To men who work remote:

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-02-24T03:44:44+00:00

Cold approach is not seduction

ArmorAbsMrKrabs · 2026-02-23T12:41:43+00:00

Dating apps, street game, social events. Working remote doesn’t really change things for me

aeturnus95 · 2026-02-23T09:03:10+00:00

I work remotely but I use apps like Tinder in a passive way with success. Otherwise, spiritually speaking, I am into tantra and doing somatic work. So I try to attend those events in my city on a weekly basis. I don’t do cold approach, but I engage with women and people in those circles. And sometimes it goes deeper.

BigPurple5284 · 2026-02-23T13:11:41+00:00

I generally think it's a bad idea to hit on coworkers, so teleworking shouldn't make any impact. Just cold approach wherever you go in your personal time: stores, venues, parks, etc etc etc

norwegiandoggo · 2026-02-23T09:36:00+00:00

Dating apps

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-02-23T16:18:29+00:00

When i was single i did things like:

- meetup app - this is to make friends. I never really used it to get dates, but if one landed well then cool.

- jigsaw dating - kind of like meetup, you do have to pay per event but it had it's moments. I went in thinking "im just going to make friends" instead of trying to get dates and i got a few dates. The mindset of just making friends was just removing pressure off of myself.

- Bumble IRL - pretty much like jigsaw dating.

Now, i was someone who hated clubs/bars. But tbh, if you want to seduce, id encourage getting into it. I had to realize that if i wanted to play the game i had to play the game based off of the rules of the game, not my own rules. Do i love clubs, no. Did i learn to enjoy them? Yes.

This shit is already hard as it is. Why force yourself to play on extra hard level when you can just play on hard level.

Zealousideal-Web-683 · 2026-02-23T09:05:05+00:00

I’m looking for a remote job

gyunbie · 2026-02-23T11:29:46+00:00

Living your life? What are your hobbies, start from there.

therealslimshady1234 · 2026-02-23T20:27:26+00:00

Dating apps, I am too austistic for street approaches anyway. I tried and it nearly made me suicidal

No_Nick89 · 2026-02-23T13:49:54+00:00

I work in an office, and I will never engage with any of my colleagues, it can mostly bring you trouble, don't sh*t where you eat kinda thing.

I did hook up with a former colleague after the businesses we worked in closed, and oh boy, I can't imagine what a disaster it would be if we had started this shenanigans while working together in the same place.

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2026-02-23T19:01:26+00:00

As of now? Kink apps.

Literally acquired over thirty toys over the last two years or so and doing a slew of DIY and such to make things on my own. Got an insane burst of creativity just a few weekends ago actually and have had several ideas and such specd out on my own for the last two years or so.

Getting into more DIY and carpentry and such has been a huge target for me this year basically as well.

It was at about some point last year where just the sheer amount of items I had started to generate an absolute gravity with women towards me basically that I did not have when maybe I grabbed ten items or so.

Also gotta find a way to differentiate yourself regardless and be able to offer a genuinely one of a kind experience.

Mentioning I have "XYZ" thing and a girl letting you that she's always wanted to try that is the best.

Or knowing which kinks and angles to take that are the most wanted or maybe particular to whatever app or such you're on or type of women you tend to bring in....can show immediate viability or signal you can deliver that need, etc.

guice666 · 2026-02-23T19:35:14+00:00

As other said, dating apps.

Dating apps are complex (ish). A lot of comes down to the immediate one-second pause. People can swipe so fast, you literally have just one second to grab a person's attention. If you find yourself thinking your "initial reaction" is boring, so will other people. Find something that gets them to pause for one second. Just get that pause before the swipe so they'll "swipe up" instead of left.

Baraaplayer · 2026-02-24T00:22:07+00:00

I mean that should give you more time, unless you guys date women at work which is not a very good idea to me.

Travelxplore · 2026-02-23T08:55:50+00:00

Following

Soul_designer_ · 2026-02-23T16:12:46+00:00

Why is this nsfw ?

21harii · 2026-02-23T10:15:13+00:00

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Title	To men who work remote:
Author	scarcestraw1598
Upvotes	37
Comments	31
Date	February 23, 2026 8:48 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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