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Honesty and being straightforward. I want to foster mutually beneficial relationships not traditional ones. I let the girls know I'm single and non committal until I plan on not being not so. If they want more I tell them im solo poly. The rest is up to them, they usually spin themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 03:15 PM
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Nah, facts.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/24 03:09 PM
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never said it was unfair, just that the world experience is different for diff generations and that should be considered. your original message reads a bit differently when you add in those details now...
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:48 PM
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young people don't get this tho. Hate seeing older people flex when the world is so much different now.... good for you tho.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:08 PM
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damn i thought my 210 was enough....
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 02:06 PM
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Good refreshing post.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 01:21 AM
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I met my malignant, call her my head monster/throat demon. Very big facts.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/24 12:58 AM
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i dont have kids. But i would have cut all ties with the woman. one of us is getting full custody idc who.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 06:32 AM
4

Didnt read yet, but that title is wild
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 06:28 AM
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just bring it up and talk about how you BOTH want things to look in the future. Dont be too descript because you dont know. Give a short timeline. and you can revisit things. A good relationship will benefit you in the areas you need not distract you or take you away. A good LTR would be supportive and find a way to fit in cohesively and work with your plan.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 04:10 PM
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Didnt read but this is all i got for you champ It sounds like you're facing a complex situation with multiple challenges, including financial pressure, academic struggles, and concerns about future employment. Here are some suggestions to help you navigate these issues: Exploring Alternative Income Sources: Given the high cost of living in California, consider looking for part-time or freelance work that you can do alongside your current job and studies. This can include online freelancing in ar…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 03:37 PM
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Hello 😌 Give them a compliment on one of their pics. "You look good af in that green dress." respond and build rapport schedule meetup asap
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 12:48 AM
178

Its up to you tbh, but the grass is greenest where you water it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 07:45 AM
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Late State Capitalism... We stick to the sidebar. Old TRP exists in the archives and the sidebar. Truth is universal.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 08:17 PM
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bruh, going out bad... No more escorts. Stop focusing on women, no one cares about how your perceived. Find things you care about that aren't women. being perceived as a fuck boy was never a compliment. It pretty much shows that you come off as an asshole. Be a high value man (fuck peoples perceptions it doesnt matter when youre high value). long story short: you need self work, and read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 04:59 PM
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This sounds sad af. Get another girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:14 AM
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fuck that nuerodivergence isn't a weakness. stop trying to live in their world and create your own. thats what trp is about. live within your frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 02:42 AM
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its not a real bible verse you know that right?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 02:18 AM
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Lol do you have a pul fiction quote on here #36
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 05:37 AM
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Idk if this resonates with me. The femme energy in my life all take care of me. I think it's less about wanting something from the woman, but coming from a place of abundance. I foster high-quality relationships with high-quality people. I can say no, and only put my energy into relationships that are able to give back to me mutually. This starts with your self-work and being as high value as you can. Also, you create your environment. So if you're pursuing people who value empathy, then a high-…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 07:26 PM
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https://outofthefog.website/
/r/TheRedPill17/02/22 01:54 PM
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u watched that? I couldn't get through less than a minute of their rambling
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 02:18 AM
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CRINGE. She loves to speak over him, and he allows it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 09:11 PM
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My opinion is focus on what matters and in this case its yourself. I personally believe that things could be improved in many areas, but I'd rather place my energy in a way that's constructive. I guess you just want to vent your emotions. Soo *hug* I feel for you brother. When you're done your tantrum, take a breath, release, accept it and move forward. teach younger women to take responsibility for their actions, and hold women accountable in your own life etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 06:04 AM
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I'll just laugh and record and go about my day.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 06:00 AM
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Again you wouldnt catch me in that position. But you guys go be victims.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 04:57 AM
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Women in general. Those are women that people have situations in. A woman could never even accuse me of rape to the point that it could even remotely effect my life, because I make sure to not put myself in those positions, and vet the women I spend time with. This is what I mean taking control over your own frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 03:29 AM
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Tell her if you wanted sex you could go to any girl, but thats not why you're there.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 03:21 AM
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Relax lol. Can you give some examples. This reads a tad bit misogynist. Women can't ruin your life bro, men are the ones in power. This subreddit is quarantined because the general public cannot digest objective information without emotions. Lets dial this back and center the focus on you, and whats not working for you, and take control of that.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 03:20 AM
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Why not? That's what you want right? Aloha men aren't afraid to ask for the what they want.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:52 AM
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And that's if and only if you get the verbal/non verbal cues they are comfortable and attracted to you. They're some girls that I did nothing with not even a hug. I'm not attracted to girls not attracted to me no matter how beautiful they are. Can't beg for some someone's affection. Those people I just delete their number and move to the ones that the attraction is mutual. I don't take it personal I always err to it's something going on with them and it's not me.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:50 AM
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I add some edits. But yes. If they are really in your frame they will be about it. I act a fool with girls on first dates when they get comfortable. I basically act like I can't get enough of them. Sometimes I verbally ask for consent to touch them but once you have the okay you can do whatever. Your job is to make them feel safe after they already know they are attracted to you. They are ready forever after that.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:47 AM
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No that's weird saying it like that. Tell her you really want to kiss her and get verbal/nonverbal permission to initiate. You gotta learn finness. Like butter her up. I've been trying to hold myself back but you look so good and I just really want your lips. Or you got something on your lips can I get it for you. Don't ask her if she wants to kiss. Lean in first and then pause Can I kiss you is even better. It shows that you know how to ask for consent and can be a gentleman.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:41 AM
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I don't think body count matters as much as much as other factors. I really don't use that as a measure to judge someone to the point it largely doesn't matter. As always context is key. No one would want to be in a relationship with a typical "hoe" because they clearly don't want to be in a relationship they want to sleep around. People can change surprisingly or not. That's why context matters.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:35 AM
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Pro tip: don't ltr her. Downgrade her for everyone's sake. She's not ready for anything serious. Like you messed up upgrading her if she had these behaviors. Don't ltr with red flags facepalm
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:26 AM
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Sounds like she's got some sex related trauma. The more you deal with her the more involved with her trauma you'll get.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:23 AM
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It depends on who it is. But I wouldn't trust anyone but myself to control that situation.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:21 AM
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Can never be beta if you're a strong confident individual that stays in frame. Keep doing a good job and meet her friends make her friends jealous.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:20 AM
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Why not tell her the truth. when I don't miss someone I Need space to miss you. I don't miss you right now because you're right here. If I miss you I'll come see you and vice versa. And I can't predict the future. So a good answer is "who knows"
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:19 AM
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Bro what Jerry mouse wtf face ummm.... The only thing you failed to do was block her, not post this and move on with your life and not think about women that troll you lol
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:16 AM
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What's more important is the personal relationship you're in. Just because marriage in the picture doesn't mean you're a beta provider. It depends on you and your potential partner. Also it shouldn't be about risk you don't go into marriage expecting it to fail. It's something you do with someone you trust and have a working relationship partnership with.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:12 AM
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Bullshit. You're no better than anyone else. This is "nice guy" mentality. We're human here and alot of us are not assholes and are caring. Just because you lack the ability to plate multiple women and still care about them and treat them like humans and provide for them then that's on you. Your personality is in conflict with red pill because youre lacking. Read the sidebar and stop misinterpreting human behavior.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:08 AM
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Sex is about emotion not thinking. If you're feeling sexual then you'll act sexual. Now the Kiss thing learn women's body language. She'll be touching you, looking at your lips. If you lick them and she looks that's a good sign. If she's lingering with you as the date ends and you're in doubt just ask. And kiss her before you leave and not just as a goodbye.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:05 AM
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It doesn't matter because I love myself.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:00 AM
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Pretty spot on. I'm more of a get food at a bar type setting tho.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:59 AM
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This will be practice. Have 1 on 1 conversations with each person.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:41 PM
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read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:39 PM
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Tired. Going to answer this tomorrow. But same.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:45 AM
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I message "Hey 🥰" to literally everyone. If they respond back they are interested in some way or bored. You'll find out quickly enough. Your SMV isn't that high to talk like that. Keep lifting and take better pics
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:59 PM
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Agree. Post this in TRP
/r/askTRP13/09/20 02:32 PM
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Some like it soft 🥺
/r/askTRP10/09/20 02:13 PM
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This honestly is a great idea. Men need to get better at letting women be, but also treating them accordingly.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:57 PM
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Hmm that not really be your girl smh. You talk about fairness , but it's equity not equality. Men and women are equitable not equal. If she even feels comfortable with saying that to you, you're beta social conditioning might be working on you. I can go into this in more detail later. If you care. There's posts about this as well.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:55 PM
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That could be a shit test. I would never do it. Girls for you only, she doesn't need more guys. Don't support that. Let other men take her out, but no sex.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:21 AM
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The grass is always greenest where you water it. You're not missing out, they are missing out on a good relationship. Sex is overrated. Someone you can rely on is not. She'll probably get comfortable enough to share you exclusively one day, or set up threesomes for you if tyou'rehat good anf you keep her in your frame. she should understand your dillemmas and sacrifices and want to please you.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:19 AM
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I don't say anything at all. Just tell the girls I'm looking for friends first before I turn anything serious
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:59 PM
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Yeah, you're in her frame, this making you the beta. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. You're her beta provider.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:55 PM
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Yeah that's a better initial observation. As per our conversation you were mostly right
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:54 PM
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All the time. I have stern talks with them, and we talk about resolve. But tbh if they are misbehaving its probably my fault, I'm the leader they just follow my lead. If they misbehave then I gave them space too. I always work to make sure I'm being the best leader. They know what fuck ups do. Most of the time if its really a LTR then she shouldn't be fucking up. Mistakes happen tho, and we don't let them repeat that's it. Punishing them during sex reinforces bratty behavior if you have a brat b…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:52 AM
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um didnt read why fiance or pursue deeper with someone with red flags, fix the red flags then talk, Downgrade.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:47 AM
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Its called human behavior and socalization. There's a literal book on this called the Rational Male, check it out.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:46 AM
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atta boy. Keep your head up, and don't sell yourself short. You got this. Do me a favor and read Rollo's Iron rules. Stay on top, and never enter anyone else's frame. You can even use her as leverage to attract other attractive women, the other girls don't know her situation. Again don't sell yourself short. https://medium.com/@redpillnorman/the-iron-rules-of-tomassi-3e01b8c31d64
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:42 AM
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"Shut the hell up" have a serious talk about it, he'll stop.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:39 AM
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You mean PLATE? You messed up for LTRing someone in 4 months. Actually you're her plate, lol. Just keep playing your role. You have no leverage, and she was playing you from the beginning. Your best bet is to play stupid, sneak a few more fucks, and look to plate women, and don't get into a LTR for a long time. you sound like a chump, a regular AFC.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:37 AM
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ok, It's coming off that you're intimidated because she's attractive. You keep saying you won't plate her, but do you even believe you CAN? It's just a plate, if she doesn't have anything to offer you at all then I can understand, but being attractive and a kid aren't the reason. Most good plates, don't have time for games or want to be FWB if you're high value enough, those are just to weed out the beta's (it honestly sounds like you're going to weed yourself out so it's working.) Alpha fucks, …
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:34 AM
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that's manipulation. Honestly, if anyone woman had the gall to say something that stupid and disrespectful to me they know I wouldn't even be there to hear any more bullshit come out of their mouth. SHes looking for validation like you said, playing the victim card. Instead, ignore it, and give her the call of taking responsibility for her actions or you leave. Long story short you leave. If not This ends in her cucking you btw.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:14 AM
2

idk what game is, but get money fuck b*tches.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:04 AM
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Not really sure what you're getting at by posting this, other than a humblebrag. Single mothers make great plates, they are low maintenance. As for actively pursuing a chance to raise someone else's child? Umm I'm glad you're not that in that space anymore lol
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:03 AM
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This. Can't say anything more that. You're still blue pilled thinking that women can love you a certain way. Take advantage of the reality, let go of the fantasy that you have a virgin princess waiting for you with true LOYALTY lol. You'll be an Adult man soon, then hypergamy will benefit you. Wait your turn, keep your eyes tuned and learn their behavior, and work on yourself constantly. and as for Better? Reality is as good as it gets. Happy lifting and hard work my friend,
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:58 AM
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Eye contact means you have a go to engage. Women disengage by not making eye contact. They don't want to be bothered by your roommate. If he's attractive this could mean that they expect attention yet are shy, if he isn't that goes without saying. I always do the tell by looking back, if they look back too they are interested but it's still too late let them go. If you see them again it's go time.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:28 AM
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Histrionic, that's what mine has. She's managing it pretty decently. It's like TRP on 10 mil.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 06:25 AM
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You missed out, but good thing following your instincts. She would have destroyed you. Not for the weak minded not unaware. Just that simple interaction got you shook. These women are my playtoys. I guarantee you the 5 year guy got fed up with her and needed some space. These women are so good because they do your job for you, they use sex as validation and they study porn stars. You saved yourself she's a heartbreaker.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 06:24 AM
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who cares, do you research, be safe healthy clean, and if you like it cool, if you don't cool.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:20 PM
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yeah I second that point, she's a plate don't forget that. YOu can plate friends, but its that tension that makes her an orbiter plate and allows you to remain in control. lead the way.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:18 PM
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Life fucking sucks. We need to create a better society for ourselves. Fuck the bourgeoisie they can have their money. You're stuck and you're apathetic because that's the only way to succeed playing this game. We're tired of games. We're tired of the rat race. This is no way to live. Devote your energy on building a structure to change society and live better for yourself.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:13 AM
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im great company with myself. im all i need. i take care of myself
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:46 PM
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yeah and this feeling comes and goes, its you who chooses to define your life. hope to meet you on the top of a mountain one day brother. good luck
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:39 PM
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sir, this a wendys. yes thats oneitis, and its not supposed to work like that. they arent good plates if you don't like them. once you get her off a pedestal and increase your smv thars where you want to be.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:37 PM
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Spin more plates and get busy, enough so you don;t worry about stuff like this. You're texting her too much, sounds like oneitis relax, she can smell your clinginess.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:34 AM
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Being a High SMV is the best and probably only thing that's worked for me. Everything else gets old over time, taking advantage of hypergamy is what it is. not a good question for this forum because you're using moralistic terminology (like manipulative), where human behavior, relationships, certain power dynamics etc are amoral. Try reading some of the books on the sidebar. Anything good never comes easy, you're going to have tp put in some hard work.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:32 AM
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Thnks for sharing your story. Don't be so frustrated. Life always has its cycles. Learn to appreciate the ups and downs, and learn to facilitate the balance and expect it. Change is always coming and that is the truth.`
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:28 AM
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Spin some plates my friend. No reason to LTR someone long distance, downgrade her.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:25 AM
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Literally almost in the same position as you, just a few inches shorter haha. Life is a chore for me, I find solace in helping others (if I can't find meaning I'd like to help others too maybe and live through them), and just going with the flow. Existential nihilism and stoicism comes with the game. I suggest maybe think about creating a structure that could help change society to be more beneficial to people like you (whatever that maybe) Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 06:22 AM
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My favorite saying. I have money but I'm saving it for my family and that means my wife and kids
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:45 AM
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Honestly, all of this stuff is what life taught me, the literature, and forums are all affirmation. If she's not happy with it, that's her concern, not mine. She was likely looking for an excuse to leave btw,
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:27 PM
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These young girls are vulnerable over voice calls, they have no clue on how to communicate. I just ignore it. I learn how to set shit up via text where it doesn''t matter. I just need a block of their time it doesn't matter what we do. "Come through at 6?" cool
/r/askTRP31/08/20 09:41 PM
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Whatever city I'm in where I can teach a girl to fuck and become emotionally attached to me because that's where the best sex is
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:52 PM
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Girls are crazy (nonsensical). This is why we spin plates till we're 30+. You lead her to what she wants if you can btw not the other way around. Girls are children they will do whatever you allow them too. Spin a plate, have another chick waiting as a backup and don't worry about any one girl
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:51 PM
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I agree with everything you said. That's my frustration. Why are we having girlfriends lol. It doesn't benefit us. Long term plates(best friends we fuck); I'm saying allbthis because it seems like alot of guys aren't getting it. My gf this my LTR this. Unless your 40 I don't want to hear it get your balls wet. Learn the game by trying to play women instead of blocking. This is your 10 year long wife. You're a young guy learning the way. Blocking is the easy most sensible way. Trying is playing t…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:19 PM
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I mean after blocking her yes he showed her he got emotional. I agree it is too late. I'm talking about in the future. A girl can't disrespect you if she's not your girlfriend. My plates can do whatever they want too. Because I'm going to do what I want too. If I feel like I'm wasting my time I'm just going to invest it in someone or something else. Spinning plates is perfect. I agree tho He failed because in the beginning by setting himself up in a dynamic where there was pressure on the girl, …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:15 PM
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Not necessarily. I'm intimate with so many girls that I don't fuck or not fucking at the moment. Also I expect some plates to be all to myself, the ones that don't I'm probably not going to fuck them. I want some of my plates to stop bothering me. I know theh are wasting time with other guys because of SMV. You can tell when a girl isn't interested. I let them fly with the wind. When you start plating married women you could understand. Literally met some girl for the first time yesterday she pr…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:10 PM
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Yeah I deal with personality disordered individuals. Alot in my family are one and I'm drawn to them unfortunately. Sounds like she could have a personality disorder. You're def going to stop using drugs and get to therapy. You can't be her rock unless you're a rock. She's your strong child, people with personality disorders can be amazing achievers. But it seems alot like you should focus on yourself. Personality disorders and all mental illnessess are built from fear. Narcissism is actually lo…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:05 PM
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Yes its one of the 48 laws of power o think, always let women think they are smarter than you. Unless they think they are smarter than you, pretend you think smarter than them but plays stupid but actually be steps ahead of them. Women love to tell me they can't beat me or aren't smarter than me. They love love the challenge. Can't get over it. The man that they can't secure is the one they think about at night.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:57 PM
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Never let them know you're playing them. dont be goofy.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:06 AM
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I always ask for a kiss at first, by the end of the night im pulling their hair back to tilt their head for a kiss. Example of escalation. Learn female body language. They do it subconsciously (if you point it out theyll be confused). Here are some I know and use: Touching you while they talk, mirroring your actions or words, letting you come spend alone time with them, cuddling if they move their hips slowly like gyrating while you cuddle she wants to fuck if she lets you kiss her neck, if she …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:01 AM
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I've asked this question before, I have a huge repository of homevideos ive made with old new and current plates. They dont have the same effect as porn. Now if you're masturbating to their social media, or just regular pictures, thats weird af and a little creepy. youll know if its an addictive feeling like with porn.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:59 AM
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Try and hold you're own until you can get out. It will be difficult to heal while youre in a triggering environment. Try and make an exit plan and keep it to yourself. Learn about psychology, and emotional intelligence. Read and keep to yourself. Be stoic, be a stone, never feed into emotional energy. Know you will have to resolve these when you get older.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:57 AM
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Therapy is great. Finding a good therapist thats smarter than you is what it takes. so many dumb therapists that are only therapist by name.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:55 AM
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You honestly shouldnt be thinking about it, dread isnt a game its a lifestyle. You have better women to worry about than one whose playing games with you. Thats the dread. The fact you're askign it this way means your not doing enough, work on yourself, spin more plates.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:54 AM
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Text minimally, not for fun. No one said ONLY send logistical texts. Have a balance. The idea is dont give her attention via text or online give it in person where you build rapport that matters.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:52 AM
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They are unrelated. if you feel like you're bragging you probably are.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:50 AM
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sure share it, if its no good the Mods will delete it.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:50 AM
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ignore completely.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:48 AM
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LMFAOOOOOO you agreed and amplified the wrong thing. thats so autistic ahahaha. but seriously you set yourself up for that. you could have said something after you, or bitches only if you wanted to be disrespectful. i mean honestly her asking want some? isnt that serious. I would have said maybe if I was starving, I only get that hungry for you, and then playfully bite her or something. but to recover, you very so lightly chastise her - playful frown, you better watch your mouth i might take it …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:48 AM
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yes, you have better things t do with your time.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:40 AM
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Society and human nature, you have to be taught and work hard to not be. Its easy and natural to be an asshole. Its difficult and an effort to be nice.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:40 AM
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Just be her gay best friend, you're so in there bro!
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:39 AM
1

Don't think that other peoples random actions are always attributable to you. As you stated you didn't do anything at all. You were just in the right place at the right time. Work on being "successful"
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:38 AM
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I've had luck with one, she was young, and I basically beat shit into her mind by repeating and reinforcing shit. When I felt it was safe for me to leave i left when she had a therapist, support system etc,, she realized she didn't want to be for the streets, and she chose to be a "good girl" its like night and day. She believes she seriously has a chance to be with me, when she barely has a chance for anything serious with me. This was probably rare, and I put in loads of energy, it paid off im…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:36 AM
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It's impossible even for sane people, you only control yourself. If shes young you might have a chance, take her to a therapist and get her some meds. She's playing you most likely, continue increasing your value , and rapport with her. DOnt let her get anything over you, it could backfire.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:32 AM
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Nap with her during the day, and wake up during the middle of the night with her. fuck and then have joyous sleep. you can also Learn about sleep cycles to understand when the deepest part of a persons sleep (time wise) and use that to your advantage. Happy sneaksex lol
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:31 AM
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I feel this, honestly. It will take time. However long you've been with her multiply it by 2 it takes to get over her. You wont meet the same pussy twice, but you'll meet just as good pussy, and even better pussy during your life. Guarantee if you tried to fuck her again once youre over her it wont be as good (i tried this for a few of my exes) You enjoyed your turn, appreciate that.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:28 AM
1

You can spin plates and be in a relationship, just befriend girls and keep them as friends without necessarily setting that boundary that you friendzoned her. Its a fine line and takes practice but the idea is be around girls that want to fuck you. Girls do this with guys all the time (they dont even need to try)
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:21 AM
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lol I cant understand this forum. If you're so called "alpha" you've been with girls who had beta boyfriends before. Im pretty sure I do it all the time, do I think their beta boyfriends should block them, no? I think their beta boyfriends should learn from the situation and realize how not a commodity they are figure out how to become a commodity. Become someone that gives that woman fear and dread of not having you in her life. Its the thing that makes my plates , freely tell me that they have…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:18 AM
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Haha the boys really didn't like this one. I mean I did say this without context. They probably think i mean girlfriends should get passes, I don't believe in real girlfriends anymore. because you end up with this bullshit and people looking for their unicorns. No, stay on your toes, know your hoe is a hoe, and use that for your benefit. I cross the line with sharing pussy, because I feel like I'm more than enough to satisfy her, if she disagrees there is no cake and having it too. Plate her and…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:09 AM
3

This question assumes that women don't value themselves, or that women's behavior is different in different countries. Neither is true.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:39 AM
1

i love physical activity, and bettering myself playing sports, very satisfying. but being competitive and watching professional sports idgaf about socially.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:41 PM
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let her think she can trap you, but be untrappable. i told my older woman, who wanted me to be exclusively with her, thats insane because shes married lol.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:39 PM
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Yeah, literally got an I love you text last night lol. She's married. She probably wants lunch cause shes married, just go with her flow. I call the older lady my baby, and treat her like one she loves it. She can also cum just by thinking about me lmfao. fun times. Approach the same, just dont be to forward, go with the flow and lead once you know what her limits are. all women want to finesse let her think shes running the game, but control the game.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:37 PM
3

Often the best ones.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:22 PM
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none of that matters. You should be busy working on yourself and talking to other chicks.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:41 PM
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Lol its probably emotional/psychological then, you might have hidden stress or resentment the gf isn't helping.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:04 PM
2

What does that mean is that healthy?
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:03 PM
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That's pretty normal, I call it having sex for them and having sex for me (and then there's both of us but that's rare passionate intimate shit). I have sex for them first. Choking, degrading, talking shit and then I flip em over and have sex for me. Try this easy trick tell them to take their shirt off but not over their head and use it as a leash to choke them. I twist it and gets tighter. Give them what they want so they can keep giving you what you want. All women are whores for the right pe…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:01 PM
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The ones that put themselves out there for me yes. I like the quiet to themselves the natural beauty ones. The girls that know they are bold are usually extroverted and look for extroverted energy, that's tiring for me an introvert, so I leave that for others.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:58 PM
2

You literally could have googled this one champ. It's also on your app click on the blue shield it will give you more info. Just some features to ensure the saftey of online dating.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:57 PM
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All the time. If I'm out in public areas. I'm an introvert so I keep to myself but it's fun to go out every now and then these women are bold these days. Even during a pandemic
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:56 PM
2

Get a job, play an online game.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:55 PM
1

Also never heard of that pee thing, sometimes a poop maybe.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:54 PM
2

Right go to the doctor and get hormone tested. Sound low on testosterone for some reason or another. Do a full blood test.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:53 PM
1

She's a mom so she's busy. She's not looking for people to micromanage her time. If she didn't want to put herself out there she wouldn't look for a babysitter. Don't pressure her she has enough pressure having a child and trying to go out. Be her peace and she'll give you a piece of that ass lol
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:52 PM
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What else is there to say? Don't say anything just show up casually at the bar, don't even expect her to come. You can scope out others there.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:51 PM
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idgaf, but try to get some one on one time with her in an semi intimate setting, and you'll have your answer.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:50 PM
1

Idk not worried about it rn, im worried about clean healthy pussy. Nothing to cope with. Im not LTR anyone until im 40. then i might have to cope. I have long term plates now lmfao.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:49 PM
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To me there is a fine balance. I have a very high libido, sometimes i masturbate after having sex with a girl (like the next day or something). I dont want to be running around like a cave man. Which is often how I feel. Its just at the point where its consuming your life, and youre not doing it as a release or for control, but for pleasure that its going to effect you negatively. Masturbation is healthy in moderation. Limit porn specifically as much as you can. edit: also fuck you, your welcome…
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:47 PM
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Lol you're overreacting, gorgeous girls with good pussy and head get passes in my book. It;s all about how they go about it. especially young ones. Im also a big slut so maybe we just have different tolerance levels.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:44 PM
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I think it happens naturally. Some may say I have a LTR but in my head I'm not committed or invested emotionally. Maybe when a girl shows her worth after a while I might relax but I don't believe that's possible for me. Maybe when I hit my peak in 50 years or something I'll think of settling down.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:34 AM
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I discourage it, and try to lead them to other skills. Ultimately idc just plates, not LTRs. If she doesn't listen still a plate. IDGAF about being beta or not, just getting pussy and not sharing it (cause diseases and my ego)
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:59 AM
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Go out there and traumatize yourself my boy. All girls are like that. Just while doing it don't make any irreversible actions like marriage, ltrs, pregnancies and stds. Experience is the best lesson. Use the sidebar to help reference and stick to reading, read everything, not just to stuff, try to make counter arguments and find the best objectiv truth.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:56 PM
1

You have a pass then I guess haha
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:02 PM
1

and Reap the benefits. We have to evolve and change as the world does, staying stuck to traditional ideals does nothing but hold us back. We move with the world, we can't stop the world from spinning, so we take advantage of the spin and keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:53 PM
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lmfao "i didnt fuck her as I am gentleman" - Thats very neckbeard statement. Its honestly the gentlemanly thing to fuck her life up and give her the time of her life.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:52 PM
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Idrgaf how many bodies a girl has, im not looking for them to be "good" or "high quality". I understand that they are women and they do what women do. Im only looking to get whatever I can get from them. Whether that be companionship, pussy, a backup pussy etc.. You are prescribed to old social myths, let them go. AWALT. learn the behaviors, accept move on with your life. Also stop worrying about other people, focus on yourself. Theres nothing to be frustrated about in this sphere, there are onl…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:51 PM
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SPIN. MORE. PLATES. always spin plates. you dont need to fuck plates to spin them.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:01 PM
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Well said. The saying "Ignorance is Bliss, knowledge is sorrow' Holds true. Such is the weight of man who searches for truth, and it is our pleasure to burden because the greater truth is what continues to drives society (however direction it may be) And True, genuine and eternal friendship is rare but comes by happenstance (it happens often with family members). I think all men long for a valuable companion after themselves of course. For me I'm my own best friend. I'm just tagging along with e…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:48 PM
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Accept it. life fucking sucks, a "pursuit" of happiness isn't the goal.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:52 PM
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real life bro. TRP is just a community that uses written tools to exemplify the real truth of the world. We use empirical evidence and shared knowledge to confirm these truths and share this with others interested. Me personally, I deal with the craziest of crazies women and live life on hard mode, I'm also big on psychology. Knowledge and truth is universal and you can get to it from many ways as long as you seek it wholeheartedly.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:10 AM
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I'm already dead.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 08:23 PM
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Really appreciate the outlook and the feedback. Most of us are here because we want what's best for our brothers. If I can find the post I'll link you. Best to you and godspeed.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:29 AM
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I didn't really read the whole thing (yet) but saying we need to work on this is like saying I'm here to step in your frame. I just say I'm no longer tolerating this behavior if it continues I'm gone and I mean it. This is why spinning non sexual plates comes in handy. You always have other women to go too, never share your relationship problems with other women. Also again without me completely reading reconsider if she's worth LTR material. You can manage consistent (monogamous) pussy without …
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:38 AM
1

There was a post recently about valuing only actionable items things that you only have control over. Valuing 30 approaches over 30 yes' because you control how many people you approach but you cant control people saying yes. This is definitely a mental thing and if you dont correct it could develop into a sickness. You have to breathe and continue to follow the path, continue doing what you know is right even if your feelings lead you astray. The truth is you dont need women, you enjoy them. Wo…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:46 AM
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Im 28. I didn't lose my virginity until I was like 21. So I have 21 years. You're basing your identity on another person. Having sex or having sex doesn't make you happy. Try making friends with people. You do realize that you can have plates and not have sex with them. I don't consider them dry spells im living my life, i have goals and pussy isn't one of them. I just like girls, and I like talking to them, and vice versa. I dont see them as vaginas to fuck. I see them as people different than …
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:05 PM
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Umm the point is written all over the forums and in the sidebar and the rationale male. Your mindset is flawed and depressing. You're a loser for allowing your feelings to dictate your truth. Once you've had alot of pussy you'll realize it's not that important. How old are you?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:09 PM
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I guarantee if you didn't care and treated her like an option she would have switched up
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:55 AM
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Let me help you. Abundance mentality is I have plenty of options and sex therefore I'm not pressed for it. Your current mentality is I'm pressed for sex because Im not getting it. Also life goes on phases, don't expect everything all the time. Like the Tides their will be dry spells and very wet spells. I love dry spells because usually afterwards im getting into some new plates and they all come at once. That's just how life works. Just because you can't control the world when you want it too d…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 05:54 PM
1

go outside and make some friends.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:39 AM
1

swag
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:38 AM
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troll, this the opposite of the abundancy mindset that is encouraged here. Just pay for a prostitute since you're so desperate.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:37 AM
1

God?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:11 AM
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Turn it off and your phone off addict. Im sure youll find something to do.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:18 PM
1

WOW. youre so late. I thought this was without porn. Yeah look into No porn. I masturbate with no porn, or the homemade videos I make. Here ya go goofy. https://pmohackbook.org/
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:17 PM
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sorry the correct term would be sublet* But what I do: I rent a 3 bedroom apartment, I find people who I trust who want rooms, and give them a room for 500$. No contract or anything. If taxes say something I do it under gift tax. They just cashapp me the money, we go about our lives. I tell them the apartment is mine, they just have the rooms. So im like the lanlord that sometimes live with them when im not traveling and they take care of the house when im gone. edit: harderst part is finding pe…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:09 PM
1

http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.com/
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:05 PM
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Real life. Get into some real messy situations. Learning life in hard mode made the side bar an affirmation rather than a lesson.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:03 PM
1

I just sublease a cheap apartment my roomates pay most the rent for me, and invest the other
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:01 PM
1

do more legs and more pushups
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:56 PM
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just going to focus on what matters, if you cant get her wet or arousing her your'e wasting your time. This isnt LTR material. Check out the sidebar. Spin plates/worry about yourself a LTR will come and you wont have a choice because they are that good. This isnt it.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:53 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:34 AM
2

Ok no breaks. She should keep her commitment with you if she can't do that when times are hard then she won't be able too in the future. Tell her you don't mind focusing on herself if that's what she needs. I would start talking to other girls discreetly just women friends etc. If she doesn't get her act together she just wants out and doesn't want to say. Don't join her frame. Be the boss tell her she needs to relax and you're not pressuring her or wanting to add pressure. That's not why you're…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:18 AM
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Meh. You'll get a mixture like anywhere
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:34 PM
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If they have odd hours they fuck and sleep at odd hours carry on as usual
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:30 PM
1

Shit I do hiking in this day. Just a light walk in the afternoon
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:11 AM
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Wow there's the misogyny. All women are whores and sexual deviants huh? Sometimes I meet virgins too lol depending on their age. I can tell your trolling and mad tho lol. Feels bad bro. Stay up. Good luck with your life and I hope one day you can see a better truth in one of these ladies out here.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:10 PM
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Seriously what are talking about? I don't think you get it. Sometimes I meet a girl who hasn't been with a guy in years. They are super picky and understand that most guys don't have anything they want. When they meet me they realize I am such a good potential partner, they break their rules too sleep with me. We both know that neither of us is ready or want a LTR, and while she is working on herself increasing her value, she is not sleeping with other people because she knows that would reduce …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 05:00 PM
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You mean they believe I'm exclusive to them? No they don't. They can fuck other guys they just dont because I'm all they want, they care about being exclusive with me but they know that their time with me is valuable so they dont sabotage for some time.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:35 AM
1

Honestly, she doesn't need to because I'm there. If she feels the need to fuck other guys she's broken. Women aren't supposed to be THAT horny. Besides I don't trust other mens health, but I can trust any woman that claims me to an extent,and again no I don't trust her judgement if she wants to fuck someone else. All the plates I spin are usually exclusive to me as far as I know. I don't fuck girls who fuck randoms.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:47 PM
3

Second this from experience.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:19 AM
1

even though he admitted it himself? See his reply to me haha
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 09:37 AM
2

Alone but never lonely motherfucker. I have no emotions towards it. I get what I need when I need it, what I want when I want. and my goals I get closer to them each do, and my growth inch by inch.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:26 PM
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Haha. Im not mad at it. We learn from each others stories. Imagine one day this won't even be an accomplishment big enough to brag about in a couple of years haha. Keep growing.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 12:55 AM
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Honestly if she wanted to meet and hadn't seen your face she was fucking around. soft next.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:16 PM
1

Just start talking to girls., and you might want to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:14 PM
0

Telling someone to talk about TRP to a woman is horrible advice. Basically what he's trying to say is be interesting and intellectual. The woman doesn't care what you're saying she just wants to know that you are passionate about something.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:12 PM
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lmfaoooo only send selfies if you above a 7
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:06 PM
1

Honestly, I would have been like why are you telling me that? Becuase thats irrelevant information to me. I just care if she's seeing me on monday? Honestly she wants a long term. You could have humored her and said what would make it work long term for both of us? But I wouldn't care, abundance.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:45 PM
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All of this reads like a humblebrag. good for you I'm happy for you. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy brother.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 05:14 PM
1

I just said people can use that to manipulate you. At least make it a flexible rule, or only a rule you know yourself. I agree I don't like to have conversations via text, rather in person, then in phone. I try not speak on my phone alot. But honestly thats for LTR's this is a plate, you're giving her way to much emotional investment and commitment. That is a symptom of oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:10 PM
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My babies haha thts what I consider them. It's also the fact that Im growing and most of them have grown too. Its fun. Nice name btw. and OP you got caught off guard its cool. Dont worry about it too much haha.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:09 AM
1

You can do both, it's just you have more tax deferred options for all your millions of dollars.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:07 AM
1

He said he doesn't work I believe. But you are right 401k or company plan maxed first, then IRA, then invest
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:06 AM
1

Lol I would be happy and hug and try kiss any my exes lol toxic or not. If you're not on that level of idgaf you're not over them.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 02:03 AM
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It honestly doesn't feel like dread to me. This was all a power move on her part, get you to come over, and invest your time and energy... for no change. Also I might have responded: I hear you, but what I do is my business. I consider you when I make my decisions and I'll continue to consider you, and left it at that. If lisa became a bigger issue then I would address it again I would reconsider that solving issues rule. Anyone can use that to manipulate you like she did.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:54 AM
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Shes probably thinking, oh hell prove if he really respects me through his action. Ill pretend that im okay with it to see his true colors. Its fucked up women thinking. Toxic behavior. its a good idea to distance yourself from her for now on.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 01:48 AM
2

Learn them all. Dancing classes are great place to meet woman and work on your skills
/r/askTRP17/06/20 10:12 PM
1

I can't disagree with you yet I don't suggest it for us young millenials. We don't like to be tied down to physical things just yet, and we want to limit our tax liabilities and responsibilities until we've started something stable.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:20 PM
1

It's a clear directional pointing term that won't mean anything if you lack the inability to google and research things for yourself. I would rather lead you to water than give you a drink.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:57 PM
1

Diversity. S and P isn't diverse. Investing in ETF's aren't bad. I would invest in bluechip stocks and high growth stocks since I am young >30. Their are safer vanguard retirement ETF funds than the SP500 if you are risk averse. I believe with proper research you can do much better. I trade s&P 500 options for fun. Its not a bad place to put money in no, but a diverse portfolio is much better, we can invest in global markets. Chinese companies, biotechs etc.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 08:00 PM
3

No do it where its most convenient. I have mine in Bank of America. It counts as money in the bank so you get certain perks.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:56 PM
1

Yeah see my edit above, and it's always consensual. They like to see how they look and watch them. I only share the vids of the girls with themselves. But I might let them another girl view videos of me having sex if im next to her(I don't give access). Definitely not a problem.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 04:54 PM
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max out an IRA immediately (6000$ for last year and 6k for this year, do this every year.) create a diverse investment portfolio and dollar cost average a % portion (in your IRA and maybe robinhood) Dollar cost averaging in the stock market is the best way to invest, since you are young you dont care about volatility. Real estate is slow. Edit: clarity and typos
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:04 PM
1

I dont think its a hassle or danger if you're spinning them right. I wouldnt want to LTR 3-4 women, but FWB is easy. I like quality over quantity tho. Ideally its an OLTR and a couple of FWB
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 04:00 PM
231

Yeah that was the best move. But a better move would actually have someone waiting for you haha.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:39 AM
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? Since when is amatuer porn abuse?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 01:05 AM
2

She mentioned to let you know your place. Just play it cool. Expect the opposite of what you want, go into it with abundance, and casualness. Try and casually escalate it, until you're at a point and make a physical move dont doddle do it the day of. Better to burn out fast then burn long.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:55 PM
38

I can relate to this. Try masturbating without porn its difficult and takes effort but it honestly provides a much longer release from those bodily urges. If that doesn't work it doesnt hurt to do anything sparingly. Unless its heroine.. or you are predisposed to addiction lol
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:52 PM
1

lol you haven't been fucking other women have you? It takes time to get over your oneitis. Try letting yourself cry next time. The feelings aren't rational so you dont need to acknowledge them as valid. Just let them pass, accept them in time you'll forget because youve moved on to other things.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:49 PM
3

LOL if I had a LTR that was really all that I would love for beta boys to take my woman out while I work and focus on other things. Good luck tho, just know you're walking into a burning house. Imagine if you were brad pitt, you think she would have mentioned her boyfriend lol? Again goodluck and godspeed smh haha. have fun
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:47 PM
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Its not masturbation thats the problem. Its the porn. If you are truly are horny then you would be seeking 100's women not images of women. Porn takes away some of your focus unless you're purposely secluding yourself. Maybe you should try giving the book a glance haha. Question why you have so many downvotes. All of us here want the best for each of our fellow man. Good luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:41 PM
-5

I'm a little bit of a voyeur. So depending on the plate (most of them) I like to show my girls my folder haha. Kinda sets the tone too. Edit: lol what is the problem? I show it I don't share it still personal to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:38 PM
3

Based on my personal introspection, It feels like I don't need to read the book in depth, but I WILL check out the site. Listen, if you ever see anything on the contrary please let me know. Thanks in advance brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:31 PM
1

Bro where I am people are out, having dinner outside, protesting chilling. Its not that bad im enjoying and voluntarily in monk mode tho. This growth feels amazing Try working harder at more fulfilling things.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:29 PM
15

Honestly. It probably is affecting you just in smaller ways. Watching porn never ruined my libido, or had any major negative effects but I did notice my sexual nature changing. You're training your brain everything you do. The fact you do it daily is probably a problem. If its not a problem now, it will be a problem later.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 10:25 PM
1

Lol the things is women dont even know their own bodies. I know more about vaginas than the girls I fuck because I have more experience with them. I be teaching girls how to cum, orgasm, squirt etc. They be like I never experienced that before. Thats why you tie them up (with consent). Trust me im sure shes coming back because she enjoys it. Also these are huge red flags. The main girl I know that acted like that had a personality disorder, and was a horrible person to date long term.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:23 PM
4

? No she probably post thirst traps, or her with other guys and she doesn't want you to see that side of her. She probably keeps her IG professional, and snap for whatever she doesn't want you to see. It could be something simple as her being goofy. idk its not hard to respect that snap is personal to her. Stop reading so much into it. SHIT TESTS ARE FOR GIRLS TO FIGURE OUT IF THEY ARE SAFE WITH YOU BEING A MAN IN POWER. caring about social media either way is a fail. What I said earlier stands.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:53 PM
2

She has issues, a poly who wants a FWB (LAUGHABLE), and this is an extreme version of hamstering. Stop giving her so much attention and hamster her instead of her pulling the strings on you.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:43 PM
1

Something on there she doesn't want you to see. Fuck social media just text.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:33 PM
30

I honestly would never consider myself "Alpha" im more of a lone wolf than anything. I honestly just mind my business and focus on my goals. Probably because of this people rarely see me as a threat so i'm not challenged. If I were in your position I would laugh it off, and make a joke out of them. You might be doing something that threatens others. Just walk away or hold you ground jokingly. Do what you're there to do. Have fun joke, talk to girls continue doing that.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:31 PM
1

You are interesting. I do the same things. I do less of the video games and movies and more nature, although. Interesting is personality, and personal growth. Its having ambition and wanting to do things for yourself not just because everyone wants to do them. You should be interesting because you have interests. I do things that I am interested in. If you are engaged in your interests then you are interesting. A woman will latch on to your words if you go to your favorite little museum and tell…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:59 PM
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For the most part I never make that commitment with someone. If we have that conversation I ask her how does that situation benefit the both of us? It usually doesn't. You never disclose. for an OLTR you guide her into and you just give her more of yourself just never commitment. Don't give women titles of relationships like open relationship or non monogamous they hate the stigma that comes with that. Just let them know what your actions are or aren't. I let women call me their man and for all …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:45 PM
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Always upgrade yourself. I just learned to make mayo from scratch yesterday. Im pretty sure if any woman sees me whipping up some mayo in the kitchen and making her the best grilled cheese sandwhich of her life would want to suck me off right there while im making it lmfao. Unfortunately im in monk mode so Im not in the mood to test it out haha.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:42 PM
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yeah man we dont take a girls out. We introduce them to our world and keep them there. Most girls are uninteresting so they take their interests from men. Wonder why so many girls like anime now? Cause we anime and chill. Hiking? Cause we take them out to our favorite spots. Be interesting enough to enrapture a woman in your frame. and be interesting than most. I know that when I cut these girls off theres very few that can replace the experiences that I give them and its funny to watch them try…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:38 PM
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maybe 5%. If we go out on a formal date, they disappear they obviously are going out for attention and aren't really interested in anything more. BRO THIS HAPPENS EVEN IF THE GIRL PAYS. or they're looking for some Beta cuck to be head over heels for her. 95% interest if we go to a park, take a walk, just meet and chill in the car grab some fast food, go hiking. Or do anything else spontaneous or adventurous. I took a shorty grocery shopping with me (I was already planning to go) she felt comfort…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:12 PM
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I swear if my ex did this. I'd write a manifesto to my kids explaining this shit, and tell them talk to me when they are 18. Idk why maybe because my Dad is a deadbeat. I would gladly take full custody tho. (Edit: Idk why i wrote it that way I dont have any kids I just personally felt triggered bro. Sorry you have to deal with that you dont deserve it) My brother is going through this. Tell her one time and one time only. You wont tolerate this, you're not going to take any shit for anyone (NOT …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:49 PM
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I tell them Im broke with a SLY SMILE. Or I say Im broke until I have 1million cash, not just capital or investments. ​ Usually they manage to find my occupation and my education and they can figure it out, unfortunately lol (its not hard to google me. maybe I should delete linkedin or use a code name or my middle name haha) I technically am broke, because I budget myself like a broke person when really im doing better than most people.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:41 PM
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Lol you gotta train your girls for that. Or tell them to do their own research. Its lack of experience that's the problem. You can go about it a few ways, learn for yourself so you can teach it (no comment), find a girl who knows, let a girl figure it out on her own, find a girl that wants to learn and experience it with you. I would be more concerned if she had the skills lol. You lose a good amount of things having a larger size. *shrugs*
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:40 AM
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For example. Im always busy because even on my free time I'd rather do what I want, than respond to you. The girl must respect that about you, and is okay with it because she knows you are abundant and your time is precious. MY time is precious and the time I give is a gift, not a given like alot of guys out here. She gets a little bit face to face, and a lil bit of my texts. she must earn more time with me, and she must earn it despite my abundance through being the best, not shit testing, loya…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:36 AM
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Not your girl, its just your turn.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:55 AM
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https://outofthefog.website/what-it-feels-like Focus on yourself. You have a good long life ahead of you. Be strong so you can have the strength to support your loved ones. Remember no ones looking after you anymore. Look after yourself first then you can look to others. Good luck and Godspeed.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:53 AM
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Ran Across this the other night. http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn Text sparingly cause you're a busy fuck.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:44 AM
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Hmm let me think, fuck her from underneath her while she lays back, you can go hard in that position. Also easiest she is on her back with her legs up in the air, make her rub her clit while you penetrate her (if she cant make herself cum shes uncomfortable or doesnt know her body), also even easier mode you eat her out first. Don't expect her to cum with backshots unless you got her by the throat and pulling her hair. If a girl doesnt cum i know its her not me, and I wont let her guilt me. Ive …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:39 AM
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Get a bicycle and ride that bih around
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:23 AM
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oh yikes, You messed up a while ago thinking you ever had a chance haha. Most girls I know if they know I was serious about a girl and kept them around and they stayed around they aren't interested. Girls that get upset as fuck and act weird and irritable when you date girls are interested in you and have a chance. These are the ones we plate. which is why we dont do LTR's unless they are worth it. You might have had a better chance to spin her if you were already spinning plates.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:21 AM
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If you guys are already friends I'd just invite them over to hangout. Maybe before it was inappropriate but now you're both single. Why go out for coffee when you already have rapport?
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:17 AM
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lol dont do that lmfaoooo. you gotta be trolling.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:15 AM
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Honestly, Ive done this before. Its actualyl even a more power move to get her friend to like you too. I crashed a girls weekly friend date, talked to both of them, and smashed that night. That girl is great plate to this day. She actually commented she liked how I managed both her and her friend. I would then hang out with both of them and sometimes do double date stuff. Not too difficult just go out and have fun. Edit: By like you too, i mean approve of lol. Take the threesome games slow lol. …
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:35 PM
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It's fact. Go try for yourself and learn the hard way if you want. No matter what a woman says her experience and perception of love is different than yours. All you want from a woman is undying loyalty and utmost respect.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:45 AM
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Thats not cool. then go silent for a bit.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:43 AM
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Lol stop masturbating for a month, and quit porn forever. also exercise, eat healthy, and sleep. Why would you masturbate when you're exhausted? just stop it.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:41 AM
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Block ignore and move on. They got comfortable. You dont leave monk mode to make things worse.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:06 AM
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I only remember who accepts me lol. youre probably using online dating. its a cesspool out here thats normal.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 12:00 AM
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Idk about Alpha males. But I hate lying. I do lie tho largely in cases where I'm protecting myself from women from their manipulation and power struggle when they notice an end to a relationship. They may try to sabotage so I have no issue lying to them to make sure the separation is peaceful and I can go without harm to my status or name. guilting you to being honest is womans way to get you to manipulate them when they themselves are master manipulators and live to tell half truths. with anyth…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:42 PM
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That is a good link.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:14 PM
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You have to develop rapport first. Usually I exchange social media which I dont use, tell them to google me. And say I want to see them sometime and suggest something chill. Example: you have IG? i just want to see something (vetting them and let them vet my mysterious IG page. I put information that they can subtly learn about me, through my tagged photos and personal website) Then I wait a bit a day or two ask them about their day, tell them i think they are attractive and I want to see them. …
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:13 PM
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Im 28. I can relate, I work from home and am a PHD student. I can work but I dont need too since my investments are doing well and I live well beneath my means, and have multiple streams of income. I used to think why am I working so hard if I cant share it with anyone. I would throw myself into toxic relationships with people friends and romantic, because I could handle it and they would benefit from my presence. Now I feel like its not worth my peace. I enjoy myself and I enjoy my company. I e…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:01 PM
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Friends are overrated to me lol. I see everyone as my friend when I want a friend I can talk to anyone and develop rapport. Friendships are just to spend time with others and enjoy yourself. Dont expect much from people. Friendship develops naturally out of common interest and goals.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:08 PM
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make this its own post.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:05 PM
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Associates* Friends are you, yourself, and gym. Just start talking to people. you have something in common with everyone find it.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:04 PM
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lol a year? Get some new better pussy fool.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:02 PM
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Honestly, I feel like some of TRP are cock blocking and want you to hate women. I think we both know this a soft LTR. We have to practice our frame. These guys expect everyone to be experts at introspection and social behavior. I find no issues here carry on.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:00 PM
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I agree. Although some of us are introverts, and one of my favorite quotes: The point is, not to resist the flow. You go up when you're supposed to go up and down when you're supposed to go down. When you're supposed to go up, find the highest tower and climb to the top. When you're supposed to go down, find the deepest well and go down to the bottom. When there's no flow, stay still. If you resist the flow, everything dries up. If everything dries up, the world is darkness. I can get achieve, a…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:57 PM
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you get over it, those feelings will always be apart of you. you will just accept them and be okay. grief is simply a resistance to change and further discomfort. be comfortable with change and discomfort. girls come and go. Its not your girl, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:16 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:07 AM
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fuck morality. Women and feminism try to guilt you. i have nudes and videos of mostly everyone Ive had sex with its a memory I saved just like pictures of them and ill have it for life. Theres nothing right or wrong about it. Some people may like it, some people wont. Does it matter? Its my business and I keep it to myself. Read the sidebar. Read the rational male. You have a sympto called oneitis. Block her.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:04 AM
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relax. LTR's aren't 100% alpha. I think its 80% and 20% beta. and this one isnt even an OLTR. OP knows this isnt going to last forever. Let him practice his frame and enjoy his pussy we only know one side of the story. No reason to get emotional.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:48 AM
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Well done. We have a term for that and its called dread. Well done, brother. Remember to stay in frame at all times. Good recovery. https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:45 AM
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Best social media is no social media. Be mysterious. If you must have a social media post high quality pictures and never use it. I would just DM a girl my number and ask them to text me and forget about it.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:41 AM
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it will take you as long as the relationship and then some to get over her. Look up the stages of grief. Learn about oneitis and make sure it doesnt happen again.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:37 AM
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Lol I have a saying dont ask why when only what matters, I have another saying dont try to rationalize an emotional woman. Your oneitis is showing let her go, be abundant in spirit. Increase your value. I cant relate because I block people who do dumb shit and dont give them access to me, and if they did I wouldnt care because im focused on whats best for me not whats toxic for me. I remove the toxic and focus on me.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:09 AM
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when you get over her, you wont think this way. Have more sex you sound young. good Pussy and appearance dont always match. All pussy is different. You enjoy pussy more with emotional attachment.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:06 AM
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Mainly what I do too. Im setting myself up for a future where I have even more power than what I do now. What you have is called focus. You're not going to waste your time dealing with these shitty women now, you're going to keep increasing and increasing your SMV so you can get higher status women that can actually be interesting enough to bed them. You're biding your time. Remember that money is not a thing, power is. Money does not equal power.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:03 AM
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just making sure i read that right, its cool as long as I'm not watching it daily, or over one girl Its a bunch of girls and I watch it cause I have a high libido and I'd rather not watch porn porn, and masturbating without it is physically exhausting lol tmi
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:42 AM
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lol you didnt train yourself not to go after younger women, society did, women did, feminism did. They taught you that older men, and younger woman are creepy. Only creeps are creepy. Retrain yourself to ask. Learn the age of consent for your state. It's probably 16. Be responsible. You are also likely thinking that way as a way to keep yourself from getting rejected.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:32 AM
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Recognize you have more than go all in, or none at all. I think finding a healthy balance is best. Support him from afar, let him know you're there when he;s ready to be serious, save his life when he needs too, but focus on yourself at all times. You cant help someone unless they want to be helped only person you can help is yourself. I know its easy to say fuck it and forget about him, i also know its easy to forget about yourself and focus on his problems. The best decision for any person not…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:28 AM
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Oh shit he came lol and Well said. Question for you, Vas. What do you do about your High Value girls potentially fucking other guys? Not give a fuck or drop them?
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:19 AM
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Sorry bro, you meant my PLATE. You deserve better king. Notice yourself questioning your frame. This is oneitis. You know you deserve better, act like it. You lost frame by responding to her seriously, you got emotional about it because you wanted her to be better. Judge people by their actions. You could have laughed it off, ignored it and paid attention to her actions. You could have dared her to do it. We aren;t being serious by dumping her, but seriously. She's testing you and thats not what…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:14 AM
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I record my escapades. does that count as porn?
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:11 AM
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you try different things. follow your heart it is cliche. but its a true direction one should take. idk what to say but good luck to you.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:51 PM
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lol? the same way you cope with everyone who is higher SMV than you. Improve your SMV. some people have it naturally you have to work for yours.. you;ve got your hand now play your cards right.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:10 PM
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Schedule a video call before you two go to sleep (set a specific time so she doesnt waste yours), you can just go to sleep and she can feel close to you.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:08 PM
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My ex used to sneak me in all the time, her parents didnt catch us once even though her bedroom was next door. If I got caught it probably would have been the last of it so we were extra careful. Quiet because it's fun. I loved telling her to shut the fuck up and stuff her mouth. Its an excuse to be dominant. Sometimes you can play some music really loudly for a bit and stuff her face in a pillow (make sure she can breathe) and go crazy.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:05 PM
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and dont shit where you eat, and definitely not where you sleep. You've potentially ruined the possibility of any girl wanting to be around knowing a girl you might have fucked is next door. They will know
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:02 PM
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Run. Stay far away from her based on the red flags. and STOP TRYING TO RATIONALIZE EMOTIONAL BEINGS.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:58 PM
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You have oneitis for her, and the dog. lol. Healthy attachment only.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:56 PM
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lol cause shes trying to play you. this is her game and youre just a player. hard next her and cut this shit out. no more contact ever. just go ghost right now. Dont even respond shell go insane lol.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:56 PM
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I took my exes pet lol (wasnt even mine to behin with) hard mode lol. fuck that animal tho, shes fw u
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:54 PM
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Just act normal. That's not a huge age difference these days. Unless you look older. I look young so I just act myself I don't try to play the older suave thing. I dom them in bed tho.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:43 PM
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Create a budget, lift, learn to invest, find your passions.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:21 PM
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Translated: I know you don't respect me, and Im going to suck you dry and my pussy is my most powerful weapon. im smarter than you, vindictive and you will pay for not treating me how I think I deserve. I will always make you think youre in control. Im always 5 steps ahead of you because its in my nature as a woman to be. you lost, the first time you let me back in your life after the red flag.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:11 PM
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You're still in her frame. I'll let you learn the hard way. Look into Cuckolding. That's going to be you if you keep this up and traumatizing yourself.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:09 PM
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Honestly, I've been there so I understand. It feels good but its not worth it. There's so much better women out there. For anyone reading this every girl should treat you like you're a fucking celebrity (when shes with you, but ESPECIALLY when shes not with you), that's the standard. nothing less. Be the prize.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:05 PM
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Kick her out, use her just for sex thats all she's worth. honestly you already fucked up with her. Go find another girl and maintain your frame. Once they lose respect for you its not worth it gaining back. SHE HAS 0 RESPECT FOR YOU as a man if she got tinder notifications popping up
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:03 PM
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Read my comments above, you're a fool. Im saying this from experience. The only thing you will get out of this is trauma, and she will slowly eat away at your self esteem and when you're at your lowest she will leave you, and you will be hurt. trust me you're not in control, you cant even go cold turkey on her. you have no abundance mentality because you're allowing the little good to outweigh all the bad and red flags. idgaf how she treats you when shes with you, shes bad news.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 05:00 PM
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man is pussy whipped lmfaoo and the worst thing is he thinks he's the one in control. She's the one calling the shots lmfaoo. Now he's trying to rationalize her sleeping around on him while she gets the benefits of his comfort knowing he'll always be there. Shes manipulating him and playing him like a fiddle. Crazy women are so good at that.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:58 PM
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This sounds like fuck buddy behavior not LTR, you are suffering from oneitis. She's going to ruin you. Set some strong boundaries, and spin some more plates. She's comfortable. Dont ever let her get comfortable. She doesn't deserve it. Youre in her frame right now OP. Be scared.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:56 PM
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Shit happens. Don't take it personally. You cant avoid it, but once you see the flags you can remove yourself from the situation. Brush it off, something is wrong with her. Its not your problem you came for game tips. Nothing good lasts forever, and sometimes the good comes with bad. Dont try to rationalize crazy stay laser focused on your goals and maintain frame.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:53 PM
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you failed already lol. stop spinning plates if you are tired of them. a LTR comes from a plate that proves themselves worth it. Since its all work for you right now you're not going to find this imaginary unicorn. Drop all the plates ,work on yourself, find better plates, and learn how to make your plates work for you so that its easy and enjoyable.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:31 PM
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This doesn't make sense for you to choose to be in an LTR and feel that way. Plate her lol, at that point you're in HER frame because you're doing something that isn't worthwhile to you. Youre HER GF. LTR should never make you feel bad. NEVER WORTH IT
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:08 PM
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I have a very high libido, so I try to masturbate whenever I feel that way. I record my own videos and its better than porn. It also seems like your missing companionship. I have plates I don't even fuck. I might go hang out with a girl I might want to FBW and I have these other plates ready to receive me at the drop of a hat, if my other plans don't fall through. These girls love me, and I love them (for what its worth) they are fun, and I can come spend the night, and they adore me so they wou…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:06 PM
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lol always ask yourself, would she treat brad pitt or famous celebrity that way? Thats how you expect to be treated. YOU ARE THE PRIZE
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:40 PM
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Maximum level shit tests. Have that abundance mentality baby boy. You're honestly entering her frame by being available. Let her know that other girls or people are interested in seeing you, by not being so available. I would say im meeting up with someone on saturday, maybe we can link in the afternoon if im still free. Wanna play it by ear? Keep her in your frame. if she stands you up, just casually ignore her for life. Theres always better.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:39 PM
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If you found about hypergamy, then you realize you have an advantage as long as you work on yourself. You won't win them all. Get rid of your Oneitis, plate other girls and checkout the /asktrp reddit. You're going to hurt but, never look back to her for validation. You're better than that.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 06:34 PM
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LMFAO I would have left on read as she said friends. I mean you could have smashed but that's a waste of time and energy and brings out a slew of problems that few of us here would likely encourage.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:35 PM
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I agree. I like to move with integrity although.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 04:26 AM
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lmfao how do you not absorb the culture around you? Im nerdy af but I code switch its just natural. If I go to mexico im going to try and talk spanish. Bet is old and all it means is "That's a bet" - or a likelihood its a simple affirmation or denial with chance. Like I bet that will be true. "Bet" or I bet against you, "Bet". It just means theres a chance and its interpreted contextually. If someone says ard ill hit you, you say bet. As in thats a bet. (I bet you will or wont) thats it
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:53 PM
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Yeah they don't know how to handle anything more than a trash man. Give them good dick and treat them like a human and they explode.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:48 PM
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I live in a low income area, and I could fuck these girls I just don't want too. My goal is always getting a few good girls that are only fucking just me. I don't like the risk involved fucking everyone. I can have an abundance mentality without being abundant.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:47 PM
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Right and Wrong. idgaf, you did what you felt was best for you. Good job. Remember the goal really isnt sex its abundance. You're not a sex junkie. Pussy isn't that serious, and honestly the less LSV women I fuck the HSV women come into play and they are their to stay. I love telling HSV women that I haven't had sex for months, they LOVE to hear that. I usually line up 2 or 3 and start fucking them all at the same time starting with that line. Being an attractive and High value man AND not being…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:04 PM
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bro not even going to hold you, Good in bed is relative, i think it depends on your connection and how well you to communicate. BUT there's this one girl who'se pussy was strong as shit, and she knew how to squeeze it everytime you pulled out. Her pussy felt like a gentle hand lightly caressing it and rubbing you. I DIDNT KNOW A VAGINA COULD DO THAT. I miss her lol. Also the better she is at sex means the more practice she's had. Its not rare cause these girls out here practicing. Now what you'r…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:57 PM
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Lol it felt ok enough to try again. I've tried stuff that I wouldn't try again cause I didn't like it.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:22 AM
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It's not your job to protect people from yourself. Any mature person understands that relationships come with risks. If we're adults dont treat women like children. People get hurt when things change or things dont go their way, thats on them not you. Its a myth of oneitis that having sex with multiple people is harmful. If you havent read the sidebar, and read the rational male.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:45 PM
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Appreciate the encouragment. I'm going to practice some now haha. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:15 PM
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That's not your problem, thats a plate. Learn to spin your plates and youll be fine. Experience is better than nothing.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:13 PM
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ask her schedule for that time period first. (this will let you know watsup) Then let her know youll be there and you want to see her arrange a meetup. Arrange it for the late afternoon.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:11 PM
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dont do this lol. Ass hair is healthy and clean. Just not too much of it.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:09 PM
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You're shaving too low, trim it with beard trimmers. You just dont want it to be long and curly lol. try a 2 and then go down to a 1 if its too much.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:08 PM
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I'm close with a few mainlanders. You can be open with them if they like you. They don't hold any stigmas. If you can coach a girl and shes comfortable with you by all means. Be sure to update me haha.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:07 PM
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exactly a developed and full body looks good in any piece of clothing. Pair that with impeccabale hygiene and personal upkeep (clean teeth, groomed hair, clean hands and nails). Yeah my clothes actually have holes in them too lol. Woman love to dream and fantasize. You know you're doing it right when a girl is always saying she wants to buy you clothes and dress you. That fantasy is your frame.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:05 PM
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This is a perfect thread. Something I consciously need to work on. Currently im just practicing a saxaphone, but I want to create so much more. Im just hindered mentally by my doctoral program (doing a phd in engineering). I feel guilty because I know if I pursue something else I will gladly ignore my studies. Unfortunately the PHD is not my passion, its just a means to an end.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:51 PM
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I disagree with him. I think you quickly mirror attraction if its there, get number and go peace. If the attraction is not initially there then mirroring attraction wont work, in that case you move on. I guess the game that needs work is be more attractive, aka confident and your best self, with an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:45 PM
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it sounds like you're talking too much and lingering which can be percieved as creepy because people may not understand your motive, so go in with with a clear motive. If youre group talking keep it with the group. If you are there for one girl. Politely take her away from the group conversation. or focus on the conversation with you and her specifically. Parties of two are best because she feels safer and confident, and you can also show her how you can manage two women at once while still maki…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:42 PM
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Experience will teach you best. I would usually try and catch their eye and have a staring contest (power thing) say something along the lines of hey I couldnt help but notice you. Respond to whatever she says. Introduce yourself Then ask for her number and go about your day. Text her whenever you remember too. IF you remember too. With your name and picture. Then try to set up first meeting to buidl rapport.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:38 PM
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Same experience for me. It's fun. and lasts me a couple of months until I reset or find some good plates to spin.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah I've never eaten a girls ass, but I've recieved (odd but not bad, exciting in a way). The girls specific words "I would definetely try eating your ass if you shaved" Definetly trim, Best way is to take a beard trimmer at the lowest guard and go to town.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:33 PM
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I love this. This is absolutely the way you do it. I personally wear a simple uniform basically the same thing everyday unless im going out. Go hard mode, build confidence with you being basic, the confidence you gain will be tremendous if done right. Pay attention boys!
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:29 PM
2

at this moment you are traumatizing yourself. Save yourself. You are the prize. Immediately demote her as a girlfriend. you dont have to "breakup" just understand this isnt your LTR. This will save you emotionally. No longer invest in her. She has 0 respect for you, and it will only get worse if you allow this. We dont use womens words we use their actions. Make sure you end things ASAP. If you do this right she'll still be begging to be with you, but you can plate her and add her to the rotatio…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:21 PM
2

how do you demote to a plate? Just be like im sleeping with other people lol?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:58 PM
2

Try some HUEL,
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:02 PM
1

GEMS right here
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:42 PM
1

lol thats when you send her back to the streets. sounds like oneitis to me.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:34 PM
1

lmfao her and so many other women. Collect them all, dont keep one and treasure it. please....
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:39 AM
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Lol I can tell now shes going to manipulate you or fuck you up. You already lost the game with this mindset. I think its the fact you just asked the question. Like if I approached this situation. I would just see her as a fun time. I like high quality women in my life im not trying to LTR them. I want them to fit in my frame and not vice versa. YOu already are in her frame youre so in her frame its irrecoverable. You do not have the abudance mindset. read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:37 AM
3

you have oneitis. Enjoy your turn with her and send her back to the streets. You are the prize dont settle.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:35 AM
2

I think thats in terms of a LTR, honestly if you have the frame and love taking risks go for it. I am very comfortable with maintaining crazy plates. These very highly functioning personality disorded women are the most fun in my opinion. Were not always going to find these unicorn of women. Also never save a hoe, I don't share my pussy willingly. Also as a devils advocate one okayor decent woman is worth a million bad ones.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:33 AM
3

Breaks mean breakup sonny. She's not coming back. I only agreed to "breaks" just so I could sleep with someone else. When I was through with her, next time she suggested a break I just cut her off. This isn't a real relationship or something we call a LTR. hang it up. Go for a nice slow paced jogged until you cant think of anything but breathing, and do that everyday. Get on tinder and be like you women are crazy, Im looking for someone who isnt, and then meet her and fuck their crazy ass lol
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:27 AM
2

Honestly, TRP just affirms what I already know. I never read the sidebar. These are universal truths. Trial and error is a scientific method. I also consider most people "not people".
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:11 AM
5

Alone but never lonely. My friends are whoever I decide to engage in at the time. It's my choice and thats what this about having the power of choice.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:01 PM
2

Haha tbh im very bearish myself. I day trade options most days I exclusively make money only on puts. If I had a bullish sentiment I could easily ride the wave it justs feels so wrong to me haha. I like fighting the wave. Im all in on BSV tho (LOL), just day trade 27k of options. Im looking into creating a long term portfolio for my IRA and extra money I have. Maybe you can share some of your thoughts
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:51 PM
3

wow this. I wasn't expecting this. THIS IS AN AMAZING BOOK. Also spy calls bro!
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:30 PM
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Lol you did break frame lol, I would have responded ok while you're still here then come lay with me. Also youre not being a leader because if shes around you and youre letting her tease you instead of arousing her you fucking up. If you want just apologize and reduce the relationship to a friendship (no sex) and let it die out. Let it go tho.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:28 PM
1

Ty. Honestly married rp sounds exhausting
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:10 PM
3

Please do this for us. For research!!!
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:00 PM
5

Ask married red pill? Lol
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:57 PM
2

I'm already a deadbeat and I don't have any kids :(
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:59 AM
3

Thanks for sharing this. I learned some stuff. Good on you brother.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:44 AM
2

agreed lol. play it cool while your stuff is in there haha.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:17 PM
1

sure thing brother.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:12 PM
2

See my comment below to /u/jy432
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:38 PM
2

Toxic doesn't necessarily mean bad, it means not conducive to you. If you are depressed or unfulfilled there may be some form of toxicity you are holding. Eqi.org is a great resource to start.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:37 PM
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Therapy does not mean you have a mental illness. Therapy is encouraged.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:22 PM
2

This isn't going to age well.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:21 PM
1

Somewhere, where none of you have to pay, is always the best first date. I love the famous meet at a park and take a walk. a free simple museum or exhibit, maybe a walk by the harbor or city event. I usually like to do it in the evening, so if I feel like escalating we can go to a more intimate place like a quiet bar or somewhere we can be alone. The next date is at your place, or some where you can escalate intimacy. I quarantine dates, to hiking spots and trails. I pretend we can "social dista…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:40 AM
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your rebelling but try not to let your rebellion, be a form of self hatred against yourself. Your Mom is toxic as fuck and until you learn to love her from afar, you will always be a child underneath her heal. make your own decisions. Enjoy the military. Your mom doesn't;t need to know everything. She needs to earn your respect and trust. Research healthy parent relationship dynamics or talk to a therapist about them.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:33 AM
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Get a therapist, your family dynamics are destroying you. You wont ever be anything being at home, there is internal conflict. Go your own way. get out of the house its toxic, you likely failed as a subconscious form of rebellion. You're depressed because you entire life has been toxic and not conducive to you. I lost my virginity at 21 so it doesn't matter. no one gives a fuck. There are things wrong with you (because of you're upbringing) and you have to fix them. Everything you say screams co…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:31 AM
2

Definitely add meditation, mindfulness, spirituality and psychology into your repertoire. Results only seen are often not the best results. Also slow and steady results are better than quick ones. Focus on balance between all aspects of yourself mind, body, spirit, intellect. Look up the theory of multiple intelligences. You can always improve.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:22 AM
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This reads like you're going about it the wrong way. I bust my ass for myself and myself only I AM THE PRIZE. You've made no real progress if you didn't learn this. TRP was never about getting pussy. Pussy has always been a side product. Also I don;t pretend to not have emotions, I let women know I am likely just as emotional if not more as them, I just have a power over them and can choose what and when I want to experience. (Mindfulness) You sound passionless brother. Take this time to make so…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:16 AM
2

You lost your frame. It happens to the best of us. It feels good tho, we aren't as all as alpha as we like to think, and thats okay. Be thankful for the process, youll be a better man because of it. Be grateful she didn't do anything like marry you. And never look back, thats the hardest thing. Its going to feel good to get back to your frame, try and never lose it again. Keep a journal and add some affirmations to it, and meditate to them while you exercise. Set some calendar notes of these aff…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:10 AM
2

I can relate, never fall with a girl with potential.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:37 PM
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Doesn't matter who you are, you don't need closure. Enjoy the times you had, learn from your mistakes. Move on. You'll enjoy the next, it wont last forever. High quality guys pick the wrong ones the ones that never stay. The ones that are smarter than us emotionally, and pick away at our frame until we forget who we are, and when she slow feeds you the myth of oneitis you're slowly poisoned and when its made you weak, she leaves.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:32 PM
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Didn't even read you have oneitis. Edit: I read it. You have oneitis.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:24 PM
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lol women can read behavior alot better than men can. I second his opinion. Whether she knows or not you failed, work on that, instead of focusing on someone not even in an LTR. you have too much time on your hands. get busy brother.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:59 PM
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this kids name username obvious beta troll worried about pussy. ignore it haha
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:56 PM
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Haha she clearly didnt respect your decision to break up and trying to manipulate back into one. Give it some time. Make sure she's in your frame tho (which you're already doing). it could have helped if you played it more along the lines of you just need some time for yourself and you need friends right now, and if she doesn't want to support you then it wasn't meant to be (if you meant that lmfao). Then you could have come back and been more casual at the beginning. you messed up by being in a…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:54 PM
1

I can't disagree with you. I just think that invested assets not in a retirement fund are available resources as well. Actually in this day and age we can even spend from our trading accounts. My Robinhood has a debit card connected to it. Cashapp the same thing. Holding that much cash just doesn't make sense because of inflation it depreciates. I think you should do what makes you comfortable I just wanted to raise that point. and even if I wanted to withdraw it takes 5 business days, and maybe…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:50 PM
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18 month's is way too much. 6 months MAX and invest the rest. Get a credit card for emergencies. Cheaper if you're doing long term investing. But honestly capital gains tax doesn't matter unless you made more than 34k. wthat'say to conservative. If you are TRP you would never be unemployed for more than 6 months.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:05 PM
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3-6 Months of expenses worth goofy, Then a maxed out IRA, The rest in investments. I keep mine sitting at 6k because I'm frugal af (my monthly expenses average out to be 2k (rent, food etc), the rest I invest ferociously. Now net worth at age 30 you should strive to be around the 100k to 200K mark. (exclude cars, if you own a house that applies)
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:02 PM
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I do also want to add, because of the way our brain works, we do well with multitasking. So dont feel bad if youre doing a couple things at once, as long as its all productive. Do understand that doing one thing is much more efficient but we dont need to exhaust our energy trying to force ourselves to function in a way not conducive to how our brain works. The goal is to find activities that your brain loves to participate in. Usually once you build a habit your brain will contribute these activ…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 04:40 PM
1

Very true. I've observed this, and then they leave when you are weak. Such demons haha it's like the live to parasitically sap from you so they can "create". The Irony
/r/askTRP27/05/20 04:23 PM
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Ah, okay of course. I'll continue. I think I let it sink into my psyche too much that is effected me negatively. Just something I need to work on. Thanks for the reply. Tl;Dr maintain frame at all times.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:55 PM
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This doesn't apply. These are plates brother. I don't focus on women that aren't giving me pussy.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:31 PM
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Learn all forms of mindfulness. Become buddha, become a monk. This also aligns with TRP. You want body meditation, Transcendental, Whim Hoff, Mantra, Affirmation, Learn mindfulness. You should only have your goals and mindfulness. Nothing else should invade. The book thats worked best for me is the Power of Now, I read that and listened to the audiobook every night. I probably meditate constantly. I exercise constantly, physically mentally and spiritually. If I notice my mind straying I meditate…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:14 PM
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I was saying women are devious in their own right. I don't completely agree with the premise of what you're saying. Women just want to maintain control but they also enjoy the feeling they get when they can't say no even though they are trying too. They are backward creatures. Also if a women is ass naked with you in the bed and saying "no" she already past the safety stages, and the shit testing. Eg. Women complain when I constantly ask them for consent. "I just want it to happen naturally". Wo…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:21 AM
1

Lmfao I love that No dance they always do. Devious creatures.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:26 AM
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No I think you misunderstood. I go for what I think are 7's on tinder then they wind up having kids haha. Then I lose all energy to pursue. I've never purposefully been with a woman that has had kids. Basically Tinder is the trashbin for attractive women lol. I really need to start using twitter.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:09 PM
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Sorry man. I want to say two things for any bro's to not get into this. Unwanted pregnancy is one of THEE most important factors in a LTR. if not most important. Buy the little cheap strips for pregnancy tests and have your girl get tested twice a month on the same days. The sooner you know about an accident the easier it is to resolve the issue. I always have a verbal agreement with any woman im cumming in that we will not have a child together. I always stress that if they decided to keep it i…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:29 PM
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For one if this not an image of you that you like, you do have the power to change it. Also if a girl is interested in you already, she's already accounted for that. Im pretty sure if these are in person interactions they can tell how you look. You definitely are in your own head, you're in your own world. Think about the other end; women are much more self conscious than men, and the fact is WE BARELY CARE after we figure they are attractive. You sound uncomfortable with body rejection because …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:21 PM
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Haha I guess we're different demographics. I'm 28, mine is set 18-28. Still run into it all the time. All tinder has for me is single moms, and fat women, and now trans women smh... I'm obviously looking in the wrong place. Times are bad haha
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:13 PM
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I haven't just was asking for others experiences with it to see if I was missing something. I'm not.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:19 PM
1

Yeah I've done the married woman thing for a while. Interesting to say nonetheless
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:34 PM
2

Tinder haha. What else is there lol
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:33 PM
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oh shit! YIKES ahaha
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:47 PM
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Lol why
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:19 PM
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Lol I can only provide peen 🥴 and mutual companionship haha. I might just gotta say fuck it and try. Im might just have to pull one I had a ONS with out the woodworks. Kinda toxic of me cause I cut her off for being too emotional. Idk I'm just bored at this point
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:19 PM
1

Lol do it. We're also here for the entertainment make sure you post about it so we can see the shitshow.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:57 AM
2

Literally woke up from a bad dream about this and can't go back to sleep haha. Thought one of my exes was hiding a baby from me
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:55 AM
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You're lacking self love which leads to confidence. Appreciate yourself more. Its good to be hard on yourself but it seems like you're out of balance. Make a list of all the little things youve done that you are proud of literally give yourself a hug and learn to love the man in the mirror.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:33 AM
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The answer is time, if you dont ruminate on her she will literally become just a memory. It's science. Allow yourself to grieve but don't hold yourself back out of some masked self hatred.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:30 AM
1

yikes. I mean does talking to us count? Hey bro u/latrobe1000 u can dm me.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:29 AM
1

Yeah I agree with everyone why respond when she just said she isn't interested lmfao. Weird that you're getting a bunch of these. Never heard that lol you're doing something haha
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:25 AM
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Change your pic lol. But obviously talk about him say hes great he probably would love you. He loves *insert feature or characteristic about her* brunnets, sweet people, gorgeous women... and keep the convo going goofy.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:23 AM
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They are fucking with the algorithms. It's already a losing game. Whats working? Persistency lol and creating a new account on someone elses phone with new pictures because they track you smh. I haven't had much trouble during this time (I had like 200 likes mostly from 7 and below I only go for 7 up) got 2 plates out of it. I'm just mega picky. I also buy gold and refund in 14 days (you can do alot in 14 days), 5 super likes (which dont even work anymore) and unlimited swipes (cause fuck it).
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:21 AM
1

Haha do you realize how sensitive you are coming off as? This is literally no big deal. Why do you care if she cares about your apartment or how you are. Literally a LTR all you need is her loyalty and honesty, the rest make sure shes happy as you increase you value. I learned not to gripe about shit. The only time I have problems in my LTR is if I have a problem with something so I save my shit for the big stuff. She will stop taking you seriously or lose respect for you with this behavior and …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:18 AM
1

I literally just gave you an example. You can google this. Positive vs. Negative. Note: I said tease in the affirmative. Meaning affirming someone through a joke.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:10 AM
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Fuck marriage. But where are the unicorns?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:08 AM
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lol turn off your feelings as soon as you know they are a hoe. use her dont let her use you. I also never lose my exes because I record amatuer porn videos of us. I enjoy the relationship but does it pain me for it to end? No. I'm sure you're feeling genuine pain, but what I'm saying is it isn't necessary if you have healthy attachment. None of my exes will ever get over me and settle down because im the standard, and I am the bar they will always be reaching for. Once you know this about yourse…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:03 AM
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yeah tease don't neg. You can tease in the affirmative. Like you can bring light to her appearance without being a dick. Women are self conscious on your own. Even if you mention something positively if they like you they will become sensitive to it. "I always get trapped in your eyes when you do your makeup like that" "I know i kinda messed up on the left one " usually once they make fun of themselves I do it too and exaggerate it to make them feel silly. I want them to feel confident because t…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:58 AM
1

sound like an asshole be nice to women. Build them up don't neg them haha. Def set strong boundaries leaving after 15 minutes of no communication isnt an asshole its setting boundaries. Treat people how you would like to be treated. If you need to make a woman to feel insecure to want you increase your value instead.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:54 AM
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Bro I give them attention when I can, truth is im busy living my life and they know it. As long as she feels im taking my time out of my day to swing a bit of attention her way shes happy. but if this is a girl you hard nexted, be friendly happy, non chalant. be yourself. dont worry to much about it. Smile, wave treat her like anyone else. play the game. Never act interested lol. If youre interested try and pull her. Acting is unnecessary and beta, because you're trying to put the ball in her co…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:11 AM
2

yeah, I used to do this. They are cracking down on this tho, by tracking everything connected to you.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:07 AM
3

fucking hate this. They really gaming us haha. We need open source tinder (open source everything, and grass roots fund it), Tired of greedy fucks and their brain science haha.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:07 AM
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Tinder is fucking ass, their algorithms are designed to sap the energy out of us. The women are trash but its the easiest method. I say delete the app for 3 months (92+ days) and restart thats when they reset your algorithm. No idea how but all my old plates matched with me when quarantine started haha hard nope. Just gotta deal with it tbh. You can also make a new app with a different number, but honestly they try and screw you no matter what. I'm also super picky too i only plate 7's and up. B…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:05 AM
1

Precisely, I think most people would react that way. Not just confident people I thought you were trolling at first. You're def overthinking jt
/r/askTRP21/05/20 06:21 AM
1

Umm figure out why you feel insecure for being halfway rejected. This isn't about them its about how you allow others to make you feel about yourself. It's time for some introspection. Increasing you value means that you can get rejected 100x and still know your worth. Just because someone isn't treating you as much as you think you're worth doesn't mean your'e worthless. Also it helps to have a healthy objective sense of worth. Do some more reading. You don't need to feel insecure you chose tha…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:50 AM
1

My answer doesn't change.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:45 AM
1

fine then don't fuck her because shes making you feel insecure lol
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:34 PM
1

thats women in general lol. which is why we switch them up.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:32 PM
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increase your value. you're worried about someone not worried about you. shes using you for attention.... advice: be distant shes not offering you anything of value and subsequently devaluing you. also anyone who hamsters isnt LTR material so why waste your time
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:28 PM
1

idek how thats a question. fuck her if you want too lol. just because shes being coy about a threesome isnt a red flag. Spin that plate bro
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:25 PM
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youre pushing it too hard. they already talked about it if it happens it happens. if they ever are around you together you already know the situation is placed in your hands
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:19 PM
1

you can pay a prostitute for intimacy and affection lol
/r/askTRP20/05/20 11:12 PM
2

HISTRIONIC PERSONALITY DISORDER, they are the perfect girls but they are never yours. I enjoyed mine too. They are perfect women because they study how to be one because they crave that attention, sad thing is nothing is ever enough from one man. You did well my brother.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 07:33 PM
1

Trying too hard for too long, just relax for a bit. Try as much isolation as you can get. You def need a break to recharge. Take as long as you need. Keep your plates around only if they ask just let them know you want a little quiet time if they are going to be around.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:08 PM
1

I mean if you weren't committed (aka risk) this probably wouldn't even be a question tbh. Yeah you're def not completely committed but she def got it, tbh that level of commitment is a girlfriend. Sometimes I have 3 girlfriends in one week, they come and go. I don't really have FWB to me those are girls you are cool with that you fuck and basically thats it. Fuckbuddies, youre barely cool but you dtf. I dont do that either. I like girlfriends which most would call plates here. You kinda are lett…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:16 PM
2

yes do both goofy. Next time leave this one in the drafts. you basically answered your own questions. self doubt is a motherfucker, dont feed into it.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:58 AM
-1

OP's whining and self depreciating excuses bother me.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:57 AM
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TRP says you're supposed to be clear from the jump. you should revisit the boundaries of girl. I always let them know I have no responsibility towards commitment unless I tell you I commit so assume im always fucking girls when youre not around (even if im not). of course I dont say it so crudely. that girl basically got you committed to her thats no fwb lol, thats a girlfriend. final verdict: in my opinion its not worth it, constant pussy from someone you enjoy is better than any ONS. String th…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:54 AM
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Damn bro I feel your pain. I'm never good with this shit. I'm emotional af. There's no reason to try to game the system anymore, (fuck a downgrade) She's no longer LTR material. Take your loss. Normally, I vent to them, talk shit, and do whatever I feel like will make me feel better. Just don't let her take anymore from you. Also FYI, she broke up with you a month ago, and she's already moved on (if not cheated) and found alternatives (at least mentally). Dont validate her any further. Take some…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:02 AM
9

LMFAO sounds like alot of my past plates smh. They also want to throw in the you're different I want to treat you differently trope. Nope.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 03:58 AM
1

I rent a cheap 3 bedroom so I could sublease the rooms and have them pay most of the rent. I own the lease so I basically make all the rules. Finding good roommates is hard tho. For me its my place and they have the rooms. Girls dont mind because they know its mine, they do get a lil iffy knowing someone is there. I would go cheapest as possible, save and invest, just make sure the place is nice, it would be better if the place was yours and the guy rented a room but thats not likely.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:55 AM
4

exactly OP is stuck in his feelings, move on. work for a better ferrari. Dream of a better one. Build your own even. but most of all stop placing feelings on other things that aren't yourself. Appreciate external things but its the internal that should give you joy
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:58 PM
1

Honestly if you're asking this question you're doing the focusing on the wrong things with your life. You know the answer. Be busy dont just act the role be the role.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:45 AM
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haha I record most of my moments with my women, so they never really leave haha. Just appreciate the good times you had, and never look back. Make room for better pussy. We cant win every moment of the day. and naw you wont get over it for a while, its a scar, a trauma even. Honestly try and stop worrying about them and how they feel. Focus on you.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:41 AM
11

To me that's the exact definition of Karma.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:38 AM
3

I love ultimatums. I would have said it again :D. Good riddance makes room for something better.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:31 PM
1

Lmfao yeah I missed the reference. so maybe what I said doesn't apply to you directly but look at all the other posts.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:27 PM
1

When you feel comfortable just for it. I usually just go in with a statement that gives them the oppurtunity to consent first. "I really want to kiss you" "can I kiss you?" "your lips looks so good right now" follow her body language if shes licking her lips two things. 1. she doesnt realize it. 2. she wants you to kiss them. Its better to ask then to not, a win win you know if shes interested or not (you move on)
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:24 PM
1

where's the meme? Missed the irony.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:04 PM
1

but based off what you said you're wasting your time. She's likely looking for "free" attention.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:03 PM
1

what that means is they want a friend, lol says nothing about fucking. Most girls that say on tinder turn out to be "Friends" with benefits.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:02 PM
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Calisthenics. Do that jail cell work out and stop crying
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:49 PM
1

Let's see if you have this energy 3 months from now. Stay strong
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 03:48 PM
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I think its a good idea for OP to see a counselor as well, sounds like there's some toxic family dynamics already.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:11 PM
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sorry to hear that bro. Thats some hard advice but we need people who are capable of doing that even if it doesn't work. OP I think if you try its better than nothing because you will know that you;ve tried your best and your brother will know that someone tried and cared even if it was too much. as an aside I believe in reincarnation so apart of me feels like its like the person saying that their game is too corrupted and they want to try again. Its so much easier to work with something than ag…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:10 PM
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The boys said it already
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:23 PM
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Haha my ex had Histrionic Personality Disorder. I'd like to say that these disorders manifest themselves much differently when they are deeply romantically involved with you. Most people with personality disorders are highly functioning. The rule is you see the red flags you run when you can no longer handle the fire ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 04:22 PM
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Didn't read. You were just venting but listen up bro. Let yourself suffer. When you are done you will be done with it. Keep doing what you're doing this is stoicism. When you are ready it will be yours. Sometimes you have to sit in a well and think. Stay off social media too delete the app (keep the profile tho update sporadically) its a waste of time. I never find my plates through social media
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 08:48 PM
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You don't have to be so forth putting. I would have just said dang I wish I knew earlier so I could have planned, and then but the burden on her to visit me. Definitely keep the tease.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:46 PM
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Honestly, every woman deals with something. I don't think it's just you. Never settle though.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:14 AM
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I actually dgaf, I don't participate. Every adult is held accountable by the same rules of life. They chose their position.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:44 PM
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LMFAO
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:47 PM
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Also you want to start learning about investing asap.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:30 PM
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I would consider fitting some strength training in there, you want to wakeup sore everyday. Take some risks, that's a huge thing. Take alot of risks. Find your passion, you can be stoic and passionate. College is honestly nothing if you don't have a goal with it. Have fun. The internet is a big place, keep looking for that community by being that community. Good luck
/r/askTRP02/04/20 12:29 PM
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