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| 1 | I approached for the first timeGood job, as least you're trying. Tons of guys out there would be jealous that you had the courage to try because they're too scared to do so themselves I'm no expert at game myself, so maybe you can take this with a grain of salt. How long were these conversations before you asked for their numbers? I think you need to build some rapport first before asking for their numbers. Such as chatting for at least 3 minutes. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you be comfortable exchanging numbers with a s… | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Do cats offer unconditional love like dogs?But there's a term for it: postmortem predation | /r/MGTOW | 23/03/17 04:56 PM |
| -2 | Do cats offer unconditional love like dogs?But what about the fact that cats will want to eat you when you die? | /r/MGTOW | 23/03/17 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Do cats offer unconditional love like dogs?But what about the fact that cats will want to eat you when you die? | /r/MGTOW | 23/03/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinThat's an excellent point. By feeling more gratitude, it's easier for me to accept my insecurities, and thus be comfortable with talking about them with others | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 11:11 AM |
| 1 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinGlad to hear I helped. Ignore the societal conditioning that says you need to get laid to be a 'real man' or because it'll fill some void in your life | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 11:09 AM |
| 2 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinYou go on to talk about how shit everyone has it I didn't say everyone has a miserable life. There's plenty of people who are happier than me. By no means am I the happiest and most confident guy in the world. And then you should see the world as full of love, fortune and peace. No, you don't have to if you don't want to. But I'm sure most people would rather feel these good feelings than feeling depressed and jealous that others have it better The guys that have none I suppose should... be grat… | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinSure, it won't always help with your seduction skills. Just as there are guys who are miserable and very ungrateful and feel scarcity, but have excellent seduction skills (ex. bad boys and thugs). Gratitude is about living a better life in general. So you can feel great even if no woman wants you. So many guys are so terrified at that possibility that it's just very sad | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinIt's made a huge difference in my life too, which is why I wanted to share this in this subreddit. Learning about PUA and approaching women just led to misery. But gratitude alone has dramatically increased my optimism and my willingness to live | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 05:48 AM |
| 0 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinGlad to hear it helped | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 02:05 AM |
| 5 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinSex, in a way, is a false-happiness Exactly. There's plenty of celebrities and other extremely rich people who can choose any girl they want. But they drown themselves in drugs and alcohol because they're so miserable | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinwho looks great, but has nothing to her heart. This is gold | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 02:01 AM |
| 3 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinSolid post, thanks for sharing too | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinYes, the key is to feel abundance regardless if you succeed or not. And having a mindset of gratitude helps with that When you focus more on what you already have, you'll feel less needy to "get". In this case, getting women. Ironically, this will actually make you more likely to get women. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 10:45 PM |
| 5 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinBut its temporary satisfaction. Gratitude leads to continuous, long-term satisfaction | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 10:33 PM |
| 3 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinNo problem, glad it helped | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 10:32 PM |
| 0 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinWhat is this, a religious sermon? I thought this was r/seduction. I actually learned the importance of gratitude by watching the videos of a PUA. That guy is RSD Tyler it certainly hasn't gotten anyone laid. apparently it helped RSD Tyler You know that depression causes you to lose appreciation for things that you previously enjoyed, right? I wasn't targeting those who have depression as a medical problem. For those who choose to be depressed, its actually their loss of appreciation for things t… | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Why social circle is the best path for most guys on here.Haven't have had this experience at all, and I've lived in a few different cities in the US. I've noticed that for these meetup groups there is nearly always at least a 3:2 ratio of men to women. And many of those women are in their 30s or older. And many of those guys are competitive and thirsty for women, so they'll go out of their way to cockblock you or exclude you while talking to the women they're going after | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 06:58 AM |
| 1 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideSo when you have them people around you see you differently. You made some good points. But it is never a good thing to be worried about what others think about you. Again, you will be in constant fear and worry because anyone with more luxury, beauty, and wealth could come and threaten you. If you were secure with yourself, you could instead just say "umm ok, who cares?". If the people around you treat that other person better, you can just leave them and hang out with better people. No need to… | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideThat's why I said the book "Letting Go" mentions how to drop your ego in more detail | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideif you have an internal personal pride about living your life in line with your personal values But you will still need to defend that pride, and feel insecure and be fearful when you feel threatened the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight That sounds like a good book, I'll take a look at it | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideHowever, pride/ego can also be a source of drive .. Case in point- if your pride says you deserve a better paying job, you would refuse to accept your current position in life. For the motivated, this would prompt them to work on their resume or education, and seek the rewarding career that their pride insists they deserve. Sure, by all means go for something you want. The key is to drop your self-image. That way you can be free of the need to defend that self-image. Because how will you respond… | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:25 PM |
| 3 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideI think i just feel guilty for letting people go that think i cared about them. But i never really did. I'm pretty most people do the same thing. Just look at the friends of most people. They actually secretly see them as threats and get jealous of them often I feel sad for them because i'll disappoint them and they won't understand it. No, I don't think it's that big of an issue. Just let it go | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:15 PM |
| 4 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideAnd my life has improved dramatically. That's great to hear. Thanks for sharing I am less friendly and sometimes don't really care all that much about others. That's not necessarily a bad thing. Some people pretend and manipulate others into thinking they're friendly when in reality they are just extremely concerned about their self-image Right now i just don't feel the need to prove anything to myself or others anymore. That's a great thing. You have freed yourself from pressures and fears | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up bad, I hope you enjoy this one boys. Today is the last time I let any girl walk all over me.I don't understand what you're saying | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 06:32 AM |
| 2 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideThanks, glad I helped | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:44 AM |
| 2 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideYou're right, it's easier said than done. That's why you should read that book I mentioned. It explains how to "let go". I also modified the OP to link to a new version of my video that at 1:40 gives an example of how to let go by making fun of myself | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:44 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up bad, I hope you enjoy this one boys. Today is the last time I let any girl walk all over me.Don't beat yourself up. People tend to beat themselves up or blame others for their mistakes because of ... ego/pride. Once you realize there is no need to defend your ego/pride, it becomes much easier to let your mistakes slide, laugh at yourself, and realize those mistakes mean nothing | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:42 AM |
| 2 | The best Psychology resources for getting better with womenNo problem. "Ego is the Enemy" that Strike48 also sounds like a great book | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The best Psychology resources for getting better with womenI never heard of "Ego is the Enemy". It sounds like a great book. Thanks for mentioning it | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:14 AM |
| 2 | The best Psychology resources for getting better with womenAnother great book I recommend is "Letting Go" by David Hawkins: https://www.amazon.com/Letting-Go-Surrender-David-Hawkins-ebook/dp/B00EY818TQ/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8 This book will help cleanse you of the #1 thing holding you back from women: your ego and pride. Holding onto an ego requires constant energy and puts you in constant fear as you have to defend your ego. By letting go, you become free and ironically become more confident and interact alot more naturally and effortlessly with people in … | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 11:07 PM |
| 4 | I seriously don't know where to go to meet women.Read the book "Day Bang" by Roosh. I followed his advice and got my last date by asking the girl next to me at the food court an innocent question: "Where did you get those noodles?" | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Is the cause of suffering really due to competition and the solution is to see everyone as your friend?Force/aggression requires constant energy. Compassion and power do not. By being in a competitive state, we are always thinking in terms of winning vs losing and thus have many enemies. When constantly faced with enemies, we have to constantly defend ourselves and be drained of energy Moreover, force/aggression has temporary goals. When you reach your goals (for example, putting down a threat/enemy), then life becomes empty and meaningless. You see this in bad boys and alcoholics for example. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/16 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Exercises for a louder speaking voice.I think the problem is that you have been conditioned by society to view life as a competition. Society has brainwashed all of us to view others as competition because it drives consumerism. You feel this fear and nervousness that you have to be more alpha and impress women. That fear is what's causing your voice to be stifled. These 2 RSD videos helped me deal with a similar situation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pdoFNlaDNI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-dey66iBcE Tyler basically says t… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 07:23 AM |
| -1 | How do you get over the fact another guy put you down/humiliated you in the past when you see him everyday?I think the problem is that you have been conditioned by society to view life as a competition. You aren't alone in viewing others as competition. Society has brainwashed all of us to view others as competition because it drives consumerism. You feel this fear and shame of being the "loser" and that this guy "owned" you. These 2 RSD videos helped me deal with a similar situation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pdoFNlaDNI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-dey66iBcE Tyler basically says that the… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenYeah, that's a good point. You want to be yourself to an extent and not copy someone else too much. Then you'll be in constant fear because you have to constantly worry if you are meeting the "image" of that person you're copying or not | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 04:37 PM |
| 3 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenHaha, I kind of agree. I don't think she's that hot | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenExactly | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenWell ok, he doesn't have to say that out loud. It's more of an inner feeling we should master | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | A good 30 sec video that shows how to handle yourself when asking out womenThe point I was trying to make with the video is that the guy is unfazed by her reaction because he is already happy with himself, and just simply gave her the option to simply not show up. He does not depend on her, he is not nervous while depending on her reaction, and would not get angry if she rejected him | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENI just recently started practicing gratitude. I have not gone out much recently with the sole purpose of meeting women, so I haven't attracted any women recently. However, watching his videos and practicing gratitude has been far more effective at curing my depression and anger towards life than anything else I've tried | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 06:14 AM |
| 7 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENI'm going to really try to help you out here because I had the same bitter feelings you feel now. I also was angry at the world because no one cared you don't go out much because you hate mainstream social life I actually still am that way to an extent. I don't like alot of the mainstream social life. But there's some things I like. For example, I play sports and go to clubs with my friend. However, I don't have that many friends and I dislike 95%+ of Hollywood movies. I've often been labeled as… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENFear comes from an unhealthy focus on yourself. That's exactly the point I was trying to make | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENAre you sitting at home in front of PC all day, unshaven in weeks, eating shit food, doing shit all? And you are still awesome? A person who is like that is ungrateful. They think the world sucks, life is unfair, etc. Which is why they feel no need to give back to others and try to make the world a better place. They think that way because they don't realize they actually can be awesome. They think they need to be rich, have alot of social status, or whatever, in order to be awesome. But they do… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENWell the point I was trying to get across is that some of those Buddhist are indeed 40-year old virgins, literally. Probably the biggest fear many guys have is ending up as a 40-year old virgin. But those Buddhist monk 40-year old virgins have far better and admirable lives than some people, such as rock stars who are addicted to drugs and alcohol. So their lives are better than some guys who can get any girl they want Thanks for the suggestion. I didn't realize my "umm"'s were so off-putting. O… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENThanks man. Glad to hear I helped | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENFear is helpful sometimes. For example, if you are alone and a tiger is nearby and is going after you, you better be scared, otherwise your life will end. But most of the fear we face in our everyday lives are just due to ego. For example, some people would get terrified at the thought of being ostracized and humiliated. But in a situation like that, nothing really happens. You're still perfectly safe and can just walk away | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENNo problem, glad to hear I helped | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENThat's a great point. It's people's egos that cloud their judgment. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENYou're welcome. Glad to hear I helped | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENThat's great to hear. I'm sure the joy you've been getting for giving to others and building trust with them so they come to you for help is FAR greater than any joy that any SMOKING hot girl can provide | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:05 AM |
| 7 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENI agree. Not fapping has not made a difference in my life. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENBut the realization I talked about in the OP had nothing to do with fapping. I still fap the same amount I did before, but the realization of giving/sharing instead of taking helped my life dramatically | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:03 AM |
| 4 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENYou're right. But I made this post to help out guys with their lives in general, not just when it comes to dealing with women | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENTo be successful you have to accept that you're not the most important person in the world. You're not a special snowflake with special problems You're totally right. The ironic thing is that thinking you way dramatically improves your happiness in life, and ironically even makes you alot more attractive to women. It was hard for me to accept this at first because I was so conditioned by society to be competitive, and that acquiring wealth/status would make me a "winner" by society's standards | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENThanks for the comment. I really appreciate it when people like you let me know I made a different in their lives | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 02:59 AM |
| 0 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENThat's good to hear. I now have a challenge for you. Think of how you can offer and help others (it doesn't have to be seduction/girl-related). Then find a way to help others. If you found my post helpful, it can be as simple spreading this post to your friends or even other internet forums. Or instead, you could go to a homeless shelter and just help out for free. Or you could just chat with some girl, and instead of trying to seduce her so you can sleep with her, just focus on getting her to r… | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 05:30 PM |
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