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I think this legend is wrong where I live... A lot of the times, even if I speak french, they answer in English. Or it's true only in Paris I don't know. I'm in Lyon.
/r/seduction15/02/17 09:22 PM
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Sorry, maybe I generalized my specific situation. English isn't my native language and I'm in France now. For french girls, an american/british guy trying to speak french is cute and they can tell the difference, but in other cases, it's not so much sex-appeal since it's so common for foreigners to learn french, like English. I had some experiences myself too , on Tinder or on campus etc. The most valuable thing I discovered is that you have to somehow show that you're a foreigner first. Even if…
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:06 AM
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I'm in the same situation as you and looking for help. If you're from somewhere not-so-interesting without a cute accent, your chances drop highly. And since you can't speak the langua ge very well, you can't make quick jokes and build a rapport easily. That results in her getting bored/uninterested very quickly. I suggest hanging out with other foreigners who go through the same problems as you. They're more alone and open to other people. And for local girls, a simple "do you speak english?" a…
/r/seduction15/02/17 02:14 AM
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Exactly, you were better at explaining.
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:47 PM
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I didn't understand anything helpful. He's just telling a story of when he got lucky one time. Sorry but it's just false hope for these guys here. There's a lot of "reasons" why you're not enough. Like your income, your lack of exercise, your incompetence in leading the convos, your lack of personality, your lack of fashion sense and so on... It's up to you that you eliminate these reasons from your life.
/r/seduction05/02/17 03:03 PM
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I think you shouldn't be too afraid of reputation. If you come across a girl that you really like, you can express yourself honestly like "I was just playing around with them, but I see something different in you." Of course you should modify the line with your emotions, how much you value her, how she's different etc. You can just be honest and get the girl you like too, regardless of your previous reputation.
/r/seduction05/02/17 02:59 PM
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Videos don't help as much as experiencing. My first rejections felt really really bad, but now I just don't care most of the time. The one tip I can give you is that don't take rejection personally. She doesn't know you as much as you know yourself. She's rejecting only the image of you in her head. It's her fault if she's not trying to know the real you.
/r/seduction05/02/17 02:52 PM
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I think it depends on which is more important to you. The Indian kid has a bad reputation but still gets blowjob. It means reputation is of less importance to him. Imagine a girl who wants to have sex with most guys as possible. If she becomes a hooker, she sacrifices her reputation but gets what's more important to her. You have to choose between the hooker or the normal guy who doesn't approach at all. Now I think, both of them are bad choices. You have to balance it between those two. Sacrifi…
/r/seduction05/02/17 02:46 PM
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What do you mean by other group and by other account? I'm only writing here and have been a lurker for more than 2 years. I've read a lot of stuff and that's the conclusion that has been most helpful to me. If it works for me it should work for you too. How about you explain more why it's not useful and we can discuss?
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:05 AM
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I certainly hug her first and then in the first minutes I usually talk briefly about how I got there and maybe tell an interesting/funny/weird thing that happened before coming. It's just for setting up the vibe right in the first impression. After sorting out logistics, where to sit etc, when I finally sit in front of her, I say... "So, how was your day?" She starts telling what she did that day, and it's pretty easy to escalate conversation because she can tell you anything. For example, if sh…
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:21 AM
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I agree with most of the opinions here on nexting the girl. But since you ask for more in the discussion I have a different perspective for you. Your game should be more than what you do to get the girl, your game should be YOU. You can't do a lot with "game" after getting rejected, because she already rejected your "game" because your game is YOU. Now to prove this, let me give you an example. Imagine you're in a concert of a band you like. You see a hot girl in the crowd and approach her, she …
/r/seduction29/01/17 12:09 AM
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I don't know about you guys but i can't do it alone. I tried it many times. It's like I'm not comfortable enough even for dancing when I'm alone. But when my friends show up, i have so much more fun and quit being the weirdo. Even last night I went to a party by myself. When i entered, party was just starting so there was nobody on the dancefloor, but as I was entering everyone checked me out and I just stood and waited somewhere. It was like telling everybody I don't have friends, any social pr…
/r/seduction28/01/17 02:23 PM
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I totally get what you mean and I wish you were right but it just seems so... optimistic. Society just doesn't work that way. Personally I had a lot of experiences and i don't get into a lot of trouble finding women as most of the guys here, and from my experiences i can say trickery and hiding worked better for me in every situations. Let's say Chad has 10 women in front of him and wants to get laid with all of them. If by being upfront you mean making your intentions clear and tell the girl th…
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:21 PM
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I can also add a suggestion for skinny dudes. Your purpose should be to look bigger. So you should definitely try working with layers (t-shirt underneath, a shirt, and a sweater on it, and a jacket that will make your shoulders look bigger like jackets with shoulder straps. A bomber jacket is very trendy right now, or if you can afford you can buy cool brown leather ones, with matching shoes. I haven't seen once that it looked bad on a man. Also from the OP, i request suggestions for winter clot…
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:55 PM
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Hurt her? Like how? Trust me she's gonna hurt you more.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:33 PM
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If Chad was upfront about what he wanted, he would be seen as a disgusting guy and he would never have sex. I am pretty sure that %90 population of boys here have a "horrible mentality". You might think as you wish but i don't find my mentality horrible. You can want more sex and that's just "nature" and it's your life choice. I think every guy deserves sex, but a lot of us have insecurities and boring parts, which is not attractive to girls. Seduction is hiding those vulnerable parts and get a …
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:29 PM
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Imo you're too young for that kind of relationship. And you don't know what's gonna happen. You might just end up spending your most valuable young years with just one person who screws you over at the end. Idk some people like it but this idea seems too irrational to me.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:04 PM
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Maybe you're getting the idea of seduction wrong. Chad isn't trying to find a soulmate for himself, he just wants a girl to go to bed with. Seduction is all about manipulating your sexual market value. But if you're considering LTR, then be your honest self like Jim.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:00 PM
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%100 agree. The OP's advice is gonna backfire most of the time. He's just become aware that the girls have the upper-hand, but going too alpha and not giving a shit about women doesn't solve this. If you go too non-needy and doesn't care about the woman, girl will most probably say fuck it and she'll find someone else. She doesn't even need to FIND, she just needs to pick. All she needs is validation from someone worthy after all.
/r/seduction24/01/17 09:52 PM
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First, how do you know I struggle? If you go with "might"s or "maybe"s you're the one on the wrong path. I'm talking about how many times a girl is approached, not about how easy it is to get her. If you're suggesting the girls are approached according to their upbringing, you're living in a fantasy world.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:54 AM
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I was curious about this question and asked it to my female friends. It seems to be that average girls you go for in club when you're drunk don't get cold approached at all. However, if the girl is too beautiful, she probably experiences it from time to time. But still, it's not as much as they get approached in clubs. It takes guts to approach women full sober, men are very shy in that way. So if you approach sober, you definitely seem more confident and more of a good choice than those 4-5 guy…
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:47 AM
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In my opinion it's not IOI or anything like that, she's just evaluating you. People here call that a "shittest" like your age doesn't really matter but your confidence does, but to me it's a different thing. No matter how confident you are, no matter how experienced you are, if you tell a 27-28 year old girl that you're just 22, the girl will feel like something's definitely wrong about you, they'll end the conversation, save time and they'll go look for someone else who is more mature with evid…
/r/seduction20/01/17 01:56 PM
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Since you didn't give so much information about your approaching, flirting or escalating, we can't really tell if you were good or bad. But from what I see if you keep doing what you're doing you'll eventually get there. Think about how you acted, what could you have done differently etc. and learn from each of them. Now the first girl is definitely giving you some IOI's, You could've easily followed up but you say the vibe wasn't right. I guess if you approached her you somehow liked the appear…
/r/seduction20/01/17 01:28 PM
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I think the quality over quantity is more important. I was counting at my first experiences but then I slowly lost count. Once i tried to remember all of them and it was pretty hard, i only realized after a couple of days that i completely forgot about 2 or 3. Generally getting kisses on dates is more easy, so I'm sure it's around 40 or something. Sometimes I could manage to get the girls to my home and did make out sessions but some of them were on their period or completely virgin so I didn't …
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:35 AM
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You're definitely not thinking wide. I know all these stuff and I know how to deal with them as much as I can and I have success stories too as you see. I'm actually DEFENDING not to make excuses but also defending that sometimes no matter what you do IT'S JUST TOO HARD WITHOUT MONEY. Now I'm going to answer each of these questions/statements. "To what exactly?" To a lot of things. To enroll in a course of your hobby, where you meet people, or a language course, or private guitar lesson. If you …
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:25 PM
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Great. You should build a rapport in this hiking. Try to talk to her in private and listen to her. Maybe turn it into a little date. Maybe with the tequila you can get more comfortable for kino. I wouldn't recommend a kiss close in that day but you should definitely get closer before she loses her interest. Then maybe you can set an another date with just the two of you and kiss close it.
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:28 AM
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Keep it going. There's a lot to practice and you're going perfect. Maybe you can try changing venues after the coffee or meet up for beer or any kind of alcohol. In first dates this can get you and your date more relaxed and open, and maybe with the warmth of the moment you can feel more free to escalate and kiss close. Great job.
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:15 AM
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It seems like you're an handsome fella. It's like the persons in two stories are different. In the first you're doing exactly what you need to do, in the second you're doing exactly what you shouldn't do. Second story is like a dream. Two HBs trying to get you when you're doing basically nothing. "She tried to initate chatting with me and I tried to respond to her with short conversations. My focus was on talking to everyone in the group as I was there to have some fun and not to flirt." I don't…
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:01 AM
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Physically escalating. Light touches, playful touches, hand games, holding her hand, gradually getting her to the mood where she is comfortable with the incoming kiss. See the glossary.
/r/seduction16/01/17 02:51 AM
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Whatever you do, don't say sorry for approaching her. Own it.
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:11 PM
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It should continue with something to work with or it's an "i don't know and i don't care". "Wherever you want" doesn't look okay either. Maybe it's just a communication problem between us because we're typing, but I usually manage to get a guess and excitement. Even if she says "I don't know..." She continues with "wait, you have an eastern european type" and i say whether she's close or not. When you say "Can you guess where i'm from?" and she says "I don't know" and there is awkward silence fo…
/r/seduction15/01/17 10:03 AM
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Hahaha TIFU by listening to my dad's advice. Don't blame yourself man both stories are a success to me. I wouldn't care at all this is just a funny story to remember. And you managed to get some boob.
/r/seduction15/01/17 09:15 AM
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I didn't get an answer like this and I use this line a lot. Maybe you lack enthusiasm or excitement when asking that? Anyway I think you don't have to come up with a smart line every time or have a guideline on how to answer for every question. Even if you say a funny thing the response will most probably sound like "okay", "hihihi" or "whatever". Most pick up artists know how not to waste time and when to next her. Of course you can continue trying but it sounds like you're losing already becau…
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:43 AM
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You can get over it. Just try more even if it sounds scary. Maybe try dating apps to get more practice talking to women one on one. There are some great topics here for learning small talking and get the conversation going. Be in peace with yourself. Try meditation. You can find everything on reddit to become more confident. It just takes time and effort. I can understand you have good looks because even if you think you lack everything this girl still wanted to be with you. And i'm sure you'll …
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:24 AM
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What kind of answer is that? Sounds like she lacks interest. I would next her.
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:15 AM
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Well sometimes practicing with 6-7's makes your way to the 8-9s. For me the girls can't stay at a stable point. It's like they're starting to lose their value after 5 minutes. An 8 in 8 days usually become 5 to me. Just make sure she's a solid 8 and then chase as you wish.
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:06 AM
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As a middle-eastern student doing erasmus in Europe, completely fucked up by the prices in Europe, I agree 100%. You can say money isn't everything and that's true, but it surely gives you an access. If you're a college student with no income or great support, you can't even improve yourself even if you know exactly what you have to do. I can't even dress well because i can't afford stylish clothes I like, and when I find it it's generally on sales period and I can't find my size because they're…
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:59 AM
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This post deserves more attention and can be improved. I think "know your market" thing is very important. Seduction to me is all about presenting yourself to someone and convince her to want you. For this, you have to be a good "product" first with self-improvement and all, and then you just have to find the right market where you fit and get more attention. You shouldn't limit it with city in general but just know your place. If you don't belong to clubs you don't. Try taking coffee or dinner …
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:26 AM
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I've got two same day lay in almost one day (30 hours or something) thanks to tinder. Well in the night i was swiping and matched with a beautiful girl, and i didn't even think i had a chance and i said "fuck, you're my best match" without even thinking about what to say. After that she laughed a lot and said she found me more genuine and sincere. We really hit it off and i said let's continue this convo tomorrow. Anyway she said yes, we met at a bar early, i applied some kino and made jokes abo…
/r/seduction14/01/17 01:13 AM
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It's better just to skip the girl and focus on someone else if she refuses your invitation twice. But it doesn't necessarily mean that you don't have any chance. Being the god of rejections i can confirm a few situations of how i turned that around.
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:30 PM
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I didn't understand exactly who you want to be fuckbuddies with. The cute blonde she works with or the actual girl? Or both? To me the christian girl seems a bit impossible, I would say don't waste your time with legends. Although she can be horny, it doesn't make it easy to make her accept. And she's in an age for serious things so i would say leave her alone. But you can work with the other cute blondie. I think you can use this friendship thing. It's the easiest way to get a girl, your intent…
/r/seduction02/12/16 12:53 AM
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I am not encouraging oneitis type behavior in any phrase. I didn't say to her that she's my soulmate and seduced her using that line or with that thinking. On the opposite I used what I learned from here and kept myself cool and her clinging, that's why I am happy now. If you want a lesson about what women find attractive it's hidden there. Approach > Be confident and fun > Establish a personal rapport > Be assertive to kiss > Keep it cool whatever happens > Boom.
/r/seduction21/11/16 07:42 PM
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I think you're looking from the wrong perspective here, what it is for my personal life isn't really relevant to the essence of this topic here. It's mainly to explain how can taking action might lead you to a happier state that you wouldn't expect, even if it's casual sex with a hot girl or finding a girlfriend for you. I thought it was inspiring because it describes how you can turn the situation around, even when all the odds are against you (you're in a bad mood, the girl likes the other per…
/r/seduction21/11/16 06:58 PM
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Exactly. I'd read about this in seddit before and I knew what I was dealing with. Women say that because they think it's humiliating to have sex in the first night, even if she liked you a lot. The best way to deal with this to act like it's not a big deal and you're not needy one bit. If you get mad and insist a lot she'll understand what's up with you and you have zero chance.
/r/seduction21/11/16 07:51 AM
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hahah, thank you dude but i'm aware don't worry, it just comes off like that when telling you. With her it's the opposite, in fact she said she liked me a couple of times and she was afraid i'm not gonna text her back in the morning. I think I know how to keep it cool.
/r/seduction20/11/16 10:26 PM
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