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8	How do you approach physical flirting & escalation in a pool w a woman you’ve just met?	Escalation & Calibration	ayesee345	/r/seduction	30/04/24 04:16 PM

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1	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) While there are certainly some truths here at the end of the day there are certain physical traits that no amount of confidence and charisma can help. Not only that but some are also intrinsically tied w a man’s sense of self-confidence and addressing it is the only way to unlock that potential confidence.	/r/seduction	24/10/24 12:21 AM
2	I panicked and ran away when the girl I like flirted with me Try turning it into something funny and be honest about the situation. You aren’t good at flirting but have a crush on her. Just remember, if you feel you’re being awkward, she’s gonna feel you’re being awkward. If you aren’t being authentic and trying too hard she’s going to know; women have outstanding intuition. Try your best to relax, keep things light & humorous, and bc confidently be your authentic self despite however paradoxical that might sound or feel due to your shyness & anxiousness.…	/r/seduction	16/07/24 09:30 PM
2	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? W overtime the full time job ends up being about 60 hrs a week. Plus a side hustle of cutting grass which is physically exhausting. All of my free time is literally spent resting, or cooking and weight lifting. I’d prob have a couple hours a week for a gf and I’d barely be in quality enough mental or physical condition to show her a good time. Being good w my mouth and fingers has always been a priority but unless you’ve exp PE yourself the toll it takes on your own confidence and a relationship…	/r/seduction	30/06/24 11:33 AM
1	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? Full time job and premature ejac	/r/seduction	30/06/24 04:50 AM
23	Dating app opener tip Cringe	/r/seduction	13/06/24 03:23 PM
1	The 5 Pillars of Seduction Yeah I’ve researched a lot, def implemented the dog thing too. Unfortunately the part that I mentioned isn’t conventionally attractive is my face so it feels like despite having everything else on point, the face being the main focus for most humans, it’s mainly what’s doing me in.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 07:52 PM
1	The 5 Pillars of Seduction Yeah the profile is def a huge thing, I had to go thru what felt like over a dozen iterations of mine before getting matches. I def wouldn’t say I’m shredded but I’m can confidently take my shirt off and look decent naked.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 06:10 PM
1	The 5 Pillars of Seduction Well I was referring more to aspects of one’s appearance that you cannot change or work on. I exercise plenty and keep up w my grooming so I don’t really have any issues w that. It’s meeting enough women to get dates that is currently my main issue.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 05:39 PM
1	The 5 Pillars of Seduction What are the best dating apps where even men who aren’t conventionally attractive can at least get a few matches/dates? I currently work full-time and don’t have enough of a social life to consistently meet enough women in-person to score numbers/dates. This also means I want whatever time I do spend w them to be worth it and yield significant results instead of wasting most of my time.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 05:25 PM
1	How do you approach physical flirting & escalation in a pool w a woman you’ve just met? I agree, there’s always time outside the pool or in the future when you know each other better and are at a physical level. As far as things being weird, I agree: if they’re weird they’re weird regardless. Some things I believe would only really come off as weird if you make them weird tho. In this case those are things that like you said, you could do in your youth or even at any age if you’re a close or married couple that is very playful so that precedence doesn’t make them weird by default i…	/r/seduction	01/05/24 12:21 AM
2	How do you approach physical flirting & escalation in a pool w a woman you’ve just met? I’m 35 and see where you’re coming from, plus everyone is different, but imo there’s a more masculine but still playful way to do them. Pick one or two, space them out thru yalls time in the pool and I can’t imagine coming off as an outright weirdo. A lot of coming off as a weirdo usually comes down to how you hold yourself - if you feel or think you’re being weird, she’s gonna feel and see you as being weird - if you do it confidently and don’t care bc you’re entertaining yourself, she’ll more …	/r/seduction	30/04/24 11:54 PM
3	Signs when a special women is not interested Like corny ones, funny ones, or cool ones?	/r/seduction	21/04/24 02:03 PM
2	My game is literally nonexistent, how would you start from zero? Don’t worry about your game right now. A good strong foundation going forward is the key to anything and everything when it comes to getting into dating/rel/sex w women. First off, you need to change the outlook asap. Don’t be negative, feel bad, or put yourself down bc of where you are and def don’t tell yourself you have no chance w these women. Do the opposite. Find, grow, and take pride in your strengths. Tell yourself you are worth it and deserve companionship & pleasure. Repeat it to yours…	/r/seduction	20/04/24 10:47 PM
1	Texting after first date after having sex? I mean one day is fine since it’s technically a first date, but one day tops considering y’all did fuck. So def text her tonight. The best move imo is telling them that night to text you once they get home, then send the “lets do it again soon” text once they do. From there, yeah you can wait a few days to set up the next date.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 10:58 PM
2	Wow. Yeah, mistakes will always happen. The important thing is that you learn from and don’t repeat them. Besides you don’t know for sure what happened anyway.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 07:45 PM
1	Wow. As in things were just a bit unorganized, or things were dirty & smelly? A little mess and disorganization is fine and actually shows some character, nothing at all like things actually being dirty or smelly, which are always going to be big time red flags for any woman. Just make sure all those bases are covered in the future so you can more easily rule out and know what went wrong and why if this or something similar happens again. And again, do not contact her no matter how bad you want to kn…	/r/seduction	19/04/24 05:31 PM
2	Wow. First order of business is to make sure it wasn’t you or anything in your apt. Was it clean & smelling good? No dog piss/shit, dust, mold, trash, etc? Always always always have multiple air fresheners or candles around your place.m Did you forget & leave anything out that could be seen as a red flag: porn, weapons, drugs, old food, trash, etc? Were you clean and smelling good? Dressed properly? Going over the night up to them did you maybe say or do anything that could be seen as a yellow/orange…	/r/seduction	19/04/24 04:10 PM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? No you’re absolutely right, I prob just wasn’t clear. I was talking generally when I brought up the “match her energy” thing and it being something that has its time & place, not making it always the best approach. In this instance you are absolutely right tho and should match her energy evenly.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 04:36 AM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? Right on. I wouldn’t stick so closely to the whole match her effort thing tho. It has its time and places but sometimes the opposite, being forward and honest about what you want even if it means texting her first or sooner than she did the last time, is what will attract a woman. Clearly tho this is not one of those times and places.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 01:03 AM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? I did edit some things so reread if you’d like. I also forgot the mutual friendship part. Things could always change bc of that and you could become slot #1 or more depending on how you feel about her going forward. All the more reason to proceed as if from square one or move on completely. Moving on completely but still being able to hang out around her bc of mutual friends can be an incredibly useful asset. Women just work counterintuitively like that. Showing her despite as close as you got l…	/r/seduction	18/04/24 06:47 PM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? I agree, she’s def interested in you on some level, just remember; women never say what they mean or mean what they say…and everything is a test. Maybe it was the weed and her reaction wasn’t necessarily a sign of her suddenly not being attracted or interested in you. If it wasn’t, you’ll know eventually. Now, I fully agree about the single girl not being celibate thing but actively dating 5-6 guys 2 of which are sexual partners is def slutty behavior and at the very least leaving room for missi…	/r/seduction	18/04/24 06:04 PM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? Lol how do you get white knight from me reaching your same conclusion w just more words?	/r/seduction	17/04/24 11:23 PM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? Bc the point of my comment wasn’t to just label her?	/r/seduction	17/04/24 10:57 PM
2	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? If it’s bc she told him then that’s a clear red flag imo. If he found out bc of the mutual friend group, it’s still an orange borderline red flag imo considering it took three 8-10 hour “dates” just to get to making out. If I know she’s dating and fucking other guys, unless I’m easily being slotted in as #3 by date #2, then I’d have dropped her before any third “hang out”.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 10:46 PM
1	I 21M get tired during sex Can you elaborate more on exactly how to execute this method?	/r/seduction	15/04/24 09:26 PM
8	I 21M get tired during sex And what’s this method called?	/r/seduction	14/04/24 10:58 AM
1	I trained an AI to help me flirt better How could I test this out?	/r/seduction	09/04/24 02:48 PM
34	Girls gave me their instagram… Golden rule: Women never mean what they say and never say what they mean. It’s very likely one or both of them were just saying that as a first line of defense/shit test to see how confident you are and weed out those that aren’t. Unless they explicitly say they are in a relationship and/or have clear closed-off body language, assume they’re lying or at most embellishing. Another golden rule: always view texting as a means to meet up, not get to know her. Your priority when texting should always…	/r/seduction	04/04/24 09:15 PM
7	Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most? Working at a casino	/r/seduction	09/02/24 08:16 PM
2	THIS GENERATION I suppose there are exceptions as it’s likely something of a spectrum, so much like everything in life it comes down to balance. One could have such pent up feelings & repressed emotions that you could say unloading on someone due to lack of self-control is a weakness in that moment. And yeah, there will always be that element of how a portion of society perceives the expressing of emotions as weak, so to them it makes it so, but I still believe ultimately the act of having something you’d rathe…	/r/MGTOW	17/09/19 07:07 PM
2	THIS GENERATION I believe it’s circumstantial. Outbursts of anger & breaking down in sadness or fear does exhibit a certain degree of lack of self-control thus a weakness, but alternately to effectively express your inner(most) feelings about something to someone I do believe takes a measure of strength. Repressing is always easier than expressing imo, do you not agree?	/r/MGTOW	17/09/19 05:49 AM
3	Guess which character is the most well off Michonne and Rick hooked up? Wtf?	/r/MGTOW	19/04/19 05:02 PM
1	The naked truth about masculinity Lol I didn’t know an intangible concept like masculinity was so simply defined just like looking up for the color of the sky, got it. And yes, we all thank you for clearing up the post of my childish spewing of falsehoods - especially since it seems to have triggered you so badly.	/r/MGTOW	14/10/18 07:05 AM
-1	The naked truth about masculinity Oooh so expressing my opinion and being interested & asking you about yours makes me an idiot advancing false premises? Too good for that shit huh, got it. How ironic that you’re a teacher lmao	/r/MGTOW	14/10/18 05:13 AM
2	The naked truth about masculinity Idk what makes some men bad fathers and bad influences on their children while others raise great men? How can something that encompasses a spectrum of male behavior & traits not have opposing sides that have their own distinct effects on others or the environment? I’m not necessarily talking about what feminists may call “toxic masculinity” either, I mean in general. Couldn’t beta male traits that keep men from success or cause them problems be considered “toxic”?	/r/MGTOW	13/10/18 11:46 PM
1	The naked truth about masculinity Reiterating it’s nonexistence doesn’t really explain why it’s a fabrication though. How is it fundamentally different from saying “There are toxic aspects of masculinity.”? And if it isn’t then how is that statement a fabrication or a lie?	/r/MGTOW	13/10/18 11:34 PM
1	The naked truth about masculinity Ok, then help me understand. I know people who grew up w no father, bad fathers, and good fathers. They’re all different, and the ones w no father did not grow up worse off than the ones w a bad father. So how can there be no distinction between traits of masculinity that are toxic & non-toxic to a child growing up?	/r/MGTOW	13/10/18 10:58 PM
2	The naked truth about masculinity I agree.	/r/MGTOW	13/10/18 10:55 PM
3	The naked truth about masculinity This is all true, but there’s a difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity.	/r/MGTOW	13/10/18 07:28 PM
2	Burger & beer at 11:30 at night. This is something my married friends need permission for altho I’m sure not all relationships are the need permission types, I’m thankful af for my position of freedom	/r/MGTOW	06/08/18 01:27 PM
2	Single moms 2018 in a nutshell that kid has an afro...just sayin	/r/MGTOW	26/03/18 07:56 PM
6	I will tell you one of the best places to meet women Target. I never go into a a target without seeing at least 4-5 fine ass chicks. Not including cougars.	/r/seduction	25/07/17 01:55 AM
2	Must-read red pill content Commenting to save & read later. Thanks!	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/17 02:14 AM
5	I figured it out Great advice, esp the vs. bit. I always tried to catch myself when thinking that way then try to make myself not give a fuck...even if it meant tossing the phone and just reciting out loud "I don't care. I don't care. IDGAF. You can laugh about this. It's funny, laugh. LAUGH. This is ALL entertainment for you anyway." and eventually my fun-idgaf approach/demeanor would return. Just don't send anything immediately after feeling that relieving switchback, I would sometimes overshoot and come off l…	/r/seduction	18/12/16 09:20 PM
1	Time to discard the last of your blue pill illusions Even if the dude doesn't realize it there is ALWAYS a compromise being made somehow, somewhere if the relationship has been going "perfectly great" or he can't complain bc "she's an amazing gf". Somewhere you're letting your manguard down to make things easier for her or convincing yourself after some time that a certain behavior you're not comfortable w isn't a big deal, or she is knowingly doing certain things to make you feel even more comfortable...it's about that zone. The sooner you are co…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 05:57 PM
1	"Marry Him!" Feminist article dripping with TRP truths So is it better to make a plate out of a more vapid, feminine woman who is hot requiring more maneuvering or game...or a manlier, smarter, but less attractive (think 8-9 vs 6-7) woman who understands TRP and is more easy-going?	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/16 11:39 PM
1	I Think We should have Netflix acquire The Red Pill Movie Ha you know I've seen it so long ago and rarely see it displayed anywhere I wasn't sure...but that dude is cool af, I've read some of his work	/r/MGTOW	02/11/16 10:13 AM
5	I Think We should have Netflix acquire The Red Pill Movie Idk if it's still on Netflix but one of the most MGTOW/RP and funniest movies I've ever seen is "How To Be A Man" and I recommend it to every single dude in here or anywhere. It stars comedian Mark McCarthy and has some genuine knowledge to drop and it's a genuinely funny comedy. Find it and watch it!	/r/MGTOW	01/11/16 05:23 PM
12	Be a Real Man™ Real men should never have to stop and think what makes a real man, you just are one (or not) - doesn't matter what you do or don't do. I collect action figures and read comics. Now some say that's not what men do, they watch football and drive their trucks thru mud. But you know what? I don't give a fuck. Fuck that "info". I don't give a fuck ab mud-diggin and am casually into football, but I LOVE posing & photographing my figures...and you know what else? I STILL fuck AND I do it IN THE ROOM W…	/r/MGTOW	22/10/16 05:08 PM
2	Probing For Red/Blue Pill: Ask Them About Forrest Gump This was always the most telling detail of them getting together imo. Only after she was finally bored & fatigued and Forrest was rich lol smh	/r/MGTOW	08/09/16 06:13 PM
2	Has anyone lost any of their friends because of women? My closest friend. Dude never bothered to try to learn to talk to women and get into the dating world. Spent years complaining about women & how stupid the dating game is, but then got lonely. Started chatting w/ girls online and got close to one. Called her his girlfriend said it's serious, but everytime he tried to meet up w her she flaked on him. He spent a few more years flip-flopping between ignoring her and bI tching about her and talking to her again, saying she wasn't too bad, then getti…	/r/MGTOW	08/09/16 03:01 PM
1	"I am the average American woman." It's like the monster in a horror story	/r/MGTOW	03/08/16 01:12 AM
8	Sometimes it just feels so fucking good to walk away I thought this was referring to in the moment club game. I've given women a smh or "really?" face and walked away numerous times if they eventually acted triflin or just came up w a fucked up or petty shit test. Sometimes it made the attraction and they'd pull me back often ending in success. Anyway. I know so many dudes that put up w some real bullshit childish behavior from their SOs just bc they're that 'in love' or infatuated. It's pretty sad to see and even upsetting hearing them justify it…	/r/seduction	16/07/16 02:43 AM
1	I'm pregnant and you are the father. One thing I've never understood is this sensitivity around going to get tested in the first place. I don't care if she thinks it's insensitive of me to want to know if I'm really the father of someone instead of just "accepting my responsibility" or if I'm implying she sleeps around or is a slut by claiming it might not be mine. Fuck that, if I want to know, I'm gonna find out.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/16 03:02 PM
1	How to pull yourself out of depression Dope post bro - lots of truth in there, esp the part about finding a somewhat strict & rational routine to follow daily. It helps keep you busy and your mind off things, it gives you small goals to accomplish and small things here and there to improve on day by day, and makes you healthier mentally & physically and helps improve your quality of life	/r/seduction	25/05/16 04:38 PM
-1	ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion] You sound like the typical TRP hater who has likely foregone the message and zeroed in on the numerous angsty virgins that roam the community instead. Just like another commenter just mentioned in here.	/r/seduction	30/04/16 11:49 PM
22	ELI5: Why have men become so sexually repressed? [Discussion] Check out The Red Pill don't judge or listen to other ppl who criticize it, think for yourself and just read the info - society has brain washed us and we need to wake up and break free, it's not about being a dick & getting leid as much as possible, it's about TRUTH	/r/seduction	30/04/16 05:47 PM
4	I'm in financial trouble Do what I do for a side job - mow grass. It's simple, doesn't require much skill, and depending on how many you can do in how long, you can make $100+ a day. You just need to get your hands on some equipment. Take some odd jobs or do gardening until you can afford a mower, weedeater, and blower - then you're set. And I get you're trying to change your life but don't lose who you are. If video gaming was a part of your childhood like it was mine, then doing something drastic like deleting them ma…	/r/becomeaman	18/04/16 01:08 AM
4	This Picture of Two Men shows what your problem might be "Consider that who you are on the inside doesn't matter nearly as much to your life experience as what's on the outside. Do what you can to change it." Some would call this cynical, damn near nihilistic talk. Imo, it's mostly true. I have years of real world experience and I agree. How you look and who you know will account for way much more than you think and will prob ever be aware of in your life. Your personality and identity only serve a purpose to a point. Beyond that you need assets such …	/r/becomeaman	14/02/16 12:53 AM
1	Is starting to date in the 30's actually feasable, though? I guess I meant 40(+) if you aren't wealthy or in shape. If you are, I imagine even being over 50 is still game for dating. I'm 36 and know for a fact if I didn't spend that extra bit of time at the gym or had some form of disposable income I'd be dry as a bone, and I've always been a natural with women. Hell, my less fortunate friends pretty much gave up at 30. I can only imagine hitting 40 and never having put any effort into those things.	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/16 03:51 AM
4	Is starting to date in the 30's actually feasable, though? I'd say 45. 30s are totally game, they're the new 20s. Being 40 and over can be cool if you're wealthy or stayed in shape, but once you're over 45 and closer to 50 there is prob nothing cool about trying to date.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/16 04:46 AM
32	What Makes A Woman Chase You? LTR material? Dude if SHE'S chasing YOU, you must be very good looking or have had some $$$ to spend on those dates. I'm sure if it was your game, you'd know it was.	/r/seduction	07/09/15 07:00 PM
3	[FR] Had a fuck it moment and won Learning everything by yourself is far more crucial in the long run. Going it alone can yield greater successes when you can confidently handle it...closing in these scenarios can be difficult for most men tho. Before I ever became good at closing, social groups were essential to me, but I learned to do without and it made me better overall. Even if she isn't fully aware of it, the air of mystery and confidence that a woman gets from you is far more potent when it's just you picking up her up.	/r/seduction	04/07/14 05:50 PM
19	[FR] Had a fuck it moment and won Bonus points for deciding to hang out in public alone. It takes a different kind of confidence to do that. It shows you are very sure of yourself, aren't socially needy and know how to make time for yourself. Some women like this and will pick up on it.	/r/seduction	04/07/14 03:52 AM
1	Inertia of social changes o9uh	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/14 06:47 AM
2	How I overrid my approach anxiety with help of photo camera. A friend of mine and I run a hip-hop website. To get some data for brainstorming and implementing ideas, we thought we'd come up with a brief survey to give to people our age at a mall about hip-hop and music in general. I've practiced seduction-type stuff for years now and I have to say this is by far the easiest it has ever been for me to strike up a conversation, flirt, get her info and in one case, date & fuck a hot girl. Say your doing a survey for a class or project and use it to test/try …	/r/seduction	30/04/14 05:02 PM
2	Some things I've picked up along the way these last few months... Cheers	/r/seduction	15/04/14 08:32 PM
1	Dat smile just mentally imagine you are fucking the shit out of her and whatever smile that is, is the smile you use. but you MUST think it	/r/seduction	01/04/14 06:26 AM
0	The thirteen things I have learned about attraction so far in life. Great explanations. I like how this isn't a simple list.	/r/seduction	14/03/14 04:37 PM