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| 8 | Q4M: If you only got 80% of your ideal traits in a mate... You would view that as settling, right?Because I don’t view “settling” as inherently bad, neither do many men, but women do. So yeah I don’t want to feel a woman “settled” for me because in the female mind it’s a death sentence, where as my girlfriend who I am so absolutely in love with and intend on marrying is very, very different from what I would have on paper described as having my “ideal traits” that I “settled” for. It’s entirely logically consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: If you only got 80% of your ideal traits in a mate... You would view that as settling, right?I’m not saying I’d date an outright dumb person but by definition 50% of people are below average, so long as they meet my other criteria short of them being observably far left of the bell curve I frankly don’t care if they hit the other marks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 11:58 PM |
| 22 | Q4M: If you only got 80% of your ideal traits in a mate... You would view that as settling, right?They do have both but not nearly equally. My only hard requirements for long term serious dating are physically attractive to me, no single moms, no active drug addicts, wants kids. You really think a woman’s list is comparable? Edit - and it’s okay that theirs is different, it’s not a bad thing or a moral failure, but just stop lying about it that’s the wild part that drives dudes crazy. Women are picky as all fuck to an insane degree, just own it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 09:43 PM |
| 49 | Q4M: If you only got 80% of your ideal traits in a mate... You would view that as settling, right?This seems like fake news trying to shame women into lowering our standards. This is the underlying thing men don't understand about women, women don't understand about men, and that women likely aren't even fully aware of in themselves as it manifests. Men tend to have preferences, women tend to have requirements. As a total nerd with a grad degree and great personal financial success I'd ideally like a partner who is formally educated, articulate and philosophically deep, and has a good career… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If you know how worthless dating apps are, why do you continue to use them?I tend to get 5 or so new matches a day (well after the newbie boost) and I only swipe on attractive women. So even if only 1 responds and there is a 10% chance of that leading to a date or what have you, its free practice to keep my game improving and there is no downside for me given I am aware that even though I am far from top say 1% on them I'm easily top 10% and won't fall into depression or rage, so worst case scenario is the time I spent on the toilet or stuck in traffic was just effecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | female sexpatting postIf you aren't able to get that where you're at and set on traveling, asia (specifically south korea or japan) is basically your only option given that criteria | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEI think the contextual framing matters a lot more than you attempt to give credence to. There are many traits I would say prefer in my father that I would not want in a male best friend, traits I would jump to in wanting in my sister that I would not want in a lover, things I want from a mentor vs a student, etc. The mindset one adopts when hearing these different questions would alter the responses greatly and I don't think this can just be taken out of context as some gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 12:17 PM |
| 22 | Dinner With Rollo Tomassi Tomorrow Night"What effects do you think the extreme levels of grifting and shift towards overt monetization have done to the underlying movement and community" I respect the guy and liked his content back in the day, but won't pull any punches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 27 | Where did you get your opinions about women?I learned not to like them from every in person experience I have ever had with someone who identified as a feminist. They are the first to resort to ad hominem attacks when you disagree with them, most claims they make aren't based in reality and are at best ignorant obfuscation and at worst outright lies (gender wage gap, colleges having a higher rate of sexual assault than the congo, etc), they are far too gung ho on censorship, and tend to be just overall miserable people to be around. When … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 7 | cmv: Women who strive to be with one man for life (aka marriage) are as rare as HVM, which are about 1% of the population.If only 1% of women wanted it, why would so many women stay in marriages? Doubly so given that there is every possible legal effort in play to borderline entice women into divorce? Your view is not based in reality or logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 6 | cmv: Women who strive to be with one man for life (aka marriage) are as rare as HVM, which are about 1% of the population.If that were the case then successful marriages would be 1% or less as well. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellVery, very, very, very few women have dated legitimate abusers, but almost every woman will claim to have been in one or more abusive relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellAnd the easiest way to achieve status is usually via job title, which correlates pretty closely to money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 8 | Is it me or is redpill slowly dying?It feels like more and more people are veering towards black-pillI began my red pill journey at 18 back in 2012. There was not a single thing for sale, zero monetization, no clout to be gained. This was pre sjw takeover of reddit so the sub was live and well, and it was a legitimate community dedicated to improvement and accountability. Blackpill types were shamed, people who just wanted to bitch were called out, and I reiterate no one was trying to sell you anything or had a YouTube channel. That was the peak, now the "manosphere" demographics are 50% grift … | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?To have sex with? A solid 50% of in shape/not overweight women. To commit to? Maybe 3-5% which will be further narrowed down after personality, interests, history and lifestyle, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | 5 Books that have saved me thus far. What are 5 books you'd recommend to someone trying to dive into the deeper end?1 - Billions and Billions, Carl Sagan 2 - The Bible (accompanied by Jordan Peterson's Biblical lecture series) 3 - The God Delusion, Richard Dawkins 4 - The Doors of Perception, Aldous Huxley 5 - Human, All Too Human, Friedrich Nietzsche None of these will help you with sex, because books don't help you with sex and romance, only actual experience and practice does, but they'll greatly expand your worldview, vocabulary, critical thinking, and make you a little more interesting which will help … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason?Do you think years of academic instruction pushing young girls towards misandry has no effect though? I know plenty of girls that have never actually had any abnormal experiences with men that got sucked down the feminist rabbit hole due to their time in the university that became insufferable cretins. There are certainly men who have done the same with newer grift nonsense "red pill" content online, although not nearly as many as their female counterparts. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn’t an alpha “shit where he eats” if he truly DGAF?You can be "alpha" and still have an IQ of 80-90. I would argue that's most "alpha" icons people see - basically every rapper, professional football player, the guy who blows all his money at the bar and has a new sports car with a high apr 0% down, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 4 | QFM: If your GF/Wife said you had to go through a birth pain simulator in order to have kids (for anywhere between 2-30 hours randomly picked) would you do it?If she genuinely felt that way then sure, if she goes through a working 2x jobs 100 hours a week while doing a full time MBA, followed by a decade in a high pressure finance job simulator prior to her having the ability to spend my money, opt out of work, or be eligible for anything following a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:40 PM |
| 11 | Why is it wrong to want to marry someone who treat you like a queen?1 - it permanently sets absurd expectations that you will always hold a man to, this is not healthy. like if I were dating a girl that gave me 2x blowjobs and a full body massage every day, then it went down to once a week, even though I should be grateful for once a week, that expectation is there and i would be disappointed. 2 - what do you do for him above and beyond normalcy like he does for you? after a while he will get burnt and feel like he is not getting any extra effort and will feel l… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 68 | Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend?You basically have to just meet a minimum looks threshold and not have passed the slutty past ceiling. Both of these variables are different based on the guy, but to be brutally honest if you consistently have issues with men who do vibe with your personality you probably are either not attractive or aiming way out of your actual league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.I don't care about degrees in the slightest. I understand women have a strange affinity to status so I can comprehend why they prefer degrees but I couldn't wrap my head around someone taking two identical people, one with 120K/yr salary and no degree, and dropping him for the guy making 80K/yr with a degree. all other variables equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.So you'd take someone who may or may not even be smarter (and could arguably be dumber) who is less attractive and makes less money purely because you pedestalize status to the point where you have to have a piece of paper to qualify for romantic interest? That sounds utterly insane. I have an MBA and have dated girls that didn't go to college at all that were far more intelligent and made more money than their elite school educated counterparts, it baffles me that women, or men, would put so mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.Never met a beautiful woman dating a 5/10 due to "intelligence" unless that intelligence had already lead them to exorbitant wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.But men don't lie about it. Yes, a woman's looks are the single most important thing and personality, intelligence, etc matters but only to differentiate women who pass the looks threshold. Women deny they are the same way to avoid being considered shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Do you think men or women are more open minded?Women are more likely to blindly agree with things in order to save face to appear to fit in with what they imagine the consensus is. Young women who live on tiktok fresh out of university are far more likely to have gone down the crazy SJW rabbit hole and though they may appear to be "open minded" they are the farthest thing from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 3 | [Question4All] would you date someone who doesnt match your vaccine status?I'm vaccinated but wouldn't date someone who actually judged others for such an ultimately petty reason because they're likely an insufferable sjw future cat lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?It does, but much like investing most people don't put in the work and would rather read the theory and give themselves the illusion of working towards improvement. Social awkwardness can be fixed. I used to be unable to look people in the eye when I talked to them and when I was a kid the shrink told my parents I was possibly on the spectrum. Unlike 99.99% of socially awkward people, I actually put into practice the manosphere advice at the time, which was "go fail and keep failing and graduall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do you, romantic men want romance in life1 I want legitimate and lasting romance for the same reasons I want food, water, wealth, and shelter. I just do, and I don't think there is even a point to going deeper than that because I don't think there is actually much depth. 2 I don't take promiscuous/single moms/otherwise low value women seriously regardless of how physically attractive they may be. I allow myself to be emotionally open, talk about long term plans and desires, and other things that may be considered more on the "avoid thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?All TRP says is that if getting higher quality/quantity of women is something you really want to do, here are the tools for doing it. Level of success will correlate directly with how much active effort in real life is applied. It is quite literally no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?That's like saying how does the FIRE movement or personal finance in general not negatively affect those who will never retire early or become wealthy enough to never have a money concern again. Not everyone gets a six pack, but going from morbidly obese to chubby still provides a lot of benefit. Same with TRP/manosphere skills. Just like anything in life not everyone will make it, but you can either make the best of what you got and have some marginal improvements where you can, or just stick y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 3 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticalmost all of straight men have quality lasting friendships with people they care deeply about, who knew? flippancy aside the "I want to both fuck you and commit to just you" joint element is really the only difference between my qualifications for true friends of both sexes and girls i want to date. this sounds like a bunch of word salad for the sake of being pedantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?First job out of college was "sales". Meant 150 cold calls a day. It broke me and almost legit drove me insane yet also was the best thing for me long term for socialization and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?I think there is a marked difference between getting a call to make sure it isn't a parent or sibling before flipping it back over, and both checking and responding to literally every text about ultimately mundane nonsense from a variety of friends while on a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?If we're say having dinner and mid conversation and you check instagram I will be fairly offended and offput. The fact that this happens on so many dates shows apparently I am in a minority. Apparently it isn't even due to interest since I ended up bringing many of them home after, it just seems most women have lost a sense of manners and etiquette. I am sure it applies to guys too but I don't date men so can't comment but 100% believe it applies across the board in certain age demographics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Even passing femme transwomen are Chad only in 2022. Hypergamy is driven by male thirst, not by the female brainSupply and demand. If you have endless options you can be pickier. Hypergamy is real and focused on only because the male equivalent is so absurdly hard to attain, but Leonardo DiCaprio et al work the same way just rotating out the next 18-21 year old supermodel. Bottoms are in much higher demand than tops (from my admittedly smaller understanding from my handful of close gay friends and could be wrong), but it makes sense and I imagine the same applies with gay men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?Crippling anxiety that I will never let you know I have until about a year or so in when it boils over and I have to cancel plans due to circumstances that lead to a full on panic attack. I'm extremely frugal. I will call your ass out if we're supposed to be spending quality engaging time with each other and you check your phone. Everyone thinks I'm extremely extroverted but its all a facade I learned to put up after working in client facing jobs before getting to where I'm at and I need my quie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsthat was all emotion and no substance. most men aren't me but wish they were sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsI've been to a few swingers parties. You would be surprised how many attractive women go. Sure a solid 2/3 are not remotely tempting, but there is a very very very real quantity of absolutely stunning milfs and their younger party girl friends who were lined up to blow me while their beat husbands watched last time. 10/10 would recommend for any attractive guy to try once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 33 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsWhat if you think endless non-white and other black women are attractive as all getout but just don't find her remotely appealing? This is women's solipsism in action - you view high status and successful men as more physically attractive and apply the same to women, her being rihanna doesn't make here more or less than a 6-7/10 to me, just like how taylor swift or miley cyrus would be in the same "above average but by no means remarkable at all" 6/10 category to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 8 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexno amount of cultural change will make women at large suddenly receptive to a short broke man, and no amount of cultural change will suddenly make men at large enthusiastic about wifing up a ho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beAnd its not like I'm "anti education", I have an MBA, but I got it 100% for free through my employer, and only even did undergrad because I got a full ride. But my undergrad was in useless liberal arts nonsense and I was making $8/hr at 22 in 2016 when I graduated. My current girlfriend is 21, with no degree, making 50-60k/yr doing something she absolutely loves that still has upward mobility potential, great benefits package, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beOne of the highest paying degrees on average for undergrads is philosophy. This is not because a philosophy degree is valuable, but the type of person willing to commit to 4 years of intensive study in philosophy is exactly the type of person likely to end up getting rich over the long term due to their proclivities. This concept undoubtedly applies to degrees at large. If you aren't going into stem, there is a 99% chance you are absolutely wasting your time and money. I love educated people, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:25 PM |
| -2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to bePeople with stem degrees outearn those with high school degrees - the rest is correlation (drive, love of learning, study habits, good family support and upbringing - that all both allow and lead them to college) that has fuck all to do with a liberal arts degree itself. also, even if you "outearn" your counterpart most people don't realize the degree to which you have to do so to make it worth it. 4 years of working from 18, all the while investing, even a modest amount, over time at 7% compoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 22 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beI'd prefer someone who isn't stupid enough to take out an insane amount of debt, which I will become legally responsible for, in exchange for a useless piece of paper and some really stupid political opinions. My current girlfriend is the first girl I've dated who didn't go to college. She is also, despite being younger than the previous girls, making 2x more than they all do now without paying off loans or whining about some idiotic niche issues over the dinner table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Q4M What’s a high n count? How does that affect a woman’s ability to lock you down?1) Not a hard number, but 1 serious boyfriend every 2 years since age of sexual activity is my hard line. Most girls I talk to end up being between 22-26, so that puts it between 3-5 as an acceptable range. 2) n/a, if its truly casual it doesn't matter by definition and gets thrown out the window along with a host of other standards that would apply for an LTR 3) I avoid outright asking, but its fairly easy to ascertain. "How many serious relationships have you had" + "have you ever had a one ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 22 | I never knew how bad the obesity epidemic has gotten until I lurked the 18-22 age demographic on Tinder today vs 5 years agoWhat I can not understand, as a man, and a man who takes pride in his appearance in ways that involve both 6 days in the gym 2x a day as well as more traditionally "feminine" aesthetic things like taking care of my foot long colored hair/skincare/eyebrows and nails etc, is why fat women will spend hours a day on makeup/hair and the like but can't find 30 minutes do go for a run. Like obviously to a degree you DO care about your appearance, so why not redirect even a modicum of that time to being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Recent changes to public perception of masculinity have made men, on average, softer, weaker, and less attractive which is partially why so many women are choosing to remain singleIf you're stuck in a third world POW camp gulag, having the option of being one of the slaves kept in the house still seems appealing even if you wish you were ultimately a homeowner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Bluepill and purplepill thoughts on FDS?If telling washed up 30 year old chubby single moms that they deserve a man that can be objectively placed in the top percentile of all men across multiple unrelated metrics is mainstream, then dang maybe we all should just take the blackpill after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.*once people who can't understand basic statistics realize the wage gap is nonexistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to men with social intelligence, which is why you can't understand women's strugglesI'll try to c the v by proposing the unstated foil to that. Men are attracted to women with quantitative/logical intelligence, which is why women will never understand men's struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Did being in a relationship make you more proactive or more complacent?Neither. I try to be my best self, for me, at all times. I am always happy when single, and I haven't had a "bad" relationship since my first girlfriend ever at 18 prior to adopting that mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?Do you expect me to earn more than you, be able to be the sole breadwinner for a period of time when kids come into play, and be the one who manages our assets/long term investment portfolio? If so, then you will adhere to the budget I set. Do you expect me to protect you? Then you will not place yourself in undesirable situations when you can avoid it. Do you expect me to be the rock you can lean on when you are having a bad day? You will be supportive and provide me with peace when I need it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......I don't think anyone doesn't acknowledge that both sexes have some advantages and disadvantages. The issue is twofold here. 1st is that this is primarily a sub centered around dating, which is undeniably an area in the current day in which women do have an advantage. 2nd, is that in developed western worlds in 2022, you can in good faith argue it is easier to be a woman than a man. Maybe that's true, maybe it isn't, maybe its about 50/50. The problem is that despite women outperforming men in mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards?Because you have to be the female equivalent to not get dates as a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 5 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyPerpetually single women become miserable, perpetually miserable and mentally ill women reliably become far left. I genuinely think there is some degree of intentionality behind this (fat positivity, insane politics pushed at schools, being told its empowering to be a slut, etc). Designing women to become reliable voters at their own expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is actually quite helpfulYou ever hated women so much that you take a deep introspective look at your life and realize that you want to become a better person across the board in order to find a loving relationship with...a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?Banking on someone to have decent communication skills and some mild degree of adaptivity after presenting themselves well enough and seeming compatible over an initial dating period before committing seems far more realistic than all of that plus adding additional filters for height, status, education, income, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?Both sexes end up getting into bad relationships due to issues arising later in that weren't obvious. For every man in the situation you described there is also a woman who the exact same logic by definition applies to. Doesn't change that the disparity in barrier to entry is hilariously mismatched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?Then you didn't read what I originally replied to before comparing a sad, awkward but otherwise respectful kid to a slave owner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:49 PM |
| 68 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?I think both sexes do this except since men have a hilariously shorter checklist of qualifications, with the main item just being raw beauty, it comes up less. The list of things women tie into attraction is just so, so, so much longer that its all but guaranteed that any woman with a long enough relationship history will have some guy that exceeded in one of those many items, and the one guy that exceeded in a preponderance relative to the others is the "alpha widower". This makes it far more c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?And I feel for those who are so socially awkward that they have literally no idea how to hold a conversation and thus have zero clue what to say and feel the need to ask for examples and then get told they're horrible people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?Ok, so keep whatever grievances you may rightly have in that conversation and don't give cover to the just as bad people on the other side of it I was addressing because of items wholly irrelevant to this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?Yeah, he's awkward and comes off a little spergy, poor kid just wants specific examples so he can emulate I imagine. That is how some people learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?How do you make the patently absurd jump from not knowing how to interact with women in a romantic context to not seeing them as human? It seems you actually don't see socially awkward men as human given you are willing to make such laughable stretches to reach such a hilariously misguided interpretation of an awkward kid asking nicely for specific advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?A lot of people, and by default, a lot of men, are horribly undersocialized and lack good communication skills due to a lack of experience. The OP, I mean no offense to him by this, sounds like they are likely on the spectrum a bit too or is just young and has literally no clue how to interact with women. By literally just asking women for examples of what they want, your default response is to, frankly, be kind of a total bitch. It says more about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Women open to hooking up, can you provide an example of what a man could/should say to you to make that happen?This response is pretty telling tbh. Women truly abhor men who don't "just get it" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinityNo you literally invented some imaginary bad faith context just so you had something to argue about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinityYou’re looking to argue imaginary points that I didn’t make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap RelationshipsThe direct correlation between N count and divorce rate begs to differ. Same with infidelity. A proclivity towards casual sex tends to correlate, in both genders mind you, towards placing short term satisfaction over long term achievement, which is not the attitude of a woman I want that will be on my bank accounts as a joint owner. And by your logic you can never know anything about anyone apparently which I think is just absurd. Unless you are making the argument that all women are incapable o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinityI quite literally never mentioned women. Once again, I question either your basic reading comprehension skills, whether you are a good faith actor, or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap RelationshipsBecause I've seen it play out first hand and in the relationships of countless friends and my own earlier ones prior to getting my mindset right, and its also backed by a looooooooot of easily searchable data. This is precisely the issue at hand. Objectively successful man speaks truth inconvenient to women maintaining their willful delusion, so just call him an incel and ignore the research behind the claims. I know my girl's body count because she has only ever had one boyfriend prior to me wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:29 AM |
| 5 | Age Gap RelationshipsSuccessful men do experience this, because successful men are the only ones who can actually attain it nowadays. It is entirely biological, no amount of the free love sex positivity nonsense that was thrown at me from school classrooms, my peers, every song, movie, book, etc all during my youth with really no counterpoint changed me and then I found TRP well after that confirmed what I already felt. A woman who has a lot of sexual partners, is a horrible bet regardless of the reason. Did she put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 4 | What the fuck is masculinityIt sounds like you completely agreed with me in the last sentence but just projected a lot of nonsense at the start because you falsely assumed in bad faith an undesirable definition of femininity was implied there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Age Gap RelationshipsI want a wife and mother to my children. Some high N count woman, apart from simply being conceptually disgusting to me on a primal lizard brain level (the male equivalent would be a NEET that sends all his money to only fans girls and asks to marry them via chat), is not someone I could trust with my future kids, my finances, my reputation, etc. Poor impulse control, inability to pair bond, emotional baggage, etc run rampant. Why would I not care about the single biggest, empirically verifiable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 11 | What the fuck is masculinityI would say more "do whatever but with unwavering conviction" is a properly neutral but equally succinct way to put to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 28 | What the fuck is masculinityMasculinity is the ability to, in any of the situations above, confidently and unashamedly do exactly what you believe needs to be done. Now you can obviously have horribly flawed ways of thinking and be both a shitty person and still masculine as there is no inherent virtue or vice in masculinity in a moral sense, though in practice the behavior regardless of morality will be inherently attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap RelationshipsThis. I'm 28 and my girlfriend/soon to be fiancé just turned 21. You want a beautiful young girl with an N count between 0-2 who isn't going to cheat on you and doesn't have social media or batshit insane political views? You better check all her "dream guy" boxes off if you want a girl that checks yours, and I guarantee any man here at 22 didn't have the worldliness, talents, or especially the financial security and discernible vision for the future women admire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?I've always wanted kids and a stable family. Women just didn't take me seriously at 22 when I was making minimum wage and otherwise unremarkable in terms of social status (despite them being in the exact same situation) and now half a decade later after getting rich and acquiring a glut of social capital in my late 20s they do. Based off of myself and my friend group, I would say it isn't so much guys have an epiphany phase like women do, but that most guys aren't holistically attractive enough … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Assuming the individual takes personal responsibility, what are the legitimate intersexual grievances today?For the vast majority of men until you get to a certain level where it completely flips, yes definitely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Assuming the individual takes personal responsibility, what are the legitimate intersexual grievances today?Its because its an unusually high percentage of their looksmatches somehow got converted into absolute raging sjws. Most women I would judge in looks to be 3-5/10 constitute the above leftist profile, which is probably the same below average strata of attractiveness where the average male redditor complaining on the internet and confined to dating apps falls himself. Most of your garden variety beautiful women tend to be conservative (and disproportionately christian I have observed too), and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What is an average woman to you?In my mid/later 20s in a mcol urban metro for context "Average" to me for women here would be: Not fat but not by any means toned or noticeably active, may do cardio twice a week Educated at a college level with a useless degree and low 5 figures of debt Makes 50-60K/year at a 9-5 corporate job Lives paycheck to paycheck in order to have an apartment in heart of the city and regularly go out for food and drinks Hooks up with random drunk chads when she goes out while single and ends up dating so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 7 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?I think it is actually a better reading of the OP intent, the issues isn't that women "won't date men who earn less than them" its that they "don't take seriously as a long term prospect men who earn less than them" and the hesitancy to date them is a sub-problem of the issue along with the failures of the ones who do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?And considering "finances" are one of the highest cited divorce reasons, and women overwhelmingly are the ones who initiate divorce, I would say that 30% you mentioned are more likely than not to be time bombs due to "settling" as they will likely view it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway?So they are incapable of effectively motivating themselves. Same problem just one macro level higher of analysis. I used to be fat, now I'm easily top 1% in terms of physique. I didn't find it too hard, but in a world where most people are obese it seems by definition it actually is hard - the underlying reason why it is hard doesn't necessarily matter be it the activity itself or people's faulty mindsets and reasoning. Same applies for my 5 year journey from minimum wage out of college to six f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway?Well apparently 80% of the population is incapable of achieving it over a span of decades of varying levels of effort so I would say that yes, it is by definition fairly hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Do men or women choose?The more attractive person chooses. It has nothing to do with gender in a vacuum, but it just so happens that women are going to be more attractive 90% of the time, with the top 1% of men being the most attractive you can be out of any category followed by the majority of women, then the rest of the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.Ah yes because there’s soooo many peer reviewed studies for this topic. It’s just reality. My uncle cold approached my aunt in the gym, my best friend cold approached his now wife at the grocery store, and while I do know some couples who just got married that did meet online, you really want to argue that the 1/(swipe denominator) is a larger number than 1/(public cold approach) fraction for any man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.What if I told you that cold approach actually has a higher success rate on an interaction by interaction basis, by any reasonable definition of the term success rate, than OLD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.2# - never said all men are good at it, most suck, and most don't know when to give up. that doesn't mean it isn't useful if you're competent. most people who try to stop smoking or lose weight can't, doesn't mean that smoking cessation/weight loss doesn't work if you do it right 3# - a surprising preponderance of young women being absolutely decoupled from reality is their problem and others shouldn't expect to have to change to accommodate their feelings 5# - So by what we established you woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Men should stop Cold Approaching.1 - nothing succeeds for men most of the time, or even often at all in terms of %: a 1% success rate for say online dating would actually put a man solidly above the overwhelming majority of his peers 2 - yes, but if the opportunity cost is literally nothing sans 15 seconds of your time, why not? this point is easily the most obvious refutation 3 - rape culture is a myth and there is far more evidence woman have a mental illness/neuroticism culture if we want to play that game 4 - women hate any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | how does one "work on their personality" without frauding who they really are and creating a fake persona, if that's even possible. And what do people mean by "working on your personality"? Also why do the same people say "just be yourself" when it's contradictory?I just presumed it was given this is PPD but it still applies. Know just enough about other's interests to make relevant conversation, let them do most of the talking, then when you speak ensure its because you're making them laugh. Its not simple yet it is that "simple". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | how does one "work on their personality" without frauding who they really are and creating a fake persona, if that's even possible. And what do people mean by "working on your personality"? Also why do the same people say "just be yourself" when it's contradictory?Easy reading for you - Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People" would be easily digestible and give you a good starting point and is framed in such a way that even at 16 you should be able to appreciate it and fully digest the core points. If you have the time, the thing that got me from a position very similar to yours to a guy women love talking with is to try comedy! When having conversations, even serius ones, think of any possible good jokes you could have made, compile them ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:57 AM |
| 4 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inthe irony is that those most likely to truly hold that view and mean it are also the most vocally opposed to stopping grooming in schools | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How could OLD be improved?There is no way to fix it because no app is profitable without a critical mass of female users, and the whole point is just to throw chads at them to keep them on and involved. It really is a zero sum game because any way that fixes apps to make them more appealing or useful to the average man does damper the experience for the average woman - which causes more men to join and more women to leave and then it's dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 01:52 AM |
| 7 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?Precisely. I have maybe a 5% swipe to match ratio on tinder and from that end up taking out maybe 66% of matches and hooking up with 50% of those and I’m considered by my friends to be the turbo chad of the group for having a 1-2% success rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What would a below average man/woman be?It's revoltingly disgusting and wrong to me on a primal lizard brain level akin to the response you and I get if we were to imagine eating feces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | What would a below average man/woman be?I'd sooner marry my male cousin than raise another man's kids. I presume the OP is in the context of "RMV" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 6 | How mixed are are your views in red/black/blue pills, as a purple piller?The one major point I would disagree, especially since you seemed to talk about data and science so much, is that growing up without a father IS that bad. It is demonstrably the worst possible thing for a kid short of growing up an actual orphan or being downright criminally abused. Even adjusted for income, it ruins kids. Hell, young boys that grow up without fathers even have observably shorter telomeres in their cells. You literally observably start to die faster as a kid without a father, le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for the vast majority of most unwanted pregnanciesI've been with a loooooot of women in the one night stand context. I have had more women fight me on using a condom than women who wanted me to wear a condom. Also since the whole linear progression of time thing matters, every single current unwanted pregnancy is 100% the woman's fault since for better or worse she has the final say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 17 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialIt solidifies what rational people have been saying the whole time: look at the evidence and withhold judgement until that point. Celebrities shouldn't be believed/condemned because of their status, people shouldn't lose out on opportunities just because of accusations, and women shouldn't be automatically believed or discounted just because they're women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Its a book (an international best seller and universally acclaimed one at that)...try reading those sometime instead of out of context cherry picked links | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:12 PM |
| 6 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Actually it hasn't and you're simply wrong. TL;DR if you haven't read freakonomics, you can perform a regression analysis and isolate purely the variable of abortion services in a given radius and 18 years from those coming up crimes dropped independent of any other singular variable. You can statistically link crime reduction to abortion services with a higher degree of certainty than police funding or poverty, as those were other variables analyzed with the same methodology. Its fascinating if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.As someone who has a solid rotation whenever single (3-4 girls, not 12 fwiw, idk how you could have that many to keep up with and still have a life and a job): 1 - No they actually all definitely want to date me and have feelings, that is why they have to be cut off after a certain amount of time when they finally truly internalize the fact that when I say I want only casual, I mean it and nothing they do will change that 2 - Nah I get more consistent blowjobs, anal, whatever more one-sided thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 54 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?I spent the first 4 years of my post-college working career doing doubles in retail banking 8-5 and bartending nights and weekends. In my combined 4 year stint of 80x52x4=16,000 and change hours of working jobs that entailed nonstop general public facing activities, I and my numerous coworkers have had many people ask to speak to the manager. The (much smaller percentage of total manager askers) men complained about processes and policies, the women complained about staff. Karens, in the origina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.how do a few cherrypicked examples represent entire populations again? you're actually being an example of what i'm saying and arguing my case for me. you're eschewing logic for emotion by definition in thinking anecdotes (which by the way are entirely unrelated to the discussion at hand) that fire you up counter statistics and large quantifiable phenomena. look up the gender disparity in people who are authors/speakers/professors of "fat studies" and "fat acceptance" and "healthy at every size"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.not really. short men, poor men, introverted men, etc recognize they are undesirable and need to compensate. fat women think the world needs to change to accept them, sluts think the world needs to change to accept them. men who are fucked know they're fucked. sure they're mad or bitter, but not in denial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.you can reject anyone for any reason you want. the notion that "hypocrisy" is somehow indicative of being wrong/misguided is just silly though. women have double standards they apply to men. men know this and accept this. men have double standards they apply to women. women get triggered and can't accept reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Women believe they understand men more than they really do, and that is a problemAll but one admitted they lied and blasey ford's story, the only one who didn't admit to lying, is so laughably full of holes and lies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:18 PM |
| 15 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.so all the short and skinny women who want the tall jacked me are hypocrites too then right? or maybe, juuuust maybe, on aggregate men and women prioritize different things. most men understand this, but most (reddit/internet/liberal) women are too solipsistic and think any double standard that doesn't benefit them is misogyny while those that to benefit them are just the way things are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.because most women can't and if you filtered for the ones that truly can enjoy having meaningless sex, those are the minority who are the "chad chasers" and they only have meaningless sex with guys way out of their league because why wouldn't you if you could? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is there such a huge focus on a certain demographic of women ?Ehhhh I'd fight about the social media point. I don't know a single woman my age (20s) that isn't addicted to her phone to the point where she could not function and would implode if it were taken away in a way akin to making a heroin addict go cold turkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 16 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?Because any woman who has that kind of money (and by extension ability to have a lot of free time) and isn't bad looking can find a dude half their age to actually date them if they put in work. Why be some loser simp for a fake relationship when you could actually get a real one with a little effort? Older women who go for younger guys, in my observations and interactions with them (hehehe), are the exceptions to female behavior in that they do actively pursue, put in work, and actively have ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | A big and defined chest or manboobs is male equivalent of big breasts and cleavage on womenSo by your own absurd troll logic I would be chasing girls with bigger biceps than me right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 17 | Women are invariably drawn to men who are taken and become way more attracted to a guy upon discovering he is spoken for. Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married, which shows women are far more shallow than men who base their attraction on looks.I would offer the caveat that there is a difference between men being scumbags and simply not caring a woman is taken, vs women becoming actively more attracting knowing a man is taken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 4 | What are some dating hills that you will die on?"Well my parents split and I'm fine so our kids wouldn't be hurt and I can just be selfish" is the internal monologue I imagine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?Like apparently never having had a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?I've dated multiple absolutely gorgeous head turning girls that got ready just as fast as I do provided it didn't involve drying their hair. Have you ever actually watched girls get ready? It isn't the stereotype you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?As a man I have had a few women do this when I was moonlighting as a bartender in a nice restaurant. However I would say they were objectively far less attractive than me but I was always nice about it and took it as a compliment. Never had an actually attractive women do this because, well, actually attractive women have zero incentive to do any work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 8 | What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers?You don't have the luxury of performing the mental gymnastics needed to attribute your failure to "commitment phobia" if you're unattractive and too broke to afford the occasional prostitute. Forgive me if I don't believe a self described rabbit says he isn't acting like a lion due to his own virtue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 6 | How much time does a highly productive man actually have to give you?All of your numbers are so hilariously overblown except the gym. 3 hours a week is weak shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How much time does a highly productive man actually have to give you?3 hours of exercise a week is painfully low, you're right not realistic at all, if you want to look good you'll likely need over twice that. 45 minutes a day weights plus 45-60 minutes of cardio/adventure sports daily right now for me since it is about to be pool season | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:09 PM |
| -1 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?I think you can accurately see how this plays out. Most gay men I know are having a field day and either always in a relationship if they want or always having casual stuff if they want, and most lesbians I know who aren't decidedly more attractive are bitter and lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:04 PM |
| 13 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.If I were to pose a definition it would be "a male that overtly and unashamedly displays dark triad personality predispositions" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience?Are there downsides? Sure. But faaaaaaaaaar more women get enlargement than reduction so that speaks volumes about the cost/benefit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women still choose to be stay at home parents?I think the opposite is worrying, why are you such a self absorbed narcissist that you would rather work some pointless job that no one will ever remember you for in exchange for letting someone else raise your own fucking kids and miss out on those crucial years and condemn them to statistically far worse outcomes in terms of development and socialization, let alone the memories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflectionsThere is intentional semantic bullshit behind that because the connotation behind the term is entirely different. Activists trying to change language via legislative efforts doesn't make it less nefarious and intentionally misleading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflectionsSo any time anyone touches someone in any capacity without explicitly asking consent each and every time is sexual assault by your abysmally vague criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:43 PM |
| -1 | Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflectionsSo why intentionally conflate what is ultimately harmless light albeit possibly unwanted or awkward physical contact with a term like sexual assault, which you and I both know people will always interpret at face value as rape or attempt thereof, and make it out to be a boogeyman for what seems for no reason but to fear monger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:40 PM |
| -1 | Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflectionsNo it isn't at all. Plus the context was dates so you can't move the goalposts there. You are infinitely more likely to die in a car accident on the way to the date than to be assaulted. Actual sexual assault, as in not the bullshit stats done by activists that intentionally lump in things like unwanted touching that includes being tapped on the shoulder with real assault, is exceedingly rare and largely confined to the category of family members/family friends preying on younger people, those l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:28 PM |
| -2 | Statements like “women don’t owe you sex“ and “men aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” are not accurate depictions of how the vast majority of men think and simply more deflectionsSuch a negligible amount that its not even worth considering as a possibility given how rare actual rape is and that most of the time its someone you already know and not strangers, and especially not strangers trying to meet you in a crowded public place for coffee or a meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?We have an absolutely amazing relationship. She is an inspiration to me and such a beautiful, amazing person for whom I would do anything. My dad suffered some serious physical ailments through my life and she stayed by him through thick and thin, and he lives basically all for her. Their relationship is perfect. It does impact how I view women, because I believe to some degree the reason I was successful in life is because she guaranteed I started on a good path. She stayed home with all of me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M is it easier to hookup or get a relationship with a 22 year old woman or a 32 year old woman?One a 1:1 basis the 32 year old women is easier, but I will overwhelmingly end up with a 22 year old woman because the chance that someone is single at 32, available at 32 (ie. out and about able to be approached and not home watching Jayden Hayden Brayden and the other deadbeat dad's kids they wasted their prime spawning), and actually attractive is quite low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Almost all gender behavior differences boil down to socialized behaviors and different hormonal cocktails.Isn't it indicative of clown world that in order to attempt to dodge being called a literal nazi you have to virtue signal about how liberal you are prior to claiming the obvious fact that men and women are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceI would say it depends on the circumstance. Its not like I go to the bar with just one female friend, but large groups involving both male friends and attractive women is a massive help if you're trying to play the game while out. I've definitely been put on to single friends by girls I knew for a fact were into me, usually because I fucked them down the road if the friendship was going to end due to me knowing I'm moving soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceYou have them as social proofing for when you go out. I can't even begin tell you the wonders preselection has worked for me in the past. Hot girls also have hot friends they feel comfortable putting you on with since by being your friend they already trust/like you and once again social proofing for the win. Even us Chads have to work for it, and it makes the work so much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Then just not giving a shit is your reason and thats fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?What is her reasoning behind not shaving? Is she just a hippy type or even likes it or health reasons? Don't care. Is she, like 99.999999% of women that do this doing because she's some wacko feminist type that can't shut up about fringe political issues and is overall an insufferable human being? That is the red flag, and since it basically maps on 100% I would never consider a women who had wild armpit hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:20 PM |
| 27 | Being a lesbian, is 10x worse than being a straight man in terms of dating, and it makes me angry when they talk about how bad "THEY" got it.*people who date women have it hard Happy? If you were filthy rich, high status, or quite attractive you would have the same (albeit more limited by definition due to smaller overall pool) options as your male counterpart in the same situation. If you're a virgin at 31 you are probably a combination of out of shape, low status, and boring. Want to compare yourself to men? That is what I would tell a man in your situation. Welcome to TRP bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?This will also vary subjectively by the woman. I have had some girls where I couldn't even fit it all in or it was too painful for certain positions due to size and told me mine was big, and had ones that wished it was bigger and straight up told me it was small. Ultimately I think am pretty damn average in terms of measurement. No one really talks about how dramatic the female variation in their own vaginal "size" so to speak really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:53 PM |
| 13 | The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males nowIt is far bigger than TRP. TRP, because it ultimately advocates for men, which puts it in opposition of feminism or any woman-centric concept is instantly labeled as "right wing" even though it is entirely apolitical. Anything "right" of the pushed leftist narrative gets censored. We literally have a sub called "politics" that bans anything that isn't in lock step with a hard progressive narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)When you, in a legitimately unbiased view, can safely say that "friend" would make a move on your partner if they saw a chance or a moment of vulnerability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | seeking validation on social mediaNo, it is not based off of my myopic emotional response, it is based off of logic. Would you be so asinine as to label all of philosophy as feelings/emotion just because it involves in depth reasoning resulting in informed opinions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | seeking validation on social mediaAnd the value provided by an unfettered exchange of ideas, to an absurd degree, compensates for any hilariously minuscule relative downsides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | seeking validation on social mediaOne can use logic to determine that the cost of censorship and loss of freedom for all is far greater than the cost of, by definition, already weak minded people getting mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry?Not at all, because I wouldn't trust it not to evolve into something more malicious. I would in a vacuum not have a problem with this at all, but if you trust setting a precedent for more and more ever expanding "lists of undesirables" that you can end up on then you live in a bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | seeking validation on social mediaPolicy should be determined by facts, statistics, and logical principles. Our deviation from this is why in lieu of a feminine, feelings-based imperative is why we're criminalizing comedians and letting men shit on women in sports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | seeking validation on social mediaPolicy is ultimately decided by feelings over reality. Hence the rampant censorship (arrests/fines/police visiting your home over tweets), and grooming gang investigations getting covered up because we couldn't dare be seen as IsLaMoPhObIc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do men become possessive?Because although I am a very attractive man, my girlfriends never have to worry about other girls approaching me in the gym, at the bar, out shopping, getting hundreds of DMs, etc because that is just reality for guys. They have to worry only about ME downright putting myself in a situation to cheat. Since I never have cheated, am not a chronic liar and am very transparent, and social circles always vouch for my character, girls I date don't ever feel the need to be possessive like that. On the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:14 PM |
| 6 | seeking validation on social mediaThe UK is a prime example of what happens when you let a feminine imperative overrun a system. They care more about mean tweets than child grooming gangs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Are you guys actually asking your partners N counts?Never had to ask because every girl I've ever dated always just flat out told me in the beginning, usually in the sentence before asking me mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers.This shows little to nothing in terms of what you're trying to say. The 80/20/Pareto distribution has nothing to do with paternity, it has to do with raw attraction. Hell TRP constantly talks about how most guys WILL get married and have kids with a woman after she rode the CC during her prime and settle for you. I know you think you're "debunking" something here but you really aren't at all. Hell if anything it reinforces the narrative that marriage is a bad deal, since half end in divorce, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceThe best situation as a guy are female friends that, while still attractive, YOU view and maintain as platonic while THEY would totally jump on you if you ever went for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL Are men who are red pill and get casual sex less likely to settle down?I can't speak for everyone but I think to a degree men who are drawn to TRP due to their circumstances/personality or what have you may be more likely to just fuck around. This has nothing to do with TRP itself and is more correlation than causation. I personally want to settle down get married and start a family for whatever its worth, and the moment I find a woman worth it I would 10/10 lock her down, but since that is hard I am just living the chad supreme life and enjoying my time searching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men?If you let someone cross a line one time, it will keep happening. Take no shit, be firm, be direct, and unless its some dude when you're alone in a dark alley or some outrageous and rare actual life or death scenario, remember that they are probably (or at least should be) more afraid of any realistic form of retaliation than you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:18 PM |
| 0 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.I'm glad they're upfront. Any women willing to assume malicious intent behind ultimately banal good faith logical claims would be a total pain in the ass to deal with. For the same reasons I don't date hardcore evangelicals, because any disagreement, no matter how innocuous, with their cult ideology makes you a sinner of the worst kind, just as it does in your religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.You embody what is wrong with the virtue signaling wannabe activist demographic. If you think I have "an irrational fear or hatred" of a group because I don't think biological men should compete in women's sports, I think you're logicphobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Actually quite the opposite, though if your only interaction with them is media representations and internet posts I can see why you'd believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 11 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?I was previously never successful in relationships, and thought I had nothing to lose. It told me things that were in direct conflict with my current mindset based off of advice I received from my parents, my sister, all the girls I liked up until that point, media I consumed, etc. I adopted some of it and landed a pretty attractive girlfriend by using that which I learned. We were about to graduate from college and move apart so I decided to put TRP predictions to the test. She asked me to open… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:48 PM |
| -1 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.Facts. Christian women date me despite being atheist to the point where I have an art piece that is a portrait of Christopher Hitchens and an entire section of my personal library being the works of him, Dawkins, Harris, etc. Republican women date me with no problems despite me being pro drugs, pro choice, anti war, pro regulations, an environmentalist, etc. Leftist women call me a nazi because I think men shouldn't roflstomp women in sports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:05 PM |
| 16 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.I used to not care but I heavily filter now just because it seems like every single millennial/genZ woman is some idiot SJW with insane beliefs they likely only believe because they think twitter/tiktok is reality. I used to exclusively date liberal/libertarian women for the same reasons but at this point I'm forced to date moderate/conservative women because at least they don't force their fringe nonsense into everyday conversations. I'm a stalwart atheist but nowadays I'd gladly take someone w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?Not at all: porn is a symptom of sexlessness, not a cause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?lmao you could have just said "I'm triggered" and saved some typing time I have taken female friends to get abortions while I was in college, its stupidly easy, less emotion more facts please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Except they can run from them because its stupidly easy to get an abortion. They literally can run from the burden. What clown world are you living in that you think its good for men to suffer because someone else making the final decision on your behalf wants to throw you under the bus AND fuck over a future kid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?you have both or none, not one or the other, not sure what relevance or insight was added there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?So you'd be okay if she got pregnant kept the child and financially ruined his entire youth/young adult life essentially consigning him to poverty? That's okay but being an asshole isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill and friends are lying about their affinity for Pick-Me Women. If they liked Pick-Mes, they would introduce as much incentive to those women as they do for OF Models and Adult videosMost young women who are attractive, non insane feminist types, with a low body count are in committed relationships or married. Men do want this, the demand just greatly dwarfs the supply and the average guy doesn't really have a shot with what is ultimately an all around 9/10 girl by definition. Men who are quality enough to get a woman like that and want a relationship have it, most men just aren't good enough to realistically land a girl like that given the lack of supply of them and the lev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do you think it’s possible to be unsuccessful in romance/dating and be happy/ok with it?Unless you either have a health condition that either is or leads to asexuality/zero libido, or are so impassioned by something to where you're the likes of a Stephen Hawking or Ernest Hemingway purely living to dedicate your life to a craft like that I would highly doubt it is ever truly by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyI'm saying, being culturally Japanese, a priori I have a deep understanding of Japanese culture. Because I understand Japanese culture, I can explain Japanese cultural phenomena. You described a Japanese cultural phenomena, and I helped explain it. Is that laid out clearly enough to comprehend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]Do you think it’s possible to be unsuccessful in romance/dating and be happy/ok with it?Possible? Yes. Likely? Not at all unless it is truly by choice /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 4 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyHow does my level of specific linguistic prowess affect being raised by a Japanese dad and all his first generation Japanese extended family and my numerous trips to Japan staying with family there or my elective extensive study of Japanese history in both the university and my free time? I legit have no idea why you're trying to argue with me or even what your point of contention is relative to the points I made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | SJW on socials vs IRLUSA, yep. And although I'm in a big metro city, I'm in the Bible Belt still and its this way. I can't imagine the insanity that is trying to find sane women in the likes of the north east. I'm a pot smoking war-protesting atheist hippy so I used to love the cultural pendulum swinging back left growing up around a bunch of warhawk evangelical tradcons but god damn its gone too far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:26 PM |
| 5 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyAnd I'm explaining why they reacted the way they did in a way that is more concise than how you did. It is the opposite of irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 4 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyI would add something though. It isn't because Chris verbally "assaulted" Will. Phrasing it like that makes it seem like its in line with the idiot leftist idea that words are violence. It is because it was an affront to his honor. Not just semantics there, very real and tangible difference. Source - am part Japanese and that is how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | SJW on socials vs IRLLiterally over 50%+ of female tinder bios I see day in day out have at least one outrageous leftist claim on them. I know there is some degree of sample bias there given what types of people may be drawn to online dating, which admittedly is how I meet most new non-coworker women (2-3 dates week I'd say) but literally close to half of all millennial/genZ girls I interact with in end up being legit raging SJWs. Not just liberal, but "men should compete in women's sports/completely abolish the pol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?What if you were brought up in an otherwise fantastic environment but in terms of dating you were explicitly told the exact opposite of what you deem common sense by your parents/girls your age/reinforced by all mainstream media consumption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex important or significant at all?Why is food/hunger significant? I mean you can live 30 some odd days without food, especially given how fat most people are statistically speaking they could probably do more. Its significant because your body tells your mind its significant, nothing more nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:31 PM |
| 60 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.The problem lies in that men who aren't a combination of both attractive and successful enough with women to begin with to have true abundance mentality (which, frankly is very few men in terms of %) are wholly incapable of having a platonic friendship with a woman he perceives to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Going to the gym won't really change muchYesterday I went to a wedding. It was for one of my fraternity brothers ands his now wife was in a sorority we were tight with, so it was basically a time machine back 5 or so years to our college party days. I hardly recognized one of the bridesmaids because she used to be fat and I thought she was ugly but she now looked stunning. It wasn't even a case of obese to bodybuilder or anything, but the way slimming down changed her face alone was astounding. She thought the same about me, considerin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 12:00 AM |
| -1 | Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app?I get enough girls in real life and have zero social media accounts because I think they're cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Simps and online sex work have no effect on dating. So why care?I don't care. The above point I was addressing was claiming that "most OF girls are out of the average guy's league anyways". Did you read what I replied to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life?Hot but poor. I'm already well off so I do not give a single fuck about your career or assets if you're attractive and properly feminine and pleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Simps and online sex work have no effect on dating. So why care?Most of the girls I know who do onlyfans (pretty damn common if you are into the edm/rave scene) are actually what I would firmly consider below my league in attractiveness and not nearly as hot as the girls I have dated. Obviously there are some top 1% on OF that are out of reach for the "average" guy, but most really aren't. All of the "out of my league" girls I know that have gone into the sex for money route did actual porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 12 | Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it.I think a lot of women would be absolutely blown away (and the inverse with men, expanding your perspective is always a good thing) reading accounts from women who transitioned to "men" but actually underwent extensive hormone therapy. Women have no freakin clue how life under the constant influence of testosterone is (and men can't comprehend its absence) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Is political incorrectness/a very dark sense of humor (in both men and women) generally a positive or negative?I use it to vet as well as to charm. If you are so offended by an objectively good joke (I am by no means an aspiring career comedian, but I have won an amateur night at a legitimately famous venue and think I am definitely funnier than average and pull mainly from that routine) then you're probably an insufferable human and I want nothing to do with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 7 | Is political incorrectness/a very dark sense of humor (in both men and women) generally a positive or negative?Literally just posted something similar to this. Doesn't matter how fucked up or even otherwise blasé the joke is so long as you deliver it right and its actually truly funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Is political incorrectness/a very dark sense of humor (in both men and women) generally a positive or negative?I do standup and am VERY politically incorrect. Making girls laugh so hard they laugh uncontrollably at fucked up things has always been something I attribute my success to in part. It makes them comfortable and disarms them. Obviously if your jokes fall flat the opposite may happen so ymmv. 9/10 girls probably get at least an excerpt or two from one of my routines on a first date and absolutely die laughing, and the 1/10 that doesn't is usually a raging sjw that I would want nothing to do with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:40 AM |
| 27 | CMV: The biggest misandrists I see online are menbecause the unspoken followup to saying that is an implicit "...but I'm not like that". white knights gonna white knight, thirsty losers virtue signaling when women complain isn't misandry. if the same sample of unhinged women changed their posts to "kick puppies puppies aint shit" then those same guys would echo that anti-puppy sentiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 5 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?I think it existed prior to but was never able to really have much of a downside until social media kicked it into overdrive, as social media has done to many endemically male and population wide quirks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?well then you are willfully changing the definition of a word that actually means something precise in psychological literature. I'm talking about being more agreeable, why are you not? This is well established in literature, there's some evidence. Why do women perceive men as more attractive simply because other women do? There's some evidence. Why is the psychological phenomenon of mass hysteria an entirely female issue? There's some evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 28 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?yeah I'll agree used to mean basically "don't be a simp/doormat willing to ditch established plans with male friends because a girl hit you up" now its just loser guys saying it to feel like they aren't losers because all their social interactions are sausage fests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 7 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?being more agreeable quite literally does mean more likely to go with the crowd consensus not sure what prevalence or lack thereof has to do with the claim and the hard evidence in psychological literature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 10 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?porn addiction is a problem for both men and women, but men are more susceptible. uncontrolled aggression is a problem for both men and women, but more of a problem for men. why is that any time a problem is more prevalent in women people freak out? women are more agreeable in aggregate in personality across all cultures. this is rooted in biology, and then possibly further magnified by culture but still intrinsic. the flip side of this is women are less likely to go mentally awol and adopt insa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:50 PM |
| 7 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?im not, men are far more susceptible than they realize, and women are REALLY far more susceptible than they realize while simultaneously captioning half their photos and bios with how "independent" they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?was appreciation a thing in the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:41 PM |
| 13 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?exact same? hard no pre-selection isn't a thing in men with regards to mating, and the amount of idiot gen-z girls that are wacko sjws because they think tiktok/twitter represents reality far outnumbers their male counterparts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?About as important as having a "heroin phase" so you learn about the dangers of losing self-control and don't get that fomo later after only having drank on weekends and hit a few blunts /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 61 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Women don't appreciate how susceptible they truly are to groupthink/hive-mind mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Western women, western men and perceived valueI'd phrase that differently. Being a 5 with a decent income in any first world country can land you an 8 in certain very select countries that both do not have extreme prejudice towards outsiders and have shit economies if both parties just want a purely transactional relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | How long do you see yourself invested in a purple pill debate?Hitch was by and far my favorite "public intellectual" of all time, cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | How long do you see yourself invested in a purple pill debate?I view it in the same vein Richard Dawkins viewed debating Christians. I'm not here to change the minds of anyone I engage with as they by definition are far too entrenched, I'm here out of mere interest and if what I say sways someone on the fence passively observing then that is all I can ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | It's better for men to watch porn and get their "thrill of diversity" that way, rather than cheating."Wow, I was a cheater before and never thought of this and now my life is changed after reading this because it never occurred to me" This is as obtuse of an opinion as saying we would have no criminals if they just all played more grand theft auto | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 4 | What solutions would you guys propose?I would love for a private sector solution to come around. I wish there was an app with a sufficient userbase, ie tinder/hinge/bumble, to offer an affordable premium service that involves real human employees using profiles in your area for formal matchmaking services. For example you paid $20 a month to go on a professionally matched blind date once a week or whatever frequency with a looks matched, vetted and background checked, and complimentary but still different enough to be interesting in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.FDS is an extreme outlier relative to the size not only TRP, but the entire massive industry built around male dating advice. PUA, podcasts, coaches, the manosphere in genera. There is nothing even remotely, fractionally, at all like that made for women. There is no supply because there is no demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.and that response is why they are in the extreme minority of women that need help dating lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.I don't date ugly girls so it'll never happen for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 4 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.TRP actually provides a framework for understanding attraction and working towards becoming more attractive. FDS provides....an outlet to bitch on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 9 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.A man could be introduced to TRP, lose 50 lbs of fat gain 50 lbs of muscle start mastering a wide variety of various extremely interesting hobbies and learn advanced investment concepts and become quite a catch. That is literally my story so its certainly possible albeit probably rare. But no woman becomes higher value via FDS, there is no element of self improvement in any aspect of a woman's life there, it doesn't teach you how to get better men it just shits on low value men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Dating your friend’s exI would say its only acceptable if all parties are now worlds away in terms of life stages. ie my friends and I are now in mid 20s, been through college, grad school, a few years in the workforce, and I would not feel any kind of remorse if now 10+ years later I found myself dating a high school girlfriend of one of my friends. But it would have to be that level of removed from current reality, their relationship ended 8-10 years prior and never lived together or was engaged would be a hard rule… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 12:53 PM |
| 17 | The main issue with FDS aren't their standards, it's the women who are demanding those standards that are the issue.The issue isn't the standards in a vacuum, but that any woman actually capable of demanding those standards has probably never heard of reddit let alone actually needs to be on FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?I promise I could go to a random bar and leave with a more attractive woman than you on any given day. Most young people in the age of social media are just plain boring, it is just more apparent when you are filtering women because I don't care if my male friends are attractive and when only a small percentage of people are interesting adding another modifier makes things more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?I am extremely successful at getting women, I just find that an astounding percentage of those I consider "in my league" in terms of attractiveness are vapid and uninteresting. The more attractive a woman is it seems the less she is incentivized to actually develop as a person, at least for those my age (20s) in the age of social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?You're completely right but that is relevant to my point how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 09:30 PM |
| 0 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?Over fifty percent of women are overweight/obese so even the most common of those hobbies, being going to the gym, by definition is actually uncommon. You really gonna sit here and try to tell me the rest are??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 08:52 PM |
| 4 | The red pill essentially teaches that men aren't capable of love?Attempting to quantify certain intangible concepts to better understand relationship dynamics for whatever reason --> love isn't real is quite the non sequitur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 08:04 PM |
| -1 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?I am attracted to girls that have hobbies/interests that I do. Shocker, I know. The problem is women have no incentive to be interesting if they are attractive enough because they can sit around and get endless validation doing nothing but being pretty and having a phone. Find me a decent looking, good woman that is a licensed scuba diver/goes rock climbing/hits the gym/plays an instrument/will watch attack on titan every Sunday and I'll have a ring on her finger before she knows what hit her th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 08:00 PM |
| 0 | People with siblings of the opposite gender, did it influene your view on who has it easier?the usual feminists arguments that have nothing to do with silly things like facts or the progression of linear time, all emotions and you can tell they are rarely challenged because they are used to people just being afraid to say the emperor has no clothes and fold under pressure and resort to ad hominem and labeling you when you offer any resistance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | People with siblings of the opposite gender, did it influene your view on who has it easier?My sister is a crazy cat lady level feminist who thinks she is perpetually oppressed. I will go chronologically on my points. 1 Not sure if this is more anecdotal or due to me being slightly older/the first child, but she definitely got a lot more stuff from the fam (I got all hand me down clothes, she got new stuff, I bought my first car, she got one handed to her, she was able to stay out later I had a curfew) but I am readily able to chalk this up to being the first born and cede it may not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTRI don't think raw sexual desire is as in a vacuum as you believe. Do you genuinely believe you can get the best, holistically, from someone who doesn't desire you? I'm not saying you have to be the hottest they've ever had, but there is a floor for attraction where you simply won't get their best if you don't meet it. There is an element of compulsion towards the other, in a nonsexual context, that sexual desire brings to the table between people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTRIt isn't necessary if you lack the baseline self respect to be indefinitely tethered to someone that, by your own words, they are settling for in one major area. Have you been in a relationship involving both scenarios? Having dated girls that were attracted primarily to my personality (pre trp chubby beta me) vs dating girls attracted to me viscerally as well as as a person I can safely say the two scenarios are worlds apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | most women like having sex with their beta husbands too.Oh no don't get me wrong I genuinely appreciate it. I have been approached by model coaches twice in my adult life while out in the social scene and after indulging them for fun in trial photo shoots they couldn't even make me photogenic. I truly am just permanently ugly af in photos but actually quite good looking XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | most women like having sex with their beta husbands too.Any time I force a smile my face just looks stupid in still frames. Part of me says it is what it is, maybe because my asian side really comes through when I smile and my eyes really scrunch up or maybe I truly am clueless. Either way its of no concern to me, I want a legit monogamous ltr--->wife relationship and that is far more likely to happen in person regardless. I just find it conceptually funny I can literally date models but can't even get a 5 to swipe right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | TRP doesn't work for neurodivergent menam man, consider myself trp precisely because it worked for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Q4All - What does everyone thing about the Harry Met Sally-esque “men and women can’t be friends”?If I am friends with a woman, it is because we have common interests, similar personalities/lifestyles, and personally invested in the well being of one another. If you are attractive to boot then you are literally someone I want to date. If the woman in that situation is unattractive, I am cool, but she always wants to date me. I'd say its only possible if its a childhood friend or if you are both in secure long term relationships within the same friend group and even then I would pray a few to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | most women like having sex with their beta husbands too.or because you're like me - and frankly most 6-8/10 guys to some degree - and despite being decidedly attractive in real life you just look like an autistic potato in photos and get approached by beautiful women when out but can't even get 5s online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:49 PM |
| -6 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menno man would be offput by seeing a faceless pair of gigantic bare tits on a small waist in the same way women would be seeing a dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?And I will elaborate further - in the rare chance I meet a women worth being friends with per my criteria, chances are I wouldn't want to be friends with her because I'd more than likely find her quite attractive and want to date her. By virtue of being in great shape, intelligent, and extroverted enough to be in a situation to even meet me, she is likely above average looking in a vacuum prior to the other components of attraction even kicking in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?I am only really friends with people that I have extensive common interests with. When I was in college and my interests were primarily partying, I had a metric fuckton of platonic female friends. Now that I spend my time mainly powerlifting, reading rather niche literature (been on a huge theoretical physics kick the past few years), and working on improving my investment/real estate portfolio, and writing music for my band I find that I simply have absolutely nothing in common with 100% of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Because women have options. It's like saying why are upper class California tech bros more likely to enjoy periods of dietary fasting than a poor person unable to consistently feed themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Is there much difference between prostitution and paying Tinder for casual sex?By your logic then how is buying nice clothes and a section at the club with bottle service with the intent to chase women any different than prostitution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do conservatives have lower rates of sexual misconduct?religion of christianity =/= conservatism religion of wokeism = progressivism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How long would you go without sex before cheating?It for me more depends on the age and level of investment at that point. Is this next year while I'm in my 20s? If I were previously all about you I would give it a few months to see if anything changed. Are we 55 married with some kids? Well it sucks but there are far more important things than sex at this point and I will endure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceI think reality created blackpill. I think the redpill is actually the only way to avoid inceldom/nihilism/blackpill for the average young man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceThe same reason why any bad actor latches on to the most mainstream version of their not so mainstream ideology. Incels are to TRP what commies and looters are to BLM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:45 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advice99% of the women here do not understand TRP because they are only fed caricatures of it by those who oppose it. And sadly the only examples of it are in current year. OG TRP in 2012 (through 2014, for me were the years where I was a newbie and needed to read it before being good on my own) was VASTLY different than the incel/woman hating losers you see now that aren't even TRP but rather have no where else to go because reddit funneled them over to us via banning everywhere else in what I believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 7 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceexcept no woman would ever love you for being yourself if you are just mehhh because why would they if - since 99.99% of us are not really that remarkable or unique and could be replaced with ease - they could find another "you" with basically the exact same personality/talents/interests except making 3x your salary and better looking you are so obviously a woman because you've never had the world tell you that yourself isn't worth it, where as most men have faced that with a fair degree of freq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?So there isn't a single plausible reason for this that isn't just because "men bad", gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Bruh I feel this so hard. Literally just want a girl who is not fat, not woke, and not already gave birth to another man's kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?All the good girls worth dating are not on OLD and I moved out to the suburbs during the pandemic to buy and live in a new house before the market went nuts (ya boy called that one right at least) and simply have literally no way to meet girls in real life. Social circle all but dissolved during the lockdown and all of my close friends are married and keep to themselves minus me. I work from home, go to the gym twice a day, and spend the rest of the time managing side hustle/investments and prac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?I would take the rich virgin over the used up, jaded corporate slave, zero hesitation no second thoughts about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:13 PM |
| -1 | You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick?1 Demonstrably false accusations of sexual misconduct - ie. beyond reasonable doubt that it is in fact fake - carry the EXACT same sentence as what the alleged crime would have been. Be lying about rape, saying you touched kids inappropriately, etc. 2 Anywhere with legal abortion also has to offer men an option for financial abortion 3 Prenups have to actually be capable of doing what they were intended to do and provided the were legally filed they cannot be overturned or fought over later 4 Of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.I would wager my entire net worth that the likelihood a given woman would be in danger due to showing up to a date is statistically less significant than the mere risk of driving to the location of the date. And this doesn't stop the droves of young women I see on a daily basis from texting while driving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal cultureWell to a degree no, men don't have the capacity to choose by and large due to a tragedy of the commons type situation arising. Partly due to the average man's current options are either settle or be alone, where as even unattractive women have many options a preponderance of men have zero and take what they can get. Then also partly yeah testosterone is a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal cultureExcept you can't swap the genders because they play different roles. Women choose, men try to be chosen based off of how women choose. The fact that in a nonexistent hypothetical situation things may be different does not matter when faced with an immovable reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal cultureIt isn't men's fault when women literally select for the worst possible men. If anything its the opposite and men can to an extent to be absolved to a degree given men are literally incentivized to be that way given objectively demonstrable female preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal cultureLow IQ criminals are the most likely demographic of male to have kids....soooo.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?I don't at all view women that way, provided that I am telling the truth in a hypothetical situation what would your issue with dating me be then? As far as beliefs I hold tangental to what I take to be a straw man since the concept you describe is intentionally incendiary hyperbole, I think men need to take the lead in relationships more often than not, not because of any inherent betterness of being male but rather that it is expected by most women and off-putting to do otherwise unless shown … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 6 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?1 Biggest issue: the internet and far more options/knowledge/attention than we were ever meant to experience as a species. The result being women becoming way too picky and men dropping out of society. 2 Solutions: none that can be reasonably implemented. all of the solutions are going to be on the individual level. Men: become more, become better, do not stop until you are the best version of yourself and you will become happy. Women: delete all of your social media, seriously, you will actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:08 PM |
| -1 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?They will say no because they are too preoccupied with being in their feelz about the label itself to care about what that actually means or doesn't mean in practice. Why do you think feminists et al are so preoccupied with assigning labels to those they oppose instead of debating actual ideas, it is to capitalize on feminine thought processes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do TRP observations seem to contradict real world experience?Of course men who are professionals who make good money date similar women, because that is who they are around all the time. However, if someone were to take a single well to do male friend of yours and set him up on a date with a female outside of that circle, who was otherwise a perfect match for him in looks and personality but happened to make only $15/hr, he would likely not give a single fuck. The inverse of this, if you have some 6 figure graduate degree holding woman be introduced to an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Let's have some fun! - People on these sub often point out dealing with 'uninteresting men/women' as a struggle when dating and relationships. So let's see... What makes someone interesting (or uninteresting) in your eyes? *provide examples!If your life consists entirely of getting off work, obsessing over how many likes your photo got, and watching Netflix punctuated by drinking on the weekends, you don't read, etc. the chance you're fairly dull and uninteresting is high and we have nothing to talk about and its harder to find things to do together no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."Why is there such a demand for males with ultra high status but no one gives a fuck about an average looking 50 year old woman ceo/rockstar etc? Because the root of the demand comes from female nature. You all but outright agreed with me by bringing in supply and demand. This isn't a criticism or any kind of moral judgement, just observable reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."Except one is elastic and one is a hard line in the sand. Just because they fall under the umbrella of preference does not mean they have dramatically different outcomes in practice. I would prefer a woman little shorter than me, but I would date a taller woman with no hesitation. Most women would outright dismiss an otherwise fine man if she were taller. I have an MBA and work in finance and am pretty well off and would prefer a woman with a good career, but I would date a barista/waitress/etc.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?I could care less how actually attractive someone I was just hooking up with thought I was. Obviously I would like them to, but if that was a deal breaker prostitutes would not exist. For relationships it is 100% necessary for me to be found attractive. I want to have great sex, and I want you to want us to have great sex, and I want you to never think about cheating on me. Raw attraction is undeniably necessary to avoid dead bedroom at best or infidelity at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."what about the ones that secretly snuck into foreign embassies to fuck Julian Assange? no money, no clout from doing so, but pure unadulterated status from that hero of a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."You think every single one of these already wealthy models that could easily get someone to "pay" for them that is 10x as attractive and their same age didn't genuinely desire the men they were dating like Leo, Johnny Depp, Steven Tyler, Joaquin Phoenix, Paul McCartney, Sylvester Stallone, and I could go on and on and on and on and on. How dense could you possibly be to not realize that status is genuinely attractive to women in the face of an entire species worth of evidence showing it to be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?They almost always do try to get me to spend time with them in clearly non-sexual ways after though and do try to push the relationship angle. I don't think I've had a woman want sex just for the sake of sex since college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."Name one mehhhh looking old woman that has a willing harem of 10/10 young men. I could spend all day citing male examples. How would you explain the discrepancy in that phenomenon in a way that contradicts or even offers a semblance of a challenge to my explanation? You're resorting to the "I'm 16 and on reddit and I'm losing an argument so hurrr durrr cite statistics or its just an opinion" argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."its ample evidence, I'm sorry you aren't capable of simple a priori reasoning, considering you apparently don't accept a single claim unless it is backed up by an IRB approved university conducted research team I imagine you have very few views you can even hold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."You don't agree? How many decent looking for their age but still not all that 50 or so year old rockstars, athletes, actors, and politicians have lines of primo bombshell 18 year old girls lining up to bang them? I could name endless examples. How many well past their prime 50 year old female politicians, musicians, etc have 25 year old male model harems? Men and women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Bullying and SexMale, late 20s, was relentlessly bullied in middle/early high school. It started coming from the boys, then after my place as a loser in the social hierarchy was established the women jumped in. I was a very late bloomer and just nerdy so that made me low hanging fruit for the popular kids to dunk on, then the girls bullied me less because of that but more because I was denigrated into a lower caste by the male bullies and the girls I was previously friends with of course didn't want to be assoc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."How many bombshell hot young girls willingly line up to fuck some ehhhhhhh looking 50+ year touring musicians, politicians, actors, etc. Look at people like Leonardo DiCaprio, etc. The 10/10 women with him could easily land a male model, but his status makes him more attractive than men in their prime whose full time job is to look sexy. How many 25 year old absolute studs of men are lining up to be flown out to be shared as a harem by the likes of Megan Rappinoe, Angela Merkel, Adele when she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?I only invite women out for alcoholic drinks if I already suspect they're going to be in the casual use only category. Single moms, wacko sjws, overt evangelicals, etc. get invited out for drinks. Unfortunately that is 99% of girls online, and of course they all drink. I never usually initiate sex on the first encounter because the above demographic is the most at risk of having some negative outcome come from sex so hence me letting them initiate. Girls that are attractive, have a personality, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I don't think that's society. Women view jobs/educational attainment/titles etc as status symbols and I'm sure we can agree that women are sexually attracted, innately, to status and power to a degree that simply has no comparison in male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:27 PM |
| 6 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?How you spend you're money is a fairly solid indicator of how you will end up spending my money later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I'm by no means saying play dumb or any of that total bullshit. But I would wager that it isn't because of your job, but rather the crowd your job puts you with in terms of visibility. Sometimes its also just a good conversation starter. To give you an idea, whenever I or any of my friends talk about girls we are into, jobs rarely if ever come up and are never a focal point. I have seen texts of girls I've dated talking to their friends about me and my income/job/status indicators are always inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I have found that most women who are supportive/kind/nurturing in personality usually want kids, and I want one, maybe could be talked into two later but one is my ideal for now. I do not care about religion so long as it does not change the way you treat me or interfere with our day to day lives. I'm an atheist but have dated christian girls with no issues. Politics I can usually always find some common ground, I'm a registered libertarian and fairly moderate. I tend to lean a bit more left, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Cheating, opiod/meth/any kid of drug usage that isn't occasional weed or once in a blue moon psychedelics, discovery of drinking to excess regularly, fringe far right/evangelical beliefs that actively influence your day to day life, fringe far left sjw indoctrination beliefs that actively influence your day to day life, discovery of a disgusting N count, unwarranted hostility/violence aimed at your parents or young children, making an egregiously indulgent purchase using borrowed money without t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | The workplace is the best place for most adults to find a partnerThe workplace is a great place for an extroverted, socially adjusted with a good personal reputation woman willing to be the one who makes the first move to find a partner. This is a horrible idea if you're a man talking to a woman that you only know because of your job, too much that can go wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."preferences aren't the same as disqualifiers I would date a girl who was 5 inches taller than me. It isn't necessarily what some abstract notion of my in a vacuum "dream girl" would be like, but the same leniency could not be said for women. Apply that same line of thought to the other categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I agree. I have no solution or answer to the problem. But denying the existence of the problem certainly isn't helping. Well unless everyone was down to nuke all dating apps/social media platforms, I really do think that is the issue, and I wish we get to a place culturally where everyone just walks away from that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?I usually meet for drinks, not even intending to have sex the first date, then they are the ones who initiate it an astounding amount of the time. I'd say 75% of my first in person meetups after 2-3 days of talking on an app/texting end in sex, and very rarely am I the one trying to do the seduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?I tell them openly that I am in no hurry and not trying to jump into a relationship, but would not mind finding a serious girlfriend (truth), and that I am actively dating others (truth), so I don't consider myself an asshole or "running game". But I do invite them out with my friends, cook for them, do "boyfriendy" things because it is fun. I don't outright tell them when they fail the "are you possible girlfriend material" test and keep the casual stuff going though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."height - I would say its more than men are intrinsically aware that they are not wanted by women taller than them and thus are far less likely to even try. it has nothing to do with them being turned off by the height difference but more that they are just aware of the reality of how the women feel about them and don't want to waste their time income - to a degree same as above, some men really do get weird about it due to ego bullshit and I will readily admit that, but my point was that the lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Some men seem to prefer “leading women on” as opposed to having a “FWB” or “FB” — why is that?Because an overwhelming majority of the women I have casual relations with in any capacity beyond a one night stand genuinely think they can get something serious with me and actively want to date me and although I by no means overtly lie about my intentions , I have to "lead them on" to some degree to keep getting sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I also can't imagine any of my friends marrying a sex worker just because she is that hot but I would be an idiot to deny it happens all the time, same with the raw amount of women who will get naked for a whiff of clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I'm not attributing fault or ascribing any moral judgement, just merely stating reality. Women are orders of magnitude pickier than men. It makes sense looking at biology. This can't be changed, so knowing that you need to improve as a man to have a chance of finding a mate. Except when you are lied to about that reality you get a bunch of pathetic men, which in turn creates a load of unhappy single women. Everyone loses when we don't just start at the same baseline reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."But that is where you are wrong. Money is usually tied to status, it is tied to power, it is tied to lifestyle. I am not talking about some 60 year old dude basically having a prostitute under the guise of an 18 year old girlfriend. This does magnify genuine, visceral attraction for already attractive or even average younger guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."except when you break it down women still have far more criteria embedded in there. that is what the subject of my op in this showed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."the women themselves, spend 10 minutes on a dating app as a young man and read the bios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."Also women care about the status, men care about the attitudes that are correlated to but not necessarily inextricable from the status. Women flock to rappers that still act like hood rat thugs after they blow up, men have no problem with a well spoken, composed, family oriented woman who happened to come from say an impoverished broken home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."But these are things for men that increase existing attraction, not disqualify. I love thin girls with big titties. But I have dated girls that have had the body of a 2x4 because they hit the other boxes and if somehow she grew double Ds overnight I would be more attracted sure but it further qualifies not disqualifies. You can be a man who checks every box and misses one and get thrown out. The amount of women that genuinely would disqualify a man for being short absolutely dwarfs the amount of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I mean...not really? Personality entails more for men that when women use the word. Personality means how you handle stress, how you will be raising children, how you spend money, how you interact with other people, what situations you willingly put yourself in. If you handed me a girl that had good looks, and a personality that indicated she was a nice person I enjoy being around, wants/will be good with kids, has good spending habits, and won't cheat....what more could I possibly ask for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."No, the average guy making 40K a year gives zero fucks what you make so long as you aren't a net negative, ie. swiping his credit card and taking out insane debt that exceeds your own income but that isn't really what we are talking about. A poor man will date a even poorer woman no questions asked so long as she is physically attractive enough and has a decent personality. A woman can just be unremarkably personable and kind, go to the gym 3x a week, and not eat like a pig, and by doing so have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I agree, most men are idiots who will date scum of the earth women if they find them hot enough, no argument here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Let's have some fun! - People on these sub often point out dealing with 'uninteresting men/women' as a struggle when dating and relationships. So let's see... What makes someone interesting (or uninteresting) in your eyes? *provide examples!99.99% of single women (I go on about 3 dates a week in a medium-large affluent urban area) have zero legit hobbies and lives that consist entirely of work, social media consumption, Netflix, occasional drinking with friends, and maybe caring for some poor dog stuck in their overpriced cramped apartment. You know it's bad when I am blown away when a woman even actively is into something like going to the gym or yoga because the bar is so low to where that actually makes you an outlier. The once … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:41 PM |
| 30 | Almost every complaint about women here men also do, or there's a "male equivalent."I'll bite. Men do expect over the "average" in weight if you want to get pretty liberal in your usage of the word average....but that is it. Women also expect over "average" in: height - men don't care income - men give zero fucks, not saying all men want NEETs or want to CoNtRoL a stay at home mom but your job/wealth has ZERO bearing on attraction, unlike the inverse social status - women are fiends for clout, men could care less how "popular" you are education - men could care less if you drop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedThey really only go for the Uber-chads on bumble. I downloaded tinder, hinge, and bumble after a breakup a 3 months ago. 400+ matches on tinder, around 75 matches on hinge....and 2 matches so far on bumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 20 | People confused LVM with literally average guysThe average guy gets approached?!?! I've been approached 2 times my entire life. One by a girl who was 400lbs in high school who did so because she fetishized me because of my race, and once by a girl who was blackout drunk. I'm 6'1 jacked as shit with a N count over 250 in my 20s so I'm not complaining or anything but the notion that anyone short of the top 0.1% gets approached just doesn't hold a candle to observable reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”commit heinous crimes in order to prevent the others from **maybe** committing heinous crimes. feminine imperative driven leftism 2022 lets goooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Are women are more interested in how much a man spends compared to how much a man earns when it comes to dating?Women are more concerned with a man's lifestyle. 99% of the time, lifestyle will be tied to money spent. Women don't care how much you save or invest or how responsible you actually are with your money. This isn't really a dig at women, because most men, regardless of income level, are too stupid to save, invest, or otherwise care themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 19 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makePeople very much are commodities in terms of how dating has corollaries to other economic functions and statistical analysis. Just because phrasing it as such makes you "feel" the wrong way, it doesn't change how it certainly applies in the context of spergs analyzing mating proclivities between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do you want a relationship?The answer to that is as blatantly obvious as if the question was "why do you want friends". Because humans crave various types of connections, and intimate relationships are one of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What was an instance of a time within a familial/romantic/platonic relationship that you felt as though someone "threw something back in your face"? Please describe the circumstance and full context.We were hanging out basically every day, dating for around a year, and I told her I wouldn't be able to make it that night. After she really pressed me I told her I was having horrible anxiety. Not angsty teenager internet anxiety, like panic disorder I was previously legit agoraphobic following a near death experience with falsely labeled drugs levels of anxiety I was still dealing with. I was obviously much better at the time but still had the odd panic attack. She offered to come over and tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you “date”?I only consider it "dating" after there has been a sober, mutually understood conversation around us being exclusive in any meaningful sense of the word. If we get to that stage I will probably casually refer to you as my girlfriend in the next week or so and just see how you react and just go from there. Dating to me implies mutual intent to be in a relationship provided one party doesn't reveal something horrible in the next few weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is ghosting so maligned?It is because lying does a disservice to others and you damage society at large in tiny increments over time. Unless you feel the need to lie to avoid a legitimate threat of say bodily harm, texting someone "I am not interested in you because XYZ", while awkward, is the best thing you can do fro that person. Why would you condemn someone to repeat a failing pattern. I find ghosting mainly something that women do, so why do you want other women having to waste their time with a guy because he doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have female friends?I've not been able to maintain a legitimate (ie. we hang out 1:1, talk with some regularity, etc.) friendship with any women past college. This is because any woman I do that with catches feelings. I am fine having a platonic relationship with women, even women I would otherwise want to do anything from hook up with to date, but it never works out on their end so I don't bother trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Q for TRP: If your dream girl proposed marriage to you RIGHT NOW, would you accept?If a girl came up with some hypothetical equifax-esque report that confirmed she was a virgin/super low n count, personable, attractive, and of a good temperament, and that was not subject to change, I would marry her on the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?But I would imagine 99% of their constituency is liberal as all heck. Single moms? Usually quite liberal. Fat people who think its the world's fault for their unwillingness to make better decisions? Very liberal. Anti-male rhetoric? Basically a requirement to be a female progressive. FDS extoles entitlement and ignorance of one's own faults while expecting others do more. That tends to be a liberal framework for viewing life nowadays. TRP I guess you could say is a more conservative ideology bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Do women find alternative men attractive?Aesthetic is less relevant than holistic lifestyle in my experience. Pre-pandemic I had close to a buzz cut, no tattoos that showed with normal clothing, clean cut appearance, etc. Now I have foot long hair, multiple ear piercings, visible tats, etc. But I'm 6'1 jacked charismatic and financially pretty well off. So the girls I get are literally the exact same in quality/quantity/type as before. If anything I get more general population female attention now that I am more "alternative" because I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Fellow men, women don't say the truth because WE get angry when they do"women choose to lie, women most affected" ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?The notion that "hypocrisy" in a vacuum is somehow a gotcha or indicates wrongdoing is a faulty premise on its own. Shorter women want taller men, technically "hypocrisy" but nothing wrong with that. Same with earnings, temperament, heck I've dated a girl that really loved my tattoos and is into that type but had none herself. Yes, it's "hypocrisy" but the notion that hypocrisy = problematic is just absurd. Just like how high N men wanting low N women is not only perfectly fine, but actually com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Sex trafficking isn't the main reason why women are against prostitutionI'm not personally interested or invested in this topic at all tbh, but I think the easiest way to find out would be to ask a few honest European/East Asian women how they feel given the broad legality/outright prevalence of the cultural normality and acceptance of it there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 03:07 PM |
| -2 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Because democrats are the ones pushing tribalism bullshit at the moment, and women are more likely to succumb to hive mind behaviors that will lead them to influence their preferences to conform to what they believe is "mainstream". You see the wacko SJW girls with political tinder bios far more than conservative women for the same reasons in the 80s most women - ESPECIALLY conservative/christian ones would stay the hell away from nerds/hippies/atheists/pot smokers. edit: Jesus Christ 5% of re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:49 PM |
| 6 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?1) Have clout: women are slaves to social status the same way men drool over skinny waists with huge tits. I walk in to my regular bar or a friend's party and men buy/bring me drinks and women come over to give me a hug and say hey. Bartenders know me by name, and has my go to drink ready for me (just giant mug of a local IPA always on tap). I usually go out with a few objectively attractive female friends, and the preselection component there helps. 2) find the girls you want to talk to 3) ??? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 13 | If you only focus on looks, status, and money then don’t be surprised when you attract a lot of shallow people."If you focus on the aspects of your life that are simultaneously most heavily weighted in the dating world, and the most easily changed, then still fuck you because AWALT" - there's an equally uncharitable and obtuse rephrasing as your original post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?What possible concrete evidence could you expect one to present? There isn’t some spergy way to produce quantitative data around a static measure of one’s “success” in a pre-redpill (whatever that actually means for the purposes of this hypothetical study) and then post-redpill in a controlled environment with all variables being known and observable, additionally across a large sample size . “Prove xyz change in your abstract life outlook produced positive changes without using anecdotes” is ul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Once again, what would you consider proof? I know you’re looking to just be in bad faith and troll but I want even you t I recognize that. But please ignore the question and deflect again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Given the medium of TRP how else aside from anecdotes would you expect it to be proven? It is at its core just advice for men that society generally does not otherwise give you. I followed said advice and it worked wonders. What else could you possibly expect in terms of proof within this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Yeah block everything and run that dude is fucking nuts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?No worries, but loooow key I would tell your friend they need some work on themselves. The weird part isn't the age gap, what makes that situation jam packed with red flags is talking about marriage and saying I love you to someone they've literally never met. Like that shit is beyond weird and is inevitably going lead to some undesirable situations down the road in your friend's dating life and mental well being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?That example is so absurdly beyond the pale in terms of what normal first dates constitute though. Like that is such an intentionally off the wall example I have no idea why you would bring that up. 99.9999% of first dates are not some weird 12 year age gap year long online grooming-esque dumpster fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I will put in effort in dates sure, but what the morons in FDS get hilariously wrong is when they tell girls to decline FIRST dates that aren't pricey. There was one endorsed contributor thread there where they suggested saying "I'm used to something a little more than that" when a guy suggests coffee or something to "check his behavior". Like bitch you want guys to think you're a gold digger using them for food? I can't think of a bigger red flag, and you're literally filtering for simps by doi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Is theRed pill ineffective in the real world due to leadership being mostly scammers?All the books, youtubers, and ads you constantly see of people selling courses in how to invest are scams. This does not mean that the concept of investing is not of utmost importance to build wealth and live comfortably. This just means people will try to monetize anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 9 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?The objective veracity of a claim has fuck all to do with the person making it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?I don't think they "want" to write more women so much as they want to pander to their political cause and that writing more women leads is more of a symptom than the root desire. Write all the physically adept women characters that you want so long as it makes sense in the context of the story and not due to politics, don't tie the story line to politics, and literally no one cares so long as the writing is good. This also seems to be a uniquely American (Hollywood specifically) media problem, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?Because then corporations would have less wage slaves and have to pay more due to scarcity. Not saying women shouldn't work if the don't want to, I'm all for individual freedom, but the manufactured hatred and propaganda directed towards women who want more traditional lifestyles is not wholly organic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?It's easy if you establish an actual reason why that makes sense with the world building instead of politics though. Case and point for me: Claymore is one of the most popular mangas of all time, and it is literally just 100% non sexualized women (there's literally only 1 male supporting character and he is defenseless to the point of being a burden) in nonstop violent action and adventure scenes, but there is a lore and worldbuilding element that explains it and you don't think twice. Watching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?Give them a reason to be strong that would be equally as valid for a man's reason as opposed to "I am stronk because wamyn" (Wonder Woman, Ripley, Laura Croft, Catniss Everdeen, Hermoine Granger etc. example of very strong woman characters no one thought twice about). Or double down and have her strength be due to what women are actually naturally inclined towards (original Catwoman being a prime example of what I mean) Then just don't ruin it by hamfisting insane SJW narrative points in the plo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing as Liberal red pillers?I'm more center left libertarian and firmly redpill. The common thread between the two is that, in the world of relationships, TRP says that you may or may not start off at a good or bad place, you probably have a mix of pros and cons going for you, but its ultimately up to you to maximize the pros and minimize the cons and anyone who truly devotes themself to doing so will at bare minimum find themself somewhere far better than where they started, and barring extreme outliers likely to the righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?As long as it isn't too low to the point where she couldn't hold a conversation about more abstract concepts and deeper topics I truly don't care. The issue isn't men caring about women's intelligence, its that women, being slaves to hypergamy, don't want to date men with intelligence levels beneath them. Hence the phenomena where the smarter a woman is the less suitors she has. It isn't because men are "afraid" or "challenged", short of the man being blue collar and the woman being a rocket sci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Society lies to both genders about many things, but not to men about their worth. We tell worthless men they're worthless in fairly uncertain terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 17 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.I don't think men look at Homer Simpson and become delusional the same way that a 400LB land whale posing half naked for Victorias secret makes women delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.I think you connected the dots there, because you just hit on that which should change your view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 52 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Society feeds into female delusion but certainly not male delusion. We actively tell women that fat is beautiful go get a short hair cut and one of those stupid dairy cow piercings be crass and you still deserve the best you go girl. We, and rightly so, actively shit on the male equivalent. We tell chubby dudes working dead end jobs that spend their time watching porn and playing mobile games they're wastes of oxygen. Are there delusional men? Of course. But there are way more delusional women b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | On “picky women” - modern women are way more attractive than our prehistoric ancestor women. Modern men are way way less attractive than prehistoric men.If you're going to use prehistoric standards then women are far less attractive. Women are far more crass, combative, and subjugated to the hive mind via social media. Let alone factoring in obesity. Your argument is basically that makeup somehow compensates in a way that makes up for all of the above. Yeah most men are losers, but most men were always losers. Prehistoric men were skinny manlets, post agricultural revolution most men were skinny fat looking due to poor diet and excessive drinkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)I'm not going to agree nor disagree with your conclusion because I think your premise from where you derive that conclusion is extremely flawed. 40 year old men, I HIGHLY doubt, are a significant demographic of internet porn consumption, at least relative to the hordes of 16-25 year old single/virgin men that are watching the milf and stepsister stuck in the washing machine type of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?Guys who shame girls for not putting out are just incels. They only exist online. Maybe some spergy horndogs say dumb things after taking girls on dates every now and then feeling they've been lead on (tbh a sizable bit of the girls that complain about this phenomenon probably do lead them on to a degree to get free shit and lifestyle perks) but really this is not a thing. Girls that have more conservative attitudes towards sex and are pickier with men are great because they're the ones that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?cheers, good for you for being consistent. I personally never lie about shit like that because as much of a scumbag as people may consider me for my many exploits I am at least not a liar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?But that kinda sums up why most men are discontent. I'd take you home from the club and we'd fuck like wild animals, but then those "good" guys have to wait, court you, etc. that is exactly why the average man is upset. I may benefit, but I am not so dense as to not see how this is not good for society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?I've never had so many relationship opportunities/FWBs/hookups until becoming that guy, it works, I don't try to reason with it because that assumes women operate on logic lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?Or the solution is to act like that guy except actually be a HVM and be seeking a relationship. I am very successful, do not do any of the shaming of the ones that don't act like sluts per your generalization based straw man, and do frequently reject girls I don't want to date because I have options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:13 PM |
| 12 | Why are women shamed or demonized when we AVOID “bad boys”?Women are "shamed for avoiding bad boys" because that avoidance usually only comes after wasting their prime 18-early 30s fucking them, or had kids with them (see the plague of single mothers on dating sites) then settling with the good guys who spent their youth unable to get with those girls and now are being asked to take in sloppy seconds and damaged goods. Why should we take you now after you avoided us in favor of those types of guys your whole life up until this point? We would much rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsAhh gotcha. When I hear people say they wanna go out all the time I take it at face value because I've lived that life and have plenty of friends that go out every single night. Except Wednesday. Only feral degenerates go out like that on Wednesdays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men.Most westernized and secular ones yeah sure but not all and definitely not all outside of that demographic. Its not a unicorn if you've seen multiple ones before. Its almost like if you put in a lot of effort into bettering yourself and your life holistically with the intent of raising your own value for the purposes of having a family later in life you regularly attract and meet others who do the same with similar long term goals in mind, what a wild concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 6 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men.I want the hot, nice, quiet kind ones. So you're close! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying?I think that is a reasonable explanation to being that way as an outlier in regards to my generalizations and I am sorry to hear that and wish you the best. I truly do not understand how there are many women of sound body and mind that follow a similar pattern though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying?Intentionally so. I mean you no disrespect here, but there is no good reason to cry every few days. You don't do that unless you either A) have a crippling mental disorder that needs to be addressed or B) do not live in a fact based reality. You even admitted that logical attempts to fix your perceived problems make it worse, and then follow that by admitting the problem may even be nonexistent. I would like to imagine that women are capable of being strong enough not to have their lives, on an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 8 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men.No, I have zero intention of dating women like you and neither do most men with options, we'll still say what you want to hear to get in your pants for a night though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 21 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men."Its wrong because I don't like it" is basically all im getting there. I mean even non-red people here will likely agree with the first half of my claim that men voicing their true preferences will get attacked by women and white knights, but I think the second part is also pretty evident provided you're remotely socialized and have been around enough groups of people in the right settings. Case and point the most common generic claim is that women don't want fuckboys...so why is a woman telling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying?thats exactly what I said. realize that women aren't usually operating in the realm of logic and that any attempt to understand or fix the issue is just going to make things worse, let them wander around in feelzland and it eventually resolves itself provided you maintain compassionate stoicism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you feel if you saw your female love interest/girlfriend/wife crying?Are there girls that don't cry anywhere from once a week to once a month? I have never dated a girl that, compared to the norms for men at least, wasn't an emotional dumpster fire if you were around them enough and they were comfortable with you. You just remain stoic and provide comfort and avoid anything that has to do with logically resolving the situation that made her cry and just let her to her emotional stuff and get it out of the way and resolve the situation before addressing the issue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 46 | CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men.Ok, I'll bite. Men say incorrect and stupid things because if they speak the truth they get shit on. Say you don't want to date fat girls? You're a superficial pig. Say you don't want a career woman but a housewife that will take care of the kids? Controlling misogynist. You don't want a crass, loud, combative party girl? Small dick energy that can't handle a strong independent woman. Don't want a girl that goes out and drinks with guy friends you don't know that well? Insecure loser. Etc. Women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Introverts and extrovertsSo you need much more than a medium level girl if you go out "all the time" in your own words, no? You're living the "rockstar" lifestyle so you need a super extroverted girl, thats literally what I said haha. I think we may agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?I'd rather focus on the sex part but literally every single woman I hook up with actively requests this be done and that I be rough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery fucking rare. But once you've experienced it you'll know what I'm talking about. The first time it happened to me she made me cum in 30 seconds WHILE I WAS DRUNK. Sober sex for me usually lasts 30-45 minutes with me fighting the urge to nut, drunk sex I have to actively try to cum for like an hour+, but that night changed me. I've only had three different girls (out of hundreds of hookups) hit me with the porn star bj, but id take that over pussy the rest of my life if I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA girl who REALLY knows what she is doing with blowjobs feels 100x better than any pussy on earth, CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 0 | What characters are you attracted to and why?That was my ex and I would probably have married her if her being laid off from covid and isolated didn't lead to some drastic personality changes and erratic behavior leading to the breakup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?Never said otherwise, just that anyone who actually calls themselves blackpill there's a 99.999% chance they haven't actually given fuck all close to 100% effort into bettering themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Nah, I like the "eyes on only my man and everyone else will know it and fuck off even though they all want me" type. Like Misa Misa (death note), Yuno (mirai Nikki), etc that have characteristics that I wish real girls had | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Introverts and extrovertsIf I absolutely had to guess I would say because lizard brain preference for dominant men and maintaining gender roles. Women by and large want a man in charge yet still compatible. Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Would still marry Zero Two and unironically would adore a girl who treated me like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Introverts and extrovertsI have no idea, just what I've observed in a decade of people watching and watching people pair off or hook up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Introverts and extrovertsFrom my personal observations women prefer men with their level of extroversion +1. Introverted women want still introverted but slightly less so than them men, super extroverted women need a rockstar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?But I would still have a sizable portion of my success even in the absence of that. My confidence boost didn't come from the height it came from "holy shit I just competed in a men's physique competition". I worked for that, I worked to improve my appearance through braces, skincare, really learning how to dress and style, taking great care and attention to my hair, going from minimum wage at 22 to 100K at 27, getting a grad degree, joining a band, doing standup comedy, and it goes on. I guarant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?I'm not nihilistic or think my personal situation is hopeless. I fully intend on marrying and having a family and think that is well within the realm of possibility and that I will more likely than not realize that dream. Becoming aware of human nature and the behaviors of certain demographics can be a real downer for some, but the truth in a vacuum isn't a blackpill, its what you do with it that determines that outcome. I know I'll get downvoted for saying this by the prevalence of them here, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 22 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?Yes. It made me quite disenfranchised. I was 5'2 and chubby babyfaced in high school and by the end of college was 6'1 and jacked. Still the exact same person on the inside but now apparently I had such a cool personality. The girls I previously considered 10/10 girlfriend material that I would have been a doting boyfriend for now initiated and went out of their way to cheat on their men with me. Instant redpilling as I saw how the game worked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?If you are well groomed, jacked, and have good style - regardless of what that style is - you will be fine. The niche doesn't matter as much as your relative status within the niche. Some days I dress NY metrosexual modern, some days southern frat, some days athleisure, some days middle school my chemical romance emo, and it all works to a degree on a universal level because I take great care of my hairstyle, smell good, wear good quality well fitting clothes that show off my frame, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Between these 2 types of men, which type do women find more attractive?They go for 2/3 #1 and 1/3 #2 with the goal of changing him into 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:34 PM |
| 8 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I don't think you understand what the words I am using mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 11:41 AM |
| 7 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?So does dealing with massive orders and the idiot general population at McDonalds. You can be disciplined with no ambition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Do men like or dislike, on an individual level, modern contraceptives? How has contraceptives changed mens prospects for a family?Agreed 100%, above all I'm team no pill because big pharma can go fuck itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 0 | Do men like or dislike, on an individual level, modern contraceptives? How has contraceptives changed mens prospects for a family?Didn't have anything handy I just remember I had read it before in purely scientific and not politicized/cultural contexts, as well as a few anecdotes describing it even on reddit from the women themselves. I would never pressure a girl I was dating to change birth controls because not my body, but its one of those things where if I was asked for my input, I would prefer alternatives if there is even a chance I wouldn't want to roll the dice when there are options with the same level of efficacy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Do men like or dislike, on an individual level, modern contraceptives? How has contraceptives changed mens prospects for a family?There are a good few studies - albeit with smaller sample sizes because this is a fairly new phenomena as well as quite a niche thing to try and study - that show the type of men women are attracted to at a literal genetic level (many studies were done by scent) are changed by birth control. On the pill women prefer closer genetics, and off the pill they prefer different genetics. There are a few interesting threads here of women reporting they lost attraction for their partners when stopping th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Do men like or dislike, on an individual level, modern contraceptives? How has contraceptives changed mens prospects for a family?Zero objections, but my only qualm with birth control pills or other hormonal treatment is that the phenomena of it changing the type of men women are attracted to when on it then relationship/marriage issues arising from this reversion upon cessation is a real thing that has me worried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Enjoying it myself because I'm both a flawed human that is to some degree a slave to biology and hedonism and conscious that my individual restraint won't change the landscape does not mean I enjoy the change that is happening. I don't like that people are addicted to drugs, but if you already are going to be able to get them from anyone else I may as well profit from selling them to you myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 9 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I'm completely content with a partner whose dreams are just be happy in the moment even if its in a minimalistic context. That's actually most men. Doesn't mean we wouldn't do something grand in the end, just means the ambition, drive, or clear vision isn't a requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 4 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I would gladly trade in all the casual sex partners I could call right now and all the new ones I'll have forever into the future for a virgin/super low n count partner I could trust to build a life with. For more context I am neither remotely religious nor conservative. But since that doesn't seem to exist I may as well enjoy the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:33 AM |
| -1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Your issue lies in that you are under the assumption that casual sex has the same effect/meaning/significance with men and women. It isn't really comparable and therefore I don't view it as inconsistent. You probably disagree with me over that but that is where my contention lies. I don't find it contradictory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I have no problem with someone who just wants to "be". My best relationship was probably someone like that, hippy yoga teacher that just wanted to enjoy a minimalistic existence and support me in whatever I did but otherwise didn't really care much about anything. The floor for me for dating is literally just don't be a slut, be nice, and take care of your mind and body. I nor any successful man I know gives a shit about your clout or career in mate selection. Not saying its a bad thing if you h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I don't hate them but sure I would shame them, just like I would shame a guy for being too insecure to look people in the eyes when he talks to them or spends his paychecks on onlyfans feet pics. You're free to do it, but it lowers your value as a person and to society and I think it would be in your long term best interest as well as the human race's well being if you didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:16 AM |
| 13 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Are you a woman? Would you date a man with zero ambition, no big dreams, and zero social status? Because I would date a woman like that provided she was kind and took care of herself. A lot of men would, but we certainly shame the men like that, and that shaming certainly comes women who are the same way. Men and women are different. The end. I see promiscuous but otherwise decent women the same way women look at a man who, while otherwise a decent guy, has no drive or confidence, zero goals, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Girls I refuse to dateIt isn't wrong of you. The core problem in dating is solipsism. Men are told women like ambition, confidence, etc....but why does that matter in 2021? Sucks for the guys who fight reality, because it matters because it just resonates on a primal subconscious level even if we as men don't understand. What women don't understand is when a girl has a high body count we view them the same way they do an otherwise fine man who says I just wanna live in a shithole apartment watch porn and flip burgers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?It isn't, which is why I said that if you filter for that you would find your overrepresentation skewing the numbers there. Why so mad? It makes sense if you think about it. Tyrones and Billy Bobs are going to skew the numbers. I guarantee middle class dads aren't cheating at the same rate, the lack of additional variables likely skew the stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 18 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?"Low income low IQ men who are dumb enough to run around and knock up low status low IQ women who are dumb enough to sleep with them and keep the baby are drastically overrepresented and inflate the cheating demographic" is the interpretation I draw here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:58 PM |
| 4 | What if the "bad boys" women prefer are just disagreeable?It makes sense and I don't really know why you're so salty about him, I would say he's far from a "whack hack" if you compared his subject knowledge to say internet randos who spend their days watching porn and checking social media pots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?Men are territorial and just hate the idea of women with other men because that is how our brains are innately wired. There is a reason across unrelated cultures virginity has been extolled as a female virtue, but women use it to men as an insult. I would posit it still isn't "jealousy" when its few partners, just the same feelings I described in my first post but to a less extreme degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 4 | What is the cause of Retroactive Jealousy?I am quite successful with women and relationships and I think the framing is all wrong. It isn't jealousy, its disgust. I am not jealous she had a lot of partners, I am disgusted and turned off at the lizard brain level. The gut reaction men have to high N count women is the same feeling women have towards a guy who is insecure, lacks ambition, and does nothing but work at McDonalds and watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?Most men's reaction to a promiscuous woman is the same way most women feel when an otherwise attractive man says something like "I have zero ambition, want to spend my time watching porn, live in a shit apartment, and work at McDonalds the rest of my life". It's hardwired in the same way women are repulsed by pathetic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?a woman not having a sexual history that causes me discomfort is the only thing that prevents her sexual history from causing me discomfort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Do you think military-style programs from adolescence through late teens could have improved the lives of many manospherians?I am only a man because of what I went through in combat sports/fraternity/military. I was absolutely pathetic before then and 100% agree that we should normalize and encourage this. A young man not engaging in anything that you mentioned is due to a failure in parenting more than anything though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.But the underlying point is that women deselect against otherwise perfectly fine people for being anywhere from mildly introverted or shy on one end to spineless at the extreme, and would rather take a confident person with many unknowns than a safe bet that doesn't give them confident alpha tingles. I agree with most of the people arguing with me that yeah, most men are pathetic and need to grow a pair and be confident, but that doesn't change the reality that women actively select for the very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.What do the many guys who legitimately and seriously abuse their girlfriends have in common? Girlfriends to serially abuse... I have never heard of a guy that consistently lands dates but then gets consistently broken up with for being spineless or pathetic, because that disqualifies from the get go I have a girlfriend at the moment and have had enough different prior partners to where my mom would faint lol I've seen enough to validate my view on women's horrible preferences, just as I have see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.How many times have you heard a girl say "mY eX wAs ConTROLling mE" vs "he was just spineless". Abusers are bad. Doormats are bad. But one actually does get girls. I don't think you actually read what I said and just had a purely emotional reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 102 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.I think that is only half the picture, because you are definitely right about needing a balance. But I will offer an important caveat that I think to some degree challenges part of your view - the resentment many men feel is from the fact that most women would rather have an abuser that a passive doormat. Should you be either? No, of course not. But its kinda sad that one extreme actually "works" to a degree but the other is shamed constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Can women actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic?Most of the "unrealistic standards" for women are pushed by women. Men give zero shits about your height, skin, hair, etc. so long as you're just somewhat well put together. Men don't want you to have a six pack just don't be fat. It's not a high bar. All of that is pushed by women to sell products. Men don't care about your job. One single bit. That is feminism pushing that on women. I and any other honest man couldn't care less if you were unemployed or worked at McDonalds if you were not fat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well?An example, my first girlfriend I had when I was 18, did a bunch of really kinky stuff with her exes, gave them daily blowjobs, bought them nice stuff, etc while they were physically abusive abject losers. Then beta blue pill captain save a hoe version of me treater her far better than any of them and I did not get any of that. Thankfully that relationship is what got me to TRP lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well?I want quality treatment in both an objective and subjective sense. I have my personal minimum threshold for behavior in a relationship, and then I expect your best. If you gave your best to someone else and won't for me then hit the damn curb because I will give you mine and will not date someone I won't give everything if not more than I gave an ex because it wouldn't be fair to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Are "good girls" really what men want?There is a small but large enough to be observable portion of men who will always be bored with their partners and make shitty life choices in that arena just as there is a fraction (albeit larger than their male counterparts) of women who are destined to always branch swing and feel as if they've "settled". Men want good girls, men want seductive girls, they don't have to be mutually exclusive the problem lies more in that the more viscerally seductive a girl at face value is the less likely sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 3 | If You Want Prostitution Illegal, What's Your Reason Behind ItBecause then there would be less beta orbiters, all the losers in the friend zone with that post nut clarity would stop being emotional tampons lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you wish men were more sexually fluid, like women?I wish I was gay are you kidding me. The ability to get into a relationship with another human who doesn't cry once a week over petty bullshit alone is all I need to hear, let alone what I could do if my babyface twonk ass got on grindr while single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 02:39 PM |
| 9 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?"The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but how it thinks" - Hitchens Center left/more libertarian atheist here. I have dated all across the board with combinations of politics and religion but at this point the only demographic I won't touch is the hard progressive "woke sjw" types that larp as activists and think any disagreement makes you evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | How are libtard women so dumb?I'm not remotely conservative but I 100% agree, liberal women have the hamster spinning at all times and are riddled with diametrically opposed ideas and internal contradictions. Ban guns and abolish police vs its dangerous to even walk outside as a woman omgggg Liberal women are the most pro-abortion demographic, while also the most onboard with mandatory vaccines and outright demonizing those that want their body their choice. Liberal woman are the most lgbt/feminists activists but also will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | What is everyones opinion on r/vindicta?I think it is interesting and see nothing wrong with the concept. I just think the idea is kinda silly since any woman can reach about 99.999% of her maximum level of possible attractiveness with just some semblance of diet, exercise, and a lazy Sunday afternoon worth of makeup tutorials. If only it were that easy for men haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Men look at women who ask them out as “options“Or maybe she is just into me...which takes 99.99% of the bullshit formalities of flirting and mind reading and wondering if she is just gonna waste my time out of the picture. No...just no lol. There is a difference between a woman asking you out and drunkenly throwing themselves at you at closing time at a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 6 | For men and women: what do sexual and romantic attraction mean to you, are they different, and at what timeline in a relationship do you feel them?Man, 27 Sexual attraction: any time I see a girl I would willingly engage in sexual activities with, instantaneous from the second I lay eyes on you, does not change one bit upon getting to know you or whether I remotely like you as a person or not Romantic attraction: (***requires prerequisite of strong sexual attraction***): displays characteristics and meets minimum qualifications I have for someone that I could legitimately consider unquestionably committing to for the rest of my life and st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 10:21 PM |
| 0 | How much sex does a single man have?Low 300s, am a hedonistic animal my #1 priority in any given social setting is finessing new girls. Edit - a solid 50% of these, while maybe not ugly, were nothing I would ever go out of my way for sober | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....You can have water opinion you want but that doesn't change that the whole casual sex thing really isn't this grand mystery these people like to make it out to be and its easy to get laid if you just are willing to put in hella work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....That is really my not so secret secret, I have zero social media or dating apps and I tend to bring home 3 or 4 new girls a month just from ceaseless cold approaching at social situations with a drink in hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....I literally got laid last night from going out to a bar with some friends I met from a prior party. Be in shape and have good tight game, and its ez mode if you just get around people enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....I went from knowing nobody in an area to making friends that got me in to parties and went as groups to bars that allowed me to meet many women, many of which I have had sex with. Just make friends, show up at parties and bars, and start picking up women. It really is that easy if you have honed your social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Question for those in this sub who keep saying partying and drinking is the key to finding partners and casual sex....I am 27 and work a 9 to 5 job and was able to just go to random bars, meet some guy friends, establish a friend circle, then go out with them and get integrated into more circles from there. It's really not that hard just go up to some dive bar type scenes and chat random people up while you drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?The same reason the arena rock glam stars slayed in the 80s wearing their girlfriend's pants and makeup. You're a pop icon, dress how you want you're gonna get all the girls because you're talented and famous lol I think its fairly obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?Oh yeah I love his work and admire the hell out of him. But damn is he ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?Look into him, he was arguably the single most infamous person in the world for a brief time. Brilliant man, an absolute hero of an intellectual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.Why do you end a relationship? Would you say most healthy relationships are ended? This isn't rocket science or "theories" its very rudimentary logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?But thats my point. Bezos or Gates could go all sweaty try hard if they actually desired that lifestyle but choose not to because its not like they couldn't on a whim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?What I mean is that he could by all means act like a Dan Bilzerian type and live that life but obviously chooses not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 6 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?Because obviously women are going to fantasize about the guy that has both clout and looks, because why not have it all if you are literally fantasizing, but clout alone at a certain high point is demonstrably more than enough, and that is what I wanted to contribute since the topic was how status plays into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.Because I demonstrated that a very sizable amount women are unhappy in relationships. Therefore it is likely that it is due to the relationship being perceived as unhealthy. Once again, not sure you are grasping the basic logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 03:46 PM |
| 3 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?I’m in the US and 0% Indian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 3 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?We are talking about the same 11/10 international supermodel personality star in her prime right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 9 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?Well frankly I think they are just at a point in life where they aren't interested in sex/relationships like that. I have no doubt in my mind Jeff Bezos could walk into the bar and steal anyone's girl if he had the desire and was in that state of mind, he just has better shit to do haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.I don't think you have a basic grasp of logic. What you proved there is men are more likely to be rapists and murderers, which is true, however the leap to your conclusion is a non sequitur. You are arguing in the same vein as christians when they say you don't know what happened prior to the Big Bang therefore God. It is a logical step to follow that if we agree you end relationships because you are unhappy with the relationship, and then women end relationships at a rate 4x higher than that of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:02 PM |
| 22 | How does male status play into attraction exactly?I think you conflate wealth and status. They heavily correlate, but are still two separate things. Women are slaves to clout and status, hence why basically every single attractive woman under 30 is addicted to instagram and the like. Case and point for me is Salmon Rushdie, a dude who looks like a fucking walrus, banging Padme Lakshmi, one of the most beautiful women to ever live in my opinion. At that time he had possibly the highest level of clout in the entire world, to the point where it we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.I literally gave you data. Women initiate 80% of divorcs. Which you could in good faith extrapolate to women end 80% of relationships. Which means women are 4x more likely to be unhappy. I have data and logic, you have your feels and random unrelated personal attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Unvaccinated sperm the new bitcoin?Classic watch what they say vs what they do moment. I have never met a self-described liberal feminist man who isn't absolutely pathetic, but its more correlation than causation there I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.50% of marriages end in divorce. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Most relationships don't lead to marriage. I don't see why the same stats wouldn't translate faithfully to relationships, ie. most women currently in relationships are not feeling it at some point. I know far more relationships where the woman is much unhappier than the man, that doesn't make my friend circle bad, that just maps on to the reality that women are more likely to be unhappy. Which also tracks women having lower… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.You've said that to half the people who replied. Your paragraph 2 is just your incorrect opinion. Your comment, nor your paragraph 2, addressed my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.because 99.99% of the people who claim that women reward guys being assholes and ignore nice guys aren't the whiny incel neckbeard that think they deserve an arranged marriage with a 10/10, they're guys like me who have treated girlfriends like queens in the past only to have them leave you for the ex that literally beat her, and have seen that same story played out numerous times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 11 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.You made the claim it was dehumanizing. Its not, because its just observing reality. No one here is claiming common decency makes on "deserve" sex, no one except some extremely laughably small minority of "nice guy TM" incels think that. What we do see though is that, by observing women's actions, one can deduce that being an asshole actually does make you more deserving of sex than being nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 21 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.That sentence is vacuous and meaningless and doesn't address the content of what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 32 | Saying "Women reward bad guys" is dehumanizing and implies a sense of entitlement.Women consistently reward bad behavior in dating that runs contrary to what they say they want and its somehow the fault of the people observing this....ok... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Why do a significant portion of non-college age men in the manosphere/Redpill sphere SPECIFICALLY prefer 18-year-old women over those 20-26?27M here. Women my age aren't interested in me because there are plenty of equally charismatic and good looking men in the 30-35 year old range that have an insanely more appealing lifestyle than me. I date very objectively beautiful women and have high standards. If you are an 8 or 9/10 at 27, and personable, interesting etc. why would you go (read: settle, in the female mind) for me when you could have an otherwise identical clone of me that makes 250K/yr and balls out instead of 100K/yr and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 13 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.That is such a hilariously fringe idea I'm not even sure if you are trolling or not. But I'll entertain it nonetheless. Because who in the fuck would want to voluntarily become a single parent, not only because for the burden on them in terms of time and finances, but it is the single worst thing you can do for the development of that child. I do not see a single honest rational person actually doing that, just as the weirdo mgtow types aren't just gonna go adopt a random kid like its a pet for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.Your advice is basically what I told my younger sister. However at the end I mentioned that there will come a time when you may likely want to start a family and settle down, and the time to stop the hot girl summer career focused stuff is about 3 years before those feelings arise. If you think that you eventually do want a family, quality memories with a significant other that you intend on being with long term, etc, you don't want to wait until 30+ before you even begin entertaining seriously … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.I agree with everything you said, but I think that some extent of societal pressure to find a suitable partner before a certain age does contain some form of a baby that could be thrown out with the bathwater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 60 | Should Someone Be Prosecuted For Lying To Obtain SexIf a man should be charged for lying about his status/lifestyle and some dumb bitch regrets giving it up after realizing he was a bum, then I have a long list of girls I'm gonna take to court given how they looked later with no makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the Red Pill ideology misunderstood these days or is it truly the toxic ideology people claim it to be?The red pill is simply presenting an obfuscated truth. Many can't handle it and become vile misogynists/tradcons/etc. In the same vein as atheism. Some people need the lie to function, they need to keep their worldview in tact and have a light at the end of the tunnel. The masses need their opiates. Doesn't affect the veracity of the claims though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Women who are ugly have no saving groundIf you are an ugly woman, barring an actual horrible disease/genetic mutation/disfigurement, you can still hit the gym hard, develop a personality, and become interesting enough to date a guy that is by all means still more attractive than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Can some of you describe your social lives?27M in a fairly urban metro area - go out to eat with my (mostly male, but a few girls or girls the guys are dating/talking to) friends in more socially oriented venues like breweries/wine bars probably 2-3 times a week, take a full night out to hop bars/clubs usually once a weekend on a Friday or Saturday night, occasionally throw dinner parties at my house, and I get friends to come out when I perform both music and comedy at open mic nights or just want to hit the streets to busk for fun. As … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?I don't think you even remotely understood what I was trying to say. You take a 5/10 girl, lock her in her room for a year and some change and throw her on a dating app, she gets attention from 7 or 8/10 guys, and now she has an insanely distorted perception of her own value and will be far less likely to be receptive to a looks matched 5/10 guy ever again, or best case scenario she now feels like she is the one who settled if she is with someone on her same level. This is not good for men, this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 97 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?Lockdowns forced most people, especially younger people who otherwise would be meeting people in "real life", onto dating apps. Dating apps are basically the hyperbolic time chamber training potentiator for hypergamy. I think it really has got worse even in the past few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?I think this just may be semantical misunderstanding. Myself included, many of my well adjusted male friends who otherwise are very content with life will describe themselves as feeling lonely when single for a while. It is a certain kind of loneliness different from what friends provide, just that doesn't have a word of its own. Maybe longing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?I highly doubt you are representative of most people, let alone most men. I have a plethora of great male friends who provide me all of the above, and yet I still would love to find someone to fill that special void that neither my male friends nor the various girls I could call on for casual sex would fill. I also would like to ideally be married have kids before I get into my 30s, so there is that biological drive too. I think there is a special niche type of void in one's life that cannot be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | If men are always looking for sex, and very sexual creatures, how do religious men cope?Success I mean in terms of never fighting, always seem happy and doing things as a couple, kids doing well if applicable, etc. Like a pretty holistic view of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | If men are always looking for sex, and very sexual creatures, how do religious men cope?The most successful marriages I have seen are the kids I knew who were deeply involved in the church from back in the day when I pretended to be religious to appease my parents. There really is something to be said about pair bonding ability and long term outcomes of relationships when you monogamously pair off early in life as virgins/very low n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | I don't think toxic masculinity will ever go away causeThe problem lies in theory vs practice. I genuinely believe you when you say that, but the loud extremities that write books, articles, control policy formulation, etc. do not share that intellectually honest view and do use "toxic masculinity" as tool just to browbeat men. Case and point there were far more influential feminists writing non-satiricle articles about "man spreading" than there were making the points you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?I don't see how you make the leap from "men have an objectively harder time in dating, and securing a parter of the opposite sex of an intimate nature" to "men make terrible friends". Do you not think that there is something unique or special about an intimate relationship with a member of the opposite sex or do you really believe that a significant majority people could go through their entire lives completely satisfied on all levels with appropriate same sex friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 02:59 PM |
| 17 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageI would offer that you judging men because of OLD then becoming a feminist would be like a man only trying to date strippers at the club and becoming a MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Men of this Subreddit, what would/will you do after a Girl/woman has rejected you after you've asked them out on a date/confessed your feelings?Act completely nice and professional should I ever run into her, just as I would any other person, but otherwise cease all contact and move on. I have never and never would remain "friends" with someone I have romantic interest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:07 AM |
| 6 | What do yall think about the new Demi Lovato post?She is a mentally ill political activist that, by her own admission (of which I am very empathetic to, and truly do wish her the best) absolutely fried her brain with drugs. Nothing in the realm of life advice she says should be taken at face value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?I meant in more general terms. I have had a few girl friends where, in the context of her asking about some of my guy friends since she was single and looking, I asked if she had any friends she thought may be a good match with me, and instantly loss respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 57 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?From personal experience - most female friends immediately will think less of you if you're the one who broaches the idea. If you make it their idea to help you, you're golden, but asking for any romantic assistance has immediately lead to being thought of as "lesser" by female friends from my experience. I guess the subconscious line of thought is "if he has to ask for help he is pathetic" or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?But that is my point to a degree, even if you never did it yourself you could appreciate something of quality on someone else. But we would both agree that a mehhhh or bad tattoo (99.99% of them) is just so beyond the pale of what we would imagine would be a rational choice someone we would want to be in a relationship would make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Have women on OLD sites noticed men getting more or less "simpy" since pandemic?It's all about being photogenic and having high quality photos. I am one of those unlucky guys that despite being decidedly attractive look like ass in every photo I take, maybe try to get a photoshoot done professionally. The funniest moment of my life was when I really became aware of this. My friend set me up with a date for a function that didn't want to go because she thought I was extremely ugly from every photo of me, but then met me in real life and we ended up dating and she flat out to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?I have over 24hrs of tattoo work done. I love my tattoos, but I usually hate tattoos because 99.99% of them suck. I went to a highly accoladed and acclaimed artist, waited on the books usually 6+ months each time, and spent thousands on each appointment. I am not trying to brag or anything, you could argue that spending money on something like that is superficial and stupid in good faith, but I have the disposable income and they mean a lot to me and are true pieces of art. A major red flag for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Q4Red-Pillers: What are your thoughts on modern-day sexual consent laws?1 - undoubtedly yes, however issues here come from the fact that there really is a significant enough subset of women that verbally resist but actually want sex. avoid these women like the plague, and immediately stop after getting a no 2 - 100% yes 3 - it definitely exists, however I am not interested in finding out if its coy last minute resistance or actual resistance. I have plenty of girls willing to have sex with me and I am not interested in getting into any type of position where some ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessThis comes from the female solipsism stemming from the fact that unattractive (physically, in a vacuum) man can actually be attractive. An fat ugly balding woman will never land a male model no matter how many degrees, albums, books, government office, etc she obtains. Meanwhile Salmon Rushdie (a personal hero of mine for his work), and an objectively ugly motherfucker, can land in my opinion the most beautiful woman in the world (Padme Lakshmi in her prime is an 11/10) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:54 PM |
| 18 | Q4Red-Pillers: What are your thoughts on modern-day sexual consent laws?I am not so much worried about the laws but rather the cultural context in which they are applied. Ie. you can be accused, with no evidence, and have your life turned upside down with zero recourse even if you can prove the claim is fabricated. Having been through a patently false accusation myself that I still suffer mental consequences from years later, and having many friend who have also been through similar situations I really want to point out how much more rampant this is than the, even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you find women on dating apps are markedly different in SMV, or are the women you meet on OLD basically the same women you meet IRL?Women you meet on OLD are there because they either A) are beautiful wastes of oxygen and are there purely for a dopamine kick via validation and may as well just be bots in practice, or B) are there because they are unable to meet someone IRL. If you are unable to meet someone IRL, there can be valid reasons for that, or there can be some legitimate reg flag reasons for that. The odds are not in your favor with that in mind. The same logic applies to men too, just a decent bit less of the "A" c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:54 PM |
| 2 | What kind of compromises have you made for your partner? What compromises are you (not) okay with?Honestly I had it made. She was absolutely beautiful, as close to a virgin as you can find in the western world (lost it to last boyfriend, only did it once at the very end), had an amazing, well off family that really loved me and took me in, and I really thought I found my unicorn. Then covid happened, she got laid off, and was bored and went nuts in the head from all that and it cascaded out of control. I spent a lot of time with her, but now that she had an excess of free time she wanted me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:40 PM |
| 3 | What kind of compromises have you made for your partner? What compromises are you (not) okay with?27M, much more on the red side of the spectrum Thinks I hate that I have sacrificed for a girl I was in love with and thought I was going to marry: I have gone 100% completely sober sans coffee, I have attended church services despite being quite a stalwart atheist, and I put up with the fact that I was going to be stuck doing all of the cooking every day with no exceptions (both my parents were chefs, I can cook like its no one's business, but I love when girls cook just as the gesture) Things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?So its over 2x the rate of conservative women. Is it correlation (ie. seeking out like minded people for more tolerance and understanding, a desire for compassion and empathy) or causation (being brainwashed into a perpetually victimized activist mad about everything looking to be offended all the time). 15 years ago I would lean towards the former, but since this is a relatively new phenomena that specifically looks at young women I have to think that it is predominately the latter. https://www… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 11:05 AM |
| 26 | Men having a harder time on OLD follows from simple mathematics because of the gender imbalance.Ehhh I think that is a false equivalency. Women complain about quality, men complain about lacking BOTH. If you aren't getting quantity on those as a man you sure as hell aren't getting quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I never attempted to prescribe a solution, just describe the problem. In order to actually give people honest advice, you need to understand the problem to which the advice addresses. And since there is no solution to not wanting to date girls who are fucked in the head by social media short of moving to a 3rd world country, the only advice I would give, since for some reason you seem hung up on the irrelevant concept of advice, is to self improve in a very broad holistic sense, mainly involving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.You said you didn't disagree with the stats I provided. Obviously I can't cite anything and never claimed to be able to, but is what I am saying truly that unreasonable? You really need to look at your female friend's insta DMs, it will change your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.And the reason men aren't getting married is 50% that most men bring no value to the table, and 50% that women have a flawed perception of their own attraction (everything I was talking about) that leaves them incapable of marriage because a true looks match feels like settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Women act like men when they switch seats at speed datingThis is interesting because I will not for a second object that environmental/cultural/social issues play a part in this. I think this is a nonsequitor to "hypergamy is not real" because while they did show women get less picky, they did not show any numbers so I would still bet you anything that "less picky" is still waaaayyyyy pickier than the male baselines "less picky" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.So I am at a loss as to how anything you are saying has any relevance given the context of the OP and my reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.None of it is supposed to be, whether there is utility behind what I said has no effect on the veracity of my claims. I don't care whether it is useful or not, I am just debating if it is true, which you seem to keep sidestepping by bringing in to question how useful the truth is or isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I think you either don't have any attractive male friends or are just full blackpill. I am sorry for you. Its grim, don't get me wrong, most of my male friends are screwed, but there is hope if you are willing to put in the work. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.Do you have any attractive female friends?!? Every girl I have ever dated has showed me their DMs and it is full to the brim with random guys hitting them up, even sometimes on casual dates I will hear about it. Basically every girl is constantly bombarded with an endless stream of validation that causes them to perceive their own attractiveness as higher than it is, and this isn't really good for the girls or the guys. If 99.99% of attractive girls have an instagram, and 99.99% of girls on inst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I don't see why you're downvoting me seeing as I'm not necessarily disagreeing (and you aren't supposed to) but you aren't addressing the actual point I made, in that your average 5/10 woman is, for objectively verifiable reasons, far less likely to be interested in an equivalent 5/10 guy. And just because instagram isn't a dating site does not mean hordes of thirsty guys use it for that purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.Or maybe they don't tell you in depth about their sex lives for a wide variety of perfectly rational reasons lol If you are a standard deviation to the right in wealth, attractiveness, and socialized enough to know how to read basic emotions and carry on a conversation you will drown in girls. The problem is most men really don't understand how much actual work is involved in achieving this, and would rather whine on the internet in their echo chamber. Hence why I'm deeply red pill but hate most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:08 PM |
| -1 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I don't mean this in a derogatory fashion, but are you a boomer or older than the typical dating age? Just because you called them dating sites. I did not know a single girl who DIDN'T have tinder when I was in school, and I cannot name a single pretty girl I have ever met who did not have instagram. Literally every pretty girl under the age of 30 in the United States has an instagram, and to some degree every single pretty girl has an inbox full of hundreds of DMs from guys out of their league … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.You think that women who would normally be considered being 5/10 being constantly given validation (for the purposes of an easy one night stand) by 7 or 8 or 9/10 guys due to social media and dating apps, which 99% of young women are on one or more or, doesn't inflate their self perception of value and make it harder for them to effectively looks match without settling? We can disagree on the extent to which this may happen but calling the phenomena BS and discounting it I would find entirely ig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I was a 19 year old fat poor virgin that hadn't even had a first kiss when I found trp/manosphere dating advice and made life changes. My personality has been 100% the same, and now in my late 20s I'm no longer a "nerd loser" for being a Pokemon obsessed anime-binging stoner guitar player that enjoys D&D and Warhammer tabletop, I'm "interesting and quirky" because I'm shredded as all fuck and own a few houses. Halo effect is very real, if you get abs and six figures you will have your pick of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 9 | Analysis: Sexless is primarily caused by a decline in marriages; men who are unemployed, studying or who are low earners are less likely to be married.I will play devil's advocate to some degree but maybe you will agree. More men aren't getting sex or getting married because more men are considered wholly beneath 99% of women for reasons both due to male inadequacy (fat, porn, video games, pathetic losers with no hobbies or qualities that set them apart) and insane hypergamy (tinder, instagram, insane inflation of the female ego in terms of perceived self worth in a dating/relationship sense). It isn't the lack of marriage itself, it is the la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?Mentally stable and leftist. The odds are not in your favor....not a potshot I mean seriously progressive young women have an absurd rate of mental health issues relative to the general population. Throw in not promiscuous and your task seems about as Sisyphean as my low n count atheist libertarian dream girl that smokes pot and wants kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 8 | What Event of Modern Feminism can MGTOW and/or Redpill reference to help "Blue Pilled" people understand its contribution to the "decline" better?I think you asked a lot of different questions, but I will offer my two cents on one aspect. If you say anything that criticizes feminism, even if it is true, good faith, and well intentioned, you will become demonized. I have found that with any hot button issue, not even necessarily political, women act far more as a hive mind than men. Then you have the very significant portion of pathetic men who will white knight with the same absence of thought, and you end up with a culture where if you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Is the kindest thing for us as a society to adjust male expectations down to a realistic level regarding their romance and dating lives?I will grant your wish in roughly 60 years, enjoy your pathetic existence in the interim :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How dangerous was/is your life due to the other gender?7 years later I still have nightmares and panic attacks stemming from a girl who I hooked up with, upon rejecting her when she asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend, told everyone I raped her and they all immediately believed her, including some friends of mine that didn't even know her. It utterly broke me psychologically, and while in college I had multiple other close friends have verifiably false accusations leveled against them (verifiable to the degree such as with one incident, which was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Is the kindest thing for us as a society to adjust male expectations down to a realistic level regarding their romance and dating lives?We have two viable options: either lie to men, or change the culture to be more accommodating to enforced monogamy and encourage more relationships for the 95% of men that aren't chads. The third choice, which seems to be what we are doing, is to allow the majority of the young male population to become disenfranchised and drop out, which I think will have some serious societal implications in the coming years. I do not have an opinion on what should be done, and I am quite successful myself a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 0 | If we really think consent is all that matters, why is most gambling illegal?I would posit this has nothing to do with anything "pill" related and that the reason gambling is illegal by and large is because the government can't tax it. Hence why those online betting sites on shit like sports is fine because its reported to the IRS, but your poker game isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman you met at work?I go out of my way to avoid even casually talking to women at work unless I am very confident in my perception of and rapport with her. As someone who does stand up comedy and likes making jokes whenever I can, saying something around a woman my age that unbeknownst to me offends her - statistically very likely - fringe progressive sensibilities is a one way trip to HR jail. When women get flirty with me at work I try to almost act as if I am gay in order to be nice without them getting upset an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesMen't don't by a massive statistical margin only date up in wealth/earnings potential, that is what hypergamy means and nothing else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesI'm not saying we're very different, but the concept of hypergamy driving human female mate selection isn't just red pill nonsense, it is an objectively demonstrable claim and probably the one single thing the red pillars agree on that is actually objectively true. My argument just hinges on it being the norm, not 100% of the time, but more common than not, which opens the door for my previous argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesI agree. My point is that when either partner becomes lazy and stops trying, the other partner usually leaves. However prior to leaving the woman is more likely to cheat in those cases. Its not even necessarily because "thEYRe WAmyN", but because since 99.99% of the time women date up socioeconomically, they want to continue using the guy for lifestyle until they fully leave, where as men would be more likely to just break up instead of cheat. And since only bad people cheat, because I would say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesSo women hate you when you lose your job and will jump to chad, gotcha. I thought I was supposed to be the more red pilled one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesSo why are 80% of divorces initiated by women if women aren't demonstrably more likely to act on their discontent with a relationship? I have no skin in this game I just don't know why you are so afraid of there being a disparity in one particular bad behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesI think you kinda proved my point though. If a man gets in a financially rough situation or otherwise stops provisioning, the woman grows to hate him and is more likely to divorce and I think it follows that there would be a correlation with propensity to cheat. Men have to initiate everything and sunk cost fallacy sinks in I suppose and they are less likely to throw it away ie cheat by your own statement there. I am not claiming any moral superiority for men or anything, just that it seems that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?But your response proves my point. My beliefs haven't changed one bit, and ten years ago I was literally considered a socialist hippie, but because I don't subscribe to the insanity of the culture war waged by modern fringe progressives I am apparently center right despite never holding a single "right wing" policy opinion for my entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesI have observed far more relationships end because a woman cheated than a man. Now you are already dismissing that as an anecdote but I think it reflects reality for the following reason: women initiate 80% of divorces. I don't think its unreasonable to extrapolate that the disparity of women looking to be the ones to one way or another end a relationship applies to formal marriage as much as it would in plain dating. I think we would agree that cheating is most likely a result of one person bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 4 | everyone is a cheater, and every partner man or woman will cheat in the right circumnstancesI'm firmly on the red pill side of things and will disagree. Mainly because I quite literally had the chance to fuck a legit very famous pornstar and get away with it but I did not because I was seriously dating at the time. The end, sometimes people actually have morals. I think it is far more likely that the woman would cheat if someone in that tier of attractiveness approacher her though, ie a rock star rapper movie star etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 14 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Probably the same thing as me. The only "right wing" hot button issue I side with is being against gun control (which I view as more of an urban vs rural issue and not particularly partisan but I digress) and am for increasing tax on high earners, pro social programs, very much an environmentalist, pro choice etc...but think cancel culture, cultural marxism, intersectionality et al. is cancer and ruining us culturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 03:49 PM |
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