bdubbs09 Archive

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6	Don't project your ideals on someone then get mad when they dont live up to them.		bdubbs09	/r/seduction	20/09/19 07:30 PM

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5	If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle. So overlooked. Stay on your purpose, the rest will come.	/r/seduction	07/08/20 03:57 PM
6	Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret? Yea exactly. Being secure in who you are, your interactions with people, how you present yourself, etc. To add, especially on presentation, wear fitting clothes, stay groomed, drink water, and try to stay in decent shape. All of that goes extremely far in making a good impression. And for the love of god, smelling good. Smell is the sense that is most directly linked to memory. If you smell good, shes much more likely to remember you.	/r/seduction	09/07/20 06:48 PM
97	Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret? Be confident, but not arrogant. Know what you have to offer and that you're good with or without them in your life. Dont focus on the outcome, ie dont try to force chemistry or eventually, a relationship. Just be yourself and have fun. Attractive women are just people too, so treat them the same as you would anyone else.	/r/seduction	09/07/20 01:49 PM
4	What self improvements you doing during quarantine? I've created a at home workout that's pretty solid I can send anyone (I'm a former personal trainer). You dont really need any weights, but I'm using water jugs (about 20 lbs each). If you shoot me your email in a PM I'll send it out to you. Aside from that, lots of meditation, lots of reading (3% man is good for seduction if that's your jam). Writing music, but still fortunate to work from home. Trying to learn more spanish and french, cooking a new meal every few days. Getting a certification …	/r/seduction	22/04/20 10:20 PM
1	Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story? I took a load of spanish in grade school and some french in high school. I might try to get back to both. I'd prefer French just because it's different. Just harder to practice with less people speaking it.	/r/seduction	07/04/20 07:16 PM
22	Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story? I guess I could add my story. I grew up in a small town with pretty shitty upbringing. Joined the military to get away, and moved to a large city. I honestly modeled myself after James Bond; always competent no matter the situation, jack of all trades, takes care of himself, etc. So while I was in the military I was one person and also another in my free time. I joined at 138lbs and put on 30lbs of muscle, became a physical trainer while in. I maintain a great physique 10 years later. I would ho…	/r/seduction	07/04/20 02:44 PM
1	I’m so fucking tired of dealing with girls’ stupid games; I’m going to put my own goals and interests in front of chasing girls for a while. Women are like buses. Never chase one because theres another 15mins later.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 06:07 PM
3	Don't try to get her interested, attraction is about excitement Movies are not interactive. Escape Rooms, hiking, go carts, cooking classes. They are interactive. Something where you are doing something takes the weight off of the conversation and breaks the ice much better than small talk.	/r/seduction	27/10/19 11:18 AM
0	Don't try to get her interested, attraction is about excitement This is generally why you should go on interactive dates too. Endorphin rushes are way more powerful than small talk.	/r/seduction	27/10/19 12:47 AM
3	How the EGO Effects Your "Game" I think hell be ok. I mean if theres anyone with the capability to bounce back, I'd put my money on Jordan. But I'm the same. My family has a history of addiction. I refuse to use pain meds, etc unless its absolutely unbearable. I'm interested to hear his perspective once he gets back on his feet though.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 11:17 PM
1	How the EGO Effects Your "Game" Even outside of seduction etc, I'd strongly suggest Jordan Peterson, and especially his book 12 Rules for Life. If you aren't a book worm, listen to it on audio. It literally changed my approach to life.	/r/seduction	12/10/19 10:47 PM
1	Let's get YOU a wingman! I'm in Tysons. DM me your info. I'm looking for someone downtown!	/r/seduction	22/09/19 05:15 AM
2	So my first approach went well (not) "Of course not today. I'll make us breakfast tomorrow morning!"	/r/seduction	25/08/19 07:13 PM
4	Cold approached these two girls, both were really cool, exchanged numbers and made plans for the next day to hang out, got stood up :(. Think about it this way: them not showing up gave you free time to go approach more girls!	/r/seduction	24/08/19 12:59 PM
20	You are better looking than you think Accept your flaws and work on them. Meditate on them and how you can be better. Know that not everyone is going to like you. You can run game perfectly on one girl and she'll fall in love with you. The next might think you're annoying. Dont let your ego control you. Try not to let the outcome of an interaction control your emotion. Realize that you are worth something. Start making changes in your life that are incremental and compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else i…	/r/seduction	24/08/19 02:24 AM
14	You are better looking than you think Trust yourself. Instead of asking "who am I to be attractive to such and such" start thinking "who is she not to be attracted to me?" Not in an arrogant way, just trust yourself to be yourself, whatever that is. Gotta love yourself before others will.	/r/seduction	23/08/19 11:33 PM
4	You are better looking than you think It's really interesting that guys won't compliment each other. I try to do this as much as I can to my friends. We, as men, need to get over this mentality that caring for each other and showing it is taboo. I always compliment friends on little things like a nice watch or shoes or cologne or whatever. Even if it isn't my taste, it's worth it to add to their confidence. Especially when going out.	/r/seduction	23/08/19 11:27 PM
1	What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with? I usually make a joke out of it. "Does he know you talk to cute guys at ______ during your free time?" etc. You have to say it with a smile and a laugh though. Also at that point, I lower my expectations and shrug it off and mentally move on.	/r/seduction	23/08/19 03:43 PM
3	How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women) Most people don't even know you exist. Your ego is what is humiliated.	/r/seduction	15/08/19 12:17 AM