| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | How do you calibrate for girls with relatively little experience? | baconessisgodlyness | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:36 AM | |
| 2 | Subreddit geared towards the art of conversation?(And other specifics) | baconessisgodlyness | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 02:05 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How I ask girls outWhatever this said it must have been profound lol. Why was the content deleted? | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:59 PM |
| 8 | She never texts me first but when I text her, she texts back right away. What does this mean?Girls have it drilled into them that to text first is to show neediness, so by and large they don't do it. You aren't giving us much to go on, but based on her response time, I'd say she likes you. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Observations resulting from a conversations I had with a HB 9.5 (after we hooked up)I'm personally against the HB scale due to its entire reliance on personal bias, but based on your description, this girl is maybe an HB 5-6. She is insecure and lashes out against sexual success by calling it a mental illness. A true 9.5 is confident in her own skin and will take what she wants. This girl is terrified of guys "using" her. She's no different than one of the homely high school chicks you'll find badmouthing the girl who stole her boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I get rejected by unattractive girls more often than attractive ones. Anyone else feel that way?Same. I'm a bit of an asshole with my humor, though. The pretty girls know I'm joking while the average looking (or the ones who perceive themselves as average) will have their egos bruised. I feel it's an excellent method of culling away undesirables. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 01:10 PM |
| 1 | 35 Lessons learned from 27 years of being single, with backup examples from other people I don't know.I think he means single as in not wasting years of his life committing to one girl at a time. I could be wrong though. Edit: Never mind. Plainly states he is not alpha. He is self-aware though. Credit where its due. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | 35 Lessons learned from 27 years of being single, with backup examples from other people I don't know.But if you are still in an emotional place where you believe a girl is out of your league, then at some point your insecurities will boil to the surface. He's right. Don't waste ypsur time if you still think like this. | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | 10 observations from banging 100 girlsTRP is suffering the same as us. While we get the white knights they get the disgruntled angry women haters who are pissed cause their high school girlfriends left them for an asshole or they didn't get a kiss til they were in their twenties. Maybe as we immigrate over there we can temper them some. They do have some good content and really interesting field reports but I'd say about 3/4ths of their post are just links to unverified statistics on how much women cheat and court cases of girls mak… | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 07:49 PM |
| 5 | 10 observations from banging 100 girlsETERNAL SEPTEMBER. It is the fate of all subs that allow for public input. Only forums with draconian rules like Askhistorians are immune, but their quality has remained superb from the get go. Giving everyone a voice has always been detrimental to every group and ruling body, but the very nature of this sub is to allow for and encourage public input. I fear the time a new seduction sub will soon come. It really is a shame. | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 07:25 PM |
| 4 | A Tony Montana quote I find relevant to TRPTesla was brilliant, but he was weak. He was manipulated and taken advantage of by stronger men who knew how the world worked. He died in obscurity with nothing. Tesla should be lauded for his inventions and ideas, but it's Edison who should be followed as an example. Edison, who was little more than a business man, got the most brilliant scientific mind on the planet to work for him and their greatest works had his name pasted on them. Edison became obnoxiously wealthy and is remembered as one … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/14 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Homewrecking over this Christmas breakYou attract women in long-term relationships because women in long-term relationships are bored. Single girls are often more selective, but girls in relationships look at a guy and see all the ways he is better than her current bf. | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?Looking forward to seeing your progress. We can learn more from failure than any successes. Just don't let setbacks discourage you. And don't become too fixated on how "different" the girls at your school are. Of course, there are differences on individual bases, but the ebb and flow of attraction will always be the same. (And repressed girls are often the ones who most want adventure) | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 12:15 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond to really lame excuses?Could someone differentiate "persistence" and "neediness"? I usually go with a scorched earth response and drop disrespectful and seemingly uninterested girls completely. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins]Experience is the best teacher. If you aren't making a fuck load of mistakes you most likely aren't experiences as much as you should. At least that's what I believe the lesson is supposed to be. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How a man does an approach!So what alternative do you have for him? | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 02:08 PM |
| 7 | Tips from a Russian on college game in the US.This is the best thing I've seen on this sub in a while. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Being attacked for approaching women?What country do you come from? | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Help a Girl Out: How to Pick Up One of My Passengers. . ?"Hi! I feel like we should exchange names since we always see each other around" and proceed from there. Quick, painless but shows you're interested on getting to know him. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Girls that fail to mention they have a boyfriendI didn't realize women were things that could be owned. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I've spotted a trend; I fear escalation and pin that duty on the woman.. How to stop?You have to get used to touching EVERYONE. Touch is the definitive method of expressing your interest to a girl and once you start using it it will become reflexive for you. Whenever you see a guy friend give them a high 5 or a fist bump. When you run into female friends give them a nice bear hug. When your sitting with a girl make sure it is almost always next to her, never across. Make sure you're close enough for your legs to touch. When speaking put your hands on shoulders, hands, or arms to… | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 05:58 PM |
| 2 | I've spotted a trend; I fear escalation and pin that duty on the woman.. How to stop?You just have to come to the realization that if a girl is responding favorably to kino, making strong eye contact (or avoiding it suddenly and acting nervous), going out with you when you ask, etc. then she likes you. If you come to a point where you can touch her legs, hold her hand or her face, then she is into you enough for a kiss. If there is ever a lull in conversation, but you two are making strong eye-contact, then just smile and go for a kiss. Even if she rejects you she will definitel… | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Kill Your Inner Raymond: Demanding More from Yourself, Women, and the WorldThis was actually a damn good read. | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 09:51 PM |
| 3 | What to say when...Depends on the situation and the girl. If its a girl I know is fairly confident I won't take the bait. I'll either say "pssh. Now you're just fishing for compliments" or "eh. 6 out of 10. Your ass is kind of flat for my taste". For girls who are more sensitive or have thinner skin you have to calibrate accordingly. I'm an asshole, however, so girls who are insecure and can't stand being made fun of won't click with me. I just find the confident ones more fun. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 04:15 AM |
| 1 | On drawing boundaries and letting go?I would advise against hooking up with her in the future until you are mentally in a place where you don't care what she does. And considering you only broke up a month ago that may be some time. She still hooks up with you because she is not entirely over you and the hookups are helping her cope with the breakup. I recommend complete radio silence for a while until you get back on the dating scene and move on. And chodeness is really a state of mind. If you hook up with her with the hope that m… | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 05:00 PM |
| 4 | I NEED TO HELP ON CLOSING!Honestly, all it takes is a lull in conversation. If you both suddenly stop talking but are making tons of crazy eye contact just put on a sly smile and go for it. It's really the best feeling in the world. Or if you still haven't the balls for that when you're dropping her off after a date one day just say "hold on. I still don't known if we have chemistry yet" or "I'll see ya later but I'm kissing you before I go" By blurting these out you're forcing yourself to make a move. | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate in this situationWhen you say take it slow do you mean wait for an undetermined amount of time to make your relationship a sexual one or do you mean you aren't just going to jump into a committed relationship with each other. If its the latter then continue seeing other girls who won't waste your time with their own insecurities and escalate physically with this girl when you do make time for her. If its the former, I have to ask why some random girl from tinder is worth all your time lol. The freeze out method … | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 03:14 PM |
| 2 | On drawing boundaries and letting go?It's impossible to suppress emotions like love and affection, and you shouldn't try to. Actively attempting to suppress a certain feeling just causes it to occupy your thoughts. You just have to make sure your feelings never affect what decisions you make. Do you consider yourself a fairly logical person? If so then that shouldn't prove too difficult. I've managed to stop interacting with girls I had known for years through the simple act of realizing there are literally 3.5 billion women on the… | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Harem management: how do you guys emotionally cope with cheating on your favorite?Well I personally tell all the girls I'm seeing that there are others. I believe the momentary bruise to their ego that they receive when they realize you don't want to be exclusive is nothing compared to the hurt they feel from a betrayal of cheating. You have to examine what it is you really want and why you aren't telling them. Are you really the "harem" kind of guy? Many people cant divorce emotions from a physical relationship. And why aren't you telling them? Are you really afraid if hurti… | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps initiating plans, but flakes on the day.As petty as this sounds I have found that treating people how they treat you is the best way to get a change of behavior. Rudeness and not being expected to keep your word is common place these days. My advice, however, is to drop women like that immediately. Do not deal with shitty women. Period. They aren't worth the headache. I only go for mature women who know how to honor their word and I couldn't be happier with the results. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Current girl I am interested in is dating another guy, what should I do to make sure that, when they are done, I will be her next option, and not friend zoned.Relationships do mean a lot to me but personally I'm at a time in my life where I prefer noncommittal dating to monogamous relationships. Not too long ago I would often wait at the periphery for a relationship to end before I made a move. I would begin dating a girl, I would find out she had feelings for me throughout most of her 5 year relationship, and the only reason she didn't break it off was because she would be afraid of hurting the guy or she had been with him so long it would seem weird… | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Current girl I am interested in is dating another guy, what should I do to make sure that, when they are done, I will be her next option, and not friend zoned.Again I apologize. The subtleties of conversation are lost through text. Why should he respect it then? | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Current girl I am interested in is dating another guy, what should I do to make sure that, when they are done, I will be her next option, and not friend zoned.Forgive me if I was mistake but your comment implied that if OP made a move then the girl would have been helpless before his charms and would have had no choice but to cheat on her boyfriend. And may I ask why protecting the sanctity of another's relationship is OP's responsibility? | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 04:50 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/11/13Just say "hey! I'm going to the dining hall after class. Wanna come? I'm way to pretty to be eating alone" or "Are you any good at tennis? Let's go to the fitness center so I can work on my game." Or "let's get ice cream later tonight at such and such place." Don't over think things. The possibilities are limitless. | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Current girl I am interested in is dating another guy, what should I do to make sure that, when they are done, I will be her next option, and not friend zoned.The white knights cometh. Guys like that exist because of their own ingrained insecurities. Girls are people who are capable of making their own decisions. Why should she stay with some pathetic loser when someone better comes around just because she is in a relationship with the guy? Do you make someone feel guilty for upgrading an iPod? And to answer your question OP the key is to not give a damn. Concentrate on improving your own life and the girls will follow. If this girl has good taste the… | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Help needed - Like girl she liked me .. then goes crap (like it always does)This happens man. It's my personal policy to never vocalize feelings unless they already have. Just show how you feel through action: kino, asking her out, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you find to be the correct amount of time to wait between dates?I tend to plant the seeds for another date with every date I go on. If I find out she is interested in tennis I say let's go play in the park at a certain time and day. If no such plans were made I tend to wait between a week and 10 days between invites. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Tested method against boyfriend or protective male friend cockblocking.You handled that well. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Blow me or blow me out; deny the FriendzoneYou're subconsciously putting her on a pedestal. Best way to avoid that is constantly talk to many different women so you don't get too attached to one. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 12:28 PM |
| 9 | [FR] First field report. Was doing well, but somehow let it slip through my fingers...What would have been an appropriate response to her shit test? | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 04:21 PM |
| 31 | Never Buy A Girl a Drink.I think op was specifying that there are only two types of girls that ask you to buy them drinks without knowing you. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 03:02 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A very... confusing experience. Halp?You are a very self-aware individual. That is what's most important in self improvement. Just keep swimming man. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 02:53 PM |
| -6 | Favorite Date IdeaWhat else have you done? | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Favorite Date IdeaWhat else have you done? | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 12:26 PM |
| 1 | When I do a cold approach, girls seem to turn red when I start talking to them. That's a good thing, right?Let's get an example of the openers you use, but I believe its safe to say the girls are into you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 11:31 AM |
| 3 | "Yo Let's Text For Awhile And Maybe Hookup!"- A Template For Poor Texting. [What Not To Do]Texts of chodeness past. Geez I needed to see this. | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Was told I'm not pursuing enoughNothing apparently wrong with the method, but the most important thing is how you interact with the girls before you ask them out? Are you using kino, clearly expressing your interest, etc? | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting more women but im having trouble with the emotional side effects. How do i deal with toxic mindsets now that im getting more women.I think you are thinking too much. Don't focus so much on appearing aloof once the girl likes you. Just go with the flow and see where your interactions take you. And I can only guess but it may be your seeming lack of any emotional attachment that is discouraging the girls and causing them to leave you. And you like the girls once they leave because people want what they can't have and only appreciate things once they are gone. Its perfectly natural. To avoid it you have to keep talking to othe… | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls with boyfriends. Y/N/M?It depends what you're looking for. If its a relationship you're after then you should know someone who'll cheat with you will cheat on you. If its just dates or a few lays then do what you must. You don't owe her boyfriend anything. She's (hopefully) an adult and is more than capable of making her own decisions. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Miss Manners on the Friend ZoneI hate that a girl can't turn down a guy without seeming like a heartless bitch. Its obvious from the post that the guy had most likely never even kissed that girl, let alone expressed intimate intentions. However, I do disagree with the conclusion. It could be extremely beneficial for a girl to explain why she rejected someone. How else can the guy improve himself if he isn't aware of his faults? | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Targets keep saying, essentially, "I bet you say that to every girl." What do!?"Actually I normally save that one for the guys" | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:20 AM |
| 1 | A quick tip on determining whether or not she/he is into you."Quick tip" haha. But truly good advice. Many girls today are shy and you have to look for subtleties. But I think many on here will say you should have approached her sooner and judged her body language from there but progress is progress. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I know this isn't r/Relationships, but please hear me outI would advise against messaging back. That was classless of her to do it that way. She was a codependent coward who was with you because she couldn't conceive of being alone, but with that said, you shouldn't be upset with her. You're hurt because you were prematurely attached to her. She was in a really fragile place emotionally, you were there for her as a friend, it escalated beyond that because she was hurting from a breakup and the death of a friend and you always wanted to be more than fr… | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 11:31 AM |
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