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Having Career/Degree is Important to Men It is not. That how much money you make doesn’t influence the kind of man you marry. That men don’t care about how much a women makes. They do not care about how much you make. Women marry across and up the economic ladder for the most part, so how successful the man you marry is can be influenced by your degree. The environment you are in, the place you live and the people you meet depends on how much you make. Not really. When you are online dating (wit…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 09:59 AM
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No, you should have better said "I'm just not good enough to find one that is". No, you should have better said "I'm just not good enough to find one that is....worthy of half of my assets and alimony payments”
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:57 PM
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Is it ok to think this or do I have some insecurities here? Only you know whether your feelings are from a place of insecurity or not. Ask yourself whether or not you would have given up your monogamy if you would have known this in beforehand. Is this girl still LTR/Marriage material? Most girls are not LTR material and virtually none are wife material. You have been with this girl for three months, you should not even be thinking about whether or not she is wife material right now.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:38 AM
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If only there was something that guys could give up for girls who behaved how they wanted....
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:52 PM
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Is this the kind of shit that I'll have to deal with in a LTR with a high SMV woman? This is the kind of shit you have to deal with with any woman. You need work on getting yourself to the place where you are not fazed by shit tests that would otherwise be thought of as disrespectful to you. You cannot fake it until you make it with this as your body language and tone will give you away. And how can I get people to stop looking down on me? I mind my business, I'm quiet and stoic but I'm getting …
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:41 AM
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I've tried inviting girls to my place but it seems they'll only be willing to meet me if I take them out, that is if they're willing to meet me at all, and I've tried allowing girls to txt me first and that just leaves me with an empty inbox 99% of the time. Suggest a cheap date or one where it is easily split 50:50. This stops you being pegged as provider. You may gets dates as a provider but you will not get high quality sex. I know the first advice I'll be given is to work on myself, which I …
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:48 PM
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I agreed with everything up to this... Do what you want, but don’t lie to get some pussy. If lying is likely to get you pussy that telling the truth about would not (without repercussions), you lie, fuck that pussy and never look back.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:38 PM
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Do you know why some girls turn in to hoes after losing their virginity and others do not? It is not because the guys caused them to lose their ability to pair bond, it is because they did not have that ability to begin with.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:43 AM
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women are much more damaged by sleeping around You have this the wrong way. An inability to pair-bond causes women to sleep around, it is not formed as a result of sleeping around.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:39 AM
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I come across a video making fun of woman who want equality. I thought it was funny so i liked the video and then i started only seeing videos of guys exposing woman. I got to a point where every video i was watching was EXPOSING female nature and how fucked up they are and how they play these games. It kind of made me happy to be honest because guys are finally catching on to woman and their craziness. What you are describing here is targeted content designed to keep you hooked on the app, it i…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:12 AM
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Stop wondering about whether she will flake or not. If she agrees, you tell her to let you know when she is either getting ready or leaving....whichever gives you enough time to also get ready and leave.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:24 AM
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Do you know why he promotes marriage? He gets income from blue pilled guys who are struggling with their girl but still wanting marriage, finding his content and subscribing. Tell me your main reason for being pro marriage, I am up for an easy debate
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 11:45 PM
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1.- I forgot to specify: For those who do want to marry, marry a virgin. I am here to discuss the differences between dating 3 types of girls not the distribution of wealth. Did it ever occur to you that for a man agreeing to marry a woman is the most likely the largest financial burden that he is likely to ever engage in? Yet....You, the OP, forgot to specify the main point of your post? 2.- she will stay if you keep being ALPHA, every girl will leave you if you act beta. Wrong. A good marriage…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 11:31 PM
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Marry a virgin You are advising guys here to marry (ie. give the woman financial incentive to leave the nuclear family) under a specific circumstance, based on....what exactly? The rest of your post does not give a single reason why actually getting married is beneficial to any man here. Being red-pilled is important to keep a relationship stable but it can only do so much if the girl isn’t a virgin. It can only do so much even if the girl is a virgin. If you fuck up enough, that sweet innocent …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 08:14 PM
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A girlfriend I've been with on and off She doesn't mind meeting in public and showing me off to friends, is affectionate when we hang alone I can never close her on coming to my place. She is actively trying not to fuck you. Have you even actually fucked this chick? What do you call this and how do you proceed with this kind of chick? You say to yourself ”Okay she does not want to fuck me”, then you do not give her another thought and go hit up a chick who does actually want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:00 PM
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No. End it with her, it is a lost cause
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:14 PM
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She tells me she doesn't want to be that sexual girl anymore and she's just different now. .....with you Besides from reading Sex God or soft nexting, any perspective here? She wants to lock you down and her hamster thinks that playing in to the prudish good wife routine is the best way to do it because she views you as beta If you are getting this after only a few months, there is little chance of getting her to open up in the longer term
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:25 AM
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If you take her back, your value from her point of view will fall. She will realise that you could not do any better and then she will have the power — that is what all girls vie for. If she comes back and you want to keep fucking her, you treat her like a brand new plate and go from that
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:27 PM
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Why is this even a question? You arrange to meet and escalate assuming attraction regardless of whether or not she has sent you nudes
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:22 PM
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If you went for it and she denied, you soft next and then only accept the second date if she agrees to come to your place.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 11:20 PM
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1, bringing someone that you have been seeing for a few months to a wedding is the type of thing that girls who are trying to prove to everyone that they are not spinsters, do. It is validation seeking behaviour and girls know this 2, you claim that you do not react or show any emotion to what your ex says but this whole post is about her and what she said. If you are that concerned about what she said that you made a 200 word post about it, she will likely pick up on your behaviour when she say…
/r/askMRP31/05/21 11:19 PM
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It depends on what your standards are for FWB With plates, I do not care if she is fucking other guys, seeking them out or whatever But with FWB where I am spending non sexual time with that may or may not lead to sex each time we meet....prerequisites of that are they are not fucking other guys and not seeking out new guys to fuck (as far as I can tell). If either changes then they go back to being a plate.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:23 AM
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I would not say dumb but it will definitely effect your success. Before that first date they have only seen some pictures and exchanged a few messages with you so their attraction and investment towards you will be low. If you add in that there will be many lower risk options available to them to have a good time, it is no surprise that they cancel. If you have been on dates and or already fucked them and then they cancel last minute, you can deduce that their attraction is lower than it should …
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:34 AM
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After being here for a year, your lack of frame is shameful. You have not even learnt the basics. Do you need one of us to coming along and hold your hand while you end it with her?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:50 AM
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Look man, it does not matter whether you have fucked a chick 1 time or 1000 times....if you are not the best that she thinks she can get then she will be fucking other dudes. That is why you do not even consider to stop fucking other girls until she has, at the very least stopped fucking other dudes. There is no need for jealousy, insecurity or a feeling of disrespect....it is just the way the world works.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:03 PM
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I discovered after six months that she still called her last ex for hours behind my back. Texting. And speaking about our relationship. I told her it’s the last time or she is out. This is the issue that you posted about a year ago both in here and in the blue pill sub. And funnily enough both pills gave you the same advice to end it with her, yet here you are again with the exact same issue, with the exact same chick.... This Week another ex she had no contact for 4 years added her on insta. Sh…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:49 PM
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An evening date implies that you want to fuck. They know this. If they are not agreeing then there is not enough attraction to begin with.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:17 PM
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If your girl gets fat then it shows that you either 1, have not vetted her correctly, 2, led her correctly or 3, do not have sufficient dread. That said, when she loses weight then there is a high chance that it will be over between you two. She will now start to get attention from guys that she did not get when she was fat and she will remember how you still wanted to fuck her when she was fat. Her hypergamy will interpret this as you having lower value than them.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:14 PM
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Am I right or am I right? Go back to the sidebar. Ignore and A&A are used for shit tests, not disrespect.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:37 PM
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M: Hey, its me x You should have added more kisses, at least ten S: Hello M: how was the pizza, i left to eat tacos xD Boring replies from both of you S: omg thats so delicious S: and why didn't you invite? :0 :s M: ok if you want we can go to eat some day Shit test failed. M: the truth is that i was waiting for the group to go to eat but at least i went to eat with family DEERd. M: Did you guys eat later Unnecessary question. You should have let the invite hang not change the topic. M: yh those…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:33 AM
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The issue is not that the gyms are closed, it is that you are a lazy fuck who lacks the capacity to take personal responsibility for your fattiness. How many runs, cycles or home workouts have you done since the gyms have been closed? How has your diet changed in that period? How much weight have you lost or gained in that period? The fact that your girl had to give you such an ultimatum in an attempt to get you to lose weight tells me that you are a beta who is incapable of leading even yoursel…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:53 AM
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So I want to build up some more dread with my LTR and an ex reaching out seems a great way to do this. Do you even need to apply more dread and specifically of this nature? If you do then you should be working towards becoming a guy that girls check out while you are with her rather than essentially saying ”LOOK babe....girls are interested in me”
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:09 AM
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Frame is how you operate within the world and how the world operates around you. Ultimately it comes down to this Do people affect your views and emotions and what you want to say, do and act, or do you affect people? eg. If you are having a conversation with someone and you say something which they disagree with, do you bend or compromise your view because of their disagreement/to appease the tension or do you stand firm in your view? If someone says something negative about you, does it bother…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 08:09 PM
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First is the match, then the date, then the sex. That's the goal because that second date likely ain't happening. If you're lucky, you're that roster. But that's it, one or two games and she'll decide yeah this one's pretty good. But what if I could have something new and different? If a girl from tinder is willing to meet up then you can deduce that she is looking for ‘something new and different’ and either 1, is not getting any dick at the moment and wants it, or 2, is getting dick, but those…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 10:02 AM
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No, attraction is affected by many factors.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:38 PM
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Think about it from an evolutionary perspective, who is more likely to be able to protect her and her offspring....a guy who is 8/10 looks and 5’10 or 5/10 looks and 6’4? Then think about it from a interrelationship perspective, who is more likely to more easily generate feelings of submission in her....a guy who is 5’10 or 6’4? Height is not everything, it simply helps but that is why girls find it easier to be attracted to taller guys. It is not about it being a status symbol or a weird fetish…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:58 AM
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Exactly, and decisions are made with the knowledge one acquires. Decisions that are meaningful? Sure Decisions about your relationship when taking in to account how submissive your LTR is? No. That is operating according to her level of submissiveness and within her frame. You should probably stop commenting trying to give fake advice to people, So if I am “trying to give fake advice” does that mean I am in fact giving real advice?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:24 PM
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You should be making decisions for your relationships based on what you want to do, not on the submissiveness of your girl
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:35 PM
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And what is the purpose of obtaining that knowledge?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:01 PM
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When TRP talks about submissive women do you think of this as purely sexual? Or are there other indicators? What other things demonstrate a womans submissiveness? What are you trying to achieve by autistically analysing your LTR’s submissiveness?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:37 AM
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So I’ve been seeing this girl for a couple of times, I just tell her to come over and she’s pops up, we have sex. She’s really attractive but also shy af. She asked me to come over this weekend and I told her I’ll text here if I have the time.. thing is, I’d like to have her here and just hangout without having sex to get to know her a bit, would this be a weird move to make for just this time? This question is coming from a place of either scarcity or pedestalization. If it was not, you would b…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 10:12 PM
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You're still in the anger phase You have either misinterpreted my comments or do not know what the anger phase is.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:25 AM
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All you're doing is quoting the guy and trying to shoot down his points. I am shooting down his points. That is because I feel that his mentality and approach to this is incorrect for maximising our sexual strategy. You have none of your own. Nothing to contribute except direct rebuttals I am explaining why his mentality and approach is wrong and providing alternatives to those. There was no need for reply to the OP because there was already a solid answer given 319Skew.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:23 AM
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first of all no one should take a girl out for a dinner on a first date but in OP’s case OP said plate ie. that is a girl he regularly fucks and not a first date.... she invited herself which means you can indirectly make it clear that you want something in return. That is not what you originally said. You said paying is fine if you have fucked her once and she makes it clear that she will let you fuck I see no problems with paying as long as 1, she has earned it through non sexual behaviour — h…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:38 AM
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Redpill is about self improvement and having your shit together Red pill is about sexual strategy. It is literally the first line in the about section which means we don’t mind paying for a girl as long as she’s making it clear that she’s gonna let you fuck the shit out of her later. Yeah because girls NEVER use the lure of sex to get what they want and then ‘change their mind’.... However, this only applies if you fucked her already then its ok to pay for her. So one fuck means it is okay payin…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:18 AM
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My plan now is to initiate dread game. I won't text her even one more time as long as she doesn't text me first, and if so, I'll take long to get back to her. It's time I really stand up for myself and show that I can easily walk away. Dread only works if it is subtle and covert. Seeing as you have already fucked up by being too needy and available by getting mad at her for not texting me back, and a few days after I yelled at her on the phone and called her selfish when she acted flaky. This pl…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 09:19 AM
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I’m in a newly-formed LTR. We became exclusive after a month I couldn’t have got it anywhere else because she’s the only girl I’ve fucked raw and I was on a dry spell before her. I displayed agitation and a bit of weakness by telling her she’s on thin ice for this Do you guys think I broke frame in this sense, and that it’s going to have any long term effects in the relationship? Your biggest problem is that now, she knows that you LTRd her out of scarcity and are not HV. That will have long ter…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:31 AM
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Why do you feel the need to comment on how other peoples relationships should be ran without being asked? They may both be happy with their dynamic or maybe he is not and then goes Rambo demanding ”I should run this relationship” What benefits can come from either of those outcomes from you being overt, rather than you covertly demonstrating 1, how you think a relationship should ran and 2, the benefits that it brings to you? That is why you were being a sperg.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:11 AM
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Considering fucking her is not the same as caring about getting sex or not. Of course not. I did not say it was. If you care so much about sex and you are trying hard to make it happen you simply surrender your power and make sex with her the prize. Of course. I did not say otherwise. From what you have written it seems like you are saying that having a goal automatically means that you are outcome dependent.... Stop going to bars or on dates with the goal of getting laid. Stop caring about gett…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:31 AM
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You want to get laid more? Stop caring about getting laid. Stop going to bars or on dates with the goal of getting laid. That will always fuck you up, because guess what. Women are very intuitive and they know when you want it this badly. It does not matter whether the date is a bar, rock climbing, going to a fairground or a walk....She knows that you are considering fucking her as soon as you arrange to meet up. And then, her agreeing to meet conveys that, at that moment, she is open to fucking…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:21 AM
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You may have inadvertently given her validation by deleting her. Next time just ignore whatever shit they post. There is no point in ignoring her now. Reply with ”I had a clear out. I guess you did not make the cut [add whatever emojis/lol/haha you guys use these days]” If she plays the ”omg I am so hurt” line then just arrange a meet. If she cancels then call it quits
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:17 PM
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I told her to suck my dick....which she refused to do and gave no valid reason (...isn’t the first time she’s refused) She says we should have sex instead to which I say the moments now passed and turn over to go to sleep. This an issue that a lot of guys have here. There is typically a reoccurring problem that they want to correct and they think they will do that simply by being indifferent. Indifference = attractive = getting what you want? Not always. Indifference without a suitable punishmen…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:00 PM
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If it was a regular plate, get in contact when you want to fuck again If it was a first fuck, messaging the next day saying that you had a good time and should do it again is a good way to get her consent If you did not fuck, let her ponder whether or not you enjoyed the date and get in contact a few days before you are wanting to meet again.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:17 AM
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Basically, can a women be loyal, IN REASON, if I am the best version of myself, alpha and hold frame most of the time? Yes. Hypergamy can be your friend or your foe. She stays with you because you are her best hypergamous option. She leaves you because you are not her best hypergamous option.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:06 AM
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Punishment itself. When a girl exhibits undesirable behaviour then you need to punish it relative to the severity. From withdrawing time & attention in person, verbally checking her, you communicating with her less frequently, you seeing her less frequently (ie. demote her in your plate hierarchy), soft nexting to hard nexting If you do not punish relative to the severity then that behaviour will be deemed as appropriate and will continue. This serves two purposes 1, she actually feels the effec…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:02 AM
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You have two options 1, assume that you cannot handle it and block 2, assume that may be able to handle it and fuck her, then go option one if you cannot afterwards or at whatever point in time As you are inexperienced, I suggest that you take the block route. That will ensure that you do actually get yourself a rotation of girls as well as stopping you from falling back in to her but it is your decision.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:21 AM
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Do not ask her anything about this. She is now a plate. You need to decide for yourself whether you can handle the thought of her fucking someone else. If you can, treat her like you would treat any other plate ie. arrange to meet, fuck and leave shortly after. That is all. If you cannot, block her on everything and never fuck her again.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:09 AM
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The best way is to demonstrate. 1, do not always schedule future dates on dates 2, do not always be available if she suggests to meet up 3, do not reply immediately to messages or calls 4, when you meet, you always escalate to fuck her and give enough comfort as is needed before leaving afterwards. If she does not fuck, you pull back 5, do not give her your non sexual time until she has earned it If you follow these things then girls will naturally understand that you are not interested in anyth…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:05 PM
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Escalate to a meet up.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:55 PM
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One of my plates like to joke and call me a butch over text. It pisses me off. You need to work on your frame. This should not be affecting you. And i don't know how to respond to it without breaking frame. Can someone help me. Do not ignore, this is weak. Agree to meet her when suits you but acknowledge her calling you a bitch by how you will remember it, punish her or make her your bitch. Then follow through.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:07 AM
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Your question should not be about this. This morning she texts me saying she feels bad for sending nudes to me last night. It should be about actually meeting up with her.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:02 AM
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Stop unicorn hunting.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:33 PM
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If her behaviour has not changed while she is actually in your presence then you need to relax. When or if that starts to change is when you actually need to consider whether she is losing attraction and whether it is worth you persevering with this relationship.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:14 PM
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What are you wanting exactly.... Permission to fuck a girl who wears a wig? Permission to LTR a girl after a few weeks who wears a wig? Or something else entirely?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:26 PM
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Did I encounter an FDSer in real life? She sent me a random selfie in her car and I made a flirtatious comment about her cleavage. Didn't get a text back. It could be because she follows FDS but it is more likely that she is just a normal girl who was turned off by your beta behaviour
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:48 PM
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Long story short: LTR is running jealousy shit-tests consistently because she wants to see if I am secure in being her top option. What do you mean by “jealousy shit tests”? Without examples it will be difficult to give an appropriate answer. Generally, if she is saying that guys are hitting her up and she is not responding — you can use genuine indifference: ignore this issue completely, she is acting appropriately. responding/entertaining them but there is no insinuation or intention of meetin…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:27 PM
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Of course if she senses you really like her and vice versa sex will be immediate. It has more to do with if she really likes you, sex will be immediate and less to do with how much she senses you like her.... ie. alpha fucks, beta bucks. Both can like her the same amount yet....she fucks an alpha because of her primal sexual desires. She makes a beta wait because she wants to see how much he is willing to invest without her fucking him. Any woman who is willing to be a fwb is by definition not L…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:26 AM
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TLDR : dating this girl, she is a good submissive girl, has red flags, she wants commitment, I am willing to commit All she needs to do to make you willing to give her your monogamy and ignore her red flags is to be submissive and fuck you for two months before asking for commitment. I assume that you are not fucking any other girls right now as I cannot see any reason why a guy with options would even begin to entertain this. Now you need consider what actually makes her different than any of t…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:41 AM
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I find out she danced closely with one of the friends there and almost made out with him. She was extremely drunk and didn't know what she was doing, according to her of course. So what do I do now? Cut her out of my life or try to fix things? She has lost the ability to be promoted to LTR at any point and now you need to either demote her to plate or cut her off completely. This cannot be “fixed”. How far you go is a decision that you need to make based solely on your personal morals: nothing t…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:15 AM
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We were suggesting things to do after dinner and I said movie at my place or like mini golf. Giving an alternative to going back to your place (especially one that is fun) is an ineffective way to try to get her back. It conveys your lack of confidence and outcome dependence as the alternative is acting as your ‘rejection buffer’ It is essentially saying “Hey, I want to fuck you but I am not confident enough to lead you to my place. Here is an alternative so that if you do not want to fuck me, I…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:52 AM
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Comments on my previous post were telling me to keep her as a plate but no LTR but for the sake of my mental health, I decided to cut all contact. I've never been the type to enjoy company of women who actively date other guys while talking to me so....I'm cutting all contact You are trying to achieve blue pill goals (girl who is exclusive without commitment) with red pill ideologies. That is not how the game works buddy. You do need to look after your mental health and you did the right thing t…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:55 AM
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one in particular never initiates the meetup but is always receptive. I never text in between dates and reach out once a week unless they contact me first. What do you guys think about always having to initiate first? This issue is coming from either your ego or your pedestalization of her. You need to figure out which it is and work on that.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:06 PM
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I propose to meet for a drink and she agrees. I propose Sunday and she says she can't. I propose Wednesday next week and comes up with "I don't know. I'm very bad at planning in advance. I'll let you know after the weekend" to which I reply that maybe is not good enough for me to save a date and that she can let me know when she wants to see each other if she wants to. The bold parts came across as butthurt to me. I would simply reply ”Cool. Let me know” Her letting you know after the weekend do…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:58 AM
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I want to find a LTR girls that fit my criteria of having decent morals and respect for themselves will be very turned off by my high body count for my age? This is blue pill conditioning from what you have been told to believe your whole life. Getting away from that can be difficult. Should I just lie? Do not lie. Treat it as a shit test and either A&A - ”102.... this week. I only started counting on Monday” D&A - ”I am a virgin (with a smirk)”
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:51 PM
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I really want to fuck this plate You do not know what a plate is. Should I soft next her for like a week and act uninterested to get her more engaged and wondering so that I can fuck her? You do not know what a soft next is. Read the sidebar before asking questions.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:50 PM
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You can improve your looks but you cannot ‘improve’ your height. So why is this even a question? What are you going to do if the consensus is that girls value height more? Fucking walk around on stilts for the rest of your life and not improve your looks? If you want to increase your SMV then you improve on what you can improve on. Everything else is irrelevant to you.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:28 AM
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Is the act of a woman putting your dick in her mouth inherently derogatory? Yes. As is her being on her knees doing it. As is everything that involves the polarity towards the masculine from the feminine if you consider derogatory by today’s societal standards. So, logically does this mean that if you truly respect your other half, you should not want her to be in this position? Why is it up to you to be concerned about her feelings surrounding this? You want it and she wants to give it. Have yo…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:26 AM
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The whole concept of TRP was to live your best life, put women in the backburner and have a stoic POV; you control only yourself, so try and become the best version of yourself. This is direct from TRP: ”TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men” You can have your own concept of TRP but putting women in the backburner is certainly not included in its whole concept. But the majority of advice given …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:40 PM
4

You have not mentioned a single thing about dread, shit tests or what you have tried to do to correct her behaviour. You are out of your depth. This issue is not on her for ‘slacking off’, it is on you for allowing her to by not being capable of maintaining attraction in a live-in LTR. What you should do now is end this LTR.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 11:29 PM
48

There are few things here which will help you rationalise that you should end it. 1, Him: “Or maybe your boyfriend doesnt let you” No beta Billy speaks like that. 2, Him; “I’ll pick you and (her female friends name” up tommorow at 18” No beta Billy speaks that either. 3, She also has him saved as:”Name” She agreed to meet with him, so she knows his name if she was wing girling then either save his real name or do not save. No girl hides a real name or number unless they do not want it to be seen…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 10:06 PM
2

Do not kid yourself. It is only because it is easier to keep a bowl spinning....
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:59 PM
2

Why does everyone on here advice to live to "higher standards" blah blah blah. Isn't the point of this sub to get results and be amoral? Morality is saying ”you should not do that because it is bad”. That has nothing to do with helping guys live to higher standards. If a guy wants to bareback every girl he fucks or LTR a girl who has red flags after their first fuck — neither is morally bad, they are just inefficient for his long term goals. Isn't it just plain acknowledged facts that we are sac…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:52 PM
14

If multiple girls are losing interest in meeting you at around the same stage, then the issue is what is happening you meet them. Your failure at this point could be down to 1, you putting the responsibility on them to arrange a meet up after they cannot make your day. Next time just say ”no problem” and then hit them up when you are next available. 2, your dick game not being good enough. If you want to keep plates spinning then you need to fuck them well. Not necessarily making them cum every …
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:05 PM
3

She is a plate so treat as her as one. Your history together only matters to you.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:07 PM
7

They tell you to looks max but they never go into the deeper reasons why its so important The truth is Women do not care about looks, they only love sexier looking men because they think other women love them and it generates pre selection, hypergamy, power/dread all together The other only way women care about looks is if they want you as an accessory to show off, Now, does any of this tie into having sex with a women? no. Disagree. The reason why improving your looks is advised is because it i…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:27 PM
132

It just feel like it's all about looks? No it is not but when all you are putting up on dating apps are pictures of yourself standing or leaning then you make it all about looks. I don't even consider myself a bad looking dude, 6'4" 205lbs 6/10 face. You are not bad looking but 1, you are not giving girls an opportunity to see your height so you could easily be 5’4” with those pictures and nobody would know otherwise. 2, your style in all of the pictures is quite bland. Very clean, corporate and…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:44 AM
4

When they ask me why I don’t text them much I tell them that 1. I’m busy and don’t always necessarily have time to text (which is only partially true if I’m being honest), 2. I don’t really like texting, especially with girls since it’s easy for miscommunications to occur, as well as my experience with over texting in my past, and 3. I’d much rather talk in person and not having a constant conversation between meetups allows for us to have topics to discuss when we meet in person. That is a lot …
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:52 PM
3

The other questions are something that you have no control over. How to handle this, if at all? Quite frankly, after this I wanna make her suck my dick all night long twice as much. In the future, you get confirmation from her of when she is getting ready or leaving (whatever is adequate time for you to get ready or leave). If she does not give that confirmation, you do not turn up.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:18 PM
1

For example, if you cry over a sad film (not a death of a family member), would your partner lose respect for you? Not if you are the submissive in the relationship.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:39 PM
7

She is not your FWB, she is your LTR with it being open on her side. If she was an actual FWB, you would have either not cared or realised that this is not a good situation for you to be in so you would have removed yourself before it became a problem. Either by calling a plate to fuck or hanging out with your buddies rather than spending the night stalking her from outside her room while she was getting railed. You did not do that because have not internalised the RP: you are emotionally attach…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:57 AM
2

Anyway, what do you mean by the leadership/follower thing? How could I have done that? You need more help than the answer to this simple question will give you. It is all in the sidebar so go read it.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:30 PM
2

As of a few days ago, when GME shot up, my Portfolio was worth a little under 5 million. I liquidated all my positions, and showed the bank account statement to my fiance. I was expecting her to swoon and be like "Ohhhhh good job honey" and start treating me very nicely because I filled that provider role (like when I got a promotion), Nice covert contract and validation seeking behaviour you have going on here. Have you ever heard of TRP.... Next saturday, I woke up and walked into the kitchen …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:04 PM
4

”I treat you with a good fucking every time I see you”
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:38 PM
4

All it took was one exclusivity talk after 2 months, her manipulation of those “health reasons” and what do you know....you gave up your exclusivity when you said that you did not want to. This is what happens when guys find TRP and think that just by them implementing the basics and now actually being attractive to girls means that they can have successful monogamy. You cannot do that. It does not work because you are just LARPing around as RPd when your core is still BP. You confirmed this by …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:39 PM
7

Your problem is not about not knowing how to pass this shit test, it is about your lack of frame that allowed a bit of pressure from her to cause you to answer truthfully. So you need to work on that because otherwise you will keep on failing shit tests that you do not have a script for. If you do not know how to respond either STFU, ignore or look at her like she just said the Earth is flat and then change the topic of conversation. But certainly do not allow yourself to get pressured in to any…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:58 PM
1

Nice post. This is why I advise against guys going monk mode. You are focusing on improving yourself, which is good but at the same time you will be moving backwards (or at best, stagnating) in other areas (cold approaching, game, escalation etc) that all contribute to your success in the SMP. Essentially you could trading one limiting factor for another.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 12:18 PM
1

Two days ago my almost perfect LTR of six months accused me of cheating ,which I was. She said she doesn't care if it is true or not but wants me to stop it and try to be more faithful. I got angry at her (true) accusation and dumped her. I left her crying and left. Sounds to me like you could have spun this to an open relationship on your side if you had been in control of your emotions. Work on that. I feel like I should go back. But I don't know how without been a beta for going back. Going b…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:52 AM
2

So one of my plates was upset that I wasn't ok with her holding my hand. So she said until I was I "wasn't allowed access to her body" Normally I wouldn't give a shit about how to respond except she is connected to a new friend group. Get home and I have this message from her "So when you have some free time that you can set aside for me I would like if we could talk. I did not like the way we interacted just now and think I'm feeling like I need to express some things...." Any thoughts? Enterin…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:11 AM
6

If a girl has earned your non-sexual time and you enjoy spending that with her, I do not see the problem as long as after that non-sexual time you fuck her. If she stops wanting to fuck then you just pull back on that non-sexual time and spend it some other way.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:26 PM
1

I know I’ve got bigger problems to focus on than how to get nudes, but knowing more never hurt. In this case, it will. Focus on seeing women naked in person rather than giving them the free validation of you directly or indirectly asking for a nude.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:35 PM
3

Stop worrying about the consequences of being unattractive and start working on how you can be attractive enough to get what you want in life.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:51 PM
3

Control is used when you cannot use indifference as effectively as you once did because she knows that you are invested. That is not 2-3 times fucking. If indifference is not working then she is likely disinterested. If she has said that she feels like a piece of meat then some additional comfort may help, but this could be beta bait so tread carefully.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:43 PM
1

can't coom from bjs though, Bullshit. Just train her to suck your dick properly so that you can cum from BJs. It will be fun for both of you.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:27 PM
1

Then what is the problem?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 06:01 PM
1

Before or after you two were official?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:42 PM
2

Been with girl for some years now, stumble led upon her open Facebook when she was drunk on a call and left it open going to bed, turns out early in our relationship she was spinning plates with another guy. How early? Before or after you two were official? She also cheated after the first date, made out with a guy in Mexico, and continued to express sexual interest in the classmate while we started banging. Unless she gave you her exclusivity during that first date, it is not cheating. Do I con…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:17 PM
7

Trying to get this chick at work, she’s sending mix signals. Window of opportunity is small so what should I do ? Learn to use grammar. Do not shit where you eat. Stop acting from scarcity.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:57 PM
3

Hey. Before the "don't go for girls that work with ok" ok dude ok it doesn't count here. Of course it doesn’t. It never counts for the OP..... In this case i'm doing a job training, i'm a detective and this petite thing girl half of my size works in forensics. How the hell would you go in this situation? You are acting from scarcity. I am sure there are plenty of pretty girls half of your size who’s career does not coincide with yours.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:40 PM
6

Is it beta or alpha to call out bad behavior? I think I am sensing a contradiction in trp. If I am understanding this correctly, if you call out her bad behavior then you are not passing the test, and showing her she is getting to you and she now knows how to push your buttons. However if you do not call out bad behavior, it makes you look weak and desperate because you are afraid to check her and enforce your boundaries. It seems like you can't win either way? Any and all advice would be greatl…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:08 AM
1

20% of Americans have an STD Condoms claim to have an overall protection rate of 98%. So that means you have a 0.4% of catching an STD every time you have sex with a condom, or a 1 in 250 chance. Say the girl does have a STD so you have that 2% of catching a STD from her, that is a 1 in 50 chance. BUT.....the 98% protection on condoms factors in every single user of them. Some of those users: Do not wear the correct size so they come off or leave the shaft exposed the entire time, Do not wear th…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:39 AM
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Why do you care if a girl is willing to go unprotected with other guys if you would be using protection with her? Just do not promote.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:49 PM
2

She was turned off because you did not have enough attraction. When there is sufficient attraction (and by default of that, she knows that you are higher status than her), being misogynist can a big turn on. You messed up. Learn to calibrate.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:56 PM
5

So you have spent a whole year not getting girls because of [reasons] and now you are considering spending another whole year not getting girls because of [reasons]? This seems like hamstering to me.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:02 AM
3

No. Your SMV (ie. overall attractiveness) is based on multiple factors, what your face looks like is simply one. Lift. Improve your game. Cultivate a solid and masculine frame. Do as well as you can in your career. Dress well and get a good hairstyle etc. They will all counter your below average face.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:46 AM
24

Clearly. You need to get out and you know that.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:34 AM
45

Is this the same ‘cluster b’ girl from your last post that basically everyone told you to end it with her?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:30 AM
16

You look older than 28. Get your beard and hair properly styled, some grades and sharper lines. Remove the dog picture and put one in (candid if possible) of you both.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:52 PM
1

We all know that I woman can get her ability to pair-bond fucked out of her by sleeping with a handful of dudes. No. High n-count is a symptom of an inability to pair bond due to other issues, not a cause of it.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:53 PM
95

If you are struggling to get abundance then fucking below your standard is fine as long as you are still putting the work in to improving the quality of your rotation.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:49 AM
3

If this is something that you do not like then you should have vetted her for this before you got in to a LTR with. This could have just been a shit test which you did fine by not reacting but if it is not, how you act now depends on how she acted previously. Did she used to go to clubs while you were with her or is this new behaviour? If the former then you need to start increasing your SMV and dread now: improve your game with her, lift if you are not already, always dress attractively, go out…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:47 AM
5

You are considering this from a place of scarcity. Fix that.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:49 PM
44

Rule of Tommasi confirmed The following is a real-life example of rule 4: "NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren't married to or are not planning to marry within 6 months." The frequency of sex dropped from once a day to once a week. She stopped being warm. Didn't reciprocate physical contact. I started to sense an elephant in the room. So....what? Are you suggesting that if you had proposed or got married before moving in that she would still have had attraction for you? I dou…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 09:30 PM
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Nah there was pretty much no validation either Sure..... I was talking kinda dirty to her and pushing her for more
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:20 AM
11

I was talking kinda dirty to her and pushing her for more which she did while she was sending them. What does TRP say about how you should respond to nudes?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:02 AM
12

Why is she doing that Your left out what your replies were to the nudes. Without including that you will not get a comprehensive answer and should I soft-next? It seems that she has hard nexted you already.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:15 AM
1

If validation is looked down upon, why is it paying off? Who is this validation paying off on? It does not seem like it is you, seeing as all you are getting out of it is her flirting and acting girly around you without her actually having to fuck you.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:07 PM
1

Search for compliance tests on the subs or Google, I am sure you will find plenty of well explained information
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:40 PM
5

I think my problem is I can't say no. This is definitely a problem. Girls use compliance tests because when you do comply, it demonstrates their higher value. In turn this decreases their attraction to you. Actually saying no if you do not want to do something increases attraction. If you do not have the ability to say no, you will never have a solid frame. Read No More Mr Nice Guy and the other book that is regularly mentioned in conjunction with that, obviously as well as the sidebar and top p…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:06 PM
1

There are too many variables (abundance, prospects, game, past experience etc) for you to get a meaningful answer on this. What matters right now is how many you would tolerate. Over time, work towards reducing it.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:58 PM
7

Any advice how to keep it going the way it is? Carry on as you are. Staying over is giving her boyfriend vibes, the more of these that you give her then the sooner you will face the ”sooo....what are we?” question. You do not have to explain why you do not stay over but in time, it may turn in to a comfort test. Using ”I enjoy what we have, I also enjoy to sleep in my own bed” may work. Or an early morning routine of yours may also quash it. If you feel that she is pushing for more and you do no…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:48 PM
10

I feel like I'm using her cos I'm always the initiator. If she did not want to fuck you then you will certainly know about it. anyone had similar problem? Some women do not initiate out of fear of rejection and ASD. This is not a problem, it is normal. Keep on initiating.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 12:29 PM
7

Have a more masculine frame. The sidebar is great for that.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:32 PM
1

There are words used like plates, bitches, whores, etc. How would you counter that argument? You are asking the wrong question. You should not be getting in to arguments in the first place.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:31 PM
1

Ask her on a date and then escalate.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:25 AM
3

Assuming she walked away after saying something along the lines of ”If I leave here we are done” and not just walked out in an argument... First, no doubting whether you are actually together just because you did not have the we are no longer in a relationship talk, she threatened and acted, so it is over. You start gaming and fucking other girls Then if she comes back, initially pressure flipping like the top comment advised is good but then go in to womanese ”You are not fully in this relation…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:10 AM
1

That is not making her earn her place back. That is just leaving things ended for a period of time before saying you will taking her back.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:15 AM
3

When a girl walks away from her position in your life and you let her, it shows her that you are worth more than her. If she comes back and you let her right back in to that position, it shows her that you are not. If this happens again, you need to make her earn her previous place in your life once again.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 11:00 PM
1

I'm talking to this one girl. I still have my rotation going "Those girls" being the ones that I'm talking to and setting up future plans to meet up. Less talking and more fucking.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:38 PM
6

Your ex is: a single mother = red flag in contact with exes = red flag lying to you = red flag gaslighting you = red flag Is that clear enough?
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:33 PM
0

Is she just a problem? Or is it me? The problem here is that have a weak frame. That weak frame is causing her to act the way she is. She also got mad I didn’t buy her a birthday present. Well I eventually did a few weeks later but we weren’t dating then. I did pay for the dinner which was expensive as fuck You buying her a two week late birthday present after her tantrum told her, very early on in the relationship, that she can emotionally manipulate you in to getting whatever she wants, even w…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:35 PM
27

Being mysterious? Its hard to be mysterious when its a LTR... how do you maintain that? Do not always answer questions about your whereabouts or what you are/were doing, occasionally treat as a shit test. No validation. Only sexual validation. So far I have been pretty disciplined with this. I rarely give her compliments. But at times I felt its unnatural in a LTR to remain cold and aloof. Do I start to give slightly more validation? You need to give validation for things that you have encourage…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:31 AM
3

I texted her the next day and said “ I had a lot of fun last night, we should do it again sometime” She said “ Yeah we should” I said “ How does this weekend sound?” She said “ maybe depends” I said “ okay bet I’m thinking Friday or Saturday night fasho” Could be another guy or could be your neediness seeping through. Weekends (ie. the nights that you can stay up late) should be reserved for regular girls, not new girls.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:36 PM
2

Had a little misunderstanding with the LTR over something minor (Because I jokingly told her to "CHILL" when she said something rediculous). I just took it as a comfort test at first, tried to reassure her I was just playing around and smooth it over by giving her a hug and laughing at the situation a bit. Where is your frame? You meant what you said but then you tried to placate her feelings when you realised that she was unhappy. This is the exact opposite of what you should do. You should say…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:09 PM
1

Very minimal shit test and submissive. Doesn’t ask for anything and is always down to come over and fuck whenever I ask. It’s important to note that I could considerate LTR with her if she asks for it. From what you have written, she seems content with just being your plate. So until she starts to proactively do ‘girlfriend’ duties for you, do not even consider promoting her. Based on that, what’s the plan for v day? Should I invite her to do something? Or just the same come over and fuck as usu…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:47 AM
3

I like to go out for a drink and even watch a movie with a plate. In your opinion is that too much investment risk? Fundamentally, if you want to keep plates as plates for as long as possible, it doesn’t matter what you like: it all comes down to whether she feels she has earned the investment of which you have given her.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 10:28 PM
2

Observe how she acts throughout the month, from your planning to the getaway itself. It could be a good indicator for your future commitments to her.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:35 PM
1

Beating around the bush out of fear of appearing angry or "butthurt" just seems pathetic to me. Be a man and demand what you want instead. My main point was for him to actually start initiating, which is the opposite of “beating around the bush”. He could demand what he wants.....but how far do you actually think that is going to get him going from his outcome dependent strategy of “I’ll push my dick in her ass in the hopes that she’ll initiate and if she doesn’t, I can plausibly avoid rejection…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:02 AM
19

LTR not putting out not one attempt was made for sexual activity and she still hasn’t.. She knows that I’m horny as when in bed we will be chatting while in a position of a hug and my bonnar will be pressed upon her leg. There is no attempt from her. You’ve got this twisted. It isn’t that she’s not putting out, it’s that you’re not initiating. If you want to fuck her then you initiate. If she then gives a hard decline, you punish this bad behaviour by withdrawing your attention and time. You act…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:50 AM
1

Texted her today to meet me again, and she hits me with “give me one good reason why ;)”. I’m gonna respond with “if you can’t find any reasons on your own then maybe we shouldn’t, but the offer still stands” or something like that. This comes off as too defensive. Remember, shit tests should be viewed as a way for you to playfully exert your confidence in yourself and your higher status over her. “What have I asked you?” ”To meet you” ”There is your reason.....see you at 7”
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:36 AM
2

Why do you even need to compromise? You have your own dealbreakers and standards of a partner, as does she. If she finds that a dealbreaker for you then she knows where the door is, if she doesn’t then why do you even consider altering your behaviour
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:26 PM
81

In the last year, we literally haven't had sex, she hasn't even sucked my d. I realize that the problem is in me, that I am no longer attracted to her, but I do not understand what caused it? You caused it. The actual problem is that she no longer wants to have sex with you. She is asexual towards you. What did I do wrong? Given you haven’t actually included how you have acted during these 4 years, I have no explanation other than you’re a beta. How do I fix the situation and start attracting he…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:24 PM
7

She makes slightly more money than my day job (I made way more as an investor though). I spent around 50k on education including 4 years in postgraduate school, 14 years of hard work(50-60 hour work weeks with minimal vacation), and numerous promotions. Not every person in your class earns as much as you do.... an average-looking pale THOT can jump on OnlyFans and immediately earn more money than a top tier male wage earner. Just as an average “6/10” can’t start an OF and earn $14k per month. So…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 09:16 PM
3

Far too overt. If you had other options as good as her then you would’ve just ignored until she explicitly said she was free. Make that your goal.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:13 AM
4

We often talk about hypergamy as if it's universal truth and if a girl dumps you for someone else that it's basically always because you have lower socioeconomic/sexual value than the others she dumps you for. No. It’s not because you actually have lower value than her branch, it’s because she perceives you to have lower value than her branch. Was I weak when she dumped me? Blue pilled? Beta? Yes, all those things. But I've always had alpha, hard-work mentality in me; I just didn't let it shine …
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:29 AM
12

Long story short: she started emotional drama over a damn text, so i simply soft nexted her for a week. After a week goes thru i write her, invite her to meet up, she says she’s not coming over after not taking for over a week That is not a soft next. A soft next is when you don’t initiate contact and when/if she does, you act like nothing happened. You initiating gave her power. And I’m guessing from your 1000 words after the above (which admittedly, I haven’t read) is the actual cause of your …
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:00 PM
247

”I had them but I wasn’t using them so I deleted them” You don’t need to say anything else. Girls don’t care about your opinions.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:31 PM
6

has a sugar daddy and just got kicked out. is hanging around some super weirdo guy because they split the costs of a hotel room used to live In his apartment until one day he choked her out and the neighbors called the cops bc of the yelling. I understand that the type of girls that guys can get is all relative to their SMVs but..... you have been on TRP for over a year so your SMV should be high enough to not even be considering fucking this girl, let alone her taking up so much of your mental …
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:08 PM
1

when she started shit testing again, are these shit tests I could’ve genuinely passed or at this point was she just having fun with making a bitch out of me? Below is the only example that you gave of her shit testing you so I don’t have much to work with I believe at this point she started shit testing me again (again, the DARE/DEER article predicts this). I remember her asking me what I do in my spare time again. I answered, work, gym, martial arts, read. She then asked me what I read...but wa…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 11:24 AM
1

Do you think me teasing her about the fact I was aware I was discussed was bad for any reason or I just imagined this? If so, why? Yes it was a bad decision. Girls prefer things to be natural you have muscles: good genes, not hard work you’re giving her feels: you’re a natural charmer, not implementing things you’ve read on Reddit you fuck her good: you’re an actual sex good, not actually read The Sex God Method you asked her out: you were so taken by her that you just had to ask her out and you…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:18 AM
-1

Just as pushing her on those issues [likely] isn’t going to get him anywhere, ”getting to deal with her depression” isn’t [likely to] either because women don’t like taking personal responsibility. As soon as he acknowledges her depression, he then gives her the opportunity to use this to absolve herself of any responsibility for anything that she doesn’t want to do, irrespective of whether it is the actual reason, or not. And when she uses that reason, he has no overt or covert techniques to co…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:24 AM
0

You can’t drag people along with you, either they see the value and come or they don’t and get left behind. Do your own thing, if she makes no effort to improve then consider whether it’s worth your time staying with her.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:43 PM
1

Girlfriend and I start dating about a month ago, fucking 2-3x a day for the whole month. A day as in you see her every day... Or the days when you see her? If you see her every single day for a month then that is your biggest problem. I'm like "Damn did I make you feel like you can't say no?" Which was probably an extremely stupid question. Then "That's okay haha sometimes people aren't feeling it." Also stupid probably. Yes, you failed the shit test. Betazisation is starting but I’m not surpris…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 12:47 PM
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We agreed to meet at this certain time. So i reached her place earlier Was she ready at the agreed time? If you got there earlier and didn’t want to wait until that agreed time then that’s your error, not hers. If she was actually late then you did the right thing by leaving.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:58 AM
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Any thoughts on best way to proceed? Text for logistics. You have been on one date and are already calling her a ‘potential plate/LTR’ so that tells me that you either don’t know the sidebar or you are already over invested. Which ever it is, you are more likely to ruin you chances with her if you do not text for logistics.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:48 PM
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Talk about going Rambo.. Yes you were too sensitive to her attitude. You need to think about why her attitude affected you. My guess is your insecurity that she may cheat/have cheated while away. Your boundaries about her posting thirst pictures aren’t too strict. However, you need to think about why she is posting them in the first place. What actions did you or did you not take regarding her and your relationship that led her to this? Has she always done this and you still promoted her to LTR …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:36 PM
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I am unwillingly involved in some petty feud with another dude at the gym. Some examples: -Ignores me while looking at me while I ask him a question. -Whenever I make eye contact he makes this like weird snap doing a double take trying to intimidate me lol. Any tips? Stop creating situations that put you in this position.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:57 AM
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Stop escalating to “oblivion”. This is far too much pull and far too much validation. When you invite a girl over, she knows that you want to fuck her = validation. If she comes over, you know that she’s open to fucking you. Now you start escalating = validation. But if all you do is escalate, escalate, escalate then why does she actually need fuck you in order to continue to get that validation rush from you? She doesn’t, she can continue to say “no.. it’s too soon” knowing that you’ll keep on …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:15 AM
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Fuck her and then go no contact and block her use a condom or just go no contact That is the second worst thing you can do (behind trying to get back with her) when she’s trying to get your validation back to boost her ego as it gives her the closure that you still desire her sexually.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:37 PM
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Attraction will certainly have been lost. Whether it’s to the point of her looking to branch swing remains to be seen so just keep on as you were doing (apart from crying) but monitor her behaviour.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:26 PM
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For a woman to have increased attraction from your hobby, she needs to either A, have an interest in it herself but also be lower than you in capability, or B, be able to see some benefit to herself from you doing it So if you’re not making money from your hobby (voiding option B), it ultimately this depends on what type of girls you’re gaming. If it’s the type of girls who don’t have any interest in video games, you can either pursue another hobby instead or simply not disclose this to them.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 10:42 AM
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Do not arrange dates with new girls on Friday or Saturday nights. It shows that you do not have anything better to do than maybe get some of her pussy. i.e. social and sexual scarcity and pedestalization Do not wait around for girls like some puppy. If she cannot give a definitive time that she can meet you and does not let you know when she is leaving, you assume that she is going to bail. You cancel the date and make other plans if you want to.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:29 PM
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You want to FWB a girl who you haven’t yet fucked and isn’t your friend.... Step 1, fuck her Step 2, fuck her again Step 3, keep on just fucking her Step 4, if she starts to give you non-sexual benefits then you can promote her to FWB but if not, you keep on just fucking her. This would have been obvious if you’d actually read and understood the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 10:58 AM
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me and this girl where fwb no sex though. Do you mean oral and hands by this? Or nothing sexual? If the latter then she’s just a friend... But during the relationship she kept trying to make me jealous constantly when I was around her she would constantly .... and her kissing other guys. I didn’t react while she kept doing it and didn’t really care since the redpill said not too. we said we love each You said that you love your her and then try to act like you don’t care that she’s kissing other…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:51 PM
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Bullshit. There’s girls for every bracket of guys, and yes, even you. You can either keep on this track of denial and avoidance or you can go out, game girls in your bracket and get some pussy.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 03:09 PM
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Why can’t people on this sub just be realistic for once and accept that some men are too ugly and/or short to be likeable by women, that there is almost nothing that they can do about that? It’s all relative. Focus on girls in your bracket.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:35 AM
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Google “BDSM”
/r/askTRP20/11/20 02:40 PM
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Nigga I literally said I wanted to know why, then you said it doesn’t matter, then you said I should no why to be a better dom. Regardless thanks You misinterpreted. I said: “Why does it matter [in terms of whether it should be considered a dealbreaker] if you tell her when you’re fucking other girls if she asked to know?”
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:41 PM
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And I felt it as a control aspect but I guess it doesn’t matter - so what just tell her I’m fucking a couple other people right now and leave it at that? If you are unsure about a sub’s rule then as a dom you need to clarify that with your sub. Maybe she wants to protect herself from STIs/STDs, maybe she doesn’t like the idea of you fucking another girl just before you see her or maybe she gets off on knowing you’re fucking other girls. Ultimately, you don’t know and knowing why, whatever the re…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:22 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks this bdsm, rules etc shit is silly and stupid? It's just sex. Why make it such a big deal. All sex is about dominating and submitting. Are you going to fist her and beat the shit out of her because you need rules? I don't get it. Sounds like a bunch of fifty shades of grey fantasy shit while in reality it's just aggressive sex. BDSM is about a lot more than just aggressive sex...
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:14 PM
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I guess what I’m askin is whyd she preface with no relationship. I’m good on someone that doesn’t respect me lol Who cares? Maybe she just wants to be your plate, have some fun with you and nothing more. I don’t see the problem here. Other than that, would you consider those rules on me fucking other people a breaker? Or just say no and if she’s still down she’s down Why does it matter if you tell her when you’re fucking other girls if she asked to know? Her asking for this tells you that she ex…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:08 PM
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Chick heard I’m into bdsm and asked to participate then sent a bunch of rules like not at work, only when she wants it basically, it’s strictly only sexual cause she “doesn’t want a relationship” In a BDSM relationship, it is common for the sub to set “rules” which are essentially hard limits and for the dom to respect them. So while the sub gives up control to the dom, it is ultimately the sub who is in control through its limits. This isn’t a frame grab attempt, it helps prevent the dom (and e…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:05 PM
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You say you are an 8/9 but you leave out that you’re 6’2 and 145lbs. Hotness to girls isn’t just about your face, it is also about your frame, demeanour and body composition. You need to bulk up.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:43 AM
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You can come here every day, read the words, learn the concepts and apply them easily enough as you now know how to act in certain situations. However, that doesn’t mean that you actually know the concepts: you simply know the words and how to act, rather than the underlying reasoning behind them and why they are so important.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:04 PM
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I’ve been a long time lurker here and pretty much know this shit like the back of my hand, You don’t know shit. If you did know this shit like the back of your hand you would not Spend your time talking to a girl who is long distance. Get oneitis for her. Let what she says affect how you treat her. I know this whole story is beta as fuck Yes. That is because you’ve acted beta as fuck. Go back to the sidebar and actually understand the reasons behind the posts.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:38 PM
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It is doable if you ended things but it can be trouble. There is more chance to develop oneitis with her over a new girl. It can increase her craziness as she is now giving her pussy up without any commitment from you, which she previously secured. If she sees or hears about you doing things with another girl, that she is not getting from you because of her demotion, she may cause drama which breaks the plate faster than a new girl. Always use a condom and be very vigilant about what you do with…
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:43 AM
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Stop meeting up with her Collect your things and give her the key back. Forget about the dog, it is now her responsibility. She ended things with you so there is no coming back from this, do not entertain even the slightest bit of interest from her. Block her and forget about her. Work on increasing your value.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:23 AM
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What’s the end game with a plate that never pushes for anything, whom you fuck once a week, and whom you literally only text for logistics? If she never pushes for more then the end game is that you keep fucking her until you get bored of her. If she pushes for more and she has earned it other than simply opening her legs for you then you can consider promoting. One of my plates is like this, but I can’t see myself continuing like this for ever, we have done this for the past 3-4 months, with no…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:10 PM
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You looking better will only work as dread if there is also the opportunity for you to find better women than her and she wants to keep you. So first of all you need to do more things without her that put you in situations where you could find other women. If that doesn’t work then you need to work towards ending things because if you don’t, she will get fatter as she becomes more comfortable and realises that you will stay with her regardless of her weight increasing. Ironically, she will then …
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:12 PM
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Why? Do you want to fuck him?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:51 AM
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What do you think? What does the sidebar say?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:47 AM
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Should I just tell her to “plan us a date” since she flaked on me the first time? No. You arrange it. I know men are supposed to arrange the date but I feel as though it’d be more beta to plan another one just for her to flake again. It doesn’t take much time investment to say ”let’s meet at [whatever place] on [whatever day] at [whatever time]”. You shouldn’t be planing something extravagant or elaborate. That is beta.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 09:16 AM
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If you’re not putting on any weight, muscle or fat, then you need to eat more.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:35 PM
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So, I have recently been inviting girls straight over from tinder to smash, I set it up as "to share a bottle of wine / or to share a joint" depending on my mood. I usually give them a quick house tour which is quite fun, then we smoke the joint, back to my bedroom, and then we fuck. Never any LMR or anything. Sounds perfect. I kinda wanna have more fun tho as this is getting kinda boring. Get better plates or increase your SMV so that they are worried about keeping you entertained. How does coo…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:20 PM
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Stop having actual conversations with plates. They should simply be a hole to make your dick feel good, nothing more.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:15 PM
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This girl and I have been flirting with each other, and its been escalating. At the same time, i've been doing the same so its kinda obv that Im showing interest too. Look, when you flirt with a girl you’re covertly telling her that ”I want to fuck you” and if she flirts back, she’s covertly telling you that ”I may want to fuck you”. That was last week. This monday, she suddenly acts really cold to me, like doesnt acknowledge me, doesnt make eye contact with me, etc as if she's purposely withdra…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:03 PM
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Girl is 18 and say she wants to get married at 25, because girls should get married young. She cooks and cleans but here’s the thing. You are not considering marrying her so why do you care what she wants? She said she’s getting tested for herpes and will know the results Friday. She definitely has herpes. So I asked if she felt that way before knowing she may have herpes and she said yea but now I just feel like she’s lying and using me for her own agenda. Why do you care? And it sucks cause sh…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:31 PM
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There’s so much wrong with this post considering that you’ve been here for over a year. Just read and implement the goddamn sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:34 AM
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Me: Hey. Our little sleepover was fun. This is cringe. We definitely had some chemistry and I won't lie, the sex was preeetty damn good. There is no need to be so overt. Telling a girl that the sex was pretty damn good is giving her too much validation, it conveys to her that you do not get sex like that often which gives her power ie. you want something that only she can offer you. As if you did get it often, you would not feel the need to mention it. We should hangout again this weekend. This …
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:03 AM
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When a girl becomes jealous because of another girl towards a guy, it tells her that the guy has options and therefore is high value increasing her attraction to him. Then because of their solipsism, they think that it works the other round when the opposite is true.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:11 PM
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Girls know what is and isn’t acceptable behaviour in a monogamous LTR. So if they are happy in one, their hypergamy pulling them to you will stop them from doing things that you don’t like and putting themselves in situations where they may seek or entertain other guys that they would fuck. If they aren’t happy, they will do the opposite regardless of whether you’ve made overt boundaries because their hypergamy is pulling them away from you. I can’t think of any examples where this doesn’t apply…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 10:57 AM
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Your post history is a train wreck: she dumped you and you took her back you need to lose weight you got insecure at her ex You need to improve yourself first if you want to get the things that you want in life. It’s all in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:28 AM
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I kinda disagree here....I would probably explain and seek to understand, but most reasons given are really just excuses. I wouldn't just walk away without some further inquiry, but after hearing her out and if she is still refusing, I'd be a ghost Explain/inquire and seek to understand... To what benefit? As you said, you won’t get the truth. Ultimately, if a girl has attraction for you but rejects a sexual suggestion then you’re either not using enough plausible deniability to overcome her ASD…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:39 PM
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You need to manage your LTR better and stop DEERing.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:59 AM
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if I know what behaviours I will accept in a relationship and nothing less then is that really a bad thing? You have standards and won’t settle for less. That’s a good thing. For example one girl I broke up with because she didn't give me blowjobs as much as I liked. This might sound excessive but I didn't feel like it was at the time. Maybe it was... It’s not excessive if either she was actually rejecting sucking your cock, you tried to train her and she wasn’t receptive or you just didn’t want…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:37 AM
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The easiest way is to just hold her, let her talk and say some phrases of acknowledgement and understanding. When she’s done, give her a kiss and then be upbeat and suggest doing something else to change the mood.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 08:52 AM
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she blew me in public, in a dark corner of the park. As I was walking home with her she asked me “Were you expecting that when we met tonight?”” I told her that expectations lead to disappointment and i hate being disappointed. Handled well? Not terribly but not well. Why’d she ask me that? It was a shit test. Every girl knows that when you arrange to meet her that you want to fuck her. So if the date is going well with IOIs from both sides but you don’t escalate to fuck her, it tells her that y…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:39 AM
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Look, when considering to fuck a guy, every woman is already thinking about the long term suitability: ”Is he alpha enough to protect me while also giving me the security I need?” If you shut that security fantasy down before you’ve even fucked or she has become invested and emotionally attached from your alpha feelz, then as she has 100 of guys trying to fuck her and is already fucking 3-6 of them who haven’t shut that down or have but she’s attached to them, her hypergamy and ASD can kick in t…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:54 AM
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Not a shit test. She just wanted to cum. If a girl doesn’t cum then eventually she’s going get to the stage where she weighs up whether fucking you without cumming is worth everything else you offer her. If it’s not then she’ll stop fucking you. It’s that simple.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 06:38 PM
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that's what my friends say, and i suppose i let it get to my head in regards to my self perception of my smv. but my friends are simps, and that's why i came here. Your “simp” friends have more awareness of this type of female behaviour than you do. Do some more reading and understanding as you’re likely lacking elsewhere. i guess if they let me do that to them, they are letting other guys at my smv do that to her. fuck. No shit. you think these tinder/hinge girls just let random guys finish in …
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:57 AM
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No because women LIE
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:47 AM
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i may have to drop/freeze this one as she is too promiscuous for my tastes -- i usually only have unprotected sex with all my plates so i want to cut down the risk. They are all promiscuous. Do you actually think a plate is only fucking you and only letting you go raw in her?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:34 AM
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Stop caring about what a plate does when she’s not with you. Guess what, those other plates you have.. they’re fucking other guys too.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:25 AM
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Any tips on how to be not so butthurt? Like in general, I don't really care for this girl but lately I seem to find myself getting butthurt over trivial things. You need to develop your own self worth rather than getting that from how other people perceive you and react to you. My thought process for saying those stuff is to incite her fantasy so she could be thinking it about it? At least now I know I shouldn't do this. You could have either done it at the time or told her what you’re going to …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:16 PM
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Im sure she is DTF (In the beginning I immediately tell her what my intention was and she is down) but when we chat she seems to have an inflated sense of ego thinking that she is some hot shit like HB10. No wonder. She knows that at 3 o’clock in your day, you were sitting there fantasying about what you want to do with her. What would be a good reply for this? Initiate a meet up. This should have been done before you started giving out so much validation. And how should I proceed? I want her to…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:22 PM
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She seems to be more assertive than a regular girl by telling me that I'm handsome and ask me are you single. What I'm thinking right now is just inviting her out for a coffee date, seeing where things go. What do you guys think about this situation? Do not ask her for a coffee as she does not need comfort and easing in. Go straight for a bar meet up and then back to your place after two or three drinks.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:45 PM
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Dual-mating strategy.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:29 PM
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Why be in a LTR if you never plan on getting married? 99% of relationships are temporary and then 40 to 50% of marriages are temporary. So being in a LTR doesn’t mean that you even need think about getting married to her (if getting married is something... for some reason... that you want to do) and marrying your LTR certainly doesn’t mean that you’re going to live happily ever after. I think most guys here know by now that marriage is a bad deal for guys, no matter what. Agreed. So the other op…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:59 PM
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Now, I have been telling her since the beginning of the relationship, that I am not looking for marriage because I don't like the idea and because I don't want to give half of my shit away. This isn’t the best explanation for women. Because of their solipsism and how they never have the concern of losing half of their shit, they just won’t accept this explanation as a valid reason against marriage. She confirmed that she is fine with it but she would like to marry. To which I replied, that it's …
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:18 AM
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The attraction she has for you will plummet once the dust settles and she realises that you didn’t have anything or anyone better to do than spend your Friday night on a video chat first date.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:29 PM
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What would guys say when you get the "i have a boyfriend" shit test especially when you know she's doesn't have one and has given you dom IOIs IHAB can mean that a) it’s a shit test and she’s trying filtering out betas, b) she does or doesn’t have a boyfriend but she’s not comfortable being approached in that setting, or c) she’s just not interested in you. If she’s been giving IOIs then it’s likely that it’s a) or b) and you need to calibrate accordingly. If the setting is somewhere that she wo…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:44 AM
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Good point. But at the same time, I might come across confident as I'm fully myself and not overthinking stuff. That is also worth something? And that is what I mean: That way I'm thinking: 'I had a great time, I came across something funny and I want to tell her', You can tell her that you a great time at the end of the date. Then when you arrange to meet her again, it reaffirms that you had a great time and want to do it again. You messaging her something funny that you came across tells her t…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:37 AM
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What if I just say from now on, I don't care no more. Would not that be enough game? If I want to text her something right after the date, I text her. If I want chat on the phone sometime I do. But I still be to the point and make sure I push for what I want. Dates/sex etc. Would that be a good strategy? No. The sidebar is there to help guys who aren’t successful with women learn and implement successful strategies from guys who are successful with women. This whole “just do what you want to do,…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:05 PM
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1) While I know their value is depreciating do they start looking for beta bucks this early? 2) If every girl seems to want a relationship, how do I manage this without leading anyone on? I know women used to do it to me but that's not the type of person I want to be. Any advice? They are all looking for both alpha fucks and beta buck as both generate relationship feels. The difference is how a girl treats AF and BB before a relationship. For a BB, she knows that he doesn’t get much sex (but wan…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:43 AM
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Because the most successful guys with women aren't reading those books and spending ridiculous amounts of time thinking about all this. That’s correct, you don’t need to read the materials. They all have mystical powers that magically make you successful with women and in life just from being in a member of this sub.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:57 PM
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I’ve added clarity in bold. If you want to end the meeting before fucking then just use some bullshit reason to kick her out then at some point after you’ve kicked her out youmessage saying “sorry babe, I hate that I had to do X/Y/Z. Let’s do it again on X day. Is that good for you?” And then ghost or end things.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:39 PM
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If you want to end the meeting before fucking then just use some bullshit reason, message saying “sorry babe, I hate that I had to do X/Y/Z. Let’s do it again on X day. Is that good for you?” And then ghost or end things. But it will be pretty difficult to put a false rape accusation on you if you didn’t actually fuck her that night.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 11:21 PM
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If you’re worried about false accusations then message the following day saying something like “I had a good time last night, let’s do it again/I’m free on X day if that suits you”. Once you get a response from her in agreement with you then you can just ghost or become distant and then message to end things. You’ll never be fully covered from false accusations but that’s a way to tip things in your favour if they arise.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:51 PM
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I'm saying no more often and standing up for myself But it seems like people aren't liking me that much anymore - why is that? And I promise I didn't just turn into an unlikeable asshole. You being agreeable or doing things for other people tells them that they are above you. People like that feeling and like you for making them feel that way. You now not doing that and them being unable to force you to what you previously did is making them feel insecure. People don’t like that feeling, don’t l…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:26 PM
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The other days everything was fine and dandy, and today she takes forever to reply to my texts. She said she got a lot of homework But I don't know what to say, I am applying dread right now until she gives me a message. Maybe soft next? What do you guys think? This overreaction sounds like you’re the one who’s experiencing dread. Mimic her response times and message lengths but with + and - whatever amount you decide. Because if she’s disinterested in engaging with you, you convey that you’re m…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 11:24 AM
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If you want to fuck then you arrange to meet. If a girl actually wants to fuck then she’ll arrange to meet. It’s that simple. If a girl sends something suggestive and doesn’t follow up with arranging to meet you then the chances are she doesn’t actually want to fuck you and it’s beta bait.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:24 AM
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Tonight she just messaged me ‘please tell Me your up’ and ‘I’m horny’ to which I replied ‘yes’ and then she goes ‘it doesn’t matter if not I’ll sort myself out’ Beta bait and then I called her and was like ‘want me to come round’ to which she said ‘it’s fine’. Definitely beta bait. I think she wants me to be like ‘nah please let me come round’. Like she wants me to lose frame completely. Yes, she wants you to say that so that she knows she’s got you hooked and you have no other options. The best…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:21 PM
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I met this amazing girl a few weeks back and we're both really into each other. Is she ltr/marriage worthy? Read the sidebar posts about LTRs and get back to me.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:42 PM
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How do I learn not to take it seriously? Any advice? Make sure that your own happiness and fulfilment is derived from elsewhere in your life
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:47 PM
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How do I stop hating women for their nature? I don’t know how you can stop hating women. For me it was down to taking a step back, realising that it’s all a game of manipulation and power between both the sexes. Then just enjoying the game for what it is and not taking it seriously, improving and becoming more successful at it. If you take the game seriously and lose then you’ll become angry and frustrated, you’ll blame the winner for having an unfair advantage or not playing by some covert rule…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:16 PM
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She occasionally makes little jabs like out of the blue asking me if I get jealous of guys with big dicks, or when we're dirty talking she'll tell me I've got a pathetic dick to get a rise out of me and make me be more rough with her. Sounds like she has an emasculation kink. Tread carefully. I always hold my frame and give an amused response and I don't let her see that it bothers me, but the truth is I've been insecure about my dick in the past and these little quips are like death by 1000 cut…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:55 AM
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Is there any warning signs I should know with women who get tats after breakup? Yes. That is the warning sign.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:48 PM
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I texted a plate ive known for two weeks asking her to meet me tomorrow. She says “just a heads up, I am on my period” I said “ I still want to see you even though you’ll be pretty useless to me” She’s a plate. Her ONLY purpose is for you to empty your balls. Why would you want to see her if she’s “useless” to you and you have other options to empty your balls in? I honestly appreciate her letting me know, but was put on the spot to agree to chill with her regardless. You were not on the spot. Y…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:24 PM
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I hear you on this. But are you saying that you would just carry on as usual and not soft next her for leaving you to hang out with other guys, since she's just a plate and can do whatever she wants? Okay. I assumed it was in general, not a specific example where she left you to hang with them. After reading that part, I would: Soft next if she regularly and happily hangs with you at the club until you are done. As her leaving this time tells you that something has changed towards you or with or…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:36 AM
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Soft nexting Unicorn for hanging with gym "friends" I started things off with a new plate that I approached in the park about 2 months ago, She’s a plate... of 2 months. She can hang and fuck with whoever she wants, as you can do. I had it in my mind that this may eventually turn into an LTR, even though I’m still seeing a few other plates in the meantime. You’ve posted this wall of text (most of which I have skipped) because you’ve created a covert contract: ”I am thinking about LTRing her one …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:45 AM
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I’ve had a plate say that we can hangout but we can’t fuck tonight I still hungout with her because I do like her for more than sex A plate is someone who you just fuck A FWB is someone who you do fun stuff with and also fuck. Now you’ve allowed her to promote herself to your FWB simply from her withholding sex. She didn’t get that promotion because she earned it through adding value to your life and worked hard to earn being a part of your free time. All she had to do was say “no sex tonight” a…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:20 PM
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I wouldn’t advise ignoring her entirely because even though her behaviour wasn’t desired by you, the actual reason for it (i.e. the shit test) was because she was interested and covertly wanted you to show your dominance, and that is desired behaviour. If you can’t think of a response to a shit test, then ignoring and moving the conversation on to something else is fine as it’s better than failing it. A simple: ”Okay [call her the name of some woman who acts tough e.g. Miss Trunchbull] meet me o…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:59 PM
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In a frustrating time, what's the TRP protocol on venting or talking about your frustrations? Yes to you SO? No to your SO's? Never show ANY weakness in a LTR as it will never result in increased attraction. Best case is she doesn’t lose attraction. Worst case is she does lose attraction. This is not a good situation. Women are highly emotional so to them, emotion is a feminine trait and subconsciously, they need a rock to polarise their highly emotional state. Even if your display of emotion (i…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:09 AM
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I was snapchatting with this girl with whom I have a long history and report built up. So you haven’t fucked but you’ve been validating her by messaging for a long time. Is that correct? Anyway, we are snap chatting and she starts acting bossy. I’m not at all a fan of that, so I tell her. Conversation went like this: Her: “I’m the boss in this relationship” Me: “lmao no” Shit test failed. Would the ‘boss’ in any relationship actually need to be so overt and say “no” in order to reaffirm their st…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:25 AM
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Any guy who meets a girl on a Friday (or Saturday) night that he hasn’t fucked yet, let alone met, basically tells her that he either doesn’t have abundance (or else why would he give up guaranteed pussy for the chance of some), doesn’t have a good social life (or else he would be out with his bros) or that he’s pedestalizing her (by giving either of them up to see her)
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:23 PM
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You have been on TRP for 3 years so I’ll ask you some questions: Is it still worth asking a girl to be your girlfriend? I’m 32 now, and have been seeing a girl for a good two months. I feel like it’s at the point where I should ask her to be my gf, How long do the posts in the sidebar suggest you should be seeing a girl before you give up your exclusivity? I even refer to her as my gf to my colleagues, What do the posts in the sidebar say about how you should be acting when you have not yet give…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 12:08 PM
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Does she just want me as an orbiter, or is she actually interested in me? Stop wasting so much of your time thinking about what this girl wants. Find out for yourself. ISOLATE and ESCALATE
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:43 AM
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Organise a night out with your friends in advance: “Hey, there’s this new bar I want to go to. Are you both free on Saturday? It would be cool having a night out together.” If that fails then meet new people. Join some evening classes, get involved in a local sports team, go to a sports bar while a game is on and talk to people at the bar, make small talk with guys you regularly see at the gym and go from there.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:56 AM
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She was giving you IOIs but as you pussied out and didn’t isolate and escalate, she gave up with you and created physical distance to make it clear to other guys that she was available and that your chance had gone. That’s assuming you didn’t say or do anything to make her lose attraction.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:46 AM
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Now question is - should i still give this girl attention? No. You made it clear that you only want to fuck her and she has declined that arrangement. Giving her attention now will make you an orbiter. Don’t be so upfront and direct in future We met up once, which was just to talk and walk. She was blunt in saying shes heard about my reputation with women - i played it off as gossip..... Told her i find her attractive and know its mutual then said told her i dont want an ltr but happy to see eac…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:44 AM
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Plate of few weeks randomly told me to fight with her during foreplay. I though ok she likes it rough so pinned her arms over her head and then she said she likes having verbal fights. This could be code for ”degrade me”. If it is then I wouldn’t consider that crazy. 2 days later she saw me with friends and introduced herself. Now she has infiltrated my friend circle and is getting clingy. Infiltrated how? Has she befriended them and is getting in to your circle and meet-ups through them, rather…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:59 AM
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Wait a second... so you’re telling me girls (as in actual female humans) play mind games? Who would’ve thought that. If only there was a trove of information dedicated to informing and explaining things such as this about female humans and how we, male humans, could react.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:56 AM
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today I was texting a girl back and forth and she said I was super cute /pretty handsome. You should not be texting all day, especially to a girl who you haven't even met yet. This conveys to her that you have scarcity and nothing better to do in you life. Neither of which are attractive. Text enough to build some comfort then when the conversation is at a high point, you suggest to meet up. She asked for more pictures too ( online app, we haven’t met yet) but when I suggested we hang out or may…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:55 AM
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Was there anything I could have done to stop this plate breaking? If you want to just plate girls (i.e. only fuck them) then stop taking them out on dates every time that you want to fuck them. Dates before you’ve fucked are just a way to find out whether or not you want to fuck each other. When it’s been established that you want to fuck each other again then there is no need for constant dates. All they do is build comfort by conveying that you enjoy spending non-sexual time with them and want…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:00 PM
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Did you guys have any advice how to prevent further bullshit? Send something like this over text if she starts to pursue you: ”You’re a cool girl and I enjoy working with you but I’m not looking for anything outside of that” Avoid any situation where it will be just the two of you. Keep any conversation purely work related and bring any conversation that she starts which aren’t work related back to work things. Divert as much communication as you can through documented channels. Ignore her messa…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 09:57 AM
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It was a shit test which you failed. You panicked when you thought it was true, then got angry when she said it wasn’t. You demonstrated twice to her that you are not in control of your emotions and that she can affect you. Girls always shit test if they care and are unsure about your standing; so punishing them for this is either punishing them for caring, or punishing them for you not making them sure of your standing. If you would have reacted unaffected initially then there wouldn’t be any p…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:41 AM
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How To Get A Plate/FWB To Respect Your Time? You can’t get a girl to respect your time, she either respects it or she doesn’t. What you should be doing is filling your “free time” with working on your mission, social meetings, gym, other girls etc so that your free time is actually valuable. This translates to you not always being available to chat/meet when she wants and when you can, it’s limited and on your terms. If she wants to see you then she’ll respect your time as if she doesn’t, she kn…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:23 AM
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Other nights I see my last text exchange with her fall silent earlier. If i’m chilling solo that night I’ll always be thinking to myself what she got into but I never ask. Hmm. It’s as if only texting for logistics has multiple benefits....
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:33 PM
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tried dread game didn’t work, could it be certain behaviours (validating her too much, not having boundaries, etc) that are my problem? You either 1) weren’t applying dread properly, or 2) were but she simply does not care about the relationship. You need to figure out which one it is - there’s no other option.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:26 AM
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HB8 plate says she doesn't want to have sex until a serious relationship, ofc that's crazy. She doesn't buy into the notion that "I like to take things slow" and "I take my time". Thing I want to know is, do I say it's serious, fuck her, then ghost her, or drop her altogether. Honestly I wouldn't be putting this much thought if she wasn't that hot. Thanks for your answer. You have been here a year and you don’t even know what a plate is. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:16 PM
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She wants exclusivity and will do anything for it. Keeper? No Positives: Great sex, down for any adventure, submissive, caring emotionally, These should be a minimum requirement for a LTR, not positives. Positives should be adding tangible value to your life. Negatives: No previous LTR experience, not a great relationship with her father, high N-count, pothead, basic girl (community college, tik tok, ig, cardi B), no real exercise routine, kind of boring personality (not as electrifying or inter…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:40 AM
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u/trpcops Just be direct man. "This behaviour makes me feel like X". Or try and understand. "I noticed you do X, why do you do that?" Then once she explains why she does it, tell her how it makes you feel. If she has respect for you, or wishes to please you, she'll stop. By u/Leonardslemons
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:34 PM
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It's pretty clear she's not really interested anymore, but I have no idea why she would suddenly lose interest. This could be why.... She seemed very into me, she was the one to ask me out on the second date, had no issues with me kissing her neck, feeling her ass and boobs, i even rubbed her pussy and she was fine with all of that. You didn’t escalate to sex when she gave you the green light. I asked her on our second date if she's free on thursday, Planning a future date while on a date is too…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:45 PM
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Was this the right move on my part or could have handled the situation better? I would have taken him some place away from the group and checked him one on one but you handled it okay: her response was passive, possibly not knowing how to react to his disrespect and so you stepped in to deal with it. If her response wasn’t passive and was dealing with it herself, however, then I would have said that you were wrong to step in. Ultimately, the answer on whether you handled it well will come from h…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:08 PM
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But because you have a kid together I’m going to tel you to go talk to her, tell her you care about her, tel her how you feel and your worries about that man, etc. Never... I repeat NEVER do this. Please actually read and understand the sidebar and the top posts on the main sub before giving advice here.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:54 PM
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What should i do in that case? You block her and if she does find a way to get in contact with you, you ignore her. Im not looking for revenge or anything i just want to know what should i do to stop feeling this anger and depression? What are you angry and depressed about? You dated for 7 months, turned beta which lowered your perceived SMV to her and then she dumped you. Learn from your mistakes and move on. And also what it means when a girl acts like this saying she doesnt want you but still…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:44 AM
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So what i am asking is how can i deal with this situation without seeming too jealous or insecure? Is there anything i can even do to prevent anything from happening between them when they decide to meet? Any advice appreciated. If a girl is in a monogamous relationship then she knows what actions she takes are right and wrong. She is instinctively aware of unspoken relationship boundaries and when/if she’s putting herself in to a situation that could (immediately or in the future) jeopardise th…
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:16 PM
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me and my LTR got into a little argument yesterday and I maintained frame. I’ve separated this for you. Hope it helps.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:01 PM
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My question is, if every girl is capable of cheating and branch swinging, why are we automatically canceling out women who cheat with you for ltrs while basically we acknowledge that every woman is capable of doing that and it’s their nature? Your first skydive is difficult but after that, they get much.. much easier.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:06 PM
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Did my LTR just disrespected me in front of other women? She was at work doing stuff and I got into her office to give her something she needed, no big deal. This all depends on what you dropped off. Something essential: fine, she really needed it. Something nonessential but she wanted it: you look like a bitch. She was on her computer and when I got close to show her something on the computer, she started pointing things out to me in a snappy, "you are bothering me" kind of way. I was being pat…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:01 PM
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Girl said she needed more time before before we went further physically. What do I do? You need your actions to be congruent with your goals. You are giving off boyfriend vibes yet wanting to fuck her quickly. If she likes you, boyfriend vibes cause her ASD to kick in and she plays the good girl card so you don’t think that she’s a slut. Went a for a big full-day date on Sunday. You have nothing else going on than to dedicate spending a whole day with a girl that you hadn’t even met yet. This co…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:33 AM
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Nice guy will come to the date and treat the woman like an equation. The mind flow will be, "If I do A, B and C I will surely get the D". D usually stands for physicall escalation. So what are A,B and C then? It can be anything. Literally. A can be buying her flowers, B can be taking her coat and C can be paying for drinks. It can also be G, E and F and so on and so on. It does not matter. Why? Because you expect. Nice guys who do this and don’t get laid, don’t not get laid primarily because the…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 10:56 AM
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Am I the only one who doesn't like fucking sluts? How many sluts have you fucked? How many sluts can you message or call right now to reliably empty your balls today? That is what sluts are good for and that’s why I like fucking sluts. Seriously, every time a girl is down to fuck and I realize she's a slut I get turned off and don't want to go through with it - mainly because of the lingering thought in the back of my mind that she probably has an STD. She probably doesn’t have a STD. She probab…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:46 AM
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You’ve been here for over 71 days and you don’t even know what a plate is. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:26 PM
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GF moved in last year, after first month it went from every day to 3-4 x a week, and at six months we're at once a week. Typical process in a relationship where the man doesn’t have his shit together how annoyed she is during sex about everything. You’re not even making the limited sex that you have enjoyable for her. This is worse than starfish. She is bratty. Farting on me, pretend slapping my face with taps when I'm not expecting it. that makes me mad and I'll tap her back harder and she gets…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 08:13 AM
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I don’t know why anyone would want to get married but anyway I’ve fixed that for you... ⁠You should never move in with a woman unless you're married & going considering to marry them in the near future. Just as you vet plates for an LTR before giving away your commitment, moving in together should be part of your vetting process for your LTR to be a wife before you’ve proposed. If the LTR goes downhill then you definitely know a marriage won’t work.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 08:24 AM
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serious help only pls? Buy yourself a collar and leash because once she realises that you taking her back means that you 1) can’t do any better than her, 2) have no frame and 3) have oneitis... she’ll go back to: giving me shit and making me her bitch.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:59 AM
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Look, she may still have feelings for her ex but that’s not the actual problem here. The problem is that you didn’t excite her. Do you think she’d still be crying about her ex to Mr Chad Thundercock while his cock is inside of her? So I met this girl four weeks ago...first date coffee... second date we kissed. Then third date she was kinda reluctant to let me kiss her. I pushed for a fourth date to clarify things between us and she told me about her ex fiancee of 3 years she broke up with 1 year…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:49 AM
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She..She..She..She... Read the sidebar. The answers you actually need aren’t what you can do for her, but are what you can do for yourself.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:33 PM
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We're walking and we stop by a convenience store to pick up a bag of ice. I ask her to carry it for a bit and then don't take it back because I'm navigating with my phone.... (and also because I just didn't want to carry it). Why wouldn’t you want to simultaneously demonstrate your masculinity (carrying the bag of ice) and leadership (navigating)? and my pants keep falling down Wear a belt She probably held it for 5-7 minutes until she got mad, but I couldnt tell that she was getting mad because…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:38 AM
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There are no exceptions as it’s not the girl, it’s the man: it’s simply AWALT under the right circumstances. You can be in a LTR with a girl for 5 years. For 4 years, she can be great to you but in the last year when you start to either deteriorate and fuck up your behaviour or not recognise the need to enhance your behaviour to prevent her emotions becoming accustomed to said behaviour, she then cheats/branch swings to replace what you stopped giving her. People here may say AWALT to rationalis…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:59 PM
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Your face matters but so does everything else that comprises your SMV: body, personality, game, status, wealth etc. This goes for casual sex, repeated sex and LTRs. Just using these as a simple example: if everything is a 5 and a girl values them equally, your SMV is 5. If your face is a 1 and everything else is a 5, your SMV is 4.2... but if you want to get this up to a 5: something would need to be a 9 or two things on 7. That is the main reason that we say to lift (and also why MRP discredits…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 08:34 AM
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I wasn’t suggesting that
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:06 PM
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She’s not that attracted to you yet, hence the creepy vibe. It’s the same as when a girl catches a guy staring in a bar: if she thinks he’s hot then it’s enticing, if she doesn’t then it’s creepy. It’s worth persevering though as she seems interested.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:37 PM
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If you guys normally wait for the girl to bring up the talk do you ever mention non exclusivity before then? Always be covert. If you’re seeing other girls regularly (which you should be) then your behaviour subconsciously changes; you can’t always be available to see her if she suggests a time so you’ll suggest another, you won’t always reply as you usually would do if you were on your own, you won’t do things in public that couples do... etc. All of those things will tell her that you’re not e…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:46 PM
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Do I pay on the first date assuming the cost is reasonable? Should I always pay? Should we always split? Paying for her is providing for her and providing for her without her having earned it is a beta trait. It doesn’t matter if the cost is reasonable or even meaningless to you, it’s what it signifies that is what matters. Ideally, your first date should be casual and lost cost anyway so let her pay her own way. But if it’s not, make it clear it in advance that you won’t be paying for her and i…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:40 AM
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Hotel/motel, car, public toilets or literally anywhere outdoors. Although as she thinks that you live alone, any of the above will seem creepy and suspicious unless it’s spontaneous.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 08:55 AM
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Here’s my advice: This is such a melodramatic post that if you carry on actually reading and absorbing the information whilst posting here, you’ll eventually become embarrassed about it and I’m sure you’ll feel the need to delete it at some point. If you do, that’s fine but just save it down beforehand so if you ever start to revert back to your old ways you can read it again and see how far you’ve come.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:34 PM
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sex when I want This is an important part. Is it “sex on demand” in terms of she said you can fuck her whenever you want and she enjoys it or is it that she lays there dry and takes it, hoping it to be over? If the former, you need to increase comfort immediately after but if it’s the latter then you need to increase your dread while making your escape plans, if that doesn’t improve within a few months then leave her.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 08:18 PM
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I meant.. carry on the sexual tone and tell her how you’ll put her in her place when you see her.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:58 AM
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Assuming that she wasn’t playing you... She didn’t ghost you because you put her in her place, she ghosted you because you didn’t put her in her place sexually.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:25 AM
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Run hamster, run
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:13 PM
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Hard next - she sounds crazy
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:27 PM
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So you’re hoping she replies to your open invite and joins you... Do you think her knowing that you have no one in either your social circles or dating life is going to give her the tingles? Forget about this girl and meet other girls. Download dating apps if you can’t meet girls outside
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:44 AM
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Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:34 AM
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Dating apps or as I said, directly ask the girls out who you want to meet with
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:27 AM
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Would it be worth putting up a status asking if anyone would like to go out for dinner? Like using a fishing net. Of course this opens up the risk of potentially being used for a free lunch. What do you guys think of this tactic? Terrible idea It signals that you have no abundance. Why don’t you have any girls who you’re currently fucking who you could ask? It also tells girls that you’re too frightened to be direct and ask them out. Are you afraid of this? If so, ask them out
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:02 AM
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An LTR can be monogamous, but doesn’t have to be. LTR literally just means long term relationship. Literally, yes. However in TRP, LTR is colloquial for girlfriend and unless stated otherwise, there is assumed monogamy.. hence the term OLTR to signify it’s an open long term relationship to differentiate the two.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 05:26 PM
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A plate is a girl who you just fuck A FWB is a girl who you fuck AND spend non-fucking time with A LTR is a girl who you fuck, spend non-fucking time with AND are monogamous So it’s simple: if she’s a plate then you don’t spend non-fucking time with her; if she’s a FWB then you don’t give her your monogamy
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:29 PM
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“bring the movies” Are you still renting VHS from Blockbuster?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:52 PM
1

Do you know what boosts a girl’s self esteem? Attention and validation from guys that she finds attractive yet she’s wanting to change them irrespective of you liking them as they are. End it now. She’s wanting to monkey branch but doesn’t feel like she can currently get the branches she wants. When she can get one, she’ll dump your ass without a second thought.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:55 AM
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Serial monogamist = a lack of impulse control for her hypergamous instinct. It’s a socially acceptable reason and gives her plausible deniability of having a high n-count and being a slut.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:26 AM
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What’s you guys opinion? I’m surprised that an insecure retarded faggot like you is even able to get a girlfriend, and even with considering how fucked up she is, that’s still an achievement so congratulations on that. You LTRd a girl with kids You cheated multiple times purely because of your own insecurity... rather than actually having the strength to end it with her or even being able to detach yourself emotionally from the possibility that she is You didn’t just get caught cheating once, bu…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:31 PM
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DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. Wtf is wrong with you guys on here. Ending it now amicably is the most effective course of action to take. You’re risking your whole career on a girl. If things go south and she’s disgruntled, the best you can hope for is her badmouthing you to your colleagues and affecting your chances of advancement. The worst is getting HR involved and you getting fired. Do you really want all that experience to be lost and you having to explain a lost working time period on your re…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:23 PM
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Generally, you make a move and find out rather than being a texting buddy
/r/askTRP28/02/20 08:41 PM
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He’s a friend of yours but you’re not a friend of his because he clearly doesn’t respect your friendship if he’s willing to do that. I wouldn’t even speak to him about this as he knows what he’s doing - he simply doesn’t care. Speaking to him and telling him to stop is an attempt to negotiate respect - which, like desire, you can’t. He’ll carry on if even if he agrees to stop, either in or out of your presence. Cut him out of your life, you don’t need people like that around you.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 11:29 AM
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It’s like this... When a girl knows her ex is now fucking someone else (who’s hot) so quickly after a break up, this tells her that he has abundance and high SMV which are alpha traits. The realisation that an alpha has cast her aside damages her ego (and in hunter-gather days, her chance of survival), subconsciously she wants his alpha validation back to make herself feel desired again because it was wrong to let him go. When a guy knows his ex is now fucking someone else so quickly after a bre…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:19 AM
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Go to your doctor, explain how stressed and depressed you are (even if it’s bullshit) and get a sick note for the remainder of your time there. In future, avoid talking to girls as much as you can out of earshot of anyone, as well as physical contact. I can’t imagine this false allegation happening to someone who the girls in a workplace enjoying ogling and being around and secretly want to fuck so consider what may have caused her to lie about this about YOU. Do you give off a creepy vibe... Do…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:46 PM
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Whoever she listens to the most needs to remind her that they’re there for her if she ever wants to talk but as she may not be comfortable going in to detail with them, advise her to speak to her doctor to recommend some independent professional help as well. That person could always say so-and-so did it and it helped them. I would advise against using the words therapist or counsellor. Speak to your Father (and siblings), say that she’s clearly stressed and is struggling so it would help her if…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:43 AM
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Don’t waste your time thinking about why... You’re getting everything you want and without any hassle so enjoy it and keep on doing as you have been. Work on whatever insecurity is making you think about this.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 06:21 AM
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Stop overthinking. Invite her
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:43 PM
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Instead of you questioning whether or not her behaviour is sketchy, you should first consider what benefit you’re actually getting from this LTR.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:56 PM
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I saw some ECs posts here that, if she is very experienced in bed or sucks dick very good, she is not relationship material. Why? There’s two ways she can get that experience: Personal i.e. Fucked/sucked a lot of guys. This signals poor impulse control and it being more difficult for her to pair-bond, therefore, more likely to cheat Taught i.e. Been in a relationship where the guy taught her how to fuck or suck dick well. This signals that she was wanting to please him and very submissive to the…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:06 AM
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If you have a career some place that isn't a job you can replace tomorrow Even if someone’s a waiter, bar tender, gas station attendant etc that they can replace tomorrow now, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they will be able to replace tomorrow if they get fired for sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 09:02 AM
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You likely showed too much potential beta providership during your date which caused ASD as part of her good girl routine to shit test you and you failed. Now she sees an opportunity to get your providership. I doubt there’s enough attraction from her to just be a plate so either go on the second date and escalate to a fuck (nexting her if not) or just next her now to save yourself time and effort.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 09:26 AM
10

Girl 1: triggered ASD by mentioning boyfriend Girl 2: failed her “kiss-less virgin shit test”, you should’ve replied with “okay, I’ll teach you”. Then killed any vibe (if there even was one) by being overt about her being difficult. Learn to play the game. Both girls: Poor escalation from you with your timing of going in for the kiss, you need to build up to it by creating sexual tension. Learn how to escalate properly, read de carlo’s escalation ladder on the seduction sub Lost any attraction b…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 08:51 AM
9

You’re 26 and your LTR is a high school dropout who is divorced, has a child, has no life plans and has expressed her previous ability to use people for what they can provide... and yet you’re still considering marrying her? What the fuck dude... Dump this girl. She’ll use you for all she can get and then dump you, in a minutes notice without a second thought, once she doesn’t see any value from you and she’ll never look back. Even if you’re not super good looking as you say ... you can still fi…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:53 AM
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You basically asked the same question yesterday. You have oneitis for an online attention and validation seeking slut that you haven’t even met yet, let alone fucked. You’re hamstering her vast amount of slutty behaviour away because she says she’s a virgin, like that’s the magical variable in the equation to find the perfect girl (free tip: it’s not); and because she’s giving you attention. Fix whatever insecurities you have which are drawing you towards this girl.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:39 AM
3

Giving head is a submissive act, focused on giving someone else physical pleasure with only mental pleasure from the giver. So light bdsm (spanking, tying her up, telling her to do what you want) when she’s really turned on is a good way to get her to experience and possibly enjoy being sexually submissive to you. When she becomes sexually submissive to you, she’ll enjoy swallowing your dick.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:35 AM
5

He’s her alpha. She probably pushed for your commitment once he ghosted her but seeing as she couldn’t even control her excitement to delay her reply until you weren’t with her, the chances are she’s not going to be able to control herself to not meet him and then fucking him will just happen. Either end it now or mentally check out of the LTR and give yourself a month to get some new potential plates before ending it.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:25 AM
4

You lie to your girl about that fat ass in her jeans. You lie to her about how beautiful she looks without makeup. You lie to her about her being a smart, intelligent lady. If she knows that these are lies, the fake validation may make her happy momentarily. However, once she realises that you’re putting aside what you want (a nice ass, her looking good and being with someone intelligent) to appease her and be with her, it will reduce her tingles for you as it tells her that you don’t have abund…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:28 AM
3

The gym.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:00 PM
3

Good. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:46 PM
11

Your first activity on this sub was 219 days ago which means that you’ve been here for at least 7 months and you haven’t started working out yet. Quit being lazy. Open your browser, search for your local gyms, join the best you can afford and lift some weights.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:35 PM
1

I would still advise against that because if it got ugly then it could be detrimental to future jobs as a reference.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:53 AM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:50 AM
2

It’s called “don’t shit where you eat” not “don’t shit where you eat unless a girl stares at you, then you can shit where you eat”...
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:41 AM
2

No, you weren’t. The 2nd date she wants to meet somewhere else, but I want to meet her in another town as it's more easy for me. While making out drunk she did say she does want to visit my city on the 3rd date - she will probably end up in my bedroom then. You suggest your city for the 2nd date because then it gives you the chance to bring her back to your place and actually fuck her. Rather than tiptoeing around for another date and wasting more of your time. I'll just disappear for 2 weeks th…
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:17 AM
3

Stop going on dates with girls 80 miles away. Find a better use of your time and money. Find something cool going on in your city for the second date and invite her. If there’s any resistance then soft next her.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 11:08 AM
2

I decided to hit her up in advance to make plans to hang out and maybe grab drinks and shit. She left me on read. She wasn’t interested. I ended up drunk messaging her again, telling her I'll be in town soon and she should come to my Airbnb and chill, smoke, etc... She then actually replies, saying she's interested in linking up. She’s now interested with only two things changing: the Airbnb and the weed. If she’s unable to fuck at hers then the Airbnb might have swung it. If not, the weed swung…
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:57 AM
1

Did I fuck up here? You firstly fucked up here... She came over for a few minutes to hang out with me. She sat across from me in a cozy chair. I said, come over here so we can cuddle for a sec. By freely handing out your affection. Remember: reward good/desirable behaviour and punish bad/undesirable behaviour. Her sitting across from you was not desirable behaviour so next time don’t reward her with your affection. You then fucked up by being butthurt when she didn’t comply. Next time you should…
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:22 AM
2

Seriously if it’s this easy to get numerous girls numbers, what the fuck are we even here talking about? Acting like we think men should, raising our SMV and getting regular good fucks from girls who we’re attracted to. Not getting a girls’ numbers who we’re.. not very attracted to ... and somehow ashamed...
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:32 AM
0

You suggesting a first date on a Friday night and Valentine’s Day will show her that you have: No abundance or you’re pedestalizing her - otherwise, you would take another girl out who you know will fuck you No social life - otherwise, you would be out with your friends, hitting on the vast amount of drunk, single and lonely girls who want to feel special that night
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:37 AM
10

What is this? This is something that you shouldn’t care about.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:54 PM
2

The principles still apply regardless of the age or societal norms: texting for logistics at plate level signifies abundance. If any get promoted past that then come back and again ask for advice.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:24 PM
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dating for a while I didn’t ever wanna push sex on her I went in for a kiss.. and she gave me a cheek She said I love you What do you guys think? Am I missing something? You weren’t her date, you’re her friend. Have you even kissed this girl?
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:29 AM
1

none of these things make sense to me. if you do nofap for 7 days you should be able to bust 3 times in a row with no refractory period? with 2 weeks nofap it's even greater, like 6 consecutive busts. is it rare to be able to bust multiple times. what sort of hormonal profile would it involve I don’t know why you posed this as a question. You can test this for yourself, if it works then you can provide a potential solution.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:22 PM
2

Unless you have a big dick or high SMV where she sees a point in fucking you again, she probably won’t come back for more. Next time, if you think you have a chance of fucking a girl, have a wank early in the day. If you feel you’re going to bust early, start with positions and angles that help you and if you’re getting close, pull out and finger her until you’ve calmed down.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:43 PM
5

If you had a bad meal would you eat it again?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:41 PM
2

Think of this a different way. You’re trying to tackle the symptom, not the cause of the symptom. The symptom: How do you handle a shit test for complimenting women or essentially being seen as a PUA? The cause: I genuinely enjoy complimenting women on things I think look nice, but Ive been getting this response a lot lately. The issue is that you’re complimenting them because you enjoy it, not as a reward for favourable behaviour. When a reward comes that’s unvalidated, they question your motiv…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:49 PM
2

I asked a girl I've been talking to for about a week if she was free tomorrow and she said "no I'm going to an art show and then on a date". It wasn’t a shit test, she’s just not interested and is covertly telling you that. How do I respond to this? She was showing heavy iois and then suddenly drops this. Don’t respond and next her.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 10:57 AM
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From your lack of frame, you hamstering her disrespectful behaviour and you not even considering ending it: it’s clear that you have oneitis. She was drunk (meaning her inhibitions were lowered) and she started hitting on guys (plural) in front of you. Have some self-respect and see it for what it is: her overtly showing you that she doesn’t respect you and she’s not happy in this relationship. If she’s drunk and willing to do this in your presence, what do you think she does when you’re not the…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:35 AM
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No, do not do this. You’ll be telling her that you want to see her without fucking her which means that she’ll think she’s been promoted from just fucking to being part of your free time. You remind her of the power dynamic by acting unaffected. Downgrade her in your hierarchy of plates if you feel that strongly about this but do not withhold sex.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:37 AM
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It depends on how she views it. If she’s sympathetic (“It’s so sad, he must be so hurt, I feel so sorry for him”) or empathetic (“I’d hate that to happen to me”) then I wouldn’t consider this a red flag. If she’s unaffected (“it is what it is.. they’re still together so he must have got over it”) or rationalises it (“we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors”) then it’s a red flag.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:53 AM
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I'm taking her to my favourite resturant, which is also coincidentally her favourite. It'll be cheap, probably $50 max for both of our meals. Would you split the bill? Yes. You’ve only fucked her once and she’s rich. You clearly need to re-read the sidebar for asking this question. Only asking because I've had plates and girlfriends before moan that I never pay for them, but maybe they were just assholes? Who cares if they moan.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:47 AM
1

We saw each other for a month before we went exclusive. This is your problem. The bitch management hierarchy is there for a reason... it allows you to vet girls for behaviours that you want and don’t want but also allows them to organically work for and earn your exclusivity through congruent behaviours. If they don’t show signs over a long period of time that they’re wanting your exclusivity, you don’t give it to them. You can’t expect a girl to respect you when you’ve given her your commitment…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:38 AM
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She doesn’t respect you nor the time that you spend together. Reduce your time seeing and in contact with her and stop eating out with her (you’re not paying for her are you?) but be normal when you see her. Never show emotion in situations like this, just be matter of fact and say “That’s cool, X just messaged me anyway so I’ll see you another time” then hit up a friend and go and do something else. When you show emotion, they know how to push your buttons and girls love drama. Even if you don’…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:08 AM
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Did you guys ever break this rule but in the end it turned out well? Yes and it has never turned out well. Ultimately, I think it comes down to this: she knows that you could not do any better so this shifts the power dynamic to her as she realises that she’s the prize and then her respect for you plummets.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:47 AM
2

It takes 30 to 60 minutes to fuck and you’re also seeing her without even fucking 3/4 times a month. Even if you’re happy fucking once a month, the fact that she’s not wanting to fuck you more often - on those other three times - is symptomatic of a larger problem. From that and her other behaviour that you listed, you’re basically just her orbiter.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:02 AM
1

The question still applies: are you happy fucking once a month?
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:52 AM
2

... but assuming she’s been loyal to me throughout, what’s your take on this ask trp? From the behaviour you’ve listed, I don’t believe she values you or your commitment. A girl who does would be scared of doing those sorts of things so blatantly out of fear of losing you. Aside from that, Finds it extremely hard to hang out on on one, we hang out maybe 4 times a month. But we text everyday. Are you happy only fucking 4 times a month? If you’re not then you need to either see more of her or end …
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:38 AM
3

Today we are texting on snap and this is how our convo went. Do not communicate on Snapchat. It’s difficult to get around the reply when read aspect of it which hinders your ability to reply with a well thought out response. Her: If you dont get called in to work on friday come through (to her place) Me: its too late to come after ya? You’ve only met this girl once and you’re already telling her that if you aren’t working on Friday night that you’ll see her. You’ve made it clear that you’re alre…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 02:34 PM
2

2 months in to the LTR and she’s already causing this much drama. Just end it, fuck other girls and properly vet before your next one.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:10 PM
1

You probably didn’t fuck up, it’s just all relative. Her ex was an asshole so you’re a nice[er] guy to her. To another girl who didn’t have an asshole ex, you may not be nice. Enjoy fucking her for as long as her attraction lasts, the longer it does the less nice you know you actually are. If it starts to seem like she’s only fucking out of duty to you then it’s your sign to leave. Whatever you or she does; do not commit to her.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:47 PM
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Your options: 1. Should I tell her tomorrow morning that my girl wouldn't be going on this kind of trip? I think we have great chemistry and whenever you're in town we can still hang out as friends. 2. Or I could keep her on and decrease investment while I secure new plates? Spring break isn't until sometime in March. Although I'm compromising some self-respect there. Option 2 and then 1 closer to the time if she still goes. As someone else said, there’s time for her to change her mind about whe…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:09 AM
1

Iron rule of Tomassi #5 says never allow a woman to be in control of the birth. He does. However... I've [20] recently been seeing this girl [22] and we've fucked a couple of times but there seems to be an issue. She repeatedly states that she wants facials, of course not directly but she always implies it. .... You can’t get pregnant from facials. I have ignored it on several occasions as I think it's just a shit test to check if i'll enter her frame and also contradicts this iron rule. She see…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:57 AM
1

I'm a very traditional dude Blue Pill or Red Pill: you need to choose. and the comfort for the children. Many marriages lead to discomfort for the children I ain't making her get any money tho if I die or divorce you know. She’ll get her share.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:28 PM
1

Why are you equating kids to marriage, and marriage to longevity?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:18 PM
1

Why do you want to get married?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:13 PM
1

Mainly this... So this is about my long term oneitis since 2014.... made out once You haven’t even fucked this girl and you’re still hooked in by her after 6 years. But also because she’s been using and manipulating you.. one point I tried to hook up with her and she would always lead me on etc. Typical behaviour to keep a guy in orbit But later on in 2016 she offered to have sex with me we were both naked (but I turned her down..). A girl who actually wants to have sex with you will not offer t…
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:05 AM
3

Hard next. Seeing as you’re even asking this question, you need to read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:44 AM
3

You need to give her plausible deniability. Going for dinner (a “date”) while she has a boyfriend triggered her ASD so you need to get her back to yours or hers as just the two of you and make it seem natural and innocent. When you’re there, you escalate.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:08 AM
2

You are not ready for a LTR nor are you capable of salvaging this. End it now to save yourself wasting however long it takes for her to branchswing.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:00 AM
2

Been exclusive w this girl for about 3 months...we walk into a restaurant sit at the bar bartender asks what we want she orders hers then when the bartender was getting hers she orders my drink too ...it got me pissed off You brought this on yourself through cognitive dissonance: you got pissed off that she led because you wanted to lead, yet you didn’t take any steps to lead. In every dynamic there’s a dominant and a submissive so if she’s showing dominance, it’s because you’re not. Next time: …
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:42 AM
2

What are your opinions on knowing the n-count of a girl that is a potential LTR It would be good to know but you never will. I believe it is an important indicator - however, given the fact that she would be open, honest, believable and low in the numbers of slayed penises If a girl wants to LTR you then she’s going to give the lowest number that she can get away with because that is optimal for her strategy. The same girl may claim an n-count of 2 to a guy who’s just moved to her city, claiming…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:54 PM
2

When you want to fuck, she fucks - she’s a plate, that’s what she’s for. You have no drama or games, no dates and no expense, and and no wasted time texting her to set it up for her to cancel. If you want something more: she’s not your girl, but if you want to empty your balls whenever you feel like: she is
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:59 PM
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Hit on by HB8 at club. Went to the club with some friends (guys and girls) and this random girl approached me and called me cute in front of all my friends. I started making small talk (asking where she goes to school, etc), trying to play it cool and not act too interested. Remember: reward good/favourable and punish bad/unfavourable. After she called you cute you should have isolated, danced or chatted (not about boring stuff) and escalated to a kiss. Then if you didn’t want to leave your frie…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:29 AM
1

My LTR hasn’t shit tested me in years, and as a result I’ve become pretty rusty on passing them, Always be prepared, don’t stop reading and refreshing because you don’t think it’s applicable. because every time they come up I get taken aback that I’m being shit tested because she doesn’t usually ever do it. I guess she’s starting to doubt my abilities because they started coming up more. Think about where or how this has come about. Have you lost frame.. not been continuing on your purpose.. or …
/r/askMRP20/10/19 04:33 PM
1

Background: this will be our 4th date. She's been to my flat before and we made out but she said she did not want sex that night. So we made dinner date plans for Friday via text. We set the time as well. 3 dates without sex (even though you had the logistics to) and your 4th will be dinner... chances are she’s playing you: either by way of her setting a standard for you to earn her vagina through your Bux, her seeing how much of a good boy you will be before even fucking her or just for free va…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:29 AM
1

Been seeing plate for 3 weeks. I told her about this date we had planned for Saturday morning consisting of a paint class with wine, the class was $30 for each person. I told her since I paid for dinner last time, she should pay me back for the ticket. In 3 weeks you’ve paid for dinner and have arranged a morning date. She’s not a plate, a plate is someone you just fuck: she’s at minimum a FWB and at most, a girlfriend if you’re not fucking anyone else. She knows this because... she replied "wha…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:36 AM
2

It was my first laid from the dating app and I don't know how could I make this FWB. Should I text her? Read the sidebar and specifically the Bitch Management Hierarchy posts from HumanSockPuppet and Whisper. You don’t make it a FWB, she makes it a FWB as you promote her through the levels (as far as you want) according to good behaviour and the value she brings. Level 1. ONS (this is you) Level 2. Plate Level 3. FWB Level 4. Girlfriend The point is that your time is valuable due to everything t…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:48 AM
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The fact that this is the top answer shows how poor this sub has become. In general no. A plate is simply someone you fuck regularly. There’s no difference between the genders here. Playing requires skill, all women have to do is to not say no. Women don’t plate, they get plated. Plating requires ‘skill’ (i.e. knowledge of the game) from us, women inherently know the game but this doesn’t mean that they don’t plate... They certainly plate, but for them it’s natural and doesn’t even count. If you…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:54 PM
1

Yes you need to be more subtle. You don’t need to withdraw attention because her attraction for you is still there: you’re still fucking her every time you see her and your frequency of sex has actually increased since her plate status. Her denials are only after she’s been satisfied by you, which is a good thing in the scheme of things but bad for you as you obviously need more. What you need to do is condition her to still need sex the second time. Here, I’d suggest: Not giving her post-sex co…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:03 PM
1

She dumped him a year ago. He was pretty cut up. So being an attractive guy he meets an attractive 30 year old and has started dating again. Ex storms round his place and gives him hell for it. This biatch dumped HIM, is 53, and waaaay below his SMV. Yet here she is playing up when he moves on. She’s not playing up because she “thinks her pussy’s gold”. She’s playing up because she’s lost her post-breakup power over him as him being cut up lowers his SMV and increases hers, but after seeing that…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:36 AM
2

Many months ago I set a boundary that if a guy is to contact her she is to tell me so we don't have any surprises. Her hypergamy doesn’t care about your boundaries. She would comply and let me know after that if it ever happened. How did you reward her for this good behaviour? Now I noticed her messaging one of her old guy acquaintances (not worried about anything happening with them, he's low SMV and probably gay too). I also saw that another guy from her high school waved her on Facebook. I do…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:57 AM
3

Getting emotional/vulnerable is bonding behavior in the right circumstance. It's a good thing, in moderation Do you have any examples of what circumstances it would be good to be emotional in front of a LTR?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:02 PM
0

Girls can only get pregnant a few days a month: before the egg is released and on the day it’s released. So if you nutted in her within a few days after her last period then you have a reason to worry, if not then you should be fine.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:14 AM
1

You don’t need to be explicit with your expectations of her: No cohabitation. No marriage . Here, you can simply convey your stance through third-parties e.g. during a conversation about someone who got married/started cohabitating, you say “yeah, that’s not for me” but plan a response to her “why??????” in advance No girls-night-out without your boyfriend (see definition below). No girls trips without your boyfriend (see definition below). No guy friends. No texting/IG/snapchatting/etc other me…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:23 AM
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I know guys I know I should soft next her, ghost her, block her all this shit At least you’re aware of your oneitis but as I started realizing that I'm being manipulated I see it as kind of fun. Consider whether all of this is actually “fun” for you or whether you’re hamstering it as “fun” because you truly don’t want to block her, lose the tingles you get when she replies or suggests meeting up and that hope you have that something will happen between you two. I want you guys to help me underst…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:00 AM
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Let me break this down: She didn’t want to fuck you You rewarded that ‘bad’ behaviour (because you wanted to fuck) by making her come After, she didn’t even attempt to make you come You rewarded further ‘bad’ behaviour (not attempting to make you come) by setting up a second date DO NOT REWARD BEHAVIOUR THAT YOU DON’T LIKE/WANT TO CONTINUE. You’ve put yourself in the provider category and have a lot to work on.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:22 AM
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Maybe she wanted to take control this time, maybe she wanted to see your face as she and you came, maybe she wanted more clit stim... Who the fuck knows.. just carry on as you were and don’t think too much about it. She wanted to fuck you and decided about how she wanted it to happen - that’s no reason to think that she’s close to breaking.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:02 PM
2

End it - she has a view of a relationship that you don’t share. In future and right from the start, either split everything 50/50 as you settle or alternate settling for relative things.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:10 PM
4

4 key points here: he's just a walking example of a friend-zoned beta. Maybe he knows the game, or maybe she knows how to deflect. I scrolled up into the save chats She or he specifically chose to save that message he would say shit like I'ma beat that pussy up. No friend-zoned beta would say that So yeah.. unless this idiot was just being turned down after saying that it seems she lied about him never hooking up with her. My guess is she lied
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:16 PM
1

But telling her you are divorced has no positive effect. Literally think of this in an objective way. What gain do you have telling her that you are divorced? If OP is looking for an LTR and she knows he’s able to walk away from a marriage (how it should be spun) then she sure as hell knows he’s able to walk away from her if she crosses a boundary.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:55 AM
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You don’t. You move on and see other girls. Read the sidebar, there are so many things wrong in this post.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 06:57 AM
11

While it is true that I have an n-count higher than most, I still on occasion get women making me jump through hoops to get to their pussy like some dutiful beta. This is despite applying the alpha toolset to a tee in some cases. Of course once I see the hoops being set up it's on to the next one, but I had to ask myself why this was so. My suspicion is that it's because I have my shit together in a big way. Assuming that these women are attracted to you and aren’t all approaching the wall wanti…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 11:48 AM
1

You weren’t unlucky, you fucked up. Made out with my girl, my girl made out with her friend and i made out with her friend. All the other hens saw it. A couple of them left at that moment :D You embarrassed her. It’s one thing sharing you in private and completely another in public, in front of her friends. That’s when my girl said that she’s too drunk and wants to leave. As we’re leaving, i asked her friend if she was going to come with us. And she said to go to her place instead, gave us her k…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:09 AM
1

It ranks highly because low n-count = greater ability to pair-bond. While we likely won’t know for sure what their n-counts are, you can get a rough idea.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:24 AM
1

I read this and shook my head, like wtf. Her mom is most likely legitimately sick and OP out here like "Is ThiS a COmplIanCe teST?!" It is possible she is sick. However, it’s also possible that it is a compliance test as well as her now having a better option for the night. Best case scenario: her Mum is sick, he agrees to tomorrow and in doing that he communicates that he doesn’t have a busy life and possibly a lack of options. Whether it’s conscious or subconscious, she’ll pick up on that. So …
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:10 AM
3

“I can’t do tomorrow, lets do Xday”
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:52 AM
0

You are operating in her frame instead of your own. -> You should not be caring. You do what you want, when you want to. Get out of her frame. It’s okay to operate in her frame if the ultimate benefit is your frame. And then from your other reply.. Sure, its possible she'll think she's got the upper hand and start shit-testing you. You handle that when/if it happens... just like you normally would. Then she'll learn her place. Similarly, if it leads to a decrease in her attraction, you apply dre…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:46 PM
2

I saw in her phone that she added some guy on facebook, “Added” or accepted.. The two very different things albeit still a cause for concern I asked who is the guy and she said she doesn't know him. Obviously she’d say that and you knew it. Next time learn to manage your insecurity validation and monitor I get suspicious and she said sometimes she accepts friends requests from people she doesn't know on social media, what's the big deal? Me: "wtf?" May be trickle truth, may be validation whoring…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:28 PM
2

Ask her what her favourite alcoholic drink is before meeting, buy it and keep it at yours. Arrange a coffee for near yours then near the end of your drink, slip in to the conversation something about alcohol to get her to mention her favourite then say “Shit yeah, I saw last night that there’s still some at mine from X - let’s go back, grab it and chill at somewhere secluded-ish”
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:10 PM
9

If they talk about their own: “cool....” then proceed to change the subject to something more interesting. If they ask you about yours: “ended on good terms but I decided we weren’t a good fit/I wasn’t happy/I realised I didn’t want to be tied down” then again, proceed to change the subject to something more interesting. Emphasis on the “I” as it subtly shows abundance.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:50 PM
6

Honestly it is sick that women can vote and be president etc just as men, cuz they are not fit for it. Just children. Most men aren’t fit to vote or be president.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 08:57 PM
3

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:53 PM
4

Soft next for a few days if it’s an old text for lying. Hard next if it’s a recent text.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:25 AM
1

Stop moralising.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 05:41 PM
2

If your LTR is good (frequent sex, good behaviour, supports your goals etc) then you have no reason to leave other than developing your abundance mentality by - and - fucking other girls. As LTRs slowly breakdown over time (less sex, worse behaviour and less supportive of your goals as they lose appreciation of your time), abundance mentality helps you to break things off when things go bad. Ultimately, you do what you want: leave now or stick around. If you do stick around then make sure you le…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:18 AM
2

I mean girls are so disgusting, that to them extreme good looks is ALL that matters. Look at Brad Pitt’s relationship history. He’s been dumped and divorced by plenty of women while having/had “extreme good looks”. It’s not all that matters.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:31 AM
3

Always try to escalate for sex: You have a chance of getting sex You set a highly sexual frame/dynamic which if she refuses and wants to see you again, is still there You can use success/failure to improve your game in getting first night lays. You can use it to consider how she views you You can it to consider what kind of girl she is Whether you succeed or fail, if end up plating the girl and are open to LTRs then 4 and 5 are good to know when you’re considering promoting as you can use the ba…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:00 AM
8

She’s probably cheated. The sobbing during and distancing herself afterwards tells me it’s guilt. It’s pointless confronting as it’s unlikely that she’ll admit it and if not, she’ll stick to that story when people ask why and as they’ll take her side.. you’ll come over as insecure, jealous and paranoid. Forget about getting the truth out of her. Either end it now citing whatever reason will work (other than the above) or if you can’t handle that, simply slowly distance yourself from her, tactful…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:47 PM
2

to me it seems like we should really try to optimize for the best situation to have a kid in in whatever we do so we don't fuck ourselves over.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:33 PM
353

Guy treated her like shit, sex pretty much sucked (so she says). Either lying or downplaying. Am not really worried about her cheating. Think she's a) looking for confirmation from that guy or b) trying to make me jealous, as we'd had some problems lately. She’s meeting to either a) fuck, b) get closure on why he wouldn’t commit or c) fuck and get closure. So Friday night she asks me via WhatsApp if it was okay for me if she went out with him. I didn't react as I should have ("Please go"). Inste…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:01 PM
2

She wants to fuck but if you continue with these plans then she’ll dry up either when she finds out how far you’ve arranged it from your place or on the hour bus ride back. Go with whatever is the most convenient for you: A. Reschedule at a place close to yours if logistics suit. B. Reschedule to yours if you don’t think it will trigger her ASD. C. Get a cheap room near to where you’ve already scheduled.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:27 PM
1

That’s a shame.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:48 AM
3

have girls throw themselves at me daily, even my LTR's friends and own sister hit on me Ehhhh.. Your sister?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:38 AM
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