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Feeling better these last 2 weeks. 2 major things happened. I've been having crazy tough insomnia for over a year so I was prescribed sleeping meds (Z drugs). Helped me sleep a bit and I took them for close to a year. I still felt terrible though. Went off them to try something else and realized that the sleep meds made me horribly depressed, suicidal thoughts, and potentiated my anxious racing thoughts. It led me to being needy, cynical, and hating life/myself. It wasn't solely the meds but the…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 07:53 PM
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Overhear at work (shat where I ate)
/r/askTRP21/01/18 02:33 AM
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Neediness for sure. Funny thing is I was thinking she wasn't right for me at first (immature at first, very career oriented to the point where I didn't think I can get along with it, selfish in not wanting kids) but over time she matured and now I hear she is changing her goals that is way for relationship/ life friendly. Did she do it for him. I don't know but its fucking with me
/r/askTRP20/01/18 10:04 PM
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Yea I try to keep that mindset but she is kicking ass while I'm doing okay. We both were together in fwb for a year and half. Got real close. Supported each other. Then she left and started dating someone 2 months or so later (who knows exactly when)
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:50 PM
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We were together for a year and a half but never officially thinking long term (because both of us in school, we were thinking we may move away from one another for career reasons). Then push comes to shove, she changed what she planned to do and now we are both looking to move nearby lol.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:48 PM
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I do but I'm also not irresponsible. Ive paid off all my debts, I plan to secure myself a decent future first. In that moment I didn't want to think of all that. I just wanted to get away. She may have thought I was chickening out. So she swung to another guy who, just out of chance, had a more obvious future lined up in front of him for now
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:41 PM
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Yea. I think she did but I seed spiraling. Depression anxiety got the best of me and i've been fighting them since before I met her. Even then I didn't give up. She did on us
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:39 PM
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I've got a question. So I was spinning plates and eventally wanting an LTR. Chick was proving herself to me and I was sit ting on it because I had a lot to do for my career. Eventually she peaced out and found another dude who had a more steady lifestyle (I'm working on master's degree while I guess he has been working this whole time). Now I feel like shit because she turned out to be everything I've been wanting in a woman (ambition, awesome sex whenever I wanted/sub in bedroom, cooked, worked…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:44 PM
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Trust me I don't want to stalk her. I shit where I ate so I cant really get away. She has been "nice enough" to not want to talk to me but I eventually overhear her talking to coworkers by accident.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 10:55 PM
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Yea I can't fully deny. I just feel like she checked off everything on what to look for LTR page and she proved herself to me and I just kept truning a blind eye until its too late. Regardless, you are right I'm still concentrating on her. I just hope I'll meet someone that I can click with like that again
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:16 PM
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Fair enough. Thoughts on the first question? What hurts me is that I can't get away from her completely (shit where I ate) and now she is dating someone from her gym (weightlifting is her hobby) so my self esteem is fucked a bit. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:03 AM
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Gotcha. So did I shoot her down already much earlier which changed her interest? Or when I looked for her support/sympathy during my stressful period, did that change the thought of a LTR in her head. Obviously you don't know for sure but just thoughts. Lastly, should I ever pursue for an LTR if I am interested in more (after a long period of dating/finding out what she is about) in the future?
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:17 AM
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Thanks for the link. I have a question about this line right here "Let aside that you will not know what type of woman you are dealing with, until you have fucked her for the very least amount of six to twelve months without offering her exclusivity." Agreed. I ended up doing that exactly. She asked me at one point early on (not sure how early maybe a couple months in) if we weren't working so close to one another (which is one reason we kept an FWB relationship secret) then would we be dating? …
/r/askTRP14/01/18 11:06 PM
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Agreed. I gotta refresh what I've read already and update myself on what I haven't yet read. Like I said, I gotta work on myself I know. My brain keeps fucking with me that it's too late and I won't find a girl like that anymore and that she passed by while I was too passive and overthinking as always.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:45 PM
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True. I'm just fighting my own self-esteem issues. I guess I want the dream of having a partner who wants me and tackle shit together
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:04 PM
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it isn't that great. I feel disconnected from it and my libido is off because of it. Docs have no idea exactly why. Which fucks with my self confidence and since she knew about she was pretty understanding which meant her leaving made me question "oh shit will I find another chick who is cool, intelligent, understanding, and wants to fuck all the time? Who would want me?"
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:01 PM
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I guess. I had her for over a year and a couple of months ago she let on that she wanted more (dating) but did not mention specifically me. So i was just confused and gave her space. 2 months later, she is dating someone else. Now I just feel like shit and I'm having trouble moving on because 1. I work near her & 2. Yea I feel like I missed out. I'm reading up on TRP and it's helping but I'll admit, I love the idea of having that one partner who is in it for me with me.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:09 PM
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can't deny it
/r/askTRP26/12/17 09:14 PM
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why you say that (not being relationship material if FWB)?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 09:14 PM
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lol yea unfortunately oneitis is hitting me hard. I wonder since I came in with the mentality of FWB that I missed out on something more legitimate.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 08:51 PM
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Regarding AWALT, what am I forgetting in regards with her? and yea I definitely have oneitis. Thanks for commenting.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 08:05 PM
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First, fair enough. Second, I guess I felt strongly to promote her or leave her because I was trying to balance all the other shit in my life. Now I feel I missed out on a awesome chick that would've let me be myself
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:55 PM
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I shit where I ate. Had a girl at my work as a FWB. Fucked her brains out, had a lot of fun. We did couple stuff near the end and I didn't mind it. Problem is that I lost frame. I became super stressed about work, developed hardcore insomnia, and was just anxious. I still went to work and did what I had to do but it was survivor mode. Right as I met the worst of my deadlines and going through them, she tells me she is done being FWB and maybe wanted to try dating (she didn't mention me specifica…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:30 AM
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New guy here too. So I'm in my late 20s and I met a girl who seems like she has her life together. Pretty, intelligent (getting her PhD), overall fun to be around. Just met her although we have a mutual friend who told me she was near me like 6 months ago. I wasn't gonna track her down so I figured I'll bump into her or when my buddy comes to visit he'll introduce me.. Well I just met her (bumped into her through another friend) and after finding out she is a knockout, I asked another mutual fri…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:03 PM
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