b_dubya Archive

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2	The long, sad story of a dirty old man who knows all about TRP, but finds himself inexplicably unable to put any of it in action. I need some fresh ideas. Dammit! You can't always do this with a female and not lose respect. Look up married man sex life by athol kay. May have some useful pointers. As for the anger, do you hit the gym regularly? It may help relieving some frustrations.	/r/askTRP	21/04/14 05:10 PM
2	The long, sad story of a dirty old man who knows all about TRP, but finds himself inexplicably unable to put any of it in action. I need some fresh ideas. %&* mobile. Male friends give you an option to be weak, to ask questions, to get help. You can't always do this with	/r/askTRP	21/04/14 05:07 PM
3	The long, sad story of a dirty old man who knows all about TRP, but finds himself inexplicably unable to put any of it in action. I need some fresh ideas. The want for an emotional connection is natural. Just remember though, you are the leader in any relationship. You fail in this duty, your heart will suffer. That's why strong male friendships give you an option	/r/askTRP	21/04/14 05:05 PM
16	The long, sad story of a dirty old man who knows all about TRP, but finds himself inexplicably unable to put any of it in action. I need some fresh ideas. Your image may come across as stoic as well as your band persona images you as dark triad, but it seems you end up going beta/nice guy. As an example, the goth girl went to a certain point, gave LMR, and you caved. Then you kept her around, even though she used you for validation. She was damaged goods, period. The problem, imho, is that you give a fuck. You care. You're dependent on a women's opinion. You need to start looking out for the only person that will ever care for you. Yourself. You n…	/r/askTRP	21/04/14 03:57 PM
5	How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks? Have you ever heard of oil pulling? I started this for mouth hygiene using coconut oil, and noticed as a side effect the circles under my eyes lightening and going away after a week. Thanks to genetics, I've always had these circles. I'm thinking as you're doing the pulling, it's also cleaning out the path to the sinuses and reducing the junk in there that causes the darkness. Do a little bit of googling with "oil pulling" and dark circles under eyes and you'll notice other people have had this …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 01:40 PM
3	Did I screw Up? Baldness is not a relationship killer. It can affect your confidence if you let it. Losing your confidence and frame - that's a relationship killer. Be willing to accept that you're going bald, talk with a good barber/hairdresser, explore new hairstyles. Do NOT do combovers. That is just ugly.	/r/askTRP	24/12/13 03:59 PM
2	Did I screw Up? I'm going bald also, so I adopted the Jason Statham look. Short stubble all over. Works fine for me, along with working out. Lost weight, face has good definition. Upped my clothes level also. It's the overall look that's important. Dress like a man. Walk like a man. Confidence, own who you are. As for decisiveness, look around at the things that need to be done that you've been avoiding. Make a list, break them down into smaller pieces and do them. You'll feel better about yourself and develop …	/r/askTRP	24/12/13 03:20 PM
2	Did I screw Up? What do you want? You're impatient for what? Divorce, red pill to take effect, for her to come to her senses? Actions will speak louder than anything you can say. Take a deep look at the relationship (your own opinion, do not ask your wife). Is it worth saving? How bad will you come away from this? How would you rebuild the crumbling foundation of your relationship? Look at your past behaviours and start fresh? Or is it time to cut ties and move on? Losing ingrained habits can be very hard. It c…	/r/askTRP	24/12/13 04:20 AM
14	Bitter Rant. 5 Stages of Loss/Grief Denial and Isolation - Block out / hide / why me /can't be happening to me . . . the facts/events. Anger - How the F$%K is this even happening to me!? It's not FAIR!! Lies, Lies, Damned lies . . . all I was told to believe in. Bargaining - Not all women are like that (NAWALT)?!? i'm going to find me a unicorn! Depression - Well this just sucks, what is the point . . . of relationships / marriage / etc. Acceptance - It is what it is . . . truth.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 05:23 PM
2	From a white knight to a...? Now you're just hanging yourself. sav′ing grace′ - definition a quality that makes up for other generally negative characteristics; redeeming feature. Sex is a job? Lost interest? Who will go looking for variety first? Are you familiar with the term hypergamy? http://therationalmale.com/category/hypergamy-2/ And as for the slowing down . . . Oookay then. Nothing ever changes . . . right... I think there's a logical fallacy there somewhere.	/r/askTRP	10/12/13 03:22 PM
2	From a white knight to a...? Now you're just bragging ;-) What happens if she finds better sex? :-0	/r/askTRP	10/12/13 02:24 PM
3	From a white knight to a...? Well then, you seem to be committed to this one. I wish you well, it will take work for the rest of your life. Go read Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life. Tells how to use Red Pill in a marriage and I don't doubt that it'll work in a relationship also. But always remember, you have a community ready to help you in case you fall down or are cast aside. Always seek help in your darkest moments.	/r/askTRP	10/12/13 02:08 PM
2	Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha? Hamstering is self rationalizing reasoning. You can't be right because I believe . . . or my limited personal experience/sense of fairness/stunted morality is has taught me that this is not so, so I will argue against it and not take other's views as valid no matter how much they provide evidence/shared experiences/how life has worked for them. Does this help? Blinders and an unwillingness to "walk a mile in another person's shoes". And the drama in the statement "I don't wish to become alpha an…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 01:27 PM
4	From a white knight to a...? You can't fix others. You can only change yourself. Past performance usually is a good indicator of future performance. She was in a relationship with you and cheated. Do you really want to go through that again. You will with this girl. As said above, you are the beta/ fall back plan/ safety net. Do you really want this? Are you that desperate and live the rest of your life hoping for her to change?	/r/askTRP	10/12/13 01:22 PM
3	Update: Questions about monogamy and this one girl Your co-worker asks about your sex-life? Interesting. Didn't answer the question about interacting with friends on both sides. Her career she's studying for . . . higher status/pay than you? You know how that ends. Right? As for fibbing about how soon you will be ready, out and out lies just lead to trouble. You see her possibly attempting to spin plates, mention nothing is long term guaranteed, hit a few red flags in regards to your opinions, feelings, LTR plans and yet you're still willing to …	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 04:03 AM
5	Update: Questions about monogamy and this one girl You're not in charge of this relationship. She's laying the ground rules and the expectations and your future out for you. Keep details to minimum with a co-worker. "Our affairs are private. No outside opinions wanted. Do you and her interact with her/your friends as a couple?" Rules are to see each other once every 7 days. "Yes it's hard to fit you in and make you a priority but I have my career/future to think about. Plus it keeps you on a leash in case I don't find someone else" She'll be rea…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 02:44 AM
7	Making Mistakes after TRP Theory vs practice. Theory gets you started. Practice gets you there. As a beginner, don't try hitting home runs. Just try talking, joking, beginning negging. Just try basic social interactions to get comfortable. You will make mistakes. Acknowledge, replay, and analyze. Learn from your mistakes, don't run from them, don't hide from them, don't feel embarrassed by them. Get over them and move on. Random conversations, random remarks with strangers. Get out and practice/fake redpill until you're …	/r/askTRP	21/10/13 07:16 PM
10	Loneliness is a POWERFUL force. Getting laid can be so difficult. Getting close to leaving TRP, please tell me I'm wrong At the risk of being repetitive, here's my $.02 You've been shown a path of how to be a master craftsman. Instead you got something from IKEA, followed the instructions, and want people to admire it. It doesn't fulfill you and you can't get validation/respect/admiration from others for your IKEA product. A master craftsman doesn't seek external validation. He has his own pride in what he does, he does his best according to his standards. He becomes famous because other people notice his mastery …	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/13 02:34 PM
35	I make one simple change, and it's instantly noticed. Posture, pride in how you present yourself, style and cut of clothing, fitness, personal hygiene. It all ties together. Respect yourself. It's a good start. Another simple tip - keep your shoes polished.	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/13 08:22 PM
35	I seriously hate crying Manipulation. She's crying 'Don't maintain your SMV, while mine is decreasing cause I don't want to do anything about it. I don't want you to have options and be attractive to others, while my SMV drops.' She wanted you not to leave at all, you made it out the door. Her control of you is not as good as she wanted it to be. Tell her to mature. You're a big boy. You can take care of yourself. If she wants to have any future with you, she needs to mature, get past the games and act like she's worth…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/13 08:19 PM
6	Questions to ask before marriage? Raising a child is a noble endeavor. Marriage is not a sealed contract. It is a temporary agreement between two people, that can be broken at any time by either one of the two people due to any influence by external/internal forces, whether logical or emotional. Currently divorce favors the female. You will be screwed over by the courts and your ex, again due to many influences. Even if you think she is noble now, she can quickly reverse course and justify any actions she takes. This includes yo…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/13 05:21 PM
2	My sister is a cunt, how do I get her to stop treating me like shit. Then rethink a little. It's not just vanity. You received attention, direction, and discipline. Result:Independence, success, firefighter, and working through paramedic school. Her. Attention. Discipline, not so much. Kids need discipline to show them right from wrong. It's a form of beneficial attention that shows that parents care. Kids need rules and boundaries. Result: You successful. Think your parents are proud having a firefighter as a son? I would be. Her. Spoiled, immature, disrespectfu…	/r/askTRP	28/09/13 10:53 PM
8	My sister is a cunt, how do I get her to stop treating me like shit. Amused mastery. http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ Treat her like the spoiled child she is. As for the bathroom, if she leaves her shit lying around, either dump it in the trash or dump it in her bed, tell her to clean up after herself. Get your parents in on this. Don't associate with her as an equal. Amused mastery and call her out on her bad behaviour. It's going to be rough with her abuse, but don't take any shit from her. The fact is you're probably more successful. Your …	/r/askTRP	28/09/13 03:39 PM
9	Broke up, gf threatens to call the cops. Wow. I read your previous post about how compatible she was, how things were, and how you were considering marriage before you left with pre-nup and benefits for her. Bullet dodged. Enjoy Japan. Do as others suggested - 3rd party mover, witness, change locks, and move on.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/13 08:08 PM
8	Am I hopelessly blue-pilled? Go hang out at /r/redpillwomen. There is hope. Talk to these women, read the posts, find out what they require from red-pill men to be able to be red-pill women. Learn. You will have to search for a red-pill women. You have to game a few women in the searching. Try not to fall back into your old blue-pill ways. That's the hardest, is not falling back into old habits. You've seen a glimpse of the red-pill, have confirmed instances that support their theories. You hate to accept it because it goes…	/r/askTRP	25/09/13 02:45 PM
3	22 virgin, 19 shades of blue tormenting me You're in a rough spot. I can appreciate the fact that in a third world country, the support of your family is very important and you don't want to mess that up. Also realize that the fact of having sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy, again messing with your family support and religious sect issues. Have a hard look at your life. At what point can you reasonably cut ties with your family/religion? Before you go to college? Probably not likely, because of financial support and needing to have a d…	/r/askTRP	25/09/13 02:36 PM
1	That time lf our Life ... What should be my next move ? A warehouse would probably be more a shipping centre or distribution centre. A place where large shipments of items come in and are broken down for shipments to various stores, locations. Think future shop warehouse. Makes sense to ship to 1 large location, and then ship from there to individual stores their stock orders.	/r/askTRP	23/09/13 03:01 PM
5	The Omnipresent Shit Test A couple positions may be available; Missionary, Doggy style, 69, Please state your preference along with blow job at time of application . . . Couldn't resist . . . .	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/13 07:50 PM
2	That time lf our Life ... What should be my next move ? Retail sales + commission is the biggest lie they ever had. You have to sell lots to make anything at commission and you end up competing with everyone else who works there. A bank cashier is a step up prestige wise - maybe not in wages, but far better on a resume/CV than future shop/visions/walmart. Big boxes exist to make the most money for the least expense. That includes wages. Stay away from jobs that have little to no future. No opportunities to move up, no opportunities to branch out. Big…	/r/askTRP	18/09/13 07:06 PM
2	That time lf our Life ... What should be my next move ? Don't get into retail sales. Shit for pay, soul sucking boredom. Get into an office job (bank), working for a tradesman (electrical, carpenter, etc), warehouse (inventory skills), anything but retail sales. The pay sucks, there are no real benefits (playing with electronics crap all day?). Been there - wasted too much time doing it. You're young, work with your body and mind. Some physical labour and learning a bit of a trade or useful skills. You want to take Business Admin - work in an office.…	/r/askTRP	18/09/13 06:13 PM
12	The Omnipresent Shit Test Can always agree and amplify. - Yes, lots. - Yes, are you applying? First part of application is a kiss. - Yes, too many to count. - Yes, damn women, they keep throwing themselves at me. - Yes, how many grandchildren did you want again? (for parents). - Why, do you have someone for me to meet? Take a number. Turn it into a nonsensical answer. Keep it vague, noncommittal, don't give away any useful info like any answer to a shit test.	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/13 05:58 PM
1	That time lf our Life ... What should be my next move ? Screw the painting gig, take the bank job. Right now, you need a steady paycheck. Not vague promises. Work out. Evening classes. While you're working full-time. Drop the the ex-gf. All she's doing is screwing with your mind and motivations. No one is the one. Start applying TRP and game and go to /r/becomeaman. Start doing it and chart progress. Get a social support circle with like minded friends with self improvement in mind. This will be probably a little bit harder to find at your age. Drop …	/r/askTRP	18/09/13 02:36 PM
7	Unsure what to do, leaving for Japan for 2 yrs in Oct Okay . . . Outline. Dating for a year, leaving in one month to go to Japan for 2 years and you want to get married before you go. Leaving her alone for two years. WhY? Financially to help her out - Giving access to funds/opportunities not available on her own while you get - what? She's willing to sign a pre-nup - How well will this hold up in court is she/lawyers decide it's not fair? A business standpoint - You've not explained your profit in this. A business looks to maximize it's own interes…	/r/askTRP	17/09/13 04:37 PM
1	Whats my best course of action? I can only give you a playbook, I can't tell you what plays to run when. You're the man on the site. It's up to you to judge what to do and when. Don't focus on just the date, kino and escalate on the party nights. "Better a slap on the face than regrets for what didn't happen" - does this apply?	/r/askTRP	12/09/13 02:41 PM
2	Whats my best course of action? Good. Had to check. Some men may be a little dense on realizing they're orbiting. Now next thing is to escalate. Get her to an intimate setting, kino - touch, keep up red pill, escalate to your place. And into our lap falls http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/1m70fj/trp_on_escalating_advice_techniques/ Nice timing!	/r/askTRP	11/09/13 08:24 PM
1	Whats my best course of action? What are the signs that a woman wants to make you an orbiter? She is investing time and energy into you, but has no plans on ever hooking up with you. If she is leading you on with physicality and then acting all platonic-BFF with you when you get together, and you stick around, she has successfully made you into an orbiter. When should a guy start to become suspicious about such a pattern of behavior? Immediately. You should be watching for this stuff well before it actually occurs, and know wh…	/r/askTRP	11/09/13 05:28 PM
13	Just walked out of a 13 year marriage As a fellow Canadian and person who was totally blue pill at the end of a 13 year marriage with a kid, do this; Get support from male friends that sympathize with you and help you. Develop your buddy network. Life will look pretty shitty at times, develop your support network. Lawyer up fast - this will determine how much you will pay for spousal support, child support and how much to pay to keep your share of interest in the house. Lawyer up fast - set down visiting/parenting rights with the ki…	/r/askTRP	11/09/13 02:06 AM
1	Why do sluts have lower value? Sorry, mobile. As I was saying, burned through 3 marriages, countless affairs. Not even that great looking, but knows how to flirt and act feminine. Reels them in, hooks them, then gets bored and moved on. Known her for 15 years, never got involved. She's a man-eater. That's an example of a slut. Wants the attention, focused on herself and willing to give it to any man that shows interest. Hypergamy at its best. Also it's not about body composition, it's what strokes their ego. Attention, desire…	/r/askTRP	06/09/13 04:29 AM
0	Why do sluts have lower value? Know a older slut in 40's. Working on her 5th man. Has burned through 3 marriages	/r/askTRP	06/09/13 04:27 AM
1	Apparently there are asshole moves that are beta. I think I did that yesterday. Can we make a list of beta asshole moves? By the way, thanks for Athol Kay mention - looked it up , some good reading. The older generation had a presence. My dad was similar. Could convey more with body language than words. Could tell when he was irritated, upset, disappointed with me. But at the the same time, sons are more influenced, in tune with their fathers. The being a doer - Alpha in every way. If something needs to be done, no mentioning, talking, complaining - just do it. Something I'm still working on. Women like that. It fe…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/13 03:09 PM
1	Apparently there are asshole moves that are beta. I think I did that yesterday. Can we make a list of beta asshole moves? Coming from an older generation, probably similar to yours, it seems that the proper response would have been to look at the issue and say 'I need to fix this so it works with the A/C' and then do it. She tried to do it, didn't have all the info to do it properly, and made a mistake. I think the redpill situation that applies here is some of the Father/Daughter dynamic. Encourage their efforts to a point, realize that they made a mistake, be an Father (Alpha) and make it right. If they ask for a…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/13 02:39 PM
11	We have rule, we never free a mind once it’s reached a certain age. It’s dangerous; the mind has trouble letting go. I've been separated for 4+ years, working on divorce. Your ex's opinion, from now on, does not matter. Go to the gym - for yourself. Find new hobbies and groups to go to - for yourself. As for dating, I've had a few dates in the past 4 years, but really, I can't see being yoked to a woman again until I improve myself. Gym, hobbies, boys night out. Things that make me happy and that I will continue on doing, because they're in my best interests. Flowers, no. Only as a reward. Third date rule, fra…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/13 11:05 PM
37	We have rule, we never free a mind once it’s reached a certain age. It’s dangerous; the mind has trouble letting go. Take the TRP now. I'm 50 and discovering this. Been to the gym for the last 5 months and feeling better. Lost poundage and waist size. My blood pressure was also high, slowly coming under now. Hope to get off the damn meds soon. I've always been a good guy / bluepiller. No more. No one gives a damn about yourself except you. And we older dudes have to start looking out for ourselves, cause no one else will.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/13 10:16 PM