bassaaphex Archive

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7	[REQUEST] - How do you guys mitigate the self hate that comes from being single? This will sound harsh but you need a wake up call man. If you hate yourself when single, you literally can't handle being in a relationship / won't be able to hold one. If you hate yourself for being single then you are obviously not satisfied with how your life is playing out, and if you think the mere presence of a female in your life will change this you are wrong. This will lead to your relationship comprising of you leeching all the positive energy out of her as she has to carry the relatio…	/r/seduction	23/03/17 03:27 AM
5	Coffee date tips I do coffee all the time for first dates. Find an awesome cafe, get to know the staff. That way you can look super cool chatting with them when she arrives. Most cafes will have news papers lying around, browse through a news paper instead of your phone, if you do arrive 10mins before her etc. If she's running late (and told you) I would just order a coffee for yourself while you wait, and get more when she arrives. Definitely pick somewhere that has an interesting feature within walking distanc…	/r/seduction	20/08/15 07:24 AM
1	What about drugs? I agree with what others have said here, that drugs will not fix the underlying issues new guys have with AA, confidence etc. Whatever level of recreational use you have is your business, but unless you have good Game sober, you're not going to get better by relying on drugs. For some people it might even negatively affect their game in the long run as they will rely on the effects in social situations, without it they won't know what to do Having said that, I have some fantastic stories of sets…	/r/seduction	06/08/15 07:58 AM
1	How important is a decent car? As long as it is clean, it makes no difference. I used to have a shitbox lancer, and since upgrading to a toyota 86 last year it hasn't improved my game at all. Sure some girls might comment "nice car" or whatever but none of them date me for the car	/r/seduction	25/06/15 12:27 PM
4	[Q?] Am I in the Friend Zone? A 3 day trip is a big commitment for someone you've only held hands with.. I would try setup another date with her before hand, and make sure she knows it's a date, not just a work thing. Her response will tell you if you're in the friend zone or not.	/r/seduction	23/06/15 07:59 AM
1	Been speaking to this girl for a couple of hours on Tinder now. Think I got a chance to ask her to see a movie but not sure how to go about it. Jump in and ask her man, worst thing that can happen is she will say no and you'll be in exactly the same chance as hooking up with her before asking her, so nothing to feel bad about, only good things can happen I would suggest meeting for coffee or something an hour before the movie, to get to know her etc. because movie dates are generally not so good at building an emotional connection.	/r/seduction	21/06/15 10:44 AM
4	Difficulty Transitioning to #-close Write your name and number on the side of the cup with a smily face	/r/seduction	20/06/15 06:24 PM
9	Being too aggressive in pursuing a FWB? I'd say hitting her up for a booty call like that as your first sex with her was probably a bad move. Usually fwb comes after a few good sexual encounters and you both agree to keep it casual. Probably try and see if you can take her on another date. One that will end in sex and then talk about it after she's comfortable you're not treating her like a slut. Girls generally don't like feeling like a slut	/r/seduction	20/06/15 09:05 AM
1	[FR] Slept over her place, too drunk, couldn't seal the deal. Could use your guys help. Kiss & #-close. This. It's ok to drink big early in the night, but I usually stop before midnight. Most of the time it's at least after 3 sexy time begins so you should be sobering up a bit by then anyway. You can always switch to soda + lime if you think you look silly without a drink and pretend it's vodka. Honestly it's probably going to be a very uphill battle to get the chance to sleep with her again. If you do run into her, just act like nothing is wrong, and re escalate. I probably wouldn't escalate too …	/r/seduction	20/06/15 08:58 AM
8	Alternate ways to approach and secure girl's number and date ? I don't mean to be a dick here but saying that it will take you 3 years to be able to approach girls is ridiculous. You need to get your head out of this major limiting belief and jump into the thick of it. There is no other way to get good at game, there is no "alternative" method to getting girls. You open her, demonstrate that you are a sex worthy man and then let biology take over from there. With the starting point that you're coming from it sounds like the best thing for you is to focus no…	/r/seduction	19/06/15 07:52 AM
1	What first dates have the highest chance of leading to a make out? Find a nice spot to stop, turn into Her, lightly step on her toes, touch her neck. Kiss	/r/seduction	18/06/15 01:16 AM
1	Approached a girl that gave me multiple glances but she found me awkward - How should I improve? It's only awkward if you make it awkward. In this situation I would of embraced the awkwardness "wow this is so awkward me approaching 2 cuties at maccas haha, anyways blah blah blah..." Or similar It shows you're socially aware of what's up, that you don't care about what society thinks is awkward because you're in control of your own fun. Ejecting like you did only reinforces that it's awkward and you're not able to change that reality. My advice, socially calibrate the situation by addressing…	/r/seduction	17/06/15 11:17 PM
2	What do I do when random girls look at me when I don't find them attractive? Approach all. Even the fatties. I find that they actually have alot more wit and can be more fun to talk with than a typical bitch face 8 who thinks she's the shit. Perfect example, last weekend I was at my favourite bar. Walked out to the smokers area, opened the first set I saw. It was 2 girls and a guy. Turns out the guy was one of the djs with his girl, and the other was 10 years older than me, and a larger girl. I spent 20 mins with these guys because they were fun, and the girl was so obvi…	/r/seduction	17/06/15 11:06 PM
1	Brisbane, Australia. Anyone from the area? Sounds good mate. I work as a bartender so usually pretty big on Sunday seshes	/r/seduction	16/06/15 08:48 AM
2	Brisbane, Australia. Anyone from the area? gc area. But sometimes head up to valley for nights out	/r/seduction	16/06/15 06:44 AM
2	What's a clever way to respond to someone who's asking if we are a couple? I like to say yeah of course we're getting married next week! Are you going to come to our wedding?? Everytime I have done this, it has left the girl and the random person eating out of my hand. You can even start to talk about your crazy honey moon plans etc. I once had a girl from a city 2 hour plane ride away come visit me for a weekend because of this line. I kept amplifying the joke and everyone we talked to that night we kept building on this crazy fantasy love story.	/r/seduction	16/06/15 05:35 AM
1	Greetings when meeting on a first date? Go for the hug. It's totally normal.	/r/seduction	16/06/15 05:25 AM
1	My go to pick up is a nasty habit. I've done the same thing, smokers areas are an excellent place to game. The music is usually quieter so it's easier to talk etc, and everyone is standing around wanting to talk. Carrying a light is good, however don't use it as the only way to open. Just approach groups with a hey what's up etc.	/r/seduction	16/06/15 04:59 AM
2	[FR] Bar hopping Good sesh man. Even though you didn't pull its awesome to see you break down the night and write down what you learnt and what you can do better next time.	/r/seduction	15/06/15 02:11 PM
5	Any tips on how to go from number to date? Waiting 4 - 7 days is way too long. As soon as you get the number you need to setup a date for as soon as possible. Ideally Tomorrow or day after. I find especially with tinder, you will be quickly forgotten no matter how interesting your conversion was, until you meet.	/r/seduction	15/06/15 12:28 PM
1	Do you pay for the first hang out/date? A first date for me is never more expensive than a cup of coffee so it's no hassle to pay. If there's a second date i set it up so we split. Surprisingly I find a lot of girls don't mind splitting a second date. Just don't take her anywhere that will break the bank. Also if you really don't want to pay for the first date, get there early, order your beer/coffee/whatever before she shows up. That way when she gets there she will just order and pay for herself.	/r/seduction	04/06/15 10:12 PM
1	Help With Canned Material IMO Beyond having a set of fun stories, and knowing what attractive qualities you have to flaunt, Canned material is terrible as it is too pre calculated and it's not possible for you to learn a canned line to respond to every situation...	/r/seduction	20/05/15 01:37 PM
2	Went on first date, flaked second date. It could be her way of feeling better about herself after letting you down.. I'd still say give her a second shot, if she flakes again you know where you stand.	/r/seduction	28/04/15 10:07 PM
1	Is it too late for me? I know the feeling man, I used to play video games regularly as did my 3 house mates. It got to the point of just being sad, and I realized how much it was holding me back, so I sold the xbox and started to spend my nights going to the gym and socializing as much as possible. You're on the right track mate, we're all in this together!	/r/seduction	27/04/15 12:51 AM
1	Is it too late for me? Mate it's never too late to start. It sounds like you have already identified areas you need to work on, and you're actively doing something about it. One thing you should also think about is becoming outcome independent. Don't put yourself down just because it didn't work out with one girl. You will get rejection, it will suck at first, but you learn from it and treat it as a reference experience. The most important thing is having the motivation to get better. If you want it, you will make it …	/r/seduction	26/04/15 10:58 PM
2	Dealing with an on/off boyfriend situation So you've got to decide what you want from her. If it's a FWB then I would just more aggressively pursue it, and forget about the boyfriend. Don't be the guy who gives her relationship advice / a shoulder to cry on, I'm sure she has other dudes friend zoned for that already. If you're after a relationship with her, be very careful about falling for her too quickly. She's going through a breakup and likely is not ready for it. Plus you need to understand that she was happy to flirt/make out with …	/r/seduction	24/02/15 09:17 PM
3	First date in three days and her #. Do I text prior? If you're meeting today, don't start a conversation. Just send a confirmation text. My line is: "Hey just making sure you're still excited for x. See you soon!" That way you you know if it's on or if they're a flake.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 09:54 PM