I’ve just recently lost weight so bc of avoiding it due to past body image issues, until now I’ve never had to be in a pool w a woman I’m dating/talking to. What are things you do when in the pool together that aren’t boring or cringey, but don’t come off too strong either?

Being in a pool w a woman you’ve just met is a heightened experience imo. You’re wearing less clothes & being physically playful are the pretty much expected. Its a finer line than usual to walk imo. You cant be rough w her like you might w your bros, you don’t want to be boring & just stand there in the water the whole time, but bc you’ve just met & aren’t on clear physical terms yet you can’t just get hands-on & physically tease her in certain areas.

Tbh the only ones I can think of are surprise pushing her in, picking her up & jumping in, playing footsie/trying to trip her legs underwater, maybe a little light tickling or wrestling to win if you have enough ppl to chicken fight…