Plates with Kids?

RelucBeam · 2020-05-22T15:15:04+00:00

The wording of the title is fucking hilarious

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-05-22T15:21:17+00:00

Just have sex with them and don’t wife them. If they don’t cooperate with that then move on

UsualEducation · 2020-05-22T15:46:37+00:00

title makes it sound like you want to plate kids lol

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-22T15:34:09+00:00

I know im missing on some crucial game and some golden opportunities.

Indeed you are. Their dating dynamics are completely different with a kid in the picture, so they have a lot more pent-up sexual frustration. Learn how to tap into this gold mine, and you'll be rewarded handsomely.

It's usually a different game with the single moms. They don't seek hookups nearly as often. Instead, they at least want the illusion of someone to rely on. So give them that. Portray yourself as someone who's open to a relationship, but taking it one step at a time. If you're perceptive, you can spot out the horndogs; these types will want to fuck on the second date as long as they don't think you're going to ghost them immediately later.

Dangle the possibility of a relationship in front of them, and you'll extend out their life as a plate. Use the fact that they want to "wife you" to your advantage.

And you know what? There are some single moms that had enough of the sham married life. They don't want you to meet their kid right away, they don't want more kids, and they don't want something super serious out of you. They want a fun guy they can casually date and hang out with. These types make good FWBs.

Don't come at them with the one-night-stand/fuck-boy vibes and you'll clean up.

anonboi4ever · 2020-05-22T15:11:27+00:00

They're gonna need a provider so just don't do that and fuck em

IXseed · 2020-05-22T17:52:45+00:00

I feel like im wasting my time even talking to them

They why are you doing it?

ReaperX44 · 2020-05-22T19:07:34+00:00

Fuck her raw so you can make her your plate forever.

volcanolairbadguy · 2020-05-22T16:48:07+00:00

No 7 has kids. Aim higher

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-05-22T16:27:34+00:00

You are looking in the wrong places.

How are you always bumping into single mothers?

lolomotif12 · 2020-05-22T15:51:15+00:00

Depends, will you eventually want to be in an LTR? If yes then these women are cutting down your chances of finding a potential LTR by consuming your time and energy. If not then fuck away until they break.

skyrunner22 · 2020-05-22T18:31:02+00:00

I got no issues with it, actually helps my game because I cant get oneitis. If you learn to play it right its great. Their schedules are usually booked and they wont nag me as they have other things to take care of. When they do hit me up its to have fun, I make myself their fun outlet guy. We both enjoy.

I say try it out, avoid the pitfalls, might be a good niche market for you.

acoltismypassport · 2020-05-22T15:17:28+00:00

You can't be a single mother and be a 7.

I don't, haven't, and will never fuck with a single mother. Complicates logistics, potential for her to baby trap you (she has a history of poor decision making, after all,) and you will obviously not be prioritised over her Chad spawn. Leave these washed up sluts to the thirsty Cap'n Save-a-Ho's.

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-22T16:36:20+00:00

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Fabulous-Craft · 2020-05-22T17:30:42+00:00

A 7 adjusted for being a single mom is a 5.

Why are you fucking 5s?

ReasonablyGoodMexica · 2020-05-22T16:14:11+00:00

Just stay away from the FBI and you'll be fine. Try running to Mexico or Asia if caught plating kiddies.

For real though, I did have one. Milfs are fun plates, but you can't expect prioritization of any sort. They usually aren't really single and want to keep you a secret, or they really are single and have little free time for you.

ElijahBurningWoods · 2020-05-22T16:48:52+00:00

You've already answered your own question.

Title	Plates with Kids?
Author	axiscontra
Upvotes	6
Comments	43
Date	May 22, 2020 3:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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