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Get married, be monogamous, focus on your business if sleeping around is so worrisome.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 02:06 PM
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Yes, mastah.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:38 PM
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I was hoping for 5 pages max.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 08:52 PM
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Just found a new voice/podcast to start listening to. Thank you, sir. Also, that Echo guy's voice surprised me. Always funny seeing jacked dudes speak with softer voices when expecting a huge, deep voice like Mark Rippetoe.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:56 PM
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Yeah that that Trivium Method is real interesting. What I'm seeing more and more after browsing TRP for a longer period of time is that it's not so much the principles and theory (about SMV, game, social dynamics, etc.) that have kept me browsing, it's the constant "window-cleaning" of reality that it exposes the mind to. It's funny that so many people reading this subreddit, or any subreddit, are deceived by thinking of this or that as absolute truth. Really, is there such a thing as absolute t…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:49 PM
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I disagree on this as well. It's a simple deception that everyone's mind has experienced before. The fallacy that, "In order to focus on this one thing, I must throw everything else out the window." Sure, this makes sense for a short-term activity, such as a 1-hour strength training session where your focus should be completely on your body, lifting the weights, breathing, resting, and the current set. But that sort of short-term focus where everything else is ignored or blocked out doesn't work…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:08 PM
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Glasses that look good on your face and you feel comfortable wearing are fine.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 06:00 PM
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That's a good point. Knowing the risks can be crucial for success
/r/askTRP29/04/17 05:48 PM
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TRP polarizes everything that could go wrong in a guy's life. Funny thing is, it doesn't always turn out as a failure, but for the guys who have been through something that hasn't worked out, they're here on this sub typing about it. So don't project a negative reality onto your cousin when it could turn out to be a successful RP marriage
/r/askTRP28/04/17 02:20 AM
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I heard that poker players either end up broke, break even, or profit but become lonely /shitty human beings. All the game is is a bunch of people sitting at a table trying to legally steal each other's money. A pipe dream purchased by Degenerate gamblers after watching WSOP for the first time. (Can you tell that I look back on my time as a poker side hustler as a waste of time?)
/r/askTRP28/04/17 02:14 AM
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Envy pains the brain.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 02:09 AM
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Become fat and try it. Then make a field report.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 02:02 AM
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So you're looking for a job that requires you to contribute minimally? Minimum wage mentality. You can improve as a person, raise your SMV and grow from any meaningful job with the right attitude. It's individual what job is best.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:56 AM
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You should ask B to find you a C. Simple as 1-2-3.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:42 AM
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I was teleported into a scene with two Chesterfield Wingback arm chairs, sitting in one and facing Morpheus seated in the other. He offered me two different worldviews, claiming one or the other would become reality depending on the pill that I swallowed. In his left hand was a blue pill. In his right hand, a red pill. "The choice is yours," He told me.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:39 AM
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Get enough sleep, shower, and brush your teeth. Like, stop being gross. Omg.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:30 AM
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Are you really working hard enough? So hard you have energy to get angry at what someone else is doing?
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:27 AM
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You push planes? What's your Bench Press at bruh?
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:24 AM
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"Give evil nothing to oppose and it will disappear by itself."
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:18 AM
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who dat is
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:50 PM
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Yo, now I was downtown clubbin, ladies night Seen shorty she was crazy right And I approached baby like Ma what's your age and type? She looked at me and said you's a baby right
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:46 PM
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The highest energy I've ever experienced on a consistent basis is when I get minimum 8-9 hours of sleep per night.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 11:41 PM
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Paying your bills on time is Alpha as Fuck.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:43 PM
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I was a true nerd in high school. I killed it academically. World of Warcraft at home, Dungeons and Dragons & Chess after school. All the role-playing nerds I have known who OWN their hobbies and interests (i.e. guys who are like, "Fucking right I play Dungeons and Dragons bitch") are not as beta as they appear. There was this one dude who was always the Dungeon master who convinced a girl he had class with to come and try playing with us one day after school. Dude was all over that poon and tea…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:39 PM
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There's a married Rep Pill subreddit. That'd be more useful for this situation. Even more useful would be your father if he's in your life and/or the men in your father's family or even your mother's family who have lead successful marriages. Even though there's so many differences between generations, sex&relationships dynamics has been around since ...human life. I'd rather bring those deeper questions and feelings to my family and relatives whom I can trust over an online forum, but that's ju…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:24 PM
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Get uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:20 PM
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"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." It's your decision what you do and you've got plenty of input from others here. Whatever you do, there's no good that comes from harboring negative thoughts and emotions. Come to peace with it however you can.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:11 PM
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That pussy is Horse Widowed
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:01 PM
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If you were in the moment, enjoying yourself and her company, and you genuinely meant that, I wouldn't think TOO much of it because you were both drunk. If she was cool with you saying that and didn't react adversely, I'd continue on without bringing it up again, unless she brings it up. Try to focus more on the sexual aspect of the relationship rather than labelling it or trying to get her to agree to a LTR. That's the girl's job to try and lock YOU down. Keep having fun and be playful with it.…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:32 PM
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Too much porn.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:35 PM
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Focus on career. Develop game along the way. Career is harder to build up than game is. Requires a lot of integrity, relationship building, networking, and overall solid character. Game can be a by-product of the person you become. But Career cannot be developed by becoming a super player. Unless you become a pimp.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:28 PM
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When you're high on shrooms and people you interact with are not on shrooms there's a big gap in the way you and them see reality. Watch a scene from Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas. You'll see what I mean. Their reactions may have made you think that what you did or who you are were beta, but really it's just the dissonance in reality.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:33 PM
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Shrooms didn't make you beta. It just made you way too fucking high. Give yourself time to come back to reality, lol. I felt the same way when I did marijuana regularly for a short period of time. It takes you to a place of thoughts and emotions that seem so damn real but when you're not high anymore you feel conned. It's the chemicals man. Just stay away from shit like that. Kindness, respect, and being a human being all bring good things into your life. Sure there are people who don't vibe wit…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:29 PM
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I'm 25. Smoked on-and-off in college. It was fueled by a rebellious image that my relatives and some of my idols growing up portrayed. It's an escape. It's an illusion. You ever see a real bad-ass figure chatting with a super sexy girl outside the bar over a cigarette? Who that guy is and how he got that girl there with him has nothing to do with the cigarettes or smoking. It probably has everything to do with who he is outside of smoking a cigarette. It's just something he's doing. I stopped be…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:26 PM
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It's the American paradox. Be super rich and reach great heights in the business world like Trump, and have enough money to send 20 kids to college, and do it all with a miserable, constipated looking face - or be doing just enough to have your survival needs taken care of and live a very happy, full life, but without extra money to buy things that you don't need/think you need and without that added 'financial security' (basically types from immigrant families who are not thinking of leaving an…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:18 PM
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Thanks for the input. Have you heard of Clarence Kennedy? Dude's super strong and continued through Olympic lifting/power lifting after switching to a vegan diet. Super inspiring. Also, you ever use the term "plant-based" versus vegan? Creates a lot less hassle when dealing with angry meat-eaters, lol.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:07 PM
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the 5th exchange of pleasantries on the 5th hour of the day.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:59 PM
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That poontang pie.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:20 PM
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When you're conscious and aware of yourself, your circumstances, your surroundings, your desires, your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions, that is where true change and transformation comes from. I learned this from a yogi named Sadhguru on YouTube and on his blog. His teachings are more spiritual than self-developmental, but he makes sense. It's not new-age at all and I'd recommend listening to some of his videos when you have free time (maybe watch one or two instead of browsing TRP).
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:13 PM
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Red pill can be helpful but don't make it such a heavy thing in your mind
/r/askTRP05/04/17 03:09 AM
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"RP man" was probably a typo. Making money doing something you enjoy. The dream.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:43 AM
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Over reaction. She thinks your friend is cute and you make her feel wanted. Are you going to be insecure until she calls you cute, too? If she's your girlfriend what's the big deal?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:37 AM
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LOL reminds me of elementary school phone conversations..."So what are 3 things you like about me? I'll tell you after you tell me." LOL
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:13 AM
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Personally, I would have handled it the way you handled it. Hold frame, listen but don't admit any guilt (because this sounds like the kind of guy who is waiting for you to apologize for things that may not even be your fault so he can jump down your throat), shrug off his bullshit, maybe even laugh at the guy's ridiculousness, and walk away. I've dealt with miserable losers like this before. Here's the thing. Unless you've passively aggressively done something to provoke this kind of confrontat…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:06 AM
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Clean your room.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:46 AM
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It's clear as a freshly Windex'd window, buddy. You're searching for an RP man.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:44 AM
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No, but women can tell if you've been up all night on the computer and rubbing one out to HornPub. Seriously though, Why would that even matter? Body language is all about the present moment.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:39 AM
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Did she leave you? Do you have lingering doubts about your own performance in the relationship? Is that why you keep "looking back" on what you had?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:32 AM
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http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/08/05/article-2384869-1B276AEE000005DC-214_634x420.jpg
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:40 PM
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Late 15th century, early 16th century.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:34 PM
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Dude wtf. Are you really about to throw away good academic history/standing, a VERY solid degree in finance, and a chance to get a yearly salary of $60k+ because of some psychological problems? Don't get me wrong, I empathize with you that you're facing psychological problems. But that's just wayyy too good of an opportunity for you to let your own mind get in your way. Start seeking support and start taking care of yourself. Please go and watch some videos of this guy named "Sadhguru". He's Ind…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:14 PM
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"How do I actually find something that drives me?" Well, in Soviet Russia, car drives you. Or so I've heard.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:02 PM
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Specify your current activities. -Meditation ...for how long? -Lifting/Cardio ...doing WHAT, exactly?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:58 PM
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'Murica. 100% Your problems follow you wherever you go. So really no point running away.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:57 PM
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Specify.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:56 PM
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I won't comment on the TRP advice but I will make some Reddit advice: LIMIT THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU SPEND READING AND BROWSING ANY AND ALL REDDIT SUBS (INCLUDING THIS ONE)
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:43 PM
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Congrats. Porn and video games are a waste. Sell all your video game consoles and games and accessories so that you're not tempted by them. Find a way to block your browser from visiting any porn sites you used to visit. Eating as healthy as possible while still letting yourself enjoy food/drink. Quitting porn and video games cold turkey is a huge change so don't go crazy with new diet changes. Make gradual changes. And look into "Starting Strength" by Mark Rippetoe and/or StrongLifts 5x5
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:41 PM
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Congrats. Porn and video games are a waste. Sell all your video game consoles and games and accessories so that you're not tempted by them. Find a way to block your browser from visiting any porn sites you used to visit. Eating as healthy as possible while still letting yourself enjoy food/drink. Quitting porn and video games cold turkey is a huge change so don't go crazy with new diet changes. Make gradual changes. And look into "Starting Strength" by Mark Rippetoe and/or StrongLifts 5x5
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:41 PM
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Red Pill error ... not in RP Theory guidelines ... self destructs I'd talk with other parents who have done the same thing (you're probably likely to find them on another subreddit or in real life) and ask them what led them to make that decision and how they like it.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:31 PM
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I think the hot girl is trolling you
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:27 PM
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Tale as old as tiiiiiiime .........
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:25 PM
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Getcho Draco Malfoy lookin ass outta here PS: I'm not of African-American descent I just happen to find this amusing
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:19 PM
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That's basically the real life version of clicking on hundreds of different top rated porn videos until you come across one that is a free-to-play (because you're too fucking cheap to pay for a subscription) and you can bust a nut to. Get some balls man.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:17 PM
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Previous comment is right, you're making this shit way too heavy. Most relationships won't last forever, but even if one does, there shouldn't be a push to put a label on anything. Also, 2 months into a new relationship and this bitch still hasn't gotten over the last one? Just stop continuing the conversation about it when she brings it up.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:10 PM
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keep it in your pants old man
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:07 PM
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Because most guys on here are obsessed with sex and they turn TRP into a way to just fuck women. And some even use it as an excuse to go out and intentionally fuck other people over i.e. making women feel like shit after they get what they want. There's a lot of truths in TRP theory, there's a lot of really shitty people who use these truths for their own shitty agenda.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:04 PM
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Light a candle and listen to this on repeat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yZ1uI5yPbY Have yourself a good cry.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:00 PM
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"My name is Chad." Different from every other dude not named Chad.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:56 PM
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Yes. Heavy deadlifting, Muay Thai, and lots of fucking. I sure won't get tired and I'll have raging boners EVERY time I want to fuck. Pushing my body to its physical limits SURELY won't cause exhaustion.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 11:01 PM
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When a tan girl says that - bad sign
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:54 PM
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First of all, 6 figures is hella good money to utilize and to invest for future. While you think about it and gather others' opinions, go out in nature more. From a spiritual standpoint, your body and mind being preoccupied 8+hours a day by technological tasks in front of a computer is the opposite of fulfilling and is probably why you feel drained. It sounds as robotic as your introduction and the way you seem to view where you're at. "I'm 30. University degree in computer science. Make 100k+ /…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:27 PM
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Male Ejaculation releases a lot of energy. You probably felt like sleeping after the sex. That's natural...
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:19 PM
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So how do loaded back squats NOT work muscles and tendons in whole muscle groups?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 02:32 AM
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Helpful man, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:29 PM
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Okay I'm no therapist, just another guy on the TRP sub reading your post, having gone through similar emotions during my college time, and giving my opinion... So you started off as an easy-going drunk just looking to drink some alcohol, get drunk, and have a good time. However, you kept finding yourself in situations where people wanted to fight you. But you tended to avoid the fight and you felt like you LOST because you just backed down. Now you're a little bitch who can't defend himself and …
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:18 PM
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Good shit. MMA is something I'm going to do eventually. I do need to stop hamstering. Wtf. Ain't nothing to it but to do it I guess.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:48 PM
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Lmao...pressing a girl overhead would be pretty badass. Throwing a girl onto the bed like... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oC01kw_wcgQ
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:45 PM
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I was bulking and was aiming for and getting about 3k-3.5k calories per day. Didn't count the macros and I think that's where I was lacking - in the nutritional and meal planning. I was working ~40 hours a week and found myself eating quick, fast-food way too often just to meet my caloric needs and was also leaking some $$$ eating out that I could have saved for additional month(s) at that gym. Mostly because I didn't prepare adequate meals for the week.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:43 PM
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Good stuff. I work retail near a mall so I could be practicing that all day. Lots of kino in the ocean, haha. Ain't that the truth.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:22 PM
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Just like your friends who ain't been listening, I'm a good bullshitter, too. Cutting through my own bullshit, long-term commitment and consistent action in one style or the other is what I need.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:19 PM
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So cutting through my own bullshit, long-term commitment and consistent action in one style or the other is what I need.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:17 PM
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I do have a lot of excuses because I've been overthinking strength training. Never really felt solid sticking to any program longer than 3 months because I've never been very serious about it. I'm at 5'10" 185 lbs. This past December through the end of February (roughly 3 months) I trained at a Starting Strength Method (from Mark Rippetoe) approved gym. Cost was hella expensive and for 100% honesty I do not have my finances in order to be able to sustain that type of monthly membership. Currentl…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:14 PM
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I've been wondering the same thing as OP. Been in plenty of situations where girl has shown interest and we've connected over something and I made her laugh and smile. But always seemed to have been on my way somewhere else so never used #3 & #4 that you listed. I'm going to try that next time I find myself in a similar situation. Wow, a lot simpler than I thought... Looking back at some of the situations, the girls were probably like, "what a moron, didn't even ask me for my number"... haha. I'…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:57 PM
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So resistance training with weights has potential to be much more efficient. I do prefer feeling more flexible and mobile so I'm kind of leaning towards bodyweight style training. It seems like it's just a personal preference of weighing the pros and cons of each. Is that grease the groove principle from Pavel Tsatsouline? That's another thing I prefer for bodyweight training. Anywhere you are, if you have the open space, you can just drop down and do a set of pushups (or pullups wherever there'…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:52 PM
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That is a pretty abstract question and depends on YOU. For me it's all about the fundamentals. What is LIFE? How does quality of LIFE become better? Look at the basics. Do you have peace of mind? Do you eat healthy every day? Do you poison yourself compulsively with excessive stimulants, cigarettes, alcohol, or drugs? Are you neglecting simple things that make EVERY human's life better (such as eating healthy and maintaining peace of mind)? It's like this - a tree grows with water and sunshine. …
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:25 PM
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If this is happening MOSTLY with girls that you are going for, your roommate has a clear "Mr.Steal Your Girl" mentality. A poison that's been spread through hip-hop and rap lyrics and degenerate moochers all over the globe. I've played that guy and I've also played victim of that guy. I fucking hate chumps like that. Just don't give him that option. Don't stop at trying to get the girl's number and then walking away trying to "date" her after text gaming. Escalate bro. Or escalate the chump's es…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:18 PM
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For full effect substitute the cup of liquor with a cup of gasoline. but SERIOUSLY, don't do this.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:11 PM
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So, again, it's possible, but at the risk of spreading yourself too thin. If you're going to do triathlon training for the summer, do only that. When you're done, do only strength training. For maximum gains in each category.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:07 PM
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It's possible, and you can definitely train strength and endurance at the same time, BUT...you won't get as far in either category simultaneously versus if you just focused on ONE. If you're a former swimmer, you've probably got enough overall athleticism going for you to be able to do both, given you're resting/sleeping & eating adequately. But consider this...most professional athletes, for example, in the NBA, are not really doing strength training during the season because of the endurance r…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:04 PM
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No role models so I'm here right now (TRP). No role models to speak of...
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 06:57 PM
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Recovering from a traumatic sports injury & having a hard fucking time finding my footing again. Happened when I was at college away from my family, year before graduating and landing a very solid corporate job. It was so traumatic, physically, that from that time until very recently (a span of about 3 years), my friends and family and strangers probably thought I had turned crazy. Since then, the "actions" that I knew I had to take became less straightforward simply because there was always tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 03:40 PM
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Feel like shit? Eat some fiber.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:21 AM
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Look up Athlean-X YouTube videos for perspective on muscle/postural balance. Here's an example video of minor tweaks and perspectives you may have never considered: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07AXhucRMbE It may not be the exercises or the specific body part, but may be caused by the way you're doing the exercises and how you're working the muscles (even the weight/angle of resistance). One of many ways you may be able to fix your injuries&imbalances. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:20 PM
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Before going with the surgery option, have you looked at simpler methods, such as consistent stretching for the front/side/back of the neck, and tongue/facial exercises? I'd recommend exploring those before dropping the dough on surgery. From personal experience, a lot of "problems" related to the jaw/chin are linked to neck&shoulder/tongue tension and can be balanced with proper exercises. Exercise the face/jaw/neck/head/shoulders just as you would with weights, except it's more about stretchin…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 06:15 PM
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A lot of muscle heads are controlled by their hormones. And when you add alcohol to their overabundance of testosterone, that D may settle for any hole that's even slightly attractive, especially if it's easy, like with fat girls and ugly girls. But also, ugly girls have a lot less dudes trying to hit. And ugly girls may treat the guy better than some hot girl who is stuck-up and has guys crawling after her.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 04:46 PM
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It happens. Try doing something active like lifting weights or running or pushups or whatever before meeting next time. And I agree. Stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 10:10 PM
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