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cydestiny/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:54 AM
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Ask them to send in their resume. Dude, just say hi, small talk a little and move on if she shows no sign of interests. But don't "end" the conversation or feel like there's a need to "close" the conversation. Don't wait, just unplug and leave.
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:24 AM
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Or increase your self-esteem. Talking to girls hot or not, is normal social interaction.
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:28 PM
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Yes and no. Yes part is it doesn't matter whether she's a model tier or not, you shoot your shot you get a chance at her. It's not a guarantee. And you need game because she ain't naive, she had been hit on like 99 times in the past hour. To me, game isn't about what you did but can you see through her mind games and lead her into yours. Assess the situation, swing in, do your thing, then either get in or just get out. No part is if you focus only on ONE model tier girl, then probably no.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:41 PM
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I respect her, she decides.
/r/seduction16/02/25 10:54 AM
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Third date is an average. If you're experienced enough in dating or understand basic psychology, you should be able to gauge her interest in a date or two. You don't have to warm up a girl, if she's interested in you, she'll find ways to "tell" you. If she's not, warming her up will just send you right into the friend zone. You're overthinking, just go on dates with her, enjoy it, flow with the vibes and make your move naturally and subtly. tldr; Date more girls.
/r/seduction16/06/24 03:34 AM
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Just smile and move on. Like it's just a stranger, nothing you say or do will affect her in a positive way. No need to overcomplicate stuff.
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:04 AM
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Never ever start a relationship with someone who just came out of one. They're vulnerable and cannot think straight. You'll end up in this spiral of emotions that aren't cause by you in the first place. No amount of effort is going to fix that. When you're a friend with the ladies, your attraction level goes down to zero. It's hard to start a relationship in this situation and even if you did, she's in for something else and not attraction. My suggestion is to spend less time on her, go out and …
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:36 AM
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Not just girls who are attracted to you but also under certain circumstances, girls will made themselves available and it's up to the man to make the move.
/r/seduction19/03/24 08:54 AM
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What leads to those interaction is what matters, not the behavior itself. An alpha chad will not attest himself to some chick that he is an alpha but the same goes to a blue pill beta who believes that the chick is out of his league or even the blackpills who doesn't want anything to do with woman. Truth is, you only need to worry if you are an Alpha chad who is still validating himself to the chick.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:29 PM
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Be self-aware not selfish, know your wants and needs, how to express them in the correct form and make decisions based on the limitations that the self-awareness bring. I think you're already doing it.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:29 PM
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wouldn’t learning more and trying to add more logic to my life not work? Red pill is not a set of logical rules that you follow to have a better life, it is the knowledge of the studies of human action. There are do and don'ts in the book but they are by no means to be used in a calculated scientific way, same goes to any interaction you have with human. What most men don't get is that they think they could sort of control their wives or gf by doing certain things, i.e. to have more sex, they ne…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:07 PM
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As long as it is not something you put between you and your wants then you're fine. But if you're doing it because you're avoiding the rejections and such, then it's unhealthy.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:52 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's a shit test or a comfort test, you don't pass them, you leverage them. If she's a plate, just exhibit behaviors enough to keep her spinning. Woman knows if you're trying too hard to pass the test and you're not the guy who just get it. If you find yourself counting the tests, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:39 PM
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Oh, so who chooses her as an LTR?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:23 PM
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askpua
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:16 PM
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What's next? How to get rid of cats my LTR decide to keep and not take care? You know the answer but chose to ignore and wont take the leap, so why bother asking?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:37 AM
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Assume attraction, if something really of logic happened, won't she want to involve you right off the bat? It's like some criminal broke the law and ask for time to clean up the evidence before calling the police in. You're free to ignore the writings on the wall and believe what you want, been there, done that and if it takes a punch in your face to wake you up, I would say go for it, wait her out like how a puppy waits for its food. For me, I'm not handing her the gun, I decide when she's goin…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:32 AM
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Yes, if you're in an environment where shit test are supposed to happen, i.e. social events, clubs, pubs, etc, where she haven't decide where to place you sexually (in an intersexual dynamic sense). Other times or when she's in a comfortable relationship with you, shit test happens like how we men stare at boobs/asses subconsciously.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:18 AM
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Red pill was never about how to fuck that ONE girl. There was no Alpha Fuck here, you're exhibiting alpha behaviours but are still really rooted in your bp mindset, it would be funny if it actually work. She is the one in control, you need her more, you're the one being dangled with sex.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:03 AM
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You're a self taught programmer since 10 and yet cannot make any income through that alone tells me you are clueless about life and that you're not as amazing as you thought you are. I know all the living alone and making your own money sounds fun and almost everyone at your age owns a multimullion business nowadays but what's more important is that, you need to learn to shut down and filter out all those noises. In your first year? Great, join a club, strive for leadership position, host some e…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:31 PM
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"Visit a doc and he asked me to read a fucking book to know what's wrong with me." Not most of them are asking side bar basic things, some really trigger thinking, I guess that's the upside of exchanging notes. Next time you see someone asking stupid questions, try answering (SOME not ALL) by putting all the things you learn in your own words, instead of pointing them to the sidebar, you will learn something new everyday. Else, just ignore and don't reply, let it fade away among the rest.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:32 PM
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Solve it internally, therapist should only act a catalyst not the solution. There's no way other than you walking out of it yourself.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:36 AM
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I read that you're providing too much comfort, they are trying to swing onto you once their bad relationship fails.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:21 AM
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Woman don't put buffers between her and the man she have genuine desire for, she will only do so, if she just want something from you. Try escalating, if she says no, keep her as a DHV, pull out from the lies you tell yourself, don't look for evidence outside a face to face interaction.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 11:20 AM
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If your GF has genuine desire for you, she will choose to drop her slutty friend, if she knows that you don't like her, it doesn't even need to be communicate to her overtly, she probably will sense it if she actually try. The question you should be asking is what do you want from this relationship?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:26 AM
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If it isn't social media, it will always be something else, there'll always be barrier, stop crying over it and figure things out. Social media is less important as you age but it will always be there, so you either find an effortless way to play the game or you opt out to do something more meaningful. Dry spell is never good though. A quick tip on how to grow your social media: Start something in your niche/hobby/anything you're interest in, in your area, build an audience then approach woman, …
/r/askTRP14/12/20 08:10 AM
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You cannot negotiate genuine desire as much as the female imperative wants you to believe, it goes both genders. She is not entitled for shit, you either have genuine desire for her and wants an LTR with her, else no matter what she do, is irrelevant and should not be something that could change your desire to start an LTR with her.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:01 AM
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The global SMP that we have today is actually nothing more than a naturalistic outcome, that is to say, what triggers arousal in the southern part of US will also triggers arousal in the northern part. However, the behavior will be different across each region/situation which will affect SMV. This applies for both gender. For instance, when a man is working, he puts all his effort in making things work, going into this IDGAF mode, could skyrocket his SMV compared to when he is outside of his wor…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:30 AM
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When you have to ask, it is starting to be unhealthy, tune down the bitterness, don't let anger control you. Other than that, you're good.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:41 AM
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avoid that but don't avoid responsibility
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:20 PM
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She belongs to the street.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:00 AM
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Yo, buy a shoe insole if you are just one inch away from success. But I doubt you are just one inch away, you need be as tall as Burj Khalifa.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:59 AM
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If you're not taking yourself out of it, no one, no book, no reddit comment will help you.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:58 AM
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How many of them have you been talking to? Start with people that you're not attracted to in your daily life. There's no shortcut.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:54 AM
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TRP and MGTOW is basically solving the same problem, just two different approaches, they are not mutually exclusive. But people tend to confuse it and take it to the extreme or use it as a replacement for the ideal that they have. Truth is, you never get intimate with woman, you never get into a LTR, you're basically an incel. But hey, if you become MGTOW, you're now not an incel but the member of a large group of people who chooses not to be with woman, except they actually went into a relation…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:51 AM
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Don't make her the subject. The core message should be you're having fun and she's just there.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:28 AM
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Don't mingle with other people's life tasks, you can only help out if he actually reach out, else your time is better spend on other things more valuable.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:25 AM
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Exactly, that's why I gave the heads up that in a monogamous relationship, you will be forced to behave in a beta way. And it's not necessarily a bad thing, if you actually have the authority to choose where, when and with whom you want to have a children with. Authority is not the control that you learnt from your mum, it's the power, to direct your life. You don't control your children, you have the authority to decide how is he going to be raise, if he spun out of control, you're the one resp…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:22 PM
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Look at who say it the most? There's nothing wrong being responsible as a man even what most would assume as beta in this sub, you'll inevitably be forced to have beta behaviours in a monogamous relationship. The problem with the whole "man up" and "good man should do this" is that man nowadays don't get the authority that comes with it, you're responsible for all the extension of your SO. One day she wants a Labrador, you need to find her one, buy all the dog feeds, build a dog house and even w…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:51 PM
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I think, in a day and age now, the information in this book, is no longer a secret or a big deal, albeit not in a collective way. But back in when it is written, it is a big deal, especially when it is written by a woman. A guy who knows what he is doing will figure it out even without this book and those who won't figure things out, this book is not enough. The best book to me is: Woman themselves. Read them like a fucking book. They spill out more red pill truth than any book ever can. Don't f…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:10 AM
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I never drop everything for one text when I'm busy How bout if you receive 10 if not hundreds of message per hour? ​ I'm assuming they're doing the same? Sure, because we are equal right?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:51 AM
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Woman's love towards their child is unconditional, they see their child as part of them, why would they want the worse for them? What they did was not a calculated attack, it was more of a natural response. For instance, if I become a join the Air Force, 10 years later I teach my son how to be an infantry, do you think he will be a good infantry? That's what woman is trying to do, they are teaching their son based on their experience, which is a female-centric experience, a different one if you'…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:29 AM
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Tell that to OP, not me. It ultimately comes to this but go tell OP that it's okay to put too much emphasize on sex. You get the point but didn't get my sarcasm. Sure I can reason things out like you did but OP's question is "Can I get sex from this girl?" If my trash advice can wake some guys up on how stupid they sound, I'm all in for the downvotes.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:49 AM
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She wants you to marry her but at the same time she doesn't find you arousing, just attractive at most, in what terms? Ask yourself. She thinks she can do more but now you're her only best option that's why she play it nice.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:54 AM
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she doesn’t want to have sex because she don't find you arousing, you might be attractive to her. You will get sex when you bring enough value to the table or try hard enough. But for what? If all you want is sex, pay a prostitute or buy out an onlyfans girl.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:50 AM
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she's almost 30 Didn't you see? What is the last thing a woman wants before she hits the wall? All her behavior is screaming: "Marry me please" and it's never about you. She didn't go from 100 to 0, she is always 0 but putting up the act because she needs you for free rent and free food plus any cool shit you are doing together with her. I'm ready for something more I believe she is to but not in the way you are thinking. Like I said, there's a lot of reason why a woman wants a relationship. You…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:46 AM
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First off, what do you want to achieve? If you want a LTR with her, you will need to give up your frame and play by her rules. If you want a LTR who play by your rules, what the fuck are you still with her? You think you can force her to change? Sorry bro, woman nowadays have more options than the options you have in your food delivery app.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:34 AM
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Did you try to advance in any of the three dates?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:25 AM
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That's your ideal, stop forcing in on the woman or think that she too had the same ideal. LDR is like invisible friends, they don't really exist, like you say, you cannot really feel her but staying under the same roof, isn't a very wise choice too, if you're not planning to get married, things will spin out of control. Nevertheless, she's approaching her epiphany stage, marriage is in bound. You need to find out if she really just want some guy to support her when she's away from home, i.e. fre…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:24 AM
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If she is up for a date, she'll be asking. Else no matter what she says, is meaningless, she might be saying that to at least 10 guys on the same dating apps. What do you think a woman will do if she knows that she had Covid? Go on a date with a guy so that he can take care of her down the road. She wont use that as a rejection. She will if you're not the best choice currently. Even if finally, you became the best choice, do you think she will have genuine desire for you? When some woman tell me…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:05 AM
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You should be your own single mental point of origin, succumbing to external validation is a sign that you are giving up control to those external condition, you don't get to choose but at the same time you don't have to be held accountable for the outcome. The Apex Alpha of what you denote here is an ideal, TRP isn't so much about success of an Alpha or Beta in that sense but to be successful in your own terms and not woman's term. Alpha/beta behavior are analyzed to give us insight on how thin…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:54 AM
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What did I do wrong Believing that she's only reading your message and what she actually said. And you still want to try it again next week? Dude, show some respect for your time.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:13 AM
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If you see a girl that you chat with online as a unicorn, there's more underlying problem than you describe here.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:02 AM
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They didn't raise them to be a beta provider, they raise them to be "defective girls" - man who is feminine and is clueless of their masculinity. They are incapable of raising them as a masculine alpha man because they don't have masculinity in them, as much as they want to be strong independent single mother and at times they are the one who got deceived by the fake masculinity that causes her dismal at the first place. It's not just mothers, you can find similar behaviour in teachers, it had b…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:50 AM
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A woman misbehave when man give her the chance to, keep her in check. It's either she take your invitation or she set things up else just forget about it. Respect your time.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 03:12 AM
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What do you think a "balance time" should look like? This is a big question that leads to a big answer, figure it out. You cannot have everything, you need to lay things out, find the priority and work on it. But in any given hour of any given day, it's easy to start swiping or to text a girl back if I am horny and want to set something up for an evening I don't have my kids than it is to invest free time into passive income ideas or side hustles or self development. For instance, in this case, …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:48 AM
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I would say being oversensitive is not healthy, to both you and people around. Instead learn to give out your trust rationally.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:38 AM
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Too young, too naïve.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:29 AM
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Yeah but in this case I doubt it, it's the first birthday they are together, so being as ceremonial as a woman, you will almost always be doing something with a guy that you have genuine desire for. Nevertheless, I want to emphasize again, if you have to ask or you cannot trust someone entirely, you're almost always right. If you're insecure with someone, nitpicking on small things, why are you with her? Can the insecurity be something that is pathology? Yeap definitely, when you can't trust any…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:27 AM
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i don’t see that part as a red flag because it’s a valid situation. It is a valid situation, what I'm implying is, 6 weeks is a long time for things to happen. If she's not genuinely invested in the relationship, she could already be looking for a better prospect. Either way, like you mention, we don't know the situation. But 9 out of 10 times, if OP had to ask, something, somewhere along the line is wrong.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:15 AM
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"Subscribe, click the notifcation bell and hit that like button." (I dont care, only people with weak beliefs need to drag other people into their belief to validate theirs were better.)
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:32 AM
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It is not enough to judge anything, but you need to ask yourself why are you in a relationship with someone you couldn't really trust? And is there any red flags that you had chosen to ignore or overlook due to scarcity mindset? 6 weeks is a long time.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:29 AM
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Throw her some needy beta signals.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:22 AM
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People spin plates and not having multiple LTRs for reason because it's inconvenient. Woman are competitive, sure, they also have fragile ego, no matter how hig her social media is telling her, she won't take risk to break it. If she sees you with another girl in a party, that's preselection but if she sees you on Insta/FB with a fixed GF, she sees that as a risk. You can have LTR and spin plates but it's never worth the effort, you're already starting out with some predicament.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:13 AM
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Two lessons from this: Never let woman define who you are, you must be your own mental point of origin. Never involve a woman too much with your friends and families if you're not going to marry her down the road, the less the better but if unavoidable in LTR, handle with care.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:13 AM
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Trust your gut, it's always right, don't overthink it. If you cannot gracefully walk out of the relationship, you're not in control, so you don't get to decide when you walk out. The solution? Take control not of her but your life, decide on what you want, why did you see her as a unicorn? Solve that problem.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:07 AM
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From someone earlier in this sub, 1-3 business days.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:02 AM
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See the social cues, give her that sexy time look, see how she respond. If she keeps on looping or getting annoyed then you know that she isn't up for the fun, maybe she's looking for something else, decide whether you want to give it or not, don't give her the frame.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:01 AM
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Understanding of intersexual dynamics is not gender specific, the strategy itself however is gender specific. Meaning, man's mating strategy is different from that of woman, vice versa, do each of them know better than the other? It depends. TRP for woman is different from TRP of man, knowing TRP for man doesn't help woman as much because it is not about them. Woman aren't happier on the other side of things, whilst being able to optimize hypergamy more than ever, it is also attuned towards hot …
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:04 AM
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After 2-3 business days of this hahah, "Entrepreneurship in snapchat"?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:52 AM
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You are oversimplifying things. Woman don't look for an Alpha, they want an Alpha who is also a Beta and best if he just gets it. Else they will always need male friends to satisfy her certain needs and wants in work, in life or basically for everything else. It's not necessary for monkey branching or sex, if she can maintain a relationship where she can have the benefits without crossing her standard line, she will. Her "standard" differs for each type of man. And they don't do this in a calcul…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:51 AM
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Are you a rapper hahaha
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:42 AM
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Yes, she will melt away. Why do you care how some girl that you hadn't even meet will react? Have fun, go with the flow, if it leads to fucking, make sure you put on the cap and fuck like a sex god. Else, it doesn't matter. Game some other girl in the party.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:41 AM
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You need to look beyond looks and specific niche of people. If it helps solve our reproduction problem, our ancestors will all be one kind of people, i.e. they will all be thugs, all of them will dress like one, else they will not survive, you will not exist. There will be certain trend that would attract most woman but it doesn't go beyond attraction, the interaction, behavior, etc. is the key.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:30 AM
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Move your mental point of origin away from her.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:23 AM
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Throw the ball back to her with "It depends" and watch what she does.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:21 AM
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Trust your gut, there are things that you will overlook when you look at it from different perspective but that gut feeling is almost always correct. When you are looking for evidence of a convicted crime, you will always find the evidence. That said I think is fair to judge based on your criteria regardless of what she's willing to do, then you consider what she's willing to do, does it make up for what you are going to invest? If you have never go into a LTR, I suggest you to try one, with you…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:10 AM
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It's time to trim your beard.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:27 AM
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The thing is, google has everything about certain psychological behaviours and most of them are mix and match articles written by Dr. Nobody. So, take it as a fun read. Even books nowadays too, since everyone can write one. And guess who consume most of them?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:25 AM
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I want a bunch of friends who love me That's why. You hate people because they don't play by your rules, they don't love you the way you wanted them to. The solution, stop placing expectations on people, you do, see their reaction, gauge whether you want that or not. Same with ladies, invest your time, emotion and money wisely.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:37 AM
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The answer will be always yes according to female imperative, i.e. Man is the one who allow her to do it, man should be responsible. Ironically, it's also the same female imperative that wants woman to be strong and independent. At the end of the day, it's human nature. If you can provide me with more than what I already have, why not? If the buyer and seller agreed on a price for a pet, if the pet runs away, who is in fault? What we man can do is not to gauge who's fault is it or try to change …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:05 AM
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Why don't you actually have one? Who the fucks care, chick probably ask for fun, you cared your little secret is out, that's what you keep getting an impression they keep asking.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:24 AM
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Never mind this guy's a spammer.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:02 AM
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Find your mission, double down on it, spend your effort connecting with man and spin some plates on the side. Let her remain a scar, an obstacles, nothing more. Good luck. And, don't build expectations, you just do, if someone appreciates, they do but if they don't, continue on doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:33 AM
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You might be able to do that but you won't be happier. Trust me on this, it's better to just move away from placing her as your reason to go on. It'll be hard initially but the more you work on yourself and see the improvement, you will be addicted.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:17 AM
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Either way you are going to validate her. What she did has nothing to do with your actions or you even, it is her way to talk herself into that you're the wrong choice, she need to make sure that she's right, so that she can move on. If you did something to prove that you're right, she will do more to prove that you're wrong, it's a deep hole with no end. Stop, get out of it, don't play by her rules, dont give her the validation by not reacting to anything she does, be indifferent, be stoic, be …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:55 AM
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Well you gauge it, go in with a line on how much effort you want to put until it outweights the low effort pussy, then stop. But trust me when you're employing some dark triads tactics it is almost always too much to be worth it. Your call. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:36 AM
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The why here is unimportant, I know how much you want to dig into it but at the end of it, it is something you can't just resolve, not in a logical way. She 18, what do you think she knows better than you? The only way you can have peace is to disregard her and live your life. There's so much more to experience from 21. You will look back one day to see how much good time you have missed by trying to resolve this issue with her, for wanting a closure. Life is so much fun and full of surprises.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:32 AM
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Nah I won’t do anything for sex, just to see if this could turn the tables, I don’t Simp out for her. There's your answer. If you find the "dread game" you are playing requires effort to maintain or cause some emotional disruption in you then you're doing it wrong. Otherwise, you're heading in the right direction, be indifferent, do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:22 AM
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I like to stay away from people who can't collect their thoughts. Exactly what you are doing in your question, does the other comments tell you something? ​ What did you call me out for exactly? Because you need a jolt to wake you up. You are the one so full of yourself and not able to control yourself then you blame the woman and blame other people for calling you out. If you're going to do what you're going to do, then don't ask. Just do whatever you like.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:19 AM
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Like I said, you're forcing your ideal on someone which is literally like making a pig climb tree. A woman doesn't think like a man does, get that in you. Your ideal is not her ideal and her ideal is to make you miserable, are you going to buy into that and conforms her ideal? She don't play by your rules then you shouldn't play by her rules too.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:16 AM
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I’m trying to get her to put out more That's already putting you on the predicament that you will do anything for sex. I live with her Then another one where you can't just leave and sleep else where or kick her out without any drama. Be clear on what kind of relationship you want from her? If it's just sex, why not just find someone else who is willing to give it to you without any hassle?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:12 AM
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But warped reality is warped reality I suppose. "I am giving something to this girl but I don't want to and you're delusional for calling me out" I should just pat you on your back and give you a hug, tell you it's okay, you can go take your revenge on her.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:09 AM
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> The attractive ones Instagram just has bad pictures Imagine being an attractive woman and you have like 20+ DMs from unknowns, how much time would you spend to check on them and determine who to date and who not to? They don't care if you're more attractive in real life because they won't spend fucking 1 week stalking your profile like most man do.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:03 AM
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It's not about sex or anything, it's about human life to me. Definitely. Human have emotion, anyone who said they can get out of an emotion entanglement immediately is almost trying to sell you a thousand dollar course, nevermore. What I'm pointing is your investment of such things. You're investing a lot in the BP ideal, not just time, ego but also your emotions, which is why it is so hard to get out. Take all the time you need, replace the BP ideal with a RP ideal and work towards it. DONT TAK…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:58 AM
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Look at your instagram/dating profiles versus your friends' instagram/dating profiles. How you sell yourself is important if you want to having success online.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:55 AM
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Why? So you can pee on her and declare that she's been conquered? Do you not have anything better going on in your life?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:48 AM
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Doesn't matter, you'll only end up hurting yourself if she's the only one girl you're focusing on. We analyze game, ruled out what is consider a good action and what is not BUT it is to be use as far for reference, nothing more. If you can't move away from having the ideal of "that one girl", you will almost never get it.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:47 AM
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What's your relationship with the girl and what are you trying to achieve, that would answer your question pretty much.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:43 AM
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I just do not get why she has to view me so horribly. You're trying to force your ideal on someone. She is not you, you can't control her, even if she become your wife. The more you're butthurt over what she's doing, the more successful she's going to be. But truth is, what she is doing, is trying to force her ideal on you, you are not the guy she thought you was and she's trying to convince herself by convincing others too. That's her motivation. But it has nothing to do with you or anything ab…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:43 AM
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Before anything, get help if the suicidal thoughts appear again for your local support groups (not sure where you are but is happy to link you to them or you can just google them). There's nothing to be ashamed about, they are people who is trying to help, at all cost. Faith, is a very important thing, placing them on the wrong people or ideal is going to do big damage. But don't take it as a lost hope, take it as a lesson, remember the pain and you can be someone greater. We are go through cert…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:27 AM
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There's no shortcut for this, you need get out yourself. That said, I don't think past trauma is something that you cannot get over, it is who you really are that caused you to be in conflict. I am not denying the fact that the traumas doesn't exist, I'm denying the fact that you actually moved on. Everything you did was to prove who you really are to other people but never to yourself. It is because you're in your comfort zone, the zone that you draw yourself in because of the past experience, …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:22 AM
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Denial is the first phase of acceptance. There's nothing wrong with wanting that BUT if you follow society's script, you'll almost never get that or maybe you will, by chance. Take control of your life, find your mission, lift and put in the work to create something.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:32 PM
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That ONE plate. Make up your mind on what you want, if you want to continue having the feels for her, you will end up in a LTR, a one that you already have your hands tied. On the other hand, try to control your feelings, pull back every time you realize you lose control, i.e. when you lose your erection, just stop the sex and move out, be indifferent, tell her that she need to try harder or maybe it's you. It's almost impossible not to have feelings but you need to be conscious of it and don't …
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:24 PM
1

You need more time.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:18 PM
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It's usually low self-esteem or validation seeking, which is learnt or taught to you by some female character early in your childhood. It's normal for people to want validation but you should try to get it from yourself rather than other people. And it requires much more than what a post can explain.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:16 PM
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You're trapped by yourself, your goals and actions is not in sync. You have not cross the abyss and accept that the blue pill disneyque ideal is nonexistent. You are using red pill method cluelessly to obtain a blue pill ideal.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:12 PM
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That is to say, "game" is mostly bullshit I agreed with most except this. I think "game", on a certain degree is like tools for you to increase your chances, overdoing is the real problem. It should be something internalized not some do x and get y thing that could be taught.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:08 PM
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Then choose something you've already read and think it's a good read.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:02 PM
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I just don't care. I'm not trying to project a specific image, I'm just making decisions based on my personal interests. If I choose to associate with a woman for example, I will need to make decision based on me and her, it might result in something that cross over to what you denote as feminine side. But this is until my choice to associate stays.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:02 AM
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That would cost another 1000 dollar. If you're not talking to anyone, it doesn't matter. You can at first plan a trip to get coffee every day, then talk to everyone while you walk your way there, try to be a frequent customer at the shop, so that you'll be confident to talk to everyone. Just an example, force yourself into social activity, start small, then you slowly understand the dynamic.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:01 AM
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It's not the action that you did that matters, is what your behavior is telling her that matters. I think you need more experience with woman. You want to know the secret of increasing your chance of success? Develop other options.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:52 AM
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PUAs never get past the plate spinning game, worse part, that get addicted to "woman" because that's how they define success. And if you planned to settle down, hot model is the last thing you would want to associate with because of their inflated ego and self-solipsism will be all over the place. However, that doesn't mean all hot models are bad wives or vice versa. The only thing you need to do is, get involve with as many woman as possible, figure out what you want from a woman or not wanting…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:46 AM
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At least not out of genuine desire. If you are providing enough for her, she might, to maintain or to juice out more. Why do you think they try avoiding to be a bitch for?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:37 AM
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You are looking it at a point that SMV is objective but do remember that SMV is also subjective from everyone's perspective. Hence the numbers are not absolute.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:09 AM
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And what's the thing she'll get for having sex with you? You're already giving her what she wants and you really can give. Woman sells purity to guys that they don't want to have sex with.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:04 AM
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You can be 100% RP but not 100% Alpha.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:17 AM
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It's not about morality, it's just that if you get caught, drama entice or you you end trying hard to cover things up. At the end of the day, why are you in a LTR where plates are better or can already provide what you're looking for. Good luck bro
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:09 AM
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Yep, it's not an easy journey, especially in a LTR. I would advise against spinning plates while in a LTR, the complications is not worth it. What you should be trying to do is, focus on what you want from the relationship, if you want to keep her, then your actions is inevitable but understand that you're placing your bet on her, you don't get to decide the outcome, she does. Getting out will not put you in a better place than you're really are but if that's what you want then do it. Take your …
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:32 AM
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When you stop seeing Alpha and Beta as good or bad indicator. These behaviors are usually the result of the state you are in not actions you take. And they are intrinsically important to maintain a LTR. actually kill the relationship. This already puts you in the predicament. Let's say you're busy with Thanksgiving the whole week and only visit her after the end of it. She complaints and nag you about it when you meet. Would you do everything you can to fix the relationship? Or are you willing t…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:22 AM
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It's a result, not an action. What are you trying to achieve with it? If it's something you do unconsciously, then you might be trying to achieve something unconsciously. It might have to do with your upbringing, find that, solve it.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:43 AM
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Because she doesn't think the way you do.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:40 AM
1

Anything that make big bucks and the one that you enjoy the most. A day job is the most inefficient to earn money, as you're selling your time for it. But it is a good foundation for you to get experience and money while you figure where you want to go in life.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:32 AM
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$1000 dollar course: Get out of your room Talk to everyone that breathes
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:29 AM
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When you doubt that you're involve in things that is wasting your time, always, always, always trust your instinct, not your dick.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:34 AM
3

Where the fuck did you read that.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 06:33 AM
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Your ego is in your way, you think too much of yourself, to a point you don't have the audacity to try things out, because failure is not an option. Shit takes time and lots of attempts before you finally get it. You might take longer time or shorter time depending on how hard you hit at it but if you want success over night, go pay some random dude 5000$, get scam, suck your thumb. You either end up with no money or a swollen thumb, whichever come first, then you will realize that your ego is w…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:08 AM
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The act of having this thought is Beta. What would you do if we tell you this is beta? Stop? Does this sounds any Alpha to you? Alpha and beta are just placeholder used to depicts certain behaviors because the lack of better terms, not a good and bad indicator.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:00 AM
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Good luck making him believing your shit. Don't mingle with other's life task you are just going to be in never-ending entanglement that brings no value to you. You want to be a good friend? Live a good life, be Chad Alpha Thundercock, a figure that he can look up to or at least compare to, if he ever wanted to improve. Some people are happier in the matrix.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:13 AM
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No, you don't recover, you wont get a kiss for the rest of your life. Stop having this in mind the next time, do what you want to.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:08 AM
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I think the big ego is a result not a means to an end. You work hard, be selfish with your time, money and emotion, then you have the leverage to have "big ego". But at the point of view from the person who seemingly have "big ego", they just don't care because that is their default way of operating and they have the audacity to because it was backed by the things they have done and achieved. One can have an inflated ego and it can be easily detected if they are trying to emphasize and defend th…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:06 AM
0

Remove access to all your money.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:47 AM
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If your life fails, it's not because of you, not because of the choices you made, it's because of the woman, it's because of us not warning you and it's because of this world. Dude, you don't just read, you need to think and learn to think independently. You don't like casual sex with multiple woman, cool but is it aligned with your goal? You want to find quality woman but how else are you going to learn about woman than to fucking date them? Read some books? You have not moved an inch from your…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:46 AM
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I actually did want to LTR this girl You're already giving up power. You are fighting yourself, that's why the struggle. Incidentally, do you actually wanted a LTR? What do you think a LTR with this particular woman will bring you?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:28 AM
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It depends on what's your definition of abundance or in other words, what's your ideal? Human needs to have faith in a future, however vague it is, actually the weaker the better, for us to continue living. When you go from Blue Pill to Red Pill, you didn't actually destroy the BP ideal but you're replacing it with another ideal, one that is closer to the truth or at least the up-to-date one. Having abundance to me, is that the visual of the future that you want to be in and is doing things to i…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 08:52 AM
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Your heart beats faster because you are weak inside, there's nothing going on in your life and you're worried that someone will find out your secret, those words cut you true because it's true, you have nothing to fight back. Take up martial arts, get a mentor or masculine figure to look upon to, align yourself with him.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:33 AM
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Yeah yeah you are broken, I'm too, we all are. How many woman are you talking to in the past week? Blue pill conditioning had taught you to believe in the ideal, open up and be in touch with your emotions. Do that and you will attract man. The only thing you're lacking is the capacity to try things out regardless of others opinion and find the things that work for you. You're not a fucking WiFi, you don't have to connect everyone, all you have to do is to connect the dots in life, YOUR LIFE.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:29 AM
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Oh so it's because of the wrong party eh, maybe it's the guy's fault or maybe the woman's fault. We all make mistakes, I do too but I don't come up with 99 reasons to deny that it's not my fault and pretend that it's okay. I learn that the thing I didn't wanted to do and take it into considerations in my next decision making process.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:24 AM
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Plate, read this again. Read until you realized that she's a plate.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:10 AM
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I know this sounds a bit too RP ??? I think you misunderstood what RP is. ​ but I just want what’s truly best for our relationship. But is that what she wants? ​ I should be doing things like that much less than her. You should but those things should be much more important and meaningful than her. If you are just doing something to keep yourself busy because RP, you'll end up with nothing.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:09 AM
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Don't think at this point, you see her as a plate/FWB. Decide on what you want with her then be coherent with your actions. You didn't make up your mind, you took her to the party, you introduce her to new cock, whatever happens next, is out of your control and none of your business, lesson learnt, move on.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:05 AM
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What I mean is have a big goal and break things down. I dont see how releasing ONE album as a nobody will help make any difference other than filling up your ego void. Your life goal should be more ambitious but something that you can work towards, like releasing an album after 2 years, then what? What are yo u trying to achieve with the album. Just release it for fun and to reach a goal? Release an album is a goal but not the end goal. Buying a house and lifting is basic stuff that contributes …
/r/askTRP24/11/20 01:41 AM
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You know what your new goals are? Break things down and take action NOW. Finish your band's album/EDM - Release 1 song no matter the completion on a YouTube channel every week. Get to sub 15% BF - Follow a workout plan and stick to it for one year. Dude, do you think you can nail everything on your first try? Try again.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 01:18 AM
2

to diffuse cultural expectations. That's what the female imperative is trying to sell you, that a monogamous exclusive relationship is the norm, is something expected culturally, socially and morally. Truth is, if you get into a relationship with someone and he/she is trying to get something out of it (an exclusive relationship), he/she is never fond of you to begin with, he/she's fond of the value that you are providing. It is exactly the same thing when we man, at our boy days or even well bef…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 01:10 AM
1

However long it takes, persistency is the key, don't fucking overdo to a point you burn out and quits 1 week later.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:20 AM
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All this because of a woman that you never even have sex or relationship with? Really? If 2 years didn't teach you the lesson, I think you have not fall hard enough. There's no shortcut or magic, you have to want to solve it yourself. My not so professional suggestion: For each and every week, remove one thing you enjoy doing in life until you realized how lucky is it for you and me to have the freedom to do the things we want today. Stop fucking wasting your time on one freaking woman and putti…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:14 AM
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When you operates in woman's frame, play by her set of rules, of course she is not going to respect you because why would she? You're in her grace, worse yet, in her mercy. You first have to treat yourself with dignity, i.e. be willing to walk into a relationship, set your frame and if anything misalign with your life mission, leave.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:25 AM
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I dont know, you make the call. Do whatever you want just don't end up in something that other people tell you. You can collect the opinions but make the final decisions based on yourself and stick with it. If I'm in your place, I will take maths, join some DJ clubs, spin disk, be the most popular DJs for parties, have fun.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:53 AM
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I'm a Mechatronics and Robotics Engineering degree holder, I could land a lucrative job in my field if I ever wanted to but now I'm a full stack developer in the day (in a laid back company that pays quite the amount lol) and a KOL in a specify niche at night. Uni is a good experimental field for you to try out lots of things without worried about getting yourself screwed much. And since you're at it, why not just choose a major that could make you money, whether to have the job is up to you.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:34 AM
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the quarantine happened which took me back to square one I think you never really did move away in the first place. You are just numbing yourself but deep within you, you didn't want to move on. But this is the process, don't rush to the end, bask in the light of enlightenment, understand how shitty it is to believe the blue pill ideal, the painful it is the bigger the lesson you will learn.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:03 AM
1

Because that's not how the world works. At the end of the day, woman and man are better off together for the society as a whole. Based on MGTOW criteria, woman nowadays are all witches that should just stay with their cats but this is far from truth.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 11:56 PM
1

Put 101% effort in everything you aim to do. You have NOTHING, so just risk EVERYTHING you have to better yourself. Don't just lose weight, read books, start a business and literally try everything you can. Go into college, build networks, join clubs, create stuff.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:15 PM
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A direct brag is never going to have much effect. You make the hamster spin by leaving traces of evident and let her find it herself not through text.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:11 PM
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Porn and jerking off should be a pitstop rest during your journey not a shortcut to sexual need.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:04 PM
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I am genuinely curious though, how would she zero me out? Be prepared doesn't mean it will always happen. You are reasoning with logic that you're good and I definitely do believe that you are. But woman's manipulation go far beyond logic, of course not everyone woman will use it but you're like handling her the knife and it really depends much on her, no matter what you do can change her mind if she decides to crush your life, she might succeed or she might not, the point is you're handling the…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:56 AM
1

Make up your mind.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:23 AM
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Comments are saying it's easy never actually had a normal relationship in a work place obviously. The entanglement is stronger than people think it is. It's always hard to separate work and relationship when you put them in the same basket. Unless you're willing to leave your job and the woman when things end. (not either but both) Any advice at this point will not do any more harm then good, OP have to eat shit until you can entirely forget this relationship and move on. Be prepared to get zero…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:21 AM
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I won't scope on to only being good looking/alpha but being higher than their perceived self SMV scares them off. But at the ages of the day now, a good looking woman perceived herself a 9 without makeup and a perfect 10 when she dresses up, so to be out of her league, you have to almost have a celebrity status.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:08 AM
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Ask any woman, even the one selling sex, they will sell you purity. I didn't want to do that, I was left with no choice. But never try to burst the bubble though, never worth for the drama it brings. As for threesome while you are in a LTR, you shouldn't for any reason. If you really like her less now, end the LTR. I'm not arguing over the morality or anything but when you spin plates you can't be in a LTR efficiently and vice versa. For whatever reason if you think you have superpowers then go …
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:46 AM
1

If you have no idea where to go next, go into uni and get a job, at the very least. Don't go into stupid majors like social studies and arts, you can pretty much pick that up through reading and thinking on your free time. But if you know, you're not going to finish it, poor grades in high school, etc. Then I suggest you to pick up a job fast. Could be anything but make sure you're learning something from it, how to deal with managers, how managers deal with subordinates, how trading works. All …
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:36 AM
1

Someone's en route to be heartbroken.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:27 AM
1

Take the lead. But it comes down to practicing. You don't have to deliberately talk in a certain way to look alpha, you just have to deliberately put yourself in situation where you have no choice but to engage. Soon you'll internalize it.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:25 AM
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Start by removing all the excuses replace them with solution. Find a masculine figure that you can look up too, can be fictional, then every time you're face with problems, ask yourself what would that particular figure do if he is in your place, then do it. Then slowly you will be the masculine figure that you look upon to. It takes time there's no shortcut and I saved you at least 999 dollars.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:22 AM
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It's transactional sex. But don't view it as a good or bad thing, you should align your behaviours with your end goal. And I think Alpha and Beta isn't what you think or at least what you defined in this post. Alpha and Beta is used to denote specific sets of behaviours and never more. It's not because of the achievement and what you have that define you as an Alpha but because you're an Alpha (not necessarily naturally but must always internalize), you will have the achievement. Those achieveme…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:46 AM
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Yeap. Until you actually meet and fuck, just ignore it. Set up dates with multiple woman, only attend the one you like the most, give stupid reason for the one you wish to fuck some day and don't reply to those you think are okay or low interest (on your side or her side). BUT dont let things eat up too much mental energy, the whole interaction from getting the number to date should be fun, if at any point you sense low interest, move on. Spend 10% or less of your time hunting, getting numbers a…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:59 AM
0

Cold approach is just one of the many tools to put yourself out there. As long as you don't take rejections at face value and is tuning your strategy for specific situation, then go for it. If you're just starting out, you can sort of ask your friend to film you while you do cold approach like in this video. This way you can sort of getting the abudance mindset that the outcome is not important, you're just doing it for the lol.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:45 AM
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We are human beings with emotion, we bound to develop feelings for things or another human being naturally. The important thing is how we consciously control our emotion investment and not become an emotionless robot as what most guy who never get past the idea of "having multiple sex partners" is trying to sell. As the social order had changed, it is much easier for woman to embrace their sexual side which might be a good or bad thing, depending on the side are you on. If you are clinging on th…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:42 AM
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Beta or not, do you think that beta means bad and alpha means good? Then you didn't really get it. There is no such thing as alpha/beta moves, you have to look at it from the context on how that decision was made.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:06 AM
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I think the important of plate spinning is not your n-count or how many plates you are spinning but that you always be ready to spin, hence the abundancy. When you're worried about not failing you're already failing. And not to be delusional, things will definitely slowdown during the lockdown, so it is a time for you to put what you have learnt into a test. If you find yourself simping for a woman regardless of the condition, you need to reinspect are you trying to numb yourself with red pill l…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:01 AM
1

You know what they call the road not taken? Regrets. No matter what you choose, you'll always going to feel bad because of not taking the other path when things go wrong. Incidentally, the other path will also have its own problems that you need to solve down the road. No one path is perfect and leads to ascension more than the other. What you have to do, is to develop your own mental point of origin, dont do things to please people nor do things to control certain aspects of life. You adapt and…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:52 AM
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Buffers to meet actual woman and talk. Joining classes because you want to meet more woman is trying to identify with what you expect a woman will appreciate, albeit only in your ideal. Woman join classes to please their man and if you are with her in that class, you are not the man they want to please, unless of course you actually like the thing and excels in it.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:47 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:40 AM
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Always articulate your wants in a firm and solid way, indirect or not. You can throw in some hook, like you did, by being indirect, check out the response from the woman's side and decide if the fish is on the hook. If it's not, take your leave, try again another time. Fish likes it when you play the buoys.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:40 AM
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Competition Anxiety on the woman's part and abundancy from your side. Either way, sex should be something really simple, like dinner for adults with sexual relationship. When you're trying to get it, it means that you will certainly be trading in some value for it. Man solves problems and that eventually become a problem. It's not a switch per say, it takes time to build yourself up. It's not about having sex with multiple women that matters but that multiple woman wants to have sex with you. If…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:37 AM
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Cold approach and socializing basically anywhere. I personally wont join Yoga just to meet some woman, I would if I feel like doing some stretches after Muay Thai for example. The more buffers you are trying to put between you and women, the harder is it for you to actually see them as human beings.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:28 AM
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There you go. Don't be afraid that you will miss out. But knowing how to navigate the SMP, i.e. having some social skills, is something that a man needs to learn, not to simp for a woman but to actually be able to live in the society.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:39 PM
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Dont take things to the binary extreme. Learning how to socialize takes time, you can't just watch some random PUAs and suddenly you know how to approach girls, not to mention how to actually date one. You need to be in the field and just like everything else you make time for it. You fill up your time with stuff, cool but understand the reason for it and what are you basing it on? Because some random guys on Reddit or some PUAs told you so?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:32 PM
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Because she developed abundance mindset. You could fetch a bone for her even without her having sex with you, so why have sex when she can be back into the SMP for more high value man?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:07 AM
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That's why teaching man how to do things never work, we know the solution and they're always better than everyone's else haha. Not sure about the meme stuff but OP can make that work because he's sending out of a natural response and it's not going to work for those who read it and do it exactly because they are sending it "to be fun and chill", pretty sure they will end up like dancing monkeys. Same goes to the rest. Text for logistics, some teasing in between is cool but don't overdo it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 06:03 AM
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To be frank, I don't really have an issue when it comes to online dating or regular game (i.e. day game) in general. My profile has always had good photos from my travels, doing things, and a few professional shots too. I know you are successful, what I am pointing is what kind/groups of woman are you attracting with the profile. I don't know, you make the call. When a woman wants you as her a provider, she will make rules so that she will not be at the losing side by making the higher call. "If…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:59 AM
1

Leave her behind your mind. You'll only be butt hurt if you actually cared or wants some sort of revenge.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:14 AM
1

You don't change them, you change you.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:11 AM
1

Approach more, not just woman your dicks tell you but also people, socialize.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:10 AM
9

She sees you on the beta bucks side of things, that's why she made rules. (Beta bucks is not always pointing that you're wrong/bad, in fact you need to be somewhat successful in life to be one but it will lead to transactional sex which is the last thing you want.) I would do a recheck on the vibes you're sending out on Tinder, are you like the fun guy or the boyfriend guy? Also you need to figure out what you want? No wishy washy, nah I dont do sex on first date, it's just a personal thing and …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:07 AM
1

I live in Asia too. I think the old social order is still prevalent here, at least to a certain degree. For instance, if you get married, it's harder for woman to get out because society still sees divorced woman as "broken" goods in some form. Same goes when you're in a LTR, you still get punished as a woman if you cheated, there's no pussy pass. However, AWALT doesn't mean that woman will always behave in a certain way but woman will always find the best way for hypergamy within the context. T…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:59 AM
2

Just ignore it and focus on what you are doing. Lullabies are only effective on babies, now that you're a man, it should have no effect on you, just enjoy the music.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:17 AM
1

How many people are you talking to day in day out? (pre-covid of course)
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:57 PM
1

Live stream it on Reddit
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:57 PM
1

Everything is bad when in excess, except for woman.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:56 PM
6

Because of how convenient things get(Instagram, Facebook, Twitter), hot girls dont even need dating apps to actually "date". No use ranting, you see the problem, you solve it, don't look in scrapyard for gold.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 03:54 PM
1

Don't break it, let it spins until it breaks. If you're the one who initiate things, you stop, if it's her, you reject and put her behind the way hotter girls in the rotation, she will break eventually.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:33 PM
6

that will lead to nowhere? Your answer. If you have nothing more meaningful lined up, what's wrong with DM-ing them chicks with no expectations? If you're doing all day long and expect something in return, then you should revisit the side bar. TRP should serve as a guideline not a rule book, you make the rules.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:26 PM
0

Dude's looking for a girlfriend for Christmas so he can tick all the good boy boxes. If you come here, you know we are in the naughty business. What they meant by lying is not straight up to her face lying but by not answering the question, she didn't expect an answer anyways. You need to send her the vibe that you're casual until unless she prove otherwise (probably not) and it's just a sexual strategy. Don't go on and tell her that you're not looking for a long term relationship that she's in …
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:02 PM
5

You probably didn't even get the entry ticket. You don't do the same, you ask yourself what you really want? If you wants to have a chance and later on connect with her, stop. Go read some more side bar. Move past the scarcity mindset and you wont ask this dumb ass question.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:30 PM
2

That sounds like married life especially when you're with the wrong woman. By asking yourself why? What is your desire? Find it and double down on it, the rest are excuses.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:18 PM
1

You don't involve friends with this unless it's a long-term relationship. Didn't you see the whole interaction here? She's treating you as a disposable, nothing is more important than her own benefits, in this case her image in her social group. If she finds out you are trying to win her friends, she will see you as a creep because she wants someone who just gets it, not someone who acts like someone in other to please a certain group of people. So, either way, the plate spun out of hand when yo…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:15 PM
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Everything you do for attraction is going to lower attraction if she finds out.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:58 PM
1

Of course you don't, you want everything to be poured into your mouth which already collides with the most important thing - your mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:49 AM
1

You're the kind those red pill gurus are targeting. Sex Life Shortcuts, Lambo in my Yard course sounds like something you would want but nope. TRP is not a magic pill that can give you superpowers, you need to do lots of research and practice. While I suggest you to accept every idea you find in the side bar, I highly recommend you could put in some thoughts to judge whether you should agree or reject the idea. It's okay if you reject some of TRP, time will tell whether you're right or wrong whe…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:47 AM
2

Didn't know monkey can type.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:40 AM
3

And you need folded towels, one long, one short and some soaps so she can take home at the end of the stay.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:39 AM
4

You have the self-awarenes to try to solve the problem but you missed the why. Your mission is still her and no amount of motivation other than if I tell you to live a better life as a revenge to her for leaving, which might just lead to more misery. No amount of TRP will help too. You need to know the why, learn to listen to yourself, solve the problems because you really want to solve it. Have a genuine desire for life, find your mission. We all have got one fucking chance to live, do you want…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:38 AM
1

She's already in the game, you are too but now you played by her terms.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:30 AM
1

Yeap. Don't put a performance bar or something on yourself, enjoy the moment, if something's off, adjust next time. Man, you will miss the thrill when you find something new to play with.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:24 AM
5

The question is why do you want to do that? I know the answer: because she's your everything. Solution: Hadn't you got anything more important to do?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:03 PM
1

I want to actually have SEX without worrying about cumming to soon. Then have it. I doubt you have PE because you could fuck your ex good, all you have is performance anxiety, you think that you're not performing on par. Unless you cum on touch then I suppose you need to worry. Nothing and no one can help with that, you just need to crunch the numbers.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:02 PM
1

Or "I could say you're the one messaging me at 2am you're corrupting me" Why are you replying to a random girl at 2am?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:48 PM
2

Not sure who's the beta here.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:46 PM
2

My question is - is this realisation too little too late? Yes. Have i already been (rightly) branded as a douchebag insecure offputting interrupter forever with zero chance of turning around this impression in society? Probably. But I guess you asking this question and putting effort in telling us the problem means you are dedicated for a change, all you need to figure out is for what? If you change because you worried how people and the society sees you, you never get to stop changing because n…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:44 PM
1

Every one will miss out something or think they will miss out, that's what pushing the entire human race forward, else everyone will just be a piece of fatty slump living in someone's basement. You felt bad, cool, what are you going to do with that discontent? Mourne the past? Simp on a woman? Be the greatest you can be? I don't know, your choice.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:03 AM
3

Stop watching porn, practice getting aroused without graphical trigger.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:42 AM
2

Congratulations. It doesn't matter what you do but how are you doing it. If she's your only lead, of course you're going to screw up, she her as just another normal chick. Wine and neflix is a good start, make sure your place is clean (although this is my personal thing, I like keeping my nest clean and everything in place.)
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:41 AM
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Forget everything you know about her because you don't, it's just an image she wants you to see. And stop guessing, a woman shows her true color when she's naked. Go get hurt and come back so that you know what you really want. I almost want to give you the advice to spin her as a plate but seeing how you're approaching this whole thing, I'm pretty sure that you will end up simping for her pussy when she denies you sex thereafter. I could be wrong and I wish you prove me wrong.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:38 AM
1

Doesn't matter. If you're asking permission to hit a girl up, your chance of success is probably 0.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:08 AM
1

Change things up one by one find the balance. Fitness goal are easy to obtain if you grind through but the more important part is to sustain.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:07 AM
3

Hire a coach who knows his shit, be up front with your conditions. Flip burgers for money.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:01 AM
1

If you're doing it because you think the world will be less harsh later on then you're wrong, you're only moving from problems to problems. Life's a never-ending chase for happiness, so, instead of crying about it and feeling bad, just enjoy it, celebrate every single small achievement in life and use the excitement to launch yourself further.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:25 AM
3

What's the benefit you get from staying as friend? There you go, your answer. And dont spend too much time prying on that one girl, open your eyes wide and look around.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:15 AM
2

Such complications, hadn't you got something more important to do?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:56 AM
5

That being said, many people say don’t get into an LTR in college. Who? Why do you let other's dictate how your life should play out? College is a time where you can make lots of mistake(not dumb mistakes) and get out of it free. So, be free, do all the shit you can, join every clubs, climb every ladder, meet as much people and if out of that there's a chance for LTR, grab it, go into the relationship with red pill lens to minesweep all the landmine that's going to cause permanent damage to your…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:47 AM
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If you truly want to get a girl that rejected you a long time ago, spend some time working on yourself. Then come back and show her how much progress you made. Works much better than begging for her affection like a dog. No, never spend time working on yourself for someone or something. This whole interaction was possible because OP didn't improve to get her. If getting laid is your end goal, you have not move past the blue pill conditioning, since you are exchanging something for something. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 06:37 AM
4

I think the chances are directly proportional to the age. And nowadays, there're lots of "independent woman", commitment is the last thing they want from a guy.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 12:22 AM
6

Do you have to get yourself killed to believe in god? I hope not. But I would say that, analysis paralysis is an anti-growth tool. Almost every stage in life, you will fail, the important thing is how you get up and not try your best to avoid all the failures. Sure there are failures that will cause permanent consequences but most of the time you will know if you actually think. For the rest of the time, failures, like heartbroken is a way to learn. Try to get into a LTR whenever there's an oppo…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:54 AM
4

If you want to marry your dad, I would say no else everything is fine as long as it didn't affect your mission.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:38 AM
9

Come back when every girl in the campus flakes on you, else just keep trying to get your NEXT flake.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:37 AM
1

If we agree to meet at place X at 10pm, that is the "frame" No. This is not frame. Frame is under whose reality (in intersexual dynamic context), both of you play by. Setting a date and time is a promise, the important thing is based on what term is the promise made. Incidentally, she doesn't respect your promise because she dont play under your sets of rules. She's interest in you, sure but she might not be operating under your frame yet and this is very clear. The rest of your reply makes me c…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:35 AM
1

Then I would go for the side business and maybe credit transfer to something that is related to it.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:19 AM
1

The frame was already set in stone And that frame allows her to be late for 10 minutes, it's not a bad frame per se, it is how is it (frame are set way before anything happen). You can't train her by abundance and DGAF, like I said, it only trains you, she can just leave the scene without any baggage, can you? If your answer is yes, then there you go, execute it like a motha fucking alpha chad.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 04:00 AM
1

Why not both? Since you're already half way in. The degree job serve as a way for brainless income (but I doubt civil engineer is as layback as some other engineer branch) while the side business is something you do after office hours and weekends. Unless you can go big within a year or two, then I think it's always better to have a job, reaping in some money while working things on the side. Again, your call.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:56 AM
3

specifically after obtaining numbers through OLD apps Try a different way? Problem solved. You're trying to fish freshwater fish in the sea, of course you're getting flakes, most woman nowadays are not even serious looking for something online, they're just there for the lol or free attention. "Someone wanted to drink wine with me, therefore I'm attractive, good to know". Either a different apps or increase volume.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:50 AM
3

Regardless, I am trying to say that the fact that she's late means that you didn't set the frame outright, there's nothing you can about it now. You can't suddenly do something or tell her something to make her respect your time because to her, you're just an option out of a million stars. What you can learn from this is that, rationally, to get as much from this trade, you shouldn't be paying a lot of mental tax, you know outright that a company will fail, are you going to invest? Sure if you h…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:45 AM
2

She wasn't horny because she's comfortable, seeing you as the Need instead of Seed side of things. Unfortunately, it's going to be like this for the rest of the relationship, no amount of effort can change it. If you tried, she will pull out the "You've change card" and act all innocence, when things break finally, suddenly you're the bad guy, manchild or whatever slut shaming terms she is going to use, to ensure that you're the one who's in the wrongdoing. What are going to do about it? Your ca…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:33 AM
2

It's called the light switch effect. If this hadn't wake you up from your plugged in mindset, nothing will.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:25 AM
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I read the title and I upvoted. People need to get it in their head, there's no shortcut, you are the result of your own hard work.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 02:26 AM
8

So if fancypants333 on Reddit is saying that you're the most billy bluepill beta ever, are you going to be butthurt? Your "platonic female friend" is no different than fancypants333. Of course there are things, where we are bad at, don't go into the Dunning-Kruger effect, narcissistic area. Accept all forms of criticisms but agree and disagree with it. Don't let it shape your personality but shape your personality based on yourself and decide upon whether you accept or reject the idea of others.…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:48 AM
2

Try it out in stores, see what works and what not, develop your own sense of fashion.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:37 AM
3

And this is why you need a masculine figure in a household, fuckers like this will abuse the strength of a man to hold up a household but literally does nothing as a father, husband or even a fucking human being. I don't think a phone call will work here, go back, understand the full story and have a face to face talk, walk the legal path if necessary and make sure you mum have a place to live (that is out of reach of the guy) when things go south.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:36 AM
1

When a dog did something and you fed it, it will recognize that as a rewarding behavior. Incidentally, you smashed her and asked her out on a second date, so being late is rewarding, so you already train your bitch. The one that needs training is YOU.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:31 AM
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I have got a friend who did this, we teased him for some random stuff and he got angry to a point that he stop talking to everyone. At the end of the day when we are all about to leave, he finally said: "I'm not mad, I'm just joking". It then became a joke that we would use to tease him for years.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:29 AM
74

Why is she your GF?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:27 AM
1

Improvise. Just go with your friends and have fun. If things really get to that point, make up and excuse to leave with her, they will know. Man are simple beings, they will be angry that you left them there but they will forget it the next day. If they don't treat them some drinks and tell them your adventure (if they are cool friends, else just ignore). Don't go in with the mindset to smash, you will miss the fun and opportunities (say if there's a girl in the party that would smash).
/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:26 AM
1

In the day and age now, even if she hadn't, she'll still tell you otherwise to convince you she's not broken good if she's trying to get with you. The ability to slut up is a proof that she's a hot commodity with other man and you should too, be hot for her, if you're not, you're the broken good. I was once told that she would wear short skirts for snooker so that she can tease man or dress up sexy for a bar night and get many free drinks. Cock carousel is a placeholder, they might not be jumpin…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 12:09 AM
1

I'm not arguing over text You are not doing what you're saying. From that point onwards, whatever she says /do should be ignored. She "slut shaming" you because she fails to get what she wants. So just move on. You have to do what you say, else even man won't respect you.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:58 PM
1

"But mass gainer are hard to drink" "But I..." "But this..." Stop giving stupid reasons, they are valid, so? Work around them. Dude, you work on what you have on hand, I don't believe your Caf served all garbage food, TALK to the server and ask for replacement for certain unhealthy stuff with veggies/meat or whatever that you can eat. Or better run for Student's Council President and change the cafeterias. Keep trying different strategy and find the one that works. Mass gainer if you can afford …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:46 AM
1

"Err I had relationships with Elsa, Jasmine and Mulan. None of them works so I wonder if you..." But the way you set things up with her determine the outcome, you'll look like a dumbass if you use the line above whilst maintaining a beta frame.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:23 AM
1

Got a friend who went gym with me for the first time, pushed himself too far as he followed my routine, he puked in the gym's toilet. He's not on any pre-workout per se, I think it's because you overdid your capacity after a long hiatus or you went too far over your normal capacity. The pre-workout might had push your guts to believe that you can do more, hence the reaction from your body telling you that you can't. If this persists, down the dosage or dump it entirely if that doesn't work.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:20 AM
3

Deal with what? Hire a hitman and kill all her options? A girl who you didnt even met left you pondering for days, if not weeks?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:10 AM
2

If you're clueless and too lazy to read sidebar or gather information for free online, buy courses for the experience (to learn a lesson) and maybe a FR on TRP.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:08 AM
3

Means you are a good tool for plowing.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:07 AM
1

Been lifting for last 10 months and focusing on my mission. You have to develop independent thinking, lift and focus on your mission based on what? Because TRP tells you? You will get your answer when you find the answer for the question above.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:06 AM
3

"Old enough for some fun." Forget about the age thing or anything per se, you put out the opportunity, she will take the bait if she wants, else why should you care?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:13 AM
15

Feels like she’s toying with me, and I feel disrespected. Then leave. Why are you giving her the chance to further chip away your mental health? I don't think you're in a LTR at all. You know the answer all along but didn't want to make the decision. Let's assumed that you get her back this time, what about the next time she's refusing to even chat or talk to you?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:59 AM
1

How do I bounce back and get my bachelor’s degree so I can travel and enjoy my life. Make the conscious decision that you want to bounce back. No one is going to help you if you're not going to help yourself first. First thing I suggest, get your grade back up, throw everything else away and enjoy life.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:46 AM
2

I heard Mars is a good place.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:43 AM
1

Alpha and beta is not an archetype or demographic, there's no such thing as you've a beta job so you must be beta. Alpha is a mindset, you're not Alpha because of your achievements but you have your achievements because you're an Alpha, you think and act like an Alpha. When you need to "suppress your beta", you're not an Alpha no matter that you exhibit a lot of traits that would be categorize as Alpha. When we talk about Alpha and beta often times, they are placeholder terms used conveniently t…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:31 AM
2

View them as something replaceable anytime, the rest is up to you. The more plates you spin, the more you see why woman behave in certain ways.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:34 PM
1

I think i’m starting to give a shit cause i’m too scared to try anything. That's the problem, scarcity. No amount of advice will solve your problem if you don't want to get out.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:30 PM
2

Yeah, work from there, add more stuffs as you go on, the important thing is to persist, to be consistently and steadily improving. Nothing is going to hold you back except you yourself, don't eat meat? Grab your protein from veggies or whey protein or whatever works, it's difficult, sure but what's your decision? Sit there and cry until someone sells you a shortcut? Or pick up the fucking spoon and chunk those things down? And to be able to do that, you need to have the clarity on where you want…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:23 AM
1

When you had never experienced abundance and develop a sense of how relationship should be to you, don't ever get into monogamy LTR. Plate spinning is not cheating per se, when you're in LTR you cannot spin plate, so made up your mind.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:41 AM
1

You made the conscious choice to push people away and now you ask how you can not make that decision? This felt like impostor syndrome and internally you never move away from your loser self. Therapy since I don't think you can get out of the loop yourself as you are too deep to see past any advice given here. Otherwise, read and do lots of independent thinking, face your real self. It's not shameful to be a loser, it's shameful to never be one because you never try hard enough.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:38 AM
10

FWB? More like you are her plate which is spinning on its own lol.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:34 AM
0

Cool story about that ONE girl.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:33 AM
1

If she accept the date on a non-sexual context then no matter what you do, it will not work out. Anyways, I would put her on hold and develop other lead. Since you're leaving, ask her out for a farewell thing then escalate (make sure that she knows it's a date that is). You'll most probably fail but hey, learn from there.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:18 AM
8

Social construct is there for a purpose, even the whole blue pill conditioning thing. It's not meant to harm man or woman, as a matter of fact it's here to keep things in check. Imagine a world where parents don't give a fuck about you once you're born, a country will no laws, people are free to do whatever fuck they want and a world full of Alpha jerks that kill each other and abuse woman how they ever wanted to. The Lost Boys are lost because they made the choice to be lost. If you don't agree…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 07:13 AM
5

The day-in-day-out interaction should had already told her something about you. I don't think she sees you as a sexual option at this point. You are sending her signal that there's nothing sexual between you two, both of you're friends. Because it's important how you set things up going into a date. For instance, if you're inviting a girl over tinder, then the context would had been different. But if you're doing it as a colleague, especially after when both of you had already develop a relation…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:46 AM
1

no connections or anything can be made. If you are plating them chicks, I would keep the connection as minimal as possible, else when she initiate "The Talk", it will be hell of a drama. What I meant was why do you think that being quiet is killing your chances? Are you trying to plate or trying to have a LTR? I don't think the quietness is the problem here, I think you overthink it and have yet to develop your own personality. By escalation I mean during a date or after the initial approach bec…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:40 AM
1

Make mistakes and learn. ​ self-improve myself unless I actually go out into the real world. How much can you lift? How much do you read? Gosh, it's like saying I cannot build Rome until I started building Rome, which you will never will if you never start small and put yourself out there. I actually go out into the real world. What like you are living in a virtual world now?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:18 AM
1

You fuck them good. But then why it depends on where you pull the chick, what's establish between you and her, etc. And why is it a waste? It should be her loss for not having sex with you.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:13 AM
1

Find where your locals gather online, go there and find activities to do outdoor (covid now so, whenever it's possible), try every one out and decide for yourself. If you are asking for online stuff, you can try making videos (information/data/gameplays/etc). Or find contents that you can create.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:11 AM
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Because she's in love with you! Nah, kidding. You're a tool that she use to cure boredom or heartbreak or to make her crush jealous. I would look into how you got into the date, what's your relationship with her, how did you set it up.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:08 AM
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And then there's guy who will ask how to be quiet around women. ​ My pauses have been described as sort of intimidating too, a girl I dated for a while commented on how my pauses felt a bit scary. How do you feel about yourself? That's more important. Being quiet is okay if that's how you fare, the thing is how you lead and escalate. I have had plates told me that I'm like a "Close Book" who don't show emotion no matter how open she is to me, the next thing she knows is that she's "open" for me …
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:00 AM
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Yes but provided that you have value to start with. And no, don't kidnap her. Assuming this is your first date, then she's a fucking nobody to you, why do you care? Because she's the only one you can ask out for a date and you are thirsty as fuck? Make the call, it is worth the effort? If you only have one chick, then yes, it's worth the effort, else why don't you just ask someone else?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:41 AM
1

Yes and you should also put on a bow tie for the date.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:37 AM
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I’m still in high school and i don’t think my parents will appreciate me bringing multiple women into the house. Plate spinning is not about bringing home multiple women... it's about exploring different options that you have to develop that abundant mindset. In short, it's "Try to date multiple women whilst staying non-exclusive". The end goal is to develop abundancy, not to have more sex or more dates or bring more women back home, those are the by products. Young one, you have a long way to g…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:40 AM
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I entirely understand where you come from but it isn't a mathematical problem that can be solved by comparing numbers. Never decide for a woman whether or not she will fuck you, let her do that. Like I said, if you are counting the days to reply her, it's better for you to develop other things in life.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 03:33 AM
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I can't help like I fucked something up. That's what she wants you to think. You are of some value to her but she wants more from you, to keep her hypergamy in check. Put her on hold, get on your next option. Don't make sex the end goal, the end goal should be to explore as much options as you can, no matter where it may lead you. When you sense that the effort is not worth it, pull back, calm down and decide later on if you want to have a go again. If you having nothing going on in your life, n…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:55 AM
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I prefer to simply vet for an LTR due to the nature of today’s climate Based upon? You will regret if you go into a relationship without abundance.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:47 AM
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That's what plate spinning is for, spin enough plate and you will develop a sense on what you're looking for in a woman. To me I dislike woman who is delusional, too self-entitled and I like those who are not afraid to embrace their femininity. But as far as I get, I find that embracing your femininity as a woman today will cause you to be discriminate by peers and because of this some plates took some time before they are comfortable to be really feminine with me.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:45 AM
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Are you spinning a plate? Plate spinning is not about fucking around, it's the mindset that matters. If the plate become a chore to spin it's not worth the effort. Plate spinning is not about being indiscriminate with woman, it's for you to develop your "standard" (to put in a simpler and short way).
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:38 AM
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Ladies and gentleman, this is plate spinning at its nature state. OP is the plate. Nevertheless, my opinion (and what I have be doing) on plate spinning is that you put in the effort before the interaction even happens (in the gym, looking good with outfit, take good photos, smelling great, etc.) and you just present the woman with the opportunity to get it with you (this requires effort to in the). The root of plate spinning is abundancy, if you are constantly thirsting for "plates", you almost…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:31 AM
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First, what do you see her as? If she's just a FWB, let it stay on the benefit side of things, the rest of it just agree and amplify, stand firm on your ground that both of you aren't non-exclusive. If she pushed it upon you, just leave. And it doesn't matter how. The fact that you are asking is because you didn't wanted to and you're attached. Decide upon where you placed her and make the final decision. Only if you consciously want to end it yourself, any advice from here is going to be a reas…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:57 PM
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Get your statement correct before you ask, if she's not your LTR, then WTH do you care? And if she IS your LTR, you need to learn to vet before you give her the title. Gay or not, it doesn't matter, you have to decide what you want from her, set the frame right out of the bat, which behavior is okay and which is not. You will have the audacity to back you up if you spin plates and is ready to next anytime. This question is just a preface to lots of problems down the road.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:33 AM
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You probably know you shouldn't but you did it anyways because you didn't have the abundancy. You have to internalize having abundance mentality, when you stop caring how you act or how people react to you and start focusing on presenting to the world who you are. Short answer: spin plates.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 08:13 AM
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That's already fucking with your life, it will consume your mental and energy. Trust me, you have no idea what power a woman have in the world today. I would rather get shit done then spending my life on some dramas.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:41 AM
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How many people have you been talking to? Not only the one you are hot about but everyone, anyone. Had to queue for something? Talk to the guy/chick in front of you. Had to use an equipment in the gym? Ask the guy how many sets left. Don't give me the introvert bullshit or what so ever dumb reason, talk, learn how to socialize enough then you know how to approach someone you're hot for eventually.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:28 AM
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I got angry cause I want to live the red pill/limitless life and not be controlled. Henceforth fucking is not your end goal. If you're to fuck someone and get your life fucked then just forget about it. Going in with the "I must fuck her" mentality is just going to kill attraction and fuck with yourself when things go south. Present the opportunity to her, vet her properly, making sure she's on your side, else eject and next. Never think that it's okay to fuck with crazy or predicament, aka neve…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:23 AM
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I don't think you're heading where you wanted to, you are just moving from someone's idea to someone else idea. The thing is, the pill, isn't something that you shallow to obtain magical powers which can resolve all matters of relationships. The pill is the gateway to the hard cold truth. Why are you trying to be Mr. Not-a-nice-Guy? How do you think that it would resolve your problems? You can act all the way you want but it won't change the interaction you already had with her. Rome was not bui…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:15 AM
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Spin plates. It takes a snap for her to withdraw her affection and leave you hanging, not fear mongering but it's bound to happen soon, where she felt that she got you hooked. I suggest you to just flow with it BUT have an escape plan, be ready to cut her off anything and open yourself up to opportunities. Plate spinning is not just about fucking multiple woman but having that abundance mentality. Of course you have to fake it at first if you have nothing to start with but you will slowly get it…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:16 AM
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It doesnt matter. Don't decide for a girl whether she will fuck you or not. Even if you check the list of "the guy I would fuck", it won't happen unless she's given the opportunity to "let it just happen". Even so, she will still decide not to have sex on the first date because her cat past away few days ago. The solution is to do whatever dick you want, until you guys actually meet again, no game is needed or matters for that reason. The more you text, the more it triggers her rational mind tha…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:35 AM
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No, I think you get it wrong, the sexual strategy is amoral but never non-moral. Cheating was never an option, even with plates. Just don't be a dumb dumb and tell the plate all the details of your plate spinning adventures, just state that you are non-exclusive. But for LTRs, you don't cheat not because it's morally wrong, it's because why are you cheating if you made a choice that she's your LTR? If your brain is telling you that you need to, then what you need to do is not cheat but think abo…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:24 AM
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Yeah good, it didn't matter whatever the reason is, you did something stupid, that's it. It didn't sound stupid to me and I have nothing on you, but I am criticizing on your actions and the solution. You didnt learn your lesson and is still asking whether you should fck with someone who has STI and what's the thing that you want to clarify? You want people to tell you that it's okay to slip once or twice as it doesn't matter? It's a cruel world out there. That's what I'm trying to point out. You…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:46 AM
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He's just extremely unlucky to hit the jackpot There's that but he's also the one who make the conscious choice not to put on a condom because he thinks she's innocent looking.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:26 AM
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This girl is probably one the most innocent-seeming people I’ve ever met Ha, the only thing you got wrong. Sorry bro, if you caught an STI, you deserve it and it might happen to teach you a good lesson. If you're asking for permission to fuck some girl, I would advise you to have a talk with yourself and think that if you really understand what TRP is about. Regardless, be careful in your ventures, you want to make lots of mistakes and learn but never something irreversible.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:15 AM
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Let Tomi Lahren summarize this for you: Value, value, value. The thing is, man thinks like what you are trying to describe here but woman don't, the rationalization usually happens after. There's no Value Ladder, it's a Value Elevator, you don't get choose which floor you land even if you believed that you pressed Floor 10 (i.e. shown a value of 10), the woman gets to decide which floor you land, not based on your worthiness but what she thinks and more importantly how she feels. The "how can I …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 02:09 AM
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You don't, if you think red pill is some superpowers that can help you get out of something especially with woman free, you're wrong. Be responsible for what you did, don't try to rational after the fact that something had happened or try to get away with things. Even if you get a pardon, you shouldn't take it for granted.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:06 AM
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Build one in your area, just don't advertise Red Pill as the main topic, something like for a cause. There was once I added everyone in my local gym to a chat group and a lot of business/hobbies spun out from there.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:55 AM
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If you're using TRP knowledge just to get laid, then forget about it. It feels like you felt entitled because you're improving and shit but nope, no one owes you shit, you want to improve your sexual life? Then figure out ways to go out there and start talking to people, start making connections, hit the volume. You improve yourself, cool but no one cares. And there's no "I took SOME pill bull", you either gets it or you don't.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:03 AM
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My take is don't reject views, accept them but agree or disagree with them. When you listen to your friends or families talk about something that is against your view, just listen, agree or disagree with it, that's it. When you don't reject ideas, you wont try to force your idea upon someone else. There're only like-minded people never a same exact clone who agrees with you on everything. Even in the Red Pill scene, there is a lot of branches, never absolute but since we are working towards the …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:52 AM
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Because when a guy post a photo, he gets 10 likes while when a lady does that however, she gets more than 50. Of course this is just a simple analogy, when you look into it, you'll realize that masculinity is a losing its purpose, what value can masculinity provide when a feminine figure is more superior, according to social media, the most consumed legalized drug. Most man nowadays don't struggle with dating woman but they are looking to date that ONE perfect woman right off bat. When you play …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:31 AM
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This is too shallow. If you delve deeper, you'll realized that when a woman is being illogical with you, she's in your frame and she's trying to break it. It's contradicting but if you think about it, why does a man use violent against something? Because they are in a certain situation where they want to get out. In the case for woman, the situation is that now, she's in a man's frame and the weapon is emotion, she's trying to get out. She didn't want to win the logical debate, she just want a p…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 02:15 AM
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Unfortunately, it takes forever for someone to change their view on you especially when it's cognitively confirmed over the years. In short, it is never worth to change them anyways. However, I see where you are heading, you are basically doing everything you could to be the cool guy based upon the people around you or generally what you consumed. It will make your life much worse than before taking the pill because at least previously, you're following the line subconsciously, i.e. following wh…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:52 AM
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Then u did not raised your SMV as much as you want to believe. SMV is not just about social status, just like how woman's SMV is not just about face, ass or boobs and no, it's not about the brain too. You know you're lieing to yourself, you just have to get pass it. In this case, you have low self-esteem, you think you're worth lesser than your peers. In truth, they're as lost as you are, so don't see them as saint, they're not perfect too in their own ways. At the end of the day, what matters i…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:43 AM
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Bro, shes Arab. They are the definition of bat shit crazy. Normally I'm not one to generalize a whole group of people, but I can safely say that Arab woman have egos as big as Everest and are ruthless. They are like sharks, as soon as they smell weakness.... you're done. In any case your observation is true to a certain degree, at least within your reality. But innately, they are all the same being, (AWALT). What I mean by bat shit crazy is woman who will do crazy stuff just to settle the scores…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:02 AM
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I read ex-bunny girl. Don't mingle with crazy to save your ass and life. Let them be. Find the next bunny girl.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:28 AM
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You better hope she's not some bat shit crazy woman, else good luck. This is why you don't shit where you eat, you had basically handed her a gun to zero you out, maybe not your life but from your workplace. ​ I felt a bit of validation in this, I am aware of it and try not to let it take control of me but is it wrong to let this validation make you feel good about yourself? Multiply that by 10, that's how a woman function.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:25 AM
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She's humble bragging. And you're a socially awkward guy who doesn't get it. They are only plates when you have recurring sex every now and then, DM-ing them on Instagram makes you a simp.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:12 AM
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She's plating you. One thing for sure, she's not looking for something long term, so enjoy while it last. And, one advice, don't try to LTR her or do any LTR blue pill shit, else she will be gone faster than you could ask another question of askTRP.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:10 AM
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If she plays the "saint card" after something happened/something is about to happen and she's trying to rationalize, then yeah but nothing actually happened. Since I don't know anymore details, I can analyze what went wrong but the truth is, that she doesn't sees you as a Alpha Fuck but she would like to keep you for the Beta Bucks side of things for the free food and free attention. Regardless, as I said, you are too full of knowledge, it's almost a curse. You already have your answers but you …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 05:52 AM
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The moment she throws the "I'm a saint" card, she's already losing interest. I'm not pointing at what you did but why you did it. Why did you drop the H-bomb and what do you expect to get out of it? What did you expect from calling her today? Because you want to fuck her, you need to fuck her, that's why you are stuck. I don't have the secret that I could sell you for $5000 to get her interest in you but I can tell you that you are going nowhere if you have this mindset. You need to understand t…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:32 AM
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LTR? Plate? It's much more complicated if it's a LTR and you have string attached to her other than a relationship. Else just get out, find someone to smash and she will decide if she wants to come back.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:19 AM
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I bet she's the only one that matched with you on Tinder eh. If not, wtf are you doing? The whole interaction screams neediness all over. If you are asking for permission to call a woman, you're in the wrong sub. Bounce back? What are you? Inflated Billy Blue? The last sentence is probably a polite way to stop you from going further, not an invitation.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:15 AM
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My take is that OP should go all out on this one but keep the sanity to pull out whenever he find himself caught in a situation where he needs to make permanently decisions, like getting in a marriage or even a relationship etc. Let it burn and crash, then he shall make the decision himself to take the pill or not. I think that withdraw is not going to help. Because there will be next LJBF, if he is not determine enough to take the pill.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:53 AM
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They get what they deserved. Some posts do makes me think, like why people come to that point and is it them or me that is losing touch with reality. Things is, I don't post for validation nor to trash at people for the sense of superiority, I posted because I felt like to and wanted to learn to better articulate my thoughts. Red pill is complex, is far more than just how much can you lift / how many plates have you spun, etc., in fact, it is so easily misunderstood and misinterpret. I once trie…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:39 AM
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Shape your personality, find out who you really are and avoid making choices that could stop you from becoming you. It's not avoid all responsibility but take up responsibility when you need, you can't be an Alpha by only adopting the good side (learn game, be good with woman, live a good life, etc.), you will also need to break through a lot of uncomfortableness (eat shit till you make it, put in hard work, lift, etc.)
/r/askTRP14/10/20 07:58 AM
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Then go. What's holding you back?
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:42 AM
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No, it's not normal. Your parents' past experience have planted a seed in you, to a degree, you fear the same fate awaits and you are lost. This doesn't come consciously, it's innate. The solution to this is to consciously understand and figure out what you really want by slowly removing the relation to your past experience. It's hard, you will always find yourself be comparing to it then you start to analyze which inevitably causes you to overthink. Until you figure that out, by any means, you …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:00 AM
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You will look back few years from now, how stupid this sounds.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:29 AM
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Call me cruel but I see that the problem stems (every psychological problem) from you. You will feel a lot of things but you get to decide which is the reality and how you describe the pain (ask someone who is out of a LTR recently, you will get various symptoms of pain, most of them are not clinical symptoms but what they themselves believe). You get to decide who you are, your past or anything for that sense don't decide who you are. When a woman cut you off, there is certainly something wrong…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:02 AM
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Take a photo of your full body in front of a mirror each day or whenever you felt like snapping her and look at if. Remind yourself how much more work you need to put in.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:58 AM
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What do you expect from the snaps? Gods grieves, stop simping and find something else more beneficial to do.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:43 AM
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What do you want to compete them in? A cock fight? No matter how many steps ahead anyone of you is, you can't change the fact that you're both human. So there's no competition, only your self-esteem. Next time you saw a dude "way ahead" of you, try to talk to him and learn from him. If there's conflicted interest just stand on your ground, hold your frame, show him your battle cry. The outcome is not important, it's the interaction, you being able to put up a fight, show your intentions and fend…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:41 AM
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When someone is fed up with his own life, he start to look outwards for validation.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:25 AM
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First, change your mindset, "you approach because you can, not because you need to." You are focusing too much on getting a date with a girl. You should just be in to see what's in store for you and if it's something you don't need, just leave. Those replies are soft rejections, it happens because you didn't pique her interest, and there are 100 reasons why. But who cares? Just reply with a "haha" or whatever short low effort reply, let her know that you know the rules of the game, you're not a …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:56 AM
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A more important question is, why are you lost? Where do you want to be in life? If you can list one more thing you wanted to do other than college, I would encourage you to do it instead, regardless of the outcome. College is a waste if you are not self-conscious of why you are getting in it for. And you are over-analyzing things, there are no magic, you have to beat yourself into self-discipline, there is no hacks/shortcuts. Self-discipline is not monk mode per se, it's living a balanced life,…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:26 AM
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If you see her as "way out of your league" then yeah, it's a bad idea, stripper or not. But if you are able to strip her off her stripper profession, you might be able to then plate her, else it will always be the other way round, you will be her client. I recommend that you go in and see for yourself, it's a chance to learn/experience.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:03 AM
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Ironically, this post teaches so much than the other lesson posts. "101 things that you should not do to get girls" "The most obvious common sense social cues that help you with social interactions" "Exposing female nature that you shouldn't already know." There's not a clear cut solution to anything, you need to put in the work and basically start by just solving one problem at a time, even if it is small and doesn't make sense to everyone else. You play the game based on your own rules. The ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 01:15 AM
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"Hey check me out on OnlyFans"
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:46 AM
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It is the interactions that matters. Where are you taking her with the conversations? You are putting too much thought to impress woman, which inevitably will put you in a predicament. Don't be someone you are not and enjoy the whole interaction. Ideal conversations are usually on-topic about the venue/event, show the woman that you're interest in the event and she happens to just be there. Once you read social cues of disinterest, pull out like talking for a second more will get her pregnant. Y…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:44 AM
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that might work or have her leave evidence in your texting. Just don't give her the chance to play victim. At the end of the day, you evaluate whether or not it is worth it. If you think it is not worth the hassle, cut her clean.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:05 AM
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Yeah, then it's your clients or business partners that you need to do the explaining. Just be aware that the truth is usually not important nowadays, the victim card is more brutal than you think.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:55 AM
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Try telling that to your boss / other clients when she plays the victim card lol.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:49 AM
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Just enjoy it while it last and don't be amazed that she "turned into someone else" overnight and withdraw sex from you entirely. You know what to do, draw the lines, hold the frame and play the game. Stay alert. For e.g. the perfume thingy, not sure if you're working for yourself or hired, if it is the later accepting gifts from client might get you into trouble. Fucking around with clients too, you're opening the door for her to use it as a weapon to ruin your reputation. Two things: 1) Don't …
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:45 AM
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If you can treat her as a plate and not overinvest, then why not? See this as a training for you just don't get tricked into a relationship or some form of long term commitments. Let her know that from the start, if she is still up, then proceed, else you better cut the ties or else it's gonna be a prologue to a drama shitstorm.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:32 AM
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Like I suggest, you setup the date with her for a future date, i.e. asking her out on Saturday at the beginning of the week, then don't think about it until the day comes. If you think that's not worth it and you have better things to do then just move on. The important thing is what works for you, what do you really want.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:27 AM
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And again back to the mental capacity thing, if you are a more instant respond guy and is constantly have her in mind on why she's not replying, etc., drop her. No matter how good she is personally, she'll be eating you up down the the road. If you can however put her in the background while still work on something or some other girls well, then just drop her text, schedule her a few days prior to a date, then move on with your things.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:11 AM
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The important thing here is not whether your experience is true or not, is why can't you be the Asian/Indian that shines through the rest? I mean, drop the victim mindset. If you are pulling the same kind/type of chick over and over again, you might want to conduct a full retrospect on what causes it and how you could adjust your strategy. What do you think those thots are on Instagram, flaunting their assets? Who do you think they are trying to attract? As a matter of fact, they are trying to a…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:04 AM
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If she's really a plate, you shouldn't be worrying about how fast she responds. What you should think of is, why is she a plate? I mean if she later responds and tell you a time to meet and doesn't flake, then cool. If she's playing the I dont know, I'm busy, maybe tomorrow thing, drop her like you drop the barbell during a dead lift. The thing with plates management is that you need to make sure that it is not eating up your mental capacity, else it beats the whole purpose of spinning plates. "…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:42 AM
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Are you spinning your plates or are your plates spinning you? There's no right or wrong answer to your question. It all depends much on the scenario, i.e. what did you text or what are you looking for. At this point, I don't even think she's your plate yet, just some random chick you have got the number through Tinder. (Sorry for the assumptions but this is what you get without giving more information) Either way, my take is if you're counting the hours /minutes on replies, stop. Fill your time …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 01:02 AM
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Stop worrying, you'll probably fuck up or not but who cares. If you're putting all your bet on this ONE girl then of course you are going to fail. Fuck like your first time and the last that you will ever fuck her. Don't fuck to impress.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:51 AM
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Don't give them the chance to cheat on you, that's it. It's fearmongering to say a percentile of woman cheat because it is so much more on the context, i.e. what the relationship is built upon (more complex than just this one reason). I think the hard part here is knowing that you are going into a toxic relationship but you couldn't get out because of various reason. You know she cheat but she's a HB8 and she's your one last chance, you won't met any girl like her anymore. So you go into this pl…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:45 AM
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Do not assume that every man have increasing SMV past 30 because some have even lower SMV than they are in their early 20s. What are you going to do if you are a 4-5 and is too lazy to do anything to increase your SMV? You find someone who loves you the way you are. That's is when woman who are out of options come in handy. Not every man will put in the effort to increase their SMV even if they know the way, trust me with this. They will just wait at the finish line and hope that they pick up so…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 03:00 AM
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I'm only 27, so I have no personal experience with 50's style relationships or how women were. So this is based on your primary observations, while debatably accurate, is very shallow. At every point in history, woman (or even the whole human civilization) acts differently based on the environment, to survive. While the underlying framework doesn't change, the act does changes contextually. If there is no simps, there are certainly something else to fill its spot, for the better or worse? It doe…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:52 AM
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No. I think it's wiser not to mingle with anyone's life task especially when it comes to woman, it's never worth it. You think that you could save someone but in the end you are just wasting time. When man fell in love (the blue pill ideal), it's harder to pull them out and unplug them because he shall not see what he choose to unseen. Do you think he have zero idea what's going if there's really something going on? I will however wait for him at the finish line (no pun intended). Once he's done…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:58 PM
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Shut up and take my backbone.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:39 AM
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I will tune it a notch down, "Instagram for women is like watching porn for men." Simply put: Woman needs validation and only wants sex. Man needs sex and only wants validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 02:11 AM
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Because it is harder for man to stay single after 30 given all different kinds of social media/apps that help facilitate that. Hence, the leftovers are usually divorced man or man who are not selected, only a small portion who is really of value and stayed single deliberately, also some who stayed single because of you-know-what reason. So it is not weird that young woman are not attracted to most of the man at this age group. If guys are just waiting to hit thirties to bang all the chicks, he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:43 AM
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Now that lifting is sung like a national anthem in the red pill nation, I would personally want to remind everyone that you should never use woman as a motivation to lift (or anything), the motivation should come from the inside, you, your mental point of origin. Good FR nevertheless.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 02:07 AM
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Don't follow advices to the steps, you have to learn to make decision on your own, see if it works and adjust accordingly. I see you want to find ways to get over her, I have to emphasize my point again, abundancy. Get that and you will forget her. Drop all your excuses, find ways to solve your problem. It's going to be a rough ride but you've got the balls to go through it. Covid? Online Dating. (too flakey? try different apps, different strategies, you don't even have to use the mainstream app…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:50 AM
1

No, if you soft next because you want it to work, it's never going to.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:51 AM
1

Take the effort and time to build a side business if you haven't and just show up for work. And like other said, document everything so that you don't get "zero-ed out", make sure if you're leaving the company, leave with all the compensations and respects you deserve.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:48 AM
3

Delete her from your mind. If you have abundancy, not necessary spinning plates, even when you're looking for plates, you will not be asking this question. She gamed you tough.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:45 AM
5

OF is the extreme, most attractive woman will settle for Instagram/Tik Tok/Twitter, or whatever mainstream apps that we going to have in the future. I think there's a balance in things, not yin yang bullshit but the bell curve, the normal distribution. While the paradigm shift, the numbers are going to scale itself out, i.e. at 2030, the thots on OF is going to be the same percentile as of today or in simple words, those who are consciously selling sex is going to be that small group of people. …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/20 12:43 AM
1

Because entitlement and that from your actions of promoting her, she knows that she's of some value to you and you ain't going anywhere. Now if you decided to show her that you have options, suddenly you will be the one in guilt of the wrongdoings and be responsible for all the dramas she's going to bring into your life. You have options but she's the unique one, see where this is going? Brother, I understand the point you're trying to make. But if you're going to put your head in a relationship…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:23 PM
1

Normally I set my frame earlier on in the relationship, be clear with my intention and like what you did, cut her loose whenever you need to, without hesitation. See, those situation that you included as example did not just appear out of nowhere, the whole shitstorm was build up over time and the man in the stories ignored them or stay put to wait out. Sure woman might act "weird", i.e. switch mood almost instantaneously but they wont go from lovey dovey to Imma destroy you in a flick. It's alm…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:42 AM
1

I believed crazy woman have some telltale sign right of the bat but some man will ignore them especially with a hot woman or because he's out of options. And it's also closely related to the frame you set with her right off the bat. She sees you as a easy target because you allowed her to.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:54 AM
1

This is man's instinct to mateguard that woman are calling it "jealousy". The feelings grow even further when the she's anything beyond a LTR. This seems to be a small issue but contextually it represents where you are at in this relationship. When man feel that he needs to "fix" the relationship by confronting his woman or setting boundaries, it is never going to work out. The way out is to spin plate, establish options and make decisions that will bring you the best prospects. But a quick warn…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:49 AM
2

That's a process of unplug and depends on how dep you are in the blue too. I would suggest you to do some journaling, so that you write those feelings down and get it off your chest.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:19 AM
2

Don't get control by your dick, have abundance, be the choser.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:14 AM
4

No. MGTOW hates the red pill.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:13 AM
3

Because you cared. Every words and sentences in your conversation with her makes you sound like you are seeking for a closure or a resolution, by cutting you out and not giving what you want, she wins. It's not just woman who would do this, human who is on the weaker side would, it's passive aggressiveness the weak use.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:11 AM
1

It should be other way round. Man should be the one choosing who he wants to associate with.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:01 AM
1

Consult a doctor, what the hell are you doing here, thinking bunch of guys could help you?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:16 AM
3

There's not amount of books stuff you can read that would help you more in practice. Force yourself into social events. Talk to everyone. Once you are comfortable talking to everyone, start some community events, learn to lead. All the things you mentioned is just a part of it, the larger part will be the mindset. And that can only be learn by practicing a lot.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:15 AM
2

It's man desire to dominate and woman's to be dominated / to submit. It's very sad that we have come down to this, a time where man is guilty to show his dominance and woman feeling reserved to be submissive. Dominance and submissive is not pathology, it's an inbuild firmware. It's not like man have to be this and woman have to be that, we are already like this since we are born. I have had woman who are on different sides, one who is reserved, due to her own morality being in-grained in her sin…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 02:11 AM
5

This is how school gunner story usually begins. She will stop talking to you once you have no value.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:29 AM
2

Yes and also social construct happening around you. Look, at this point, it is not even about her, your feelings for her is superficial because the road not taken is always so appealing. Deep down you want a "closure". Listen, until you can spin plate without using her as a yardstick in your mind, you're going nowhere. Plate spinning isn't just about pulling as much chick as possible but to put you in the believe that she's not unique, your memories of her is unique but that's it, every moments …
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:02 PM
6

Plate? Where's the plate?
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:07 AM
1

Unless your dick broke, why the hell you want to admit something to a woman, much less a FWB? What are you trying to attain? Maintain a positive image? So that she can see as a good prospect? You put too much attention on her, that's why it triggers your emotion. There's nothing wrong with that but you're not optimizing your intersexual strategy, that's all.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:06 AM
1

Next. Next. Next. Approach 100 girls before you give any excuses that you can't.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 02:00 AM
5

I haven’t had any feelings of being “in love “ with a girl besides one girl who I had a short fling with until she ghosted m This is an internal struggle, that you hope to find someone to settle down in a relationship and that you also know there's no the ONE that would live up to your ideal. If you put relationship as a goal, you will find yourself stuck in relationship where you're not the captain, you won't get to choose what will happen. Worse, you get into this perception that you screwed u…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:53 AM
1

She's trying to end the conversation or trying to lead it into nowhere. Her body language is also a good gauge. Anyways, the secret here is volume, the more you approach, the more you learn.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:48 PM
1

If you are having skin problems, like overgrowing acne, visit a dermatologist, Jesus. Else, daily cleansing should be just fine.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:42 AM
2

but we need to work on this Sure. Welcome to the red pill.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:34 AM
1

I'm pretty sure as a guy I need to prove that I'm worthy of taking care of her children but that might be more subjective than your bank account because not every girl goes for the money. This is coming from a basis that your goal is a monogamous relationship and is what the gynocentric social construct is trying to sell man. You get to keep her if you work hard enough. Man's attractiveness is unlike woman, bounded to the sexual side only. Man's attractiveness come from different prospect depend…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 06:21 AM
-7

Make plans for 6 ... someone doesn’t show up and now it’s 6:05 and you’ve left to the next potential plan? 6:01, to be exact. And no I don't necessarily have plans that line up but I do have places and things that I could do other than pinning on someone that I perceives as a plate. You can go join the rest who rubs your ego and tell you it's okay, you did great. But aren't those shit that led you to the red pill?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 03:20 AM
1

Never decide for a woman whether or not she wants to fuck you, let her decide. Your job is just to communicate your intent.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:38 AM
-7

She's not your plate, you're her playtoy. You shouldn't be even checking her message. Once past 6pm, I will be looking for the next event for the night, she won't even be on my mind for 1 extra second. You already lost your frame to her. Next time she did something wrong and you finally lose your nerve, you will be in this indignation drama with her.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:30 AM
3

Ask yourself this question: where did you get the idea of "a serious loving relationship". If you think that alpha male traits is going to help you be better with woman especially in a relationship, then you're getting it all wrong. An alpha man is going to have a higher chance with woman because he is what he is, not because of certain traits that woman started to see him as of some value, in fact, his very own presence is the value. There's always analysis of the behavior of Alpha and Beta goi…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:19 AM
8

Abundance mindset 1, Scarcity mindset 0.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:22 PM
6

To solve the problem we need to examine the root. Plate theory is an abstraction, that man has options and the capacity to develop new relationship in contrast to the conventional soulmate myth. That being said, most man wants some form of relationship, innately or due to the social construct, almost everyone has some sort of relationship throughout life, i.e. parents, friends, etc. And once all these relationship outgrows a man, they long for a replacement. The conventional replacement would be…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 04:20 PM
5

NO. It's a bluepill conditioning to think that a woman will spread her legs because you did something or didn't do something. You didn't lose frame, you either didn't have it or you're pressing too hard to set the frame, which is both unattractive to a woman. Pull more woman, go on a date with the next line up on the same night. Frame is not something you set or try to maintain, it is something you already have.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:08 AM
37

Balance things out, don't go to the extreme, you will get burnt out. Try practicing game too, not for the pussies but for the experience.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:53 AM
7

When you're not spinning plate, you're the plate.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:50 AM
1

I thought I was in r/seduction for a minute. I think you are over-judging the importance of the date. Just do whatever you want, you probably gonna "screw up" at some point and come back asking what you could do to push things. Truth is, it's not about what you did but the state you're in. The core of red pill is to understand the underlying concept and make better decision not asking for advice to the point. Your solution is simple, spin plate. Plate spinning is an abstraction, it doesn't neces…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:48 AM
1

Don't block the road, i.e. not "If you are not giving me sex, I'm going to ghost you." but "If that's what you want, okay." and then wait and see. Don't waste your attention/emotion on her, spend time with other woman, let her come around and decide whether she wants to fuck you. if she tries to buy you into dates, etc. those boyfriend shit, reject her. This is what chick always use to "reject" a man, i.e. to see if he comes around to become her best option.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:55 AM
1

That's what blue pill conditioning is doing to you.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:42 AM
1

Temporarily disable her from all social media or better stop using all social media. (Don't block chicks, to avoid all the dramas, trust me never worth it.) Problem solved.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:34 AM
3

Yes. You will not only die alone but also die miserably. You will look back one day seeing how you fucking waste your life. Offering is a very bluepill mindset. You don't offer, you have options. See every woman is the same (AWALT), you can't change them and hell some of them are even better left in their natural form. You want woman but you instinctively doesn't know how to find them, that's the problem, let go of your ego, face the root cause and fix it. p.s. unplug from the matrix.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:33 AM
2

I am rejecting to answer this. Man, it's a cruel world out there, if you're counting the rejections, it's just going to make you more miserable. Before anything, I would like to ask, what have you learnt from all the rejections? Then I urge you to optimize your strategy. Tinder pulls doesn't work? Try Bumble. Try CMB. Try pulling daygame/nightgame. Find the one that works the best for you. You don't have to try it all at once and get results immediately, switch things up every week or two. It's …
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:27 AM
3

By not keeping her around. You're catching the oneitis cold. In this case, since she pulled the ultimatum of "take it or leave it", I will leave it but don't close things up by NOT countering with another ultimatum, just walk away, show slight disinterest in her proposal or anything she's trying to do, in order to get sex. Just show her that, either you fuck me or I'm not interest. AND drop the idea that the sex is amazing. If someone is withdrawing sex from you, it's not that amazing anyways, i…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:19 AM
0

Eat till you are full every waking hours. Exercise (do whatever shit you want) until you can't fucking move EVERYDAY. Sleep at 10 everyday. Do it 365 days and come back. Stop looking things up and find excuses, take action NOW.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 01:07 AM
1

Corona virus is in the way but I would suggest you to start approaching girl when you have the chance to. If your weekly activities doesn't bring you to places where you can pull girls, try something new each week/month.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:23 AM
1

Poke fun of them.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:57 AM
2

No, you have too less options, that's why you are trying hard to crack the code of every woman you met and that kills attractions.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:55 AM
1

The true question should be: are you enjoying it? If not, what can you change so that you can. Have you looked into the marriage lifestyle of the people around you? "Baby, can I have a nights out with the boys?" "You've changed. You don't love me anymore..."
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:53 AM
1

Sex workers supporting their work = reason. Non-sex workers supporting sex worker = emotion. Women tends to prioritize feels before reals. And emotions is contagious. You will gain much more benefit (attentions) to share such emotion than to go against it. p.s. Prioritize feels doesn't mean woman is unreasonable, woman can be reasonable when they don't have feelings towards you.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:46 AM
3

The courage to be Disliked - A collective of Edward Alder's work, which is surprisingly redpilled versus Carl Jung and Sigmund Freud.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 11:49 PM
2

You're already paying her attention by thinking she wants to fuck you. If you can get sex with minimum effort, sure, go ahead. But seeing how you're spending extra pondering whether or not to engage means it's going to be harder for you to bail out down the road.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:16 PM
1

You left out one very important variable: woman. Woman's hypergamous filter is changing throughout her life (or even ovulatory phases) and also depending on the social construct she was in, the degree is varied. So each group of woman is going to be looking for different thing. So looks or money? It depends on the woman or the group of woman. However these are not the key in navigating the SMP. Assuming you attract a HB9 with your Porsche, do you think that she's in it for you or the money? Same…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 03:09 PM
1

Yo John, it's that you?
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:57 AM
1

This. For those who said just ignore, they obviously never deal with crazy bitches at work. If you already have strong frame, then cool, you ignore the bitch and she wont even bother talking to you. But if you have weak frame, good luck, you will always be the epicenter of issues and drama. There's a lot of ways to set frame to each can be an essay long. So to cut it short, the goal you are trying to achieve here is broadcasting not only to her but the whole office that you're not someone to mes…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:56 AM
2

Listen man, don't let your past decision affects your future decisions. Sure there are consequences to bad decisions BUT if you kept circling around the past, you will make more bad decisions in the present day. You have got a daughter, imagine if she grew up one day and resent you as a Father, wouldn't that be a worse place to be in? But you, my friend is very lucky, you can still make the decisions to not fuck things up and be a better man, a Father. It's going to be hard but are you going to …
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:35 PM
-1

The fact that she says that in your chat, means she sees you as an easy target. Subtly and covertly show her that you're not one that she wants to fuck with, the simplest way being ignoring her but since she's access to your boss, you might want to figure out whether you'll be threaten by this, i.e. do you have power in the office. There's a lot of ways about it, as long as you showed signs of easy target, you're exposed to threats, not necessarily losing your job but your integrity and even rep…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:27 PM
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Yeah, and given the chance, she might even show IOIs in exchange for you attention. Then, when you give in, in hind brain, she'll be like "I knew it, he's nothing after all since he's still hot for me like Peter, Tom and John." Withdraw your attention, use it like a currency.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:23 PM
1

Plate theory is an abstraction, pulling endless pussy is not the goal, the goal is to have abundance mentality, which cannot be teach nor can it be read from a book, it has to be learnt through experience. You want a girlfriend, cool with that, just make sure you vet carefully, and not sacrifice your life for short term comforts.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:06 AM
27

Are we in a girl's talk forum? Don't let emotion controls you.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:57 AM
0

Cruel but don't take up other's people's life task. If he decides to end his life, no amount of effort is going to stop that, unless of course if you are the reason.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:56 AM
4

Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:54 AM
2

If you are counting it, yes.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:41 AM
2

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ What I meant was, try ghosting her and see if she even care.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:35 AM
1

She's giving you carrot and you are a donkey. If another chad appeared down the road, you're left forgotten in the lost chambers.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:14 AM
1

Low interest woman are just not worth it, they have other things going on and you either wait things to sort out itself or get caught in the drama yourself. No amount of effort you put in is going change anything.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:12 AM
14

Ghost her. Really dude, if you can't see pass this kind of things, you should just approach more.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:05 AM
2

Yes, you're being stupid. You wrote a text of wall because some girl didn't reply you? Get over it dude.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:04 AM
1

Then don't associate yourself with one. You're either looking in the same pot or there's some traits in you that attract the same type. Work on that.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:01 AM
1

Like I said, you're not her best prospect.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:00 AM
2

Reject them, some will probably find a way back to you.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:56 AM
2

Do what ever you can to optimize your life.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:56 AM
3

Marking this thread so that I will reply one day if I remember. edit: Nah, I will just froget.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:54 AM
1

You cannot negotiate genuine desire. You can try tho and come back with a field report.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:53 AM
1

No. She should not even been on your mind altogether. You CAN'T follow things/guide here to the words... You won't get her no matter what you do (right or wrong) if she's not seeing as her best prospect (for the bangs or for the bucks). And before you ask how to make her sees you as best prospect, you can't. You cannot in any sense negotiate genuine desire but you can however increase your chances by trying with 100 more and optimize your game.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:51 AM
3

You are using ONE method to attract that ONE girl. Best advice, stop your scarcity mindset and optimizing your life.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:44 AM
1

By putting her on the pedestal like that, it's a worse kind of chasing. She shows you "interests" because she wants your attention, nothing more. If otherwise, she would had showed you the way to her pussy. Woman wants attention because it's how they gauge their own success like how man wants money.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:36 AM
6

Dude really? Don't follow the advices word by word, you have to understand the underlying things that's going on. Approach more girls until you forget to reply to some of them, that's when you can really see how much of a loser you are not. Not trying to make you feel bad but that's the truth.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:28 AM
1

No, she wants attention, that's it. Move on. Stop chasing woman like this, you're just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:17 AM
2

She's not even a plate. You have become a plate and a broken one to be exact. Get a real plate and more on. Maybe one plate isn't enough, get many.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:57 AM
2

My advice: Don't wait to start, start now. You're constantly trying to fix something because of an anticipated future. "If I tried harder, I would already gotten my computer science degree and make millions." "If I'm in a space full of co-worker who understands me, I would have many friends." And I don't think don't care for girls is a healthy thing, it's just going to make you resentful. Life is not a linear progression, it should be full of moments to celebrate about. What you can do NOW: Enro…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:50 AM
1

You had created a mental block of sort, i.e. you used to trigger your arousal with porn but now that the trigger is suddenly remove, your brain no longer thinks arousal is needed. There are multiple ways to deal with it, one is to slowly remove the "insane women body" and not overnight. This is way of life man, you can't expect to fix things by going on extreme mode, it will only kill you in the long run.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:14 AM
2

Can't defeat me if I never try! taps head Ha, if I would try, I would already win all of you but because *insert x reason
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 12:53 PM
0

are you just supposed to ignore it and pay it the least amount of attention This is the result not the how. The how should be abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:24 AM
52

This is what happened when you try to measure success based on long-term goals. You have to prepare to win in the future, you have to prepare to win in the NOW. I think most men aren't defeated in any case, is that they never took the very first step.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 06:04 AM
4

You know what gets you a job? Supply and demand. Know what the company is looking and be straight to the point, show them you know what you're doing. "Hey I saw your job posting on XXX and I realized I have the skillset to fulfill the role *elaborate further." Anything after that is just for fun.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:25 AM
10

This sub and the main sub is supposed to be a sub where we man exchange notes but more people are turning in for exact prescriptions, which inevitably is going to be inaccurate and against the rule of the red pill that is to be your own mental point of origin. That said, how much is too much? When you realize you are no longer the mental point of origin. Sometimes is not the thing that you do that matters but the state of your being. It's not like: "you're just like a boy", okay next. But what c…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:11 AM
2

No. It's not a good place to be in, get out there fast. Sex with attachment is the last thing you want from a woman. Woman are gatekeeper of sex, imagine that if one day she took that away from you, how desperate and devastated you will be. TRP doesn't ask you to have lots of sex but to get a lot of options for sex, which in turn allows you to make decisions based on yourself.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:57 PM
4

I don't care what people think about me This is your answer.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:33 AM
1

You are dumb. What do you expect from some random girl on tinder. You're over investing, like buying some random cheap stock for premium Tesla-level price.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:24 AM
3

Yes, because most guys are conditioned to treat woman as some exotic species, drooling head over heels for them, always putting the spotlight on them. Instead, you should be your own single point of mental origin. Talk about THEM in this context means talking about them not putting them on the pedestal, i.e. will I get sex if I said this. It doesn't really matter what you said, it's how you said it that matters. This is a good no-brainer if you're just starting out, but soon you should develop y…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:20 AM
5

Not putting focus on woman and removing them from your life is two very different thing.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:29 AM
2

Here read this and you will be having super powers: "I'm a fucking alpha chad thundercock ". Nah, just like the other guy say, do it enough and you will get it.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:03 AM
12

Yeah right, Corana virus adds up to your misery, as if it didn't happen, you will be much happier. Nope, there's always something to blame. No amount of reading, solution or lifting will solve your problem because you're the problem. We are living in an era where everything is easily accessible and you don't get bomb by some random air strikes. Appreciate it. Put in the work you can now and stop worrying about things you cannot control. Corona virus stopping you from talking to people? Go online…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:46 AM
3

Since you can use 48 laws of power, they could too. Anyways, because the story is one-sided, it is impossible to give you actionable prescriptions but if it was me, I will just stay put, I won't focus on things that I have no control on. It's futile to go against your seniors, brush it off like they do BUT ask them every time prior to meetings, if the meeting is still up. Ask them a few times and they will remember to inform you.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:31 AM
8

The thing that is even brutally effective is that stop licking the side bar or Rollo's book, get out there, try things out. Don't just learn game, optimize the shit out of your game.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 12:41 AM
5

There’s nothing to work on. It’s filed. I still have income, it’s just my credit is screwed. Yeah, I mean to work on the whole situation. Time spend on career or business is much more valuable than getting back a whore who just wants to be on the good side of your life. There are plentiful of wonderful woman out there.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:39 PM
7

At least you guys are not married, imagine the chaos she would cause. I would suggest you to work on your bankruptcy situation first before anything else.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:24 PM
2

Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:19 PM
3

It's funny how you guys have the answers to your own questions but refused to acknowledge it. My passion is making beats (oversaturated market) You're not a lottery ticket, things don't just work when you go to the extreme, i.e. I work 6 months on this, I go all in on that. We do not live in a binary world. Even if we do, the questions you should be asking is to take action or not to take action. Just get things moving. First go get a job, do what you do best, if in doubt, flip burgers. How many…
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:44 AM
3

Why do you need to write a long essay for that, just call her, see for yourself how low you can be for a woman.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:29 AM
2

Then find someone who does.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:27 AM
2

It's not a dilemma, it's a problem that you need to solve. Do you see a Lion ask should I eat a chicken or a duck because I fucking hate duck but chickens are easier to be found?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:26 AM
3

Go try it and come back with a FR.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:24 AM
1

Yes. God damn it trust your guts.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:22 AM
1

This one girl, cool. Anyways, try something new and ask her to tag along, that's your answer, the rest are excuses. So, you're looking to LTR her? Doesn't seems like you're ready for one though.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:21 AM
1

And also closely related to the types of plate you are pulling and from where.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:08 AM
1

Moderation is everything, it is also part of the lifting as a whole.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:30 AM
3

I don't think society promote that but that promiscuous women are more awakened than the "prudes", i.e. more able to navigate the SMP and land the trophy. This correlates to the sexual revolution that changes how promiscuous women are being valued, n counts suddenly become a cool thing, staying prude and virgin too long means you're broken goods and does not reward you anymore. This is a very dangerous ideology yet become a norm for most thereafter. As premarital sex is more common nowadays, mos…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:13 AM
3

Show your intentions (covertly), let her decide whether or not she wants to fuck you, don't decide it for her. To me, it sounds like a needy blue pill guy who just wants sex and she's not even a plate yet, best a date.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:02 AM
4

Yes. You are stuck in this because she's your only option. Whatever you do is going to be rationalize by her as she knows that you need her more than she needs you. I don't know you and Mark but from the interaction, it seems like you are the beta provider and Mark is the Alpha that she wants to (or already) bang. Go ahead and confront her and see your relationship shattered into pieces. Plates are the way out.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:52 AM
1

Take it or leave it, I am here not for validation but to sort of put things down in word as I have problem articulating ideas to people. If you really want to I can pm you the messages, though they are in Chinese as I'm residing in SEA currently.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:46 AM
8

Due to all this covid thing, was not able to get out. But got some shots on Twitter with some random whore. We are discuss how she would come over and fuck me that she is literally drooling for me. "Pfft, all man are like this, self-narcissistic" "Hahaha, I am just giving you a chance." "OK." "I have my fun, good night." (she usually delay a few minutes between each reply but she responded to this almost immediately) "Wait...maybe you wanna try?" I will leave the rest to your imagination. See th…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:05 AM
4

The fact that you are attracted and putting her on the pedestal, means she's on the top of her SMV. SMV is very subjective, no single person is the same. What most refer to is a generalize idea which should be used for matter of discussion only. Practically, you are on your own to decide.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:53 AM
1

Stonewalling is more like a display of powerlessness, an ultimatum. You resort to this solution because it is a much easier one compared to cutting yourself off a comfortable relationship for a new one and then put in the work to be a better version of yourself and a better relationship. Deeply you wanted to but you don't want to break out from the comfort. The solution is much complicated but try reading some phycological books - one I would recommend: The Courage to be Disliked.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:07 AM
5

It's part of the social interaction. You're going in with the wrong mentality, that's why you couldn't escalate properly. Sure, I can detailed out all the steps but you won't be able to escalate correctly because Alphaness is the state of being not what you actually did. How I learn it: Action - Review - Repeat I skip the analyzing part because it is built in (sort of like a subroutine background services in your computer). I have like some hypothesis in my head then I test it out. At first you …
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:47 AM
6

That's what plates are for. When you get into more relationship, you almost realized that your attachment to her was dumb. Plates are not only about the fucking but the whole social interaction. You only can get good with something by doing it. How do you learn game? By approaching many woman. How do you learn frame? By holding it with many woman. How do you not have oneitis? By having experience many woman and realized that there's no special one. After the whole covid19 thing, get yourself a p…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:00 AM
2

The reason why you are not having hot monkey sex is because that she doesn't have the burning genuine desire for you. Sure, you can stay around, make her comfortable but until she realized that you are the best option for the time being, you will not get the sex. Or if you push hard enough, you might get the sex which this is rarely worth the effort. But then whether or not is worth the effort is up to you, i.e. can you pull another plate as high smv as her in a short time frame? If not adjust y…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:16 AM
2

They are either DTF or looking for validation with the HAWT guy. Real life SMV is irrelative to have fun in both this scenario but act as a bonus. One reason for high value man to be on tinder is to find fresh meat or to increase the market "penetrability", outside of his social circle. You know there's consequences of fucking around within a high value man's social circle.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:51 AM
1

Man, you got a big dick, next time you put that thing in her mouth, blow it all in. Search up "Sex god method" and read it. But ultimately, it comes down to experience, the more you do it, the better you are. And sex is all exciting but don't put everything into it else you will end up crying for her once she withrdraw herself and deny you off all sex, which can happen anytime.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:41 AM
2

Drop the "due to the past broken me" mentality - You might got through a lot but what matters now is the decision you made here on out. Take actions that you can take now, don't find excuses for inaction, i.e. go online on Instagram/Facebook, find your course mates, drop them a "Hi, it's corona, what's up?". Don't play the "I don't know what to do" card. Figure things out on your own, do whatever you can do, right now, right here.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:37 AM
1

Relax and just have fun, you are overthinking stuff. But careful with where you are heading.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:31 AM
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Expose him to as many human as possible when he is young. It seems to me that no level of teaching is useful unless the little guy gets it himself. This allows him to see how the world works. Let him do the order for food, let him take charge of the places to visit, let him make decisions on his own, let him confess his love to the little lady next door.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:27 AM
2

Yeah right because previously you were weak as fuck. That's why this superficial ritual is giving you "superpowers". It is a good thing though, at least you put your shit together. But don't sell me this, I have superpowers since the day I'm born.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:56 PM
1

Then why aren't you succeeding? Man needs sex. You can't just simply shut things off to the extreme. What you want to do is what the NoFap dudes did - the extreme - the ultimatum - quit the porn "addiction". What I am suggesting is, find things to do, fill up the empty space in your life then if you felt like fapping, do it and don't feel bad about it. Take the chance for the post nut clarity to reflect about what you could have done better and do it. Use the things in life for your own benefit …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:53 PM
1

See how I ended it with a question mark. It's all up to one's decision. Henceforth, a value of a man is, the decisions that they can make based upon himself as the single mental point of origin and together with it, the ability to bear the consequences of the choice. Being a man is like running a business it seems.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:06 PM
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Shouldn't you go to the nofap sub? I don't advocate nofap. I think that it's natural for man to want release and there's nothing wrong to get a quick release all by yourself, provided that you don't overdo it. And no, you don't gain superpowers with nofap. If you find yourself "addicted", it is because you succumbed to your own desire. Tell me which of the following is easier for you? * Watch porn and pound your wee wee * Go to gym, engage in a hobby, read books, start a side business, get a pro…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:45 PM
1

Yeap. What I pointed out is simply just the tip of an iceberg. There's much more that will influence who will be in that 10%. Now the question is, should we be trying whatever we can to become the 10% or just do nothing and wait for it to happen? Wait for the market shift or find new ways to improve your product/marketability? (since you can't throw away the "product").
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:32 PM
1

She's a FWB, plate at best, what do you think you should do?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:58 PM
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You're crazy period. Get a life. Why the fuck do you out an ONS on pedestal?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:52 PM
2

What the fuck happened? Nothing. Shit, your hamster is fatter than my cat. Stop putting her on the pedestal, do something for your life.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:51 PM
1

Lies cover upon lies upon lies upon lies upon lies.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:48 PM
1

So you're implying that I should be scared of woman's manipulation? Good luck dropping your panties in front of me and thinking that I will be manipulate or change my corse of action.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:46 PM
1

Take this analogy: Will a product with no value close sales with tons of advertising or will a product with value close sales with little to none advertising? Something of value is going to be of value no matter what. So if they are not bringing in value, they must not be meeting certain requirements. In this case, why does a woman wants to fuck an Alpha? Because of validation. If I get to buy at a product of value at a lesser price, why would I spent more? If I get to fuck Alpha that approaches…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:42 PM
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Then why are you still in a LTR with her? You handle this shit by not getting into it since day one. She's arguing because she doesn't see you as the best option and would branch swing faster than you can spell her name. But I suggest get out slow and steady, you don't want to be in a bad breakup especially when you lived together, it's a waste of time and resources. Since it's corona, play that card well. Never at any point of your life let a woman in without vetting.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:13 PM
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Yeah you're fuck. So what're you going to do with that? Now, let's turn things around, if you have big frame DNA, do you think you will gain muscle magically? Put in the work dude. Stop making excuses or seek for validation. Now see that chair or table near you? Lift it up, 10 times for 5 set. For every comments you get repeat it for X days. Then you come back and tell me you have thin frame.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:05 PM
1

Then don't. Your past doesn't determine who you will be in the future. You're neither superior nor inferior, you are like everyone of us, you have the right to choose how you want to live. And it's not always supercars and hot models that will keep you happy but the joy of you knowing that you lived better than yesterday. Enjoy the moments in life. Don't try to figure everything out then take action. Take action, measure and improve.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:54 AM
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How many girls are there with only 1 notch who are not leftist and attractive? Tens of Thousands if not millions. That's what we called the burden of performance of man. What makes you think you need to do this or that for her to not leave you? If say one day, in an extreme example, she says she wants to venture into something new, i.e. an open relationship because she never experienced the thing she's supposed to, would you allow her? There's no amount of self improvement that would make you be…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 05:57 AM
2

People only care about the values you bring. Jack Ma, the Chinese millionaire mongul is awkward as fuck (evidently in a panel discussion of him and Elon) But people are willing to sell their soul to hang around him and worship whatever he said like it's the only true voice on the Internet. Why is that so? Because of the opportunities you can get around him. Even so, how many of those do you think are deep meaningful relationship? Unfortunately, such is life. Work on yourself and try to build as …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:05 AM
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Take a break off TRP. Dude, you're turning to the dark side. I think you are getting advices from the wrong place or misunderstand parts of it. We lay out the mines in the minefield for you so that you can avoid the mines not for you to not cross the minefield.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:50 AM
2

Do whatever you want, not what others want. Do you want to read books or party? From what I read, you want to party but didn't know how to go about it. Put yourself out there, don't worry if you failed or anything, do it, fail, learn, improve. Don't use "improving myself" as a mantra to avoid the difficulties actions that you want to take in life.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:49 AM
1

Pretty much exhaust myself throughout the day.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:46 AM
3

Yes, with this mentality, a woman can smell it from miles away, even through the internet. What makes you think you are inferior and don't deserve this or that? It might predate back to how you are raise or what you have been through, etc. Solve that.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:44 AM
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No. There are much more things to do in a life of a man. It won't be long for you to feel the emptiness of fucking around for nothing, enjoy it while the good feelings last.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:42 AM
3

Some woman are very self-aware what she wants from each man in her life. If she sees you as a potential provider, she will at certain times exhibits behavior to lock your down. If she doesn't, she might just see you as a "sex toy" that validates her feeling to be young. She might just cut you off anytime once she "woke up", i.e. found her provider or something changes in her life.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:39 AM
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Truth. The “fucked another dude” tells me and supports other things I know about her that she’s insecure, needs male attention, and uses fucking as a bandaid. No thanks, next Good but don't overanalyzing it, it's nothing personal on her or woman in general, AWALT, else you will develop resentment and go to the darker side of the pill. Just learn from this lesson and vet your next partner well.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:34 AM
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How's your music doing? It is receiving any attention on the net? Do you have a fanbase? Spend all your free time after your college work on this (at least get a pass for every subjects), create a following on whichever platform you choose. Don't make excuses like "Oh I can't because study". Fuck that. Put in the work. You talk about sacrifices but you aren't even willing to push yourself to the limit. If you cannot create an audience large enough to at least keep things going, dropping out of c…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:31 AM
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Guilty as charged. Sentenced to get back with her for the rest of your life. Nah just kidding. She fuck some other dude two weeks later is the most obvious red flag that she is not someone you want to keep in your life. Imagine both of you married, you pisses her off on some small little things and she pulled this "you made me do this" trick off and fucked some random dude he met on a drunk night. Who's in guilt? Move on dude, cut her off even from your mind.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:23 AM
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Contextually, if you look at it from a logical perspective, they are lying but if you delve in deep enough, you will realized it didn't even matter to them. To summarize, woman focus on what they get from something, man focus on how they can get something. Woman: "What can I get from this relationship?" "What can I get if I have sex with him?" Hence the shit test is the HOW to get the WHAT answer. Man: "How can I get a relationship from her?" "How can I get to have sex with her?" Hence shit test…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:17 AM
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I wouldn't want to trigger a drama out of her, I have better things to do.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:04 AM
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No disrespect to you too. I understand but are you going to spend time dwelling on the past and counting the sacrifice, instead of doing something that makes your life better? Don't let your past determine your future, put in the work but do so if you really wanted to. If you wanted something badly you will figure out a way. Don't get overwhelmed by choices and ideas, pick an action that you could take right now and take it. Doesn't work? Next action.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:02 AM
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No. If you are looking for permission to break up, I will give you a straight NO. You will come back feeling empty after the breakup and asking us how to get her back. I guess the excitement from my end is fading This is the core issue. You got burnt out because you put too much weight on your relationship. I bet 10 bucks that you have nothing else going on except your relationship with this girl. She might be the best you can do at the moment, until you learn to put yourself as the mental point…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:00 AM
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Go all out on ways to increase you wage, increase your value, the rest are excuses. Nobody can give you a straight answer, you have to figure out yourself. What can you do now, to increase your wage by $1 or any attainable amount in the shortest time? Do that. You are never notice because you did not show the value needed for the job which is very different than the value you perceived you have, i.e. I don't need a workaholic as my storekeeper, I need someone who can move things and makes me fee…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:23 AM
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Why would you care in the first place since she's just a FWB? If you were really a manipulative abusive narcissist, she won't even say it in your face. And be careful, she sounds like someone who would wreck your life up an down "because of her past relationship".
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:52 PM
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That's why the guys in Red Pill and the side bar kept on repeating: "It's not about the looks, money or fame". You can be a solid 10, Mr. Perfect and still have a miserable cuck-old-dy cuck marriage, if you're not at least red pill aware. What we can learn from all this is: is this the kind of life we want? No? Then what actions can you take? Most guy, read and forget the next day they woke up. Instead, watch, learn, take action, actionable actions, waiting and reading is not part of the act.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:53 PM
1

You called her your LTR but you seems like a plate to her. You don't react, you take action on what suits you most. Heck even if the right thing now is break the relationship, even if we told you that, would you do it? Go balls deep and learn how to vet your next LTR
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:44 PM
2

Calm before the storm. You're slowly putting her as your mental point of origin and it ain't going nowhere. It is a normal emotion but not a healthy one. Remember the time when you need adults to approve you? There's where it came from.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:39 PM
4

There's a concept of weak ties and strong ties. The most beneficial ones are usually the weak ties because it is easier to build (just need to introduce yourself) and maintain (occasional gestures). Not every relationship has to be meaningful in a way that it has to go all over your face. Want the way out? Get your lazy ass out there and stop making excuses. Join or start something in your campus.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:33 PM
5

Successful in trp as in? If you were, you won't be asking this question. Anyways my suggestion is to never mingle with others lives, speak out your ideas when necessary, then leave it at that. Don't try to fix other people's problem, fix yours.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:28 PM
2

Vet carefully and don't fuck crazy. Hard but something worth learning.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:25 PM
1

What are you looking for? Ego rub? Nah dude, you put her in the GF spot and what makes you think it's a good idea to spark emotions with one. Good luck fixing things when she start acting "weird". Oh, you can always just walk away? Sure, if you have plates around, you won't take her in as a GF in the first place. This might not even be a shit test. It's you putting yourself in a wrong preposition, a starting point on the wrong side of the field.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:23 PM
3

Hit up 10 more girls, then you will have your answer.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:33 AM
1

Exactly. Understand your worth. If you are in a job that is gettig you no where, corporate or not, it's not a good place to be in.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:00 PM
3

Yup. I could make about the same working for myself but then I’d have to do marketing and billing and shit. This way I get to do only thing I find fun. This. Certainly more people, especially youngster nowadays need to see this. Starting a business on your own is fun, provided that you know what you are doing and enjoy it but most people have the impression that they can earn more money with on their own with passive income and all that crap those internet gurus are trying to shove down your thr…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:11 AM
4

Cannot agreed more on point 1, lurking asktrp for a while, exactly what happened.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:39 AM
3

The guy wanted a divorce not the other way round.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:38 AM
5

You're the second option period. Decide what you want with that.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:30 AM
1

Red pill lens is something that you put on and the shade just get red-er. Anyways, it's not so hard if you know the game. It's a long way for you, enjoy it.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:29 AM
1

Wish him Happy Father's Day, send him a chocolate. Let him know you outgrown him. edits: Maybe not chocolate but something you can afford.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:28 AM
1

Depends, just do the minimum of that your LTR understands. Well, if you have options, it would be easier, else she will be the one setting the boundaries and while you looks like you're in control, you're just playing her game.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:27 AM
1

Before we jump to a conclusion, I would state that this is merely your observation. Trying asking a woman what she wants on Monday and next Sunday. I once have a woman telling me she wants a successful businessman as a LTR, ends up with a young guy.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:24 AM
1

You will look back one day seeing how stupid this post is. Drop me a message if you need someone to chat to about TRP.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:21 AM
2

One thing at a time. Get your life sort out. Make changes that you know you can sustain at least one per week, then one per day then one per hour.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:19 AM
1

When you have fucking free time. I lift everyday after my day job, focus on my side business until 12, occasionally available during the weekends after client meeting or gym, go figure.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:17 AM
1

And also the better looking one.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:16 AM
1

Believe it or not, be wary and make sure you didn't become one of "Rapists". And no, never be a SJW trying to uncover the "truth". The truth is either a truth or you lied.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:14 AM
2

haha exactly sums it up.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:11 AM
3

One simple rule I learnt from journey, maintain your current diet, train until you can't sustain for more than two days then increase your diet to allow the training. Adjust infinitely. If you have energy at the end of the day, you probably haven't train hard enough or eat right enough, by fixing that, you're improving.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:09 AM
1

By not handling them.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:06 AM
5

Asktrp is what TRP was wrong about.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:03 AM
1

Want to know? Ask the chick. God grieves, you want her as a plate but it's not even your turn yet and you are hamstering around. Don't look for signals that someone likes you. Push through the boundary (gently and progressively) and see if she is willing to open her legs for you (don't take this literally), else just next. SMV is very subjective, it should only be used objectively to discuss nothing beyond, i.e. a basis for your decision.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:03 AM
1

Understand this, are you struggling because of your childhood or your parents OR it's just merely a choice? Why cling on the past? What are you doing now to improve yourself? What have you build? What is your mission?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:56 AM
1

It's not just a one-liner that decide how people perceive you but the whole YOU in a full package. It has to be something else more than that.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:54 AM
0

Go and we will meet at the end of the path, then you know what the sidebar is about. Seriously, why are you stir up in this drama in the first place, I'm pretty sure your freaking inner man gut has warned you not one time but multiple time before you LTR-ed her. You ignore the fucking red flags so? Now you want to put the blame on the guy and your LTR? You should be one responsible for all these shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:44 AM
6

First. don't ask for prescriptions. If you read through the posts you will realized that you get this mixed resolution because no one here knows your circumstances and they are giving advice based on what happen to them or worse so their own perception. But they all come from a good origin, they all wanted to help a brother out. So am I. Second, you clearly wanted to go and you know why? Because you wanted to get laid and you asked because your man instinct told you otherwise, evidently in your …
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:54 AM
6

One point I want to add for number 3: Get off social media, get your news from legit places and keep it uniformed, i.e. get yourself a personal RSS feed (if you're extremely lazy, get a new set of social media account and follow only legitimate news, use that as a daily driver, only switch back to post things) Building a social profile is one thing but don't use it to get information, it's full of motivation shit and life people want you to see. This gives you a perception of what life is like w…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 03:59 AM
7

Don't listen to what woman tells you, watch how she did it, if she's looking in the same pot, of course she's getting the same type of guys. Anyways, we human has the inclination of choosing only part of the story that makes us look good so the basis of your hypothesis is irrelevant. But if you want observation (also without basis), high value 30-40 is looking for 20+ nowadays, so the competition is tight at that bracket 20 - 30 female for man, while for woman, it is post wall that the competiti…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:26 AM
1

The conversation shouldn't happen anyway. While it’s true that she is one, it hasn’t been an issue in the relationship so far I doubt it. I believed that you have had made a lot of adjustments/compromises just to keep her in this relationship. Think about this, what do you actually want from this relationship? A partner who you constantly need to fight because she make the "smarter" choice? Build up your life and legacy around her? Go figure and you will have the answer on what to do.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:36 AM
3

Ask yourself that question. I would say have a set of principles and draw the lines. If by pursuing you mean getting head over heels for someone then no, it's never worth it. If you mean asking for a number or a date then just do it. My rule of thumb, never do anything for the pussy. For example, you want to buy her flowers/gifts? Great buy it but don't do it because she fucks you or worse yet, you wanted to fuck her but she is showing "mixed signal" so you want to convince her that you're the o…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:42 AM
0

You're being feminine by asking this question. If you thinks that this is unacceptable, walk away. If you think that you need to give in to her once in a while, I will be waiting for your "The Red Pill is real, what I learnt breaking up with (being dumped by) my LTR" post.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:27 AM
5

If sex is your only purpose,just go jerk off at the corner. Life is much more than just fucking around, have you build/create/invest in anything other than sex?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:15 AM
5

Things you enjoy doing or is really good at. Would be icing on the cake if you have a place you frequent.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:21 AM
2

Mental point of origin is where you hinge yourself on, what do you based on when you make decisions. Now this is no excuse to be selfish narcissist. You put yourself first so that you can have conscious decision to help people who is worthy of that help. You can read more of this at Rollo's blog or the side bar.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:27 PM
7

Mental point of origin is a very important one which is easily understandable but takes time to really punch it in you.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:46 AM
6

Girl is sorry after soft next? I don't think you did a soft next, you just clinging on your blue pill self because you are OUT OF OPTION. Let her do the thinking, spin plates in the meantime, if lockdown is an issue, work on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:07 AM
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Beautiful piece. But from I have seen, the real problem lies on man trying to fully understand woman and trying to play WITH it, instead of around it. Men's natural instinct is to find a solution, i.e. fire is hot but it can be useful to keep us warm and cook some meal. However when dealing with woman, you don't understand them and work for a solution, you're the solution So next time you are wondering WHY a women behaves a certain way and looking for solution to fix it, trust your inner gut to …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 01:49 AM
1

I stopped when I read "Girl is playing massive games." When in doubt, doubt no more. When a girl doesn't come running to you like a bunny then forget it. The 99 clues you found to prove that she is interested is just your hamster trying to defy your natural instinct. And no, don't give excuse for your fucking demeanor, you're just a needy cunt with low SMV. If your SMV is high enough, chick will come fuck you regardless of any pandemic (even so because she now needs someone to hold on to). Work …
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:14 PM
2

What are you hamstering around on this? That's the exact purpose she (or the whole female imperative) wants to achieve, break down your reality (in this case downscale your SMV), so that you can play by her rules (work harder to get her since now she's more appealing than the Fat girl in this reality). Whether she already sees you as a low value or not, it is out of context since either way, she will still do this. The best way to deal with this situation is to not break her reality but lead her…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:17 AM
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I used to do a lot of things that led to meeting women for a year and a half. Afterwards, I stopped doing them in favour of the activities I mentioned because I felt it was a better use of my time. You felt it was a better use of your time, then is it? Stop hamstering around. Don't do things other tell you to, do whatever works for you, keep switching to find the balance. I get it that you're trying to "improve yourself" but unless you're really doing it for yourself, it ain't going to work.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 05:14 AM
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You're not a woman, you don't bring value through looks. A good healthy physical helps but that's about it. ​ none of which leads to meeting women. Then fucking try something that would lead to meeting woman. You can't even solve simple problems yourself and you want to get laid, c'mon, you can do better.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:44 AM
1

Trading one thing for one thing.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:59 PM
0

Hoes before bros and basically everything else. You know you're one when you start questioning yourself of your actions, every man on Earth have this survival instinct. I strongly oppose against the idea of making the sexual dynamic a number game, just opt out, do what you want. Notice that last two words, that is the most important thing.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:41 PM
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"I don't have to tell you this but I tell you anyways." Then it will become "I like him but he's the one who ruins it." Never give them what they want for free, just leave her hanging.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:22 AM
1

I did, in my original text points out that the outcome might be different based on your own choice. But what is better for you and me, is subjective and obviously different, and we can only decide for ourselves. If you zoom out though, it's true that embracing the innate nature is inevitably the better and rational choice but at some point, you'll see that certain nature is not realistic or is outdated and in order to survive or progress, you have to make the choice, to embrace the so called unn…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 01:16 PM
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I agreed with your point that you're better off embracing your innate nature. But you're in the progress of discovering what's that the innate nature you're embracing, you have not reach the end, how could you know you're better and that the "Red Pill" you took is nature. Just like how you read my post and came to a conclusion that all the rest of the posts are shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 12:37 PM
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Red pill is an ideology and it can't save anyone. The important thing here is not how you perceive your dad to be but how your dad see himself. If he is happy, why would he change? If he is unhappy, why wouldn't he already change? Rule no.1 exist for a reason. If you really want to show your appreciation for him, invite him over gym and have a drink with him, be humble and ask him about his life experience. You will learnt more from any books ever written, don't reject everything he says and don…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:37 AM
1

Wait till you meet one that will tell you she misses you after long periods of no contact, so that you invest more. This behavior is blame shifting. You are suppose to be attracted to me but you didn't initiate, hence I didn't have any chance to show you part of me that you will be attracted to. Your fault. Does that means she wants to get back with you? No, as a matter of fact, she want to cut ties but before that she is going to make sure that YOU are the problem. The wise way is to cut contac…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:59 AM
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The demographics are much complicated than this.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 09:05 AM
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Why would I even care lol.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 11:42 PM
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Really if you're throwing things away, why not juiced everything out of it. And remember, the power of next is strong both ways, either to the one who is willing to walk away or the one who's been left behind. Only stay in a relationship if the other party commands respect and sees you as the apex, else just not plunge yourself too deep. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:41 PM
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You can't handle even these stress, you aren't even worthy to ask any questions. We see a problem, we solve the problem and not create a multitude of problems. Hire a personal trainer would be a easy solution. But if I were you, I just grind and figure shit out. I spent 1 month lifting dumbbells from a point to another until I literally die every day. I'm not super build yet people start commenting my change. If you want result don't whine like a lady and wait for someone to tell you how, I can'…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:37 PM
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How you ask for food? You don't, you just go to places with food and order it. Jesus Christ. Are we turning into the seduction sub now?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:29 PM
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Good plan. I would fix the schedule before anything else. But hey, good luck!
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:26 PM
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See, we men have mate guard for a reason and that my friend, is your innate ability to smell the fishy scent. Your insecurity is telling you the story and yet you refused to believe. Nevertheless, I think the most rationally thing to do is that, if the trip is affordable to you, I would say siege this opportunity to learn. Remember all those things you learnt of the Red Pill? Is time to apply them all. Treat her as if she's one of your option, you should expect to see a switch up in the dynamics…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:25 PM
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"What a coincident, I'm going home an hour later too. Meet you outside an hour later." Proceed with your night, casually walk out if you still don't have a deal for the night. If she wanna "dance", she will show up, else who the fuck cares?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:51 AM
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IDGAF is not to avoid / run away from it and pretends that it didn't exist but embrace it, accept it and deal with it. It should even be a problem to begin with, if you really don't GAF. I presumed that the red face/blushing isn't the main problem here, buying to the idea that you need to please everyone and be appealing to everyone is. Get to know more people.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:48 AM
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"Innocent girl" lol. You've got a long journey ahead. Any advice at this point is pointless because you can't see pass getting laid for the night. Wait till you calm down and you'll realize how dumb your question sounds. If your ultimate goal is to get laid, you have not taken the pill.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:34 AM
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Pick up Mastery by Robert Greene. Wishing that the Internet will give you direction of life is like wanting Superman to save you from your 9to5. You're 19 and burnt out? You have no idea how lucky you're to be 19 at this age. Not going to waste my time convincing you anything but my advice is to start by making a living for yourself, pay your parents every dime they spend on you, that's your life goal now, go work on it.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:58 AM
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"In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least." - Rollo Tomassi You lost power because you gave it away by needing her more than she needs you. Before you make her tell the truth, stop lying to yourself, this happens because you tolerate it. Walking away won't fix it miraculously and I doubt you're willing to. I suggest you to not invest any further including emotions, try to be indifferent subtly and gauge the reaction yourself. Slowly cut off you…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:45 AM
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You know your problems but is too comfortable in the habits that you rationalize not to change it, a.k.a. hamstering. Try to step out and put yourself in the most uncomfortable position you can be then you'll realized that all of what you had claimed are excuses. I used to be a night owl, until I forced myself into a job where I need to get up at 6. It was hell but it gets better each day.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:24 AM
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Why not tune your schedule since you're self employed? You're going to burn out one day with that kind of lifestyle. 10 bucks that your diet is screwed up too. You're not going to get anything working out in this state.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:15 AM
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I skimped through the whole wall of text because it all boils down to one thing: Emotions and you are bad at controlling them. You have to be your own single Mental Point of Origin. It's not you who are not good enough, is that seed that was planted in you by the social norm that makes you believe that you're an option. Truth is, you're not. You improve not because you're not good enough for someone but because you want it yourself as it is the only logical thing to do. A woman told me that she …
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:07 AM
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They are not "single", just that they are clever enough not to kill that attraction of theirs. Being available is also part of the SMV evaluation. A 10 is 0 if she isn't making herself available. A 5 is suddenly a 10 if she makes herself available for some but since she knows she can't maintain the 10 for long, she will want a LTR to lock-down the high value man (at least high value in a sense that she perceives but we all know that the one who sees a 5 for a 10 is no high value man.)
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:42 AM
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Talking about co-pilot and a pilot appears. But that's some black pill right there.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:36 AM
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Rollo mentioned in one of the recent Rule Zero: Red Pill can't save everyone, especially those who can't even put their life together. They seems loaded because they are happy with their lives. or is on their way making their life great. The red pill has a few levels of meaning, to some people it is just the disturbing truth that was buried under the new age, i.e. pleasing everyone and not focusing enough on themselves. Once they started doing that, replacing chasing for girls with creating cont…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:45 AM
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Designed to help men in an increasing gynocentric focused society where men get left behind. Yes. But won't it be counter-intuitive if only one side holds the knowledge, while the other side just plays it out naturally.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 11:02 AM
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But for some it is more to a norm that was also enforce upon them too. Will there be any strategy for the woman who wants to play by rules if they so choose to.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:55 AM
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What if the man is gay or asexual? Then what? Is it wrong for him to learn about other aspects of trp? That exactly is my point. If you want both player to play fair, shouldn't they be given the same privilege, i.e. to know how things work. While it is true that hypergamy is inbuilt, I fathom the idea that the one who is using them is as clueless as the man are.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:39 AM
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We teach TRP to make everyone better men I don't think one can be a better man without the compliment of the other sex. What I meant is not red pilled women but women who understands the red pill in general.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:01 AM
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That's literally the opposite of what my statement implies. Being a leader, a true leader is taking responsibility for everyone and everything. I agreed with being a leader but not taking the responsibility for everyone and everything, one should only be bound to his own responsibility and never beyond. i.e. I am responsible for taking the lead in a relationship but I am not responsible for all the rest of the unhappiness you had while spending time with me. I think you didn't entirely capture t…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:59 AM
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My main point is why teach how things work only to one side and not the other, if one side of the strategy needs to sacrifice then be it, rationalization might still happen after that though but at least both parties know this is what they signed up for. Maybe through this, they will find ways to make things work, albeit not in the best condition.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:50 AM
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I.e. Men as a society and the Man (of the relationship/house) are the ones that have the obligation to provide and guide, to learn and teach. Isn't this what the female imperative wants us to believe? We man (or human in general) should only answer to only ourselves. We should tread life where it benefits us and only us, instead of relying on someone for validation or providing something by default. Red pill women are the consequence of Red pill men, not the other way around. This is a chicken a…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:40 AM
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Yes, just like women is trying to convince us their strategy is the best. Why not figure out ways to reverse this?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:34 AM
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Women are born, men are made. Short, yet true. But to certain degree I think women can still be influence, if you look at the older days or even part of the world which the society norm is still trapped in the older days.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:33 AM
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Because a woman running red pill based game would only inspire weakness in a man What I mean is if they understand the Red Pill, not necessary running the game with Red Pill strategies. It's natural for them to be hypergamous but what if they learnt where it will get them and how to navigate life better (not necessary more correct), to seek positive masculine rather than just reject masculinity as a whole. Of course, the red pill will need a lot of repackaging, not flowery words or promises but …
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:30 AM
1

Women seek commitment, which necessitates a totally different set of strategies. Women STARTS to seek commitment at the Epiphany stage. no? Dread game won't inspire my commitment, smart women knows it but what if for those who aren't naturally enlighten to see this, plays dread and got ignore by what could be their best chance of developing a healthy relationships?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:13 AM
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If you have to ask, you obviously have not read the sidebar. Regardless, I think that it is something worthy of discussion, maybe not for a solution but for insights. Since you read the sidebar, what's your take?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:08 AM
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Congratulations. Sometimes we always have the answer with us just that we aren't truthful to ourselves and we start chasing some things that we don't even want, just a temporal need.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:16 PM
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Glad you enjoy it, it's my first try at this. A good way for me to let my creative juice flow and still helping others, hopefully.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 11:30 PM
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What is this bs? Red pill / blue pill is a choice and picking either don't make you superior. Depending on others to prove your superiority is in fact blue pill as fuck. A blue pill guy will take the ladies out for dinner faster than you can type this post and you say they only fantasize? Sorry, this post is a wake up call but not the content but the whole post is a wake up call that we don't need motivation shit like this. Figure out your purpose, the path you want to walk, the person you want …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 05:50 AM
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You handle them by not handling them. Why would you want them to acknowledge they are wrong? Even under circumstances where it will bend your course, most of the time it's not worth it. When it is worth it, you make the call to move away and not pick a fight you can't win. Especially in a corporate setup, the rights and the wrongs are depending on the culture (no, not the slogan they sing to) of the company / industry and the people. Good luck changing that. You are responsible for where you're …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 05:40 AM
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Let's begin with deleting this post shall we? You put yourself in this situation and instead of finding ways to come back, you are finding ways to prove that you're weak and drowning? Stop making excuses, if you're not making your way to the gym, we're not talking.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:13 AM
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I would start by asking yourself: What is the value you can bring to this world in this life? Make sure it's really something you believe in and really want to attain.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:45 PM
2

Alpha and beta should not be a state of being in my opinion. An action can be very different under different context. An example, if a LTR complaints you about her job, what would you do? Soothes her like a baby? Ignore her because you're alpha as fuck? Fuck her because she's only for sex? Under different circumstances, you will need to approach this differently. If she had a bad day, soothing her down works but don't just stop there, direct her to something else. If you're really busy, tell her…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:23 AM
2

You have expectations and they mismatch with reality. "If you do X, your friends will act like what you expect, viewing you as the cool kid in the block, inviting you to every event, listens to you, put you in the highlight, etc. " mindset is like relying on your friends for validation, puts you in a weak position and causes you to lose frame inevitably down the road. ​ Getting laid should always be secondary See, you got this right about women but it applies to everything else too. Improvement …
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:18 AM
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Track your calorie (myFitnessPal) and come back with at least a week of eating.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:52 AM
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First, stop being delusional, the world didn't tell you anything, you are telling yourself that the world rejects you. Second, you know nothing about suffering, you put yourself in this on your own predicament. Third, stop using social media and internet, they have bad influence. You're all stressed out because you think that an average Joe should live a life full of friends, woman and everything else the media and pop culture is telling you. The truth is NO. Fourth, TRP is not a self-help motiv…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:21 AM
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I think the difficult part is to draw the line between red pill wannabe asshole and a true red pill man. Sometimes, being honestly straight to the point and speak without filtering your thoughts is not a plus, it's just a sign you have low EQ and have no idea how to handle things life throw at you. The better way to put it, is to voice out your honest opinion whenever necessary. Stay silence so the enemy have no clue on when and where to strike. A good way is to gauge when to speak is to always …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:32 PM
1

"And I'm hard."
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:36 AM
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Agreed. Well written. This is a well known theory yet most still fell for it. The mainly reason is because while they know that paying too much attention is bad, they didn't know why they pay too much attention and then resort to filling their day with plenty stuff to do or fill their mind with emptiness/loniless/negativity while waiting for the "grace period" to end so that can pay attention to the woman again. The core problem is not that you have nothing going on in life, the problem is you p…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 02:52 AM
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Mark it on your calendar! This weekend, if you aren't wearing your kickboxing gloves this weekend, everyone who upvoted this post is going to punch you in the face!
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:17 AM
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You're not going anywhere if you're constantly seeking for a replacement for her. Not happiness but the sense of belonging, validation and being needed by someone or in BP context: to be loved. In the end, you're not trying to fix yourself but you're trying to fix her. The solution: Understand that swallowing the pill or anything else won't get her back, heck not even the feelings that she gave you. You can not only survive without her and the feelings that she brought, there is more than that t…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:14 AM
1

Hold your frame not just in the game but also in life. Understand the source of negativity, vet them out of your life and constantly seeking the littlest opportunity to add positiveness in life.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:49 AM
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because I can't wrap my head around why she would drop me for him? Without further context, none can answer. Anyone who can is either a fortune teller or a novelist. ​ Any thoughts here? The truth is, yes, he have got something that you don't but it's none of your concern, really. Both you and the guy are better than the other at some point of time, else why did you became a FWB for her? So there is no point debating why. The why which is important here, is why did you fell being hurt egoistical…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:45 AM
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Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Reading and comprehending is two different thing. From what you described and your comments, you seems to have had read too much and not applying them in life, then got overwhelmed as yourself seems pale in comparison to others. You're not lacking goals, you just have too many of them and too far stretched. What I would suggest is, cut out all the noises and listen to only you. Next time you read something, try to relate and apply into your daily life, no …
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:59 AM
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She could have told me one word that she wanted to do it so that I could go on my own way Communication of both sexes are different, just don't expect our opposition to confront us on something when they know they're wrong. We men seeks answers, women seeks comfort. How could women put up such a facade and be all lovey-dovey while whoring around behind the men? Because they can and guys like you're buying it. Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 03:08 PM
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You don't. You don't have to be motherfucking James Bond to flirt, just play yourself in your own movie. You'll be a dancing monkey when your SMV is preceived as low by the opposition. Show them the vibe, take it or leave it. You can't control mind but you certainly can read'em.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:27 AM
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First, thumbs up for feeling old, it's a sense of self awareness that would drive you if it was taken in a little dose. Just don't crunch on the numbers too much. Next, I would suggest you to sit down and think, write down what you want to be in 5 years time, keep it simple and realistic. If you cant figure, that's fine, write down what comes to your mind. Then, I would suggest you to list out small steps that could propel you to the goal you've write down. Or simply things that you wanted to tr…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 10:19 AM
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tl:dr OP found himself. A good write up and a good experience, it sure does take some courage to make the leap. I think next time anyone asked stupid questions at /asktrp, we could just redirect him to this. Keep it up OP, hope to see you someday in a book/documentary/etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 07:35 AM
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I read through all the comments, some said they always have similar experience BUT most didn't end up with them. I would like to boldly introduce a new term "Women Aren't Always Like That" - WAALT It means that women aren't always on each end of the spectrum, nor they're in between, they act accordingly to how they feel at that particular moment. They usually act woman AWALT and sometimes does show NAWALT. The thing is, if they're pure NAWALT, it literally means that no matter what happened, the…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:15 PM
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If it is that simple, we wont have a sub this big talking about it. It is a good rough estimation and shall never be perceive as something that you can calculate with simple arithmetic.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:54 PM
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This guy is easily 1 or 2 points above me in SMV. So red pill is now a maths game? Biggest number wins? SMV should be use as a rough measurement to improve yourself not something to compare with others for women. I'm glad that the colleague set her boundaries well and vet off someone like you. She tell you her problems and you stop instead of solving them, what value do you have? Women is going to pick whoever that can melt her defenses, this is how nature works, they want the best gene. Be a ma…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:59 PM
3

They see us rollin.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:45 PM
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With this mindset, you're definitely doom. But this is a good chance for you to get back to yourself, learn to live for YOURSELF. Sure the pain is there but it is not physical and permanent, go lift some weights. You don't NEED to regain value, you already have the value, you just have to pick it up. Edit 1: And never hate women. It's you.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:25 PM
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Yes, you dont have to be a supermodel chad to win the game. You just need to get your shit together. I think most gave up because they think that red pill is a short cut. Unfortunately it's not. I do agreed that some of the stuff side bar does give you instant result but it's not the end. All in all, red pill isn't just about attracting more women, you're still going to be miserable unless you focus on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:39 AM
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Oh, tell me what's her reasoning that you fully understand? To save the situation, there's one thing you can do, excel in the sports both of you're in. If you're not now, I suggest you to whip yourself into shape and start training like crazy until you reach your goal. Come back here when you achieve that and tell me that you still like her.
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:07 AM
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Open end is an issue here. It's OK = Yes I think that's not a good idea if we date. You earn respect from bros not from your crush. Should just say "What? Date? You're moving fast. I'm just wanting to see if you're a good training partner." Lay low and wait for the right time to strike.
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:00 AM
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You mirror her action. You only initiate when you’re out of things to do. If you’re constantly run out of stuff do, go find something. Never guess a woman’s behaviours, it’s too random. You do something when you felt like doing it not because you want certain outcome.
/r/seduction09/09/19 03:10 PM
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First off, you’re asking this because there’s some part of you that thinks it’s wrong, you’re seeking either people to convince you that you’re right or people to give you a counter solution. To be frank, there’s no right or wrong, the important thing is to know what you really want from this relationship. You felt disrespected to the point that you think it’s not worth, leave and never look back, not even asking this stupid question. But since you asked, I believed thats not the case. You felt …
/r/seduction09/09/19 02:57 PM
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