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| 1 | Type of dance to learnPerfect response! I'll look into Blues for sure. But long term, I do want to learn how to tango. But I'll start by dancing in general first then learn tango whenever I have free time. Also PM sent. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Type of dance to learnYup, I wanna lead the girl. I need a dance style that lets me do that, while allowing me to kino. | /r/seduction | 08/11/11 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Thanks Seddit! A few tips to help you along the way!Hahaha done those and #closes. Just need to escalate and no be afraid of kinoing. So still working on it. | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Thanks Seddit! A few tips to help you along the way!Ha! I'm a 22 year old in the same position, never been kissed etc. But I'm recognizing that I need to improve and I am doing it. I conquered my AA and can talk to women (escalation is a different story, but getting there). More people around me are magnetized by my personality and general carefree attitude. And most importantly of all, I'm happy with my life right now. Thanks for the tips. | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days?This probably won't get voted to the top, but people should read it! Stop fucking making excuses. You see a cute girl, ear buds or not, open her. What's the worst that can happen? She won't talk to you? You interrupted her day? You added value to her? For example, I opened a girl with ear buds today. Guess what, she took them off and talked to me like a human being. I learned she's studying English literature and loves British books. We talked about Jane Austin, Shakespeare, Chaucer. I told her … | /r/seduction | 01/11/11 07:29 PM |
| 26 | [FR] Green EyesHmmm try something like "Haha slow down, we just met. I think you a cool person to hang out with" Or any variation of that. Other than that, pretty good FR. Also, green eyes rock! | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Heard from a friend for the first time in my life, "How do you know so many girls?"Experiment with it! Try wearing them outside your usual setting. See what works and what doesn't, if girls give off more IOIs, then it works. No harm is trying right? That said, don't wear a suit to a bar. Just remember to dress accordingly. Err on the side of casual though. You can get semi-formal dress shirts that are suited for this. Just shop around. Also you don't have to button every button. Keep some upper ones open (one or two) and if you have a tshirt underneath (complimentary colours),… | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 01:06 AM |
| 3 | I need a social hobby. What hobbies do you have?Depends on the objective. Are you looking to meet women or grow as a person? To meet women do: yoga, kick boxing or any sort of physical activity. (I'm the only guy in my kick boxing class, I do love to spar with women from time to time!) To grow as a person: pick up an instrument and join a school. (I've picked up bass and while I'm self-taught, I do jam with people from time to time. So really, it depends. What's your objective OP? | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Heard from a friend for the first time in my life, "How do you know so many girls?"Hmmm coats and jackets that are military style. When those aren't accessible or unreasonable, then dress shirts (with sleeves rolled up) and a pair of jeans. Keep yourself semi-formal at all times. (formal to set you apart from other guys who are dressed down, and casual enough that it shows that you aren't a tight-ass or trying too hard) Military jacket Rolled up sleeves, ignore the foreign language, look at the pics Also stay current in fashion trends. Instead of bitching about clothes shoppin… | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Heard from a friend for the first time in my life, "How do you know so many girls?"Feels amazing right? I've been told I dress really sharp (by both guys and girls)! | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 04:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR]#6 Went out to try to talk to girls, with some successAA is the first thing you need to overcome. The other stuff comes later! Right now focus on challenging yourself, I recommend doing the 100sets challenge. But keep your goals realistic. If you work at a place that's mostly male dominated then 50 girls (I did that to start as engineering is a sausagefest), then ramp it up (100 set+). Eventually AA will be a thing of the past... Then comes kino and escalation. But first, get past your AA! | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 02:26 PM |
| 2 | FR 22 & 23The first one seems fucking awesome! She's definitely got game. I'm getting tired of the early 20's crowd... most are just horribly awkward (or aren't willing to take risks and hook up with people outside their social circle). But that, that is what I want :D Congrats sir! | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed but a little too late (oh well, I can still learn from it and improve text game with this girl)Maybe you're right! (I managed to #close two more people today, guy and girl, the texting between the girl has been interesting... talk of sex and hookers lol). But no point in overthinking this anymore either, back to the field! | /r/seduction | 21/10/11 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Day game questions: How to game two girls in one place? and response to "I have a boyfriend." (read sidebar but need something clarified.)Hmm think about it from the girl's perspective! How would you feel if a guy used a boyfriend destroyer on you? How would you feel if you witnessed it happening? Be alpha, ask her about him? "Oh cool, well it's good to know someone else has great taste in women, what does he do?" Or "how did you meet" And then proceed to change the subject. No point in making someone feel shitty just because they aren't involved with you. And go with situational opener. You're objective is to build attraction! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 04:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Don't let AA stop you. Go and try, and hell you may even get a cupcake!Agreed! I might adopt this attitude now! Here come the #-closes! | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I've been away for eight months and come back to. . .this. You guys need to stop overthinking things!Ah that FR happened earlier. I've since given up on FRs. It's coming a bit more naturally now. But I still need to push for closes, I've been lazy about that. Maybe the next one will be a #-close... we'll see. But the journey has been amazing! Edit: Additionally, I can't remember every set anymore. I open way too many to even count now. Some I get blown out, some I eject early (because the girl is just boring, oh yes this happens ALOT). Others, go for a while. For the one that go for 5 mins, I g… | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 04:53 AM |
| 38 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For SedditGood on you!!! Besides, if she left for another guy, she may do it again! | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 08:44 PM |
| 5 | I've been away for eight months and come back to. . .this. You guys need to stop overthinking things!One of the reasons I've given up on writing FRs. It seems that everyone here acts like a PUA and success is measured in f-close or k-close or #-close. I'd love actual feedback, instead of "you suck", not once did anyone ask or say "man you must have been happy talking to the architecture student on the bus". I did actually, despite not #-closing. I know I suck, but screw you guys, I'm not outcome dependant at all. I enjoy the company of women. Getting into bed with them is not the end goal! I ju… | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 02:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some of your catalysts?No tricks exist. It's all based on inner game. Build rapport and attraction (some comfort) and simple say (in a confident manner) while handing her your phone "Hey, you seem like a cool person, give me your number and we can hang out later" Conquering AA is good, great first step, but keep going. Eventually you'll be good at #-closing! I'm at that step right now :) | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on pictures and facebooking?Depends. I was clubbing with a group of friends for someone's bday party. I met a girl there, never caught her name or anything. Just danced with her. Anyways, I tracked her down on fb through friends and added her. She accepted the request. Next day I sent a pm saying that we met at the club for blah party. I wanted to talk to you, but never got the chance. Wanna meet up for coffee? In essence, fb can be a useful tool. You just need to know how to wield it! And no, no responce yet. I'll keep se… | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Flake On YouAwesome article. I had invited a girl to have coffee with me. She agreed but didn't bother setting a time (my mistake, I should have). Anyways, no communication at all. Day comes and goes and nothing. The next day she facebooks pm me saying sorry and making alternate plans (we are going to see a butterfly show, her idea). But again she didn't specify a time only a place and a date. So not sure what to do in this case... | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:34 PM |
| 1 | people call us Asshole, how do feel about this?People generally fear what they don't understand! In a nutshell you should do what makes you happy. Why be lonely and miserable just because seduction is wrong? Why not be happy instead, with the company of great women! My dad always said, do whatever makes you happy. And don't worry about what people think or I think or what anyone thinks. What matters is what you think. Just be happy. That's all I want for you! (Man tears were shed after that) | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Best Cities for PickupI was thinking of moving out there once I'm done university. How is the aerospace industry there? Montreal seems to be the hub for it right now, but that could change. And I thankfully don't fall in any of those categories. And I would love to get a place in Vancouver... assuming I could afford one. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:40 AM |
| 7 | What if...It's not opening, it's approach anxiety! Besides the worst you come off as when you do approach is a normal guy. Also I recommend everyone do the 100sets challenge. It's the best way to conquer your AA. Hell you might learn a thing or two about situational openers instead of relying on script or manual. A simple "Hi, what's up?" is enough. And approach with confidence and a fun-loving attitude :) | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!FUCK YEAH!! And don't worry you aren't alone at all. Some of us just are late bloomers. I asked out a girl when I was 22. (Still am lol) but since then, I've asked two more. One flaked and the other well, we'll see this weekend. And the way you asked out was a lot more normal than me relevant | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 12:00 PM |
| 2 | To delete from Facebook or not?Be an alpha and do nothing. This doesn't affect you at all, so chill. Trust me, deleting will send the wrong message. Don't burn any bridges, we're not here to do that :) | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 04:42 AM |
| 2 | What to do when your values are incompatible with your family values: Be a man and admit it!Yup, my mom has always been 'marry the same ethnic and religion girl'. It shaped the all of my teens until I turned 22. That's when I came to realization that all I want to be in life is happy. (Change the world for the better too but that's not relevant at this point). So I stripped away everything that 'mattered' to get the real answer. Why did I adopt their philosophies? Because I wanted to make them happy. In making them happy, I would be happy. But in making them happy, I would be miserable… | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Please smile - for your sake [1st post]I know... very disappointed in myself! I should have. But I don't feel all that confident right now! I'm doing the 100 sets challenge. Actually, 50 sets. Just opening them. Almost done the challenge, the next step is open 100 sets and have 25-50 of them hook beyond 'hi', 'hey' and 'hello' Some of them hook, some of them don't. Managed to open a set with two smoking hot Brazilian tourists. The "want me to take a picture of both of you guys?" works. And they hooked, but left the set early... work … | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Please smile - for your sake [1st post]I agree with this! Now story time: Okay so after my stop (one stop after) there is a HB6-7 girl (on the next stop) and she always sits somewhat nearish me. I sit just behind the rotating thing on those articulated buses and she sits in the round thing. (the accordion as I affectionately call it). Anyways, today she’s walking up to her usual seat. I look up and smile. She half-sits, then gets up and starts walking towards me (like a step or two) and then she realizes what she is doing and stops. … | /r/seduction | 23/08/11 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Just open!I think we should adopt Teddy Roosevelt's quote as the number one advice we can give "...but by acting as if I was not afraid I gradually ceased to be afraid." | /r/seduction | 21/08/11 03:19 PM |
| 2 | My take on text game and "dodgy pictures"Any medium has to be full of passion. Even talking is an art. Well, it appears I'm a maestro with texting!! | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Texting anxietyPeople do things between their texts. The convo is over unless she comes back and says "sorry I was busy with blah" or "sorry for the delay". I attend meetings at work, so I am on the receiving and giving end of it. Girls I text to go to work, work out or meet with other people IRL and therefore it is rude to text while meeting someone. In my case, I apologize and continue the text convo where it left off. The girl usually never notices and we continue! In your case, the convo seems over. But yo… | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 09:53 PM |
| 5 | My take on text game and "dodgy pictures"Depends on your personality and your ease with technology. As a person who just eats, breathes and sleeps tech, this medium suits me the most. I am able to express myself easily through this. Because texting removes body language, you have to add it in through punctuation. The following a very brief tips that I've used on a friendzone girl of mine and another girl who is currently seeing someone. Things to do: 1) Be sexual whenever you can. Girl says she wants to go to Australia, then ask, so wh… | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 09:43 PM |
| -1 | LMR, alcohol and rape questions.I'm gonna watch the replies to this comment very closely! | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 02:47 AM |
| 2 | LMR, alcohol and rape questions.It's not about being beta or DLV. It's about me looking out for me. I'm required to have/maintain a top secret clearance in my line of work. Any accusation or otherwise sort of fucks up my career. | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 02:41 AM |
| 1 | LMR, alcohol and rape questions.It's a bit different in my case. I need my record to be clean. It's not easy having/maintaining a secret clearance! They do yearly checks. I work very closely with the military, one mistake, and I can kiss my well paid job goodbye! | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 02:11 AM |
| 0 | [FR] AMOG'd for the first timeClassic AMOG destroyer? I tried that too. It depends on a lot of things too. I've had instances where that worked and instances where it didn't... And got weird looks from the group. I think that time my delivery was a bit 'enthusiastic'... But I don't think anyone remembers it any more. So in short. It all depends on the social group, how you deliver your 'rebuttal' etc. I find humour deflection easier than AMOG destroyer. If you can get laughs from the girls it quickly destroys any faux-AMOG. … | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 03:19 AM |
| -3 | [FR] AMOG'd for the first timeI usually just leave sets like this!! I get pissed off by this too. It's better to leave and go vent to a best friend or be alone for a while, instead of trying to out AMOG someone and coming off as a bigger douche. Go re-establish your frame. Yes, it makes all of us angry and frustrated. Just don't do anything stupid because your feeling 'emotional'! And trust me I speak from experience... That being said, if you can perform shit tests of your own then go for it. Trust me on this, guys can shit… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 11:44 PM |
| 20 | Why are so many good looking guys such pathetic AFC'sDepends on a lot of things. Some of us good looking guys don't really care about women at this point. Right now I just want to get out of college and into a decent career as engineer before I go chasing skirts! Women are a lower priority to some of us. (not that women aren't a priority to me now, I'll still enjoy myself, but not at the expense of me fucking up school) The other thing with 'good looking' guys is, that as kids we were 'ugly'. I'll use me as a case. I was teased a lot, bullied etc.… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Been seeing alot of females asking seddit's advice. Answer: Be independent and confident!!I mean this!! Inner game for both sexes, that's it. If you want to attract just make yourself better. Don't worry about if he's interested in me or not, make yourself interesting. From my point of view, anyone who isn't interesting isn't worth my time. I'm sorry, but I could be meeting a lot more interesting women. I know this comes off as cocky but the same is also true for women too. Women and people in general want to be talking to someone interesting. That said, go do something. Go learn a m… | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Lol I do see this happening to me sometime in my future. But for now, inner game. And then everything else should follow nicely! | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Deception never helps anyone anyways (when people figure out shit), but so far it's helped out quite a bit, as I've mostly met 'normal' people and they can't picture me being a nerd. I'm trying to get a degree in aerospace (rocket science) so you can see why I have to rely on omitting and lying about what I do, or just be super vague. I treat them as shit tests now, ever since I heard a girl complain about how once someone gave her an explanation about why the sky was blue... "I just like living… | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.A nerdy girl? Where the hell are you guys?... Just kidding I've recently met two, one is just socially inexperienced and I'm just running into walls, and the other is taken... Sadly, such is the state that I find myself in too. Too often I have to dumb down or deceive to get anywhere in any social situation with women. Too often I hear ridicule about nerdy things, and I simply nod my head in agreement, when I just want to get up and leave! That being said, despite being torn up inside about it, … | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 09:33 PM |
| -6 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Depends on the demographics. In any case, all men are attracted to women between 18-30! Why, because that's the period women are fertile. Any deviance in this such as finding a women are post-menopausal or pre-pubescent attractive means no offspring is produced. This ultimately means, all men even the ones that are in their 60's find young women attractive. There is no changing that. Now the specifics of it, do I like asians or black women or white, well that's open to interpretation... So again… | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 09:25 PM |
| 13 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Seemed like a power thing to me too!!! | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting.Hahaha nope! Women like a confidence and a risk taking personality. Sorry to say, but we aren't that evolved from our hunter-gatherer ancestors!! Read the Red Queen Let me put it this way, most men are in a agreement to what a beautiful woman is or should be. But women have varied opinion of what a 'hot' guy should be. That definition is gene based. Women are easy to decode once you just introduce biology into the mix. Trust me, it's not rocket science, I know, I'm trying to be one :) edit: fixe… | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Can't decide between a flake or a rejection. Can seddit figure it out? I just need feedback.Always working on my inner game. Prior to her I started cardio kick boxing, and after her I'm going to pick up bass guitar and learn to fly. I always wanted to fly a plane since I was a kid, so private pilot's license, here I come! I guess in between targets, everyone should work on their inner game! | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Can't decide between a flake or a rejection. Can seddit figure it out? I just need feedback.I wasn't going to anyways, it's just that friends + beer + peer pressure aren't exactly awesome! While it is a loss, I don't really care. All I care about is that I got my answer! I took the risk, it was either a win or a lose. The worse would have been limbo, which this isn't. So I win! | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Can't decide between a flake or a rejection. Can seddit figure it out? I just need feedback.I'm over it. Just want to figure out where I went wrong (if I even did) and how I can learn from my mistakes and avoid repeating them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Can't decide between a flake or a rejection. Can seddit figure it out? I just need feedback.Which is what I figured! From what I can gather from my social circle is: she's never had a relationship at all. Which is why I'm having an issue with this. Not sure if she's awkward or me. Or if it's a rejection or a flake... | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:06 PM |
| 1 | An ethical question for you guysIf you're having doubts then you have your answer. You want the full 'package' and honestly personality is an important thing. But do what you want... | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 06:56 AM |
| 2 | PLAYING TO WIN: From this day forward, never again will you feel the need to play it safe with women! (Article by Chase Amante)Yup, I can attest to the risk taking attitude! In fact I did it today. I was able to talk with my boss about sex. My boss is her 40's and I'm 22. She suggested I read The Read Queen. She discussed what girls look for in guys and what women are programmed to perceive. We talked about the 'bad boy sterotype' and why women 'like' them, what it means for survivability etc. Later in the day she said that she enjoyed our conversation and that it was better than reading technical reports all day. If I … | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a girl over the telephone. Haven't talked to her in months. Need advice.This sound like oneitis? If you really don't care if she says 'no' then go for with a 'don't give a fuck attitude'. But honestly, if you really care, you want to do it face to face, it has a higher chance of you getting a 'yes'. Start a text convo... it can be a little hard, but just try it! If that isn't gonna happen, I suggest you move on. There are better, more available girls out there. This always helps me (say it to yourself) "There is always someone better than the one I'm going after; so… | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Find your authentic smile, notice the differenceThe first example I can say is what I call 'warming up'. Usually before going to lunch with my social circle (which is mostly girls, and has one that I'm interested in) I usually talk to my coworkers about their days, or mention something interesting. I talk with them for 5-30 minutes. I find this puts me in a zen place. So when i go to lunch, I'm in the proper frame of mind! Try warming up with friends or family. Share some secret or just some information. You'll see how quickly it makes you ca… | /r/seduction | 02/07/11 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Vibing with AlphasJust don't make it a formula. Everyone is different, everyone reacts different. Don't emulate those guys in anyway that is uncomfortable for you. Experiment and see what fits your style and personality. And go from there! | /r/seduction | 02/07/11 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Is there any groups dedicated to teaching women about being better as seddit does for men?Oh geez i just re-read your post... my bad... I think I highlighted keywords like resources, seduction, and for women. Oh brain you so silly :P | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 10:32 PM |
| 3 | no pickup, but somewhat interesting clubbing experience that left me with some thoughts about clubbing in general, opinions and advice pleaseThey don't mesh with my personality at all. I'm more "outdoorsy" and adventurous. I prefer meeting women either day game (which I have yet to start) or through friends. I easily have social proof in the latter! And my outdoorsy, adventurous self and activities I do seems to impress them! So I stick with that. Again, if clubs don't mesh well with you, then avoid it. There is no sense in going to a place you aren't comfortable with. And given that most women have this popular belief (by most I mea… | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Tips for seducing a dude that just doesn't get it?Yup it has to be all you! I missed my shot... and now she's engaged! Oh well, c'est la vie I suppose. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Vibing with AlphasYeah I have a similar problem! My social circle is now mostly girls with 1 other guy, who is the alpha. I thankfully befriended this guy early as one of the other girls has a problem with me, but she thankfully won't do anything about it. While having the alpha in the group does hurt my game, it also give me an opportunity to see how he operates. He is unafraid to break touch barriers, acts very relaxed and not poised, and in general is fun to hang out with. But when I compared his life to mine,… | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 04:13 PM |
| 1 | personal hygieneCrap I look pretty damn similar to all of them! Except I sport a little bit of stubble... ala Aragorn... that's right LOTR reference. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Quick and easy panacea for OneitisI find classical music to be the best! More emotion in it. But what I find the best is to just talk a walk... it relieves stress, helps you get cardio and just puts you out there to meet people. I've met some interesting people who walk their dogs. But what I really want to try is to just volunteer! Not only will it take your mind of her, you help someone and in that sense you sorta build inner game. I know it seems weird, but I find that when I help someone, I "increase" my own value, which in … | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Find out how to conquer jealousy...This is my major issue! I don't think I'll be entirely over it soon... I'm still working on my inner game, and this is possibly the last thing I will work on... but knowing a guide exists helps a lot. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?Budget! There is nothing more important than that. Take inventory of what you make, what you are paying, and what you can live without. For example, I have no need to get mobile internet for my smartphone, I live and work near hotspots. My bills dropped from $80 to $35. Open a savings account! Every paycheck you make, transfer a percentage to that account. Most advisers will say 10%. Always assume you are making less than you are actually making. And consider the 10% or whatever percentage you c… | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 11:25 AM |
| 1 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?High-five! | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?Except I am always someone of value, even 21 year old anti-social me! I just realized my value a little later than usual. Just like everyone I have the ability to be social, content and confident, I just didn't know it then. The mindset wasn't there... and that's partly due to bullying when I was younger and other things. But I'm better now, still improving! | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 09:15 PM |
| 17 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?I see so much of myself in you! You basically are me, and that's a good thing! I'll give you a brief overview of my life. This started way back last year when I was 21 and working in a cubicle, all alone. Back then I did not even have friends. The following is a summary of that last year that I hope you find helpful. What you want will take time, and like every good thing in life, it takes time. But be patient, be consistence, be unwavering and above all, HAVE FUN! You'll get what you what from … | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Update to a FR, got flaked by a HB9. HB9 best friend said she was really interested in me but something important came up. How do I proceed to seduce HB9?Forget her! People like that really piss me. Not only does she not show up for the date or cancel in advance (or even give an excuse), she has the audacity to use her friend to give you some made up excuse?! I'm sorry, you deserve better. However, you can try again next week to be really, but after that don't even bother. (Better to try and fail, then do nothing and regret it). I've had something similar. I asked out a girl and she agreed. However, come date-day an excuse came up "I've got homew… | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 11:54 PM |
| 1 | What are people's thoughts on doing "recon" before a date? Helps? Hurts? Doesn't matter? What is a horse shoe?It has made me like her more... but it takes away the mystery of finding out from her... Blogs are excellent way to see if you're interests mesh or not! | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How to get past a wall, generally speaking ofcourse?Hmmmnn, say for building rapport. A walled up person will have difficulty letting you in and letting themselves be open. That's one thing I can think of for now. In essence, say the person is interested in you, just doesn't want to get hurt. For w/e reason, either they were hurt before (cheating ex-bf or abusive) or low-self esteem. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get past a wall, generally speaking ofcourse?An emotional wall, the ones people build to keep anyone from getting close. (added that to the question... realized how vague I was being!) | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I am a popular, well liked guy, but have never gotten a girl. HELP!!!Are you telling me my life story? If it's any consolation, I haven't had a girl, or a first kiss or anything! But I've taken it in steps. I can now talk with women and just be awesome. I'm right now interested in a girl whose got an amazing personality! And she loves star wars, STAR WARS man! What you really need to work on now is inner game. Get confident! Work on yourself; never compare yourself to your brothers. They are different people and have different experiences and lives. You live a di… | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.Elaborate on the game please! What exactly are implications if I do get involved with her? | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.Thanks for that... but I don't consider myself an alpha in any sense. Having had no prior relationships or even a kiss... For the first time in a while, I'm been questioning the ethics of this. Maybe seddit can discuss this and sticky it? What is the proper etiquette when meeting a friendzoned friend? | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.No I don't think this will impede me. I just have a moral issue. Is it right to steal her from him (even if they are going no where fast!). I mean, say you saw an island first, but lacked the resources to claim it. While I just come along, see that you've seen this island and want it, but I have the resources to do it... I dunno. I want to reflect on this some more. Really question my approach and motives. I wish I knew what his were and what he really wants with her... | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.How so? Again, I think the way I worded the story may have a self-serving bias (this is from my point of view, which could totally be wrong!). I did not see how she acted with him when I was not there. In any case I'm not gonna think about it at all and analyze the details! Just gonna live my life and be happy :) | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.I'm not going to 'hit it and quit it' if that's what you mean. I'm not that much of a rake. Being someone like this is my worst fear! | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.Quite logical of you to say. Who knows, maybe she is into me! | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Saw a friendzone today... felt bad for the guy. Sort of messed up my game.Oh and she's cute too... definitely a keeper. She's HB 7 or 8 can't put my finger on it. But given that I haven't had any action at all, I think I should do it first. And yes, that is being selfish I know, but I'm done being a 'nice guy'! | /r/seduction | 18/06/11 08:16 AM |
| 1 | #close! Just an update and maybe something that could possibly help.I actually did that a bit. Her friend (a girl, taken) and one of my friends decided to play some hackisac or w/e. So I just left her alone with one my other awkward engineering friend (who is worse off then me and also not a looker, but he's got height). Anyways about 5 mins of this and I returned to her. And this just in. Got an email from my friend about having drinks tonight downtown, where according to him, she might show up. Either way I'm going tonight! (hopefully it all works out and we h… | /r/seduction | 17/06/11 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [First FP] Met an awesome down to Earth girl don't know what to do (also first time posting in this subreddit)Is there a particular timing limit? While I do want to take it at my pace, I think I'd be far too slow. Personally my pace would be months. I'm thinking either this or next week. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 10:41 PM |
| 2 | [First FP] Met an awesome down to Earth girl don't know what to do (also first time posting in this subreddit)To be honest... I wanna date her, then we'll see after that. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 09:41 PM |
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