| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 685 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖 | THINGS SCROTES SAY | babybellenotcheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 372 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits... | #JustLVMThings | babybellenotcheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What is your worst VDay gift from a LVM? 😬 | DISCUSSION | babybellenotcheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 0 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 | RANT | babybellenotcheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:48 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 31 | Even condom companies say it’s a red flag if a man tells you he can’t feel a thing with a condom onMe too!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:48 AM |
| 67 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?Oh my gosh! Just this past weekend I was visiting with my girlfriend and her fairly new significant other. This guy was horrifying to be in the car with. He swore and flipped off anyone that so much as changed a lane! I kid you not, anyone that merged into his lane in front of him, he has to speed around to flip them off. At one point he got a phone call so he pulled over in front of someone’s driveway (😬) and the owner of the home came out to nicely ask him to not block their driveway. This guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:28 PM |
| 18 | That horrible spinster life, wait...Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:37 PM |
| 103 | This guyThis reminds me, the last time I tried online dating I came across a profile of a man who was 67 and said he wouldn’t date women over 22 because that was our “peak” and we went downhill and were “broken” after 22. I immediately deleted my account 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 20 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedSame. I briefly dated a guy who left a shit smell everywhere he sat. The horror... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:53 PM |
| 14 | Sex in a relationship...I would contribute my life savings to making that island a reality. Seriously can someone build an app for women that want to platonically live and share life responsibilities and experiences with other women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 18 | Sex in a relationship...This this THIS!!! Every single one of my ex’s would feel they were entitled to my body after doing a chore or a teeny tiny favor. Even the smallest of things. One ex spent 10 minutes on eBay helping me find a Victoria’s Secret bra that I really wanted but it sold out online. He talked about that “help” for MONTHS and dangled it over my head anytime he wanted sex. It makes me throw up in my mouth just thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 21 | Sex in a relationship...Exactly why I quit dating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | I've done something big only because of FDS. I started my YouTube channel for young Indian working woman because of you ladies!Me too me too! Please PM me the link! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 29 | LVM and ChristmasIck. This was my own father, texting me YESTERDAY about what to get my mom. It breaks my heart...because she spends all YEAR thinking about what to get him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 28 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterWhat sub is this? I want to read about more sulking baby dads :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 43 | No surprise that most of the men say that she should appreciate his sexual assault and most of the women disregard it as him just having a high sex drive...Is it just me or has anyone dated a guy that ISN’T like this? Every. Single. One. Of. My. Exes. Pulled. This. Shit. It made me feel dirty and useless. I couldn’t do a damn thing without them feeling invited or entitled to sex. Even if I was recovering from surgery, they still thought it was an appropriate time to request sex. God I love being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 15 | And I cringe..It is. You can see the app glitch with his hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:48 AM |
| 7 | It feels impossible to find a genuine sisterhood in a world filled with pickmeishasAhh yes, I’m right there with you. I am also cutting ties with my best friend for the exact same reason. She’s on a never ending rollercoaster of LVM to NVM relationships and I have saved her more times than I can count on my hands and toes, but not once, in the slightest of ways, has she ever been there for me. At this point I’m nothing but her support system and a free therapist and I’m DONE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 30 | Older LVMI will never forget the time when a girlfriend and I were at the gym and a guy asked my friend if she was available for drinks later that night. She was super desperate, a superpickme, and fell for this guy within 3 seconds flat. Later that night he asked her how old she was (because he was concerned she wasn’t even 18) and when she told him 27, he got up and left because she was too old for him. He was 41. HE FUCKING THOUGHT SHE WAS BARELY LEGAL BUT THEN DROPPED HER WHEN HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS 27… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 142 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?Yep. 100%. I have never felt comfortable seeking help from a man for lady issues. Not only did I find it creepy but I knew they wouldn’t be able to relate! That is why it took me nearly 10 years to find a plastic surgeon for a breast augmentation. Every single male surgeon walking into the room and would say something along the lines of, “so as big as I can fit them in, right?” WHAT!? I won’t even get into the creepy things they would say during consults. But I finally went to a female plastic s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖RIGHT?! I scrolled through so many of his pictures just waiting for the one to be like, “just kidding this is all for fun and jokes!” No. He actually loves that doll. He married that doll. Oh gosh the way he nuzzles her with his nose in some of the videos make me want to vomit. It’s truly scary. He is mentally unwell. And YES! He airbrushes a literal doll to make her even more perfect. Even as plastic we are not good enough!!! I’m sure he orders a new version of her every so often just so she do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 3 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖No words 🤣👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 9 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖I’m so sick of the narrative that we HAVE to swallow cum. I’m calling it quits on that one. Peace out, jizz. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Let me know if you do so I can watch 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 6 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Do it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 14 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Yuck, isn’t this the truth. And they think they are owed those several times a day since they aren’t getting pussy “aND ItS Not ThE SAMe KinD If OrGaSm 😭” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 48 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Yea, he could cum three times in a row, so every time we had sex we had to keep going, three rounds, so he would be satisfied. Of course there was zero foreplay, he never even TRIED to make me cum, and a few times I was so tired and sore by round two that he would accuse me of having a shitty sex drive and once told me I needed to get medical help for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 26 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖This was the last straw. I ignored his texts for a week and that following Friday I packed up the few things he left at my apartment and texted him that they were on my porch in a bag. I heard from him one month later when he was supposedly seeing a therapist and he wanted to discuss all the things he did to make me leave him. I never responded, he was blocked, and we have had zero contact since then 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 50 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Male entitlement at its finest. That’s my best guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 69 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Because periods are the problem, not his nATUrAL SExUAL NEEDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 17 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖I should add, the dolls IG is @margo_party Prepare to be horrified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:07 PM |
| 30 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Some of them do! Take a look at Yuri Tolochko. He just MARRIED his sex doll. They both have their own IG account. Yes, the damn doll has one 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 152 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖E x a c t l y 😭And yet so many women don’t believe it or refuse to see it! At the time I shared this with a friend and her reaction was, “well he has a point...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 512 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖This post was inspired by the post from earlier today about whether anyone has had disturbances in their monthly cycle due to a LVM. My answer is, OH F YES (from nearly every ex, but let’s focus on “Joseph”). I have had this text saved for four years to serve as a reminder of how disgusting, pathetic, and degrading some LVM can be. He was upset that I didn’t tell him before I came over, on a Friday evening, that my period unexpectedly started that day. This scumbag had a rule that we would avoid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.You just summed up all of my relationships in one paragraph! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Cringe story from my Pickme 🤡 days“No one who works for an MLM is a high value person.” Boom, right there. One of my ex-closest friends sells Monat hair products and I kid you not, her social media posts were So fake and cringy I had to mute her. All she posted about was how much money she made and how Monat CHANGED HER LIFE. After two years she told me that we couldn’t be friends because I didn’t support HER business (it’s not her business, she’s an MLM partner). Those people are truly delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:48 PM |
| 160 | the image speaks for itselfThe nails...why is it always the chewed down nails 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...He’s a bald toddler that just turned 36. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 11 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...This is NO JOKE. After knowing him for over a year I am in absolute shock over some of the stories he shared about his male friends. His best friend who is in his late thirties, married with two young children, has been fucking strangers on the internet for YEARS and even has a small apartment in another city where he lets one of his side girlfriends live. He deliberately treats his wife like shit in an attempt to get her to cheat so that he can take her to court and get custody of the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 7 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Yes, I think he meant we would start in France as he lives in Toulouse and then we’d make our rounds, fucking and splitting bills throughout the rest of Europe 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 12 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...DEAD! I never even put those two together until you brought it up 👏🏻🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 10 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...France 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 13 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...I mean, they are basically twinsies 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 42 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...I liked his work ethic. That’s about all. Like many past pickme’s I used to think that dating less desirable men meant they would treat me better. Never. Again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 96 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...I know. I can’t either. The amount of cringe in his email is just...🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 23 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...You are so very welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 112 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...That’s what I saying!!! The fact that he mentions I have to pay my way to get there AND have sex with him gets me every time. These LV men thinking they are the prize really makes my head spin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 49 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...I don’t think Sheldon Cooper participates in coitus :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 93 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Every new email he creates I block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him!Dying because I did this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 7 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages meI just did the same thing!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymoreI need to see this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 18 | Changed my age on OLD profiles to be five years olderEvery OLD profile I see has a ‘seeking’ 18-whatever age is 10 to 20(!!) years younger than them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 28 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Have you noticed just how many men have only that question as their OLD profile bio? Immediate “next!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 17 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Can you DM it to me? I have to see this for myself :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 10 | This is what you're missing out on, ladies!What makes me the most ashamed of my pickme days was that I ALWAYS dated men like this and I took over the cleaning for them. I would literally dedicate every Sunday to cleaning their ENTIRE PLACE (it took between 3-6 hours usually). All the while they sat on the couch watching TV and not once did I think anything of it. Matter of fact I was soooo proud to be playing the 50’s housewife role while they relaxed. Even back then I couldn’t believe the messes that they created in the course of one we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 21 | How LVM take women out on datesI can smell those unwashed pillowcases from here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverA Boston Marriage is my dream! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Noooooope. What an idiot I was... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 49 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?This. Breaks. My. Heart. My boyfriend told me the same thing and guess who caved and got implants because he never shut up about it? 🙋🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | FDS Podcast?Please add me to the convo as well - this podcast idea has been on my mind for some time! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:47 AM |
| 28 | His Bucket list includes making it to japan and his other picture is him sticking his tongue out. The fact hes dressed as the joker already shows the clown nature. I downloaded and deleted after 5 minI’m sorry but are those teeth or yellow corn kernels? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 41 | Scrote mad that gf exchanged a pair of heels he got her for sandals and negs her saying she’d “look good if she wore heels more often.” One of the top comments says “maybe you were supposed to wear them in the bedroom” 🤮THIS THIS THIS! My ex bought me the most tacky GUESS dress for my birthday because HE wanted me to wear it because it was “so sexy.” Full sheer lace with a lined skirt and a barely-lined bodice (like wearing a tiny strapless bralette sort-of-lining). It literally looked like something a Vegas hooker would wear. I wear very classy outfits and he was constantly on my butt about dressing sexier for him in public. Receiving a “gift” that is all for him, that is one heck of a violating feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:02 AM |
| 104 | Talk about a NVM: "Ohio Cop Resigns After Using His Power To Run A Woman’s Plates And Message Her To Say She’s Hot"This is horrifying. Three years ago I was pulled over by a cop so that he could ask me for my phone number. He even joked that he had no reason to pull me over other than to get to know me. He was wearing a wedding ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 15 | Dating in times of CoronavirusI stopped reading at “so we met at his place.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 42 | Porn Makes Men Terrible in BedThe jackhammering. WHY IS IT ALWAYS JACKHAMMERING?! Does that actually feel good for them?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 23 | The bar is so low on advice subsI love that! I broke up with a long term ex once because not only did he forget my birthday, but the following day he claimed to ‘purposefully’ not wish me happy birthday because he ‘knows I don’t celebrate mine.’ Riiiiiiiiiiiight. Buh byyyyeeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 08:52 PM |
| 119 | Thoughts, Ladies?Rarely do I believe posts like this. A lot of sex workers lie about how much they make/receive. Not only that, but every sex worker I know that DOES fill the voids in their life with this expensive stuff, is beyond broke. They spend every last penny to purchase these luxury goods and are scrambling at the end of the month to pay their basic bills. I can’t emphasize this enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Are HVM even worth it tho?CO is nothing like India! Are you ok with a bit of snow in the winter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Are HVM even worth it tho?Yay! So, next step...where are we going? I’ve been considering moving to Colorado, I want to be near the mountains, any takers? A quick Google search showed me some beautiful farm properties for sale, close to the mountains! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 02:43 PM |
| 30 | Are HVM even worth it tho?I think I found my soul friends!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 25 | Are HVM even worth it tho?Oh my goodness - I have always dreamed of living in the country on a beautiful farm! Chickens and a teeny tiny miniature horse would be ideal...along with some of that Blue Moon Cheese :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:15 PM |
| 87 | Are HVM even worth it tho?Where and when can we start this all female community? :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 37 | Natural beautyThose are also the same guys that lust after heavily photoshopped IG models but think that whatever they post is REAL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 46 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.What?! What is his relation to you that he felt that action was warranted?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:15 AM |
| 23 | I wish I was born a lesbianFor this exact reason I am truly ready to try dating women (it can’t hurt, right?). Every time I get to know a guy, even if they start out great, I am so irked and disgusted by them there on out. The AWFUL sex, the lack of basic courtesies, the needy-ness, the entitlement to my body, ya’ll know what I mean... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 5 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsOh my gosh, tantrums?! Care to elaborate? I am horrified and curious... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:08 AM |
| 16 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsOr in my case taking continuous birth control for years and years because my ex didn’t see me as worthy to hangout with if I had a period and I wasn’t able to have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:14 PM |
| 22 | Husband upset that wife is tired after 65+ hour work weekRight?! I don’t even know them and this post molests my soul! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is this supposed to be funny or insulting? Ugh, online dating.That’s ok! I was just curious if you had any recommendations :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Is this supposed to be funny or insulting? Ugh, online dating.Any suggestions for a matchmaking service? I have considered that as well but I don’t know anyone who has used them. I fear it would be a waste of time just like OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 33 | What are the typical true motivations of LV exes who contact you to "apologize"?They can’t function day to day without a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:31 PM |
| 13 | The Land of No Men: Inside Kenya's Women-Only Village, UmojaI could definitely see this happening in Iceland. I’m in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Don't feel ashamed for having needs, and expecting extra effort to feel lovedSeriously, this is amazing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 13 | OMFG. The relationship advice sub is so toxic I can’t evenSign me up for that gene, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:06 AM |
| 15 | "thank u :)"Yes yes yes! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | "thank u :)"If I could do that without viewers having the option to directly contact him, I would in a heartbeat. But it looks to be a locked video on YouTube and I can’t download it. I want to share this video with the world so we could all laugh, but that wouldn’t be very HVW of me 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:05 PM |
| 17 | "thank u :)"Because they really, TRULY believe that they can mask months worth of damage done on their part by apologizing and showing they they are sorry. Most men assume that “sorry” is the cure-all bandaid to every wound they inflicted. It’s utterly psychotic to see this behavior again and again and I’m ashamed that men think the majority of us would fall for it. What will likely come of this in a few weeks or months will be anger on his part because, like most men, if we don’t fall for the apology, WE a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 16 | "thank u :)"I wish I was making this up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 14 | "thank u :)"Sadly it was, he sent the message through Facebook messenger so I could see it was his profile. But to your point, no way did the best friend reach out on his own. I fully suspect my ex asked him to and to claim he was doing it out of the goodness of his heart 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 33 | "thank u :)"So cringe that I’ve watched it a handful of time just to laugh out loud. It is pure entertainment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 86 | "thank u :)"I have received five messages (since quarantine began) including an apology YouTube video from my ex and even his best friend (who I never met) reached out to tell me I was wrong for ending things because my ex is “such a nice guy!” 🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 02:29 PM |
| 53 | Dating American menOk sure, but my last two ex’s are from France and Greece and they were just as bad, if not worse than any of my American boyfriends! I don’t know that “bad men” are specific to one country... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:26 PM |
| 21 | “wHaT dO yOu hAvE To oFfEr?”Did we date the same goblin? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:20 PM |
| 14 | Reminder: A HVM knows doing the bare minimum is just that. The bare minimum.Good point! I absolutely agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 15 | I realized my mom is a pickmeishaMy parents have been together since they were 16, now in their late 40’s. She has been and always will be a pickmeisha. Growing up I thought it was cute and proper for a wife to do LITERALLY EVERYTHING for her man as thats how I saw my mother treat my father. Now that shit makes me cringe. He can’t even make his own plate of food (as in put the food on his plate). He doesn’t know how to do laundry. He doesn’t even know where she keeps the vacuum. The list goes on and on, as you can imagine.... T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 66 | Reminder: A HVM knows doing the bare minimum is just that. The bare minimum.Yuck. This is so my father. I swear he does ONE load of laundry (and by one load I mean my mom sorts the clothes and puts them into the washer and asks if he can put ONE of the loads in the dryer when it’s finished) and he will gloat about that shit for a week straight. I’ve got my mom to thank for my past pickmeisha ways 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:57 PM |
| 19 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.But is this a website that features creeps like this? Or a site where sickos openly run around admitting to similar?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 60 | Just wanted to say thank you.I never tire of posts like this because I feel the same everyday when I tune into this subreddit 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:25 AM |
| 6 | LOL 2/10 men never seem to shut the fuck upYep. Her name is Eliza Ibarra. She has her own Porn Hub channel and all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:59 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts on the Quarantine Cutie video?Just do some basic digging on the guy, he’s all about the exposure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:09 PM |
| 66 | Thoughts on the Quarantine Cutie video?I am morbidly annoyed by the lengths people will go to for likes, attention, and subscribers. The guy who created this stunt has 264k followers on IG...this was for content...nothing more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 17 | Instant Left SwipeIn addition to ALL of the above... When they specify that their ideal woman is “sexy, sexual, intimate, enjoys physical touch, knows how to take control, open to trying new kink...” When their seeking age range is 20-30 years below theirs AND they won’t date anyone who is less than 10 years younger than they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:29 PM |
| 26 | I'm not even in the workforce yet and this is so depressing. How do you even begin to deal with things like this?I was thinking of this exact article!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:14 PM |
| 105 | Husband did a LVM thing todaySame here, one of which I left because of this very reason. He was actually upset when a celebrity crush of his got married because “now I can’t fuck her.” As if he would ever meet her and AS IF SHE WOULD EVER FUCK HIMMMMM! Mind you this celebrity was stunning and was marrying a super famous actor...and this was my insanely ugly boyfriend who’s gutter goblin looks I have described in other posts 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Please suggest apps to make friendsI’m going to try this, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 56 | A bit of a laugh for y’all during these tough times“According to Bogan, even if a 25-year-old were more sexually adventurous than he was accustomed to, he believed that would be something he could deal with.” Anyone else throw up after that comment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 14 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Agreed. It’s a shame when I see women attack other women on this forum. We are all here for the same reason! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:20 AM |
| 8 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Its sad to me that you find ease in labeling complete strangers as LVW on a women-positive forum. But at the end of the day I know my worth and that is all that matters. I’m sorry about your husbands disgraceful actions which you certainly did not deserve. I imagine (and can only hope) that you are living a much better life without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩I am no LVW nor am I at fault for your husbands disgusting actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:01 AM |
| 15 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Oh my, such a classy post. I wouldn’t lump all “strippers” into the same category. You my dear have a lot to learn. I’m sorry that you blame dancers for your husbands actions as if they forced him into such a deal, which I highly doubt they did. As they say, it takes two... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 15 | How many of you have received messages from LVM this week?Oh my gosh I literally JUST received this and ran to this thread to share... “Hello, This message wasn't planed but this entire situation with the coronavirus becomes unstopable and as you see a lot of people at work I'm a bit worried. I just want to be sure that you are fine. Here it's becoming very strange but all is ok.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:06 PM |
| 44 | If you think men are shallow, try being a female wheelchair user like me. Let me tell you!Right? If anything that little surgery saved me from some serious future disappointment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:06 PM |
| 28 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.Ewwwww stoppppp I’m trying to enjoy my lunch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:38 PM |
| 15 | How many of you have received messages from LVM this week?Yesss! For funsies I made a profile on a free dating site (for millionaires because I thought it might be more classy) and these LVM send nothing but pathetic four word messages asking “like what you see?” and attaching a half naked mirror selfie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:13 PM |
| 266 | If you think men are shallow, try being a female wheelchair user like me. Let me tell you!My freshman year of college I found a tiny lump in my breast that needed to be removed. The incision site is teeny tiny and the procedure was minimal. My boyfriend of four years dumped me because he thought a scar on my breast would be disgusting. He never even saw it. He dumped me the day of the surgery 🤣🖕🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 48 | LVM showing their true colors when things get toughI know men who have cheated on their wives during chemo or after they were cured of cancer. Same with their wives being pregnant or after giving birth because they found them less attractive due to surgery, natural occurrences, etc. Meanwhile these toads are uglier than shit and think they deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 16 | Petition to rename AITA to: “are men the assholes?”No no, never. The “other guy” is always the sucker/idiot/at fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 46 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩A service that they become obsessed with and lose all fucking common sense over. They think strip clubs are the girlfriend store and how they don’t see that we are sweet/bubbly/sexy/catering to them for MONEY is beyond me. We are literally a basic transaction that they love/hate. No offense, but also all of the offense in the world - how can they be so stupid? What’s beyond funny is how mad they get when you refuse to see them outside of the club because “omg I hate coming here...you are so much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 103 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩As an exotic dancer myself, this guy can royally go fuck himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 17 | Men: You get what you giveI hope that’s why. He claimed he had no idea if men were attractive (including himself) or not and that he only noticed pretty or ugly in women. Because in the beginning he had an a outstanding personality that eventually shed off within then next few months. Annnnnd I kept him around for career opportunities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:38 AM |
| 61 | Men: You get what you giveMy ex was physically disgusting. I’m not trying to body shame, but this gutter goblin of a man had the audacity to violently shame 95% of the women on this planet for being anything and everything he didn’t like. Ugly, fat, hairy, not dressing sexy enough, being too sexy and not available, flat butt, fake boobs, real boobs but too small, you get the picture (and the list goes on). Let me paint you a picture of the God he apparently thought he was. 5ft 7inchs tall. Super overweight, flabby gut, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:45 AM |
| 13 | Lazy communication from OLD. Left on read.That and they have the audacity to send I’ll tell you ANYTHING you want to know 😏” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 70 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?Men that mention their ideal partner must be; “Sexy” “Luscious” “Sensual” “Intimate” “A great lover” “Love closeness” “Sexually charged” “Able to keep up with MY sexual appetite” ...and all the like that I keep reading in every fucking profile. Oh, and men that don’t actually have 1 million dollars to their name but are all over millionaire dating websites. 🖕🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 96 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaThis this THIS! Why do they always get mad at US when they were the ones that fucked up? That shit used to make me crazy and insecure. I would spend hours trying to understand what I did wrong. It is confusing as hell and now when it happens I can’t help but laugh in their face and I call it quits on the spot. I’m fucking done with men who refuse to own up and admit guilt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 123 | “Come over, let’s cuddle”This is so cringy because it’s so damn accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:07 PM |
| 8 | For all the single ladies.. what's your favorite part about being single?Like everyone has mentioned, not tiptoeing around his moods (especially when he throws a tantrum for not getting sex). Being able to sleep without getting groped or woken up for sex. Being able to shower or change without being begged for sex because omg I just took my pants off... Not having to clean up after his toddler-like messes. Being able to wear what I want on a lazy day without makeup. My recent ex expected women to be perfect 24/7. Meanwhile this potato sack never worked out, was fat a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:42 PM |
| 10 | For all the single ladies.. what's your favorite part about being single?You took the words straight from my fingertips! AHHHH THE FUCKING MOODS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:35 PM |
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