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ADVICEbabyegirll/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:08 PM
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babyegirll/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 07:21 PM
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...This page is for married women? Why would you expect femcels to be here?
/r/RedPillWives24/06/25 06:37 PM
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Conservative women date all the time, that isn't your problem. Your problem is that you are seemingly overly picky. I'm also curious about your "crash out" on a guy you'd only been talking to for a little bit on an app?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 01:00 PM
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I didn't say that it does.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 12:38 PM
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I agree that men should be more masculine as well. I didn't say that men wanting to sleep around is bad. I also didn't say that the only thing TRP teaches men to do is sleep around. I don't think men sleeping around makes them bad men, either. I just said that the goals are different. You kinda made a lot of assumptions from my post that I didn't say at all. And the "romance stories" you're talking about where a woman tames the man... are those stories that you think red pilled women want to emu…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/25 02:12 AM
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Red pill men and women believe generally the same ideology of gender roles in relationships, the difference really comes down to the goals you have and how you use the knowledge. Red pill women tend to be looking for providers/husbands, whereas red pill men (at least in the larger online spheres) tend to be looking for women to sleep with. My husband is very masculine, a provider, a wonderful husband, very red-pilled - he just doesn't even know what that term means. I've seen it put here before …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/25 12:58 AM
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Being more intentional about thanking him for the specific things he does for our family and initiating sex more lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/25 02:45 AM
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When it first happened I said "I'm going to tell you something you may not like but I need to know how you want me to navigate this going forward." I then told him about being approached and finished it with "Unfortunately this just happens sometimes, I will always decline their advances, but I just want to know if you want me to tell you about it when it happens going forward." Mine said that he wanted me to tell him, so I do. When I tell him about it, he usually just jokingly says "want me to …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 01:40 AM
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Please include paragraph breaks and proofread your post; it will make people more likely to read it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 05:53 PM
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I'd be happy to be your knitting buddy! It's my biggest hobby and I'm interested in making friends :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 11:09 PM
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Please proofread your post and add paragraph breaks, more people would be likely to respond.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 03:48 AM
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Mine works at Walmart :) it works for us
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 07:38 PM
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I wish you the best of luck with it. We (BPD) always think we are "high functioning" in until we're in therapy and have a neutral party helping. Because in most aspects we ARE high functioning. The main and biggest issue is our relationships (with everyone). This is the biggest hurdle for us and if you can work on this everything else will get easier.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 03:58 AM
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With love, you are spiraling. I would recommend seeking help for the BPD first and foremost.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 03:52 AM
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I was raised extremely liberal (both parents liberal and divorced, mom came out as lesbian/bisexual after i was born). I think that it made me hate being a woman. I was constantly told while growing up "you can do anything a man can do!" which, to me, makes it seem like I shouldnt want to do "women" things, because obviously I should want to be doing what men are doing! I didnt learn any life skills basically because my mom didnt value any of it. I was a major SJW man-hater type. I luckily reali…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 08:58 PM
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I was this way when I was younger too! Eventually I just decided "Okay, one thing at a time" and I would slowly start implementing new things. Nail polish fist (because you do it once and its there for a week or two with no fuss), then light makeup (mascara, foundation). Then, as those became everyday habits, I would up it more. Spend more time on my hair, look a little into skin care, etc. Going about it slowly made it more accessible for me because I wasnt totally overwhelmed and pressuring my…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 02:36 PM
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This is such a good point and the way you worded this was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you
/r/RedPillWives05/10/23 02:57 PM
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Do you have anything that you know how to cook and are comfortable cooking already? I would be worried trying a new recipe the first time because I have definitely messed up recipes the first time doing them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 04:59 PM
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I honestly would just lock them in a box. Get one of those time release ones. If you physically cant use it, you wont use it accidentally or get sucked in. Once youve forced yourself to rely on it less, you wont feel the need to be on it all the time. Find other things to do that require no electronics whatsoever until you are able to be reasonable about your time.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/23 02:29 PM
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I think it's probably going to be important to consider why you want something that is ultimately volatile. There are strong, confident men that aren't "toxic" if that's the word we're using. I think this might be something that you have to be introspective about. If you were with a strong confident man that DIDNT cause any issues and was kind and all that, would you be satisfied? Or would you miss the "passion" and the drama and unhealthy behaviors? I would seriously look in to yourself about t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 06:29 PM
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I wouldnt. You can introduce men to the ideas without getting them into the "manoshpere". You can simply encourage the behaviors you like and outright tell them "I like masculine men/I want a provider/etc" without ever saying the words red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 01:09 PM
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Fellas, is it gay to have sex with a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 09:15 PM
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Hey! I know it seems difficult, but there are definitely traditional men around you. NYC is just too big for there not to be, haha. I think since you're Muslim, maybe a good place to start is a mosque if you dont already attend one? Other than that, attend groups that interest you. Go out and actively meet people. There will be plenty you dont like, but plenty thatyou do like as well. You are so young and have plenty of time, so do not rush into anything. Vet, vet, vet. This may be controversial…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 03:12 PM
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This might be the wrong place for this, but I'm looking for advice from a RP mans perspective. Please send me a message if that's you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:07 PM
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I don't think I would mind, but who knows. A man who wants to cheat will cheat regardless of if he's bisexual or not, in my opinion. Maybe I would feel different if presented the situation IRL though.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 09:30 PM
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I looove Jasmyne Theodora to death. I just want to be her, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 01:47 PM
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That isn't the point though :/ Maybe there should be a space for red pill men and women to meet online, but this space isn't it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 08:11 PM
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As the other commenter said - this isn't intended to be a place for red pill men and women to talk. This is a place for women. I just cant imagine many women here would want to connect with HVM if it would be a long distance thing?
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 07:44 PM
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If you don't tell him it'll seem like you were hiding it when it inevitably comes to light. Juat tell him now.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 12:23 PM
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Everyone is different. Would you say that every single woman acts like you? No, you would say that's crazy and all women are different. Its the same for men. Not everyone is going to want or like you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 09:51 PM
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I think part of the issue is that TRP encourages men to find women in places like bars and such because those women are easy to sleep with rather than form a bond with. If you want to find RPW, you need to go to places where we are. Community groups, religious groups, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 05:46 PM
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He always opens doors for me. If I'm walking ahead of him, he'll say something like "oh look over there" so that he can move ahead of me and open the door for me, lol. He always holds my hand, even when it's too hot (we're in Texas). He always pays attention to the things I like done particularly, such as laundry categories, folding towels, chores. He doesn't care at all how it's done, but he knows that I care, so he does it how I like it without me ever having asked. I run a fiber arts group at…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 02:27 PM
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Oh girl. The first paragraph is all the info needed. Youve only been together 5 months and its LDR. You need aomeone else.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 04:40 PM
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When did this become a sub to repost podcast snippets?
/r/RedPillWives07/04/23 07:41 PM
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I'm just confused about who here is scoffing at communication. Basically anytime anyone posts, the advice is "have you spoken to him about it?". The advice is always to pick your battles but make sure you can communicate your thoughts and feelings about the important things.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 01:16 PM
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I'm soooo happy for you! I love this feeling. And its so rewarding that he values the effort!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 10:56 PM
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For me it's accepting his decisions on things and being able to relax in knowing that I don't have to make those decisions. I struggle with making choices and overthinking, and I know that whatever he chooses is what's best for us. He's taking my opinions and concerns into account, but he's ultimately going to make what he thinks is the best decision, and I trust that it will be a good one. It takes the stress off of me, and if I'm less stressed, I'm sure that I'm easier to be around and I make …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 03:01 PM
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Oh good lord, this is why people don't take us seriously, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 01:34 PM
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Hey! The type of dress you're talking about is called an "A-line" dress, and it is basically exclusively what I wear. I really love wearing those type of dresses with cardigans or "kimono cardigans" (idk if there's another name for this style but its just a regular cardigan in a very thin and flowy fabric). I usually combine this with some simple jewelry and flats/heels/booties. I am pretty average or on the thin side, but I find that dresses like this REALLY cover anything I might be insecure a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 01:15 PM
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Agreed. The next step after this type of p*rn is acting on his impulses/fantasies. If you have young children, he needs to be away from them. You need to protect your family and he needs help.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 09:00 PM
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Am I crazy or is this just gibberish? Just a meandering path that doesnt even say anything.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 08:38 PM
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Neither of us have any way of knowing what the circumstances are of her being single are... Aside from that, many western women (myself included) were raised with the idea that we need to be strong and independent, and we don't come across red pill ideology until later in life, after we've made mistakes. I'm 23 and only came across this ideology within the past 2 years. If she didn't come across it until recently, she might not have known, where now she does.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 04:53 PM
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Oooohhhh this is a good one - I will be stealing this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 02:48 PM
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I will also add - to make it seem like I'm not directly confronting him, I will usually say something to the affect of "hmmm.. I think I read that the temperature is higher, let me check though." Even though I obviously know that it's 165, I will google it and show him. You dont have to be a "told you so" know-it-all to get information through. (Not implying that's how you are, but it's good to mention) :) Maybe that's a bit much for you, but it works for me!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 02:45 PM
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It sounds like this is an issue with being competitive - wanting to be "right" over anything else. I've never been competitive and I don't really mind if my guy thinks he's "won" every argument because I just dont view it as a competition and I don't really care that he does. This makes it easy for things to just pass by and makes him happy. Unless something is going to really negatively affect us, I tend to not say anything. If he "knows" that the sky is actually green - who cares? It changes n…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 02:42 PM
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Ah I think I could have been clearer. When I said "turned off" I didnt mean sexually. I do think that that you're right in that she would have to vet harder to make sure she finds someone whos intentions match her own. The reality is though that it doesnt matter how great of a person she is without kids though, because she does have them. Also, I didn't say that all men pursuing her would be looking for marriage, just that the men that DONT want to be with her because she has kids, wont be. I ne…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:48 PM
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Yup, exactly, lol. Giving advice oriented for non-moms is pointless in a situation where she's already a mom. Work with what ya got.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:07 PM
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I think it's possible, but your pool will just be smaller. Just vet men like normal and make sure you don't hide that you have children.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:03 PM
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I think she more-so meant that the men that would be turned off by her having a child wouldnt want to marry her anyways, so it isnt a loss. I don't think she's implying that all marriage minded men would be okay with a single mom or that you have to be open to single moms to be marriage material lol.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:01 PM
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It sounds like you know that joining a dating app would be bad news right now. Take some time for yourself. Sleeping with random men won't make it better, and anyone that you pursue right now will just be compared to him in your head. Take some time for yourself to reflect on what you want and how things went and what parts of this relationship you want to take with you into your next relationship when the time comes. An exact timeframe is hard to give, I would imagine that's different for every…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 01:35 PM
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that the favor should naturally be returned if he has any level of interest in me at all :/ Nope. You can't compliment him with the reason being that he should then do it back to you. I don't mean to be ugly here, but you're right that it sounds like he isn't attracted to you. BUT, you've been together for 8 months, so obviously he likes you for other reasons. It sounds like he is a very sweet guy who doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but that you keep expecting him to either lie to you or jus…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 01:26 PM
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I've found that I generally don't like to be around people who are too blunt, especially if I don't know them well. The whole "I'm just honest/I just say it how it is/I dont hold back" does NOT always read as just an open and honest person. To me, this reads as "I don't have the ability to filter my thoughts and my thoughts are usually not nice." On another note, my boyfriend and I laugh and joke together all the time and I would genuinely say that he is my best friend. Being silly/joking does n…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 01:08 PM
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You essentially just said "Here's a giant issue I have with him that will persist for AT LEAST the next 15 years provided everything goes perfectly, but other than that I enjoy my time with him". I mean... There is no "other than that". His child is a huge part of him. If you can't handle dealing with his ex or cant handle being a step mom or whatever else, you don't have to. His ex is not going to see him in a relationship and suddenly say "well okay, I'll reduce the hostility for her 😊". If yo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 01:20 PM
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Well, yeah. That's the point. I got the job with the knowledge that it wouldnt be forever and that none of it matters in my long term. Why "yikes"?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/23 08:08 PM
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Hey! I love this question and just answered a similar one recently. I'm currently a bookkeeper with plans of being a SAHM in the future. I think that it's a good job for the following reasons: No degree. I'm not entered a relationship with debt (that my husband would have to pay for if I was a SAHM with no income) Regular hours. I live with my boyfriend, but before I lived with him, regular hours allowed me to see him on the weekends and evenings. Now I have the opportunity to cook dinner for us…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/23 02:50 PM
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I'm going to paste a comment that I put here before because it may be useful to you :) Put in your bio that youre looking for something serious. The good thing about OLD is that everyone on the platform is single and looking for something, and you just have to find someone with similar goals. IRL theres no way of knowing without "wasting" time talking to them extensively, usually. If you want someone with certain life goals, put that on your bio. If you want someone whos political views match yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/23 04:42 PM
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Hey, it seems like this is really overwhelming you right now. Try to take a step back and think about his response - he was understanding and kind to you and communicated honestly with you. You are under no obligation to be the epitome of femininity and beauty 24/7. It's okay to take a break and be comfortable, and this absolutely does not "rip your femininity from you". This is a momentary, fleeting thing. You "redeem yourself" (if you feel like you need to), by just picking yourself back up wh…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 09:33 PM
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Umm. Mine doesn't. He asks me what I need, and the follows through what I tell him. If I need space, he accepts that and gives me space. If I tell him I need reassurance and comfort, he gives me that. If I tell him that I dont know, he helps me figure it out. Masculine men don't just interact with you when it benefits them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/23 07:38 PM
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This is so insightful and you brought up a point that I hadnt thought about in regards to my boyfriend. Youre absolute right, this does show that he wants to be responsible about it, and I shouldnt think negatively about that. Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:46 PM
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This is such a good resource, thank you!! Youre absolutely right that I just need to enjoy the time now. Thank you for linking that subreddit <3
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:44 PM
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This is such a good idea, thank you so much! This feels like it would be so productive without just putting it to the side and I still get to enjoy my time now. Thank you <3
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:43 PM
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How is that advice on how to handle baby fever? Even if I got married today it wouldn't change anything. I genuinely don't understand how you think that "just get married" is advice, can you explain?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 09:03 PM
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I said in the post that he was planning to propose by the end of the year... And that I understand the logic of waiting for a baby? I was asking for advice on how to handle it. "Get married" is not advice on how to handle it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 08:44 PM
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Well, yeah? That info is in the post already. "Get married" isn't very useful advice in the context of the rest of the post.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 08:42 PM
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Thank you SO much for this reply, this was really helpful. I do just need to appreciate what I have now and enjoy pre-kids life. It's just so overwhelming sometimes! Thank you for your help.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 08:39 PM
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I was also a personal banker before I did this job and I liked that quite a lot too (no degree required either!)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 10:46 PM
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Hi! I'm a bookkeeper. I like this job for the following reasons: - I didn't have to get a degree for it (I didn't want to enter a relationship with debt). - It allows me to play a bit of dress up every day. I love getting to do my makeup and dress professionally and feminie. - I like that (in my office) basically every worker is a woman; I love getting to be around them and talk to them. - It pays well enough that if something happened with me and my guy, I could take care of myself. - 40 hours,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 10:45 PM
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I 100% get that and dont want it to seem like I'm attacking you. I've dealt with infidelity issues in a previous relationship and it is very traumatizing. Your feelings about it are completely valid, but that doesnt make them excuses. I am a former believer in therapy and time healing wounds. One thing that I considered a lot when I got into my current relationship was being honest with my guy and telling him about these issues and saying that I would just need occasional affirmations with the u…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 11:28 PM
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This is the unfortunate truth... If he wanted to, he would. If he isn't, however, then what you are showing by looking through his phone and having him share his location is that you dont trust him. Youre disregarding his feelings and the work that he puts in to make you trust him. If you are feeling this way for no reason other than your past (ie not caused by your boyfriend), then it sounds like you need more therapy to overcome your trust issues. Your boyfriend is not your therapist and shoul…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 01:02 PM
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IMO this is like when children who don't get enough attention act up because ANY attention is better than none. It's the same thing, just scaled up. Sure, theyre getting attention, but is it the beneficial kind? Is it the kind that will build them up and support them long term? Or is it just short term satisfaction with men who only value them for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 05:49 PM
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Aw Im so happy for you!! Happy Valentines day!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 01:36 AM
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This is a womens forum, not a forum for men to ask us questions now that r/askTRP is banned. Most aren't. The women you see online saying this are a slim minority but because they are extremely vocal and inflammatory, it seems like a majority. The women you should care about and be looking for do not care about height.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 11:31 PM
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Oh wow, I had no idea. Thanks for letting me know.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 08:33 PM
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Please see r/askTRP, this is an advice sub for women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 07:59 PM
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The difference isnt that you're in a romantic relationship and she's platonic... it's that you've been dating for 2 months. He has likely known the platonic friend for much longer and thus feels more comfortable in knowing who she is, which he might not feel that way with you. You are clearly uncomfortable with this dynamic, though, and that is something you should explore on your own. Other peoples feelings arent yours and shouldnt decide for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 10:07 PM
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I have had Nexplanon (the arm implant) for basically my entire adult life. I dont even remember what my symptoms were when I started or if they are persisting today (been on it for 4 years). I don't have periods, dont have acne, dont have mood swings that I (or others in my life) have noticed. I have noticed a small gain in weight but that could be due to switching from a food service job where I'm constantly moving to an office job. It works for me because I prefer PIV sex without condoms and I…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 04:16 PM
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You might want to find a skincare subreddit?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 02:36 AM
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Exactly this. You should express how you feel but not control his actions. To me, this is a part of the vetting process... When you say that it makes you uncomfortable, does he laugh you off like its ridiculous or does he take your feelings seriously? This is just part of vetting a good man, to me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 11:03 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. It isn't that he's reminiscing on how you "used" to be - he's proud of how smart and capable you _are_ and wants to share that. It sounds like he truly loves you and is proud of you. I do agree with other commenters, however, about getting a hobby! I used to be the same way (very math oriented, going to state math competitions to compete for fun, etc), and now that I'm not able to do that I find a similar satisfaction in sitting down to knit (a very technical…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/23 02:13 PM
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This just isnt true. Not all men are like this. If you find that all men in your circle do this, then you arent vetting properly. A good man wouldnt do this, and there are plenty of them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 11:33 PM
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What does this have to do with RPW?
/r/RedPillWives24/01/23 04:19 AM
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If all you have are negative things to say about him, this probably isnt a good match. He can be a good person, but not good for you if you yarent attracted to him and dont really like him (which seems to be the case). Dont lead him on just because YOU want a boyfriend. Find someone you actually like.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 01:21 AM
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If she isnt respecting your boundaries then she isnt a good friend. If she's making sexual advances on you when youve said no already, thats sexual harassment. Especially if she's doing this while you're high and might "relent" to her advances easier... She isnt someone I would want to associate with.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 01:42 PM
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Honestly it just sounds like you arent vetting properly on OLD. You want a healthy medium of "I'll date anyone who matches me" and extreme pickiness. Put in your bio that youre looking for something serious. The good thing about OLD is that everyone on the platform is single and looking for something, and you just have to find someone with similar goals. IRL theres no way of knowing without "wasting" time talking to them extensively, usually. If you want someone with certain life goals, put that…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 06:20 PM
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Honestly? I would look at TRP to make fun of it with my liberal friends and then I realized I actually agreed with a lot of it and just didnt realize it at the time. Then I saw this sub listed as a sister sub (along with redpillwives) and realized that a male-led relationship is what would make me happy. It was a very strange realization for me as I had been raised by liberal parents and was always told to "be my own person", as if being in a male-led relationship prevents me from being my own p…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 04:22 PM
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We already discussed (mentioned in another comment), but it was just especially strange because he self identifiies as "red pilled" and has done so since before we started dating! When we got together he would tell me about the "boss babes" he dated and how he didn't want that anymore and I valued that so much! So it was just very confusing for me. Luckily talking it over with him was easy and he was understanding<3 (Your side note is so funny and cute! When he held the door for me the first tim…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 02:54 PM
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Thank you for the input! I have since talked to him about it. He said he's just used to dating women who "perform femininity" (as he put it), and usually they stop "acting" feminine after a while once they get comfortable. He was just expecting the same from me and didnt want me to be pretending to enjoy it if i didnt actually. I think he does appreciate me and that it was just a misunderstanding!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 01:54 AM
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Thank you so much! I definitely want to talk to hkm about it, but I just wanted to get a game plan before I said anything and then didnt consider his side of things. This is really helpful and I'm sure he won't react negatively and that I'm just anxious about it for nk reason, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 09:32 PM
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We go to the gym together daily and I take care of all of our cooking and a majority of the housework (I do also have a job!). I have even begun meal prepping lunches for him... We dont really have any other points of contention, so maybe I'm just reading too much into it, lol. Thank you for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 09:30 PM
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Hmm, I think my issue is that he didn't tease me like this before we started dating, it only recently started. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, though.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:23 PM
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Absolutely not. A HVM, to me, values monogamy and has self control.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:34 PM
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This is not a red pill solution to this problem. This is childish and doesnt show respect. Why would you encourage someone -an adult, even- to act like this?
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 03:54 PM
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Sorry, I could be missing it, but what advice do you need? If this is the situation that works for you and youre both comfortable with it, then congrats! The good thing about the "no living together" rule is that it's entirely self imposed. As your relationship and needs evolve, it's okay if there are shifts and changes to that boundary that are better suited to your position in life. As long as he isnt pressuring you into changing your ideals or pushing your boundaries, I think this is a perfec…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 01:38 AM
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I just wear sundresses usually (no bra). It's very feminine, casual, and my guy likes it a lot, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 12:02 AM
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You didn't answer the question that the other commenter asked. How did you tell him he can't satisfy you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 01:05 AM
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I like that he sees me as both! I enjoy being able to be either or both whenever I decide. When he calls me cute I feel so submissive and loved, and when he calls me hot or compliments my body it makes me excited to know that I turn him on. I love knowing that I can be both and it makes me satisfied knowing I fulfill his needs that way I suppose.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 03:58 PM
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Absolutely agree
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/22 10:28 PM
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This is a phenomenal way to look at it! I already agreed anyways but this is such a good metaphor, thank you for adding!
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 05:49 PM
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Wow. Pressuring your partner into sex and acting like 13 year old? What were you expecting as advice posting here? DBT sounds like a good option. Jeez. How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/22 08:53 PM
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I know it's scary, but that feeling of "I'm not going to find someone else" is just wrong. You are so young and there are so many people who can and will love you that you havent met yet. Do not force yourself to be with someone like this for fear that there is no one else for you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 10:46 PM
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No one is required to get to know you if you have hateful imagery on your body that makes them uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 04:29 PM
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Oh, I didnt even think about face tattoos. I do agree that's a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 02:45 PM
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It's just a preference, not a "red flag". I would say it's only a red flag if it was naked women or hateful imagery. Its okay to have a preference for no tattoos though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 02:45 PM
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Do you like him or how he makes you feel? When past relationships traumatize you, sometimes it's easy to cling to the first person who treats you right. If you only like him because he's nice to you, then you do not actually like him. Dont string him on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 09:54 PM
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So well written! Thank you for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 03:36 AM
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My boyfriend has commented multiple times that he likes that i "initiate" sex - but I usually just do things that put him in a position to initiate, if that makes sense. I will climb in his lap and kiss him until he initiates further. Things like that. Make it known you like having sex with him!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 12:38 AM
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What is the issue/what would you confront him about? "Why did you have sexual partners before me?" I genuinely don't understand the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:28 AM
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