman is still expected to keep up with all the tasks that need done in the house. As for your second question, we know that most couples in the modern west both work (because who can afford a single income household nowadays?) but as for quantifying the mental load … | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do the people of society confuse young boys and men regarding how they are supposed to attract women?It’s just a big difference between “looks matter” (even most blue pillers believe this to be true) and “if you’re not a 6’4 Chad with perfect dark wavy hair and blue hunter eyes, an 8 pack, perfect teeth and chiseled jaw you should just give up on dating entirely” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now?The first birthday my husband had since we got together, I bought him flowers. I’ve bought him flowers every year for Valentine’s day ever since. It’s literally $6 at the grocery store, what the fuck is this “free labor for men” rhetoric? It doesn’t have to be flowers either, just do some small act of kindness to show your appreciation for, you know, the person you decided to date. Since when is this a controversial thing to do? | /r/MensRights | 03/08/24 03:36 AM |
| -17 | Man-hating lesbiansGet off the internet. Please. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 73 | Man-hating lesbiansIt’s cognitive dissonance, that’s all. Every radical hateful person, both misandrists and misogynists, are guilty of this. “Is this how you treat your mother?” “Well no she’s different because she’s family” “Do you talk to your father this way?” “Well no he’s different” Making an enemy out of a people group is easy if you consider them an “other” group that you don’t interact with, and exclude the people in your circle from that group | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Man-hating lesbiansIt’s small, but there’s definitely a community of us that really recognize and despise the misandry in the LGBT community that lumps everything even remotely masculine as “bad and evil because patriarchy.” I’d refer to the transmedicalists sub as a good example, a lot of them are really ashamed of these quirky tiktok girls who blatantly shame men/trans men just for being masculine. Worse still are the self-hating trans men who claim to be “better than cis men” because they were raised as girls/w… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat?What is the story you hear typically? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Imagine marrying and then you can't ever follow your dreams againJust want to say this is a very reasonable take and thank you for sharing it! I’ve had trouble with equitable split of household chores myself because my husband has time-consuming hobbies/activities and if we hadn’t communicated and doled out chores properly, I would’ve ended up having to do probably 90% of the housework (we’re both full time students + I work part time/full time in the summers). Lots of factors to consider with respect to each couple’s environment/dynamic | /r/MensRights | 01/08/24 04:38 PM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cBig gap between virgin and slut. Would you wait for a low n woman who has only had sex in the context of an LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:25 PM |
| -6 | Apparently mutilating men is justified😁👍How do you cut out a vagina? It’s a hole | /r/MensRights | 31/07/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?I’ve done all of those for my husband! Obviously he’s expected to do more than say a cold “thanks that was nice” though. But yes, I love wooing my partners with romantic gestures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Who are you picking?Either Nathan and Luke are fine with me, no lean towards either one. Hard hard no on Michael | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Holyshit guys It's possible that the presidential election will turn to Men vs Women controversyWho was the married man more than twice her age? I’m having trouble finding info on him online | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?I don’t feel like going into a whole explanation of how our relationship happened but it was definitely the latter, very much a friends-to-lovers story. He was the one who caught feelings first, although funny enough he says he didn’t think he was that obvious about it (it was… Pretty obvious. Our whole friend group noticed). For me it took about.. I’d say maybe 3 weeks to really start seeing him in a romantic/sexual light? And from there the feelings escalated very quickly. Within a couple of d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 13 | Q4M: Would you rather date a smoker or an overweight woman?Sometimes this sub makes me insecure because I’m a little overweight.. And then I realize they’re talking about women who look like the ones in your picture lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 10:49 AM |
| 4 | CMV : Men shouldn't be expected to pay for kids who are not his. If kids ars not his, why should he be their daddy?Agreed, me personally since I’m aware of this whole issue and how it affects men, I don’t really care if my husband asks for a paternity test (although we’ve discussed this before and he’s not exactly concerned either so he probably won’t ask), but there’s definitely a social stigma that says asking for a paternity test is a sign of distrust. The norm is to assume by default, so asking for a test is definitely an accusation of cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?Hey now, it’s a lot easier to just stereotype all single moms as women who got knocked up on a drunken one night stand with “Chad.” There is no other way to become a single mom, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:11 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..I don’t know what’s so hard to understand about “just because it’s legal, doesn’t mean it’s right”… I don’t want men or women legally trapped in marriages for literally any reason, but it doesn’t mean society shouldn’t shame people who leave marriages willy-nilly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:58 PM |
| – | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..No, you signed up for “in sickness and in health till death do us part.” Nowhere in anyone’s marriage vows does it say “until you stop fitting my standards of beauty because you got some wrinkles on your skin.” If someone not aging well is a dealbreaker for you then you better be honest about that in your promise to the other person or don’t get married at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Why men must never open up to women.I wonder if he thinks it would be a good idea for men to open up to other men in the ways he described earlier? How would most men react if their friend started hysterically sobbing in a fetal position in front of them or “incoherently angry for no good reason”? Do most people, men or women, have the capacity to bring someone having a full blown mental breakdown back from the edge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:44 AM |
| -18 | Are cheating statistics heavily biased against men ?To be honest I feel like I hear that line more often from men than women, especially if they were in a DB situation. Aka, “it wasn’t cheating, she didn’t want to have sex with me often enough so I met my needs with another woman.” | /r/MensRights | 09/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 4 | What are the ideal traits of a partnerI have a thing for highly intelligent men, like ADHD levels of hyperfixation for some reason. At least 3-4 inches taller than me (I’m 5’3), brown haired, high empathy and a little bit adventurous but that doesn’t mean hyper-extroverted. Dated an extrovert for 1.5 years and never again. Don’t really care about income, but he has to work any stable job and be consistently hard working. Bonus points if he plays music, but not necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a stereotype that men have sex without getting emotionally attached?10-30 other dudes is crazy. The median number of sex partners for women is between 4-6. Are you meeting women at nightclubs? Because I think your sample sizes might be a little biased bud. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 14 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityWait so if you’re a masculine man your natural traits are to argue, be bullheaded, and non cooperative? Sounds miserable I would not want that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Tired of feeling like I have to prove myself as worthy to womenWhat are the characteristics of a woman that men want to provide/do nice things for? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 07:37 PM |
| 18 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.I say this all the time. Most of us will not be in the top 10% of anything. Most of us will not get the absolute ideal jobs, houses, relationships, etc etc. My ideal job is one that pays me $2 million per year and I’m allowed to work from home and I’m only expected to work 2-3 hours per day at my leisure without having to report to a manager. Is it realistic? Probably not. But can I be happy and fulfilled with my career regardless? Of course I can. Nobody’s gonna say I’m settling just because I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Husband says wife spends 12 hours a day on her phone and neglects newborn babies - comments excuse her and claim possible Post-Partum DepressionYes, for sure. Men’s mental health gets ignored in post partum situations as well. I think that’s equally as tragic. I just think that this woman’s behavior in particular is likely a canary in the coal mine situation. Lack of motivation and severe addiction to anything (phones, drugs, food, porn, etc) is a major sign of depression, especially if she’s having trouble bonding with her newborn child. Regardless the OP should seek mental treatment for his spouse and most likely couples counseling fo… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/24 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Husband says wife spends 12 hours a day on her phone and neglects newborn babies - comments excuse her and claim possible Post-Partum DepressionThis is a real thing though. Is it absolutely tragic and awful? Yes. But I actually know someone who almost went through the same thing. Suffered post partum depression that tumbled into full blown psychosis because 4 months after her baby was born her husband left her for another woman. She became a single mother with no income of her own. Consequently she nearly ended both her and her baby’s life believing that it would be a mercy to the child knowing that she would not be able to feed or prop… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What is weaponised incompetence and how does it affect sharing the load in the home?Thank you for understanding my perspective | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 09:12 PM |
| -1 | What is weaponised incompetence and how does it affect sharing the load in the home?I’m really not lol. Just basic hygiene and having the dishes clean is all I ever asked for, I do nearly all the grocery shopping and cooking every day for him. It’s not that high of an expectation to have him pick up on the cleaning side of things. He just wasn’t used to it due to having a “do-it-all” mother who takes care of everything from cooking to dishes to laundry for her husband | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 03:26 PM |
| -14 | What is weaponised incompetence and how does it affect sharing the load in the home?Step in and volunteer I think is the best way. My husband used to struggle with consistently picking up the cleaning chores unless I managed him and told him to do XYZ. I used to think he was unreliable and just did the dishes myself. Now, he would physically take away the dishes I’m doing and (gently) push me aside to go relax. It’s gotten to a point where most times I don’t bother telling him to go clean up anymore after I’m done cooking | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failNowadays “dating” doesn’t refer to relationships anymore, just the initial “first few dates after meeting” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Whats an acceptable way for men to express their frustration and difficulties in life around/towards women?Yes that is helpful but only if they’re complaining about their dating woes as just that… Dating struggles. It’s kind of a different story if they start maligning women (which would include me) or blaming them for their inability to date. I mean how do you respond then? “Oh you’re right I sympathize with you, women truly ARE terrible and shallow…” I don’t know. I can’t imagine doing that or being able to empathize with someone who does that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Whats an acceptable way for men to express their frustration and difficulties in life around/towards women?Just addressing the bear situation, but I do think for a lot of women it truly is not about likelihood or statistics at all, but rather the potential severity of consequence being outweighed. Risk is a factor of frequency and consequence. Meaning, just because something happens more often, if it’s of little or lesser consequence then you can say it’s of lesser risk than something that happens more rarely but with a much greater consequence. Personally, I disagree with the idea that being raped i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer men30% of all men?? Source?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 11:10 AM |
| 12 | UK: Woman refused to let partner use the toilet in 'degrading' campaign of control. OP: Of course she was not jailed.Psychological manipulation. Threats of false accusation (“I will go to the police and tell them you r*ped me”), threats of suicide or self harm, not to mention financially and socially isolating the victim. Of course on top of the verbal and physical abuse as well. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/24 07:29 PM |
| 0 | 4.5 MILLION LIKES...Men are Going Extinct (Babies from Bone Marrow)I don’t know if that’s necessarily a good argument. Mining ores is no longer such an extremely labor intensive job that we have hundreds or even thousands of men slaving away in the mines by hand… In most developed countries, it’s like a few dozen operators working with machinery or even sitting in a control room most of the day. And speaking as a woman who works in a manufacturing environment, I can say for sure that our operators are not working in an assembly line making products one by one, … | /r/MensRights | 23/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys .Fair enough. I got curious and did some digging, turns out 5 is actually slightly below the median for women’s body counts, which is at 6.3 sexual partners over a lifetime. Men are at 4.3. This was a study done by the CDC from 2015-2019 | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys .Yeah that’s why I asked about you personally | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys .Can I ask what you personally consider a “high body count” | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 8 | Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys .Well damn, my husband is at 2. He had sex 2/3 times?? | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | I dated a radical feministRight? I think it could be a win for men the other way around too, like if they really want a child but the woman is the one who wants to abort. She could sign off rights to him completely and he would have full custody over a child that is still very much wanted by their father. Win-win. Why is this not a thing everywhere? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 04:42 PM |
| 4 | I dated a radical feministSure, I’d agree with that. It’s certainly unfair. I would be 100% amenable to paper abortions if women are able to abort the fetus within a reasonable amount of time. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 02:04 PM |
| 4 | I dated a radical feministOhhh. You know what I’m actually very in favor of that, as a pro-choicer. Is this not already an option in the US? I do know there are a few European countries that already allow for this to happen. I would be in support of paper abortions in the US assuming that abortion is legal in every state | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | I dated a radical feministI’m in favor of women being conscripted to gain the right to vote (with the caveat obviously that the government isn’t going to draft both parents if there are kids involved). What else? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 12:41 PM |
| 2 | I dated a radical feministWhat did they want “in the beginning” that you would consider ridiculous? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 12:08 PM |
| 3 | I dated a radical feministSorry, I’m not familiar with what a paper abortion is? Is it the idea that men should be able to decide on whether an abortion happens on the fetus? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelSounds like you’re married to a person who can’t take accountability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruelWhat does it look like to treat your partner as the oldest child in the house? Like practically speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:04 PM |
| – | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?Are we married to the same guy?! Haha. My husband fits your description perfectly. Highly intelligent but also an introverted music/gaming nerd. He was like this before we got together and he still is now. The love I have for him has only grown since we got together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Women in relationships with male best friends?I have a male best friend who became my “Man of Honor” at my wedding. My husband is aware of him and my friend has even slept over at his house before. I think they have a wholesome friendship. Not every opposite-sex best friend situation is potential cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:23 PM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️What’s with the fairy emojis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | I got called a pedophile rapist for suggesting male only gymsI think the logic is “you only have to worry about XYZ if you are the one perpetrating XYZ.” It’s a dumb argument. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I’m tired of seeing men dating younger women as predatoryDepends how big the age gap difference is. If she’s 25 and he’s 33, no one gives a damn. But think about what you would do if your 21 year old daughter came to you and said she’s in a romantic relationship with a 45 year old man. Ask yourself if you’d have alarm bells ringing in your head at all. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 2 | 💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊Is it a good or bad thing if she has no close girl friends? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/24 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?Hm… Well, there’s really not much I can say to convince you that I’m telling the truth, so I guess I shouldn’t bother. Have a good life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 06:39 AM |
| 8 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?I never fucked or dated them, my personal experience with fuckboys comes from just interacting with them and learning about their sexual/romantic history. There’s a reason why I chose not to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 05:40 AM |
| 14 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?I do not like fuckboys because they’re much more likely to have commitment issues, from my experience. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Young women smhGenuinely curious, how do you think we should fix them? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever find it frustrating how men receive a fraction of the same attention and praise for things as women, all while still claiming to be oppressed?I don’t know about your circle of people, but the majority of Instagram compliments I see under women’s posts are from other women, not men (unless they’re an OnlyFans creator or something like that). If you want the same thing, then you should get men to normalize complimenting one another on social media. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 04:32 PM |
| 13 | Wife had an affair and disappeared, a substantial number of people asking what I did to cause her to do this. Why don't women receive this response when their spouse has an affair on them?Unfortunately, speaking as somebody who is currently going through the green card process right now with my own husband, he might still be considered liable for her financial wellbeing since the spouse needs to “financially sponsor” the applicant even in the case of divorce. Basically USCIS needs to know she won’t get on US welfare in case she loses her job or something. The only way for him to get out of this would be if she leaves the country/is deported or dies. It sucks and it gives the rest… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 01:44 AM |
| 5 | “You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledgeOh my bad, I don’t know why I thought they were literally sending semen to people’s doors. Yeah that’s messy. I’m not sure how this isn’t illegal. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 12:37 AM |
| -11 | “You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledgeWhere do they get the supply of disposed condoms? I don’t get it. Plus I assume this is being shipped to women who are ordering it online, wouldn’t the sperm have died out by the time it reaches them? | /r/MensRights | 11/12/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Men don't live lonelier lives we live quieter livesJust out of curiosity, what does it mean for you personally to not have your peace “disturbed”? Because it could range anywhere from “please just don’t start unnecessary arguments” to “do not expect any form of affection or accountability from me and I will scream at you if you interrupt my 6 hour gaming session.” I can see how an angry reaction can be warranted in the latter scenario. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 04:20 AM |
| 25 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsI’m with you on the idea of closing options before deciding to commit… But your idea of what “closing options” is is really strange. Women are not allowed to have male friends? Not allowed to have social media? Are we in the 1800s here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 01:24 AM |
| 8 | I went to female bank teller to deposit some money. Usually bank tellers are suppose to be very customer friendly but she looked at me with disgust. I'm so sad.Did you see her interact with other customers to compare how she treated them vs you? Because from my experience, a lot of bank tellers are just really grumpy people at work. It’s like being depressed because the DMV worker was being cold to you— It’s not just you, they treat everyone like that. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I knOw a GuY WhO'S 4'11 baLdInG inDiAn WhO gEts GiRlSWhat’s the scientific blackpill site? I’ve never heard of it | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 03:34 PM |
| 0 | How do you come to terms with the fact we have another 50 years to live like this?Just out of curiosity, why do you believe you have nothing to offer women? | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Femaledating sub scares meOP never said this sub. But you can check out AllPillDebate if you want to see an example of this | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers expect you to believe their anecdotes but when you share your own experiences, particularly bad experiences with women, they'll tell you that "women don't act like that you're lying"Just out of curiosity.. So I know the example that blackpillers bring up all the time in jest is “short Indian balding janitor who gets all the Stacies and hot women because of his personality.” What I’m wondering is who exactly is saying that on the bluepillers’ side because from my experience, nobody is ever saying that everybody will have a chance with another person way beyond their looksmatch just because of their personalities. What I do hear, however, is that most people will end up with … | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 3 | This economy is too difficult for a single manHow do I cash in on this privilege? Been a woman my whole life and I still don’t have my simp army paying for my bills… I feel screwed. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/10/23 11:18 AM |
| 7 | How does the 80%/20% hold up in real life? What’s it all about and is it possible for this ratio to evolve or change in time?I think that’s the key here, it’s extremely disrespectful to be straight up fawning over somebody in the presence of your partner no less. I always say “you’re taken, not blind.” It’s okay to see someone attractive and think “wow, they look great,” but still have the self control to not be practically drooling over them and disrespecting your partner. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Did your attraction to women decline when you found the blackpill?I suppose I have a hard time relating to any of this, as a woman, because I’ve personally never experienced the sexual attraction for those type of “Chad” men. Never once had a relationship or hookup or whatever with those type of men. Then again I’m also not exactly the young cheerleader type. Have you ever seen any exceptions to this rule? I have a hard time believing that it’s pure biology since I genuinely do not relate to any of the things you’ve stated. I’ve also shared quite a bit of my s… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Did your attraction to women decline when you found the blackpill?Genuinely curious, what are some lies that you’ve noticed has been told about women by major institutions and the media? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Question for bluepill women: do you think your boyfriends are ugly?Yeah.. Except nobody dates people they genuinely find ugly, OP. Blue pillers have never even advocated for dating someone you find physically repulsive. This is just not a thing and it’s pure straw manning. However idiot blackpillers are the ones who claim that if you didn’t find a man drop-your-panties hot at first glance, then you are not and will never be sexually attracted to them. Edit: Blackpillers also believe that if you’re not an absolute gigachad in looks then sexual attraction will ne… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Why are women happy that inexperienced men won't find virgin women?OP I don’t know how to tell you two things can be bad at the same time Edit: And don’t “all women say this” me lol I am a woman. Enough with the generalizations. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are women happy that inexperienced men won't find virgin women?There’s really nothing wrong with wanting to be both virgins when you marry/date someone. Totally valid preference. The issue comes when you: Degrade other women for being high n just because you think they are worth less Want a virgin gf simply because you believe she is more easily controlled in some way or another Seems perfectly reasonable to me. Other than that, go right ahead and find a virgin gf. I can assure you nobody cares. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Question for bluepill women: do you think your boyfriends are ugly?I’ve answered this type of question many times and each time no blackpiller has ever believed me so… I never once thought my fiancé was ugly, but when I first met him it certainly wasn’t love at first sight. It took maybe… 3-4 weeks for me to realize I felt the “spark” for him, and it snowballed pretty quickly from there. I honestly think a lot of it was driven by his personality. You can ask him whether I find him sexually attractive now, considering I grope and try to fuck him even more than h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Question for bluepill women: do you think your boyfriends are ugly?Have you seen all the women on relationship subs who complain that their husbands stop feeling sexually attracted to them after having children? Even when she loses the baby weight he could still find saggy boobs and stretch marks unattractive. Not sure why you think this never happens | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] You oppose mandatory paternity tests at childbirth only because you have something to hideYeah sure why not | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] You oppose mandatory paternity tests at childbirth only because you have something to hideI wouldn’t mind a DNA test, as a woman. But he better be the one paying for it if he’s the one asking for it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?For me, personally, it’s not income per se, it’s what their career is and whether or not it can pay the bills and fulfill them emotionally so I don’t have to play that role for them all by myself. And job stability is pretty big too— someone working at McDonald’s can only do it for so long unless they move up into higher management. Hence why I’m marrying a teacher! Lol. Ironically there will be times when his job is probably more stable than mine as an engineer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:00 PM |
| 4 | What are your standards to date guy ?Heh, another loves-to-infodump-probably-has-ADHD chaser 😂 I love those types of people as well. Can get really annoying sometimes, but as long as they are respectful when I get too overstimulated by the constant ramblings and stop, it works perfectly. All of my partners have been ADHD/autistic in some way lol. Shocker. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 02:58 AM |
| 11 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?I never quite understood how some men could genuinely be surprised by this. Like look, I’m fairly blue pilled for plenty of reasons, but are there seriously people who believe women have 0 sense of physical attraction? That we could fall for just anybody if they’re nice enough? I lean more towards the argument that there are women with a wide variety of tastes out there. I would say that my taste in men knows no rhyme or reason and I’ve loved a very diverse set of people (race, body type, neurot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are for women and attractive menWhat’s wrong about what he said? | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Just because a wife works the same hours as her husband doesn't make it an equal contributionWhat are your thoughts on this situation OP? I make 2-2.5x more than he does I work 40 hours, he works probably 45-50 on an average week, can go up even more There will be some rare weeks where I can go up to 60 hours My career is more mentally challenging (engineering) His career is more physically challenging (teaching) Both of us have insanely difficult and busy college lives and never have a chance to relax, much less party | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:13 AM |
| 3 | What's wrong with average men?Okay… So does that make me not a woman or what? I don’t do one night stands. I’m just saying female attraction varies wildly and in my opinion very few women are capable of that instant sexual connection at first glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?Well that sucks. Many relationships are formed from friendships first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:19 AM |
| 5 | What's wrong with average men?I mean, there’s no timeline to it. We started off as platonic friends and nothing more. Do you only make friends while starting the stopwatch of when they’re planning to fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:00 PM |
| 9 | What's wrong with average men?My question is does anyone have “inherent use”? Men talk all the time about how women are “inherently more valuable” to them simply for the sake of being a woman, but what does that mean really? In reality it just means you think she is inherently valuable because she has a vagina, which means you can have sex with her. If she is for whatever reason (say a physical condition) unable to have sex, would you still see “inherent value” in her? We all need to provide some sort of value to a relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:34 PM |
| 14 | What's wrong with average men?Average woman here engaged to an average man. He’s very attractive to me now (honestly just ask him how much I touch/ogle/cling to him, even more than he does me) but he wasn’t when I first met him. It took maybe 3 weeks for me to feel “the spark” and it was largely driven by how much I had fallen in love with him as a person, but it snowballed into physical attraction very quickly from there. Men expect women to experience attraction the same way they do and get disappointed. Unfortunately fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?Mostly just individual therapy learning about various coping and management skills. Basically adulting 101 with ADHD. There are a lot of ways to “hack” the ADHD brain to stimulate dopamine production for daily tasks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?It’s not that bad of an advice. Almost all (actually probably all) of my partners have been non-neurotypical in some way. It can go well, just needs work to manage the symptoms and learn proper communication skills in a relationship. Something a therapist or couple’s counselor can help with. My fiancé has fairly severe ADD when we met and it was a big uphill struggle to try and get him the help he needs, but after lots of therapy and now a low dose of stimulant medication, he’s gotten a lot bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Pov: Your Goals Don't Align With Any Of Your WomenRegardless of what the motivations are, you are still being dishonest with her. You’re still actively hurting another human person just to get your rocks off. Does that not bother you at all? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people can lie about their sexual past without the slightest of hesitationLol even if we’re not lying we get accused of it anyway… I found this thread while talking to OP in another comment section and he claimed I was lying about my LTR/n count (4). I told him I excluded one guy because he was an actual pedophile groomer who I dated when I was 13. He proceeded to say that kissing that man counted as “n count” because I felt pleasure from the relationship. What is life man | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?Eh? No. It did not count. And I’m using all forms of sexual intimacy. The most intimate thing we did was make out and him trying to ask sexually charged questions. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?If you’re curious about the one guy I excluded, he was a pedophile who groomed me at 13 and he was my church youth leader. Our relationship lasted about 3 months and he was eventually punished for what he did Edit: Also we did not have sex | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?I answered my sexual history in full honesty. What do you want to know? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?Didn’t you ask? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?He lived downstairs from my room in college. I met him while hanging out with a friend from high school and he introduced me to him. Bit more complicated than that but that’s the gist. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?I’m in my early 20s. I’ve had 3 long term partners before him (I don’t think I would count one of them but that’s a long story and I was 13.. You can ask me about it in DMs). So he is my 4th. In terms of body count (because I know you’ll ask) he is also my 4th. The people don’t quite align 1:1 in terms of LTR and body count, but those are the numbers. On his end, I would be his 3rd n and 4th LTR. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?It’s purely catastrophizing. A lot of these men are still fairly young, some even teenagers, and they’re already fully convinced that life is hopeless for them because they weren’t the popular kid in their high school cafeteria or something… It’s truly depressing. I’m not saying that there are no merits to the blackpill at all. Sure, looks matter. Even bluepillers will not deny this. But the idea that: 1. Looks are the ONLY factor that matters 2. All women will never be satisfied by anything les… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Pov: Your Goals Don't Align With Any Of Your WomenDo you feel any guilt for cheating on her? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many blackpilled men nowadays?OP, blackpillers will froth at the mouth trying to tell you that all women in the modern day are no longer interested in seeking life partners. I need you to listen to me when I say it’s not true in the slightest. There ARE women out there who are still looking for genuine life partners and are not interested in hookup culture. We do exist. The idea that all young women have had sex with dozens and dozens of men by age 25 is flat out insanity. I’m about to marry the love of my life and I’m not a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Pov: Your Goals Don't Align With Any Of Your WomenDoes the LTR now there’s a side chick or are you just cheating on her? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Monthly Reminder: Women can have just about any guy they want (at least once).How do you think a sub 5 woman should approach a Chad | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I’ve always wondered this. Would this person be okay if their hypothetical future 19 year old daughter came to them and said she’s dating a 35 year old man? Likely not, and they know this deep inside. It’s only when they do it that it’s okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Seriously… Even at 20 I sometimes find it really hard to relate to kids 3-4 years younger than me. Imagine trying to relate to a girl 10-15 years your junior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do women even use this subreddit?What selfie campaign | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 04:12 PM |
| -3 | Didnt know that girls unironically do thisFunny that someone said the exact same you did and got upvoted | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/23 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Is this whole 'stay in your lane' ideology in dating, healthy and fair, or the opposite?Hi, fellow interracial dater here, WMAF relationship to boot. Literally does not matter what I tell them, that I’ve had relationships and feelings for people of literally every race, they’ll still call it white worshipping because… I guess all Asian women bow to white men or something like that. Who cares. Terminally online people will do terminally online people things. Life’s too short to give a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever seen a handsome and successful man struggling with his romantic/sexual relationships? And why?Oh I have one! He was my next door neighbor and worked at the company directly next to mine, so their employees and ours interact a lot for social gatherings. He’s probably around 6’3, white guy, handsome, neurotypical, and fit (goes to the gym nearly everyday). Now don’t get me wrong, he gets hookups at least 1-2 times a week from random girls he meets on Tinder. Sometimes he would even travel 2 hours for a one night stand which is pretty crazy to me. Thing is? He can’t get a committed relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:57 AM |
| 82 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?It’s such a pipe dream and I’ve noticed it in way too many men on here. They want a woman who has been a virgin her whole life and then suddenly become a sex-craving succubus willing to pleasure him at moment’s notice the second they start dating. Yeah okay buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Reddit women "omg" thirst after "unconventionally attractive" male celebrities who are all objectively good looking, rich and high status.Contributing to the thread with a tribute to my biggest actor crush of all time | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/09/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveNo yeah absolutely. The spark happened for me after we had a really touching heart-to-heart one night about our past traumas and relationship issues. At least, that’s when I first started feeling it. It just snowballed really quickly after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers think that incls have given up before they even triedYes, of course I have lol. I’ve flat out told people “I have a romantic interest/crush on you” and been told “I’m sorry you’re just not my type/I’m not currently looking/let’s just stay friends” | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 11 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveI say this every time and pillspace people think it’s the most alien thing. I didn’t think of my current fiancé as physically attractive the second I met him, that attraction grew over time and the “spark” was very delayed (like maybe 2 weeks in). Within a month I had grown to be so physically and emotionally attracted to him I couldn’t get him out of my mind longer than a few hours. Now we are together and I would jump him at all times of the day if I could. Female attraction is really weird. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 12 | I still feel like a kidLol. Honey, if you think most women have that high of a body count at age 19 you need a solid reality check. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 08:43 PM |
| -1 | Bluepillers think that incls have given up before they even triedLol I’ve gotten rejected more than that as a woman, you think 4 is a big number? | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 02:16 PM |
| -1 | Bluepillers think that incls have given up before they even triedTfw I’ve gotten rejected 4 times as a girl, is it over for me? | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 02:15 PM |
| 4 | What's your opinion on trans (FTM) people?First impression is generally my go-to when it comes to considering them as their preferred gender as well. Like, I’ve met people who pass extremely well to the point where I wouldn’t have known that they were trans if they didn’t tell me. Those people, I have no problem considering them men/women. Matter of fact my brain can’t even compute that they were born a different biological sex sometimes. But people who don’t pass at all and expect me to call them by a different set of pronouns? Sure, I… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I think that the problem with The Blue Pill is that they deep down expect sexual attraction to be "rational"I don’t understand why you seem to imply that nice guys can’t also be masculine. Being a jacked frat boy who treats women like crap is not the only way to project masculinity. You can be very manly and strong while still being sweet and caring to your woman. Seems like TRPers are just looking for every excuse to treat women like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesI honestly think more women are becoming disillusioned with hookup culture and the fast casual dating scene of today. At least in my social circles I am starting to see that. Hell, the reason why I personally am against hookup culture is because one of those 3 I mentioned was a hookup/ONS and I didn’t find it fulfilling at all (not in the sense that the sex wasn’t good, but for me personally sex is very much an emotional bonding experience, sometimes even moreso than physical, and hookups cannot… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyes3 people before him. He had 2 before me. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesCan you elaborate on that? | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesThank you for the sound advice. I don’t mind because I like talking about my relationship and I feel that the dynamic I’m currently in tends to shock a lot of blackpillers, and I enjoy debating gender dynamics. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 07:14 PM |
| -6 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesPerhaps ugly landwhale is less accurate than “too picky.” I see plenty of blackpill rhetoric claiming that femcels must have insanely high standards, which is the exact inverse of feminist rhetoric when insulting an incel. If low n women aren’t shamed for not having more sex, why do you think “spinster” is considered an insult? | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesI’ve explained the majority of my relationship in a previous comment. I’ll see if I can find it later. But long story short, we both have our shortcomings— as everyone does. He fulfills me in ways beyond the “hot millionaire boyfriend I can brag about to other people.” Overall we’re just two people trying to improve together. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:59 PM |
| -13 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesBecause you are real people, are you not? Pill rhetoric is starting to spread to the mainstream. Idiotic ideologies and hypocrisies deserve to be called out. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesSure, and I could say that all men want a 9/10 model-hot woman who makes obscene amounts of money while still being the household maid for him and giving him sex at a moment’s notice. We all have ideals, but insinuating that someone cannot be happy because they have not reached the absolute peak ideal of a human being is ridiculous. This is life. Very, very few of us will have our ideal houses, incomes, jobs, relationships, whatever. And very many people are happy despite that. The common trope … | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesI’ve certainly had the same person tell me both sides of the argument, although you are right that most of them will be from different people. Like I have a much higher earning potential than my fiancé and one time I had an argument with a blackpiller who did not know this fact and accused me of being in a relationship for the money. I told him I must be the worst golddigger in the world to marry someone with 1/3 of my earning potential, and he immediately flipped the script to me trying to cont… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | since some of you say you've never talked to a woman and then say "women do..." "woman believe..." etc, I'm a woman. AMAI’m not sure how else to describe it to you. I would maybe suggest looking up pictures online of what innie vaginas look like. Like I said, it won’t be as “shut off” like the sandwich picture because that’s just ridiculously unrealistic, but there are definitely women whose flaps are not visible at all. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | since some of you say you've never talked to a woman and then say "women do..." "woman believe..." etc, I'm a woman. AMANo it doesn’t mean small it just means the labia minora flaps just aren’t visible at all for some women. This is not intersex, it’s just how some women’s vulvas were built. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Why dont young men just adapt and evolve ? Whether into asexual, gay or AI girlfriends.. its all viable options when it is too difficult to get a quality partner.Healthiest MGTOW I’ve ever seen. Most I see are still in their extreme bitterness/anger/depression/misogyny phase. Good for you dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | since some of you say you've never talked to a woman and then say "women do..." "woman believe..." etc, I'm a woman. AMAInnie labias are definitely a thing. I have one. They’re not going to look quite as… Closed up like that sandwich but they exist lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 06:41 AM |
| -3 | Guy finds out his wife cheated and his 5 year old son isn't his. Comments berate him for not wanting to father the child anymore.I’m guessing you do not have children from the way you talk | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"It’s a bit hard to describe, honestly. You can just tell when somebody is into you that way. Flirty gestures, lots of deep and emotional conversations, and overall just the way he looked at me I could tell there was something up. Probably the most obvious one that went over my head was when he asked to “platonically cuddle” with me and I was like sure! Lol. Naive college students. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"I had one ONS in college and one weird FWB-ish situation that only ever happened online. 4 LTRs total for me including him. He’s had one “casual relationship” that lasted a couple weeks and 3 LTRs total. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"I don’t think anything I could say would ever convince you that I feel deep sexual attraction for my fiancé. Even if I told you every intimate detail of our sex life, you would still manage to find some loophole and believe that my entire love life is a lie. That is your choice. I hope you let go of your bitterness and I wish you well in life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 05:29 PM |
| -3 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"You can’t just edit your comments after I had posted things and then claim I only added mine as an afterthought because you “called me out.” You call me young and immature but the way you speak sounds like an angry 16 year old. Seems like you are the one who needs quite a bit of growing up to do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"Since you edited your comment after I wrote out my rebuttal, I’ll address your point here. You can gaslight me all you want into saying that I am not sexually attracted to him, but all of that is cope. You don’t know me. You don’t know how we have sex or how I initiate sex with him (yes I do initiate plenty of times). Would somebody who isn’t sexually attracted to another person even bother looking at them during sex? Did you conjure up an image in your mind where I insist on sex with the lights… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 05:18 PM |
| -2 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"Okay, that is fine, but incels constantly tell each other that there’s no point in trying because there’s 0 chance they would ever be deemed attractive by others. I don’t think my case is as rare as people claim it to be. In the minority? Absolutely. But it certainly is possible and encouraging others to simply give up just because they are not considered attractive by 70% of the population is ridiculous. Another thing as well is the notion that if you are not the 6’ millionaire fit Chad that wo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 05:07 PM |
| -9 | Women Are Not Attracted to "Personality"I think you severely underestimate how much sexual attraction fluctuates and what factors play into it from a woman’s perspective. I’m going to offer you an analogy from my own life. It’s entirely up to you whether you believe it or not, but this is my story and I’m telling the truth of how it happened. I met my fiancé on the first day of college. I had gone out to a house party with a few male friends I had known from high school and, after that ended badly, he decided to introduce me to a few … | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Sugar daddy relationships are closer to how marriages were historicallyWelcome to PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 3 | "I'm a perfectly well-adjusted and successful person with a job, a relationship, friends, and hobbies, but I spend my free time on a pill forum telling short, ugly, and ethnic minority men that they're not entitled to s*x and w*men hate them because of their personality"I feel you on that. My fiancé is overweight and makes a lot less money than me and people on these sorts of forums love telling me that I don’t truly love him because he doesn’t fit their stereotype of “Chad.” I’m not the sexiest woman in the world either, just an average woman madly and deeply in love with another average man. People just love to put others down for the sake of making themselves feel better. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | There will always be a scarcity of marriageable men in this dating market's rules, and it will not get any betterTHANK YOU. I don’t understand why every PPD man thinks it’s such a big deal that women “settle.” They settle too. Very few of us will get our ideal partner in.. Really anything in life. Welcome to the real world, things are not and will never be perfect. That does not mean you can’t have a healthy, loving, and fulfilling relationship!! These people do not live in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Why Should Men Get Married?Right? I hear this bs excuse all the time “women initiate x percent of divorces!!” okay and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:28 PM |
| 19 | My boyfriend is a red piller, help!Because she sacrificed her career to work unpaid as a SAHM. Have you thought of the alternative? How do you think a woman with a 10++ year employment gap is supposed to immediately get a job after getting divorced without any alimony support. Being a SAHM is work, you’re just not getting paid and you have 0 emergency money in the event of a divorce. Plus alimony and child support can take YEARS to officially go through after court proceedings. Do you expect her to just die from starvation when y… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 29 | My boyfriend is a red piller, help!I think that type of arrangement is fine assuming she will not be a SAHM or give up/slow down her career in any way for the relationship. In other words, never have children. Otherwise, he’s just screwing HER over in the event of a divorce. The whole point of a trad marriage is the man must be the protector and primary supporter of the family, and that does include post-divorce if she becomes a SAHM. Seems like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/23 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Women who "train" their husbands.Thanks for asking! There’s so many things it would be impossible to list on a Reddit comment. But in short, I’m diagnosed anxiety and depression while he’s diagnosed with ADHD. Both of us are in our 20s so we’re obviously quite young and inexperienced. For me personally, him being in my life has brought me a lot of internal peace and comfort. Growing up in an abusive household, I’ve never really had much of a good “relationship model.” He’s really taught me how to walk through life as a team and… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/23 11:42 AM |
| 62 | Women who "train" their husbands.It definitely sounds degrading. Imagine if a man said he “trained” his wife into having better sex? Marriage should be both parties improving one another’s lives and themselves. I’m not ashamed to say that my fiancé (I’m a woman) has taught me to be a much better person over the course of our relationship. He’s also improved significantly after we got together. You know, how it should be. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Can we all agree on this point?It’s a coping mechanism for coping | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Can we all agree on this point?Cope | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 10:54 PM |
| -3 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?You clearly do not spend much time talking to blackpillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:31 AM |
| 11 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Enough to make up a 40% disparity? Come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:30 AM |
| 2 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Especially at the same time. Even the people who are genuine “Chads” by PPD standards are not dating 6-7 women at the same time. Unless the definition of “dating” differs between men and women, it makes 0 sense for Chads to be dating that many women at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:29 AM |
| 2 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Well if you feel like the “correct answer” is that women ages 18-29 are genuinely only getting in relationships with the top 1% of men simultaneously (seriously, who actually believes the top 1% of men is simultaneously dating most women in the world?) then no, I will not accept that answer. It’s objectively not correct no matter what incels believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:24 AM |
| 6 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?That 26 year old dating a 32 year old makes sense, and 6 years isn’t a very large age gap in that case. But are there really that many people dating decades over their own age out there? Enough to make up the whopping 40% disparity between males and females in relationships at that age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:11 AM |
| 2 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Nobody quite answered the question in that post. I’d be willing to delete this if I could get a straight answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 7 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Yes, but that “slightly older” would only apply to someone in the late stages of that 18-29 age group. An 18-24 year old “dating slightly older” would likely still be dating within that same range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | High-Tier-Normies are overrated in the black pill communityRizz is such a subjective thing. 3/4 of my exes and current partner (fiancé) have been some flavor of ADHD and/or autism (the 1/4 was schizophrenic but he was a pedophile groomer so doesn’t count). I’ve gotten “rizzed” by watching them ramble about cars or music or making stupid puns. No redpill game necessary. You just have to find someone who likes your specific personality. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons?My one hookup was also because I thought she was hot but I had no legitimate attraction to her. I was just struggling after a breakup and missed having sex with a woman (My ex was a woman and so am I) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons?How did you know you were a sympathy fuck and why did you agree to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 03:42 AM |
| 0 | What's the story here? How's he pulling attractive women left and right?5’10 is tall | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 0 | It's easy for womenHow do you approach women at a club? | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Why do married women cheat so much more?It’s a 1% difference… Seriously? | /r/MensRights | 25/08/23 06:17 AM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?Eh, even then. My fiancé is definitely not an outgoing well-liked athlete. He fits the introvert sensitive socially awkward musician stereotype. I personally prefer these types of people over the adderall jock you describe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:01 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?Definitely. I think ADHD and autistic people tend to be a lot more blunt as well, and honesty is an extremely attractive trait for me even when it means having to hear difficult truths (of course, the ability to communicate these issues in a mature, adult manner is equally important). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:48 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?You wouldn’t be able to tell from being here. Almost every non-bluepiller here believes being neurodivergent in general is the death knell of finding a relationship. It’s got a lot of downsides, don’t get me wrong. But I don’t think it’s as “over” as some people here make it seem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:42 PM |
| – | Dear women, what makes a man "boring"?I can’t define it for sure but 3/4 of my LTRs have been some form of ADHD or autistic. They tend to hyperfixate on certain topics and while sometimes it could get really annoying, I enjoy being with and talking to people who are passionate about a certain subject. Usually I would tell them when their rants have gotten too long and they’re often respectful about it and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How to lit fire under her ass if she claims to be committed to her looksmatch Or traditionally unattractive guyHi, I’m one of those women who’s engaged with an average guy. He’s extremely attractive to me, but he wouldn’t fit the stereotypical Chad description. Anyway we have sex once every few days depending on our schedule. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | The myth that we live in some “hookup” culture and that women are racking up body counts in the 30s by 25 is a myth. If women were this casual-sex crazed most men would not struggle to get laid.Do you have a link to that study? I’m curious | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Do lack of women make an incel or being an incel results in lack of womenThis is a very well thought out response. I’ve spent a lot of time genuinely talking and getting to know incels and redpill “manosphere” types. In every single case I’ve seen, there’s always a deeper root cause to their inability to attract women than just “oh well women are shallow and this normal guy isn’t a 6 foot Chad millionaire.” Every single time, there’s something more. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | It's comical the lengths some men will go to avoid swallowing the lookspillBecause it’s true, are you going to tell me I’m lying? Not everything fits your shitty blackpill worldview. Have an open mind for once | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 04:17 PM |
| -6 | Average men should not procreateCan say the same for the misogynists in this sub. Do they realize they’re insulting their own mothers, grandmothers, and all the other women in their ancestry? | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | It's comical the lengths some men will go to avoid swallowing the lookspillOh yes tell me more about my own relationship, internet stranger | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 11:06 AM |
| -1 | It's comical the lengths some men will go to avoid swallowing the lookspillI wasn’t attracted to my fiancé when we first met. He wasn’t ugly, I just don’t really find anyone instantly attractive at first sight. Fast forward to today and our sex life has never been better. He makes less than me and will always do as long as we both stay in the same careers. And no I have not had “Chad blow my back out” Thoughts? | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 03:10 AM |
| 3 | purplepilldebate bannedIs it actually banned? I can still see it for some reason. Can’t search it up though | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 12:30 AM |
| 3 | To be a bluepilled man in 2023, you need to either be lucky or naiveMy fiancé is bluepilled as well, college sweetheart, and he’s had quite a few horrible experiences with ex girlfriends. I don’t know how his previous relationships would have proven the black/redpill correct though, just got really unlucky with some mentally ill women | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 07:34 PM |
| 9 | What does redpill say about punishments?That’s messed up. I’m so sorry. The redpill is literal poison to men’s minds. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 4 | What does redpill say about punishments?What kind of terminology did you notice? I’m curious | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | When and how did you become blackpilled?Just curious, what did you consider to be “bottom tier women”? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 12:48 PM |
| 6 | Men do care about a women's careerIronically will be the same person who complains that alllll women are gold diggers… 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | When and how did you become blackpilled?College girls cried when they were seated next to you? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 11:09 AM |
| 5 | When and how did you become blackpilled?There’s “looks matter” and then there’s “if you’re not in the top 5% of looks there’s no point in trying” | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?This is probably the most stereotypical blue pill thing to say but his personality is what attracted me to him first and foremost. He’s like, the perfect blend of masculinity and femininity for me. He can be a dominant leader when the situation calls for it, but he can be vulnerable and cry with me. He likes both masc and femme hobbies. He can be very caring and nurturing when I’m sick but also go out and mess around with his car for half the day. Overall I think I just hit a jackpot! I’m very l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?This lol for me the ick is not seeing a man get emotional, it’s seeing a man tell me “oh I’m too stoic I don’t cry I don’t open up about my feelings especially to women.” Like ew. Get away from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?Mine!! I can list a few things He’s cried in front of me and with me. After he proposed to me we basically just sat there holding each other crying for like 15 minutes He is overweight, average height (losing weight currently for health reasons, it’s going well!) He makes less than me and assuming we will be in the same careers throughout our lives he will always make 1/2-1/3 of my income He’s socially awkward and neurodivergent (ADHD) Basically every trait you could possibly think of that redpi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men are hypergamous when it comes to looksPPD brainrot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 03:28 PM |
| – | Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate itActually that might be.. A pretty smart question (I’m overthinking lol). What happened to all the freshwater fish if all the rivers flooded and all the world’s saltwater oceans mixed with inland freshwater? Did we just not have freshwater fish back then? Did they supposedly evolve after the flood or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Do you believe that is a good thing? I’m a woman who will be making more than my male fiancé after marriage. I don’t want a man to “look up” to, I want a man who I can walk side by side with. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Women Are DUMPING Their Boyfriends After Watching BARBIE | Feminist Mission AccomplishedThat Barbie did a very bad job at making “the patriarchy” look bad lol. Also, there are a lot of things that suck about living as a woman just as there are a lot of things that suck about living as a man | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 0 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Can you define respect for me? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:59 AM |
| -12 | Women Are DUMPING Their Boyfriends After Watching BARBIE | Feminist Mission AccomplishedI watched the Barbie movie with my fiancé (I’m F he’s M). I feel like we actually had really good conversations because of this. Now given, we’re both pretty strongly egalitarian and I don’t think there was anything fundamental that we disagree with each other about, but the Barbie movie was eye-opening in some ways for both of us and we were mature enough to talk about it like adults. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:45 AM |
| 2 | The “Forever Girlfriend”You’d be surprised to learn gold diggers exist everywhere. Becoming a passport bro because you don’t like how “transactional” western women are is like stepping out of the frying pan and into the fire. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Are you okay with never receiving the legal benefits of marriage like joint taxes, insurance, and next-of-kin/inheritance rights? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Do you believe serial monogamy is sustainable over a very long period (say until old age)? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:23 AM |
| 2 | The “Forever Girlfriend”What are your thoughts on relationships where the woman makes more money? | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 11:21 AM |
| 9 | The “Forever Girlfriend”So a long term prostitute | /r/MensRights | 07/08/23 01:46 AM |
| 18 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Can I just ask, how do you know that she won’t take advantage of those laws? What sort of conversations do you think men should have while still in a relationship to know whether or not she is trustworthy in that sense? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 11:27 PM |
| 0 | The “Forever Girlfriend”Congratulations! | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What are the best ways to protect my resources if I do decide to get married?Does this server generally believe in “forever girlfriends” as the ideal form of a relationship? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Thank youAre you in the US? I haven’t seen fields like these actively try to recruit women. I think the only one I could say that does that is construction maybe | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyway too attract women ethically or the right way without having too get mean or be a jerk ?This! Redpillers think that “game” = confidence = being a total jerkwad to women. You can have self confidence without negging her (which imo is just flat out trying to destroy her self-esteem so she’ll be more desperate for you) or manipulating her | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | "Barbie" movie is becoming a new litmus test for dating menI don’t disagree with you on that, just pointing out that the inverse scenario in which a man treats his wife like a subservient partner is not a good thing either and your choice of wording spoke to that. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | "Barbie" movie is becoming a new litmus test for dating menI think it’s a bit of a freudian slip when you say women want a male wife and proceed to describe a relationship in which the “wife” gets bossed around and threatened when they express an incompatible opinion. What does that say about your perspective on the role of a wife in the household? | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 11:38 AM |
| 5 | How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't?I did ask a rather large group of online men one time if they would like to be the one proposed to by their girlfriends, get the ring, etc. They were pretty adamantly turned off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:41 PM |
| -2 | "Men are more likely to leave sick partners than women are"? Is this a fact?They never said this happens exclusively to women, but that it does happen and gave an example in their own life | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 10:14 AM |
| 2 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?I can understand that. Have you tried to seek help for yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:50 PM |
| 5 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Do you believe it would be justified for a woman who has been abused my men in her life to say that all men are disgusting and make untrue claims about men as a whole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?It’s usually the susceptibility to love bombing and increased tolerance to what most people would call abusive and would dump their partners for immediately. I was like that growing up. Abused emotionally and verbally by my mother. Before I went to therapy, I got into a relationship with a schizophrenic BPD boy who did not treat me well and I assumed it was normal because well, I was used to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Have you ever considered women who are also equally inexperienced and/or are okay with dating a virgin? Religious women come to mind but I’ve seen non-religious women who are okay with being their partner’s first relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:39 PM |
| – | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Do you believe that OLD principles will translate the same in the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?What milestones do you think you’ve missed growing up? Do you believe pillspace has helped you achieve those milestones at all or are yoy at the same spot you were? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 5 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?I mean, IMO, any boundary is fair game to have as long as it is well communicated and both parties agree to it. If you want an open relationship during a dry spell and your partner is okay with it (not through coercion or manipulation) I wouldn’t consider that to be toxic. Problem is most women wouldn’t want that type of arrangement and that’s something you need to hash out before making a major commitment to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:03 PM |
| – | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?How did you realize for sure that it was because of your looks and nothing else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 6 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?I feel like none of these are particularly unique to redpill, just that TRP has its own set of vocabulary to describe the world. For example, not letting your relationship become codependent (but obviously not being an abusive a-hole and cheating to let your LTR know you have “options,” but you didn’t say that) is a very common piece of relationship advice. And of course, treating sex like a relationship duty rather than a real romantic and emotional bonding experience will cause issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:49 PM |
| 4 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?It’s coherent, you’re fine. Were these women officially diagnosed for BPD? Do you think you just have a tendency to attract/pursue BPD women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?What was that experience like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 5 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Congrats! What do you think changed between then and now in how you view longevity in an LTR? As in, why did you burn out after 6 years last time and why will it be different with current LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:19 PM |
| 3 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Are you still looking for LTRs now or have you resigned yourself to short term relationships after your 6 year LTR failed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 3 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Did this happen to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?What would you say your pill is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Stooping to the level of insane feminists is not the way to go. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Woman = not able to comprehend men’s issues? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Absolutely. I don’t disagree with you at all. Not sure why I get downvoted to hell for simply stating an opposing viewpoint. I don’t think therapy should be the only option for improving men’s mental wellbeing, but advocating for men to go to therapy while simultaneously improving modern psychology to help male clients with a not-so-gynocentric approach (considering most therapists are women) is a good thing for me. It just kind of seems like in this sub, even saying things like “here are some t… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 11:19 PM |
| -1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I absolutely do believe men’s problems are ignored. Not sure what that has to do with why it would be a bad thing for men to go to therapy. I’m not saying that toxic masculinity is the reason why men discourage one another from seeking help, I was just saying there are feminists who DO advocate for men to seek professional support. I am not a feminist, just arguing that “all feminists really don’t like it when men go to therapy” is objectively false. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?What is the oxymoron? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 10:50 PM |
| -1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I think the problem is multifaceted. I don’t know. I certainly disagree with that premise in my own life because I actually get turned off by men who refuse to cry because they feel it threatens their masculinity. My fiancé has cried in front of me and with me at least a dozen times in our relationship and it’s never made me see him as any less. I don’t think it’s inherently anti MRA to acknowledge that both women AND other men contribute to the lack of emotional outlet men receive. I have seen … | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 05:38 PM |
| -3 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?You clearly don’t spend much time in modern feminist spaces. I see it quite often. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 05:13 PM |
| -2 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I mean honestly yes.. The “normalize men crying and men having emotions” is a common thing I hear feminists saying nowadays. Why do you think they’re so opposed to “toxic masculinity”? The idea is that they’re simultaneously encouraging their feminist followers to normalize and accept that type of behavior in the men in their own lives. Is this not a good thing? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I hope this isn’t too insensitive to ask, but was your circumcision botched or something? I’ve never heard of a circumcision that took away one’s ability to feel sexual pleasure 100%, even if the sensation is reduced due to lower number of nerve endings. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I understand what you mean. I think we can both agree that for major life events (death, loss, or general mental disorders like PTSD) that you need to bring out the big guns with professional help. I’ve seen therapy improve the lives of many of my colleagues, both male and female. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 2 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I think you have a fair point, but I’d like to point out that not all men will benefit from the bootstraps mentality of just kicking them off their couches and that will magically fix their depression. Otherwise, stereotypically masculine men who have a “just suck it up and deal with it” mentality would never commit suicide. Masculinity does not fix chemical imbalances to the brain any more than it fixes any other disability. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I like that, lol. Condesplaining it is. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 03:12 PM |
| -3 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I do agree with you on this.. Although, I usually see this term being used (or at least started) for men who explain things in a confidently incorrect fashion, particularly about topics relevant to women’s bodies and autonomy. For example, I think the last time I saw the word mansplaining was when a woman was describing her male teacher expecting her to “hold in her period” during class. Or men explaining how women pee out of the same hole as they give birth to babies. Things like that lol. What… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?This is going to sound a bit NLOG so bear with me, but I think this is why I have trouble associating with large groups of women. One-on-one interactions are fine with me, but I tend to be almost brutally honest with people and a lot of female social groups require a lot of subtext and between-the-lines socialization, something I have a hard time understanding (yes my friends have hypothesized that I am autistic). I think there are certainly pros and cons to each type of mindset, no gender is fr… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?There are a few men on this subreddit who just come here to be hateful. It’s a shame. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 4 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I generally agree with most of these. Just a question— other than therapy, how would you suggest men cope with their psychological and emotional problems? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 4 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Very well thought out answer. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:50 PM |
| -4 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?My point is that I don’t see why we need to give credit to “those in power” for switching sides. We certainly don’t give credit to the Nazis’ generosity for conceding their loss in WWII. We don’t give credit to the British for giving Americans freedom either. So why should we give credit for giving women the right to vote when in fact that right was abridged by those in power in the first place? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:46 PM |
| 7 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I think that is a really good point. I find that in a lot of my female friend groups there’s a lot of social pressure to simply agree with the general consensus regardless of how you feel about the topic. If one woman says “men are trash I’m done dating stupid men” and another woman affirms it by saying something like “yes girl you do you,” it’s really hard to be that person and say hey, that’s not cool. Not to say that peer pressure doesn’t exist in my male friend groups, but generally there’s … | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:38 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Wow, that’s horrible. I have heard of narcissists who specifically encourage their victims to go to therapy with them so they could use manipulative psychotherapy jargon to convince them that they, in fact, are in the wrong and see the therapist agrees with my rendition of events. Therapy can definitely be used to abuse and belittle people. Sad that this woman has resorted to that. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Women aren’t allowed to have honest conversations about men’s rights? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 13 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?Thank you for your very thoughtful answer! I’m already opposed to non-medically necessary circumcision and I think the draft should be abolished just in general. I do hope to see more people fighting for these causes as well. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:23 PM |
| -5 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?That’s interesting. I’m not saying I disagree with you at all, but I’m having a hard time thinking about what you mean by “going to therapy to become better humans for women.” Could you give an example of things feminist say that is in that vein? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I mean, I think what this person is saying is ridiculous but simultaneously claiming that the only reason why women have rights is because men let them is equally as condescending. There were many first and second wave feminists who gave their lives to improving women’s quality of life and it’s kind of patronizing to say their work meant nothing if it weren’t for men. On that note, too, since you mentioned ethnic rights, it would be like telling black people that the only reason why they have fr… | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:15 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I just don’t understand what you meant originally by women expecting help and getting disappointed. I’d love if you could elaborate on that | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:08 PM |
| -9 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I definitely agree with feminists screaming “misogyny” against any action men perform, whether it was intentional or not. I feel like I’ve seen a bigger push by feminists specifically though for men to open up about their feelings, cry, go to therapy, etc. We might disagree about who was imposing that “toxic masculinity” persona in the first place (they blame other men for seeing emotions as “weakness”) but I do find it interesting that feminists are some of the biggest advocates of men seeking … | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 01:06 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?What kind of help do you think women are expecting that you’d consider to be unfair? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 12:59 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?I’m sorry, I’m having a hard time understanding what you mean in practical terms. Equity in.. what, paying for dates? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 12:57 PM |
| 12 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?This is going to sound sarcastic but I’m asking genuinely— what kind of rights specifically are you talking about that women have and men don’t, and how can women advocate for those things in their lives? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 12:57 PM |
| 0 | On an individual level, what do you believe women should do to advocate for men’s rights better?What kind of equity are you hoping to see between men and women? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me the end of the new barbie movie?I mean honestly though, I’m starting to see more and more feminists come out against circumcision on babies. Goes against the whole “my body my choice” thing. They get a lot of things wrong but I definitely do commend them on this one | /r/MensRights | 25/07/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?Touch and hugs, yes absolutely. Everything else is not platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 11:39 AM |
| 6 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menI think there is a distinction here. It’s okay to have trad wife fantasies while simultaneously dating an Asian girl. She might be into that, like your girlfriend is. The only issue is when you expect and more importantly force that ideation of Asian women on every Asian woman you meet. We are not a monolith. Yes, there will be a higher rate of Asian women who want that type of life due to our culture, but seeing ALL Asian women as that stereotype is entitled and racist. That’s what I mean by “f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 11 | White men are far more open to dating Asian women than white women are to Asian menI think it’s unattractive when men associate more than just “hot physical characteristics” to certain races. For example, I’m Asian— I’m totally fine with my partners thinking that certain racial features I have, like my bigger nose, round face, skin tan, etc, are cute. The problem is when they start expecting me to be the stereotypical uwu submissive trad wife who will accept any form of treatment or abuse because that’s how they see all Asians. It’s demeaning and dehumanizing. I am more than j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:09 AM |
| 6 | Stop making 1 to 1 comparisons between men and women. We are biologically different. Also stop looking at female attraction through a male lens.It’s not that 95% of men aren’t interesting personality-wise to women. But online dating makes it extremely difficult to judge someone’s personality. It’s literally a meat market. If you aren’t interested in hookups and want a genuine relationship, your swipe rate isn’t going to be a good indicator of whether or not you find x number of men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Men who say sex is a need are less concerned about having a relationship with women as they are feeling adequate as a man among men.I think it’s good to differentiate sex as a separate relationship “need,” than, let’s say, good communication. If you don’t have good communication in a relationship, you won’t last even a couple of days before being completely miserable. Meanwhile, sex is a “need” in the sense that it creates great physical intimacy, but there will be times when you won’t be able to have sex and you will be okay with it. For example, if your wife had just given birth and you absolutely cannot do any vaginal sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?I don’t think that’s necessarily true. This might be because I’ve never been super exposed to social media/instagram model types, but I’ve never found extremely attractive people viable as long term attractive partners. The stereotypical muscular Chad type has never been appealing to me beyond maybe nice to look at, and even then it’s not all that hot to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners?They usually cite studies that show women with higher body counts are more likely to cheat in marriage | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 05:30 PM |
| -6 | Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners?I don’t need to detox anything.. I’m not a redpiller. The idea that women are the same at 5 body count or 25 doesn’t make me uncomfortable. All I’m saying is I happen to interact with people who believe these things and I don’t have any studies to refute their own. Read the whole post before actually responding EDIT: Also I’m literally a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners?I don’t know why you’re being so hostile. I don’t disagree with your views, just trying to find empirical evidence contradicting what redpillers are telling me | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners?Would you mind sending the study please? The detox kit has a lot of info and what I did read didn’t really answer my question | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners?I went through the detox kit and couldn’t find an exact link that answers the question, but there is a lot of info there. If you know where I can find it please send it over | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/23 02:03 PM |
| -2 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultI think OP is one such example… Insulting all single mothers as either gold-diggers or promiscuous women. I don’t think you need to go crazy and shoot up a school to be indoctrinated by a misogynistic worldview. All it takes is to be hurt by one or more women and talking to the wrong people on the internet. Most incels won’t be writing manifestos and shooting kindergarteners. They’ll be festering on Reddit talking about how ALL women are leeches who are just trying to earn money off of them thro… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 10:44 AM |
| -1 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultAs I said, I’m speaking of the stereotypical incels who have underlying personality issues behind their lack of ability to find a partner. I understand that your looks, your race, your neurodivergence, etc can be negative factors in finding a partner. That being said, claiming that ALL African-Americans are at a disadvantage when searching for partners is an unsupportable claim. Many people have loved, dated and married minorities (I am a racial minority myself in a relationship). Many, like me,… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 10:07 AM |
| -4 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insult“If they get sex and continue hating women they will be respected by women and society” Have you SEEN what people are saying about Andrew Tate? The only people who “respect” him are the 13 year olds he managed to brainwash. If you spend time talking to real women you would know that no one is going to respect a woman-hating misogynist. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 09:45 AM |
| -2 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultI think the majority of people who diss incels are thinking of the types of men who have trouble finding relationships (for any reason) and decide that women, as a whole, must be the reason why they are single. They devolve into misogynist views, calling all women sluts, gold-diggers, shallow… Just an overall negative view of women without actually having some self-introspection of their OWN shortcomings (for example, having a bad attitude). I think that men who genuinely have problems finding r… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Creator of "Are We Dating the Same Guy" now has a GoFundMe campaign well on its way to the goal of $50,000. Scam or no?Sorry for the dumb question, I’m out of the loop. But what’s wrong with these facebook groups? Are they just women posting pics of their boyfriends seeing if they’re cheating on them? | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 11:37 PM |
| 4 | women don't congratulate men on men's international day, so why should i on women's international day?To be honest I’ve never felt any more special on International Women’s Day either and I’m a woman. Like I didn’t even realize that it’s today. Maybe chronically online people might notice a difference? Idk. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:54 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend never wants to get to a prenup but wants me constantly pay for everything and act wifey. Sorry, can’t have it both ways darling!Would you say the same if the woman was making more money and expected to do >50% of the housework? I may be going through the same thing in the future (female aspiring-engineer) and I haven’t quite settled my thoughts on how married life would be like one day. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | A man is a sexual predator if he dates an adult woman with a considerable age difference. Is a woman also a financial predator if she dates a man with a considerable wealth difference?I would posit that DiCaprio dating a 19 year old does not make him a sexual predator. Unpopular opinion, I know. I think it IS a bit creepy and probably indicative of his immaturity that he’s able to somehow emotionally relate to a teenager fresh out of high school, but sexual predator implies either grooming or lack of consent on the victim’s end, and I haven’t seen any evidence of that in his relationships. On that same line of thought, I think that dating/marriage with a considerable wealth d… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 02:38 PM |
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