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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 08:06 PM
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Sciencemajani/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:19 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:36 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:08 PM
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Financemajani/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 04:31 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:03 AM
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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 12:41 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:21 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:02 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:57 AM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:07 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:39 AM
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majani/r/askTRP01/03/20 01:53 PM
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Sciencemajani/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:21 AM
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majani/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 09:03 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:25 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:16 AM
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Question For Womenmajani/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:41 PM
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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 10:55 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:36 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:32 PM
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Debatemajani/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:38 AM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:17 PM
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majani/r/seduction17/03/15 05:48 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:53 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:27 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:08 PM
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Sciencemajani/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 11:39 AM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:30 PM
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Metamajani/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 08:23 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:00 PM
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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:34 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:38 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:24 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:41 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:34 AM
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majani/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:05 AM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:42 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:55 AM
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Debatemajani/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:53 AM
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Debatemajani/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:47 AM
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Question for BluePillmajani/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:33 AM
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Debatemajani/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:06 PM
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Debatemajani/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:42 AM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:59 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 02:57 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:40 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:50 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:43 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:55 AM
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majani/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 01:43 PM
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majani/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:27 PM
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Purge Science!majani/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:52 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:53 AM
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Purge Discussion!majani/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:12 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:43 PM
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majani/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:37 AM
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majani/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:48 PM
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majani/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:30 PM
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Sciencemajani/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:45 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:35 PM
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Purge CMV!majani/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:10 PM
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Purge Week!majani/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:12 PM
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Discussionmajani/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 09:12 PM
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CMVmajani/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:33 AM
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majani/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 08:24 AM
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majani/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:07 AM
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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 09:31 PM
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Purge Discussion!majani/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:36 AM
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Question For Menmajani/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:23 PM
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Red Pill Theorymajani/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:07 PM
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majani/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:54 PM
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majani/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 01:25 PM
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Rant/Ventingmajani/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 04:01 PM
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Purge Week!majani/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:44 AM
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In my experience, the common dating advice of today is to be as aloof as possible towards the opposite sex. This results in an aloof-off which is driving people apart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:58 PM

You likely have a highly agreeable wife, and chances are OP by some circumstance, has mostly dealt with highly disagreeable women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:01 AM

They probably have kids with the hags. Having kids means you should have a longer leash for breaking up. Doesn't make sense to break up a family over small issues like you would when you were childless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:35 AM

A lot of the guys in your examples will say that they are in equal partnerships because they "discussed" the issues together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:31 AM

Having absolutely zero tolerance for bullshit is basically not having a forgiving heart. That is a huge problem in long term relationships. No long term relationship will survive without forgiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:08 PM
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Learn to accept facts that go against your biases
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:20 PM
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I think any reasonable person can tell that monogamy goes against human nature, but we do it for the greater good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:11 PM
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That is also my conclusion. Men and women have a biological difference in neuroticism (aka anxiety) which makes them way more touchy than guys: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/ And BTW, this higher neuroticism is what people are referring to when they say women are more "emotional" than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:31 PM
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No study is perfect, but research on homosexuals is as good as it gets in terms of isolating gender as a factor in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:34 AM
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That's still a bad look for women. Shows that men are way more willing to forgive in LTRs, which is a positive and completely against the common narrative as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:33 AM
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According to the common train of thought, gay men should be reporting more since men are the more violent gender and we do more damage due to our higher strength. This should make reporting easier since men would have the scars to prove it. Despite this, the numbers aren't even close. Do you think that so many men are keeping quiet to skew the studies so drastically?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:20 AM
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It works logically. If men were the problem in relationships as society wants us to believe, then lesbian relationships should be a utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:45 AM
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Which is poor conflict resolution skills in a long term relationship. LTRs need forgiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:41 AM
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I have seen many times in real life and on podcasts, when a woman tries to keep it real about how they only care for Chadz, they get such a big blowback from the normie men, it just ends up in the woman clearly being like "OK, whatever, you're right."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:46 PM
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I didn't say adopt the red pill, I said adopt the red pill imagery. The look of all these digital dads
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:56 PM
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Wishful thinking. This is simply not how the world works in reality, especially for men. Looking respectable is part of earning respect in male circles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:51 PM
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Reddit is a leftist echo chamber. In my more conservative circles, there was a surprising amount of women who refused to let me go down on them. I would start kissing their chest and stomach then they would pull my head back up and say "mmh mmh." To the point where indeed I started to feel a bit servile for insisting and just stopped doing it all together. I found a happy medium with vibrators though. Faster and more guaranteed orgasms, but there is still a good chunk of women who don't want any…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:12 PM
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Moreover, no one's walking around with a tape measure to see whether you meet the threshold. As long as you heightmog the few men around you during the first impression, you should be good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:02 PM
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White women are the tallest in the world by quite some margin in my experience. Of course they're going to come across as "heightists" even if they just apply the "taller than me" standard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:39 PM
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Exactly. The example that springs out for me is redpill guys who want to sleep around with tradcon girls, yet radical lefties would be a much better fit for their goals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:34 AM
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When men submit, they call it "compromise." Clever girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah. As a rich kid, my resilience early in life was quite wanting. It took me flunking out of college to develop that thick skin. Meanwhile other less privileged kids in college had already developed that mentality to just keep on trucking when the going got tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:27 PM
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Your example is whack. D1 athlete doesn't mean healthy. You are more like a special purpose machine at that point. Bodies optimized for an extreme. See powerlifters, marathoners, cyclists and sumo wrestlers for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:54 PM
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If you go down the lying route, chances are you want to have your cake and eat it too. There are several groups of people who are open to polygamy (gold diggers, hippie leftists and sex workers come to mind), but chances are you don't want such, you want your tradcon wallflower who you can cheat on with reckless abandon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:32 PM
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Funny how the guy mentioned that his mum throws hissy fits but you completely glossed over that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:41 AM
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North American and Western European men are very submissive, but they'll swear up and down that they have equal partnerships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:39 AM
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It's exactly the same thing, just that one way is more diplomatic than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:33 AM
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There is how things should be and how things actually are. People form subconscious hierarchies all the time due to our differences, it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:54 AM
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Let's go to my example. We have a relationship where the couple are living together in an apartment. The woman wants to move, but the man wants to stay. Both have valid reasons for their wants. Your "compromise" will involve either moving like the woman wanted, or staying like the man wanted, with one partner agreeing to a contrary position for the sake of peace. This is what redpill calls "submission" and bluepill just calls the same thing "compromise."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:25 PM
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Why must that be the case? Why can't it be roughly even? Because nobody's tracking the binary decisions in a relationship to make sure they're even because no two people are exactly alike and the differences between people result in subconscious formation of hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:06 PM
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I think here you are just choosing to call it 'consensus' whereas in reality partners just let their significant other get their way for the sake of peace. I gave the example of moving house. There is no definite correct answer to this conundrum, everyone will have good points as to why they want what they want. At the end of the day, one person will just have to let the issue go for the sake of peace. At that point now it's all about how you want to dress up that decision. Some might call it 'c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:07 PM
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Surely even your turn taking is not evenly split 50/50. There is one who takes most of the turns (dominant) and the one who takes the minority of the turns (submissive).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:53 PM
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But in a binary decision, if I don't force you to accept the variant that doesn't work for you, I am sacrificing my want in the process. Like in my example, if one person says "I will not force my partner to move out when they don't want to," that means that they themselves have sacrificed their want to move in the process. They have given the other partner their way, aka 'submission'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:51 PM
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At the end of the day, any decision made requires at least one person to be willing to put aside their original demand. And over time, there will be one partner who does that the majority of the time. And that person is the 'submissive' one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:20 PM
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At the end of the day, any decision made requires at least one person to be willing to put aside their original demand. And over time, there will be one partner who does that the majority of the time. And that person is the 'submissive' one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:18 PM
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How would you navigate that binary scenario without one person losing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:05 PM
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This is where I believe people conflate the definition of submission. Your example is virtually a caricature of a slave. When people talk of 'submission' in modern relationships, they are referring to who mostly gets their way in cases where both partners are at opposite ends of a yes/no decision. A good example is when one partner wants to move house and the other one wants to stay put (both are living in the same house). Both have good reasons for their stand. ​ There is no 'deciding things to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:56 PM
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The idea that consensus can be built in all cases is just woefully naive. In any long-term relationship between two people, there are going to be many, many cases where you are on opposing sides of a binary decision. In such situations, no consensus can be built. Example: one partner wants to move house and the other one doesn't. Both have valid reasons for their stand. Building consensus here is impossible. There is no 50/50 compromise or voting in this case, it's either you are moving house or…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:45 PM
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Controversy used to sell until sometime in the late 2010s when big tech fine tuned their algorithms to detect and stomp it out. Now the only controversial content that goes viral is thirst traps, and that's definitely big tech just ignoring them on purpose, because for sure they have the technology to detect revealing clothes and suggestive poses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:39 PM
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Whatever you want to call it, it's not being done in good faith. "You never x, you never y" is simply a brow-beating power play. A constructive critique in search of a solution would be way more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:49 PM
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someone using the word "never" in descriptions of people's behavior is usually not arguing in good faith in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:26 PM
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There is a correlation between age and radical political views (young skews radical left, middle age is centrist, old skews radical right). Anyway, now that I've explained my intention, you have an incentive to lie and dunk on me, so you don't have to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:08 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:00 AM
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They existed before, but they resulted in people going to great lengths to fake or bait a cause for divorce, and that's why no-fault divorce came into the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:59 AM
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I think the sexual revolution would have come about naturally after the advent of birth control, regardless of feminism. In fact, feminism was probably a post-hoc justficiation for the promiscuity that resulted after you could control the consequences of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:32 AM
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I'll come up with another example and you'll shift goal posts again. Classic fence-sitter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:50 PM
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Golden mean fallacy also applies to ethics. For example in cases of something like life support, the only ethical choice is to kill the person (almost all doctors have DNRs), but golden mean fallacy has people clinging on to strands of hope to the detriment of everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:15 PM
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There are good short basketball players and good tall basketball players. Does that mean you need to have some tall players and some short players? No, you need all your players to be tall. Do you need some dumb, yet hardworking people working at SpaceX to "balance out" the smart people? No, you need every single person working there to be extremely intelligent and hardworking. Sometimes extremes are the right decision
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:50 PM
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This is the golden mean fallacy. Sometimes you just need one extreme to the exclusion of all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:28 AM
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Fixed hair, a broken tooth and did some minor ab etching
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:57 PM
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Could be that but could be aging also. It was both in my case and once I did a few restoration surgeries I was back in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:03 AM
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Here begins the c0pe...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:21 PM
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You must have aged poorly. Did you lose some hair or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:20 PM
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Yes, at worst this is what will happen. Matter of fact, there are already many locations all over the world where single parenting is the norm already, especially the poorer regions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:14 PM
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Castration with a fancy name
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:05 PM
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Why would you even want to wick sweat when working out? The sweat is helpful. The only reason someone would want to wick sweat is... to look good while working out. Checkmate, the numpty is you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:18 PM
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No, I think the world revolves around reproduction and this is true for all living things. Humans are the only ones who try to hide this fact, even on anonymous forums
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:27 PM
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And every normie knows this. That's why the marriage age is around that range
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:00 PM
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The clothes are designed to draw attention and you're just playing dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:07 AM
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He'll do it until the platforms ban him for "harrasment." His content, while being a healthy pushback, leads to brigading, which is a slippery slope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:39 PM
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These super tight BBL pants with a wedgie up the butt crack are comfortable? Do women also wear makeup while working out for comfort? Don't make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:34 PM
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No. You are picky because men decided to be civil and allow you to choose. Most male animals just beat up their competitors and take the females they want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:45 PM
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Diet and exercise only require one person's participation. Communication needs two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:37 PM
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What a good communicator you are. Straight to the personal attacks once your view is challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:11 PM
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You don't. Chasing ideals is for blue pillers. The cold-hard reality I've seen from long lasting relationships is that most of them work through problems by doing one or more of the following: Submit to a certain power dynamic Accept the nature of their partner and don't bother arguing against it Tough things out from a sense of duty Most bluepillers subconsciously do (1) and dress it up as "effective communication" when the reality is that they just submitted to their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:08 PM
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I am critiquing the wishful thinking behind people's constant recommendation of communication as a solution to all relationship problems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:40 PM
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Often people want opposing things and no compromise can be reached. One must submit to the other's will. Let's say for example one partner wants two kids and the other partner wants one kid. There is no compromise there, one must acquiesce to the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:52 AM
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Almost no one talks like that in real life, especially not when things get heated in an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:48 AM
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I didn't say I'm beyond logical fallacies myself. I'm as guilty of them as any of the other PPD members screeching at each other on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:05 AM
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it seems as if you think equality in relationships is a falsehood Yes, that is a position I hold for all interpersonal relationships. There is always a dom-sub interplay going on in the back of everyone's mind. This might be the fundamental disagreement that I'm having with bluepillers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:15 AM
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There you go resorting to ad hominems and proving the point I was making in OP in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:02 AM
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And here comes the circular argument that communication advocates make: "communicate -> you need to communicate better" repeat in an infinite loop for any counter argument. So neat and simple. If only life was that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:38 AM
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So to extend this logic, should only the few people with good communication skills get into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:26 AM
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Yes, I do. I've seen that in most bluepilled relationships the woman wears the pants and the man is walking on eggshells, but they dress it up as a collaborative relationship to save the man from embarrassment. It's actually a very smart thing Western women do, it really demonstrates a high level of social awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:14 AM
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I'm arguing that most people in real life lack communication skills, hence claiming communication is the key is futile. Heck, you even see it here in this sub. How many threads become a string of ad hominems, straw mans, hasty generalizations, circular arguments, appeals to authority etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:06 AM
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Seems like you're not OP, and you're not even arguing for communication, so I guess you're on my side
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:00 AM
1

I'm willing to bet my house that one of you just softly submitted to a power dynamic. But keep telling yourself it's the communication
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:59 AM
2

This is the pretense I am talking about in my OP. Here you are pretending as though you have some Vulcan-like poise in your discussions, when the reality is that if you say no to the car, chances are the situation will disintegrate into an emotional argument because most people take rejection pretty badly, like I mentioned in OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:55 AM
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I'm not here to pretend to have ideal solutions, that is what blue pillers do. The cold-hard reality I've seen from successful relationships is that most of them work through problems by doing one or more of the following: Submit to a certain power dynamic Accept the nature of their partner and don't bother arguing against it Tough things out from a sense of duty Most bluepillers subconsciously do (1) and dress it up as "effective communication" when the reality is that they just submitted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:47 AM
2

And what happens after presenting your needs and wants to the other? Don't you debate the next course of action? If I express to my partner that I want to buy a car, don't we now debate whether that car is necessary or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:42 AM
2

So if you are arguing with your partner and they strawman your points, resort to personal attacks, and bring up the sunk cost fallacy, you don't care about the nuances of logical fallacies in that instance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:39 AM
1

Semantics. Debate/argument, same difference. Can you just argue the point I'm trying to make? How would "partnership" make someone avoid logical fallacies when arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:17 AM
-2

OK, let's start with the third point. Let's say we have a relationship where one partner is uglier than the other, leading them to do way too much to keep the other partner happy. How would you communicate your way out of that problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:10 AM
4

So if you are partners, does that mean someone will magically learn how to avoid logical fallacies in debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:07 AM
1

Yeah, but imagine still not getting any matches from bots, sex workers, larpers and attention seekers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:19 AM
1

Leading with your money doesn't mean asking women "what color is your Bugatti?" It could be subtle things, like having niche expensive gadgets, talking about travel a lot, being proud of your career, not knowing prices of common things, having luxury beliefs, etc. All that stuff could make a woman's provider radar go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:30 PM
4

I actually find a lot of comfort in the fact that my problems aren't unique
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:19 AM
2

She has sasquatch proportions. Even in the real world such women struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:21 AM
1

Yeah. Man face and witch face are killers for women and you have to be willing to go to extreme lengths like Kylie Jenner to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:17 AM
3

That's what I meant. The Me Too founder is ugly AF
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:12 AM
2

Unfortunately the rest of the women buy into their rhetoric and end up subscribing to world views created by people with extreme life experiences. Just Google the woman who started the Me Too movement for proof of this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:38 PM
8

JustPearlyThings literally regurgitates Rollo Tomassi's books. You just like her Amazon ass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:12 PM
1

Arms,cleavage and legs. Some men have those attributes in spades
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:04 PM
3

Nah, Tate was caught dead to rights on the following issues: women as property the videos he did on beating women (not the BDSM one, the others where he describes beating women to shut them up) him moving to Romania to break the law more freely his sketchy job history as a pimp and a scammer Worse still, it appears as though Tate hadn't clearly thought his views through, so he would crumble under the slightest scrutiny such as his debate with HasanAbi. Unlike someone like Jordan Peterson who hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:48 AM
27

That's the bottom line of all these arguments. It is just far more profitable to have men chasing women than the other way around. And it is EXTREMELY profitable to have men chasing financially independent women, so the government and businesses will always push that agenda, despite all the leadership being men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:38 AM
1

Hippies are charitable AF though. Anyway what you're referring to is normie AF in a lot of areas, you might want to look into moving
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:31 AM
2

Also men have lower anxiety, so we're way more prone to squashing our suspicions than women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:56 AM
0

Understandable . Prostitutes are way more manageable than full on affairs. You could fake names and fuck the whores on a small break for less than 5 minutes and continue with your day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:55 AM
5

Something tells me she's referring to the leftist way of going against the grain. Basically a hippie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:45 AM
1

Examples of coloring: Jeremy Meeks, Gabu Fords, Jungkook, young Leonardo DiCaprio, Alessandro Manfredini
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:20 AM
1

Outside of the West (which is like 20 countries) most women still prioritize money in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:53 AM
1

In that case maybe he's just overdosed on soy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:47 AM
2

Literally all freedoms women have were granted and upheld by men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:46 AM
1

Committed to the beard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:38 AM
1

STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:37 AM
4

Women are attracted to: Face (sharp edges and elaborate hair being the most important here) Height (they prefer men who are taller than them AND not dwarfed by other men in your vicinity) Coloring (your body's overall color palette should blend well)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:28 AM
1

He's very likely gay though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:18 AM
1

I would say most men spend a lot of money on their concubines. You could call that financial incentive prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:10 AM
2

Thought experiment: there are 10 people remaining on earth: 5 women and 5 men. One of the men is Henry Cavill. 4 women are attracted to him and he decides to date all 4 simultaneously. What do you think the 3 men left out by this behavior do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:57 AM
1

Form your argument better or STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:52 AM
2

Difficult for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:50 AM
7

Exactly. In real life men respect LTRs. Maybe if you had a series of LTRs with gorgeous women who were head over heels in love with you, that would earn other guys respect, but juggling them all at the same time? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:49 AM
3

But people ARE jealous of wealthy people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:32 AM
7

That's basically jealousy. Still not the positive sentiment people claim when they say men "praise" other men for being players
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:32 PM
1

Why post if you're going to add nothing to the debate? And while adding nothing, you use bad grammar on top of it. You should be fined for debate pollution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:18 AM
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It's usually tools you were born with that get you ahead in the game though, which many people resent because they see it as an unfair advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:16 AM
4

That's not what this thread is about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:22 AM
2

You just live with these conspiracies floating around your head? LOL, what a life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:18 AM
3

She's 16. Waiting is common at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:24 AM
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I think past 35 the temptation to give up grows stronger and stronger with each failed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:49 PM
0

Not worth getting worked up about IMO. It's a harmless idiosyncrasy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:08 PM
12

There is a lot of status in being the first woman to do x or being a woman in a male dominated field Some women love the extra attention from men when they're in male majority groups Some women just relish the trailblazer role. I did an electrical engineering course and close to 100% of the women I asked admitted that they were there just to prove that women can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:55 AM
-1

An algorithmic approach will always eventually give the most attractive guys priority since it is now the most important male criteria by far
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:45 AM
0

Yes, the Bumble owners are willfully ignorant of women's higher trait neuroticism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:38 AM
1

We should make tight pussy energy a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:51 AM
2

yeah, and the war has to be having massive casualties on both sides, not the bullying the US typically gets up to nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:35 PM
-1

The only thing that will create a windfall of pussy is a hot war in the West, which is highly improbable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:33 AM
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The pendulum will never swing back barring a hot war somewhere in the West. The current situation is the most profitable social arrangement (male workhorses pursuing financially independent women)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:31 AM
1

Radicalizing follows a predictable script
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:24 PM
1

Just saying anything to put the guy down. You don't become a TV presenter in the US without having above average looks. Especially for entertainment TV shows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:04 AM
1

You forgot short. Many such guys are just noticeably short
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:46 AM
-1

You didn't know that blowing stacks on gold diggers works?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:02 PM
1

Spreading the "girl boss" message while shitting on men at the same time. We've largely stamped out the reverse situation but women get away with egregious violations to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:53 PM
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he made his money pimping. If you believe his schtick about only pimping women who are "in love with him," then I have a bridge to sell you. Pimps recruit through isolating women. Trafficking is a big part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:54 PM
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People do things to attract members of the opposite sex. It's a constant in the entire animal kingdom. Acting like people are weirdos for that is obvious posturing. Clear and obvious intellectual dishonesty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:42 PM
0

I am a high SMV man, I can be picky. I'm just being empathetic and steel manning the incel argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:32 PM

Fight sports, team sports and guns. Active participation in each rather than passively watching from a distance. That should be the modern man's rite of passage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:30 PM

I maintain that we need a modern day rite of passage that involves all you are saying. Personally I will introduce my son to civilized forms of violence (boxing and guns) as a teen to introduce him to manhood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:25 PM
3

Census data split by race, compared against racial preferences of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:08 PM
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The problem is that the hard workers get treated differently by women. With money, the hard worker gets the exact same end result as the guy who was born with it. With relationships, the hard worker gets treated way differently than the guy who was born with the genetic gifts. Genetically gifted guy gets a long rope and gets simped on, hard worker gets a very short rope and has to do the simping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:07 PM
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You need to do a deep introspection about the anti male bias in deletion. Take a random sample size of deleted posts and check how many were anti male vs how many were anti female. I am pretty sure what the results will be but you just check for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:51 PM
0

"Losers" in natural selection sense means those who can't produce offspring with a good chance of reproducing themselves. In this regard, civilization turned most men into winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:16 PM
0

Yeah, WTF is unconditional love even? Lie to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:38 PM
0

Being in too deep to leave doesn't equate to love. That happens even in business. Is Joe Tsai in love with Kevin Durant? Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:12 PM
0

How about you glue your privates shut and test the theory of unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:10 PM
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Now do the same for women. I can bet you a million dollars that they'll want their husbands to be simpy while wanting their sons to be tough guys. Puts into perspective how meaningless our debates are. Everyone switches sides once they get a kid of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:54 AM
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There are a surprising amount of mismatches at the top levels of the sexual marketplace. And sometimes people seek to date down for logical reasons. I am an example myself, I am a rich kid who has started a family with a rural girl who moved to the city as an adult. I love how I'm almost certainly the best she's ever had, plus her conservative values blend with mine. I also love how she worked to beat seemingly impossible odds and climb out of poverty. When dating fellow rich kids, they find me …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:47 PM
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Most who fly out to date are old, fat, bald and ugly guys, so take the first one out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:50 AM
0

So American men are the biggest simps? This isn't the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:47 AM
0

Use Tinder passport to go to ZA and sample the thick women there. They're fat AF for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:45 PM
0

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-4jc1F05WLQM/TZ-V-lhzwJI/AAAAAAAAADk/1M-_tZXxcbA/s1600/Treasure+04-08-11+026.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:43 PM
0

A third suggestion: stop watching the news so much. Things aren't as bad as they make it seem. People are richer, healthier and more connected than ever. World peace is at an all time high. CNN will show you images of some random African pastoralists who CHOOSE to live in the wilderness and use that to tell you that the world is in a bad place. That's like using the Amish to show that America is suffering. Don't fall for the okie doke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:39 PM
1

It is possible to have the same evidence but draw different conclusions based on your world view. If you want to have a conspiratorial world view where you are always a victim of evil men plotting against you in a dark smoky room, all I can do is feel sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:26 PM
1

Yeah, you framed it as some "gotcha" to place blame on men but i introduced am argument to shut that narrative down. Perhaps women are just too mentally and physically weak to handle simple everyday tasks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:55 PM
4

Clear and obvious intellectual dishonesty. Can't debate you after that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:50 PM
6

Lol, you think Europeans don't have it in them to go the Middle Eastern way? The Roman and British Empires say otherwise. Culture changes given the right circumstances. During wartime they tend to go ultra conservative. Let one nuke go off and Western people will revert to religious fundamentalism(which is androcentric) within a decade. Liberalism (which is gynocentric) is for peaceful and prosperous times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:48 PM
2

Now we're onto patriarchal oppression conspiracies, Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:29 PM
0

LOL, grab a history book some time. We're better than we've ever been. Or get some help. Thinking that the world is ending is a sign of depression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:25 PM
0

So, from their lower sex drive. K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:02 PM
2

Even in South Africa, the home of ass, most of the "thick" women are either overweight, or they have lymphedema which they don't treat because they're getting gassed up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:59 PM
4

the issue is probably that the men in the earning brackets you filter for with your Masters are more brutal with their selection and they're looking for the total package (young, beautiful, good job and cooperative) and you just can't match up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:50 PM
1

This is extremely mainstream advice outside this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:42 PM
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If anyone comes at you with a story about how they are an angel who was victimized by a devil incarnate, it's probably a lie. I only believe people who admit to their own faults in their sob stories
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:40 PM
1

Reproductive instincts will eventually take the wheel and they'll say goodbye to any anti natal logic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:34 PM
8

A lot of rape accusations stem from this train of thought, but we're not ready for that conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:31 PM
6

Sort by controversial in such threads to get the real sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:27 PM
-1

Furthermore, most women get overwhelmed by single motherhood and slide into poverty. That is why the government doesn't allow financial abortion despite it being reasonable on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:26 PM
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Western men could go all Saudi Arabia on women tomorrow and there's not a damn thing they could do about it. The only reason the current social order stands is because gynocentrism is more economically productive than androcentrism. It's just way more profitable for everyone to have simps trying to impress women with resources than it is to have pickmes trying to impress men with homemaking and purity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:20 PM
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Yeah, people make it seem like they search the mountains and the valleys to find a suitable mate, when the reality is most people just pick whoever's nearby. Take the proximity pill people, it's the most important one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:13 PM
1

They're the ones having the most kids, so yeah, they're probably not all doom and gloom like you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:10 PM
1

If you're not a dollar multi millionaire in cash and cash equivalents, you better look at a woman's earnings, or else you're going to have a bad time in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:07 PM
1

Every race gets hair loss, hormone issues, bone density issues, greying, erection issues, eyesight issues, metabolism issues etc after 35
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:05 PM
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We've managed fine going from 1 human to 8 billion, but you're going to let some know-it-alls convince you that adding a few more billion will be the end of the world? LOL what a sad way to live
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:00 PM
1

To that I say you have a social constructionist view of the world, while others have a biological view of the world. Whenever I've seen high level debates between two well studied men in both fields, the biologist always wins resoundingly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:55 PM
-4

Reproductive instincts are pathetic now? K
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:51 PM
4

Given how much modern women partake in drinking culture, they are not truly worried about their safety around men. Any claims otherwise are just a way of winning people's sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:49 PM
2

Yup. Beyond 35, you're going to need Hollywood-level narcissism to keep your looks. Hormones, surgery, IV drips, fillers, the works. And the money to fix any botches
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:01 AM
2

More likely that once you get past a certain n count, vanilla sex bores you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:13 PM
1

Now we're going to sit here and pretend like there isn't a women are wonderful bias in Western society?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:27 PM
2

Men also hold the guy who locked down the high value girl in high regard. Jay Z gets mad respect for locking down Beyonce. More than any bummy pick up artist with a triple digit n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:26 AM
-1

And having him simp over you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:23 AM
1

Be honest with yourself as to why you couldn't find anyone who was single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:17 AM
7

Women tend to beta buxx down. It's not the honorable sacrifice you're trying to make it seem like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:55 PM
0

This sub loves to argue over groups that barely make up 1% of the population (childfree and stay at home parents being the most popular)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:38 PM
6

I'm pretty sure that the decline in youthful marriage is a result of birth control and prosperity for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:29 AM
10

Tattoos are no longer a sign of edginess, close to half the dating age population have them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:51 AM
3

Yeah, that's a very plausible explanation. A lot more people than you think adopt a "don't ask, don't tell" attitude towards affairs in super long LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:47 PM
1

For some races, all kids look the same until a couple of years down the line. In other cases, there's just one kid who is the odd one out. I can see a lot of men letting that one suspicious kid slide since the rest are a spitting image of him (funny enough, I am the odd one out in our family, I don't look like either of my parents) also in other cases, the kid might just look purely like the mum. I've seen some shocking cases on TikTok of interracial couples where their kid wasn't mixed at all. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:38 PM
1

Back in the day I dated a drop dead gorgeous woman who revealed she was a couple months pregnant after our second date. I can imagine a more socially liberal man than me would have opted to raise that kid as his own without telling anyone the real story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:27 PM
0

I want to argue the case for not arguing with women, but that would break my principle lol bye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:21 PM
4

Don't feed the troll guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:17 PM
3

You think it's AF/BB or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:14 PM
1

Upvoted just to see the fireworks in the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:28 PM
2

WTF do you expect with such a question? Do you want women to come out and openly admit that they make certain guys wait and other guys get it immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:33 AM
2

You can get away with forwardness, if you target the groups of women who have a lot of casual sex. The problem with guys is they want to have casual sex with church girls. If you are forward with hippies, alt women or gold diggers, you'll have a good hit rate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:31 AM
0

That's the thing, people get survival of the fittest mixed up with their own personal biases. As long as you reproduce and your offspring has a good chance to reproduce as well, then you are "fit" biologically. We've reached a point where, with widespread prosperity, modern medicine and a bit of social engineering, most people pass this basic threshold for "fitness."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:42 PM
2

That's not what "fit" means. "Fit" in a biological sense means any organism who's offspring has a really good chance of reproducing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:35 PM
1

So you think in today's world a disabled man has an equal chance to reproduce as an NBA player? Don't be ridiculous, there are men who have a better chance at reproducing than others even in the modern world. The only legitimate debate is what this supposed "fitness" looks like. If both Cristiano Ronaldo and Pookie from the hood have four children from three different women, are they equally "fit" in a biological sense? And what are the traits being selected for in a purely biological sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:23 PM
1

All those things are just band-aids to soothe the masses. Natural selection always rears its ugly head eventually, no matter how fair we try to make things. Just from your list: we built organized welfare systems and progressive taxation, but the wealth gap continues to grow there are laws against murder, except for the military and police laws against theft, except for politicians social housing, yet with every passing generation housing becomes more of an asset for the rich No matter what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:08 PM
1

The way I see it, white women are the tallest in the world, so of course they're going to be seen as size queens if they just have the "taller than me" requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:13 AM
3

You're a heterosexual simp, that's all. Real Gs know that these women are the same as us once the makeup, hair extensions and shapewear come off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:08 AM
3

Aka this comment confirms all my biases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:47 AM
2

I had a pages long argument with another female poster about this. There's just a lot of female slobs out here who'll never admit it and pin that shit on men. Men need to vet for laziness in women way more strictly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:58 PM
4

Why do you see these things and then still deny AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:41 PM
0

How are you managing to fight while having had leg and jaw surgery? I'm calling BS on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:21 PM
1

Scrupulous also means thorough and diligent. Anyway the top comment has been deleted so I'm having a hard time remembering what the conversation was all about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:19 PM
9

Most men can't pull it off, especially us cone-head guys https://images.app.goo.gl/Bn1j8TJNqXdLxiLYA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:58 AM
7

r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:43 AM
3

Conscientious means hard-working and thorough. I think you meant conscious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:42 AM
1

I meant trad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:45 AM
2

Yeah, that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:11 PM
0

In ttad circles, men dating older women is extremely frowned upon for that very reason and more. Basically a younger man is food for thot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:51 PM
5

Character assassination based on unfounded assumptions seems like a common theme around these parts. On both sides. If something goes against your world view, must be evil, worthless people doing it. Actually says more about the poster than the people the poster is trying to demonize
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:50 PM
2

Fuck you. If I reversed the genders, there's no way you remove this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:58 PM

I think it increases accountability. Can't be dating drunks then acting shocked when the lower inhibitions unleash their animalistic side
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:58 PM

So what would you do? Tell drunkards to be better drunks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:55 PM
2

You still have a lot of tradcucks in the world who think husband material is good and hookup material is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:56 PM
1

Do whatever you want because women have all the power in Western relationships, and they get infinite do-overs from the hoards of simps willing to clean up their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:11 AM
0

You wouldn't know the difference because he'd be the only one you've ever done it with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:06 AM
1

"Men/women like to chase" is a saying people come up with to make themselves not feel so guilty about manipulating and dominating their submissive partners. Machiavellan tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:58 AM
8

Post nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:55 AM
1

They don't envy us in dating, but when the kids come the envy goes up to 100
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:15 AM
2

Claims of safety concerns from the west are just women seeking pity from simps. If women were genuinely concerned for their safety, they would actively avoid alcohol, which is the source of the majority of intimate partner violence in the West. But when given the choice, they choose to partake in drinking culture at ever increasing rates, showing that they don't really care for their own safety that much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:14 AM
2

This is an intellectually dishonest reach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:09 AM
1

History shows that incels don't go out without a fight. That's probably why smart leaders all over the world developed monogamous norms rather than hogging all the women in the tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:03 PM
1

You're the one bitching and I'm the one trying to get you to calm down. Getting stressed about everyday tasks that everyone has to do, sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:30 PM
0

I told you, my girlfriend and I aren't spoilt suburban slobs that think about these normal everyday things, OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:17 PM
0

Like I said, it's your perspective of the whole thing that is warped. It's not a "time sink." Cooking and cleaning is just a normal part of life that shouldn't even register emotionally. It's like whining about walking (actually wait, there's hoards of slobs who whine about that too). You've been socialized to actually think ill about these things. What a whack way to live, going around being frustrated by mundane everyday things. Lol, could never be me. Anyway, I need to cook dinner, adios (or …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:11 PM
1

Being a maid is casual labor, so housework is really not that hard. It's just handiwork. Maintain good fitness levels and don't be lazy and it will be a breeze. You have vast swaths of women who complain bitterly about putting a toilet seat up, so there is a good number of lazy female slobs out there. I thank the gods that I didn't start a family with one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:57 PM
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It's just a slightly higher number of arm motions than what you did when you were single, WTF? You have to be on the furthest end of the laziness curve for that to actually make you resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:06 PM
1

I could believe you if you were just as hot as a Hollywood star. But real life and a lot of research shows that people give an extra long rope to partners who are significantly more attractive than them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:24 AM
1

Women always felt this way. They just didn't have many options in the past, so they kept their mouths shut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:35 AM
1

Could be that the men had open discussions about where he'll get sex from, and the woman placed an expectation of monogamy her partner when she was no longer able to fulfill his sexual wants
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:16 AM
0

Why do you frame it as grunt work? Cooking and cleaning is a normal part of life, with or without a family. You've allowed a completely normal thing to be turned into a propaganda tool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:10 AM
1

Marriage was invented to mark the start of a family. You childfree people are just bandwagoning
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:46 PM
1

Childfree marriages are retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:00 AM
2

Women select for healthy men to marry. Therefore just being "marriage material" (aka being healthy and wealthy) is what makes men live long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:31 AM
1

Whores. There's a lot of very professional ones who give good service
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:33 PM
2

You are a woman, you wanted the security of divorce money in case he tries to abandon you with kids. Why is this so hard to admit? It's perfectly rational
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:31 PM
1

Getting married for sex is ridiculous in today's age. You can just LTR or dumpster dive for sex. Once the ring comes on, babies usually follow in short order and that kills sex in a lot of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:29 PM
3

Biggest pro: promising to stick together in front of friends and family adds a layer of shame to breaking up which acts as a "glue" of last resort for many couples Biggest con: firmly declaring that you're not going anywhere no matter what (aka marriage vows) makes a lot of people complacent in a relationship. Many people need the threat of an easy exit to keep them on their toes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:18 PM
1

Worst comes to worst, you can always buy Monero, put it on a flash disk and flee to a poor country where your money puts you above the law
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:13 PM
4

Selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:09 PM
1

Watch the last few Google I/O conferences. I think they are going to make an AI you can at least converse with within our lifetime. Like in the movie Her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:45 AM
2

Furthermore, I think one of the most important social skills that's lacking is handling rejection. We really need a social movement to bring awareness to this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:41 AM
5

Or they're simply more dolled up than usual. Makeup does wonders for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:34 AM
1

Instagram is technically the biggest dating app in the world but it never shows up in stats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:11 AM
1

Do you live in LA or Miami or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:23 PM
14

Even the ideal looks you see in movies are extremely temporary and the actors go back to normal after the shoot. Male actors are known to dehydrate themselves and do crazy workouts right before they shoot the staple topless shot all action movies demand, just so their muscles can bulge for a few minutes while shooting that scene. Then men go around thinking that that's how these guys look year round
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:12 PM
3

Yes, it is reasonable to posit that men chase money to have sex with attractive women. It's the most effective way to get women out of your league (yeah I know there are maggots under the hood, but the wall street geeks still get women they never would have otherwise)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:17 AM
3

But even in that case, the men probably know that money is their way in with attractive women, so the women are the cause of the ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:50 AM
0

In an ideal world, the father should be able to financially abort in that case. But in the real world, the ugly truth is that the overwhelming majority of women get overwhelmed by single motherhood and sink into poverty as a result. So it is a rational social decision to force men to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:23 AM
1

Of course "left" on reddit means pansexual communist so that's why I used the word "left-leaning"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:45 AM
1

You're just having an internal battle with your gynocentric cultural upbringing. Once you make the mental shift to androcentrism, those feelings of guilt will go away, like a Christian turning atheist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:50 AM
1

Literally all the freedom women enjoy is because men let them. Men hire you, men pass affirmative action laws, men are the cops you call to protect you. Fucking lol, if men somehow decided to go the Saudi way there's nothing women would do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:19 AM
-1

This is my second time attempting to post this. Must have snuck past them while they were walking some dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:13 AM
6

Misogynistic, abusive, toxic. Overused to the point of meaninglessness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:11 AM
1

Ah, men bad, women good. I see
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:10 AM
0

When you get to 10 billion views, we're no longer talking about disenfranchised groups, those are mainstream numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:09 AM
1

Are you going to address the point about Tate being for disenfranchised men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:09 AM
-4

An affiliate program isn't the key to getting over 10 billion views. That is the sign of content that resonates strongly with the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:07 AM
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TikTok isn't some politically correct Silicon Valley outfit that's running scared of the woke mob. If they were gonna censor him they'd have done it before 10 BILLION views. Besides, feminism has already fallen out of favor in China and they're back to an androcentric culture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:40 PM
0

Then that's a whole lot of "disenfranchised people" to generate billions of views and searches. It's undeniable, he's getting mainstream acceptance. These are not just the views of "lonely inc3ls." That's just a tired blanket dismissal of male friendly content
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:15 PM
-1

The way the growth of all these manosphere channels screeches to a halt is a telltale sign of manual suppression by mods. Organic death of a channel is slow and drawn out over several years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:06 PM
-6

Fark fam? FARK? Haven't heard that name in 15 years. Get with the times old man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:42 PM
-8

You probably think TikTok is an irrelevant children's app. Don't let the world pass you by as you shake your fist at the clouds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:30 PM
-5

His strong point is TikTok. Better to get on there rather than remain boastfully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:29 PM
0

Won't be shocked if Trump reverses on TikTok. He's a clip machine and would do crazy numbers there to make him relevant again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:25 PM
6

I keep saying one of the big problems is that the big media companies are almost all unashamedly left leaning. Maybe TikTok will be the hero the right needs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:20 PM
1

STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:46 PM
4

47 year old woman? I have now made a mental note to dismiss everything you say from now henceforth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:22 PM
1

Women always run the insult du jour into the ground. Right now it's "toxic, misogynist, narcissist" among others that have been rendered completely meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:14 AM
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People only overthink when the person they area attracted to isn't attracted back. This is probably the core problem that people who struggle in dating face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:34 PM
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Any commonly discussed tactic for getting women has SOME success rate, however small. Even unsolicited dick pics must be getting some guys laid, otherwise no one would do it. The only question is whether the ROI is worth it. "Friend game" involves waiting for months if not years for a connection and an opening, and even then it's still 50/50. Guys who are against it just don't like those odds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:27 PM
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It's not that hard. Strength in a relationship is determined by who has more options, ie who is the better looking one. If they are a looksmatch, personality and status will determine the power dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:15 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:12 AM
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Stay with her for a long enough time while appearing liberal and non judgmental and she'll tell on herself eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:31 PM
3

I've heard you out, but your tone is not one of someone who's open to debate, so I guess hearing you out was the end of that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:29 PM
1

In the very article YOU have sent me "Some sugar babies will ask about platonic arrangements, being turned off by the idea of intimacy with a sugar daddy. Not surprisingly, most sugar daddies won't see the value in financially providing for a sugar baby without intimacy." At this point just fuck off, I don't want to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:35 PM
2

K
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:52 PM
2

Alright you've made your choice. I'll go sit with the curious people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:45 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of sugar dating involves an exchange of sex for money. Are you going to be intellectually honest about this or are you going to nitpick about the tiny fraction of sugar relationships that don't involve sex for money? If it's the latter, I couldn't be bothered to continue this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:44 PM
4

All people seek out relationship advice when they're not doing so good with the opposite sex. That doesn't make the advice giver a predator, it's just the natural circle of life. Some people frame the blue pillers who tell divorcees to try get married again as the real predators. Would you think they are being fair in their characterization?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:04 PM
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The pills are simply relationship advice. Every single person on this earth looks for relationship advice at one point or another. There are no magically well adjusted people just winging it 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:14 AM
2

They're Muslims though. If you have any experience with Middle Eastern/North African culture, you'll not be caught off guard by any of what they say. You can react to different cultures with curiosity or outrage, your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:02 AM
1

Finding men who will take you on expensive dates is easy. Finding a man who will pay all your bills and fund all your hair-brained ideas? That's like finding a needle in a haystack and there's gold diggers who spend decades looking for such a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:34 PM
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Women are jealous of a prostitute? Come on bro, be intellectually honest with your arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:25 PM
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The only sugar daddies who don't get sex are the ones who's dicks completely stopped working. Anything else you heard is just sugar babies trying to save face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:21 PM
1

Most millionaires are over 50 though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:18 PM
2

Exactly. To me it's even more respectable to bang hot hookers than to fool yourself into wifing one up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:16 PM
2

You're probably both right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:14 PM
0

"Nobody cares" is such a stupid statement I just dismiss it as trolling and don't respond
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:38 AM
2

Sometimes I think different ethnicities over time know their "selling point" and develop preferences around that. White people are the tallest in the world, so it's no surprise to me that they select for height. You'll find the same in all ethnicities
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:16 PM
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Because women are the more vulnerable sex, "keeping it real" has always had more repercussions for them than men. Hence white lies become a survival skill for women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:02 AM
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Exactly. The best way to capitalize on this golden age of pussy is to take advantage of the affirmative action for women currently going on in lucrative STEM jobs. Much easier gig and once you get your foot in the door, the job offers on LinkedIn will be endless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:01 AM
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His explosion is still only months old and there's still a large contingent of adults who don't consider TikTok to be relevant. A few more months of this uptrend and he'll be on TV for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:14 AM
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Tate simply figured a way around the social media censors. All this black and red pill stuff has always been extremely viral. It's only issue was that any black/red pill channel would always run into either a bunch of sensitive people who would report it to oblivion, or the leftist mods of the platform would manually suppress the content. But Tate went around this by doing hard hitting interviews regularly. You can't ban a channel for one interview, so if you do many interviews, essentially now …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:19 AM
3

"Insecure" is such a generic attack word, with everyone defining it as they please. Useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:06 AM
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There are numbers showing just how big Tate is blowing up right now. His search volumes on Google are higher than Kim Kardashian https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?hl=en-GB&tz=-180&geo=US&q=Andrew+tate,Kim+Kardashian&sni=3 The Andrew Tate hashtag on TikTok has 9 billion views. Yes billion, with a b. And he's gaining followers on Instagram at a rate of nearly 1 million a month
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:51 AM
1

I don't know about that. Lizzo is sitting pretty at the top of the Billboard charts as we speak. The movement is going to work eventually IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:44 AM
1

Propaganda. Vasectomies are permanent. Reversible ones fall under RISUG which is still a procedure in trials
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:41 AM
1

Whatever makes you sleep at night buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:42 AM
1

Something's off with this assessment, otherwise pharmaceutical companies would have been all over var as the female viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:46 AM
1

A vasectomy is a huge deal breaker outside of some extremist corners of the internet. If I ever got one I'd take that secret to the grave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:40 AM
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Nothing more attractive than a genetic dead end
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:38 AM
3

That's a very specific statistic. How many divorcees are going as far as marrying within the first year of freedom? Very few
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:00 AM
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Women have mastered the art of running insults into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:18 AM
2

Of course PPD women will all say they would never, but there's a lot more women than you think who share. Here's a list of women I've known to share: couples where the man is clearly and obviously the better looking one older couples where the woman lost interest in sex for whatever reason women who value family stability over all else women who's religion permits men to share women with husbands who travel a lot women who marry a "Martin Luther King" aka a man who is admirable in all ways excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:46 PM
1

The only issue here is your lack of acknowledgement that Serena's man face is a huge shortcoming. She's most definitely on the lower end of the looks scale face wise. For heavens sake, drop the PC pretense and just be objective, she's a 2 or a 3 in the face: https://twitter.com/BetterUp/status/1489366382051565568 https://www.instagram.com/p/COgi3CYD1n0/ And height and race are part of looks, so you can't just ignore that Ohanian is 6'5 and white. The only thing bridging this large looks gap is S…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:41 AM
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Ohanian is white plus he's in the top 0.1% of height, fame and riches. Serena has a man face, which is probably the most undoable female shortcoming, but her banging body makes up for it in a lot of men's eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:53 AM
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Well I raise you Serena Williams. Ugly but fit with status and she landed the founder of this very website. A banging body goes a long way for an ugly woman, and there's the option of surgery which a lot of high value men are into
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:13 AM
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You think an ugly man with status is getting genuine attraction from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:01 AM
1

It's not jogs in the dark that women need to be afraid of. The overwhelming majority of violence on today's world happens under the influence of drugs and alcohol. Very easily avoidable if not for poor choices
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:01 PM
0

Ugly and old women do sugaring too. Of course at lower rates than men but it damn sure happens. Go to any resort town and you'll see it out in the open
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:57 PM
1

It's probably a skewed percentage due to the low number of Asians relative to other groups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:41 PM
0

Mandatory DNA testing would settle this once and for all, but we won't have that because all governments know that the social fracture caused wouldn't be worth the benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:30 AM
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You can breed certain characteristics in any animal with 2 generations of selective breeding. It just takes longer to do organically but there are societal nuclear bombs such as birth control and the internet which can provide sufficient simulation to speed up the process
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:33 AM
0

No. See dogs for proof
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:02 AM
5

The strongest henpeckers are always the ones talking about how "equal" their relationships are. If only we could see and hear from this man. He'd probably be stammering as you look at him sternly to coax him into giving the right answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:45 PM
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304 ERROR: reproductive instinct not found. Send to Trash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:36 PM
0

Your parents wasted all that time money and effort on a genetic dead end. They must have the most convincing fake smiles by now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:32 PM
0

Good, you are worthless as a woman now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:26 PM
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There is such a thing as wielding power responsibly. This is the only intellectually honest ideal for a relationship. Equality is wishful thinking. You won't be equal when you're in your third trimester while the man's life continues as normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:21 PM
2

This trans-inspired Instagram look is better to you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:16 PM
0

There is no equal relationship between two people, this is sociology 101
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:14 PM
0

Women are the ones who want beta doormats to be a workhorse for her and her children. Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:31 PM
0

You're a man. You have way less anxiety levels than a woman, hence you are way less anal about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:30 PM
4

I'm talking about how the heartthrobs looked. It's been a steady climb in standards for male faces and bodies since the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:17 PM
3

Adoption is like dumpster diving. Yeah, maybe you'll find some diamonds in the rough, but it's mostly trash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:11 PM
1

The sex differences are small, but they have a huge effect. I mean, the balls are the size of a couple marbles. If you look at it a certain way, you could dismiss the balls as an insignificant difference between male and female anatomy, but viewed from the lens of the effects of the balls, the differences they cause are huge. This is usually the issue with the nature vs nurture debate, two people looking at similar evidence, but coming up with wildly different conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:26 PM
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Could be that both are true. Go and see the faces and bodies that the male heartthrobs had before smartphones took over compared to now. Also back in the day, local clout meant something. Now, without online clout, you're nothing. Also standards for money were far less. Any German car was impressive. Now only $150k+ exotics and limos are impressive. Back in the day $400 phones were noteworthy. Now that's a budget phone. Pussy inflation is real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:20 PM
1

It's not hypocrisy, it's natural selection at work. The women hope to date men who will cover for their shortcomings so that their children can have a better chance of reproducing. If a short woman gets with a short man, her male kids will be fooked. Same with if a poor woman dates a poor man etc etc. If she can date her opposite in such cases, her kids will have a better shot at life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:08 PM
7

You probably still henpeck him, so what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:02 PM
1

Exactly. I'm someone in my mid 30s and I can remember the impressive male faces, physiques, cars and incomes from my childhood were of a way lower standard than today. Pussy inflation is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:59 PM
1

You learned a new word, clever boy! https://media4.giphy.com/media/2A1Ib5aactWeFFaZ2T/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:43 AM
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Slaves side eyeing you from the heavens rn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:30 PM
1

Unfortunately many women date with the purpose of having their partner cover for their shortcomings. I think they are hoping that there will be some genetic recombination that gives birth to good children overall. For example short women dating tall guys so that hopefully their kids will be on the tall side, or broke women looking for rich guys so that the overall household income will be on the high side
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:12 PM
5

You probably expected an answer fitting some geek caricature stereotype so that you could dunk on me, like you are doing to other posters in this thread. But when I wasn't going for that you try to do a pressure flip. You and your bad faith arguments, be gone!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:40 AM
6

Of course the woman tries to flip the argument when cornered. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:37 AM
2

Watch the beta traits be rattled out like clockwork
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:23 AM
1

Just the fact that you want to make a distinction between intelligence and nerdiness renders your argument worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:18 AM
0

That would narrow down my options way too much. Besides, intelligent women tend to be ugly in my experience. Me trying to find someone like the Botez sisters would be like a woman looking for a 666 simpy rich kid unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:15 AM
1

That's the tradcuck definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:08 AM
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Biology, astrophysics, macroeconomics, artificial intelligence, philosophical gray areas, ancient history etc. For a practical example, just last week I tried sparking a conversation with a woman comparing prayer to meditation and how a lot of modern beliefs are just ancient religions repackaged. She hit me with the standard facial expression that just says "WTF is this nerd babbling about?" and I changed the topic to Stranger Things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:19 AM
4

Hell to the no. Geeking out on dates is a certified attraction killer, regardless of how hot the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:58 PM
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Women will gaslight the hell out of this subject but I dare any men to elevate topics on a date to some serious intellectual topics. I guarantee you her eyes will glaze over within seconds. When women say they want intelligent men, they are just vetting if you'll be a good workhorse for her and her children. The couldn't care less about engaging intellectually with men. If you are intelligent, keep that shit in the workplace or classroom. On dates you're much better off talking about whatever's …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:53 PM
4

I'm sure you would love dates where you have an in depth discussion on header bidding and retargeting. Please, 99.99% of women would rather talk about what's trending on Netflix and YouTube
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:46 PM
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This is not a club thing. Any attempt to spark a conversation with a woman about intellectual topics such as science, economics, astrophysics, philosophical gray areas etc and her eyes will glaze over. Any dating coach will tell you that you must keep conversations light with women. Talk about hobbies, media, other people etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:32 PM
8

The man who waited months is paying relative to the attractive guy who hit it within days. Woman isn't paying because she knows full well what she's gaining from making him wait
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:48 PM
2

Nah, hobosexuals are limited to old/ugly men and women who don't mind paying your bills to make up for the attraction gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:43 PM
2

Prostitutes are not physically forced into fucking men for profit. Even the trafficked ones can easily run away. As a former John, I can tell you those women aren't the victims they claim to be. The prostitute sob story is a joke in experienced John circles, but outsiders fall for that shit hook line and sinker. ​ On the sexual harrasment stuff, strictly speaking, sex-for-a-job is just a shitty job offer and both should carry the same consideration. ​ Anyway, same way we made both those things i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:38 PM
3

Actually the signs point to Jason Momoa being a hobosexual before his big break in Aquaman (GOT didn't pay much), that's why he ended up with Lisa Bonet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:28 PM
1

yes. They are both voluntary, non-violent transactions. The only function of those laws is to curb men's power over women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:20 PM
2

yeah, same way we control and limit men to make women happy (prostitution laws and laws against using your position to get sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:09 PM
5

So we kept discovering superfoods every year after the 60s? No, we invented birth control that allowed women to finally choose along the genetic criteria they always wanted to deep down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:30 PM
2

There is a growing trend of women wearing skimpy clothes then calling out men who stare, wolf whistle and hit on them. Woman, you wore attention-grabbing clothes, then you get mad at when you get attention? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:28 AM
2

Personally I feel like making female modesty a positive thing again in the West would be a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:23 AM
1

I don't think it should be legal, but in androcentric societies (aka any society outside the west) it is tolerated. The "female advantage" is women's lower thirst. I don't think it is any secret that women in the West manipulate thirsty men into doing things they don't really want to do. Often through skimpy dressing and flirtatious behavior. Such stuff is illegal and/or socially shunned in androcentric societies outside the west. A country that is close to ideal for me in terms of male and fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:00 PM
5

Rich and powerful men are mostly too old and/or ugly to pull the young women they want off looks and vibes. Plus rich men tend to be married so they also have to pay up big time for the concubine's silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:01 PM
1

You can have a patriarchy in the workplace but a gynocracy in the sexual marketplace. PPD is a discussion about the sexual marketplace hence why I used gynocentric to describe the West. In the West women have completely henpecked the men and only someone who has never traveled outside the West would think it is an "equal" situation. In the gynocentric culture of the West, using male advantages over women in the SMP is punishable by law e.g using physical strength, social status or money to get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:37 AM
1

I live with her. Single mother doesn't mean what you think it means
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:14 AM
1

Alright, well how about this: you've been raised in a gynocentric culture all your life and can't fathom how people can happily exist in an androcentric culture. That's your cultural bias and you don't even know it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:58 AM
1

Because the incentives for marriage are kinda skewed. Plus I think as long as the people in a relationship are "marriage material" then you will accrue most of the benefits people misattribute to marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:10 AM
1

Yes I'm not dumb enough to pay radfems any mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:08 AM
-1

Funny how most of the people who think they are victims are rich Westerners who've never been
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:07 AM
1

Too horny, must pay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:44 PM
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if you are the type to believe women's exaggerations about victimhood, I don't think you can be reasoned with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:57 PM
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LOL, you've definitely never experienced a full pregnancy then. My girlfriend is 8 months pregnant and I do not envy her right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:55 PM
1

I wouldn't go that far, but yes, fluid gender roles definitely add an extra layer of dificulty to the already difficult situation of navigating relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:54 PM
3

You've been fooled by the camera tricks. I've seen a few influencers in real life with their hair down and they were literally just another face in the crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:43 PM
2

It doesn't 'suck.' Conservatism with its androcentric values is the best adaptation to a poor or wartorn environment. Can you imagine a Ukranian woman being concerned about gender equality right now? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:39 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QS0q3mGPGg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:13 PM
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All this would be fine and dandy if the husband material guys and the Chads were treated the same by women. But women are very fussy with the husband material guys, forcing them to bend over backwards to compensate for their lack of attractiveness, while they simp and make it super easy for the Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:15 AM
2

India and environs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:36 PM
3

Subcontinent people were actually the ones I was thinking of. The subcontinent has almost zero global political power but their people feature heavily in the business community of every country in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:07 PM
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No, I just rate economic power way higher than political power. Asian minorities for example are thriving all over the world without having even one Asian politician in office in their respective countries. Anyway when the mods wake up, they will delete all my comments in this thread for being racist, so I don't see the point in continuing this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:45 AM
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Man gets shocked when not everyone subscribes to his echo chamber's thoughts. You are black and black people are known to overrate political power to their detriment. Pick up some economics books to challenge your established views
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:32 AM
2

Lol no. There's just people who rate political power while other groups rate economic power. And I'm in my mid 30s before you pull that line of reasoning on me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:05 AM
1

I came at you in good faith but there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:41 PM
1

The question that remains is, are there any trains of thought about relationships that aren't circular and prone to bias? If yes, name them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:46 PM
3

If you're not a multimillionaire in dollars, you better have money high in your list of requirements for a woman or you're going to have a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:41 PM
0

Social media has definitely turned up the comparisons to 100. Especially because it seems way more real than the magazine and TV models of the previous generation. I think the jury is still out on how this will affect gen Z relationships but I think they'll find ways to be happy in spite of all the comparisons online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:38 PM
4

Those couples are looksmatched when the makeup, hair extensions and shapewear come off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:32 PM
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It is everything. Those couples are looksmatched when the makeup, hair extensions and shapewear come off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:32 PM
3

STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:43 AM

Or perhaps you have pedestalized women too much. They are simple creatures, as is the rest of humanity. The difference between human and chimp DNA is 1%. The key to understanding humans is to study the 99% resemblance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:27 AM

Modesty laws would be fair in Western society. I will die on this hill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:18 AM
1

If this was the case, then Muslim relationship failure rate should be 100%. Don't be an orbiter guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:25 AM
2

You're probably a student or a worker. Switch jobs and see how quickly those friendships evaporate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:24 AM
1

Yeah, I've had 4 procedures. It was mostly to keep me looking the same as I did when younger, not really an upgrade. After my second child I plan on going full biohacker though. Roids, braces, hair system and sildenafil to start off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:32 AM
1

Self-improvement along the lines of tingling women's five senses: - dressing, grooming and surgery for the sense of sight - cologne, showers, brushing twice daily and drinking lots of water for the sense of smell - voice training (listening to myself in recordings) for the sense of sound - knowledge of massages and erogenous zones for the sense of touch - couldn't come up with anything for sense of taste. Maybe I need to research on that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:41 PM
1

Exactly. That author just had a bias towards certain ideals and is trying to discredit natural selection for not achieving those ideals. Natural selection doesn't care, even in cases of fisherian runaway where natural selection leads to extinction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:29 AM
2

I'm 100% sure that a significant percentage of the LGBTQ society is incels adapting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:14 AM
1

Patrice O'Neal ended up in an open relationship with his looksmatch. Sounds to me like the ugly man's destiny arrived all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:56 AM
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That's what I've been saying. The blue pill is a status symbol. Shows that you're higher up on the hierarchy of needs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:50 AM
0

Yes. Would need you to change your worldview first to rid yourself of the need for female validation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:44 AM
3

Timothy Chalamet doesn't have to neg anyone to get by
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:42 AM
1

Leftists who decided to ditch traditional ways are now caught in a difficult situation because their culture is still very much a work in progress. They have to make shit up along the way unlike conservatives who have ready made templates to refer to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:07 AM
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I saw someone once say that reddit relationship subs are adults in OP looking for advice on their failing relationships, with teenagers in the replies telling them to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:48 AM
2

No. It's just that men need to be cognizant of gold digging at all income levels because one woman's trash is another woman's gold
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:04 PM
0

Actually there is a cold war in any relationship because perfect power distribution between two people is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:17 PM
1

Women are amoral not by spinning plates, but by using men's higher thirst against them. That is 100% encouraged in Western society, and in non Western societies it is discouraged through modesty laws and norms
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:15 PM
3

The female message to have fun while young has devastating consequences in poorer communities. Poor women are very well served by leaning towards trad dating advice (emphasis on LEANING, don't purposely misinterpret me with some religious fundamentalist argument)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:11 PM
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Gold digging is all relative. Rural women consider a military man's $20k + benefits to be gold worth digging, while Los Angeles women consider athletes with fully guaranteed $100m max contracts to have gold
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:05 PM
2

Deep down the problem for most people who are angry with dating is that they don't like their options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:22 AM
1

Yeah but that's the whole thing about looks. They are a low effort shortcut to judge a partners' quality on several levels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:42 PM
2

It was audio fam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:13 PM
1

That's what flop means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:20 PM
0

Why? If you're from the same city/town most accents will be similar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:05 PM
3

Hmm, fair point. Might have to wrap this thread up, you've probably changed my view on this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:11 PM
2

Fair point, but it still doesn't explain the vast difference between the visual apps and the audio apps. Shouldn't the audio apps be at least somewhat competitive if personality is that big of a deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:06 PM
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Most people are neurotypical and share culture with people in their same city/town. That's enough personality to get by in dating, let's not pretend that people are holding out for Tony Stark/Mary Poppins levels of charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:03 PM
0

If there was nascent demand from the "personality is everything" crowd, the word of mouth would have been huge for these apps. The only products that need huge marketing campaigns are the barely useful apps. Great apps like Whatsapp and Truecaller that fulfil nascent demand just need a little spark at the beginning and they're off to the races
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:05 AM
1

It's fluid but within a small range. Otherwise there would be no modeling industry, no skilled portrait photographers and no casting formulas
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:06 AM
1

Michelle stuck by him for years in early life when Obama was jobless and bummy for a few years. She was the bread winner at that time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:35 AM
2

Or they're just kinda ugly with no options eg Michelle Obama, who is used as the gold standard for sticking by your man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:44 AM
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Bro, pregnancy changes women's skin color, hair, nose, boobs, belly, pelvis and ankles. There's a reason you can just instinctually tell moms from non-moms. Get your head out of your arse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:47 AM
3

Proof that you're not attractive enough for the women around you to even consider you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:28 AM
0

You still need actual interesting people to spark off topics and then you chime in with your supposed conversation skills. You just want a jester for your amusement because you are too boring to spark up a conversation yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:51 AM
1

A woman offering up a free ONS doesn't make her a "whisperer." She's like a free sample on the side of the road
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:36 AM
6

If most of your dates were boring, chances are that you are boring yourself! The mutually interesting people are pairing up while you wait for your court jester to appear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:44 AM
1

That's average in many parts of the West
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:37 AM
0

Are you on roids to be working out that much? Be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:45 PM
5

Would be fair if women were the ones putting in effort, but your profiles are just as low effort, if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Sharing chores is very much a problem of mostly left-leaning women who don't have set frameworks for gender roles. My right-leaning wife is 7 months pregnant and only wants help with chores that involve bending over. Any other time I try to help with chores that right wingers consider feminine (cooking and cleaning) she tells me quite sternly to bug off. Reddit is overwhelmingly left-leaning, so you won't get good feedback regarding this (I have used the word "leaning" very carefully to make sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:43 AM
2

No. Marshall and Ted are the mid ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:55 PM
3

Literature and theater are forms of media
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:19 PM
2

Now you're just nitpicking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:18 PM
-3

The Brits didn't colonize the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:15 PM
7

Seth Rogen in Knocked Up? Johnny Galecki in Big Bang Theory? Seinfeld?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:11 PM
4

Those same British traditions are also now the norm in South America, which had no British colonies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:01 PM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:57 PM
10

Also status signaling. I'm attracted to caring, intelligent men = high status signal I'm attracted to big dicks and money = low status signal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:19 PM
10

Being bluepilled is a status symbol. It signals to others that you are in the upper rungs of Maslow's heirarchy of needs. Bluepillers think they will be viewed as low class if they admit to being attracted to muscles, big dicks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:16 PM
20

This is why OLD is a goldmine for studying human behavior because there is no better way to find out about revealed preferences compared to stated preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:12 PM
4

Actually Fresh and Fit is just bait for online stream donors. That's why Onlyfans girls keep going there to be berated by the crew, because they always get a boost on their Onlyfans after going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:07 PM
2

There's always the few suburbian city slickers who ape Western culture, but those are a negligible percentage of the entire country's population in those countries. The overwhelming majority of the population is either urban poor or rural, and those two groups are staunchly conservative and truly patriarchal outside the west. In rural Africa, parents abandon their daughters for complaining about domestic violence and lack of modesty in women will have the villagers strip you naked in public
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:38 AM
1

can't afford a $100 flight in a 5 month window? Guess it's not that important then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:05 AM
2

Men's biological desire: polygamy Men's advantages: higher strength, status and more money. ​ Using any of these in the west to your advantage will get you jailed (polygamy, domestic violence, sexual harrasment, prostitution) ​ Try report any of those crimes to the police in Africa, Middle East, Asia and South America, you will be told to go back home because the police don't intervene in personal matters. ​ Compare that to female advantages (looks and lower thirst than men). Women who use these…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:02 AM
3

allow me to show you this other invention called an airplane...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:54 AM
2

A patriarchy where men's biological desires and advantages have them sent to jail? Read a book or do some traveling beyond the West to see what real patriarchy looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:57 AM
0

5'7 isn't that tall though, especially in the West
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:52 AM
6

No one can force a woman either due to this radical invention called birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:49 AM
1

One example is how progressive folks are constantly complaining about division of labor and even breaking up over it. Meanwhile in a trad home division of labor isn't even a discussion because there is a culturally ingrained template which they happily buy into. Another example is spirituality. Progressives can be all over the place about this, even breaking up because of some spiritual enlightenment. Meanwhile trads have their holy books as a template they can lean on for spirituality and the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:28 AM
1

More like if you follow the instructions, you're relationships will be easier. You have to admit, the fluidity of roles in liberal circles adds some complexity to relationships whereas trads just follow set templates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:03 AM
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according to your post history, you are 6'4 250lbs and clearly on roids. That's not just lifting, that's height + crazy low inhibition to put your body at risk to fit into a niche type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:08 PM
7

The henpecking of Western men is also an atrocity when viewed from the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:57 AM
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There's a video I saw where a woman is protesting at an African governor's office. The governor steps up to the woman and gives her a full 180 degree wind-up haymaker in front of National TV cameras. The cops arrest the woman as she's crying and the governor continued to serve his full term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:50 AM
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If you look beyond the West, it's laughable that Western men have been brainwashed to believe they are a patriarchy. Western men are the most henpecked men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:39 AM
3

Social. Read up on Hofstede's cultural dimensions. One of the building blocks of a culture is its bias towards masculinity or femininity. After that, widen the scope of your thinking beyond Western civilization. Are people in the Middle East, Asia, South America and Africa biased towards femininity? Would be laughable to suggest so. Feminine bias is largely a culture of people of European descent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:36 AM
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Leftist stuff tends to be thrown out the window when America enters a major war. After they entered WWII, Vietnam and Iraq, the culture made a hard right turn. There's no room for wokeism in wartime
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:20 AM
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Not OP, but the way I see it, progressive principles introduce more layers of complexity to the already complex equation that is a relationship. Trads have ready made templates that simplify things for those who happily buy into trad life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:13 AM
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Nah, some of us just don't have cheating as a deal breaker because we know lifetime monogamy is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:00 AM
3

Not only is a nuclear family good for the economy, a gynocentric culture with women calling the shots and wearing the pants is also better than androcentric cultures, because 80% of men now have to spend billions wooing the women and fulfilling their nagging demands when married
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:29 PM
1

Are her kids yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:50 AM
7

Interesting. Might be worth a post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:07 PM
4

Average guys can also get casual sex by hanging out in niche scenes which are more sexually free eg swingers clubs, hipsters, gold diggers etc. Also straight up prostitution counts as casual sex IMO which many average guys resort to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:06 AM
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You live in a society that jails men for wanting to follow their natural sexual imperative (polygamy). A society that jails men for using their advantages (power, strength, money) to get women to comply with them while encouraging women to use their advantages (looks + lower thirst) to get men to comply with them. Claiming that you can be for equality in such an environment is just naive and betrays a lack of knowledge about culture and power dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:22 AM
-1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:11 AM
8

You really want to claim that the media has no influence on relationships when the white wedding is now a global standard? Fucking lol, this is thread worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:09 AM
2

Stop larping
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:58 PM
3

*Western society. The rest of the world is still pretty androcentric and patriarchal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:57 PM
-1

An egalitarian in the West is a feminist because the wider culture is gynocentric.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:55 PM
2

Yes. Mark Manson is filling that niche with his books. Basically red pill watered down for the mainstream by softening the language and avoiding discussions on genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:54 PM
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Chances are those guys who just get it had good examples growing up and they mimicked those while the rest of us mimicked our henpecked dads and romcoms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:41 PM
11

There is extensive research that's been done on the importance of physical attraction in relationships. Read it and get your head out of the sand before you get heartbroken over some basic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:33 PM
2

I'm willing to bet 1 million dollars that your conclusions are based off the Halo Effect. But alas, we have no pictures of the dudes in question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:28 AM
3

Women becoming more disagreeable over time isn't the flex you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:23 AM
3

Japan in many ways represents the endgame of capitalism. When a population has grown until it can't grow any more. However, estimates say the rest of the world will get there next century.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:35 PM
3

It should be that way but historical experience shows that women get overwhelmed by the responsibility of raising children alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:18 PM
5

Any game strategy that has mass adoption has a success rate, it's just that some are less efficient than others. If a strategy has zero percent success, it wouldn't go viral. Even sending dick pics must be working for some guys, much as nearly all women say it's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:18 AM
1

It applies both ways. Generally if you ask the opposite sex for advise on relationships, they will advise you to become a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:12 PM
1

You two are both terrible debaters just talking shit with nothing to back it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:12 PM
3

Often the men who create the technology don't have the will to kill, so they hand over their inventions to the guys like man B. Viola, now you have a military and a civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:37 PM
3

No. The men left out in your situation wouldn't go out without a fight, and when things get violent, people with the characteristics of man B are at an advantage. We were once that way but people organically gravitated towards the more peaceful lifestyle offered by monogamy because the pros outweigh the cons, so here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:38 PM
8

It is not the "best" men who procreate the most. Just men with traits that allow for reproduction in their environment. Take for example the following two men: Man A: handsome, well educated upper middle class man from a good family who has deep roots in his community. Is very picky about who he chooses to get in a relationship and wouldn't hurt a fly despite being muscular Man B: rugged man, uneducated, low income gang member from a broken home, who never lives in any one town for long. He is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:15 PM
2

Monogamy is the assumed default for most women and you just have to stick to approaching women from certain groups if you want to be openly poly without judgement. Personally I've seen hippies and gold diggers are the most accepting of poly stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:03 AM
1

No. This video covers all the explanations for apparent mismatches: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NcTveUAIo1I
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:43 AM
3

Yeah. Farming is a thankless slog with poverty wages if you don't own several hundred acres at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:32 PM
1

The craziest thing is how people still haven't figured out how Instagrammers obviously contort their body in ridiculous ways to achieve their "curves."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:07 PM
0

That advice basically ends up in gold digging when applied practically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:40 PM
8

One hour isn't speed dating, that's a full first date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:38 PM
1

They are only valid if you still harbor romantic thoughts. If you ever decide to use money as your selling point to women, you need to be ruthless AF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:55 PM
1

Absolutely no reason, really? OP might have been exaggerating but you went the complete other way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:49 PM
3

You can have the same evidence, but draw different conclusions based on your world view. I bet this is a situation where genetic determinists see it one way and social constructionists see it the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:25 AM
1

You can't have perfect equality between 2 people, one must be the dom and the other must be the sub both in a given context and in general. And when it comes to relationships, the dom/sub dynamic is most often determined by attractiveness levels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:05 AM
-2

On the other hand, I'm 8.5 inches and women think I'm 6. Also enough women complained about the size growing up that I developed a weird instinct to soften slightly when penetrating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:43 PM
1

Economically it is undeniably positive. Socially, it is very debateable because social power dynamics between the sexes are a zero sum game in reality (egalitarianism is wishful thinking)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:35 PM
2

Polygamy is one obvious one. The male polygamy fantasy is straight up outlawed in Western countries, while it is encouraged in Muslim culture, and having a mistress or visiting prostitutes is encouraged in East Asia, Eastern Europe, Africa and South America
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:27 PM
1

Indeed this is a big barrier. There are some Westerners who assimilate fully, but they are so rare that they often make the evening news in that country. Asians are usually better at assimilating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:35 PM
3

so you're saying if we tweaked our media, Westerners could change mentally and be as androcentric as Arabs? Don't make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:32 PM
1

Yeah, you would probably have to assimilate fully, and now you have pros and cons to measure before moving
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:25 PM
10

Generally the respect for men's biological differences and advantages. In gynocentric societies these are viewed as animal tendencies that need to be curbed. In androcentric societies these are viewed as positive traits to be nurtured
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:09 PM

The incentive is the calculation of your salary minus your expenses. If there is no scenario where you comfortably afford the kid, abort mission
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:34 AM

It SHOULD be that women SHOULD be able to take care of the kids by themselves. But the reality is that women more often get overwhelmed by sole responsibility for children, leading them into the poverty cycle. And the government has no incentive to pile child support bills on their books. So they try as hard as they can to force the man to share the responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:35 AM

Online dating is so far the only credible way of measuring revealed sexual preferences rather than stated sexual preferences, which are often skewed by social pressures people want to conform to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:00 PM
0

Chad is also popular on YouTube
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:50 AM
1

https://images.app.goo.gl/qgSMjGhz4ctVwokcA
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:11 PM
1

Lol, this is precisely how the hen pecking starts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:04 PM
1

Fucking LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:06 AM
4

Amazing how you can't help but make this about the women. The women are happy as clams in a gynocracy. It's the men who are the equivalent of eunuchs walking on eggshells
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:37 PM
1

Any history of dating for money or having sex for money is a complete no for me in terms of LTRs. I don't care if you were hurting for money, you should have gotten a casual labor job like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:19 PM
1

Women cross the floor and join their right-leaning husbands all the time. Once you gather some assets and start a family, all the wishful thinking of the left just starts looking silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:14 PM
5

It undoubtedly works economically but on a social level it's debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:24 PM
13

That's not misogynist, that's gynocentric. Literally using the law to take away men's advantage over women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:01 PM
16

Indeed, to call Western men misogynist is just the most laughable thing for anyone well traveled. There is no other group of men that is as deferential to women as a Western man. And I say "Western" on purpose because even white men from Eastern Europe are not as henpecked as their Western counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:07 PM
14

I doubt the travel credentials of anyone who calls Western men misogynist. Western men are the most gynocentric, henpecked men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:03 PM
-1

Most movies still show some simp doing a grand gesture to win over the woman's heart. Grand gestures get you nowhere in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:51 PM
1

It's literally in the sidebar/wiki
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:43 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:34 PM
1

What every human has is a need for approval from certain groups. It is socially frowned upon to admit it, but it's true. Almost everyone has this need, the only difference is, the group in question varies by the individual. For some people, the group is parents, for others, it's their siblings, for others it's their workmates etc, and for some men, they need the approval of women, which probably manifests itself in a need for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:50 AM
1

Even in rich countries, the "right conditions" for marriages of convenience exist. You still have clout chasers, social climbers, gold diggers, box tickers, women with childhood financial trauma etc in the West who are more than willing to rationalize pairing with men they don't desire in exchange for the money, status or servitude the man would bring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:45 AM
1

Chads get "keep him around" sex on top of the usual sex for pleasure. Normies only get the sex for pleasure, and you BETTER get her off!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:18 AM
1

Only in the gynocentric West are men's natural advantages over women clamped down on super hard. In an androcentric society such as the Middle East, they clamp down on women's natural advantages over men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:16 AM
1

Proof is how the average marriage age gap widens or narrow in direct proportion with the income level of a country. This is irrefutable evidence that women turn to marriages of convenience in the right conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:14 AM
1

Conservatism is an ideology suited to surviving harsh times such as poverty and wartime. Leftist ideologies are only fathomable in comfortable, zoo-like conditions. ​ That should bring more understanding to why your home people are the way they are. Even your dear US people have always turned to conservatism whenever they get in a war mongering mood
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:59 AM
1

The root of all female independence is the fact that there are men they can call upon to protect them when they are in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:51 AM
1

One of the building blocks of a culture is how androcentric or gynocentric it is. Western culture is by all means deferential to women, especially when you compare it to other cultures such as Arabic, African, Eastern European and Asian culture (minus Japanese)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:44 AM
2

I agree with that because when you are above your partner in looks, the woman has sex for pleasure and is also more willing to give you "keep him around" sex. When you are equally attractive, you don't get the "keep him around" sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:37 AM
3

The number of people who don't have infidelity as a dealbreaker are more than you think. We just don't shout about it because we don't want the judgement and the blatant disrespect that might stem from that open admission
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:23 AM
3

many men will go their entire lives where the gentlest thing they experienced was their mother brushing their hair as a child. black men in shambles rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:12 AM
1

Exceptions to the rule don't disprove the rule. Yeah, there's a tiny minority of people who are role reversed, pansexual, gender benders but they are statistically insignificant. It's unfortunate that as a society we've decided that statistical insignificance isn't a thing, so we get overly worked up about trannies, incels, stay at home moms and other specks on the long tail of the population graph
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:15 PM
0

(4+2)/2 = 3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:06 PM
7

Unfortunately you have people asking for statistical proof of whether the sky is blue around here. Like they'll demand statistical evidence of height preference in women. Like you couldn't just go outside and see that the overwhelming majority of couples have the man being taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:04 PM
1

Most people don't do crimes, but laws still exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:06 PM
0

These skimpy female outfits are so uncomfortable and inconvenient. They are only worn with the intention of messing with men's heads aka harassing us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:33 PM
1

It harms men's reasoning capacity, which is THE essential building block of modern society. Besides, tight clothes aren't even comfortable especially in comparison with loose clothes. We'd be doing women a favor removing the social pressure to be sexy when out in less than ideal conditions, having to be self conscious about your leg positioning, "creeps" staring at your cleavage, silly intrasexual competitions etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:24 PM
1

We also policed men's behavior... to make things fair for women. Even though on paper the laws are for everyone, don't act like domestic violence laws, prostitution laws, sexual harassment laws etc apply equally. They clearly target men, even the police will admit that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:03 PM
1

There you go making it about the women again lol, you're beyond help
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:29 PM
1

No. There should simply be standards around tightness of clothing and showing of skin in public, in offices and in advertising. You can make the law for "both sexes" the same way domestic violence laws are for "both sexes." In residential buildings you can wear whatever you want. Fine both companies and individuals who try to flout this rule. ​ Also wearing makeup to the office should be forbidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:53 PM
1

No, it is only people who share your views that are sexually successful. Nice debate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:41 AM
0

That's the point of this sub. To get you out of your cocoons and see other points of view. You are the weird one for thinking that your (likely gynocentric) views are the way, the truth and the light
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:40 AM
1

You're the one downplaying the massive power women have over men due to male thirst. It can definitely be compared to men's physical and socioeconomic power over women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:06 AM
-2

There is no excuse for women to sexually harass men by dressing provocatively in public
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:59 AM
4

blue piller. Someone who believes that having a carebear personality gets you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:24 AM
0

Your gynocratic thinking is showing. Your first thought when I described those laws is about how they would help women, when I was talking about how they help men by not having their thirst manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:21 AM
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But male strengths have been curtailed for the sake of fairness. Polygamy is illegal, prostitution is illegal, hitting women is illegal, using a position of power to get laid is illegal. These are all areas where men have power over women to make them bend to their will, but we agreed as a society to curb them for the greater good. Why can't we look into the situations where women have power over men (especially regarding manipulation of male thirst) and curb them? Why not have laws governing se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:59 AM
9

SHorT MaN sYnDroMe!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:37 AM
2

This manifests itself in this very sub, where androcentric posts get many upvotes, but open the comments and the OP is getting slaughtered by feminists and bloops
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:34 AM
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When I used to go to that sub, I used to try and call out the creative writing, especially by that Uncle Vasya fellow, and would get brigaded by his Stans. It's like if some FDS chic wrote about how she was a fat single mum but managed to find a handsome prince to simp on her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:33 AM
0

Don't forget the latest shaming language: being called "toxic" or "abusive" for having any androcentric views
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:16 AM
0

It's the official Gottman institute that had the squeeze page. Untrustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:33 AM
-2

Gottman stonewalling I googled it then got hit with some squeeze page for an ebook. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:41 PM
-1

Yeah, but how many people have untenable communication styles and personality types? Like 90% of people are fine in those two aspects and they just lose it a little when in pressure situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:00 PM
1

That's the thing, blue pillers seem to think that the most basic, abundant things, such as communication and personality are the most important. I'm trying to debunk that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:20 PM
2

Thanks, I'll try that next time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:18 PM
-7

In the heat of the moment, it is very often pointless as it only serves to escalate. Most people will now just start raising voices and arguing to win rather than arguing to arrive at a solution. Finding someone who won't give in to those impulses is like finding a needle in a haystack, so better to just turn to actions for conflict resolution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:17 PM
-7

No True Scotsman fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:13 PM
-1

being unfazed shows that this is not your first rodeo and that someone isn't moving you off center
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:12 PM
0

She's probably recently seen some silly radfem diatribe about men not respecting women and came to transparently bait us into admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:55 PM
1

Sorry but you must have sensed what he was up to but you chose to keep the charade going for the ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:12 PM
1

That's what they tell you. Might just be people lying on the internet. Or it might just be that the ones who use men don't pipe up for fear of ostracization
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:57 PM
2

The lack of confidence is probably rooted in the lack of looks. Probably also parents who didn't notice that this guy would probably need extra self esteem boosts from early on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:20 AM
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Women are just as shallow, just that they want other things ON TOP of good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:10 AM
5

This is where red pillers get into delusional territory. The hand he was dealt is kinda weak, and his results so far prove that. He'll have to make do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:04 AM
5

No, that's misinterpretation of the data. The Indian women who do interracial dating go for white men mostly. But women who do interracial dating for each group are less than 10%, with East Asians being the only exception to that rule
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:01 AM
3

No, the boy would still be working with a genetic upper limit. Lionel Messi did GH treatments as a kid and he only grew to 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:41 AM
2

We're at a point where not wearing makeup is a flex of natural beauty. Zendaya does it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:29 AM
23

300k anywhere outside of the top 10 richest cities in the world is king shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:40 PM
2

That comparison is off. The bodybuilders and plastic girls are a niche, but that niche has a ton of shock value and the people who like that niche go wild for it. There are so many natural influencers with 10x the size following of enhanced influencers, but they just don't have the shock value of the enhanced guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:06 PM
1

I tried explaining but different women kept doing it. I'd put on a brave face and tried to laugh it off but at the end of the day I just decided to actually do something about it. Bold strategy worked, now as long as I stay between 75-79kgs, I have visible abs and a v taper throughout the day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:02 PM
1

Yes, they would poke fun at my "gut" and some would say they liked my "gut" yet it was really just that pouch at the bottom of the stomach after meals. The way I see it, it was either projection or them trying to knock me down a peg, but my solution was to do the surgery once and for all and it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:58 PM
2

Women used to have a habit of trolling me whenever that slight lower gut would appear despite that being a very natural consequence of eating. It felt like them trying to pull me down a peg because I have everything else in order (fit, tall, big dick, smooth skin etc). Took a risk and got ab etching surgery despite it being a very laughable surgery if done wrong. I can say it is only laughable when done on fat guys who want to take shortcuts. For fit guys who want permanent abs that don't disapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:35 PM
1

Citation for the upbringing "fact?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:08 AM
-2

MGTOW is my exit plan for when my current relationship eventually gets nit-picked to death
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:02 AM
1

That assumes that I am dumping them. Only the one who dumps for frivolous reasons is nit picky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:58 AM
1

This is a gynocentric view. Serial monogamy is a female tendency. Men have polygamy as their natural ideal. Adding partners rather than discarding them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:54 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:51 AM
-1

Even for men who do chores, their wives will find something wrong with them eventually and zero in on it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:50 AM
3

Because I do many other positive things. I'm allowed to have my limits
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:42 PM
2

It's not personal. It's just a fact, a Westerner can't debate with, say, an Arab on matters of relationships. There's just too big of a cultural gap. Therefore it's fair to inquire whether someone is ESL in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:11 PM
0

I didn't insult her. She just wasn't making sense to me. Her sentence construction was off and she was demanding a definition of a basic English phrase. Or are we going to now accept that PPD is an international forum? I don't think it's possible to discuss intersexual dynamics on an international level. Arabs, Indians, Africans and Americans will just be talking over one another in such a debate due to vastly different cultural practices
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:09 PM
3

LOL your friend is the king of the spergs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:53 PM
2

You could do MGTOW while banging whores if you are truly free of the need for female validation and reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:52 PM
3

Past a point it becomes toxic and annoying to deal with. Women need to be socially pressured to tone it down, the same way men are being socially pressured to tone down some of their natural tendencies. We are in a safer world than ever before, no need to be so anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:43 PM
6

Sampling bias. Hypergamy selects for healthy/wealthy men for marriage and leaves the dregs in the cold, skewing all marriage stats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:40 PM
3

Yes, MGTOW is only viable for men who've already had kids. If not, your reproductive instincts will get the better of you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:34 PM
2

It's called providing varied examples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:32 PM
2

I'm not yet MGTOW, but it's my exit plan in case my current LTR (with whom I have a child) falls apart
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:30 PM
3

"My" girl left the house in a huff a few days ago because I didn't stop watching the Champions League final to give her a back massage. They're anxious and nitpicky, it is known
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:29 PM
1

I didn't say they are divorced on a whim. They get nitpicked to oblivion by their anxious wives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:09 PM
4

That assumes the 59% are happy. Most of them have settled into am arrangement where they just grit their teeth and stick it out for the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:08 PM
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Nah, trust me I tried all this shit. At the two year mark I'm still getting nit picked about things like why I don't give back massages etc. Women are just anxious by nature, like squirrels, always scanning their environment for problems
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:51 PM
7

This is true for most men. I think parents should start emphasizing on boys the importance of sensuality (appealing to people's senses) and team activities for socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:27 PM
3

Isn't that AF/BB? The realities of fending for yourself check in during old age and now searching for provisioning traits becomes more important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:58 PM
2

Even if you have all the qualities, women will still put you in a box. Look at Russell Wilson, he is an extremely well rounded man, but women still put him firmly in the stability box
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:26 AM
3

In my experience, the tall and handsome players didn't lie much, but the average looking players had a tendency to say whatever the woman wanted to hear to get into their pants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:29 PM
7

There is a ton of stories from the past from all cultures talking about how the woman is grudgingly marrying a rich man, while having a young, handsome man who she's really into. Even if they were fiction, stories usually do well when they have some relatable elements to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:21 PM
6

Any type of low body fat + a good posture will do well with women if attached to a striking face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:11 PM
1

Just hopped on the Tinder sub to check. Posts about needing to be attractive enough are still downvoted to hell
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:58 AM
5

This will be removed because a man posted it. If a woman posted it, it wouldn't be removed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:48 AM
3

I've seen men "not care" about female income, then get SHOCKED when it turns out to be stressful and annoying to have to finance a full grown adult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:42 PM
2

Of all the "pills," they lean on science the most, which counts for a lot in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:36 PM
2

Yeah. In my experience casual sex is mostly had by the hipster types, the Kim Kardashian types and the goth types. These are very fringe niches but men give them a lot of attention. Your average girl just trying to get by is more interested in relationships. However there is the middle ground of the "situationship" which is way more common and probably gets lumped into casual sex though I personally don't think it qualifies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:35 AM
19

No, Europe good, America bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:11 AM
1

Actually I think we're getting to a point of blue check saturation. I'm starting to see blue checks for guys with less than 10k followers, but just because they are a low level athlete with tons of references on stat websites, they get a blue check. Then there's the people who game the verification system by paying for fluff pieces on Forbes, Wikipedia and other known publishers with an open publishing system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:13 PM
0

There are lanes for awkward guys to become famous nowadays. YouTube and Twitch are full of introverted shut-ins who decided one day to just talk to their cameras and post it. In fact, out of all the top YouTubers, the only ones who strike me as extroverted frat bro types are KSI and Jake Paul. The rest seem like a bunch of nerds to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:10 PM
1

alt groups have a larger variety of looks they can tolerate. They can get with men covered in tatoos, men with facepaint, hippies with big beards, men with all facial hair shaved(including eyebrows), roided up beefcakes etc. An average looking man can hide behind these things in the alt crowd to his advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:02 PM
4

seems so. Blackpilled AF. And there's no way he can retract it now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:54 PM
0

The fact that you think a man must be a woman's court jester is actually quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:44 PM
1

Depends. It's like e-boys vs the lumberjack look for white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:29 PM
1

In my experience, most of the casual sex in poor countries is transactional for obvious reasons. Online dating is more like an online brothel, so get your paper up, put emotions aside and fuck whores to your heart's content. You'll probably find that many of the girls you had oneitis for were part-time whores
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:09 AM
11

Olympic level mental gymnastics here. Anyway, at least you're getting exposed to different points of view than what was in your little bubble all your life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:58 AM
1

It's money and all the other ways in which a man might be practically useful for something. Women using men makes a lot of sense if you believe in the biological differences between the sexes. If you believe in blank slate egalitarianism, you will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:53 AM
2

Give a woman control of a male dating profile. Within days she'll be throwing mass "heys" in desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:44 AM
1

Half of those dumb chicks spouting advice are children anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:28 AM
1

This comment alone is thread-worthy. I've noticed even with the new norms coming up, e.g metoo, gym harrasement etc, it seems to just be women setting boundaries for ugly men. Going as far as to want incarceration for ugly men who approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:27 AM
1

Ah, so you want consequence-free shortcuts? I can just see your personality shining through the screen right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:23 AM
1

Dating norms change with every generation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:56 AM
10

You miss the days you were an ugly, fat guy who would coerce women to have sex with him in exchange for jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:46 PM
3

That's why if as a man you know this, you have to drop some lines that show you aren't some judgemental conservacuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:36 PM
2

When you look at the white guys they date, it's often bottom of the barrel white guys with gorgeous Asians, so does that really count as alpha fucks? Or was she looking for beta bucks all along? And if it is the second one, does that count as a reassurance to you or other Asian men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:20 PM
1

All races stress educational attainment above all else in children. The only small exception is black Americans who put education on the backburner once a kid shows sporting talent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:12 PM
3

Latinos are also short but don't struggle as much. It's the combination of neotenous features and stereotypes, some of which have truth to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:56 AM
2

great breakdown beyond the typical soundbites
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:51 AM
4

Just substitute race with "culture" to bypass the leftist filters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:43 AM
1

I would much rather an economy which allows any voluntary transactions to take place, rather than an economy that only allows Catherine's Favorite Things to be transacted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:15 PM
1

In my experience, women are far more likely to take over the housework because the man isn't doing an adequate job to their lofty cleanliness standards. To give a personal example: I am more than willing to sleep with one bedsheet and one duvet as my entire bed setup. But my girlfriend has an elaborate setup of multiple sheets and pillows, so she took over bed-making. With mopping the kitchen, before meeting her, I was OK doing just one pass of mopping, but my girlfriend prefers to do 3 passes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:08 PM
7

Housewives are 2% of the population now. We really should stop giving them so much airtime in these debates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:36 PM
3

That's the thing, women who date much older men aren't average. The average woman dates within a 5 year age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:43 AM
1

Doesn't matter if you are Brad Pitt and she's a bridge troll. If you're not her type, she'll make it hard on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:56 PM
4

OK bro, women in resort towns love your greying, wrinkling, balding swag, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:40 PM
3

Almost all women I knew who dated men twice their age always had a younger side piece who was closer to their age and had all the typical physical markers women look for. Don't expect women to just come out and say they're dating old men for their money. Sex for money is still a deep taboo in our society. Women get disowned and abandoned for that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:37 PM
1

It's social suicide to say out loud that you're dating men for their money. Even street hookers will be offended if you call them whores when passing them on the street. Sex for money is still deeply taboo in our society, so women invent bullshit euphemisms to explain away their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:33 PM
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Ah, so you're not balding, wrinkling, greying, losing energy, losing eyesight, losing endurance or having bone problems? Gimme a break. You are going through a myriad of those issues and younger women aren't going to gloss over them unless you take care of yourself to David Beckham levels, or you splash the cash. Either that or just settle for age appropriate leftover women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:25 PM
3

Resort towns are notorious for being full of gold diggers, VISA hunters and whores all looking to part old male sex tourists with their money. Not surprising that when you started to fit the demographic, the thots came out to play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:06 PM
-6

Thing is, keeping all else equal past 35 requires Hollywood level narcissism. And it's not just a matter of lifting weights. We're talking hormone therapy, filler, surgery, supplements, IV treatments and even makeup and wigs for men. Guys who are willing to go to such lengths are less than 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:56 PM
5

games have been casino-adjacent since arcades were invented. Some people even lump casinos and video games into the same category of gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:07 PM
1

Men abandoning their kids without consequence is quite common in poor countries. From these cases, we can see that while women SHOULD be responsible and provide, the reality is that they more often crumble under the weight of responsibility, become very unproductive people, and society is worse off for it. These are probably the practical considerations taken when forming child support laws in developed countries
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:43 PM
0

I recognize this exact writing style from another user who messaged me yesterday. I presume you are one in the same person. You are a sad troll larping behind many handles on an obscure reddit sub. Stop the sock puppetry and get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:23 PM
2

In her post history I've seen something about how gender doesn't solidify until 7 years old. That's who you're dealing with here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:14 PM
1

EXACTLY. Personality is an incredibly low bar for most people in my experience. To the point where it really has to be personality + something else. The only time personality could be a problem is if maybe I moved to a country with a totally different culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:29 AM
6

Looks are a rough proxy for good genes and health. Those things matter a LOT to someone's quality of life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:06 AM
2

Johnny Depth is a pornstar BTW
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:52 AM
2

At this point you just have to accept that a relationship fizzling out is an inevitability. Till death do us part is a fantasy for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:00 AM
2

K
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:37 AM
-1

Mere exceptions to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:15 PM
1

So if you went to meet the president of your country, you would act the same as if you were meeting one of your orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:14 PM
1

Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:05 PM
2

There is a lot of universality about facial beauty. Unfortunately scientists who work towards proving this get dismissed as "weird' by the masses. Where the cultural variance lies is mostly in body standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:19 PM
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On the other hand, there are features that have never ever been attractive in any culture across the world e.g acne and protruding ears. There is some universality to beauty which has been proven scientifically, but people always dismiss it as weird when you try to break down attraction to a set of numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:17 PM
3

Someone as high status as Donald Sterling admitted that he thought his girlfriend who was less than half his age was with him for love. Don't underestimate men's ability to rationalize beta buxxing. Even red pillers do it a lot with their sigma male grindset motivations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:11 PM
5

Yes, from my experience, the majority of men are with women who find them practically useful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:05 PM
0

How would you explain being used for resources being a uniquely male complaint then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:30 AM
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I would definitely look for holes in it. That's why I'm here and not on the TRP sub or the relationships sub. I'm not a dogmatic hardliner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:29 AM
1

Why then do men often change their tune and realize they were being used towards the end of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:21 AM
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Beta buxx: a man who attracts women primarily using traits associated with good provisioning, for example being rich, generous, enterprising, hard working etc Alpha fucks: a man who attracts women primarily using traits associated with good genes, for example his face, tone of voice, smell, height, endurance, aggression etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:20 AM
1

Doesn't explain the change of tune men often have at the tail end of a beta buxx relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:14 AM
5

Sex and relationships are awkward topics for most. People lie about them a lot. Both white lies and straightforward lies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:13 AM
5

Actually beta buxx refers to a man that attracts women due to his practical usefulness rather than through sensuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:09 AM
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The only criticism of the alpha-beta dichotomy is that it is a slight misnomer. But there is no doubt in my mind that women put men in mental buckets and treat the men in each bucket differently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:28 AM
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Even for single dads, I don't think it's a good deal. I think people should come to terms with the fact that after you reproduce, dating is over for you. Maybe start doing sugar babies or paying whores or something. You will never have a normal relationship again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:44 AM
1

Biology is a bitch and you can't social construct your way out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:40 AM
1

My own observations from being a high n man who used various methods to bed women. When I used clout and game in college, I got a different response from when I led with money, and I also got a different response after looksmaxxing with 4 cosmetic procedures
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:52 PM
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Most people settle. Hypergamy and polygamy are fantasies that very few actually get to live out. Assortative mating is the reality. What remains is the reaction to said settling. How many people stay positive about it and how many people get down in the dumps about it? That is the real research red pillers should seek
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:46 PM
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I agree with everything except the last snowflake point. There are patterns to the mental buckets women put men under. Alpha fucks/beta bucks is an oversimplification, but it serves as a good starting point for the reader to think about the whole concept of mental buckets because a lot of people make the mistake of thinking that women are one way with every man they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:29 PM
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Whatever nomenclature you want to give it, there is no doubt in my mind that women put men into certain mental buckets and treat men from each bucket differently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:33 AM
0

Impossible for everyone to do this. Some men will have to roll the dice and hope for the best
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:30 AM
-1

They are biologically incapable and this is one of the many reasons why egalitarianism is simply wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:22 PM
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It is. There is a good reason why early childcare is a 90% female dominated profession. Women are just naturally more nurturing. Sometimes it gets tiring but that's no time to start pointing fingers at the opposite sex (I'm no egalitarian BTW, so please don't rebut with egalitarian whataboutism)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:19 PM
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Women fighting for a place in the workforce was more about them needing autonomy. Every human being craves the ability to chart their own path. Needing someone to give you an allowance whenever they feel like it is something that only kids should have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:11 PM
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Yup. All the genetic freaks and roiders will be rushing to comment. Sampling bias in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:49 PM
-1

For 5'11 88kg is kinda fat unless you're roiding...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:48 PM
3

Pure size (including fat) is achievable by anyone, but muscle volume is very much a genetic thing, ask any bodybuilder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:45 PM
3

That's it, the naturals just had strong male figures in their lives to show them the way early in life. In a world where most men look towards simpy relatives and simpy media figures for relationship guidance a strong male influence who isn't a pushover is a huge advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:17 AM
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Lol, for once I agree with you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:23 PM
3

If the man is older than 35 as well, chances are the 35+ woman will be more forgiving of him hitting the wall. 35 year old women is watu more likely to overlook the beer belly, graying, wrinkling, balding, erectile dysfunction, lower energy, bone issues and emergent diseases that a late 30s man starts to experience because, chances are, she's going through similar changes. A younger woman will see all those problems as baggage and either dump you or classify you as a sugar daddy. As for a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:26 PM
2

You are mistaking 120 for 140. 120 is only slightly above average in the West and East Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:16 PM
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Yup. I fit in those categories, IQ of 129 and I had little problem with getting women back before I became a family man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:14 PM
2

G factor positively correlates with all forms of smarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:08 PM
2

I saw somewhere else that it's 140 that brings issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:06 PM
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Yeah, apart from the declining looks thing, the overwhelming majority of older men have some kind of heavy baggage they are carrying, whether it's kids, a bad divorce, some chronic disease or condition etc. Young women will be much less understanding of these issues. Better to work through them with a long term partner around the same age
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:07 PM
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Funny thing is "The Wall" was originally a term for how male ATHLETES tend to get washed in their early 30s, but bros somehow twisted it into a reassurance that the average man peaks in his 30s. So the same man who is witnessing LeBron greying, balding, wrinkling and losing energy at 36 somehow gets convinced that his average ass will be in his prime at the same age. Hope is a hell of a drug, I tell ya
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:01 PM
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The key issue is the definition of success with women. Anyone can get an average girl to be kinda "meh" about them in a relationship. These men AND women who are unhappy with the dating market don't want these average results. They want A+ results, where their partners are attractive, totally enamored by them and let them have their way in the relationship. Their anger stems from the fact that there are limitations to getting this type of A+ results in relationships. They wish everyone could som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:50 AM
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Very dependent on the industry and the individual's leverage. I would say most people making six figures are slogging for it as role players either in the service industry or in low margin product business. The lifestyle of a superstar Googler is the exception, not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:59 AM
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And let's not even start on the mods of said forums
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:39 AM
1

47,000 women die of that every year globally according to a quick Google search. Divide by 4 billion, then multiply by 100
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:47 AM
2

There's less variation than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:42 AM
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I ran the numbers. 0.001% of women die to intimate partner violence every year. Statistically insignificant number and clearly just one of those (non)issues that politicians and activists latch on to for its shock value
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:42 AM
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All you can hope for is that he becomes so successful with women that he mellows out due to satiation. Same as those people who make so much money that they mellow out and start preaching about how money isn't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:33 PM
5

Lookism is one area with so much science backing it up, it's intellectually lazy to boil it down to "being scared."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:24 PM
0

Well the people who murder their partners are a statistically insignificant minority so you can't use stats in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:18 PM
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Yeah, this makes sense. Also applies to people who actually bagged hotties but don't like the demands from them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:37 AM
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The physical strength thing is a red herring. Women can easily even up the scales by picking up everyday tools in the kitchen eg knives, bleach, boiling water/oil etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:34 AM
5

When hot people pair up with average people, it's usually to tilt the balance of power in the relationship fully in their favor. Not exactly some altruistic, higher level thinking is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:41 AM
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One of the most handsome men I know personally is a hardcore boob man. He will take boobs at all costs, doesn't matter if they're attached to a fat woman of a different race with stretch marks on them and a bad attitude. What's weird is this ability to hyper focus on one characteristic has resulted in wild variations in the women he's dated. So maybe men's variation in taste is actually a manifestation of their ability to hyper focus on one desirable characteristic at the expense of everything e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:18 AM
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And for women the hunger is way less, so when they eat they feel warm and fuzzy after. Perfect analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:10 AM
1

Anyway I've seen your fitness progress post from 10 months ago. Distinctly average for a young woman IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:45 PM
-2

You're a 10 but you get constantly cheated on? Delusion detected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:20 AM
1

Whatever you say, Chicken Little
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:23 AM
1

There's tons of songs by handsome, famous and wealthy singers lamenting about gold-diggers and clout chasers (even a gigachad like Chris Brown sang "Loyal"), this is pretty much public information.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:30 PM
1

Now you're just looking stupid for the sake of staying consistent with your weak premise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:28 PM
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Yeah, I'm in showbiz and I see even handsome celebrities being given the run around by clout chasers and gold diggers. There's a reason they eventually just get married: they get tired of the games like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:12 PM
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Your phrasing makes it seem like with hard work you can get what those other guys are getting, but the separation is not one of work but of genetics. No amount of work will bridge that gap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:05 PM
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Thought experiment: if you put 100 men in a room and asked women to pick which ones they would date, how many of those 100 men would be picked in the end by all the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:02 PM
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If you put a lineup of 100 men and asked women which of those 100 would they date, how many of those 100 do you think would get chosen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:56 PM
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Would be easy if not for reproductive instincts. Can't suppress those forever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:54 PM
1

I don't pretend to know all the variables either. Only in a free market can all the variables be accounted for by the participants when need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:04 PM
1

If you think France and the UK are world leaders, your standards for leadership are low. California's economy alone dwarfs both of those. That's what a true world leader looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:01 PM
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Go to Europe and you'll see. The culture difference is palpable. Their extensive social safety nets make the population comfortable with being average. Also the high taxes make saving near impossible, so the main way to build wealth is through inheritance, which flies in the face of lefty alarmism around inequality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:38 AM
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As with all central planning initiatives, you believe you know all the variables, but I assure you you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:25 AM
1

Alarmism is actually covered in Econ 101
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:18 AM
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You've figured it out. This is thinly veiled communist propaganda. Econ 101 is lost on these gen z cats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:00 PM
1

Those countries also have no interest in being world leaders in anything. And if America decides to sacrifice its world economic and military leadership positions in order to live like bonobo monkeys, you best believe that China and Russia will be coming for the vacuum left behind. They will be cruel masters of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:58 PM
-1

Impossible since the One True Power™ is physical might.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:50 PM
3

She will lie for the sake of staying consistent with her virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:12 PM
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Actually it's more that women's social life comes to them, and shyness in women is seen as a positive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:10 PM
1

In these cultures you will typically get served by the person who did the cooking, then they pressure you to finish the plate. Especially kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:35 PM
4

That's the scarcity talking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:50 PM
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There are also a lot of cultures where it's rude to leave a plate unfinished, so a lot of people push themselves past the point of fullness just to finish their plate. Repeat this enough times especially for children and you will change their relationship with food completely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:49 PM
0

A huge percentage of decision makers in our society are fat people, I think that's where it stems from
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:45 PM
1

No sex, nagging, wife let herself go, wife quit her job without you agreeing on it and won't get another, wife tried excessively to change husband etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:40 PM
3

Yup. Only way for parity is if the man buys pussy or dumpster dives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:37 AM
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Nah, usually the reality is the man doesn't get any extra women, while the woman is like a kid in a candy store.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:35 AM
1

So many men tried to do more chores to save their marriage. Doesn't work. Marriages based on the man's usefulness rather than attraction will always fail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:42 AM
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https://tenor.com/view/nene-leakes-the-ghetto-rhoa-bougie-walking-gif-12010399
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:30 PM
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The spark will still fizzle out bro. Eventually most long lasting couples drop the romance and just see themselves as a home making team
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:28 PM
2

Also all these reasons listed in the OP are suspiciously gynocentric. I don't see any typically male complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:24 PM
8

You still need a dual income to comfortably raise kids in today's world. Single mums are still financially distressed on average even today
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:22 PM
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People who follow your line of reasoning choose broke and lazy women, then act shocked when relationships with such women become stressful and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:06 AM
1

There is a very good chance that 25 year old Sarah is still broke and dependent. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:03 AM
2

While I am on the same page with you in general, I have to concede that marriage has one practical purpose: Marriage is basically a ceremony where a couple stands in front of friends and family, announces that they are an item, and promises that they will stick together. This is the basic idea behind the ceremony across all cultures and religions. This act introduces a socially powerful element of shame when the married couple is considering breaking up. The shame of being a promise-breaker in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:56 PM
1

More noteworthy to me is that it's absolutely 100% women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:33 PM
2

My experience matches yours but I recognize my privileges (tall, handsome, big dick, deep voiced rich kid who hit the startup jackpot in his early 20s). I made a conscious effort early in life to make friends outside the rich kid bubble cause I knew deep down that we weren't living realistically. Now with my varied social circle, I rarely see others being treated like how I'm treated. They still have wives and girlfriends though, but they're just meh around them, whereas my girlfriends are like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:50 PM
1

Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:57 PM
1

Lukewarm means she's just meh about him. Not disgusted but not excited either. She probably had to take a month or two to grow to like and be aroused by him. It applies both ways as well. And I said I think it's fair, I don't think it's a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:53 PM
-1

I would say most women just have lukewarm attraction to their partner. In a way, this is fair. Most people are average hence they should inspire only lukewarm attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:43 PM
1

Yeah. And it's the same for women. IRL gives you a chance to hit all five senses of whoever you're trying to attract. Online just allows you to hit the sense of sight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:38 PM
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Even someone as meticulous with lifting as LeBron is still balding, wrinkling, greying, losing energy and developing creaky joints at 36. "The Wall" was literally a term that originated in men's sports to describe athletes in their 30s, let it go man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:39 PM
2

A vanishingly small number of sugar relationships don't involve sex. Sugar babies just like to play these up to soften the ego blow of being a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:21 PM
1

Social constructionism is a thought pattern that's gaining steam of late and that makes people overthink some of the simplest biological concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:17 PM
2

Choice should be restricted for children when it comes to the essential ingredients for a good life. Kids refuse food, sleep and socializing all the time. Good parents don't take no for an answer in these situations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:40 PM
3

To be fair, women do the same. They let ugly radfems convince them that the world is out to get them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:21 PM
1

Get out of the commercial gym and social media fitness bubbles and it'll become patently clear just how artificial those gymshark bodies are. They are achieved when steroids heighten your blood pressure giving you a "perma pump." To the average human being, this condition is referred to as high blood pressure. A drug addict's body under distress from an illness is a niche preference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:50 PM
1

I am on my 8th year lifting and yes, I was including the gymshark fake natty physique in my categorization of niche bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:18 PM
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Women are eugenicists at heart. They react badly to anything that might confuse their genetic filters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:10 PM
1

That data still doesn't negate what I was saying. Of course there is a curiousity that niche bodies inspire which makes them good for hook ups. Even me as a man I have fucked women with extreme bodies just to satisfy my curiosity, but that was not my taste at the end of the day. PS: what we now call "swimmers body" is simply the natural male form in the wild. Lean + big bodies are simply not found naturally, so it's impossible to vouch for them as a mainstream appeal. That's like vouching for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:01 PM
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Nah, what happens there is that the big muscles put you in a niche and those who like the niche go wild when they finally see someone that fits it. It's like comparing these ant booty women to a slim girl. The ant booty girl probably gets way more stares, approaches and thirsty comments on her socials, but we all know that's just a niche and most men prefer the slim girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:26 AM
0

If a woman is highly attracted to you, she is happy to have unprotected sex with you. And vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:15 AM
0

Yeah. And like mother, like daughter, so you would have to deal with two lazy good for nothings if you reproduced
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:55 AM
6

There are plenty in STEM circles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:54 AM
1

Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:00 PM
1

Men in the West have shown that they fold easily when women cry and complain, so of course they're going to keep doing that for every tiny grievance they have until we collectively grow some balls and stop constantly giving in to the tears of someone who isn't physically hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:55 AM
1

To be fair, both genders are culpable when it comes to this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:14 AM
3

The second part is what everyone forgets: women are willing to forego the attraction part if the man proves to be practically useful in some way. Romantic love is a luxury which only UMC women and women who've never experienced serious financial trauma can afford
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:12 PM
2

How many women do you think could say point blank "I don't find my husband attractive" even if it was true? We live in a polite society, and that's just rude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:08 PM
1

And what makes a person bad in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:03 PM
1

From my experience, I would say 80% of men just don't do it for women on a sensual level. They don't trigger any of women's five senses to a significant degree. Women only give that 80% a chance once they show some type of practical usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:01 PM
2

"I, _____, take you, _____, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. I will love and honor you all the days of my life." ​ Those are the conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:24 PM
19

There is a pattern in life where gatekeepers encourage the people at the gate to "just be themselves." Women do it, recruiters do it, social media platforms do it etc. ​ This is because "knowing the password" to the gate and working your way to obtain said password ruins the filter that the gate is supposed to provide. It opens up the door to bad actors who hack the password for fun and profit. In the case of social media platforms, you get people like Cambridge Analytica, who mastered the Faceb…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:19 PM
1

Well I don't believe anyone is born bad. I believe people turn bad due to incentive structures that don't punish their bad behavior. Marriage is one such incentive structure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:06 PM
0

Thank you for exposing your dishonorable nature. Another reason to not get married is because of the existence of those like yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:04 PM
0

Divorce remains insanely difficult almost everywhere in the world. A cumbersome exit still makes some people look at you and think "you're not going anywhere, so I can be complacent or a tyrant"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:44 PM
3

Everyone knows divorce is insanely difficult, so the presence of it doesn't remove the feeling that "you're not going anywhere"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:41 PM
2

Explain, how does parenthood bring about complacency and tyrannical behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:38 PM
2

"I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part" ​ That looks like a pretty airtight promise to me. I don't see any loopholes about leaving for good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:34 PM
3

"I, nemma88, take thee, Mr nemma, to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part" ​ That is a promise to go not go anywhere no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:32 PM
-2

Laziness is basically a lack of incentive. You will take away the incentive to work by marrying him and promising him in front of all your friends and family that you will not go anywhere no matter what. Promising him that even if he becomes lazy, you're not going anywhere (remember what the vows say)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:27 PM
2

Skin color is a physical feature though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:33 PM
3

Not only that, you're promising that you'll never leave no matter what. Giving the impression that you're going nowhere is an incentive for one of the partners to get complacent or tyrannical
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:31 PM
6

The interracial rejection is probably due to a mix of physical features the women are used to looking at, as well as the fact that culture gaps are hard AF to bridge in relationships. For Asian women, they are the exception in terms of how much they date out. Other races barely do it for the reasons I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:45 AM
0

People tend to marry when they are attractive and financially comfortable. Hence yes, the marriage age stats are a good proxy for these qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:29 AM
3

Mid to late twenties for both sexes is where they have the best balance of looks, fertility, disposable income and sociableness. And the marriage data shows that most people understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:08 PM
1

https://tenor.com/view/9ja-youre-a-fool-are-you-crazy-gif-14632023
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:55 PM
1

I would say that birth control offers a way more elegant solution to the societal problems marriage was supposed to solve. Marriage emerged globally as a way of fixing the issues of single motherhood for women, and the 80/20 problem for men. Birth control solves these two problems way more precisely. Now birth control allows women to properly vet men for commitment before allowing him to reproduce with you. Also, birth control enables women to be more sexually liberated, which gives more men a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:36 PM
2

It's both. Marriage and monogamy was ancient society's way of avoiding single mothers and solving the incel problem, which was way worse in the past than it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:50 PM
1

On an evolutionary level, yes, higher intelligence is a huge luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:08 AM
1

The birth rates are falling among richer, more intelligent groups, while it remains high among poorer, less intelligent groups and intelligence is genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:38 PM
1

The nature vs nurture debate was settled decades ago. Only online leftists are confused about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:46 PM
3

Because sex differences emerge from different reproductive functions. You can't just swap out one part of the sex differences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:52 PM
2

Just go to any spots super rich men hang out in. There the roles are flipped and the gold diggers fight for their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:50 PM
2

There have been over 1 billion species that have come and gone throughout the history of earth and only one developed higher intelligence. That is evidence to show that intelligence is a huge luxury that's not important for the survival of a species
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:49 PM
5

There have been over 1 billion species that have come and gone throughout the history of earth and only one developed higher intelligence. That is evidence to show that intelligence is a huge luxury that's not important for the survival of a species
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:49 PM
-1

I would argue that civilization has only slowed down evolution, but it has not stopped completely. We still see all kinds of selection pressures playing out today with the wealth gap, declining birth rates in countries with enhanced female rights etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:44 PM
1

I've also noticed that a lot of people confuse low trust faces with being a bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:48 PM
4

How do military spouses sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:56 PM
2

Most redditors believe in evolution but they don't believe women select for genetic traits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:57 AM
3

For the average man, indeed almost no woman will have your kids without a ring. Top 10% men don't get that ultimatum though. Most women are willing to risk a baby out of wedlock for a guy that ticks all the right boxes. I don't care what they say, their actions show it. And people know this deep down. When a top 10% guy knocks up a woman, barely anyone admonishes the woman, they all say that the top 10% man should have known this would happen. When an average man knocks up a woman, everyone admo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:54 AM
1

We'll never have accurate stats on sex until we start putting security cameras in people's bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:08 AM
2

It's not hard for women to pick up crude weapons in the household to hurt a man in a fit of rage. Even a simple bottle of bleach can do significant damage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:33 AM
2

They're not "better" at anything. In this day and age, all the evidence you need is on their phone, and your SO can easily wait for you to eventually type your phone lock password in front of them. Therefore if men aren't catching women cheating, it's simply because men don't care to investigate as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:29 AM
1

Alright, it's mostly a Europe, Australia and Americas thing (all those are basically European descendants). In Africa, Middle East and Asia, you'll still find large swaths of the population who don't care for oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:26 PM
2

In my experience oral sex is still very much a white liberal/city dweller thing. In other groups outside that it's not that common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:43 PM
1

Now you're just throwing out reasonableness for the sake of staying consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:02 AM
2

With these types of situations, what hurts is usually the difference in enthusiasm. She probably has high, animalistic enthusiasm for the guys in the sex tape vs her low or lukewarm enthusiasm for the beta she married. The beta probably thought all along that low enthusiasm was her normal default state, only to find out that it was only him she had low enthusiasm for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:15 PM
2

With these types of situations, what hurts is usually the difference in enthusiasm. She probably has high, animalistic enthusiasm for the guys in the sex tape vs her low or lukewarm enthusiasm for the beta she married. The beta probably thought all along that low enthusiasm was her normal default state, only to find out that it was only him she had low enthusiasm for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:14 PM
4

She would probably prefer you to think that there's no mental classification women have for men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:08 PM
1

Ah, now you sneak in a weasel word to allow you to shift definitions at will. Not falling for that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:15 AM
38

Degenerates put themselves in degenerate environments. Squares put themselves in square environments. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:16 PM
1

But once they start going to school, you're now just lazing about for those 8-10 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:49 AM
1

You write like a Middle Eastern or Subcontinent man. This sub is for the Western SMP, where most women are financially empowered
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:53 PM
6

So now you're swimming in desperate, old single mums? Not much of a peak IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:43 PM
3

With age you just keep seeing so many clear and obvious examples of genetics till it eventually becomes undeniable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:08 PM
1

I asked for a verbatim script of what you would say if you were in a position to (as parents or something). It's very easy to pontificate about this stuff, but what would you do when actually confronted with the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:39 PM
1

This is clearly just pie in the sky, wishful thinking then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:37 PM
1

So how would you go about safely and healthily telling a young Indian boy in the West about how his Indian heritage means he is royally screwed in the SMP? Give me a verbatim script of what you would say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:23 PM
1

You can't train large groups of people to accept rejection at a genetic level. That's always going to cut deep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:15 PM
0

I used to think this, but then you see the reaction of some guys when women are blunt about their genetic preferences and the men are livid. You would also resort to white lies if someone 5 times stronger than you was going to be livid about something you said about something he couldn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:42 PM
2

I've learnt to accept the neuroticism. It manifests in all physically weaker animals as a survival mechanism. It has its uses, especially when dealing with infants and the elderly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:42 PM
8

I have two pretty sisters and 99% of the time they were flakey on guys, they were just browsing social media and watching movies at home but pretending to be busy when called upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:00 PM
9

TikTok has a filter that does quite a good job of masculinizing women's faces and women are always shocked and disgusted by the male version of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:40 PM
1

That's a very hard task, I would have to congratulate her for finding someone who actually surpassed my greatness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:06 AM
1

The question is, do you know of people in real life who welcome debates about relationships which are based in logic? I don't know any
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:46 AM
1

TRP has some gynocentric elements to it because most of them encourage sophisticated jestermaxxing to get women. And I don't blame them. Only Chads and Johns don't have to jester
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:36 PM
4

Yup. Your parents can try their best to keep it real with you but The Village™ could always undo all their efforts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:27 PM
12

It's basically young men and old women. The dregs of the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:27 PM
2

Right message, wrong audience. Redditors will die defending their right to coom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:54 PM
2

Nah, if you surround yourself with a certain type of woman, you'll eventually fall for one of them, despite all the red flags. It's why athletes fall for gold diggers all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:00 AM
5

Sugar babies are always trying to get the money without giving any sugar, it's even a meme on social media. Plus they consider it a huge achievement to get a man to agree to that regularly. Like OP said, the only guaranteed sex for money is in reputable brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:33 AM
3

You said it, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:52 PM
10

The truth on the ground is that the biggest influence on the SMP is banned from discussion here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:41 PM
5

Yup. It's usually their spouse funding all their art until they blow up. And even that's not guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:40 AM
2

Getting laid almost once everyday equates to 45 women throughout college? The math ain't mathing (hardly ever does with these types of brags)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:45 AM
8

You can dumpster dive, geomaxx or use material things like money/drugs to get your n count up as an average man. You can also spend ungodly amounts of time on picking up women and turn your low conversion rate into a big number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:43 AM
1

Not only that, Will Smith is like a triple A list star who has reached the pinnacle of music, TV and movies, all the while being very careful to stay family friendly. He is the last man you would call upon to do some edgy publicity stunt. I work in entertainment and it's pretty obvious who's into such stuff (Kanye, 6ix9ine, Richard Branson etc). Will Smith is not one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:40 PM
1

Will Smith is so obviously a conservative who is trying to twist himself like a pretzel to fit in with the trendy liberal zeitgeist to please his wife and Hollywood execs. Man doesn't cuss in his songs/films, is a Christian, and is a pull yourself up by the bootstraps kind of guy, yet we're supposed to believe he is some leftist who is down with open relationships and gender fluid kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:31 PM
3

They have slightly rounded jaws, slightly high pitched voices and soft features. A lot of average men have those too though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:39 AM
14

Will is probably a closet conservative. He doesn't curse in his songs/films, he's a Christian, and he's very much a "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" kind of guy. It's just his wife that dragged him and the rest of his family that dragged down this hyper leftist path
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:43 PM
2

Lol, time for me to start checking the post history of any "woman" who posts things that are not in women's favor around here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:55 AM
1

If I get a daughter I'm teaching her to work hard so she can belong in the same room with high value men rather than struggling to concoct silly gold digger schemes to try and land one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:01 PM
1

Only number 5 and 12 are openly agreed upon. The rest are just situations where one partner sees the signs of the other person cheating but lets it go for the reasons I stated instead of starting an investigation. You'll see when you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:42 PM
1

Requiring material things to maintain your attraction should given one of those Latin something-o-philia designations. It is a genuine mental disorder IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:36 PM
-1

You're like 60 years old, there's no way you're this dumb. Have fun juggling your beta male husband with all your orbiter exes, doesn't really affect me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:33 PM
4

There's a lot more people than you think who don't find cheating to be a deal breaker. Cases I've seen where people let cheating slide: If the cheating partner keeps it on the low If the cheating partner doesn't splurge on their secret love If the cheating partner is rich enough to keep everyone well taken care of Old people allowing their partner to get a better looking or more energetic PYT Micropenis men allowing their wives to get normal size dick Barren women allowing their husbands to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:29 PM
2

On social media people act like this is some deal breaker but in real life I would say about 50% of women I've dated really didn't want to be eaten out. I didn't care to find out why though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:06 PM
1

Most women in the world date for survival reasons. Only dating men you're attracted to is a privilege of a small percentage of women who have attained a certain level of income and didn't have any adverse financial experiences growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:03 PM
1

There's men who the woman was attracted to without any gift giving required. So her requiring gifts from other men is probably her trying to bridge a lack of attraction or her just straight up gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:58 PM
1

Mental abuse is so widely defined that it's basically any time the woman doesn't get her way in a big argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:52 PM
-1

You know if you spread your legs for him he would dive in. Stop being stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:51 PM
4

2 should be Invisible till you jester for my amusement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:08 AM
4

Simps are not just on Onlyfans. There's tons of men in real life paying women's bills on the low to get in their pants. Very few people actually talk about this stuff in public
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:07 PM

Such people were never really trying. Their youth was just doing a hard carry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:43 PM

Also once you have succesfully reproduced there is a strong instinct to stop trying to be sexy. I've recently had a baby and the only thing that keeps me in the gym right now is doomscrolling through incel videos to constantly remind myself how shitty life is for unattractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:41 PM
1

So the geriatric millionaire throwing stacks of cash at hot gold diggers is a 10 according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:42 PM
2

Maybe only parents chime in on parental arguments? Anyway my son is 6 months old. And I am a work from home entrepreneur with a ton of savings. All things I considered before deeming myself ready to have a child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:52 PM
1

Your theory gets ruined by things such as paying for sex, artificial enhancements such as steroids and plastic surgery and living in the middle of nowhere. Those three variables can make very odd pairings happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:05 PM
1

Your theory gets ruined by things such as paying for sex, artificial enhancements such as steroids and plastic surgery and living in the middle of nowhere. Those three variables can make very odd pairings happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:46 PM
4

I have a kid and I work from home, so technically I'm a stay at home parent. You really think you are among some incel teenagers here don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:39 PM
6

Are you going to admit that he has a point? Helicopter parenting has indeed been normalized. American cities designed for car usage, clickbaity media and STEM dominance has made it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:31 PM
7

Most of those issues wouldn't kill the relationship if the attraction for each other was at an 8, 9 or 10 in the beginning then waned to a 5, 6 or 7. The problem is many women decide to marry a beta to whom their attraction is initially at a 5 or 6 then over the long term it wanes to a 2 or 3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:24 PM
7

Also mail order bride buyers like Trump, Johns who buy $1000 hookers and geriatric sugar daddies are all 10s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:02 PM
7

The idea of dating equals stems from the notion that in relationships where there are clear and obvious power imbalances, tyranny is likely to ensue. If your partner is way hotter than you, chances are they will be super demanding of you. If your partner is way more famous than you, chances are they will cheat a lot. Also if your partner makes way more than you, domestic violence is way more likely. There are studies showing this to be true[1] and also a wealth of generational anecdotes passed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:13 AM
1

Nah, the idea that you have to win over woman are simply the musings of lonely minds. Women make it dead easy for men who they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:37 PM
2

I'm currently raising a child with one and I wouldn't want it any other way. Women reserve sober first day lays for special men who meet their hypergamous requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:23 PM
1

Yeah Fry was down bad and Leela straight up despised him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:17 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNM-L5zZQto
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:48 PM
2

Only a fool "loves the hunt." A smart man knows that a woman who wants you makes it easy for you to get her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:46 PM
7

you guys didn't read the OP. I'm not talking about the nerd getting the girl. Neo and James Bond are not nerds. I'm talking about men moving mountains in movies to get the disinterested girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:01 PM
1

Yeah, we can nitpick on the examples, but it exists. However, also to behave as though someone's media diet doesn't affect them is just plain ignorance. Yes, media doesn't turn you into a stone cold killer or anything like that, but it most definitely influences people's behavior in more day-to-day things like how to socialize, fashion choices etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:57 PM
3

For James Bond, I'm talking about the Daniel Craig series, but in particular Casino Royale. Vesper is merely a business acquaintance he knew for a few days but he destroyed tons of property to protect her and win her over. ​ Anyway, your examples seem quite good but unfortunately I only tuned into two of those shows, while only having a passing knowledge of the rest. I'll research about them, but this comment may have actually changed my view
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:54 PM
3

I listed a few in the description
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:44 PM
0

Just checked on a synopsis. Based Germans. Was this movie big in the 1900s?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:30 AM
1

I've had women be highly into me and they were not anything like MJ's indifferent demeanor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:27 AM
-3

In "No Way Home" MJ was clearly not that into Peter. Her character was clearly supposed to be an apathetic teenager who is too cool for school, but Peter was out here changing the course of time so they could be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:16 AM
0

Matrix Resurrections centers the whole plot around Neo literally putting the entire world at risk so that he can get back with an indifferent Trinity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:18 AM
5

I'm not talking about nerd getting the girl. I'm talking about the protagonist(could be anyone, even a hunk like James Bond) doing way too much for a girl he barely knows and isn't that into him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:17 AM
0

A lot of people are proud to say they settled because it seems like the logical choice for security to not go for an extremely attractive person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:51 AM
2

You can tell how attractive you are just by how women treat you. No need to sleep with them to find that out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:03 PM
3

She's clearly a 40 something woman trying to hold everything together with botox and filler. Chances are this man who married her is some elderly grandpa and she's counting down the days to his death while abusing some type of substance to tolerate it all in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:55 AM
1

Extremely typical story of someone living that lifestyle. It took her 15 years to find some rich sap to take care of her. She's probably a second wife at minimum to some geriatric man and a step mum to several kids. Willing to bet she's a substance abuser too behind the scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:52 AM
1

So you think if a broke man kept his cool as they were getting evicted from their house, his wife would stay? Fucking LOL @ this wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:52 AM
-1

I admire these girls who are big on Onlyfans cause they have figured out a way to break out of corporate drudgery and achieve an independent lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:31 PM
2

I think they are genuinely physically incapable of most blue collar jobs. Either due to natural strength disadvantage or higher disgust levels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:58 PM
1

You don't have to go that far. The construction industry itself would grind to a halt. Women are physically incapable of brick laying and there's no machine invented yet that can do brick laying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:16 PM
1

Real estate, mining and waste management would grind to a halt if women were the only ones around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:13 PM
1

Do you wish you had the strength of a man? Nuff said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:12 AM
1

Physical strength is something to be proud of and very useful in self defense and deterrence. You can shame others about men's ability to be violent but not me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:50 AM
1

I can see your "men bad, women good" agenda from a mile away. Physical violence is not the 100% bad thing you probably think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:44 AM
1

Nasty things women do all the time in real life: fraud avoid accountability misrepresent themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:17 AM
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JFL for thinking she's straight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:00 PM
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8 and 9 are model tier ratings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:17 PM
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Here are many studies to confirm a very obvious thing: https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/a3o2up/the_ultimate_heightpill_compilation/ ​ https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1346486298735947776
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:23 PM
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Tall guys are not used to being height mogged. It's a very surreal experience when it finally happens to them and tends to generate a fight or flight response. Once you get used to it, like a short guy, you can tone down that response
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:20 PM
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Once they get their heads round to using birth control, the well studied eugenic effects of it will follow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:48 PM
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Yes but the poor aren't taking advantage of birth control to get the benefits. Almost all women's lib benefits stem from birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:52 PM
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When you post a question like this, surely what do you expect women to say or upvote? Q4Women is a pointless exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:51 PM
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And why do people stop having kids? Because it has been proven that once a population passes $10,000 GDP per capita, they stop having children above replacement because after that children go from being an asset and a sign of hope to being pure liabilities in an economic sense. By next century the entire world will have achieved that level of prosperity so you don't have to hold on to your doomsday theories (by the way doomsday theories are a telltale sign of a depressed person, get help)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:06 PM
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We've grown the world population from 1 to 7 billion without any catastrophic resource depletion, I think it's safe to say we've solved the problem of growing resources to match population growth. Besides, the world population is projected to top off at 10 billion next century so overpopulation is a non issue anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:08 AM
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Studies are showing that birth control and the subsequent women's liberation is leading to a eugenic effect that the nazis could only have dreamed of. It's up for debate whether that's a societal decline or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:03 AM
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So childless women can be drafted in your line of reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:20 PM
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The type of man who actually goes through with geomaxxing tends to be the obvious loser back home. It's mostly fat, old and ugly dudes. This has an effect on the impression women have of foreigners who come to their country to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:43 PM
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This is a good refreshing new take on the issue. The shame of divorce is strong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:34 PM
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when they are exposed to new ideas, they reject them because they are ideologies of lower status people. That is clinging to the blue pill for the higher status it gives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:12 PM
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Poor people fuck the most and they have the babies to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:58 PM
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So a blue pilled life was indeed an aspirational status symbol in your eyes that you've managed to achieve and not just "normal" behavior as you originally contended
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:56 PM
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Making it harder to break up with someone makes it easier for them starting to behave badly because "you're not going anywhere." This cuts both ways. Many men and women report their partners switching up on them once they were married for this exact reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:41 PM
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NO, NO, NO, marriage is a magical spell that sprinkles fairy dust all over your home, you fool!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:17 PM
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I'm sure you are aware that you were an anomaly for a kid from a low income neighbourhood. There was probably a lot of survivalist dating for money and protection going on around you but I'm willing to bet you consciously chose to think about things differently, in an aspirational manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:12 PM
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OK, so let's say you are born in a rich Western country. You grow up blue pilled by default due to the prosperity around you. Then you discover this red pill malarkey. You dismiss it because while it might have some truth to it, you find it ghetto to think of dating in survivalist terms. Now we've come full circle with the causation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:07 PM
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But "never had trouble dating" takes on very different forms at different income levels. In California, "never had trouble dating" means you are a woke hipster that fits into the culture. In Lagos "never had trouble dating" means you are a young online scammer who splashes the cash on women. In Pattaya "never had trouble dating" probably means you are a pimp who offers protection to young prostitutes. And if you took that woke hipster from Cali and planted him in Lagos or Pattaya, I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:06 PM
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Then how come normal people in poor areas and normal people in rich areas approach things very differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:58 PM
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Isn't dating for money extreme red pill? My understanding is that red pill = toughness + money get you women, blue pill = caring personality gets you women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:53 PM
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Exactly. Though this will probably be auto modded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:32 PM
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so you can envision an educated man from a rural area in DRC being bluepilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:04 PM
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Your statement is one that tries to separate classes, so indeed you see the blue pill as a status symbol that represents higher order thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:52 PM
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Women need provisioning on a biological level, given the pregnancy dynamic. So in their minds it's rational to get into relationships with some type of financial reward as the end goal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:06 AM
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Yup. You could be conventionally attractive but still not her type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:54 AM
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Always refreshing to see actual alternative views. How has this worked out for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:19 AM
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I tried, I really did. Picked a woman who I met at one of my dinner parties. I was not attracted to her but she seemed like fun and there were some commonalities between us. She asked me for $200 after two days of talking. I sent her a couple links to some fintech apps, then I ghosted. There is a possibility that she was trying to get rid of me though. I am currently trying again with a woman who Facebook insisted that I might know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:16 PM
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FYI older male celebrities wear makeup all the time to hide the signs of ageing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:57 AM
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How do women determine the winner of their intrasexual competitions? Whoever gets the most male attention usually comes out on top
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:53 AM
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Instagram MUAs are the extreme, but every grown woman has the ability to use makeup to hide acne, dark circles and wrinkles and smokers lips. Those three things make a huge difference in facial appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:24 AM
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And what determines the position on female hierarchies? The amount of male/butch attention they get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:26 AM
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Balding doesn't matter to aesthetics? Hair is more important than muscles, there's multiple studies that show this Voluntarily start living like a terminally ill patient from high school? Risk your hair, heart and endocrine system for life? All this to attract some plastic club sloots? Your room temperature IQ is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:15 PM
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How is it aesthetic when the majority of roiders are dealing with acne, balding and/or bitch tits? Also those permanent pumps from roids are so uncomfortable to see in real life. The roider's body is clearly under distress from high blood pressure. Like I said, that shit is way more niche than gym bros would like to admit. And the niche you'll attract is mostly plastic club sloots. Only sub 80IQ fella will risk his hair, heart and endocrine system for that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:55 PM
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For anything to change, it would need both legalization and destigmatization. This would need strong activism but I wonder how many people would be willing to become staunch prostitution activists. It just feels like a very strange hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:34 PM
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He's humongous in that photo. Fitness influencers have fried your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:21 PM
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That is a roided up guy, which is a more niche look than gym bros would like to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:18 PM
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The phrase "aesthetic body" has been coopted by the bodybuilding community
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:06 PM
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I think any big time/money investment trying to woo the opposite sex that is unreciprocated can fall under the umbrella of simping. If there is mutual attraction, there will be reciprocation. If you get her something, she'll get you something shortly after. If you call her one time, she'll call you the next time etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:17 PM
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In a big five personality test, I scored 1 on agreeableness and the mother of my child scored 81, and we are very happy together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:50 AM
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Mid thirties, high n count, friends from all works of life, well travelled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:44 AM
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In my experience, the most common reasons for this are: Just be first: women's first few relationships are often not hypergamous because they haven't quite figured out their position in the SMP and they're just happy to be finally doing the whole relationship thing Dating down for security: some pretty women compromise and say that they are willing to sacrifice dating top guys for the peace of mind that the average guy is less likely to cheat and more likely to be submissive "Nichemaxxing": ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:55 AM
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Not OP, but I have noticed that a lot of men don't mind. They know it's their only reliable way in with the women they actually want and they're willing to deal with the trade offs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:50 AM
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Yes. I've argued with many women about the concept of locking down a man using the force of government. It's just the trad view that you should chain someone down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:05 PM
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More evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:50 AM
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I didn't open up personally but there have been a few instances where men ugly cried on TV in reall situations and the mother of my child just left the room in disgust. This is despite her saying previously that she'd like me to show more emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:37 AM
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This is evidence that you're not looking to understand. You're looking for a way to flip this on guys to make it their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:48 AM
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OP isn't looking to understand. She's looking for a way to flip this on guys to make it their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:47 AM
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I don't care for your exception. There are studies showing that women marry across and up in general. Look them up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:37 PM
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I strongly agree. If I had the money this would be a study I would look at sponsoring but I think we both know in our hearts what the results would be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:24 AM
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You see women MARRYING poor men all the time? This I I see x all the time meme just has to die, especially when there are so many studies to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:21 AM
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Yes because birth control allows women a huge range of work options and the incel rate has declined since the ancient days when only 40% of men reproduced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:19 AM
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SELECTION BIAS! Women choose healthy, wealthy and popular guys for marriage. Hypergamy is what leads to the favorable results in marriage surveys. Bachelors who meet women's hypergamous requirements of looks money and status will have similar quality of life outcomes. It's just that among bachelors we have homeless men, loners and unhealthy men who were weeded out by hypergamous selection, hence they muddy up survey results for single men. Marriage is not a magic spell that makes everything bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:51 PM
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Marriage was created to solve two societal problems: 1. broke single mothers 2. incels left behind by women's taste for top men It was an inelegant solution and birth control solved both problems in a much more elegant way. That's why marriage is on the decline. A lot of people can't see the logic behind it in a world with birth control. Of course a thing as widespread as marriage will always have some inertia going for it since most people are NPCs who just follow along with traditions blindly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:39 PM
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So do you break the ice with some milf porn questions or what?How do you regularly find these milf porn fans? Or did you just date one and then wrongly expressed it as though it was a pattern?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:25 AM
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Well I count models as lower class since they are basically prostitutes and you don't, so I guess that's where we differ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:32 PM
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Class is determined both socially and economically. Cash me outside girl is the number one Onlyfans girl. She's probably worth over $10m liquid at 18 years old. She's still not getting admission into any country clubs any time soon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:27 PM
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Being an escort is the lowest class there is. There is no such thing as a classy prostitute. Instagram "models" are only classy to people who have never met them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:50 AM
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LOL, don't fall for the okie doke, most of these models and "boss babes" are broke, despite the front they put up on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:43 AM
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The cellphone(aka the dick-in-a-box) is what killed pickme behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:07 AM
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Lol, these are exactly the "lone girl in comp sci" vibes that OP was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:36 PM
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This type of dichotomy is shady AF. Only save hookups for bums, then keep the relationship material guys waiting? Only a scheming b*tch would be so devious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:39 AM
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In my experience as a man, I will say that I've also experienced that dichotomy. I am a guy who isn't very flashy, you can't tell that I'm a high income person until you get to my house. I have experienced some women who were clearly going to put out on the first date until they saw my penthouse and suddenly changed their demeanor. It's as if they thought I was a fun bum, but once they saw I had some stability about me, they now didn't want to be seen as a slut. However women who have that sort …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:36 AM
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She waits till it's clear as far as the eye can see. Any car in the distance, she's not crossing. OK typing this out I can see how I just look like the crazy one but I'm gonna leave it up for those who get me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:13 PM
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I currently have a baby on the way and anxiety of the mother of my child has gone through the roof. She can't even cross the road unless it's completely clear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:48 AM
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Yup, but there's lots of lying in sex surveys so divide by 2 for men and multiply by 3 for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:18 PM
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Negative stereotypes about people at the top of social hierarchies come from a place of envy. Broke, ugly, lonely redditors will lambast the beautiful, the rich and the famous; but if they could, they would trade lives with them in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:19 PM
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Really? That's just your circle then. In my circles the men just smash and lower their effort afterwards then the women somehow try to convince the men to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:06 PM
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Yes, there are men who do that. Sounds like low value behavior to me though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:05 PM
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Indeed a lot of men have an Aladdin fantasy. If only they had money, they would get the most desirable women to fall in love with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:33 PM
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I wish there was a study showing which partner was most likely to start the marriage conversation in a relationship. I'm willing to bet that the overwhelming majority of the time it's women who start the conversation and eventually the man goes along with it. Then since the man is the one who eventually proposed, women turn around and say the marriage was his idea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:27 PM
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You laugh but I've seen a number of women who think this way. There are men who think in a similar pattern but the simple solution for men is stealing rather than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:16 AM
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Lol, your "hot to me" guy is like top 1% of natural lifters and "not for me" is top 1% of roiders. The only thing you've proved is that women only focus on the top guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:44 AM
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No, women would stay at their parents' house till marriage and start a family immediately after that. Male provisioning was always about family sustenance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:00 PM
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Only half true. A family still takes a dual income to raise comfortably. Most single mums are financially distressed in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:01 PM

The more balanced take is that hypergamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the reality. And some people grow to resent the assortative mating compromise, while some learn to appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:27 PM
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The crux of the problem is monogamy and how people respond to it. Very few people get their ideal partner in our monogamous society and some people grow to resent that, while others find solace in truisms like "nobody's perfect."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:16 PM
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Anyone who actually looks at data knows that STDs are way overblown. And nowadays sex is not necessarily equal to babies. If I caught the mother of my child just having sex with someone else, I would move the relationship along in peace rather than blowing it up. Humans are serially monogamous at best and I'm at peace with that reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:16 PM
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Arnold Schwarzenegger is an active redditor. The stereotype that the internet is for idlers is just boomer thinking at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:19 PM
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Actually alpha male isn't the high achieving career guy. TRP uses alpha and beta as basically placeholders for "jock" and "nerd." So the responsible, hardworking STEM guy is "beta" as per red pill definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:17 PM
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Yes. Extramarital sex isn't a deal breaker for me and I think society should rethink why the fuck we hold it up as the ultimate deal breaker. It's very possible to continue a relationship peacefully even when the sexual spark has died, especially when kids are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:38 PM
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Both parents in that situation are idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:38 PM
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EXACTLY. People can be such tyrants. They actually want to lock someone down using the threat of government action rather than just being pleasant. It's a bonkers deal that no one would accept in any other situation, but when it's marriage, the horns come out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:00 PM
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How about not being so frivolous as to wreck your own home over something as small as sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:56 PM
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Tyrant shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:54 PM
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So you want to rule over your relationship with a big stick? And your husband should just trust that you won't use said big stick? How about if no one had a big stick to hit the other one with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:53 PM
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The quick escape is what keeps both parties honest in a deal. Shackles are what brings out evil in people once they know you aren't going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:48 PM
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Yeah but the truth is black pillers see the sex life of popular Chads as being the only sex life that's worthwhile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:29 PM
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There's studies that show that the man being hot and rich is a major contributor to chances of the woman orgasming
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:02 PM
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Mark Manson noticed this and is cashing in big on making TRP and PUA concepts less offensive and more palatable to the masses. His is like the fuchsia pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:18 PM
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Nah, ugly, dumbass women with dominant genes would still reproduce in that scenario. There is no mechanism for "speeding up evolution," that doesn't involve mass genocide. And anyone who tries to do a genocide usually gets killed in retribution before they finish their mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:12 AM
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That's across Europe. The big government systems there make it a good option to just be a cog in the machine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:22 PM
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Not really. Both have an artificially enhanced aesthetic and they often run in the same circles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:24 PM
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Or maybe the body isn't that important to women and roiding to get girls is an activity with a poor ROI?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I'm willing to bet that people with enhanced bodies (roiders and women with the Kardashian special) get a lot of curiosity ONS. Even me as a man, I would smash a woman with some fake body parts just to see what it was like and go to the grave with that secret
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:19 PM
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Older people who've already had kids skew the fat numbers. Young people in the dating market are mostly slim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:12 PM
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It's getting to a point where every male fitness influencer is on steroids and every female fitness influencer has had surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:03 PM
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Well there are many studies on genetic factors that have a major impact on life, but TRP doesn't reference them much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:13 PM
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But we all date selfishly. No one dates to do the other person a favor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:07 PM
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Some of us would rather not force everyone to help their fellow man under the threat of imprisonment. Just help if you want to. If you don't want to help, no biggie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:24 PM
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Left leaning ideologies are just full of wishful thinking. Right leaning ideologies account for ugly realities of human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:21 PM
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Yup. Left leaning parties are full of posers who just want to be seen in a certain light, but in real life they are right leaning. Quick way to determine this: ask any self proclaimed leftie you know whether they would rather start a family with an extreme left woman or an extreme right woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:18 PM
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Most industries that actually have lots of customers but can't turn a profit are being held back by silly government regulations
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:52 PM
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Plus they have the incentive of likes. Shitting on men is likebait and platforms won't shadowban you for it (don't dare try switch the sexes though)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:35 AM
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Nah, the fate of the rich, ugly man is the same as every other beta buxx: woman staples her stomach, giving him the bare minimum in exchange for maximum resources. Only exception is rich Arabs who ensure to strip women of all agency before beta buxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:25 AM
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Hollywood has one of the highest cost of living in the world, and it attracts hoards of young, attractive, unskilled, jobless people to try their luck in the super lucrative entertainment industry. Given this combination, it's no wonder that the casting couch is basically a culture over there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:20 AM
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Authoritarian hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:51 PM
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That's probably supposed to be a burn, but me and the mother of my children are doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:50 PM
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Fuck the "social benefits." I hate the government too much to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:38 PM
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You would rather people be bound under threat of government action till death than give them free choice. You are an authoritarian fascist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:58 PM
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Fascist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:54 PM
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You know who else says that "death is your only way out?" Literal slave masters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:38 PM
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It is you who doesn't understand human psychology. There is a reason why mutually assured destruction turned out to be the solution for world peace, rather than enslavement. Give everyone the power to blow up a deal, and mutual respect will ensue. Give both partners in a relationship a substantial income, options and an easy out? They will be fair to one another
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:40 PM
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Then you agree with me, marriage is useless. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:33 PM
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The hierarchy doesn't matter. Even in relationships, many people openly admit to acting a certain way because their husband/wife isn't going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:15 PM
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The study on what I'm proposing has never been done and I wish I had the funds to sponsor such a study because there are clear and obvious sampling biases in all marriage studies. When you study ALL married people vs ALL single people, you fail to account for the "marriage material" filter aka hypergamy. Therefore in the married sample, there will be mostly "marriage material" men, while in the single sample, there will be lots of losers and dregs of society skewing the measurements. A fair comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:09 PM
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You're deflecting. Tackle the original premise: does chaining someone down encourage bad behavior, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:59 PM
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Monogamous marriage was part of the checks and balances of the olden days to make sure the bottom 80% of men got laid and to make sure jobless women didn't get plunged into poverty through single motherhood. We've created other checks and balances for those two scenarios, so it's no wonder people are just skipping marriage nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:05 PM
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Relationship is a fair deal all around. People who want marriage in today's world are just slave drivers who would rather use the force of government to keep their partner around rather than good behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:59 PM
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Many women threaten to leave if he doesn't propose. Weak, optionless men cave to these threats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:40 PM
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Majority of marriages involve the woman nudging the man into it somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:39 PM
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That's not how human nature works. The ability to walk away is what keeps people honest in a deal. When one party is chained down somehow, it opens the door to bad behavior since "you're not going anywhere."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:37 PM
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Still, the job of a woman is to find a good man who will stick around, and there is no magic ceremony that will compel him to stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:31 PM
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An easy escape keeps all people in a deal honest. In your job, the easy escape keeps you and your boss on toes. If it is hard to escape from a deal, that leads to a slave driving boss or an arrogant employee. Same thing in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:39 AM
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Marriage isn't what does the trick. Hypergamous selection does it. So as long as partner selection is on point, the marriage part is not needed for the stable two parent home
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:33 AM
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Tax benefits only accrue to couples with a huge income disparity, which is a bad idea in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:21 AM
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There was a survey done recently that showed that blue pill is for UMC people from 2 parent homes. TRP is for poor people from broken homes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:29 AM
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Blue pill thinking can only exist in extreme prosperity. In fact, in some ways being blue pill is a status symbol because it's the culture of UMC people from developed countries. All people below that income level are quite red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:07 AM
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Walking a tightrope would have been the better choice of words
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:50 AM
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