Am I getting Shittested?

Subutai_Baghatur · 2020-11-10T14:03:55+00:00

This girl and I have been flirting with each other, and its been escalating. At the same time, i've been doing the same so its kinda obv that Im showing interest too.

Look, when you flirt with a girl you’re covertly telling her that ”I want to fuck you” and if she flirts back, she’s covertly telling you that ”I may want to fuck you”.

That was last week. This monday, she suddenly acts really cold to me, like doesnt acknowledge me, doesnt make eye contact with me, etc as if she's purposely withdrawing

Girls want and need guys that they are open to fucking to physically escalate with them because 1. it shows that you have confidence (which is attractive) and that removes any responsibility from them which 2. means that they’re not acting like a slut by making it clear that they want to fuck you and 3. avoids the possibility of them getting rejected.

So my question is, is this a shit test or a push/pull method to get me hooked?

It’s likely that she’s just lost interest because you didn’t escalate to meeting up. Suggest meeting up and see what happens, but in future do this sooner.

cydestiny · 2020-11-10T15:30:56+00:00

You probably didn't even get the entry ticket.
You don't do the same, you ask yourself what you really want? If you wants to have a chance and later on connect with her, stop. Go read some more side bar. Move past the scarcity mindset and you wont ask this dumb ass question.

phellySL · 2020-11-10T14:50:25+00:00

I think if she lost interest, the only way it had something to do with YOU, is if she felt that you should have already asked her out. And if a week of flirting goes by, you DEFINITELY took too long.

But if that’s not the case and she lost interest it’s either a shit test, or there’s another guy/reason.

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY & BOTTOM LINE IS:

It doesn’t matter what the root cause is. This kind of behavior means that you return the favor.

benhurensohn · 2020-11-10T16:04:48+00:00

What do you mean by "its been escalating"? Did you even ask her out?

She probably lost interest because you didn't make a move and now she thinks you are a loser. Move on

Money-Development-61 · 2020-11-10T18:28:55+00:00

Last week... that means she’s gone. You already missed your chance.

Curious_Educator3425 · 2020-11-11T14:22:14+00:00

You didn't strike when the iron was hot.

She flirted with you and you didn't make a move so she now feels rejected and thinks you are weak and insecure so has lost interest.

Title	Am I getting Shittested?
Author	bruh3610
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	November 10, 2020 1:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/jrl6ee/am_i_getting_shittested/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/am-i-getting-shittested.326645 https://theredarchive.com/post/326645

Comments