I've been a follower of this subreddit for months without posting anything but this time i want to share it with you, guys. Sorry for my English level.

Basically i'm new at seduction and until now i've mostly dated a lot of girls online so thanks to that i had some experience talking to different girls, being comfortable around them. But starting a real thing always seemed difficult to me. Until now.

I'm doing my erasmus year in France and language barrier has been a buzzkill, I've been depressive and alone for a long time. But i'm always trying to be in a positive mindset and i say no excuses. I've approached a lot of girls in parties and mostly rejected, but don't care about it even if we're in the same school and have a chance of seeing each other a lot. I just got used to the feeling of rejection and never stopped trying.

A week ago in a home party of mostly pretty girls and shy guys, i've approached ALL of the girls and got rejected by ALL of them, so that was a downer for me. It got me down during the week and i never really spoke to anyone.

Yesterday my friend invited me to a dinner again with 10 people, but i already knew all the people there and i consider them as my friends, so i had no intention of seducing anyone, just went there to have fun. There were only one stranger Russian girl we haven't met yet, but she was talking to only her russian friend during the night, and i've heard them talking about another guy in the party. She clearly said to her friend she liked his looks, he looks fun etc. At that moment it was like an impossible thing to pick up her, all odds were against me.

Anyway, through the end of the night i got a bit drunk, just chilling and observing around. Then i just said fuck it. He didn't approach her, they didn't talk and the girl was just chatting with her russian friend. Even though i had basically no hope, i would approach. Because it's the rule of Seddit.

I went and asked if she had any cigarette because I was the only smoker at the party and forgot my tobacco pack. To my surprise, she said "YES! I thought noone smoked here" and i was happy as fuck, not because of the positive feedback of the girl but finally i was going to smoke hours later lol.

Then we went out to smoke and her russian friend came with us too, we were just chatting, having fun. I was playful and making fun of her friend. I don't know if it's because of the drinks but i just couldn't shut up, and i really liked talking with her. Then we went out with half of the group, all of us drunk, to a club or a party outside. We were just walking but couldn't find any place, some of us got hungry and ate and we waited etc... During the whole time we were talking, about just normal stuff. Through the end of the night i realized we had so much in common. I like underground dark wave bands, gothic, bdsm stuff etc. and she likes the same things which is a big surprise for me, because i think my taste is really special and i had no hope i could find someone like me in France.

Anyway, we just continued walking behind our other friends, both drunk and giggling. Then we said the same thing about something at the same time, and i just looked at her and pulled her behind a tree so our friends couldn't see us, and i kissed her. Then we made out a bit and lost our friends. I dragged her to the seaside and we continued talking and making out, she got really comfortable there because no one was there.

The hour was late and she was living far from where we are, so i said she can stay with me. She had no other choice and she said "but i won't sleep with you" until we come back to my room. We continued chatting and listening music, i was discovering that we have so much more things in common than I thought. She was trying to remember some really underground band i was like guessing what it is, and guessing it right. It was like a shock for both of us. Then we continued making out in my bed and it was really good because i think there were love in it. It was just like I was very comfortable expressing myself, because I felt like we already knew each other for a long time.

Anyway, she couldn't stop and we had sex, it was the best make-out and sex in my life. I feel like i've found my soulmate, in one night, randomly, and just because I've FUCKING APPROACHED. I hope this would be an inspiring lesson to all of you guys.