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I’m sure we’d all love to hear the details. Giving her the boot seemed like the sensible thing to do.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:11 PM
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Depending on the girl or the vibe you want to give… Just trying to make a cute girl laugh. Or maybe something a bit more vulgar.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:57 PM
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I’m sure you can figure it out after some time. Have a good one.
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:37 PM
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You’re not too bright, are you?
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:33 PM
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This is your point?
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:31 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking? I like petite women but wouldn’t date a dwarf. Further l, I like women above 5’4” too. My liking of petite women is a slight preference. What’s your point?
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:28 PM
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You’re right but they’re not likely sought after like tall men are. And age plays a role too. I get the sense that taller men don’t want to have kids with smaller women. So I’m sure they date them, I don’t believe they’re generally thinking long term with them. As an average height dude of 5’9”, who likes petite women, I wouldn’t want an LTR with a woman less than 5’. I’m convinced there are many like me with a minimum too.
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:08 PM
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I've never used tinder although I'm no stranger to online dating. What do you think she's trying to accomplish? You say they're "used to see how you react" but what does she want to find out? E.g. "I'm going to bring up my exes because... I want to see if I can walk all over him!" It's a genuine question from me. If a girl from Hinge or whatever says the bartender is cute on date 1, I consider that a big red flag. But I don't know the dynamics of tinder dates.
/r/seduction06/03/21 10:58 PM
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For me, I think I have really good interpersonal skills. Conversational skills, especially. I’ve pulled some chicks that are wayyyyy more attractive than me because of it.
/r/seduction07/02/21 08:23 AM
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Did you get to see his face or did he have a mask on too? Did he see your face?? Were you socially distanced? I ask not bc I want to shame you (I really don’t care). I just want to know how he approached during these peculiar times.
/r/seduction29/01/21 01:33 AM
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Although I largely agree, I think it’s a bit dependent on context. Perhaps a better general rule is to not censor yourself for a woman anymore than you would censor yourself around anybody else in a similar situation.
/r/seduction28/01/21 05:40 PM
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I agree it’s a prejudice but that’s kind of what we all do in dating. The “problem” is that they’re cutting out potentially the wrong people from their dating pool. But people need a way to filter and learning lots of details about someone before excluding them is not really feasible.
/r/seduction14/01/21 04:57 PM
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It’s challenging but possible. You just have to find women that are cool with it. I’m in California and frankly the biggest difference I’ve experienced is finding something to do during these lockdowns. Picnics and hikes are my go to. That or grabbing a coffee. Even then it’s suboptimal because even if we both don’t use masks, there are many others around who do. I ended up buying a picnic blanket and a yeti ice cooler. It’s working out but not ideal.
/r/seduction14/01/21 07:27 AM
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Would you want your daughter/wife/mother banging hundreds of dudes? Likely not. Frankly, I wouldn’t want men close to me to bang hundreds of women either. I would suggest it’s not a good thing to do regardless of who you are.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/21 12:26 AM
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Also women can get pregnant. Even with birth control... if we’re talking 100s of dudes, the chances of pregnancy are likely non-trivial... all with varying qualities of men.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/21 11:44 PM
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Yeah it’s bizarre. I’m a guy that dates women sourced online and offline and I’ve never had a woman do that to me as much as I can remember and I’ve dated tons. These women obviously exist—I don’t deny that. But my guess is that these are certain types—I weed them out maybe. Quality women don’t do this.
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:34 AM
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Wow! I had no clue who you were... I must’ve gotten under your skin, eh, babe? I’m actually pretty confident that I’m a cool mf. I’m also pretty confident that you’re freakin nuts. Take care of your mental health.
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:58 PM
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Most of us date a variety of people in our lifetime. Men and women. There’s a lot of toxic and immature thinking in this sub and that response was a good example of it. I actually think it’s way cool you two have a relationship where you can share these past experiences without jealousy or resentment. Right on!
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:38 AM
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My take is it’s not too early for that conversation. If you find yourself face to face with her, I’d bring it up. But I’d go into that convo believing that she’s already off the table. As for how you see her, I’d just say “I need to see you. You free tonight?” I suggest to be bold and direct and have the mindset that you can’t lose what’s not yours to begin with. It beats brewing about it for who knows how long. Girls like communication anyway.
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:30 AM
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I think this community can be toxic at times. A lot of it requires a big element of social awareness and that is often unsaid. Many say NEVER do x. Or girls ALWAYS want x. It’s nonsense. The vast majority of women have enough common sense to not be tricked by gimmicks that come off as not genuine. Just my suggestion... don’t read this sub anymore. Focus on learning about women because you’re genuinely curious about them... provided that you are genuinely curious about them. There are many women …
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:54 PM
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I frequently go on dates—not sure whether that is “practicing seduction” to you. I’ve cold approached women a few times. Also, many online dates. Also dates with women I met some time ago. I’m not really cautious anymore. I was when we hardly knew anything about covid. Now, I really don’t care too much.
/r/seduction02/11/20 04:58 AM
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Oh we had done plenty more than kiss by end of date 1. That wasn't the issue at all.
/r/seduction31/10/20 02:49 AM
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Ok so I acknowledge not all women or men of any race or country or whatever are the same. That said, I do think there are some commonalities. With Russian women, my experience is that 1)they’re very demanding of men and 2)they’re very direct and honest with what they want. To be clear, #2 ain’t so bad. But it’s definitely shocking. For example, I shave my head. One Russian girl I met at a club asked me, on date 1, in a very matter of fact kind of way "why are you bald?" Ha! Honestly, I don’t car…
/r/seduction28/10/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah, I think she appreciated the communication too. Her response was she wasn’t sure if she wanted to be exclusive and thought I did. I smiled and had to think of a way to tell her I never asked for exclusivity (because I genuinely don’t want it yet) without making her feel like she thought too much of herself. So I said “I’ll be very explicit when I want to be exclusive with you as you should with me. But right now, it seems like we’re both not there.” It wasn’t an uncomfortable conversation e…
/r/seduction28/10/20 02:14 PM
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The willingness to lose her was important but in the way that I budget $5000 for gambling before I step foot in Vegas. If I were to contemplate the $100 every single hand, I’d hesitate and would play in a suboptimal manner. Neediness isn’t really part of it—at least not directly.
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:54 PM
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I’ve gone out with Russian chicks—never again. But that’s another story. Unsolicited advice from me is to just look in her eyes and ask her to explain to you the nature of your relationship. Or tell her what you’re expecting to get out of it. How old is she? IME, age matters a lot with these things.
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:41 PM
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Yes. This combined with other stuff I didn’t mention made this a def possibility. What didn’t help was between date 2 and 3, she was unavailable for a couple of weeks. It was challenging to maintain any kind of convo/intimacy going. I almost gave up. I recovered tho.
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:29 PM
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Kind of ironic that he’s gay, no? No judgment. Just ironic that confident body language when dealing with women is from a guy who likes men.
/r/seduction20/10/20 01:25 PM
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I don’t think that’s what they need to be convinced of necessarily. She could be going to school and doesn’t want to lose focus. Maybe she’s too nervous? Maybe she has a kid and doesn’t want to freak him out? I once had a girl be kinda nasty and short to me over text. I was kinda irritated. About a year later we reconnect and she apologized bc she said her mother had just died that week and she was bitchy toward everyone. My point is it’s not always as easy as “if I don’t go out with him it’s be…
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:37 AM
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I think she’s on the fence. If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t have responded at all. But I completely agree she deliberately chose not to answer it. It could be that she likes the guy as a friend but not romantically or some other nuanced situation. IME, girls like this can be convinced but it takes effort and they’ll likely never be really into you.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:26 AM
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