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Dude
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/21 08:50 PM
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This is probably one of the primary ideas someone needs to internalize when introduced to RP and a huge fucking deal. Also I know it's not supposed to be mentioned but just want to confirm from female standpoint that this is true. In both the LTRs and in non-LTRs I've had with guys, when they start to lose the RP "do's" and start to show RP "don'ts" it's when a red flag raises in my mind. Something about seeing that in a guy makes me think they're not fit to continue with. Take this with a grain…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 12:38 AM
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This post is on point. It will be SUPER obvious when someone is literally using every ounce of their energy to please you. Look for this in everyone you consider for a LTR and it will cut out most of the garbage, so long as you are ruthless in ignoring any potential for oneitis or otherwise biased analysis. People who literally spend all their time trying to make you happy are rare and it will not be hard to identify it once it's happening. The problem is that people often settle once they're co…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 01:51 PM
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I’m amazed more folks aren’t saying “don’t pay for her” It’s 2019. I seriously have a hard time believing there’s any real reason it’s a bad idea having a grown woman pay for herself. I can’t think of any justifiable reason you would NEED to pay for her, either. If you experience any resistance to this, they’re doing your vetting for you. Yikes. I can’t be the only one who sees it this way.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:43 AM
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My life changed when I realized 99% of the guys in my life were orbiters and literally provided no other value I felt disgusted and cheated when I realized they were validation toys and really not much else Red Pill showed me how deep the rabbit hole goes. Like fuck.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:23 AM
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Nah actually, I'm single right now and life is much easier this way. In probably the healthiest stage of my life at the moment. But the moment I find Chad and need tactics on swindling him into a marriage where I get 65% of the assets after four months of dead bedroom and resenting him for stupid shit, I'll come straight to you guys.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:21 AM
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Oh, and see that was just recommended to me... yikes haha. Good for entertainment and that's about it, sounds like. I'll just keep reading and hope I figure my shit out. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:52 AM
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I hadn't even considered that, but should've. You're probably right. Although I do believe that RP is truth regardless of gender, it's just that it's not something the average woman (or even majority of women) is ready to accept. So in light of that I can see why it wouldn't be worth the effort to try to introduce a level playing field for boys and girls to "pLaY eQuAlLy" I'm clearly being too hopeful. Honestly I get enough shit talked without starting my own club...still a solid idea tho
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:45 AM
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LOL I've been reading it wrong this whole time... shit
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:26 AM
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Should I go there? Since it seems primarily oriented that way I didn't know if I'd be suited since I'm not.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:20 AM
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If something's going to happen, something's going to happen. ​ If he truly values your relationship, her flirting will do nothing. If his facade of affection for you is found to be less than durable and he ends up doing anything inappropriate with her, boom, he's just proved to be unreliable and a waste of your time. ​ No other way to look at it. Trying to control him or her will not change literally anything at all, except start the idea of harboring resentment toward you. ​ I'd suggest focusin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 08:12 PM
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Regardless of looks, women can be (and usually are) annoying. In fact, oftentimes an ego goes hand in hand with looks. The better she looks, the better your chances of getting tired of her. Remind yourself of that next time you think someone who's blessed with "not being ugly" walks by and hopefully that will help you value the actual parts that will matter after one night with her. Lol.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:48 AM
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Lol we can agree to disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 06:35 AM
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Of course it's not your fault. Or red pill's. The bottom line is, someone who doesn't want to be helped, can never be "fixed" (to put a word on it simply). If he has ulterior motives and has issues he's not committed to working on, no amount of outside help will magically cure him. I went through an experience like this with a guy I dated for 2.5 years. I definitely took the role of submissive housewife for him, something I had to teach myself to do because I am by nature quite headstrong and in…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 04:02 PM
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He was completely comfortable being himself regardless who he was around. Okay with making occasional jokes directed at himself = lack of arrogance (though doesn't guarantee it completely). Talented and has real interests. (He's a musician, goes to shows, built fish tank and collects and cultivates reef and fish system, cooks very well, etc.) Completely honest with me, to the point of rawness. He was not afraid to tell me things that were wrong (with me, with him, or whatever) so that I had the …
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 07:28 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Also, there's value to be gained from rejection, even if it sucks. The more you acclimate to it the less it'll have that initial sting. The more women you approach, the higher your chances are of finding one who won't be ignorant with their standards.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:47 PM
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It's possible, and you can fully embrace it. I'm newly red pilled (but a lot of the main points behind the ideology are ones I've personally believed and figured out on my own) but I'm not focused on a relationship. In fact if anything the "official" and "titling" aspects of relationships are somewhat of deterrents for me; I am the kind of person who looks at actions and not words, so what's the point of focusing on a relationship, when you don't need one to show people how you feel about them a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 03:41 AM
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Gonna try to withhold judgment from your actions. I'm sure you've heard it already. You shouldn't focus so much on saying you love him. Words mean nothing more often than not. As your actions already proved, nothing you say has anything to do with it if what you do says the opposite. So instead, focus on doing things that show you love him. You should know what kinds of things show him how you feel. If not, I suggest you up and leave already and you've been putting off the inevitable.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 06:40 PM
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Someone who has an excuse for everything. Someone who thinks their words overrule their actions - that intentions win out over the things they do. Someone who generally shows a lack of discipline and responsibility and accountability for what they do. Someone who gaslights - tries to twist it around on you for when you notice or acknowledge their toxic behavior. Unhealthy coping mechanisms that they want no help to fix, even when it's offered to them freely (since asking for help is pretty hard …
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 06:37 PM
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I'm just letting you know that apparently it's not as common of a thing here in RPW to be with a RP guy. I'm currently in a friends with benefits/unofficial dating relationship with a guy who is RP and he introduced me to it because I had believed in a lot of the ideas behind it beforehand without knowing it was a thing. We work very well together because we communicate well and have realistic worldviews. I have received confusing and less than approving opinions talking about this, so I expect …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 12:04 AM
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This response. Yes. Perfect. We both came to the same conclusion after it happened. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/18 04:13 PM
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Men kind of lose it the moment they experience mUh ScArY eMoTiOnS. Society doesn't help by telling them not to feel anything, lol. So yeah I agree with you there...but the day a guy that isn't emotionally constipated that wants to stick around and isn't messed up in some other crucial way shows interest in me, I'll sell my soul. LOL ain't nobody got time to wait around for dat. I'm troubled for him but maybe now that he realizes it's not necessary to make such a big deal about it he can chill ou…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 04:34 AM
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I know it's not as conventional to not try to marry any guy willing to stick around long enough and drop the money on a ring, but some women just don't want to get married. It's not against RP at all, it's just not what the average woman wants.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 04:31 AM
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Thank you so much. I really appreciate your advice. We will see. I don't have high hopes lol but you never know
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 06:14 PM
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Amen. That's exactly my plan and what I indicated was needed. (All I said was, this cannot continue unless we have a discussion over what happened and what will happen going forward, if you want this to go forward. Either way, you take some time to decide and let me know.)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 06:06 PM
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I was going to say. Unless my understanding of gaslighting is dead wrong then I was not the one doing it. It's really bad. I won't go into detail but it sounds horrifying. But like I told him, it's no excuse to take it out on me. He even said that himself at one point before returning to saying I was the one needing to calm down. I don't think he was thinking straight last night.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 06:02 PM
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I'm in between booty call and "more than FWB." Like I said, past relationships went bad so I don't want this to be more than what it is. But I do recognize it's a very unique situation. He is worth more than a booty call but I am not trying to marry the guy. I am able to distinguish an in between. I will tell him that though. I just wanted to see if I'm missing something crucial. I know I have in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 05:27 PM
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This is good advice. Thank you. I think our communal RP understanding brings us together in a lot of ways but it's not common so this may even be him not accustomed to that. I don't want to jump to conclusions and I'm trying to be as rational as I can afford to be with my short but traumatic history of relationships. I should probably try this, I'll see what I can do. Thank you so much for commenting.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 04:55 PM
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Well the typical sense is just someone who you have some kind of intimate relationship with (primarily sexual, usually) but aren't actively calling boyfriend/girlfriend or necessarily exclusive to, depending on the dynamic. How we have determined our relationship is different from the norm. Initially he said it was under the expectation there would be no relationship/boyfriend or girlfriend terminology/no dating/etc. He said after it worked out so well that it is a relationship, even dating, whe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 04:52 PM
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This is pretty eye opening. Things I never could've explained were made crystal clear with this...wow.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:24 AM
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