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He can collaborate 100% sure. He could worry about your concerns. If he is not as good as a friend in this field, keep looking for "better" friends.
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:00 PM
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If he doesn't help and collaborate with you, don't go out with him ever again. Other plans yes, but not this one. It took me time to realize. Don't voluntarily choose to be sabotaged. DON'T.
/r/seduction27/07/26 10:43 AM
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Ads are forbidden in this subreddit. Read the rules. Mods will ban you.
/r/seduction25/07/26 06:07 AM
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OH NO. Never pay for apps. You can have a lot of success in the free version. If not, there are more important things to care about yourself. And still, apps are like the worst place for finding girls or couple. By far. Build abilities face to face first ALWAYS.
/r/seduction25/07/26 06:05 AM
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Just reading title: go therapy. Try different ones until you find one that fits for you. First, find a good perspective of life for yourself. Overthinking is the first thing you need to remove from yourself. It's not practical and very damaging. It's you being scared of things. You can't live afraid of things. Girls come later. They are not going to fix your life, and if you are not ok deep inside, they are not going to work at all. First, work in yourself, and maybe take a good number of months…
/r/seduction25/07/26 05:58 AM
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"oh, it could be a great idea to share costs, you can pay a dinner or drinks etc" (I never never go on dinner first dates to avoid this)
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:45 PM
28

Yeah, not even worth discussion. Easy NEXT!
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:44 PM
1

Don't watch TV then, duh
/r/seduction22/07/26 04:19 PM
2

I highly DOUBT this happened. Looks too much like karma farming. Show screenshots and only I believe. And I still wouldn't believe half the story. People, do you believe anything in internet? Specially just a random text from an anonymous random person? 😂
/r/seduction22/07/26 08:03 AM
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First sentence: no, it doesn't work like that. We work as a interruptor (yes/no), they work as a thermometer (gradual levels that change all the time). And you use more examples in which you compare how would you do it, with them. They act very differently. There's something called "buyer's remorse". It's being applied here, probably. Look for info about it.
/r/seduction17/07/26 07:32 AM
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I only partially agree. There could be countless reasons of how she acted like that. Women value the quality of sex very differently. And doing things so she feels less slutty will be a priority over snything, most of the times.
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:44 PM
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Haha ok thanks for explanations! Yeah, unfortunately we have to keep discarding until we find compatibility with someone. At least if you understand this you're in the right path. The problem is when you don't, and you lose a highly valuable time.
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:40 PM
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a/c: air conditioning?? " Before trying to take sex off the table she was hitting me with some freaky texts". I didn't understand this one either haha
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:22 PM
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Exactly. Look for women who want you sexually since second one. Don't lose time or resources in others.
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:20 PM
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You are doing GREAT having a very low drama tolerance. They INDEED keep acting with drama because too many men, with excessive scarcity mentality, admit too many dramas. Work on yourself and look for more options. It's not difficult to find the next one who won't give you this stupid drama. She loses a great opportunity with you. And for sure you don't always have to be totally direct. That's a skill to learn. Their only "weird" issue is that they don't want to feel easy. It's your "only" or mai…
/r/seduction16/07/26 09:13 PM
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No con palabras super directas de lo que quieres en la cama jaja, pero sí que vea que tienes interés en ella
/r/seduction15/07/26 09:17 PM
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Sintió "factor fulana". Investiga sobre el concepto. Y empieza a pensar con más abundancia. Conoce más chicas. Esta te preocupará menos. Y sé directo con ella sobre tus intenciones. Ser directo es un rasgo atractivo.
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:42 PM
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Another ChatGpt post that is sending you to his profile as fake "coach". Please Mods, ban him. Everybody report. Come here to help, not to scam.
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:27 PM
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No, you let internet manipulate you. Go nature more. Apps are worse, and you need to discover that. They are useful only for an initial practice. But always better join hobbies where women and you have already that hobby in common.
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:55 PM
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Sí señor*
/r/seduction13/07/26 08:59 PM
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You fucking nailed it in the first paragraph. 100%. And it answers your posterior question. It needs to be about you. Focus on personal growth. Take big and long holidays for yourself. Love yourself like nobody has ever done before. At some point, when you don't realize about it, and when you are in that path, all the interesting and good people with come along. But people need to see that side of you first. It makes sense like that, right? Be very very patient Good luck.
/r/seduction12/07/26 04:47 PM
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"Not being masculine enough". Who says that? What does it mean? Does it matter? Answer: NOPE. Go away from that woman. As far as possible. Any conversation generated by experiences with this type of women who don't want to solve their traumas, will be pointless. Good girls won't generate this type of absurd comments or discussions. Be around only valuable people. And life will be on easy mode. And be a good human so women like that will end up not deserving a simple second from your time.
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:49 PM
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You're ignoring the enormous amount of randomness involved in everyone's life. The more you set a specific goal, the harder it becomes to achieve it. Enjoy life to the fullest, and try to expand your options by developing a more interesting personality. But first, avoid making serious mistakes. Like dreaming of an unrealistic, childish Disney fairy tale (relationships require a lot of maturity) and failing to recognize and fight against your deep-seated scarcity mindset. You need a radical chang…
/r/seduction11/07/26 11:53 AM
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Use better punctuation please. It's difficult to understand you without it, and it's hard for people to help you properly. There's no excuse, because any text reader or AI can help you with that.
/r/seduction09/07/26 08:47 AM
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Yes plz
/r/seduction07/07/26 10:59 PM
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" then I get out of the house"... Ehm, the idea in life is that you don't stay long at home and do most life outdoors. " above average looking women who are holding hands with guys that are shorter than them..."... Stop complaining and start changing your life before complaining. I'm sure you can make it more interesting if you are complaining before talking about what new things you are trying and are working or not working. When you try new things and then have problems, then come here to comm…
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:32 AM
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"90% of women are beautiful: makeup, heels, fillers, etc. Beauty is easy to find these days. If I like you, it's for other reasons, for your personality, and for the connection between us. 😌" That was my "framework" with the last girl I was with (and others). The relationship was based on our compatibility. If your relationship is based on you both being "equally good-looking," you're lost, and you're very easily replaceable.
/r/seduction05/07/26 05:25 AM
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"My clock is ticking". Wtf, enjoy life. Don't have any expectations. If you like some type of specific future, aim for it. But nobody is confirming you if you will have that "ideal" future. Yo have to start enjoying the present before anything. If you don't enjoy present and only aim for future, any future will be built over a poor present, and consequently will have it flaws. Build an interesting lifestyle. With things that must be social but also that you must enjoy. The rest will come easy. G…
/r/seduction29/06/26 08:52 PM
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I agree: you're a character. Stop spamming your ads.
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:31 PM
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You answer with "lil bro" and other stuff and then you edit your message... ?? So they don't discover how you really are acting and avoid being banned?? Keep your aggressivity and bad manners for yourself. You're not welcome here. Stop spamming.
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:14 PM
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Some will fall for these manipulation attempts; those you scam. Not me, thanks. Stop spamming.
/r/seduction29/06/26 05:05 PM
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You detailed it perfectly. It's like people what want to keep being babies or kids. That's how babies call for attention. I don't say it as an insult, but as a relation.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:42 AM
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Be honest with her about it. There's no better way. And you are often helping her. I was in a similar situation. I advised her that first she should deal with all that stuff that is generating negative feelings to her. And maybe there will be another moment to meet each other in the future. But as long as she was in that situation, I would feel uncomfortable and it was not the moment. The reality: some people take care of the situation and other people don't, ever. But exactly, you are not their…
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:36 AM
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Their posts are ads disguised as normal posts. You can explore it yourself.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:14 AM
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Their posts are ads disguised as normal posts. You can explore it yourself.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:14 AM
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Their posts are ads disguised as normal posts. You can explore it yourself.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:14 AM
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MODS, everyone: This is an ad. Keep reporting these types of users who try to disguise an ad as a normal post. This is another one of those profiles trying to sell you a "service" and scam you. Nobody wants your spam here. It's exhausting. Get out of here. Keep reporting, thanks.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:11 AM
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This looks extremely immature. Also overthinking
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:23 AM
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lol
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:55 AM
2

Why the FACK would you go to a place you don't enjoy. Become the greatest version of yourself in places you enjoy only.
/r/seduction25/06/26 10:50 PM
1

Overthinking. Just do what you feel whenever you feel too. If you are thinking about performance you lost already. Build the greatest possible version of yourself, look for abundance, and then you will have only easy decisions, mostly
/r/seduction25/06/26 10:48 PM
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This is a very strange spam/ad, still spam. Please everybody report it.
/r/seduction20/06/26 05:21 AM
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I disagree. It's not a general rule, but knowing about a person's past can give you a LOT of clues and save you a lot of trouble.
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:31 PM
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The answer in this forum is the same 50% of the time: you have a scarcity mindset. You need abundance in your life: more experiences, meeting more people, a more active social life, etc. Only in those situations, in a situation of abundance, do you make the best decisions and have a healthier, more self-loving perspective.
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:29 PM
9

I agree with this post to a degree of 62.5%.
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:19 PM
8

This is like the worst possible "advice" I have ever read. If it could be called like that.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:36 PM
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Check mod's message
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:11 PM
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Check mod's message
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:11 PM
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It's an ad, and AI generated. Report it everybody please.
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:47 PM
4

This is an ad. Please MODs, ban this user. Already doing the same before. Apart from obvious AI generated text. Obvious AI formatting. And it's as soulless writing as it gets.
/r/seduction11/06/26 03:45 PM
1

You didn't understand me. I agree with you in your first sentence. Well about therapy I have experienced already too much examples of people not wanting to deal with their shit in that way or another. It can't be a magic pill yet if such a big % of people still don't use it.
/r/seduction02/06/26 07:40 PM
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I have a strong opinion about how posts like this one can be very helpful. There are endless of people around here that still don't know about how or when to set up boundaries. It's insane.
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:19 PM
3

Well, I'm sure we all still know people with even around 60 years old that still behave as teenagers...
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:17 PM
3

THIS. If you don't show your limits, they maybe just don't know about it. Love and respect yourself more, just by being honest and transparent.
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:16 PM
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"Use humor and compliments to deflate him". NOPE, you should never do this with "a friend". What kind of person are you? The important thing here is to talk about things with him. And to check if he's a friend or not, depending on if he takes everything seriously. If not, remove him from your life. Nothing like being honest in life and doing things with love. Specially and also loving yourself: of someone is not behaving as you would like, show the door. And if you still have insecurities >> The…
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:14 PM
2

Look at their posts mods, OP is posting unrelated crap everywhere in Reddit.
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:11 AM
1

This topic is unrelated here. You should look for another subreddit. Maybe OP is just farming, I don't know.
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:09 AM
1

There are no good or bad jobs. Each job can be good or bad depending on personal perspectives. First learn to accept your situation, job and context, and don't feel embarrassed of yourself. Nobody should.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:57 PM
2

This xD
/r/seduction26/05/26 06:26 AM
1

Overthinking. Find more options so you won't care about this non-important issues.
/r/seduction26/05/26 06:25 AM
1

Look for books about the topic and read them. Until something "clicks" on you.
/r/seduction25/05/26 01:27 PM
2

A lot of emoticons, but nothing about explaining yourself
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:11 PM
1

About books, do the investigation by yourself. They can really change your life. It's about "friends" teaching you what they learnt. They are free in libraries. In some key moments of my life, going to library often was CRUCIAL. God luck, and please, try to find a perspective in which you can see the world only through LOVE. Helping others is the best way to start achieving a fulfilling happyness. It works 100%.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:10 PM
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"While everyone else wins". That's such a HUGE lie. Nobody loses or wins, life is not a competition. Everyone we have problems. But we decide which problems we want to face. And we face them with each one's different perspective. Supplements are a scam and they are not scientifically proven they work. Only in high level sport. Be careful with scams.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:03 PM
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This is an ad. Report!
/r/seduction17/04/26 02:38 PM
0

That's an "Argument from the lesser evil" fallacy. Skin care and make up in general is never a necessity, and indeed is a very unhealthy world. I don't give a shit about how normalized it is. Because you know, money interests.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:12 AM
1

"Embrace your imperfections > use skin care"
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:40 AM
3

Therapy, looking for the proper one for you first!! And trying to do different things
/r/seduction01/03/26 02:26 PM
1

Whaaaat? It gives you more freedom. Also, you should avoid doing anything in your job.
/r/seduction23/02/26 10:09 PM
1

THIS
/r/seduction17/02/26 02:04 PM
2

I didn't think it was fake, I just tried to made a joke you didn't understand haha
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:34 PM
4

How to say you enjoy hentai without saying it
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:51 PM
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Reditting, of course. I can introduce him to you. But be careful 😏😉
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:50 PM
8

A woman being jealous and resentful is more like her being insecure, not your problem
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:49 PM
2

People using their time is those stupid things... it is pathetic and childish lol
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:51 PM
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Giving importance to this is absurd. Meet a lot of women. Internet should be only 10%. And be polite with them, just don't be an asshole. The worst thing it could happen to you is that they give you even more value lol. If they are talking shit about you, then maybe you are the problem? Also, I don't know why you have to give excuses. If you don't have a girlfriend you can meet with the number of women you want. Why you have to be exclusive lol. If you meet women that care about this type of stu…
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:49 PM
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You are the only one labelling yourself
/r/seduction13/02/26 02:49 PM
1

If they have sex, specially early, they want a relationship. Most often to not feel slutty. Sounds stupid, but it happens too often lol. But I would say, mostly from girls with more insecurities.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:13 PM
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Generally, yes. Still, it's all your decision. To not being manipulated.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:09 PM
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You don't need to post it. It just makes sense. Anyone not doing this is just stupid, weak, or has nothing of self-love.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:06 PM
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Good intentions, but too simplistic. Also many people already don't support classic game and being a "player".
/r/seduction10/02/26 10:01 PM
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No, you don't need a escort. With effort you can achieve anything. That's cheating. Counterproductive a good number of times too.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:54 AM
1

Good comment. But about opportunities, you can catch them, yeah, but even better is CREATING them.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:53 AM
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With that mentality, YES! Believe me you wouldn't prefer to live in many many other countries without even basic freedom lol.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:52 AM
1

We are in internet times. There are infinite resources out there. Don't want to sound rude, but you are asking here for us to give you an "easy" solution while you didn't do "any homework" first; it feels very lazy from you. There is nothing worthwhile in life that is easy and direct. If you want to learn anything in life, you always had books. Nowadays, we have videos, websites, etc etc (still, books better than anything). Most of them are FREE. You have libraries, etc. Investigate yourself fir…
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:50 AM
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Oh, that won't be ever true. Fallacy. The number of women is infinite. If you have a perception most women are not good... Then that's what you are going to find. Loser or scarcity mentality, try to change it asap.
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:41 PM
0

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/02/26 08:58 PM
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I'm not OP. He said he lives in a one million inh. city. But I had a good experience in an European 250000 inhabitants city
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:41 PM
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Hahaha so true. It's hard, but it became less hard when it started being very rewarding. Many things we love we still do them even if they are hard, because of the reward. Like, people still have children. And they are terrible for your mental and physical health. Of the worst kind. 🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:30 PM
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You are criticizing for free but you are not offering your perspective, as "you have an idea", so your comment makes no sense
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:27 PM
0

I admire your freedom!
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:29 PM
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Make yourself a favour and go for therapy for those "downs". It could be even a better relationship.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:27 PM
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Don't you realize you just show envy? Why you come here to read stories if you don't believe them? Coming just for hate just makes it so you are representing being a envious teenager.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:26 PM
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Think about what you write before doing it. Post yourself first then. Or don't come back here if you don't believe people. It would feel weird not believing something and still coming.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:23 PM
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The real reason is that, when he achieves to have ONS first night, they feel bitchy and guilty after that, related to him
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:22 PM
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OP never said otherwise. But what you learn from meeting a good number of different women, you won't learn it ever from just one. And I'm talking about things that will make your relationships better with those "fantastic women" you talk about.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:18 PM
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This might be the most envious shit I've read in a while.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:15 PM
1

I recommend that you ask about this personally to some friends you can trust. Maybe travel outside more. I hug everybody in my Mediterranean country. I dance with girls all the time. Being them in relationships or not. Not getting a match in 7 years tells me more is going on. Maybe about your looks? About your attitude? Maybe because of so much religious stuff they thing you are a priest in celibate? I don't know how important is religion for you. But for me, that would be too much time with "yo…
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:01 AM
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Church? I don't recommend it for social life in which you want (you need) to meet girls. Also, if you are very active, you don't have that much time left. You need to go out more, often, or use apps, but really, aiming for big numbers, quantity. After you have quantity, then you can use criteria to loof for quality. Not even hugging a girl? I have the feeling you are not telling many things of your life. You don't have friends either? And consequently, woman friends? Not even a happy birthday hu…
/r/seduction31/01/26 12:02 AM
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Those mostly are single person hobbies, except if you do then in groups. You need hobbies in which you keep meeting a big number of new people frequently. Travel around your area, don't need to spend lots of money. Travelling is the best thing. Become an expert in cultural, natural and historic things around your area. Keep reading, but running, climbing... Those are great sports but there is always an opportunity cost: you are not doing more social plans at those moments. Read a good number of …
/r/seduction30/01/26 04:57 PM
1

I would need you to describe for me what's an interesting person for you, or why you think you are, first. Every girl??? There are millions and millions of single women in the world man haha. Stop with excuses and start the hard work now. It stop becoming hard when it starts becoming fun.
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:58 PM
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PLEASE, stop asking these questions here in internet. Ask those women directly. Every other thing is losing time or overthinking. And nothing like trial and error.
/r/seduction29/01/26 10:40 PM
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"Get more dates" is the only correct answer. How? Easy answer: make yourself an interesting person. It's not difficult. The problem is guys usually are lazy for this. Because of this, when you put effort, usually you have no competence. Most guys are lazy as fuck. Also, see the process in a colder way. Just meet a lot. And when you meet one that you really like... Don't stop there! Keep searching, keep looking for abundance. Each one has to deserve to be with you. After a good LONG time. Most me…
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:37 PM
2

So true. Great comment.
/r/seduction25/01/26 05:35 PM
0

I don't think u have gone to many. "Capitalism is bad" poor reasoning.
/r/seduction25/01/26 06:23 AM
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Oh no haha, they are designed for making money with alcohol. The rest is marketing. Do you feel you are from that low status group? In that case, take care about that egocentrism. They are not going "specifically" against you, be sure of that.
/r/seduction25/01/26 06:19 AM
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"Mostly due to lack of confidence and low self-esteem". This is some type of "being sick" that you can decide to cure or get the control of it in your life at some point or not. Leave prejudices back and go therapy as the gym for the mind it is. And learn to love yourself and use the potential you have in your life. You won't ask yourself this type of questions anymore. But, if you don't do the necessary actions to change, nothing will ever change. Many people stay the same forever. My advice? D…
/r/seduction25/01/26 06:17 AM
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This is an ad. Report.
/r/seduction22/01/26 03:35 PM
3

Please, report these AI posts that are a hidden ad
/r/seduction19/01/26 04:29 PM
6

Fartseller
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:15 AM
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To show confidence. To show dominance.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:14 AM
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I'm starting to dislike a lot this post which have hidden ads. And created with AI. We should start banning this.
/r/seduction16/01/26 10:45 PM
1

This is the best answer here by far
/r/seduction16/01/26 06:06 PM
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You have low self-esteem and drugs are the worst thing you could do for yourself there. We live in the laziest times ever, and we are creating the weakest men ever if we allow these things. What about telling women you like them and also learning from the risk of rejection. What about zero tolerance to drugs because of all their negative consequences and trying some of the alternative other 1000 ways. Using excuses is childish.
/r/seduction16/01/26 05:18 AM
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This is an ad. And AI. Please everybody report.
/r/seduction15/01/26 02:18 PM
1

Overthinking. It's just a nother girl you met very few minutes. Not enough for posting here, if you ask me. Look for more options. Message her or not... There is not an option which is better than the other. And please, the number of followers says nothing from a person. In my experience more followers represent a girl with even more need for approval.
/r/seduction11/01/26 02:58 AM
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Is better not using or supporting IG, if you ask me. Very toxic place. I don't care how common it is.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:06 AM
1

Overthinking. You need to talk with more.
/r/seduction01/01/26 09:34 PM
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THIS.
/r/seduction27/12/25 04:14 PM
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Everybody is worth knowing for anyone. Clubs in some way are bad, for example as apps. In the way that it's more difficult to find points in common. If for example you like art and go to an art exhibition, it's obvious you will find more people with your interests. They are mostly for fun, and that's great.
/r/seduction27/12/25 01:49 PM
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Be careful with labels. I also "thought" I was an introvert. I was for some things, yes. But those type of beliefs are the easiest excuse for stopping you from action. At some point I decided to work in that. And now I'm not as much, or if I feel scared, I even use it as fuel for taking action. Labels in most cases are not real and are one of the biggest problems in this society. Each human we are a huge incredible world inside, and we represent infinity possibilities of changes. It's your choic…
/r/seduction27/12/25 01:22 PM
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Your comments look just like unresolved traumas. Take care of those and go to therapy if you need that first. It helps lots.
/r/seduction27/12/25 01:18 PM
5

Many of us we have done it many times. What are you understanding? xD
/r/seduction27/12/25 01:18 PM
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You are approaching from the most pessimistic perspective. In that way, of course you are going to find negative points. Sometimes a good party with your friends is the best thing to disconnect from the routine. The dancing, musix, physical activity... It makes you use some senses more than others. I always loved dancing when going out, and later I even started taking it more seriously with classes, formation, etc. it's an insane world with a very professional and educative side. Also, dancing i…
/r/seduction27/12/25 01:17 PM
2

Basic mistake: you are focusing in just one interaction. You need big numbers, an as large as possible number of different scenarios. You need to look for abundance mentality. Then you will be able to choose easier who fits better for you, who makes things easier for you, etc. Not worth it studying just one case. Almost never.
/r/seduction24/12/25 12:55 AM
1

I'm really having a hard time understanding you if you express yourself like that...
/r/seduction23/12/25 04:13 PM
-2

"It works in guys like you"... Did you understand me in the complete opposite way? 😂 Also that "pretty natural look" you talk about doesn't exist. I was just talking about not liking fake looks. It doesn't mean the rest are natural. False dilemma fallacy. There is an spectrum in between. And you have girls with "imperfections" that make them even prettier and more attractive, because of their attitude. Fake looks is when you see obvious "additions" like big lips, fake eyebrows, exaggerated boobs…
/r/seduction23/12/25 11:07 AM
1

Exactly. Fake looks are not prettier. They are uglier indeed, if you ask me.
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:29 AM
17

THIS IS AN AD, report please
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:15 PM
1

For some people, a little of advance can really matter. We are all different. If you don't enjoy the small successes, then it's when you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:48 PM
14

This is an Ad
/r/seduction02/12/25 03:45 PM
1

If you have a cool enough plan B, like for example visiting cities or any cool place, why not. You can also use apps or go out there the left days too. :) Without a great enough plan B, I wouldn't.
/r/seduction30/11/25 10:48 PM
2

I don't like restaurants for dates. Too much investment of money, if you invite. I prefere to avoid them, just to avoid the "we share" conversation. After several dates, yes, maybe.
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:34 PM
-1

It's not ideological, it's the opposite, scientific evidence. If people would use those apps that tell you about your online time... Jeez, we are stealing so much time and resources for what should be done physically, in real world.
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:58 PM
0

I guess "some" people will use it well. Still a small %. It's creating cowards not being to express their feelings in real life even more. The effects they are creating in young people specially are devastating. You can look for enough scientific research from last years.
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:34 AM
6

NOPE! Social networks are a cancer. They fake reality enormously. You are avoiding physical contact. It should be just a tool to send messages to meet in real life.
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:36 PM
9

There are no tips. Just be honest with it. Not doing it is a weak person sign, you are coward about it. Think if the risk is worth it too, there are infinite million fishes in the sea.
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:34 PM
1

After you work for some time you will have money to have free time for you. Yeah, in my case I have done it twice and it was some of the most important time in my life. If you can't, you should find a better job. Maybe move to another country. Go out from comfort zone; yeah, it will be hard. You need to do sacrifices. Maybe don't take big commitments or decisions related to relationships and offspring. Etc etc etc. Also, many people is really bad managing money and will tell you otherwise lol. L…
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:09 PM
3

Maybe you decide you don't want to believe it, but many people are single just because they are happy like that. It has so many advantages lol, Nothing is necessary in life.
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:00 PM
5

Haha not pissed off. Just made a joke as it is such a low effort post. I'm sure you could give more insight which people would appreciate.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:40 PM
4

You finally solved the world. Can I go eat now?
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:36 PM
-2

So you really think everybody for example in their 40-50ies are happy with their lives and many of them would not benefit from a change? How many people do you know from that age? Because those are crazy ages indeed. What we see about perfect families and lives in movies is not real.
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:21 AM
8

Oh yes, the bullying. The only tool for some people in some situations. If the message is not helpful for you can just avoid it. If you instead decided to generate an attack or a not asked joke about a serious topic, first think about the image you are giving of yourself. It's your decision, so ok.
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:18 AM
2

Either. Why not 100 partners? You need many experiences to have a better criteria. There's not another way.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:48 AM
4

Exactly. Most people are thinking from their perspective (most people need money), and they don't want to believe someone with less problems with money can exist.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:48 AM
2

THIS. Have fun, over anything.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:45 AM
1

Books are the best. And practice.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:45 AM
14

I'm one of the few people understanding OP here and thinking quitting a job can be the best thing. On the other hand, this is another interesting perspective as well. Because yes, women should never be the primary goal. It should be always yourself. But I can understand OP trying to "compensate" here, just for some time, just like some holidays, and it totally makes sense. For sure, it would have been better to try to find time earlier. But HEY, life is not easy. We don't know OP. We don't know …
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:44 AM
3

You are showing more maturity that anyone here. You are in the right path.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:36 AM
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Ummm... Nope? There are millions of people who are in a shitty job and they don't give themselves a time to put things in personal life in order. They just go on and never evolve in life. Man, tat can be quite more unattractive. I have been with no job 2 different times and man, I met so much more people in that time. You wouldn't believe me. You have more time then, it makes sense. I never stopped having ambitions. Many girls understood I was in a time for putting things in order in my life and…
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:31 AM
2

I don't care more upvotes are going to not quitting a job. They don't know you. They don't know how easy or difficult it is for you to find another job. Or how important this is for you. You are not going to be young again, but you can find another job instead. That's your decision. Most people can't find easily another job because they are not competitive enough in the professional market. So that's what you will hear. Instead, NOBODY is going to tell you to stop some months of your life for pe…
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:15 AM
26

Data and percentages scientifically proven by studies from the University of Fuckington.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:37 PM
2

Seems like you didn't organize anything different or cool over average guys. Falling on the "average" territory is not a good thing. Or at least, something which you could enjoy yourself no matter of the outcome. You are focusing too much on results and not in enjoying yourself. Or maybe you are not giving other specific relevant details? From your text, I just see a boring date and the thing about the lipstick is random and irrelevant. I'm not being rude here, just honest, from my perspective. …
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:34 PM
1

You really must worry first if you want to spend time with a person who spends so much time in such a toxic place. Being hot is secondary.
/r/seduction13/11/25 06:56 AM
1

Nope, that seems as trying some kind of manipulation from your side. I almost never go on dates to restaurants. And if I go, I would split the bill always. I would invite only after I know more about her and we are starting to have "something". When it's "just" for drinks, I often pay a round and then I say "I invite this one, you can invite next round if you want". I never pay a second one after that. Some of them then avoid a second round. There are extremely selfish and materialistic girls ou…
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:40 PM
0

Write reports, with all the details from each date, here. When you go to those specific details, I'm sure people will find where to help you. Of course you have the right to complaint, but just complaining and giving a bunch of numbers related to fails doesn't help as much as going to the point, when you ask for help.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:27 PM
1

Incredibly perfect answer. Word by word. Therapy is the best possible tool and solution. its the "doctor" that fixes insecurities. As simple as that. It can improve your life enormously.
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:23 PM
1

Can I as why you feel paranoid or scared?
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:45 AM
12

This comment is peak material. It's about translating her language.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:20 PM
13

I don't mean to sound rude or offend, but this post is utter garbage and could create a counterproductive idea. First of all: you're writing a rule here based on a single, singular, and anecdotal event. Real science. If you're going to do things based on their reaction, you're going down the wrong path. When you meet someone, the only thing that should matter is discovering if there's compatibility. By opening up, seeing if she opens up, being yourself, etc. This kind of "game" of seeing who pay…
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:18 PM
3

Top answer
/r/seduction08/11/25 03:20 AM
1

Getting the Instagram means nothing. For too many girls, another follower is even food for their ego. But hey, if it's a important step for you, go on. You just must know that you have great next objectives to achieve after this one. :)
/r/seduction07/11/25 02:59 PM
20

This is an ad to his profile, written with ChatGpt. Please report or ban it.
/r/seduction07/11/25 01:26 PM
1

Yeah but nope, looks like him and others prefer to downvote without arguments instead. If only they would know the useless and negative those perspectives are. 😁
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:57 PM
1

This guy is 100% right. Maybe OP sees him as rude, but he is just being "aggressively honest". OP keeps giving excuses for everything. Looks like he is in an egocentric/narcissist place where he is not going to move from. First thing here: it is a very low effort post. If you want help, people need more information. If you complaint also about this truth, you are two times lazy. For achieving anything in life, first move from a lazy position, from the comfort zone. Question everything and especi…
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:50 PM
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Please don't be affected by downvotes, we are in internet, in most cases they are weird guys in their basements who are very far from ever having the conversation you had. For these any context in life, work in your self esteem and not giving a fuck about opinions. Specially from people who don't care about you. There are many negative people out there very sick, who are angry because of all the unresolved traumas they decide not to fix. Go on with your adventures and look for more. ;)
/r/seduction28/10/25 07:54 AM
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Not caring about your hygiene shouldn't be for debate. It won't ever be an opinion, it should be a basic rule of respect to others, here talking about your relationships. But right, sometimes I forgot we are internet... Where all type of people still exists and hide over a anonymous avatar lol. And no, don't come at me with that "any opinion is respectable" thing. Not doing things to take care of your hygiene will never be respectable.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:17 AM
4

This is overthinking. Which is already a big turn off. Very bad advice.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:09 AM
8

"Should have just given up on her after the first few red flag signs". You answered yourself. Not doing this is always a mistake. No exceptions. It also makes your life directly easier.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:04 AM
-2

This is an ad. Report.
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:22 AM
-9

Just "because"? Not a single argument, lol. It does matter. When there's pubic hair, bad odors are intensified. Sweat lingers longer. It puts limits on certain intimate play. I've occasionally found a huge bush, and it turned me off and took away my will to do anything, even to live. 🤣 For men, it also gives a much greater sense of hygiene, and helps the girl or person you end up having intimate play with. I read comments and get the feeling there are a lot of people here who haven't slept with …
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:18 AM
1

INDEED, using those brands just sounds about copying a personality, instead of building one
/r/seduction24/10/25 02:00 AM
1

Limited? World is huge. Travel. Move your ass if you want something.
/r/seduction24/10/25 01:58 AM
1

I don't want to sound rude, but let me tell you you sound weird in all sentences. It doesn't matter you are decent or not. Everybody is decent. What means above average? And why you "need" that? Who made you believe that? And why would you deserve more than others? Seems to egocentric and selfish. It seems like you don't have an own personality and you are just copying sentences that you heard from other people. All sounds very materialistic. A woman forever with you? Well, you would have to ear…
/r/seduction24/10/25 01:54 AM
1

Quality of women? You will attract people with same "quality" as you. Focus on yourself so you attract "better types".
/r/seduction23/10/25 06:43 PM
3

High probabilities she is married or in a relationship 😂
/r/seduction16/10/25 05:05 PM
-4

Low quality woman? What about you are a low quality human when you judge others? Let people make use of their sexuality as they want and stop judging. You are the problem here (until you stop judging).
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:41 PM
6

Basic mistake: you don't need to control any situation. You need to accept life has a lot of random events. You have to learn to enjoy it instead
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:20 AM
1

Looks like you are talking from a very toxic and unhealthy experience/reaction you didn't get over
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:19 AM
4

She doesn't know you. Judging her about not being comfortable is having unreal expectations.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:17 AM
2

Exactly. If she accepted being invited by 200$, she should be ok with inviting that same quantity again. Will it happen? lol we know the answers We should stop seeing some things that are not normal as normal
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:15 AM
9

You nailed it. On the most of respectful ways.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:12 AM
7

Stop acting like victim, it's not practical or real. There is more disrespect from yourself to yourself, that from her.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:11 AM
8

You are buying approval. That's a pretty bad first precedent. We are not in 1950. Stop doing it.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:08 AM
2

Exactly. Maybe this post is just to talk bad about someone and who knows what's true. Let's remember not believe anything in internet. Even a 10 year old kid knows you shouldn't pay for nothing. This is a strategy or a human who has been living in a cave for 20 years. Don't make me believe people like this exist please. 😂
/r/seduction05/10/25 02:18 PM
1

Da fak?
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:36 PM
1

And men.
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:35 PM
4

Dafak is this post IA automatic crap for karma?
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:03 PM
1

It's overthinking. Think less and feel more. We are never going to find meaning in things thinking a lot. We find meaning by experiencing life.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:59 AM
4

Dancing? Inviting to a more quiet area? And... Getting close to their ear? Is it really necessary to explain this? 🤣
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:23 PM
1

This sentence is calling you lazy
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:29 PM
4

It's not happening if you are not trying and if you are not improving ur lifestyle either. Change it and will happen. It's a pretty common thing happening all days.
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:28 PM
19

He had his head inside and could check it
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:27 PM
1

I loved this comment! Hard to see these cultural references around here! Most comments don't contribute almost anything compared to this so well elaborated and with that background one.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:31 PM
2

Just that title... Go therapy, it "saves" and saves countless lives each day.
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:28 PM
1

You are not using it for your business then. Set specific times to use it only. It's about autocontrol. If it's worth it to change those things or not. Dopamine is the opposite of happyness.
/r/seduction07/09/25 11:52 AM
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Best move? Don't overthink before ot happening. Just treat her as a friend. Then if there is compatibility.... You can build from there
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:26 PM
3

Nope, advicing something that can end hurting someone is never good advice. If you want to do it ok. But it's not good advice. Besides, you only give the impression that you were complacent and settled for "the bare minimum." If you ever experience love, you'll see that you have no need for it, and in fact, it can only bring you trouble and hurt others. Everything comes back. Best regards and good luck.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:17 PM
4

Um... Did you read the post? I would affirm the opposite lol A nice person, but with an addiction
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:12 PM
3

Unreal or too high expectatives are what causes anxiety. Don't have any expectations. Just enjoy meeting people. Focus in knowing others, helping others. What are you trying to prove to who? Go therapy to talk about this and solve it. It will help in any aspect of your life. Read books about psychology too. Also you keep using Instagram, another cancer for society. The fakest of things in the world. Don't use it if you can't handle it. Delete it right now. You don't need it. I know virgins at 27…
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:10 PM
0

Hey, which is a good thing, imo Pick up is or was just a game with "gamers" doing it
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:48 AM
1

Pick up is indeed not effective anymore. It was just a fun hobby in the past. Now it has been proved it gives you worse relationships.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:47 AM
2

Playing the Instagram game it's not worth it nowadays. They are playing a massive attention game there. The more valuable girls are those not addicted to it or who don't need it. Internet in general should be only for arranging meetings. Chats are huge lifetime losing machines.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:44 AM
1

Social circles are more effective. Ideal thing: both.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:42 AM
1

This was the only correct answer
/r/seduction24/08/25 09:56 PM
2

Oh I'm not English native. Don't hear about that. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:39 AM
1

After honeymoon? Or 2 days of sex. Beauty is extremely overrated. It's not a true value specially last decades.
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:02 PM
1

Extremely true haha
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:00 PM
1

I disagree. In the way that there are not universally high quality or amazing women. And everyone has flaws. A woman that can be amazing for you, can be the last option for me. And vice versa. Also disagree with X=X. Often the opposite type of people combine or complement each other in a great way. Indeed, if you always go for the same profiles, you won't learn anything new in life. Of course it's good advice to improve yourself along your life. And you can have more or less success, specially i…
/r/seduction22/08/25 12:58 PM
2

Best sentence I have read in a long time. So true.
/r/seduction22/08/25 12:52 PM
6

Exterior image: I'm a princess. Inside: deep unresolved traumas, narcissism. No thanks.
/r/seduction22/08/25 12:51 PM
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This is an ad
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:47 AM
1

But, there have been done endless studies proving social circles are extremely healthy and even necessary for good health. I am a lonely wolf as well, but I really have tried to work in that, and it's always worth it. I don't make friends in job. I'm risking my salary. Anyone can betray you. So you can't open yourself as well. Sometimes I do, but rarely. There are so much more people to do friends with.
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:56 AM
3

Mysticism, if you like it for fun, is it's legit, but it's a pseudoscience, and therefore a scam without solid evidence. Would recommend avoiding it. If you talk about being above others... Let me tell you: no one is better than anyone else. You're not above average in anything. Not you, not anyone else. You're only displaying a superiority complex. And every superiority complex is unequivocally associated with an inferiority complex. Any of these complexes will scare away people of greater huma…
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:54 AM
3

Statics need quantity. You need to join new hobbies, travel, maybe sometimes going to a more far away place and rent a place or go to a hostel so you enjoy 2 days in other place and you split the hours travelling... Try not judging others. It shouldn't matter for you info they are shallow or whatever. Think just from compatibility. You are just not compatible with the. It's about keep looking. Go to specialists and look for those possible diagnoses. Go therapy to understanding yourself. Believe …
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:48 AM
7

These kinds of thoughts only occur when you have a scarcity mentality. When you have other opportunities, only you'll be able to see if she's worth it. Spoiler alert: in most cases, it doesn't usually work. You only feel desire because you're near her, and your body makes you feel those things. If something were happening, it would have happened already, and naturally. You're caring too much about the outcome, instead of enjoying the processes. You're thinking about imaginary results. Go enjoy y…
/r/seduction06/08/25 08:43 AM
3

I don't know of your "situation", and I will never know if it's real or a fantasy; your just an anonymous internet person. Whatever it is, it doesn't prove any point. This thing of assuming my age doesn't prove anything either. I really know by experience, as many people here (I'm not a chosen one), that there are attractive women who aren't going to make you feel like a luxury product buyer. I understand that you and many others may have that perspective: the women who seek and need the most at…
/r/seduction06/08/25 08:34 AM
1

Great post!! I loved it. It can be very useful for many people.
/r/seduction06/08/25 06:31 AM
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That's the point: you are seeing respect as something which is not respect. Respect is equality: to share a bill. To not be based in old-fashioned "traditions". To not put the other person in an uncomfortable situation "assuming one of the genders must pay"..If it comes naturally from any of both, that's different. Yeah, you can act with old standard, but only guys from old standard will follow you, not updated to this modern world. The world has changed. Now the women doesn't live in the kitche…
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:39 PM
3

From my perspective as a "spoiled" person, you mean. Maybe some day you find valuable enough guys that make you change your mind. Not being able to find them yet, doesn't mean they don't exist. You become a quite much less attractive person if you make this public, just so you know.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:21 PM
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I'm sorry for you and not being able to find valuable women yet. Don't spend time with those there. Not knowing others, doesn't mean they don't exist. There is su much world and people you have to discover yet.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:18 PM
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You did GREAT. As you have to do. I hope many other guys read this and learn from you. There are still women like that, because there are men with no values allowing for that.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:15 PM
1

Useful, and very fun :)
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:41 AM
1

But are you honestly going to do it? Out of curiosity. It's a big picture, but a big picture is only painted as the combination of s good number of small pictures.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:09 AM
1

Yeah but don't be afraid to sound as a clown for people sometimes. Nobody is liked by everyone. If you are not disliked by anyone, it means u don't have a developed personality. Pass your limits so you know them.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:07 AM
5

Overthinking. Do what you feel in each moment. If you don't have good enough for you options, look for them, improve your lifestyle and social life.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:05 PM
13

Have 5 options. Better, 10. Everybody can 20 options now, it's pretty easy. Everybody have time for 50 of them as well. Nobody has to work or responsabilties. Guess I'll text my top 200 tomorrow.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:04 PM
1

First, you're relying on the false assumption that you'll learn what to say to a girl in 5 minutes. And yes, improving your life (not changing it) is the best thing you can do. In the long, medium, and short term. When you have an interesting life, in addition to all the benefits, it's impossible to run out of things to talk about. Also, focusing on the things to talk about... is a mistake. It's more important to focus on connecting with other people, finding compatibility, etc. When you connect…
/r/seduction04/08/25 01:34 PM
2

Lol no, better go to buy groceries or any shopping center and talk to people there first, if you have issues with being able to start conversations. People are indeed giving as an advice to talk with IA nowadays. Please, no!! It's like the opposite!! xD
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:57 PM
2

No star signs, or Instagram stuff, oh god, no. The most well-educated and interesting girls don't believe in those things, or are no Instagram addicts looking for attention continuously. So you would be indeed losing the best opportunities.
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:54 PM
0

Disagree totally. These kind of lines are too much effort and commitment. If this thing of using lines is a hobby for you, I can understand it, but it really is far from the thing that works better. Better building a more interesting lifestyle so you won't be short of things to talk about.
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:53 PM
3

You don't need to say funny things. You need to be a funny person. There is a huge difference. So work on it.
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:52 PM
1

Main mistake: trying to figure things out of nowhere. For this and other aspects, the best you can do: just focus on building a better life. New hobbies, more social life, all related with healthy lifestyle, have initiative for activities, etc etc etc. With this comment, and when some other people comments about perfect lines etc, the image given is just of a more boring life (we all have been there); but the good thing is that you have a huge margin to improve. You won't be short of things to t…
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:49 PM
6

Few things make a person more attractive than learning things, and for that, there's nothing like college.
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:04 AM
1

Os this a serious post? Like, seriously?
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:38 PM
1

If you spent any more time with a woman who insulted you, believe this: you are 100% the responsible of your problems or not being able to find interesting or valuable enough girls. Only when you change this you will find change.
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:06 PM
1

If you find toxic women, they are not toxic women, they are just toxic people. Go away from toxic people in general. Automatically. I don't even understand why you have to ask about this. And avoid being toxic yourself as well. "Shit tests", "winning frame"... That's old vocabulary from old "literature". Just meet a lot of people and stay with them just when you feel real compatibility. "When she couldn't win". It's not a competition. Change your perspective from this moment. It's about finding …
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:59 PM
1

Haha, thanks for your comment as well! You never get as much satisfaction as when you manage to help 💚💚😊
/r/seduction24/07/25 03:50 PM
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If you don't feel up to writing, that's fine. But in that case, you can also just not write at all. I think what OP wrote makes a lot of sense, and there are many people in that exact situation. You don't have to try to help OP, but at least don't post these kinds of responses, as if OP were to blame for something. Empathy is a virtue. These types of messages are spam, it is better not to participate in these cases.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:41 AM
14

Overthinking. You are too afraid of things. Low self-esteem. Many of us have been there. Things won't change until you start doing changes. It's logic. Don't give a shit about what people think, first. You are just yourself. We are all gonna die. Let's do things before we regret not doing them later. You are even still virgin. You don't need to find the love of your life in the first occasion. Indeed, later relationships/experiences will for sure go better than first one. Use condom. 100% of tim…
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:36 AM
6

What? That question is so poorly phrased. The interest has to come naturally to you. If it doesn't, it's because you haven't searched until you've found girls interesting enough for you, and you've been settling for less. Or maybe you're in a fun-only phase, but judging by what you're saying, it seems that's not the case. It's also possible that you won't be interested for a while, simply because you're at a point in your life where you don't feel like it. If you want more activity and excitemen…
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:23 PM
3

I think you have a major problem with communication and demands (regarding what you want in a relationship). Wanting to have sex frequently doesn't make you a creep. If it's important to you, and you have to do it frequently, you should communicate that. It can be done with respect. What you can't do is spend so much time with her if you have such different concepts of relationships, especially in that regard.
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:10 PM
2

I think it's one of the mistakes most men make. Talk to her about it and tell her it's important to you. If she doesn't take it into account or you're not compatible, break up with her. Things aren't going to magically change. You have to be available for the next wonderful girl who's eager to meet you. Yes, if it's an important aspect for you, it's not worth continuing. A year like this is too long to disrespect yourself. You've chosen the comfort of no change over unhappiness in an aspect that…
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:06 PM
1

This is overthinking, and put the woman as the prize. Build a good and valuable life for yourself. They'll come alone.
/r/seduction16/07/25 01:02 PM
3

No no, narcissism or treating bad others is never justified. Stop believing the story you told yourself, it's not real. It's not making the world a better place, it's the opposite. If you one day try to do it from a healthier perspective, maybe you understand it. Yeah, with an eccentric attitude you are going to attract eccentric people, but just that. If that's the life you want, it's ok, but that will be living in hard mode out of comfortability.
/r/seduction14/07/25 03:12 PM
3

Wow, I don't know who you are, but your ego is huge. Your way of labeling people, classifying and organizing them, is toxic, unrealistic, and prejudiced. I recommend you and everyone to research and read published scientific texts on the harmful psychological effects of overuse of labels on people, in modern world. We are humans, not labels. No one is better than anyone. I don't know if you are having success, or why. Maybe it's true, maybe not. But this is not a way of doing things. You should …
/r/seduction14/07/25 01:33 PM
27

Every superiority complex is associated with an inferiority complex. Everyone who reads this already knows this. I think you're the only one who doesn't realize it. I hope one day you'll find the courage to seek professional help to heal all your traumas. If not, in the meantime, you'll not only be bothering other people (who might eventually distance themselves from you anyway), but you'll be hurting yourself the most. Take care of yourself.
/r/seduction06/07/25 09:33 PM
66

"Baby girl"? That's no way to address someone. If you've had a lot of personal trauma, I understand your despair, regarding these issues and any other. But go to therapy instead, to work through your problems, before treating others badly.
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:23 PM
1

"Been doing the self-improvement journey for the last few years: upped my style, appearance, health, and lifestyle". I would say 99% sure here is the problem. You should explain yourself with more detail. You are saying it and we just have to "believe it". Probably doing not enough or not well. I'm not criticizing you, it's the opposite, you're doing great posting here. It's just you need to go more in deep when you explain yourself, the number of aspects can be a good quantity. I add: in case y…
/r/seduction04/07/25 06:44 PM
5

Again, you're just writing random words. No one knows you here; you're just anonymous. But everyone knows, from life experience, that when you read an anonymous person having deplorable attitudes toward others... that person isn't doing well in several aspects of their life. Therefore, I don't think you're a bad person deep down. But it's very obvious (to everyone) that you write this way to try to compensate for other feelings, and that you really have personal issues to resolve. Therefore, I w…
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:21 AM
6

First, you talk about the looks. It doesn't matter that much. The age? As well. Just go out to the world and meet and talk with the ones you find attractive, and they find you as well. Don't set limits to youserlf. Those are jsut that: artificial limits. Go therapy or read boooks or look for resources so you change your perspective about age: Many people struggle with it. But the people who work at it, cope brilliantly, and even enjoy celebrating their birthdays. And I'm telling you, I'm a simil…
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:12 AM
10

"Dating has literally never been easier". You are simply not credible to anyone. With that kind of attitude and that way of addressing others, I doubt you're attracting any valuable women. And the ones you do meet, once you take off the mask, will soon run away. Change this attitude toward others and maybe everything will change, but right now you have to change this narcissism problem, which is quite serious; look for therapy. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:01 AM
1

"I think he did good" is related to not trying to be other person. The second one is his decision, but "I guess" it's not an easy one for everyone.
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:07 PM
12

But... It's part of his Identity. He was honest about this. Being yourself is good to polarize. I think he did good, but a better option if you ask me is stop smoking. Long term is a pretty bad thing and it's going to drive away a huge quantity of girls.
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:28 PM
3

I don't agree, this sounds cliché. Why does it need to be an unhealthy place? The fact that he gets dates can even mean the opposite, that he has healthy habits. Dates and so can be just fun. Life is not black and white, you are not white happy or black sad. Maybe he felt "empty" after some time in his life, but cause does not mean correlation, it happens in everybody's life, and it's always for a mix of reasons, because of thousands of aspects in life. If he would have had no dates at all, prob…
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:17 AM
4

I think you are taking it from a wrong perspective. Why u want to advance to a future you don't know? You should solve first your problems related to what they think of you or if some responses affect you more than other ones. Because one answer or another, shouldn't matter to you. If a Yes, just go on. If a No, great, that tells you that girl is not compatible with you. You won't lose the time any more with her. And you look for other ones. How do you get better in accepting responses? Read boo…
/r/seduction10/06/25 10:01 AM
12

Wow in early interactions this conversation never should appear. But later, you won't believe it but there is a amazingly great way to do it: you can tell it to her.
/r/seduction10/06/25 08:09 AM
63

What he meant was that an interaction should be a two-way street. There should be progress and interest on both sides. Many guys stay even if the girl doesn't put any interest in making any progress. And that's a lack of self-respect, and just thinking from "your bottom head": you have to get away from there. And not taking it personal. It's just not a good day for her, or she's just not interested. Which is great information for you. So you can go: next!
/r/seduction10/06/25 08:07 AM
23

Exactly, you offer advice selflessly, and they stick with that, and with making jokes about it. Internet humor geniuses, a new profession.
/r/seduction10/06/25 08:03 AM
1

I think it doesn't matter a lot. If I feel like that, I will do it. Any way I won't go to expensive places. Only if she is my girlfriend at some point. The problem is when you do it because you think "you are supposed to". And sometimes you find this type of girls that want a free dinner. But now I usually have filtered out them sooner. With those? I will leave asap, as soon as I detect them. They have a very distorted image of reality.
/r/seduction09/06/25 09:23 AM
1

"There are 100s of thousands of people that say (...)". "I can confirm". It never fails. Typical quackery that appears with pseudosciences (as long as you don't prove otherwise). As long as you don't give me credible scientific studies proving valid results, I just see a person trying to force a scam into others even more. All webs that talk about benefits, sell some kind of related product. Are you related to this world well? Honestly asking. When a medical or health professional makes claims a…
/r/seduction09/06/25 09:19 AM
7

This!! You have to be polite, but not start "classic and exaggerated" cavalry (that's your choice) until you know there is real connection. I have such a better perspective and experience since I do it like this: a go for a date to "check" if there is compatibility between both. I say that directly to her. I don't pay by default (anyway a date with something like a dinner is never a good option). It helps me filter out the ones that don't have similar values to me. I always think it as this: in …
/r/seduction09/06/25 07:52 AM
2

Onitis. You need to meet more, so you don't make a world of just one very very specific situation.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:42 PM
12

Dont ever talk again to someone who tells you "have patience" instead of real reasons. Respect yourself.
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:59 PM
2

"Real??" 🤣🤣 Scientific studies on the subject have shown that it only has a very limited response. Therefore, it's a scam. Only people selling them will tell you they're good, as is the case with so many products these days. It's always better to go to specialized doctors and specialists. Anything less is supporting a scam.
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:14 AM
2

You can also imagine the deceased playing sports. Meanwhile, the girl: "What are you laughing at?"
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:08 AM
50

Cool post and idea
/r/seduction07/06/25 09:18 PM
-1

This.
/r/seduction06/06/25 08:42 AM
2

PUA styles are out of date and give a needy image of yourself. You are trying too much. There is nothing as "alpha" as being honest until you find compatibility, and accept rejection politely until then. Rejection is your friend until you find the compatibility.
/r/seduction06/06/25 08:41 AM
0

"Playing games" or using strategies instead of being honest about what you feel and what are your intentions shows a pretty needy image of yourself. Those limits of 10-12 words... Very weird. I know you have good intentions, but I can tell you from outside it feels creepy. Use your time in improve your attractiveness and your lifestyle instead than of this. 100000% better results.
/r/seduction06/06/25 08:37 AM
4

Is this a competition about who is the most arrogant one? 😂
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:08 AM
10

These kinds of people don't fit in naturally around here for long. But new specimens like this will always appear, with some frequency. :D
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:06 AM
9

When you have such a need to boast about something, it only gives the impression that you're trying to compensate for some kind of unresolved trauma or need. What you call "an alpha male" never acts as needy for approval as you did here. Take care of whatever you're going through. And embrace humility: such arrogance will only bring you trouble and make you even less credible.
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:04 AM
1

Well, to a limit, you don't want to end as a criminal. 🤣
/r/seduction05/06/25 07:22 AM
0

You give the impression that you have a very distorted view of reality, little experience in social life, or that you are deeply prejudiced. I don't mean this in a bad way, but let me explain: There are introvert boys and also girls who likes to go to clubs (it's the case of friends of mine), and they wouldn't like other people to tell them what to do. Everyone has the right to have fun in their own way. If they would "stick out in a bad way", it would just be for people who has big prejudices l…
/r/seduction05/06/25 07:16 AM
0

"Would you go out with a potential rapist or a kidnapper?" Yeez, some people have the right to be introvert and not be called something worse. What an exaggerated way of judging and what aberrant prejudices you have. 😂
/r/seduction04/06/25 03:27 PM
5

Rejection is a good and necessary thing. You stop losing time with someone not adequate for you. If you still think you are that important and you "deserve" something with that girl, then you have a problem
/r/seduction04/06/25 03:40 AM
2

This is peak in human evolution
/r/seduction04/06/25 03:26 AM
3

They prefer to complaint to find an excuse for their failures. If the advice doesn't apply for you, it's ok, but they shouldn't come here to write a comment to feel their ego. The advice is phenomenal. It requires important decisions, yeah, but it's still phenomenal. People who don't want to improve just want everything easy and fast. Lazy generations are coming, my god.
/r/seduction02/06/25 11:39 PM
2

Are those real prices? I feel so lucky living in Europe then. But here is getting worse last years :/
/r/seduction02/06/25 11:32 PM
1

Nope, they are not great. Socials nowadays generate the worst kind of weirdos and egocentric profiles.
/r/seduction01/06/25 11:37 PM
4

She is playing games. A serial killer (or just any type of sociopath) is indeed the person who can build the most "ideal" profile 😅
/r/seduction01/06/25 11:30 PM
7

THIS. Instagram is even going to give a more false impression about someone you meet. You won't know a person ever like in face to face. So happy to read a comment like this here. Insta and other social networks are some of the most manipulative products created. They are just a platform for advertising and make money from users. Something having success doesn't mean it's good. It's a bad thing indeed, nowadays in our times. It is one of the things that is most deforming humanity. I don't know i…
/r/seduction01/06/25 11:29 PM
3

If she is not clear, it's a very valuable information and sign to run away. Imagining non real scenarios is the opposite of helpful.
/r/seduction31/05/25 03:44 PM
2

"she said she had other plans. I didn’t say anything, but I was clearly upset": first mistake, why getting upset? You are meeting a girl and everything should be good and enjoyable. This is your problem. I recommend going to therapy. Just in case, I say this: not because you are sick, but to understand yourself better. And looking for more abundance of positive and happy perspectives of things. She is being honest. If she doesn't want to meet with you or have as much commitment, she is doing you…
/r/seduction31/05/25 03:43 PM
3

Yeah, paying her is buying her approval, in many cases. She should deserve it. If not, you are showing an image of yourself in which you need to buy for approval, and it can represent that you can't earn it for yourself. Maybe it made more sense in the past, when women didn't have jobs. It can also give the impression that you are old, out of date. I talk as a general rule... There will be specific contexts like in any topic where this rule maybe doesn't need to be that important. But those shou…
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:41 PM
5

This. I close to never met for a dinner. Only if it's with 2 euros tapas, or something like that.
/r/seduction29/05/25 02:27 PM
24

True, and paying is supporting the catfishing, as well.
/r/seduction29/05/25 02:26 PM
11

I know about one or two other extremely similar stories. They are lying to themselves as well. And yeah, in some way it's the only way of learning it. I have had "opposite" experiences as well: not great pictures, and then an amazing girl. In some way it makes sense: if you are not trying to have insanely and close to fake great pictures, it can be because it's an honest girl.
/r/seduction29/05/25 02:25 PM
1

Nope, there are no general strict rules here. As with many things, "it depends". If you build attraction and both of you are already in the mood, you can inform about it, and the girl can accept perfectly. You can just enjoy a good talk in the way there. As adults! Well, if you are using fake old technics from PUAs, and it's about manipulating the situation just in a temporary way... It can makes sense. But I don't recommend those.
/r/seduction28/05/25 01:31 PM
4

"lmfao"? Don't work? Maybe just for you. Dozens of times I introduced a friend of mine like this, and him as well. If you talk like you have it very clear, u should know already it's not what you say, but how you say it, and specially, the fact that you are at least saying something. The fact that a guy is the only one talking to a girl makes him already attractive.
/r/seduction28/05/25 01:27 PM
4

Great answer
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:57 PM
1

Is it maybe some sort of scam? The last part about the guide is very suspicious, if you ask me. And OP doesn't give a clarification.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:03 PM
6

"You’re tired of it. I was too. That’s why I put together a guide...". Nope! You put together a guide for later asking for money in any other way. If you would do it for honestly helping people, you would have added a link already. Is this a new format of a scam? Or any new type of business? If you are not transparent about this, it's going smell fishy and represent a scam since the first minute. I'm sure everybody would appreciate a clarification here, thanks.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:01 PM
3

Nope, its your comment the one more far away from truth. Btw, random insults only show to everyone that you're at a point where you're dissatisfied with your life. And using a term like that as an insult shows the amount of prejudice you haven't overcome and that won't let you move forward. Take care of yourself.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:33 PM
2

Not necessarily. In addition to sharing hobbies, you should be someone interesting and attractive to her, to a minimum degree. Sharing a hobby is nothing more than a coincidence lol
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:47 AM
9

THIS. Internet is the place where most people with social maladjustment live. They should come here to learn how to improve their social skills. But many of them just spend their time expressing their unfounded opinions. They come here to talk instead of listening. Internet allows this "tragedy" to happen; it's a very surreal and paradoxical place.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:44 AM
3

Yes, there are weird girls, just like there are weird boys. Because they're people, and there are all kinds. What you're talking about is just prejudice that limits you.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:40 AM
5

It you haven't found girls who share interests with you: - You haven't meet enough girls. - You haven't decided to expand your social life proactively. - You haven't tried to get rid of the prejudices you have about them. - You haven't expanded your interests. Increase your curiosity. And, look for hobbies with more social aspects. Fishing is cool, but it's an activity to do alone. And mostly typical of men. Find time to to another ones as well. If you think all girls only care about Taylor swif…
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:36 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:17 PM
1

Real answer: it depends. In the past I brought some to one place of "tapas" where each one with drink would be only 2 euros. I would even invite them, it was only 4-6 euros lol. And it was thematic, tapas about different parts of the world, which would open great topics of conversation. And there can be more examples of people around there. Typical restaurant where you pay 20-30 each? Not, for sure. Only if I really would enjoying going by myself, and only paying my part.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:57 PM
45

"I think it's fair to say that a true 'bad boy' seems to do well with girls". In some very specific cases, yes, this exists. But it's very very specific. And it will depend on what means "doing well" for you. And if you are interested in those type of girls, short or long term. Those "boys" usually are just like that. They are not forcing a personality, like in some way could be suggested here. In my opinion copying another personality seems very weak. And being a bad person will cause you more …
/r/seduction21/05/25 01:02 PM
1

Just about the title: it is misleading. You don't "need" anything before doing cold approach. It will work as an excuse for anyone to not start doing it. They can or should be advices "WHILE" or after approaching.
/r/seduction20/05/25 11:18 PM
1

Oh, I know about Casanova, I was referring to the other two. I already looked for them. Thanks
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:33 PM
1

I didn't understand the question. Could you elaborate? What are you referring about?
/r/seduction20/05/25 02:32 PM
1

Being a pro dancer has even far more "impact" that being just a casual dancer. You don't even know. And we are talking in a context where 70% are women. But you really need to like it, it's hard and frustrating at times.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:44 PM
2

I was referring to those TV characters... They are not from Uganda right?
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:40 PM
3

You didn't forget to love yourself, we are still learning how and how often to do it! I would say it has been always a competition, from a genetic perspective. But in real life, it has been only for whoever wanted it to be.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:37 PM
2

Yeah, a big % of women act like this as well. Your bad luck or absence of those experiences is just an anecdote. I really hope u can find them at some point! I was where you are long ago.
/r/seduction20/05/25 09:02 AM
2

I liked the post, but I didn't know about any of the examples, to be honest. OP is not clarifying about which country is talking about. Maybe OP doesn't know that this is a worldwide forum.
/r/seduction20/05/25 09:00 AM
2

I'm sorry about that, if that happened to you. But from all the experiences I know about, probably you didn't have enough experience reading red flags, establishing your limits, and building a healthy relationship (or leaving from an unhealthy one!). I'm not blaming you, nobody is born knowing. But it's good to share our experiences so we all learn for next opportunities. Good luck and I encourage you to search for that good perspective, that I promise you that it exists.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:58 AM
1

Let me tell you that your comment, from the outside, only shows a lack of experience and bad luck, or that you haven't put in enough effort and empathy. Try to "study" the topic, try to become a better person, and first and foremost, try to meet other people with the sole intention of making your life richer and more interesting. Also, use the tools you need to overcome potential traumas. And I'm sure that at some point you'll change that erroneous perspective and have much more success and "luc…
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:27 AM
16

Great post. Everything will go better in life for you if you do everything with love. And if you find things that you actually love. With humans, love is empathy, caring, listening. Putting yourself in someone else's shoes. It's totally a decision, like you said. More specifically: it's "an intention". A honest intention. And in my personal experience, that's what helped me the most with relationships: to be totally clear and honest with my intentions; first with myself, and then with other peop…
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:21 AM
3

Great story and example! Congrats! :)
/r/seduction17/05/25 03:44 PM
7

Nobody can say it would give the same results. A better one, impossible. Maybe it could have even generated the opposite result! It didn't matter what he said. It didn't matter even being nervous. It's a natural and human feeling. What mattered is that he went for it :)
/r/seduction17/05/25 03:44 PM
2

It's just one mere example that doesn't say anything. Try 20-50 experiences like that one and then post results.
/r/seduction16/05/25 11:01 PM
9

For me, what it mattered the most was changing my values. It's like the emotions that live in the deepest layer of our emotions. First, accepting they can change. So we can change. Almost completely. Later, realizing which are the most important ones for us. Not for our family, for the context what other people even with good intentions say, or for other people; just for us. Which ones prevalece over others. Where they are, in our scale of values. Not everybody achieves this in a deep way. Value…
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:58 AM
11

I doubt it. What do you mean with "dramatically"? Some people have dramatic changes in their life, but that's not the common thing
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:44 AM
0

Honestly, first I recommend you signing to hobbies, where you focus in growing in something specific, and you meet a lot of people. Of course, hobbies with big social aspects.
/r/seduction16/05/25 08:02 AM
1

lol'ed
/r/seduction16/05/25 06:48 AM
9

This!
/r/seduction15/05/25 06:50 AM
1

I totally agree with you! Someone's who is not handsome can achieve a good first impression. But I think they can also generate a great second, third and fourth impression as well!! :) And congrats for your story and your videos, those moments seemed very cool. :)
/r/seduction13/05/25 03:11 PM
3

Just try it, each person has a different experience. But dozens of thousands of people use it for success daily. I can tell you it can work wonders for sure.
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:29 PM
4

Thank you for the elaborated and high effort answer.
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:28 PM
2

Probably you know more than 1 or 2 examples of people being successful without being perfectly handsome from origin. There are just so many aspects in which improve: clothing, accessories, posture, culture, conversation, personal success, getting good at hobbies or abilities... There is always some point in which to improve. Also at the same time always we should wait for real compatibility, and discard the situations where it doesn't exist. To much people gets stuck in the same inappropriate (f…
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:41 AM
1

Related to saying to get together, I would say it's the opposite: the best moment is when she is laughing more or more hooked with her conversation. After talking for a bit, of course. It's when you will feel more attractive for her. It any moment is good, honestly, after you check there is compatibility. And you enjoy the meeting. If she negates, you will enjoy looking for the next one.
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:27 AM
1

For anxiety: go therapy. There is just not a better answer. You can even talk about this specific topic there. You can support it with books. Etc. For dates: try things related to hobbies in which you want to get better yourself. So if it fails as a date, you are still improving and not losing time. But you can just meet to ENJOY a conversation and learning about different people/personalities. I even don't use the word "date" ever. It's just about sharing moments and learning from others. And t…
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:22 AM
1

Wrong, everybody can be attractive with the appropriate direction and information. Everybody. Also we should consider that each one should "work" in a different context, depending on how you are. Each one we have a different "market".
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:05 AM
1

Don't go to a place if you are not confortable. Look for your more confortable places. And mostly, go to places that you would go alone first. But if you think you can change/improve your abilities/personality, to obtain valuable things from new contexts like this one, learn or get better in abilities that you see people is doing around. In clubs: learn about dressing better, about being more attractive, learn dance, etc etc. With books or other materials you can get. Also, try to make friends t…
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:02 AM
2

I think it's a very simplistic reduction. You could elaborate further, or give some examples.
/r/seduction12/05/25 10:08 PM
4

Use XL. You're welcome
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:10 PM
-1

I'm sorry, but what? Why do you have to force "monogamy" in someone? Why wouldn't you let other human to meet more than one woman if that's what they want? Not everybody wants to go into the idea of a relationship directly. Indeed, if OP is a "beginner", it's 1000 times better to know a good number of women earlier. To know about them, how can you make them happy, what things they value so you can offer those to them, how to learn about respect, also about self-respect so when you find crazy one…
/r/seduction11/05/25 06:26 PM
1

Great comment!!
/r/seduction10/05/25 12:11 AM
1

No! :P
/r/seduction08/05/25 10:00 PM
1

In my case, more fake looks and related type of girls in Tinder.
/r/seduction08/05/25 10:00 PM
2

Hahahahahaha. Hey I never needed to pay, but maybe that's a reason, for next trip I do. Specially if it's a short trip.
/r/seduction08/05/25 09:59 PM
1

Don't you really think you would success the same without paying, as you are having success already? I never paid in any app and it was enough for me. Just out of curiosity: other apps went better for me. In Tinder I found too many girls with extremely dense make up or very fake looks, or other ones just looking for Instagram followers. Didn't had that in other apps.
/r/seduction08/05/25 09:57 PM
4

This.
/r/seduction08/05/25 09:43 PM
5

A key part here is trying it by yourself, make yourself an opinion first. And then we can have a more interesting discussion about how it went. If you want opinion, you can search for endless websites and videos already. But mostly, put it in practice. You don't miss anything and you can learn/enjoy it a lot. It's totally free. Don't pay ever for an app except if you are going to be an advanced user or if it gives you some kind of revenue. Edit: for a lot of people, that one and other similar ap…
/r/seduction08/05/25 03:04 PM
15

Not in 3 days full time? That's a huge red flag for me. I feel like I'm missing a lot of information.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:55 PM
1

It doesn't need to be a reason, it's easy generalization. There are very mature and specially polite girls with that age. As well as there are extremely crazy women with 30-40. Also it depends on the culture and other factors.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:54 PM
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Sometimes yes, but it's not always rejection. Please, don't talk like you have the universal truth, just because you say you worked hard (which is good), but it sounds very egocentric and you won't be taken as seriously from many people. Sometimes friends are selfish and don't want their friends to success. I had this admitted to me from several girls about their friends later. Admitting they liked me. Other times they grab their friends because they had a boyfriend or were meeting someone their…
/r/seduction08/05/25 08:02 AM
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In my dance lessons there is this girl with only one arm and she dances great and we have a lot of fun
/r/seduction08/05/25 06:09 AM
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I used this like 15 years ago, now I'm so lazy for it sadly. 😅. It really works!
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:44 PM
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Dancing. Specially if you get good at it.
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:29 PM
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So many women in the world. Avoid that situation. Don't have a scarcity mentality. Seek abundance, create it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:35 PM
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Nobody needs relationships. But they are something that can allow you learning many useful things for life. And enjoy it a lot. If you ask me, it's something you can't choose, you don't choose it. Specially if you look for it! Instead just think about socializing and meeting great girls and also boys (as friends, or whatever,) in your life. Have great experiences with them. Meet people similar and also different to you. When you find interesting connections... Then some Magic can happen there? B…
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:57 PM
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Reading about evolutionary reasons that justify (in part) when they test you, behaviours, meaning of strategies, etc. The "whys". Before that, all was for me like "they do this and this, nothing makes sense, and maybe I will never understand it". My thoughts about "is it me?" disappeared with that as well. Reading and understanding about polarization, not losing time in people that don't bring good good value to your life, etc.
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:44 AM
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I really found this answer very clever! Being harshly honest is too often the most correct choice! And of course it still can be done with a big smile and a friendly tone... Well, nope, a serious tone is probably better :)
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:57 PM
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Fight? If I'm a person who doesn't like to go into useless fights, I won't do that ever. Better looking for other interactions. You shouldn't compete for her as a prize. It should be about being compatible or not. If the girl is enjoying that fight, she is not my type of girl. And I wouldn't recommend her to another, indeed!!
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:53 PM
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This was very brave and a great beginning. In some way, you are focusing on what you are posting here, about the communication to other people. So then, you are not focusing in the interactions, and then they are less relevant. It's a good technique. And they really are not that relevant. It helps lots when you deeply realize "we are not that important". Each one of us is just a grain of sand in such a vast world. Whatever you do with your approaches, won't have any impact in the world, or anybo…
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:42 AM
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If you have doubts about what kind of acts can ruin other person's life, I recommend you going to therapy to solve that and other things, for better.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:44 AM
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There can be infinite reasons. You can ask her directly. But at the same time, it doesn't matter. She can lie. Maybe she even doesn't understand herself. Use your time only with girls that value you. And to grow in your personal development. So everything comes in a more natural way, never forced.
/r/seduction01/05/25 11:29 PM
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If a girl does that is because if need for attention, because of insecurities. You can find a better one for you for sure.
/r/seduction01/05/25 11:26 PM
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It's so true, and it's so great to hear this from time to time. I appreciate it lots!! :) Now each one, we have to find the excuses we use personally. In my case, too many are like "when I'm in a better position than now, in these other aspects of my life, I will do this and this...". But then you age more and more. And ALL were excuses all the time. It is always better to take action "half-prepared". Because those brave moments, and what you learn and enjoy there, are what really prepares you f…
/r/seduction01/05/25 01:15 PM
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Ok but sorry if I ask u first: what does mean "our reality" for you?
/r/seduction30/04/25 12:24 PM
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You say "our reality" as if all realities would be the same. Each one is a very different reality. You have more possibilities in changing your reality that those you believe.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:32 AM
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I read somewhere that Lionel Messi is one of the soccer players who has missed the most goals ever! :) It hurts, but failure is the best teacher ever, that's for sure.
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:04 PM
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Yeah, if a relationship is based only in sex, it will be shallow very often (hey, not necessarily). But that depends totally on you. For example, I like to base my relationships in sharing cultural things, entertainment, company, fun moments, different hobbies, personal growth... And sex, where sex is one of the more important things for me. It's not the most important thing, but it's like a 30% important for me. It's on you to find compatibilities, on other people. But this has been always like…
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:02 PM
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THAT was a good read. Write a book please haha.
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:42 PM
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That wasn't realist ever! A huge percent of families were extremely unhappy for their whole lives lol. Consensual marriages. People couldn't get divorced. Abuse didn't come to light. Endless prejudices and ideological and religious impositions. It's true that there's a lot of "friction" now. But that's because the world is changing, for the better. And change always brings friction. Romanticizing the past is one of the easiest traps to fall into. Are you telling me that when someone chooses a pa…
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:37 PM
1

Tongue Jutsus are the best Justus. Unlimited power.
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:32 PM
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Exaggerated generalization. People try to get better things in any aspects of life. This is just another one. Some factor affecting us, doesn't make us slaves of it. Indeed, it gives more variety and richness to our lives. You could really change that perspective of sadness into joy or celebration. It's on you, working to get that better and more realist perspective.
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:31 PM
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"Fuel her insecurities". Are you joking?
/r/seduction27/04/25 11:15 PM
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It's not about her being a challenge or not. If she's sick, you should help her (only is she accepts that), not put her in a position where she could go worse. It's called empathy. You are not successful if you are not a good human first.
/r/seduction27/04/25 11:13 PM
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I support this. I recommend you stop being a coward and start being brave and honest. Only when you start being honest, you are going to have finally honest and valuable relationships and life. You are just closing doors for you. When you do those changes you will understand it.
/r/seduction27/04/25 02:23 PM
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