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| 2 | 7 Things I Got Completely Wrong About Being A 'Good Wife'In defense of this post "No, I thought it was preposterous. But I thought it would be a great article to discuss because it's about a woman who thought she was being RPW and being "a good wife" but her marriage failed. I thought the women here would be well placed to show us why the woman's decisions were bad and what women here could learn from the post about how to make their marriages better. I thought it was an amazing things for us to discuss and would add value to the reddit" | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What (little) things do you do to make your man feel manly?:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 05:20 PM |
| 21 | What (little) things do you do to make your man feel manly?I let him lead. I don't give orders I make suggestions. "I'm feel like going to the park. What do you think? Wanna do that?" And he gets the final say. And if he says "no" or something I accept it because I trust his leadership. I never reject is sexual advances. I hold onto him in public places so he knows I'm proud to be his woman. I dress femininely. I giggle when he teases me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What are you working on?I'd say these are all women problems. We're just the only ones that know why we don't want "too nice" man | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/14 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Top Ten Ways to Make Your Husband HappyJust noticed a lot of random non-RPW specific content here and decided to post up my own finds. I'm not Christian myself, but I find those sites have the best RP advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Redditor gives great advice in "why did you get divorced thread" and doesn't get the best responsesOh shoot! The first comment I saw someone calling this "the worst advice ever" and saying people shouldn't have to be stuck in bad marriages I guess I just got so annoyed I didn't click the more comments thing Should I remove the post? :( This was the most-up voted comment when I saw this: "[–]Somehero 4 points 4 hours ago Telling someone to stay in a bad relationship cause they "promised" is awful advice and it's heartbreaking to read about people who wasted years of their life " | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | 50 Easy & Delicious No Bake DessertsYou're welcome! :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 09:06 PM |
| 2 | A fable about relationships from my childhood with values I thought you ladies might appreciate.This is wonderful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Well, this is a weird problem. I shouldn't lose weight?oooh! well damn, I always thought I was crazy when I was sure my ex was subconsciously trying to sabotage me | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Well, this is a weird problem. I shouldn't lose weight?Check out /r/fitness. There's a lot of stories of naturally skinny people who gained mass and they explain their programs (it usually includes eating 500 calories more than "you're supposed to") | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Well, this is a weird problem. I shouldn't lose weight?This is interesting...please elaborate? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countThis a great comment! Thanks for the insight | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Pet Namesaaawww _^ | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countI thought so too. Until I read here that women would rather share a high-value man than be "stuck with" a low-value man. It got me thinking about this. And then I remember a cousin who was very anti-cheating. Until she dated some millionaire politician who we all knew was cheating on her but she stayed with for a long time (I think they're still together) and she once drunkenly said she's just happy he doesn't rub it in her face. The funny thing is she'd left an OK guy that proposed to her for h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countShe actually said, she'd rather stay with a cheating man than to be known around town as a woman that's had and left many guys. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countOf course you would move away as that is not your culture, nor your upbringing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countI'm so confused by your comment. I did not say I disagreed with her. I simply wanted to know what you ladies think, as in my culture the attitude she has is prevalent and young women are taught to put up with cheating. I on the other hand do not believe I would be comfortable in this kind of situation but I am always happy to see women telling other women not to be so quick to leave their husbands. That's why I posted this: because I am stuck between being glad she's not telling everyone to dump… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Leaving a cheating boyfriend vs preserving N countShe's not talking about being in a polygamous marriage. I just mentioned that it's legal (not many people practice it anymore) and most people make religious vows to stay faithful to their partners but...you know... | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 03:14 PM |
| 13 | Does anyone else find feminist men unattractive?passes out laughing | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Flair UpgradesMe please! I've contributed many articles and original posts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Parody of "Fancy": "I'm So Married"I just wish the marriages didn't degrade into the couple fighting for the remote and having no sex and the woman claiming to be "THE BOSS" Its funny but isn't very RPW to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 04:54 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle your guy's unhealthy/destructive behaviors?If so you sound like some beta guy that doesn't understand why the woman whose pussy he's put on a pedestal is married to someone "so stupid." Hint: you only think he's stupid cause he isn't you and isn't treating your crush like the princess you think she is. You might be in the wrong place, honey. Go to TRP | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle your guy's unhealthy/destructive behaviors?Are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 04:43 PM |
| 1 | An Introduction to Keeping HouseI have to remember this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/14 05:49 PM |
| 3 | How To Pick A WifeThis is great! One thing about the divorce rate of the country you choose from. It sometimes doesn't reflect the situation there. A marriage rate or single-mother rate (ie number of women giving birth while single) could still be high when divorce is low. You have to be careful not to marry women whose own RP men find them unmarriable. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Married man, new to RP, need some help/advice.I gained some weight last year and my father saw me for the first time in weeks and he said to me calmly "you are getting too fat it doesn't suit you" and I promptly went on to lose the weight and change my lifestyle. You have to tell her the truth and if she's as RPW as you say. Dread game is also about giving someone the knowledge on what your standards are: how to keep from being Nexted. She needs to know. Tell her and her response will give you a clue about what she thinks of the relationshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/14 09:10 PM |
| 6 | can someone who is better at understanding men than I am help me figure out WTF is going on here?I hope you don't mind but I read this out to my boyfriend and he says these are the possibilities: A) "there might be an aspect of the girl's personality that he's just realized he doesn't like" B) "the guy wants to break up but isn't 100% sure about it yet" C) "the girl is too emotionally high maintenance and its not a problem usually but now that he has a lot on his plate he can't handle it" D) "he may have met someone else" E) "he's broke and is too embarrassed to admit it" F) "the lack of se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | How did you improve your posture?This is perfect! Thank you so much for your well presented and thoughtful comment! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I Am PregnantYay! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Finally said bye bye to my belly-button ring :)Your -what now? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How did you improve your posture?I know right?! Posture is so important. Do you have links to all those exercises cause they sound effective but I just can't imagine them! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How did you improve your posture?I know yoga works but its been so long since I did it on a daily basis. Otherwise I didn't know the book on head thing works! Thanks for all the suggestions I know standing up straight would be so good to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Married Man Sex Life for Women?Haven't read it yet! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/14 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Need Morale Boost, Post Favorite Red Pill Related Songs That Make You Wanna Make Your Man A SandwichThat right there is The RPW Jam. Someone should put it in the sidebar. Also Beyonces albums do tend to be very RP. "Dance For You" is Lso a good song... | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/14 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Married Man Sex Life for Women?The Husband Project: 21 Days Of Loving Your Man on Purpose | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/14 07:25 AM |
| 1 | I just found this sub, and as a man, I have to say that I have great respect for you all. Just finding out that this exists was arousing in a way I've never felt before. My wife is one of you. I thought she was alone.Arousing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/14 07:16 PM |
| 8 | For the newly redpill, what dropped the veil?A feminist was tweeting about PUA sites in fury and she linked to one of them. I was full feminist too and so I ended up checking them out and I ended up reading them everyday getting angrier and Angrier clicking in more TRP links until one day....I wasn't angry anymore. There's a certain peace about living in the real world | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/14 07:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?I was talking about two separate things. My boyfriend says "no" to me often, or sometimes he ignores the question if a) I ask for something ridiculous then I don't sulk cause I'm usually joking. b) I ask for something less ridiculous and that's when I frown and fold my arms but not for too long Also...I asked because I like talking to you guys :( And hearing about your lives and relationships warms my heart | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men vs women. Pretty lulzy and frustrating, especially when you make your way down to the comments.You don't know how lucky you are | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?The cutesy voice is for when I ask for ridiculous things jokingly and my SO laughs because he likes it. Ex. Of ridiculous question: "baby when I die will you dig me out of my grave and pantomime resurrecting me?" Ridiculous questions are what I do to break long silences. My sulking is me making an exaggerated frowning face and folding my arms theatrically. This lasts for 15 minutes and that's it. You may find the childlike (not childish) stuff annoying but its who I am and that's something my SO… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Respect DilemmaSo what do you suggest? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Reasons Why a Male Led Relationship Works BetterThis is an interesting set of points. Could you please expand? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?Please don't be upset. I'm only saying that when he gives in to my sulking (which is not very often) I lose respect for him and him giving in doesn't stop me from sulking again the next time he says no. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 07:29 AM |
| 0 | Respect DilemmaSexual instinct is natural. Wanting to copulate is part of human nature. Wanting to have a woman insert a phallic object into your rectum is a sexual behavior that can be unlearned. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/14 07:23 AM |
| 3 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?Something you should consider, your dad would die for you for whatever you do, a good rp man will die for you in a heartbeat but NEVER will he die for you If you're a dick, it's a fundamental difference between the two . Aaaahhhh | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?No, that's the other thing. He's no very RP. I mean, he is naturally very masculine and does have a lot of self-respect so I can't exactly walk all over him. But he will say 'no' and give me a brief explanation but not necessarily tell me what I'd need to do to change the situation. But I think maybe my sulking doesn't help either...:/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 07:42 PM |
| 3 | How do you ladies get/attract a SO?You don't know how to dress nice, be feminine and wait? How to "dress nice": a) determine what style you most like on others (pick some feminine celebrity fashion icon with a signature style, pick an era or movie you like that has a specific women's style) and start looking for pieces that compliment that style (or just copy what you see and find matches in stores you can afford) b) fine-tune to what would look good on you. Figure out your body type and shop for what flatters your shape (ask for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 07:38 PM |
| 16 | What do you do when your SO says "no"?sighs You're right. I just caught myself making a sulking face right now because I didn't like (the harsh truth in your) your comment, hahaha! I really need to work on this...:/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Respect DilemmaWell, this sure is something! I'm no expert, but here's my proverbial two cents: you two definitely need to stop this sexual act as soon as possible as for every two steps you take in the RP direction, it takes you three steps back any kink can be stopped. This is something I strongly believe. Sexual behavior is learned and so are kinks. If you can gain a kink, you can also lose it. please find out if he watches pornography that depicts this act. He should probably stop watching it as some men d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 04:09 PM |
| 4 | 8 reasons why New York women can't get a husbandSome gems in the comments section: I agree with every word of this. I am 67; have had a great fun life; lived through the '60's, when anything went, and feel I have missed out on something. I'm not sure what I missed out on, because I was married twice, but I think I might have done better if I had realized that there was a time limit for meeting the "right" guy. Most of my decisions were spur of the moment (one was a Hell's Angel, the other a "Swami"). So I obviously wasn't the brightest catch … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/14 10:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you ladies think of Steve Harvey's "Think Like A Man, Act Like A Lady"?Thanks for making me realize I'd left a lot out...:/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you ladies think of Steve Harvey's "Think Like A Man, Act Like A Lady"?Yeah! It was my first encounter ever with dating advice that wasn't afraid to say, "hey, don't be a slut" | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you ladies think of Steve Harvey's "Think Like A Man, Act Like A Lady"?Oh, sorry! (about the title...I'm watching the movie and it confused me) Yes, I read the book two years ago and it was my first taste of RP-type dating advice as its one of the few messages that isn't afraid to discuss differences between men and women and it gives young women, unaware of the information, actual tools required to achieve what they want in relationships. Its got a lot of different categories: men to avoid, behavior to get rid of (promiscuity, bossiness, emasculating tendencies et… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 07:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you ladies think of Steve Harvey's "Think Like A Man, Act Like A Lady"?why? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Short rant about feminism.And god help you if you try to point this out to them, you will be massacred. I recently read this by an African writer and she got slaughtered trying to make a similar point. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | "This is what #femaledisadvantage looks like"I mean..honestly! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 09:47 PM |
| 2 | "This is what #femaledisadvantage looks like"I mean! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Dressing provocativelyGreat! Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Dressing provocativelyThe eyes drifting thing is a good point. My SO's favorite thing to see me in is leggings and crop-top or a short dress. When we're out I get a lot of looks but Sometimes I catch myself making eye contact with a man just absent mindedly - my SO doesn't notice and its not flirtatious but I don't know if it makes me look bad to other men? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/14 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone ever poke fun of you because you have a very "girly" voice?What?! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/14 02:13 PM |
| 1 | "You make me feel like I don't have to be ashamed to be a man"That's actually a good point. Sorry of it sounds like I was bad mouthing anyone...was just trying to summarize what he said. But yes he may have been attracting feminist women, the way I dated womanish men when I was feminist. But I also think he didn't start off feminist. But I wonder if his first girlfriends "beat it into him" the way I used to with my exes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/14 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Ten Politically Incorrect Truths About Human Nature - (This is an old but really good article that everyone needs to read!)Oh that's alright! Thank you so much. Will read through and ask questions later | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/14 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Ten Politically Incorrect Truths About Human Nature - (This is an old but really good article that everyone needs to read!)I'd like the info about the cross-cultural researcher please | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/14 06:45 PM |
| 6 | "You make me feel like I don't have to be ashamed to be a man"Yes, a Nordic country. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Need help on hitting a wallAsk /u/eatplaycrush | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/14 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here ugly or average looking?How unattractive are you? As in - what exactly makes you unattractive? You could always change something in today's world: save up for surgery, work-out, eat right etc. Do you have any passions, great talents or goals for the world? Like some real shit. Are you a scientist/educator/civil service/engineer? Become one of those things. And focus on bringing some real good to the world. Being a mother is the best form of activism but having a career that has a real effect on the world is a close sec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Why are good men so good?aaawww :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Advice on how to confront a girl who's gone off the reservation?Wow. This is tragic. And you are right to be concerned. How long have they been together? Did they date anyone before? How did he react to not working in the winter? Maybe he beta-d down after losing his employment? Has she always been like this? Does he employ RP marriage game? Is marriage a priority to her? Etc Well, what did you plan to say to her? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl Game PlanOMG this is so great. Those are so cute and retro. Yes, I'd love to see the recipes, if its not not too much work :D You're so helpful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Girl Game PlanI actually hate pie, but my SO loves it and I'm hoping that I'll also be like you and start to like it when I make it myself. Hahah, happy pie baking! If you could post your pie and the recipe that would be great...:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl Game PlanOh, wow! This is great advice. I had no idea. Is there anything you recommend for reading up on sauces? I'm pretty good at white sauce (idk if that's the right term - its a mozzarella and mushroom sauce), so I guess I should just find out about others or whether I can use that for everything? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Girl Game PlanThat makes so much sense! Thank you for the response. Tell me, what's yor favorite dessert to make? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl Game PlanRight? And what about baking, will you be adding some recipe cards for that too? I love baking but this will be my first stay with SO and don't know how to add baking into a routine for us. Or should I be pairing desserts with dinners? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Case study: Talulah Riley, ex-wife (but current girlfriend, it seems) of Elon MuskI've actually been reading up on it for the past few weeks, I'm concerned too about the long-term effects etc, but it intrigues me because I've always disliked by straighter waist-line... | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Why are good men so good?Haha, I guess so! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I have a new hero. I don't know her philosophies, but can we elect her Queen of Femininity?I just saw that after I asked the question....:) Thanks for the link, she's really talented! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Girl Game PlanThis sounds like such a good idea! I'll be staying with my SO for the summer and have started watching cooking shows and reading cooking books to learn new recipes. I'm interested in: a) Italian Cuisine (cause my SO eats a lot of food, and I think he'd enjoy the heartiness of Italian dishes) b) Chinese Food (cause I love, love oriental dishes and how many of them are delicious without meat and how easy it is to make vegetable-dense, low-calorie dishes that taste amazing) So, I'm thinking of list… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 06:20 PM |
| 3 | RPW on Cohabitation?" my husband wipes his poop on the curtains" Just made me laugh in a very unladylike fashion...:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 05:19 PM |
| 3 | I have a new hero. I don't know her philosophies, but can we elect her Queen of Femininity?This is actually amazing! Wow. 1 Question: What's with the obsession...great interest...with the parents' home? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are good men so good?Oh, I see! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Why are good men so good?This is so beautiful. sheds a single girlish tear | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Calorie Counting Guide!That would be great! Don't worry about me and lengthy equations, that's alllll I deal with in my degree program. I'm excited to see your explanations behind it though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is this so uncomfortable?Please edit this so we can see what you're saying. It seems interesting but the huge wall of text and absence of proper formatting makes it a bitch to read. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Calorie Counting Guide!Great stuff! Thank you for this very detailed post! I love people who aren't afraid to back up advice with actual expertise. This site after all is supposed to be for women who can handle the truth, so I'm glad you brought this here. Will google more of these terms and ask you some more questions. Also, how do we find out our TDEE | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on and experiences with cheating in a relationship?Oh my, some people are just shameless! What's with cheaters and always wanting to do grand gestures? It's crazy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/14 01:05 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with yourself after Red PillUh-huh! That's how it's supposed to start for many of us young girls honey. I started by ending up on some PUA sites as a feminist and I was disgusted. By what the men were saying but more so by what I thought of myself when I finally absorbed the reality of the situation. It hurts because you're used to a feminist world telling women what they want to hear. But now you have the what I like to think as the rules. The real rules, not the "create your own rules" of feminism that go against reality… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Case study: Talulah Riley, ex-wife (but current girlfriend, it seems) of Elon MuskYou can read a bit about corsetry/waist-training. That's how some people manage to achieve that hip-to-waist ratio | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/14 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Case study: Talulah Riley, ex-wife (but current girlfriend, it seems) of Elon MuskQuestion: how RPW is it for a man that likes to have his wife posing semi-nude in magazines? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/14 07:47 PM |
| 10 | Can anyone tell me what it's like to go out with an older man?Older men are great! You shouldn't be so nervous. I've found that older men are a bit more patient and understanding so you don't have to worry sbout him judging you too much, plus your youth is already a huge plus for him so there's a bit more you can "get away with" in terms of minor personality kinks. As for worrying about having stuff in common I think the most important thing Is sharing a sense of humor. As long as you can make each other laugh, that's fine. I really liked dating older men … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/14 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Males who are strong and handsome by nature?I have this weird thing about a guy having bigger thighs than me. As long as his thighs are bigger and his body is proportional to that then that's cool haha. My SO is about 20cm taller than me (which is my minimum) and works out moderately. I couldn't date a guy that doesn't exercise because I do and it's important to me that my partner does too, as I think it's healthy for a man'a self esteem and therefore good for our relationship, especially if he doesn't do a job that is physically demandin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Question about bluepill marriage, hypergamy, respectWell, that's the point of having a marketable skill - if worse comes to worse you can ideally use it to support the two of you. But I think the best thing is subscribe to a simple way of living that helps take away focus from worrying about fitting a one-income home into the mold and lifestyle of what is now normal: a two-income home. As for myself, I do intend to work for a little while before he kids come and to save most of my income for a rough patch. Also, like you mentioned, there are few … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/14 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Question about bluepill marriage, hypergamy, respectI don't really have anything to recommend, maybe thefemininewoman.com? But I'd just say lurk here for a few months and it'll finally sink in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/14 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Question about bluepill marriage, hypergamy, respectIn the second case, there are two options: one could marry someone with a better career-trajectory than hers (someone older, and more established, perhaps. - or someone in a better, more respected field.) one could consider not having a job altogether, then supporting a failing partner becomes much much easier and far less prone to end in resentment. Both points, point to one idea: that prioritizing marriage over career is always best for women in a marriage. Personal Example: I am doing an unde… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/14 11:59 PM |
| 12 | Question about bluepill marriage, hypergamy, respectTo answer your first question "My main question is, if hypergamy is inherent to a woman, why would she marry beneath her?" A lot of women are: oblivious to their hypergamous nature (so they don't realize that this is something they have to suppress, with either perfect partner selection, or self-discipline, so when they eventually meet some guy that seems "better than their husband" - which they will, often at that, they will begin to resent their husband for not being better. And because they d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/14 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Lady-like language?That's a great policy! I should definitely work on my humor. Although we watch the same shows together and sometimes I can't resist quoting the lines to him - which isn't great because a lot of the shows have very "boyish" humor. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Basic conversation with 5/10Are you attractive? | /r/askTRP | 14/05/14 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Is Disney the largest cause of Beta males?Nope! I've met many young men that sought the road to alpha because their beta dads disgusted them so much growing up. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/14 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Thanks to RPW/TRP, I now find this cringeworthy instead of admirable...People just don't know what they're SMV is. Too many people think they are better than they really are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/14 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Some tips for my fellow college-aged women this summer.Thanks for the advice! I'm in the Southern Hemisphere at the moment, and its about to be our college break. It'll be a cold, desert winter here but I've got plans to spend the holiday in Europe visiting my SO's city for two months. I'll be starting another 50-day yoga challenge next week, along with some daily meditation and gonna maybe start weight-training (is that what it's called?) this holiday. Also, I'll be cooking a lot more, so I've downloaded some cookbooks to learn from to make big mea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/14 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Should you tell your man when something about them is unattractive?Right?! I totally don't understand why anyone would think allowing unattractive behavior to go unchanged is a sign of a healthy relationship. Especially when I thought RP is all about maintaining genuine attraction between partners. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How to use RPW theory to soften relationship with father before a big announcementThanks for the advice. It certainly means a lot. I am a lot closer to my dad than my mom but I'm guessing she may be more understanding. I fear that this will just upset him and he won't be happy with my decision. I would be paying for some of the trip but most stuff will be covered by my SO (25) and his family | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How to use RPW theory to soften relationship with father before a big announcementMy mum and I are not very close. But I have scheduled a meeting with her this week (she doesn't live with us) to meet with me and my bf and discuss the move to his country. I cannot say for sure what she will think and I don't know if she will be supportive or not. My only hope is that they will both recall that they met in similar circumstances as my bf and I did. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How to use RPW theory to soften relationship with father before a big announcementI am 21. I will be paying for myself, mostly. I have some savings but they may not be enough. My bf and his family have offered to cover the rest but I suspect that my parents would feel better if they contributed to this and I would also feel that I gained their full support. You're absolutely right about being a full adult. I have traveled extensively in the past year on my own dime rarely stopping to ask for more than an acknowledgement that I am leaving let alone permission. However, moving … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to use RPW theory to soften relationship with father before a big announcementMy dad has a temper and a tendency to allow his anger to control his actions and make him behave in a way that is harmful to me and our relationship. I want to figure out how to break this to him without triggering his rage as it is often difficult for me to know which things will push him over the edge or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How to use RPW theory to soften relationship with father before a big announcementThat's true! Thanks for the advice. I want to see his country before I make the decision to commit my life totally to his, as he has begun to mention big relationship steps to be taken together. Also, I want to meet his family and friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 07:44 PM |
| 3 | "I divorced my best friend"Her reasoning doesn't even make sense to me, to be honest with you. He was everything she needed before she married him; and then he did what she needed after. I think she just bought into feminist rhetoric without realising what exactly it is she needed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/14 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Are Older Husbands the New Housewives? One Female CEO Thinks SoIt does seem like a great strategy - one I'd never heard of as I was dating someone much older than I and had so many worries about how the age gap would affect us down the line... Its a good article though. Very interesting. I don't know if I want to be CEO but you know...I like it non-the-less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Are Older Husbands the New Housewives? One Female CEO Thinks SoI'd love to know what you ladies think! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 07:15 PM |
| 2 | New Subscriber, with some questions for you lovely ladiesYou're welcome! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/14 01:30 PM |
| 2 | New Subscriber, with some questions for you lovely ladiesI know how you mean. The first time I read this I was like 'omgmywholelifeisalie!' But there are a lot of things that can make a young woman feel worthless but RP-philosophy is the only one that shows you how to build up your own value! That's what's so amazing. We don't come here to pat each other on the backs for doing the bare minimum. We don't give out points for pandering to our feels We expect to be pushed and to push ourselves. You may feel worthless now, but work on yourself and in a few… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/14 01:13 PM |
| 2 | New Subscriber, with some questions for you lovely ladies"Used Up?" Everytime I read that I want to laugh. "Used Up" is what a girl that doesn't want to try anything challenging tells herself so she can resign back into the world of angry, self-serving, lazy-ass feminism. Nope. Steel up and do what you need to do. Lose the weight. You need to look your best. Focus on becoming more feminine and attractive. Get new hobbies. Learn compassion. Learn to think about opinions that don't pump up your self esteem as having the possibility of being correct. Rea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with broken promises and other issues...I've been reading and re-reading this response all day and everytime I read it a new part jumps out and makes me have an ah-ha moment! Thank yoiu so much for this reply. So I friended you! :) Ps. Took your advice and hired a personal trainer. Pps. Can I PM you some time and ask for some specific advice? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Want an example of what not to be? I present to you Hannah from HBO series Girls, the most irritating, self-absorbed young female character on TV right now.Omg my friends make fun of me all the time because I happen to LOVE how she dresses. Its just that her figure makes the ill-fitting dresses hideous, but I love her style. The flowery dresses and high-waisted cotton clothes are so my thing. Its just they look terrible on her. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingI'm not sure who she is, but this is a lovely website she has. (thefemininewoman.com) A bit heavy-handed, but just what I was looking for. I think she is married - she references her husband a lot on the site. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and GivingI'm a pleaser :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Want an example of what not to be? I present to you Hannah from HBO series Girls, the most irritating, self-absorbed young female character on TV right now.She does a similar thing for me too! I'm a bit younger than her and she reminds me what my life will be like if I let my self-discipline fall apart too...sighs | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with broken promises and other issues...:) wonderful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with broken promises and other issues...I think I needed to hear this again. You're absolutely right. I think my main fear is forgetting how much he does for me. That's why I gravitated towards RPW. I recognised that my upbringing (only daughter to a father that made me know I was most important in his life, and still gives a lot...but could also be very strict) may make me sometimes behave as if I'm used to being taken care of. So I think I need to keep remembering that he's inviting me into his life not because he wants princess but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Want an example of what not to be? I present to you Hannah from HBO series Girls, the most irritating, self-absorbed young female character on TV right now.I agree with you about her constant nudity. I'm not happy about it. But I don't know if I would consider her completely unattractive. She just has a body-type that is out of fashion. She looks like the women in old European paintings...curvy in an appealing way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Want an example of what not to be? I present to you Hannah from HBO series Girls, the most irritating, self-absorbed young female character on TV right now.OMG I have BEEN waiting for you ladies to discuss that show. All my friends watch it and the characters make me want to dig myself a shallow-grave. If this is what they push on young American women now, then I just don't know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with broken promises and other issues...Thank you so much for your advice! 1) You're absolutely right. :) 2) I think you're right, maybe "too nice" applies to people that people aren't attracted to anyway. 3) This is exactly what I was hoping to hear. I really had no clue where to start as I only know how to cook/clean the way my dad likes. Do you think I should like download some recipes from my bf's country and surprise him when I stay with him? 4) nods Dual Responsibility... You've done a great job of answering and now we wait for … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with broken promises and other issues...You're right, thank you so much! That's how I think every time I worry about something between us. He usually does everything he says he will, that's why these two deviations bother me so much. I don't want to nag him because he does so much for me and I don't want him to think I'm ungrateful. But I'll take your advice. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Wanna share a bit of my story with you ladies...long and embarrassing.People don't often fall for people that strictly make sense to them. I don't think you should worry too much about comparing yourself to her. Yes, sometimes we choose the better person but other times crazy people choose people that understand their brand of insanity. It seemed as if you thought you'd be able to "get" him. But he seemed to think he found someone better suited to. Also, people have so many complexes and deep-rooted fears that we can never grasp. I don't know what to say here, but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Periods and staying feminineArgh, this list makes me feel so unladylike. I've never lived with a boy or anything but when I dated my ex at the beginning of uni, we spent a lot of time in his car as we both lived very, very far from campus, and it became our little retreat from the hustle and bustle of our small campus. We'd drive out to far and wide places, bushes, hills etc and hike or just relax in the car. I'd take naps in it between classes etc. So it was a very comfortable zone for us (I know this sounds crazy weird. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/14 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Judge rules that women have right to keep father out of delivery roomMany cultures around the world have the same policy. Some even explicitly forbid men from witnessing their wives give birth and I'm talking about honest-to-god patriarchal societies here. Many dont see the benefit of a man watching his woman go through the trauma of childbirth. Some think it has to do with men's instinct to protect their women and they think it may cause him to fear giving her another child out of his desire to protect her from future suffering. Also women can die during child b… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/14 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Article: to my future wifeThis is the sort of thing 14 year old girls on tumblr go for. I say good luck to him if he's hoping for an actual woman (to keep) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/14 09:33 PM |
| 1 | 'Princeton Mom' Susan Patton to 20-Somethings: Find Love, Make Babies NowWhat's interesting about this article is that she's talking to women in COLLEGE. So she's not exactly saying anyone should give up on developing career-skills. She's not telling high-school girls to quit school. So technically she's not offering a simple straight-cut plate of choices. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/14 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How are your 2014 goals going?Hoooooow? Me and Oppa are working on the same thing but its hard to stay on the same level of motivation. He's also working on expanding a company he bought last week and is under a lot of pressure I don't wanna nag him about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/14 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?I guess so. But I wonder...I've been lurking on these subreddits for months and finally got the guts to join in (except I can't submit posts yet, which kind of curbed my excitement haha) but I think this community (RP in general) would benefit from having a LTR version of TRP, you know? I don't know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you ladies think? [Yahoo: Are Older Husbands the New Housewives? One Female CEO Thinks So]I thought this would be interesting for you ladies to weigh in on because I thought this article had an interesting mix of different ideologies. REDpill: older man good, family now good But then veers off into this sort of career-centred life decision. What do you think? I personally have never desired a male housewife, but the points about retirement meaning the kids see him more make me see another positive to having an older SO. The CEO quoted is married to a man 20 years older... | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 07:19 PM |
| 5 | The 'War on Women' Myth (John Stossel)This is what happens when a government is allowed to make laws based on a fear of offending people's precious feelings | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Haha, idk. You're already talking about your next husband or single motherhood so casually. But I guess its good to be prepared...:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Interesting! How old are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Haha, wow! The practical way you look at things is very refreshing...slightly disturbing, but refreshing non-the-less!...Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?Thank you for the sober advice! I, for one, will keep this in mind...:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Women, what is your reproductive strategy?The fellows at TRP seem to think this is something all women would consider the "ideal result." I know their cynicism is part of their mating strategy and that it works for them, but it is a bit sad sometimes how cruel they expect women to be. sighs | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Pay attention, young ladies. Your older sisters have a plan, and it involves you, crushed under a bus.I love this article. Shared the original Susan Patton article on Facebook some days ago and all the women went bezerk with rage. Accused her of "trolling" and "spewing mysoginist rubbish." All I could do was sit there and feel both pity and amusement at how defensive these women were being about their soul-destroying slutty behaviour instead of trying to become better. That's the problem. People want to get angry that world won't change to fit their low standards instead of trying to change for … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/14 03:14 PM |
| 6 | We all use these already but it's a nice reminder: tips to make your guy feel lovedThis is wonderful! Was just looking for this sort of thing... Things I've been guilty of: 2 Guys hate insecurity. If there’s one thing that makes a guy feel neglected and ordinary, it’s when the girl he loves treats him like he’s just another guy. Don’t ever neglect him or give him less attention when you’re talking to another guy, especially one who your guy perceives as a threat. 5 Flirt with him in front of others. Your guy may feel awkward when you cling to his arms or give him a kiss in pub… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/14 02:13 PM |
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