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| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationship | CMV | begrydgerer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:47 AM |
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| -2 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?Why would u want to have sex after u are done with having kids? U already served ur biological purpose now u can sit, rest on ur laurels and relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:41 AM |
| -1 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with being a side chick if we accept the reality of hypergamyOh I thought we were talking about Chad not about an average psychopath. If the highest goal of ur life is dipping with multiple women then u must be a sad creature to be around, no personality, no inner life, completely driven by base instincts... yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 10:52 AM |
| 9 | Question for women who don’t see sex as an essential part of your relationshipOr he could leave if he doesn't like her boundaries 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:07 PM |
| – | Given that abusive, manipulative women seek out vulnerable, lonely men for relationships so they can have someone to abuse, why do lonely men report tend to report getting zero female attention whatsoever, instead of attention from said women?It's probably bc these men are either; a) to ashamed to admit it even to themselves. b) if the woman is good looking they might still consider themselves "lucky" despite the abuse. c) the average abusive woman's abuse won't be nearly as abusive as the average abusive man (due to lack of physical strenght) and they might mask themselves as being the victims of some personality disorder that their male victim has to understand and support. That'd be my guesses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 4 | My Take On PPD: No One Is InnocentAgreed 100% with everything stated by OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:50 AM |
| 10 | Why do you think women suffer from postpartum depression?Vitamin B12 deficiency can also be a contributing factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:28 AM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameIf men could dip as easily as the average woman can, civilization would collapse in 15 years. Let's face it men ain't that hot for monogamy, don't red pillers always cry about how it's natural for men to cheat? 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:18 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameThat's most ppl dawg, most ppl are basic NPCs, most dudes are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:14 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameMaybe u're just attracted to bimbos? If u'd try to date other type of women I'm sure u'd find they don't listen to Drake or have iphones lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:12 PM |
| – | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Ok fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?There was literally nothing stopping u from expressing how that was inappropriate. I don't know what exactly u wanted to do otherwise, report it to who? Do u think if it had been a woman and a male doctor something would have happened? U must not know how hospitals work lol they'll cover up for each other for much worse stuff. In a situation like what u described nothing would happen to the doctor regardless of u being a man or a woman, only chance something would happen is if there were constan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Ok thought experiment; let's go back to the moment u met ur hot and crazy ex, if a 🧚♂️ would have appeared and told u what u were gonna go thru with her do u think u'd have still banged? Don't bother I know the answer is yes, ur pee pee's will is stronger than ur brain's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody else feel ostracized from their supposed genders “nature”Yes. I'm like u, since childhood I had more "masculine traits", I like to think of it as having a very developed Animus (Jung's term for the masculine essence in every woman) . I'm also an INTJ which again is not very common in women. I do prefer women's company overall but I don't have much in common with the average woman to the point that being around them for too long makes me feel like an impostor and makes me depressed. I have a few male close friendships with whom I can discuss the things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?So u rejected a hot woman? Details or never happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 09:54 PM |
| -6 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Total lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Have u ever known a man to not fall in love with a very beautiful woman due to her personality? 🤭. That literally never happened, all men will fall in love with the best looking woman they've met, regardless of how shitty her personality is, as long as she let them had sex with her. That's just facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?High estrogen in men is document to cause "aberrant sexual behaviour". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?100% correct, it's low testosterone or more specifically, breaking the balance between testosterone and estrogen in men (which have to be in a certain proportion, estrogen being lower than testosterone) what causes all sort of problems depending on whether the guy ends up with both low estrogen and testosterone, or testosterone and estrogen in similar levels etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?I have shocking news for u, men and women have similar levels of testosterone, women simply have much higher estrogen. That's a scientific fact. What matters with sex hormones is the balance. Each sex is designed to work with different balance. In fact in males which designed to work with low estrogen, high estrogen very often leads to higher libido and "aberrant sexuality" this is described often in scientific literature in the pre woke days of science. For example; I've been a meth user, meth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:06 PM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?Exactly, u only need to look at most men who commit sexual crimes and murder women, they're nor precisely "high testosterone" chads, they're usually the opposite; high estrogen flabby balding incels who never lifted in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:55 PM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?Imagine if u heard women complaining about their periods and menstrual cycles constantly in red pill forums like men are supposed to mitigate this lol grow up, life's difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:52 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?Lol wtf is wrong u? U're the type to play porn on ur laptop sitting besides a stranger in a plane. No one is trying to "suppress" ur sexuality but there's a time and a place, a PRIVATE place? Or are u ok with me taking a dump in front of u cos I just felt like I needed a bowel movement? Astounding incel entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a woman who left-swiped you on a dating app?Women don't work like that. I mean I woman might not notice u (physically) at all but if they get to know u in person and like u they could suddenly find u very attractive in a very physical way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Bc I have parents who have a house if it gets to that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?Ok I respect u for at least trying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?Yeah but these are women out of the normie pool. Normie women are possibly the ppl with less personality on Earth followed by male npc nerds. I mean I kind of understand u honestly, I have a female friend that when she hit 30 just became this unbearable boring, serious and judgemental karen, but she always was a normie it's just that in her youth she also had a bit of youthful naivety and energy. I know females of different ages who are single and are absolute gold (I'm female mysrlf) & r as fru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?Someone with a great personality prob is not gonna be on dating apps regardless. There's also ppl in long term relationships that ultimately fail and if these are women with a good personality but not social butterflies then someone like that could be single for a while as they might not easily find someone acceptable, cos I'm assuming someone like that will want someone with a similar personality etc. But if u just wanna date younger women coz u think they're more attractive that's fine just do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?The problem seem to be u are dating vapid no personality women that are on dating apps (so obviously triple digit head counts) so yeah absolutely someone who's boring and vapid at 23 is gonna turn into a boring vapid + baggage 30 year old, which is what u're matching on tinder or whatever it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?Omg u're getting these women off a dating app? 🤣 don't u think that might actually be the commonality there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?U're insane enough to keep on dating BPD women and keep on falling for them when they "split" to being nice to u. Pussy on apedestal much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?So why do u say it was due to their personalities? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?It's not unreasonable for a 34 year old man to find a 22 year old attractive, it's just unrealistic. Do u get it now? Same as it's unrealistic for a 5'2 woman to only date a man if he's 6 feet tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?It's a total lie, guys only care that the woman looks good, age is irrelevant they just want to make women insecure which doesn't work bc the women they claim are "too old" 30+, don't give a sh1t about what they say and have enough experience of young men constantly hitting on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?It's aso not true at all, they idea they even have say is hilarious, if any incel had a chance with a hot 40 or even 50 year old they'll do it a split second and they know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 12:56 AM |
| -1 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?If u hate women so much why don't u just date men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.Hahaha ok then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.U forgot to add ur mom to the list? No? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:28 PM |
| – | Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world.They own a lot of stock in most major corporations which gives them decision power. There's a difference between the decision power of a 1000 ppl owning a little bit of a corporation versus one single party owning smth like 30%. And that's not even counting the many smaller investment funds associated to Blackrock who also have stock in these corporations. There's a reason the WEF is pushing for "stockholder capitalism", pls try to keep up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world.Is on of the (I think it's down to 3) mega investment funds that own most stocks in all major corporations worldwide. It's Blackrock, Vanguard, HP Morgan and maybe a few others. And they are in turn owned mostly by the banking families (Rockefeller, Rothschild etc). They rule the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Ok coomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:Lol u fell for the Onlyfans ad campaign they did all through covid? That funny thing is if u were a female u would have made an onlyfans and humiliated urself thinkibg u'll make "a killing" but u'd still have to go work at mcdonals like 99% of the hoes who fell for that scam. And now ur pictures would be all over other porn sites forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:18 PM |
| -1 | PPD women be like:Memes used to be funny, now they're just incel therapy lol. "Pls love me, pls don't reject me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:27 AM |
| 7 | PPD women be like:My question is; what do u care if some random woman rejects u bc ur height? Why r u trying to date such a vapid woman? Do u have no self respect? Who in their right mind thinks it's a good use of time to rehash the same butthurt memes about "women's hypocrisy" while being yourself the exact same in male version, both of you with your endless strawman arguments and inability to see fault on your own positions... it's so sad to watch from the outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:"Show their ass online for tons of cash" u live in a fantasy world lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:15 AM |
| – | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?"You're a white maaaale!" Is commonly spewed like an insult so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +I mean, these men probably find u hot too if u look like ur cousin. U could try turning gay or becoming a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +No, he is right, instagram filters aren't real life. None of these photos are natural so these women, as they portray themselves in instagram, don't technically exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)?I'd say unless the man in question shows unusually high morals (perhaps due to religious beliefs or whatever) then she should understand the chances of the man cheating are like 10 fold than with a normal man. Mostly bc they'll get constant flirting from women, since when women do approach men, they tend to be mych less inhibited and have much higher ceilings of that they'd consider "too much". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationU just turned an account posting horrible things about women into a sob story for men? Fr? Beta af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationDude ur mommy issues are glaring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationPretty much on point and then these losers go on to watch women being humiliated/humiliating themselves in porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:22 AM |
| 0 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.And u just alienated the only possible demographic u could have had a chance to get laid with lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.That's literally not capitalism, the WEF even calls it stakeholder capitalism and it's literally redistribution of wealth and communism for the poor and total control for the wealthiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.Yeah an army of unfit basement dwelling porn addicts are gonna get together and do what exactly? No one cares, even if they managed to stop fapping for 5 minutes and came up with some major plan, everyone can smell them from a mile away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:44 PM |
| -1 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.If they're stealing from the poor then that's not capitalism, that's redistribution of wealth which is actually what communism does by intervening, just like now where government will pass laws benefiting certain corporations and punish others (green taxes etc) and with insider trading and all that corruption that has nothing to do with capitalism. Capitalism is just creating wealth, not redistributing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait?The guy u're describing reminds me of Mitchel snd Webb's sketch about the librarian https://youtu.be/rqTE-ig7NhY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipGiant flaw in ur argument: u said the times when ur marriage was struggling were also the times u had the least sex but how do u know that u wouldn't have struggled even more during these times if u had been having more sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipIf that was the case most ppl wouldn't watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationship"I'm trying to deflect bc deep down I agree with OP and want to avoid thinking about things I might have been wrong about all along." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipProbably they don't understand respect in the first place, as in, they function emotionally in a lower level than the average person I mean look at swingers or interviews of BDSM ppl and such, there's something wrong with them u can tell straightaway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipUm? U don't even know my sex. I said it goes both ways, a woman will be repulsed by a man she's heard him moaning like a bitch during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipIt's not a faulty belief lol it's a very valid one. Ppl that have kinks are essentially ppl whose hobby is sexual gratification, this is indicative of a poor inner life, poor imagination, a one dimensional and very materialism oriented character. We're talking about ppl who having any possible direction for their attention and interest to go, chose to focus instead on a basic physiological urge. Like a monkey jerking off at the zoo, but at least the monkey has no other ways to entertain itself. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipCope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipTHANK U and yes I'm probably not articulating my argument as best as I can and also ppl are misunderstanding me and assuming I'm just saying the male loses respect for the woman when I'm saying it goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:48 PM |
| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipIt seems to me that if u have to make an effort to do smth u probably don't want to really do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipWell I'm saying it goes both ways for both sexes. For example a woman won't be able to respect a man that she has seen doing humiliating things or moaning like a bitch. I mean imagine the guy wants her to use a dildo on him or smth, sure this is not a sight she's gonna cherish after the rush of the moment... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:38 PM |
| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationship"Sex takes effort" why do u do it if it takes effort? It seems to me u and ur partner would be happy without this extra effort and u're just doing it bc society has told u that u have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipSo it looks this is a real phenomenon but rather than a complex I'd say it probably is something that exists in a spectrum and I'm willing to bet most ppl would somewhat agree but they don't want to appear like prudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipMaybe it could be this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipHe/she sees u like a monkey at a zoo and no amount of coping will change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipExactly that's why I recommended modest sex (missionary + lights off) which it's making love as the couple is focused in each other not just carnal pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipI'm more of a Jung type of person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:22 PM |
| -1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipNo they aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipBecause for ppl great sex has to be as sensorily overstimulating as they can make it (maybe porn has contributed) taking the sexual act into its most physiological and depersonalised form, therefore removing psychological or emotional constraints. The thing is once u manage to disassociate ur partner into a flesh vehicle for orgasm there's no coming back, at the back of ur mind that's all that they're now; flesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:21 PM |
| -2 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipI mean I'm not claiming this is a peer reviewed study but to be fair, don't u ever hear ppl joking that their sex life dies after marriage? It seems to be a universal claim and it makes sense, it has to die for the marriage to last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipWell exactly, so u're not an example of what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipFor the same reason u wouldn't want to see ur parents having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipWell Freud was a certified pervert so I would take everything he says about sexuality with a grain of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipYes why do u need me to spell it out completely? I'm on my phone, it takes valuable time to type full words which u understand anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:58 AM |
| -1 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipWell ppl claim sexual compatibility is extremely important in a relationship so if that's the case they had at least 80% of the relationship sorted .... but if I'm right they just started subconsciously seeing each other like monkeys in a zoo and it broke the relationship. Modest sex might have saved it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:56 AM |
| 0 | 'great sex' kills a relationshipCare to elaborate? I backed up my reasoning (and it's grounded on a real life example) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Something that I have noticed on breakups.Nah I think it's the same for both. But it's worse for a woman to find out their ex partner is now dating a better looking female than for guys to find out their now ex girlfriend is dating a better looking male, but that might be bc the guy might not realise the new guy is better looking than he us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingJoin a masonic lodge? If u're gay why not simply join Grindr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Lesson from an ugly ducklingBruh most guys wouldn't even consider befriending a fat girl or a girl they consider ugly, no matter how funny she is lol. I mean what u're describing here is 1000 times worse the other way around, I've had dudes tell me how this hot chick is so smart bc she crossed the road when the traffic light went green. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?I don't know what's ppv. So do u think it's ok to pay a homeless person to punch them in the face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.I'd care. I'd care if I knew my gf is around ppl she's banged, it'd be uncomfortable for me what am I supposed to smile when we randomly bump into an ex or some shit like that? "Hey how r u doing, last time I saw u we were banging" hell nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:31 PM |
| 5 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.If u date someone with a high body count then u'll be bumping into ppl who've banged ur gf/bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?Ermm nope and I already gave the perfect moral equivalent: offering a homeless person money if they let u punch them in the face. Would u punch a homeless person if he sold his consent? Answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | If all good people are "taken" by their 20s and 30s, why do so many relationships that start early tend to fail?Some ppl are just hard wired to be in long term relationships, they're about finding someone and making it work rather than 'upgrading' as they go through life changes. So these ppl I described will succeed whether they start dating at 20 or 40. I'd say the most likely to fail are pp who have been in many 1-2 years relationships, it would show this person might have problems forming meaningful connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Getting Fuckzoned is worse than being FriendzonedONS is not intimacy, if u think so then maybe u're getting intimate with ur doctor when he gives u a prostate exam? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 09:59 AM |
| 4 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?Or maybe u have a bad vibe, like desperate vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | For marriage, it's logical for men to marry the youngest attractive woman they can pull.So u would marry a much younger hot woman who u have nothing in common with and u think she'd be loyal to u for what reason exactly? 🤣 u have nothing to offer, ur wife will be snatched from underneath ur very nose by a non autistic, better looking man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?Everyone who uses prostitutes is a potential psychopath/rapist. U cannot have such level of selfishness where u can enjoy doing something that intimate where the other person's feelings for u are completely irrelevant to u, and not be a little psychopathic. Everyone knows that every man and woman in sex work is someone who has been groomed in childhood one way or another or is desperate (addiction, homelessness, poverty) or in any case, would much rather do something else if they could. To me pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Posture, facial expression etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:12 AM |
| -1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Lol bro wtf, get out of the basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.U can see confidence in a picture actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man."I meet and stay in touch with a lot of ppl" that's my idea of Hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men maintaining a strict diet would be more beneficial to their physical appearance than weight lifting?One of the best ways of losing fat is doing weights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?Mostly yes but it's just slightly different how leagues are calculated for men and women since there are more variables involved in what women like about a man other than purely physical attributes. But in short yes, they're dating out of their league in one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?It can be that they're either dating men out of their league who therefore just want to pump and dump (as they have options) but also it's possible they're plain to ugly looking and dating men in their league (physically speaking) but these men would only be willing to date properly a woman out of their league and will pump and dump women in their own league which they aren't that attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Therein lays the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 2 | How ''matched'' are most couples?By declining health I meant more like waning youthfulness. A bit of makeup that takes 5 minutes to put on can make a massive difference, it can take someone from being plain to looking cute. For men the closest to that would be having an athletic body which takes a lot more work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How ''matched'' are most couples?This is not entirely true, there are cases where some good looking women will date absolutely hideous guys who don't have money but might be perceived as being smart or popular by their peers. I know at least one case of this, a friend of mine from High School, she dated a hideous guy which my mother nicknamed "the horseman" yeah... this guy was noticeably ugly, and had thinning hair, so he was properly ugly, his ugly appearance was like a thing about him and yet my friend was pretty good lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 03:26 PM |
| 37 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...And by 'women' u mean characters of a Netflix high school drama u saw? What's the point of these generalisations? Do u think all women have sleepovers, eat ice cream and tell each other "you go girl" and talk shit about men 24/7? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Umm yeah I already told u that English is not my first language. Is English also not ur first language? Cos homie u sound thick af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:37 AM |
| 3 | How ''matched'' are most couples?A man can use a beard to compensate for a weak chin which is a huge advantage but all in all makeup is the winner for sure as it can change several features (or give impression of) and hide skin unevenness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:35 AM |
| 7 | How ''matched'' are most couples?Makeup let's u hide signs of declining health (uneven skin, thinning lips) which is a major factor in attraction. This is the reason upper class society men and women wore wigs and makeup in the Regency era, they were all trying to hide their balding heads and sickly complexion due to opioid abuse which was rampant. Ironically, the white makeup they used contained lead which would poison them further, the rouge color they used on lips and cheeks was also poisonous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | What happens when people "give up"?I agree with u but I don't think the OP was referring to these rare ppl here and there who end up alone bc of not finding a good match. The 'giving up' to me is implying they're getting rejected over and over again which is why I said they're probably asking the wrong person. I know a bunch of great ppl (both male & female) who are single and just go about their lives, they don't seem desperate to find someone although I assume they'd like to but they don't talk about it in such terms as 'giving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 6 | What happens when people "give up"?Career does not equal a mission. Surely u must have passions and interests u'd want to explore rather than just doing nothing. I think many ppl get this chronic state of stress when they reach adulthood because they subconsciously believe they need to fill their every second solely with activities that will further them in their career or will improve their economic status, to me this is one of main sources of unhappiness and mental illness in contemporary society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:27 PM |
| -2 | What happens when people "give up"?There are -1 women who deserve love and they've probably also 'given up'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?No. I've never heard a widower refer to herself as "single", perhaps that's how it works in your degenerate latitudes but where I'm from a woman mourns their husband and wears black clothing. Still I don't know how that is relevant to the question. It's one thing to raise a child without a father out of choice/ideology than to do so out of tragedy (a much smaller percent statistically btw). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:17 PM |
| 0 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?It isn't, as a matter of fact. But a single mother isn't a widower 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:59 PM |
| 0 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Apples and oranges yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?If they're 'giving up' they've definitely been asking the wrong ppl. No matter how objective they think they're judging themselves they're obviously not taking into account the law of offer-demand. Whatever u think u are on a 1 to 10 scale, deduct about 5 points and that is your female equivalent dating pool as a man. It might be harsh but it's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:53 PM |
| 0 | What happens when people "give up"?They give up trying to date women out of their league? Good! That might solve their problem 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Yes obviously ppl should stop fighting wars so the banking families can get richer lol why would u think I'm some sort of basic bitch conservative? Maybe u need to expose urself to different ideas cos there's more than "the right" and "the left". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:30 PM |
| 0 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?It was an example I didn't mean they literally had to be good at hunting and repairing things or else. Jaysus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?I'll check it out cos I never heard of it 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Ok but regardless, let's say boys just do horrible things to each others, would u rather have a female audience on top of that? I'd say that makes everything even worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Yes this is what my father told me about bromances, he studied in a seminar in the mountains in very harsh conditions (scarce food, really cold winters) , my dad who is a silent type and totally lacks malice or manipulative traits remembers that time in the seminar fondly. There was no bulling there, he told me the monks allowed them to do all sort of crazy projects, my dad even built some hot air balloon thingy just bc he wanted to, maybe that's why there was no bulling, they were too busy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 08:57 AM |
| 4 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Ok now u're gonna call me a conspiracy theorist but it's not an accident that there's such a high rate of violence, bulling, sexual abuse and humiliation among the most prestigious boarding schools for the wealthy. In fact that's why the elites send their kids there, it's a sort of modern day 'rite of passage' if u're a cut throat businessman or career politician and u want ur child to be able to make the kind of despicable decisions that will maintain and increase ur patrimony, then u'd want th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Am I supposed to know what NSBHS is? Also why are u talking about sexual abuse? I had a friend who lost his testicles when some bullies grabbed him by each leg and slammed him, spread legged really hard into a street lamp, this was a mixed school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 7 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?That's not true, in fact it used to be pretty common for men to have first sort of 'platonic love' for another male in boarding schools and seminars for example this is depicted in the Herman Hesse novel Damien. They would not become fully fledged homosexual, they'd just learn to value male qualities and had time to mature without facing the pressures of gender dynamic and best of all, no one would end up pregnant potentially derailing their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Ppl don't seem to realise how damaging it is for a boy to be raised by a single mother, unless she's exceptionally strong and has an integrated male side to her personality (aka is dominant in a calm way, is resourceful with her hands; house repairs, likes hunting etc) which is very rare in females and it's starting to be less common in men as well sadly. Males raised by single moms with a weak personality grow up feeling uncertain. Imagine knowing as a child that ur life depends on someone who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:41 AM |
| 10 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?OP literally explained it, having someone of the opposite gender changes the dynamic. Would woman want males in their hen parties? Maybe have a couple of dudes over for your sleepover as well... I hate this obsession with getting rid of single gender spaces/activities, it's also a minority of karen parents who r pushing for crap like this, the kids themselves would rather be segregated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old womanThis post 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | ”Hoeflation”: or your your own inflated sense of your looks makes you think women overestimate theirs when they reject you 👍Yes it's called life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | ”Hoeflation”: or your your own inflated sense of your looks makes you think women overestimate theirs when they reject you 👍The 3rd one, that's the average, non incel guy who can talk to women and has female friends with similar interests etc (not just women he simps for) yeah.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | ”Hoeflation”: or your your own inflated sense of your looks makes you think women overestimate theirs when they reject you 👍Yes I agree the sample bias is just a specific type of guy, there's 3 approaches when it comes to physical self awareness; 1- Completely oblivious to their own appereance, in fact, completely oblivious that the way they look matters, as in like they're so focused in the object of their desire that it doesn't dawn on them that the "object" also has desires. These guys are generally not very smart, 0 social and emotional intelligence and are considered pretty dull personality wise even by their pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:13 AM |
| -1 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicGuys lurking in RP forums have no chance with women, they go from being just plain pathetic and simpy to gradually becoming passive aggressive nice guys which if anything, is even more off putting to females. Let's be real, no guy who spends serious time trying to tweak his 'game' and learning 'techniques' to get women is ever going to end up in a happy relationship or possibly in any relationship at all, bc they have no personality and no mission. Based on my own observation, males spending so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 16 | What's in store for aging women?Most ppl will become unhappy at some stage if they're forever alone. But for good looking single middle aged women life is not hard, they've likely learnt to not get emotionally involved so now they're like guys but with a lot of opportunity bc younger men don't say no to older ladies as long as they are good looking and then eventually they can settle down with an unattractive lonely divorcee of their own age or a bit older. So yeah u'd be kidding urself if u think these women are getting owned… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Bc implants are obvious, have always been obvious and will always be obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What is a "high value" male?11 feet tall, black muscular body but the face of Jason Mamoa, works as CEO of a multibillion company but is also a part time firefighter something something about sharing feelings and "communication", has "strong hands" and doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:18 PM |
| -1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Did u miss the part where I specifically mentioned women who get breast IMPLANTS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.And do try to make yourself even more SEXUALLY more attractive to men? And if yes why so if u're not going to sleep around? Do u simply enjoy having ppl constantly harass you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Yes. Breast implants means u're likely someone who likes to sleep with the many men u've undergone literal surgery to attract. Like... duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.They aren't getting around NOW maybe but they surely got around. There's not one woman that gets breasts implants "for herself" let's stop the bullshit here, unless there was a genuine malformation or she's a breast cancer survivor, every woman who gets breast implants does so to improve her hypergamy. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.I dismissed it based in that u didn't specify anything about the 'study' what am I supposed to go and read an essay that might be pure shite bc u're too lazy to make a proper point without trying some backhanded fallacy of authority? Gtfo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Brah u're the one who talked about 'a study' like it's your little trump card and acted like how it was done or the methodology wasn't important at all, u literally said "it's about lying, that's all u need to know" or smth dumb like that. For example if the study was a researcher lying to participants about in which hand he is hiding an object that obviously would be irrelevant to picking up social clues etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Or maybe she's the virgin mary herself but she was forced to get breast implants and wear sexy clothing by Satan.... dude don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.U talk about 'a study' like a true ThE sCiEcE religion devotee, in proper science there's a term we use "trash in trash out study" meaning if ur methodology is shite or if the information u input in your model is shite then u get shite, meaningless results. Tbh I'm astounded at how many autists are in this thread, I wonder what's the overlap between autism and being an incel, I'm betting it's quite high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:11 AM |
| 0 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.He's saying if u see a bleached blonde 9 with breast implants and a tight dress and u can't tell she's been around then you're austistic 100% guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:05 AM |
| 5 | Ar what age is being unmarried a red flag for M&W?No it wouldn't. It's called having standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Ar what age is being unmarried a red flag for M&W?Depends, in Afghanistan it's maybe 12, in Sweden it's like 80 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Let's have a discussion about OnlyFans/webcam girls. What are your thoughts on the matter?To me dating a cam girl would be like buying a second hand sex toy from Craigslist, so basically a no no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 4 | What advice do you give to below 6' guys to vote in the Modern dating world?Join a yoga or dancing class and learn some bullsh1t about horoscopes, crystals and or pretend to be a vegan. U will smash good looking low IQ fems. You're welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinA lot of meth users report becoming gay and having sex with men while using. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinU can try eating a lot of soy products. Also some drugs can allegedly make u gay, give it a go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinThat Jack Nicholson wasn't talking about sexuality lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinU can have ONS with ugly/fat women. If u can't even have a ONS with ugly/fat women then u must be extremely ugly and or have a really terrible personality so mayb work on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:20 PM |
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