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You also need to be able to prove it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 01:12 PM
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There’s no magic in this. You said it, time will make it better. It sucks and I’m sorry. Keep yourself occupied and keep working on yourself. Gym, read, spirituality. Take up some new hobbies, make some new friends, save up for the trip you always wanted. Eventually you’ll move on. If you do it right, you’ll be way better on the other side. Best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 12:54 AM
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Wow, is there not a stipulation of them being a student? Also, if you don’t mind sharing, what state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 08:59 PM
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Unless you have a divorce decree that states otherwise, you are not required to pay anything after your child turns 18.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 06:13 PM
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First, I’m sorry. This shit sucks and it’s not easy for anyone. Second, work with your lawyer to see what your options are. Every state is different, so it’s hard to say what will apply. Get a paternity test, if the kids aren’t yours, you don’t pay. If she’s shacked up already, that could reduce what you pay. If she cheated, she might have to pay you. Let your lawyer help you.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 10:01 PM
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You will get to keep some of the new money you earn and you won’t need to pay your ex forever. Kids turn 18, alimony has a time limit, she may get remarried, she might get a raise. Work for the future and make the best of now.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 03:12 PM
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I hope you have a lawyer. Sucks to pay them, but use them. Listen to your lawyer. Be respectful. Yes your honor, no your honor. To the best of my knowledge/ability I did X, your honor. Unless you’re a piece of shit (act like one, have a history of being one) a judge will be reasonable.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 10:56 PM
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Cobra is retroactive for up to 60 days. That means you don’t pay for cobra on day 1. On day 35 you get injured, go to hospital. Then, on day 60, you can pay for cobra and it will cover what happened on day 35. No stress, it’s less then a month, you’ll be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 10:57 PM
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Someone told me today to think past yourself. Your kids are going to want these photos one day, maybe even their kids. Put them in a box. Don’t look if it hurts.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/21 10:49 PM
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This. So many people told me to get a lawyer and I thought “nah, she’s level headed, we can work this out”. Her lawyer contacted me 1 day after I told her. Luckily I had done research and put thought into the split already. After consulting with my lawyer 2 days later I was happy to know I wouldn’t be getting screwed like she wanted me to. Hell hath no fury…
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 11:00 PM
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Really depends on state. Some states use a ratio, so if the income gap is 40% or less you owe her nothing. Some states have guidelines like 1 year of alimony for every two that you were married, so you may only have to pay alimony for 5 years. Most states have a concept of prior assets, so she may only be entitled to the earnings in your retirement from the time you were married. 10 years is the magic number, so you can expect to be splitting things 50/50. Expect to take some losses, cost of doi…
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 10:54 PM
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I have this guy’s guys shoes. How do you want this to go down?
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 10:47 PM
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You’re only 4 years in. Imagine catering to the demands and what things would look like in 14 years? Better you set your boundaries now while you’re young and don’t have much to lose. Being 40+, married for 20 years, and in the same boat makes things considerably worse. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 10:44 PM
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Have you considered seeking input from a therapist or life coach?
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 12:31 PM
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Gmail also has 2FA. In fact, any service that doesn’t have 2FA you probably shouldn’t use.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 12:21 PM
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Correct. Best advice is to talk to a lawyer. My conversation was free and EXTREMELY insightful. Helped me navigate exactly what you’re dealing with.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 08:28 PM
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Check. Talk to a lawyer, they can help you navigate your options. Initial consultation is usually free.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/21 08:12 PM
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*Money thot
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/20 12:08 AM
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You don’t know if they were your best years because all the years haven’t happened yet. Your past is a sunk cost. Best advice I ever read was “Don’t hold onto a mistake because you’ve invested a lot of time making it”. Sometimes the mistake is believing in the wrong person. You get to choose who you are. Believe in you and choose to be the best you that you’ve ever wanted to be. You write the songs, my man. Update: you’re/your
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 03:20 AM
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