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baianobranco/r/seduction30/03/12 03:10 AM
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baianobranco/r/seduction11/04/12 01:11 AM
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Being a foreigner does make a significant difference in any country, especially in terms of social interactions. People are a lot more forgiving of any social faux pas you commit, and sometimes view it as cute or entertaining rather than rude or tactless. People love to ask you about where you are from. Furthermore, they love to give advice on what to do, where to go, and what to eat in their home country. In this way basic conversations are much easier to get started and maintain. You have an a…
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:59 PM
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I did that once a couple of years ago in college. However I went to the bathroom. Came back and made a joke about her having to fight a thief off or something similar to that. Made small talk. Something I didn't know then that I do now is: people like you more if you get them to do a favor for you. It is a very good idea to get someone you are interested in pursuing to do a small favor for you.
/r/seduction30/09/13 02:11 PM
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Most of everything you'd said still applies to guys in their 20s living in a big city. A few of the main differences are: weekend travel plans. When you are working and have money you are much more likely to go on weekend outings farther from home. You can still organize group outings but it will be almost impossible to roll 10 ore more guys deep. Schedules are too different. A few people who used to go out during the weekdays in college will never (or hardly) go out on weeknights any more, even…
/r/seduction21/09/13 05:56 PM
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Incorporate all of those things into making friends. Is there a gun club you can officially join? Start hanging out with your band mates. Do some public gigs if you guys are any good, even just playing at parties will get you laid.
/r/seduction21/08/13 08:40 PM
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First, you need to take a step back and reread your posts. You have made an excuse in EVERY one of responses and a couple in your original post. Regardless of whether they are legitimate excuses or not, you need to stop making them. FIND ways around them. You mentioned allergies...get allergy medication or plain old suck it up and go on a hike. Winter hikes are things too, outdoor allergies are not a concern then. This took me literally 1 second to find 2 answers to that particular excuse. Frank…
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:01 AM
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This isn't advice on separating your personal perceived social value and who you are as a person, I feel increased confidence and self esteem will take care of that in its own time. However, if you are entering your third year, why don't you make specific goals to be more involved in a greater variety of activities and set specific goals on attaining some form of leadership position in some of those activities.
/r/seduction05/08/13 01:22 AM
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I've been to South America, not Asia, but you're spot on. Being a white American (in my case), demonstrated high value to many women that made the whole process easier. However, it was still up to me to game the girls. I definitely struck out sometimes as did many foreigners I saw. If you absolutely can't get laid at home, you probably can't abroad either.
/r/seduction03/08/13 03:16 PM
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Define your definition of a party guy. I assume you mean someone who constantly drinks, does drugs and has no long term plan for his life. However, this is only the minority of men (or women) who go out and party with their friends on occasion or even regularly. You can easily meet a quality man at a party or in a social drinking environment. Just because they drink or party doesn't make them irresponsible or childish.
/r/seduction31/07/13 02:37 PM
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In Salvador de Bahia, the ugly/fat chick is the dragon. The dude who hooks up with her or "slays" her is called St. George.
/r/seduction24/07/13 08:45 PM
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I consider myself an attractive guy, not super model hot, but above average. Although I rarely get out right approached by women, they will do what they can to get noticed. Standing near me, bumping into me, being conspicuous with their looks. If you think about it, you probably do this with guys even if they intimidate you.
/r/seduction05/07/13 12:37 PM
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Speaking from personal experience this is EXACTLY how I used to be. I certainly still have (high) standards. But I no longer hide behind them.
/r/seduction04/07/13 06:11 PM
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I agree with you...however, it sounds to me like OP posted that because they didn't want to leave their table and mingle with someone new while looking for girls. Not necessarily due to lack of confidence, since we don't know the whole story, but very well could be.
/r/seduction04/07/13 03:47 PM
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Not OP, but I share his mindset. Honestly, lots of the biggest influences on me for inner game were not seduction materials. However, they cross over beautifully. I'm talking about self-help and success books. "The magic of thinking big" is an oldy but a goody. Lots of stuff from Jack Canfield and Tony Robbins is great. Also start researching hobbies/activities you are interested in. Besides making you happy, giving you something to talk about, and (usually) increasing your social interactions, …
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:00 PM
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One thing I would suggest to every person, regardless of gender or seduction community, is to take the time to write down a life plan. Spend about an hour writing what you want to accomplish in life and what kind of person you want to be. Talk about the relationships you want and the activities you want to be involved in. At another time, write down some concrete goals for yourself, broken down socially, physically, mentally, creatively, and financially. Write where you see yourself in 5 years a…
/r/seduction02/07/13 04:29 PM
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Probably the most important thing here, which you mentioned, is that time changes people. If you are a more attractive person now people don't really care what you were like in high school unless maybe you were a huge asshole. I was always popular in high school, but still sucked with girls an never got anywhere with them. I'm 23, and have whenever I run into girls from high school that were considered very hot, I get plenty of positive attention from them. All they see is me NOW, not who I was …
/r/seduction26/06/13 02:35 PM
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An object in motion tends to remain in motion.
/r/seduction07/06/13 12:18 PM
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I never said it was non existent. But if you are saying non verbal communication is as important on the phone as it is in a face to face interaction then I whole heartedly disagree with you. I'm aware that body language can literally change the stress levels in your brain and increase or decrease confidence, which in turn, affects how you speak and what you speak about, but vocal tone, pace, and projection are more important on the phone than body language is on the phone.
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:34 PM
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Although a majority of communication is non verbal, this only applies to face to face interactions. In today's age, body language is unimportant over the phone or during a recording like a pod cast. Even things like Skype put a greater emphasis on the verbal aspect of communication. So thanks for this OP.
/r/seduction05/06/13 11:41 AM
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Awesome job. I agree with you 100%. Im 23 and I just started my own business. Honestly, I probably would not be where I am today if it wasn't for this subreddit/community.
/r/seduction02/06/13 02:11 AM
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Is it understood that you will see each other at least 3 days out of the week? If yes, then you definitely have a girlfriend. Is it understood that you will see each other at least 2 days out of the week? If yes, you probably have a girlfriend.
/r/seduction21/05/13 01:41 AM
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I lived in Brazil for 6 months and it was the place that really allowed me to become extremely sociable, confident, and much better with women. 1) It is super easy as a white guy (not sure if OP is white, or where in Brazil he is going...the south has many native white Brazilians) to at the very least converse with girls. I was approached many many times simply for being a white foreigner. 2)Latin America, and especially Brazil, is huge on personable interactions and friendly touching. You will …
/r/seduction18/05/13 01:01 AM
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This doesn't exactly answer your question, but, you should be lightly flirting and talking to ALL girls you meet. Also socializing and talking with all guys you meet. This doesn't mean you have I escalate with all girls you meet or be friends with all guys you meet, but it will make socializing with everyone easier and more natural. Personally, I think you should be genuine with the people you date/hook up with. If this means you honestly can't find something about them you find attractive or wo…
/r/seduction11/05/13 07:39 PM
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I read that we actually perceive our voices to be lower and less nasally than they actually are. Basically we don't like hearing recordings because they are higher pitched and more nasally, unfortunately that is closer to what other people hear.
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:41 PM
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Actually no. I'm half American half French. However, I lived in Bahia, Brazil for 6 months. I had forgotten my old reddit account name/password and made a new one when I was there, hence the name.
/r/seduction09/05/13 09:32 PM
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I'm a physically attractive guy and I don't get cold approached by women often, in the sense that they come up and say, "I thought you were really cute and wanted to say hi." However, I get more attention than my friends in the sense that more girls will often give me situational openers than they give to my friends. The other day I was buying food with friends when a girl commented that she had thought about ordering what I had just ordered, while ignoring my friends. I didn't act on it, despit…
/r/seduction09/05/13 03:39 AM
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About a year ago I wrote a little write up on how to make out for beginners. The whole point of the post was to throw in the hair grab technique. I discovered on my own because it felt natural (luckily, even though it took me a long time to get actual experience, the physical dominance came naturally) and hot. I have had literally 100% success rate doing that. The girl always lets out a little moan of pleasure. I'm writing this now to encourage all guys to do this, but also if you read that thre…
/r/seduction08/05/13 02:37 AM
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In the U.S. we call them "mosh pits". The act itself is called "moshing".
/r/seduction22/04/13 12:06 AM
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It's important to point out that movie dates (at a cinema) are one of the worst first or second dates to have with someone. After you guys have had sex and are comfortable with each other then it is totally fine. Go on movie dates with someone you're actively dating, not someone you are simply going on a date with.
/r/seduction19/04/13 11:27 PM
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You changed your advice though. You literally said never buy a girl a drink. If I'm in a group and its my turn to buy a round I will. I won't exclude the girls or not buy a drink for the one I'm targeting. Furthermore, if a girl buys a drink for me and I like how the interaction is going ill often buy her a drink later. It's natural and what people who are friendly do during an interaction. I buy my friends drinks and they buy them for me as well. This sounds exactly what you are talking about n…
/r/seduction08/04/13 02:07 PM
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Don't use, "can I buy you a drink?" as an opener. Furthermore, don't use it as a way to "buy" the interaction and expect her to owe you anything. However saying "never" is incredibly stupid and shows you have no actual experience with women in a bar setting.
/r/seduction08/04/13 01:39 PM
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I tried to bring it to Brazil when I studied abroad...however I never found solo cups (or any suitable cups). I did teach them the culturally significant act of shot gunning a beer.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:58 AM
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Not if you play with a beer in your hand and water cups. Just take a sip when it's your turn to drink, rather than a half cup of beer.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:56 AM
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Although that may be the case, there is nothing wrong, embarrassing or awkward about making a move when your friend is there. Just go for it, girls appreciate the confidence. Some girls aren't comfortable with making out right in the center of the bar, which is fine and understandable. However, if they are into you, the majority of them will be fine making out in public as long as it isn't in plain view of the entire bar/club/room or whatever.
/r/seduction02/04/13 02:59 PM
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As far as OP may not like this answer, it's the best one here. OP: start lifting, join a physical activity that is independent of lifting. A school sport/club is great for your social life in school. However a school sport is not strictly necessary. I started Bjj, Muay Thai and boxing my senior year of high school. As non school sports it has the benefit of being able to continue well past high school ( been 5 years now). Ideally, if you have the energy and time (you should at your age) lift at …
/r/seduction24/03/13 04:04 AM
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Many girls tend to have better social intelligence than guys (this is a broad general statement, but holds true with your average girl compared to your average guy). This means they will often get the hint that you only see them as friends. They may not be happy about it, but they will often recognize it. Furthermore, most girls have a greater fear of rejection than most guys and are less likely to push the friend boundary if they recognize they are in it.
/r/seduction01/02/13 08:15 PM
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Valid point, but that isn't the opener causing that. It's the guy. The same could be said for an AFC using "hi" as an opener.
/r/seduction24/01/13 02:41 PM
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I am used to shit tests but have never gotten that one or even ever been called awkward. It threw me off for a second, I managed it well and got a make out with that girl anyway, but I've always been a witty sarcastic person and normally don't bat an eyelash from a shit test and can think up a good response instantly. This one I had to think about a clever response by stalling and repeating her statement. "Amazing" may be too generous a word, but hopefully you get the idea.
/r/seduction18/01/13 04:02 PM
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I am used to shit tests but have never gotten that one or even ever been called awkward. It threw me off for a second, I managed it well and got a make out with that girl anyway, but I've always been a witty sarcastic person and normally don't bat an eyelash from a shit test and can think up a good response instantly. This one I had to think about a clever response by stalling and repeating her statement. "Amazing" may be too generous a word, but hopefully you get the idea.
/r/seduction18/01/13 04:02 PM
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I got hit with an amazing one on NYE, "you're adorably awkward, you know that." For the record I wasn't being awkward at all and made out with her for 20 minutes shortly after. Still, I realized what a great shit test it was and I want to try it out sometime.
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:17 PM
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Yeah you can find then physically attractive but still not want a relationship. Part of knowing someone really well is seeing the parts about them that make them not compatible with you. Furthermore certain parts of love/affection develop along with a physical interaction. If you two have never had sex, let alone kissed, it is hard to see past these incompatabilities that you may otherwise forgive/overlook. It's great to have legit girl friends, they offer valuable insight into other girls and a…
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:06 PM
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Yes, simply being a white foreigner (big plus if your American!) is a status symbol for brazilians. Their social worth goes up by hangin out with you or dating you. This is good and bad.
/r/seduction15/01/13 02:43 PM
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One thing we always say here is, "don't put the girl on a pedestal." The same thing applies in reverse. I know it may be difficult, especially if you are shy, but remember he is just a normal human being. He gets nervous too. Just talk to him and you will see. Don't put too much into the interaction or look at him as some Prince Charming character. This will either A) make you screw up because you are so nervous or B) put unrealistic expectations on a guy you don't know and set you up for disapp…
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:11 PM
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First off, human nature is complicated. There is no one book/philosophy that can describe everyone's situation perfectly or make a blanket general statement that applies to everyone. There is too much variance in nature and nurture between all of us. That said, these are great tenants to try to follow if you find you are constantly putting the needs of others above yourself or always aiming to please/seek approval. However, the fact is if you aren't a total selfish prick you are going to exhibit…
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:08 AM
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I was in Salvador de Bahia, not Rio. I trained at 3 different Gracie Barra schools there. I was training everyday, except Sunday so I needed to go to multiple academies for scheduling reasons.
/r/seduction28/11/12 11:51 AM
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I was in Brazil...I had actually never worn flip flops outside of a shower at the gym until I went there. Now I love them when the weather is appropriate...and only during the day.
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:49 AM
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I'm going to piggy back off of this, as my "credentials" are similar. I used to be a bouncer at a high traffic college bar at a major party college (voted number party school my freshman year). I have been training brazilian jiu jitsu, boxing, muay thai, MMA for about 5 years now. I had been training for a few years already when I was bouncing. First point I want to mention. The bouncers' number one responsibility is not beating up trouble makers or even breaking up fights, it is to stop a fight…
/r/seduction28/11/12 01:55 AM
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I've occasionally gotten responses like that (we all have, don't feel bad). I almost always laugh it right off in front of them and move on. It isn't a conscience decision to just laugh, I just do it because it is literally humorous to me that someone (man or woman) would have such a negative reaction to a positive statement. Sometimes they will come back later after seeing that I'm the fun guy who is entertaining and attractive and apologize or act like they never did anything. Sometimes they d…
/r/seduction24/11/12 12:00 AM
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I'm pretty into male fashion so I'll chime in. I overwhelmingly wear button downs when going out at night, but not always. In fact, tonight I'm going to be wearing a solid white henley. I would advocate button downs for night game, but don't exclusively wear them if you know what you are doing from a fashion perspective. Also, as with anything in fashion, make sure they are a good fit. It is easy for guys to mess up button downs because they wear a dress shirt untucked even though it is meant to…
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:37 AM
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I read a study (maybe in this subreddit or r/malefashionadvice) that showed that women perceived men to be more attractive when they had a red shirt/top on. To do this they would show girls a picture of a guy with a red shirt or blue shirt photoshopped. Aka it was the exact same picture except for the color of the shirt. Girls found the guy with the red shirt more attractive in great enough numbers to be statistically significant.
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:32 AM
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Most guys can NOT pull them off without looking like an idiot. The style of the rest of your clothes have to match the fedora and it has to be a nice fedora. The simplest advice is to just avoid them altogether unless you really know what you are doing from a style perspective.
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:29 AM
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"I'm here to hang out with my friends". If you are alone you could say they just left. "I was watching the game and eating and decided to stick around." Really though people are not so concerned about your drinking and won't make a big deal about it if you don't. I'm amazed at how many people in this thread are concerned about this.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:58 PM
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Although water is the healthiest and cheapest option, you can sip on coke and everyone will assume its a coke and rum or some other mixed drink.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:55 PM
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He isn't really though. Yes he is attractive, but that is because he is in shape and has good style and personal hygiene. The majority of men are not ugly (and in fact are physically attractive to most women) if they simply take care of themselves like this.
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:41 AM
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It seems to me that you just lack the initiative to go for the kiss close. More than likely you are not using enough physical touch (kino) and/or amping up the kino as the interaction progresses. I love to dance and do it a lot. I can pretty much k-close anytime I'm out dancing. Once a girl has committed to dancing with you you have bi passed the first (and hardest) barrier. Give her friends a little attention, but make it clear who your target it and who you are interested in. If you are at one…
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:55 AM
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The high school comment was in regards to your ex-girlfriend from high school.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:45 AM
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Your points are valid. However, OP isn't advocating to only go to strip clubs. He is telling guys if they have very little real-life interactions with women that going to a strip club is a good way to have guaranteed conversation with one. Also guys with heavy AA don't need to worry about approaching. Ultimately it is a form of entertainment and it shouldn't be a huge chore for someone to go to a strip club to do this. You are correct in saying that someone who consistently goes out to strip clu…
/r/seduction04/11/12 05:46 AM
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I love my life and am very laid back. Still, I like to help people and do get tired of the rampant cynicism and judgmental attitude from so many people my (our?) age. It doesn't help with anything and will only ever hinder you.
/r/seduction20/10/12 07:03 PM
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I don't remember the last time I literally asked to kiss a girl. They give you the fuck me eyes and its on, just go in for the kiss...Also gotta love South America!
/r/seduction20/10/12 07:01 PM
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I said no one should be censored. I also now see what your entire attitude towards this subreddit is like and women in general. I'm sorry I wasted my time in giving you a thoughtful response.
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:13 PM
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Then take his advice and challenge yourself in a new way that you haven't been challenged before. I highly recommend a physical activity of some sort. Your intelligence and logic would greatly benefit you in ways that others are unable to. However, you would be outside your comfort zone and your physical body would still need to adjust and learn new skills/ways to adapt. It would give you a new perspective and could lead to new social companions that share a common interest. I highly recommend s…
/r/seduction20/10/12 12:22 AM
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I don't smoke weed, I'll start with that. However, who are you to judge how people spend their "valuable time" and their "unproductive hobbies"? Many of these people do get value from partaking in those types of activities or completely unrelated activities. You are coming off as cynical and judgmental in a subreddit that is ultimately about enhancing your life and creating meaningful bonds with the people around you. No one should be censored, but put some time into what you are typing and ask …
/r/seduction20/10/12 12:12 AM
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After she offered you a ride how did you know she was begging for a dicking? Seriously? Girls will generally not go out of their way to do something like that if they are not interested. The fact that she was driving this guy back to his hotel means he just didn't need to fuck it up during the car ride and he was in. This guy also had a big bonus going for him: he was from out of town. It is generally easier to get a girl for a one night stand if she/you are on vacation. They don't need to worry…
/r/seduction17/10/12 11:49 PM
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This means if someone is making you feel bad, being an asshole to you, don't sit there and take it. Have integrity, tell them they are being a douche. You will be telling the truth and sticking up for yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:16 PM
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Same, I have used random girl's umbrella's multiple times...just get under there and be playful about it.
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:20 AM
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I still stand by assertion that there was something interesting about her. It is not your job to dig dig and dig to find it out. If the person never displays it, then yeah, just move on. However, just because you didn't uncover something doesn't mean it isn't there. This person sounds like a nightmare roommate, which obviously makes you biased towards them. If you truly looked you would discover there was something interesting about them. Again, this doesn't obligate you to care about it or to c…
/r/seduction18/09/12 11:44 PM
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Many people are not good at conveying what is interesting about them, and make it hard to discover it. I'm not saying pursue/force conversations with someone to discover what is interesting about them just for the sake of finding it. However, it is a good idea to pursue this and discover what is interesting about someone if you find them physically attractive and then are losing attraction because of your perception of boring. Many hot girls don't need to qualify themselves or demonstrate value …
/r/seduction17/09/12 12:40 AM
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I used to think the same thing as you. I'm a very intelligent person, well read, outgoing with lots of hobbies and multicultural experience (foreign friends and foreign travel). Guess what? The idea that many people are boring comes from an arrogant attitude that won't help you with seduction or life in general. Moreover, it is a crutch/excuse to justify not approaching/pursuing a girl. It saves you from being rejected since in essence you are rejecting them...even if they haven't shown interest…
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:43 PM
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It's because you are self conscience about it. I'm 22 and was dancing with a 37 year old woman a few weekends ago, when she asked I told her instantly and teased her like normal. I didn't focus on her age but I definitely made some jokes about it. Many women fantasize about younger men...just like guys often fantasize about younger women.
/r/seduction07/09/12 10:57 AM
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I used to have the same problem. I literally blew a chance to have sex with one of the hottest girls I know because I was naive. I think it stems from being an attractive person who didn't previously have many romantic/sexual relationships with girls. It really is just going to take some practice and clarity of mind to identify when attraction is there and when to pursue. It will come the more these situations happen. Also, remember just because you didn't act on it that one time doesn't mean yo…
/r/seduction26/08/12 02:02 AM
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Befriended a gay guy at a party on New Years. I ended up banging his best friend (a girl) who was also there. When me and her were going to fuck he did the mother hen thing until he saw it was me she was going with. He gave her his blessing (aka didn't cock block me to stop her from banging a douche or w/e) and I got laid.
/r/seduction26/08/12 01:54 AM
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Be more specific..."bad" teeth could be any number of things.
/r/seduction15/08/12 05:02 PM
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It would be hilarious to walk around with a bunch of cards to hand out to women who hand these rejection cards. Have it go to a social etiquette site or something.
/r/seduction15/08/12 04:59 PM
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Condoms are not that great at preventing many STDs...They are a form of contraception first and foremost.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:43 PM
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Not saying it is "wrong", but a C-section certainly isn't "natural". I always wondered what kind of potential consequences it could bring to the baby.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:38 PM
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Even better if you have your own pad in the city and bring them back there - just say you're timesharing from a friend. No need to lie about your situation. Locals often hang out at hostel bars. They are interested in meeting new people with different cultural perspectives, just like the people staying at hostels are.
/r/seduction15/08/12 01:24 AM
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I figured the post I was responding to was politically motivated. I agree that Atlas Shrugged isn't going to teach you how to pick up girls.
/r/seduction15/08/12 01:15 AM
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I'm a long time liberal. I read Atlast Shrugged last year and it was a good book. The story was good, even if the philosophy isn't. Its a huge book and you can still take something/learn something from it. Be open minded.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:37 PM
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The only time a girl, or anybody, will give you shit for not having a girlfriend, is if she senses that you are sensitive about it. If you make it seem that is a personal decision because you are picky or have higher standards, then she'll be impressed. More so if you act like it's not a big deal; but in order for it to be genuine, you need to first believe that it's not a big deal. This is huge and something that is hard for someone who has never been in a relationship to understand (I know bec…
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:35 PM
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I disagree. Often times my attractiveness to a woman drops if I know it will be too easy. This isn't always the case, and not really true when I'm drunk. It depends on what the girl is looking for. If she is looking for a one night stand, then yes she has it pretty easy. Go to a place that has alcohol and literally just talk to some guys. If she wants to develop a meaningful relationship with a man, it isn't that simple.
/r/seduction11/08/12 04:54 PM
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This is great but it is still a good idea to try and calm her down first if you can. . This would have 2 possible outcomes (if the girl likes you that is): 1) She calms down knowing she impressed you already and accepts. 2) She is still very nervous and feels like a fool/embarrassed/shy and turns down the offer even though she wants to go out with you. Although I agree with you in the sense that OP definitely shouldn't have contemplated bailing all together at this point.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:04 PM
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I agree with you, however I think there is a little more to it than that. I don't know you personally, but I have a feeling your are a pretty happy/content person with where your life is right now. That allows you a level of confidence that also makes it hard to relate to someone who lacks that confidence or happiness. In the past year and a half I have under gone a huge transformation in my mental attitude and my overall happiness in life. This isn't because of seduction...other things happened…
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:57 AM
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You don't get good at jiujitsu by wearing a cool gi and hanging out at great gyms and watching great fighters, etc. It helps, but first you need to be putting in the work before you really concern yourself with that stuff. I'm a purple belt so I loved your comparison, however it also goes the other way. To truly get the most out of bjj you need to eat right, sleep well, add conditioning, develop a confident attitude and humble mindset. In other words comparing it to your analogy, actually traini…
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:17 AM
1

Asian is such a broad term. If it is very clear that you are foreigner and speak English, then you will see more success. However, I doubt you will have it as easy as a white guy. Still, it can still help your game, if you have to work a little harder than the white foreigners but still not as hard as in the states then you would probably benefit more upon returning to the states than the white guys who did no work in SE Asia.
/r/seduction08/08/12 09:12 PM
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There is a key concept you seem to be glossing over in all your posts. By being a white foreigner your perceived value is extremely high. You don't even have to go out of your way to demonstrate your value. It is already there. These old guys don't necessarily have game. In fact what you are describing is they are merely sugar daddies. Old fat sugar daddies in the U.S. get hot tail too. The sexual culture is definitely very different in other parts of the world, but don't tell me that all the po…
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:43 PM
1

I understand many of you guys are not in the position to travel abroad. For those of you who are Latin America is a great place to go to get comfortable with learning kino and escalating kino. Latin Americans are much more open in physical interactions with strangers and friends. Since they will be naturally touching you, you learn to touch back and to turn those innocent touches into sexually charged touches.
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:37 PM
4

Unfortunately, like all self-improvement outside encouragement usually doesn't go all that far. You can maybe get the ball rolling, but they have to have a deep intrinsic desire to improve. They can't do it for someone else, they have to do it for themselves.
/r/seduction08/08/12 03:53 AM
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This certainly wasn't "amazing" or really that unexpected, but I felt good of how smooth it went. 2 weekends ago I was at a party. I had met these two girls the night before, my buddy knew them and was trying to get with the one and needed a wing for her hot friend. I didn't remember either of their names because I was pretty drunk both nights. The girl my buddy was going for told me her name because I told her I forgot. I whispered for her to tell me her friend's name. The hot friend I was wing…
/r/seduction03/08/12 02:01 AM
1

Yeah, it has taught me how to better identify what the girl is looking for. Whether that be a one night stand, a hook up buddy, or a relationship.
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:10 PM
2

Well, yeah of course... But by applying attraction principles (TBH I don't study techniques or anything like that anymore, just use it for motivation and occasional tips) I am able to have really great times and introduce new people into my group or join other groups.
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:14 PM
0

This question is faaaar too common on seddit. I'm an attractive guy physically. Guess what, before I fixed my inner game and started studying seddit, I didn't get laid! I fucked up some opportunities where hot girls basically threw themselves at me and I still fucked it up, and then the attraction was killed. Looks help you if you have game. They do very little for you if you don't have game. You can do things to make yourself more attractive: work out, dress well, be hygienic, and do something …
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:06 PM
3

I've found a large majority of seddit users are looking for an SO, not simply to get laid. Personally, I'm not really searching for anything in particular right now. I want to keep getting laid. However, if I find a genuine, interesting, and caring individual to make my girlfriend I can still do that by using seddit.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:45 PM
4

The number one best relationship you are going to have is a new more positive relationship with yourself. Relationships with other people (man and female) are what help make life great, but if you don't love yourself at a deep level, your life will ultimately be missing something.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:43 PM
4

You can literally see other guy's jealousy when you simply approach a woman, let alone get a number. They may give you shit, but 99% of the time it is coming from a place of insecurity.
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:06 PM
4

If you don't know already, you don't deserve to.
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:14 PM
2

Dig deeper into MFA, especially the WYWT sections to see more stuff away from the uniform and circle jerk. However, for guys with no sense of style (the typical poster asking questions) they stick to the uniform and basics. Personally, I had a pretty good sense of style before I found MFA. It has only helped me. I do have plenty of "uniform" pieces but also plenty of stuff that isn't too conservative. I do tend to get the most attention from girls when wearing nice shoes and a shirt with a loude…
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:07 PM
10

It is easily $8-12k for the big state schools now.
/r/seduction14/07/12 10:24 PM
4

I did that thing I read on here where you tug on the back of her scalp and kiss her neck, which she reeeally seemed to dig. I made a post about how to make out a few months ago and this was my main "tip" and the real reason for the post. I noticed some women commenting on there saying, they would hate for someone to do this to them. In literally 100% of the time I have done this move, the girl loved it. They almost always let out a little gasp/sexual moan. Obviously, don't pull this move before …
/r/seduction14/07/12 10:23 PM
1

Yeah I only ever say them once we are back on my/her couch making out. Often times I won't say anything and just look her in the eyes and smile, before going back to making out.
/r/seduction14/07/12 04:18 PM
8

Small genuine compliments, such as your eyes are so beautiful, you are gorgeous. I say these little things like this during the pauses between make outs. Its simple just make them genuine, when I'm with a girl usually those are the thoughts that are going through my head so I just verbalize them.
/r/seduction14/07/12 04:06 AM
1

I befriended a gay guy at a party on New Years. I then banged his hot best girl friend that night. He did the mother hen/protective thing and asked her is she was ok when we were walking back to a car to fuck in. She said she was fine and because I had befriended him earlier in the night he didn't give any resistance or cock block at all.
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:41 AM
1

Honestly I don't really have any specific advice for getting them to go the first time, but I can tell you that once you do get them to go out/do something once or twice it will be much easier to get them to go out in the future.
/r/seduction10/07/12 01:40 AM
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I just cut off their leg and count the rings in their femur.
/r/seduction08/07/12 09:46 PM
4

First off one year ago I sucked. I still wouldn't consider myself a good dancer, I'm just better than most of the other guys out there who I'm "competing" with when at a club/bar. I have gotten pretty many compliments on my dancing though from girls. The real key is having fun (I know that sounds lame, but it is true), being confident and extroverted while on the dance floor, and engaging your partner. I learned salsa by befriending some girls in a Latin American politics class. The Mexican girl…
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:06 AM
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I also dance hip hop and salsa. This happened to me last week, and isn't really that uncommon. There were a group of three girls standing near the side. One latina looking girl, a white girl and a black girl. The black girl was texting. I approached and asked the latina to dance, she did. We were dancing near her friends and she kept looking at her two friends and would not look me in the eye. She clearly was having fun but was also feeling guilty about her friends just standing on the side. Aft…
/r/seduction07/07/12 11:33 PM
7

If she does a one and done bitch slap, then you shouldn't hit her back. If she is trying repeatedly to attack you, biting, kicking, punching, ripping clothes/hair then you have the right to hit her to make her stop.
/r/seduction01/07/12 05:57 PM
4

You can get a decent bike for about 3 grand. It is also relatively easy to buy well taken care of used bikes. Many bikers tend to collect bikes and treat them well, they also tend to get rid of them without having abused them much to make room for a new bike. Gas is stupid cheap for motorcycles. The tank gets way more mpg than a car, and it can only hold a few gallons so you don't spend much at the pump. You have some one time investments that can add up like a helmet, good jacket, good boots, a…
/r/seduction30/06/12 08:09 PM
2

Dancing is huge. I wrote a post about the benefits of dancing on here awhile ago. Seriously guys...it is huge. Yesterday I went to this bar that had a pretty big dance floor. Not only did I look good dancing, but I didn't look like a timid AFC like all the guys who were literally just standing around the dance floor watching drinks in hand. It is good to dance just so you don't look/act like those guys who are too scared to try.
/r/seduction30/06/12 07:16 PM
3

Just bought my first one about a month ago...why.did.I.wait.so.long.
/r/seduction30/06/12 07:10 PM
2

A little tip that may or may not help you. If you are alone in a room at your place with the girl there, just take your belt off. This is easiest if you are peeing in the bathroom or something. Just leave your belt in the bathroom. If you go into your bedroom alone quick to grab something then take it off there and leave it. No belt makes it easier for you or her to gain access to your penis as smoothly as possible.
/r/seduction27/06/12 07:16 PM
2

It really depends on the individual personalities (yours and theirs). One thing to remember is girls create so much drama in housing situations with other girls they don't know that well. I saw it happen sooo many times all throughout college, I saw good friendships destroyed and plain old psychotic behavior. A house of 12 people, 10 of whom are girls sounds like a breading ground for drama. Consider: There will be cliques in your house. Some groups may not only not get along but actually hate e…
/r/seduction26/06/12 02:26 PM
3

One of the most comforting things is to be comfortable in your own skin. Whether that is single or in a relationship. I know plenty of single guys (myself included) who are comfortable with themselves, and I know plenty of people in shitty relationships who are not comfortable with themselves. I know plenty of the opposite of both scenarios as well.
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:26 PM
1

He can even black out his eyes and make it hard to identify him if it he is concerned about it. That will still allow us to see his hair, facial hair, and clothing.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:01 PM
7

If you are both typically in a situation where a guy makes the first move, then it makes sense that neither of you is making a move. Be proactive and lean in and kiss her.
/r/seduction22/06/12 04:43 PM
1

kkkkk, de nada.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:10 AM
4

Porra punta! Eu vou comer a bunda de sua mãe.
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:00 AM
5

Desculpe amigo mas nao.. Eu sou Americano e Frances, mas eu morei no Salvador de Bahia por seis meses. Eu estava vivendo la quando eu fiz este nome.
/r/seduction20/06/12 11:29 PM
4

Yeah I came here to recommend that book as the best starting point for anyone. The whole post was great, but if you are really lost and don't know where to turn start with that book. Read it once...then read it again.
/r/seduction20/06/12 10:45 PM
1

Im a positive upbeat guy who enjoys meeting new people because they are interesting, I don't like to judge. With that said, I'm going to pass a sweeping judgement about many girls when they are at a bar. Most of them who actively ask for you to buy them a drink are in it only for the drink, you have to pay them for their time. I won't do that. There are plenty of interesting people (guys and girls) out at any venue who you can have an interesting convo with without paying for their company.
/r/seduction19/06/12 09:57 PM
0

I am by no means an advanced practitioner of meditation, nor do I have ADD/ADHD. However, there are lots of resources online concerning meditation as a way to help ADD/ADHD. One of the techniques they seem to advocate is to start with small meditative time frames and work your way up. Start at just 5 minutes and gradually add time until you are able to do a full 15-20 minute meditation. Personally, since I don't suffer from ADD/ADHD I'm not sure what it is like. If you were to sit down for 5 min…
/r/seduction19/06/12 05:38 PM
1

The glans grip
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:58 PM
7

The point is to not really focus and just be. However this is extremely difficult for many people so they often focus on breathing or counting their breaths internally. Look up some meditation videos on youtube if you want to get started.
/r/seduction19/06/12 04:55 PM
5

What is to be confused about? She wants to fuck you. You think she is "stupid hot" so I'm assuming you want to fuck her too. If you don't fuck her, then you definitely won't get a chance to turn this into a summer fling. Don't wait longer or she is going to move onto someone who has the balls to make a move.
/r/seduction19/06/12 03:30 PM
7

If that is an issue you can easily change it to..."someone" rather than "lady". If she still gets offended than she has self-esteem issues beyond your control.
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:52 PM
2

What do you offer to the group? Are you the funny one, the dependable one, the story teller, the smart one? Ideally you should be many things that add value to the group. For all you know they may feel inadequate around you. Superficial physical attractiveness is certainly not the end all be all of group dynamics.
/r/seduction16/06/12 07:31 PM
1

This is very important. Naturally, their charm will rub off on you. Also as bareblar02 said, if they are good with women then they probably won't fuck your chances up like some of your friends who are not. A word of warning though, if you start to get as good or better than them at seducing women then they will pick up on it and may even purposefully try to sabotage you to either 1)make themselves look better or 2)save their ego. People who do that aren't true friends.
/r/seduction16/06/12 07:29 PM
2

Just look for the "puppy dog eyes" and move in closer. If she doesn't move away or she actually moves in closer too than you are golden. Really though, it sounds like you need to just go for it.
/r/seduction15/06/12 06:18 PM
3

Something I want to stress to all your junior college students or high schoolers transferring to a University in the fall. The first two weeks of fall semester is the most important time to join social groups...especially for you freshman, and especially for anyone under 21. It is definitely not impossible to make friends after this time period, but it is within the first couple weeks that people create and build their social groups. After that it is harder to join a pre-existing social group. I…
/r/seduction15/06/12 04:49 AM
5

The benefit of this situation seems to me to be that he is a casual acquaintance of both of you. Neither of you loses out on a solid friend if he declines and gets awkward. However, at the same time this also makes it less likely to get him into a situation where this would occur. As a casual acquaintance have you guys ever hung out with him just the two of you?
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:55 AM
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I've never been in this situation, so take this with a grain of salt. First, I think the best option would be to approach him together with your gf. Invite him over and play a drinking game. Try to bring up the subject from there, feel him out and see if he would be open to it. There are basically 4 real reactions that he is going to give you: 1) Totally lets do this! 2) He will agree, but then back down at the last minute. He then may or may not become awkward towards you guys after this. This …
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:34 AM
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I enjoy classical music a lot. However, my main passion is choking people unconscious and trying to break their joints. I don't think of listening to classical music as a feminine activity at all. If the story was genuinely interesting and the dancers were doing some truly impressive physical feats I would go see a ballet. I know your point is: don't let her pick the activities especially if they are not something you would enjoy doing/seeing. However, I (and plenty of other guys on here) am com…
/r/seduction13/06/12 08:11 PM
4

Good luck with the whole situation. However I want to chime in on one thing. If you have consciously acknowledged the negative way your parent's relationship affected you, then it isn't going to cripple you for the rest of your life. I'm not saying it didn't affect you and didn't affect the past situation with your gf, however, because you know what it did to you, you are in a position to grow from it and break the cycle. Everyone makes mistakes, and no one has an absolutely perfect childhood. D…
/r/seduction13/06/12 01:06 AM
8

I think what he meant (I know because I have been guilty of doing this) is using the excuse "I'm just here to have fun" as an excuse to not open girls. Even though you know you would still be having fun if you were opening sets and talking to the girls there, but you put up a mental block of, "I didn't come here to game tonight". In reality you should just game naturally and not really have to force it or go out only to try and talk to girls. You can have fun while talking to them you can have f…
/r/seduction08/06/12 06:55 PM
1

Bucks as well.
/r/seduction06/06/12 03:06 PM
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After he showed initiative and opened her. Then he picked the sexual game of truth or dare, lots of guys would have been like..."idk we can watch tv for 30 minutes," and then just sat there paralyzed.
/r/seduction03/06/12 06:28 PM
2

No way the kid in question will have the balls/confidence to pull that off.
/r/seduction02/06/12 12:31 AM
4

Take advantage of this summer. Honestly, at that age it is going to be hard to change your peers perception of you overnight. This is true in life in general, but when you are older you have many more options to expand into different social groups, plus people are more mature in general (however there are still plenty of immature people). However, hope is not lost. Summer is about to be here! I have some advice: Hit the gym hard this summer. Take advantage of puberty and get in good shape. You w…
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:34 AM
2

Yeah you're right, I've only ever seen bits and pieces of that movie.
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:04 AM
20

When I lost my virginity it was great. We had awesome sex, I was dominant and in control even though she made the first overt sexual move (she took her shirt off). First round lasted like 30 minutes and I came in her mouth, then we had sex like ten minutes later (although I didn't cum). Again the next morning. Before this, I passed up some obvious opportunities and was in a similar position to you (didn't lose it until I was 21), in that I was afraid of people knowing I was/had been a virgin. Re…
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:24 AM
3

That is stupid...sex gets better the better you know the person. Sure variety, in terms of numbers of girls, is a great ego boost. However, if you really want good sex, you are probably going to have to sleep with the same girl multiple times.
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:18 AM
1

These are terrible pictures for actually seeing your style. I can't really tell the fit from the pics and I can't see what you are wearing in terms of pants or shoes. Try some full body pics if you can.
/r/seduction30/05/12 10:45 PM
3

Sorry bud, but those look terrible.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:19 PM
2

I think he was using it as a layering example...however I don't think it looks good either way he was using it as.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:13 PM
6

I get hit on by gay guys a decent amount. I tend to tell the stories about when they do...girls seem to love these stories. I think a big part of it is showing that you are not insecure with who you are. You have confidence in being able to brush of an advance from a gay guy and you have the confidence to tell a girl you are interested about it. Another thing I'm thinking is it has to do with the following: if other girls have already screened you as attractive/desirable then other girls are mor…
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:20 AM
1

Very friendly towards me. I got my purple belt there after winning two tournaments at blue belt. A lot more black belts, many gyms nearby since I was in a big city. Training wasn't really different. However, I wasn't in Rio, which is the real BJJ hub city.
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:09 PM
2

"I thought we were talking about shit that didn't matter."
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:58 PM
1

Any language is easier to learn when you are immersed in the culture. However, it depends on many factors. If you go to Brazil and only hang out with English speakers you aren't going to learn a whole lot. If you only hang out with Brazilians you are going to learn a lot, but be very lost at first. Most people there is a happy medium, some Brazilians and some English speakers. This way you still have the comfort of speaking your own language while still experiencing the culture and learning a ne…
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:19 PM
3

I'm going to make a sweeping generalization that many people here will disagree with....but most younger girls at bars (21-25) don't like whiskey much, however, they do love JD Honey and Wild Turkey American Honey. I say it is a good choice for your flask. Also it doesn't need to be chilled, butt temp. sounds good actually.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:42 PM
1

flab ?? It depends on the place, many places will charge less to train only one thing like bjj. However if you are planning on training everything, then 99 is a good price. If you are living in a big city like NYC or LA you are going to be paying a lot more than that.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:34 PM
1

I'm from Pennsylvania. I'm half french half American, with blonde hair, blue eyes and pale skin. I went to Salvador de Bahia, Brazil in the North East of the country. It is a beach city, but it is also the Afro-Brazilian capital of the country. If you didn't know, Brazil received the most slaves during the trans-Atlantic slave trade, so most people in that city were much darker than me. This was bad for me for safety reasons,but great for me for reasons with the opposite sex--->I was exotic and …
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:32 PM
9

Although I agree with you about that picture, she may simply be scowling because of paparazzi. She doesn't necessarily walk around the street in a bad mood all the time.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:53 PM
1

Thinking back on me in high school where I had no confidence around girls, it always feels great when I get a text like, "you're so assertive...I like it ;)" Good job, good luck on Friday!
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:50 PM
4

I'm not sure what your money situation is, or the cost of the gyms near you. If you send me a pm with your location I can maybe recommend a school. I would personally suggest BJJ as the first thing for anyone to learn, but I'm biased because of all my disciplines that's my favorite and what I'm best at. My gym charges $99 a month for everything so you can train how much/little as you want. It is one of the reasons I'm able to train everything.
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:11 AM
5

Haha about north-south position...in Brazil they call it 69, no lie.
/r/seduction24/05/12 01:58 AM
10

Yeah...you have a shitty attitude. Good luck making friends with it.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:43 PM
8

That might be why you are here. Expand and get more guy friends who don't sit at home all day and play video games or who don't constantly work all the time and have no social life. If you join a club or activity (like bjj) then you will meet some people who do have plenty of girlfriends/friends and can introduce you to them. I think you are here because you don't have the right attitude. In pickup you can never have too many friends/connections.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:25 PM
3

I copy pasted...he ninja edited.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:23 PM
9

I can't really tell if you are being sarcastic...but the more people in general you know, even guys, will introduce you to more people and invite you to more outings/social gatherings which will give you an opportunity to meet more people, including girls.
/r/seduction23/05/12 09:18 PM
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BJJ purple belt here, who also cross trains muay thai, boxing, wrestling, and mma. This man is speaking the truth. I have advocated bjj training to multiple people here on seddit. BJJ is not the only reason, but it is a big reason for my confidence in all my daily interactions. Here are other ways it helps with seddit specific goals: the reason I'm in sick shape (read: look good) is because of my training I'm very passionate about BJJ, girls love guys who have passions and dreams in life I compe…
/r/seduction23/05/12 07:09 PM
2

That's what I was guessing but the above quote doesn't even make sense. It should be, "It's cool, at least I don't wear half my dinner on my sleeve." Get rid of "have" and add "on".
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:57 PM
13

It's cool, at least I don't wear have half my dinner my sleeve. Wut
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:58 PM
2

...interesting side note. I once made out with a girl who wasn't very hot because she had the best breath. She must have just chewed like a pack of cinnamon gum. To this day it was the most enjoyable (taste wise) make out session ever.
/r/seduction23/05/12 02:45 PM
1

I had a girl who was seeing one of my good friends about 2.5 years ago. He had just gotten out of a relationship the day he met her (and was still in love with the other girl). She is very immature and very annoying...I was not trying to attract her, but she did end up being attracted to me. One day she actually told me, "I want to fuck you" while in the room with my friend who was sort of seeing her at the time (they had not slept together yet). She didn't think he could hear, but he did. She p…
/r/seduction23/05/12 02:43 PM
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He didn't see it as a character flaw...he saw it as a potentially dangerous situation in which he could contract HIV or another disease. He doesn't know if she was sharing needles with diseased people, he chose to play it safe.
/r/seduction23/05/12 02:35 PM
1

I'm less aggressive than before I started training. First of all, I'm 22 now and I was just about to turn 18 when I started training so teenage hormones sure didn't help. Second, I have nothing to prove to myself anymore. Third, why risk injuring myself on the street? If I do that I have to take time off from training, which isn't fun.
/r/seduction19/05/12 02:55 AM
14

I think his point was that she is a high maintenance type who gets hit on a lot by guys. He didn't act like most other guys and instead made her work for him and didn't give in to her advances straight away. In the end he was able to have sex with her because he attracted her by not doing the typical AFC white knight thing.
/r/seduction18/05/12 11:31 PM
2

I definitely agree with your "less is more" is a good idea. Personally, I don't find the r/bjj "busy" because it blends together well. The use of textures is a mix of very subtle (the background) and pretty loud (the wood floor paneling sidebar). I'm also biased because the wood floor panels and the black belt at the top both resonate with bjj/martial arts practitioners. If you guys went overboard with the aesthetics of seddit then I would not like the change. Remember though, you guys are the m…
/r/seduction18/05/12 11:17 PM
1

Yeah I've been training for over 4 years now. I'm a purple belt and I compete a lot. It is cool when I bring a girl over, she sees all my medals on the wall and is impressed. You get in really good shape doing it, especially if you compliment your training with other exercises. It gives you confidence, that is probably the most important aspect related to "game". I know how to handle myself in situations and really don't get intimidated by other men. Also, girls love guys who are passionate abou…
/r/seduction18/05/12 11:12 PM
3

Personally before I even started reading the first thing that came to my mind was some aesthetic changes. Not garish but not necessarily super subtle either. Red is the color of passion, maybe incorporate it somehow. Dark grey is classy and stylish and goes well with different shades of red. I'm certainly no dev. or web designer but I think some aesthetic changes would benefit the subreddit. One of my favorite subreddits is r/bjj (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, nothing to do with seduction btw). A little …
/r/seduction18/05/12 09:46 PM
2

Yes and no. Although inherently women all across the world are biologically the same and ultimately their attraction is triggered by universal concepts/actions, cultural differences play a large role as well. Cultural diversity, especially in regards to male-female interaction, is less pronounced if you (I'm assuming you are from the U.S.) go to a Western European culture, since the U.S. culture was influenced heavily by Western Europe. However, sometimes cultural differences can be the differen…
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:49 AM
1

I though he was kidding, no one is that dense right...right?
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:00 AM
1

Haha he has no idea I'm into this.
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:30 AM
1

He gives me free drinks and it is always a good thing to know the staff (anywhere) for many reasons including DHV. I help him with his bjj/mma training outside of the gym, that is how I know him.
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:06 AM
1

Hit up g man and tell teague ( the owner) Than says what's up.
/r/seduction16/05/12 02:44 AM
1

Longest I went was 21 days. It definitely got easier after the first few days, but then got really hard depending on outside stimulus. I wouldn't say it just turned into "cake" after the first few days.
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:05 PM
1

I just graduated from Penn State, Keep gaming and your senior year will be the best one yet! I have a question. Are you still up in State College doing a summer session, or are you back home?
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:03 PM
2

I'm not saying it is never a good idea...just be careful. I wouldn't necessarily wait for your coworker to leave if you think there is legit chemistry.
/r/seduction14/05/12 05:29 PM
4

This is a situation where you will be seeing her regularly (hopefully) at the gym. Most PUA's don't advocate going as direct or strong in the beginning. Use the time you have together to build rapport and attraction, it doesn't have to be all or nothing in the beginning. Caution: be wary of shitting where you eat.
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:40 PM
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Guys are just tend to be the leaders in most relationships. Think of having a gay guy like you as having an unattractive girl like you. Only difference is he may need a firmer more straight forward answer. With a girl you don't like you can usually sort of shrug off her advances and they stop pretty quickly. For a gay guy you may need to actually tell him, you are straight and not interested. I dress pretty well walk with confidence and am always very polite and friendly to people. The result ha…
/r/seduction14/05/12 04:36 PM
2

Philly burbs here, there are probably a decent amount of us here if you count the suburbs.
/r/seduction12/05/12 07:20 PM
13

I like to hit a nice flying armbar on the dance floor...bitches love flying armbars.
/r/seduction12/05/12 05:39 AM
1

Haha I really didn't mean for it to be a brag/condescending post. The point of it was, people shouldn't go around telling everyone that their first time is guaranteed to be awful. The problem with statements like that is 1)it may be great 2) Even if it is awful now they feel even more self conscience about doing it which may then make them even less likely to pull the trigger when they have the chance...especially if they really like girl. The latter case is what I didn't want to happen to OP.
/r/seduction12/05/12 05:31 AM
2

It is weird, my first two years of college I didn't have good game and fucked up some real good opportunities. I didn't expand enough into other social circles. The last 2 years were a blast though. I want to mention one thing to people...don't get hung up on what you "missed out on". If you hadn't "missed out" you probably wouldn't be so serious about improving yourself and actually becoming a PUA. I'm sure TofuTofu can attest to that mentality. Also, guys in high school and guys outside of col…
/r/seduction12/05/12 12:25 AM
1

Incorrect, I had sex for over 30 minutes my first time. She definitely enjoyed it and so did I. I borrowed a lot from porn and made good use of it...it wasn't her first time however. Right afterwards we did it again within 10 minutes, but I didn't come that time. Important note: I was pretty drunk, but not too drunk that I don't remember everything. It definitely helps you last longer and releases any inhibitions you may have.
/r/seduction11/05/12 09:17 PM
2

People would definitely go out in large numbers on Fridays as well...I think it was more by the time Thursday rolled around people were tired of waiting from Saturday night. So bars have great specials, Frats/Sororities have big socials, and other people throw parties too. Friday is sometimes smaller because a lot of people are "recovering" for Saturday.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:00 PM
3

If you don't have a girlfriend yet then why are you hung up about what a hypothetical future son may or may not think of you? That isn't healthy thinking. First of all, don't be so damn hard on your dad. Think about some of the great things he did for you growing up, the cool shit you did together, even if it was few and far between. Think about the times he cared for you when you were sick or feeling lousy. Maybe he isn't the macho dad you wish you had, but you know what? The grass is always gr…
/r/seduction10/05/12 08:46 PM
3

Thursdays are one of the biggest party days once you get to college. Oftentimes Thursdays were bigger than Fridays (and I went to a huge party school).
/r/seduction10/05/12 08:33 PM
3

Yeah I often get complimented on my outfits/clothes when I go out. Thing is I'm just wearing what I always wear, I don't necessarily get "dressed up" to go out. Personally, male fashion is something I enjoy. It is a fun "hobby" to have that helps make a good impression in society and makes you feel good about yourself knowing you look approachable and attractive. Looking good/neat/well-dressed is extremely important when making an impression on another guy. Maybe you want to date his friend/sist…
/r/seduction10/05/12 08:31 PM
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God I hope this really happened. Props to you man if it did, and even if it didn't, hell it is an awesome story.
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:18 AM
1

I understand you are on a budget, but these are pretty ugly boots. Not horrible in the sense that they don't stick out as bad compared to what most other people wear. Here are some good mid level boots. They are also what I am currently wearing.
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:12 AM
12

I think a lot of guys also tend to forget about age differences. 18 year old girls tend to act a lot differently than 24 year old girls who tend to act differently from 29 year old girls. Many times people ask questions, like the one TofuTofu just answered, with only one age group in mind.
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:36 PM
21

Tip to people when you see a couple making out in a public spot: Don't start yelling shit at them. I have never cared when people do this, but often times the girl gets really embarrassed and you have to move somewhere else. This is not a problem in itself, however, I have a feeling that many inexperienced guys will have second thoughts and or take it as the girl rejecting him, or they may simply lack the courage to start making out again in the new spot. I remember when I was making out with th…
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:33 PM
2

Start flirting with more Brazilian girls, they kino heavily. You will naturally reciprocate...plus ya know Brazilian girls ;-)
/r/seduction07/05/12 08:17 PM
2

I lived in brazil for six months studying abroad (not in rio though). The biggest thing that brazil taught me (seddit wise) was becoming very comfortable with kino. It's an integral part of their culture, which makes it very easy to practice. This is true for many Europeans, whom you seem to be hanging out with a lot, but not to the same extent as brazilians. However, not saying you don't do this, make sure you are really embracing brazilians and their culture while you are there. Step out of yo…
/r/seduction07/05/12 05:39 PM
4

This can work sometimes, but many times a shy girl will actually be overwhelmed and won't know what to do in this situation. She may want to talk to you and like your approach but your forwardness/boldness can be too much for her to react to. A good idea if you are very forward/bold like this to a shy girl and she doesn't really say anything but doesn't give you negative body language immediately move into an observation..."what book are you reading", "what coffee are you drinking", "can you bel…
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:30 PM
4

Two of the biggest things I look for in my friends are loyalty and empathy. If they don't possess those, then they can't truly be a good friend. I still have friends and acquaintances who don't portray these two characteristics. However, they are not my true friends who I would defend no matter what, and they are not the friends who would defend me no mater what. I tend to avoid gaming with them around because they often pull that AMOG shit based on their own insecurities/inability to accept my …
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:40 AM
2

If you do it smooth and naturally you shouldn't have a problem.
/r/seduction03/05/12 01:35 AM
7

I called a girl a "rude bitch" this weekend at a party. I didn't say it to her face but instead said it to my friends who were standing right next to her. I wasn't trying to be an asshole, I was very friendly with people and hadn't even approached her, she came up to me. She was being rude, since I used the adjective "rude" rather than just the noun "bitch" I think she did feel bad/embarrassed for her behavior. She came up to me later and approached me, "I'm sure you hate me but...blah blah blah…
/r/seduction30/04/12 11:29 PM
3

First thing I can say is check out the language clubs. You will probably have more luck at the Spanish speaking ones because many Asian groups tend to be very insular and only hang out with other Asians.
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:48 PM
21

I'm graduating in a week. I love my life do decently well with girls, although I'm definitely not at the level that I want to be. Here is what I personally would have done differently if I was going back to school in regards to getting girls. I was totally against the idea when I started college and didn't even attempt it, but seriously consider joining a fraternity. You will have so many social options when it comes to girls. There are always tons of sorority sisters as well as other girls, usu…
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:26 AM
3

Pipes don't make the user smell as strongly afterwards like cigars do.
/r/seduction30/04/12 03:45 AM
2

I get hit on by gay guys a lot. However, I got laid before (or at least it was easier) because I had already qualified myself to the girl's gay best friend. He gave her his blessing when I was going to bang her, we were at a party.
/r/seduction24/04/12 03:20 AM
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Funny story from a couple weekends ago. Well I was absolutely shit faced drunk, which isn't good for picking up chicks. I had been on a bar tour all day (I'm in college, it is when you start day drinking and go from bar to bar to bar until you can't take it anymore or the bars close) and it was finally midnight. I was being very social and hitting on lots of girls. At point point I opened a table of three girls with three moms. The one mom was standing up and I even had my arm around her and on …
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:38 PM
8

Its crazy how so much stuff is like tearing a band-aid off. You exaggerate the pain in your mind before you do it, hesitate and hesitate, then you go to rip it. When it is only halfway off you are already thinking, man this isn't a big deal at all. Afterwards you chuckle to yourself for even hesitating before taking the action. It is the same anytime you feel you are going to be judged by others, whether that is a sports competition, public speaking, or approaching someone of the opposite sex. F…
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:10 PM
2

You are right about the shoulders...what I was saying, but didn't mention, is the movement I described it just to align them. After you pull them up back and down you relax them, you aren't flexing or holding them there forcefully.
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:19 PM
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No I haven't read that book specifically...I'll check it out though. As a rule I never cross my arms when approaching, and I hold my beer down at my side. Occasionally this means someone will knock it out of my hand at like a party or something, but it makes me look more approachable. However, I never thought about items on the table, thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:17 PM
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It probably seems like a no brainer to you, but you didn't really mention what to do with your head/shoulders. Keep your head tall and erect with your chin almost parallel with the ground, but angled slightly upward. Don't exaggerate this upward chin or you will appear condescending and stand-offish...people will be less likely to approach. Keep your shoulders from slouching, you can draw your shoulders up backwards then down to achieve the right look. Besides being good posture it will push you…
/r/seduction14/04/12 11:01 PM
2

I have two close Peruvian friends (they are brother and sister)...I am a better salsa dancer than them now. As your girlfriend she is going to be more likely to laugh/make fun of you when you mess up, but she will also be more patient and invested in your salsa learning...after all she will be benefiting by having a good dance partner.
/r/seduction11/04/12 06:01 PM
1

Ideally the shifting of weight between your feet should create the hip movements, you actually DON'T want to force the hip movement via your pelvis...it looks tacky.
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:49 PM
1

I do bachata as well now, if you can salsa you can pick up bachata with out going to formal lessons.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:26 PM
1

It really depends on just how much of an impression you made on her. There are plenty of girls who would flake if more than a day goes by. Then there are ones that would still be down to hang out after a month goes by, probably not too common but I'm sure it happens.
/r/seduction04/04/12 02:00 AM
4

He isn't saying just go up to a girl and put your arm around him (although that can happen, and it can work). He has already built rapport with the girl, hence the number exchange.
/r/seduction02/04/12 04:44 AM
2

What? In no way could it be, you are severely misunderstanding it.
/r/seduction01/04/12 07:33 PM
2

Girls like guys who are assertive, masculine, and can command a situation. This move conveys all of this.
/r/seduction31/03/12 06:13 PM
2

Definitely true, my post wasn't supposed to be the end all be all of making out, just a few tips to help guys in need.
/r/seduction31/03/12 12:18 AM
3

I consider it a big part of making out, but not the entire part. Focus on her neck, and do the full lip "tease" kisses I talked about. Personally, I've never made out with someone who didn't put their tongue in my mouth at some point.
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:46 PM
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This is important. Also be playful with your kissing. Don't be too predictable, make it interesting. Making out is fun, but if you do the exact same kiss minute after minute and don't move your hands it will become dull for both of you.
/r/seduction30/03/12 02:48 PM
2

If you are holding in the right place, with multiple fingers it won't cause her any pain.
/r/seduction30/03/12 02:46 PM
4

Good luck!
/r/seduction30/03/12 02:45 PM
7

Abrupt tug is a good way of putting it. The point however, is that it shouldn't be a slow pull, but an actual jerky movement. I didn't want to say jerky movement because that doesn't have the right connotation.
/r/seduction30/03/12 04:34 AM
10

Its hard to describe through text. Basically what I meant is grab at the base of her hair, in case someone with little experience thought to grab them at the end of their hair. Pull your hand down, since you are grabbing the back of her head this will move the back of her head down and her face up. Thus exposing her neck.
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:55 AM
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The last one is the whole point of the post. Try it sometime. As long as you have some tact and a basic understand of the mood the interaction is going it will turn her on.
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:40 AM
5

Haha I literally said the opposite of what I meant.
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:18 AM
2

Girls are much less visual than guys, glasses or no glasses will practically never be a deal breaker for a guy. However, I am especially fond of the new big hipster glasses on girls.
/r/seduction30/03/12 03:14 AM
3

I'm a bit confused by your question. Do you just wear the same general look all the time, or are you literally wearing the same clothes. As in you have like 5 plain light-colored T-shirt and always wear it with the cream or brown trousers? One of the things about fashion is it should be fun. The more you learn the better you get and the easier it is. If you focus on getting a versatile piece of clothing every few months, in just a couple years you have a full wardrobe in which you can make a who…
/r/seduction25/03/12 05:37 PM
10

Yeah but if he doesn't feel ready he shouldn't go. Maybe in time, but based on what he wrote it is still too soon.
/r/seduction14/03/12 06:13 PM
5

Haha at "d-bagged out". Although it may seem like I was, I have given this girl plenty of very nice rejections over the semesters. I stayed friendly and she took that as a sign that I could be "won" over despite multiple rejections. Then she pulls this stunt when I'm just trying to relax and have fun with friend.
/r/seduction12/03/12 02:04 AM
2

Awesome job man. Really the best part about coming to terms with who you are is the fact that your confidence grows every year. You continue to become more and more confident in who you are and your life becomes better as a result. Girls definitely notice it to, but simply being more confident and happy is amazing in itself. Oddly enough, I was always one of the "cool" kids growing up, but part of that, in certain groups, was because I was the clown/monkey. I didn't have confidence with girls an…
/r/seduction11/03/12 11:40 PM
7

You can get kicked out of the halls for stupid random shit, like getting caught being too drunk. That doesn't make him a bad person. He explained the friend thing. Basically he no longer fit into his role as the doormat and they stopped liking him. At that age it is also hard for a group to survive if one person changes or is ostracized. Even his best friend was under pressure to fit into the group and stopped talking to him. You don't know him and shouldn't be so quick to judge. He just poured …
/r/seduction11/03/12 11:34 PM
4

This reminds me of these two girls when I was at a bar a little over a month ago. I was on the dance floor. I see these two girls, one is an HB7 and she is friends with HB5, whom I know. HB5 has had literally a class with me every year at University (and I go to a huge university so this isn't common). I know she has definitely had a crush on me, but I'm simply not into her. I notice her and her friend hovering around. I'm not even thinking of opening HB7 because I know she is just trying to hel…
/r/seduction11/03/12 11:22 PM
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I assumed he is talking about college. If that is the case it is considered unethical by many but not a career ender, in fact it isn't even uncommon. If she has tenure she is totally golden.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:37 PM
2

It's almost never seen as creepy if you throw the lines "I'm new in town" which you said you are. Although you don't need to be new in town to meet friends, it should make it even easier to meet buddies to hang out with.
/r/seduction11/03/12 04:41 AM
2

You definitely posted some interesting stuff here. However, I think you need to just cater it to the individual's personality. Once you get a feel for her sense of humor it isn't that difficult to increase attraction, or get the "bubble of love" as you call it.
/r/seduction10/03/12 11:43 PM
3

I think one of the interesting things that comes with PUA is the ability to "become" a natural. I think the only reason you are struggling with this and asking these questions is because you still don't know enough about this girl's personality and your chemistry together to really say for sure if you want a relationship with her. When you get a better feel for her, it will seem more natural on how to progress. Be clear with your intentions and communicate more often than you would otherwise. If…
/r/seduction05/03/12 03:14 AM
0

I would say something like, "...sounds kinda kinky" then transition into another topic so you aren't stuck just making rugby small talk. Really though, don't worry about saying the perfect thing. Just focus on escalating and meeting her in person ASAP.
/r/seduction04/03/12 09:13 PM
9

Use arefx's idea. Just say you don't use face book often. If it is really bothering you to the point it is hurting your game, buy a cheap camera and bring it with you when you go out. Ask people to take pictures of you when you're having fun and with girls.
/r/seduction04/03/12 08:58 PM
14

Hey man I was in the same boat as you, except I waited a year longer. Finally, I just said "fuck it" went for it when in a foreign country with a girl who I had met that day through friends. I was gaming her all night and basically knew as long as I didn't fuck up we would have sex. When it finally did happen, it was great, but I also had the feeling the next day of, "why the fuck did I build that up so much in my mind?" It wasn't some life altering experience that changed who I am, basically be…
/r/seduction04/03/12 08:39 PM
2

PSU
/r/seduction04/03/12 05:26 PM
1

College parties are pretty hit or miss (btw I'm currently a senior at a huge university with a party school reputation). On one hand, if you are smooth and in state you can impress the girls pretty easily. If you manage to isolate one you have a good chance of getting at least some form of action. However, just as commonly the party will be a bunch of different cliques or small groups of people standing around. It is very hard to get other groups to warm up to you and especially hard to isolate …
/r/seduction03/03/12 10:22 PM
10

It's a fairly common nervous tick that many people have. That could mean yes it is an IOI, but it could also mean that you are making them nervous for other reasons. However, if you are a normal attractive person than it is probably the former.
/r/seduction27/02/12 11:58 PM
4

When guys are doing something very needy or pathetic, or AMOGing, I normally just ignore them. Sometimes I can't help but smile and chuckle to myself, but I don't call them out on it or belittle them for it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:55 PM
1

Sounds fun, good luck. Besides having obvious pick up potential it is just fun as hell to salsa dance, I'm learning a little bachata and merengue as well. I would suggest salsa as the go to dance type for anyone who is reading this. It is simple to learn the basics, but also has a ton of complicated awesome movements that make you look like the man if you put in the time (I haven't and am not good yet, but still I have tons of fun). Plus you as the guy you are supposed to lead, which automatical…
/r/seduction25/02/12 01:46 AM
2

I'm in the same boat as you, but it really just helps stuff I think. You make a good quick impression, learn their name, show that you can lead and then have fun with the next partner. If they are interested they will notice you having fun with the next person (DHV). I do salsa, and we have an open dance at the end, where we dance with anyone. Go back to those partners you met before the switches. If you are 21 (in America) look for bars that have dancing nights...this is actually my favorite pl…
/r/seduction24/02/12 01:56 AM
3

I'm currently 22 years old, and I like to cook. I'm a senior in college and soo many of my guy and girl friends do not know how to cook a decent meal. It just takes some practice to get the cooking sense. I was lucky in that my mom is French and a very good cook, she always cooked delicious home cooked meals while I was growing up. I learned to cook by watching her and emulating the dishes she cooked so well. Yes OP you are right cooking does have its benefits for being with women...but that is …
/r/seduction24/02/12 01:48 AM
4

13 days for me! I read the whole post and didn't even get an erection.
/r/seduction10/02/12 08:12 PM
3

Your fingers aren't safe either if the girl has the clap. Whatever you then go on to touch on your body with those fingers is in danger. I have seen pics of people with the clap in their eye, probably from touching it with their fingers. You are missing the point of his post. If you are uncomfortable eating a girl out then don't do it...however if you do eat her out you have a higher chance of having more passionate sex that you both enjoy. This leads to a higher chance of having sex again with …
/r/seduction10/02/12 08:11 PM
2

Not necessarily true. It is hard for guys to empathize where girls are coming from because we aren't girls. Imagine that every big jacked guy who outweighs you by at least 40+ pounds you saw walking around wanted to fuck you. Even if you showed no interest he still persisted and would grab you and otherwise try to force himself on you. Imagine if no one ever stood up for you or tried to protect you from these guys. That is a glimpse of what is like to be a girl.
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:17 PM
3

So eloquently stated.
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:12 PM
0

This is a big problem I have with wings. Unfortunately, many people look at you as the sum of the people you hang out with. If you are with multiple AFC then they can not only look bad themselves they can make the entire group, and therefore you look bad as well.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:37 AM
5

This is part of overall cleanliness, but don't keep your dirty dishes piled up in the sink, either put them right in the dishwasher or make sure you clean them before going out. It is one of the first thing anyone, girls included, notice about anyone's kitchen. Also since we are all interesting cool people, display the interesting cool stuff you have around your house. Trophies/awards, artifacts, artwork, instruments, and adorable childhood framed pictures. Finally, a very cheap but very good op…
/r/seduction25/01/12 06:45 PM
1

It feels good to know someone likes you, even if you don't feel the same way about them. Furthermore, girls can often have fickle friendships that involve a lot of backstabbing, when they are with a guy who likes him he is only ever nice to her. For this reason, she doesn't need to worry about the drama, I also don't think they are trying to be malicious when they friend zone you, although that could be a rare case as well.
/r/seduction24/01/12 02:36 AM
3

Facebook requests are so damn common and lack so much intimacy for the majority of people that they won't think twice about your intentions for adding them. Maybe a girl sedditor will have a different opinion, but that is how I feel about it.
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:14 PM
10

I'll just leave this here.
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:40 PM
1

I think a big problem many people new to the game have is with the concept of negging. Personally I don't even like the term. I follow what I call "playful teasing", which is exactly that. I may be making fun of the person or making a sarcastic comment but it is followed with smiles/laughter and it is obvious (unless the person completely lacks social skills or is mentally unbalanced/fragile) to them that is mere teasing. I often get called an "asshole" when doing this, but it is followed by lau…
/r/seduction19/01/12 05:49 AM
3

Its from 2007...
/r/seduction08/01/12 03:24 AM
8

Wherever you see girls...you can approach. It doesn't have to be at a specific place like a bar, or at a specific time like night. Look up day game stuff on here.
/r/seduction04/01/12 09:24 PM
18

Congratulations man. When I lost my virginity I was always hoping the girl wouldn't ask if I was or that I would suck, because I wasn't gonna lie about it. However, when it happened we were drunk and I took total charge and because I was drunk, plus using a condom for the first time, I was able to go for a long ass time. We had straight up porn style sex where I kept changing positions and ended up making her go down on her knees so I could bust in her mouth (couldn't bust with the condom). Then…
/r/seduction04/01/12 05:05 AM
1

Without knowing more about your situation besides what you posted in the post and comments, it seems to me that maybe you were over relying on "liquid courage" and just need to be more confident when talking/interacting with women and showing sexual intent.
/r/seduction02/01/12 01:10 AM
2

Get much better at overcoming LMR.
/r/seduction01/01/12 12:23 AM
4

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume that the type of girls who are saving their vaginas for marriage are also saving their anuses as well.
/r/seduction31/12/11 05:08 PM
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Its a set up interview where he already holds all the power can lead the interaction into ridiculous avenues like throwing her prized teddy bear and making her perform a skit with him. Again, technically these aren't impossible to do with a girl, but they are almost certainly not going to turn out like that so easily.
/r/seduction31/12/11 04:42 PM
2

I know you weren't implying that at all...I wanted to clear it up because many guys on here would have read it that way. I'm not trying to insult anyone, but many guys on here and in the seduction community are coming from places of low self confidence and low self esteem. They lack the confidence to approach women in most social situations and I didn't want some of them to interpret your post as, "all women who are friendly to me are simply being friendly and are not flirting." Sure many girls …
/r/seduction27/12/11 10:49 PM
3

Do you tell people "wow you're so funny" when they said some innocent stupid little comment that wasn't even funny within context? I don't know you personally and this may not be entirely fair, but if you do say that to people who don't do funny things then that seems to me as an awkward social skill. You don't have anything to say so you fall back on that. The mixed signal combined with many men having awkward social skills themselves is a recipe for unwanted flirting. Of course you can tell so…
/r/seduction27/12/11 06:44 PM
3

This is not good day game advice...
/r/seduction27/12/11 06:27 PM
2

He isn't talking about a "wow you're funny" in a sarcastic manner. You would be stupid to use the attracted to me line in that context. She is insulting you you need to pick a different (deprecating) response to her. However, if she is like "WOW, you're so funny" and giggles after you made a really easy/stupid joke then you can use the attracted to me line.
/r/seduction27/12/11 05:50 PM
3

BUT WHAT IF YOU HAVE A MAJOR LIFE DECISION TO PONDER!!??! On a serious note I stumbled across this the other day: r/nofap
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:30 AM
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No Pennslyvania, mais eu morei em Salvador de Bahia por seis meses (Janeiro-Julho 2011). Saudades do Brasil... Tambem...eu nao sei como adicionar acentos em Reddit?
/r/seduction13/12/11 02:24 AM
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kkkkk, mais eu não sou brasileiro...
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:55 PM
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For the record I'm white...as shit. Anyway, a black guy with no game doesn't get women...neither does a white guy with no game.
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:53 AM
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I know I should just downvote this comment...but I have to ask, are you being serious?
/r/seduction10/12/11 11:35 PM
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One thing that stuck out to me in your descriptions of yourself is you seem to carry yourself more confidently while dressed as the "bad boy". I'm not sure, but if that is the case that would have a huge effect on your attractiveness factor.
/r/seduction28/11/11 06:05 PM
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If you have a large number you haven't worn in awhile I would highly suggest you go take them to a tailor who can refit them to make them especially sharp. I think suits are awesome in every situation...but only if they fit well. Many guys I see with suits (probably most of them, but I don't live in a huge city) have poorly fitting suits and it destroys the entire look. If you are on a budget you can find nice dress shoes like MetaCheese linked to at thrift stores. Take them to a cobbler to touc…
/r/seduction27/11/11 05:15 PM
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Do you have logistics down? Do you have good avenues, prepared ahead of time, open to you to get the F?
/r/seduction19/11/11 07:12 PM
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Are you smiling? I almost never assume someone is angry if they smile...you may need to force it in some situations to give better first impressions. It becomes more natural the more you do it, think of something funny. Using it to your advantage? I don't think so, at least not in terms of female interaction. A good rule of thumb is to try your best to not scare girls. Girls want to know that you can protect them and still be caring, in that sense your size can help you.
/r/seduction18/11/11 12:28 AM
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Congrats man, I'm happy for you...I just want to make sure if this doesn't work out (she could be seeing someone, just not ready for dating etc.) don't let it discourage you. This is literally one girl at one store you go to. Keep approaching even if you don't get numbers you get experience talking to people.
/r/seduction17/11/11 08:52 PM
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Especially in regards to "shit-ass-sweat between her ass cheeks". Pure eloquence, so touching...
/r/seduction17/11/11 08:46 PM
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I think it is interesting how the reverse can happen as well. Sometimes you aren't really feeling a girl. You find her physically attractive and a nice person, but with no real chemistry. However, when you happen to have some more intimate time with her (maybe she is in your social circle and you happen to be hanging out with mutual friends, or maybe you just asked her out for the hell of it) you realize you do have a lot more in common than you originally thought. The chemistry builds. I think …
/r/seduction15/11/11 09:59 PM
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Since you offered her water, she saw it as you not trying to get her drunk and take advantage of her. At least that's how I saw it. By making sure she went back to get her water you were "protecting" her.
/r/seduction12/11/11 01:41 PM
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I guess I should have stated I don't hold the air in, but with naturally large breaths you feel your lungs inflate. However, I don't keep them inflated...I'll read the article you posted.
/r/seduction08/11/11 02:22 PM
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I breath in through my nose and out through my mouth, I train jiu jitsu and it is an essential part to having success with sparring. I do it during my real life and I notice my chest does expand when I take deep breaths, I don't hold it in there but it does change my diaphragm.
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:13 AM
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Don't use your back to push your chest out, merely inflate your lungs more. If you do this you won't look like you are pushing your chest out.
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:11 AM
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Posture is super important...especially so if you are on the short or tall side. Don't get me wrong, it is important for everyone, but if you are tall or short, your bad posture sticks out even worse than an average height guy's posture.
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:10 AM
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I've recently gone salsa dancing with some female friends, they are good and apparently I am too for a beginner. Fucking awesome way to dance with a girl. Its all about hip movement and you get to lead her and spin her (I was in Brazil for 6 months and picked up some spinning aspects of salsa from a similar style of Brazilian dance).
/r/seduction08/11/11 02:16 AM
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Also subtly lick your own lips...
/r/seduction08/11/11 02:11 AM
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Yeah dude, many of the super super hot girls don't get approached anywhere near as much as the hot ones...guys are too intimidated.
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:32 AM
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Also make sure to make some guy friends...they have friends that are girls who will become your friend. It is usually easier to bang girls within your social circle.
/r/seduction24/10/11 03:33 AM
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I'm a senior in college...so by somewhat picky I mean I won't just go to any random frat where I don't have a lot in common with the kids there. If I show up at a party and it is full of a lot of people who seem like douches based off of my first impression, then I will leave and go somewhere else. By something interesting, I mean if you really get someone to open up they will start telling you about their goals/achievements/family/career/someone they have met/somewhere they have been that is ge…
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:55 PM
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I get you and it can be hard sometimes, plus everyone has their moments when you really really don't care about what they are saying. However, I have found, consistently, that when I do actually get to know someone who I originally labeled as "uninteresting" or "boring" I find something interesting about who they are/what they do/where they have been. To add, I am somewhat picky in the social situations I put myself in. This enables me to filter out people who would otherwise have very little to…
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:24 PM
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Actually people are interesting when you actually get to know them. If you just label everyone as "boring douche" then you close your self off from ever finding anything interesting about them. I'm very smart (no real way of saying that without sounding like a prick, so whatever) and used to have a sort of prickish/elitist attitude that people who tended to talk about banal subjects were not interesting people...then when i became more proactive in my attempts to actually find out about people (…
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:03 PM
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I have a horse...but it starved to death.
/r/seduction18/10/11 04:09 AM
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I had that same idea as you, however, I got over it and don't regret a thing...except maybe the fact that I passed off other potential kisses and hook ups because I was being a pussy and waiting for my first romantic one. You will enjoy your first kiss no matter what, and then hopefully you can enjoy many more.
/r/seduction10/10/11 03:52 PM
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I would really really advise against waiting a week. You have to keep her interest going. When this isn't a problem is if you somehow blew her fucking mind and she just can't stop thinking about you, however, you have no real way of knowing that unless she basically tells you with her words/actions. You already know she has other options, this guy who texted her a ton of times. Text her while the flirty/ spontaneous vision of you is still fresh in her head. Make sure to tease her while texting, …
/r/seduction10/10/11 03:48 PM
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go to the bay full of pirates
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:55 AM
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I've definitely done that, that way I get her name spelled right!
/r/seduction05/10/11 03:04 AM
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Yeah I read in the book, "The Art of Learning" that Michael Jordan missed more end of the game risk shots than any other player, but it was because he took the most.
/r/seduction04/10/11 04:29 AM
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AIDS and a cold are very very different.
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:18 PM
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I'll take the chance of possibly catching a cold if it means I can fuck a hot girl...just sayin'
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:41 AM
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It takes some practice and social awareness. If the girls is even a little bit chubby don't tease her with a fat joke. If she has a weird scar or similar physical abnormality don't tease her about it. Things like that are kind of obvious. However, what really makes it is how flirty you are surrounding the neg and your facial expressions combined with delivery. You want to be playful. Don't neg with an overly serious face or be too dry.
/r/seduction21/09/11 04:23 AM
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Great way to be happy...stop making excuses and go meet some chicks. Bar game is NOT the only way to meet them.
/r/seduction31/08/11 04:25 PM
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in theory yes, but different people read people differently...so the difference is in us not them. My hb6 might be your hb7 just because we both perceived how she perceives herself differently.
/r/seduction19/08/11 10:15 PM
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Girls will often cry/throw tantrums because they know it is natural for us to feel sorry for them. She was turning herself into the victim. I wasn't there so I don't know for sure, but just because she was crying doesn't mean she was truly sorry. Often times girls will just use crying/emotions to illicit a different response from you. How do you know this guy was a PUA, do you know him already? If so, talk to him as well.
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:13 AM
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Many girls don't smoke, so I wouldn't really call it a universal opener.
/r/seduction16/07/11 09:19 PM
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Great point...you can't win either.
/r/seduction14/07/11 09:48 PM
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Very true. Some wise sedditor said something along the lines of, "only virgins are obsessed with only ever talking to and hooking up with perfect 10s." That wasn't the quote exactly but it is very true.
/r/seduction14/07/11 06:24 PM
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hahaha, its so true though
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:55 AM
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Who says you have to sleep with her? I feel like you could have still gamed her some more. Maybe if you had taken the time to talk to her a little (I know hard at a club but not impossible if you relocate to a quieter spot) you may have gotten a lot more interested. I used to do the same thing all the time (still do sometimes) where I put my barriers up because one little thing seems off. Really when you do this you are just making an excuse not to go further. I find that when I actually talk to…
/r/seduction12/07/11 01:44 AM
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Great post and great application of the techniques set forth in the article. You deserved that fuck my good man.
/r/seduction12/07/11 01:36 AM
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This. Also with today's average attention span even if that stuff did happen (it def. won't, as you say) it would only last a like 2 months before people forgot about the movie and were back to their old ways.
/r/seduction11/07/11 08:54 PM
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Relax about the text. There could be numerous reasons she hasn't texted you back yet. Some could be as innocent as her phone is dead, or as negative as she isn't planning on texting you back at all... However, the fact that you guys are sharing your own "secret plan" of playing match maker is a good start and girls love doing stuff like that. The ,"Hey Matchmaker" was a great start to the text for that reason, however I don't know if I would have talked about feeling hung over. It is negative fe…
/r/seduction09/07/11 10:14 PM
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TL;DR Go to Brazil to learn kino if you are not confident with it This is obviously not a cheap (or realistic for many people) but I would suggest going to Latin America, specifically Brazil to practice Kino. I was doing a study abroad here and volunteering (program is over but I'm still here for a couple of weeks) and it has taken my kino to another level. It is very normal for people to do it here, even guys touch your shoulder when talking to you. It is a great way to practice your kino and w…
/r/seduction06/07/11 04:09 AM
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I really doubt it is the case. People our age (late teens and early twenties) tend to do the fake alpha behavior and that is not a new phenomenon. However, it is probably much more apparent now that you are at college surrounded even more by it than you were in high school. Try doing something different. I came to Brazil at the end of January and I'm still going to be here for another 2 weeks. I did a study abroad as well as volunteering with the community. It was/is a great experience and I'm a…
/r/seduction04/07/11 02:30 AM
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I don't really get your point. If they are doing it incorrectly then they aren't actually "doing it" at all. EVERY guy tries to pick up women at some point, some happen to know about the PUA community and others don't. You need to take a look at yourself and realize all you are doing is making excuses. I go to a really big state school with its fair share of douches, but the women here definitely don't all walk around scowling with an "expression that says she wants to spit in the face of every …
/r/seduction04/07/11 01:55 AM
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almost three kids Please don't tell me you ate part of one.
/r/seduction04/07/11 01:37 AM
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The best piece of advice here is to talk and flirt (or at least be warm) to ALL girls irrespective of their age/looks. It is great practice for the hotties and you learn to appreciate women for more than just looks.
/r/seduction29/06/11 04:30 PM
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Well, as someone that spent six years being single and dating serially, let me tell you, doing it that way doesn't work. I'm not sure I understand your first line. The rest of your post seems to agree with what I said...
/r/seduction29/06/11 04:05 PM
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This. I used to have the problem OP was having. The end result...I made the lower value girl happy at the expense of my happiness. If you think about it, that is a completely retarded mindset. I'm out to have fun and feel good, not make other people have fun at my own expense.
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:15 PM
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The #1 thing, IMO, is getting over your AA. Nothing can start if you don't first approach, literally nothing. I used to have bad AA, until I actually started just talking to women. Nothing horrible EVER happened. Sure some weren't really interested and the convo. was lame and fizzled out, but really who gives a shit? Something that helped me was just talking to all women, NOT only the women I wanted to fuck. If you are approaching a HB9 you are going to be nervous, especially if you never talk t…
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:10 PM
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I don't do online dating...however I have a feeling that message is too long.
/r/seduction28/06/11 08:02 PM
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Anyone who is hating on this, most likely doesn't realize that many, many girls do this all the time. They date multiple guys, not very uncommon to date more than 5 guys at a time, however, they usually don't fuck all of them. They are merely testing the waters. If they can do it, so can we. I think the biggest difference is the girls almost never tell the other guys what she is doing, they all assume they are the only one. OP is advocating openness, it is not scummy if you are not lying.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:45 PM
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haha, i don't care how good your game is but not even you could have overcome this cock block....HOLY SHIT
/r/seduction28/06/11 12:13 AM
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I'm currently in Brazil and there is one big difference, I barely have to work. I'm a blond haired blue eyed gringo in the African capital of Brazil, many of the more affluent girls that I tend to meet don't necessarily have black ancestry (if that isn't your thing, personally I love all ethnic groups, but prefer latinas). However, even if the girl might be more "white" a blond haired blue eyed American is not common here. I am attractive by U.S. standards, but holy shit girls think I'm so beaut…
/r/seduction27/06/11 08:00 PM
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