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You can still somewhat define a term and then get an idea of what that user thinks based off that definition. If you think that it will not contribute anything to the convo if you do that, you still don't have to be rude about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 11:28 PM
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just assume he's always drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 07:12 PM
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13 AP exams with mostly 5s (they're out of 5) Why weren't they all 5? We're disappointed in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 07:06 PM
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If they do see MGTOW they just go 'wtf is this acronym' and then just keep scrolling past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:54 PM
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is this because fire would heat up gunpowder/fire ammo?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:51 PM
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And the polite thing for you to do as the steward of the conversation is provide defintions for terms that people may not know, regardless of whether it's findable on google or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:49 PM
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You know how you can start learning? Asking a member of the group what the term means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:03 PM
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I'm inclined to believe this is the answer, but do you have any stats on this? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:55 AM
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Is that what the control actually means? The source he linked references another source and I can't find that one to compare. :<
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:52 AM
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can i just visit? I kind of want to go do some research sometimes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:44 AM
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I strangely don't entirely dislike the other one, I just don't want people to be randomly hostile to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 05:56 AM
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Hm, when did you come back?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:38 AM
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c) you aren't truly friends with someone you sexually proposition. when they just got out of a relationship*. Clearly they're not reading something correctly if they thought it was okay to proposition but she's clearly disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:00 AM
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;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:32 PM
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why spoilers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:14 AM
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Now I'm curious if I have a tag. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:13 AM
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I've been mixed with azngirl frequently recently :( It's worse for us I think because we're both actually asian women in our 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:12 AM
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Hmmm do the mods know who it is? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:03 AM
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This might be better directed to modmail or the like, I don't think they read automod responses?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:28 AM
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Do you think female MRAs don't exist? GWW is one of the most prolific MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:22 AM
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When it's tricked? Toxoplasmosis makes rats seek cats for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:20 AM
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It's funny though, replacing Debate Pony with the entire male gender is what makes it acceptable and not a personal attack
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:09 AM
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It's not just mormons - plenty of non mormon christians and conservatives that would want their daughters to wear tshirts under tanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:52 AM
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I do not think goat has any specific issues with the poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:25 PM
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white-knighted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:14 AM
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If I had to guess the former. He just always made snide comments iirc that would get ticked for moderation but wasn't a huge rule violation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:07 AM
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Because she didn't use 'morality' or 'fair' to describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:32 PM
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Objective truth isn't the only thing worthy of finding in debates, but you could make that your goal yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:31 PM
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Sure I can buy that, but then I would still think the guy is kind of dumb for leaving a relationship like that. In fact if it bothers him that much it's probably better that he leaves than stew on it long term but I'd still think he's kind of dumb for just not being able to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:31 PM
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Did she say it was the objective truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:03 PM
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yep this is my answer too. He can leave, some people might think he's an asshole, some might agree, I think he's kind of dumb for leaving what seems to be a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:01 PM
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TRP\MRP gets men all the time 10-20 years in that learn what's up. Do you have a wife and kids? I do. Lots of guys do in these forums. Could you possibly being any more grandiose and self centered? Yeah but those guys are in miserable relationships, that's understandable. It's like the straw that breaks the camel's back. The guy in OP's scenario has fun and sex, why is he leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:57 PM
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https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:27 AM
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Might be the same thing for the guy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:21 AM
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Well done plastic surgery can look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:04 AM
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I think if you asked any guy "What should your wife be wearing when you get home from work?" he's going to say "Lingerie". Not "Nothing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:00 AM
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I dunno i hitnk that guy looks cuter at least. And the girl's still really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:37 AM
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Might just call it something else/translates weirdly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:16 AM
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Almost all men my age not only do the old women's roles like washing, cooking, caring and sewing, but do it better and more frequentluy than women of the same age group. This I don't see at all. I thought you were my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 02:18 AM
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They're a packaged deal of 'taking the pill'. You can't just say 'it's not what you actively did therefore it doesn't count'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:57 PM
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Okay? Child support is also firstworldproblems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:56 PM
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Okay, so it's the doctor's problem regardless then she's not being responsible either way is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:55 PM
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And why is all of that other stuff assumed if someone says they uses condoms instead of the rhythm method?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 10:55 PM
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yeh, basically for all the things I care about I would have 100% preferred having been born a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:46 AM
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Also - she's going to need to go to a doctor even if she doesn't get an abortion to give birth anyways. Isn't it still the doctor's problem regardless then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:08 AM
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Ah okay, this is probably the information i was missing @_@ My cycle's always a dumpster fire in terms of knowing where I am, but I know when it starts because I get serious awful cramps on the first day too. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:06 AM
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I can't control my uterus, but that's exactly why the rhythm method is absolute trash for me. Am I less responsible because I use condoms instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:05 AM
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I think sometimes we get lost with the people who assume really bad faith in a lot of arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:04 AM
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:o you a tall girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:44 AM
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How is it their "problem". If you bring your car to a mechanic to change the oil in your car are you making the car the mechanic's "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:02 AM
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Remembering to take a pill every at almost exactly the same time is definitely extra effort for most people though. Forgetting your pills is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:01 AM
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I mean okay, i fyou want to believe depression, lower libido, acne, and a whole host of possible side effects from taking hormonal birth control isn't dealing with consequences or then having to make further effort, I don't think I'm going to convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:00 AM
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You mean like a doctor’s? How is it a doctor's "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:16 AM
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A typical cycle is 28 days. Most women ovulate on the 14th day. If you aren’t typical simply adjust the calendar forward or backwards. Doesn't this still assume that the cycle is still regular, just longer or shorter? I feel like this isn't a viable BC method if your cycle itself doesn't repeat at a regular interval, but differs month to month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:13 AM
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Lifting your hand isn't the hard part - it's dealing with whatever possible side effects from making you rbody think it's constantly pregnant is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:08 AM
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It's called being clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:53 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anglosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 09:29 PM
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Relevent in this chain where I was trying to figure out why you didn't know what ESL was :) Though in general there are some idiosyncrosies of the dating market particular to certain regions around the world, even when we talk mostly about western/anglospheric dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 09:19 PM
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Ah okay, I think ESL is mostly a term used in the US then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 07:59 PM
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you didn't catch the reference did you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 07:07 AM
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But the question wasn't unjustifiable murder vs rape, but murder vs rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:55 AM
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Is it actually though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 04:53 AM
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are you in the UK?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 04:32 AM
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I mean some women definitely feel that way, but some other women definitely don't lol. Why is it lying because women have different opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 05:50 AM
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If this is what you meant then the answer is neither of us as we are both native English speakers. I'm surprised you never heard the term ESL if you're a native speaker. Is that not a program/term outside the states?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:21 AM
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No to give credit - but because a lot of the men gripe on here about all the things they have to do to attract or keep women, but don't realize that most women don't just sit there and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:15 AM
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I mean I'm below that line but your standards are still skeletal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:30 AM
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Men care about the results of make up lol. If you can't see that, I dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:49 AM
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Yeah it's all stuff about a 'beautiful' soul/personality. No one's actually telling them they're physically beautiful the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:13 AM
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Your standards are definitely skeletal. Most girls at 5'6" 135 aren't anywhere remotely near fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:11 AM
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I don't think I ever found C&H all that hilarious imo, even when I read webcomics. I found xkcd good in high school, but idk now, haven't been keeping up. Only web comics I read these days have a contiguous story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:37 AM
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http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/11/14/chapter-2-the-demographics-of-remarriage/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:35 AM
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That doesn't negate my saying the older RPers are more diverse politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:24 AM
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Why is that laughable? ETA: by that logic, by what I see most guys don't buy expensive shit for their GFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:19 AM
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This is definitely anecdotal, but I feel like my parents both socialized, to varying degrees. My mom didn't have too many old friends in the area for some reason (if I had to guess it is in some part due to her being fairly socially awkward and introverted) but she would do the hang out with other moms things. And my dad had high school friends we would all hang out with their families, and the guys all got together and drank beer and played golf and shit. Dunno if it's a cultural difference or …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:56 AM
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What aren't we going to find a lot of here? ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:43 AM
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I think they're trying to say you were trying to shoot out of your league or only crushing on assholes (TRP confirmed /s)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:37 AM
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I mean comparing the experiences my brother and I had, neither of us got beaten at all. Your anecdote isn't the end all be all. neither is gradual's, but at least at this point we've heard stories from many women saying the same. If many men come forward with similar stories to yours i'd say it's a more general thing, but as of now I'd have to believe your experience is more of an outlier (not to say that it isn't terrible, i'm sorry you had to go through that).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:30 AM
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No, I think a lot of right wing has entered RP recently tbh some of the older RPers around here are quite more diverse politically i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:14 AM
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super attractive women and extrapolate this to all women too. yep, apex fallacy. which is hilarious when they then also turn it around on women. kettle calling the pot black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:11 AM
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Oh god an actual good cyanide and happiness strip. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:00 AM
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I dunno, stats say after a divorce men are more likely to get remarried than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:58 AM
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Depends in what ways he's affectionate. If it's affecting my ability to do things I want to do, I will be annoyed. The frequency of which affection isn't or is annoying will vary woman to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:51 AM
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as his arms are literally EXPLODING out of his shirt. You might want to get that checked out bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:45 AM
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Hmmmmm maybe the other way split on my aunt and uncle make sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:43 AM
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So perhaps it'd be not such a problem as an adult. Depends if they work on developing the skills to deal with the things that don't come naturally to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:35 AM
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Midwest town at 80k means it has something going for it, because wtf. This isn't your average midwest town.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:31 AM
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I've definitely done that for some friends as well. You just feel so bad that they have so little shit together. At the same time, helping them in the short run definitely isn't going to help them in the long run. Give a man a fish and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:05 AM
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That's because of the massive imbalance of girls in proximity to the nerdy guys you know. There's plenty of non ace girls that are single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:59 AM
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There's so many of them D:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:57 AM
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Moderation is not expensive. I can point you to Youtube so you can see. Moderation is definitely expensive. The 'natural makeup' look will definitely use a ton of beauty products - pretty comparable to more dramatic makeup even.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:52 AM
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You essentially equated successful dating for women with some level of adherence to the female gender role. I mean, that is what most men will find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:50 AM
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Couldn't you make that same statement to beachredwhine tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:37 AM
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You don't have to date guys who require constant makeup and hair upkeep. There are lots of other men out there who are lower maintenance, but you choose guys who like lots of makeup and perfect hair. Couldn't you also say this the other way too? There's plenty of girls that don't care about expensive shit etc, but most men don't choose to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:33 AM
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Well, we don't know if they did or didn't notice that yet - that isn't the OP after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:32 AM
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Denies liking it, then I discover a video with her smiling as it happens is another. How often does this even happen though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:05 PM
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preservatives. That sounds like an awful idea XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 08:02 AM
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You may not have made that point, but that's what I'm saying they're basing their opinion off of. The fact that they support republican tax policies and want to reduce welfare programs in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:44 AM
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Depends on a variety of factors probably yes. One of them being how far along you are, but probably also just depends woman to woman, even if they're along about the same in their pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:21 AM
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Why do you presume the difficulty is in killing the fetus/baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:19 AM
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I think the reason people claim that are that they turn around and don't support national or government programs that would do those things they claim to care about, which may be more efficient than local efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:40 AM
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It's this weird moralizing that bloops do that has me interested. It's not just bloops, pretty sure some blacks and reds would say that the woman is entitled to expect a grandiose thing for valentines day from her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:15 AM
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are those guys the ones complaining that they're blind sided and don't know why the woman left though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:43 AM
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Not atlas, but some of the black pill I think he might confuse. There's a lot of guys here that confuse pro women/anti men with being feminist/bloop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:54 AM
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100% unconsidered I dunno, this makes me think you might be even though you're being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 11:58 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BuRHW0fBwUw/ you argue like all women can just magically disappear stretch marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:13 AM
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so like a couple months after giving birth kind of thing? took a baby to the swimming pool/beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 03:01 AM
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I think she's similarly "fat" in both photos, it's just how she's posed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:18 AM
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yeah same with my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:09 AM
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wouldn't that be much much later after everything's had time to heal a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:05 AM
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i think emily skye fit is also a good example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:04 AM
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Well, dunno about that, yet agree that I think he meant that women accussed of gold digging != gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:22 AM
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maturnal death rate from having an abortion is close to 90% more than having a vaginal delivery. This sounds like you're only looking at the births that were low risk to start with then. I'd have to assume a lot of* higher risk deliveries end up being non vaginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 05:05 AM
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Right, that's who i'm referring to. Which is why I said gender critical people, not feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:37 AM
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There was a flat earther that used to post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:38 AM
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If I had to venture a guess at least in favor of lejaq - there is at least a higher concentration of gender critical people on this sub than elsewhere on reddit for the most part or irl. Since GC are most often women and women are most often bloop, he might have come to this conclusion (though I'd argue most GC women are going to be red or black pill than blue).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:36 AM
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That's an actual thing though! Don't diss the SCA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:24 AM
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oh god piercings just sound godawful. I had a friend have her earring get ripped out from her ear :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:07 AM
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breaks from here are good sometimes yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:04 AM
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What about a topic like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7j0wmx/cmv_the_women_are_children_trp_notion_isnt_so/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 06:02 AM
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It doesn't, has to do with your flair XD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:57 AM
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Maybe you should start paying Jammerly some rent so she'll be less bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:55 AM
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Nah, guyliner is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 04:22 AM
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Guys can use makeup too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 03:16 AM
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you know I'm not OC right? I'm just curious why you don't think there isn't possibly easy to remove stuff that could get damaged or lost if she moves out early.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 03:15 AM
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Why don't you buy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 02:52 AM
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A woman can also get her make up done at a salon for a reasonable price and in a small amount of time, imagine if men could pay someone 30 or 40 bucks to give them a 6 packed body with something around 1 hour of sitting still at a salon, you just gotta sit there and make yourself look considerably prettier, making your SMV higher without much effort. I agree taht women with money have a shortcut - but this shortcut is very very expensive. That would be like 30-40 bucks every fucking day to look …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:43 AM
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i need friends like you again. everyone's so picky or has dietary restrictions in my group nowadays XD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:40 AM
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The problem I'm stuck with is our friends groups like going out to eat far too often. So you just get piles and piles of leftovers and that makes me very unhappy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:01 AM
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for women the results of make up can be instantaneous If they're naturally good at it. As someone that struggled intensely with figuring out both makeup and working out, they're really orthogonal and one isn't easier than the other. It's constant tim eand effort into both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:56 AM
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It works if there's someone to hold you accountable. Doesn't work if you state it and no one then pressures you to work towards that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:54 AM
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And likewise, men don't wanna hear about or see women applying makeup either.. In a similar vein there's plenty of guys that say "No makeup is better on a woman" but they really mean they want a woman with natural looking makeup and not caked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:53 AM
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Not tall != short. What happened to all the normal height people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:30 PM
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oh god i saw him posting around here again and I just went oh boy...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:03 PM
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Got it. you're welcome then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:01 PM
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I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not. You're welcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:29 AM
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If by "commitment" we mean the promise that the man will not have sex with anyone else, If you're still having sex with a woman even if it's only one woman no one that speaks english natively would call that chastity. They would call it monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:13 AM
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can't tell if /s or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:48 AM
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And you think the majority of women (here) are doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:35 AM
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I understate how small the userbase overlap is? I know some of the people that read and some that participate at gender critical - a lot of their relation to that sub is that lib fem has it wrong that men and women are mostly alike and that trans women aren't women. Their views are gender essentialist, they don't expect men's sympathy nor empathy. There's a lot more of them here than possibly IRL, but it's still not the majority afaik. Maybe you'd have to do a sub census tho. It's also basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:35 AM
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male feminists != radical fems. I don't think most people knew about the 'kill all men' thing, nor would they agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:29 AM
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This place is something of a sick addiction that's hard to quit completely. This I can agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:09 AM
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It's not hard to feel sympathy for homeless and the bad situations they're in, it's another level to actually talk to homeless people and do something than just feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:14 AM
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Then what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:11 AM
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Look on r/gendercritical - there is significant female membership intersect there. So you're looking at a small minority of a small minority of people and then drawing broad conclusions? I expected better from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:52 AM
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radical feminists get tons of sympathy from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:47 AM
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Wow, I know people round up but going up like 5-4 inches is kind of a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:34 AM
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did you mean tongue in cheek?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:37 PM
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tbf it's mainly iamsam and I haven't seen him around that much lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:41 AM
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That happened well before 2008/9 though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:31 AM
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Don't think it would work if the beta/chad hadn't worked out how to get RMV/SMV up from nothing vs. just having the skills. Teaching others is a skill in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:57 AM
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Women (like men) go to the job with the best "Overall package of benefits for them, and the lowest overall package of costs for them". So I agree that women do that now, but in large part because of childbirth. They don't want them just because, but that they are necessary things to have if you need to take time off to give birth and then take care of children. There's also a bit of it that employers will give mothers more time than fathers for this endeavor or more easily give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:44 PM
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Mercedes? I'd always assumed it was randos browsing on mw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:26 PM
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Yeah I really wanna know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:19 PM
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croissants are delicious tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:02 PM
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So yeah, when you snap and scream that "all men are pigs" I AM GIVING YOU A FAVOUR by asking if you're on your period. who tf does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:35 AM
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Not having to stick something inside myself once a month tbf it doesn't have to go inside you, there's exterior items for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:57 AM
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You do realize you are allowed to wear any pants That's called wearing poorly fitting clothing. You either end up with a waist way too big or a really tight hip/crotch. ETA: or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:50 AM
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To them it feels very much that the girl has restrictions set on her the boy doesn't have. That he has the privilege of a much wider leeway. 100% this. I was very salty for a long time because my younger brother got to do a lot of things I wasn't allowed. Couldn't take a low skill waitressing job but my brother sure as hell could deliver pizzas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:45 AM
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It might still hurt the person being cheated it, but is that how you're really going to define cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:55 AM
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We don't even normalize touch how would we normalize ass slapping. And both those are pretty aggressive to me imo. hard slaps to an ass would be equally aggravating as someone intentionally knocking into my head. Also in America all of that would technically be battery so they could file charges for something that's hard, so bad idea in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:11 AM
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It doesn't seem like a greater privilege to you because you have it. You don't have to work out just to be able to open jars. Those are still distinctly advantages. You can't just claim it's a difference and not an actual advantage. It's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:04 AM
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The lack of emotional stability is not from being coddled, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:22 AM
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If a man just slaps your ass, but then he says sorry when you looked pissed, I don't really feel too bad for the woman in that case. Why not? Would you not be upset if someone just knocked you up the head but then apologized when you glared at them angrily?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:17 AM
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How is having low expectations a bad thing? Low expectations means that you aren't at the forefront of their mind of who should do this super important project that gives you lots of career advancement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:14 AM
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Well even if he was annoying he was also amusing to read. Ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:13 AM
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Ex. how would that convo go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:05 AM
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Am I though? What most nagging you encounter then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:14 AM
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Greater strength is like the easiest one. Not having periods. Ask something harder man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:23 AM
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Hmmmm bathroom is actually probably more like 3 months or something. I can stand it being pretty dirty at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:46 PM
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'dirty' as in dishes piling up in the sink unwashed, floors being unswept, bathrooms being at least surface level cleaned and things like sheet washing being done. Dishes are the most egregious, since week is like the upper limit, where as the upper limit for bathroom and sheet washing is more like a month. But I've left dishes after I'd gotten the past like 4 or 5 batches in the hopes of someone else picking them up around for like 2 weeks with them not moving 1 inch. I haven't gotten anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:45 PM
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Are you saying most men are retards? It's mildly annoying but it's not a dumb thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:48 AM
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Is sublime saying that the OP's right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:45 AM
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Sure, that's an assumption I made. But I think it's a reasonable assumption, considering most 'nagging' is about stuff the other person said they'd do, just aren't doing at that moment or according to whatever expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:37 AM
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Well I can leave a house dirty for like a week and then get unhappy. but even if I just leave stuff dirty for like a month tho, neither of my roommates seemed to notice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:18 AM
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Okay, sure. But I think the point of the original comment isn't where a guy says no the first time, but instead said some form of yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:57 AM
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Okay, then the person is still escalating, they're just leaving not nagging lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:51 AM
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I'm unsure of how this counter example would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:46 AM
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Marriages are partnerships, and while I think it's bad character to keep score and play it tit for tat, both people should be bringing something of worth to the table. If one person starts slacking and not pulling their weight as a partner, nagging is one response. I think usually people nag when all other forms of communication (asking nicely, for instance) have failed over and over again. Because the rest of her initial response which you ignored. If in a partnership a reasonable request is me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:42 AM
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Because some can only stand it for half day while others can stand it for an entire week. Or an eternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:31 AM
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Okay I could agree with that definition. I'm still not sure why you would think you could easily extrapolate that to mean most women have different paramters for who they LTR vs casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:35 AM
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I would argue that list is a mix of SMV and RMV traits - social maturity in particular would be RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:58 AM
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I'm insulting their argument and behavior Isn't that technically against the rules? Not being civil?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:34 AM
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What percentage of women do you believe have sex with men who they don't ultimately end up marrying before settling down? That would have to be the vast majority of women with n > 1 no? How would that be a meaningful distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:30 AM
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It's not assumption free, but the man providing a home for her is explicitly excluded from her example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:21 AM
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You didn't say 75% full in your original post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:18 AM
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ohhhh that sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:41 PM
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make a hamburger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:18 PM
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Do you think intel is doing it just because? Or do you think they might expect positive returns on their investment? How is that shaming anyone that disagrees with whatever you listed. It lists a reason why women are less represented in stem. I get the feeling you're just commenting on this issue from the sides because as a woman in stem, sexism is a small part of the problem, but most of us acknowledge it's about getting young girls interested in STEM from a young age, adjusting our attitudes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:30 PM
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Okay I can give you quotas for like one place over in california, where do you see them arguing for lower standards, or having the government or corporations spend hundreds of millions in outreach.corportations spend money on things that give them positive returns. Define shaming, and define where this constant shaming happens beyond some talk pieces on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:23 AM
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s, " If women want to be in STEM, they'll have to fight for it like the way men do. .. And what do you think Women in stem creating support groups and fighting for change are trying to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:50 PM
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The only time it makes sense for multiple individuals to share property is when they are joint owners of a company whose assets are liquid and can thus be evenly distributed amongst them. You can easily say you both own half of the company in terms of shares but half of a TV? How does that even work; the problem with a TV is if you cut it in half both parts become worthless. The same way you handle the house - asses it's liquid asset value and divide by who gets the tv and who gets liquid assets…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:48 PM
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And women are more likely to make that choice than men are. I disagree. They seem equally likely imo, the women that want lots of children are probably more able to just have more tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:57 AM
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No that's high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:53 AM
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There's always other things you can do with money lol. I already spend 20k for myself living near the city. With my partner we're spending probably close to 50k just for the 2 of us yearly. Buttload of kids is like 5-6 or more (In fact the commenter you were responding to said 7). Living in the heart of the Boston area if you want to give each of those kids their own room will definitely be at least 4-5k a month in rent or a large mortgage. Even being frugal it'll probably be at least $1/day to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:14 AM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/02/16/when-to-stop-dating-and-settle-down-according-to-math/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.cba4cbb47547 I think you might be looking for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:09 AM
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tbf average person is overweight tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:18 AM
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nobody I've met in real life has ever complained about falling into a toilet ... I may have done this kind of before. Just sat on the icky bowl without a seat tho, not straight up falling in >.>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:03 AM
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Unless you make a lot of money regularly being in Boston and raising kids there is gonna take a hefty chunk of your paycheck, unless you're gonna stuff a bunch of them in the same room and live in a shittier school district.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:25 AM
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But I rarely come across women like that in Boston. If you stay in Boston you sure as hell can't have a buttload of kids COL is way too fucking expensive here. So they'd all move further out anyways and then you wouldn't see them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:04 AM
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so longa s you aren't plannin gon sending them all to expensive schools, children aren't that much more expensive. also pretty sure mellifluous isn't a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:03 AM
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yeah the guy submitted because of a warrant, but i didn't see anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:28 AM
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High N women are less likely to be faithful and less likely to be able to sustain a marriage. Could you tell me where you found these stats? Only thing I've seen didn't really differentiate after like 7 partners or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:22 AM
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The fact that men are, on average, fatter than women implies that it's harder for men. Isn't it easier for fatter people to lose weight faster?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:33 AM
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I think I probably had beta orbiter ish friends in high school and a bit in college, but I just have a curated group of partnered off friends at this point. Being able to find a Friend (as the OP defines it, someone you could hang out one on one with) is difficult regardless of their gender imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:37 AM
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But as others have said, the prescense of alternate accounts limit the usefulness of this tool. As long as there is only a small number of people doing that, it's still useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:03 AM
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when tf did this happen ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:54 AM
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Why does 'caring' mean 'plans things to do with you'. I mean, this is all your perogative, so I'm not trying to convince you that you're wrong btw, just explaining my view (and possibly your fiance's) of why what you did seems somewhat overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:32 AM
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I do get it, but dropping a friend entirely like that isn't really necessary imo? I'm basically saying I don't understand the kind of person that puts in the effort to entirely cut someone out of their life when their only complaint is 'i have to plan everything we do together'. Just stop planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:34 AM
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Did you miss the part where I said I make plans with the people more introverted than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:42 AM
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I would actually agree that it's harsh and a bit of an overreaction - there are friends more extro than me and i'll def hang out with them when they wanna make plans and hang out. But I don't make plans with them because I don't know when they tend to be busy and i don't generally like making plans anyways. The friends I make plans with I would never see if I didn't make plans because they're even more introverted than me. At least that's my case, idk with yours. I'd be sad if a friend dropped m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:40 AM
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okay... but you should read the chain of comments that leads down this because then you'd know what the original commenter was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:36 AM
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Yes... which is the whole point of women fucking fuckbois when they are explicitly looking for just dick not a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:22 PM
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For all the shit I give you at times I do appreciate your point of view in this subreddit LeJaq :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:35 PM
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There ar eplenty of clingy guys around apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 09:29 PM
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Wasn't sublime's whole point that women are at least taking some responsibility though? Not that they're 'taking responsibility' but just not that they 'aren't taking responsibility at all'. This seems significant enough to indicate that women are somewhat taking responsibility, and how else would it be but vis a vis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:16 PM
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I was assuming the whore referred to any woman who don't go after men for child support and was confused at that before lejaq clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:25 AM
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sweaty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:58 AM
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What kind of 'raw' data are you looking for. I don't care whether women desire it, I care about whether it's true or not that 'women are/aren't taking responsibility' as this comment chain started.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:57 AM
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Oh, the context of the larger convo sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:56 AM
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But to be nice, the chart in here shows a decent increase in 'breadwinner' and 'co-breadwinner' mothers https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/women/reports/2016/12/19/295203/breadwinning-mothers-are-increasingly-the-u-s-norm/ Regardless of how they define the phrase, it is self consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:37 AM
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Wouldn't the first commenter in the chain have the burden of proof, considering they first made the claim that women aren't taking more responsibility today?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:31 AM
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Regardless of what women want how would it not be them taking responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:12 AM
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Would you agree in full if they instead said women were far less able than men to secure good jobs with top pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:04 AM
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But you understand why that seems pedantic and why sublime then doesn't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:53 AM
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Regardless of the definition of breadwinner you guys use - would you agree that 30% of women making 51% or more of the household income be women to at least some degree 'taking responsibility'?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:45 AM
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That would also be similar for male breadwinners tho as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:40 AM
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tf? where tf do you work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:33 AM
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...? Well that's rude to assume the woman's a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:31 AM
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That's fair, but even saying 'based on context' seems to imply that we know they don't hold issues with the other. Guess it's just two way s of readin git tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:06 AM
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I don't see a score so -shrugs-
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:06 AM
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They'll have no problem throwing you in jail for contempt of court. One of the reasons I know people who haven't gone after exes for child support through the court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:00 AM
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I also don't understand how his comment makes sense in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:45 AM
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You don't know whether they hold issues with the mom or not tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:44 AM
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average unstable girls are prob preferred over average stable girls I think, is where you find the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:44 AM
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I wonder if the guy's had paternity tests done even just to make sure. Apparently 97-98% of men with CF are infertile, but maybe he's also in the 2-3%, i can't tell from what the OP's given so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:40 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:27 AM
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wet blanket wet blankets unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:15 AM
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3 inches isn't very far... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:12 AM
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All office workers know of the dreaded "Air conditioning" concession. You know where the female contingent of an office, that always wear to little clothing, complain its cold. Another example of females refusing to take accountability for their actions. "I wear paper thin clothing and skirts, its cold not because I dressed myself in paper thin clothing...its cold because its cold. The entire office needs to be 80 degrees F all day!" I was going to give you props for your entire statement, but c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:03 AM
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Then the females turn around and demand concessions for themselves under the premise of being delicate flowers. What concessions are women demanding in the work place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:10 PM
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I really don't think they're going to do much research even if you say it's 'easy'. The first results in searching how to commit suicide is all suicide hotlines XD Maybe my search results are biased or yours are, but that's clearly not the 4th result for all people contemplating suicide. I'm not saying it's one day. But it's a culmination of negative emotions, during which you don't necessarily contemplate how to commit suicide the entire time, even if they are contemplating it. Most people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:47 PM
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Which is why it's a secondary statement, but now I'm actually curious what percent of all suicides are still by guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:41 PM
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Because of power tho, not their criminality i would assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:23 AM
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Do you think anyone trying to commit suicide is doing extensive research on stuff? I think most of them are volatile emotionally and therefore commit suicide by what they remember others doing. Otherwise, why wouldn't anyone bother with guns, hanging, pills, jumping off buildings/bridges etc. ETA: I said anyone, meant most...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:14 AM
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I would disagree with that, I think the more likely explanation for most cases is that women are more conscientious of how they present themselves and the amount of work leftover for other people when they're dead. Also in part because of how much access they have to pills/poison vs guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:56 AM
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I thought a lot of that was because the methods women use are less successful than the methods men use, not that they're just faking it or bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:35 AM
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There was a rice we made that goes with halal style chicken that was turmeric, cumin, coriander, and butter and that was delicious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:25 AM
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Well he doesn't mention it in the OP that women complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:13 AM
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But I'm usually very skeptical of women who claim they had absolutely no idea a male friend had feelings for her. I'm more inclined to believe them if they're younger, say teenager and younger. Once you start hitting around 18, it'll be iffy but if you're all out of school and college I'll seriously doubt that you didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:12 AM
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Chads are now 5'7"+? some low standards there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:42 AM
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Well I am sick at the moment - you're right i accidentally did add a most to the first part. But the way it's worded you make it sound like it is the majority opinion and that the ones breaking rank are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 11:08 PM
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Your claim is that TBP was mostly saying being labeled creepy is illegitimate, but I see mostly more nuanced positions of this is a) not gendered and b) dicussions of giving leeway not only to young inexperienced men, but also young inexperienced women as well. SearchLights myb. Only name i recognized was decoy, but I guess I"m not around enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:59 PM
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The comment chain you linked... I have seen none of those users? SearchLightsInc and JoshTheWebDev are new to me, so they're either new users here or they're TBP only. Also upon reading the tbp thread in full, most of the comments seem to be much more nuanced than 'being labeled creepy is an illegitimate fear'...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:41 PM
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I still have to say no. :P I mean I've gotten over it now but there's still low level requirements of being in the game for lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:38 PM
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men ask women out yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:02 AM
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Aw :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:15 AM
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I did, just not sure if in this thread instances of BP will refer to TBP only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:15 AM
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I mean I guess I could stay inside all day and not talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:11 AM
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I can't stay out of the game people keep forcing me back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:27 PM
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BP's chagrin So you're saying TBPer's chagrin? Because none of the bloops here have expressed an opinion that's remotely near 'men approaching women is creepy, they need to stop entirely to not make women uncomfortable'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:26 PM
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Yeah, or follows me back towards my dorms when I know he doesn't live there...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:24 PM
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It doesn't even have to be exxagerated, a guy could have come off genuinely creepy to a girl, but it may not even be a shared opinion fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:23 PM
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Are women calling men creepy because women have to reject men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:19 PM
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Well, let's agree to disagree on that part :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:03 PM
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Streams of conciousness are difficult for other people to digest. The benefit is that you get actual answers, yes. If you can't be concise in your points people won't be bothered to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:02 PM
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Okay, so they're immature to you then still, but at least they get shit done? I could accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:41 AM
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You could just put breaks in some parts of your your text where you feel there's a transition in thought. Look for the biggest transitions if you feel like it's supposed to be one. Long things are hard to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:39 AM
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I think they're usually done through surveys but I have to look at the numbers again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:38 AM
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Both men and women, for whatever reasons specific to their case and trial, have been given too much and too little time. There's no argument here. The one thing is there are some studies that attempt to make apples to apples comparisons of of crimes committed where gender should be the only factor - and women apparently still get lighter sentences. I still have to read these studies, but someone that I thought was reasonable seemed to have read them and cited them so i'm slightly inclined to bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:29 AM
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I think they're trying to pull an iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:22 AM
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We’ve been over the false accusations stats time and time again, they only refer to accusations proven false (it’s very hard to prove a negative) and in no wa imply there are rapists getting away with it frequently I don't think they mentioned the stats, just that it happens fairly frequently. Even if we say that a large portion of accusations are actually false, there's a large number of rapes and sexual assaults that also don't get reported so I dunno that it'd be incorrect to say that many me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:21 AM
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Apparently we don't tho, because i know people who bitch and whine about shit and then get shit done. What is it called when there's action after the bitching and whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:07 AM
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Okay that assumes they don't also act on them, why can't they bitch about something. why does bitching itself make someone emotionally immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:15 AM
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Lots of people confuse child support + alimony for one thing, and even if it's rare it's still something that can drastically negatively affect men, so ofc they'll talk about it. It's like how rape/sexual assault is a huge topic in feminism when rape isn't that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:56 AM
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tbf a lot of us also ask them who hurt them when t hey say that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:44 AM
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If a guy has taken care of himself he'll still look good This is also somewhat true of women in their 50's fwiw. My parents both look pretty good and they're starting to approach 60 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:27 AM
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female supremacist what does this mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:14 AM
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Doesn't seem right which way? That sounds about right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:03 PM
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women are always complaining, moaning, bitchin' and crying over everything big and small. It is women who are emotionally immature Why does that make someone emotionally immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:45 PM
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paragraphs make it easier to consume content. It's to your benefit just as much as it is to anyone who is reading your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:43 PM
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I fucking hate angry crying. :<
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:33 PM
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You can OD, That is the primary method by which women attempt suicide you know right? And why wouldn't the cleanup be important? You feel like a piece of shit that no one wants, but you really want to be mean back to the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:29 PM
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Yeah I saw one of my cousin's ex's punch a hole in the wall before. Rare in my life, but it still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:22 PM
2

why are you so angry at women who say 'dont'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:10 PM
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That's a little bit shitty. I would think he should at least be willing to try and tell them to cool it with NYE bashing, but w/e floats you guys boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:38 PM
1

I agree in part with both you and OP so i don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:36 PM
1

Your post begins with an incorrect premise. We believe that women being able to use that child support money for anything they choose is wrong. You suppose that all of the people who oppose CS/alimony are doing so for that reason tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:02 PM
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I feel like everyone's focusing on the she's not enjoying christmas part but if i had to guess the bigger thorn is that they shit on NYE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:59 PM
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I hate that I am expected to care about a holiday I don’t celebrate but they have no issue shitting on a holiday I do celebrate. It’s fucking annoying. have you talked with him about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:58 PM
1

But that analogy doesn't really work because the car doesn't have a say in anything. This is your SO wanting to fcuk someone else in the hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:34 AM
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Okay, well I'm assuming you'd give a different response for healthy debate then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:34 AM
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Don't cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:33 AM
0

No, but I'm not making that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:17 AM
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No, but this isn't about letting some random other person cheat on you, it's your SO. You should know them, just as you know them enough to let them take your car and not crash it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:17 AM
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If you still don't believe in abortion, then you can dump her if she ends up being pregnant. Okay, and why would someone want this end state?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:04 AM
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And it's the worst thing for fostering healthy debate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:59 AM
-1

tbf, we kind of do let some people do that. A SO for instance would be able to probably take your car and it'll probably come back fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:56 AM
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Because that is the definition of monogamous. Are you asking why everyone isn't just poly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:55 AM
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the fuck? smoogs why would that be your serious answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:45 AM
2

BiggerD (or any of his half a billion alts as much as I can find him annoying at times, I don't think he has any alts. who are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 05:28 PM
1

Cowboy bebop, baccanno, and miyazaki are what I recommend to people who are new to anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:41 PM
2

But it in the right circumstances, is perfect to do a job. And in a lot of circumstances it's completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:40 AM
5

Yeah wtf the extremities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:37 AM
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Common law isn't everywhere in the US. Also why would you have to spend all that much money by getting paper married? Most people would be saving money when they do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:33 AM
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Yeah that's exactly the kind of shit that gets them thrown out entirely lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:27 AM
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I mean the exact argument as presented (whether it applies mostly to ppd women or not is another issue) is annoying because it's taking personal experience to say something doesn't exist, but that isn't lying. I'm wondering what the user was trying to actually say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:47 AM
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Well, we're also punished by men and other women when we speak directly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:02 AM
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and as a fetus Don't know how you would do this, but would be interesting. I wonder if this is what might partially affect how people end up trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:47 AM
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I guess we could ask atlas for clarification but I tend to assume (for the most part sometimes I slip back) that people are talking in generalities and not actually talking about all/no when they make generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:45 AM
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Which part is lying in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:43 AM
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Lots of us grew up in a time when this was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:16 AM
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The question still applies - how many selection criteria are necessary, and why do they have to be the same for every person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:16 AM
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No one cares because people like you believe that women and women's problems are more important than men. This is hilarious because LeJac is so far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:33 AM
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But they're not common at all in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:57 AM
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Still highly organized when it's some weird americanized thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:52 AM
1

Copy other people's body language. Stare at yourself in the mirror and figure out what you're doing differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 07:09 AM
1

Are we actually sure on the autism occurs more in men than in women? I know there were things th rown around that autism is diagnosed more often in boys than girls, but idk about actually having.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 07:05 AM
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Cowboy Bebop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:31 AM
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Nope don't go there there's nothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:26 AM
1

MIT is free for families who make less than like 100k or something and is graduated from there on. It's really not a gimmick lol. Boston college can't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 05:51 AM
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I think the pin the authors were making was that these actions are attractive regardless of feminist beliefs. is what she was responding to when she said that. If the authors want to make the leap that feminist beliefs (the vast majority of them as held by the vast majority of feminists) will cause women to dislike 'sexist' men, then yes atlas is accurate in saying that the majority of feminism and feminists do not dictate what women should find sexually attractive. You are correct on a technica…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:32 AM
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50/60? I just mean that men die earlier on average, unless you're saying younger guys like people starting to look like their grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:30 AM
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If you started with this wiki article you would have had more legs to stand on. But even if, do you think the majority of the feminists polled in that study are second wave/rad fem and hold those beliefs enough to effect the results?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:59 PM
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Women have a larger dating pool on average than men of the same age, regardless of age. The gap will close a bit, but never completely. Might be true around 35, but maybe around 50/60 it does flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:14 PM
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how are you defining 'attracted' because that statement makes no sense. Atlas clarified specifically 'sexually attracted', since that is what your op is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:17 PM
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She used to for a while but presumably got bored of it or something. She does continue to clarify where people have some RP concept entirely wrong iirc, but I'm also not around that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:15 PM
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Plus there are plenty of feminists who believe that all PIV sex is rape. How is that correlated to talking about what women are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:12 PM
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She has also defended parts of RP before. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:18 PM
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That's not how words work. stating that someone is a pro-male feminist implies that they have more pro-male views than the average person, not that they are just more pro-male than someone who is anti-male. Someone that is more pro-male than someone who is anti-male is also not necessarily pro-male (in fact they could still be someone anti-male), but there's also a neutral ground before getting to pro-male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 09:27 AM
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I don't think Electra identifies as feminist, but i'm not sure on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:24 AM
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She does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:46 AM
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Why is the negation of anti-male necessarily pro-male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:45 AM
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Well you should read the context of whatever questions you answer because that IS what i was asking the OC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:49 AM
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laws would compel them to some degree. But did you read your source? A lot of the reason that lesbians in relationships don't get help isn't anything about not having resources necessarily, but also about not wanting to be outed to their community/homophobia. How should feminists address that, beyond the work that intersectional feminism tried to lend to having LGBTQ more accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:43 PM
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No I don't like the tender years doctrine don't put words in my mouth. How is the tender years doctrine women getting 'legal protections from men because we can't protect ourselves against them'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:38 PM
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Okay in what fashion? People are going to act according to what they expect of people based on a lot of stereotypes because that's just how human understand the world. It's annoying and sometimes cruel or terrible, but that's more on how people react to stereotypes than the stereotypes themselves that are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:37 PM
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I don't think that's what they're necessarily doing though. They made this distinction in the OP: To me, submissive people are kind of annoying, they can't form their own opinions, they're insecure and too eager to please, regardless of what their own personal pleasures are. They suck at communication and tend to resort to passivity when situations get tense. Where as in this thread he's talking subs in the bdsm/kink community. He makes a distinction between sexual submission in bdsm/kink vs. a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:03 AM
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Oh I didn't know what comment he was referring to above - but I was referring to Priene, DagaYamar, YaAmar, etc. But cool to know that it's actually oncle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:01 AM
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okay in what way? That we act according to the stereotypes we expect from people until we know more about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:00 AM
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That was at a time when men by default got custody. I don't see how that's 'legal protections from men because we can't protect ourselves against them'. Duluth model I will give you though, and that should change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 11:58 PM
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An actual feminist website points out "that 30% of lesbians have reported sexual assault / rape by another woman (Renzetti, 1992)." By another woman - In other words you're spouting outright horseshit here. Hm, this is interesting but I'm not sure how we should address this. What's the conversation you think we should be having here? On the other hand, this is also from like the early to late 90's and a lot has changed since then. Do you know if there are any more recent numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 11:57 PM
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Gaslighting is a part of it yes, but there's more than just gaslighting most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:55 PM
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Is he also OncleJulian? I wonder what happened to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:51 PM
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The op has a background in the bdsm and kink communities, and doesn't understand some of the other mens' definitions of submissive. Unless there's some comments I missed that make you think that he's confused in this entire thread and is applying bdsm/kink sub all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:47 PM
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It’s men without degrees and marketable skills who are suffering. Who’s to blame for that? To some degree our school system fails boys more than women, but that's part and parcel with cookie cutter education to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:23 PM
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They're not mutually exclusive, but I think they're saying it's a step further than them acting like it is, it IS a reflection as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:20 PM
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The context of this chain was about sexual bdsm and kink communities and fake doms in them so yes, they were talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:05 PM
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Mine aren't onesey twosey semantic examples either. Nursing is mostly women and a very large field, and involves a lot of dirty and sometimes dangerous work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:22 PM
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Also if they just starve You say that like people will just let themselves starve instead of trying crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:07 PM
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I'm just saying it's a disingenuous comparison to say 'women are only retail workers hurrr men work all the hard jobs'. Yes, men work the lion's share of some dangerous and dirty jobs. but there's plenty of dirty jobs that women work as well (people have said nursing before is actually pretty bad) they're just not acknowledged that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:06 PM
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That would be because I'm not a lawyer and have never claimed to be one? I'm pretty sure crackrock was trying to talk about atlas and sublime for some reason, and they've definitely studied law...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 10:03 PM
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This is what people always say - but really you just end up with more criminals in the streets because they'll resort to stealing or other petty to heavy crime to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:03 PM
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Depends on what the issues is between parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:57 PM
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Guess I haven't been commenting enough then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:51 PM
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Me and crackrock: literally never seen or heard of these chicks in our lives Right it's the UMC vs prole bent again. Just like most of the baby mommas people mock haven't seen the steady beta working an engineering job, ya'll haven't seen us either. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:25 PM
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however there is a big difference between folding shirts at Target For all the bitching people do about retail workers, unless someone gives me numbers I'm going to assume the retail workforce is split pretty evenly...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:23 PM
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Right I think most divorces go more like yours than completely acrimonious, angels. But I don't have any stats to say whether that's the case or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:19 PM
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If the man earns 70%, he should get 70% of marital assets in divorce. So how do you compensate the value a stay at home parent or the like brings into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:18 PM
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I have no proof to show you but I can't tell you how incredibly wrong you are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 07:15 PM
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Sorry what does that mean in the context of this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:42 PM
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a lot of it tends to be along the lines of what people may have experienced or heard others experience yes, it's how stereotypes appear. If they've encountered a lot of guys who would say things like that but then act the opposite, they'd probably be suspicious of 'men'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:32 PM
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And you're saying feminists wrote all of them in?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:07 AM
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Fighting isn't guaranteed failure - you can see this from the large number of cases where men have primary or sole custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:07 AM
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Depends how it's said and who says it. If it's saying they don't want some of the slut tells (would prefer a girl who doesn't party, or I think sex is special and I'd like a partner that shares that viewpoint) people would be understanding, so long as their actions also match what they're looking for. A party guy or cad that says that i think people would side eye a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:43 AM
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Why the fuck as a man would I fight for something I have no chance of winning? Because not fighting is guaranteed failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:38 AM
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duluth model isn't arrest the man but arrest the person more likely to cause harm in a situation or something. Which, taking size into account is almost always the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:38 AM
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but they are masculine traits at their core. Why is independence masculine at its core?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:29 AM
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“We want legal protections from men because we can’t protect ourselves against them.” Sorry what's this referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:24 AM
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1070?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:19 AM
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Then the quote is meaningless in this discussion in the context of dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 05:18 AM
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STEM nerds friendless or has a small social circle of sperg-nerd friends It's okay I'll take them :3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 03:35 AM
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Yeah it's a little ironic. Fun to talk about, but I don't want to label people. The traits themselves are fine, it's categorizing that gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:17 AM
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Not so much a wall as a slope for most people. Most don't crash that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:16 AM
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because things are easier that way, That... seems like an odd way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:06 AM
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Okay, well you've got me she dated one guy. So I'm wrong, but boyfriends is technically wrong :P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:19 AM
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I don't think most of us are complaining, just stating that it doesn't seem to be this 'hard fact of life' that some RPers pass it off as.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:13 AM
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I don't care what you do, I don't know you personally. If I knew you irl and you had some positive qualities I may care about you personally. I don't see how telling you that the only thing you can do in life is try or just stop caring - it's literally all you can do. I'm not telling you it's easy either - where do I say that it's simple? It's just all you can do, and I'm telling you it's going to be hard. If you can't do it yourself, try to find someone who can help you. Yes it sucks you were b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:10 AM
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Hm, I might have to look this up, i thought male birth rate is naturally slightly higher except in poorer areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:45 AM
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Nothing, I don't particularly care to date. Answering here because it's more non answer-y than answer-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:13 AM
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That's a lot of words to say there are dumb feminists. I'm egalitarian myself, but I don't expect feminism as a platform to advocate for men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:09 AM
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Nope the OP is about 'good men' and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:03 AM
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Even Lizzle Velasquez has found boyfriends, though it is in dispute now whether she's engaged to be married. Did you even watch the video you link around. She said she hadn't dated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:02 AM
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There are slightly more women than men in the world; I thought this was because of old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:32 AM
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Love it how all women who complain about thi complain about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:58 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you :( I guess it was well intentioned but I don't think I've ever met a guy who would do this thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:01 AM
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I mean I don't think it's a particularly useful for anyone for incels to complain about their predicament. What do you want people to do? Do you want women to pity date you? People to pity friend you? I could tell you an empty platitude like 'you'll find someone that likes you for you', but the truth is it will probably be work for you to make friends, and it'll be work to date. Whether it's worth it for you to try and find the small percent of people that might be okay with you without much cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:29 AM
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I know Carkudo was like that for a long time thinking he'd be incel forever but he did find someone. I guess it might not be reasonable to say keep hoping, but I hope you can find some contentment in life. Is there anything you like doing at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:46 AM
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Sorry I didn't mean it that way. The bullying is on the bullies, but you can change your response to that bullying/your experiences with time and effort. It will be difficult, but it's still the only options people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:04 AM
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What cases are you talking about? Haven't seen much of this where a guy is the only one to face repercussions when it's just drunk sex - most things I see something happening there's other mitigating circumstances that point to less savory behavior on one side or the other (def for law, and for a lot of college tribunals too).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:56 AM
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You have all the power to change who you are. Control your weirdness or find people who accept it. Yeah it's more work than maybe some other people have to exert, but it's all on you to change it if you want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:55 AM
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I don't think being average or below is quite an advantage in getting a 'good' guy. That's really not the only thing she needs to know....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:54 AM
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half of women will be born only average or below. Access to the internet doesn't mean you have the time or know how to use it to your advantage . That is a skill you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:08 AM
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I thought you weren't coming back :o
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:31 AM
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Well we're telling you that this is one of those moment were most people have empathy because that is a very difficult situation to start in. It's unreasonable to expect these women to have ended up wasting an advantage they didn't really have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:29 AM
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I would have to go searching, and a bit busy now, but I guess I'll report if I ever find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:28 AM
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I guess I should have been more clear that it was my point XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:27 AM
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Guitars and sardonis are two red guys I'll miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 05:17 AM
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Fucking MRAs are pathetic. Not all MRAs! Just that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:47 AM
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It never seems to occur to them that you wouldn't meet someone's standards. Pretty sure this is what I hear a lot of women say about men hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:45 AM
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The guy who lets his GF support him through medical school and then dumps her Is this like a trope? My dad specifically told me to be careful of something like this many years ago. Big news article or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:44 AM
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I'm just saying that's why we can call you out on you saying 'men only need x' when we're saying we observe diff, and why we can still call you guys out for doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 03:16 AM
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If it was the third one is it really a cherry pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:47 AM
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I would go ESXP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:45 AM
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All covers are permitted except the pentatonix one. Now I have to listen because I like most of their christmas song covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:41 AM
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i thought that just ended up with both students expelled in that kind of situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:33 AM
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Do you remember steubenville?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:30 AM
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Equality for women -> raising women in places where they are inequal. Because they don't address inequalities where men are lower, it maybe look like that yes. But by definition/application it is not for female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:27 AM
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Most of the women are fine with men speaking for how women behavior looks to men. Most of them disagree with what men think are internal motivations for women's behavior and the extrapolations that occur. Behavior and internal motivations are diff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:24 AM
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Does it make it any better to admit that you're undereducated? I guess we could lower standards of what to expect from you. But I don't understand what's happening in this chain right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:23 AM
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Because feminists always claim that feminism is about equality for BOTH genders. I think this might be false - Feminism by definition is equality for WOMEN and the extra claim is there are benefits for men too by dismantling the patriarchy. But maybe there's enough people claiming feminism is about equality for everyone nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:18 AM
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do you date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:02 AM
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Okay, I could probably go for that then. Thanks for the clarification :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:58 AM
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Why don't you have friends? That should be entirely in your control at least. ETA: Also, those women aren't really desirable though tbf, even if their standards aren't that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:57 AM
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Also, yes go-getter is the polar opposite of deadbeat, but just being able to maintain something, not having to actively get better and better would be good enough i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:00 AM
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I feel like those are the basics of being a decent human (and this is definitely personal bias, but everyone I know basically meets those basics with very few exceptions), but I guess if you're pretty far down that could be difficult as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:57 AM
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It's not meant as a bad thing, I just needed to clarify the point I was trying to make. Also do you mean parralel? Orthogonal would imply that 'good' is regardless of 'upstanding,kind, moral'. And I don't think they complain that the previous man lacked being upstanding, kind, moral, but that they weren't even at neutral. I agree with Texas's comment somewhere in this post where most of the women that WHATGMG complain about are the ones that don't run into 'upstanding/kind/moral' guys on a regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:57 PM
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I'm not even talking about stuff, but does the non leaving partner preferentially get the kids or something if you leave as well. Because that was one of the reasons women didn't want to leave abusive relationships way long time ago when what you're proposing was kind of also the case. Women could leave a marriage, get nothing and be like a spinster but they also don't get the kids, and if the woman would have wanted to leave because of domestic abuse that also applied to the kids, the kids woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:53 PM
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Do you have numbers on this? I would guess it also depends on how long they act as an escort, but it just seems like a strange number to me. seems like it should fall lower or way higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:49 PM
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No I mean, asking whether it was a black club or not in brasil. I don't know if race in brasil has any bearing on how they dance (like do 'black clubs' in brasil dance more similarly to a black club in america, or are the black clubs and white clubs similar in dance style in brasil.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 07:06 PM
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I mean I can understand how someone could get that from some of the blue pillers, but I also don't argue with most of them so sure maybe that's how blue pillers in general come across, but that hasn't been what I've read. I will agree I prob give bloops more benefit of the doubt in what they're saying as an unconscious bias. But I think the same is prob said for terps in that way, and I guess it's fair that I don't generally defend them when someone is telling off a terp for complaining about me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 07:05 PM
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Usually more nuanced, and usually in response to someone claiming AWALT or women are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:18 PM
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Rivaling the numbers of a high class escort does not equal "a sexual past". 20 rivals their numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:14 PM
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Though I understand the comparison, I think drug addict != having sex with 20 people, even including orgies and bathroom sex. The better comparison would be a heavy drug user for some period of time that was able to quit without intervention of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:12 PM
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Okay sure, but I'm still not sure if that pertains to things in American culture (yuck... is there a better way to describe something about the USA but not use American?) with black/white cultural differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:53 PM
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That many of you read good in this context to mean "upstanding, kind or moral" is a fascinating miscommunication That's what good means in any context. Women are free to use a different word to actually express what they want instead of rely on passive aggression at any time, if you're right that is. You're not the person I was responding to, but clearly then good even when applied to people doesn't always mean upstanding, kind, or moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:52 PM
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Interesting. I feel like if we had the leaving partner getting nothing, You'll end up with either people staying with abusive partners to protect kids, or kids ending up with someone who was an abusive partner (which doesn't necessarily mean they're also an abusive parent, but I believe they're correlated?). But maybe you have a better idea for what happens with kids vs. property in a divorce. Also what happens if both the parties want to split? Do you still force one of them to take nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:51 PM
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what do you mean rewarded. Yes the partner that 'puts in less effort' can leave and get half the stuff, which would be disproportionate to the effort they put in, but I'm not sure what else you would propose. Something to figure out proportionate effort? Leaving partner getting nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 07:28 AM
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I mean, typing ?t=90 seems faster than typing skip to 1:30 minutes, but that's prob just preference. And nope, never been. I have a brazilian coworker and a friend who's from brazil, but neither seem that way -shrugs -. Either way, was trying to answer your question of 'was it a black club' - i know there's some racial segregation down there, but idk if that's pertinent of black v white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 07:21 AM
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The amount of nutrition mom receives will change whether her body will be more or less likely to keep or terminate a preganancy early. iirc from what i've read mom will keep girls but drop boys if she going through a period of higher stress/famine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:53 AM
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I think the stuff I read agrees with stats - when mom is going through a period of famine/stress, they're more likely to drop the baby boys and keep baby girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:52 AM
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It made sense for the time period when they first started popping up I think, which was when they had to be ordained by someone and lots of villages were too far out for officiants to travel to or something. Or maybe that's bullshit and the real reason is something else, but good to hear that you guys have something that works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:46 AM
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just fyi for the future https://youtu.be/JEE14T2wq_8?t=90 ?t=(time in seconds) should give the video forwarded to the time you want. also they said brasil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:41 AM
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kissless hugless virgin. People were close, but it's meant to imply that they're a virgin that has had no romantic success either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:37 AM
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Anyone who does not treat her as my wife is out of my life. Everyone around me has only one chance to correct their attitude if they didn't know about it. For legal reasons, wouldn't that enter you into common law marriage then? Or does that not exist where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:33 AM
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How would you control that and why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:27 AM
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Don't you not get notifications tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 11:58 PM
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I have no idea what I did to earn severe dislike from you, but you should really just go ahead and block me if I bother you that much. I made it super easy for you by giving you instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 11:55 PM
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What would a "good" candidate for a job opening mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:37 PM
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Sure I wouldn't disagree but 'Unattractive men don't get hate' shouldn't lead to people assuming they're treated well, just that they don't get hated on (unless you're really ugly, then even nice people get at least startled for a bit, but that's really rare).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:28 PM
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Right, but why isn't that the assumption, when people say 'unattractive men don't get hate'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:27 PM
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Okay, I can accept your definition of many then. I think I tend to associate many with a suggestion that it is closer to most than not, but that's probably not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 06:35 AM
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And how is that one example relevant to this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 06:22 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 06:19 AM
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Do you sincerely believe this? There's a lot of shit you say that I agree with and then I come across you saying shit like this and I have to wonder how we reach different conclusions. Maybe it's an order of magnitude thing? many != most and all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 06:17 AM
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And when they figure out who he is, he won't be successful anymore. Just world fallacy ahoy Well, there are certainly people that don't mind being with assholes. But I don't know that it's evidence that most women are fine being with assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:49 AM
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because they want to do good by you. And how will they know what that boundary is if you don't tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:38 AM
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How is she related to this thread actually?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 05:26 AM
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SAHD, but yeah most(all so far) of the guys that I work with all appreciate time away from their kids. Very biased sample size tho, since the women that stay are like that too XD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:53 AM
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It's the worst people/things are loudest/most visible and so lots of people notice it happening, even if it's only happening a small amount of the time I think. Like I buy that some women are throwing around nuclear rejections, I just don't find them to be a majority of women or even the majority of rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:33 AM
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I just think it's kind of funny that people seem to think that STEM discriminates against women. As someone in the field - we're not of the opinion that women are actively discriminated against necessarily, but women are still a minority, diversity can have its own merits, and therefore it is worth hiring more 'minorities'. And it's not by hiring less qualified people, but shifting where we try to find our candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:31 AM
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Also it is not my impression that these efforts intend to compromise merit Yes, you should at least meet the bar of what we we want in an employee. Ideally we will also choose the best candidate for the job - a lot of what goes into 'hiring more women' is shifting where we start looking for candidates - women's colleges, women's conferences, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:27 AM
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Is there no neutral? You don't treat them poorly, but you don't treat them well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:18 AM
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Younger end I really haven't seen really mean rejections by women either, but I'm not in whatever partying scenes they think stacy and becky are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:15 AM
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I love you guys, these are the chains I stick around for <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:05 AM
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I mean I don't mind communicating with you. You just seem to think I'm dumb or something but -shrugs -. dunno if this is recent enough but maybe this'll help then: https://www.reddit.com/r/announcements/comments/4dmnn6/new_and_improved_block_user_feature_in_your_inbox/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 03:54 AM
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I can’t think of anything less relevant to a married woman’s life than discussing the proper way for a young man to get his dick wet and keep it wet, I actually think most of the married ones don't give shits about how they do it, they either like arguing, or think that some of the 'truths' trp spouts are bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 03:42 AM
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you know I'm just replying to messages right? You have full control over not responding to things I say or blocking me if I bother you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:07 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:10 AM
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You're missing the age limitation and class limitation. That actually makes that group of people a minority. Whether they're corrrect or not is another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:10 AM
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Yeah I have no problems with the spreadsheet itself, but sending it to her work email with a pissy message about not missing her and then not answering was all too much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:59 AM
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email could have been okay if he weren't sending it to her work email too. That was also bizarre to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:39 AM
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I am justified in continuing to pluck my eyebrows only for fancy events. :3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:25 AM
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I see so many people always going on about wanting free healthcare, free schools etc. They don't seem to understand that those things aren't free, that they will pay for them with their taxes, and if they don't pay tax, others pay more tax on their behalf. It's always costing someone. Who actually thinks those things are free? o.o
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:06 AM
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And certain legal definitions restrict trans women access to women's bathrooms. There do exist legal definitions for women and men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 10:35 PM
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You're extrapolating way too much from what i said, but you can cover your ears and yell for me to go away okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 09:22 PM
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there exist people who would disagree that two gay men could be parents, or that adoptive parents are real parents. That was the parallel they were trying to draw. Yes, we are currently redefining what woman and man actually means. From what i have seen though, those who are trans inclusive don't mean to say that being a woman is performative, since they tend to be liberal/pro women's rights and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 09:21 PM
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What defines a parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:33 PM
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All I said was: Believe it or not there are plenty of people that believe that shit for real. There is no claim from there that the page itself is indicative of it, I'm just not surprised that some people could take it that way because of the actually sexist people that exist. This was before you clarified it was dumb joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:32 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9xyrkk/comment_from_rtruefemcels_6_upvote_do_women/e9y7fb9/ Specifically: Fuck a prescription.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:53 AM
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legally + socially acknowledged does not require performative standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:52 AM
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Sorry where did I make this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:42 AM
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Usually that kind of recommendation isn't "go get this and have it around the house" but "yeah this worked for me, talk with your doc about it" no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 11:46 PM
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Women are people who are legally and socially acknowledged as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 11:45 PM
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There are, but a lot of them are the same as male incels yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:33 AM
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"In the United States 98% of sexually active women have used birth control at some point in time," Would that count if you used it for non birth control reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:32 AM
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No but I don't want to fuck them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:30 AM
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If I had to guess it also has to do with the fact that benzos are prescribed and paracetamol isn't for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:29 AM
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ill-mannered, bad-mannered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:01 AM
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It's mostly one guy I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:41 AM
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It's probably more important to me that a guy have good social skills and charisma because he needs to make up for my lack thereof. Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:26 AM
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Yes, and that is what the commenter says as well. Trans women are real women, as are cis women, and and they're both different sub categories of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:24 AM
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Most people on the left will not think it's transphobic to say that cis women and trans women are two diff subcategories of women. The problem is when you try to define "real women" to only include cis women or exclude trans women. The same as adoptive and biological parents both being exclusive of each others subsets of parents, but people will get upset if you claim "real parents" are only biological parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 11:04 PM
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Yes, because clearly I understand that the page is memes of saying men are better than women because they can eat more hamburgers. I would have agreed with you if that was what you had originally said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 10:57 PM
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cis women are also a subset of women. It's exclusive in that cis women cannot be trans women and trans women cannot be cis women, but they are all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 04:04 AM
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Interesting. Well, thanks for being consistent at least. I know I would personally prefer a partner that was learning from their mistakes in how unselfishly giving (or selfishly not giving) they previously were. Because if they're unselfishly giving with me or prev partners, they are likely to also just be unselfishly giving with lots of other people in their lives and while that can be a good trait, it can also be a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 05:50 AM
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Do you not understand what the definition of subset is? Because women is still inclusive of trans women if trans women are a subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 05:45 AM
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I mean I have no idea what this actual page looked like and whether it was clear it was sarcasm. But if it isn't 100% clear that the page is being sarcastic, wouldn't it look like the page of a sexist? Like if you don't know that the onion is satire, there's tons of people that will take it at face value and be like 'wow wtf'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 05:42 AM
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Okay, even if there isn't 'plenty' if someone acts like a sexist, is it more likely they are a parody or actually sexist? Isn't that what we're actually deciding?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 05:41 AM
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I knew a guy who ran a Facebook page claiming men are better than women as a joke, and how often it was used as 'proof' of sexism was unbelievable. He was amazed people couldn't pick up on the sarcasm. Believe it or not there are plenty of people that believe that shit for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:34 AM
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So you want someone that didn't (think they made or) make mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:27 AM
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They are trans women, which are a subset of women. It is not exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:26 AM
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No their definition of woman is fairly inclusive of trans women - just like the term parents is usually inclusive of adoptive parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:27 AM
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She was willing to do something for her previous partner and not willing to do the same for me. That is it. Strike one, she is out. So you don't want people to learn from their mistakes of thinking they did something too early/something that could cause problems down the line? Like trusting someone from day 1 100% would be a bad idea in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:14 AM
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Why else would Sheryl Sandberg endorse something pretty damn close to it and be hailed as a the best advice for career women ? Wouldn't that also mean that it's actually uncommon?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:46 AM
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Can you? Aren't most min wage employees working part time as well, instead of full time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 11:59 PM
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i mean that is sometimes the argument trp's make, so yes that would be somewhat the argument he's asking us to quantitatively prove. ETA: because as he states in his OP "I am looking for scientific quantitative hard data that the TRP assumptions are incorrect, or maybe it is incorrect in its predictions." disproving AWALT would i guess be saying that there are a significant enough number of non poisonous snakes and spiders that exist that most might not be poisonous?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 02:15 PM
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Pork belly is fucking delicious when prepared well. I'm missing kbbq now. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:33 AM
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southern comfort's such a great nickname for that guy. Should bring him a bottle of it next time you see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:32 AM
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how are they paying for all their other living expenses and saving up 500 on a mcd's paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:23 AM
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the only high bar is being tall :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:07 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_mimicry https://www.livescience.com/21374-cuttlefish-gender-bending-disguise.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:02 AM
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Yeah that was a serious WTF when I read that. There's no definitive proof that god doesn't exist - pretty much by the definition of some gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 06:53 AM
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If i had to guess it exists both ways, and the fact that men tend to earn more than women feeds into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 06:50 AM
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No he's asking us to prove that non poisonous snakes and spiders exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 06:46 AM
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Or that we're dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 06:42 AM
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WoW and more recently FFXIV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 06:40 AM
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yes, that is exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 02:57 AM
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I mean sure there are taller women who want men taller than them, but there are plenty that also are fine dating their height and shorter but can't date some men because those men are insecure dating a taller woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:20 AM
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Not all, and that's not hard to meet for most men/women. I don't deny that taller men have an easier time dating, but it's also more difficult for taller women to date as a cognate since just as there are women that want a guy taller than them, there are guys that don't want to date taller women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:04 AM
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I mean, it's both. For some tall women it's because shorter men, and for some short men it's because taller women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:34 PM
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It can't on average be all that higher than that of men's though, and even men's numbers aren't super promiscious. ETA: unless you're implying lots of women are bi or les.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:28 PM
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I did not mention jail first, that is a different user. I am trying to explain the other user's point on why jail is terrible and not because of the other inmates. People in general do need to be challenged and feel like they have worth or things to do. Yes by itself it's absurd, but the point is being able to coast and not do much isn't a boon if you have limited freedom, or don't have control over your own destiny. By the same merits, your argument is bad because you're equating women's lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:42 PM
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I was talking about solitary confinement 'nothing' since the user above doesn't seem to understand the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:33 PM
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right, this is what I would say in regards to dating as well. Just like it's probably easier to be a man in a male dominated workplace, but it's not just easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 12:57 PM
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If you don't have to do anything to survive, but there's nothing, absolutely nothing to do, would you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 03:44 AM
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No solitary confinement is where they lock you in a (usually small) room for long periods of time with no contact with the outside world in any shape or form (no other people and nothing to do).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:26 AM
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it's not ime. seriously, get offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 09:51 PM
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Sure, there can be exceptions. I just meant to say if we're going to make a generalization, it's in/out group based on the activities and acceptance of it, not man/woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 07:12 PM
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A man would see a criminal as low status for example whereas a woman wouldn't because at least he has ambition and is doing something in his life (if he is making money from his illegal activities). This isn't a man/woman thing, but an in/out group thing. Other people involved in the criminal scene would see that criminal as high status, but people out of it, woman or man would see it as low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 09:25 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:38 PM
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Same for "nice girls" imo, eta though I think you meant naivete.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:18 PM
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do you mean atypical or a typical re: hot blonde. Because the space makes a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:08 PM
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Or not even that rude, but just saying, "sorry I don't find you attractive enough for a relationship" would get a pretty bad response too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:44 AM
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I don't think most divorced women end up in quick flings either - from what i've seen irl, but i don't remember if there are any stats either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:59 AM
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If your point is that a very large minority of people aren't having sex, you could argue that way, but precision of language please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:58 AM
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Why do you think they're wrong? I would agree that just legalizing abortion and stopping welfare by themselves won't bring back the nuclear family. Something drastic that would enforce women to depend on men financially again would be something that could (temporarily) bring back a nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 11:57 AM
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And no not everyone is having sex No one claimed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 05:04 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:52 AM
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wanting new young dick are you confusing women with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:24 AM
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Men more often than women end up in a relationship after getting divorced. That doesn't seem to support "women divorce rape to fuck/get with a more attractive guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:24 AM
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only about 700 women per year die from childbirth. Which is still sad the US has the highest maternal mortality rate out of developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:16 AM
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Government grants, and outreach facilities available to women, but not men. Also do you have sources for this? iirc most women only things are private
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:10 AM
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a man went to prison for missing child support while he was held hostage by terrorists. Do you have a link for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:09 AM
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All these years later she still feels the pain of having to give up her first baby. Has she tried to find the child? Maybe that would help her if she feels like she could them now at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:08 AM
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iirc sole custody is difficult to get, but shared shouldn't be difficult. So yes, you have a choice in how much you parent your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 04:04 AM
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They're saying that by supporting public schooling you are to some degree supporting other people's kids. Where's the line in the sand you're drawing that makes what your taxes pay for 'supporting other people's kids' or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 03:55 AM
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Privatize the prisons, tax them, benefit society. Except that's not how it works. We pay the prisons money to house our criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 03:50 AM
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They're saying that just removing welfare and legalizing abortion won't bring back the nuclear family UNLESS you also make women dependent on men financially and create a huge culture shift (out of nowhere?)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 03:48 AM
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But those aren't the women that this OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 02:37 AM
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should someone stabbing a pregnant woman's womb be charged with assault? (or battery or whatever that is) How would they not be? The woman is still a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 01:46 AM
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plus I cosplayed competitively. There's a competitive scene??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:50 PM
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And this response is exactly why the first comment of this chain didn't want to bother answering in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:39 PM
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Yeah what TheChemist listed is basically what I see everyone around me doing, except maybe like one person that is super stacy and her hubby has some good businesses. And even then she helps him with his businesses, she isn't just doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:35 PM
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Just curious, what are of the world are you in then? I always assumed you were western in the US/Canada or western european country, but maybe a lot of the disagreements we've had were culture too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:32 PM
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toxic humanity Do you insist that dogs and cats both just be called animals or pets, because that is their purpose? People segregate things into specific issues because there might be different ways of dealing with said issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:22 AM
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So you're stealing all my shoes :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:11 AM
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I am not from brazil, I'm in and have been in the USA my entire life. I have also been involved in nerdy communities since I was a young teen. The problems I see with nerds and their level of achievement in dating is mostly because the nerdy communities have problems overlapping. video/card/board games tend to be where guys congregate, where as nerdy girls are usually reading books or fanfiction. Most nerds/geeks don't try, if they're ones that end up down on their luck. Or they try very infrequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 04:20 AM
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I think people are used to people implying something with the questions they get asked here or having some ulterior motive, and banter is the standard way to respond here I actually only expect it from a handful of users consistently, but yeah I think people expect red/blue tilts from people flaired as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 05:36 AM
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I have also not had an abusive ex. I don't think most of the women I know have had an abusive ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 05:26 AM
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They're not silent, just too few in number to actually cause change. It's a social issue not a legal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 05:25 AM
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1) if the guy would be 4-5 with good communication skills, He's a 3-4 with those kinds of bad skills in terms of S/RMV. IME nerdy girls are still a bit better socialized than nerdy guys for the most part. 2) difference of 1 isn't out of the ordinary. 2's a little far but okay I do see 4-5 guys that have very poor social skills with 3 girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 04:34 AM
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C) he will be in total disbelief and think it's a joke being played on him and shrug her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:05 AM
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The only guys i see in the nerdy/geeky community going for 1's and 3's are 1's and 3's themselves. there've been a handful of exceptions, but they are certainly not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:04 AM
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I have been to anime conventions, and I've been a part of nerdy communities all my life. 1's are ignored, 3's are just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:57 AM
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Most killers are killing people in their immediate social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:40 AM
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I'm sorry for laughing at your misery but that entire chain is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:17 AM
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By that logic, don't bother banning the word cope either? People are just literally coping with things they refuse to accept as truth ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:05 AM
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mmmm that hasn't been true ime. The 3's are mostly ignored by guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 02:56 AM
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Are you trying to say men are too clingy if they love women the way they want to love women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 01:20 PM
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Mmm at least for some of those women they're not pursuing legal avenues because their exes would be charged with contempt of court and jailed. Which doesn't help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:58 AM
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specifically RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:32 AM
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Why does Eastuss need to know you're not single?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 12:00 AM
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I was reading a post on here, and some woman mentioned how she settled for her husband, she used words like "attractive", "hot", "sexy" to describe the guys she had slept with before she "settled" and when describing the guy she settled with, she just used "nice" and "stable". Hmmm i actually can't think of a single poster that matches that description. A new person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:45 PM
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Yes I would question why a guy would stay with a cunt that demands he work even if he's super depressed and exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:30 PM
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You make it sound like everything the wife has been doing in those same 10 hours don't count for anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:29 PM
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I don't buy that the majority of women will do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:24 PM
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I mean I don't fuckin get it either. Only time will tell probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 10:20 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3782989/Teenager-set-marry-60-year-old-school-janitor-reveals-lost-virginity-buying-McDonalds-Happy-Meal.html -shrugs -
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:38 AM
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Now I'm curious what I missed out on!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:31 AM
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Ehh it's an evolutionary whatever. Evolution doesn't care where we end up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:24 AM
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Maybe it's time for me to change my flair since I'm pretty sure that's about where I meander anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:21 AM
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He's always that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:13 AM
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1) You can state something is natural without condoning it. Ex. I will say by nature men are more disposable and less valuable biologically. But I don't see how to change it. I don't like patriarchy either, but I don't know that 100% equality is necessarily how things will work either, because of people's natural inclinations. 2) Most of the women who say that it's okay are also okay with sexism against women in similar ways and aren't against patriarchy or feminist. Most of the women here aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:47 AM
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You keep strawmanning all women to be feminists buddy, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 06:34 PM
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yasssss
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 01:53 PM
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It was not the claim of the person who posted before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:30 PM
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that 'natural makeup' is no makeup. Because most guys don't know how makeup works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:23 PM
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Yeah even in this day and age more religious homes will have women growing up with that sort of thing. I think that's what a lot of people on ppd forget - there's technically this liberal 'mainstream' but there's plenty of very religious pockets in the US at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:20 PM
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Do you have any vegan or vegetarian ones? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:05 PM
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The problem with a lot of the texas(and a bunch of other southern states) bullshit wasn't that it was too costly to keep up those centers, but there were regulations around abortion clinics having to follow hospital level regulations about hallway widths, having certain kinds of certification, etc. that got them shut down. I would recommend you read into the issue a little bit more because I don't think most pro-choice people are talking about it just being absolutely accessible but that there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:57 PM
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Okay I can concede that the cost is what it is, but thank you for at least admitting the scarcity of abortion centers and waiting periods etc are undue burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 03:37 AM
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Yeah i wish she didn't delete her comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:20 AM
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Yes we already know your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:36 AM
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I think the semantics are important here - were any cases of recanting during questioning pulled into this bucket, or were a lot of the cases in this bucket have recanting during questioning. I have problems with the former, and less with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:36 AM
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There could be many reasons for recanting during questioning that aren't 'they're lying' unless I'm missing some part of how rape accusation processes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:54 AM
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would be true in at will states at least no?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:34 AM
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Yeah I eventually learned that and can navigate it a bit better - thankfully most of the guys I hung out with were actually really decent guys so nothing ever happened. But I definitely understand better where my dad was coming from now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:14 AM
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the accuser recanted during questioning, That seems like it doesn't belong there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:32 AM
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Yeah my dad was the one that was angry that I assumed most guys were good people and that I was gonna get hurt because I was being naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:28 AM
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No, roughly the top 50% at least meet the sexually attractive criteria. Overweight women are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:13 AM
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Nah they adopt black ones too. They just don't want kids that have already spent time growing up a bit. They want babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:47 AM
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The law says that the states cannot impose an undue burden on obtaining an abortion And you don't think that 24 hour waiting periods that require probably multiple days off of work, decent amounts of traveling and a decent amount of money an undue burden?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:47 AM
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No one wants to sell you on religion when you're an atheist. Lol. Tell that to all the people fighting each other about religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:34 AM
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That assumes the OC had an accurate view of their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:32 AM
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So even in the worst case, a woman spends about one day, $50 in bus fare, and might need to spend about as much as her IPhone to pay for an abortion. So if you're poor, you're fucked? ETA: Also you missed the 24 hour waiting period between consultation and actual abortion. So it's at least 2 days, and probably not at a convenient time for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:17 AM
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you need to take responsibility for your voting choices. How should a woman take responsibility for other women's voting choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:12 AM
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Don't think there would be enough orphaned children for that to work. Are you thinking foster children?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:09 AM
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Medicare works that way too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:06 AM
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No they're lining up to adopt babies. Foster kids don't tend to be babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:58 AM
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how tf is anyone supposed to read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:53 AM
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So the state in some cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:47 AM
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RP originated as a way for average to slightly below average men in western cultures to get more casual sex I was mainly refering to this idea and stating it on the sub I thought you made a post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:26 PM
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I thought it was TGP too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:31 AM
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Same that's been my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 11:55 PM
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5'6" is still taller than the majority of girls, and he will probably have better luck if he goes after the ones who are only slightly shorter than him instead of focusing on the midgets. same height also works i think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:06 AM
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Wouldn't it only require to show that they have almost equal strength? Because believing that most women have equal or greater strength than most men is a blatant lie/delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:21 PM
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here as in this thread/subreddit. I doubt most do in a serious DV way. People playfully slap each other all the time in my circles, but everyone knows how to control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:35 AM
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Do you think convincing women they are stronger than men would correct female on male DV? Sorry what are you trying to say with this? I don't think you're trying to say that we should say the average woman is stronger than the average man but I'm drawing a blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:28 AM
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Why not just open with your genuine criticism of the idea next time? Because you need to ascertain whether the idea is what's actually being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:20 AM
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But you haven't convinced them. What are you here for if you aren't trying to convince people on issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:18 AM
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What women here do you think are hitting men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:15 AM
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So if she lies about rape to try to get a man put away, she should at least be sued for the price of the lawyers and compensate for wages lost. And women who make false rape claims should be put on a sex offender list, or some new equivalent. All of that would have equally stringent requirements I hope as proving that an incident was rape though, so unless it's obvious I don't think this helps. We already have charges the police can pile on to someone that they think are making false accusations…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:10 AM
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Most women aren't ronda rousey?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:10 AM
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Pretty sure my cousin had a bf that punched their wall in anger while my brother and I were visiting her when we were little and nothing came out of that (except that she stopped dating him).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:55 AM
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by her white knight father dangerous They don't have to be white knight, and this was always a danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:51 AM
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But she doesn't - someone else gave their reasoning, not the author of the first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:51 AM
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I dunno i know plenty of not very awalty and also fairly awalty women. We can argue about who's in what bubble, but no you can't just assume the class of women you date are representative of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:10 AM
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No as in they can hit you with CS even if she doesn't prove you're the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 10:35 PM
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I like mine over easy myself - but I'm okay with calling someone making a shitty scramble to go with bacon and made from mix pancakes someone who 'knows' how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:55 PM
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premade mix usually wants more than water these days since they took out all that fancy shit like eggs they'd previously added. I'm not taking it as an attack, I just wanted to have some similar standard for what everyone's talking about. So if you sauteed some veggie sor something would that count.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:54 PM
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makes no sense to the goal of bluepill. Then you are wrong on this. It makes 100% sense :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:47 PM
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How much from scratch though? And depending on your answer to that very few people in general might know how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:45 PM
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Sure... and I'm saying most people don't really know how to do that. My mom pretty much uses a bunch of box mixes and shit. Still love her food and it still tastes fantastic. Not everything has to be having intimate knowledge of how stuff works - if you find something that works and have it memorized in a way you can remember that's fine too. Like my mom basically uses box pancake mix and adds liquids until it reaches a certain consistency. Or making rice, she's not exactly measuring out cups of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:39 PM
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I think you attribute far more intention into our arguing than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:36 PM
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sure 'us'. You claim people are saying it' easy no sweat you shouldn't complain just do it. That's not their message (or maybe it is and I don't see it) but it's certainly not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:36 PM
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No, there is no explicit 'bp goal' being met. You can't say just because someone is arguing on the non RP side they're going for some explicit 'bp goal'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:19 PM
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No, your original point is us saying it's easy. I'm saying it's hard, but you just have to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:18 PM
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I guess so :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:17 PM
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Why not. What's your standard for cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:17 PM
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I don't think most people that know how to make pancakes are reading the recipe every time they go to make pancakes, or only made pancakes once before, but maybe I'm giving people too much credit. Also it's kind of a different time I guess in that people don't have to memorize recipes anymore - they'r eall at the tips of your fingers on he internet now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:17 PM
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Eh, dpeend son how you want your egg. proper sunny side up or over easy is a bit difficult, but not great scrambled or just over hard isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:15 PM
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Less rational, but depends on definition of dumb XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:09 PM
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By that logic most people can't really cook, even our parents generations and theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:06 PM
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sure, but that's life. You get hurt and knocked down, but you just have to get back up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:05 PM
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I thought the marshmallow test was being debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:03 PM
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you know it equally applies to men's stories here tho no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:55 PM
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Okay, but she can still refute that it's to match some BP goals then. Which is what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:53 PM
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Well. That seems kind of sad then. What percentage of women do you think that is out of ones you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:53 PM
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I mean I would also assume that if you know how to make a pancake you can also fry an egg and make some bacon in those pans but maybe i'm making lots of leaps and bounds there. and pancake with bacon and eggs is a full meal imo. ETA: but yeah ti's a low standard. It's just for 'knowing' how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:52 PM
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and words can break your heart, but you can harden your heart and toughen up. it's the only way to get through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:51 PM
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What does that hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:44 PM
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What is not knowing how to cook. Could they make like a pancake, I am making this my personal acceptable metric, but I think it would be a reasonable metric for 'knowing' how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:32 PM
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I'm not sure. When someone says a person doesn't know how to cook I start thinking "can they boil water". I'm not wondering if they can serve thanksgiving dinner to 20 people, I think they don't have basic life skills of making simple meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:31 PM
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cook anything that didn't come with instructions on the side of the box I would consider that cooking. Like cooking pancakes for example would be enough cooking to me. I don't know that people in our generation in general cook regularly as their primary source of meals, the specific claim I'm rejecting is that women don't know how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:30 PM
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not really, your sample will be biased towards the women you can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:24 PM
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You explicitly said it was to match 'bp goals'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:24 PM
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Who is this lady? Most women I know my age I know don't even know how to cook. I'm kind of curious where my solipsism comes in here, because almost all the women I know can make at least fairly basic meals for themselves. Am I in like some conservative part of the country or something. In the northeast of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:58 PM
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Ooo I like that white stripes version. Thanks :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:33 PM
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I heard the PTX cover with dolly before the original, but they're both great. Miley's was kind of eh to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:23 PM
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Couldn't we say that to this entire thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 01:56 PM
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Absolutely. I dont know HER intentions. Besides, a woman offering sex like that is pretty highly suspicious. suspicious in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:25 AM
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It is a response, but does nothing to alleviate the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 08:54 PM
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Because there' is more weight. You've gone through a social ritual that says you're publicly trying to commit to someone for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:39 PM
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That's where common law starts coming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:37 PM
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I agree with you that marriage itself isn't what keeps people together, but the people determined to make things work will get married, so you can't really separate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:34 PM
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Providing a link to support your own point is confirmation bias. It's not confirmation bias per se, but it may not be sufficient, depending on what it's a link to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:08 PM
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What do you want us to do with our empathy for men who don't like approaching? It won't make them get approached by women any more often, or anything else that'll help them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 07:05 PM
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Why would I specifically have any incentive to agree with female group consensus. And why would that mean I still wouldn't know that those women exist? We don't have to agree in our tastes on men in order for us to be friends. I don't care if a woman i know wants to date some really old dude, or if they're judgy about other women dating really old dudes. They don't have to hang out with each other, they just have to hang with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:54 PM
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Why does me being asian affect anything. Most of my friends at this point are white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:42 PM
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Is it though? I really don't see that in my friend groups or in general. The things I see are about teens dating older people because the age of adulthood/maturity is rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 08:15 AM
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Yes, but it makes me wary of starting, and wary of being on them for a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:58 AM
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How is that really even older? That fits within the acceptable age/2 + 7 and most people wont' bat at an eye at that age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:57 AM
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How is your range of women any wider than mine. There will be biases either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:56 AM
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Anyway, the practical solution for the man is to make new like-minded friends (probably red pilled) that don't disapprove of his age-gap relationship. They're not disapproving of the age gap, they find his chick annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:24 PM
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I think i want clarification of what you mean by 'older'. If it's age/2+7 that's all fine and dandy and most people dont' bat too many eyes. But I think most women are strongly opposed to a relationship with significantly older men - a much larger portion than the ones that prefer those significantly older guys (like 60% opposed, 20% for or something).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:19 PM
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No wonder they've done their best to condition young women to find it creepy through propaganda and social control Lol condition. As if we didn't find it creepy when we were younger(am i old now? pretty sure i've hit 'the wall') ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:12 PM
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is it you? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:09 PM
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Same here - there are older guys that I've found attractive but I've firmly placed them in the 'no' pile because of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 09:08 PM
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Well, probably to a large degree yes. But she's thinking of events in the west that shaped free love/not giving a shit about virginity specifically in the west and that caring about virginity is distinctly not a western value/cultural practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 08:20 PM
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dating in the western world/culture, i think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 08:11 PM
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RPW doesn't preach chastity iirc. Atlas has never been a proponent of chastity in anglosphere dating either for that matter, even if RPW does. And she's submissive to her man - which is what RP/RPW says, she just isn't submissive to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:30 PM
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Wait, now i"m confused what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:15 PM
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Eh. Or we might also hear horror stories of people perpetually bleeding and shit on BC and don't think that's actually better than once a month pain and fatigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:12 PM
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NT?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:54 PM
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++
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 11:09 PM
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No the implication is tell your partner Thursday something is important and then leave if it is not met. The ultimatum is bad and unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:00 PM
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So men also never have medical issues with penises and if a guy can't get it up for you, you're not hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:51 PM
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Where do you get 30/week cheap. It's not that cheap where i am :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:40 PM
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That's what we all say about the creeps that stalk around on some of the non sexual bra and boob subreddits, but they still lurk around and try to ask in those places anyways. We don't know why, but we sure as hell can't easily tell if you're one of them or not when you act in eerily similar ways to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:26 AM
1

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 05:19 AM
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but at the same time, the average woman labels the average man below average. Is this from just the OKC study, or does this also hold over other studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:09 PM
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You would have to tie at least some fault that trickle down is not helping at all (showing that some things got worse doesn't mean that feminism made them worse or did not address it sufficiently, if that wasn't one of the things that it said it would help by 'trickling down').
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:05 PM
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And how is any of that feminism's fault directly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:47 PM
1

What is your 'has shown not to work'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:19 AM
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They tend to talk about how feminist actions will end up helping men though, not thta their primary actions will be to help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:19 AM
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No amount of my manning up(unless I literally manned up and transitioned with test) would make me able to take out guys larger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:52 PM
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Who is saying that people are going about this in a paranoid way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:50 PM
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A lot of this sounds like correlation not causation, but i have no evidence for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:55 AM
1

i think shoup said she was thinking about bornredd. I can't really differentiate most of the red named guys, i miss talking to guitars, nom and sardonis though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:44 AM
1

Ah. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:33 AM
1

There's also a lot not identifying as purple, so I don't know why you'd go in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:19 AM
1

"race is just a social construct" It's more that what we define as 'race' isn't scientifically or biologically segregable, even if you can find on average some differences between 'races'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:16 AM
3

which might make me seem Purple at times. fwiw you come across fairly blue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:53 AM
1

Interesting. What do you do consider 'blue pill social views' that you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:52 AM
1

There's a lot of guys who have red in their names - reluctantlyred now, used to be a betterredthan(something) and a bunch of others. But yeah I miss talking to all those guys I really appreciated their views :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:51 AM
1

and got good "educations" about attraction, male and female nature, and how it all works. When it comes to male-female relationships, they learned it all early on because someone took the time to help them out; or they got out there and were encouraged to get out there and pick it up on their own. They were not specifically steered away from people who were "in the know"; and they were not lied to incessantly from their earliest memories about how relationships really work. I could almost agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:49 AM
5

I've gained at least one pretty life altering insight from them. Can I ask what insight you've gained?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:46 AM
1

I think there's like a grand total of 5 blue men. Im not even sure they're all blue, and some of them are gone. maybe only half are 'old'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:40 AM
1

wait - what happened after rp then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:32 AM
2

So by those RP terms, most people in the world are purple then - no where near blue and not full on red either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:23 AM
2

Meh, I'm here. I'm sure others have made it down here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:20 AM
2

cxj yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:15 AM
2

STEM lords ain't got no time for fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:12 AM
3

She was never blue to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:03 AM
5

we would be non-stop pregnant our entire lives with still plenty of men left pouting on the sidelines. Eh, by TRP standards, we'll be out of the running at 25 though right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:02 AM
1

Out of a hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 03:06 AM
10

being honest: my initial gut reaction was female, but then when i read this comment, this is pretty much it, if there's somehow absolutely nothing else i know about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:10 AM
1

No youjust have to assume that gold diggers are generally perceptibly more dishonest than prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:38 AM
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There are more conceptual differences than you've listed. Prostitutes are explicit in that their exchange is purely for monetary compensation. Golddiggers are not necessarily explicit. This is where most people who disparage golddiggers probably have issues with the person who is gold digging, because it's not being 'honest'. There's also a difference of volume, since golddiggers tend to be looking to marry a wealthy person for their material wealth, whereas prostitutes obtain their resources fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:47 AM
1

I'm confused why men would talk about gold diggers in a negative fashion that they might not with prostitutes then. There's certainly different connotations even amoung men between golddiggers and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:42 AM
1

Man, my typing needs work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:19 AM
1

Where was that distinction made? I thought goat was talking about all couples in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:54 AM
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It was sarcastic, so I think I should report it, but it's also under automood so I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:51 AM
1

Dude, just take like 5 min to look up avg wage/income in those cities. There are plenty of people - like well in to a supermajority territory of people with income sub 100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:49 AM
1

Not really. There's plenty of jobs sub 100k nevermind approaching 200k in the greater boston area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:25 AM
1

And what percentage of the world's population even lives in the bay area?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 03:20 AM
2

They're still rare even in cali. There aren't many people making six figures, let alone double that starting amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:22 AM
1

I mean we can try and prove this scientifically, but pretty sure they wouldn't allow that study. I even said I was being pedantic. Also don't remember if it's testosterone that causes that difference because if it isn't, then me becoming a man would do jack shit in proving that, since there's no way for me to actually become a biological man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 11:12 PM
1

I don't think that's part of the hypo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:41 PM
1

If it's a state where you can't record others without their permission that evidence would not be permissible in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 01:52 AM
3

Right, experience makes you a hell of a lot more attractive option. It's just like with jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:13 AM
1

relevant bo burnham sketch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n450GmN2Yfk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:47 PM
2

But finding a woman who has all of the above + is attractive and not already taken in 2018= very much close to impossible. ftfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:46 PM
1

Me getting horny once in a blue moon and having sex that one time which may not even be when I’m ovulating TBF, if you're thinking hormonally getting randomly horny, it's likely to be when you're ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:18 PM
1

since when are you blue XD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:58 PM
3

Emojis and GIFs and other weird shit. Man how old are you that this is weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:05 PM
1

There are definitely some 'feminist' women that propagate that yes :( But even after I yell at them it doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:30 AM
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Part of that is because there still exist a ton of non feminist women, and there's nothing we can do about those women as feminists. If there are feminist women doing that, we can talk about it, but I don't know what you'd expect feminists to do about non feminists and who they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:09 AM
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Does a mans broken face not hurt as much as a woman's broken face? Actually... it's pedantic, but yes it might hurt less. Men's skin is thicker so it's harder to break/bruise for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:54 PM
1

too many fields that white men are discriminated against anything with kids, but also receptionist positions and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:52 PM
1

Cashiers are four times more likely to die on the job than coal miners in the US Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:50 PM
5

consuming vs. creating media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:45 PM
5

Survey would agree with hiso_hiso, unless you're trying to date like 8 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:57 AM
1

The nerdy guy at 10 years old encouraged to play football in HS would not have played football and would have stayed a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:21 AM
1

Just the presentation they experience through their own lens Isn't that the same for outward appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 11:07 PM
4

why is the average extreme feminist comparable to an average trp, when the topic was feminism vs . trp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 11:01 PM
3

squiddy is probably the most realistic real life like mgtow here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:05 PM
1

prob better than the married ones jumping on rando dick tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:03 PM
1

And why do you think 2&3 don't also apply to women's thought process?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:10 PM
1

Because we're talking about several different sets of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:46 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 02:02 AM
1

i am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:18 AM
1

You are rp goat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:07 AM
1

but... that shit don't matter if you can't get her to talk to you, and when there's a guy next to you with more Chad points, she's gonna go for him. Wouldn't that also be true for women? If you were talking with an okay looking cute ish girl but her hotter friend comes over and starts flirting with you - you gonna keep talking to the original girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:32 AM
1

jeez, just because we both have azn doesn't mean we're the same person XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:29 AM
1

cosigning this answer. If he is bi and it just happened to come up in convo that he had a crush on some guy in high school, that's fine. If he's telling me "I think i'm bisexual btw just want to let you know" then i'm gonna have second thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:17 AM
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Another interpretation could be that her comments are for shock value. She's not, but i do agree with your general point that people are saying atlas is the 'only honest woman' because they agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:12 AM
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Hot guy in Hyundai >>> ugly guy in Mercedes. Of course that's true, why would i want a guy that isn't frugal like I am XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:41 AM
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._.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:43 AM
2

Leftovers of prohibition is one guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:42 AM
1

Are you referring to older asians or young asian men? I think most Asians I know would either just be full on democrat or republican fiscally and republican or don't care on social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:40 AM
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Okay, well if you did you would have seen them literally address that like halfway through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:09 AM
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Did you even finish reading what they wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:55 AM
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Well, okay sure they're not the _only_ ones buying booze. But most college kids aren't blowing all their money from work study/extra jobs/summer internships/jobs on booze and random extras niceties. They're spending the vast majority of it on textbooks, food, housing, etc. unless they have parts of those covered with scholarships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:30 AM
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If you get into a relationship sooner with less vetting, yes a larger portion of them are probably less 'good'. Which is shown repeatedly time and time again that lesbians not only exit relationships more often, they also enter them more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:29 AM
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Do you ACTUALLY believe 90% of women in long term 5/10/15 year committed relationships will leave their spouse for a higher smv guy? That should just be on its face false, considering I think a very large number of people end up married, and it's very unlikely that they're _all_ married to the top tier of SMV partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 03:05 AM
2

Whatever works with the guy's scent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:50 AM
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Unless you are lewis I don't really care about your stance. I just want Lewis needs to be consistent in his stance since he usually spouts that boys don't get told about female nature AT ALL and that women are better and wonderful and that you need to be a nice guy to be sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 01:45 AM
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> Because for some weird reason the usual suspects practically never throw their "not a real friend"-assessment at a friendzoner. That would be because usually women aren't in the situation where they're being friendzoned by guys and tend to only comment on their personal frustrating situations or their friends'. I would say the same reasoning applies to a woman who ends up in a situation like you described - the guy is clearly acting in a capacity way more than a normal friend (though really th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:57 PM
1

Yeah like does he look ridiculously distinct or something, this doesn't seem very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:30 AM
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Lewis, are boys told things about female nature or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:31 AM
1

I actually talked with someone irl about this - 'clearly' is actually not the case I'll concede. However I don't think most people in that situation if they just move on think the guy was 'clearly' not their friend. Maybe some use that as an excuse for losing a friend to hurt less. But it definitely can put that thought in your head more so than them staying and continuing to be a friend after you reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:19 AM
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Okay, fair enough on wording. Reading it now - yes it's not clearly 100% the case that they weren't actually your friend. But it would be enough for me to think they might not have been a real friend though - it is negative reinforcement. Just like if for some reason the person who was throwing the parties stopped throwing them because they don't want to live that kind of life anymore and change as a person, but lose a lot of friends when they do - maybe some of those friends were actually frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:17 AM
1

Same on yellow/red until i interact. I get orange, yellow, orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:35 AM
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Very Bad Man who was never a Real Friend in the first place. I mean, i don't think they generally label them 'bad' men, but clearly they weren't real friends if they think the friendship is worth abandoning because they were rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:39 AM
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I think college is a bit too expensive for you to spend any extra on booze instead of say food or rent. Maybe the really rich ones funded by parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:32 AM
1

Do you think it's bad to 'destabalize' not good relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:22 AM
1

Probably want more data before I actually say anything, since I could see both things affecting the wages of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:13 AM
1

If I had to guess something along the first two kinds, maybe into the third. Not like daddy issues or the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:02 PM
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I'm actually curious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:01 PM
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I think you're doing what some bloops do re: generalizations. It's not that _only_ damaged/insecure/immoderate/atypical women engage in abusive relationships. It's that the vast majority of the women who enter and then stay will be of the former listed categories. People who know what healthy relationships looks like will be better equipped to realize that an abusive relationship is bad and leave, instead of normalizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:56 PM
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I don't see how your statement is related to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:53 PM
2

That's fair, though even in a mostly atheist country my point would stand, it just wouldn't have as much of an effect. Might be notable that gay marriage has been around for 15 years only in the netherlands though, so that might also affect average age of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:51 PM
1

Most guys buying "fancy" cars and upgrades for their car aren't doing it to impress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:39 PM
4

Ehhh hormonal bc is fucky, and non hormonal tends to make things like periods worse. Pick your poison basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:17 AM
1

I really don't think she's looking for orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:15 AM
4

Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:02 AM
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If I had to gander - heterosexual men and women are MUCH more likely to be deeply religious, which would make a larger number of them marry much sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:51 AM
1

but certainly dumb shit like new cars and upgrades for their car lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:49 AM
2

Stats are technically on his side i think. ETA: Actually, maybe it depends on what you define as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:46 AM
1

Yay at least one person gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:44 AM
1

Yeah in theory I'm for financial abortion, but it doesn't work with our current system.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:42 AM
1

Happy cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:42 AM
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Wouldn't she have the same 18 years of obligation to work to feed, clothe, house, and purchase medical care for a child though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:39 AM
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So you're saying women should feel terrible for their abortions, but that somehow getting an abortion is no big deal? This user is literally trying to tell you that women feel terrible about abortions, and therefore is a huge consequence. Be consistent at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:35 AM
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Ehhhh. Pregnancy and abortion are both pretty large consequences. I think what you mean is that they can't control theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:25 AM
4

you can believe in some forms of equality while still believing there exist differences between the sexes....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:21 AM
2

If she can prove you’re the father I feel like that might not be true in some states like cali.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:13 AM
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The state would hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:09 AM
2

Griddy isn't red or blue, so i don't think she cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:27 AM
1

By that are you unqualified to speak to the current smp? Haven't you been out of it for 20 years now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:25 AM
1

Nah, you need alarge confluence of those factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 12:35 AM
3

What facts support this opinion? What facts support yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 12:28 AM
1

My guy doesn't like his hair mussed up either :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 12:35 AM
1

depending on the TRP, for some it was definitely them getting fat and/or lazy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 10:06 PM
1

It's to prevent circle jerking in CMV's so that the OP can actually be challenged on their views. Unless you're talking about some other rule being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 06:58 AM
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I think he's trying to say BP don't take responsibility for their actions/thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 06:47 AM
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Marriage material will have to vary depending on the marriage material ability of the woman in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 06:43 AM
3

What is 'settle down' supposed to mean here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:07 AM
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Interesting. From my point of view, feminists (and women in stem) encourage women to choose stem and how to flourish and thrive in stem more so than they shame men for whatever ways it might be made worse for women. I can say definitively there is a _lot_ of programs aimed at encouraging and helping women to get into and succeed in stem. I think there's some amounts of not seeing what isn't aimed at you. So men see more of the shaming and women see more of the efforts aimed at helping them succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:52 PM
1

Just curious, do you think feminists only shame men to solve what they see as problems? If not, do you think they majority shame men vs encouraging women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:55 AM
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It matters because they vote and implement laws that prevent people from using the restrooms they want? lol. This is actually somewhat different from other things we talk about here because they make legal impact...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 07:59 PM
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My point was re: your statement that it was mostly women driving anti trans friendly bathroom policies. It's not _women_, but _conservative people_, of which a decent portion are women yes, but I think you're looking at the wrong demographic. Yeah, and there's also those problems when you have gender skewed events in convention centers that are meant for gender proportional populations. Gaming conventions with really long men's lines XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 05:19 PM
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I wasn't talking about guys who have a problem with women using the men's, but conservative people scared of men using the women's. I'm just saying it's not really women that drive that, but all conservative people. I don't know that architecturally it's more efficient - there are definitely some things that only men's restrooms have and vice versa (ie urinals or the little trash bins in women's for sanitary products). I'm ambivalent at this point in terms of what we do, but I never had that man…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:23 AM
1

Are they actually rising?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:03 AM
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I don't think they should be singled out for any reason. IMHO ciswomen who have a problem with transwomen in their bathrooms and changing rooms are being silly and should be forced to lose access to women's bathrooms and use unisex/men's bathrooms. What would that solve? Also, I think most of the people who have problems aren't cis women, just conservative people, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:56 PM
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Well, I'm a woman for one, but I don't consider 5'8" to be short. It's pretty normal for a guy. 6' is not short for all caucasians, maybe amount scandanavians.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:54 PM
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I do :D I'll pm you with my user #.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:52 PM
1

Hm. Interesting if they mean that they make the last decision, are the sole decision, or if they have majority decision making power for those purchases. I would not have pegged 60% of automobile purchasing decisions to be made by women. Wish they had numbers for men. Also wtf japan 74% of husbands don't help with the household. But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:18 PM
1

Probably just me then. Eventually the things I like doing also end up feeling like chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:11 PM
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It was a guess, I don't care about the questionaire lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:10 PM
1

Oh. well rip me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:09 PM
1

Links to data? I've never seen it broken down by anything more than women do most of the household spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:48 AM
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The person you were accusing of being blue. Do you not look at context before responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:43 AM
1

how tf would I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:42 AM
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I don't know that I agree with this? Habits feel like chores all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 02:07 AM
1

.-. 5'8" is short ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:40 AM
1

I would have to guess that's not included.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:40 AM
3

They're not blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:36 AM
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Then they rope the father in too....🙄 Well, in some cases it's the state roping fathers in. If a single mother tries to get on welfare in california for example...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:26 AM
2

Okay - so how does this apply to the blues here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:18 PM
1

And you think those statements you made apply to the majority of blue flaired users here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 11:48 PM
1

Sitting in traffic for long drives is kind of the worst. Really long drives in general where I can't do something else for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 11:08 PM
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I don't see why they couldn't be. there's a degree of skinny that looks unhealthy imo, but skinny is usually more attractive to me anyways. from this chart: https://warosu.org/data/ic/img/0014/53/1368973078762.jpg I'd personally prefer ottermode > skinny> skinnyfat > built > built fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 11:02 PM
1

Oh, so your reply wasn't a reply to her specific comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 04:22 AM
1

I get your point, but prob won't affect any of us til we're pretty old. most of the 'care about the future' campaigns work on the basis that we'll have kids or a legacy to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:55 AM
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Hm, I don't get that sense from the people I register blue. There are some users who are pro women, but I odn't think they flai as blue and even if they are outnumbered by the guys that are anti women imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:34 AM
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Don't care to change people's views for the most part, just around to probe and see what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:04 AM
1

I understand that is your perspective, that is also mine. Women and men both aren't bad, and they tend to be bad and good in different ways. I am asking if you think the conversations on PPD more often than not start from a context of women are bad/worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:07 AM
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Okay sure, but do you think this place has neutral context in terms of how women are regarded, or do you think we do start from a ground of 'women are bad'?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:42 AM
1

At this point in my life none of those things actually bother me all the much as a trait in and of themselves. Each of those could bother me if for instance for 1) He's scared of driving. 2) earns considerably less, but has expensive taste and expects me to pay for it 3) is shorter than me and is insecure about it. short guys can be sexy, but they have to own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:13 AM
1

I think pasting it to the wall is better than letting it go down the drain - only thing is you have to remember to pull that hair out after you get out of the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:30 PM
2

Well even then, likable still doesn't mean you respect them. It's necessary but not sufficient. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:29 PM
1

So what are the chances that you are being truthful? Idk, you make the assumption that the average person is the same as the average person on reddit, esp the average person on this subreddit. I think that's a fallacious assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:26 PM
1

Wait, what do you even expect women to do in that scenario then? How is that hamstering it as men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:20 PM
2

I would guess she's thinking more of remembering her husband's mum's birthday and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:05 PM
3

I don't think most of the blues here are part of the pedestal of team woman - though maybe you wouldn't consider most of them 'true' blues. most of us just don't need to acknowledge that women can be bad - we already know that - we're just debating that they're not as bad as trps make them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:59 PM
1

respect is diff from being likeable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:55 PM
2

Matter in what way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:55 PM
2

lollygagyo?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:31 PM
7

are you only responding to the offhand comment her fiance said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:13 AM
2

Even the ones that were slutty don't think most of those guys want more than their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:47 AM
2

Okay, looks like I got most confused with someone else's claim. I don't see why it's necessary to call people's names because we find it hard to believe or remember if/when we've seen other women make claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:24 AM
7

So if we don't see things and find it questionable that most women in ppd are making those claims, we're really just saying 'the noble women of ppd would never say such things'?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:05 AM
5

Is it gaslighting if shoup never said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:49 AM
3

depending on the scale you use, it could be reasonable. Reddit still skews young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:30 AM
1

But we're so adorable :3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:06 AM
1

Oh I think I misread the question asking what other subs we used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:05 AM
1

The actual number of women that settle early given enough time will drastically drop and stay off the market though. So at any given moment the percent of women who settle early will seem to be much much lower tan 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:17 AM
2

Go in there and ask if they all think that if most or even a large percent of women would settle down at or around 21 and stay pleasant devoted ( in every sense ) wives - would TRP exist. Sure it can. Even if most women (like 60%) were that way, there's the rest of them that aren't that will probably be on the market for longer than the 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:59 AM
1

interlockecters ... interlocuters are people who take part in a dialogue or conversation. Is this just a word that google doesn't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 03:53 AM
2

Mostly pedantic, but I find that reasoning to be poor reasoning for most views unless the argument itself is predicated on whether something is a common or not view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:43 PM
4

Common does not mean correct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 05:25 AM
1

Narpalt!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 05:15 AM
3

My personal experience is that women have preferences for themselves and men have a a goddamn agenda for how everything in the world should conform to their views, and if it doesnt it's an attack. I would say same here. Only times I get unprovoked negative comments about my appearance or possible appearance are from guys my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:55 PM
0

That's entirely the reason I'm tired of them, lol. There's no contradiction. The view I'm talking about is one of feminism being the dominating narrative irl. I think from this entire thread - your comments and salty's comments - you and him would agree that femnism is the dominating narrative today. I would disagree that is the case widespread even in the US, as would several other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:48 PM
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I mean that's salty's view pretty sure and you're supporting salty's claims. Sorry I know that technically you're egalitarian, but i hardly see you support women's issues here and it's the same vein where i can't be surprised if someone thinks i'm only a feminist because i tend to support women's issues here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:21 PM
1

I don't think it was to refute that it can have an influence on people or on feminism itself, but a passing side comment. The main thrust of her comment is that she thinks it's an overreaction to call what mindy says misandry, in the same way that she thinks it's an overreaction to call RP misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:10 PM
1

Right I hope the repeat offenders at least get caught and the one time offenders learn their lessons on what's acceptable. I don't think I've seen any stories that have seemed ridiculous so far (with maybe aziz as an exception - but i think that was still a discussion that needed to happen about where lines are drawn), but maybe i just have a relatively reasonable facebook feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:18 AM
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it's more to say that mindy is a pop feminist not an academic one. The main reason I don't think they'll end up on the same page is that tedesche is more egalitarian and would equally think that mindy's comments and rp's comments about women sometimes are misandry or misogyny. electra doesn't have that same view, and they're not really going to convince each other otherwise. Mindy's comments are about as bad as some versions of AWALT basically, and electra has no problems with AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:12 AM
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I agree with them a lot of the time != my views align more with salty than you. I just don't know enough of your views to say that beyond these matters my experiences have aligned with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:56 AM
2

She graduated from three
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:18 AM
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I don't think she lost, they're not talking about the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:18 AM
2

Not dad, just someone you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:07 AM
3

How is this not just harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:05 AM
1

Do you not use awalt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:02 AM
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I don't think that's necessarily true. Yall don't think feminism isn't necessary and that it's a woman's world i get that. But i think a lot of us have experiences and upbringings that would tell us that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:00 AM
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I think this is more the focus sometimes between pills. people who've grown up hearing feminist messages and thinking the world is tilted in favor of women and people who still have had fairly conservative upbringings, who would disagree. I think i agree with you a lot of the time salty and i don't think you need therapy or anything, but my experiences match those of the person you're arguing with. Just my 2c
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:57 AM
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Okay, i guess that's fair if that's what kaling is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:49 AM
2

You think they majority of people who claimed things against specific people were making things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:45 AM
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'So Many'. I think like 90% of the guys who lost things were famous and it was pretty clear they did some sketchy things. The were no consequences for the vast majority of men who were mentioned in me too in large part because the men were not identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:44 AM
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Do you think all the metoo instances publicly identified their attackers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:22 AM
-1

Take to the Internet to shame and humiliate them. What do you call what you're doing right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:15 PM
1

And I'm not saying that's what he wants. I'm just saying there were better ways of getting what he wants - say with BMI. It would have probably upset even more girls because that is a ridiculously low and narrow weight range even for asian women to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:28 PM
2

Most of that range is still unhealthy at 5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:30 AM
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a third because of eye shape ehh wearing circle lenses isn't eye shape really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:07 PM
1

like i keep saying - he would have been better served asking for a bmi range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:05 PM
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right I don't think it was malicious on his part or a tight range he was aiming for. Just really clueless, since he thought his tastes weren't that narrow...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:59 PM
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the dude did not handle his maths. No he just probably hasn't thought about it, since he did explicitly state that he had no experience knowing women's weights and stuff. I'm sure he could have given a more reasonable and less kpop like range for guys. I'm not trying to use the US as a normative measure, just translating metric to merica units for people that don't know what those numbers pan to. But really even up to like 130 for the taller girls would have been a fine weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:55 PM
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Right, but that's only the upper end of that range then. If that's the only kind of bmi range he's aiming for (17.5-19) then I guess all the more power to him, but you have to admit it's a really freaking narrow range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:50 PM
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45-55 is not healthy at 5'7" for most women, even asian women i think. I'm asian and 5'5" 125, which is 165cm 58kg? I'd be knocked out even though I'm pretty good looking and fit. EDIT: I think he would have been better off asking bmi. He's star struck by kpop stars if he thinks girls at 5'7" should be only 45-55kg. 17.5 - 21.5 or sth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:24 PM
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realistic in how many suiters they would have remaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:23 PM
1

I don't think the frustration or depression happens til much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:22 PM
3

how is it hypocritical if she's out of school and has a job already?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:23 AM
2

Seems like women are slightly more picky, but a lot more realistic? I feel like the guy would have had more matches at the end if he asked for a certain height range with bmi instead of weight because holy cow that's a tiny range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:16 AM
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But he admitted to not actually knowing what he was asking for with the latter one. He admitted this in the part before people, but he did ask it very shittily. Better would just be to ask for bmi range imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:12 AM
3

If I had to guess the woman recently graduated or is much older. Like in the first girl example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:10 AM
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Also the height and weight expectations are ridiculous. 160-170cm is 5'3" to 5'7" for people in the US and 45-55kg is like only 100-120 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:07 AM
1

It's not bitter at first, mostly shy imo. it gets butter when you keep having negative interactions with prole because of how bad you are at social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:40 AM
1

Well high value people will have a decent number of high value prole in they'd social circle. Is usually a lot or almost nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:37 AM
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And so long as they don't devolve into circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:06 AM
1

140 shouldn't look too bad on 5'7"? All the changes you mention I think would bring a person maybe one or two points up. I'm not really convinced you were a 4 previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:06 AM
3

It sucks but it makes sense why you don't have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 08:16 AM
3

submitted 8 hours ago with only 32 comments asking "advice for your past self"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 02:40 AM
1

With what proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 02:20 AM
5

After only giving it 20 minutes on a saturday night? giving up already? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 02:12 AM
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Her answer is that the world is already RP. RP knowledge is mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 02:07 AM
1

Mean, or median?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:40 AM
1

If we evened out the ability for men vs women to become single parents through technology Cost would still be a barrier I 'd think. No cheaper than surrogacy is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:46 PM
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If you're metropolitan areas (the coastal cities in particular) you'll see a very high density of good looking less overweight people at least walking around. I think rural areas are where you'll find more overweight people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 07:48 PM
1

Also this sounds like another issue of the loudest people you see are the ones with the most visibility - the ones doing things aren't really talking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:53 PM
1

I wouldn't tolerate, ranging from cheating, to selling drugs, to breaking into the zoo to have sex with beavers at night I read this as would tolerate at first and was really confused. Also the last item seems really specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:57 AM
1

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:13 PM
2

I don't think bored with the sex but doesn't want to deal with crazy anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:34 PM
2

So you didn't read the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:34 PM
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Would it be better if people said 'the vast majority'. 75% of people have engaged in sex in college, and considering how few of us get married before or in college that's mostly pre marital. 80% of all college graduates drink. How is that not almost all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:05 PM
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Yeah the OP's attempt was dumb and not really a cognate imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:03 PM
1

man 10k... that seems little :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 03:52 PM
1

Even if you do them linearly it would be time consuming I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:23 PM
1

You say that like creating clear systems of accountability actually gets people either moving or even using the system. It's not some end all be all of disputes over housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:21 PM
1

She didn't want this - she said she hated lists and wanted everyone to just "start paying more attention and just doing it when it was neccesary". I do not understand the logic behind this. You say this like it's a woman thing, but I've had male roommates agree to a system and then just never fill out the sheet.... so it in effect was pointless. You just nag them about filling out the sheet instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:19 PM
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I think the problem with just "Paying attention" to this stuff is that everyone thinks they do more than their share. Creating clear systems of accountability might sound unnecessary and stupid, but boy does it end any such sort of disagreement easily. You say that like those things necessarily get to places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:12 PM
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By that definition... weren't most men also not in the workforce? I think we had different answers to what is considered 'part of the workforce' - I was assuming in large degrees work literally outside of the home, like most RP tend to do when they complain that women used to be able to just be a SAHM like it was something that existed forever. 2 incomes were always required in the working class, and the middle was a recent exception i believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 08:37 AM
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LOL should I report you for an insult on my ability to understand statistics? Yes, 9's and 10s are very rare. Out of the 7 billion people on earth only a bit north of 200k people are 9s and up. 2k are 10s and up. If you're talking about only within a gender, then go ahead and cut those numbers by half ish, with a bit more for guys because there's more men than women in general i believe. (unless they kill themselves off more quickly than i thought - but I think the majority of people in the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 06:38 AM
1

Post agricultural/industrial revolution way more women entered the workforce. Wha? Pre agricultural/industrial revolutions women were still working the fields along with men. Are you talking like maybe post WWI or something where there were even some portion of women that had the option to be a SAHW?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:39 AM
1

A man that stands around with this thumb planted up his ass unless he's asked to contribute This stings, but the worst is when they don't help and then have the gall to ask why we're so slow or didn't do something the way they wanted it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:16 AM
1

Also, I'm still curious, why do you disagree with rehabilitative alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:27 AM
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No it's not insane - it's the system that makes the most sense if you want to rate people in any meaningful or mostly objective way. Yes 9's and 10s are rare - that's how they should be. Everyone has a somewhat different scale anyways - you have to look for something more universal for wide scale discussions. I think you miss the context in which these claims are made. They don't make them out of the blue apropo nothing. It's usually in rebuttal to someone claiming that THEY are taking advantage…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:24 AM
2

Would hurt my trust in you if it happened to me, but I guess she's already an ex .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:35 PM
4

Yeah that would still be a no from me too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:28 AM
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it's not a ridiculous scale. It's also how people actually differentiate people for 'attractiveness'. It's not a linear 10% are 5's, 10% are 6's, etc. Think about it. What percent of the world do you think falls into an insanely attractive category? It's not 10% of the world's population. Most of the women here aren't claiming that they're attractive because they can get a guy to fuck them, but they can get guys they want to ltr them. And yes, those are going to automatically give you 6+ women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:30 AM
1

Wmen might hit yu th
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:38 AM
2

Desn't hte same apply fr red pill extremes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:34 AM
2

m I submissive? Am I a good cook? Is it true that all asian girls have tight pussies D: dear lrd that sunds terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:28 AM
1

Yeah it's nt freign wmen cmplaining abut fetishizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:26 AM
1

Because that's pretty much average in terms of looks, if you look across people. Thanks, looks like I've found another person that can identify average :3 Though, maybe her tits and personality bring her up from average idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:23 AM
2

Really? Slightly chubby with an okay face, maybe one thing that looks not that proportionate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:53 PM
1

I think I would just say it's not worth keeping, but that's up to ya'll. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:52 PM
1

Hence why a comment down a chain. I'm not gonna say anything else to the op i have no actual advice or commentary to give XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:51 PM
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snarky comments about your husband from the WASPy UMC PPD women Wait where do you see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:20 PM
1

I mean I think it's an alt in lieu of a conversation I had yesterday where there was some red flaired guy claiming that all the women on this board are HB9s with high paying jobs settling for hubbies making less. But yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:17 PM
1

What 'advice' are we supposed to give OP? She's asking for opinions not any sort of solid advice. Is that 'advice' now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:13 PM
1

I mean maybe the HB part is wrong - the scale I'm using is a bell curve centered at 5 with one number away being a standard deviation up/down in terms of attractiveness. But yes I am saying they would be a 6-7. And you have no proof either way to think that these women are full of shit unless you just think most of the sub is full of shit when they state how attractive they are, since that 80% also applies to men. But at least fact wise: a lot of the women here are thin/normal body weight and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 09:53 PM
1

That's certainly not old, but yeah I'd guess around there is when people start falling from above to average or below. There's definitely still some 6+ women at your age range tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:27 PM
1

Well the ranking i tend to try to use kind of encompasses age. I don't think there's really that many old women making these claims - mostly in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:41 AM
1

didn't... you answer the one for men with this answer or am i confusing you with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:02 AM
1

Okay well let's get a couple of things straight first. 1) How do you get from above average to HB9? That in my mind translates to maybe HB 6 or HB 7 at best. I don't know about anyone claiming that they're very attractive tho, so I can't speak for whether you just know more about the proportions of women only claiming above avg vs very attractive. 2) Eh? Most of the guys on reddit are also making lotsa money and some of them are decently attractive. Whether it's that this sub in particular attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:01 AM
2

Okay so you're exagerrating what they say then? I know objectively I am above average in looks, but that does not make me an HB9. Also pretty sure they're not screeching so much as just stating facts about how divorce works, because the manosphere tends to overblow how bad divorce is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:38 AM
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When do the women here call themselves HB9s or say that they're settling for men who make less than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:23 AM
3

everyone turns into potatoes eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:20 AM
1

Where did you get your numbers from? First time I'm seeing it, since the only thing ive seen that stratified by degrees and such only said that the divorce rate is lower for college educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:57 AM
3

You say that as if goat and Emory are proponents of that advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:49 AM
0

Who the fuck asks for directions in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 08:33 AM
1

Oh I agree. I'm somewhat pro affirmative action as a short term fix for areas where historically certain groups have been disadvantaged. I just don't know about keeping it around long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:45 AM
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Right it helps in some places, but lots of places do affirmative action like hiring now i think - given two fairly equal candidates, choose the one that's a 'diversity' hire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 07:00 PM
3

What market watch article? There's one from abc and one from the guardian in OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:55 PM
2

Dating a white dude shouldn’t come off as a transgression against the sisterhood of the black women club. Even if that were something black women tried to pick for, how often would they be picked by a non black dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:07 AM
2

How did you make that connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:36 AM
1

Yeah, Harvey Weinstein I think would have been a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 12:09 AM
6

That assumes the other woman knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:37 AM
4

I've found good ones too. Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:36 AM
1

What do you want them to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:20 AM
2

I don't see the first part of group 1 correlating to concepts like the wall, AWALT etc being 'uncomfortable'. They just don't find them to be really true for large swaths of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:09 AM
0

why does vegetarian diet mean you eat salad only.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:38 AM
4

No it sounds like normal human talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:32 AM
1

Not sure if he means the opinion is more damaging to the man or if he means that you're more damaged than a guy who was cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:23 AM
5

he usually rebukes it with 'because they're told by their lawyers that it's a long shot and not worth it'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:08 AM
1

I mean I disagree that asking out a girl at her workplace is a terrible thing - I just think it's a pretty bad idea if you work together closely a lot of the time. What do you mean minimum level of service? I expect friends to be friends yes. It's disappointing when I learn that what I thought was friendship was not friendship but just an act to try and get in my pants. I was not talking about a random guy trying without knowing me to ask me out and then not talking to me, but a guy who was for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:43 PM
1

Well, I can see why you think it doesn't work now. 1) Those girls may not even be feminist to start with - it would only be a + for girls that are feminist themselves if I had to guess, 2) ... How is not asking out a girl being feminist? I mean it's nice when guys don't ghost you after rejecting them - that I would appreciate since it means you weren't just interested in fucking/dating me - but if you're just not even interacting with her, that's the opposite of helpful imo. I mostly get guys as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 04:17 PM
1

I think its true for intx women. Normal esfx women would pro disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:44 AM
1

How are you being feminist exactly? Voting Republican would be like the opposite of most feminist agenda unles you're in a state where it wouldn't matter, maybe like mass where repub is still pretty liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:38 AM
1

Why? Some of them can't get a woman at all, much less one wanting to settle down. I'm not saying it's necessarily out of their control, but there are men with those complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 06:09 PM
2

I don't think shoup downvotes - she's been here for long enough to know better. There's definitely randoms like me going down threads (and while I'm upvoting shoup I'm not downvoting you).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:52 PM
1

there's certainly some of them on TRP, if i had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:46 PM
2

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:39 PM
1

Lol I did say something to my guy. Hence why past tense of 'ended up doing' and not current 'end up doing'. We're getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:44 AM
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Sure, as is mine anecdotal that my bf and I work the same amount of hours in the week, for similar pay in similar roles, and yet I ended up doing more house work most of the time. Your anecdote is also a situation where I'd tell a guy to get out or something though because that woman is a bitch, unless there's something that would seriously prevent her from doing that work herself, like chronic illness. If she isn't looking for work and isn't working, it's more than equal to do most of the house…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 09:23 PM
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Interesting. I wonder what their breakdowns were. I might just be underestimating times like I usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:07 PM
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You seemed to have called out women specifically as not doing that, but then say people. Is it people, or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:08 PM
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How does that disprove her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:07 PM
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I don't think 20-30 is just for housekeeping? It's housekeeping + taking care of kids (esp if they're young). But maybe I'm not remembering where people claim those numbers. If I could write out a list of common indoor only chores for a family of 2 adults and 2 children - make breakfast + get kids ready in the morning (30 min - maybe more the younger they are) make dinner + dishes for the day (1 hour +) maybe like 4-6 loads of laundry a week (1 hour of at least moving stuff around and folding, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:02 PM
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If you are in a couple where the man works 40 hours at a cushy desk job and the woman works as many hours at a similar job, that's not the norm, and you have every right to bitch at hubby for not cooking or cleaning. He should be doing 50-50 housework. Of the women that complain about this issue, what percent of them do you think fall in this category? I'd have to think theyr'e wildly overrepresented in the complainers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 06:52 PM
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paranoid men with daughters. Yeah any and all sense of feeling like i'm in a dangerous situation came from my dad I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 06:49 PM
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I dunno about revolting. I think it's just straws that keep building on the camel's back of not being able to rely on a partner when you expected to be able to rely on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 06:44 PM
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I think it might have to do the fact that it's like a 'full cleaning' they do every time they're here, which might be more deep cleaning than a normal weekly kind of cleaning. So they also clean like the baseboards i think. I keep trying to do as much cleaning as possible before any of the 3 or 4 times they got to our house, but they still end up doing a lot of our normal chores too, like washing dishes or putting them away. ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:53 PM
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It's really not that large. 3br top two floors of a house. Maybe 2k sq ft? I think the rate is the same, they're just here for several hours and there's 3 of them cleaning. I'm not home when they clean, my roommate found this service. ETA: I think the apt below us, which is hte same as the bottom of our floors is 1200sq ft. Considering the second floor of our apt is also confined by the roof I think ~2k is apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:26 PM
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Yes? My actual standards didn't go up or anything, I just learned to not expect them to be perfect or a certain way all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:23 PM
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And by that I also meant almost 200 for my share. Most recent was 120 for my share, but that's because I told them forgo a large room that we don't really use.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:43 PM
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You have to temper your expectations. That was me when i was younger and how i ended up dropping at least one good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:28 AM
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You van be thankful for what we have and how far we've gotten while also lamenting what we have yet to accomplish. These arent mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:18 AM
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Man i don't think I've ever gotten those things except when i also give them equivalent things in return. What am i doing wrong Lewis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:13 AM
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Yeah they have better things to do with their time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:08 AM
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That's still seems ridiculously cheap. Is it because I'm near a large city? Or because we haven't done it as a reoccuring service yet? I think everytime they've come by, even split 3 ways with my roommates it's been almost 200 every time for a round of cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:19 AM
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Lol. 1) That assumes that all men are 100% rational actors. 2) What laws would those be again?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:28 AM
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Where is your housekeeping that cheap and what are they doing? D:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:48 AM
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Keys will fuck up your hands because most people won't use them effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:20 PM
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being ready to go hands on isn't necessarily gained from learning self defense mma though. A lot of ma might try to teach it but it's mostly a separate skill set.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:18 PM
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OH you mean in terms of moving in. I thought you meant like women if they have the time to spare shouldn't be pooping loudly or something and I was really confused. I mean I have nothing against cohabitation before marriage, you just have to actually use it meaningfully for vetting and not fall for sunk cost fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:56 PM
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what do you mean time to spare? You want us to make our farts and pooping sound quieter because you can't handle that we're human? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:44 PM
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... really the biggest problem you could find was that she pooped loudly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:25 PM
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deceive during dating you think most people are trying to actively deceive and that they're not just trying to put their best food forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:23 PM
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Poor bastards actually thought the descendants of the feminist movement would actually be interested in equality - they can hardly be blamed. Do you have evidence that they thought that far and thought that men needed more rights to be equal to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:46 PM
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how often do you think that's the guy vs girl that does something like that, aka ignore messes because the other person will take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:39 PM
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I think i should have specified from that comment: were all incels lumped into one category. Becuase the original comment of this chain actually made a distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 06:00 AM
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yeah that's the exact opposite of what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:01 AM
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No one cares about the dumb half of humanity with respect to this claim. You could care if the dumb half actively unravels the work of the smarter half.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:13 AM
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Did you ignore the rest of the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 02:33 AM
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I thought it just said partnered, not necessarily married?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 02:32 AM
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to fire a gun or commit fraud. Actually a bit funny you mention that - i thought women were more likely than men to commit crimes like fraud? Or is that still majority men, just a larger share of women compared to violent crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 02:25 AM
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