Looking for pointers on dealing with a shit test

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-03-10T17:58:23+00:00

Your problem is not about not knowing how to pass this shit test, it is about your lack of frame that allowed a bit of pressure from her to cause you to answer truthfully.

So you need to work on that because otherwise you will keep on failing shit tests that you do not have a script for.

If you do not know how to respond either STFU, ignore or look at her like she just said the Earth is flat and then change the topic of conversation. But certainly do not allow yourself to get pressured in to anything that you do not want to say or do.

For an actual response

”That is between your Mother and I

garyvdm · 2021-03-10T17:36:09+00:00

Sidebar. 'What are shit test and how to handle them'. 'Plates, how to maintain them'.

Sounds like she's above your gaming level, use her as a learning tool and don't fucking break frame just because she's more attractive.

The prettier they are, the worse I treat them.

themostgianthorse · 2021-03-10T17:40:32+00:00

Looks like your DARE vs. DEER post from a year ago still applies here. There were some good responses.

I think you understand the concept but you’re entering her frame during this because you are attached to the outcome. Your thinking on some level “I hope I DARE correctly.” This is why your understanding is good but your application may be poor.

Have fun with it and be ridiculous.

Her: How many sexual partners have you had? You: I’ve never counted but I put them all in a room once and the fire Marshall showed up

Don’t memorize it. Get creative. Make yourself laugh.

michael1962-01 · 2021-03-10T18:48:43+00:00

The answer is something like

i learned to fold paper airoplanes
origami. I tell you. Origami. Sooooo wild...

Or

I was feeding my au pair lion some weeks ago when my smartphone dropped without protection case. The repair bill was a wild experience.

Just never take her serious

lieutenantdong · 2021-03-10T19:30:28+00:00

If you ever feel on the backfoot, like its an interview question, by answering you are qualifying yourself to her. High value men dont do that.

Try to teach yourself arrogance you can tap into when it comes to girls. You probably have that in some other form.

For example,someone bad a sport trying to badly teach you something. A subordinate acting above your experience level, or a little brother trying to tell you whats what.

Youd naturally just go into a state of you cant teach me shit. Natural responses in this state are what the side bar calls DAREing not DEERing.

kdsflyfree · 2021-03-11T15:00:04+00:00

This girl is a bit wild, and she told me about so pretty crazy stuff she had gotten up to in her past.

Hot/Crazy Matrix TM. The hotter they are, the nuttier.

She asked my about any wild stuff I've gotten up to in my past...we'd just finished up.

Yeah, this is a sexual context. She was probably qualifying you to see if you could be kinkier. What was the sex like? Maybe she likes you but thought the sex was a little tame. Sounds like she's very experienced.

See the other posts for responses. The point is not your response, it's your frame and reading between the lines.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-11T15:28:43+00:00

I don;t have LTRs so shit test have little effect...

Title	Looking for pointers on dealing with a shit test
Author	garyvdm
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	March 10, 2021 5:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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