How long does your average plate last?

Tractor_Sunpower · 2020-07-20T23:30:27+00:00

If you're talking about someone you shagged ie 3+ times sober then very likely the time will be very dependent on you.

I remember loosing plates over some weird shit on my part when everything was going smooth []. Some come back after months...

Yummmi · 2020-07-20T23:08:49+00:00

It’s depends on how long YOU can spin them for. Everyone who responds is going to have a different answer. If they push for a relationship or give you an ultimatum just say “no thanks”. Then hit them up a week or two later inviting them over. I wouldn’t even worry about it. If they’re there then they’re there if they’re not then they’re not. Just live your life and accomplish the things you want to accomplish. Pussy isn’t the main focus in life.

cydestiny · 2020-07-21T00:08:31+00:00

And also closely related to the types of plate you are pulling and from where.

skyrunner22 · 2020-07-21T01:33:22+00:00

Have kept plates for years, most times they leave and come back. But its alot of variables so everyone will have different answers. A couple things I will say for your situation is how old are these girls? For me when they are in lets say 20-25 range, they are more go with flow, shoot they might spin you as a plate.

Also I hang out with my plates from time to time, if I am going to play pooll and grab a drink. Go bowling, some type of chill vibe. Switch it up and see if your results vary. Like inbetween those 3 just once go grab some food or something

jkl2117 · 2020-07-21T10:48:12+00:00

It's mostly been my experience as well, only with attractive girls tho. A lot of the plating advice on TRP applies well to girls in the HB5-7 range, but HB8s+ are a lot harder to plate (it's usually either ONS or relationship kinda thing). It's just the way the sexual marketplace works

There's a few girls (usually very confident ones, who know their value extends beyond sex) who are down to be casual (i.e plates) for several months, but those are only like 10-20%. Most of the time, you can bang a few times but it won't go anywhere.

I think it's just because they know their value is only limited to sex, so they try to leverage their only asset to get your commitment. It's generally not a good sign, a girl who's confident in her value as a partner beyond sex (i.e she's kind, loving, caring, smart, etc.) typically wouldn't give you those issues.

Also last thing is that in my experience, girls who are down to date casually are typically very good in bed - i.e they're able to cum easily, etc. so they appreciate sex a lot more, whereas some girls are literally useless in bed, hence it makes sense they would try to use it to get something instead of enjoying it

EDIT: Also forgot one more thing, most girls being super emotional, you'll typically fuck them when they're ovulating. A lot of the time when they're not fertile they go in "looking for nice guy mode". This can result in seeing them like 1-2x per month when they're horny and fertile, and the rest of the time they think you're an asshole lol

majani · 2020-07-21T13:52:34+00:00

You might just look like an innocent, relationship kind of guy. Are you willing to post a picture?

mrsmiley831 · 2020-07-20T23:27:59+00:00

"I can't get a grasp of you.. it seems like you don't want anything serious and just want to hookup"

Comfort test, not a shit test. That being said, you still did a decent job of being ambiguous--maybe with an added kiss on the forehead after saying it would've helped.

Just feed them scraps, and just dangle the carrot in front of them...

Title	How long does your average plate last?
Author	AuberyBitoni
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	July 20, 2020 10:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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