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| 2 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?Makes sense. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 02:47 PM |
| 0 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?Is asking someone out = orbiting? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 02:30 PM |
| 0 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?I haven’t spoken to her since. If anything she’s looking for my attention | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 02:18 PM |
| -3 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?Blocking = butthurt reaction | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?Yes, this is great advice, and this is what I learned the hard way messing up so bad the first time. I cannot imagine she forgot me specifically mentioning Facebook likes and her saying ‘Facebook likes??? I like all sorts of stuff on Facebook. Fine! I’ll never like any stuff from you anymore!’ (Not that I asked her to stop). I can’t imagine her intentionally stooping so low. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 01:47 PM |
| -4 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?I drunkenly told her that bad girls like her need to be punished, something that sounds slightly less creepy in my language. So that should cancel out her seeing me as a ‘friend’ . I understand she’s bored now, but I would never like a fb message from a girl I find a loser or a creep however, even if she was the last human being on earth. Am I still this unnuanced in my thinking? Enlighten me | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 0 | I messed up REALLY bad, yet she still contacts me?Maybe. In any case it doesn’t make sense to me, and I’d like to understand why she is doing this. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?Great advice, thank you. I’m so angry and disappointed with myself, since i’ve read your article many times, meditated so much, and one drunk moment made me completely lose my composure. Worse yet, some of her close friends are future colleagues of mine (part of the education program). I know, don’t shit where you eat, but that’s too late now. I don’t have a clue, I’ve fucked up so bad. My SMV and overall reputation are ruined :) | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?Was I really the girl in this situation? Makes me sick to the gut. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Constant negging from alphaLiterally just now, he walked inside the office (where I was working on my own) with one of the girls. First thing he says: "God Awayverysoon2, what are you doing NOW again?? having your laptop open?? It's always the same with you!" (meant as a "joke". The girl starts laughing/is impressed. I turn to the girl and say "oh gee, it's such fun working with this guy. He's a bit narcissist, you see". Girl smiled. The alpha said some other things to me (don't remember). I ignored, he walked out, girl f… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis venttry setting up plans one more time. yes it sounds like you have a bad case of scarcity mentality. horrible. Exams and school keep me locked into the same social circles. I need to get out. Thanks for your response. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis ventThere's no point really. I'm frustrated that I can't get over details like this. I was hoping telling this to other people who might have experienced similar stuff would help. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Take her out to a play?get sucked into her orbit Isn't that my responsibility? Shouldn't happen if I cut her from my life altogether, right? I took a big blow last year, and successfully ignored her attempts at getting back in touch. take a massive hit to your frame that will take a long time to recover from Do you mean my internal frame, self esteem, self confidence etc? Or my SMV? Or my frame in front of her? In any case, I know the lines and I can hold my frame in front of her enough: ("LJBF" -"I'm glad you think o… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Take her out to a play?Awesome, thanks! This all assumes you've re-gained control of your emotions. Probably not. I'd rather fail trying than regretting in retrospect. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Take her out to a play?Right. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a group of women?then what? I can't imagine game is the same as it is one on one | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | "Hm, I don't know if I can trust you"best one yet | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Hot and cold? Push/Pull concept?Thank you, solid advice. Here's what is happening: girl is attracted to you. Girl flirts with you as a last ditch attempt to get your interest. You don't act on this. HER EGO IS HURT. She detaches. I can't imagine they detach immediately. How long would you say it takes, in general, for a girl to detach if you wait to long to act on her interest? occasional spikes of emotion. Haven't seen these in the sidebar? How would you describe a spike of emotion? How do I create these? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Hot and cold? Push/Pull concept?Again, fair enough, though I'd like to know what do to since it happened to me a couple of times before and I'd like to know what to do the next time it happens. I don't want to appear weak. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Hot and cold? Push/Pull concept?Fair enough. What's the proper reaction to this: approach a girl you want to set up a date with, and out of nowhere a girlfriend of hers joins the conversation, and they start to talk about bullshit girl nonsense? Walk away? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?what would you have done in this situation? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Women are extremely predictableInteresting. I'm wondering though: She abhors taking responsibility for anything and will plan her life to avoid it while pretending that she's burdened with excessive responsibility and social pressure. how would you explain the increasing amount of women in certain high-responsibility jobs? Medicine or law jump to mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | "What's your greatest fear?" shittestbest one yet | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 06:27 AM |
| 1 | "What's your greatest fear?" shittestI can't see how this wouldn't backfire | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | "What's your greatest fear?" shittestbest one yet | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | "What's your weakness?" shittestVERY nice | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 06:17 AM |
| 2 | "What's your weakness?" shittestvery nice | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 06:17 AM |
| 1 | "What's your weakness?" shittestnice | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 06:17 AM |
| 3 | What goes on in the female mind during no contact?how do you remember your nickname? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 09:48 AM |
| 1 | What should my next move be?Thanks! Last question: When is an appropiate time to accept the date if she responds positively? I'm thinking Monday evening as the deadline. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | What should my next move be?How long should I wait before sending her this? Right now? Tomorrow? Monday? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | "That girl is so beautiful, don't you think?"Makes sense, thanks | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | "That girl is so beautiful, don't you think?"Of course. My question is what women try to figure out when they ask this question. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 11:27 PM |
| -2 | Skinny guy here: how much can I realistically gain?Ouch I just died of a grade IV artheriosclerosis, diabetes ulcers and a heart attack, thx. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Skinny guy here: how much can I realistically gain?thx | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Skinny guy here: how much can I realistically gain?thx | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICESo I fucked up with no kino? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICEThanks for your comment. and expect to fuck her via texting. Not really. Finding a correct way to set up a date and then try to fuck her, yes. You do push/pull in person, Really? This isn't sidebar material is it? Isn't the whole "do not text right a way"-thing part of the push/pull dynamic? The point here is that you don't have other options dude, I'm not spinning plates, but I am gaming as much as I can. Zero emotional investment, I'm obv up for a fuck however. From this particular situation I… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICEThanks for your comment. I completely agree, though from experience not "keeping a conversational door open" so to speak, completely breaking off the conversation almost always reduces the odds to zero, not only of fucking her, but also from expanding your social circles etc. Aside from this, isn't it disrespectful not to answer if she took the time to text a wellwritten text with booktips? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICENo, I want to maximise my odds of fucking. If they are zero so be it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICEI don't get it, what's the push/pull dynamics here? How will this help me fuck her? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Text? She has a boyfriend? MULTIPLE CHOICEI don't get it, what's the push/pull dynamics here? How will this help me fuck her? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?iCarlo Escalation Ladder exactly what I needed. This should be sidebar material. thanks! | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?Appreciate the advice. English isn't my first language. I thought a little picture would fill in where my explaining lacked. To be clear, I do not normally use MS paint to visualise my dating life. Most of the times I use Photoshop. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?Pictures say more than words sometimes, to make things clear. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?Isn't that a bit too desperate? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | She said she's good at BJ's. How do I proceed?Are you saying I should try to plate her? Isn't there a way to get the BJ and then never see her again? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?Random girl. I later found out she was friends with my friend. Does it matter? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?Read more from Mystery on kissing. Where? Thanks for the tips. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | She said she's good at BJ's. How do I proceed?Seems like the thing you'd say to a girl who's already sucked your dick once or twice, no? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | She said she's good at BJ's. How do I proceed?I'd say a bj with no strings attached from anyone 4/10 and up > fap. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?On the other hand, his game seems good and he disappeared right after so can't really fault him. My kino is bad, clumsy, stiff. Also shouldn't I have seen that she wasn't in the mood for kissing? I don't know when they are ready to kiss. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?How could I have found out? I thought YOU asking about or even mentioning the word 'boyfriend' is a big no-no according to TRP. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?You seem to have focused on getting somewhere where you two were truelly alone, with noone else around. Yes. "Change venue before kissing" is what I got from the sidebar. Is this wrong? This is just going to make her uncomfortable while you stall time to grow a pair. What about ASD when her friends are there? especially since they obviously knew she had a bf. Besides all this, I think my escalation game seriously needs work. I do not know the steps between a little kino and kissing. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 12:57 PM |
| 9 | She said she's good at BJ's. How do I proceed?right. This makes sense, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?So I should've tried kissing her where? On the dancefloor when we got drinks? I've never done this while dancing, I have no idea how to do this (not really explained in the side bar) | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact with superiors?but that's theur problem, not yours. if they fire you for not respecting them it is your problem | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysSo she keeps in touch, FROM ABROAD.... and you think... let me try to get this right.... you think.... she wants your dick right now, and is being subtle about it? I'm literally not capable to read this situation in a RP way. Please RP-deconstruct my bp thoughts. "A girl is abroad. I asked her out, she rejected me. Now she's apparently thinking of me, and she's taken the time to write a pretty long friendly message, in which she asks about me. She wants to get to know me more: if I play my cards… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysI re-read your article, I'm still stuck with these questions, and I do not want to make the same stupid mistakes again. (obviously I shouldn't have accepted her number when she was reluctant to give it in the first place). First, I never denied it's oneitis!! Does having oneitis automatically mean it's over with a girl though? In this case she contacted me two times after she rejected the second date. I cut conversations short after 3 sentences both times. ie I did not act 'needy' at all after t… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysI've had, in total, maybe 10 interactions (social media incl) with this girl, more than half of which she initiated, over the span of 8 months. Is this neck-deep friendzone? I agree that this is pretty bad oneitis however. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysNah, it's her who's been trying to make me talk to her on several occasions. I haven't taken the bait so far ever since I nexted her back in summer. Thanks for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysGreat advice. The facts are there, which I realised back during summer. That's why I nexted her. The fact that it's her consistently baiting me into starting a conversation (albeit on social media) confuse(d)(s) me. Read my article entitled "There's this one girl...." I have, before I posted here. "you can't take her seriously as a sexual option until you've had actual sex with her on two separate occasions. Until then - she's an option and nothing more. Don't treat her as the "one and only". (.… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysThe question is why shes not deleted and blocked everywhere I deleted her number. Deleting her from facebook would make me seem too butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysif you were really focusing on other stuff, you wouldn't be so invested in a random merry Christmas message from some chick you barely know. Well, I talk to girls IRL. They never send me Facebook messages. This is new for me, and not very well explained in the sidebar. interacting with her won't accomplish anything except making your oneitis worse. Right. So your suggestion is not responding at all? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 12:10 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this Facebook message: I need your help guysThere's this one girl... I have been lifting, talking to other women, working on myself ever since I've swallowed TRP a couple of months. I'm treating her as an option, nothing more. This does not mean however that there aren't good or bad ways to handle this specific option. I'd like asktrp's help for a good way to handle this. The backstory was for context. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What age range of men see 24 as a young/innocent age on a girl?After having swallowed TRP, only in very rare cases a woman seems mature in my eyes, regardless of age. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Tips for going out alone?Same in my country. Gaming in bars on your own is pretty much impossible. I'm not an expert, but gaming on your own, for me, works best in public spaces (libraries, train stations, swimming pools etc). | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach: the more uninterested they act, the more aggressive your negs?Thanks for your reply! So the best you can do it approach, throw your pitch then read the clues for IOIs or IODs, then calibrate your interaction or when someone is as dismissal as the 2nd girl just eject and move along because you are wasting your time. Same point I made with the other guy: some sidebar material encourages you to NOT GIVE UP IMMEDIATELY. i.e. "first she has a resting bitch face, then she laughs, then I fuck her". VS "don't waste your time, never mind if she gives you IOD, never… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach: the more uninterested they act, the more aggressive your negs?Thanks for clearing this up. Simply investing more than her, you talk more than her or seeking approval etc, hence it looks needy. This is easier said than done, especially when some side-bar material encourages "working your way through the resting bitch face" by ignoring the fact she's ignoring you... This is my biggest issue. (Another paradox here is that at the same time TRP requires you 1) to not be a total autist and take everything literally (aka: you need to have some basic people skills… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach: the more uninterested they act, the more aggressive your negs?Tease/negs: what's the difference? I might be conflating. How can I be over invested in someone after 5 mins of talking? Hey, same method, same frame of mind (aka same level of assholeness), same HB, got the number from one and rejected by the other. I know some will say it's a numbers game, but I had a gut feeling I was being too gentle for girl 2 and that if I had been a little bit MORE of an asshole, I wouldn't have been rejected so quickly. So this made see/think a connection between the men… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | You're kissing her at a party but she doesn't want to go back to your place/her place. What's your next move? MULTIPLE CHOICEok this makes sense, thx. Do you contact her a couple of days later for a date? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | You're kissing her at a party but she doesn't want to go back to your place/her place. What's your next move? MULTIPLE CHOICEEven option a) ? What about value/scarcity? Shouldn't you see this as a sign that she doesn't want to bang? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do women within the same group of friends have the same HB score?social proof Do you mean this is some kind of power move? "Together we're stronger than alone?" . That doesn't explain why the numbers are similar | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do women within the same group of friends have the same HB score?Interesting. Post edit: can you take advantage of this? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Success stories?right | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Ask number if she mentions a boyfriend?I'll keep that in mind. Thank you for the comment. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEThat's pretty funny, thanks! Always a pleasure getting advice from you. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Ask number if she mentions a boyfriend?Damn I really regret this now :( | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEKeep it cool, you don't have to impress her with every sentence. This is interesting. There's a somewhat fine line between passing the "he's not boring"-shit test and the "he's trying too hard to impress me"-shit test. Especially if you're not very good looking (he's not good looking, but at least he's funny). What are your thoughts on this? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEBecause maybe she saw you game and win other girls, showing your high SMV, and her wanting to have some of your alpha cake? In any case, is the game dead if she doesn't remember your name, and awkwardly says "hey" ? What do you do if you don't remember HER name? Do you ask for it? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEWould you consider it a lost game if she doesn't even subtly tries to remember/make you say your name? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEYeah it is. Value wars, and she'd win. Thanks for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEOk, this makes sense. Good advice, thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis who rejected you talks to you at a party?Solid advice, thx. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis who rejected you talks to you at a party?Is this a hypothetical scenario you just dreamed up? Lmao. Yes. In fact I know I might bump into her in a couple of weeks. I can't get rid of my oneitis anxiety, it's incredibly annoying. At the first sight of her playing games or trying to orbit you politely go back to B and don’t engage her again unless she’s literally dragging you into the bathroom to suck your dick. What I needed to hear. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Sharing apartment with 2/10 girl for internship. Don't want to fuck but have nice atmosphereGreat advice, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Sharing apartment with 2/10 girl for internship. Don't want to fuck but have nice atmosphereShould I occasionally grab her by the pussy, or would that send the wrong message? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Sharing apartment with 2/10 girl for internship. Don't want to fuck but have nice atmosphereGood advice, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Rekindling a plate via fb conversation: what do I do next?Sure then she's just a girl I fucked once. I wasn't able to do it more because we literally weren't able to see each other for months, eventually changed schools and lost contact? Is there some TRP rule that if you stop fucking someone after 1 session, no matter the context, it's dead? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | She invited me for a party? POWER DYNAMICSThanks, I guess this is probably the best advice, yes. I don't know any girl crazy enough to come along though. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 01:08 PM |
| 1 | She invited me for a party? POWER DYNAMICSI don't know. Getting rejected by oneitis triggered some serious fascination with power for some reason. I think this is exactly what the whole TRP movement is about. Fucking oneitis, man. Get over it. that's what I'm trying to do, but in this unstable mindset I don't want to do stupid things I'll regret later. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 11:46 AM |
| 1 | She invited me for a party? POWER DYNAMICSI rationally accept I'll never fuck her. Of course I'm open to game other women. Should I go, or is it not even worth trying because of my Blue pill shit game and chump status it gave me? I mean going by myself to such a dense group of friends sounds scary tbh | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | She invited me for a party? POWER DYNAMICSI rationally accept I'll never fuck her. Of course I'm open to game other women. Should I go, or is it not even worth trying because of my Blue pill shit game and chump status it gave me? I mean going by myself to such a dense group of friends sounds scary tbh | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Friend with higher SMVI have been. 5 months now. From extreme skinny to very skinny. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls who rejected you?Actually, more importantly,, what if (in the best, most unlikely scenario), the original girl becomes jealous? What do I do? I'd need to find a way to bolster the jealousy (a technique chicks use daily, right). | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls who rejected you?Will do, I'm actually looking forward to this. Let's find out if your advice is legit :) Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with girls who rejected you?1) I waited too long to make a move. (probably the worst mistake, since I think she was initially into me) 2) I made the move in a very slow BP way (talking to her on FB (even though SHE initiated the conversation) (1 message a month fb conversation,, yikes) 3) giving microstares before talking to her, 4) re-initiated contact with her even though she invited me to go eat with friends, and then "forgot" to give me the time and place "oops I'm sorry ^ __ ^ " 5) Called her, even though when I asked… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls who rejected you?Thanks for the advice. I do understand very well that nothing will happen between us, though there's anger and sadness that I cannot seem to control. Rationally it's not a big deal, unconsciously it's mayhem. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls who rejected you?Solid advice! I'm thinking of hitting on one of her friends, should I do it? Or is my SMV down the drain because of the chump-image the rejection gave me, making hitting on her friends a foolish move? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected: Impact on status?It does. The implication that she doesn't like me has a considerable effect on how her friends will see me. My SMV is going down down down | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected: Impact on status?I don't. But negative status will give me way less chance of even getting respect from other people. It's only 'Cool' insofar people won't see me as a creep. However my SMV just plummeted bigtime. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected: Impact on status?Awkward things: BP mindset, micro stares before talking to her, taking months to realise she likes me, only then asked her for her number (in retrospect she already thought I was a chump by then). On the date: she asked creativity shit-tests: "oh, like, what is it like in your head?" I responded "it's like a mirror, with a vacuum behind it". (I read too much. I think that was funny). --> Her thoughts: "hmm, I definitely prefer that funny story the other guy told him about what's in his head" And… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected: Impact on status?This is my fear. A BP mindset, some talks, fb chats and a date and I'm known as that chump. She's got TONS of girl friends. Girls (mostly) determine SMV. I'm doomed. Btw looking for another social network: yea that can work to some extent, but this is class. This will have impact on my professional life (I'm graduating in a couple of months). | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Text question: multiple choiceDidn't work out :) (she called me 4 days after I sent the message, on the day I wanted to meet, saying "I know it's not polite to call this late but I'm bad at communication, as you know ;) (LMAO). Anyway I'm calling you to say I can not go :) " ). Thanks for the text, this will definitely help, though I'm critical for the obvious reasons. What would help me now is a text that tells me to how to get over oneitis rejection and the anger that ensues from it. Rationally I understand very very well.… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Interest Level + rejection: ideas?He's also all about asking the girls home phone number, which is totally relevant these days. Nonetheless, some of his key ideas still stand imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Interest Level + rejection: ideas?Off topic, but I'd say that depends on the community/country/culture you live in. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Interest Level + rejection: ideas?You didn't beg her to say, though you mention she had zero interest level. Does that imply that somehow her interest level would have been lower if you had begged? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Interest Level + rejection: ideas?Self development means not identifying with your ego. The revenge-sex you talk about is trying to fix the broken ego. As such it's unhealthy. Can you elaborate? The Rational Male illustrates alphaness with the attitude young boys innately have. Everything revolves around them in a way. If you take something away, he'll start throwing a fit. Isn't this the same dynamics as with the revenge-sex? How would an ego-less person approach this? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Interest Level + rejection: Ideas?Maybe none? I realise this post might be too general for this subreddit. I've posted it on the main subreddit. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Text question: multiple choiceI forgot how intricate these teenage games were.. I'm 24, in the process of metabolizing trp, which is apparently turning my teenage guts into a messy shapeless pulp before, I hope, turning this biological machine into a functional sex machine. Hence my childish way of approaching this shit. Me trying to still get with this girl are definitely oneitis/bp remnants. It's too late to turn back, but I feel the need to still somehow squeeze out the last turd which was initially conceived in BP intest… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Text question: multiple choiceShe hasn't replied yet (5 hours after I sent the message. I should mention I took 12 hours to reply to hers). I'm considering, if she says yes, to turn my own invitation down saying I've made other plans already. To demonstrate high value or something. Something like: "Oh too bad, I've already made plans. We'll talk later." Worth trying? | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Text question: multiple choicesent | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Text question: multiple choicesent | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 11:35 AM |
| 1 | First date after swallowing TRP: ReviewIf you care: I called her with the intention for a date on friday. She didn't pick up the phone | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | First date after swallowing TRP: ReviewSure, but wait a week, and if it happens make sure you make a move quickly. Something that's not very clear in the sidebar: should I wait a week before calling her, or can I call her this Monday to set a date on Saturday for example? Thanks for the link and for the advice on the kiss. Should be clearer in the sidebar imho. If you care, some backstory that might complicate stuff for the second date: I'm out of town for the next couple of months. I've told her this. As a pure coincidence, I will f… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Date logisticsshe's busy the day of the concert, I asked her out for drinks instead | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Date logisticsfixed the conversation. So the date is in 11 days. It seems improbable that the only day she's available is the last day I'm in town. Worse yet, she already said she won't be able to stay very long that evening. If she's really interested, wouldn't she make (more) time to meet? It's like she's throwing me a bone, not to hurt my feelings whilst trying to turn me into an orbiter. Oneitis all over the place. anyways thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 10:07 AM |
| – | She doesn't use her cellphone often? MULTIPLE CHOICEYeah I'm probably going with D. What do I say/do when I see her again in class for example? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:50 AM |
| 1 | She doesn't use her cellphone often? MULTIPLE CHOICEYeah that's what I thought. I was wondering if, considering this cellphone bs, I should still even try to contact her, or just move one? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 10:26 AM |
| – | She doesn't use her cellphone often? MULTIPLE CHOICEWould you bother trying the communication after she 'forgot' to message you first, and later says she "doesn't check her cellphone often" when you ask her for her number? Is there any dignity left if you do and she uses another excuse? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:50 AM |
| – | Date logisticsI called her: -- "does monday work for you?" "next monday? yes that's good! Oh wait oops, nooo I can't go then sorry! Other day?" -- "Tuesday?" "Tuesday? noo I'm not available, I'm very difficult for appointments I'm so sorry... Does friday work for you? I'll have to go somewhere in the evening late but before that I don't have to go anywhere. Seeya then!" (I'm leaving saturday)" -- "ok" She hesitated before giving me the phone number saying "I never check my phone". When I asked for facebook sh… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Date logisticsSolid advice, thanks. Definitely smells like oneitis, I've noticed my daily thoughts drifting way too much towards her. This date arrangement is me trying to get over the situation. A part of me wants her to flake and not come. btw, it's a jazz performance, so no dancing but talking at small tables, I guess the same applies though. also, I've read DocLove, he tells guys NOT to kino for the first 60 days or so. Times have changed? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Date logisticsI'm pretty sure she's not crazy, I know her from class, but good point. Also another good point. I guess none. Is this the escalation to sex somewhere in the side bar? I thought Kino was a must but not to the point of actually trying to fuck her. I thought too much kino on the first date leads to her thinking you can't behave and have no self-control. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Date logisticsOf course I'm trying to fuck her, just not on the first date (isn't first date banging a no-no in LTR terms?). I was mainly referring to the fact that I know she'll leave in the evening and not sleep here (me staying, her leaving = awkward?). What do you screen them for before bringing them around your social circle? And do you think bringing her will harm my relation with the other plates (1 or 2 plates)? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Date logisticsthanks, but your advice doesn't really answer my question. I was wondering if the activity, a concert, is a good idea for a first date since it's basically at my place (i won't need a car) and since there'll be other plates present. | /r/askTRP |
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