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You just... got it wrong, man. That's okay. And, by your vote position... seems like the community agrees. No worries though, this is about learning.
/r/seduction09/09/13 10:05 PM
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this is all actually pretty horrible.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:02 PM
8

I'm too old to get the reference... :-(
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:01 AM
1

Before you go talk to her, open your phone's "new contacts" page. Then chat her up, and before you leave, hand her your phone and say "Here, gimme your number" or something like that.
/r/seduction25/04/13 06:26 AM
2

Drinks at a wine bar or cocktail bar on a Thursday night. If it goes well, you can set up a date for the weekend. If it doesn't go well, you can laugh it off with buddies at work the next day and you haven't blown a weekend night.
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:14 PM
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Yeah, i'm all over r/sex... I guess i just want o make sure i stay "dialed in"
/r/seduction22/01/13 09:15 PM
1

excellent. thanks.
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:02 AM
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word.
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:51 PM
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Thanks, man!
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:47 PM
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Thanks for the links... I liked both of those artists.
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:40 PM
1

Frank Ocean, Double tapped. Will search. Thanks!
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:37 PM
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tell her to stop wasting your time. maybe even tell her to fuck off. Her "tendency" as you call it is really a control mechanism that she's using over you. She's playing you for a response and jerking your chain as soon as you start wander. Actually... just tell her to fuck off. That shit isn't worth your time.
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:17 PM
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Love that whole album. Not so much the feeling I'm going for. Haha
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:11 PM
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You should: 1) Go read the sidebar so as to not be clueless. 2) Not buy her flowers. 3) probably stop pursuing her. its been a month... if you're not fucking yet, you're in the friendzone.
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:04 PM
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Bitches fucking love getting flowers. Well said, sir. Made me laugh out loud.
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:53 PM
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Nice. I will look into Mr. LaMontagne. I have a similar set-up, but I run music through my Apple TV... no bedroom speakers yet. Thanks!
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:13 PM
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sounds like you have a fuck buddy. That's a good thing if you're both into it. Maybe start the seduction a few days before the party via text. If you two have a good, flirty rapport you should be able to pull it off. Be overt that you want to take her home and have awesome sex with her after the party. I can't tell you what to say, but in general, you want her to be thinking about having sex with you before you even show up. Bring a buddy to the party so you're not a "stray dog" and have him win…
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:32 AM
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Cancel. You don't need her brand of crazy and you won't change her.
/r/seduction06/01/13 09:59 PM
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Gotta disagree, albeit respectfully. but it is unrelated to seducing her and having sex with her. Seduction is about creating comfort in ever-escalating levels of intimacy. With the BS that our society puts into our heads about sex and especially women's sexuality, I believe that helping a woman feel good about herself (at least during intimate moments) is incredibly necessary.
/r/seduction04/01/13 01:22 AM
1

Don't tell a woman who isn't special to you that she is special. This sounds like you wanted to say something with more depth or sexiness, but you flaked. NBD, we all puss out from time to time. If you're back at your place, pour some wine, stand in the kitchen (the counter tops will come in handy), stand close, make body contact, speak softly, say things like "you're soooo fucking sexy" or "there's something about you that turns me on" or "just the way you hold your glass makes me want to do di…
/r/seduction04/01/13 01:12 AM
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You've done well here... I'd like to read about why you did what you did, some analysis of what works and doesn't with this girl etc.
/r/seduction04/01/13 12:02 AM
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If Seddit had its own comic book, Bitch Shield would most certainly be the Arch Enemy, and this would be her Origin Story.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:12 AM
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upvote for the laugh.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:19 PM
1

I like this. The frame of "good at social situations, here to help, you shouldn't do that again." is exactly the tight-rope of nice but firm that a we need to be walking to maintain control of ourselves and an interaction.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:26 PM
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I don't come across these girls more than one or two times a week, tops. Approach every single one of them. You'll learn where they are and what they're like.
/r/seduction29/05/12 04:27 AM
1

This is duchy and a rip-off of an old Top Gear episode where they asked women whether they preferred an Aston Martin or a puppy. Of course, women preferred the puppy. It doesn't matter what you drive as long as its well maintained, because it's an example of how much you care about yourself and your willingness to take care of others. I used to drive a 2010 Subaru STI. I loved it, but my inner game was all fucked up and I got no women. I now drive a 1997 Jeep Cherokee and I get more women simply…
/r/seduction29/05/12 04:17 AM
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I want to talk to the girls I see but I'm afraid if I fail, I'll get a bad reputation. From Yoda: "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." Truer words have never been spoken. Go have fun. Getting attention from women will lead to more attention to women... Just remember, be good to all of them and you'll have nothing to worry about but too many women wanting to meet you.
/r/seduction29/05/12 04:10 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:55 AM
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this belongs in r/relationships
/r/seduction24/05/12 05:03 PM
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There was a whole avenue of escalation that, quite stupidly, never occurred to me. Just whipping your dick out. Honestly, why not? made me laugh so hard. Go for it ASAP and give us an FR. Though, for the record, it sounds like a bad idea. I'd love to be wrong though.
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:11 AM
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Excellent. Just realize, you've got to live for you, not to say "fuck you" to her... know what I mean?
/r/seduction23/05/12 07:37 AM
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Sounds like you played it right. I'm I catching it right that this is a hotel/conference thing? Get some sleep tonight. Take it tomorrow.
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:02 AM
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Short-run "ehh, what ever works;" Long-run "Yes, this is a bad reason to act more confident." In a few weeks that motivation will wear off. Then you'll probably just be a little sad. However, if it took being dumped to break out of your shell, and you set yourself on the right track to self improvement because of it... Awesome. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:57 AM
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Xervix, I think you're over reacting a bit. It's not useful or part of this community's general vibe to be aggressive and angry toward one another. Save that shit for somewhere else, please.This is honestly the first time I've seen someone do this here. I hope it's the last Here's my take on what the OP said that got you all hot and bothered: high school kids...which I feel like she is kind of acting like. It sounded to me like he's saying she's awkward about affection toward him around other pe…
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:48 AM
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I don't think that any of the principles here, are any different for you. You just have to maintain your values. Adapt and do whats comfortable for you. If you haven't already, read the sidebar, it's a wealth of knowledge.
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:21 AM
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You know what man? You're doing great. Use your knowledge and comfortable situations for a while to get used to going up to strange women and talking to them. Also, try using this opener: "Hey, how are you?" It's pretty much fool proof.
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:44 AM
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make firm plans for some night this week... not "some time".. something like "hey, there's an open mic night at xxxx on thursday, you in?"
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:28 AM
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Sounds like you need to work on your inner game, sister. I think you have confidence and intimacy issues. To wit: I know it may be strange but the more I care about the person, the less I try to engage in a relationship of anykind - either sentimental or physical. To me that means the more you care about someone, the less you think they should get close to you... either for your sake or theirs. A confident person wants to get closer to the people that they care about. You probably shouldn't do i…
/r/seduction22/05/12 02:13 AM
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sorry bud...
/r/seduction22/05/12 12:58 AM
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A part of me wants to go all the way with him; the other, thinks is not the best candidate for my first time First time having sex or first time having no strings attached sexual relationships?
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:06 PM
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I'll simply be quiet for 2 to 3 seconds, comfortably step out of my head and find my footing, then speak. This + eye contact and a smile
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:51 PM
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well done sir. I've got my own little oneitis lurking... it always helps a little when I hear about someone blowing out their oneitis.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:42 PM
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seems like you're headed the right direction. good luck.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:06 PM
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No, bro... it's not macho... it's a lot of guys like you who want to learn about how to be around women and a lot of guys who want to help them because they used to be clueless about women.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:04 PM
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This may be a weird question, but, did you start reading seddit to help your relationship, because you knew it was going to be over soon or for some other reason?
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:05 AM
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unoriginal sin is a 90's kid like me. I fucking Love Wayne's World... we're going to be friends.
/r/seduction21/05/12 07:53 AM
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nothing. Go read everything on the sidebar and start over. Hit the gym hard and put on some muscle. Read some books and do interesting shit. Get your head right... you can't do anything to make a girl more desirous of you. You can just make you as awesome as possible. If she calls this summer, cool, but don't sit by the phone. Go out and start approaching. Maybe send her a text in a month and ask how her summer is. Just one though... don't be a weenie. When you see her again next year, if your'e…
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:33 AM
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up vote just for the title. Now I'm going to read.
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:21 AM
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unorgainalsin is right. Though, I'd like to hear how to friendzone a girl. In fact, how is it they friendzone us? I usually know when it's happened, and I know if I've done something to put myself there. But it's like Kaiser fucking Soze sometimes... Poof... and the only whiteness just gimped out the door. Seriously, unoriginalsin (or anyone else) please expand on this if you can. The OP is probably pretty young (sounds like a HS thing), but as a dude in his late 20s I know that if I could frien…
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:20 AM
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It's just like any other night out with a girl you're interested in. Start with the easy kino stuff and that should let her know you're interested as more than a friend. If you escalate and she puts the brakes on, just go back to the previous step. Above all, have a good time and don't worry about her "seeing someone." In fact, don't even ask about it.
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:06 AM
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um, yeah, you're missing the point of all of this seduction stuff if calling her a bitch and telling her to go fuck herself is the logical next step for you. Sounds like you need some work on your inner game.
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:34 AM
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"Eew.. that's creepy bro, I don't even know you."
/r/seduction20/05/12 09:57 PM
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sidebar. read it.
/r/seduction20/05/12 03:22 PM
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I don't think you were ever in the friendzone, man. I think she just wanted to take it slow and not get too physical too fast. Sounds like she's a good girl who's looking for a relationship. Otherwise, good kino breakdown. I hope some noobs read this.
/r/seduction20/05/12 06:38 AM
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sidebar, sidebar, sidebar. read it, learn it, live it. Fashion: Go to the mall and have some of the female retail attendants help dress you. It also gets you experience talking to pretty girls. (learned this from another Sedditor) Approach/ecsalation/conversation lasting longer/closing: Just get in as many approaches as you can and the rest will come. It's like reps at the gym and strength.
/r/seduction20/05/12 05:17 AM
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It seems like you've got some bias leaking out of your question. In addition to being a forum for guys who want to learn to successfully communicate with women - and of course have sex with them - about 90% of the info here is helpful to guys who want to be better men and lovers for their wives. There are guys who fuck around on their wives everywhere, so its doubtful that it doesn't exist here... But for the most part you'll find two types of guys here. 1) Guys who have had life long problems c…
/r/seduction20/05/12 05:08 AM
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I started with going to the mall and chatting up at least 5 hot retail girls per day to gain confidence. I got this idea from another Sedditor. The girls are always going to be nice so you're really only taking minimal risk.
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:04 AM
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Congrats bro. About the awkwardness... She told you she likes you a lot. And she had sex with you. That means she likes YOU. Any second guessing your words, or actions or other awkward behavior is just you getting in your own way now. There is literally no pressure on you to be anything but you because she likes YOU. Hope that helps.
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:25 AM
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ok.
/r/seduction18/05/12 09:09 PM
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Yeah, but still...
/r/seduction18/05/12 08:27 PM
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I see what you mean, but there really isn't a way to establish who really has real life experience. Theoretically, EVERY FR or post about techniques or frames that work could just be a dude making shit up. Hell, even TofuTofu [legend beyond reproach] could just be shining us all on. (pretty sure he's not, but you see what I mean right? We are, after all an online community and very few of us will ever meet. The mass consensus here seems to work pretty well. I'm pretty new, but the stuff that rea…
/r/seduction18/05/12 08:25 PM
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Maybe a system of flairs based on how many up votes a user's comments, links and posts have accumulated. It could probably include a formula for recent up votes being more important than up votes that are older (kinda like how the golf rankings work)... that way activity and credibility (in the view of the community) are both taken into account for a designation of status. Just spitballin' here...
/r/seduction18/05/12 08:05 PM
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The r/atheism one links back to r/atheism... the r/technology one links back to r/technology... I'm pretty sure this is by design so that if you click a link to a post you can quickly get back to the home page without hitting back, and thus you'll load any new posts that have popped up.
/r/seduction18/05/12 07:59 PM
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At the top left of the page, the word "Seddit" (in red, right next to the animation of the girls and Reddit guy) links back to the Reddit front page. It should probably link to the Seddit front page right? I think that's an easy fix.
/r/seduction18/05/12 07:53 PM
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Just go for it dude. Start with light kino when you invite her to the happy hour and tell her she looks pretty... that's really the best way to let her know you're interested and get her interested at the same time. Most people are interested in people who show interest in them. Good luck, just try and hit a single and you might be able to manufacture a run.
/r/seduction18/05/12 07:30 AM
1

Thank you, sir.
/r/seduction17/05/12 10:23 PM
58

"Here, write your number down on the back of my card." Requiring compliance is a good thing. Showing her your card is a good thing. Best of both worlds. And, you are correct, girls almost never contact a guy. Giving out your number is futile.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:35 PM
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wow... Spacegoat725 and hardeplasser... do your readings boys. Going dutch means we're paying for ourselves. I'm not paying for her because A) most grown women don't want you to B) you only buy things for people who earn it. C)Because it's like a rule of fucking thumb in this community not to act like a traditional Ducher that buys things for girls. D)I'm a fucking college student.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:07 PM
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probably drinks and dinner. I'm going to think about other things to do, but we'll be going out right after she gets off of work, so a meal is necessary, though not ideal.
/r/seduction17/05/12 09:06 AM
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Glad I could help. I hope some more folks read this and give their perspective. Post again with some results of your conversation and how things went better the next time you went out. I'd like to hear about what you did to change your situation.
/r/seduction17/05/12 05:21 AM
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A few thoughts, I've had a buddy kinda like this. Bi-lingual, green beret, world traveler, "natural" in every way. First, sit down and talk to him about the cheap shots. My guess is they come at a time when you're doing well with a set. He probably does this unconsciously to "keep the natural order" that used to be. Just ask him to stop because he's your best friend and he shouldn't try to make you feel/look like shit in front of other people. Ask him to try tell stories that make you look good,…
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:51 AM
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Start seeing a therapist weekly and work through the PTSD as opposed to just existing with it. You're going to need to do a lot of crying. Submit yourself to the process, don't resist. Don't get on pills. Do every bit of research you can into your condition so that you can better understand and process your own emotions. The brick wall you've built up to protect yourself is keeping others out and you're kind of you're own prisoner. With proper treatment this stuff gets better.
/r/seduction04/05/12 02:36 PM
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It sounds like she's into you, so make with the kino next time you see her. It's really as simple as that.
/r/seduction04/05/12 02:27 PM
2

This was a 42 year old, so Cougar would have been a better term. She's nuts, but fucking her was quite awesome. Good luck on your next go round.
/r/seduction03/05/12 11:04 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction03/05/12 07:38 PM
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Two questions and a hypothesis: 1) do these girls know that your marriage is open? 2) have they met your wife? My hypothesis is that they aren't fully comfortable getting involved since you're married, even though you may have told them. It seems like you spend a lot of time around #1 and she's into you, but doesn't want to be a "piece on the side." I think your situation may be better suited to SNL's or maybe bringing your wife along for the fun. I dunno though, I've never been in an open relat…
/r/seduction03/05/12 07:41 AM
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oh... I see... then I think you'll be fine with a few solid stock answers that seem like they're coming from a human being. It may be useful to hit as many sets as you can as quickly as you can just to get the conversation out of the way with as many women as possible so that you can move on. If the women start to shit test you in the form of additional questions about your marriage (after you've given a good stock answer and steered the conversation) I've found it useful to say "You know, we've…
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:35 AM
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I agree. Stay friendly and nice to her if you run into her, but don't hang out with her intentionally until you're onto the next one.
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:22 AM
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I just got a divorce too. I've been using "It's for the best." in response to "sorry to hear that" [not a shit test by the way]. When women ask "What happened?" I usually go with "It's complicated, but, we're both better off now." Women are generally looking for you to show some emotion with these types of inquiries, and I think it's okay if you do so in the context of these short answers. They just wanna know you're human I guess. Always move away from the subject quickly. No more than two sent…
/r/seduction01/05/12 05:16 AM
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You're like John freaking Madden with the X's and O's brother.
/r/seduction01/05/12 01:26 AM
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Start by going to college in Texas, Florida, California or Arizona. More hot chicks. Then read the sidebar and good luck.
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:18 AM
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Sounds to me like the approach was the right one for the situation. You got blown out by bad luck and a bitchy friend. Oh well.
/r/seduction29/04/12 05:05 PM
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I respect the time you put into this post, but I'm still not a fan of negging. I understand that if a girl is being a bitch, you might feel like she needs to be brought down a peg, but I'd just rather turn my head and walk away... next! It seems to me that that's the most negative feedback you can give. And why would you want to keep gaming a chick that acts like an asshole?
/r/seduction29/04/12 03:30 AM
1

Roll Tide, Roll.
/r/seduction26/04/12 06:06 AM
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Not caring about your appearance may give off the impression that you don't know how to take care of yourself, and therefore couldn't take care of a woman. Maybe, just give half of an ass and see if your results are improved.
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:52 AM
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I disagree. A healthy person takes a fearless personal inventory from time to time, then decides to act upon the things that they want to change about themselves. Similarly, a healthy community holds open forums about what they'd like to see change in the community. I doubt that there will be any "binding legislation" that comes from this, but I hope those who read the threads might take another person's perspective to heart and maybe even adjust their own ideas as they see fit. Or, not. Either …
/r/seduction26/04/12 05:43 AM
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Well played. Apparently though, you didn't need your game face, because you've become your game face. Cool.
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:38 AM
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Good one sir. The next morning can be awkward if not handled properly. I don't know if I've ever found the right balance. But I'm sure that the more experienced out there can give some good guidance.
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:20 AM
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I find its about allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Not a mopey bitch, just open and honest about how you feel about the world around you. Passions, fears, what amazes you, how you try to live... here's a good TED talk about how being vulnerable allows you to connect with others on a substantial level. Good luck. http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:13 AM
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I agree. Plus, wouldn't it be more fun to say "I approached a slightly hefty older woman with cottage cheese legs and smokers teeth" then lie and say "so I opened this HB8." Ha! Seriously though, I'm in favor of dumping the HB scale.
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:04 AM
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I'll say it... negs. Any post or community member that talks about using negs loses a lot of credibility with me. I really find it disgusting. There was a post a few days ago about text openers that linked to a blog. The list had some decent stuff, but there was a handful of material that involved calling a girl retarded. It was gross. I like teasing as long as it's good natured, but it seems that guys who talk about using negs use them to bring a girl's self esteem down. I even saw a video link…
/r/seduction26/04/12 03:50 AM
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What I meant was, immediately the day after your fb conversation. NBDR... good luck with the next one.
/r/seduction26/04/12 12:43 AM
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You shoulda approached her right away the next day. And it's gotta flow from a conversation... it sounds like you just popped it on her kinda out of nowhere. Good luck, bud.
/r/seduction25/04/12 11:33 PM
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I agonized over whether to say football, futball, or soccer but fotball never entered my mind.
/r/seduction25/04/12 03:31 PM
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I dig.
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:07 AM
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Well, that's the plan. But, you don't think there are any "special considerations" here?
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:59 AM
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I've found that I can get into state quickly by listening to the right music and just jamming out while "visualizing" how cool my day is going to be while I'm on my way to school. Then I flirt heavily with my baristas while I get my coffee as a quickie warm-up set. After that, it's on. I feel like "human pot" and give out smiles and love all day. You'll be excited when the girls approach you. And remember, they're girls, so they are all "someone special!"
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:57 AM
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big ups to the /r/lesbianPUA board.
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:45 AM
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Tiger Woods J/k... Jessica Biel
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:51 AM
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wontonsouper is correct. But, let me provide some guidance on how to get there. Approach and talk to the next 10 girls you're attracted to that you've never talked to before. Oh, and read the shit out of the sidebars for some encouragement.
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:06 AM
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When you have to endure small amounts of racism on a daily basis, and large doses occassionally, it changes your perspective on things. Profound. Also the apostrophes are "f's" in Safari too.
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:32 AM
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but the way she lives she's pretty unreliable Maybe she shouldn't be your girlfriend then. "Unreliable" doesn't exactly scream "I think this girl and I have a future together."
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:21 AM
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B and C are duchers. Find new friends. A is worrisome too. It seems like she's attracted to chaos. What do you know about her parents/childhood? Angry dad, divorced, abandoned? Mom had a few BF's that were creepy or assholes too? Addicts/drinking problems? If any of this hits home, you should give it a few weeks of light dating to make sure she's not nuts too. You don't want to get dragged into crazytown on accident. No matter how good your intentions are, you can't fix her if she's already brok…
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:14 AM
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I like this. the P.S. part is cool and gave me an idea... draw a stick figure with a smiley face next to your number that you give her... "so you can remember what I look like" or "so you can remember how cute I am." or some thing like that... I dunno, just spit balling
/r/seduction25/04/12 12:01 AM
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I'm no expert on this, but there have been a few good posts recently on this. just search "dancing" in this sub and you'll find some good stuff.
/r/seduction24/04/12 11:42 PM
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I think you're onto something here. I went out on Friday to dinner then a casino with two buddies. They both dressed normally, I peacocked slightly gay. I wore dark blue jeans, a salmon button up and a cream sport coat. I felt like women looked at me differently than they usually do in my "hipster meets woodsman" apparel that I usually go out in. If you haven't been seen it yet, /r/malefashionadvice is a pretty good sub with solid advice. Even if you don't want to change your everyday style, a f…
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:15 AM
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This should be a weekly "Dear Abby" style advice column.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:19 PM
1

What's the 60 days challenge?
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:55 PM
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Thanks, man!
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:55 PM
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For Karaoke: Bon Jovi. "Livin' on a Prayer" "Wanted, Dead or Alive" No real range needed for either. If you wanna get cute Prince's "Kiss" and "Purple Rain" work too. Those take a bit of practice and a willingness to go falsetto and act it like a total fruit cake... but it's fun!
/r/seduction23/04/12 07:28 AM
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Please don't go into the mindset of "I need this" Ditto, but yeah, call her.
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:59 AM
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I don't down vote very often, but when I do, I prefer to down vote negative comments.
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:55 AM
8

Well, man, my heart breaks for you. We've all had a rough one like that. If I may offer some you "bright side" analysis: You got to be close to a girl for awhile. Girls are cool people. Though you never got out of the dreamy phase, you probably learned about what things you do and don't like in women. Keep that in mind for the future, because you'll never be able to change something you don't like about a woman. You didn't get too serious. Even though you wanted to, that dreamy phase is more hor…
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:48 AM
6

using secret weapons isn't cheating. use the shit out of that musician shit and don't give any fucks.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:58 AM
2

While not entirely false, that won't make her feel good about the idea of sleeping with me. You should be able to be 100% honest and unapologetic and still charm her enough to have some fun. She knows you already slept with her friend just to have fun. If she's chasing you now, she probably understands that you're not looking to be tied down.
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:51 PM
4

First, don't tell her "you are the one I really wanted..." or anything like that. If it does come up, hit her with a combo: "He, yeah we just had some fun together... pretty harmless, really." followed by: I just got out of a 3 year LTR, so I am not looking for or ready for another one right now, heh.
/r/seduction22/04/12 01:24 PM
1

I like you ekspres
/r/seduction21/04/12 03:35 PM
5

I disagree. Approach based on looks, ask out based on on their reaction to you. Short term or long term, physical attraction is paramount... not the end-all, be-all.. but paramount.
/r/seduction21/04/12 10:15 AM
0

what did you think I meant? I spelled it out pretty clearly. not fun, hazards are possible. should i have mentioned the borderline rapeyness too? he did right by not boning her.
/r/seduction19/04/12 04:19 AM
5

Kinda devious and brilliant. I like your style.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:45 AM
5

"oh, another guy who can't speak to me like a man". Powerful.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:43 AM
13

Wish I could up-vote twice
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:41 AM
22

Saw this the other day on another post: "I came to make new ones" then proceed as usual
/r/seduction16/04/12 10:50 PM
1

yeah, that's the little "fear monkey" in your head fucking you right in the ear and keeping you from committing to taking the next step. You're into her as a potential girlfriend right? You've already had the "I like you, you like me" date today at lunch. Little romance is a good next step. Showing her that you like her, showing that "vulnerability" is courageous, you'll be taking a risk that 95% of young men won't. women will respond to. Just don't be a mopey bitch about it... lead her... There…
/r/seduction15/04/12 10:15 PM
1

Hmm... maybe screw the movies and do something a little more novel... Do a casual dinner then if you're anywhere near some "open country"/lake/ocean... Say "I wanna take you somewhere..." end up in a good place to see the sunset or do some star gazing. Cheezy, yeah, but it'll probably be the first time someone's done that for her. You'll have sparked her imagination, taken control and have a great opportunity for some quite to k-close. Logistics: blanket, picnic basket, cheese, crackers, GOOD ch…
/r/seduction15/04/12 09:57 PM
1

You did the right thing. Really drunk chicks are not usually very fun to fuck. If they have any bedroom skills sober, they're likely gone if she's as drunk as it sounds. Plus you usually can't get them off and some of them blame you and get shitty instead of realizing they have the female version of whiskey dick. (Tequilla Clit?) Also, you do run the risk of upsetting their stomach with all the pounding motion... leads to puking. This has happened to me, it is unpleasant. TL;DR: Really drunk chi…
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:57 AM
1

Spice Bomb. Expensive-ish, but it's the perfect blend of youthful and grown-up... I think.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:00 AM
1

I'm three days into being a Sedditor with some decent early successes. Used a good bit of this advice tonight and got IOI's from an HB8 and HB10 just based on my physical presence. Thanks!
/r/seduction15/04/12 06:48 AM
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