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I do this all the time. When I feel like I have already lost I start to feel more confident because im like "what else do I have to lose? Why not keep being myself even more and saying things I wouldn't usually say? What is she gonna NOT like me? Too late" I dont know why that happens but it does.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:42 PM
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fuck it. do it. once you do it theres no turning back. the longer you wait, the higher chance you have of talking yourself out of doing it
/r/seduction29/07/13 09:45 PM
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read this article. it discusses exactly what you talk about. you gotta tap into your confidence. do something that gives you confidence. http://tinybuddha.com/blog/the-secret-to-instant-self-confidence/
/r/seduction22/07/13 02:00 AM
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good job man. as a person who has been in your situation i can say it will get easier. when i first started approaching girls i didnt even think about going for a number close. the fact that i was even speaking to a girl was an accomplishment for me. your first field report just shows the proof of how much better you can get and how much easier it will become. keep doin ya thing bro
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:22 AM
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public bus lol im in college
/r/seduction12/07/13 01:24 PM
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everything you said is true. I also realized that in order to have a successful approach, you MUST do all those things because once you engage in the conversation there is NO backing out. So once you are engaged into the convo its best to try as hard as you can to do these things because its gonna look a whole lot better than displaying nervous body language. thanks for reading
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:48 PM
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im glad i could help. i have days where i approach girls and im like "wow that was so easy, what was i afraid of?!" then there are days where i go back to having approach anxiety and ill be afraid to approach. but when that happens i just remind myself that ive done this before and it was easy. i have this rule that once i start something i cant quit. if you decide to stop being afraid to approach girls, you cant decide to say "ok i dont want to do this anymore". good luck man never give up
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:42 PM
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whats up jeff
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:36 PM
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i feel what you're saying. the way i say it though is kinda in a playful way but i do see how that can come off to her in a rufe way
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:34 PM
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while writing the post it brought back the wierd feelings i got. but after reviewing some of my approaches I realized that my problem is that i always try to force the conversation and that makes it uncomfortable and a lot of work. instead i realized to just relax and let it flow naturally instead of always trying to think 10 steps ahead. this is definitely a cringe worthy post though
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:32 PM
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