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skyrunner22/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:06 PM
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Wow.. That used to be rp on hardmode, they didnt play over there. What happened? It was heavily modded and I felt like they had the best sidebar out of all 3 (trp, asktrp, mrp)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 05:11 AM
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The book in sidebar games people play helped crystallize frame better than anything for some reason. his breakdown of ego state of parent, adult and child. Any time you communicate with someone you operate from one of the ego state, most is adult to adult but you can walk in a room and see how people defer to others and the unwritten rule of games people play. Guys have been soo beaten down and filled with propaganda that when they put women on pedestal they come from child ego state and us unde…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 01:57 PM
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Not the writer or anything but I always looked at it that you need to be the leader of yourself first and foremost. Take full responsibility of self and know no one is gonna save you and you are to work to be sovereign and autonomous over your life, usually women can see those things and she chooses up and falls in line. You are the captain of your ship and she wants to be "first mate". Then you become the leader of family.. Its not necessarily you walk around tryna lead everybody in every room …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 02:18 AM
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This is one of the parts of rp that I always had issues with. But you have to understand where these male spaces started to "get it".. RP is the natural evolution of Pick up from late 90s-early '00s. When those guys were breaking stuff down, they pulled info from evolution psychology, marketing, sales, comedy, storytelling, music, pimps/books/documentaries (around this time there were multiple popular pimp docs), etc. Understanding that makes it much more clearer, from a pimps perspective it mak…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 02:43 PM
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Agree with this thought overall but for longterm definitely think most should make a stop at Married RP reddit. Atleast read their sidebar, probably best in biz.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 02:30 AM
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Actually kinda reads like a neoreaction post.. IYKYK
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 05:19 PM
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I agree 100%. There is context that was revealed with visual social media in recent years that showed most guys were missing the mark and completely oblivious to it. Hard thing is majority of people wont cam up but you only need a few each episode I guess. Seeing this stuff play out live literally in first 5 seconds of seeing them and how they talk gives you majority of info needed why they might be struggling.. I would also suggest if you are trying to grow the channel hop on the youtube short …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/23 07:27 PM
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Agreed, maybe its just the evolution of this space that ALL of that is understood but I know you are a vet in the space a newbie wouldnt understand that all of that was broken down in the early stages of game.. From my understanding of mystery breaking that DHV stuff down with magic tricks was always that Mystery was a perfomer magician type. Him doing magic tricks and painting his nails and all that stuff was HIM being congruent and doing his thing. Guys were soo lost they just copied him, lol.…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/23 01:01 AM
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Really good post, but not sure if game being last is right. To me even having the article is "Game". If that makes sense, its not last it just overarching the whole thing, it helps you understand the value of those other things and understand the order of importance. I guess the next thing would be how you define "Game".. There are soo many definitions it can confuse but we have seen guys with the highest status get torn to shreds, guys with the best looks fumble, with the most money get taken a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 07:04 PM
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I 100% agree that proximity is the biggest thing and probably most underrated also. This was solidified in my eyes this holiday season after a few holiday parties I attended in different industries. Guys in mixed sex industries were much more social and even dudes who would be considered below avg were having success having girls in office hooking them up with friends, hooking up with a couple, just hanging out, having great success. Guys who were in more male dominated or isolated (think engine…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 02:13 PM
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I do some consulting work now and with holiday season I have been to thanksgiving potlucks and christmas parties and these industries you mention have it ROUGH. I think engineers have it the hardest. Lawyers probably best, but they do best in their domain, outside much harder on avg. Surgeons throw money around and get their due but they need more game because they are set up as marks ALOT by many just based on title. Engineers are soo square and logical, it is hard to even get them to loosen up…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 02:11 PM
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Its is women nature to KNOW these things, they have a radar looking for men with HIGH utility. These guys have high utility to the women at their peak market value. These guys promote themselves so they were first on myspace and take to social media like women do. If they are high level promoter they are around legit movie stars, top music stars, and high level professional athletes. These guys have access to the best clubs, the VIP, bottles, and can put women in proximity to their favorite star…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 02:03 PM
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Agreed. I always felt like their sidebar was better more fleshed out and with Rian stone linked breakdowns on youtube thats all you really need. Its like all the original rp guys went there to hide.. Miss the asktrp space also, they had different sidebar also
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 05:13 AM
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There is a sidebar literally on the page. Atleast on desktop reddit, to the right. I think on mobile its on the tab or hidden in menu/options or something. I would recommend reading both RP and MarriedRP sidebars since they are different and MarriedRP is more fleshed out and updated.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 05:06 AM
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Check out marriedRP for better understanding on LTR dynamic.. They have it broken down to molecule. There is overlap with the stuff here but its more thorough on that side, their sidebar is top notch also
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 02:53 AM
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I can tell you in high school alot of guys arent getting "laid" for most part. You will look back and if you talk to your friends candidly in 10 years they will all talk about how they missed opportunities and such because they didnt know. So if you are in these spaces, I would hope you are atleast aware of that. Dont be soo hard on yourself. If a guy in high school got laid it was most likely thru like a gf or some type of situation like that. Its good that you are putting in the work, keep goi…
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:55 AM
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Awesome, appreciate the reply.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:42 PM
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Only skimmed the responses and didnt really see any that answered why they tryna set you up with that mess... Its because many have been programmed to look at men like as utilities and only of service for whatever others want.. So they see you being a free man and they say hey why not use all those good traits to be a lap dog for sally (in other words). You were supposed to be raised waiting to be of service to women like this, supposed to be happy to be a crash dummy waiting on sideline for eve…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 04:11 AM
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Sex god method used to be primary recommendation. You can start there
/r/RedPillBooks31/08/22 03:56 AM
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Would like to hear what you felt the sub helped in you landing your wife?
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:27 AM
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My pleasure.. Just look at it like training wheels, to point you in right direction. After you get the foundational stuff it gets easier. Good luck
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:55 PM
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My pleasure man. We all have questions growing up and its usually the same things over and over, just sucks to see the things guys need nowadays be hard to find after most of the foundational stuff was figured out years ago.
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:54 PM
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Sucks that majority of old stuff has been deleted or wiped from internet and now these new guys sell the free info in courses for crazy money.. Probably one of the best text guides i ever saw and luckily I just checked on here in a long while.. Your welcome https://archive.ph/572sI
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:05 AM
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Money is important but never lead with your money! Guys tend to think if they lead with money you will get results, and some do but they will most likely be gold digger types and you will be a sweet mark for someone. You make money to invest in yourself and it will make you more attractive. Build your world that someone wants to be a part of. Money helps by getting your logistics in check, being able to go to fun places and fun dates, having access to healthy food and nice gyms, going out to soc…
/r/seduction25/12/21 01:43 AM
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Im guessing you say "manipulation" with a negative connotation? Get that out of your head, ASAP. Everything in life is being manipulated in a way, even little kids know to manipulate by crying to get what they want. Marketers, your parents, siblings, alllll do it, thats life, they want to manage/influence/manipulate/coerce/seduce/etc. Dressing better, grooming better, leading, teasing, touching, escalating is not a bad thing, you literally have an interested and frustrated women dam near DEMANDI…
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:31 AM
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Funny how some will say "game isnt needed" and/or "game doesnt work" then a post from an interested woman who has most likely give him multiple cues comes and complains how to make the guy "get it".. This is hard because lost guys get defensive when people dont allow them to save face, you might have to throw it at him as bad as it sounds, atleast the first time.. Or get him a game book for christmas as a gag gift or something, good luck to both of you
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:45 AM
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Back in day the used to tell guys with this question, take acting classes or some type of storytelling class maybe.. Improv/comedy was another that seemed to help guys think on fly.. This will actually put you around people and have you interacting and practicing, it will become 2nd nature.. Good luck
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:37 AM
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This is beautiful! I love when guys reach that moment and realize they now can develop a skill they will have for life. There will be more moments like that and it will expose you to great people and relationships that you can create. It becomes fun and you embrace the rejection, the next yes is right there.. Or when you get in zone and you get soo many numbers you cant even contact them all and you truly understand abundance.
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:14 PM
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Like I said, I am sure I butchered it and maybe the point didnt get across clearly.. It just means you need different skills for a young player getting in the game, doing one thing can give you blindspots that you wont know unless you do the opposite. I see it all the time, even with friends, they are great in relationships and handle that well but if they break up and we go out they have no skills to get multiple women and look at me like I have 3 eyes when I can pull it off with ease
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 08:00 PM
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There used to be a saying i read back in day that I will butcher but something like "the guy that wants to be with one women, needs to date alot and the guy that wants to date alot needs to be with one women" Always stuck with me but when I see guys say one or the other it always kinda rang true, you need different skills and will learn and grow in different ways..
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 02:43 PM
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sounds about right, lol..
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:12 AM
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Usually in high school you focus on building yourself up and more on social circle game for most part.. Think in those type of terms..
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:55 AM
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Ask him what he is going to wear.. Or send a picture of yourself.. That should help kick things off..
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:26 PM
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You did great! Exposure therapy says do a little at a time, you actually made it to the venue and peeped the scene.. Go again ASAP, now try to just talk to a bartender or something quick, or a staff member that isnt busy.. Quick convo, little by little.. Next thing you know wyou will be talking to girls.. Might take you a couple times before you work up courage but just do it.. Oh and atleast have your inner game lined up.. Reframe these steps as positive and dont beat yourself up soo much
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:20 PM
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Marriage is more of social construct.. Ever heard of 7 year itch (some evidence that its really 4 also)? It basically in line with psychology of a women locking down a man, getting his seed, him helping her in early years of childs development then the same things that used to be cute actually turn her off, she grows contempt, destroys relationship and bounces to do it all over again.. Before she leaves she has to destroy image of him and blame him for everything to justify her moves in her head…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 04:37 PM
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Bro if you see someone and they arent in rush or extremely busy, just introduce yourself.. Try not to surprise or not be in line of sight, give enough space where its not uncomfortable and just be like "hey dont mean to bother but wanted to introduce myself" If she is uninterested just say "ok cool have a great day" I approach dam near everyday I am out and have time and never have issues. Women even compliment sometimes and call back over because they liked how it went but are in auto reject mo…
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:10 PM
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Sounds like you are trying to nice guy your way into bed? Very difficult to do and alot more work than needed. You as a man need to lead the interaction and risk being rejected. Maybe you are afraid of rejection? As a man you need to embrace it, it will happen.. Just take it in stride and move on to next person.. Maybe read no more mr nice guy and when I say no, i feel guilty. This will help you with setting boundaries and being assertive. Give yourself a backbone.. Hope this helps
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:34 PM
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Most times when guys ask I just link this.. Also its funny how women just want it allllllll and can get it and still not be satisfied, lol.. https://archive.md/m2dvv
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:48 PM
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Were you suckered by marketing if it helps you with girls who are already into you? If your success rate increased with those "yes girls" then sounds like it did its job.. Not wasting your time with time wasters and the such is also a valuable thing.. You save your valuable time and money.. Being able to recognize that is basically the game.. Shout out to Alan Roger Currie
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:01 AM
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I just clicked thru the links one by one.. Some of the stuff didnt really apply to me (reformed incel and michael's story) but still read them to get a feel. I think MarriedRP will take the most time as its the only one still being actively updated and curated, plus has book recommendation. All this stuff is just tools, each person will need to put in different amounts of time, I dont remember everything but I refer back to this stuff randomly and after awhile you retain a majority. Dont expect …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 05:08 PM
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Yea been in game awhile also, and from your post we see things the same way.. Only thing I can see is I see it all as game (specialized social dynamics/knowledge) and I guess you guys see game as only canned lines or whatever the old school guys were doing? To me if a guy comes here and says what do I do about _______, and we say hey be socially calibrated (which is kinda vague and leaves alot of room for messing up) approach, tease a little, dont be needy, your responsibility to lead the intera…
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:18 PM
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There used to be a saying i read back in day that I will butcher but something like "the guy that wants to be with one women, needs to date alot and the guy that wants to date alot needs to be with one women" Always stuck with me but when I see guys say one or the other it always kinda rang true, you need different skills and will learn and grow in different ways.. Good luck on your journey
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:57 PM
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I get what you are saying and agree for most part but to play devil's advocate a bit, why do we have this space then? Why do guys come here hat in hand EVERYDAY asking questions and confused as ever? Should we just post find the girls who are attracted to you, and flirt a bit. Done? How about if the guy doesnt even recognize the signs she is attracted to him? I see loong post like that all the time about guys missing signals, how about if the guy doesnt know how to be attractive and him having n…
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:34 PM
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I agree its a loaded word, I have seen soo many different definitions, but in reality its just specialized social skills, the canned stuff died a looong time ago and what we would considered normal was just something the nerds codified years ago for people who lacked those things that some learned at a young age. Just saying when you say learn social skills over anything, in my head its the same as telling someone learn "game".. I think talking to a girl and getting her number would fall in that…
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:10 AM
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This all seems legit because I can agree with most you said, only thing I kinda laughed at is when you said game is a bit overrated then said all it takes is social calibration, ability to approach and tease with proper escalation....... ummm.. Thats essentially some of the top pillars of game! lmaoooo.. I think when you have been in it soo long and dont have those issues anymore it becomes a blind spot and you sorta become a natural like yea just be socially calibrated bro, you dont need game..…
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:37 AM
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Yea, its one of those things thats been kinda wiped off the web but was extremely valuable.. I had it in my profile so just went back and grabbed it, I saw you getting replies with people not even answering so and these spaces have been destroyed in last few years.. either way, just take the overarching themes and dont overthink it
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:29 AM
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Read all three sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP), with their book recommendations you should be good to go. All three are different and add different views. If I had to rank I might rank TRP the weakest one but its simple and hasnt been updated much so its true to original core.. I like marriedrp more even though not married just because its nuanced, it continues to get curated and updated and gives a guy a 60 day outline on where to start with drinking from this firehose..
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 09:58 PM
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Dont really think you need a texting guide but if its necessary, the best I have seen is Mr. V's guide.. Dude came dropped it and bounced.. It was good stuff.. https://archive.md/572sI
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:15 PM
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exposure therapy, you need to hang out with more girls and realize you put them mentally on a pedestal like they are foreign.. that only happens when you dont hang out with them and realize they are normal beings just like you..
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:32 PM
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Bro if you are getting recognized for hitting on women only then that means you need to switch it up for new fertile grounds.. go somewhere else, switch it up
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:25 PM
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Its the super bowl! Yessssss women are out to have fun and you should too!
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:14 AM
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO... My reaction at reading thread title and then opening thread and reading you are 21... You are being insecure and overthinking.. How can you be an incel and you turned down advances? Do YOU know the meaning of the word incel? Can an incel turn down advances? Broooo, you are ahead of the game, I remember reading the game doesnt really start until a year from college around 23, before then most guys are just fumbling around.. If you are 21, hit the gym, dress well and make six …
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:31 AM
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Instead of 3rd date. Invite her over to yours for a drink or something to chill.. See what she says.. That will let you know wassup
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:30 PM
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I have always been a BEAST on the phone to point if I can get a girl number and get her on phone my chances go up exponentially. It was always kinda my secret weapon from even my younger years (if anybody remembers the party lines back in day, lol).. Cons I have seen: Some people are soo used to text now, even girls can be awkward on phone calls and they rather text. ( i have had girls on dates and on phone quiet af but then want to text whole convos, wtf) -With phone calls you need to catch som…
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:12 PM
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Umm we dont know your schedule and what fits better. Also what is goal here, higher chance to pull back to yours or something? Depending on work schedule 10 sounds better as 7 seems like it has a ceiling on time you can be together.. You need to think this out for yourself tho, critical thinking cap, put it on.. lol
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:26 AM
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TO answer your question higher percentage have chosen lean in surveys but strong and bulky also get their fair share because people have their preferences.. At end of day do it for yourself but do with that info what you want
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:24 AM
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What value do you bring to table? Is this high school or college? You actually dont compete with them you find a way to infiltrate their circle group, Use game to socialize with one of the guys and work your way to get cool with everyone. While doing that improve yourself going to gym, do you have a car? Assuming this is high school, the guys who created a niche for themselves were usually the athletes, social club kids, party kids, local party favor supplier, kid who had car and job who was abl…
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:21 AM
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Some may overlook as basic or whatever but this is the foundational stuff that many need to learn. Everything else like game and such is built on top of this and helps give men the frame they need.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:56 PM
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What is soo cool or why do guys learn game, benefit from it then denounce it to others who could benefit from it? Like I dont need game but all you need is frame (which you learned about from reading about game and is a foundational aspect from game teachings).. Its ok to have learned something and to encourage others.. Maybe many aspects of game is worthless to you, or the practice of approaching but if you say go to gym, make diet, improve job and free agent lifestyle and build frame, that is …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 03:39 PM
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This might be the best thread I have seen on here in a loooong time, alot of good game being given in here, salute to everybody who has contributed. One thing I always say and seems to be a common theme from multiple people is Logistic is HUGE in game and an underrated aspect at same time. Definitely something to keep in mind. Logistics, logistics, logistics
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:30 PM
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This post reminds me of one of the old school blogs Privateman (RIP) touched on this a few times and his way of going about it he felt first you work on your confidence by mastering something important to him and that mastery gives him a sense of control of himself and his social environment. After that he needed basic social skills where you could interact with anybody in a setting, us being social animals there were many benefits not just interacting with women but everyone. He recommended the…
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:15 AM
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Yea its a great book for what it was.. At the time it helped ALOT of dudes, most seduction stuff stole ideas from it and people still use stuff from its core dna. The routines and stuff were played out but still value in there.. This was stuff from 15-20 years ago, the game has evolved.. You on right path reading the classics
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:58 PM
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Somebody asked this recently, my responses from that post: The overall fundamentals of it are still valuable. I think alot of what they talked about people still use, attraction triggers, peacocking, being leader of men, leading, teasing, etc.. The routines are outdated, but for someone with no game, it atleast gives them an initial roadmap to get out there and make something happen.. a reply to a response in that post: Yup. The fundamentals will stay the same regardless of time, it just evolves…
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:21 PM
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She left to find a bad boy to ravish her.. Your niceness was a turn off, look up the etymology of the word "nice", see what comes up (Foolish, stupid, ignorant, unaware, etc.) women dont like all that disney stuff you were sold. Honestly the only way you could get her interest was to move on, reinvent yourself and get a new gf that is hot and even that is low percentage hail mary. You sound really young and this might be your first gf, so its gonna hurt and suck but it happens, build yourself up…
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:28 AM
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Im terrible outlining this stuff, I skip steps and just wing it half the time and just go off vibe.. The best thing anybody looking to get into game is go thru user WIA20XX post history, its just a gold mine for game stuff, real life goat. What I will say is in that situation, running "game" you would get her logistics early, who she came with, who is driving or uber, how big a group (bigger the group, higher a chance she leaves with you), etc. Have her introduce you to her friends (this is wher…
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:20 AM
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Money is important, very important. But like everything there is nuanced. You need money FOR YOU. Don't lead with your wallet unless you want to attract a certain type of women and know how to handle that to get what you want also. But you need money to go out, you need money to get in gym, to invest in yourself, buy better clothes, have your own place for good logistics, to eat better, fix your teeth, better grooming, have a car to meet people and get places and hobbies. Use money to upgrade yo…
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:08 PM
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Yup. The fundamentals will stay the same regardless of time, it just evolves in how you display. Back then you just said the story and paint a picture. Now with social media you can DHV with your pics and actual stories on ig (you look at some guys ig and its the same thing they are just showing low value with terrible pics) People knock it because these guys were nerds and like most nerds they had to codify everything and make it super technical BUT what they brought to light was actually alot …
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:56 PM
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The overall fundamentals of it are still valuable. I think alot of what they talked about people still use, attraction triggers, peacocking, being leader of men, leading, teasing, etc.. The routines are outdated, but for someone with no game, it atleast gives them an initial roadmap to get out there and make something happen..
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:54 AM
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It works, I have gotten results from it for years. Its like second nature to me now.. I will say tho, coffee shop is kinda a hard pull for me but has been done before.. If its daygame, I have gotten great results at mall, beach, gas station, library (which is funny because its usually quieter than a coffee shop), almost car accident, Walmart, walking down the street, etc. Any and everywhere is a possibility.. I will say even as teen we were doing stuff like this (kinda like the movie the wood) w…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:40 AM
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Usually it has to do with proximity, not wanting to make assumptions how old are you? A high school/college age kid will have more success than a guy who is older but busy working and tied up in life because even though he is broke he has proximity and time around women his age, he doesnt have to do anything, he sees them daily, at school, after school, hanging out, parties on weekend, etc. He can be around them without having money, job, place to stay, etc. There are guys who kill it in college…
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:30 PM
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There is a million ways to skin a cat they say, so I get it, technically, you could starve yourself or a million different combinations to achieve that result. But going to gym, and resistance training with Cardio and a healthy diet will get you really good results that most look for when they think of what they want to look like. Some guys dont want to be jacked, thats cool, some guys want the lean look, cool too. Some want swimmers body, others want added muscle. Never said lifting and losing …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 08:31 PM
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Congrats bro, thats awesome.. I dont know how someone can say lifting wont help you get more attractive or get laid more, lol.. Soo much benefits comes from lifting, some of these guys need to get banned posting shit like that which will confuse guys, the confidence alone and from your pics, I think you chiseled out your face which is attractive and will happen when you lift, lose weight and lower your body fat. Its a holistic thing and some combination will work more for you than others, becaus…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 08:20 PM
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Sounds like he if more upfront and letting them know what he wants.. Read Mode One by Alan Roger Currie, it should maybe help you with your hangups
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:08 PM
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I like the post, but always want when someone post about "game" to atleast give their definition and how they use it in this post.. Some times it seems like this all encompassing word that confuses with many definitions and you dont really know which one the author is talking about, we say its because this guy doesnt know game but what exactly do you mean in that context..
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 03:55 PM
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I hate to be that guy but being 6'4 you dont really even need abs, just be in decent enough shape. (from pic you look good enough to pull). Your looks are good and in pic your outfit is good enough. I would say your style is something you want to look over and make sure you get that tuned in. Two things that really stand out to me is the nerdy bit and the menial job while living at home. When someone says nerdy to me I automatically think limited social skills because alot of nerds tend to do ho…
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:04 PM
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Hey it was nice talking to you, maybe we should hang out some time, put your number in my phone.. Oh No? ok cool well enjoy the rest of your day, take care.. If yes, freestyle there and see if the vibe is to try to instadate or better to go about your day depending on what you have going on..
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:26 AM
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You have done a good job investing in yourself but what are you competent in? Like your self esteem and confidence comes from knowing internally that you can competently do things that YOU want to do in your life.. Can you fight, dance, perform art, photography, DJ? Guys who have dominant presence have it because they dont gaf what others think because they are intrinsically motivated, they only do things for their own enjoyment.. Its not external, its internal.. Look into internal locust of con…
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:23 AM
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This is very true. Isolation has these guys social skills in the absolute dump. Like you mentioned game should be the last thing, Privateman (rip) used to have post on his blog about this exact thing, I will link. He walks thru that guys have to develop confidence in something first, a real skill, then just have basic social skills to talk to anybody, then after that you can get specialized skills to deal with women. https://archive.is/ydFb4 He recommends book Succeed Socially by Chris Macleod f…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 04:35 PM
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You didnt really give alot to go off of but from what I have seen, usually has to do with one or a mixture of isolation (guy who have no frame of reference for social interaction and put women on pedestal as some foreign mythical creature), afraid of rejection, sheltered extremely by parents, religion at young age told him even looking at women before marriage will get you sent to hell and is bad and makes you a bad person, some type of trauma or self esteem issue. You have to figure out what it…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 04:26 PM
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Just google mystery method group theory. Alot of his stuff was over the top but the fundamentals were pretty solid. His approaching groups stuff gives a basic framework you can freestyle off of..
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:25 PM
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Men and women have both test and estrogen, yin and yang has a little of the other included, that polarity is actually what helps you be more attractive, when you can fully integrate/embrace both . Him adding self care doesnt make him a women, lol.. Thats low level.. If you actually look at the dudes that women were most attracted to, they embrace a certain type of expression. Rock stars, artist type, old school playas also had that flare..
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:53 PM
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I think everybody should read all three sidebars (TRP, AskTRP and MarriedRP) as they are all good but have different material, if you are in relationship/LTR you have to read MarriedRP.. It is for LTR and it is very good and to me has nuance that original RP misses.. This is why guys who first get into RP fuck up their situations so much, they call it going rambo..
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 10:43 AM
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I have had women tell me to come back after I am about to exit an approach and was initially rejected because in their words, they initially eject out or reaction because most guys are terrible, so I agree it makes you look better.. The vast majority of guys have terrible game, atleast the kid is trying tho, Ill give him that
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:17 PM
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I remember trying it once, was on the phone leaving campus and saw an extremely attractive girl walking to her car. Me I have no issues approaching and would have done it but was on an important call so I dropped it and kept driving, by the time the call ends I get home like 10 min away, I have an issue, I hate missed opportunities and will let it ruminate in my head rather than a rejection (especially if you know your type that you do well with) so I grab a pen and go back. She is obviously gon…
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:02 PM
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This is one of the key things cold approach helps with, the sheer volume of reps you get make your social skills get good fast. I remember Dante Nero used to say laying the 5 bricks (approaches) a day prepares you for the super bowl (that moment at the dorm).. For you in that moment that was your super bowl, but you havent been to practice, skipped preseason, avoided regular season and the playoffs then expect to show up during the super bowl and make impact plays.. Doesnt work like that, good t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 04:05 AM
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For a fact alot of dudes dont have game, Im sure everyone sees it everyday they step out of their house, its not a surprise you see all over these spaces when dudes come across this info the repeating theme is "I wish I knew about this xx amount of years ago" Yea Rom keeps it basic on his main channel but he can get deep too, I love his insight on getting the mask off of a woman and the womb imprint stuff is good too.. When him and Bgs bounce off each other, oh man.. Salute to the OGs. ARC books…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 03:11 AM
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Rom Wills is the truth, anyway I actually look at Select (good looking, super attractive), Alpha (assertive leader behavior type) and Rp (aware of women nature and understanding of social dynamics) across some sort of axis. Like you can be select and not necessarily "alpha", have had friends growing up like this, we are in middle school and he is dating high school girls, we are in high school and he is messing with upper classmen, college and even teachers but he really cant keep them because h…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 11:53 AM
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Read no more mr. nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:04 AM
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Fucking Pook man, after reading this type of stuff, do you really need anything else?!
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:20 PM
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Lots of people who have OD'd on RP are gonna hate this post because I even see people telling others not to shit where they eat in regards to quick gigs like waiters (mind you that industry is notorious for hookups) and even telling them the same while in college (i cant beleive I had to explain to them that college is largest congregation of peak age women in proximity that they will have in their life, dont miss out).. Good stuff, I have seen waiters, DJ, bartenders, throw in promoter which is…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 04:51 PM
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It was a devils advocate way to give a different perspective, its literally in the post. Wasnt to put anyone on pedestal and just look at things differently, he had a convo with mom and changed his perspective, just advocating maybe one with dad would do the same. Has nothing to do with putting fathers on pedestal, fathers have been shitted on and is the default setting.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 12:17 PM
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There are always multiple ways of looking at things as a child who might "feel" a certain way and affected by it in ways he didnt want you still have o learn some and will probably have the same talk with your dad and see it from his perspective too.. The way your dad led is what was probably expected of him, kids nowadays have alot of interactions with their fathers and younger fathers have a ton more interaction with their kids then probably ever before. He provided for you, you are healthy, h…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 01:56 AM
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In addition to approaches, you should also look to expand your social circle in other ways. If you have a high paying solitary job you need to invest in yourself by putting yourself out there in other parts of your life. Take a dance class, cooking class, join some type of social group, social type of gym (not too much a fan of crossfit but they have great social aspect), etc. These types of things will help you be better at approaching and it will be easier. With the income you have, dont lead …
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:01 PM
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There are many sayings for this type of stuff but mainly a high value man is someone who values them self. There are soo many different ways people say this, interval locust of control, the street dudes would say "the game is in you, not on you". You have to be internally driven and seek validation within your self. There is a certain enthusiasm/energy that person exudes that draws people to them. (Look up the etymology of word enthusiasm, basically god within, possessed by god) I am sure we all…
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:55 PM
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Vintage RP shit like circa 2013-15.. This article would have fit in nicely and not seem out of place. Highest compliment I can pay..
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:09 AM
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Ill probably butcher it but anybody remember the island boat metaphor. Men are islands and women swim up and want to see what you have built. You as a man you build your island by being in shape, competence, money, skills, and fun lifestyle. Most people dont have there shit together so before women even dock they can see that and bust a U turn. But if you do, it becomes easy because you have it together and thats what women want, they stick around for awhile and then they leave, you understand t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 05:13 PM
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When you consistently approach this happens, me n my friends joke around that we are in the zone and cant miss. Happens a couple times a year, we just always tell each other to ride the wave because it ebbs and flows. But it does get to a point where its like I cant even contact all these women, just connect with the ones who I vibed best with..
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 10:09 PM
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The reason I posted those two extremely different approaches is to show you that honestly it doesnt matter what you say but that you approach and how.. Confident, respectful and outcome independent. You will get rejected (ive been rejected 100s, maybe 1000s of times, I dont remember them, I dwell more on the opportunities that I didnt try than rejections) , dont take it personal, you are literally interrupting a women and barraging yourself in her life, who knows what she is going thru at moment…
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:35 AM
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Be about that action boss, Im sure you have thought on it enough. Go out there and shoot your shot, you will get more results doing that and info that will help you calibrate and grow from you situation.. Good Luck
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:30 AM
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Excuse me, saw you and wanted to introduce myself.. Or Excuse me do you think a library is a good place to look for a sugar mama? Now go, its really that simple.. The 2nd one is for more advanced but put there to show you can literally say anything, there is youtube channel where dude recites drake lyrics and shit to approach random people..
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:29 AM
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Bro the game dont stop, You probably might have to shoot your shot more but there are dudes with no arms or legs who have families.. Let your friend rot in his pessimistic mindset, their are millions/billions of 5'6 dudes who have gotten women since forever..
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:20 AM
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Where Im from, 2 guys is like devils threeway or running a train.. 2 chicks threesome.. but no big deal
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:29 AM
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two guys and a girl is technically not a threesome
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:09 AM
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Logistics is always a big part of "game" that isnt talked about enough. Everything can change if you have the right situation. Hopefully you are working on getting a car and/or place on your own ASAP. If you cant do it on own, get a buddy and patchup be roommates. The sooner you do that the sooner you can make things happen with ease. good luck
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:00 PM
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Dam there are sooo many through out the years, I think the older stuff if more "pua" type, everybody copied from mystery method, MM breaks everything down maybe a little too much (always recommend just take the overall theme).. Magic bullets 2nd edition is also really good. I always liked Book of Pook for inner game type stuff. Mode one for being more direct compared to mystery which was indirect (if you look at this stuff like tools in a box, I think you should have both) Good looking loser was…
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:05 PM
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MarriedRP/askmarriedrp might be able to help you
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:21 PM
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I have had the feeling of regret with missed opportunities before, some of them really sting but maybe for a few days.. Wanna know why, because I approach almost daily and my mind moves on to other opportunities whether they are successful or rejection. You shouldnt be sweating a missed opportunity from years ago, that means you arent really approaching or looking for other opportunities, even if it was a great girl you should have come across many many other great women over the last couple of …
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:44 PM
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Never tell a women you are a virgin is first thing, lol.. You just played yourself out of position.. As you have found out, in general its a turnoff. Child like innocence means you could be coming across as naive, sheltered, lacking experience in general, wet behind the ears still, taking things literally, missing social cues, etc. Only way I could think is you need to experience life more, get around other men in certain activities and proactively cultivate your masculinity. Lift weights, pract…
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:59 PM
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Think your perception is off and you are projecting a bit but whatever..
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:45 PM
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As a man approaching in beginning you are going to have to accept you will have to do 80-90% of the lifting in conversation to keep it going but also that 20% they need to give a little interest and feedback also. Also understand you are literally crashing into someones life and might catch them off guard, sometimes if they are not as social it might take them a few secs to realize you are just a guy hitting on them and not any harm. Usually it should be a freestyle and something you can build o…
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:15 PM
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You seem to answer your own question at the end.. The game most times is just to recognize when you hook one in, everything is easier if she has genuine interest in you. Being able to recognize when that happens and then lead the situation is where game is valuable. If there is no interest, having game is knowing to cut your losses. There are arguments that game can turn a maybe to a yes, but ejecting from a no and not wasting each others time is also a win. When a woman has genuine interest in …
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:57 PM
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Always cool to see people find the value in developing their social skills and how most people dont do it gives you a leg up.. Keep going!
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:26 PM
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Kinda weird for a happily married women who has what most want to tell you to do the opposite but understanding women better not surprising. Like hey I am on a safe secure boat but you should dive in those deep dangerous waters because yolo, wont judge. Again hookup scene isnt all sex n the city like it can be portrayed, I have seen women change in flash after they get ran thru, or have abortions because guy left them from fling, catch a disease quick, etc. You need some savvy and strong discern…
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:37 PM
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I would think a casual hookup for a girl would be easy but obviously you have some issues with being afraid of things going bad. Why does it have to be casual ons if you have these issues? Why not just get to know someone a little bit and feel them out to maybe ease your concerns? Maybe that guy you have friendzoned (there is always one, right?) can help you.. Your biggest issue seems to be about your safety? Im not a girl so I can only imagine it can be scary but just take precautions to ease y…
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:12 AM
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TRP is a short term dating strategy. Its supposed to help you get the results you want quick and on your terms. This is why I always say there should be a section on nuance in sidebar because guys think if I am alpha she wont leave and it doesnt work like that.. You can get same day lay and turn her on soo much that she "feels" not in control and goes to another guy who makes her "feel" safe.. We know she will get bored with that type also but that dread or anxiety you produce can be too much fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/21 03:15 PM
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This sounds like a personal issue due to deep societal programming. Maybe some therapy can help..
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:28 AM
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I dont know what you tell people when you approach them or plan to say that they become traumatized but even in rejection I have had women thank me, say I made their day, put me on the phone with their husband because they both said my approach was cool/smooth that if she was single she would hang out (got a laugh out of that), have their friend on phone playing along, women I ended up doing business with and networking, etc. Have been doing it for years and have gotten positive response 99% of …
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:10 AM
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Congrats dude.. That feeling when you see it work, something you werent doing before pay dividends when you start. Its beautiful.. Keep going, there are many levels.. You have to experience rejection, you have to experience the spark to know when you can read the code in matrix.. you have to develop the skill.. Its awesome
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:43 AM
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When I was replying I was speaking directly to OP situation and not in general. In general like you mentioned online dating is a shit show.. But to your question about yourself, first get it out of your mind that you need to be chad to have success, first I would knock down whatever disney narrative world view you have and rebuild with whole new foundation. Invest in yourself/upgrade yourself, so that means get in good shape, have some type of means of income/acquire some type of marketable skil…
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:06 AM
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I would assume you are young, back in day there was no tinder so people used to use those places to congregate, drink with friends, meet new people, dance, have fun, be social, listen to music, watch a band play, etc. I dont know if it doesnt seem obvious or this one of those generational things where isolated people cant understand past didnt have certain technology. If you have success on tinder, I doubt clubbing will ever make sense for you because having people come over at the swipe of your…
/r/seduction21/07/21 07:02 PM
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Depending on how well you take care of yourself, 27-35 should be pretty good.. Late 20s to mid 30s is where I think a mans looks, confidence, accomplishments, network, money, and overall demeanor should all intersect and he is able to make things happen, some men "hit the wall" too because they lack in some way like falling off in fitness. Father time is undefeated but if you take care of yourself and invest in your skills you can maybe extend and arrive to wall in style.. Its only important, if…
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:51 PM
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The whole point of cold approach is to build up your social skills by stacking up many reference points to start to see the "code in the matrix" and how these thing relate. Sort of a exposure therapy. Like anything when you start you will be below avg and work your way up with more practice. You just have to be consistent and talk to everyone, you are basically building up your social skills so when you do get in situation you can perform like second nature
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:48 PM
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This happens all the time, this place is about discussion of sexual strategy and truth in social dynamics, pretty sure its there in sidebar. All the other stuff you want I am sure you can find other places, there is even a subreddit for trp called becomeaman, you can build it up and get it popping. I dont get why people come to a sexual strategy discussion sub and get mad when there is sexual strategy being discussed.. This is the equivalent of someone wanting something that gives them insight/j…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:25 PM
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I would think you are one of few. There is tons of data and material that show exposure therapy works, people practice sports and many other things because repetition matters/works, many guys have said after they first start approaching its not as bad as they thought and it gives them confidence to approach more. That alone goes along way. You are very unique in getting nothing out of it and every time is like the first
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:00 PM
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Back in day cold approach was more for guys to get social reps and work on getting the kinks out so when they do get in those "reason to start talking to someone" situations they know how to handle it with ease. Most guys who come to these spaces need to work their social muscles, you cant expect these guys to be successful in the super bowl without having practiced thru out season or even preseason game.. I know it has morphed into something else but this is how it works and getting those reps …
/r/seduction15/07/21 09:43 PM
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This is where men have to shed their social programming and the whole madonna-whore complex type of thinking.. This is a mental block even rp men tend to have where they have some type of tradcon fantasy or something.. Also why women go for bad boys because most times they dont have those type of projections put on to them.. should be required reading for some https://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 04:36 PM
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1.78 Milli in Montreal, LMAOOOOOOO at the human mind cooking up non existent thoughts to ruminate about.. Dont even worry bro.. You could daygame everyday for next 10 years straight and talk to different women multiple times over.. Either way, you are just starting the journey, I wish you luck man, its a great skill to have.. Your approaches are starting to help you notice trends already that someone who never games doesnt understand. Even your blowouts help you realize when you actually get a r…
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:00 AM
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Shout out to shark who used to have a blog solvemygirlproblems.. He had a book called blackflag where he spoke directly about this. One of the only guys who spelled this out and spoke on this exactly. Good post.
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:41 AM
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High School is more social circle game so your best bet is to put yourself out there and get into different groups. Not sus at all to try to get a gf in high school it is a part of coming of age, you can focus on your education, join sports and clubs and have a relationship with the opposite sex. Its happened like forever. I would first say join a sports team, in america the sport of choice is football but in your community it might be different, but you get soo much camaraderie from it, a built…
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:39 AM
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Great book, glad to see others have read it as it is much older and rarely recommended. I only heard about it off roissy comment section for recommended read post. Written in mid 2000s I think before the whole "alpha male" stuff really took off but you read it now and it still pretty relevant and not as cringe worthy, lol..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 02:24 PM
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Thats great, now call/text the numbers and set something up, continue the convo and get in person asap. Some numbers will flake, some will be good, rank them from the ones who seemed to have the best interest and go from there. When you approach in this manner it becomes a numbers game so continue to approach and add numbers to your funnel. All wont be a good fit but after a while you will see who has interest in you and go from there
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:43 PM
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The game starts around 14/15 whether you are ready or not, there are pros and cons to every stage so even though you are at bottom of totem pole in universal sense, school creates a isolated silo that kinda protects you and creates its own heirarchy with age playing another factor. The barrier is basically be cute and something going for you as you get older you need more, but as a teen girls would dam near approach you. When I first started high school it was kinda rough, but then soph year I j…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 05:27 PM
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Yea, this happened when they closed the incel forums and they flooded rp spaces with their negativity. A new guy would ask a question and didnt know he was talking to someone who had just given up and just repeating "its over", "drop her", every time because misery loves company.. Add the whole political element at same time and it went down hill fassst
/r/TheRedPill25/06/21 01:54 AM
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I think you should do both and the experience will help you be better in both arenas. Tinder might be more your lane but cold approaching should help give you more experience and reps to do better in other situations. Its hard to explain but the value in cold approaching is getting soo many reps in that you notice the patterns in interactions easier. Like you notice when the interest is super high and she is into you or when you get a green light to keep escalating. You need those reps overall a…
/r/seduction24/06/21 03:21 PM
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You are playing the game on hard mode.. Control what you can control. First make the product as attractive as possible (get in shape, get your income/financials sorted out, upgrade your wardrobe, grooming/fix your teeth/etc, get a life as far as hobbies and building social circle outside your house) Then comes putting your product on the market with regards to sales, you are going to have to get comfortable being rejected and approach many many more times than you have that one single time. You …
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:54 PM
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Not sure if sarcasm, but if you are hanging around these parts, you know some of ours too.. Its all good
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:59 PM
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Dam near half the girls in my high school class got fake tits as graduation gifts.. and that was a while ago, many are married moms now.. Not sure if its a red flag but whatever, everything seems like a red flag nowadays.. Seems like ass and bbl is the thing thats in now..
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:23 AM
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Congrats on the work you put in, keep grinding my g. As far as game from where you are starting I would say the best mindset I usually recommend is privatemans approach. He touched on this a few times and his way of going about it he felt first you work on your confidence by mastering something important to him and that mastery gives him a sense of control of himself and his social environment. After that he needed basic social skills where you could interact with anybody in a setting, us being …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:13 AM
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I think nuance should be a top 3 thing in whatever sidebar list you have because alot of guys lack it and its kind of the unspoken rule that makes everything stick.. Also I think RP is more of a short term dating strategy, it works well for that, if you are gonna be doing long term you are better off at MarriedRP because they have that added nuance and there strategies are deeper and more spelled out for long term relationships. RP has to speak in generalities and hope that dudes can use their c…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:32 AM
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Women love chaos. Men love order (polarity/ying yang type stuff). Asking men if anger is attractive they might project their own perception. Is it bad, yes. But there is a visceral tingle that women get when you display that side of you, they cant even explain it. In the moment, they might cry, act out, etc. But later on they will let you know they dont know why but they were turned on..
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:27 AM
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Try different things, start small.. Just ask for directions or nearest starbucks, or time.. Make it a game to see how bad you could be rejected, you have to get exposure therapy where the outcome doesnt matter.. Just the process of doing it should matter.. You hesitating messes up your energy when you approach.. Take small steps, embrace rejection, etc. Make it a game, talk to everyone.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:53 AM
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The thing many cold approaches is gonna do is help you see the unspoken more clearly. I didnt know what that meant until it happened to me, the fact you can get multiple numbers a week is a great thing, this will be a skill you can use and as it builds to 5 numbers and so on you will put the numbers in your favor.. You have your product, and then your sales. You are the product, you have to make it as good as possible. From there put it in front of as many women as possible through out your day.…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:51 PM
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Sex god Method should get you right. She comes first is another book recommended, the writer seems beta af but its a book on oral and just focus on those tips given you will be good. There was an old porn star who had a video people used to recommend on oral also, think nina hartley. Stirling cooper is a porn star and he has products he has put out in that arena, cant speak to quality but his free stuff is good
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:28 PM
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You give off the vibes that other girls will find attractive.. Women know these things and speak on it in that way to shit test you..
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:21 PM
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If people are being more social with you, sounds like a good deal.. Use to your advantage, especially if you are in good shape I usually use headphones and when I dont have them only thing I notice is my workouts suffer, lol..
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:34 AM
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Pua actually dont teach that and actually teach you not to say that, lol.. If you read lets say mystery method, you would have the tools on how to approach a group and would be better for it.. Definitely some cringe in MM but his approach to groups was pretty good
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:31 AM
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Might be really valuable and worth it to get a personal trainer for even a short amount of time. Will help you in beginning stages so you know atleast what to do.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:30 PM
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They are about that action bawse.. They know how to party and make just enough money to have a good time, look good and spend it all to be in right circles. Lucky for them if they are attractive enough they can get a hard studying game goofy doctor locked in hard.. I know alot of nurses and have partied with them, the younger ones that are coming out now are some of the most savagest women on dating market. One that I met awhile back was really cute but had her body done up, whatever we partied …
/r/askTRP14/06/21 05:19 AM
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Most would recommend Mystery Method because most every program borrows from it and it actually breaks it down step by step, maybe a little too much. (dont get in the micro just take the overarching themes and add to your game, you dont have to paint your fingernails black and wear a feather boa) Bang/day bang/game from Roosh was stripped down mystery method and made easier. I throw Book of Pook in also even tho doesnt have soo many tricks but its should be read. I would say MM and Good looking l…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:38 AM
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I think peak is about perspective, I think most guys would say their peak is their youngest age that they had their shit together (money, fitness, logistics, game, confidence, etc).. From my perspective I would say that window of 27-34 for alot of men is great, old enough to have some bank but young enough to still be in circles with young women. I think 35 plus only some men can pull it off or even still want to be in the game like that but not a high majority.. There is nuance in everything th…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:31 PM
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Always been my go to even as a teen who didnt know anything about pickup/game, lol.. Always got good results even a couple same day lays (would never though possible til I learned game and to instadate/escalate a situation).. No system really, I just take the overarching themes from game books now and forget the rest so be attractive, assertive, lead, tease, escalate, isolate.. Literally just walk up and say "excuse me, wanted to introduce myself", or if I am really riding high I say "hey I am l…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:22 PM
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Used to be date 1 go to get drinks then bowl/hukkah at spot near house, worked out well enough but didnt close all the time. 2nd interaction if needed would be come over for food n drinks, if we actually go out.. With covid havent gone out as much but one of the first places to open was strip clubs so started doing that as first date and the sample size is small but its worked out soo well, lmaoo.. I have never done the coffee thing (dont really drink coffee), with me I am a social drinker so it…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 05:40 AM
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I like David Shade stuff, legit. He isnt mentioned enough, I guess he gets lumped in with the pua era and people threw the baby out with bath water.. Athol Kay was mainly relationship/married stuff correct? Did he release a more sex geared info also? Thanks again, expanded legit info is always welcome. Would like to get my hands on Will Freemen "how to fuck women properly" but he scrubbed it off internet when he had some me too allegations.. Stirling Cooper has put out some products, him being a…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:11 PM
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recommend a couple, appreciate it
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:26 AM
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Words have meanings, go look up the word "independent" and if you understand how relationships work you should have a light bulb moment
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:58 AM
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Means you are mysterious to her and she cant figure you out exactly.. You probably have alot of attractive cues that would have a guy locked down by any number of girls.. She is trying to put you in a box and its not adding up.. Good job.. Just tell her you will be taking applications after summer for cuffing season if she wants to apply, with sly grin next time..
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:51 AM
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I would say from 27-34 is usually peak for most men who have their shit together, some guys can extend it but if you guys are 29 you should be killing it. At that age I was able to date 10 years younger and older with ease.. I dont think its age.. Most guys have huge breakthroughs in that late 20s age range.. We have ALOT of other things going on that could be affecting that is hard the quantify because how do you quantify the affects of things like a freaking pandemic, lol.. Women are SWAMPED f…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:19 AM
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I know the world/feminism says you should be an experienced sex vixen and that now gives you anxiety because you arent but next time just be upfront with the guy about your inexperience and it should help him understand to make you more comfortable and guide you to be more relaxed. Most guys will be more understanding and turned on with a girl who is inexperienced.. Its no big deal but if both of you are and awkward about it, it can be difficult.. Also I feel like this goes without saying and is…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:08 PM
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If he is partying with coworkers all in age range 18-22, doubt its a job where this applies as much..
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:01 PM
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I would say on first date whatever.. Have escalated before on first date and been shot down only to be escalated upon on second date and basically have my close ripped off.. You never really know if we are talking first date only.. But things should be escalating in some type of manner over a couple dates, if you get no where then eject.. Some times it just doesnt happen on first date, have still ended up
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:54 AM
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Shaming language.. Wouldnt really have those convos like that but this is one of top tactics they use because it works on most people
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:46 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? "creepy" is kinda dog whistle type word for someone still bluepill af.. Those guys you consider creepy could just be assertive and they probably get better results because of it. When you put limits on yourself because of being afraid of being to overt you only hurt you.. It will take you time to calibrate and adjust, read all three sidebars (trp, asktrp and Married RP) and books include, take your time, you have years of BP programing to overcome. Actually go out and …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:23 PM
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Common interest and/or experiences. Easiest way, going to school, joining a sports team, in a similar club, certain hobbies, etc..
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:42 PM
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Exposure therapy. You were expecting to be a hall of fame level before ever even experiencing the environment (happened to me also, lol). Baby steps, set the bar much lower, get there early and just go to people watch, get the lay of the land, have short convo with staff, go with goal to meet one person, switch venues and just go dance or something.. Make it a 3 month summer project and go out 2 times a week or something if your schedule allows. Not thinking you will be james bond on night one, …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:39 PM
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Obviously the culture is different and they have their duty to protect their daughter and have her best interest.. To them you are just fucking on their daughter and using her limited youth and pussy footing on being a decisive man in their cultures eye.. To them its shit or get off the pot.. Even you say in your culture you cannot just date, so what do YOU want? Most of the guys I know that are married were never ready and had to be "nicely pushed" in that direction.. You proceed how you want? …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:03 PM
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Im serious, has to be commercialized.. Not hole in wall joint.. but some joints dont let girls in without a guy, so girls are curious to go but wont recommend.. I bring it up like hey gonna go grab a quick drink at this spot and then pay attention to reaction, its usually an enthusiastic response. Then its a go..
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:20 AM
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Posted before but lately I been going to commercialized strip club during happy hour, has everything you need for a fun time.. Its already sexualized, you can "people watch" and make jokes, play pool, watch the entertainment or games on tv, drinks are cheap and they make em strong to get men drunk to spend more money (no other establishment does this with their overpriced watered down drinks, lol), bet who will pay for other to get lap dance, get HER a lap dance, etc.. I dont know why I hadnt do…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:37 AM
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Praise in public, correct/reprimand in private.. Dont get power nazi and start to do dumb shit either.. Pull him aside and talk it thru.. Get him on your team and wanting to help you grow and show him how that will benefit HIM and help HIM grow.. You got GAME right?! You should understand social dynamics
/r/askTRP06/06/21 02:31 AM
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The game was more an entertaining story than trying to teach you game, Mystery Method spawned off that and actually breaks it down step by step, maybe a little too much. (dont get in the micro just take the overarching themes and add to your game, you dont have to paint your fingernails black and wear a feather boa) Bang/day bang/game from Roosh was stripped down mystery method and made easier. I throw Book of Pook in also even tho doesnt have soo many tricks but its should be read. I would say …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:42 PM
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Women look at men and what they do as utilities, it is cool in what THEY can get out of it. When a bartender hears 4k in one day, it perks her interest because she wants to know if she can do it too, she will use him as utility to get info or maybe a connection and do whatever it takes to achieve.. talking to women about mathematical theory is LMAOOOO.. Women have interest and inquiries about advertising because they want to know what perks and people/connections they can benefit from associatio…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:39 AM
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You have to be assertive and establish your boundaries, and be able to do it with a smile.. You just saying "hm" is just passive aggressive and doesnt really solve anything.. "Would love to help man but I got a ton of work I have to do, I might be able to get to it by next week if anything, I got you.. " "You atleast could bring me breakfast if you gonna drop more work on me brother, lol" Have used both of those in different ways and by the time people get to know me they know I am not doing shi…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:29 AM
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I am a "watch what they do, not what they say" type of person, so I have had girls say that to me in past and I lean HARD on the lover side of equation because she already has boyfriend side filled.. You can be the guy she has fun with and will get laid quickly while she makes the guy she wants to date seriously wait.. I dont see this as a problem unless like other posters here seem to want to play boyfriend role and see this as a negative.. Whenever I hear something like this, its just a greenl…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:14 PM
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Probably sex and the city or something like that
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:43 PM
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Yes when you go to a comedy club and the comedian in on stage they are in control of the frame, they have everyone's attention and they are essentially the "alpha" in that moment. A heckler is an attempt at a frame grab and usually that goes bad for the heckler because everyone else is in the comedians frame and wants to see him destroy said heckler..
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:24 PM
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Dating apps are gonna be tough, you are gonna have to game in person way more whether approaching or social circle. Gonna have to put yourself out that and have women feel your energy in person.. How is your game/social skills in person overall?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:19 PM
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Girls love to have guy friends because they get the benefits of male energy, time, attention, with having to give very little back. Guys value themselves soo little they will even give women all the benefits of a relationship that a man has to offer (Time, money, protection, support, guidance, resources, network, etc.) with her having to provide none of the benefits a man receives. Its a great deal when women can pull it off and that is why they like having guy friends because other women will n…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:27 PM
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For a women who you want to invest in and have kids with or just recreational fun? We can all name people with higher counts, when you say people are you lumping men and women? As a man who likes women I dont care what another mans count is.. If you are a "men and women are the same type" and it doesnt matter you should state that also because there is nuance that is lost out here and this is this guys life.. I think he is too young to really be thinking like that anyways at 24, he needs more li…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:26 PM
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HOT DAM.. thats a no go
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:52 PM
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Yea they are square af, and they say that all the time, they were nerds, lol.. They never try to act like they from the block/hood or anything like that so at end of day its whatever, everybody dont come from same background.. Its youtube entertainment, nobody tryna win real nigga awards, just make good content and money
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:39 PM
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It happens sometimes, I have gone from no kiss on 1st date to 2nd date shes jumping on me.. No kiss 1st date to kiss on 2nd and we have have fun on 3rd date.. There is no set rule, calibrate to situation and you always lead and push forward.. Now if you are leading and getting rebuffed on little things after a few meetups then you know what you have to do, there should be some type of gradual steps taken. If you understand calibration then sometimes that gradual step can all happen in one date w…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:50 PM
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Soo many small glitches thru the years but one that stands out in late teen years is when a girl invited me to her house but said she had people over and we could only talk outside. I go over but dont bring protection because in my head the chances were extremely low anything would happen (first time hanging out and her fam is home), I pull up, she is outside, we hug (at time I didnt know "game" but always tried to break physical barrier early), we talk and joke, its hot out so I ask for drink, …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:59 PM
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This wont work because her way of handling problems will be to run to other guys and try to make you jealous. How can you invest in something like that, she is just for fun. You will be walking on eggshells the more you invest because any little fight she will run to some guy and snap it to make you jealous?!
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:23 PM
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Not sure if you are being tongue in cheek or you are still lost. These are 101 questions that have been answered in the sidebar, have you read them? Read all three sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, and MarriedRP) as they are different and all have value
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:20 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? If so, it is made clear women cannot manipulate the world physically so they use words, they are hyper aware of social standings and cannot risk being ostracized out of social groups. They will say whatever to control beta type men who believe them. Also "bad boys" are attractive to them for many reasons, this is explained in their own words and psychologist in this article http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:30 PM
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Get whatever gig you can asap, alot of employers are desperate and people on lower scale are benefiting the most because they are offering more than minimum wage and extra benefits to draw people, you will get something quick. Get your GED, then develop path if you want to go in trades or community college or something similar, good luck
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:21 PM
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Seems like she is trying to love bomb you to secure her branch swing. If you are crazy enough, just have fun but not sure you want to lockdown a known choosey susie type in anything serious
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:18 PM
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Invest in yourself, upgrade yourself, put the money on best return, YOU. Once you invest in what you want and you carry yourself like a king they will gravitate towards you.. Understand their nature and use it to your advantage
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:14 AM
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After your first conversation you go to back of the line.. You have to wait in queue..
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:15 AM
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I think the guy who did pdf for trp also did one for asktrp but havent seen one for mrp
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:18 AM
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TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP sidebars (all different but great value)
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:32 AM
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ALOT of people made this mistake back in day so dont worry about it but no it doesnt, you dont have to be soo literal. Just take the overarching macro views from mystery method and then apply to your life. Him doing magic was just an example and was congruent to him as he was a magician himself, of course his infields would be of that because that was his unique edge he bought to market. You dont have to practice magic, paint your finger nails black, wear eyeshadow or a feather boa (there were g…
/r/seduction22/05/21 02:00 PM
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From everything you wrote I would start by saying most guys have NO game, they get by by proximity (most people get together by people who are close by), you have lost that now and are struggling. You need to learn game. Having a restaurant type job is gonna be half the battle because you will learn the first part which is basic social skills which is crucial, after that you need to add seduction skills which is 2nd part. Also it seems you are afraid of rejection? I could be wrong but get over t…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:49 AM
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Dont think I can link direct but west indian archie dot com
/r/RedPillBooks21/05/21 04:32 AM
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Even if I say just the name they know what type of place it is, its a known establishment, they are fully aware. Alot of girls want to go but some clubs dont let them in unless accompanied with a man so they jump at offer.. Or they are just curious to see what its all about, I think all guys should try it out.. Not the hole in wall spots tho, understand aesthetics matter more to women than men, the vibe has to be there if that makes sense, lol..
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:05 AM
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Most of the girls I meet are young, they dont even know how to be conservative.. I am probably more conservative than them honestly.. And I am a dude who was around church and those girls get down too, even more so.. You are making me think hard too man, but I have met some women who might be prudes or maybe I just didnt have the juice with them but they werent conservative types..
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:02 AM
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Used to do the drinks to bowling to close type thing.. Worked well enough, recently moved and closest establishment was a commercialized strip club, I invite 1st dates there and the way they light up is funny af, I just off hand like hey lets go get something quick to drink maybe even eat, and its like omg I dont have to fake being a prude with this guy.. It hits dam near all the points a guy would need, you wont get bored, sexualized environment, can people watch and talk about scenery and dyna…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:38 PM
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If you want to be super leader bro learn to read the room first and get input then take course of action, see how response is from that.. Many ways to skin a cat, if you are young you still have to try different things to find your voice. Next time in that type of situation try another way and see what response is.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:33 AM
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One thing for sure, if people are talking about you they are tryna choose up.. There is some type of interest there.. I know everyone looks at everything as shit test but sometimes it is solid advice to help tighten up your game.. but do you, not really a biggie either way
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:28 AM
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Forgot which "game" book I grabbed this from but felt it when I read it.. To paraphrase it went something like this.. A man who is a player needs to experience being with one woman and the guy who has one woman needs to experience being a player.. You develop different skills and as a man you need both, but everyone is different and there are anomalies for everything
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:07 PM
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Yes, its definitely a book someone who comes to this space should read. He has the whole flowery language thing going that some dont like but he has many foundational concepts explained that help many. Its dam near sidebar level
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:19 PM
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You must have been scared of being rejected, or you wanted her to lead the situation. You are a man, you have to lead and be bold. If she would of shut you down, just shrug it off and not make a big deal about it, she did her part. Women do not crawl up against someone they have no interest in, she put herself in direct proximity with you, from there nature should have took over and you escalate, it wont be perfect, you might get rejected (in this situation those odds were low) but you are a man…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:55 PM
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Women support the sisterhood.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:58 PM
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BALANCE. You got to find your balance. You have to be really attuned with yourself and know what you want exactly, then prioritize those things to reach your exact goal. The thing is you need wealth building overall for yourself and quality of life but up to a point.. If you are making 40k a month, maybe a good year focus and then go make things happen in other regards.. But I have seen people who say they want women and then turn around and throw themselves into work in the names of self improv…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:55 PM
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Because we are in time period where white men have gone around the world and conquered it.. Its good to be king but you will have haters.. There are pros and cons to everything..
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:55 PM
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Im kinda the same way but I do have a sense of humor and not take things soo seriously.. From my perspective its the same thing with understanding if you can handle a convo and let the women talk and guide it the right way she will think you are most interesting man ever.. In your regards if you are non judgemental and uptight and they can feel free and comfortable in your presence you become the fun guy also.. If this is a plate and you are not uptight square dude who judges women and try to co…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:53 PM
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You have entry level gig, how are you investing in yourself to skill up from there? You are still young and have time on your side but its go time to get your shit situated in regards to getting highly marketable skills.. From there I would say how is your "game"? From the little you typed its not that good if one rejection triggered you and you have small social circle, you are here on rp so you obviously should know the weakness this causes you.. Get some social hobbies or something you intere…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:56 PM
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This is where you have to be able to read the situation and be really calibrated. This I guess comes with experience. I have done any where from 5 min to a couple hours (insta date type situation) in regards to a day time approach. In most situations it will be around 10 min, I just open, maybe cold read, tease a little, ask a couple questions, see how the vibe is and then close but sometimes you can tell that they want to talk more.. Its a vibe, not really a hard rule but I lean more towards ke…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:34 AM
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You have to game both of them, but your foundational stuff has to be tight (fit, style, etc).. This is one of the things that was really valuable out of the mystery method in regards to approaching groups, open both, include the friend, then go from there..
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:28 PM
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People are allowed to grow/evolve in life, wtf.. You are putting yourself in a straight jacket of other peoples opinion of your past self which doesnt even matter. You are looking at it wrong, thinking you are not being your authentic self and people in your past will call you on it, this is bullshit.. Life is a journey to be had and with new info you have chosen to grow and evolve, that growth will always make some people insecure because then you become a mirror on their non growth in same tim…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:44 PM
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This post reminds me of one of the old school RP blogs Privateman (RIP) touched on this a few times and his way of going about it he felt first you work on your confidence by mastering something important to him and that mastery gives him a sense of control of himself and his social environment. After that he needed basic social skills where you could interact with anybody in a setting, us being social animals there were many benefits not just interacting with women but everyone. He recommended …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/21 01:30 PM
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they have been pretty open to growing up nerds and such so I wont hold it against them.. They dont try to play as naturals ond can come across as goofy but thats who they are.. Myron (fit) is more I guess "traditional" rp, has read the books and such.. Fresh is more of the behind the scenes of understanding social media, getting them connects, he is the networker, the plug basically. For the many negative things people can say about them I would not say they are lucky. They put in WORK, they hav…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:21 AM
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I would recommend try many things and also look for things that you have competitive edge (dad/uncle own business or know the ins/outs of an industry), you need to try and get inside info on many different types of industries and see what marketable skills you need and if they fit what you are good at.. Mind you I am relating your purpose to also what you do to make money but it doesnt also have to be that, I know guys who volunteer their time and coach kids or help others also. Also I will add …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:01 AM
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Good luck bro..
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:17 PM
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Forgot who it was, might have been shark from solvemygirlproblems in his book black flag and many others have said it but it was made clear when I read it first time Alpha=testosterone basically. Every descriptor for alpha is also one for test. Strong, Assertive, leader, aggression, dominance, competitiveness, boost self esteem, stoic, clarity of thoughts, decision making, high libido, muscle mass, etc. EVERY. DAM. ONE can be found under both words, look em up. Then think of guys you think as al…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:33 PM
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Acting dominant is not acting overly macho.. Think you have some skewed views more like domineering which can be but is slightly different.. People just use dominant as a place holder for leader, it helps your frame, you should not want to relinquish this as its just you having the leading influence, like a lead in a dance (why I always recommend men learn dancing when asking for hobbies, fighting helps get comfortable with men and dancing with women) Dominance has a type of influence that inspi…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:34 PM
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I dont want to give you too much because its better to be in the field taking action than reading too many books. I think with MM, Book of pook(audio also on youtube), day bang/game by roosh and Mode 1 it will give you enough tools to get out there. Game is just understanding specialized social dynamics dealing with women and understanding their nature and how to best use that to give yourself better odds. You will only get better by interacting with many people. I will also add I am of mindset …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:12 PM
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Balance is key bro.. Make sure school is your priority but its ok to go out friday and saturday too.. Some guys recommend months in monk mode but that wont help your social skills.. You are in college once, some of the best and easiest time to build social skills in your life, use it.. I would say school, lifting and part time gig are non negotiable.. Just have to be focused.. Also I dont see anything wrong with reading mystery method, lol (would also recommend book of pook and mode 1 atleast)..…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:04 PM
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LDR are dam near impossible to pull off for people who have been in committed relationships for a long time.. and you want to do this with someone you just met?! Sorry to say odds are not in your favor
/r/seduction27/04/21 03:24 AM
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No, lol.. Dont worry about comparing yourself, someone shorter may have certain strength gains but you put in the work you will get results and on a 6'4 frame it will be glorious..
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:17 PM
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Every man should make a go of it in life to experience it themselves. With your age and height the results you will see should be very fun. If you are unsure of how to go about it, just get a good personal trainer for a month to help set you on the right path, write down everything and have the routine set. You obviously see the value of a coach so go for it
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:11 PM
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My mind was blown when I did some patrice oneal "You look kinda goofy, get away from me" savage type tease and the girl was just shocked but wouldnt leave my side rest of night
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:14 AM
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youtube is basically the male social media, it skews heavily male.. with quarantine and such for trp youtube is what is used by most to spread the message. and monetization.. Only thing is its a terrible medium to get the core info out, it becomes a neverending stream of videos on the same thing over and over..
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:09 AM
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Keep doing what you are doing, lift, eat right, stay on your purpose, have game, have hobbies, etc.. The usual stuff, but understand still this stuff will help you be more attractive in general like in the macro not the micro.. so even with all that you wont get every single chick or that one individual chick will just like your friend better, it happens, part of the game. Doesnt mean he is better or anything just in that situation he got the juice, faults and all. Thats why you need to have abu…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:40 PM
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When the lustful attraction is there even with no game a girl will make it easy for a clueless guy.. Guys got laid everyday before game, sometimes women just get tingles for a certain guy and give him more rope than another, he can trip and fall and she will look at it with endearing eyes.. It happens.. That is the select type dude, has no game, not really alpha but women still select him just based on attraction..
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:26 PM
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YES, Yes they do.. They love the attention that his platform gives them and they are solipsistic so they dont see themselves like that. This is in the sidebar and now for people who still had doubt or didnt fully comprehend they can see it play out in real time. Plus these girls are hoping they can go viral like the 1st women that blew kevin up from worldstar, video had millions of views and every other youtuber made reaction videos, this is like OD-ing on attention for women. As a man you wont …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 09:34 PM
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I think the body game will help all types of men because lowering your body fat will help your face look better.. Now if you are beat completely yea body game will help but but only soo much you better be jacked.. Go watch goku pump "smash or pass" videos on youtube, these are jacked dudes who get reaction from women on the street.. They are on street just having fun Having a good face I think is primary but body game is not an option regardless, put in the work!
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:56 PM
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Oh they have tried.. You just arent aware.. and mostly it was simp ass whiteknight men who tried.. He had groups of women and men doxx him, pull up his records, call his old jobs to see if he works there, look up his business licenses, contact his ex wife (who originally was going to do an interview but changed her mind I am guessing after kevin spoke to her), try to look up his kids and what schools they attend, etc.. The system is the system, if you dont think there are people who will try to …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 06:44 PM
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At turn of year there was a post of who was most influential rp people in manosphere. Kevin was my choice at time because I had not seen anyone rise up and cause such a glitch in matrix in such a short period in time.. I had seen kevin on youtube for years talking to men, he has some awesome older videos I think men should check out, lots of value in them but essentially sidebar stuff.. But with the combination of him always trying new things then changing his format to talk to women and beer bu…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 12:46 PM
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Back when I was bp af, I had no problem approaching girls, like we grew up doing that but afterwards is where things would go wrong for me.. I thought you just had to be friends with a girl and then they would let you know they were interested, they would lead the situation, they would throw themselves at me.. Mind you it did happen a couple times (just because for that age had alot going for self, played ball, lifted weights, was popular and funny, threw parties, had a car, etc) but being the p…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:48 PM
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I dont really make new women friends but the ones I do have, yes very playful with them and butt slapping is a part of that.. Also majority of women friends have had sexual experiences with them.. Once I learned not to friend zone myself it opened a whole new world..
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:30 PM
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Bro you still have alot of work to do, you are still deeply programmed.. Where do you zoomers get this language from, "creepy" at 24 or 26 to date girls?! How ridiculous does that sound? You need to get rid of that mindset, FAST.. You seem on the right track with other things but your mindset is most important.. You will be just entering your prime, I dont even think you have to wait til 26.. but yes its ok to talk to women at that age, you can date them and have fun.. Incredible.. They have don…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:27 PM
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If you do it right, they ALWAYS come back.. There are always exceptions to every rule but for most part if you just do the basic rp mindset, have your shit together, live a fun care free lifestyle and lay pipe like a plumber in bed I have seen numerous times women come back, if for s guaranteed experience, to lick their wounds and recover from other situations, etc.. Its a great way to keep plates, dont place restraints on them and they just come and go for years, they come to see if they can lo…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:52 PM
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I would think the question is traditional or modern culture no? Does it matter what she is if the laws are set to entice her to divorce you with laws that incentivize and her friends and family are encouraging her?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 03:00 AM
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Lowkey a shit test and letting you know you have some attractive traits that many women would like so therefore you have the ability to get many women.. Whats funny is there are many guys who hear this and dont get as many women as the women saying it, thinks..
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:57 AM
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pua/rp is an amalgamation of many things, the guys from the beginning made it clear they were nerds and pooled any info together to go out and test things.. From evolutionary psych, behavioral psych, sales, nlp, acting, improv, comedy, storytelling, romance novels, and they pulled info from pimps. Pimps were one of the few out there prior who really saw the darkside of female nature and how they attracted and managed those situations.. I say that to say RP teaches you to critical think, take in …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:48 PM
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I agree with you approaching groups is tough no matter if just starting out or being a social butterfly, I would say introduce yourself to people by themselves or up to group of 3 to start out.. For as much flack as he gets Mystery did a great job explaining how to approach groups. I would definitely say read up on mystery method (dont take everything so literal, alot of people took what he said and copied exactly when it wasnt congruent to their lifestyle. Mystery was a magician performer in ho…
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:49 AM
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Why is "on your own" italicized? Lol.. Bro dont you do most of everything on your own? Wake up, shower, etc.. Since you are young I will cut you some slack, but understand a guy like babe ruth was the home run king for a long time, he was also known as the strike out king as he also led the league many years striking out also. I say that to say, you have to swing your bat, you will get rejected for a many reasons which dont matter, know that upfront and get over it. In life rejection comes and t…
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:50 PM
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Go to the beach, whether walking around area or the actual beach, especially on weekends there will be tons of girls but during weekday you will always catch a girl on day off (if you go early) or after 5 (you catch the late after work crowd who go ritually to just chill) just relaxing.. Be conscious how you approach but have pulled multiple times in that scenario.. You can go to the bigger malls (Dadeland, Dolphin, Aventura), there are always tons of people there and just catch a vibe.. Day gam…
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:01 PM
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I post this link when this type of question comes up so see below but women in ying/yang context represent chaos, so especially at young age are attracted to it and it turns them on.. Especially in a society where they have to wear a mask because they want to fit in they love when they have someone who will act out.. You can look up hybristophilia to get more info. Thats why they love the "bad boy" types.. Alot of dudes have died or been put in jail because a girl put a battery in their back so …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:31 PM
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Your purpose should always be priority, whatever it is.. You are young tho, try many things, have many interest and whatever mountain draws your attention go for it.. Sounds like you already climbed the mountain that most guys dont figure out, congrats.. The next one is over there..
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:07 PM
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Statement is mostly true but if you understand game you want to stay away from the interview questions too much.. If you want to talk about school, ask her if she is the one who has a crush on her professor or something like that.. Think different
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:05 PM
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Everything has pros and cons, older guys most likely will not see the value. I dont have a personal ig but help people in biz, I still see the value and pros that it brings if you use it right to advertise yourself. Plus if you are a creator and/or a producer, the value is there. I think most only see it from consumer pov and that jades their perspective. If you are only mindlessly looking at girls, liking pics, leaving low level comments and have photos of you in dark lit room that were taken o…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:01 PM
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The rp isnt really designed for that, its to set men up in beginning stages of dating and understand the players, dynamics and best practices to accomplish whatever goals they may have.. With that said there is a whole sub (MarriedRP) dedicated to men who are going rp in hard mode, very difficult in this environment where women are rewarded with cash prizes to blow up their families at the whims of their feelings, some men feel like its a bad deal, some men want families very bad but the prospec…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 03:20 PM
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Have seen this happen live and its soo true, whats always funny is you have the super enthusiastic kids who want to speak in coded language and shit and just sound super cringe.. Its like buddy, no one knows what you are saying.. lol.. Also agree with public speaking, with critical thinking and debate skills..
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:57 AM
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yea that keeping in touch with old flames is what triggers a different level of hypergamy I think.. Women now never leave their old flames and always watch their original person who left their imprint..
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:28 AM
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If she is working and she understands we are on the same team I run the show and she will have me manage the finances.. Even just regular gf types or even long term plates want me managing their money but the way I run my business lends itself for them to trust that..
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:54 PM
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Grass is always greener on other side.. That is why the first and most important thing is for you down to your core know who you are and exactly what you want in life.. You need to be self validating and as long as you are lasered in on that you will be fine.. Also you can always close a chapter and start a new one for yourself, your mission can change and actually will, give yourself permission to have multiple missions in life, as long as its what you want!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:08 PM
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Yea there are three sidebars and all are different but offer great value (TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP) I would suggest reading them all or atleast review them, also download the rp handbook.. You have years of programming, even if it takes a couple weeks, its worth it.. You will have to read a couple times to really absorb info anyways.. To directly answer your question, just google mystery kiss close routine. I dont remember it and its not gospel but it will give you foundation and point you in righ…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:16 PM
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Ok now you know directly what you want, what are you doing to fix that? What social things are you doing to put yourself in different social circles? You need to ask direct questions to solve your issue, before even talking to girls you need to start at beginning and get comfortable talking to all types of people, get more social overall.. Kinda like how privateman (rip) used to preach. you probably should check out succeed socially by Chris McCleod. Its about getting social skills first and the…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:10 PM
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Have you read the sidebar, mystery method? Anything? This is like level 1 stuff thats been solved eons ago and you would know if you did the necessary reading, sidebar is where your answer is..
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:05 PM
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That sounds like game being run by some feminist fed type.. Where they shame men into traditional roles and get to eat their modern women cake also.. You do what a "real man" has always done but I can do whatever.. lol.. good game if you can pull it off on a simp.. This shit is nuanced, obviously if she is stay at home, you pay for everything, but I dont care what she does, its my kingdom, I run any income that comes in. If you are my women and you trust my leadership, vision , mission, then all…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:01 PM
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Have you read MarriedRP sidebar or even visit that side, visit askMarriedRP? This is right up their alley and they deal directly with these types of issues, definitely check them out if anything
/r/askTRP11/04/21 03:10 PM
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Ok makes sense. Before those books you probably should check out succeed socially by Chris McCleod. Its about getting social skills first and then you could go to game to stack on top of it. Kinda like how privateman (rip) used to preach. I like his way of going about it, first build your confidence, then build your overall social skills, then after that you can add game specific social skills. 3 layers, he mentions that and it is highly recommended and seems to have helped many people. Link bel…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:16 AM
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I remember being a young freshman in high school in science class, 4 to a table, it was me another guy who was also a freshman and played football, and two really hot older girls.. Always been kinda social so me and him became fast friends based on football, the girls were kinda intimidating but they were nice and always talked to us too, dude was jacked maybe 6'2 already but shy personality. One Day the dude misses class and the girls turn to me like where is your boy, Im like this is our only …
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:01 AM
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I know you are young and seem new so my first question would usually be what actual game books have you read? Like have you read any Roosh V, book of pook or MM? Anything from actual game arena? But from the way you word your post it might be something deeper, like you shouldnt be scared to escalate, like its some type of mental block or childhood type shit you might need to navigate first, were you heavily sheltered or super religious background? Helicopter parents or something, like a dude at …
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:39 AM
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Your first sentence is the truth. It was the most valuable thing I pulled out of this also, everything changed when he got a job, even if his game was shit he still was able to achieve what he wanted AFTER he got a good job and made a good income for his area, its soo overlooked but he should write more on what he did to accomplish that. Get money and value and invest in yourself and watch how things change around you.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 05:31 PM
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A woman is a woman, she can be straight or bi and be into a beta.. In general "alpha" is a short term dating strategy, all attraction, excitement, dopamine.. Doesnt mean beta strategy doesnt work, in general. Now if you are talking individually, one unique person, you have to have context because maybe she got out of a rough situation and needs a shade tree rest haven to bounce back.. too much roller coaster and needs a sweet nice guy to take her out and treat her nice, while she heals her wound…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:04 PM
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Your frame/masculinity shouldnt be something you turn off or on depending on the person. Should be who you are, default setting..
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:57 PM
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Just get her a pocket rocket if you travel, or one of those that you can control from your phone.. you can be anywhere in world and still be able to have fun together if that makes sense..
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:04 PM
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Said in another post, just being the guy that doesnt spread rumors or talk shit will get you laid in your younger years. Soo many dudes feel like they have to tell their friends or whatever but those same dudes you tell are beta as fuck and will resent you and go back and tell girls or call the girl a slut or try to black mail for some action. Dudes at that age are soo thirsty for some that they have no idea how to get it.. Saw it happen many times.. Some wont believe it but some times its reall…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:31 PM
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Its a couple things at play or could be atleast.. First, most of the old school players used to say 9s and 10s are community property. You cant really tie them down, they are high maintenance and more work than most want to deal with. Most guys want that dime until they actually get one and see all that unnecessary crap you have to deal with.. After that, most guys will take a cooperative adjustable 6/7.. Thats why when these youtube dudes show rollo and rian significant other, I just shrug my s…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:38 PM
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You also have to lead the interaction, have logistics lined up, kino, escalate, have a confident masculine demeanor and come across more as lover type and not friendly time hoe
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:51 AM
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Its part of wearing their mask for society.. also some like to play a fool to catch one..
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:50 AM
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Them going cold is the thousand cock maze they have run thru and them becoming numb to one thousand one.. They become excited again at prospect of one thousand two.. your turn is most likely over, exit stage left..
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:16 AM
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Bro you are a high schooler trying to approach girls from other high schools? The sooner you can approach chicks and get over your anxiety the quicker you will slay.. Back in day I had great success with girls who didnt go to my high school and didnt know why until I was talking to one girl and she said she liked me and did everything with me because I didnt go to her school and I couldnt spread rumors about her (teenage boys tend to run their mouth to anybody and end up losing out on future acc…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:10 AM
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Dont care what you do or lean towards as everyone has different pluses or minuses, but learn game also.. Alot of guys are game goofy out here
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:03 AM
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Sounds like someone who used 100% attraction short term asshole game and then wonders why it fucks up a long term type situation. You needed to calibrate the asshole, thats why they call LTR rp on hard mode.. Should have been more like 70/30 or 80/20 with comfort added since its a ltr. Thats why I always recommend guys also read MarriedRP sidebar as it fits more with guys who are into LTRs.. You should go and check it out, most guys here gonna just say spin plates.. We all been there, you learn …
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:53 PM
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Some people will like it, some people wont.. Everybody has haters.. But the message gets out the same, if you are for the message getting out then kevin samuels is the biggest thing to happen, dude will be at a million subs by summer. NO ONE with the message is unplugging people faster by showing directly from source what men have to deal with. Men just talking works but his way of doing things obviously has made a huge mark.. You dont have to agree with everything but I have seen more people wh…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:31 PM
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manti teo replay..
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:22 AM
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The info here is best practices that most agree upon, but doesnt mean gospel, heck some of the stuff were meant to be put in place for guys totally lost but once you understood you use what tool is useful to you.. I have seen others who operate on trust but verify mindset, that they understand someone could cheat and womens nature but they wouldnt be the fool staying a moment longer than needed. RP is just tools, you are supposed to be able to think for yourself, not follow to a t like a drone..…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:14 AM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:44 PM
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Feel like an old comment can help you, shot in dark but maybe you had overbearing past that made you stuck in child role and look at older people as authorities to lord over you.. Got to get that chain broken ASAP: Sometimes hard to explain frame, I think eric berne book Games people play can help even though can be a tough read and slightly outdated. But his breakdown of the ego state of roles like parent, adult, child can help. When you are a kid, you know your role as child and your parents s…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:39 PM
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Had it happened to me a few times, reasons I have gotten is "dont want to raise my body count, I enjoy sex with you but the relationship part is too stressful, dont want to go adding bodies to her body count while knowing what can get from you, etc.. Mind you always keep in mind you cant believe what they say, its mostly half truths but watch their actions.. also this is what happens when you lay pipe like a plumber, your turn might end but they plate themselves or boomerang back.. As long as yo…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:12 AM
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from previous post: I like Privateman (rip) way of going about it, first build your confidence, then build your overall social skills, then after that you can add game specific social skills. 3 layers, he mentions a book also succeed socially by chris macleod that is highly recommended and seems to have helped many people. Link below to privatemans post http://archive.is/ydFb4
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:28 AM
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ASAP. Develop a plan, stack your money, create a house fund, emergency, etc. It might take a a year or two max.. but you should be itching to get out.. even if you need to get roommates first I think its better than staying home
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:20 AM
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BP or "beta game" worked fine for your dad because his times were different. It was a different world and the rules have changed. Back then you could be a man and have a job and that was enough. He could simp on his women and she wouldnt look at him as weak because her default setting was to respect him. His game wont work in todays age. Do you think women are raised to be like your mom in this day and age? RP was created as a reaction to what was happening, there would be no rp if your dad's ga…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:07 PM
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It fluctuated based on many things, so years of prosperity and then a drought here, a relationship there, lose friend circle and get caught up in work, adjusting and coming across rp/game stuff actually hurt my game at first, etc. start at 16-18 great years, 21-25 great years, 27-35 ELITE, just in the zone.. man
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:11 AM
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Very true. Thats when you see how different it is when a girl has high interest to just medium.. How the old school playas say let them choose up on a playa, or how guys will have a bird in hand but they are chasing two in the bush.. The game is easy when they are highly attracted to you, even if you are not on your game 100%, they make it easy because they will overlook your missteps and still be receptive. But guys will be stupid and chase the girl that is lukewarm and play the high interest g…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:04 AM
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http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:55 PM
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Old school dude named shark used to run a site called Solve My Girl Problems (one of the great blogs of its time) and had a ebook I think called blackflag. He also mentioned the manager thing, his point for men to build their masculinity was to find some way to get into competition and compete which will raise your test and find some way to lead in work in some capacity like manager position. He said these things will help you naturally be more "alpha".. Said women are naturally attracted to men…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 10:53 PM
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TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP sidebars (read all three, they all are different and offer great info). LIFT, this will take time but is something where if you put in the work you will see the results and people will treat you different, Get a marketable skill or work towards one, get a gig to make money asap, get some hobbies that you interest, but would recommend learning some type of fighting discipline, learn about social skills AND game.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:11 PM
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How competent are you, how much life experience do you have? Reason I ask is because I have seen this from people who have been sheltered and just want to be accepted by other. Maybe some childhood trauma also as far as acceptance/rejection.. No more mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty is like mandatory reading in that respect, listen to rian stones breakdowns on both on youtube also. That awareness should help, atleast put on right track. Also get out and live life.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:40 PM
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Thats what the old school playas used to say.. 9-10 types were "community property" madonna/whore complex type mindset.. Problem is social restraint have been thrown aside and these girls get their marhcing orders from legit prostitute types like cardi b.. So now the community property types have social media to sell a lifestyle and the other chicks are eating it up.. Game Over
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:37 AM
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MarriedRP, lots of good info geared towards married folks but works very well for LTR minded also. Their sidebar is different and excellent.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 03:05 PM
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LMAO.. You have men who didnt get the rp til 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s.. Some men never got it.. You have been blessed to receive it while still in your youth and you are worried about days past? Rumination is a terrible thing for you and can lead to depression. Stop immediately, read the sidebar, put in the work and focus on your grind and how dope its gonna be after you put in the work.. 27-35 are some beautiful years.. For me atleast is when the whole buffet menu opened, I could date younger with ea…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:55 PM
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When you show growth/evolution and your peers see that, it directly challenges them and they ask what have I done? Its like you holding a mirror, they see you and their reflection shows that maybe they have not grown in same way.. They become insecure and people act out in many different subconscious ways, they are basically saying "hey you are making us look bad bro, fuck" they want you to stop, they want to pull you back. That is why you must have an internal locust of control and have interna…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:44 PM
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Lol, people at the top have to compete EVERYDAY.. You dont become the best without knowing you will have challengers more than anyone else. People will constantly be gunning for your spot or challenging you. Need a better mindset if you dont want to compete, the best in world are viscous competitors. Whether Jordan, tiger, TB, etc. I dont know men who sit on top of any dominance hierarchy that isnt about competition. Also what you do is set your goals, set your process to work those goals, then …
/r/askTRP26/03/21 12:29 AM
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I kinda did but will cut you some slack for young age and actually wanting to improve.. Most guys your age arent social, if you can become that dude that links people together, you will become extremely valuable.. So for example in high school I introduced myself to all the hot girls when possible, even though I would friend zone myself just being cool with them and treating them like dorks had ALOT of value because most guys couldnt or wouldnt do that.. that turns around and lends itself to guy…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:27 PM
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What value do you bring? People like to use other people, the same way you want to use higher value people to help pull you up, they want to do the same.. Like I used to tell my friends, when you want something, make yourself hot, then people will be drawn to you. I have done that by having girls, throwing parties, inviting people out, knowing DJs, having access to exclusive shit, even golf courses, knowing restaurant owners, as have gotten older that has turned to doing deals, helping people ma…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:10 PM
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People use ig like a dating app, she isnt gonna post her low value bf when she is trying to advertise herself for a better option..
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:04 PM
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Done a number of these back in the day, getting "Game" and later RP to just realize the mistakes alone improve your chances astronomically and is just more natural, its insane to look back and know what your prior thought process was. Add in having your logistics and realizing how valuable it is will improve your odds and make things flow soo much better.. Great list and your website is a goldmine.. I remember you mentioning a book is that still in the works?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 03:15 PM
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Everything
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:33 PM
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A true "redpill" about your women working is that other men will have access to your women. These chicks will have work husbands, work boyfriends, all out affairs, etc. If you look too much into the alpha type side you should run the show and no dude should have access or any ruling over her, that would mean if she did work it would be in situation where she worked for you. Obviously this can be difficult for most men but just food for thought, RP shows you that women are hypergamous which means…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:31 PM
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Someone doesnt have to literally say "its over" but there are a tons of guys who have a misery loves compny type mindset, go look at any post with a guy in a relationship asking a question, it could hey I have a great girl, she sucks and fucks and cooks and is submissive but she sneezed what should I do.. answer: "bro shes not yours, its just your turn!" "dump her" etc.. Its more about the whole some of these guys are giving defeatist tips and they never even talked to a girl before.. Numerous t…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 12:24 AM
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Kinda threw me off when you said college but dont even have a license, back in day dudes were counting down the days they turned 15 to get license ASAP as that was the first step in freedom, autonomy, self reliance, basically another step in masculinity. This was a BIG DEAL. These younger dudes seem to be way behind on that, the quicker you can handle that, the quicker you can get ahead. To answer your question, you want to build your world and then invite a chick to join you, "hey I am goin to …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:25 PM
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Many incel/black pill types lurk and just give defeatist, its over type post. These types have flooded these spaces, years ago they stayed in their own places but those got shut down and now they basically congregate in places where guys are trying to improve but still have their negative outlook, they are vocal about it so it skews the core message.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 03:10 PM
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You need to realize Beta game worked for him back in day.. the game has changed, and he was sold blue pills like us but didnt have internet or anything to help, had to just figure it out..
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:08 AM
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I used to wonder who actually wears that axe shit, like no one falls for that type of commercial, lol.. For budget, Sauvage Dior, BLV by Bvlgari, Dolce and Gabbana pour homme The BLV was my go to for years back in the day but has been reformulated.. Still really good and I keep in rotation (for nostalgic reasons) but have evolved to niche types
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:04 AM
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Everyone situation is unique so it doesnt apply to everyone but if you make 160k, have networth of 500k then yea you need to do your own thing and it raises questions as to why you havent. You should strive to have your own kingdom, be an autonomous self reliant type, that is part of what masculinity "alpha" is all about. You should yearn sovereignty, right now you are essentially under someone else's rule, in their kingdom, some people have no choice and have to grind it out, you dont.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:36 PM
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So you are the guy that created 49ers? These 4s heads are soo gassed up because they have soo many options that they have attitudes like 9s.. THANKS!
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:22 PM
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Thats game, being able to work a room, conversate, joke around, get along with everyone, have some type of influence is ATTRACTIVE. Having social intelligence, social proof, the ability to walk in a room and change the mood is valuable. Everyone can notice it but women FEEL it and notice it more, its dam near their job to do so.. The next step would be to act as the leader and organizer/host of those same people outside of work, "hey I am goin to happy hour, lets go!" "hey I am having a get toge…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:17 PM
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Have you read redpilldad blog? Should be a decent start for you I would think..
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:53 PM
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He seems to be a genetic outlier as it is but he works out, he says he is vegan for many years, alway busy, always moving, very little stress with bills/money and we dont know what he does that he doesnt talk about but the foundation of being a genetic outlier is the main thing..
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:16 PM
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What actual game books have you read? They are not 100% gospel but they do offer insight and some type of training wheels on how to lead a conversation in the right direction.. For most part you want to keep things light, fun and stir emotions, wouldnt recommend any serious convos or anything like that, in beginning you will be doing 90% of the lifting carrying the convo, you are the man, thats your burden. Convos on tv shows, music, fashion, future, etc thats green light. Convo on economy, jobs…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 03:06 PM
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I dont know if it is social media, womens magazines, dating apps but women have delusions of grandeur x10 nowadays, and if you watch kevin samuels or fresh n fit on yt they show every time that women have difficulty rating themselves and just prescribe to some feel good reason why they should all be 10s, lol.. They have been sold blue pills also but simp men make it worse on IG and them getting pumped and dumped on dating apps by top guys inflate their perceived value also
/r/askTRP17/03/21 03:14 AM
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Isolation is death, lots of info out there on how isolation negatively affects us, even shorter life spans, mental issues, depression, etc. You see what happens to guys who chronically isolate to play video games or stay on computers , it is not good. We are social beings, people who understand this are able to thrive in life.
/r/seduction16/03/21 04:09 PM
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Yea Aba and Preach were dumb to even acknowledge rp type stuff, at their level why cant they just internalize rp and keep it moving, no reason to jeopardize channel tying yourself to RP when soo many incel/black pill wierdos have damn near hijacked it. Everybody doesnt have to teach this stuff, if you live your life and embody it, thats good enough, dont listen to these guys that are jealous and want your spot and think you have to be some rp evangelist, you will fuck up your bag and still not p…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:09 PM
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A new start in different environment can be good for some people, would highly recommend, try to visit your options first to get a feel for it and see if you can line up employment prior also..
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:15 AM
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Someone mention it already but you guys are young and you seem to be using negging in wrong way. Negging was used on model types in LA night club scene, its to take a girl who thinks to highly of herself and slightly knock a peg, "Your nails look nice, are they real?" You use it on 9/10 types, not really everyday chicks.. You can tease here and there but to point at something someone has some insecurities about like acne is kinda fucked up. You want to be lovable asshole, dont forget the lovable…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 03:06 PM
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Most people get into LTR, lol.. We have a whole sub called MarriedRP.. I would think most people who are content creators about game or RP have a LTR or something..
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:39 AM
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Oh man, thats a hard question.. I will start with everything is about balance but dont feel guilty about not being super duper productive every minute of the day. As long as you have your goals, your process to reach those goals and you focus on the process and are consistent, its ok to have some time where you look at stuff and goof off. For younger guys, I dont see anything wrong with social media (I dont do it but I see the value) as long as you dont let it consume you, use for your benefit f…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:35 PM
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17?! Lucky bastard, lol congrats.. You are about to go on an amazing run, make sure you focus on your goals and keep yourself #1
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:04 PM
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Salute to LaidNYC. Read thru his blog when it was mentioned here years ago, definitely a classic. Had a short run but his jersey definitely hangs in the rafters.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 06:03 AM
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Next time just do it in the window of opportunity, you have to risk rejection, you are a man, that is your burden. Also Go game more women, you sound too invested in this one, your ability to have more women on hook will help you when the one you like is in front of you. That was like your super bowl but you havent even played a preseason game, you havent even been to a practice. Get more practice, ASAP. This weekend go approach other girls before you get oneitis. You need abundance mindset, opt…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:29 PM
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Hopefully you visit MarriedRP. They can help you much better for your situation. Good luck
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:21 PM
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Girls if they are young like early 20s tend to tell too much info to guys they like if they think it will draw them closer or you make them comfortable in conversation and seem non judgemental to them.. After they get burnt a couple times, they smarten up and keep the mask on TIGHT.. You got lucky to get that info, be stoic, dont judge and make your decision with whatever info you are able to get..
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:35 PM
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Always easier to game the one that chooses up on a player.. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, yada yada.. you gonna do what you want anyway, learn that lesson.. lol
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:18 AM
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I would agree with others that there are many causes but only you know the full situation and your spidey senses are tingling for a reason, usually means you are about to get kicked in the nuts.. All I will say is try to read all the tea leaves and trust your gut
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:33 PM
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First you are on right track, keep grinding. Now the mindset you need to change is focusing on one chick, end it cordially and then go approach many other women, the moment you realize there are billions and you get your numbers up, is the moment you will have success, its a numbers game. The guys I knew who had success the most brushed off rejection like nothing, they werent trying to protect their fragile egos, they knew their value and if the girl didnt see it, it was her loss, keep it moving…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:25 PM
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Just to get an idea of how you are approaching, what game books have you read?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:32 PM
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She put you in queue and now its your turn.. you are next on deck in the batters box to beat it up.. Thats the game
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:21 PM
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Thats not really what the TRM is supposed to be though. He has always said that, its more a why book than a how to book and that is fine, it does its job very well, it cant be all things for everyone. There are many many books on the how to
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 04:44 PM
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Im fascinated by this stuff, you got to go deeper man, break this stuff down, lol.. Interesting nonetheless.. What stuff from pickup you think is relevant and important. What stuff would you leave out of MM and make simple for a newb, how did pickup help/hurt you now looking back?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 03:12 AM
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To be soo dismissive of the rational male I would think is only possible if you are in this space for a time already, Rollo was writing in these spaces for dam near 2 decades, fleshing out these thoughts, the rational male blog is decade in, all those things like hypergamy, smv, peak market value, etc might seem like nothing to you because you have the knowledge already but I have heard and seen many MANY men say that book opened their eyes, it has its flaws but is great in its own way.. I do ag…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 03:11 AM
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Having game is using that knowledge and knowing when to screen someone out because it wont work.. You can still have a fling but dont really seem compatible for anything else.. There is nothing wrong with that either..
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:29 PM
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Good that you approached, I see you also have read roosh which is a stripped down version of mystery method. You seem to be beginning in game and in beginning you want training wheels of what to say (when your journey goes deeper you will see it doesnt matter) There are some books that give more examples than others to help you: -Real world seduction by swinggcat Cameron_Teone The Ones Pickup Guide and/or The Attributes The Characteristics Of a Seducer Love System's mystery method routines guide…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:20 PM
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Give him richard cooper's book or something.. Or Rollo..
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:37 PM
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Its funny reading these sometimes, a big part of game is calibration. Your answer is literally in the post but you want it your way. You say the culture is 2-3 dates but you want to go for 1, automatically you should know that will decrease your odds but you should be satisfied with that because you "alpha" your way to lesser chances.. Also Roosh used to talk about how "american" game was different than "world" game and how when you go certain places you had to figure out the correct balance in …
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:34 PM
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You must be new, so wont go too hard on you.. You are 6'3 and sound like you got your shit together, idk what world you come from but brother your mindset should be you are the shit, you are that dude.. I dont know what the fuck out of league means either, does that mean you put yourself on pedestal? Because I know you dont have some girl above you, wtf.. That is game 101, you need to fix your mindset because if you go into it thinking she is better than you her hypergamy will kick in and you ar…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:23 PM
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First thing from reading your post is you need to figure out how to get a marketable high income producing skill. Also that whole have a degree but dont see yourself working for someone mindset also might be something holding you back. I know guys on internet/social media sell that dream of entrepreneur who make tons of money working for no one while driving lambos and such but the people I know who work for themselves and are successful are also the hardest working people and put in maybe doubl…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:55 AM
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All that stuff was created to keep betas in check while the elite do whatever the hell they want, its become more difficult with internet and more things are exposed than ever before but that is the blue pill essentially. Do what I say and you believe it..
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:45 PM
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I guess as something like a curve ball, to switch things up it can be exciting as a new experience and you still keep frame as its your idea.. Could open a can of worms tho.. Dont let it become modus operandi or consistent.. I am also not speaking from experience, but I can see how switching it up could give tingles from the novelty but there is always pros n cons that can turn to slippery slope so dont go full peg cuck either lol..
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:35 PM
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What works for me is little by little. Also depends on whose turf I am on. First toy introduced is usually some type of pocket rocket, girls are usually comfortable with that and have some interest then go to the cadillac version of hitachi magic wand, I have seen eyes open wide when it comes out (have also had it stolen multiple times, lol).. Anyway you start there and then go which route you think will interest them.. I remember when I would go over to a girls house, she would start making jok…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:29 PM
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Lucky bastard.. Lol.. Its a blessing to get this info at your age, beautiful.. Anyway, I would say read all three sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP, they all have different info and have value).. Then I would go to TRP and read the top post of all time, atleast the first few pages..
/r/askTRP25/02/21 03:28 PM
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Malcolm Gladwell had it in his book outliers that came out in 2008. He made it very popular and it took a life of its own. He watched many high achievers like Olympians, bill gates, music artist to prove the point as examples.. Malcolm in later years, in other interviews has said that books are researched in that moment in time but his ideas evolve and some things get researched and change but the books stay the same, so while in books it says one thing the idea was further refined in other year…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:17 PM
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oh ok, make sense..
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:17 PM
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I know we have some special guys on here who take everything literally and teens too.. DO NOT DO THIS! Wearing two condoms actually offers less protection because it causes friction and can tear, had a best friend scared to death to get his girlfriend pregnant back in high school and he did this, she got pregnant, we laugh at it now but it put him in deep depression back then, he wasnt the same for long time.. Happy end to story is his son is a great kid and going to get drafted in NFL, grew up …
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:48 PM
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You just got your first real job, save money like you didnt.. Stack your money as much as possible, actually get a 2nd part time job if you are not getting any new skills to help you level up.. Get back in shape, since you are a fitness guy and young just get back on horse and in no time you will be good. Get a hobby, if you are grinding, maybe a year focused on that will have you on point.. Gaming at your parents house is game on HARD mode after teenage years for most, maybe you are exception b…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:44 AM
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Women want the best, majority of women all want the top 10-15% of men. Men on the other hand have no issue dating down. Using your "5" example, she can very easily get sex from a guy higher value than her and that can artificially inflate her value in her head as she thinks, hey I was able to bed this guy so that means I am high value also..
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:05 AM
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Utility and how it affects her standing in social terms.. Women look at men as utility and what benefit they can get from it.. Hence when they are young they want the club promoter/dj and not the guy who is studying engineering, women see these things thru a different lense compared to guys. Also this is where having game can also help the guy, he has a sales problem.. If I had a successful porta potty business, and a girl asked what I do, how I dressed, my behavior would already be aligned with…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:59 AM
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So basically you fulfill the alpha side of hypergamy, if you are giving short term dating cues why would she want you for long term when she gets comfort somewhere else..
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:15 PM
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When Mystery was talking about negs, he was in LA scene, they were meant for straight up dimes, people made a big deal about it but its not that serious.. Dont focus too much on it, like the other guy said just tease girls here and there.. Other than that mystery method is very good.. Also would recommend you go to youtube and type "Mystery presents M3 attraction model" watch that video, its close to an hour long but should add immense value
/r/askTRP17/02/21 01:44 PM
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Like most youtubers but he put in the work and caught lightning in a bottle, pros and cons to everything but no one was bringing redpill truths in this way.. His meme worthy content and the fact he has a presentable aesthetic that majority of redpill guys lack allow rp to go viral which wakes more guys up from the delusions.. Dude has had multiple clips go viral millions of times on different platforms, I was going to gym and next door I saw a hairsaloon/barbershop with his video up on big scree…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:32 AM
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Cant be in someone elses kingdom and trying to change the rules. When you get that uncomfortable feeling of disrespect, thats you realizing that you need to get your own kingdom, if you cant thats your problem and you need to figure it out. Also kinda tied into that is how frame works and your child role changing and you acting out demanding unearned respect. Will post something I wrote up for another kid having temper tantrums asking for respect, will post below. Previous post: Sometimes hard t…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:25 AM
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I mess with a nurse here and there, they killed it during pandemic. She started traveling, NY, Indiana, Texas, in 6 months cleared 200k.. at one point was making 12-15k A WEEK..
/r/askTRP16/02/21 01:58 AM
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I think you can do both, Just give yourself permission to go out 2 nights a week.. You wont meet girls if you are not in pools where women swim, put together a plan where you use dating apps, school, social circle, outgoing venues. Also be aware if you work from home you will need to be very conscious and proactive to get social hobbies and make social activities happen because organically you could stay home all day and not interact with many people. Isolation is death, it will kill your social…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 06:00 PM
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When you are well adjusted, competent, experienced, socially calibrated, autonomous, leader type with an internal locus of control, you penetrate wherever you go and impose your frame on reality. You have your own opinions, you dont allow disrespect, you lead yourself and others, assertive, have a idgaf attitude because you focus on yourself. You put yourself first and have that as your mental point of origin. Leader of men, men want to be you, women want to be with you. There can be a mental co…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 05:46 PM
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You need the sidebar, this is rp101 type stuff. You are basically asking when do women start appreciating beta side of their hypergamy. When will they appreciate provider, comfort, responsibility, etc. Anyone who has atleast read the fundamentals would know women nowadays dont care for that and can provide for themselves. They want tingles. Also if you are only hooking up with that girl once a month, you might be her plate, just a heads up
/r/askTRP14/02/21 05:39 PM
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Was just talking about this scenario earlier when explaining frame to another guy on here, I will post below what I said so you can understand whats happening, so after you can make a short term and long term plan, you should find some friends to get a place together for college or something, good luck.. Sometimes hard to explain frame, I think eric berne book Games people play can help even though can be a tough read and slightly outdated. But his breakdown of the ego state of roles like parent…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:48 AM
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Sometimes hard to explain frame, I think eric berne book Games people play can help even though can be a tough read and slightly outdated. But his breakdown of the ego state of roles like parent, adult, child can help. When you are a kid, you know your role as child and your parents should play role as parent, when a third party on outside and looking in "Frame" they should see those roles clearly. You are in their frame, they dictate your quality of life. Your parents should raise you to adult …
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:20 PM
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Always easier younger, as you get older you can still party and have a good time in between being on your grind and putting a dent in the universe (shout out to Richard Cooper) and game should give you the tools to be able to always have a constant social circle that will always evolve.. Butttt, if you think your crew will stay the same as it was in early years, that would be very rare. Life happens, guys move out of town, get jobs, start families, some come back divorce raped and you have can h…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:46 AM
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You gotta pump those numbers up, those are rookie numbers! I rarely go out for the sole purpose of day gaming anymore and in a week I can say I hit on triple the amount you do with your one a day strategy just out and about.. When I was actually doing that type of stuff way back in day it was atleast 5, can you even warm up after 1? You have to also embrace rejection, you need to become numb to it, thats the only way you can do this. A women rejection shouldnt be tied to your ego/self esteem at …
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:23 PM
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Yea just learn this stuff and then use it to fit what makes you happy, some guys are good being the playboy, some do good in ltr, some do mini relationships 2-3 times a year and just cycle thru. There is pros and con in everything.. Also if you want more ltr, I think you should check out marriedrp and check out their sidebar atleast, its very good and could help you
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:29 AM
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"Alpha behavior/fuck boy" in the way you use it is a short term dating strategy, especially in this day and age where women are a cell phone app to be spoiled for choice. They arent really supposed to stay long term and if you dont give them any long term "comfort" cues its too much dread and they go to a beta orbiter who gives them what they crave until they dont want it anymore.. If you lay it down good enough, they come back but yes with a short term dating strategy you need to have a full fu…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 03:14 AM
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Im not a threesome expert or anything, have only had 2.. (1 was just ok, one was awesome) but I think it is better to let your plate choose the girl and go from there. Thats how it was explained to me in my younger days and played out when it did happen for me.. Makes for easier process. Disclaimer: There is nuance in everything and I am sure your situation can work, have them run into each other and see what she thinks first if it even matters that much
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:31 PM
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Classic. Shame most of the new guys will never know. I still use the gift giving guide of if you will get something make sure its something you both can enjoy, wine, spa massage, etc. Makes shit like this easy and not even something have to think about.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:05 PM
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LTR is RP on hard mode, you need to be even more on point. If it has worked for you why change now? I think it would make sense for you to check out marriedrp, they might even have a askmarriedrp too.. Its more geared towards ltr and they will probably be more beneficial with your goals
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:38 PM
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From the age of 20, yea it will get better, much better. In general you have just entered the marketplace, with limited or no skills, experience, money, proven ideas, anything.. You are starting at the bottom of the hierarchy and it sucks, especially if you havent been aware this is how it would be and dont have a person/mentor to help set expectations or guide you. Luckily you have the internet and if you know where to look you can find this info.. you sound like you are on right path, stick to…
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:33 PM
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Go to MarriedRP, pretty sure they have a really good breakdown in their sidebar. Also check out Wuojo blog post on frame he has a in depth breakdown
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:49 PM
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Sounds like you are a good lay for her.. Sometimes its as simple as that for women.. Her saying why she cant feel this way with other dude is basically saying the other dude provides what she wants except in bedroom so she has to come to you.. Good sex and orgasms release alot of different hormones and if she cant get it other places she will usually go to her favorite trap and visit her favorite drug dealer..
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:19 AM
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Yea I get it, something like that can affect your behavior in subtle ways where you dont realize it hampers you but the girls can feel it. Its your parents and that dynamic is keeping you "beta" in a way because your parents have control over you. Now at your age it can be frustrating but you have to create a plan to get out. Either going to college or getting a job then linking up with friends to get a place together. You have mindset of doing your own thing but your parents still see you as th…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:52 AM
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Reading your type of post, I try to look for key words, usually it ends with me asking what actual game books have they read, how many girls have they approached this week, month, what their social circle looks like, etc. Only thing that perked my ears up from your post was the "addictive to talk to" line and having a strict mom.. Can you expound on that? I used to be that guy in high school who could talk to girls easily but that was literally me friend zoning myself, my value at school was soo…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:32 AM
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English doesnt seem to be your first language but if you walk away you have to be ready and prepared that she aint coming back, you should have other options, if she is a women I am sure she does. Sounds like you were playing games and wanted her to chase, chances are it might not happen and you have to be comfortable with results. RP is best practices but there is nuance, you have to be able to calibrate in field and make best decision for yourself. Hope that helps
/r/askTRP03/02/21 11:57 PM
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Post comes up every couple weeks, I will just copy n paste: I dont think we can post links but most should be on youtube, wanted to give the full range of a playas journey. From heart turning cold, to being that dude, to that playa across the world. Full range. Watch the videos too Favorite redpill songs: Memphis bleek ft Jayz and Missy/twista- Is that your chick (East coastin, really Jayz song that he blessed bleek with, his second verse directed at Nas if im correct will redpill alot of people…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:04 AM
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I think in my post I added disclaimers to help him not take anything as gospel, but I do think game can help anybody, even someone his age. Even in his post he says he doesnt know what to do other than offer endless validation (Put them on pedestal) and gets friendzoned for it, game can absolutely help him, he just needs to be pointed in right direction, he sounds like he is put together otherwise. Looking back at it things I wish I knew that game teaches that would be helpful as teen. -Put your…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 03:30 PM
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You need to learn game, its important, that is basically the missing piece for you spelled out in your post. If you have already read the rational male, it explains the why, now you just need guidance on the how. Below I will cut n paste: Also most of these books are just guides, if you already doing certain things, dont take it as gospel and change what works for you. They are just training wheels, and understand each "method" was that persons own, you dont have to paint your fingernails black …
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:42 AM
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Rumination is a bitch
/r/askTRP01/02/21 05:17 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? Thats where we recommend most people start, I would recommend you read all three (TRP, AskTRP and MarriedRP), also since you are in a long term relationship, you should definitely check out married RP, they will help you. From there it should give you a good idea. I leave you with post to help explain hypergamy which is foundational in understanding http://archive.is/SRgmM
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:57 PM
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Maybe this will help you understand http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:38 PM
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Cant think of that ever happening with me there, been with multiple hot women. I will say with a couple we could walk in an establishment and get stares but they were high 8/9 types in their prime.. I did mess with a dime type who got tons of attention, like dudes offering to pay her bills thru DM types, she was a video model type chick, but we didnt mess around long enough to really get in situations like that, but she ALWAYS drew attention, even girls would stare and comment.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:09 AM
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Bro dam near 5 years ago this is what Jordan Peterson was pushing back against in canada and got death threats about, he went on Joe Rogan (I think episode #877) and that blew him up and made him a star.. That happened I think in 2016. So its been going on for a while, you just werent paying attention (like majority of us) and they made huge ground up and its not too late to put genie back in bottle
/r/askTRP30/01/21 03:28 PM
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I like Privateman (rip) way of going about it, first build your confidence, then build your overall social skills, then after that you can add game specific social skills. 3 layers, he mentions a book also succeed socially by chris macleod that is highly recommended and seems to have helped many people. Link below to privatemans post http://archive.is/ydFb4
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:10 AM
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Perception is reality.. And Al pacino speech (any given sunday) of life is a game of inches comes to mind.. lol
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:57 PM
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You need to balance. You can go home and study and program but on weekends you can have fun. High school is more social circle, the hierarchy should be clear to you and you should understand where you stand, to be the best version in that arena you need to climb that dominance heirarchy. When I went to school, this happened by being an athlete, being in the cool school clubs/social, having a car, in that party life (access to events, clubs, alcohol, drugs), having job/money, guys who had success…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:53 PM
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from a previous post: Yea Rational Male is more of a why than a how. Also most of these books are just guides, if you already doing certain things, dont take it as gospel and change what works for you. They are just training wheels, and understand each "method" was that persons own, you dont have to paint your fingernails black because thats not congruent to you. These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 02:46 PM
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Alexa play Chris Brown Loyal
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:09 AM
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Bro you about to go on an amazing run. 25-35 is gonna be a blast. That run from 27-33 was a movie, and wasnt even "redpill".. I can only imagine the damage you will do. Its a great zone when you realize you can pull younger and older
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:48 AM
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For the alot, this is about right.. Some guys will be able to stretch to 40 but most wont be able to.. They wont be able to put in the work, heck I even see retired pro athletes let themselves go around 40 and look straight washed.. I think the main thing is to keep you weight down and a lean body. That alone leaves the door open for most if they can pull it off. Problem is by 35 for most energy goes down, responsibilities go up, weight adds up, hair thins out, guys cant keep style on point, etc…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 02:46 AM
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Sounds like you have a good system, stick to it..
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:00 PM
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To add with other comment, high school instantly put you in a pool with girls. Naturally that proximity allows the ones who have even a little interest to e around you to have even a little success. College is this on even a larger scale, if you did not go then you remove yourself from pool and if you dont consciously do things to put yourself in proximity to large pools of women that will naturally drop your chances
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:58 PM
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You are smart.. Girls your age are only thinking about fun! Who can give them access to fun, clubs, drugs, huge dopamine spikes, excitement, etc. Discipline and such is kryptonite to them, lol.. Also you are a teen, you can have fun too man, you just got to learn how to balance and not make it your life. You know the saying, "All work and no play makes jack a dull boy".. game is basically how to present yourself and your world in a light that is attractive and understand those trigger.. You are …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:52 AM
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Have you read the MarriedRP sidebar? I think they have a really got fleshed out explanation on frame, you should visit. Their sidebar is also really good in total
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:51 PM
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Its been in the RP sidebar since the beginning. Its a RP book
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:54 PM
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this shit is really a virus, like they kill their host and spread their minions elsewhere. First it was Cali being destroyed and then moving to Vegas, Arizona and Texas. Now NY is destroyed they want to move to florida, lol.. Stay up north and fix that shit, lmaooo
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:47 PM
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The focus on yourself, the women will come advice probably works best if you are young in college and have an already established social circle.. A job where new women cycle thru and you have to interact with them, bartender, promoter, call center, etc. Basically anywhere with large pool.. Also speaking to only 4 a year is not really playing the numbers game and probably gonna make you have thirsty energy and oneitis. If you only have 4 prospects, you make it bigger than it is and feel like you …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:36 PM
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You need to monetize your skills and get a job to provide the seed capital you need to do your own thing. Look at your job as opportunity to develop skills and stack money to help you plan your attack. You have no way of making money otherwise and need seed capital. I know you are young and want to do your own thing but you have to start somewhere. Create a plan, first step is to monetize the skills you have invested in building in college and save to prepare your next move
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:33 AM
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I think you got redpill a lil wrong, rp is not against relationships. You just should know women nature and move accordingly. Also isolation is DEATH. You being that young in constant isolation will retard your social skills and social life in general. You being RP your social life is supposed to grow and multiply. Humans are social beings, it has been shown that the most social of us end up living longer and have better mental health. Also Monk mode is supposed to be a temporary season type of …
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:28 AM
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Yes there are many women that are super freaks, yes some of these freaks are christians that want to get smashed out..
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:41 PM
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Cotdam.. Simple and to the point
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:34 PM
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How young we talking? My thing would be to nurture him to be a competent leader of himself while also making sure he is in different social settings with both sexes. Get him active, lifting, involved in sports, in some type of martial art, dancing, etc.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:24 PM
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Brother I smile while envying you.. You will always have the higher ground and with that mindset of valuing yourself women will be drawn to you.. You gonna have an epic run, many men wish they had the knowledge you had at freakin 17.. Enjoy!
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:56 AM
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Extremelyyyyy low. Even the guys that are "select" and get girls dont know why and might be domain "target rich" dependent, they get out of college and are fucked.. Even the guys that seem to have good game.. I put it under 25%, I wanna say under 10% but whatever..
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:47 AM
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Think you took my answer wrong, he asked a question basically how do blue pill people get in relationships. That is exactly how it happens, most people get in relationships thru proximity. People around them, social circle game, hooked up between friends, etc. I agree with most you say but you seem to object what I say as if I am promoting bluepill when I just answered his question.. Blue pill guys just take what they can get. If you have game you can go out and get your own results
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:06 AM
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Answered something similar recently: Could be a couple of reason, all mentioned in sidebar. Mere-exposure effect: The more we're exposed to a product or idea, the more likely we'll prefer it over lesser-known alternatives. Propinquity effect: The tendency for people to form friendships or romantic relationships with those whom they encounter often. "Like attracts like" The higher people's propinquity level, the more likely they'll form some type of relationship. For example, living in the same c…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:27 AM
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Thats why I told you I wouldnt laugh it off or agree and amplify or anything like that.. Shut that shit down asap.. Even as a joke some people feel they have some truth in it, dont let that turn to inside joke or anything like that. tell them you dont play that game, thats something serious. Even make up a story about someone in your family, that title has nothing to do with you as you were dating in your age group.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:41 PM
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How can you be a pedo if you were underage also? Something like this I wouldnt agree and amplify. I would just call out with how stupid can you be.. The programing is deep, even some of the replies in this thread get a side eye.. 2 year difference is same age group, maybe because you are young that seems like a big age gap but its not.. As you get older you will realize that, dont let your jealous omega friends shame you like women to their level. Keep yourself first and do whatever you want. Yo…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:24 PM
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10 years is a good chuck of time.. Its ok to take time to get thru that.. Thats normal, esp at that length of time, hopefully you will heal sooner and be able to move on..
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:14 AM
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Shout out to all the PUAs who blessed us with this from dam near 20 years ago.. We love em and hate em at same time because we share the same blood like our old crazy uncle at the bbq.. Favorite Hypergamy article is from Hawaiian Libertarian (dam near 10 years old): http://archive.is/SRgmM Key Piece: Hypergamy simply means women's base sexual nature is attracted to a higher status in relation to herself. In other words, if she does not "look up" to a man in some way, she will not be attracted to…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 06:45 AM
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Never heard of game solved or you mention it before, is it new? You gonna do a review on your blog? Always like to hear your view on the game
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:47 AM
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When you are young like that it is said that the only thing you really need is to be mainly good looking/cute n maybe a lil popular.. Girls at that young of age dont have much of high expectations.. You had the only thing that mattered at 16 ish
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:27 AM
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I would say the post I repeatedly post here and link to. Hawaiian Libertarian post on hypergamy was an eyeopener and made everything after that fall in line.. Privateman post on how to build social skills I think is one of best to help alot of people, and the post from doctors why women want bad boys probably would answer 50% of questions on here.. Hawaiian http://archive.is/SRgmM Private man http://archive.is/ydFb4 Women want "Bad boys" http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:48 PM
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Lowkey might be the best, they are all great tho, I recommend everyone go thru all three..
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:40 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? Women(I would imagine you are interested in young attractive women) view things thru lense of utility and/or status. You tell her your job, she goes how can this be useful to me? at her young age useful falls in having fun, clubs/vip, boats, trips, experiences, drugs/alcohol, etc. Thats why say a club promoter can get more ass than say a square lawyer who doesnt realize he has to be more proactive.. The status anything dealing with computers has gotten in regards to me…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:32 PM
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Try swimming or get on a versaclimber.. I like the fullbody type cardios.. You will get ripped af
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:44 AM
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You are about to have a fun next 7-10 years depending how much you keep your shit together.. Make the most of it. I think that late 20s is the sweet spot where you can grab 10 years down with ease and still date older if that floats your boat.. Will feel like you can grab a 20 year old that much easier even when you were the same age..
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:40 AM
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I remember something Rian Stone said in a video a while back that stuck with me and it seems to fit you here. There are some guys that focus soo much on working that they lift there head up, they are 30 and didnt develop any social skills and trying to make up for it at age when maybe others are going in opposite direction. I know he post here sometimes but I dont know his name on here or how to alert him. Now with pandemic it is making things on gawd mode in difficulty but #1 thing as a true pl…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:29 AM
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What actual game books have you read? Most what you posted were more RP based.. That will help more than anything, also what does your approach look like.. Like you are in mall, you see a girl, what do you do, say?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:09 AM
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Invest in yourself. Put yourself first. So in addition to lifting, you need to develop skills that will be of value to you and help you become self reliant and competence. This will naturally increase your confidence and give you autonomy over your life. From there everything else should fall into place, you can develop style, social circle, lifestyle, hobbies you want to pursue. You handle that and your SMV should be high.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:59 AM
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Yea it crazy, thats why you cant throw baby out with bath water. We all know he went off deep end with the whole neomasculinity and then went his own way with godpill (wish him best) but his contributions can never be denied. Bang/Day Bang, his blog, encouraging Roissy to start his own blog that evolved to chateau heartiste, ROK, his forums which probably had best collection of travel info and game overall. Dam, but he called this way ahead of the curve.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:55 AM
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What Kevin Samuels has done in last 6 months to take rp dam near mainstream is hard to ignore.. He was doing the lord work for years tryna help men but when he switched it up over the summer because of beer flu that tipping point was crazy. The amount of reaction videos he has now, he is like the stimulus package for struggling youtubers.. Like em or love em he caused a glitch in matrix in 2020.. That is impressive
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 07:15 PM
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Society has changed the narrative on single mothers. You see all types of positive propaganda nowadays. Its not the scarlet letter that it used to be, many men are confused about that as they think they have limited options
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:20 PM
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PUA/Game will always be in the DNA of RP because dam near majority of rp came from PUA and their work. I can go thru sidebar and pick thru majority and point to what PUA said that or has it in his book from 2005.. RP is just a natural evolution of PUA, they took the good parts and added some other stuff and now they hate their father.. Love your daddy.. Even if he is the old guy doing card tricks with painted fingernails at the bbq.. He gave you passing shit test, you are the prize mentality, am…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:08 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say.. Anyway compared to basketball it wont win, lol.. Girls understand basketball and it has overall more "status" in their world. The guys faces are plastered everywhere, most players are tall and lean and at highest level they make an incredible income.. there are mma fighters who are broke af and fight for the love of tasting blood.. The value you can get out of it, women wont initially see or feel.. anyways do it for you!
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:00 PM
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Roosh called this out over 10 years ago before instagram and tinder took off.. Those things really changed the game, link below (click on screenshot view to be able to read the beginning then flip back to webpage to scroll thru) https://archive.vn/hIh9x
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:54 PM
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Most guys who you would think need "game" are guys who probably played too much video games or isolated with computer too much.. They think literally, with no nuance, so when this stuff got big back in day they just copied everything word for word then complain after when they look like a clown.. The thing is they were copying MYSTERY'S method of game, his game was congruent to HIM. He was a magician performer who operated in early 2000s LA club scene. Him wearing top hats, eyeliner, cowboy hats…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:54 PM
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Have had it happen to me, you having your shit together is like a constant mirror and reflects where they lack, can happen with friends too.. You have to calibrate on the fly, also happens alot to guys who are new here and they over dread for no reason. Either way works out better for you in end
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:53 PM
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Been my go to for too long, lol..
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:31 PM
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Yea Rational Male is more of a why than a how. Also most of these books are just guides, if you already doing certain things, dont take it as gospel and change what works for you. They are just training wheels, and understand each "method" was that persons own, you dont have to paint your fingernails black because thats not congruent to you. These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -B…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:27 PM
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Ok what "game" stuff have you actually read.. books, blogs, etc?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:19 AM
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Every girl takes nudes of themselves, even if they dont send them to anybody. They analyze and compare themselves to the 10th degree.. You changing after 2 years maybe whats weird and throwing things off, you never asked before so now you changing up is a curve ball.. You finish how you start.. Most wouldnt really be able to help you because there is not enough in regards to behavior to go off of. This is mainly you switching up, where red flags usually come when they do..
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:59 PM
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Where is the link for bang tho?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:52 PM
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Share that with your therapist.. Huge turnoff and you are basically making yourself unattractive. Always remember, be attractive, dont be unattractive
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:23 PM
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Used to work maintenance for a few clubs in town, We do work during the daytime before they open, some of them open early for lunch. The biggest one in town would always be fun because these girls would pull up by cab/uber/bf/handler/pimp and be the most plain jane cracked out dead eye succubus you could imagine. Whats crazy is with makeup, low light, loud music and flowing alcohol everyday men would give their hard earned money with a smile just for a little time of a sped up song with these gi…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:41 PM
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Atleast you are learning the importance of logistics at a very young age.. If you had your logistics tight, you would be killing it.. You will have to figure out work arounds but your main focus should be to get income and even if you have to get a roommate get your own place ASAP. Your game will skyrocket after
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:46 PM
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Dont know where I got it but it stuck with me.. Success is like art, everyone will see it different or have own opinion.. create your own
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:57 PM
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Numbers will definitely be more in your favor.. All old school players understood if your game didnt work in one location, take your game on the road and the women will probably be more cooperative.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:48 AM
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I agree with you on that.. I just never thought anyone in rp would be sworn off completely in ltr.. Maybe if they profess mgtow but rp is all about getting women.. At some point if you are playing the game someone will capture your attention, I dont think anyone who does pua/rp blog or youtube has never done an ltr.. I hope that isnt some mind blowing thing..
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:14 AM
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Stephiscold info is still solid.. Take the meat and leave the bones.. and NEVER put these guys on pedestals because they talk on camera.. I dont think it matters if he has an ltr or not.. I would expect it, all the dudes I consider "alpha" in real life all are in ltr.. They actually hate playing the game lol..
/r/askTRP29/12/20 02:54 AM
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Take the meat, spit out the bones.. Get the value you need..
/r/askTRP28/12/20 03:53 AM
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This is a good question but I think you are off on what might happen. If they were legit socially adjusted "alpha" types they will lead normal lives, with normal jobs.. I think Noodlesoupe2 assessment is true also.. But if they got it in early, they get bored of game and cash out with a decent chick.. Most of the guys I know who fit that dynamic are working jobs like postal service, fedex/ups, cop, fireman, trucker, might have a business, etc. All in management or something similar. They end up …
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:11 AM
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Take WIA advice and combine it with Privateman advice from his old blog post. Also check out the social skills guidebook by Chris Macleod, it was referenced in the link by privateman but its a top book and can get you started. http://archive.is/ydFb4
/r/askTRP24/12/20 04:36 AM
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Monk mode should be a short thing, like 1, maybe 2 months.. Isolation is death and if you have bad social skills you need to develop those asap.. Posted before, maybe can help Isolation is death, all your social skills will atrophy and you will just feel weird doing things that even used to come natural. You will get anxiety for just the smallest things. You need to break out of that asap. Then just build up from there, I like privateman (rip) approach for most guys. He had a blog post about hav…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:16 AM
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You want to be lovable asshole, you got to calibrate..
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:55 AM
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Im guessing you have a youthful face, gonna suck now but in 10-15 years you will enjoy it..
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:38 PM
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Air fryer is first for a reason, legit af. Everyone should have on christmas list to their plates, lol..
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:36 PM
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Roosh did a article I think called future of game like a decade ago that was prophetical with how flaking would go to an all time high and women being spoiled for choice would allow them to do the things you mention exactly. Anyways its becomes a part time job when you get over 3-4 plates and you cant really manage if all vying for attention.. Ideal situation I have had is a main that works alot, Another one or two that schedule is kinda opposite and then that last spot is a constant rotation of…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:32 PM
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I would think you should get tested so you know if and where on spectrum where you are and then create plan from there. If you are just video game isolated type then you gonna have to be proactive and make things happen, I will post below what I posted before a plan what privateman posted years ago.. Isolation is death, all your social skills will atrophy and you will just feel weird doing things that even used to come natural. You will get anxiety for just the smallest things. You need to break…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:06 PM
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How many girls have you approached in last week? Last month?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 04:44 PM
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Cat lady got a negative connotation so it blew their cover..
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:47 AM
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You seem to have an almost juvenile and naive way of looking at things.. Worried about who she said "I love you" to? Saying you are falling in and out of love like a women or something, this seems almost like a troll..
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:45 AM
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Qualify is basically having someone prove themselves to you, its more of a sub communication thing in a normal convo that most guys overlook but happens very subtly, something as simple as "You seem boring, I like adventurous girls" could draw a response where she qualifies and says "I am adventurous I yada yada before" Disqualify is when you dont play that game and just remove yourself and dont seek her approval, when she tries to qualify you.. From Pualingo: The term “qualify” to refer to when…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 12:27 AM
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You are a man, she is a women. Your thoughts are ran thru logic, hers go thru emotions. Ceo vs. Drug dealers most guys will look at it one way but women dont see it that way.. Stop projecting your thought process on other people and you will be better off.. Maybe these 2 articles will help you: http://archive.is/SRgmM http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:38 PM
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Usually an asshole is someone who doesnt bend to the whims of a women, someone who puts and keeps themselves first and doesnt put a girl on a pedestal just because she is a women. Someone who values themselves, women can sniff this out early and are attracted to it because most guys are beta af, soft, too nice, put women on pedestal for no reason, arent assertive and have no social understanding of how things work.. They will call him an asshole while laughing because he gives tingles and they l…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:42 PM
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All the things you spoke about were for you and foundational, dont have anything to do with girls tho.. Didnt see you mention but how many girls did you talk to in last week? Last Month?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:10 PM
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What do you consider an "RP lifestyle"? This shit is just tools, you use how you see fit, RP is just to show you how to climb that mountain and being an assertive dominant man who keeps himself first and understands game is attractive. What you do with it is up to you, the route you choose is up to you and all have pros and cons.. I think you are conflating two different archetypes to build up some super alpha in your head..
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:03 PM
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There is a decent youtube Charisma on command I think is name
/r/askTRP21/12/20 03:17 AM
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Dam, Can I buy any of the versions? Found your blog awhile back and been waiting on your book for years now.. Perfection is the enemy. I know its already the shit, your take on game is next level.. We going into 2021, man..
/r/RedPillBooks20/12/20 03:04 PM
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Before I learned "game" in a RP sense I did some of those things naturally, I look back on those things now with RP lense and understand why things "worked" now.. I like to use examples from those times because they seem more "authentic" in a way.. See a girl in mall, she goes to food court and gets something to eat, she catches my attention but she is getting food, I walk away and then challenge myself better to be rejected than never try (shooters shoot), go back and approach, open with hey yo…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:35 AM
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Question mode is where you dont want to be, most of the old school pick up stuff all agreed this wasnt the vibe, you wanted to have stimulating convo, even Patrice Oneal touched on this, you kinda want to snap them out of normal routine, dont ask 3, 4 questions in a row, ask a question, make a statement off that question, challenge them, tease, ask another question.. Didnt always agree with everything in pickup game, some of the stuff was goofy but this above actually is something that stuck and…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:11 PM
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These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang/game all by roosh v -Book of Pook -Mystery Method/magic bullets/revelations -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco -Mode One Read a couple, then get out in the field and have fun.. You will learn more in the field by doing, the game stuff is just training wheels to point you in right direction..
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:00 AM
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Its all about mindset brother, when the first lockdown happened and understanding how the spanish flu happened, automatically said next 2 years is a possibility to be wiped, that alone prepared me with right mindset while people fell apart. Focused on myself and making sure I took up things that put to side. Learned A+, Net +, picking up another language, learned two different region cuisine to cook, and focused more on calisthenics type workouts. Everything wasnt roses either, lost majority of …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:34 PM
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It was usually geared towards young guys, and it was something for them to be self reflective about, usually if you feel soo strongly about one thing it means you lack in some type of development in some way. Like OP seems thirsty for a GF but he said he has never had success with girls in general, he just wants a gf like a life raft so she rescues him from the rough seas of loneliness. He is desperate for a gf and if he got one he would build an identity out of that, he would make her his world…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:34 PM
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To do either or you need different skills, you can be underdeveloped in some way. The guy who only wants to be a playa might be lacking something, insecure about something in his development that he is avoiding or running from. Just a quote to be self reflective.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:21 PM
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There was a saying I read many moons ago, gonna paraphrase but went something like this: Most guys who want a girlfriend should play the field with many girls first. Most guys who want to play the field should get a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:36 AM
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Bro you are young and its your dad, if your dad cant help set you up, who can? As long as you are working towards standing on your own 2 feet, have goals and are working towards them I dont see much wrong with it.. Are you studying, going to school, working on a trade? Dont feel shame for your dad helping you become the man you want to be, alot of people dont have that benefit and might try to shame you for it.. As long as you arent trying to leach forever I dont see much wrong with it..
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:48 AM
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Bro first gonna say you need to start socially by just making friends, take it a step at a time, I would also say if possible get in gym and get your weight up, 110 pounds is light even for your height. Put up a goal to gain maybe 20-30 pounds over the next year.. I will add a post that I made at bottom also to help develop some type of plan and has link to privateman post to help you. Isolation is death, all your social skills will atrophy and you will just feel weird doing things that even use…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 01:59 AM
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I dont really concern myself with it, but if I try to look at it objectively the guys who locked one down early, got kids, and are able to build while maybe getting some on side seem to have the best of both world and seemed to have it figured out better than the guys who have to chase ass repeatedly and deal with high baggage women.. But at end of day its what YOU want..
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:21 PM
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I know a few dudes from even childhood I would consider select alpha types and the thing I see is basically the male dual mating strategy. They have fun with the fast hot girls early and then they lock down a good enough girl with decent morals and is ALL about them.. Some might do things on the side but for most part they arent really in the game like that, they got it out of system early. Also the old school players used to say 9s and 10s are community property, they get solicited with soo man…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:50 PM
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Alot of things come off vibe, you not being happy where you are at the start of your climb of work Hierarchy is probably rubbing off in other parts of your life.. That 23-25 age can be rough as it feels like starting over at bottom and you know the long climb ahead. The energy you give off can just be slightly off.. Focus on your goals, it will get better.. For me 27-32 were great, by then you should be established, the confidence you get from accomplishment in your craft will catapult you in ri…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:38 PM
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You need to try different things and expand your horizons, be comfortable with the uncomfortable, go be a bartender, dj, photographer, go dance, rock climb, train mma, make music, shoot guns, start a biz, build a website, etc. Usually people who have good idea what they want have experienced different things and use that to focus on what peaks their interest. Get out and live my boy
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:33 PM
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Use your hyper rational head then. No one said stop doing that for girls.. Just dont tell them, they dont care, its not attractive to them and is actually a turn off.. Like the other dude said, like a magician revealing his magic trick.. Do you for you. That was literally my first line. wtf man, your whole prove me wrong crap has you in some debate mode.. lol
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:43 AM
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Self improvement is supposed to be for you. Back in day it was kinda known that you never tell how much work you put in, you are supposed to make it look effortless.. "Oh these muscles, I woke up with them" No one understands the amount of work it takes to build value.. You are doing it wrong and women dont get attracted to hard working, disciplined, focused guy.. They want the bad boy who allows them to be free and away from responsibilities.. You are running terrible game if you are trying to …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:35 AM
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Something like that you can play with alot, even throw in some push/pull aspects.. "Why, you tryna put in an application?" might work better, then from there you work it for your personality. Me: Girl, you know I sneak you straight to the top (pull).. Turn it to a game: Thats why I found your application in the trash (push) This shit should be cake, keep amused mastery and you got this..
/r/askTRP12/12/20 02:05 PM
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Do you control your environment? Are you self reliant? Are you autonomous? I think your answer will be in these questions, need more context.. Anyway its family, the dynamic/frame will automatically be different..
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:52 AM
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There are books on assertiveness and certain assertiveness training. I think books like When I say no I feel guilty touches on that, its in the sidebar and recommended in these spaces.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:06 PM
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I would think being a RP man the ideal is having full control so something like entrepreneur would make sense. But I think many like to romanticize it and dont give best advice to young people but take advantage selling bs online. At end of day develop a marketable skill and make sure it has a track for growth to give you options. Things like trade do that, you can start as apprentice, make money while you learn, become a journeyman and make good money then once you reach a level of mastery you …
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:05 PM
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This is semi good girl game and what she should do ( I am sure women would tell her to find this out upfront but letting you sample the goods and then seeing where you are could work also) Also the way the text read is not bad and no reason to be irritated, this is good for you because then there will be no ambiguous confusion and everything is upfront and everyone will be on same page, mode one. This only hurts if you feel you need to be in gray unknown area, just let her know whats up and she …
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:28 PM
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One of better post I have seen in awhile that can truly help alot of these guys as far as fundamentals. Privateman (rip) used to mention that social guidebook alot also, good stuff.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:15 PM
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Just notice you most likely werent responding directly to me..
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:50 PM
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Im more of a feel guy, The women that have been down on date 1 seem to let it be knownat some point, reading about game and things we should do helped me notice how women do the same thing and let you know their interest (they close the space, they kino you much more, they are open, they want to move to place of isolation, etc) if you get this type of energy then since you have game you know how to handle, if not chill, enjoy and then go for date 2. Mind you this is if you are dating at all, the…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:22 PM
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Could be a couple of reason, all mentioned in sidebar. Mere-exposure effect: The more we're exposed to a product or idea, the more likely we'll prefer it over lesser-known alternatives. Propinquity effect: The tendency for people to form friendships or romantic relationships with those whom they encounter often. "Like attracts like" The higher people's propinquity level, the more likely they'll form some type of relationship. For example, living in the same city is higher than different cities, …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:57 PM
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First things first make sure you protect your brain (sounds weird I know), so good sleep, limit on addictions (drugs, consuming too much media, porn). Next I would say make sure you understand amused mastery/cocky funny attitude, if you understand and adopt as baseline of Im the shit, who are you but not in ego invested way but amused mastery type you will have mindset to laugh these situations off and make a quick witted comeback.. I would think to learn and watch more comedy, sometimes on ques…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 02:48 PM
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You might need to work on improv and being more quick with your tongue.. I am guessing you are more of literal person and take things to heart when they are jokes and you should return busting of balls and/or pass shit test.. You think you should be above being challenged but even the highest of smv get shit test and show social dominance by being even more quick witted than whoever.. You still have work to do
/r/askTRP09/12/20 02:29 PM
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You cant elevate people, you cant change people, that is an idealized, naive, childlike, romanticized, even beta thought. You can only focus on yourself and put yourself first. The sooner you understand that, the better off you will be.. I know the feeling and you can tear yourself up for this and waste time, this kinda falls under survivors guilt type of mindset, but if you have to compartmentalize to that point its obviously not a good thing. Some will grow out of it naturally, some will matur…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 02:20 PM
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I put the book name, author name and pdf into google and it came up easy for me..
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:35 PM
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Esther second book is also good and should be read. I put those types of books in their own category to help men get better understanding of womens nature.. The Manipulated Man/The polygamous sex The Predatory Female The Great Female Con My Secret Garden
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:04 PM
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I told you in prior post it was commendable and I like most men respect it. Would never tell a dude to do reckless dumb shit for a women, lol.. Keep grinding, focus on building you and for yourself..
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:52 AM
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You seem like a square dude, "conscientiousness and take on high responsibility" is seen as lame at a young age, guys shirking the duties is more cooler, bad boy type, I dont think you get it.. Anyways, nothing is "foolproof" there is ALWAYS exceptions to every rule, there is nuance, they are just best practices that majority of time prove correct, also girls at different ages value different things (alpha fux, beta bux) Have you read Rollo's 2nd book preventative medicine? It spells this out at…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:25 AM
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The first thing you listed is you made more money, that mindset is definition of beta bux, leading with wallet mindset.. That doesnt matter as much, especially at that age.. work hard, degrees, career goals and plans, intelligent and conscientious (which probably works against you) although very commendable and respected by men, young girls dont really care about that and if you dont package in right way can actually hurt you.. lol At those ages, are you cool, do you have swag, how do you make h…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:56 AM
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man wtf?! How much blatant does it have to get?! You want signals of her butt naked chasing you? Spit game and freaking take a risk of rejection if you are unsure
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:36 AM
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Are you guys even reading? The game is different and women want different things at different ages.. The things you listed as attractive are mostly beta bux shit, lol.. How can you be rp and still list that confused? You are asking why a young girl doesnt want a boring beta bux?! What do you do to play with her emotions? What drives excitement, then you say you tried to lock her down and she wants to play the field, well there you go, you answered your own question.. She will probably put you on…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:34 AM
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Who waits for choosing signals? If you see a hot girl that you like what do you do? How many women have you approached in last week, last month?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:28 AM
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I would say in last 5 years there has been no new developed concepts, only thing is new platforms and the ability to make money from it. These guys on youtube are more able to build a channel that has subscribers they can monetize and they can make same video over and over. The way youtube is setup, people wont watch a video from 5 years ago, so just repeat it with different title and you can make money.. Youtube and social media overall allows ideas to spread more easily and become memes or rea…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:54 PM
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You never gonna "get" a girl from money by competing for her on that level.. Unless you plan to be her "daddy" and take the reigns you its a game you cant really "win".. What would usually happen is you take money off the table and it dont impress you, disqualify it.. change the game completely, that is how you would have chance to win..
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:45 PM
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Yea, RP is evolved from PUA and those guys took their info from whatever literature/info they could get their hands on. From evolutionary psychology to pimp books/videos.. I would say thats where stuff like "dont mate guard" comes from, which doesnt apply to most guys in a situation because if you are in ltr its completely different from being a pimp who has a "cop and blow" mindset. "Betas" mate guard out of insecurity but I have seen "alpha" types do it also something fierce in a LTR situation…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:22 PM
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You got alot to learn but you are young, women act on emotion and those guys give them tingles. You sound like a nice guy and that makes you safe and boring, she doesnt want that at young age, if you stay invested in that mode of thinking its gonna be a hard road for you.. Read link below and TRP /asktrp sidebars.. I post below dam near weekly, lol: The link below will explain to you, This is in a womens mag giving straight rp truths from psychologist and doctors.. Should give you a clear idea A…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 03:24 AM
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Go out and approach to get rejected.. entertain yourself and see how bad you can get blown out.. it doesnt matter, the moment you realize that is the moment you can dominate
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:28 AM
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The way this question is framed means you need to hit the sidebar and you need to read some game literature, she should be keeping you entertained, you qualify her, question her, laugh at her, say she is not your type, tease, tell a story, play a game, tell her she sucks and you cant hang with her, flirt, grab her hand to look at her nails, wow her hands are small, look at them against yours, wtf her hands are like sand paper, how can she give you a massage with those rough hands, ask about her …
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:23 AM
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Competence. Build a foundation. Exposure to success in things you want to accomplish. Experience. Not sure how covid has affected everything but in general you need to build competence which will make you more confident. Working out is a good start, you are already a senior but in general you would join some sport also, this will give you a built in crew with a built in goal that you all work together towards, this also helps you be more social and puts you in contact with a different group of p…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:54 PM
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Ehh, I get the make yourself your mental point of origin but unless your parent were scumbags or abused you, I think its natural for their kids to help them in their older age where it is possible. I dont think putting yourself first means to demean your parents and their sacrifices to give their kids a better life in a foreign land and then shit on them after and talk down on them.. Not sure where the resentment comes from, maybe some therapy will help you, but you got to figure it out..
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:26 AM
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Yea you got to get out asap.. That cloud is gonna push down your ability to develop and be self reliant, assertive, decisive, autonomous man. You are not a kid, find roommates if you have to, but the sooner you can get out the better.. No reason unless you are handicap for him to still have soo much control over your life.. You have overstayed your welcome, you need to make move$ ASAP.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:46 PM
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I dont blame you for not wanting those problems, you cant control the other end and he could snap in bp rage and attack you even tho his commitment is with her. (there was a shooting where a simp killed the lady new lover and himself recently, they both die and now she will find a new guy soon) Mind you, if she did it once, she can do it again but if she is single, I take her for a spin but always keep your third eye open because she is that sneaky type..
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:44 PM
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Just you having a gf that young, you have nothing in common with those guys. a decent percentage of mgtow are guys who already did their thing, have kids and have the option to opt out because they already passed down their genetic legacy. Obviously when time comes you need to be aware of marriage and how deck is stacked against you but other than that those guys have different perspective. A true incel, cant even sniff girls. They dont even know anything besides what they hear on internet, they…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:38 PM
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I wonder how many guys swing completely the other way when they get rp info and ruin a decent situation because they are completely uncalibrated. Getting back doesnt make you "beta" but you need to do a couple things, you cant start acting like a simpy apologetic puppy that is trying to make up for past mistake. You have to sit her down and say hey I fucked up, but if this is gonna work you have to accept it and we close this and move forward. If you hold me on some dumb probation its not closed…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:04 PM
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I think you have a warped way of looking at the world, if you have banged 10 girls by 22, you already in top 20%. I had same issue at your age, I thought everyone was fucking around in high school and college, in high school barely anyone is getting laid, in college most spread their wing but get only a few notches. There was study that said majority of people have 7 lifetime partners, you already past that! Will add you cannot make up for lost time, in reality the game hasnt even begun for you …
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:35 PM
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Used to be a saying, kinda hard to translate but basically if you are in a room full of wolves and they are acting in manner that you dont know who is the play/lick/mark, then the mark is YOU! Act accordingly.. You seem to see all the moves being made but are confused as maybe you dont see yourself as a lick? She has her mask on and will wear it long enough to secure you as her parachute/retirement plan.. Luckily you know enough of her past to atleast not make a dumb decision
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:48 AM
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You are wasting your time and you know it but not trusting your gut.. good luck
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:38 AM
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You are extremely young, so not gonna go too hard on you as you have the eagerness that I would think I would have if I was blessed to have this knowledge at your age.. That said, #1 rule of RP is you dont talk about RP. #2 rule is to refer back to #1.. You are fucking up when you are trying to explain to people about RP, lol.. Its not your job and you put an unnecessary bullseye on your back with no upside.. Go to youtube and watch the scene from matrix with red dress.. Listen to Morpheus speec…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:06 AM
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Answering her shit test seriously puts you in her frame, it can be both, but frame is the overarching picture, a shit test is a test of your frame. Its about qualifying for that person and showing you have lower value, arent socially calibrated, dont understand the underlying implications that is going on.. Game.. West Indian, we need that book more than ever.. Ill take the unfinished/unedited version and pay a grip.. lol
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:53 PM
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Shout out to Neoreaction, he used to always talk about taking in all info from valuable sources but at end of day make decision for yourself.. this kinda falls under that..
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 04:49 PM
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Most of the pimps/players I knew always kept a bitch, they squared up at the end at some point, pimpin and all that stuff is a young mans game.. They usually squared up with their bottom bitch.. but those types of dudes always can attract women, they had game
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:57 PM
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Very little context but really who cares? You need more of dgaf attitude, these girls say whatever without even thinking sometimes, your frame should be amused mastery, it should roll off your back and keep it moving.. Also you wont be every chicks alpha, you have girls legit in these streets checking for dudes who caught a couple bodies already, you wont top shit like that, lol.. Some of these chicks are beyond damaged, now thats an extreme case but you should know who you are and if she not vi…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:28 AM
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It happens, even to the best of us dude.. Just say "thats what you say now" and keep it moving.. no biggie
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:09 AM
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Been "cold approaching" before I even knew there was a name for it, where Im from it was just normal coming of age type stuff (Kinda like "the wood" movie).. We were teens and would go hang at mall or party and try to talk to girls, you couldnt pussy out, wasnt even an option to have approach anxiety.. We all took our L's but we laughed it off and kept it moving.. Have gotten into some great situations thru the years based off of cold approach, its natural at this point (tho covid has even made …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:15 AM
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Just make rp your ghost account..
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:51 PM
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isnt this a rollo iron rule or whatever the fuck? Well you touched the stove, lol..
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:48 PM
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Its all good bro.. As far as roosh info, I think what he did is just pivot to another lane like most guys do after a certain point. "game" is a young mans sport, after a while you move on or get pushed out.. Dam near all the older guys turn into some politic conspiracy nut like Cernovich, all these guys try to pivot to next hustle.. You can just take the info and leave what you dont like.. Eat the meat, leave the bones..
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:14 AM
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This question is asked like everyday now.. These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang/game all by roosh v -Book of Pook -Mystery Method/magic bullets/revelations -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco -Mode One Read a couple, then get out in the field and have fun.. You will learn more in the field by doing, the game stuff is just training wheel…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:19 PM
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This could and SHOULD be its own post
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 10:18 PM
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Some girls dont like to unnecessarily pile up "bodies" to their tab because most guys suck in bed.. So while she searches for next guy or stays single for a bit, she would like access to old reliable as this is the "dick in a jar" that she knows.. Or she tried to branch swing and it didnt work out.. Either way have had something similar happened before and its great to have that added to your rotation because as long as your feelings arent involved becomes a great plate who you know will never a…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:04 PM
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Reminds me of AMS. If a girl looks at you as beta, they can still get it too.. Sometimes knowing how you are viewed is part of the game also, play a fool to catch one.. If you are just viewed as beta, dont go against the grain, just use game to help shorten the courting process and everyone is "happy".. Problem for her is he knows the deal, and he is insulted by the thought that he had to pay full price for something you gave away for free.. Problem is some dont see it that way and now she wonde…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 03:53 PM
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Isolation is death, all your social skills will atrophy and you will just feel weird doing things that even used to come natural. You will get anxiety for just the smallest things. You need to break out of that asap. Then just build up from there, I like privateman (rip) approach for most guys. He had a blog post about having confidence from ability, then basic social skills then game. Those 3 layers, I guess you have some of 1, you are atrophying the little of #2 and none of #3. Link to post: h…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:19 AM
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Most guys seem to need to learn old school game more than anything.. Start there, then read the old rp blogs and beginning post of TRP Dont think anything new has been added since 2015, just guys regurgitation the older stuff, watering it down
/r/askTRP26/11/20 03:12 PM
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What did you expect from a women? They protect the sisterhood, they wont admit anything like that.. Especially with the gynocratic bp programming I have even seen men get even more defensive about saying things like that.. but women excuse each other and want no responsibility.. Also this is rp 101 type stuff, should not be a surprise
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:16 PM
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Just wrote this in another post.. Will add you have to use nuance for each situation, rp isnt supposed to make you a robot.. RP is not a religion, these things are just tools for people who are socially lost.. If you know how to text and use it to your advantage then dont use "text for logistics" tool.. keep it in tool belt, test your own theory, build your own method, this should be fun.. If you have abundance and high value you should be able to do opposite of everything and see what happens..
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:44 PM
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RP is not a religion, these things are just tools for people who are socially lost.. If you know how to text and use it to your advantage then dont use "text for logistics" tool.. keep it in tool belt, test your own theory, build your own method, this should be fun.. If you have abundance and high value you should be able to do opposite of everything and see what happens..
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:25 PM
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The rp way is gonna lean towards it being negative but alot of this stuff was pulled from the pimp game and you would be amazed at the stuff actual pimps did/do to have upper hand and "game" women.. They say all is fair in love and war so if you feel you have to do all of that, do you..
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:13 PM
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Nursing draws a certain type of women for some reason, lots of thots, reformed thots who cant leave their ways, party girls, former strippers, etc. Keep that in mind and its a good time, the conventions are amazing.. Its probably your expectations, adjust them and you will be much better off.. You also might be relapsing bp ways, read sidebar to digest accordingly..
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:03 PM
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That was the first level of getting guys started that privateman (rip) used to talk about, he recommended that book to help guys build their social skills from scratch. Good to see recommended.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:59 AM
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We gonna get a book in 2021? Maybe? Progress over perfection.. I would pay for the rough draft, lol..
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:49 AM
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You might not get the reference but just Van Wilder the dam thing if it bothers you that much.. The game really hasnt started for you, even just putting numbers up in senior year will put you ahead of most.. You can stop looking in rearview and just focus on the good times ahead.. What are you 21, lol.. The game hasnt even started, I know its hard to understand but its a blessing.. But if it bothers you, then just stay.. Two things will happen, you get a semester out of your system where you hav…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:20 AM
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I would guess men who are in great shape, are forward and dont hide their intentions with women.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:20 PM
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Posted this just yesterday, lol: The link below will explain to you, This is in a womens mag giving straight rp truths from psychologist and doctors.. Should give you a clear idea A girl would rather hangout with someone who rejects society then have to wear the mask of conformity. Plus he has money and access to high end lifestyle while still being relatively young, access that only old square stuffy lame types usually have.. Maybe this can help you swallow completely http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:40 PM
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Kinda crazy, Weeknd dam near 10 years straight.. Sheesh undefeated Its a reason he on the super bowl stage
/r/askTRP24/11/20 02:15 PM
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Sounds like mr. smith in the matrix.. You are not saving him..
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:59 PM
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She wants to link but you wanna talk more on text? wtf..
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:59 PM
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The link below will explain to you, This is in a womens mag giving straight rp truths from psychologist and doctors.. Should give you a clear idea A girl would rather hangout with someone who rejects society then have to wear the mask of conformity. Plus he has money and access to high end lifestyle while still being relatively young, access that only old square stuffy lame types usually have.. Maybe this can help you swallow completely http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:55 PM
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You are overthinking it, could of been anything and your logistics sound bad (logistics is a huge part of game and can mess things up, especially for a first time)
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:56 PM
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At end of day most game stuff is best practices for guys just getting started and have no clue what to do.. Once you have experience and know how to sell your value you can test and do the complete opposite and still get good results because value is still high. None of these things are set in stone, I text more than just for logistics, I have gotten laid multiple times after friend zoning myself, etc. When you get that experience its all becomes that much clearer, this guy was inexperienced and…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 01:43 PM
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I dont know what you were studying or reading because in most "game" books they would tell you NOT to buy drinks upfront like that.. Not the best way to go about it but good you realized that after 1 time, your instincts are good.. If you are gonna run nightclub type stuff, read bang/mystery method (treat these like training wheels) to atleast have an idea.. Your first few times, will suck like anything new but you will get better with practice.. Also approach more girls.. Good on you getting ou…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:02 AM
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Like I mentioned in another post earlier, you are exactly someone who has their shit together but just need game and clear understanding of women true nature.. I would check out books below and get Roissy old blog post and maybe LAIDnyc, etc. These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method/magic bullets/revelations -Real world seduction by swinggc…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:55 AM
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ALOT of these young guys have grown up screwed the hell up with porn.. They have had access to high speed internet at very young ages and its affected them negatively it seems.. If it doesnt affect you then its not for you, just keep it moving.. Same as alot of people have normal intake of alcohol but there are many people who have gone overboard with it and it negatively affects their life.. They need rehab and have to quit completely, doesnt affect you so you dont understand.. Give those peopl…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:35 AM
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Bro this is classic stuff.. This is why game is needed.. You are not purple pill because this is 101 level rp stuff.. You are blue pill who maybe just briefly skimmed some rp stuff and thought you had it down.. She was branch swinging, YOU were in a 2 year relationship, SHE had her options open. When another option popped up, she basically had to "kill" your relationship and discredit it in her head her "hamster" came up with any bullshit that would get job done to absolve her of any guilt/respo…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:05 PM
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Ideally Pook is right, game is aggregation of attractive behaviors and elimination of negative ones (Be attractive, dont be unattractive).. Back in day, dudes had the basics down pat (job, own place, car, group of friends), but had no game, so with basic training wheels they were good.. Now daily on here we have post of guys who are lazy and just plain lost (saw post of guy who was 6'4 and scared of girls) RP was not just the behaviors to mimic a "alpha" or "high value man" but natural evolution…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:12 PM
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These all seem like different things but could be related. Not sure of complete context but when he says the "focus should be you" that means you put yourself first, you are your own mental point of origin. Most guys tend to put women first which puts her on pedestal and that automatically make you unattractive as women like to look up to men and want someone they feel is better than them (Hypergamy).. Having fun mindset I would imagine is like amused mastery, keep it light and fun, tease her, a…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:51 PM
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Game/pua is the foundation of redpill. RP was the natural evolution from game but damn near the entire foundation of RP comes from PUA. This happens alot tho, but dont hate your father, we stand on the giants before us, we should thank them for their work. Pua will always be redpill because its directly from its dna, whether you are embarrassed of your old crazy daddy or not
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:41 PM
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Got to make yourself hot.. create your own wave bro..
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:59 AM
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Dont give af what anyone says.. Embrace it and if anyone says anything be like yea bro, had finally got a chance to take care of it, came out good too, life is great, how about you? No one can hate on that, Im sure its a touchy thing for you, but trying to hide it would show some type of insecurity. Embrace your past scars and turn it to a positive
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:47 AM
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Sounds like you have your purpose in life and you are going for it. Nothing wrong with that, most young cats dont so you are lucky in that regard.. I will add that I think balance is important and social life is important for us overall.. All work and no play makes you a dull person.. It is easier to make social moves younger it seems also, all day on here I see people saying they want to make up for lost time (you cant).. I think its a balance and if you are doing things to experience later wha…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:54 PM
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These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method/magic bullets/revelations -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco -Mode One
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:06 AM
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You are 21?! Between you and the 6'4 guy breaking in sweat in club, wtf is going on?! Bro the game hasnt even started yet, right now you are at age to mess up, have fun, make mistakes, try things, meet as many people as possible.. Dont even look in rear view, focus on the road ahead.. You will be wasting time focused on years that might "feel" like they matter but you are putting unnecessary importance on years that are extremely low value for majority of men.. Grind and shine baby!
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:49 AM
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This guy is freakin 6'4.. Got the game on easy mode and he is breaking in sweats.. Bro get it together..
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:46 AM
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White women are biggest benefactors of affirmative action.. they made them "minorities" and now they hold more upper management positions than anyone else, probably schooling also.. Info is freely available..
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:17 PM
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Read a couple game books man.. This is like 101 level type shit, find the sidebar and start there.. Roosh V bang/day bang or something
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:22 PM
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Pretty sure white people benefit more from affirmative action, lol.. But agree with overall sentiment
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:49 PM
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I like to reverse engineer, so ideally we want large pools of women where you get ideal proximity. Obviously disclaimer of covid but College (community college) is obvious one, some type of dance class is another, cooking class, yoga (have to be careful here),Rock climbing, dual gender sports like kickball, any type of in with a nightclub.. Or pick up hobby/job where you can have that status Photography, DJ, Promoter, Bartender, etc. Now after you have your game tight you can get a expert level …
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:51 AM
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Highlight, make summary of every chapter, or just pull out keys for every book (there will be only a couple lightbulb moments for you)
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:30 PM
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Might make his daughter like you more, just to be a rebel.. lol
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:07 PM
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nm
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:04 PM
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You are starting from bottom, you need to develop good social skills first before even learning game.. I think privateman had best idea on something like this, also Isolation is death, lots of negatives come with that. Humans need connection, we literally live longer when we have good connections with other people. Privateman(RIP) was an OG, lots of gold on his website, he has some videos on youtube also but his confidence sub routine blog post will help point you in good direction. http://archi…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:04 AM
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Your answer was kinda self deprecating, unless you are ironically super high value wouldnt recommend you go that route..
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:20 AM
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its called exposure therapy.. Once you are around them you will see they are just normal maybe even more insecure than any other type..
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:34 AM
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No reason in trying to understand these things, as men this is where logic takes you down the wrong path.. Its not always about better, heck staying close to her parents can equal "better" in her mind.. Most times its about how another person can make them "FEEL".. This is hard for most men because you think logically.. This is rp stuff but it used to be clearly spelled out in all the old game stuff.. Women dont necessarily need better, sometimes they just want different, also you improving your…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:57 PM
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If there is any game that his been broken down to science and has more books based on it its night club game. There are literally dozens from back in day based on old school night game pickup. Mystery Method/Magic Bullets/Revelations Bang Mode one Start there
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:12 PM
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Read all three sidebars (TRP, ASKTRP, MarriedRP) , they are all different and have value. Read the top books starting with Rational Male. And go to TRP and read the top post of all time, you will get more value out of top post from late 2012-early 2016.. That was when forum was at its peak
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:02 PM
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The book of pook was trying to get you in right mindset where if you from start understand that you are better than her, you will naturally pass whatever test without even trying. If you start from mindset of amused mastery, or like your bratty kid sister you dont even put any thought into it. The reason guys struggle today is because they put women above them, they think of them as goddesses that belong on pedestal, this automatically makes you unattractive if you understand how hypergamy works…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:50 PM
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From my understanding with IT, its about focusing on getting certs and your experience then to get the salary you want better to job hop than stay at same location. Put yourself first and look for other opportunities harder.. Usually increase in salary will fuel your other endeavors and give you more confidence to increase looks, style, game, social circle. Good luck
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:48 AM
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You were the rebound bro, atleast your 12 year friend zone game finally came thru and now you can move on.. She will most likely come back with cum running down her leg with some lame excuse that a beta simp would know in his gut was a lie but want to believe her so bad that he will accept the blue pill illusion to keep her in his life, are you that guy?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:38 AM
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30 is a good age, definitely not to late.. Isnt IT supposed to be a strong field, How is it a dead end?
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:33 AM
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With information flowing soo freely now, I swear a few days cant pass by with more examples. Just saw on youtube a Virginia guy was shot walking thru shopping plaza with a single mom of three by her ex.. Guy lost his life chasing after a single mom of 3, my gawd. May he rip. Other dude was 25 and most likely will live rest of life in a box with other savages for what?! She will be working on locking down another simp very soon.. People only see the negatives of a space like this but there are ma…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:20 AM
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What a blessing guys have now a days, to get a glimpse of reality and have it all broken down on the why and how and the click of a button.. Imagine the men of past who got torn to shreds and because was raised beta af just sat there as beta cuck mangina simp.. Oh what a blessed day, your eyes have been open, hopefully your balls drop, you leave the womb as a child and now can focus on developing into the man you want to be.. I wish you much luck on your journey
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:04 AM
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Dope.. Keep grinding
/r/askTRP15/11/20 10:38 PM
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The one you have the link to is actual sidebar, but read em both.. Then read AskTRP sidebar AND marriedRP sidebar.. Dont have to be in one day but all valuable
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:36 PM
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I wouldnt say its a red flag to talk about fantasies, if your ego cant handle what you might hear then better off just keeping blind illusion up.. Have you ever read My Secret Garden? Pretty sure its one of books with Manipulated Man to help get an idea of womens true nature. Women enjoy sex and has varied and wide sexual fantasies. I usually expect way worse so when I am able to get girls to be comfortable enough to drop their mask and tell me what they truly want it doesnt even register on rad…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:46 PM
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This guy says he is rp, then says but but she is not like other girls.. Boy its gonna be rough road when you get that "we have to talk" text.. Long distance isnt a relationship, that fucking with your head feeling is your intuition trying to communicate but your ego is blocking it.. good luck
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:29 PM
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First if you want more responses you need to break that wall of text into paragraphs.. The whole long distance thing is not a good look and I would assume she has cheated multiple times in past. Since she is still young she literally told you that she wants to cuck you and go experience more dick and have you as back up plan if she cant find anything better/exciting. Take that as a misstep by her and blessing. (i have seen and heard this and usually its young women who do this, by 25 they usuall…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:21 PM
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These are game books that can help you in more practical sense, try to find free pdf online.. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method/magic bullets/revelations -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco -Mode One
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:46 AM
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Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mode One Those should be good enough to make it happen..
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:42 AM
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I know with Covid things are harder but get get your cold approach game tighten up and things will go in your favor. Study a couple game books and go from there
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:37 PM
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you might want to check MarriedRP, tho not married their page is more geared towards LTR and has good info in sidebar to maintain frame in that situation.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:35 PM
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How many girls have you talked to this week? Month? The way you build authentic abundance is to actually get it brick by brick.. Your catch hand is a little weak so you have to be more proactive and put the numbers in your favor.. I see ugly fat lesbian women with bad bitches, get your mind right and make it happen
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:31 PM
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She reached out to you? hmm, have you read the 2nd rational male? Sounds like an epiphany phase chick who got ran thru and saw that she was approaching the wall and thought in her head that she needed a good simp parachute and contacted a few guys from college to see who would believe her Im a virgin claim.. Obviously Im on outside looking in with limited info but keep that in mind. Also girls who claim they are virgins that long, dont fool around that easy and are hell to have sex with quickly.…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:59 PM
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The first guy usually has to put in the most work, lol.. Its unfortunate but thats the game bruh. She is 15 virgin, you not her beta bux, lmaoo.. Dont take rp so literal but when she does pop her cherry, dont be surprised if she goes thru a hoe phase too.. it happens..
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:39 PM
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Its not that serious, its just a term that went mainstream and teens throw around as derogatory at their friends like simp and such. You are making it more than it is, go lift weights and get on your purpose..
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:25 PM
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Words get expanded use, like hypergamy. So in same vain its been expanded to include guys who voluntarily raise other mens kids as their own which kinda fits as society has programmed these guys to see that its alright and you are "real man". People fall for that stuff hook line and sinker
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:06 PM
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One of things I think rp needs to include is nuance and ability to adapt. Like its not black n white, what you should mainly take from rp is the ability to look at a situation and see who and what you have to do to come out on top and thrive. The people who can adapt to environments and adjust/tweak win. High school is an isolated hierarchy, from what i remember there was a couple ways to get on top, play sports (will give you access to weight room and built in crew that have own friends group o…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:15 PM
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What was your living situation prior? how did u handle before
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:20 AM
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There you go, you need GAME. That is why I asked that question, you say you are rp for more than 5 years but still feel unsure of yourself, worried about getting embarrassed or whatever, this makes no sense but I kinda get it. RP is a mix of many things and can confuse guys by overwhelming them wit soo much, gynocracy, feminism, mens rights, mgtow, last few years huge political push, self improvement, womens true nature, game, etc. In all honesty you probably dont have a good foundation of game,…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:19 PM
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I know covid makes things tough but if you want to change things you are gonna have to pump them numbers big time.. This is a numbers game, the amount you approach has direct affect on how many you can bed, the quicker you understand that the quicker you can put it together.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:58 PM
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how can she be a plate and you havent had sex?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:22 PM
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How many girls have you approached in last week? Month?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:08 PM
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Girl like that you dont have to "game" soo much.. Game works better on hoes or girls raised in a hoe society.. It would actually work against you.. Obviously female nature is still there so always have your defense on point but it should be dialed back.. As long as your frame is strong she will fall in line. But she should know authentic since her dad is legit
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:32 AM
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You need reps, LOTS of reps.. that is downside of the ons if you are starting out with it.. Ideally you get a lil gf young and you both fool around and have sex multiple times after school often or dam near everyday on summer break.. Read a book like sex god method and get someone who allows you to work out the kinks and you will be good to go.. but you need practice like anything else to achieve mastery
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:50 AM
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This guy gets it
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:46 AM
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I think if ig works for you as a plus you should keep it, if you are just a consumer who has it drain from your life then delete. RP is about taking all info and then making a decision for yourself. shout out to neoreaction (I think that was him) You probably were taking advice from guys who live in their basement and have 1 pic up of them in terrible lighting and it never worked for them because they just look at people living their life. Sounds like it was a positive for you, just get it back …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:40 AM
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Some good ones already posted. Being reactive, undecisiveness, passive behavior, not being the leader in your own life, Bad eye contact, Bad hygiene/style, No boundaries/standards, lazy, no job/money/goals
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:19 PM
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It hasnt even gotten bad in mainstream america, still alot of room to decline.. Look at african american community for how much growth is left, have like a 40 year head start..
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:09 AM
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Touch/kino is one of main things you need to do to escalate and have to figure out. Easiest way to do is when you guys are meeting up is hug at intro (if you have size, lift her up a little), breaks the touch barrier and gets you both comfortable with touch. After that depending on what you are doing (i like to go for drinks and then action like bowling, or pool, arcade, something we can compete) when you are vibing I usually ask to see their nails and say something like they have man hands and …
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:36 PM
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I like diggin in the crates and reading the old school stuff man. Guys on youtube are easy to digest but something about the medium makes guys make 100s of videos saying the samething and they just create content to get money (which is cool I guess).. The old school blogs had it figured out for most part. Reading Privateman, LAIDnyc, SolveMyGirlProblems, Roosh, Roissy, etc. Soo many good ones, and also the authors of early game stuff really helped me get a good understanding to go out and do my …
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:22 PM
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Men peacock to standout or its a conversation starter. I think alot of people misunderstand the concept, Mystery blew it up and austist took everything literal of course so they thought they had to peacock exactly like him and didnt understand why it didnt work for them when they painted their nails black and wear eyeliner. Mystery was a showman magician who gamed in clubs in LA. Him doing those things and doing magic tricks or pulling a deck of cards was actually congruent FOR HIM. What guys we…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:05 PM
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Guys have a dual mating strategy also. When younger they are willing and able to put effort to chase skirts and deal with the issues that come with hotter women. If they have experienced it alot of them realize its not worth the headache and get with a girl that has other things going for them and have attributes to help raise kids. Back in day there used to be a saying by the old school players that dimes were community property also. Very hard to keep them locked down. You would be breaking yo…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:42 PM
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Congrats bro.. Doesnt it feel awesome to create your own reality? Anyway, whatever you decide just lead the situation
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:40 PM
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Focus on the road ahead, you cant do that staring at the rearview
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:32 PM
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I have and let me tell you it has been interesting to say the least. First I enjoy day game and was doing it before I even knew it was a term or a practice but since I have learned the "formal" way I had taken it to another level and just had a constant funnel to point Dec '19 I was just in a zone that I was riding a wave until corona hit. When it hit, I had 3 decent plates and other options but decided to drop the other options and limit plate interactions, focus on myself, and enter a semi mon…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:18 PM
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Lead the interaction. You are the man, it is your responsibility to lead the interaction, you will be carrying convo at beginning, picking the locations, introducing to your world, having fun, etc. Tease her. treat like little brat sis, push pull, question her decisions, disqualify yourself, qualify her, etc. Escalate/isolate. Be bold, break touch barrier early, have your logistics on point, while leading interaction it should lead right to your bed if done right. Your place might be where inter…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 03:53 PM
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Because guys with no "game" put women on a pedestal and make themselves unattractive. Guys with no "game" get played and used hard because they are naive and take everything at face value..
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:01 AM
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Pimp By ice berg slim is a classic. My favorite was Black Players by Richard and Christina Milner (think both were studying anthropology and studied the pimp world in bay area when Christina was a dancer to get thru school or something) Great insight. Game broken down outside looking in scientifically.. Pimp Game by Mickey Royal
/r/askTRP06/11/20 06:28 PM
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With covid we know its a unique situation but whenever in past I have had guys ask how to get women or if their number count is low, first thing is how many women did you talk to today? This week? Last month? What do you do in spare time? When not at work, school? What do you do for fun? Usually the answer is very few and these guys cant even handle rejection or afraid to approach and/or they are hermits or always studying/playing video games/on computer/in some form of isolation. You got to mak…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:15 AM
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bruh Im confused.. how deep does the spectrum get..
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:53 PM
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Original "game" has always preached that the best way to learn is in the field, from the very beginning.. You are young, having this info should only help you..
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:28 PM
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Happens to the best of us. You were domain dependent, there was a guy on here who cried multiple post about how college was best and will never have access like that again, dont be that guy.. Even tho he was partially right, now you have to build your game from the ground up and get it out the mud. The game really just started for you, you were in a isolated silo hierarchy, now in real world you have to create new ways to get access to volume if thats what you are looking for (promoter, dj, phot…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:37 AM
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Like AMS says, we fuck those girls too.. Some girls just have been around where they will see you that way, if thats the case just use that and make it work in your favor.. Question is are you projecting that tho, is your game tight, take women off pedestal and put yourself there where you belong
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:22 PM
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First off you have no game but even worse seems you have very low social intelligence. I think it would help you better to start with understanding the social intelligence part then after you have some level of competency there you can read a little about game and then you should be good. The line you highlighted shows you dont understand that you dont communicate with guys and girls the same. Men you can be direct, but unless a girl is massively into you the kamikaze style approach will have a …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:12 PM
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That is the paradox and one of main reasons mentioned not to move in.. Familiarity breeds contempt is how the saying goes for good reason. Thats why marriedrp is called rp on hardmode, you should check them out, I am sure they can help with this.. Girls dont give a shit about the work you put in and would rather wait at finishline to get with the winners, you on your grind with no or little results is of no use for them, especially if they are a 10 in this day and age.. That grind is for you onl…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:08 AM
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Write your goals down, then write down process to accomplish.. Become process oriented and chunk it down backward to what do you need to do today to get you closer.. Then get to work.. Set markers between whatever interval you deem necessary to check pulse, adjust/pivot/redirect then put head down and keep grinding.. If you can find advisors/coaches/mentors (all different things) that are real and have walked that path and have results you want that would be even better and cut your learning cur…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:50 AM
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Beta game works, it always has.. its an over investment strategy, guys have been using it for a looong time.. its a commitment strategy.. Alpha game is like a short term mating strategy, when a girl looks at you she is supposed to see "You are here for a good time, not a long time" Back before even understanding this game, used to spend all types of time on phone with girls talking and wasting time.. over investment, had status so that helped with their hypergamy but game was mixed up.. still go…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:26 AM
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Its the best, if you got your shit/game together your next 5-7 years are gonna be a blast. At 27 I was pulling from 19 to 40 with ease but mainly younger.. Enjoy
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:16 PM
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What in IT did you get into and how did you end up in SEA, is your job 100% remote? Are you teaching?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:05 PM
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Breathing is the biggest thing so if they touch on that in book it will help most dudes.. Most likely anxious and have whole body tense, breathing is first thing to go and if you can get control of that your whole body relaxes.. slow your breathing and everything is better
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:51 PM
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If you want, its not that big a deal. I would also advise you talk to many other women so you are not bogged down overthinking every move with this one As far as teasing in your previous question, no it wont put her on pedestal because people who do that are passive and reactionary. If you are treating her like your bratty little sister that automatically puts her "beneath" you in that sense.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:32 PM
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Two lock in solid plates I would imagine puts you atleast in top 20%. Not alot of guys can pull it off..
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:46 AM
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All of it is mental, that why there is high emphasis on having a strong frame and being your own mental point of origin. You put yourself first and keep it that way. Some might look at it like you are an asshole, if she calls you that you are going in right direction. Also she gave you a life line and basically told you how to attract her and game her. Its up to you now to lead the situation, most guys barely get even that much when they are clueless and girls just move on. You are going to have…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:43 AM
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Read atleast the two sidebars (TRP, AskTRP sidebars) then go to TRP and sort for top post of all time and read atleast a couple pages deep.. You are asking rookie questions but you are only 18 so most will cut you some slack but you got to put in the work.. Your questions are answered in sidebar.. The main thing you need to learn is dont put yourself in subservient position to women. Women are attracted to men that they look up to, if you put her on a pedestal like she is a star, she will treat …
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:25 AM
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I look at it as tools in your tool belt. All of these "methods" or "strategies" are usually unique to the author and just give the reader an outlook for them to try but when you try it on for your personality you see what fits you and what you see works.. After a while you will blend this from that strategy and that from this method.. And you wont even know where you got this little thing from but it works for you.. I just recommended those to give you a full range of game spectrum and allow you…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:06 AM
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The younger you are the more I would think you lean towards quantity.. Will give you the experience you need to be able to be able to handle a variety of women. As you age and have the urge to sow your wildoats diminish you will lean more towards quality (with only spurts of quantity, lol)
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:25 PM
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10 Plates? At Same time? lol.. Not even the best players have 10 plates at same time, unless they have 5 on shelf holding pattern who pop up from out of town or are in relationships and they sneak in a session once a month or something like that. Most actual players rotate between 3-5, with 1 to 2 being ride or dies who love their dirty draws and are no work at all and then they rotate that 3rd or 4th position as girls come back or leave on their own accord. And if you are pushing 5, its dam nea…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:38 PM
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You being self conscious is gonna basically be you blocking yourself from getting some served on a platter.. The sooner you get over this the sooner you can move to next step of getting confidence/experience and improving your sex game.. Get Sex god method and put it to use asap.. Who cares if you are perfect the first time.. NO ONE IS.. Dont overthink it
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:28 PM
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If its the first time the staycation is good as it still allows for plausible deniability.. After that she will know what time it is and you can be more open about it..
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:22 PM
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lucky bastard.. Lol..
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:02 PM
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What actual game books have you read? Hard to recommend without knowing what level you are on, you sound like you havent really read any tho (hate to make assumptions) I like the classics which will give you the basics and training wheels to get out there and make it happen, posted this list in another similar post, you should check it out, its in my history. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method -Real world seduction by swinggca…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:00 PM
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Hell yea.. As a man you will never understand, dudes value other things.. Dont use your value system and try to understand, thats blue pill in a nutshell.. Guys especially honorable types will never understand, thats why women see soldiers as easy marks/licks and men have high respect for them. A girl would rather hangout with someone who rejects society then have to wear the mask of conformity. Plus he has money and access to high end lifestyle while still being relatively young, access that on…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:46 AM
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RP was started late 2012 but got traction like 2013, I would say from 2013 til it went political 2015/16-ish.. Then slow decline since then.. You can read all 3 sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, and MarriedRP) and sort thru the top post to see some of the older stuff.. Or you can go to the the red archive website and sort thru years if you want to see stuff from late 2012/2013-15..
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:35 PM
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quality stuff here.. quoting for record https://archive.is/572sI
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:12 PM
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I see the younger dudes have push back on tattoos every time its mentioned, maybe because its been normalized their entire lives that they cant see how it is.. When tats started getting popular in late 90s/early 00s we used to laugh at chicks getting "tramp stamps" now these dudes grow up with women getting full sleeves and face tats and wonder why its a red flag..
/r/askTRP23/10/20 09:47 PM
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Usually over a period of time. If you go during the same time of day consistently you will run into the same people, so use patience and proximity to your advantage. For guys I just ask for a spot, then over time its just a "hey whats up", then it evolves to bro havent seen you in awhile. yada yada.. With Girls its usually on treadmill, I usually do sprints and girls next to you are looking, when I am done, I just put out a fist bump.. Think I learned that here, 100% success rate.. No words.. Ov…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:19 PM
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Its the nature of the medium. Youtube makes it super easy to broadcast and rp stuff allows guys to build a built in audience if you take that leap. I dont really have issue with the guys trying to make money but for some reason has always been an issue on rp spaces for some reason. Guys expect other men to use their time and not charge for their time? They offer free content most of time which is good enough.. Either way like mentioned before youtube is not best way to get "rp" content because t…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:59 PM
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I know wit rona things are different but in normal times how often did you approach? looking at women online does nothing, especially thru a blue pill lense like ig.. you have to approach to get results you want
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:47 PM
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Overall your game seems weak, I know most will say dont shit where you eat but you seem to have a entry level job where most are able to put numbers on scoreboard in their youth so that would be exception. I would recommend you read (or listen on youtube) to book of pook and also read Mr.V text guide, hopefully you will understand the underneath attitude/inner game you need. You sound like you fumbled this but with the girl being young and seemingly basking in her peak value years you can figure…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:22 AM
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Legacy for most
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:53 PM
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"misogyny", "maybe Im wrong", "Maybe its time to give this a serious shot" Lol.. Read the sidebar (I think all 3 are excellent TheRP, ASKTrp, MarriedRP but you choose)
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:12 AM
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Read sidebar in both trp and asktrp, lift, get other girls and develop game, if she comes around you should be better able to handle from a position of power.. Right now she is in a lane too fast for you, you are tryna play catch up.. Give it up, invest in yourself and go from there..
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:08 AM
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Projection. Women are attracted to men who can attract multiple mates. So since women have been programmed to think they are like men, they project that since they like those types of guys then guys like it also.. If you ever bring it up, there number 1 rebuttal in screeching voice is "mEn Do iT tOo!" Thats a fundamental admission that they think we are the same and program is working and DEEP
/r/askTRP14/10/20 04:31 PM
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Men dont care to be sluts and wont take it as an insult.. Women because of their dual mating stategy cant really afford to be looked at that way so are looking to change or eliminate the meaning of "slut" to dupe dumbed down men..
/r/askTRP14/10/20 04:28 PM
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I have done both but 90% of time its just number. The other its just on a whim after I ask them what they are doing, if they answer nothing or going to get coffee or food, I say lets go here quick to grab something.. best pull was in mall, do an approach, it goes really good and she was high interest, offer to grab a quick drink at cheesecake factory. We sit at bar, order appetizers, a couple round of drinks, she mentions our bartender is cute, I then bring in the bartender and start flirting wi…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:28 AM
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Black players by Richard Milner is probably the best in that genre.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:25 AM
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Something seems off here, dude is blaming everyone else and he is common denominator in all of this.. In college but doesnt have social circle, had no friends in high school because of home schooling, thinks older people are broke and peaked in life years ago, approached 200 girls with zero closes.. Sounds like you need to look in mirror and make a hard eval to personality and overall mental makeup.. Its not adding up
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:01 PM
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Stay a mystery, let them fill in the gaps.. Tell them to guess, tell them you traveled far away, tell them you tried to be a rapper, tell them you didnt give af about life and you just wanted to fight, tell them you were in a dark space and it was a blur, now you are on right track, shrug it off like nothing.. No matter what you say its how you say it, if you own it and then move on its not a big deal.. Its only a big deal if YOU make it a big deal, if you get anxious, answer nervously as you tr…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 10:11 PM
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If you are in college you will never be around a bigger group of your peers in your life again. You will never be around a group of peers who also have time and you can find that have similar interest as you. Find clubs that interest you and join those clubs, interact with mates, if possible take a leadership position in those clubs. When you are with them see who relates to you most and say hey lets hang out xyz.. You dont need 100 friends, you will have people of different variety in your life…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:21 PM
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Isolation is death. You want to feel you dont need anyone, whatever.. We are social creatures, all your hard work will be for nothing if your social skills atrophy to point you are the awkward guy no one knows or can relate to.. Regardless of monk mode you should always be able to reach out to someone..
/r/askTRP03/10/20 03:53 AM
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When did this happen, the farther away from the act the less effective it is.. clock is ticking, just a heads up
/r/askTRP03/10/20 03:50 AM
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I like the classics which will give you the basics and training wheels to get out there and make it happen, posted this list in another similar post, you should check it out, its in my history. Most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:11 AM
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In old school game it was all about creating emotion, basically talking womanese.. their language.. Some guys "get it", most dont.. You told her like you were communicating with your dad.. No emotion, nothing to go off of.. boring.. Atleast it seems like you got a little epiphany out of it, like a little spark but this has been discussed for long time, learn game and you will be able to do same thing.. polite gentlemen can be her nice guy friend
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:13 PM
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Many ways to skin a cat and actually effeminate guys probably bang more girls than most, like the high school dancer guy bangs more than football player.. they have integrated both masculine and feminine and can interact with women how most guys cant. Usually well dressed, styled and god hygiene compared to peers. They can speak womanese with ease, in language and expression. Thats why some girls will be infatuated with gay guys, those guys have the most put together game of both worlds. Having …
/r/askTRP01/10/20 12:28 AM
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Communicating that overt is like communicating to a man, would work really well I assume if you were gay. Have you read any game books to give you the basics and some training wheels? I like the classics, most are quick manuals of like 150 pages but have you read: -Bang/day bang -Book of Pook -Mystery Method -Real world seduction by swinggcat -Manual of Seduction by Franco Anyway what have you read to up your game?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:01 PM
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Cut n paste response from same question asked every week: You really shouldnt be asking for lines, being rp is a mindset, you got to work on internalizing it and your game will shine thru. Like once you are RP and your game is tight you should be coming across teasing vibe thru text, it should be natural. There was another post earlier about text and mentioned Mr. V texting guide, he pulled it down but someone posted a archive link. http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 09:45 PM
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They hate Puas because it is easier for them to execute their game plan with naive men.. Without this knowledge men play the game straight up and divide themselves accordingly in boxes that women are able to categorize and can catalogue those men easily. With game it muddies the waters and not only allows men to go on offense to attract women but also gives men defense to be aware of their true nature.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:49 AM
1

RP evolved from Pua, we are here because of Pua.. Your comment is like hating your father.. We are standing on the shoulders of men who put in work and put it all online.. You should be grateful.. lol
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:46 AM
1

To be a fully masculine man is to also integrate a small piece of your feminine side, atleast in most stuff that what they say. You see this in ying yang symbol (there is a little piece of the ither on each side), you see this with men having lower levels of estrogen and women having test, heck some would say game is more teaching men to embrace their feminine side. (communicate the right things, dress better, keep up with hygiene, understanding social dynamics are all more feminine domain) All …
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:55 PM
2

The game pov was alway to use this as a way to joke around/tease.. My answer is usually "you know a lil about me, how about you guess" or Im a Janitor but I tell people I am an environmental engineer to sound more important deadpan.. Also just a heads up, the fact you have issue with saying you work at store is showing that you are trying to qualify up to whoever, need to get that handled.. You really shouldnt give af
/r/askTRP16/09/20 06:56 PM
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Shame is the #1 tool people use to control your behavior. Especially if they know you have that "beta" people pleasing programming still deeply installed in you. RP is supposed to free you and give you amused mastery as they try that BP BS. That weird feeling you get is your balls trying to drop.. Let them be free
/r/askTRP11/09/20 06:17 PM
2

When she feels you are beta, she thinks she can manipulate you to crack. You have no boundaries and are weak so if she just gives you a little feminine energy eventually you will come back to her and then she can leave you on her terms. You still have utility for her, she still has use for you or you help her execute her dating strategy. There are women out there no matter how bad they have acted in a relationship weak men still accept them and how dare you think you can be better than that. Be …
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:41 PM
1

Got no reason to put info out there cuz people crazy so I will let you cook.. Dudes are EATING
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:13 AM
5

I wouldnt do it, but I wont knock a man who does.. That betrayal when you get cheated on hits people different. Who am I to judge.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 03:36 PM
1

In florida starting like 75k, can work up to 125k within like 5 years.. Work 3 days one week, 2 days the next.. pension is like 80% of annual income with like 20 years service (tons of guys retired at 40 with side businesses from beginning).. Some areas might be volunteer but in others its an incredibly sweet gig You can be early 30s pulling like 150k, excellent benefits, great vacation time, nice side business, workout on the clock, women love the uniform because they think you are running fire…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:49 PM
3

If a man has gone thru normal socialization and a normal coming of age track, he should be established and en route to be an self reliant man who knows his abilities and making a mark on the world. I would say if he so deems fit he after understanding the environment set before men in the world now with divorce laws and still elects to take that risk the green zone would probably be 28-35 -ish.. Only problem is that same man will have soo many options, lol..
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:31 AM
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Most men have no clue of game, women, status, hierarchy and the such.. They dont know that they are selling them selves short because they feel extremely low value and hold on to the one women they got like holding on for dear life.. thats why if she leaves them their whole world is shattered because they based it around her.. Its a dam shame no one taught them their value and how it will only get better..
/r/askTRP08/09/20 06:28 AM
2

Probably "kill" what it means to be a man.. They are getting there already.. Lower test, make it socially/culturally acceptable for men to be women (might start enforcing), tell kids they can take hormones, white knights protecting their moves, Get masculinity to be a negative in psychology books and labeled toxic in general and everyone accept it, some might say its happening before our eyes.. They dont need to commit a physical "genocide" when we are voluntarily walking around as a shell/shado…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:08 AM
2

High school is unique isolated silo and very short lived. But if you want to climb hierarchy look around and see who is popular and why. Usually they perform a sport or are in some type of social club. Then you have the party types that come with outcast/drug vibes. Join popular sport, football is good , helps build bond with guys and you will be doing olympic style weight lifting or something close. You will get jacked af. If football is not for you, I would join social club AND get a job, job …
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:00 PM
3

Like everything is RP there is Nuance that the autistic audience it draws misses out on (Nuance should be rule #3). If you dismiss the wall just run this experiment, go on any dating app and set age to 18-25, start looking at profiles and see which ones are attractive and not, keep a log if you want to. Now do same thing just adjust age 35-42 and see your results again. Now for our special friends the wall doesnt affect everyone the same, plus you have to adjust for environment, alcohol/drug con…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:22 PM
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That is more old school game. To use descriptive language. I would say from what I remember Manual of Seduction by Franco does a good job of explaining it and how to use. Also clipped this from somewhere, maybe can help: Use Sensory Information and Details: As guys, we are very factual. We are concerned with the 5W’s of journalism: who, what, where, when, and why. But women process the world entirely differently; they are much more concerned with emotions and one of the best ways we process emot…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:07 PM
1

Read the sidebar (all three, TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP), then go to main TRP and read the top post of all time. There is a archive RP site that you can search by year, start from beginning, like 2012-15 (read top of those years). Then find the old school blogs Roosh, Roissey, LaidNYC, Thumotic, illimitablemen, Woujo, WestIndianArchie, Privateman Books Sperm Wars No More Mr. Nice Guy Rational Male The Way of The Superior Man The Manipulated Man The Predatory Female/The Great Female Con/My Secret Gar…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:00 AM
1

You need to read the sidebar, when you are infatuated with someone you exhibit unattractive behaviors. You put the women on the pedestal and so she looks down on you like a fan. A women cannot be attracted to someone they look down on, you PUT YOURSELF IN SUBSERVIENT position which is unattractive. The results are in front of your face and you are still banging your head, this is trp101 hypergamy 101 type stuff. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:54 AM
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Old school game stuff was all about convo and tools to help, also one of things that was emphasized was in beginning understanding that you would be carrying convo 90/10. Tools like push/pull, teasing, qualifying, cold reading, story telling, are things that would help you never run out of things to say. Mind you, you already do these things unconsciously and undertaking them consciously will seem robotic and might make you take a step back in short term but if you just get the overall concepts …
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:42 AM
2

This is a perfect post to remind everyone to read the sidebar AND also top post from the main TRP page. On page three there is a post helping to not be a boring fuck, I will add a link but every new person should peruse the top post when possible, much better than scrolling thru asktrp post http://archive.is/KedlS
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:36 PM
1

Doesnt want to have a "pickup routine" but ask what to talk about, lol.. Boy I tell you..
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:31 PM
1

Sounds like she soft nexting you.. Might be better for you to go to MarriedRP, you will get better answers and help (you might not be married but are in serious ltr with child, so basically you are)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:26 PM
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Sidebar has a glossary and everything. It has everything you are asking here. There are 3 different sidebars I recommend most to atleast go thru all 3 (TRP, AskTRP and MarriedRP)
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:20 PM
5

Bro you are still locked in blue pill feminized. Free yourself. Rapist?! Stalker?! Wtf
/r/askTRP01/09/20 04:04 PM
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Use descriptive words, words that give feelings, can light up the senses. That will help people visualize and "feel" like they are there.. This will help you understand "womanese" better too.. Manual of Seduction by Franco probably has best ideas on that. Not too many people touch on it but its a good tool to have
/r/askTRP01/09/20 03:45 PM
1

Post a link to yours
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:24 AM
1

Most of call centers I worked at were young cheap, little training hires.. college age and it skewed more women than anything.. In any customer service gig you dont take any of that stuff personal unless you are sensitive, u forget about the call before you even hangup. We used to laugh at calls and put on speaker phone if we werent on other calls. Its a fun gig. Not cold calling or sales tho.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:02 PM
1

Call center is a hidden gem if you have one in your area. Decent chill pay, high ratio of college age girls, can move up quick, etc.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 04:42 PM
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Remember even if women sees you as an "alpha", she will subconsciously try to turn you into a "beta" to lessen the feeling of dread and try to keep you. I forgot if this is right way of looking at it, read it somewhere but has made it much easier to identify. Usually shit test are about you and comfort test are about her.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:08 PM
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You are young so should have alot of leeway and hotels are cheeeeap nowadays so look into it.. But it works best if she is confirmed all the way down because that takes away the "it just happened" affect away..
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:35 AM
1

Openers really dont matter.. If you are new just read Bang/Day bang and get out there and start. I have gone from normal hi to scripted stuff back to hey whats up, to now just out right tryna get rejected or funny reaction.. Last 2 have been, Hey you look familiar do I know you, depending on response and vibe I have a followup of do you have an only fans account or something? and Hey I am looking for a sugar momma can you help me please? Usually works better if its 2 girls it seems soo far they …
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:08 PM
1

Been there, instead of blowing it (been there too lol), look for ways to invest in self and get highest return on investment. Get a trainer for a month or two, so you can learn workouts and get in best shape faster (even the best athletes in world have multiple coaches/personal trainers), a nutritionist to help you reach your goals the right way (even a virtual session can go a long way), Fix your teeth, etc. Get another skill if possible, stuff like that will help you become more well rounded a…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:58 PM
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Make yourself your mental point of origin. Put yourself first.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:52 PM
3

You can just ignore her, and deny interest. That will make her chase you even harder tho. Happened to me a couple times back in day, the one chick I turned down had previous dated someone I knew for a short while and I had no interest. She even cornered me at a party and in room got buck naked, smh.. I look back at the idiot I was, smfh.. Definitely blue pill moment.. I told my friend eventually, they all laughed at me like bruh.. You get no points for morals or virtue.. She will eventually move…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 07:47 PM
1

dope
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:13 PM
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I like a lil crazy, but she was tooo crazy, the stories I can tell... I hope you are not crazy like that, are you?
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:55 AM
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You are thinking too logical and not handling her "FEELINGS".. Look at your reply and see how she replied to you that you did not "get her point".. You answered logically like you were talking to a man. What she told you doesnt matter.. What she FEELS is what she bothered to tell you and you "dont even listen and arent receptive" Hopefully a light bulb went off in your head.. I didnt see any of the replies touch on it so just chimed in quick.. A guy actually told you to be more rational, wut.. l…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:48 AM
2

Sounds like Madonna whore complex.. look into it
/r/askTRP26/08/20 09:24 PM
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You really shouldnt be asking for lines, being rp is a mindset, you got to work on internalizing it and your game will shine thru. Like once you are RP and your game is tight you should be coming across teasing vibe thru text, it should be natural. There was another post earlier about text and mentioned Mr. V texting guide, he pulled it donw but someone posted a archive link. http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn At end of day you s…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:06 PM
3

We are in election cycle so everything is highly politicized. We have 50 different states and tons of cities that can operate as their leaders choose. Example, Atlanta is basically open so everyone goes there to party. Cali has been on lockdown. Other places have their own rules, some places have high cases, some have none or very low amounts. Colleges opened because they want to keep money from raping kid/parents with tuition fees, and kids start partying and then cases spike, schools close in …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:08 AM
1

Omlala is in the sidebar I think.. westindianarchie is the truth, Wuojo is dope, thumotic is also, illimitablemen, , all are blogs, all are on point.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:03 AM
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Understand nothing last forever and enjoy the ride.. The best thing about ltr besides the chemicals in your head I guess is you will be able to improve your performance in bed by sheer exposure/repetition. If you can get that solved, you will rid yourself of alot of thirstiness guys have in college.. Read sex god method (maybe multiple times), practice safely, enjoy each other while it last.. Puppy love can be cool.. Remember to always keep yourself first
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:53 AM
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Not gonna sweat the IG instead of number because I know you kids do things differently and it might be the preferred way of communication for you both. Ideally most would recommend numbers but they may be old guys who cant relate.. idk.. What I will say is its always been said to rock with who rocks with you. If one chose up on you its like one in hand but you chasing two in the bush. Play the game smart. Maybe they were both friendly and you can game both and see which one has more interest, it…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:38 PM
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Now that you have identified the issue, you can make adjustments. Everything is pros and cons, IT is field you have limited interactions but gives you funds to try new things. Make a conscious effort to expand your views and try new more social hobbies, with these times and covid it can be more difficult but put a plan in place anyway. Try rock climbing, some type of art class, photography, dancing, cooking, etc. What you want is something social, coed, you have interest in, that can fit in your…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:13 PM
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If you dont like it, do you. Demote to plate and keep it moving. Its better for your mental health it seems. Just know that with no culture in place and the descent into degeneracy alot more girls are going this route and it seems people will try to gaslight you into accepting it. Weather you have a madonna whore complex, blue pill turned rp, etc. Some guys cant accept the town bicycle and he doesnt have to, as long as understand alot of girls fall in same category
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:02 PM
1

Typically not tryna pirate stuff but you can google the name and free pdf. Or since I cant link google "lib gen" and search for it there as I have seen it before.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 12:04 AM
1

Why are you making videos if you dont even know what you are making videos about? Sounds like a hit piece to me
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:53 PM
1

http://archive.is/m2dvv
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:50 PM
2

In terms of "game", was not text book.. They say you can open with anything but how old are you seems like cringe to open with still.. Whatever you could of still overcome it but after that you go straight away for number? You never really were in, like you never hooked.. Not sure if was in a rush but You are suppose to trade a couple lines, tease a little, make an observation here and there then close.. If she has a bf she will most likely mention at some point early on and you say your line th…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:03 AM
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She has a dude, that should let you know she doesnt need you for any boyfriend type activities. If she giving you the heads up then you should be good. Only problem is you dont have home field advantage AND cant go grab a drink before going back to her place..
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:12 PM
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This is how these guys tell on themselves that they have never read the sidebar. There is a freaking glossary for these terms. smh.. To answer other question Roosh was one of the early guys in game and help establish RP. One of three R of rp (Roosh, Rollo, Roissy) who really help lay the foundation from the blog era, he probably started blogging 2007-ish. He was blogging til last year he had a come to jesus moment and is now out of it but he wrote a few books, most would recommend Bang, Day Bang…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 06:03 AM
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Ok cool, good luck. If things change, hit me up.. They always come back
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:23 AM
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The whole "texting is for logistics" thing I always thought was for beginners to chill and deprogram themselves from bluepill mindset once you have the correct mindset you do what you want. Like once you are RP and your game is tight you should be coming across teasing vibe thru text, it should be natural. There was another post earlier about text and mentioned Mr. V texting guide, he pulled it donw but someone posted a archive link. http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.c…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:21 AM
1

For future reference, Tenants shouldnt even know who the owner is, even if you are the point man, you just manage the property or something, always create a buffer between tenant and owner even if owner is you. They definitely shouldnt know where you lay your head, unless its some type of duplex situation, then you are just the tenant also.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:50 AM
1

This honestly sounds like bird talk/Hoe babble. Anyway its best to move on immediately. Also negative feelings can hit you a couple weeks later even. Occupy your thoughts with other things to move on completely
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:17 PM
2

In any game books that touch on it, Logistics is always key and underrated part of game. The difference between being in center of action or 20 min away is definitely palpable. It will affect your social life, you will work harder. Guys who have done both speak to the difference thru the years. This is just from a social stand point since that is what you asked, obviously you have to do cost analysis overall.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:08 PM
4

Aaaaand this is how we know you dont read the sidebar..
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:03 PM
1

I would say for most guys with balance of youth, large pool access, access to enough money for self, self reliance, experience, confidence, athletic ability, etc. 27-34
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:24 AM
3

Mr. V guide was my go to link, he took down guide very recently it seems (worked last week). I see deleted twitter also, crazy. Was really good info, best I saw in awhile. Hope he is good, nobody tried to do anything crazy to him.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:20 AM
4

THIS is why RP works! this is why those guys on yt spread the gospel. When a man has a back bone and standards and states what he wont accept. you get "silence on the phone" !!!!!!!!! Beautiful man, she will still go and then try to come back and call your bluff with the dna still running down her leg.. Hold strong and move on. Dont even look back, she thought you would accept that shit deal. Respect
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:51 AM
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Read the books, come back to him and tell him you read the books and want to have discussion/ask questions based on that.. After that ask him what you can do to work for him even if for free.. If you have little skill that is one way to get your foot in the door. Dont come at him as a charity case, you have little skill so little value but if you are eager to grind/learn and show you are willing to start from bottom it might be opportunity available
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:53 PM
1

post from before, again not a dr, not giving advice, do your own research: There is alot to unpack here, there was a thread on this many moons ago on TRP that had all this broken down. First thing with you being young is checking porn use, that shit fuck you up in many different ways some might not realize, I am not talking super powers bs but at 24 should be on point and dominating like a prime lebron/messi. You got some decent info in regards to lasting longer but also refractory period which …
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:28 PM
2

Your refractory period is long, first thing you usually want to check prolactin levels..
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:03 PM
1

Private man (rip) used to recommend the social skills guidebook. He had post on why men should work on their underlying issues then add game skills on top after. http://archive.is/ydFb4
/r/askTRP18/08/20 01:39 PM
3

Join drama club, take improve, stand up comedy, join toastmasters, keep dancing, speech therapy, etc. Lets get it
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:53 AM
1

Lots and Lots of Abortions. Polluted womb.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:48 AM
4

You come across as a shade tree dude, rest haven for hoes.. A sweet lick.. They say if someone is looking for a gf they are the ones who need to play the field and the guy who wants to play the field, needs a gf.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:46 AM
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You had a decent channel and then changed the content that just sounds like bad business to me. You had customers and then you changed the product. Also seems like you look at rp as some type of religion but cant tell because I dont know what your channel is.. You should of served your customers what they came for, you didnt have to turn to an evangelist. Like the owner of chik fil a still serves their customers even with their beliefs, they didnt shut down and turn into a church then ask "why n…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:41 AM
1

I know you are new and this seems like something you are going thru but you seem too invested in this. She already cut you off, just learn from it and move on.. If she pops up, she will be over it already.. It wont change anything, if it comes up just say yea that was dumb. Thats it. Best you can do if focus on you and your kids, upgrade your skill$/life and get other options lined up Oh and 28 is young still, you havent even entered your prime.. Make the best of it
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:28 AM
2

Not smart to get into it with coworker but even worse to tell another coworker, especially after the fact. WTF. What is the upside of telling someone you work with about you two? There is none but the downside can be extremely high.. Also if you read the sidebar then you should know that when she said she wants a break, your relationship was been over.. She will probably come back around, but in your mind it should be over and you should move on. Also stop telling people your business like a lit…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 10:28 PM
1

There is too much info to get you going in right direction, how is your game overall? Trying to pull dimes out of clubs is what some would say trying to make plays in super bowl, your game has to be TIGHT. To build experience, try meeting those same chick in other environments as club game from what i have seen lately has evolved to VIP and bottle$, unless you know promoters or something. Once you meet them and see they are just like regular chicks who everyone puts on pedestal then you will see…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:34 PM
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Purpose is for you, not women. Purpose will not get you women. Everyone has an individual issue on why or how they cant get women. I think the reason purpose is blanket dropped is because overall as a man it is needed to give you a well rounded life. That in turn gives you self worth/esteem and increases confidence which should help you create attractive life/mindset/behavior. RP is a mishmash of multiple things/tools to help create a great life. You come in and kinda have to self diagnose and s…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:39 PM
2

I do have my issues with MM also, and can understand why some people have issues with it but soo many people benefited from it and dam near every dating coach after uses the framework laid out in it to this day. I think as long as you are able to be nuanced and understand that just take the overall ideas and apply to your situation you should be good. Example, Mystery was a magic performer in hollywood scene in early 2000s doing this, his game was specific to him. Black nail polish, top hats, et…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:46 PM
2

You want to work on your game, I would just say read the classics.. Mystery Method Book of Pook Bang/day bang Mode One Those should give you the training wheels for when you do make the approach. After that the rest is in the field..
/r/askTRP16/08/20 01:00 AM
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The minute you step in front of a women she is subconsciously putting you in the box you present yourself. Thats why you hear things like in first whatever seconds a women decides if she will screw you, or you can get chose with your mouth closed if you wear the right clothes. Women can look at a guy and how he dresses, his shoes, haircut and come up with a pretty good idea. Even though some guys will tell you oh I dress practical, or it doesnt matter, rp is it does and it can negatively affect …
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:18 PM
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I go back n forth with this. I am excellent on the phone but its because I started my gaming journey by getting girls off party lines, lol.. I have always had mindset if I can atleast get a girls number and have a covo with her, I can seal the deal. Also seems to be able to allow me to escalate faster when we do get in person, have inside jokes, etc. The cons I realized after rp, sets a bad precedence. Very time and attention intensive compared to txt. Girls will try to monopolize your time in f…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 05:18 PM
1

In RP lens you have bad game. You need to read up on that, you made many mistakes, sound like you escalated wrong, then threw hail mary for kiss with no ioi (you know the word but escalate wrong?).. Telling a chick you are virgin, smh. Read the classics man. Especially read up on how to escalate the right way. It happens to the best of us, it will only get better for you from here, only if you put in the work tho
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:38 PM
1

Do the eminem from 8 mile movie. Embrace it. What some person says about you, doesnt concern you, only way it can affect you is if you let it.. Embrace your background, with all you have come from has made you who you are and you still have risen and SHINE. You earned everything you have and have nothing to be ashamed of. People who do this are checking for weakness and if you never let it affect you they got nothing. Embrace your past and make it part of your story, it makes you who you are. Ja…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:32 PM
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Has been mentioned before but women wear mask what you have to do is understand for her to take off her mask for you she needs to feel comfortable, maybe a lil too comfortable. You cant be judgemental, reveal things about yourself and make it seem like you enjoy sluts, she will slip and try to qualify to you, if you react even with a negative facial micro expression, that mask goes on even tighter.. Also its easy for chameleons to play off of one person, what you want to do is draw them in "deep…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:22 PM
2

You are just about to hit another level of rp. Why have test levels been going down for decades? Why does depression, anxiety, simping overall seem to be at an all time high? hmmm..
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:12 AM
4

Genius is making complex ideas simple, not making simple ideas complex.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:48 PM
3

Every time I see a post like this i think of this guide but dont remember where it is from.. With how much people ask this question its dam near sidebar worthy
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:31 PM
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There are alot of chemicals involved that can affect you, link has more info: "Then there is the biochemistry of the orgasm itself. Research shows that during ejaculation, men release a cocktail of brain chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide (NO), and the hormone prolactin." https://archive.is/Do7BR
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:29 PM
1

Read some old game stuff, they talked about that stuff more. Talking old like Manual of Seduction by franco, Real world seduction by swinggcat type shit, lol.. Now all that stuff wont be true or work but it will atleast give you a mindset and open your mind. If you can combine that with RP you will be good to go.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 03:53 PM
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Focus on you and being better than you were yesterday.. Dont compare yourself to others, there will always be someone more impressive, you dont know their story and what they had to do to get there. Focus on running your marathon, you can be better than yesterday and be happy with that accomplishment. I have seen crackheads who were lost in drugs all thru 20s and 30s clean themselves up and get their life on track. It can be done.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:05 PM
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Girls ghost their girl friends all the time when they get a new boyfriend, if you dont get your shit together and focus on yourself Im sure she will pop up to cry on your shoulders and tell you how much of an asshole he is after he came in her butt and left without saying anything..
/r/askTRP11/08/20 05:23 AM
1

The closest in writing to this I have seen is Franco. He is more known for his book with joseph south and David Clare (practical female psychology-must read) but he had an earlier book Manual of Seduction that can touch on this a little bit. Early game stuff so not as refined as RP but good nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 03:45 AM
1

RP is natural evolution of game. Without "game" you have no RP. Dam near all the foundational thoughts of RP came from "game".
/r/askTRP09/08/20 12:46 AM
3

Think you just had an unintended epiphany with how "game" can help you in other areas of life. This was always mentioned from the pimp game (where alot of this stuff originated), they called it big game or you becoming a boss mack. Having those skills you developed and knew how to carry conversations can be utilized to create all types of relationships, some have mentioned how big game is what politicians and pastors do. There is levels to this stuff, when you initially start its just to get som…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:16 PM
1

This is a new language that has popped up to try to limit mens options. Typical shaming language that is supposed to play on group think to change behavior. Dont even pay attention, just nod and keep it moving.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:02 PM
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Most times I have seen this, its proximity. Right place, right time. He got in early and he is riding beta wave. Also keep in mind, there are exceptions to every rule, beta strategy does work, putting all investment in one option has worked for many guys in past. It might not end well in this climate but I see it from time to time myself. Hard to say each individual reason why without knowing more.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:00 PM
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Its kinda a "beta" strategy, but looking back I remember a ton of my friends in high school age doing well with a "starter gf" strategy, even the ones who were alpha af. Them getting in relationships were great foundations for them to work out the kinks. 3-6 months type situation. You are in the most fertile age to run up numbers tho so staying tied too long is something you want to be aware of also.. Also when you say beginner, have you read sidebar? Have you read foundational books (rational m…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:37 PM
1

Mode One by Alan Roger Currie
/r/askTRP05/08/20 03:03 AM
1

They are tools in a tool belt. Learn, understand, practice and use both. Mystery method/Revelations/day bang for indirect Mode one for direct
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:16 PM
0

Well never said it was easy. It depends where you live also but if you setup a gameplan and are patient you should be able to pull off. Try to find offmarket, mail/call all owners in a particular area and see what happen.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 02:00 AM
1

LaidNYC is classic stuff man! Dont see the classics mentioned too much, alot of the blog era stuff should be required reading, would solve 90% of questions on asktrp.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:04 AM
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Think of buying a duplex. Can get other side to pay majority or all of rent and you live on one side.. Or rent out both and live in badass apt with tight logistics to get whatever status bump while still having ownership/cashflow/tax break
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:59 AM
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Have read soo much stuff, alot of it becomes a blur. I know there are several sources that help on this specifically, hopefully it pops in head later but mainly what they say is you need to be comfortable in your masculinity/sexuality. People who usually have issues with being open and comfortable with kino have issues with that. It falls in nice guy category and wanting to not ruffle feathers.. You got to embrace it, understand its natural, dont be ashamed for being a man. Thats the mindset beh…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:10 PM
1

Women like "the bad boy".. It should be easier
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:18 AM
1

He went mainstream so he needed to be more PC. There was an interview of him I saw and the interviewer was asking him about his PU past and bringing up blog post he had from like 2008 or some shit. When the subtle art of not giving a fuck blew up, he basically pivoted to that and leaned into it. That opened a whole other market that probably went to read his other work and was like wtf, lol.. He edited multiple times, for anyone in this arena I would think the earlier the better is what they wou…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:23 PM
1

Clubs are hard mode for even the best players, your club game better be A1 if you plan to do well in those venues. What do you have going for yourself? You sound like you need to upgrade yourself and get your game tight first, height has nothing to do with that. What is your value in a club? Are you getting bottles, are you in VIP? Can you Dance? Are you and your friends "fun and cool"? You got to bring something to table that is attractive
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:01 PM
2

All work and no play makes jack a dull boy. Sometimes you have to look at what are your goals and WHY you do them also. Some people say they want a million dollars for this, that and the other but then its like you dont really need a million dollars, you can have all that for less than half. There has been an under current of guys who want nothing to do with women and just focus on goals. Thats cool, but just make sure thats what you want. I think you can do both, just dont be compulsive, develo…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:53 PM
2

Nobody games in away that they dont make mistakes, the whole thing actually is to make mistakes and dont even let it affect you. She might fake indignation and it will turn into a shit test, and this just gives you an opportunity to pass. Your core should be I am that dude, amused mastery, when you come from that mindset it gets easier.. Just shrug it off and keep it moving. You dont think the most "alpha" dude doesnt mess up? Everyone does.. "Beta" is the guy trying to be perfect trying to plea…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:41 PM
1

Man it was short lived but the results were ridiculous. I would say in 60-70 range when I think about it. Havent had a run like that ever again, even hangin with club promoters and such.. Mind you when numbers get high, quality usually takes a hit, but there was alot of talent in there.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:29 PM
3

Started out trying to pull on party lines back in day. Basically learned game that way.. Having to pull girls on the phone, no pics, nothing. Straight mouth piece and hoping they looked cute, the meetup were hilarious. That made me cold approach after, didnt even know cold approach was a thing it was just normal. The most ever came when myspace was in, me and friends bought a marketing app that they could mass mail people for marketing but we used it to mass contact girls, you could search thru …
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:54 AM
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Back in those times incels and the like had their own places to congregate and connect for their pity parties, those places have closed down and now they basically come here in droves and spew their crap. When you include them with new guys washing up on these shores and wanting to use the victim mindset taught to them in culture overall, you get the results we see today. That doesnt even include the men who want to say the rp isnt about women or a sexual strategy when its literally in mission s…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:05 PM
2

The medium is the message from the rational male. Obviously not reading the sidebar but link should help you http://archive.is/j62Ta Read link, read sidebar, get more options..
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:47 AM
2

Yes thats why most guys get it out of their system, put their imaginary points on scoreboard and then look to settle down. Its normal
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:50 PM
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It really is amazing isnt it. I constantly see post nowadays of guys saying this sub talks too much about women, sexual strategy, the RP isnt about this or that, lol.. WHAT?! Thats exactly what this sub is, its only for that. If you want to talk about something else, go somewhere else! I understand RP opens people eyes and gives them tools they didnt know they could use or accomplish. Understand that it allows you to climb that mountain and become the person that you didnt even know you had in y…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 02:22 AM
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I dont blame you bro, I thought the same, was gonna help out but read comments and saw him reject advice and just wants pity.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 10:02 PM
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The guy has NO GAME. Wants to overlook the advice of put in work and read sidebar because the language is offensive to him and hurts his feelings, he skips that and ask for custom advice for this one girl (violation) and wants to complain when you did give advice that he cant lead with his wallet and be a provider beta bux looking for magic advice.. Bro let this guy be, he is a waste of your time. SirKolbath gave him the right advice.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:56 PM
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She is throwing the line in water and wants you to make it easy and chase her like a beta bitch.. This is normal procedure when women come back, have seen it happen soo many times. Depends what you want, If Im open to it, I play stupid and play along and then just laugh at them and boom we link.. If not, just ghost.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:40 PM
3

Check out MarriedRP as thats more like LTR type game. Good info over there..
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:32 PM
3

I would think that is a very big part of it but not the whole thing. Inner game if you will.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:48 PM
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This is like a mirror of site but doesnt have comments which also had gold and many people loved the additional commentary as during the blog era that website was basically the sun for the manosphere https://heartiste.org/ Then you have the archived reader, which pulled out the game post and organized on Roosh forums, it has them on archive site and they do have the comments https://archive.li/7G5t9
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:44 PM
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Dont delete, other people can learn from this, like you have
/r/askTRP27/07/20 04:02 PM
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Have you ever read illimitablemen blog before? He has a few really good blog post that can help you. I cant link directly but I will drop a archive link and you can go to site from there. http://archive.is/rDXbJ http://archive.is/E2nJ3 Also books obviously are more investment in time but can also help. Some I would recommend just on this subject. The Manipulated Man/The polygamous sex The Predatory Female The Great Female Con My Secret Garden
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:36 PM
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Do you make your self your mental point of origin? Do you put yourself first? You are THAT DUDE in your life, with an air of amused mastery. When you put yourself on pedestal you get treated differently, game is just a projection of this but you got to really believe it. That is the domino which everything else flows and will make sense. Frame becomes easy, passing shit test becomes easy, teasing becomes easy, making someone qualify to you becomes easy, etc. You put her on pedestal and she will …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:18 PM
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No problem. There is offense and defense in learning game. Alot of the defense is understanding female nature and then being able to identify when you have someone who is on a whole other level and knowing when not to play. Unless you play on that level fairly often you wouldnt be able to imagine how cold they can be. (I would think only way you could get high volume is like a strip club or something) Someone else mentioned but a big thing of womens game is guys staying very naive. A womens game…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 08:48 PM
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I would definitely atleast give it a look. Everyone knows being married is RP on HARD mode. The guys over there are more serious and they can atleast get women so they skip some of the introductory stuff. Their sidebar is very good, and even give guys a 60 day outline of how to step it up. They have a list of books to start with in what order and they actually update their sidebar with some Rian Stone stuff included. They also have some really good breakdowns on frame and game books. I thinks it…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:48 PM
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At that young age, join high school sports, I would recommend football as they take gym more seriously and help you with 5 big lifts. Also gives you a tribe of what should be high value in high school that helps you see a smaller level of hierarchy. Will help with courage too. Also try to get a job. Helps with having cash you can save to get wheels. This gives you self reliance and freedom. From there, handle your business in school, keep your grades up to focus on next level. If you have electi…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:52 PM
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It hasnt been updated in awhile, I think most look at it as good enough. For most part it is as long as you read all three sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP, for some reason all three are different with very good info). I think if you read those with foundational books, maybe some of the classic blog post like Roissy you will be good. The top post from RP from the beginning Late '12 thru like 2015/'16 is classic also just for reference.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:40 PM
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She played the game well! Thats where the name "game" comes from. Its mainly from pimp/ho culture from back in the day. A good ho would run game on a trick and make him feel like he was the only one. She wouldnt even tell him she had a pimp but pimp would be in her ear to see how much money they could get up out of a trick. Alot of that stuff has been lost but a girl running good game is supposed to be a mirror, its like poker. She finds out what you like and just give a reflection to get what s…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:30 PM
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Degeneracy has accelerated. Women love chaos and have dove in head first. Not even 15 years ago, a bar fly would have a tramp stamp or something at most. Now I see women with face tats. They say enjoy the decline
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:28 AM
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I would avoid, what is upside? Unless you want something more there isnt one, you wont gain anything. You are goin into a environment where you wont know anyone and have control, only bad can come from it with you looking bad. If you look great, what changes, what do you gain, whats in it for you? In situations that this has happened with limited upside I avoid
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:25 AM
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If women are reacting like that to you, you must have blindspots that you are missing. Ask your roommates to be brutally honest with you and dont get defensive. How are your teeth? Are you working out? I would say upgrade your wardrobe and style. Since you are salaried worker you should have funds and doing that can upgrade your look very quickly. You have read the foundational stuff. I would recommend you some game stuff to atleast give you some training wheels. Dont take it soo literal but jus…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:18 AM
2

Posted this in another post: Always liked Hawaiian libertarian breakdown of hypergamy: Full blog post from 2011! http://archive.is/SRgmM Excerpt "Hypergamy simply means women's base sexual nature is attracted to a higher status in relation to herself. In other words, if she does not "look up" to a man in some way, she will not be attracted to that man. The higher status can be on one or more characteristics...which is why the unemployed musician can often date a woman who has job and disposable …
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:29 PM
5

Frame basically came from PU. You can look at the old archive forums from the freakin late 90s/early 2000s and they had discussions on frame.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:36 PM
3

RP foundation is all based on PUA stuff whether you want to admit or not. RP was just natural evolution. I dont even think you could take all the PU stuff out and be left with anything. Its just the natural evolution but it all comes from PUA stuff. This is like a kid who hates his father. Was pu gimmicky, yes. Did it have funny guys who were extra, yes. But still we should still appreciate the men and the work they put in that we basically stand on. Love your daddy.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:35 PM
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Military is designed to break you down and create the biggest bluepill betas. Its a bp factory. They play on bp fantasy of patriotism to get lower level guys to enroll, they literally have a camp to indoctrinate you, you have someone who tells you when and how basically putting a battery in your back, you have elites who choose for you to go somewhere and fight for oil/money and put your life on the line. And that is before we even get to the way these guys simp for women. Atleast for men, there…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 02:16 PM
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Dam this is where alllll the info gathered on Roosh forum would come to mind. But there are a couple sites that are specific to travel that probably can help you better, like swoop the world. I cant think of the other name/blog where they had info on different places but google swoop the world and whatever city. They have like a blog and forum
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:52 AM
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Have you read Sex God Method? Definitely do that if you havent. Explanation and working on DEVI will get you going in right direction, even if you read a summary it can help but full book is legit. Have you checked out Uncle Vas post? Pretty sure they are in sidebar. As far as other question, this happens alot to most people new to RP but alpha/beta is not a demographic. Not a person. Its a Description for a set of behaviors/mindset. Being Dominant is one of those behaviors. Thats why you can ha…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:03 PM
1

Not that big a deal. Its a couple inches I would imagine, unless we are talking standing up with her wearing 6 inch heels or something. Missionary, you are good. Her on top you are good. The tricky one is doggy style. Her legs will be longer, and you got to hit them angles. Spreading her legs apart more should do the trick. Also her doggy style on edge of a lower bed or chair while you stand should work also. Most variations come from those 3 I would think, have fun.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:31 PM
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You need to read the foundational stuff, Dont get bogged down in so many books because there are too many and getting out and practicing is how you get better. Can find pdf online for these below. -Book of Pook (audio on youtube) -Mystery method/revelations -Bang/Day Bang/Game by roosh -Mode One Start there. Also someone in this thread posted link to roissy blog, his was best blog of that blog era ('08-12) to learn game. Since it was in blog format, others put his post in order to learn best on …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 04:20 PM
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There is alot to unpack here, there was a thread on this many moons ago on TRP that had all this broken down. First thing with you being young is checking porn use, that shit fuck you up in many different ways some might not realize, I am not talking super powers bs but at 24 should be on point and dominating like a prime lebron/messi. You got some decent info in regards to lasting longer but also refractory period which is time after you finish first time. From what I remember with refractory p…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:20 PM
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Some guys peak wayyy earlier.. Peaking in 40s how these guys talk about it to me seems like earning power abilities. That shit helps but it would be foolish to avoid the game all together. You would be soo uncalibrated socially would be definitely hard to catch up, next thing you know you are leading with your wallet. If you do things right, mid/late 20s-early 30s should be fun af. You learn all this info now just to wait 15 years? Idk if you still plan on waiting til marriage after reading arou…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:47 AM
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When you say luck, do you mean your chances were better than if you did what you normally did before? Most of the "game" books or methods were just training wheels to get you going in right direction. After that you were supposed to take your real world experience and then calibrate/adjust. As time pass, your game should get better, you grow in your smv, you become more social, you become more sure in your frame/develop more confidence, etc.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:22 PM
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Are you new to RP? Have you read the sidebars (TRP, AskTRP, MarriedRP)? Also sounds like you have no game, you need to read the foundational stuff, but what you are saying is you have no game and might just need to go there first. Also dont get bogged down in books because there are too many and getting out and practicing is how you get better. -Book of Pook -Mystery method/revelations -Bang/Day Bang/Game by roosh -Mode One Start there. Also is english not first language? Most wouldnt describe t…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:38 PM
1

At 17/18 you havent even got in the game yet man. EVERYBODY made mistakes, you get nothing looking in rearview. You have whole life in front of you and you want to look back when you were still in development age? You are letting something you cant change affect your current time that you can, focus on whats in front of you and run towards the destiny you want to create. You cant do that looking backwards, wtf. I know you want to make it seem special and soo meaningful, but this is beta mindset,…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:54 PM
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You should of just said let me help you remember and go another round in the morning. Anyway you were there, what you describe you shouldnt doubt yourself. You had consensual sex. and wear protection, cotdam
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:57 AM
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If you ever read any original feminist books, they talked about how any hetero sex with man being rape. If you click link in op, seems like they are executing that plan slowly but surely. They are moving the goal post and blurring the lines now, creating rape list to post online. This is getting out of hand.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:52 AM
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Tell her you are not good for her and you are doing her a favor and gonna make sure she doesnt get played. Take care.. This might actually make her run towards you tho.. Lol
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:46 AM
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Logistics is a big part of game that people tend to overlook. As long as financially feasible I always think a man should lean towards building his own kingdom asap. Just make sure you have a "oh shit" fund of I would say 6 months in these times. Your numbers should sky rocket. Autonomy and self reliance blessings be upon you.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:04 PM
2

And this is where social media and hookup apps have completely changed the game in the point you make. The inflated values are on another level.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 07:54 PM
1

Always liked Hawaiian libertarian breakdown of hypergamy: Full blog post from 2011! http://archive.is/SRgmM Excerpt "Hypergamy simply means women's base sexual nature is attracted to a higher status in relation to herself. In other words, if she does not "look up" to a man in some way, she will not be attracted to that man. The higher status can be on one or more characteristics...which is why the unemployed musician can often date a woman who has job and disposable income. She may make more mon…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 07:17 PM
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Yea pretty normal. These girls have unlimited options and feel like kid in candy store. They are running back in line to get another ride of Carousel. Also the "you good?" seems kinda off. Not sure of point, I would drop it
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:34 PM
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Multiple times, probably how I was semi-redpilled back in the day. I had a girl invite me to her house and shut me down, me thinking its not goin anywhere and cut contact, only for her to call me out of blue on a friday night and come over. I get there and she jumps on me and its go time, like whoa its my "lucky" day. While we are mid-play, her phone is BLOWING up, me being oblivious to anything im like maybe its an emergency. So she picks up while I am on top of her and she tries to lower the v…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 06:14 PM
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Plausible deniability is fucking rp 101 type shit. Its been explained and fleshed out for ages. Of course it seems obvious. But your man brain wants to communicate direct. Women dont communicate like that. She is not a man. We are not the same..
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:57 PM
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This is another question that comes up alot. Will just repost answer from other thread: Being beta is still a strategy. If the guy are decent attractive in look but "beta" in action it can still work. Being "beta" is actually a one on one long term dating strategy. "alpha" is a short term dating strategy, most guys come to red pill with oneitis, have no self respect, beta af wondering why they cant get laid, they get more "alpha" in behavior which helps get them results. RP teaches them to pract…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 05:48 PM
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Social media is spreading these ideas faster than anybody can imagine. Only chance these other countries have would be to block international info from reaching into their sphere. If not, you stand no chance. People dont have to physically travel your country and try to promote anymore. Social media reach is that much easier and invasive.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 05:33 PM
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Interest rates are low af right now, like 2.5 - 2.75% low. Its propping up the market tho.. Building for yourself can be a headache, do you have a builder or pops in industry? How long is typical build in area? How long do you ideally plan to keep this property? Either way sounds like you are in good position and these are good problems to have at your age, just find out what your main priorities are and weigh pros and cons
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:44 AM
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Have kept plates for years, most times they leave and come back. But its alot of variables so everyone will have different answers. A couple things I will say for your situation is how old are these girls? For me when they are in lets say 20-25 range, they are more go with flow, shoot they might spin you as a plate. Also I hang out with my plates from time to time, if I am going to play pooll and grab a drink. Go bowling, some type of chill vibe. Switch it up and see if your results vary. Like i…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:33 AM
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I post this soo much, But this should answer your question.. Its mainstream, from women site but it has direct quotes from doctors, psychs, etc. RP af.. http://archive.vn/m2dvv
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:17 PM
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Pretty sure you can listen to it on youtube also if that helps.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:08 PM
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Its hard to make recommendations because there are many many books and I dont think you need to read more than one to get out there and get better. Either way: -Book of Pook -Mystery method/revelations -Bang/Day Bang/Game by roosh -Mode One
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:50 PM
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Im gonna age myself but I guess you can say I started out practicing game on the phone and actually would get results (party lines back in the day were crazy, people would call in thru out city and try to hook up, lol). Doing that I actually got good at it and that still helps me to this day. My "game" is excellent on the phone. Even with that I think its a waste of time because even if I get a girls temperature up, I am not there and have to do it all over again in person. Even with all that pr…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:16 PM
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This guy is 5'11 saying he cant fix his height?! WTF is going on here, lol.. You cant make this shit up
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:37 PM
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So what? Lol.. So you actually dont see the disconnect here, ok lemme try to help you. Its fine if you want to play on the phone and get her off with whatever fantasy as long as you understand that you arent escalating to actual physical fucking. Texting is not being in same physical room, you cant escalate to fuck if you are not together. Obviously that shit is not working for you as you are complaining. But you seem to think you get value from "escalating" on the phone. That shit is getting yo…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:28 PM
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Im confused, you say you try to escalate to fucking but you are trying for some spicy convo on whatsapp/snapchat? Do you not see the issue here?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:11 PM
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LOL@ some of these replies. Some "professions" dont adhere to the whole dont sh*t where you eat. If there was ever a job, Bartender definitely falls into that. Even if you dont smash, having "game" will help him get better tips, etc. Being a bartender needs game and will help his game grow. Everyone in restaurant industry is smashing customers/each other. Its not a fortune 100 gig. As far as recommendations I would go: -Book of Pook -Mystery method/revelations -Bang/Day Bang/Game by roosh -Book …
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:48 PM
3

This guy gets it. Read the tea leaves, trust your gut, dont deny what you see
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:44 PM
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Bro on dating apps these girls have abundance mentality on hiesman mode.. when spoiled for choice they can cut someone for any reason and move on. I say you get the same and keep it moving
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:23 AM
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Have you read Mystery Method? Even tho it dealt with night club game, one of major things that stood test of time was how to handle groups. Dont get caught up in corny language or anything like that, just take the meat and leave the bones. Im not the best at explaining it but basically what you do is not just try to pick up that one person but game the group of 2,3, etc. Open them (hey I cant stay for long but...) ask them how they know each other, cold read/make them qualify (You look like the …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:50 AM
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Bingo. When you understand this, you will see that he is not really mad at her for being a thot, he is mad that she didnt lie and told him explicitly that she is a thot. She broke his illusion. Now he has to make a decision of if he cosigns and will go along with it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:49 PM
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That guy messed it up for the next guys for sure. She will only have 1-2 partners from now on.. RP info is getting out there but dude is still reactive beta af.. If she is for the streets, let her be, no reason to shame.. Dam
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 08:29 PM
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This is normal. Girls do that when they dig your swag, especially if they are younger and impressionable. She will pick up on all your mannerism. This is probably part of some type of girl game because it just naturally happens if you have that type of personality. If you get really in tune with it, this can help you see when someone else is influencing your chick too. I would know when a girl would start hanging with new people because she would start cursing or saying random phrases that I kne…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:48 PM
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Doesnt this go against the whole protect yourself from false accusations that is talked about on here. One of main things i have seen mentioned is sending "had a good time" type text to keep track of things. I know the wait a couple days after getting a number, but 3 days after sex is something havent heard alot of. To me everything can work just want to clarify
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:41 PM
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Yea I definitely understand. Just know that was by design, its easier to control and get money from a naive person. Main reason women do not like these spaces where men are able to trade notes and inform other men of what is really happening. Also church seems to not let men embrace their dark side. It has been mentioned many times before, a good man is not a weak/meek/passive man, but a strong man who chooses to do right. Jordan peterson touches on stuff like this in his studies on Carl Jung. T…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:37 PM
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Chill bro.. You shouldnt be paranoid. You should just be aware. If you been rp for three years you should not still be having those types of thoughts but you must of gotten into this type of stuff really young. Just work on making yourself as attractive as possible and run game on girls that choose up on you.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:09 PM
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You are young and your hormones are fucking raging. It makes sense, back in day most people understood this and basically said go sow your wild oats and after you see its pretty pointless you will be able to get on track. I do think some guys just need to put a few scores on the board to show themselves that it can be done. Get it out the way early so you can focus on other things
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:03 PM
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You are on right track, a women can wear a mask for one person who she is trying to reel in but cracks start to show when in different environments. Regardless how good women are, they always leave clues. One of main things that weak men do is try to rationalize these flags or give benefit of doubt, dont trust their guts. Read the tea leaves. Take them to different environments, see how they interact with people, staff, etc. Watch how they interact with your friends, high and low value. See who …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:56 PM
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I meant that in sense that it isnt natural for me to talk to people, I would rather go thru my day and not talk to anyone. That is my default setting. I naturally want to just sit home and chill. I can do that days on end and be in a great mood. When I am open and in conversation thru out day, I will feel drained, I need time to myself to recalibrate. But I understand that to move thru the world you need to be able to talk and relate to people, even just to snap someone out of there normal routi…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:50 AM
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Shooter shoot. When you develop the skill, Every. Dam. Day. is an opportunity. If Im on my way somewhere and I see an opportunity and im not rushed for time, shoot your shot. But I talk to everybody, everywhere I go. In line, at work, at the gym, etc. Helps stay calibrated. And I am what you would call an "introvert", lmao
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:27 PM
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Yea, Jada had known tupac when she was younger, and still talks about him to this day. Crazy alpha widow shit. Even Will has had to talk about that shit while he is promoting movies that she always loved him and he was "the image of perfection" to her. Smh. Their daughter posted a letter when she was 11 (she posted online at that age but said she wrote it years earlier) saying that their mom missed him, can he come back so mommy and me can be happy. She spread her toxicity to her child soo much …
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:35 PM
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Nothing socially wrong with what you are doing.. It is running rampant for people to try to tell people what to do and try to escalate situation by calling manager or police.. We have entered era where women want to control everything and if you dont comply they will sic whiteknights on you even if they have to make false claims
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:08 PM
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This is very difficult to comment on because we dont know the whole deal. (they only spoke on it after August broke code as side dude) They have been rumored to be in open relationship for many years with Will having a few sidepieces who seem better at shutting the fuck up. They are in hollyweird. They are both actors and the whole video seems rehearsed to give audience something but still try to keep Golden goose (will) in tact. Their jobs are to sell illusion. I will say, the dynamic has alway…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:55 PM
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In other words yes. Mind you this is game 101 level type stuff. I hate to get guys bogged down in reading books but this is basically one of the few key things that mystery method was about. Like someone else mention also book of pook. You can listen on youtube also
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:46 PM
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Classic game issue. You need to work on your game. Also if you understood preselection you would take the best of the lower ones ( not just looks but status, friends, etc) and parlay that to help with better ones.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:24 PM
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Wtf.. You have "nice guy" teachers and you have teachers who have strong frames. Yes a teacher is a essentially a leader in a class room context, they are supposed to be the"alpha". But you have good teachers and bad teachers. I feel like this question is kinda off and you have weird understanding of alpha/beta, like you are very new to this and trying to fit it into everything but have very limited understanding of it and your worldview. alpha/beta is not a person, its behavior. Assertive, set …
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:17 PM
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Always keep in mind to keep the high ground and make sure it stays a two way street.. People who seem to derive great satisfaction from giving, also put more thought into it and end up giving better gifts which can grow resentment. Or entitlement from receiving party
/r/askTRP13/07/20 06:21 AM
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From my understanding thats one of the few perks of being a big brother.. sounds like you are tryna block your blessing, lean into your rp teachings, not your bp illusions..
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:24 PM
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If she doesnt have a bf anymore she might be auditioning you for new dinner date paying position she has open. Make sure you keep your side dude vibes up..
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:57 PM
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yea but most people are plugged in soo deep they dont even know..
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:46 PM
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Its very nuanced and takes time, I would say most people give their representative the first couple months atleast when they are hanging out. The first thing is you have to be authentic, know yourself and stand on that. When she looks at you she has to see FACTS. Consistent Authenticity. Thats why women like bad boys because regardless of whatever society says he is himself and not controlled by the mask of society (blue pill illusions). Also you need to also know how people see you, this can be…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:38 PM
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They accepted what feminism was offering, with there "I dont need a man, Im a strong black women" add that with accepting what the govt being their daddy and we can only give you govt benefits but you need to remove the man from the house before you can get it. This stuff happened years ago but has ripple affects.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:25 PM
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She for the streets, she will always be for the streets. Unless your heart is cold enough where you can handle that and know that she is community property and you share that girl then it would be best to avoid. Sometimes even the best get to involved. Your true feelings are irrelevant. You know the type she is, she is an outgoing party girl. That was never quality soil to plant anything in, she got you sprung off them good looks/sex. You and I know you will want to go back and say its just for …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:19 PM
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Feminism and liberal ideas separated the man from the family long time ago, black americans have a huge head start compared to the rest (40+ years). Single parent households have a host of problems and its atleast 3 generations deep now. This has been touched on multiple times in the manosphere, years ago ROK touched on it. http://archive.vn/Q5I5i
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:12 PM
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This is the type that will never be saved. You wont ever get revenge, Dont waste your time, she is playing the game at a wayy higher level than you. She can manipulate like the best of them. You wont get closure, she might post your txt in group chat or social media to show others how she alpha widowed you in reverse while everyone laughs. You wont get closure, it will just be a waste of time. Im pretty sure she will come back to finish spinning you in her web, she is just in stage to make you d…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:01 PM
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Not necessarily a slut, but comfortable in being her true self. Sometimes your behavior can be saying something else which makes them shut down. Its pretty spelled out in article linked. Women can have traits that are repressed. A person she perceives as a bad boy allows her to vicariously express those repressed traits.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:51 PM
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Its the guide everyone else refers to, it works. You dont really need another guide because its not that complicated once you get the understanding of it. Get out and test it yourself.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:59 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? start there
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:42 AM
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Mentioned in both post you still want to operate in a masculine frame. That will always attract women. Being driven and ambitious will always be a good look. I dont see how that is opposite of what I have said. There is nuance in all of this, just think of it as a volume dial, not a switch of one or the other. Also rp isnt written in stone. There are some guys who can do complete opposite and still attract women, it happen. RP is just tools to improve, take what you need and try it out. See if y…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:26 AM
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Yes many people benefited from PU. RP foundational info is based off of pickup. The guys who built RP all came from pickup. RP is just the natural evolution and more thought out version. Pickup was just emulate a high smv guy, RP is supposed to teach you how to climb the mountain to become that high smv guy and why. Many guys benefited from pickup back in day, most likely these were guys who already had things going for them, jobs, decent social circle but for whatever reason did not know how to…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:59 PM
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If you are seeing her four times a week, some might say you are seeing her too much, lol.. You got to tap in your feminine side, you are too structured. She is asking for excitement. It doesnt even have to be major, something as simple as asking her Italian or mexican, then driving to grocery store grabbing ingredients and wine then cooking together. (This is from a redpill bro, have used multiple times and have girls txt out of blue months later and mention how they love it) I have also packed …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:46 PM
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Learn game, approach, escalate, isolate
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:34 PM
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In general women NEED the group, they cant survive being ousted from group. So they will wear the mask and abide by group rules, they will walk into room and know the temperature because it is their duty to know what is going on. Understand the hierarchy and who has power. They trade gossip like its currency because it is for them. They understand this at very young age, like 12-13. They do it not to jeopardize their position in friend group, society, etc. Their position is everything to them, w…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:28 PM
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When women are young they are attracted to excitement, new, boldness, fun, tattoos, art, creativity, expression, spontaneity, style, let me know if you want me to keep going. Most of "game" is basically taking a square lame and helping him tap into feminine. Dress better, converse better, get a better haircut, express yourself, be bold, peacock, etc. Most guys thats all they needed because they have the other stuff. But you also need masculinity (for the guys at home not even have his shit toget…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:23 AM
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Of course. Its probably top 3 on every ones list to start rp journey
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:04 PM
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No man is infallible. His work is top notch but since he was largely hidden people probably built up some ultra alpha gawd. And dude is on youtube, tryna expand his audience and you see he is a older guy who is married. Game is really a young mans domain so people get some type of dissonance. Some cant separate the work from the person sometimes
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:03 PM
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Good looking loser called this killer instinct.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 04:35 AM
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Every dog has its day. Some get their day early, some have to wait. Some dont really care how much points they put on scoreboard, just want a good one to settle down. Some want to run up the score.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:59 AM
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Who says you have to string them along? Just say hey I am not looking for anything serious but if right situation comes I am open to exploring something deeper. Which I think is true for most guys. I am usually upfront, it has never hurt me, actually it helps because girls see I wont be clingy too quick and will allow it to grow and normal pace if we both enjoy
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:12 PM
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You are the new guy, respect is earned not given. Show up to work and do your job. Everyone you work with wont like you or be friendly. Once you prove your value/worth then you earn your stripes. Have seen stuff like this posted before and it always gives me snowflake vibes. Not saying about you but be introspective about this and see if this might be a blind spot. We have all been programmed with it, so sometimes some of that programming lingers.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:56 PM
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Ying and yang, masculine and feminine. I think you are confusing them. As one ideal. Men are order, women are chaos. You are seeing both, men look at order as alpha. So when you hear a man talk about stoic and reserved its the masculine ideal. Like a military guy, men love and can appreciate that. Women see them as a lick/mark/lame and is why you see alot of them get cucked. Same as disciplined athlete. Women value chaos, so thats why you see drug dealer, artist, musician type attract and seem t…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:40 PM
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I like reading the archive blogs from that whole blog era with all those guys. (roosh, Manson, LaidNYC, Solomon, etc.) I remember reading the post where Roosh recommends to Roissy he should start his own thing and really put it out there. To see how he grew soo big and his blog became THE blog of that era. Dam shame all those great works have been basically washed away and guys have to start from scratch or get caught in a never ending loop of watching youtube videos.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:20 PM
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Get your grades on point, lift, if you arent doing any after school sports get a job (will help build multiple social circles and work with girls your age). High school is more social circle game
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:42 AM
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Agreed they are sheep. I was more looking at it as the sheep went from say following brittney spears to Kim K off sex tape to actual prostitutes who hit a lick like cardi.. Same difference I guess, lol..
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:37 AM
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You would probably be better off checking in with marriedRP, they have guys who deal with this type of stuff and can help you better most likely. Good luck
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:25 AM
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This question gets asked alot, I think LaidNYC had one of the best answers for this in this sphere. Its kinda long but I posted it in someone elses question before, go through my comments, I had to break his blog post into two replies. Like 4 pages back in a post named any young guys know how to raise status
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:16 AM
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Idk man, from what I have seen the evolution has gone trannies to street walkers to strippers to hood girls to main stream. These girls are getting their cues from cardi b and city girls now. I know Im not a trad con and that color hair is straight disaster. I been in the field and seen where that stuff has come from, it aint nothing good coming from it. Straight abyss type
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:01 AM
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Great freaking post. Always love the classic rp.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:44 AM
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The thing with books is there is a never ending list of them. You can get stuck reading them forever. You have a very good foundation with rational male, No more mr. nice guy and sidebar. I would say just add a game book and you are good. Additional : -The way of the superior man -Sperm Wars -The Manipulated Man -Book Of Pook -Bang/Day Bang
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:31 AM
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You have no game, lucky for you, you are asking these questions now and have the RP to help you figure it out. Sounds like you have other things in order so Just read something simple to get you out there and make it happen. Try Bang/day bang by Roosh then get out there and implement what you read. You are almost there buddy, definitely not a loser. You have a problem and then solve it maybe without knowing it in a couple sentences. Lacking in women side, but dont really pursue women. Well the o…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 12:04 AM
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Have you read the 3 sidebars and foundational books? Are you lifting? Are you implementing what you have learned to increase your Smv?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 11:53 PM
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Probably just became aware of rp and now are very conscious of interactions. You have swung soo hard on discipline side of the game and its made you super square. Give it time, you will swing back and calibrate. Just keep going out, dont be a hermit, isolation is death
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:17 PM
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Im a man, I put myself there. Its only right
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:04 PM
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Read this, it should help you. http://archive.vn/m2dvv
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:29 AM
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your the new guy and the youngest there. stop being a snow flake, someone took credit for your joke? wtf.. You go to work on time (early), do your job and work your way up. No one will respect you til you show you can last and do your job. Leave your feelings and panties at home.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:28 AM
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This article from womens magazine with quotes and breakdown from doctors and researchers explains why women are attracted to bad boys. You dont have to believe the lies anymore, they know they are bad for them and that is why they cant get enough, lol.. http://archive.vn/m2dvv
/r/seduction04/07/20 02:48 AM
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Only 5'10.. What the hell is going on, lol..
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:45 AM
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Do you have game? How many women have you approached this week? Month? If tinder isnt working for you, what else did you do before lockdown
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:30 AM
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They been partying since 15 when most dudes were still in their room play vidya games with cheetos..
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:12 AM
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They are young, which means high value so they are offered all types of access. The really hot ones get access in high school, offers to get on boats, access to clubs, shopping, etc. They are exposed to soo much. The main thing someone like you needs to know is that their value is extremely high soo on the market place they are able to barter that for access to many things if they are smart. (many are very dumb also because of that same youth and exchange for getting baby mama'd by some goon) Th…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:07 AM
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Older women are just more open to speak on their attraction. Overall you are more attractive to all ages. (the whole point of game, become universally attractive) Pretty sure you look better to a wider pool of girls your age also, they just might not speak on it. They might give you more IOIs tho, stand in your proximity to make it easier for you to approach. But wont outright do it themselves as much as a 40 yo lady introducing herself.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:21 AM
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Might be a good lesson to learn from 48 laws of power. Think as you like.. you should know the rest.. Also get a voice recorder or somthing to protect yourself. Cant believe this kid thought he was gonna straighten someone out in this environment. Good luck..
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:02 PM
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Its capitalism. Not really good or bad. All the info they will give you can be found online for free. But most likely people value the personality and one source of resource. Also having someone who can point out blind spots or such can be valuable I guess for a hard case. For majority I will say they can do well with free resources. Also there are good coaches and bad one, people can be predatory and in a category like self help I would think its much higher, but there can be value there.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:57 PM
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Even tho not married, anyone on ltr will benefit by reading marriedrp sidebar..
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:49 PM
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You cant negotiate with terrorist. If you read any of the older feminist stuff you will see many of them regard ANY consensual sex with a man as rape. They basically trojan horse it slowly over time. Right now regret sex or change your mind after the fact sex has become rape. Protect yourselves gentlemen, you get caught up in even a false allegation and nobody can save you. Nothing after the fact will help, prevention is only option. Keep logs, cameras, etc as best option.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:46 PM
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You are ignorant of your lane.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:59 AM
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She literally told you how to game her and you were just to alpha.. Next time a little more comfort for someone who is a "virgin"
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:44 AM
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Is there one of these for MarriedRP? Their sidebar is different but very good.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:27 PM
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I always forget after the first 2 rules of RP that the third should be every thing is nuanced. I wouldnt recommend it. But that stuff happens everyday. If you dont want to deal with it at all then just friendzone yourself and use those connections to hook up with their friends who dont work with you directly and/or use those connections as pre selection when you go to happy hour, brunch, get togethers, etc. There will be tons of opportunities. If you have your fundamentals in place they will bri…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:44 PM
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No worries, just keep for future reference with other chicks
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:25 AM
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Nursing is dope. Just have a plan. Finish school, you should get a job quick, once that happens, you will be self reliant and able to max out the essentials to upgrade your life/game. (better nutrition, working out/fighting discipline, better wardrobe, logistics on point, etc.) Next step is to see how you can increase your income in shortest period, I know after going thru school and test you just want to coast, but you can elevate pretty quickly and there are different options. (travel nursing …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:47 PM
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Give off dusty vibes..
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:33 PM
4

My dude in high school named kingmgtow.. wtf.. Lol
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:31 PM
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How the hell are you on a rp game site and not learn that meritocracy is basically blue pill thinking and you need to game everybody. Hit the sidebar!
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:26 PM
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Sure can seem passive aggressive. Back in day they used to say if she cancels but offer to reschedule then from there you respond in a "ok but you gonna have to make it up to me" kinda way, and then when she responds, you game accordingly. That has to be in the sidebar or something right?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:22 PM
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Sounds like you handled it well, you gamed them both, seems like you kept frame and have fun. You did mess up with the triple kiss attempt. If you understand kino escalation its gradual, not huge jumps, should have let them kiss then include you if that makes sense. When it comes to threesome, it has to be some inception level type. Because you kinda have to let girl A (your chick) know prior that she has to lead it down that road and take a certain level of control until its universally agreed …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:58 PM
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YES. If you cant do it by yourself, get a roommate (also make sure you vet your roommate). Logistics is a HUGE part of "game". If you have that in order you will behave different and get better results When you live with your parents there can be a glass ceiling. Stopping your growth for autonomy/self reliance/ responsibility, etc. To put in rp language you will be in their frame. It can be subtle but the parent/child dynamic can keep you beta af. Some people have favorable situation where there…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:42 PM
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Because for women strategy to work, that type of material needs to be kinda hidden from men. They need to be blue pill and put women above them. When that happen everybody benefits, you become a simping wallet and the market place benefits from all the money you end up spending. Other good books in that category if you can find them: The Polygamous Sex(followup by Esther after TMM) The Great female Con by Andey Randead The Predatory Female by Lawrence Shannon Anatomy Of Female Power by Chinweizu
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:43 PM
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Maybe this will help you with your mental blocks http://archive.vn/m2dvv
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:29 PM
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Oh my fault, you should of said that from the beginning, enjoy!
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:20 AM
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If you get online to post something to antagonize people, why are you acting surprised when you get a possible reaction that anyone can see would happen? White guilt is stupid that nobody asked for and was made up to see who could be in victim olympics. Still that has nothing to do with hey look at me I am edge alpha, I can say whatever and be indignant when I receive any reaction
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:04 AM
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If you are gonna make jokes about a guy who is dead, and a bad one at that, then you make sure you dont care about whatever blow back you receive. Especially on social media in a look at me I am edgy kinda way. What did you expect to happen? People thank you and shower you with alpha praise? You must be really young or your emotional intelligence needs work, hit side bar
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:48 AM
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The guy who is known for negging and made it popular was gaming in LA night clubs going after high end women who had inflated image of themselves, so he would drop back handed compliments to even it out.. Teasing should work well for you
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:31 AM
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There are a few. Ill drop links I know. (Also why sidebar needs an update, the valuable info is being wiped away and lost for new guys) This is like a mirror of site but doesnt have comments which also had gold and many people loved the additional commentary as during the blog era that website was basically the sun for the manosphere https://heartiste.org/ Then you have the archived reader, which pulled out the game post and organized on Roosh forums, it has them on archive site and they do have…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 10:33 PM
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A high number of guys go raw, for many stupid reasons. Could be biological urges sub consciously who knows. You who is supposed to be rp also went raw but actually believe a girl if she tells you she on pill, lol.. You need to read the side bar, specifically Iron Rule of Tomassi #5..
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:56 PM
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This is why women have better game that men. Not only do they have many many more point of reference from age 13 or so from interactions they also get to talk about it with their girl friends as if they were having board meetings and such. (think they still call it slumber parties) They share everything from tips to look better, who is cute, what he said, etc. Its innocent enough at those young ages but that helps them in long run. Then you turn over to boys and they are still playing roblox and…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:43 PM
2

14 is right in that range for coming of age for most cultures, I would say between 13-16 (whether you think Bar mitzvah, sweet 16, Rumspringa, Quince Años). Kinda like a rite of passage. I know some are saying he is too young, I would say by 15, its time to start gearing him up to leave the boy mindset behind and take steps to become his own man. If he was 8 or 11 I would say he is very young, still a child. At 14, in many cultures, his childhood is dam near over. Still you dont want to "Rp" per…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:32 PM
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I think its a few reasons. -when you first get exposed and get that initial eye opening information you can think wow. I didnt know this before, what else is it that I dont know. Doesnt matter how much you can process info, you will miss stuff. Sidebar doesnt get updated much, some of best post or blog or book mentions can happen in any random ol post. That chasing of new info that you arent exposed to is just around the corner. -When first come here its like drinking out of a fire hose, soo muc…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:02 PM
2

Monk mode should be for a specific reason and time. I also dont think its healthy to stay in monk mode for extended periods of time. Its like you are hiding from something. There are pros and cons to everything, you will have to adjust your schedule even if for a day or two a week.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:49 PM
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This guy has no self value. Hopefully this opens his eyes but when I read homeless prostitute for many years. Yikes. Best of luck to them both
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 10:35 PM
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Bro try anything.. Have fun with it.. Ask where is nearest starbucks, open direct, open indirect.. Ask where they got those yoga pants from because its hard for you to find a good pair.. Watch this, go out, try it.. (mind u this guys game isnt great, but if you understand, you will see where he went well, how he used a prop/peacock, where he went wrong. Also some great rp from the women, lol) https://youtu.be/1L9IR7tAE3c
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:14 AM
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Sounds like you failed the shit test.. it happens
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:06 AM
1

MOVE OUT ASAP. They are definitely stunting your growth. You are the perfect age and you say you have the means to do so. DO IT. I wont even ask their reasoning because it doesnt matter. You dont become the man til you can live on your own, you need your own kingdom to rule, you need those challenges to have growth. The fact they also impose certain rules that basically keep you childlike with a glass ceiling under their rules is terrible. You have the means to be self reliant and develop yourse…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:23 PM
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When I read the article, from a mainstream womens site, with quotes from ph.d and those types all over, I knew I could use as one of most rp article I had ever read. I try to post because we always have people who doubt the truth. I never get push back from that article for some reason, ha.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 03:15 PM
6

Jesus what has the world come to when our young men think they come off as criminals for asking middle school type questions for fun?!
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:40 AM
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Aww man, one of the classics.. Salute
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 02:14 AM
27

At this point, I just keep this link handy, basically RP for those who want it. http://archive.vn/m2dvv
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 12:29 AM
3

Lesser to who? Its about perspective. What men might consider lesser, would be different from women. Sometimes they just want different. You can be married and you are the super stoic, square, boring but provides good life type. And at work she has the expressive (men would call emotional) who bathes her with compliments (some would say beta orbiter) who knows how to let loose and party (square would say crazy guy who waste time and money). Now you see how you could describe same guy from anothe…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:21 PM
6

Only from an obvious position of power. When you have that position people actually love it and think wow this guy is cool and doesnt take himself soo serious.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:34 PM
2

Always been good on the phone and only avg. on txt. txt only for logistics is mainly so you can feign unavailability and people new to game tend to do too much so it limits your chances on messing up. Little upside but the downside is there. So thats reason for that advice. I have used that mindset to set the frame of limiting txt but sometimes girls want that extra communication. There has to be a little give and take there. You need to understand txt game too, I have seen some awesome txt guid…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 10:07 PM
1

Always looked at spinning plates as like a multiple points of data/understanding. To help you build that amused mastery from the benefits of having options. Help you realize what you like/dont like/ red flags/etc. Give that experience to be able to vet properly. To be able to stare at a lucifers daughter and not have the spell cast on you and work anymore.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:29 PM
1

Whats the path for something like this?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:21 PM
6

I would say these are things I say are just foundational things you want to have by a certain age. 27-30ish. Some will be more important to you than others. Some will be life long pursuits, some you can get basic understanding in as short as a few weeks to 6 months. But all will help build your competence and self reliance in your self. Things that are absolutely key on all of our journey of masculinity. -Learn to fight separate from also lifting, most recommend striking (boxing, muay thai, etc.…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:26 PM
2

If I had a sibling or child that age and I wanted him to develop organically. I would get him base skills to get that foundation and expose him to a plethora of different things to build inner competence/confidence. Skills that would be useful in future, develop multiple social circles and skills plus allow him to explore interest and see where he would want to go from there. Also to keep him from isolating soo much in front of video games/computers Start off with fighting discipline. Wouldnt wo…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:58 PM
4

Everybody gets got. Part of the game, you probably didnt know you were playing but now you know the rules. Gonna take time to heal completely but it will happen.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:06 AM
2

Inferior? I dont know if thats the right word. But if you understand RP, you understand that they are at their highest value at that age and get alot of things handed to them.. If they are on the scene they get even more, its fun for them. Who wouldnt like offers for free clubs, boat access, social events, not having to spend any money, etc. But also you understand that you have to build yourself up overall and are starting from the bottom. Now that doesnt necessarily mean you have no value but …
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:53 AM
4

ok cypher..
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:44 AM
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Yes, respect and love yourself and future self. Thats how you should have your self in high esteem. Many guys nowadays are taught to put women above them and before them. The thing is women are only attracted to guys that are above them. If you put women on pedestal then there is no attraction. Treat a women like a star, she will treat you like a fan. I think Hawaiian libertarian blog explains this the best for guys to understand hypergamy (old post from like 2011 ish). The thing is when you do …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 02:46 AM
1

Sounds like you want back on the plantation but if you really built like that you gonna have to wait for her to contact you.. You cant cut ties then chase
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:56 AM
1

This right here. When you read someones game book, all you are reading is how they did game. Their method, their strategy. Read Mode one after, try both. These are tools in a tool box. See which one works for you.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:49 AM
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At that level doesnt have to be something higher, just has to be something different. Some athletes play the game and wear the mask of society to portray good family man, so their simp fans look up to them and get money thru endorsements. A guy like Seguin allows the women not to have to wear that mask. If you want a recent idea of this look at the whole megan fox situation. She was married to brian austin green, had a couple kids, went on movie set and hooked up with machine gun kelly. Threw aw…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 12:39 AM
5

If you can afford it, living alone is better. You have your own kingdom and you make the rules. Pros and cons to both really but if your priority is to reinvent yourself then you got to weigh it on the scales
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:51 AM
2

bingo
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:46 AM
1

Flaking will always be a part of daygame I think but from what I have seen is if I am able to hook them in initial convo (harder to do because usually daygame people are heading somewhere and convo is short and quick) you have a higher chance. If you are not able to hook them initially then I would reach out sooner than most to hook on the phone so the lead doesnt become stale. They will forget you quicker. Suggest a meetup in shorter time span. Mind you flaking will always happen. I will add st…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:25 PM
3

women can be irrational emotional thinkers sometimes, but I have seen men freaking out over Covid. It can be unsettling to some people to get a phone call like that. They may take it as death knocking on their door, too close to home. Since you were the deliverer of that news, she just wants to cut all contact. (you gave her these bad feelings, you bring bad vibes)
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:03 PM
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You need to shoot wayyy more shots. Four isnt even trying. Someone who is actually trying to get good at game can do that in their first day approaching. You are freaking 6'6 thats very rare and highly attractive in itself. You have alot going for you. Aleast you know about some of your mental blocks, definitely get that sorted out. That stuff with the religion will hold you back. Your awareness of that issue will help you move forward. I would also say read some other game stuff to help you (Ba…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 02:53 PM
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Dude let it go.. You have your entire life in front of you and you are looking in rear view.. Nothing anyone can do for you but tell you continue on your journey looking forward. There are guys who are in 30s, 40s, 50s, even 60s just finding what you have in your youth. Many years bluepill, days past. Just be thankful of the blessing to have more days ahead than behind. Your best days are ahead of you, attack with vigor. Dont walk looking back, RUN forward
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:15 AM
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Sounds like you talked too much.. Next time lead convo but get her talking/investing.. Also first date should be action date with drinks..
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:56 AM
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If your environment is toxic I would make a plan try to save up and then move out. Since you are young maybe even get a roommate to help with cost and have a bro to be social with and make moves. I always think the sooner you can move out the sooner you can make growth on your own. Obviously you want to do this as safe as possible so act accordingly and weigh pros and cons.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:51 PM
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I would say start making quality post about things that could help other men. Talk about your journey from rp perspective. We need more positive info in regards to reaching goals and making move$.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:46 PM
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Bingo, was my first thought also. What is your style and what tribe do you belong to? Like what is your market/demographic? Your pool of people who would be attracted to you? Who do you hang out with, social circle. College is mainly social circle game, community college is harder for sure but a player should always be able to adapt. There is a blindspot for sure that you are missing Also I rarely hear people on rp say look for only choosing signals, that was something I only see talked about on…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:40 PM
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Alot to unpack here dam. You guys have been together a year and a half, old school would say you should be more sure of what you want and where this is going. You dont sound sure and sounds like you still want to play the field. She maybe has been thru her hoe phase and sounds like she tryna lock you down. Also sounds like other people are in your women ear and she is a social creature so she is telling you she wants to move in because of how it will look socially for her. You could do a better …
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:33 AM
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RP isnt about playing a tough guy. Its about knowing whats real and living your life on your terms based off of that, eyes wide open
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:24 AM
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Dam bro you were in here frame and chasing a few times.. I was confused at first because she was about to cut you off quick I thought i had it reversed. Then she escalated and invited you over and you deescalate it straight back to square one and offer a date?! After that it seems like she was like this guy was lost and started with open disrespect (name calling bitch, lame, etc) You said she a onlyfan action? This girl most likely gets TONS of attention and has abundance of options and low tole…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:20 AM
1

Jordan was another level. Obsessed. 99% of guys that talented cant even be like that. Only other we have seen even try to get close was Kobe. You better be compensated very well and have a team, system, etc around you to take everything else out of your life so you can completely focus on your craft. Its not easy and very hard to pull off.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:56 AM
1

"Im broke baby"
/r/askTRP17/06/20 05:45 AM
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Yea, when they are uber submissive like you say you dont really need to dial it up that high. Like a nob on a frequency you have to kinda pay attention and see what makes sense. Dawg ass hoes, turn it to the max and it still might not be enough.. Calibrate is the name of the game.. But even if you do it right sometimes, Awalt, lol..
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 05:44 AM
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Abundance of what?! Listen to what dude says, he has everything that he wants, he is just bored.. Lol.. He almost sounds like a women..
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:31 PM
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Dont settle? He says he has a low count, hb9 who treats him good and buys him gifts.. Sounds like he just needs some strange.. If what he says is true i would add these streets are invested with low value chicks and its only gonna get worse as he gets older. I aint sayin she the one but he got to be discerning and look at cards on table. Alot of guys say they want that single life then come on here months later sayin something else, lol.. Grass is greener affect.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:11 PM
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You already have everyone telling you focus on studies while not answering your question but at 16 you not tryna hear that, lol. While reading your post one of thoughts that came to my head was at 16 easiest way might be to just get in a ltr quick and I see you almost connect the dots mid way thru. You are almost there, lol.. MOST guys who lose it that young and get it with semi regularity to get good at it do because they have a lil high school gf. LTR in high school isnt the same out in real w…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:59 PM
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Just know that is childhood trauma that you are holding on to. I think the awareness of it helps you move on, like just knowing that those are protection mechanisms that you built up from when you were a kid and how one/two/etc young girls reaction can block your progress many years later. Thinking you are unworthy of intimacy or connection with others is just a mental block. Realize that and use game to help you move step by step towards your goals, be ok with failure/learning and gain experien…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:48 PM
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Most of things you wrote are things men value.. Women dont give a fuck about any of that..
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:33 AM
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Ok so you are just starting to work on your body which will help you gain confidence, that is a path that takes time. Something that can help a little quicker is how is your wardrobe? Do you have decent style, what would you consider it, cool or functional? Also it sounds like its harder for you to make friends but you need to find social circles where you can excel and lead, what are you good at? Can you dance, cook, shoot, etc? Its easier for people to relate to you if you have same interest, …
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:48 PM
1

RP is a reaction to where society is today. Even if a man did everything perfect, you could change your mind and say you are not happy and it would be his fault and he get torn out the frame in court of law and public opinion. Is it perfect? Everything has pros and cons and its not really supposed to answer every question but if a man has goals for those things and he understands nuance and adjust he can make it work. But again he can be the best guy ever and still lose overall, game is rigged/f…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:41 PM
1

Trp is more geared towards short term, its basically a short term playbook. Now if you get into LTR the person is supposed to be more calibrated and take more of the leadership parts of it but also you need a little more dash of "beta" traits for comfort. Problem is most tend to look at that as kryptonite after their growth. There is a nuance that many end up missing out on. Anyways LTR is playing on HARD mode and with how the climate is where people are encouraged to leave at first sign of disa…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:48 PM
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Confidence comes from competence and past success to let you know you can do it again. You need to build a solid foundation, you dont mention anything but computer science (which doesnt put you in proximity to girls and can actually put u in isolation which atrophy regular social skills). Do you lift? are you doing a combat sports? since your main study is a net negative socially what steps do you take to make up for it? Also when it comes to music fest I would only be assuming that trying to ap…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:38 PM
1

Options. When humans have abundance of options, they become more indecisive and have less tolerance. Dating apps multiply that at a much higher degree.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:26 PM
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Thats basically girl game, its very common and you end up locking yourself in that position even more when you basically agree and put yourself in friendzone. You differentiate by being assertive, leading and escalating.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:15 AM
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Get female friends. People think guys and girls can’t be friends. It’s a debate for the ages, but the answer is you better LEARN how, because being friends with girls is an easy way to fuck their friends and get invited to their parties. Hot chicks are also currency that can be used to get into college bars underage, or to closed frat parties. Remember that where male friendships are built on common interests and respect, male-female friendships are mostly built on good vibes and value. Be a par…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:01 AM
2

Dope blog back in day LaidNYC had probably best post on goin to college (he pdf his whole blog when he left but you can find online) One of the blog era dudes with gold in his post that has been buried in time, dam shame. Again everything below was written by LaidNYC Congratulations to the high school graduating class of 2013. That high school diploma sure was pretty fucking easy, wasn’t it? It’s almost as if a high school degree is meaningless. Oh well. You escaped the rigid social caste system…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:00 AM
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That is exactly the reason why you need to go.. Go see for yourself.. Get out your scared comfort zone and grow
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:44 AM
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Some people just got that juice man, and if you aint got it dont worry about it
/r/askTRP12/06/20 10:24 PM
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Usually when people go from one extreme they swing too much to the other.. You will recalibrate as you get more comfortable and realize you are probably doing too much. Hard to speak to your situation but I wouldnt be surprised if you went "alpha rambo"..
/r/askTRP12/06/20 10:18 PM
1

First book I thought to mention. Grade A uncut right there. Probably my favorite in that genre. Ill throw in the pimp game by mickey royal but I think with black players you will be good. Legit
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:05 PM
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All the other replies are bang on, only thing I will add look into some type of therapy, could help your situation.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:42 PM
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Pretty sure Roosh had a good one in this regard. Think it was 3 principles of game or something like that. Us game is different from world game or whatever. He has removed alot of his game articles so you would have to search around for it. Maybe archive will have it or wayback machine
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:32 PM
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Probably one of the under appreciated reasons for cold approaching. Usually people who are naive are just unaware, underexposed, and more on the literal side of things. Now just typing this post means you are more aware of your limitations. But being under exposed and out of practice which makes you think straight forward and come across as lame means you have to make up or try to catch up. Thats essentially what you hope to accomplish with cold approach, you proactively get out there and try to…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:27 PM
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He caught you slipping. Happens to the best of us. Doesnt matter how big or strong you are if the guy has a weapon. Main thing you can do is understand you have to be situational aware of your surroundings always. Have to always be on point, never know when someone is plotting
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:16 PM
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Not mixed signals. Or mixed signals is the message. Read medium is the message by rollo. Should straighten u out good
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:55 PM
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Kino should start small and when you break that barrier you should escalate slowly but surely. For me the quicker you can break the barrier the better it is. So for example, when I first meet up with girl I greet with hug, pretty universally accepted. If we are grabbing drinks I make it to where I sit next to her and we can have physical contact that way, as conversation is going along usually I point out something like oh you have small hands, or let me see your fingernails (many women nowadays…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:31 PM
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I think Krav is fine but issue most have with it is that since it is a devastating fighting style (kick in balls, eye gouge, fuck up knees) it is difficult to spar and get better. The fighting styles mentions most (boxing, muay thai, bbj) allow you to do more of that even at half speed which would allow you to be better in long run. You can ask when you tour facility how they handle that issue and see what they say. Better to do something than nothing. And Krav is pretty badass
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:10 PM
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Put her in your frame, let it roll off your back and its ok to compromise every now and then. If they are shitty not much you can do there but you should make it fun, turn it to a game. Ex. -Hey lets go here for wine. -No I want to go over there. -Ahh, you are hard headed lil one huh, lets flip for it/paper, rock, scissors/you pick the place, you buy the first round. Not having any bend doenst make you "alpha".. Handling dynamics with ease and making it fun is where its at. Now for the people in…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:03 PM
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They have accomplished half of their mating strategy, now they are trying like hell to use any and every tool to pull off the second half..
/r/askTRP10/06/20 02:37 PM
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You are competition, sometimes as new guy you get a boost in established hierarchy. Guys that are lower will obviously react negatively to that. Multiple ways you can play it but this is where understanding social dynamics give you a better view of things. Guys will usually be closed off to allowing new members in group, women obviously will be open to more options. Best way to get into group is to establish rapport with one of the guys higher in hierarchy and they invite you, giving a free pass…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:10 AM
2

10 gb, dam I feel like an amateur..
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:44 AM
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Isolation is death. It is unhealthy for many people and will atrophy your social skills. You have to be proactive and find new social circles. Obviously will be difficult with quarantine but seems to be getting back to normal slowly but surely. Very few people can pull off the I am an island mindset. Lots of info on how isolation affects you. Build your social circle out, slowly but surely.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:57 AM
1

Sounds like you will have to fight for your freedom. Keep the grades up, hit the gym hard, join a sports team, get a job, save for a car. When parents are that strict they want to keep you dependent on them so they can control you. Only way to get that freedom is to have you own funds and wheels.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:39 AM
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That was one of the first confusing things when I found game/RP on internet. Even dudes who have no game in hood learn very quickly you have to approach girls at young age. I didnt even know it was a thing that they call approach anxiety. Dudes are learning this stuff in middle school/early high school. Coming here and hearing grown men talk about this stuff just made me more confused than anything. Coming of age movie like "The Wood" I think captures this perfectly. Either way there are pros an…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:33 AM
1

To me there are different layers that people tend to mix. "Alpha" is more just action and behavior. Naturals to me were guys who were attractive/select types and women gave much more rope than most guys, lol.. The alpha guys were leaders but leaders of themselves first. They were slightly selfish, always put themselves first, bold, work hard play hard types, Do'ers, didnt take shit, bold type. A best friend back in day was a natural, best looking, best athlete type. He didnt have to try. When we…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:47 AM
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Kinda confusing what you are asking but if I understand correctly, yes Isolation will atrophy your social skills.. Kill them.. The game is played in the field. Even when you cut out watching tv it changes your ability to be social in some ways. I think everything in moderation/balance but when you completely cut out you are getting started on the road to inceldom
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:52 PM
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I cant say how much your first point made a difference for me, puts you in a tribe, most football programs promote Olympic lifts, its incredible what a youthful body can do when you essentially end up lifting 2 times a day for 2 years straight as a varsity athlete (football team had weight training as a class to start day first period and then lift after school). The discipline, being around coaches who were men and could be men in school environment. The camaraderie with the boys to try to atta…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 04:19 PM
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Exactly. Not many people will be able to help the youngin, all I will say is the best way I have been able to infiltrate a new field is put in hard head down work, be very observational and see the game and who are the real players in that field, and make it a priority to find a mentor who wants to see you win based on your hard work. Most people I see are able to get ahead and skip steps is when they can be of value and have someone ahead of them take a liking to them and want to see them get a…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:52 AM
3

Exposure therapy. Gonna have to start small and work your way up.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:15 AM
1

If you put her above you then she cant really be attracted to you. Women like to be date men better than them. They are not usually attracted to guys below them. So when you put a women above you automatically she is turned off and puts you in pity category.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:14 AM
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You need to invest in yourself. Become self reliant. You need a plan. Working on career is first step. You can work on wardrobe little by little, dont need to drop all money on complete overhaul. (tho I have done both in past) Pros and cons to car or own place depending on location but I would think for a hustler you can get better return with car. Usually for young guys a car is first taste of freedom and self reliance. If you cant move out by yourself and can find someone you can make it work …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:00 AM
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I think the dirtbike and cycling ones are good. The ones with sunglasses I would take down. If you want to attract more then think pre selection or social circle, thats one thing that seems to be missing. Doing activities like beach or night life. Also not sure if on purpose but a little color as the theme seems kinda dark
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:27 PM
2

Ive done it before over the years, because shooters shoot dammit.. The probability of it being successful are low but Im always on green light and the skills are there so why not. Have pulled before but off top my head its more of a feel good laugh type of thing. Most times the girls laugh and get a kick out of it but I give high energy fun vibes soo it fits. If I cant close after maybe a light or two max I fall back
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:15 PM
1

Red pill comes from Pua, and pua pulled stuff from the pimp game. I would have to say that "do not mate guard" is definitely some pimp game type shit. I dont think they pulled it from evo psych or anything like that, if so what studies? If its from pimp side of the game then the game is cop and blow. You cant keep a bitch that dont want to be kept. Pimps used to cut their bitch off from their world and he became that, she took instructions from him only. If she didnt act right it didnt matter be…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:30 AM
1

Had to read multiple times, I didnt understand the home gym isnt for me part, does that mean he is ripped and doesnt need to ever work out again? Asshole needs to get out of his feels and fucking bang out some pushup and pull ups to some hype music or podcast or something. Dude is military, he should know better than to operate on feels, does he tell his superiors he doesnt like something, its not for him? Lol
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:20 AM
1

I think this is because of most having programming and default setting to women are wonderful. SO she basically has to come with hammer over head to get thru blue pill programming and delusion.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:15 PM
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Focus on yourself. Run your own race. If you are questioning your results, maybe you should look into a trainer for a short while, a outside perspective might be able to see blind spots you cant. I notice sometimes guys dont know how much effort it takes to get results
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:01 PM
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If bar is 5 min away, u dont drive. Uber and say hey have to feed my dog come meet him and ride with her to your place. Trying to move 2 cars from bar is stupid. So leave yours home
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:17 PM
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All I can say is it does get lonely but you need to meet likeminded people who you actually like being around. May be very difficult. Also dont make huge sacrifices if your goal is some big destination in far future. You might arrive there and it doesnt seem soo big and is not what you expected but you cant go back on major sacrifice. Best way to combat that is balance, everything in moderation, which means you CAN have some fun when you are younger. Dont sacrifice youth/time and be stuck lookin…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:14 PM
1

Bro the game should never be THAT slow.. Meth?!
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:14 AM
2

Dam people be really hiding they own seed out here? yeesh
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:12 AM
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because if you are attractive rp guy, you will be running short term mating cues type game. If you actually want to lock down women for long term you need to add "beta" to your game. I think you look at "alpha=good, beta=bad and thats not how it works.. Also rp game comes from pua stuff which has a blend of field testing in clubs (club hoes), evo psych, and a little pimp game stuff (street hoes). This stuff is more effective on dawg ass hoes, which with open market place, online dating, no rules…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:17 PM
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Being beta is still a strategy. If the guys are attractive in look but "beta" in action it can still work. Being "beta" is actually a one on one long term dating strategy. "alpha" is a short term dating strategy, most guys come to red pill with oneitis, have no self respect, beta af wondering why they cant get laid, they get more "alpha" in behavior which helps get them results. You say these guys have high smv, that alone puts them in play. Mind you no one is alpha all the time, or beta all the…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:20 PM
1

The things you describe makes it sound like he has game and you dont understand what it is. You got alot of work to do..
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:15 AM
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Not a good strategy. While you wait weeks, they are having one night stands and just put you in beta box, some might even have you in gay bf box.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:26 PM
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There is soo much out there but the ones most promoted that I have read and are classics Mystery method- Dam near every instructor program is based off of this. But I see some people get confused with it also. But classic breakdown. (disclaimer: Mystery was a magician performer, his game was black finger nails, goggles, hats, card games, etc.) for some reason when he did this, everyone tried to copy his game and it wasnt congruent for them it was for him. Just take the overarching themes in book…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:23 AM
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Its to let everyone know she is back on market, she is taking applications for simps, afcs, free meals, orbiters, attention, etc. Social media is perfect advertising method for this
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:11 AM
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Why would he want to get with a girl who plays branch swinging games? Does he think she will stop at him? He should tell her stay with her BF, he likes the way things are as is. He gets no benefit from it, in a moments time he will be BF and she will have new guy to branch swing from him
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:08 AM
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If she is in your DM, should be easy. Tell her slide thru and chill
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:05 AM
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Think I had this when I was younger and all it will do is limit you mentally and hold back your experiences. Someone when you were younger probably made a comment about a girl you liked, probably could of been in passing and not that serious but they probably have some influence in your life and now its a mental block. Just drop it, It should be part of your IDGAF attitude. You like what you like, you wont please everyone and mostly the women they have arent your type anyway. Why would you put s…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:03 AM
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Alot of guys when they started in game kept a notebook/journal for their approaches to improve
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:58 AM
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You have dated a decent amount of women so dont be soo hard on yourself. Alot more in short amount of time than most men in a lifetime as hard as it might be to believe. From what you have said I would think to take that same profile of the girl you are dating now and figure out how to find a bigger pool of that profile. You will be more charismatic with people you relate to, you find that pool then you are able to approach the hotter women in that domain. You get more confidence and you can exp…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:55 AM
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Dam bro, read some game books since you want to be better with women. They will definitely help you. Im not even that dude but you made some elementary mistakes, I am sure someone can break it down for you more but just what I saw quickly -"Didnt know what to do" You are leader, you always need to have a plan, atleast you were able to think on your feet and decide to take her home, when she agreed you should of escalated here (actually will touch on this more). For future reference always have a…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 03:42 AM
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Again you are young in your journey. You need to read all three sidebars (TheRP, AskTRP, and MarriedRP). You shouldnt care what she thinks, you hold her opinion in higher regard than your own. Respect yourself first, who gives a fuck what she thinks. Next time she calls to try to make you her time ho, tell her you are busy is everything ok with my daughter? Ok cool, cant talk I am working on myself. Your sleep is more valuable than her trying to steal your time. Again, this will take time you ne…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:39 AM
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Yes you did. Its gonna be a balancing act because you have to deal with her for sake of daughter. You need to get better at that. Your ego probably likes that she was doing these things but she is playing the game too, women manipulating is main play in their playbook. She will throw lines in water to see if you bite, you dont need to say much because women understand context. Medium is the message. Even though your response was "You're alright", the fact you even stayed on phone with her let he…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:28 AM
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First thing is to hold yourself first. Your own mental point of origin. You are primary in your life. If you get this concept everything else falls into place. You only need validation from you. From there you are able to base how to help people and do it for right reasons. When you are being overly nice, usually you are puting others first, or trying to win over their favor by doing too much. It makes you a sweet lick, a mark, someone easy to toy with and get over on in general, but with women …
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:59 PM
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Sometimes I can 2nd guess if game is really needed then you read this and its like HELL YEA. Honestly she wanted him to close on the first night when she went back to his place to "watch tv". This guy did not kino escalate or anything, he just did the well she must be ready now lunge for kiss move. Classic no game mood killer. Obviously multiple sides to a story but this is definitely a story of bad game. Everything is about her feels
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 06:52 PM
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I know you are brainwashed to be best utility but you take it to another level. She used the utility you had to offer to upgrade herself. Now that she surveyed the land she sees she can take it from here and find someone else to use.. Thanks for your service
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:46 PM
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Well if they already messed around, its definitely possible but it has to be girl B's idea/doing. You got to basically do some inception type shit where you present it to her and she puts it all together. Girl A is always available solo, because from what you mention of these chicks, her being told by girl B that you are off limits I am sure made you even more appealing in her eyes as forbidden fruit. But you are swinging for fences so yea you got to get girl B onboard Also I am not an expert, I…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:35 PM
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