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awschucks/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 05:50 PM
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I really am not sure because he considers nagging what I would have considered conversation. Talking about bills, things to be done around the house (idly talking about mine and mentioning things he could help with), the children...etc. Since becoming aware, I'm noticing I am not speaking quite as much because it would have come out as a directive to him. And, it really spans everything. Now that I am noticing and catching myself, I really have an opinion on everything he does. So, I could have …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 07:49 PM
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Your post has me wondering. I do not know that I have ever seen feminine charm. At least, not from the mother figures/wives in my life. Everything was framed in demands, ultimatums, and temper tantrums. Would have enjoyed having some good old feminine charm passed along ;) For now, I'll just keep reading and applying what I've learned.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 09:52 AM
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It seems silly now why I didn't grasp this before. How was he to know how many times I held my tongue or hadn't given my opinion when it really wasn't warranted? I acted like he should have at least given me credit and be thankful for all those times I could have but didn't say a word...even if I let one slip every now and then. Man, this shows me how critical I am and how negative I must really be if I considered only nagging a little a gift to him. Jeez.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 09:42 AM
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Should have clarified I meant things that need to be fixed. I'll whip out the tools if it's something I have the know how ( or strength ) to handle but sometimes that irks him a bit. Thinking about it, he might view it as a slight towards him. I'd probably feel the same way if I saw him doing the dishes ;)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 09:09 AM
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There has already been a big difference around the house since I've moved back and "gotten out of his way". It has only been maybe two days of trying to commit fully to this RP lifestyle and my husband already seems happier! I am just amazed. He is playing with the children! I'm not hovering over him to correct his parenting or yelling parenting advice from another room. I can hear the voice in my head saying those things that I would normally just quack out loud but now there is a smaller, pati…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 08:54 AM
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How'd you know I was an HP fan? Wonderfully relevant. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 08:47 AM
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Well, the harshness is why I posted here instead of r/relationships. Anytime I have tried to reach out for advice on what I'm doing wrong in my relationships, it has been the same response: He's just an asshole and I should leave because I deserve better. Didn't matter how I framed it or the circumstances, others were ready to tell me how it was ALL his fault. It drove me crazy because I wanted constructive criticism for my behavior, not someone to blame. I can't change him so saying it was all …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 09:22 PM
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Thank you! You are spot on. I've been reading everything I can and it still needs to be internalized. I'll continue to keep reading. These are some terrible behaviors I have and I need to change them immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 07:59 PM
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I think this is what has happened. He has accepted that I will just never be satisfied and thinks nothing will ever change. He has given up and just exists to go to work and come home. Feeling unappreciated. How can I fix this? Is doing the housework, leaving him alone to be himself, all things outlined in the sidebar, etc.. enough to convince him I respect him as a Man and his own person? Or, is this just me being controlling again, thinking that if I change myself our relationship would improv…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 07:43 PM
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Thank you so much. Even in typing that " he has potential", it felt f*cked up. As if I view him as an object. I didn't edit it out because it was a genuine thought and if that is what needs to change, I am thankful someone pointed it out. I've been selfish, thinking that this relationship should revolve around my happiness. I tell him often how handsome I think he is, point out when he is clever, or puts a great deal of effort into personal projects. He seems to think I am not sincere and it's a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 07:34 PM
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I will add that to the list! Thank you! This forum is great and the RP community has given me a much needed wake up call. I spent so much time seeing myself as a victim but I grew very tired of others reaffirming the idea. It just didn't make sense. It can not be the world's fault ( or my husband's ) as to why I am the way I am and why I am not satisfied with my life. He supports this family with time he will never get back. Often in exchange for material possessions. It's just crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:57 PM
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I will and good luck to you. I'd enjoy hearing your experience as well!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:56 PM
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Please explain. I'm very interested.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/15 06:52 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I thought about getting him a kindle and preloading it with the suggested books. However, he's just not a reader at all. I've thought about reading it myself and subtly hinting to certain things through out the day and seeing how that goes. It just sounds so god damn manipulative though. From what had been suggested by other RP women, it sounds similar to what a man does; focus on improving your SMV, stop the insecurity/validation shit tests, and he will begin improving …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 05:05 PM
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Here I am, trying to figure out a way to talk to my husband about it. If I try to tell him to check out RP, I'm afraid he will see it as me trying to control his behavior and essentially blaming him for the state of our relationship. I read on RPW that if you start being submissive, non argumentative, taking care of all house needs, etc... he will fall into the role naturally. Does this sound correct?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 03:49 PM
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This is projecting on their part. Projecting means story time. Inquire and let them prattle their woes away. Listen politely if you want to, give your condolences to their failed marriage, and move on. WGAF.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 04:47 PM
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I'm surprised at how all over the replies to this are. I do agree that you need to start reciprocating the humor if it is, indeed, all in good fun. Redirect a sting and see what happens. This will tell you if they are using humor as a camaraderie or as a means to alpha themselves up at your expense.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:01 PM
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Caring what people think wanes with age. Being aware of the influence it can have over your decisions help. You are young. It is normal. It takes time to perfect and continual practice.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:53 PM
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Biology wants her to have children. If you want this too and she's your match, then do it. If not, stop wasting her time and let her find a proper mate. Her biological clock is ticking.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:30 PM
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Don't say a thing. No reason for you to. Not a big deal and does not concern you at all. Act like it.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:21 PM
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When the texting becomes more than just about staying in healthy contact, that's the issue. When it becomes more about you needing her continual reassurance that she is still "into you"... that is what I would call Beta. The constant "I miss you" to elicit a response, etc. However, the every once in a while text/response that's meant to maintain a relationship and not pump up insecurities is fine, imo.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:12 PM
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Reassure her with more sex.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:56 PM
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