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awakendragon/r/askTRP15/09/18 09:28 PM
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I actually started to think if it's overreacting. We had a chat and she said it was just for jokes and there was nothing sexual about it. That it was like if she gave a hug to a good friend. Maybe I misread the situation and just blowing this off?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:58 AM
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My place and she's not on the lease so at least that's good.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 10:18 PM
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I think that's true. She drank way to much to the point she puked this morning and said she can't make the breakfast for me. I'm right now at a breakfast diner, like during good old single times. I think I'll have to end it. Problem is she lives with me so won't be that easy. But I guess I can't make it fly.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:03 PM
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So I kinda followed this advice. After coming back from work, prepped my dinner, then went to gym and a hottub. Came back, continued to work for 1h more and went to bed. When she joined me she said she knows she messed up on Sunday and she's sorry and that she learnt the lesson. I just said good and went to sleep. This morning she prepared the breakfast and I carried on as usually, but still a bit distant. Think it worked well overall, thanks!
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:45 PM
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How about if I tell her this after coming back from work: This is the second time you have disrespected me like that and I won't tolerate it anymore. Next time your plans change send me a text.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:49 PM
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She didn't tell me the reason not I was inquiring about it. I simply ignored her when she returned and continued with my stuff. I also didn't behave the same way to her before. What's more I was very supportive last week to her when she learnt some bad news about her work situation.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:31 PM
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Thanks, this sounds reasonable. So as I understand you recommend not calling her out but just ignore and after some time resume as if nothing? I just want to make clear she knows which behaviour was bad.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:29 PM
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It's not really about the meal but about not informing me that her plans changed. I'd have reacted the same if we planned to go to a swimming pool or a bike ride. And I really wouldn't mind if she texted me that she's coming late. I had the entire day planned anyway and she was only to provide me a meal. She failed so I organized it on my own.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:10 PM
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Thanks, I know. Can you advise how to proceed though?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:50 PM
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Thanks. > Set boundaries. That's a good point. What I wonder is whether my current strategy of ignoring is optimal. Feels like just saying up front that I don't like it might be more efficient and improve the overall expierience faster but on the other hand it sounds like entering her frame. > Don't be afraid to lose her. I'm not afraid, have another high quality plate available but would like to extend my collection.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:09 AM
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Beta blockers
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:05 AM
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Thanks, makes sense! I figured she might be a good connection to an interesting social circle and it would be easier to exploit it when being friends.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:13 AM
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Any tips for DR? Especially how not to get ropped or killed? Thinking about Cabarete.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:57 AM
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I usually go with: you are cute, I had to say hi. up for drinks this x evening? whatsapp? Majority follow, the ones that don't, forget. And that's it.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:45 PM
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I have met a few smart woman on Toastmasters - people who attend it are usually very motivated and also career driven so an interesting mix.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:45 PM
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I can't tell for sure. But regardless, it does not indicate how I should behave. I'm more inclined to a maxim that we should treat others as we want to be treated.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 05:45 AM
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True, actually that might be the best course of action. Could you advise how to behave now so it plays out like that? Should I have a talk with her? Or just chat/meet without sex from time to time?
/r/askTRP25/05/17 03:04 AM
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I don't see her much, maybe once a week. But I want to cut it completely
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:25 AM
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Go one night to Darling Cabaret, the best strip club in Europe
/r/askTRP08/04/17 05:40 AM
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It does happen but it's rather rare and it's usually in the younger crowd than in the adults world. But at least there I have no problems with reading girls' intensions. Here I'm completely clueless.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:26 PM
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"People say Meetup.com. Only social rejects go to it." - Could you elaborate on that? What kind of experiences do you have? It's a genuine question as I try to use that in a new town I just arrived.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 12:16 AM
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Man. Appreciate that. Thought it makes sense. But then for the next date I invited her to my place to cook together as others advised. She cooked an awesome dinner when I was chilling on a coach sipping wine and that night blew me 3 times. Kicker? It turned out it was her birthday that day......
/r/askTRP25/03/17 06:18 AM
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I think something is wrong with this girl. She just messaged me if I want to bake muffins together and proposed my place. But added that she won't have sex with me cause she needs more time.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 02:11 AM
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Was in a similar situation: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5j0yw3/how_to_stay_in_touch_over_holidays_period_with_a/ Based on the tips, I send her a short and playful what's up texts every 3-4 days and it worked perfectly.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:54 AM
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Cut the sugars - stop eating sweets and sodas, drink only water/tea. Then reduce (but don't quit completely) the fruits and increase vegetables. Exchange white bread with dark one.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 10:25 AM
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Looks like I got lucky this time. Yesterday we went together to a clinic. It was very early so pharmacological abortion was possible. She took one pill during the appointment and she has one more to take after 3 days. Fuck, such a relief. Lesson learnt the hard way.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 08:20 AM
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Can confirm - Berlin here. Usually swipe hard on Wednesday evening and I am able to setup dates for Friday and Saturday evenings. I have a pretty good script so can usually make it work in 5-8 messages. Very few flakes - on something like 50+ dates happened only once.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:46 AM
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Use airbnb for 2 weekend nights once you are past date no.1 and see a potential lay on a subsequent date. Have always Friday and Saturday dates, double booked, so if one flakes you are still on for each night. Also, like others stated, get a part time or a weekend job to be able to afford those airbnbs.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:58 AM
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In my opinion it definetely shouldn't be forced. Because then it's like you have written - can be perceived as a weakness. However I reckon that a busy person with hobbies and all the time filled, will have automatically social circles around those activities.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:06 PM
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Ok I visited her today. It looks like she's under a lot of stress as well. She was downing a bottle of wine when I was there. She still claims she wants to go for the abortion, she already got the appointments for a gynecologist and pre-abortion councelling (she needs to get a certificate from there so that a doctor can perform the procedure). I just hope she won't change her mind on the way... if it works out I won't touch alcohol anymore in my life.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:20 PM
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Thanks for the resouces! Will go through them.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:00 PM
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But how should I keep the communication with her? Should I check up on her, like how she's feeling and so on, or minimum contact only regarding the abortion?
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:58 PM
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I don't know man, the likelihood was so low that she would get pregnant - 1 out of 50. Now I'm thinking she might have intentionally threw up after I left and that's why she got pregnant. I'm afraid she's just pretending now she doesn't want a kid so that it doesn't look like she got me on it.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:57 PM
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This might be a good idea, however I like to have this party vibe going on. I noticed I'm more relaxed then and also escalate better in such environment (pub, club). On the other hand, at my place it doesn't happen so well, once had a girl which was definetely DTF but I didn't do anything (she blocked me the next day).
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:00 PM
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I've been practising TRP heavily last couple of months in a western european country. I was meeting up with girls from different nations and it does work in general. However, I noticed that with eastern european girls (I hooked up with a few polish girls and one ukrainian) it's better to soften a bit the trp approach as those women don't tend to exploit it and also open up faster and easier.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:52 PM
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This is a really spot on comment. Thanks!
/r/askTRP06/12/16 09:54 AM
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I wish you both all the best but don't expect that it will last forever. I did the same thing however not with quite attractive but extremely attractive woman. Here's how it ended after 7 years: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/54fqye/the_perfect_beta_provider/
/r/askTRP28/11/16 05:46 AM
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I wouldn't do that unless she's an immediate danger to your life. She's the most likely person to help you if shit hits the fan and everyone else backs off. Even if she's not doing well, there are high chances that she would give you a hand. Another thing - thanks to her you are in this world, she raised you. She deserves respect and your help - not nexting.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 01:18 PM
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Second that. But still have to choose wisely. In places like London or Paris there will be still a lot of age bias in clubs and the "dress to impress" attitude. If you want a real party with a super diverse crowd, no judgements, at cheap price, look no further than Berlin. This place is magic. You will see folks in their 40s and 50s ripping it up on a dance floor next to early 20s and no one will give a fuck.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:04 AM
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Practise is very important. Knowledge is one thing but being able to apply it to problems on the exam is another thing. So, unless you do it already, practise a lot. The way I was studying at the end of the university (which turned out to me as the most cost/effort effective method after 5 years) was getting exams from the previous years and solving problems from there. Only when I didn't know something I was going back to the books and studying the given topic and its context to the level that …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:21 AM
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Unless this relationship is toxic in some way - which doesn't look like from your description - I would hold off. One thing at a time. You don't know what kind of shit storm she can start afterwards - you wrote a year ago she did some drama, who knows what would come this time. And switching a job can be already a stressful period, you don't want to mix it with the break up experience. Sort out your next job, then split up. You were together 4 years - I don't think a few months more would make a…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:46 AM
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I do the same but for the positive things - every month I introduce a new change into my life and stick to it for a round month - that is enough to develop a habit and become proficient in it so after that period it becomes an integral part of my life. For example, in this month I started to floss - previously it was: reading a book for an hour a day, eating a salad instead of side carbs (white rice, potatoes, etc) for lunch, introducing a 5 minutes rule - if something takes less than 5 minutes …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:08 AM
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Btw what do you guys think about buying her a small rose?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:28 PM
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I tried the grabbing already - when we were dancing and I was behind her but she was always putting my hands back on her waist.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:11 PM
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Thanks for sound advise about holding hands. Makes sense. As for the date, I agree it might be too fast for that. I also noticed I have way more success when there's alcohol involved and the atmosphere is more relax - I screwed up 2 dinner dates in nice restaurants already. Thing is that, this week in my city there's a light festival so many building are illuminated and from the ship it would be a nice view. But maybe in this case, I will just have a walk with her, wait till she feels a bit cold…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:02 PM
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Go into management, above the first line. Even in those companies you mentioned (I work in one of them), mid-higher management is full of sharks and you will have to be a real alpha to fly high in there. The beta geeks you mentioned stay on the IC level forever.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:41 AM
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Depends on how well you are doing. If you are really down then I can recommend "Man's Search for Meaning"
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:47 PM
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Yeah, that was not easy either - she's living in a studio and her coach turns to a bed for the night. I considered going to sleep in a car but I would freeze to death. How would you answer to that question? As a side note - now she's sending me some photos of her afternoon with her parents - just ignore?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:04 PM
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It does but with the trunk button you can only unlock the trunk not open it up.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:14 PM
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Yeah, that's what I considered. The problem was that I drank and it was past mid night.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:51 PM
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